WEBVTT - "The Comedy Saved Me: Rich Vos Edition"

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<v Speaker 1>Comedy Saved Me.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're going to use drugs and alcohol, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>oh it makes me more creative. That's a little shit.

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<v Speaker 2>Shut up, you know you're just the disease of alcoholism

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<v Speaker 2>and drug addiction will tell you anything to keep you active.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to Comedy Saved Me, the podcast where we

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<v Speaker 1>dive deep into the healing power of laughter and the

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<v Speaker 1>stories of comics who have turned pain into punchlines. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>your host, Lynn Hoffman, and today today's guest is a

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<v Speaker 1>true legend in the world of stand up. He is

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<v Speaker 1>a comedians, comedian, a podcasting pioneer, and a man who's

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<v Speaker 1>wit is literally as quick as his comebacks. He's so fast,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how I'm going to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>keep up with him. You've seen him on Last Comic Standing,

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<v Speaker 1>def Comedy Jam, and Comedy Central, among others. He's the

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<v Speaker 1>co host of the brutally honest and always hilarious My

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<v Speaker 1>Wife Hates Me podcast, and he's been making audience his

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<v Speaker 1>laugh for over four decades. But he doesn't even look

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<v Speaker 1>it that old. But behind the razor sharp jokes and

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<v Speaker 1>legendary roast battles, Rich Voss has a powerful story of resilience, recovery,

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<v Speaker 1>and the redemptive force of comedy. And today we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about how comedy became his lifeline, the highs

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<v Speaker 1>and loads of his journey, and what it really takes

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<v Speaker 1>to survive and thrive in this business. So sit back,

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<v Speaker 1>get ready to laugh, and maybe even you know, cheer

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<v Speaker 1>up a little bit, grab the tissues as we welcome

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<v Speaker 1>the one and only Rich Voss to Comedy Saved Me.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Hi you for me. I have to make a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of corrections on the intro s ry, let me

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<v Speaker 2>get a pen. Okay, First of all, last comic Standing

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<v Speaker 2>was twenty five years ago. Let it go, okay, Imy

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<v Speaker 2>Central is the thing in the past. No one does

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<v Speaker 2>it anymore, so newer credits recently was Shart on the

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<v Speaker 2>Joe Rogan podcast, a regular on The Godfelt Show, as

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<v Speaker 2>a new special on Amazon called Rich Loss Anonymous doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>do the podcast anymore. That's done after eleven years, thank god.

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<v Speaker 2>And what else that's good for now? But last comic

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna help you because he seems so nice. Thanks,

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<v Speaker 2>get rid of Comedy Central for anybody. Okay, that's my

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<v Speaker 2>mailman did Comedy Central. That's almost an insult when people

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<v Speaker 2>recognize when they say Comedy Central because they're done, last

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<v Speaker 2>comic standing done. Don't use that for anybody, Okay, and

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I guess we're good from there. And I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not being mean. I'm just trying to help from the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>No, but you should. I mean, first of all, Rogan huge,

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<v Speaker 1>and second of all, I saw you recently on Got Felt,

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<v Speaker 1>so I know. I mean, then that's the number one

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<v Speaker 1>show at late night, So you're absolutely right, and I

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<v Speaker 1>stand corrected. I can't believe I even left that out

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<v Speaker 1>to begin with.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so sorry, Sorry you made a mistake or ever,

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<v Speaker 2>I just have to update my bio. It's also my mistake.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's all right. We're of a certain age because

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<v Speaker 1>I used to work on a channel that's no more

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<v Speaker 1>as well called VH one, So if that's still even

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<v Speaker 1>out there, no one even knows what that used to be.

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<v Speaker 2>What are you like? Thirty two thirty two years old?

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<v Speaker 1>No double fives? In July fifty five, Get downie here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you do a little bit of opening Anthony for

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<v Speaker 1>a while?

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<v Speaker 2>It did it for years? Yeah, So I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was working in morning radio at the same time you

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<v Speaker 1>were no Where and building Boston and New York.

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<v Speaker 2>Boston. Who are the guys I doing Boston? Chuckh or

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<v Speaker 2>and Rich or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Or this is going back a bit, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>John Lander.

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<v Speaker 2>I did that show there. Yeah, then the other guy

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<v Speaker 2>went to jail and he Died's that touch on? Rich

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<v Speaker 2>Mark Correno? Oh yes, yes, yep from Boston. I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>big fan of Boston. Good.

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<v Speaker 1>Did I just go up in your like good check

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<v Speaker 1>off listed.

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<v Speaker 2>The second I saw you, you went up in my

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I buy you a better house? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks?

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<v Speaker 2>Get you out into berks here? So whatever they call them, No.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it here, believe me. I'm I'm very happy

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<v Speaker 1>to be here.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that your studio down there?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait for people? Yeah? Do you see your name in

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<v Speaker 1>the big screen over there?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? But like, why do you have all those seats?

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<v Speaker 2>You have that many people?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, occasionally I have had guests, but mainly when we

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<v Speaker 1>don't in studio. But when we don't have guests, we

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<v Speaker 1>like to have like little parties in here. And so

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<v Speaker 1>that's the game night table. Wow, we have family.

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<v Speaker 2>And party game night. That's you know when you're getting older,

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<v Speaker 2>when you have game night. Yeah, that's when you're done.

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<v Speaker 2>That's when you go, all right, we're stuck together.

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<v Speaker 1>What are we going to do?

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<v Speaker 2>Game night?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's that or pickle fest.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, or you can become swingers and then explore other

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<v Speaker 2>options around the area. I don't know. I've never done it,

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<v Speaker 2>but I just figured that's an auction. I've never done it.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, i'll let you know if we start,

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<v Speaker 1>if we look into that, I will tell you. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I get a call Rich.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm kind of creepy. I shouldn't have said that. That's

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<v Speaker 2>all right, you know, I'm just looking out for you

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<v Speaker 2>and whoever.

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<v Speaker 1>Well you're you're I appreciate that a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>You need to know. What do you mean? Am I

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<v Speaker 2>coming off mean? I hope I'm not mean. When I

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<v Speaker 2>told you different credits.

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<v Speaker 1>No, because they're all relevant. I feel I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>redo the intro based on what you told me, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll make sure that we edit that in because it's

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<v Speaker 1>way better. I mean, you can't. It's obvious that you've

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<v Speaker 1>had an illustrious career, but it's far beyond what we mentioned.

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<v Speaker 1>And no, you didn't come off as mean at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I tried to.

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<v Speaker 1>All Right, Well, I want to ask you a question

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<v Speaker 1>or two or three, But I want to start, I

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<v Speaker 1>really do want to start off with your roots and

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<v Speaker 1>sort of your inspirations. What first drew you to stand

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<v Speaker 1>up comedy back in what was the eighties? And who

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<v Speaker 1>were some of your biggest influences?

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<v Speaker 2>What drew me because I failed at everything else? You know,

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<v Speaker 2>as a kid, you know, maybe nine years old in

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<v Speaker 2>fourth grade, I used to come home and listen to

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<v Speaker 2>this comedy album Von Meeterer. He did the impressions of

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<v Speaker 2>John Kennedy and Bobby Kennedy. The album was called First Family.

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<v Speaker 2>His career was over after the Kennedy each were assassinated.

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<v Speaker 2>I went from Park Avenue to park bench. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>he was the hottest comic then just done. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>nobody wanted to, you know, hear him do impressions of

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<v Speaker 2>two people they loved that were assassinated. Right home from school,

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<v Speaker 2>listen to that album every day in fourth grade, nine

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<v Speaker 2>years old, and then later on in life, just realize

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<v Speaker 2>you're just covering the pain of your parents' divorce and

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<v Speaker 2>your father never being there, and you know, how do

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<v Speaker 2>I deal with this as a fourth grader coming home

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<v Speaker 2>to a cleaning lady or that my mother couldn't afford

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<v Speaker 2>kind of a babysitter, clean and pertect. You know, we

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<v Speaker 2>chased everyone away, my brother, my sister, and I because

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<v Speaker 2>none of them, you know, we're all just angry young

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<v Speaker 2>kids that we're just mean. So I come home and then,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, throughout life you would listen to comedy. Next

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<v Speaker 2>thing you know here I.

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<v Speaker 1>Am, well, Jed's a millionaire, you said. Next thing, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't help myself.

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<v Speaker 2>I wish, I wish. I I'm getting clothed. If I

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<v Speaker 2>if I sold everything, including my sneakers, I'd get close.

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<v Speaker 2>But right, you know, in life you have to realize

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<v Speaker 2>what you know. You look at people. I look at

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<v Speaker 2>people in my business selling out arenas multi millionaires, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>TV specials, Netflix, Amazon, and then I have to think,

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<v Speaker 2>in life, I have enough. I already have enough, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>And once you can almost get comfortable with having enough,

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<v Speaker 2>whether it be family, friends, materialistic goods, sobriety, whatever you have.

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<v Speaker 2>Once you realize this enough, you don't have to fight anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm close to that. I'm pretty close to knowing

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<v Speaker 2>I have enough. Does that make sense?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? Absolutely? I feel like whatever is enough, whatever your

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<v Speaker 1>version of enough is that should be good for you,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is, whether it's do you want to be

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<v Speaker 1>a billionaire or you just want to live a peaceful

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<v Speaker 1>life somewhere in the mountains and you know, work out

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<v Speaker 1>of a barn or in your bedroom.

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<v Speaker 2>In your case, my wife's bedroom is so much nicer,

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<v Speaker 2>but she has two rooms in her bedroom.

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<v Speaker 1>You have separate bedrooms.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I come in late and snore, and we have

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<v Speaker 2>a big house, and it's so much easier, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>instead of her waking me up every night on your snoring.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I understand that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's not like we touched each other. So what

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<v Speaker 2>the fuck?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, you've cited when you were growing up

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<v Speaker 1>classics from the Ed Sullivan Show as some of your influences.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you learn from some of those early legends

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<v Speaker 1>that you still use today in your in your act?

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<v Speaker 2>Can you remember, No, I remember, I remember when I

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<v Speaker 2>would watch Ed Sullivan and see like Alan King or

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<v Speaker 2>I can't even remember. I would stay with my father

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<v Speaker 2>because that was one of the nights or weekends he

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<v Speaker 2>would come home. So what I remember is that and

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<v Speaker 2>watching the comic. You know, but then after you get older,

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<v Speaker 2>you know he's gone, right, married or whatever, and then

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<v Speaker 2>you just grow up, you know, listening to prior Eddie Murphy,

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<v Speaker 2>those were I guess the two comics I listened to mostly,

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<v Speaker 2>as you know, probably in my twenties, you know, and

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<v Speaker 2>then I when I started a comedy, there was my favorites.

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<v Speaker 2>But I you know, I was horrible. When I started comedy,

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<v Speaker 2>I was still partying and getting high and doing drugs.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think I did that for like two years

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<v Speaker 2>and then went to put myself in rehab. And I've

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<v Speaker 2>been sober ever since thirty nine years, so probably my

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<v Speaker 2>first two years or three years was horrible. I was

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<v Speaker 2>just whatever, doing whatever I could to get money to

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<v Speaker 2>get high, you know. And then I get out of

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<v Speaker 2>rehab and when my life starts coming together at some point,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it doesn't happen overnight. But I'm not doing

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<v Speaker 2>what I was doing. I mean, you know, I was

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<v Speaker 2>a wild man or a wild guy or person or

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<v Speaker 2>kiss nuts, you know, and comedy was a quick fix

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<v Speaker 2>where you'd get your money that night and you could

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<v Speaker 2>go out and party and get high that night, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean. Like it was I didn't have

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<v Speaker 2>to wait till Friday get my paid check. Corp Saturday, Thursday.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I do a getting on Tuesday, get paid.

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<v Speaker 2>Next thing. You know, I'm in New York buying drugs.

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<v Speaker 2>So eventually that caught up to me and boom, and

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<v Speaker 2>now I have three daughters, three grandkids, another kid on

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<v Speaker 2>the way. There's six people on this planet because I

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<v Speaker 2>don't get higher day at a time, because I would

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<v Speaker 2>have never met my wife or ex wife. You know

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<v Speaker 2>how the world works, I mean how things work in

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<v Speaker 2>mysterious ways. Yeah, you know your past. You know it's

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<v Speaker 2>I guess planned out through whatever. You know, You're You're

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<v Speaker 2>where you are when you're supposed to be there. But

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<v Speaker 2>if I never if I was still partying, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>have married these people, and it wouldn't be my daughters

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<v Speaker 2>or grandkids. You know what I'm saying. Absolutely, it's kind

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<v Speaker 2>of it's kind of weird. You know when when somebody

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<v Speaker 2>has a miscarriage or something happens, then they get pregnant

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<v Speaker 2>maybe seven months later, then you have those kids. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>those kids will never been here if that person didn't

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<v Speaker 2>have that miscarriage. Do you see what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, yeah, there's definitely a higher power.

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<v Speaker 2>It would it would be a whole different whatever outcome

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<v Speaker 2>in life. So it's kind of like when you have

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<v Speaker 2>game night.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to go on record that that's only

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<v Speaker 1>happened a couple of times with family. It just looks

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<v Speaker 1>nice with four chairs and yeah, I like, I'm all

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<v Speaker 1>the director's chairs, so why not.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, it looks good.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks. I do believe everything happens for a reason one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred percent. And you know, I wouldn't be here if

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<v Speaker 1>my life didn't go the way that it went either,

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<v Speaker 1>And I never would have expected to be here talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you, you know, on a on a zoom, getting

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<v Speaker 1>to interview some of the most the biggest legends in

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<v Speaker 1>comedy and music. But obviously whatever I did to get

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<v Speaker 1>here got me here. So I agree with you one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred percent. Plus, there's there's definitely something larger than all

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<v Speaker 1>of us at the Helm. There's got to be, So I.

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<v Speaker 2>Agree with the biggest musician or that one your favorite

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<v Speaker 2>at you like, I'm sure radio you know you did

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<v Speaker 2>your worked with a lot of musicians. I guess yes.

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<v Speaker 2>On this podcast, have you had musicians?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I have another podcast called Music Saved Me, so

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<v Speaker 1>we have musicians on and people in the music industry.

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<v Speaker 2>Any famous people a few.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we've had on Jelly Roll and Wainona and Pat

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<v Speaker 1>Monahan of Train and I just had on Oh gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>there's so many of them. We've probably have done well.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know how many we've done, but a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's been about two years, but we are

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<v Speaker 1>number one in the music interview category on Apple Podcasts.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's kind of cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Get out of here.

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<v Speaker 1>I say we because the incredible guy that you met

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<v Speaker 1>when we first started chatting, Buzz, we've been We've known

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<v Speaker 1>each other for pretty much thirty years. He was what

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<v Speaker 1>do I say, the C suite in radio in Boston,

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<v Speaker 1>but also came up as an on air personality in

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<v Speaker 1>New York.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think his real name is Buzz.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it might. Well, we have to ask him

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<v Speaker 1>when he comes back on. Oh no, I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good radio name though.

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<v Speaker 2>Right I think he's on the LAMB. Might be on

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<v Speaker 2>the Lamb.

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<v Speaker 3>You'll be right back with more of the Comedy Saved

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<v Speaker 3>Me Podcast. Welcome back to the Comedy Saved Me Podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to talk to you about this because I

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<v Speaker 1>read this about you and I was like, wow, this

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of cool. You sort of broke some barriers

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<v Speaker 1>in your career, so you don't seem to give yourself

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<v Speaker 1>enough credit about that part of it. But back in

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<v Speaker 1>ninety five, you actually became the first white comedian on

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<v Speaker 1>the def Comedy Jam, which I watched all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>How did that opportunity come in and what was running

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<v Speaker 1>through your mind? I want to know right before you

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<v Speaker 1>took the stage, if you can remember, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it was nerve wracking, no one's ever do

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<v Speaker 2>you know a lot of pressure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I had two daughters. I had to work to

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<v Speaker 2>whatever clubs I could, whether it was typical white rooms

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<v Speaker 2>or urban rooms or mixed rooms, whatever it took, I did.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I did you know, some of the urban shows.

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<v Speaker 2>It was easy for them to pick me to do

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<v Speaker 2>it because they knew who I was deep bookers and

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<v Speaker 2>people running the show. But it was very, very very

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<v Speaker 2>nerve wracking, very scary because you know I was. They

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<v Speaker 2>taped five nights a week in New York, the whole

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<v Speaker 2>season a tape. You know, I was the fifth night,

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<v Speaker 2>second show, second to last, So I heard of everybody

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<v Speaker 2>in town doing well, not doing well. You know, people

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<v Speaker 2>that were still in town came to watch the taping.

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<v Speaker 2>That year, they had a bunch of different hosts every episode,

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<v Speaker 2>Chris Rock, Dave Chappelle, My guy was Steve Harvey. They

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<v Speaker 2>had a different host so some of the hosts were

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<v Speaker 2>still in town Jamie Fox and I knew everyone. But

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<v Speaker 2>when there's a lot of them in the audience and

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<v Speaker 2>it's the last show, oh my god, of the tapings

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<v Speaker 2>all week and I'm second to last, there's a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of built up pressure, and black comics are mad that

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<v Speaker 2>I was doing it and they weren't doing it. Some

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<v Speaker 2>of them white comics were like, well, you gotta be

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<v Speaker 2>good because you're the first. It was. It was a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of pressure. It was very and then the clothes

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<v Speaker 2>I wore. There they go Russell Simmons, whose show it was,

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<v Speaker 2>wants you to wear his clothing line. So they got

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<v Speaker 2>me in fat Farm clothing, which is an urban clothing line,

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<v Speaker 2>and I walk out. I mean, I look back on it,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, this is what thirty years ago. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>I was, and I pandered more to the audience I

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<v Speaker 2>was working to back then, but that's what I knew

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<v Speaker 2>thirty years ago, So I mean it's kind of cool.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I've done so many weird things. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I hosted Woodstock ninety nine, one of the stages.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when it was on fire.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I wasn't on that stage. I was on another one,

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<v Speaker 2>a big one, the West stage. That was the East stage.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. I roasted Trump in a rows years ago,

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<v Speaker 2>you know things. I did a show once outside the

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<v Speaker 2>Washington Monument. It was a stage and it was a

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<v Speaker 2>drug awareness event and Cheryl well, what's his name from

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<v Speaker 2>Arrowsmith was the lead, the main guy, Steven Tyler. He

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't doing Arrowsmith songs. He was doing like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>countries or whatever other songs he does. Cheryl Crow was

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<v Speaker 2>on it, the spand the Fray or whatever. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>like I don't know, and all these local bands, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's outside the Washington Mountain. There's fifteen thousand people, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm hosting and on big screens, you know. So I've

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<v Speaker 2>had so many cool different things happen. You know. Two

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<v Speaker 2>years ago, I did the four shows on Burke Chisier's tour,

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<v Speaker 2>the Opie and Anthony tour, you know, hosting these big events,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and and every time you still walk out

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<v Speaker 2>nervous as hell, I bet, you know, there's certain clubs

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<v Speaker 2>I get nervous at just for the first ten seconds.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, once you know that you've got them in the

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<v Speaker 1>palm of your hand and they're they're laughing, does that

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<v Speaker 1>sort of take all of that away, and and then you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Sort of you come out and get a lap. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm hosting in a couple of weeks we do this

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<v Speaker 2>benefit for Patrise O'Neill's family. This is the twelfth year

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<v Speaker 2>I'm hosting it. I host it every year, Billy Burgh

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<v Speaker 2>closes it. And every year I walk out going, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I got to do something different in the last twelve years,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's nerve wracking. And then you walk out and

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<v Speaker 2>you go, oh shit, I've already done this eleven times.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, but in your head, I was going, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>this is the one I fall apart on or you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, yeah, you know it's and if you

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<v Speaker 2>say you walk out totally a nightmare, everybody forgets the

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<v Speaker 2>other eleven shows you did great at.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, because you're only as good as your last show, so.

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<v Speaker 2>We remember that one. Yep, every year I walk out

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<v Speaker 2>with such anxiety, you know, and whatever, Wow, it always

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<v Speaker 2>walks out. Everything always works out.

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<v Speaker 1>But I always thought that about comedians. You know, with musicians,

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<v Speaker 1>it's easy. You know, everyone knows the songs, they're ready

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<v Speaker 1>to sing along, you've got them right at the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>But comedians, you have to reinvent yourself almost every single

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<v Speaker 1>time you take the stage, unless it's you know, an

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<v Speaker 1>audience of people that listen to your comedy album and

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<v Speaker 1>they know what word for word.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they don't want to see you know. You go

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<v Speaker 2>to see the Rolling Stones, you know, you want to hear.

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<v Speaker 2>Gimme shelter, you want to hear, you know, whatever I

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<v Speaker 2>say to their own stones. That's how old I am.

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<v Speaker 2>Who would you go with the Rolling Stones? Are the Beatles?

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<v Speaker 2>If you have to pick.

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<v Speaker 1>If I had to pick, oh gosh, well I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>the Stones, so I have to go with the Beatles.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you saw the Stones.

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<v Speaker 1>The Voodoo Lounge kickoff at Foxboro Stadium. I think it

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<v Speaker 1>was like somewhere in the nineties.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's good. You saw them when they were they

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<v Speaker 2>could walk.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So listen. You've been a mainstay in comedy for,

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<v Speaker 1>like I hate to say it, forty years.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you keep your material fresh and relevant? Because

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<v Speaker 1>the world is changing exponentially faster than you know, even

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<v Speaker 1>just ten years ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean you try to keep writing stuff, like

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<v Speaker 2>you know coming up when I mean, I am seven albums?

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<v Speaker 2>Do I need an A an eighth album? Do I

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<v Speaker 2>just coast? Do I do the best of? And I

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<v Speaker 2>could do an hour or show of just crowd work

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<v Speaker 2>without doing material if I wanted to, So I add stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>He had stuff, And I mean, I'm working on an

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<v Speaker 2>eighth shorter album of crowd work. Like my wife fifteen

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<v Speaker 2>years ago said, oh, you got to do a crowd

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<v Speaker 2>work DVD or CD. I got that's too easy. Now

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<v Speaker 2>everybody's making careers out of doing crowd work on which

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<v Speaker 2>I was doing for twenty twenty five years. And I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not saying I'm the best. There's very, very great crowd

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<v Speaker 2>work comics, you know, Big Jay and Bobby Kelly, Bonnie

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<v Speaker 2>mccarthe a lot of them, David all like tons of

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<v Speaker 2>good CrowdWork comics. So I'll put out that with like

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<v Speaker 2>clips maybe, And I don't know, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean I've been doing this forever.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your what's your process for new material? I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you know when a bit is definitely when

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<v Speaker 1>you go, oh, yeah, I'm doing that one. That's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest stage.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know until I do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you test any about out, like on your family

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<v Speaker 1>or friends.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't have friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, that's smart.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually no, I just you know, either comes from ad

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<v Speaker 2>libbing on stage. I go, that would be a good thing,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. Yeah, well, I will do something. I write

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<v Speaker 2>down two words on my phone and I try it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it just comes along. I mean I forget

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<v Speaker 2>a lot. I got tons of I got seven, I

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<v Speaker 2>got forty years a crap.

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<v Speaker 1>Where do you keep it all?

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<v Speaker 2>I try to keep it here, But I mean I forget.

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<v Speaker 2>I forget, you know, dumb things. And I for the

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<v Speaker 2>other day, I forgot my wife's phone them. I couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>think of her phone number. Has that ever happened to you?

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<v Speaker 2>Or you can't think of a phone number?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's either a brain fart, a senior moment, or

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<v Speaker 1>your rolodex is just too full and you couldn't find

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<v Speaker 1>the the right Yeah, but that has happened to me

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<v Speaker 1>a lot lately.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, it's happened to you, Joe.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh all the time. I can't think of people's names

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<v Speaker 1>that I've spoken for fifty years.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the worst. I won't I won't look sumped it

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<v Speaker 2>up until I figure it out. I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 2>let it win.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I don't even have Alexa. See nothing answered. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have any of the robots I want. The only

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<v Speaker 1>thing I like them for is timers, you know, when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm making eggs. Yeah, But other than that, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to know the answers like that. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out.

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<v Speaker 2>We're still having babies me. Yeah, you said making eggs.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, not those kind of eggs. Oh, you know what.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't look hell, what easier life is. You come

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<v Speaker 2>down to your studio, you and the other couples do

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<v Speaker 2>what you guys do. I don't know. It's none of

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<v Speaker 2>my business. When the lights go off up in the

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<v Speaker 2>birch hears or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to delve a little bit into something that

0:24:52.720 --> 0:24:55.199
<v Speaker 1>you brought up earlier when we were talking about your

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<v Speaker 1>personal journey and your journey through recovery. You've been really open,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously about your recovery, and you've been sober since eighty seven,

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<v Speaker 1>which I want to say congratulations, because I do know

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<v Speaker 1>that sobriety has a shelf life of typically five years,

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<v Speaker 1>so to go as long as you have is an

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<v Speaker 1>incredible show of willpower and stamina and obviously worked hard.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's not really willpower surrendering, right. I never heard

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<v Speaker 2>us statistic five years. I heard one out of thirty three,

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<v Speaker 2>make it. I didn't know it was a five year run.

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<v Speaker 1>I learned that about my dad. He was a Green Beret,

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<v Speaker 1>so he had a lot of issues with PTSD and

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<v Speaker 1>it led to some alcohol and drug abuse. But later

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<v Speaker 1>on in my life he kept it together until we

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<v Speaker 1>all moved out and went to college. So I remember

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<v Speaker 1>someone telling me that I had such a higher I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. My ideals about my dad went up like

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<v Speaker 1>exponentially when I realized how strong and he was to

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<v Speaker 1>make it so long sober.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's cool. So yeah, yeah, No, I'm addicted to

0:26:08.240 --> 0:26:12.600
<v Speaker 2>anything that makes me feel good, instant gratification. One bird

0:26:12.600 --> 0:26:15.359
<v Speaker 2>feeder outside my window when I drank coffee made me

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<v Speaker 2>feel relaxed. Now I have five bird feeders outside my window.

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<v Speaker 2>Very cool, because I thought it would make me feel

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<v Speaker 2>five times as good as the one bird feeder. Did

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<v Speaker 2>you know it's just a mentally insane.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that any hummingbird feeders out.

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<v Speaker 2>There, I don't know. I just buy bird feeders. Whoever

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<v Speaker 2>comes can eat.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, because the bird, the hummingbird, you have to

0:26:39.160 --> 0:26:41.679
<v Speaker 1>put like sugar water in it. It's a little different

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<v Speaker 1>than the other.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll go buy one of those today.

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<v Speaker 1>How has sobriety shaped your comedy in your life?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean there's bits I do about where I was,

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<v Speaker 2>where I'm at. It's it's shaped my whole life. I mean,

0:26:57.320 --> 0:27:00.359
<v Speaker 2>it's given me a life. How can you can't have

0:27:00.359 --> 0:27:02.919
<v Speaker 2>a life being addicted to it? I was doing to

0:27:03.000 --> 0:27:07.159
<v Speaker 2>Being addicted to anything will interfere with anybody's life. So

0:27:07.800 --> 0:27:10.000
<v Speaker 2>how's it giving me a life? I like I said,

0:27:10.000 --> 0:27:13.840
<v Speaker 2>I have three daughters, a wife, an ex wife, I

0:27:13.840 --> 0:27:17.639
<v Speaker 2>get along with grandkids and one on the way. You know,

0:27:17.720 --> 0:27:21.119
<v Speaker 2>I'm a giganic house looking at my in ground pool.

0:27:21.160 --> 0:27:24.920
<v Speaker 2>That's all the materialistic should I have. I listen, I

0:27:25.000 --> 0:27:28.160
<v Speaker 2>hit the bottom liners, I'd be dead. I was on

0:27:28.200 --> 0:27:30.399
<v Speaker 2>the path I was going, I'd be in jail or dead.

0:27:30.920 --> 0:27:36.000
<v Speaker 2>So it's the life has given me was not being dead.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever worry about losing your edge when you

0:27:40.640 --> 0:27:42.200
<v Speaker 1>got sober to do comedy?

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, I was only doing comedy for like

0:27:46.520 --> 0:27:49.960
<v Speaker 2>two years when I was active, So I stunk no

0:27:50.040 --> 0:27:53.199
<v Speaker 2>matter what, whether I was doing it or not. I mean,

0:27:53.240 --> 0:27:56.800
<v Speaker 2>how good was I at two or three years? Okay,

0:27:57.800 --> 0:28:01.520
<v Speaker 2>if you're going to use drugs an alcohol you know,

0:28:02.000 --> 0:28:05.399
<v Speaker 2>oh it makes me more creative. That's bullshit. Shut up.

0:28:06.000 --> 0:28:10.679
<v Speaker 2>You know you're you're just the disease of alcoholism and

0:28:10.760 --> 0:28:15.520
<v Speaker 2>drug addiction will tell you anything to keep you active.

0:28:16.600 --> 0:28:22.399
<v Speaker 2>I'm better in bed, I'm more creative, you know, I'm stronger.

0:28:23.359 --> 0:28:29.560
<v Speaker 2>It's all bullshit. You're either a social drinker or an alcoholic.

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<v Speaker 2>Just once you cross that fine line, there's no turning back.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you're saying your edge just because you drink

0:28:37.920 --> 0:28:43.640
<v Speaker 2>or get high, that's ridiculous. It's like over overweight comics

0:28:43.880 --> 0:28:46.680
<v Speaker 2>don't want to lose weight becausehifter actors talk about being

0:28:46.760 --> 0:28:50.160
<v Speaker 2>fat a lot of them. So you're going to have

0:28:50.200 --> 0:28:53.400
<v Speaker 2>a heart attack. You're going to die just so you

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<v Speaker 2>could tell a joker too, you know, you know it's uh.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't use your your addiction is because you are

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<v Speaker 2>an addict, or you're an alcoholic, or you're an overeater,

0:29:10.640 --> 0:29:14.560
<v Speaker 2>or you're an underreater, or you're a gambler. You know,

0:29:14.960 --> 0:29:18.920
<v Speaker 2>whatever you are can be. Listen. I gambled too much,

0:29:20.040 --> 0:29:24.120
<v Speaker 2>you know my main you know, Listen, I'm addicted. I

0:29:25.040 --> 0:29:28.120
<v Speaker 2>buy shit on Amazon. I don't need. I'm not perfect.

0:29:28.360 --> 0:29:30.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm not getting high a day at a time. But

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<v Speaker 2>believe me, I have a lot of shit to work

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<v Speaker 2>on in life, and I'm old.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll still be working on it the rest of your life.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably, yeah, yeah, yeah, unless I hope that.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you remember a time when making people laugh helped

0:29:44.720 --> 0:29:47.360
<v Speaker 1>you through a particularly tough time in your life.

0:29:48.360 --> 0:29:50.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm not making it laths, just going to work. You know,

0:29:50.840 --> 0:29:54.640
<v Speaker 2>there's times I had major anxiety in life where it

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<v Speaker 2>was bad. When I was twenty one, I wasn't a comic.

0:29:57.160 --> 0:30:00.600
<v Speaker 2>When when I was forty it was really bad. Luckily

0:30:00.680 --> 0:30:03.680
<v Speaker 2>I got through through it with a good therapist. I

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<v Speaker 2>kept working because I was ready to go. I got

0:30:05.640 --> 0:30:09.360
<v Speaker 2>to I got to stop this. You know, everything passes.

0:30:09.680 --> 0:30:14.360
<v Speaker 2>It all passes, good times, bad times, it all. You

0:30:14.440 --> 0:30:17.240
<v Speaker 2>look at a heart monitor goes up and down. You're alive,

0:30:18.040 --> 0:30:24.560
<v Speaker 2>straight across your dead. Everything passes, anxiety, king clouds, feeling good,

0:30:25.320 --> 0:30:30.920
<v Speaker 2>feeling shitty. Try not to react in those moments. You know,

0:30:31.480 --> 0:30:34.600
<v Speaker 2>and just accept them. It's easier for me to say,

0:30:34.640 --> 0:30:36.400
<v Speaker 2>but a lot of times I do it. A lot

0:30:36.440 --> 0:30:38.240
<v Speaker 2>of times I don't. I try not to get mad

0:30:38.280 --> 0:30:40.960
<v Speaker 2>at traffic. It's out of my control. I guess I

0:30:41.000 --> 0:30:45.960
<v Speaker 2>have no tolerance or patients with my wife. If she,

0:30:46.760 --> 0:30:49.840
<v Speaker 2>you know, didn't bug me so much, things would be great.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness, Well that was great advice. I was

0:30:53.360 --> 0:30:58.600
<v Speaker 1>going to tell you up until that part, you've worked

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<v Speaker 1>on a lot of things, and you've worked with a

0:31:00.880 --> 0:31:04.440
<v Speaker 1>lot of legends, and you've also mentored up and coming comedians.

0:31:04.480 --> 0:31:06.440
<v Speaker 1>What do you think is the most important lesson that

0:31:06.560 --> 0:31:10.880
<v Speaker 1>young comedians need to learn today? If you could pick one.

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<v Speaker 2>Be funny, that'd.

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<v Speaker 1>Be kind of important.

0:31:16.160 --> 0:31:18.760
<v Speaker 2>Well that it doesn't have to be important now. Now

0:31:18.920 --> 0:31:23.440
<v Speaker 2>was important is how many followers you have on Instagram chicktok.

0:31:23.800 --> 0:31:26.520
<v Speaker 2>Half of them aren't funny, but they're selling out clubs.

0:31:26.560 --> 0:31:30.280
<v Speaker 2>And you know, it's a different world. It has nothing

0:31:30.280 --> 0:31:34.680
<v Speaker 2>to do with quality now, it's quantity. And you know

0:31:36.200 --> 0:31:39.720
<v Speaker 2>older comms going this is crazy this person's headline and

0:31:39.720 --> 0:31:43.080
<v Speaker 2>they stink, and most of them do. But clubs have

0:31:43.160 --> 0:31:45.120
<v Speaker 2>to keep their doors open. But they got to draw.

0:31:45.760 --> 0:31:51.120
<v Speaker 2>There's a fine line between comedy club or YouTube club, right,

0:31:51.160 --> 0:31:54.720
<v Speaker 2>you know there's a fun line. So what you know,

0:31:55.120 --> 0:31:58.040
<v Speaker 2>it's a quick fix that you keep these clubs keep

0:31:58.080 --> 0:32:02.520
<v Speaker 2>bringing in these TikTok or internet sensations. I know a

0:32:02.560 --> 0:32:07.280
<v Speaker 2>club these whole line says internet sensation. Internet. It's a

0:32:07.360 --> 0:32:10.280
<v Speaker 2>quick fix and it never works. It'll come back to

0:32:10.360 --> 0:32:17.800
<v Speaker 2>want you Talent always exceeds bullshit. You know, if you

0:32:17.840 --> 0:32:21.320
<v Speaker 2>have those members and the talent, well you're really lucky.

0:32:22.000 --> 0:32:26.520
<v Speaker 2>But I think talent should become first. Clubs used to

0:32:26.560 --> 0:32:30.160
<v Speaker 2>fill their rooms because they had great shows. Now they're

0:32:30.160 --> 0:32:34.360
<v Speaker 2>trying to fill their rooms because you know, someone knows

0:32:34.360 --> 0:32:36.440
<v Speaker 2>how to wash a car with their teeth. I don't

0:32:36.480 --> 0:32:36.920
<v Speaker 2>fucking know.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever, It's true, No, you're you're right. It's a very

0:32:42.240 --> 0:32:46.080
<v Speaker 1>interesting time that we're all living through right now. It's crazy,

0:32:46.120 --> 0:32:48.760
<v Speaker 1>and I suspect it's going to get even crazier in

0:32:48.760 --> 0:32:51.040
<v Speaker 1>the next three to five years with the whole AI

0:32:51.160 --> 0:32:53.680
<v Speaker 1>thing and things that are going to happen that we

0:32:54.080 --> 0:32:58.280
<v Speaker 1>just can't even comprehend. But with your hindsight of all

0:32:58.280 --> 0:33:01.160
<v Speaker 1>of these decades of doing this, you're able to see

0:33:01.160 --> 0:33:03.200
<v Speaker 1>these patterns and things that you know, a lot of

0:33:03.200 --> 0:33:06.640
<v Speaker 1>people don't have the opportunity to the up and comers,

0:33:06.880 --> 0:33:09.800
<v Speaker 1>and they would be very grateful for someone like you

0:33:10.680 --> 0:33:12.640
<v Speaker 1>to give them good advice. And I you know, you

0:33:12.760 --> 0:33:14.880
<v Speaker 1>kind of talk like my dad, did, you know, just

0:33:14.960 --> 0:33:16.960
<v Speaker 1>very matter of fact to the point. If you want

0:33:16.960 --> 0:33:20.440
<v Speaker 1>to be a comedian, be funny, I mean, what else

0:33:20.520 --> 0:33:26.640
<v Speaker 1>is there? But we'll be honest, yeah, authenticity, Yeah, I

0:33:26.680 --> 0:33:27.880
<v Speaker 1>mean what else?

0:33:28.000 --> 0:33:30.320
<v Speaker 2>I mean? Should you want to be a juggler? Know

0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:31.040
<v Speaker 2>how to juggle?

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<v Speaker 1>Are there any moments backstage are on the road that

0:33:37.840 --> 0:33:40.560
<v Speaker 1>you had all of these years that stand out especially,

0:33:40.640 --> 0:33:43.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, that were formative for you or hilarious that

0:33:43.400 --> 0:33:45.520
<v Speaker 1>no one would ever know and that you want to

0:33:45.560 --> 0:33:46.640
<v Speaker 1>spill the beans on with me.

0:33:47.800 --> 0:33:50.680
<v Speaker 2>I was working Reno during like the It was I

0:33:50.680 --> 0:33:53.160
<v Speaker 2>think a porn convention. I was making out with two

0:33:53.200 --> 0:33:57.040
<v Speaker 2>girls at once backstage and they were all they were

0:33:57.080 --> 0:34:00.120
<v Speaker 2>both tends and it was a dream come true.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Oh my god. I don't know that

0:34:05.520 --> 0:34:07.200
<v Speaker 1>I could imagine that would stand out.

0:34:07.320 --> 0:34:11.800
<v Speaker 2>Obviously, I don't remember it. I don't think that happened.

0:34:11.800 --> 0:34:15.880
<v Speaker 2>I think I just made that up. I don't know

0:34:15.960 --> 0:34:18.960
<v Speaker 2>when I've had so many fun times backstage on we

0:34:19.040 --> 0:34:23.480
<v Speaker 2>did our tour, Creeps with Kids, Me, Bobby Kelly, Jim Florentinea,

0:34:23.560 --> 0:34:28.440
<v Speaker 2>Ron Bennington. We had some funny moments backstage, and just

0:34:28.600 --> 0:34:31.680
<v Speaker 2>been years and years of fun moments, and there's also

0:34:31.760 --> 0:34:35.960
<v Speaker 2>been moments of you know, like, what am I doing here?

0:34:36.560 --> 0:34:38.719
<v Speaker 2>You know? Why am I at this place? You know?

0:34:39.040 --> 0:34:40.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I understand it.

0:34:41.280 --> 0:34:42.440
<v Speaker 2>You got to pay your bills.

0:34:42.920 --> 0:34:48.000
<v Speaker 1>Your recent special, Rich Boss Anonymous. Yeah, it was filmed

0:34:48.040 --> 0:34:52.319
<v Speaker 1>at Narcotics Anonymous at a convention. What was unique about

0:34:52.360 --> 0:34:53.359
<v Speaker 1>that performance?

0:34:54.000 --> 0:34:56.439
<v Speaker 2>Well, no one's ever done that. Obviously I didn't show

0:34:56.480 --> 0:35:00.480
<v Speaker 2>the audience because it was a twelve step convention. Well,

0:35:00.520 --> 0:35:03.640
<v Speaker 2>my backdrop is so cool, the beginning, the editing. My

0:35:03.680 --> 0:35:09.640
<v Speaker 2>wife did the intro directed it. It's so cool. It's

0:35:09.800 --> 0:35:12.319
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I taped it a while ago, but we

0:35:12.480 --> 0:35:15.520
<v Speaker 2>just put it up. But no one's ever done it

0:35:15.840 --> 0:35:18.799
<v Speaker 2>what I did, you know, And it's it's pretty cool.

0:35:19.360 --> 0:35:22.160
<v Speaker 2>I talk about Ricy, you know, I talk about some recovery,

0:35:22.280 --> 0:35:25.720
<v Speaker 2>some you know, regular stuff, and it's it's just cool.

0:35:26.120 --> 0:35:30.680
<v Speaker 2>It looks it shot very well. Amazon Rich for was Anonymous.

0:35:31.160 --> 0:35:33.879
<v Speaker 2>You know. The guy that introed me, who did the

0:35:33.920 --> 0:35:37.040
<v Speaker 2>warm up, you know, went on to warm up, was

0:35:37.080 --> 0:35:42.239
<v Speaker 2>Tim Dillon, who is a major star now what he was.

0:35:42.640 --> 0:35:45.120
<v Speaker 2>He was the warm up act and he's the one

0:35:45.120 --> 0:35:49.440
<v Speaker 2>who introduced You could hear his voice. But he's so funny,

0:35:50.000 --> 0:35:54.800
<v Speaker 2>so funny. It's so weird. I've seen people just explode

0:35:54.800 --> 0:35:56.839
<v Speaker 2>in this business. Explode.

0:35:57.040 --> 0:35:57.800
<v Speaker 1>It's pretty amazing.

0:35:57.840 --> 0:36:02.560
<v Speaker 2>I have longevity and respect from my peers, and I've

0:36:02.600 --> 0:36:05.600
<v Speaker 2>always done well. But I've seen comics They're like, what

0:36:05.880 --> 0:36:06.480
<v Speaker 2>the hell?

0:36:07.760 --> 0:36:10.799
<v Speaker 1>What are some new specials and projects and goals that

0:36:10.880 --> 0:36:13.280
<v Speaker 1>you want to hit before you hit the checkout counter?

0:36:13.400 --> 0:36:14.399
<v Speaker 1>Coming up?

0:36:14.440 --> 0:36:17.120
<v Speaker 2>For Rich Voss, I guess one of my goals is,

0:36:17.719 --> 0:36:19.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, gay night at your house?

0:36:20.040 --> 0:36:22.480
<v Speaker 1>Okay, You're welcome anytime.

0:36:23.120 --> 0:36:28.640
<v Speaker 2>So I'm driving to that area. What's a goal to

0:36:29.480 --> 0:36:32.320
<v Speaker 2>or a gaiety on the golf course? I've done it before,

0:36:32.600 --> 0:36:36.720
<v Speaker 2>shoot the seventies. Get my game back if I sound

0:36:36.760 --> 0:36:39.920
<v Speaker 2>out of it, because I'm exhausted from traveling. But I

0:36:40.320 --> 0:36:42.719
<v Speaker 2>just was very exciting. You could tell that I was

0:36:42.840 --> 0:36:43.480
<v Speaker 2>very excited.

0:36:44.040 --> 0:36:44.840
<v Speaker 1>I could see it.

0:36:47.600 --> 0:36:48.920
<v Speaker 2>You had great questions.

0:36:49.280 --> 0:36:53.640
<v Speaker 1>Well, thanks, I appreciate it, Rich Rich Boss, thank you

0:36:53.680 --> 0:36:56.759
<v Speaker 1>for joining me on comedy saved me and thanks for

0:36:56.800 --> 0:37:00.480
<v Speaker 1>your sage, advice and wisdom. And I would you wish

0:37:00.480 --> 0:37:01.960
<v Speaker 1>you nothing about the best in the future, and if

0:37:01.960 --> 0:37:04.600
<v Speaker 1>you ever want to come to game Night anytime, come

0:37:04.600 --> 0:37:06.560
<v Speaker 1>on bye. I'll leave a light on for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Red Roofs, thank you for having me.