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Now it's time to 28 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 9: hear from my man, Rashan McDonald, money making conversations. 29 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 10: Here we go. 30 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 7: Welcome to money making Conversation. I am your host, Rashan McDonald. 31 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 7: I say this every week on my show. It's time 32 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:47,279 Speaker 7: to stop reading other people's success stories and start writing 33 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 7: your own. And people here talk about the gifts. They 34 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 7: talk about passion. If you have a gift, lead with 35 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 7: your gift and don't let your age, friend, family, or 36 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 7: coworker stop you from planning or living your dreams. My 37 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 7: interviews are for you, whether you're consumer every day forty 38 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 7: hour week, guy who works a job, a young lady, 39 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 7: a business owner, because I give you access to celebrity CEOs, entrepreneurs, 40 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 7: and what I like to call industry decision makers. My 41 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 7: next guest is Tracy McMillan. She's a relationship expert, television 42 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 7: writer and author whose credits include Mad Men One of 43 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 7: my favorite shows, Good Girls, Revoked, Marvels, Runaways, I love 44 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 7: anything that's Marvel related, and the United States of Taro, 45 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 7: which is outstanding. She's the author of three books, a 46 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 7: memoir I Love You and I'm Leaving You Anyway, a 47 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 7: novel multiple listings, and a relationship book While You're not 48 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 7: Married dot dot Yet. She's on the show because she 49 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 7: is the host of owns popular Family of Fiance. Family 50 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 7: of Fiance Right there, you know there's a choice. Well, 51 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 7: the couples have to make a decision. Family a Fiance. 52 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 7: Please welcome to Money Making Conversations. Tracy macmillan. Hello, Well, Tracy, 53 00:02:55,639 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 7: you're fantastic looking individual, you're chrismatic, you command the screen, 54 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 7: and you are a writer. 55 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 11: I am first and foremost. 56 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 7: Talk about that, talk about being that producer, that creative sort, 57 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 7: because when you write, you tend to be by yourself 58 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 7: a lot unless you're in the writer for you. 59 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 12: That's true. So I started out in journalism. I worked 60 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 12: in broadcast journalism for sixteen years. And you know the 61 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 12: thing about being a writer and starting in journalism in 62 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 12: particular broadcast, is that you're not writing because you're feeling inspired. 63 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 12: You're writing because there's a deadline and you need to 64 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 12: get hit your deadline. 65 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 3: End of story. 66 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 12: And so I feel like that was really great background 67 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 12: for me because I'm not waiting for something to happen. 68 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 12: I'm just doing it as far as writing is concerned, 69 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 12: because you know, procrastination is a really big part of 70 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 12: writing potentially, and if you don't make yourself do it, 71 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:53,800 Speaker 12: it just doesn't happen. 72 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 13: Well. 73 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 7: The point also is that because you have have famous 74 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 7: terms like writer's block, yeas about the creative direction. But 75 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 7: when I read off your credits, and it's important that 76 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 7: you understand why I read them all because there are 77 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 7: basically shows. When I started my writing career, Steve Harvey, 78 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 7: Me and the Boys, and then went over to Parenthood 79 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 7: with Robert Townsend, Seniors Hall, Sitcom, Sister's Sister with the Twins, 80 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 7: Tea and Tomorrow Maori, and then Jamie Fox Show and 81 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:24,719 Speaker 7: The Parkers. All those were urban sitcoms. So I was 82 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 7: kind of pigeonholed. You know, if I try to write 83 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 7: a specs cript, they say to try to get over 84 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 7: the Jared sime Field type show or home improvement type show. 85 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 7: I had to write those type of specs How did 86 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 7: you get into the writer's game, and let's talk about 87 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 7: the different fields opportunities you've been given as a writer, 88 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 7: because you went from drama to sci fi to a 89 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 7: really interesting platform of writing. 90 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 12: Sometimes I feel very lucky, like I'm the Tom Hanks 91 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 12: of television writers, Like I just get to do all 92 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 12: these different things. And I don't know how I got 93 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:01,799 Speaker 12: lucky that, but I will tell you how I started. 94 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:06,599 Speaker 12: So I had I knew one person in the business. 95 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 12: It was a mom friend of mine. We had met 96 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 12: on a blind mom playdate. This friend of mine said, oh, 97 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 12: I met this mom. I think you'd like her. So 98 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 12: we went out and our kids were like two. My 99 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:22,480 Speaker 12: kid's now twenty four. So we're talking and I'm like, so, 100 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 12: what are you about. You know I'm living in Los Angeles. 101 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 12: She's like, oh, I'm a television writer. I was like, oh, 102 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,919 Speaker 12: I've always secretly wanted to do that. How do you 103 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 12: do that? And she said, well, basically, you have a 104 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 12: protagonist and they have a problem. 105 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 11: They get themselves up a tree, they try. 106 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 12: To solve their problem, they get themselves further up the tree, 107 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 12: they try to solve the problem again, and they fall 108 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 12: out of the tree, right and. 109 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 11: Then that's basically the end of the episode. There's a 110 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 11: little epilogue after that. 111 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 7: That's it. 112 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 11: And I went, oh, okay, that's good. 113 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 12: So I went off and I wrote two specscripts without 114 00:05:57,760 --> 00:05:59,919 Speaker 12: even knowing what I was doing. This isn't like the 115 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 12: year two thousand. I wrote Darmin and Gray and a. 116 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 14: Drew Carey and Popular Signal, and so I showed them 117 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 14: to her and she said, Wow, everyone thinks they can 118 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 14: do my job, but you actually could. 119 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:18,039 Speaker 11: Now in a perfect story, that would be it. I 120 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:20,279 Speaker 11: got a job. I didn't get a job. 121 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 12: In fact, I went, okay, that's nice to know, but 122 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:25,480 Speaker 12: I'm like very busy being a mom, and I. 123 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 11: Didn't have the self esteem. 124 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 12: I had a lot of stuff I had to work 125 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 12: on internally before I was going to be able to 126 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:34,239 Speaker 12: say yes to that kind of career move or that life. 127 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 12: So I got busy with all that work, not even 128 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 12: knowing that's what I was doing. And the opportunity came 129 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:44,039 Speaker 12: around again in two thousand and five. So five years later, 130 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 12: I was going through a big ending of my third marriage. 131 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:52,840 Speaker 12: I was in a real soul searching moment and I 132 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 12: decided to write something a drama of a movie to 133 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:00,279 Speaker 12: work my way through the process, and when I was 134 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 12: done with it, I sent it to this woman. We 135 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 12: weren't close because her career had taken off, but she 136 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 12: was like, I know you can write, so I'll send 137 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 12: it to my agent. If he likes it, i'll call you, 138 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 12: and if he doesn't, he won't. And eight months later 139 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 12: he called me and that was the beginning. And it 140 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 12: took another year after that to get my first job. 141 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 12: But once I started, and at that time I was 142 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 12: forty two, so I looked like the wrong age, the 143 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 12: wrong color, went to the wrong. 144 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 11: School, the wrong everything. But it did not matter. There 145 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 11: was still room for me. Well, you know, it's really 146 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 11: interesting that a big lesson I. 147 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 7: Always tell people like I found myself my voice in 148 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 7: my forties. You know, despite the success, I had a 149 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 7: success that people considered it was incredible. I really didn't, 150 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 7: I guess, have the confidence, a clins of direction that 151 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 7: I could do that. 152 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 13: Yeah. 153 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 7: So the reason I bring that up because a lot 154 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 7: of people limit their salves when they hit a certain age. 155 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 7: You know, they don't do any their twenties or their thirties. 156 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 7: They'd be oh time, I can't do it, and you 157 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 7: and I are saying in our forties. We found our voice, 158 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 7: and we found our voice. Basically, our careers took off, 159 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 7: and he took off because we finally believed in each other. 160 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 7: And I was still I was managing the Steve Harvey 161 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 7: at the time, and we was in LA and I 162 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 7: was making some decisions, positive decisions. But again I was 163 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 7: had written all these sitcoms. You know, we've done all 164 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 7: these concerts, sold them o nationwide. But in the end, 165 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 7: I had thrown myself into a world that I was successful, 166 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:32,439 Speaker 7: I didn't understand. And so with that, insecurities are there 167 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:36,679 Speaker 7: even though you achieved success. So you overcame your security insecurities, 168 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 7: and so you walk into a writer's room first time 169 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 7: only talk about that experience. 170 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:43,199 Speaker 11: Well, my first writer's room. 171 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:46,559 Speaker 12: Everybody went around the table and they were introducing themselves 172 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 12: and each they'd a lot of them had come from 173 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 12: the West Wing because the showrunner had run the West Wing. 174 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 12: They are incredibly smart, very established, very successful TV writers, 175 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 12: and you know, it's very common for those people to 176 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 12: have gone to Ivy League schools, specifically Harvard, and so 177 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 12: they each go around and there's twelve writers on the show, 178 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 12: and literally the first nine writers, I'll say, you know, 179 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:18,679 Speaker 12: I went to Harvard or whatever, and my dad's a doctor, 180 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,200 Speaker 12: And I was like, this was when I first realized 181 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 12: that television writers disproportionately have dads who are doctors. So 182 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 12: anyway you get to me and I'm like, well, I 183 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:32,680 Speaker 12: went to the University of Utah and my dad's in 184 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 12: federal prison. It was like, oh, okay, but there was 185 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 12: a way in which that I was owning it and 186 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 12: that it was just like I was like, all right, 187 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:46,959 Speaker 12: and from really. 188 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 3: Even before that, I had learned. 189 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:54,439 Speaker 12: That the things that I thought were the most necessarily shameful, 190 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 12: but the things that I thought I would be least 191 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 12: understood for, which is my history is a foster child, 192 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:04,199 Speaker 12: my dad in prison, you know, all these things, my MoMA, prostitute, 193 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 12: like all these things turned out to be the things 194 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:08,440 Speaker 12: that Hollywood loved me for. 195 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 11: They not get enough my story. 196 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 12: With my three husbands and everything that had gone on. 197 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 11: So it's the other big lesson was just to lean 198 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 11: into who. 199 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 12: You are, because who you are is perfect for whatever 200 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 12: dream is on your heart. 201 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 7: Well, you know, I really, first of all, your honesty 202 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 7: is what also is your blessing? Okay, because a lot 203 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 7: of people hide from their background high from them because 204 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 7: they feel that maybe damaging to the opportunity. And like 205 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,440 Speaker 7: I said, you know, if you work for IBM, if 206 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:41,720 Speaker 7: you work for Google's problems of matter anymore now because 207 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 7: everybody's like be yourself, wear what you want to wear 208 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 7: a type attitude nowadays. But back then, when you're talking 209 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 7: about trying to break into an industry, that's true. I've 210 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 7: been in these writers room and you were in for 211 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:55,320 Speaker 7: a drama. That's to me. Sitcoms always had a lot 212 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 7: of writers. Dramas and you say he was a room 213 00:10:57,760 --> 00:10:59,480 Speaker 7: with twelve people. That's a lot of writers. 214 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 12: So the end of the old era, it literally was 215 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 12: the very end of the old era in two thousand 216 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 12: and seven, and then we had the writer's strike and 217 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 12: from that point on, a writer's shop was like sixt 218 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 12: people right right. 219 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:13,079 Speaker 7: And so so I was to letting everybody know there 220 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 7: was a transition period because in sitcoms you need more 221 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:18,959 Speaker 7: writers because of the fact you're pitching jokes and you're 222 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 7: pitching a faster moving process and so you so you 223 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 7: need people not to burn out and not to be 224 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:28,319 Speaker 7: pitching the same jokes. But in dramas it's really tied 225 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 7: to the emotion of the writer, and you can shape 226 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 7: the moment and the scenes and all that. Now, I'm 227 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 7: a sitcom guy. You're a drama person. That's your first 228 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 7: writer's job. Get then you realize you can do this. 229 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 7: That's just what I want to talk about. People. You 230 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 7: were talking to Tracey macmillan. She is the host of 231 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 7: Family of Fiance, which is on own network. We're going 232 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 7: to talk about that in a minute, which is an 233 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 7: amazing show. But often the lot on my show is say, 234 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 7: people say, how do they get there? How does she 235 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 7: get that opportunity? How does she overcome their odds? She 236 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 7: just told you, you know, you know, the premise is 237 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 7: that she from you. She graduated from Utah, her dad 238 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 7: from with the prison, her mom was a prostitute. But 239 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 7: she didn't limit that self, limit her opportunities. Foster child 240 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 7: and all those are negatives. How do you start sliding 241 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 7: those negatives, Tracy into a positive side of the box. 242 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 12: I think it's really about understanding and embracing that if 243 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 12: this is your story, it's for good, and that everything 244 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 12: is happening for. 245 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 11: You, not to you. 246 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 12: You know, I mean, the fact of the matter is 247 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 12: I had some amazing foster homes. Like I always say, 248 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 12: there's one version of my life where I got born 249 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:34,559 Speaker 12: and then my mother gave me up at three months 250 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 12: and I was abandoned and victimized, you know. But there's 251 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 12: another story where I got born. I took a look 252 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 12: around and I said I can do better than this, 253 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 12: and I got out of there and I started getting 254 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:51,679 Speaker 12: exposed to some different things at the age of three months. Right, 255 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 12: So it's all about how you frame it as far 256 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 12: as I'm concerned. 257 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 7: Right, I see animation in your future too, because you 258 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:01,959 Speaker 7: just have a really huge of animation and creation. Wait 259 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:07,599 Speaker 7: what in my future animation? Animation? Oh okay, I just 260 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 7: say yes to everything. 261 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 11: I remember people used. 262 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:12,320 Speaker 12: To say to me many years ago in TV news, 263 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 12: if you're like, you know what you should know, Oprah, 264 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:16,440 Speaker 12: you should have your own show. I'm like, yeah, you 265 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 12: know what, I probably should like. That sounds good. I 266 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 12: was not saying no to anything. I was just like, 267 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 12: all right, yeah, I'm done with that. Even though I 268 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 12: think it's not about looking at the how, you have 269 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 12: to take your focus off the how and keep your 270 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 12: focus on the what right and then raise your own 271 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:39,239 Speaker 12: vibration to where you're matching whatever it is that you want. 272 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 12: And I know that sounds kind of woo woo. The 273 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:43,720 Speaker 12: other thing I'll say is I kind of work harder 274 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:47,679 Speaker 12: than other people, Like I get a tremendous amount of 275 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:51,080 Speaker 12: work done. I crank out the writing, Like there was 276 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 12: a period of eight years where I wrote three books. 277 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 12: I was on a whole bunch of TV shows Like 278 00:13:56,679 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 12: it was I mean as a writer. And then I 279 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 12: ended up writing piece that went viral and it was 280 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 12: on the Huffington Post. Maybe it was the most read 281 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:11,200 Speaker 12: for almost three years. It just turned into this huge thing. 282 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 12: And all it was was me sitting down to write 283 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 12: my truth as though nobody was watching, and I put 284 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 12: it in the Huffington Post and the rest is history. 285 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 12: And that's where this on air career came from. Now 286 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 12: the thing is is I've gone to broadcast journalism school. 287 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 11: I've worked in TV news for sixteen years. 288 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 3: I knew what to do. I had just been saying 289 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 3: no to. 290 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 12: On camera my whole life because I was like, I 291 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 12: don't know, I'm a virgo. 292 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 11: I like being behind the scenes. I'm kind of a weirdly. 293 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 12: Internal I know I look like I'm an extrovert, but 294 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 12: actually I'm sort of bookish. 295 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 11: I just want to read and be back here and 296 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 11: have nobody pay attention to me. 297 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 3: So there was a part of me that didn't want 298 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 3: to do it. 299 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 12: But you know, God or the universe what I'm going 300 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 12: to call it, divine intelligence sear whatever the plan is, 301 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 12: that that's gonna happen. 302 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 11: It doesn't really matter what. 303 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 7: You said, right, we know some you know situation. When 304 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 7: I looked at you, you know, one of my gifts 305 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 7: is just a perception, and I just recognize people, and 306 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 7: I really could I can. Basically, I don't need to 307 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 7: talk to you because I just know who you are. 308 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 7: You know, basically when I look at you when I 309 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 7: watched the shows, you have a zen about you, and 310 00:15:23,640 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 7: it's it's a zen that you know, it's like a 311 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:31,119 Speaker 7: sixties type zen, which is a laid back but very confident, 312 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 7: but very relaxed personality, which means that if I have 313 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 7: any defenses, you immediately relax them. So and that was 314 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:43,160 Speaker 7: important to me to see that because you're in a 315 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 7: relationship expert, how did you become a relationship exceptort we 316 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 7: talk about your life. We talked about the writers, you 317 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 7: talk about their story didn't helping the post, but a 318 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 7: relationship expert. How did that happen? 319 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 12: Well, it happened because I made so many mistakes in 320 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 12: my relationships. And then I'm the kind of person who 321 00:15:59,880 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 12: is going to take a mistake and go, Okay, what 322 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 12: did I do? 323 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 3: Wround here? 324 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 12: Like what do I need to learn? How am I 325 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 12: here to up level? You know, that's just my nature. 326 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 12: So as I learned things, naturally, I would just start 327 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 12: talking to people about them. I worked in newsrooms, as 328 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 12: I said, for many years. Newsrooms are rooms with sixty 329 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 12: people all having trouble in their relationships. 330 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 3: You know, I'm just kidding, but you would. 331 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 11: Naturally be in these conversations where I'm. 332 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:33,400 Speaker 12: Talking to the reporters or the other writers about their 333 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 12: love relationships when I'm supposed to be doing my real job, 334 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 12: and they would be helped. 335 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 11: They'd be like, wow, you're really helping me. And a 336 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 11: lot of it was all the things that I was learning. 337 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 12: Because I say, I'm the jailhouse lawyer of relationship experts. 338 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 12: I had to do so much work on my own keys. 339 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 12: Now I can help you with yours. And the other 340 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 12: thing about me is I'm not the person who. 341 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 11: Got married once and has been married thirty. 342 00:16:56,960 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 12: Years I'm still working it out, and I think people 343 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 12: can feel the non judgment and they relate to somebody 344 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 12: who's still working on it even though they've made a 345 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:10,439 Speaker 12: lot of mistakes as I have. And I don't carry 346 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:14,440 Speaker 12: shame around it. I carry forgiveness for myself, compassion for 347 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 12: other people. I really think it's just like relationships are 348 00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 12: a spiritual path and that if you allow them to, 349 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:25,720 Speaker 12: they will grow you, unlike any other aspect of your life. 350 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 12: So that just became where I was releasing. My gifts 351 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 12: were that I could understand what was going on with 352 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:36,879 Speaker 12: people's relationships, and then I had all this sort of 353 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 12: I'm a big reader, and you know, I teach myself 354 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:45,159 Speaker 12: a lot. I'm basically sort of a self taught marriage 355 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 12: and family therapist. Now I always am in therapy, and 356 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 12: like my current therapist, sometimes they'll be like, Wow, that's 357 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 12: really good. 358 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 11: Can I use that? How whatever you want? 359 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 7: So I managed Steve Harvey. We released the book Act 360 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:04,239 Speaker 7: like a Lady, Think like a Man. That sold three 361 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 7: million copies, and again, you know, people threw him in 362 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:11,239 Speaker 7: that box of relationship expert. Yeah he did, and then 363 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:14,520 Speaker 7: he immediately here this where hell, he can't keep a 364 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 7: marriage going, Okay, how can he tell me what's going 365 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:19,880 Speaker 7: on in my life? And then of course your situation. 366 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 7: You know, you've had three divorces in your life, so 367 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:26,120 Speaker 7: that's a negative, but also as a positive too, correct. 368 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 12: I mean, I always say you learn more from failure 369 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:33,120 Speaker 12: than you do from success if you're there for the lesson. 370 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 10: Now. 371 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 11: The other thing is is that I've learned. 372 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:38,680 Speaker 12: So I got married at nineteen, I got married at 373 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:40,639 Speaker 12: thirty two, and I got married at forty. I have 374 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:45,640 Speaker 12: not been married in sixteen years. I learned my lesson right, 375 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:48,919 Speaker 12: I stopped getting married. I stopped moving in with people 376 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:53,920 Speaker 12: now for the that is just shifting now. So I've 377 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 12: been very rigorous with myself about what I need to 378 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 12: look and not repeating the same mistake. 379 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:04,720 Speaker 7: Now we say shifting now. When you say when you 380 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 7: say shifting now, what did you mean when you said shifting? 381 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 13: Now? 382 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 11: I am in a relationship and live together. Yeah, that's 383 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 11: brand new. It's been like the month. 384 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 13: Okay. 385 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:17,920 Speaker 7: So what we gotta do is in the fall, I'm 386 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 7: gonna I'm gonna reach back community. We're gonna be my 387 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 7: show still here we find out every six I think 388 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 7: you know you gonna be my six month interview. Six months, 389 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:29,159 Speaker 7: we're gonna check in and find out the relations You're 390 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 7: gonna help me out and help you out because I've 391 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:33,919 Speaker 7: been I've been blessed. I've been married thirty three years now, 392 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 7: and you know, in that whole process, there hasn't been 393 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 7: rosy along the way, and they've been near catastrophes along 394 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 7: the way. But you know, being that that that is 395 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 7: my hook, my claim the fame and the relationship. I've 396 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 7: been able to hold it together. Now your claim the 397 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 7: fame right now is on own. It's a show called 398 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 7: Family of Fiance. I laugh a little bit because of 399 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:58,800 Speaker 7: the fact that you know, you know, family does play 400 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 7: a role. And let's let me give about the premise 401 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 7: of family or Fiance. It's our own network, hosted by 402 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 7: Tracy McMillan. One engaged couple, two families who object. Here 403 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:12,200 Speaker 7: me again, one engaged couple, two families who object. Three 404 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:15,760 Speaker 7: days under one roof and a wedding on the line. 405 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:19,959 Speaker 7: Will they earn their families blessing or be forced to 406 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 7: choose family or fiance? How did you get involved with 407 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:25,680 Speaker 7: this project? 408 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 12: Well, I got a call, so I did Oprah's Super 409 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 12: Soul Sunday, right, And that was a great experience. And 410 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:37,159 Speaker 12: then probably three years maybe more later, I got a 411 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 12: call that OWN wanted to do this show called Family 412 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:44,280 Speaker 12: or Fiance and I was like, okay, and would I 413 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:45,440 Speaker 12: come in and meet? 414 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 11: And so I came in. 415 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:51,439 Speaker 12: And I met, and really from that first day, I 416 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:56,119 Speaker 12: really just felt like, Wow, there the specific things that 417 00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 12: I know about and am here to do. 418 00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 11: I can do those things here. 419 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:06,040 Speaker 12: And really our show is about healing families. It's about 420 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 12: setting up couples for really the deep work of marriage, 421 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:18,960 Speaker 12: and you know, people learn. It's it's an incredible show. 422 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 12: Every episode gets me chills at least one because these 423 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 12: couples are so courageous and these families are so courageous 424 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 12: and all alright, courageous people who don't want to do 425 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 12: the work. 426 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,399 Speaker 7: Courageous or outrageous. We can put the word outrageous in 427 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 7: there too, because some of the things. 428 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 11: There's some outrageousness because someone would. 429 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 7: Come in with a set mind, you know, set this 430 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:46,480 Speaker 7: a set attitude. That's what I kind of But here's 431 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 7: the thing I like about the show, And this is 432 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,680 Speaker 7: what I love about you, And I'm so happy I'm 433 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 7: interviewing you. It's your personality. Like I said, it's so disarming, 434 00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:57,639 Speaker 7: and I think it's important for this type of show 435 00:21:58,160 --> 00:21:59,880 Speaker 7: because it's not a combative show. 436 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 13: I'm just let you know. 437 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:02,880 Speaker 7: Let me just tell you guys, when you watch this show, 438 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 7: she almost I won't use the word disappears, but she 439 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,359 Speaker 7: kind of like goes into the fabric of the show. 440 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 7: She sets to everything else and everything. So we allow 441 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 7: ourselves to see the problem. We allow ourselves to see 442 00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:18,160 Speaker 7: the couples work through the problems, and we allow ourselves 443 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 7: to find out maybe they are the problem. And that's 444 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:24,639 Speaker 7: part of what this show is about because we're not 445 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 7: trying to point a finger. That's what That was my 446 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:30,359 Speaker 7: greatest takeaway of your show, Tracy, you know, which is 447 00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:33,159 Speaker 7: a family of fiance which is on own network, is 448 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:36,480 Speaker 7: that you're not here to be You're wrong, you're right, 449 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:40,280 Speaker 7: but the resolved issues that make this couple last a 450 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 7: long time. And that's the purpose to getting married. You 451 00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 7: don't get married to get a divorce. You get married 452 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,359 Speaker 7: to you know, to death do its part. That is 453 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,520 Speaker 7: the premise of marriage. So talk about am I missing 454 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 7: the points of of what you're trying to do in 455 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:52,680 Speaker 7: the show. 456 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 12: It and I think that's part of my approach to 457 00:22:56,520 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 12: relationship coaching is that I already know from being. 458 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 11: A girlfriend, you know, being just the FX with people. 459 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 12: Nobody can tell anybody anything, you know what I'm saying. 460 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 12: No one ever changed their behavior in a relationship because 461 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 12: their friends said, girl, you're going down the wrong path. 462 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:16,159 Speaker 11: That's not how it works. 463 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 12: How it works is you allow people to come to 464 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:22,560 Speaker 12: their own conclusion. You give them the dignity of their 465 00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 12: own process, and you just hold up the mirror and 466 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:27,920 Speaker 12: you hold a space. 467 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 11: It's almost like parenting. 468 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:32,480 Speaker 3: You hold a space for this person. 469 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:35,359 Speaker 12: Who has decided to come on the show, so you know, 470 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:39,320 Speaker 12: the willingness is there at some level, and you let 471 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 12: what is inside of them pull them across the finish line, 472 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:47,560 Speaker 12: pull them into the change. Not me being sassy, you 473 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 12: know what I'm saying that I'm just a facilitator. The 474 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:54,600 Speaker 12: real healing is the couples and the families themselves. 475 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:57,560 Speaker 7: We know the interesting fun part After you use the 476 00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 7: word fun, it's entertainment. There's a social yeah, you know 477 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 7: that we get to see. Is that just to see 478 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 7: the journey of black reality shows? Yes, you know, And 479 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:10,200 Speaker 7: you know what I'm saying, child. There was one time, 480 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:12,200 Speaker 7: you know, you threw a glass, you cust somebody out, 481 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:13,920 Speaker 7: you punch them in the face. And that's a black 482 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 7: reality show. They talk you fault, you know, Jerry Springer 483 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,680 Speaker 7: Springer on black steroids. That's where our reality shows work. 484 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:24,879 Speaker 7: And so you're being invited into this environment. Did you 485 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:29,400 Speaker 7: have any any questions about what type of what type 486 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 7: of premise we're doing with this because you're not going 487 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:32,840 Speaker 7: to get involved in so. 488 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 12: I mean, I could tell from the first meeting with 489 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 12: the producers and you know just what own the network is. 490 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,439 Speaker 11: About, what Oprah Winfrey is about. 491 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:45,640 Speaker 12: It's like we were here for what is highest in people. 492 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 12: I'm here for what's highest in me. I want the 493 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,639 Speaker 12: couples to be here for what's highest in themselves and 494 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:55,600 Speaker 12: each other and the families. So that's the space I'm holding. 495 00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:59,719 Speaker 12: That doesn't mean people aren't going to act outrageous at times. 496 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 12: They that's how people are because people are, you know, humans, 497 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:08,639 Speaker 12: They do that, But we're not sitting here. That's not 498 00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:14,680 Speaker 12: the level that we're resting in. That's just a place 499 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:21,200 Speaker 12: people sometimes go. But I'd say that our show people grow, 500 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 12: people heal, and it's real. The look in their eyes 501 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 12: when we take the family photo. At the very end 502 00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:31,359 Speaker 12: we do the blessing ceremony that we go outside, immediately 503 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 12: take the family photo, and the look that they give 504 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:40,200 Speaker 12: me is always, even if the relationship fell apart, even 505 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 12: if things didn't get fully resolved, the look in their eyes, 506 00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 12: whether it's family or the couples. 507 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,440 Speaker 11: Is thank you. And I always want to say, it's 508 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:52,440 Speaker 11: not me. I'm just a channel. I'm just here. You 509 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:53,040 Speaker 11: did the work. 510 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 6: You know. 511 00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 7: My background was stand up coming. I started out a 512 00:25:56,600 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 7: stand up comedy and when I look at you, I'm 513 00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 7: almost you know, because she's Tracy mcwell. She has a 514 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,560 Speaker 7: very popular ted ex she did called with the Person 515 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,680 Speaker 7: You Really Need to Marry. It was wildly with, wildly 516 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 7: viral and you can find it a lit Tracy McMillan 517 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,760 Speaker 7: ted X talk the Person you Really Need to Marry 518 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:17,159 Speaker 7: And when and watching that, I felt like I was 519 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,680 Speaker 7: watching a monologue. I felt like I was watching without 520 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 7: the jokes. Now you know you know this, but it 521 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 7: felt like I was being entertained and carrying on a journey. 522 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:28,919 Speaker 7: That's what great comedians do, whether you're Dave Chaparral or 523 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 7: Steve Harvey or Chris Rock. They tell a story and 524 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:35,119 Speaker 7: take you on a journey, and even talking to you now, 525 00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:38,960 Speaker 7: I feel myself being caught up into the mystique, the 526 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 7: aura of Tracy McMillan. What is that Tracy before we 527 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 7: rap up? What is that about you? You? You know 528 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,200 Speaker 7: it's real, you know it's real. Come on, I don't know. 529 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:50,440 Speaker 11: You know what my dad would say, it's the McMillan chime. 530 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,920 Speaker 12: I've heard him say that. He's like, it's that McMillan chime. 531 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:55,480 Speaker 12: Not necessarily about me. 532 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,399 Speaker 7: He's probably talking about himself, right, But you do have 533 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,639 Speaker 7: you do have an it, you would have a factor, correct. 534 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:02,920 Speaker 13: I don't know. 535 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:03,240 Speaker 14: You know. 536 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 12: One time twenty five thirty years ago, I was in 537 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:08,720 Speaker 12: New York and I was I was living in New 538 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:11,840 Speaker 12: York and I was looking for an apartment and it 539 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:12,920 Speaker 12: was a roommate situation. 540 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 11: And this girl, I'll. 541 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:17,360 Speaker 12: Never forget it, she said to me, after like ten 542 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 12: minutes of visiting, she goes, You're a star. 543 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 13: And I remember. 544 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 11: Thinking, what is she talking about? You know, because that 545 00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:26,920 Speaker 11: is not how I saw myself. 546 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 12: But it's interesting that I remember that, And so I'm 547 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 12: willing to be a star if it's here. I'm here 548 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 12: to use whatever right for the good and if that's 549 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 12: you know, I feel like I know my purpose. And 550 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:43,399 Speaker 12: sometimes I say, you know what, I wasn't going to 551 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:46,000 Speaker 12: be on TV, but God gave me TV hair, and. 552 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:50,119 Speaker 11: So you just have to surrest itout you have and 553 00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:51,400 Speaker 11: be like, all right, I'm here. 554 00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:54,200 Speaker 7: TV saying you got a lot going on there. Tracy mcmiller, 555 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,439 Speaker 7: I want to say this about you. Thank you for 556 00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:59,479 Speaker 7: coming on the show. You also a star. You know, 557 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:01,879 Speaker 7: you do have the r R. You do have the 558 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,359 Speaker 7: IT factor and more important to the host of a 559 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 7: hit you on on called Family of Fiance, you're wonderful. 560 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,760 Speaker 7: Remember every six months, we're gonna do our checking in trades, 561 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 7: all right, every six months because you're wonderful. Continue to 562 00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:15,600 Speaker 7: write on those dramas and changing the game and actually 563 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,320 Speaker 7: changing the game of television. You are a This is 564 00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 7: a positive word. You are a beast. And the key 565 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 7: to your success is you said it. I work hard, 566 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,680 Speaker 7: and you our work people and everybody I've known who's 567 00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,399 Speaker 7: a very top of their game star, that's the same 568 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:32,000 Speaker 7: thing they say over and over. You're not gonna our workman. 569 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:33,879 Speaker 7: You can talk to Kevin Hard. You're not gonna out 570 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 7: of work, Steven A. Smith. You're not gonn out of work, Steve, 571 00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 7: Steve Harvey, not gonna work any of these guys, Nensel Washington, 572 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 7: Samuel Jackson. So hard work is always applied to longevity 573 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 7: and you have it. 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He's on the show to talk about the 614 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 7: exclusivity of the cannabis industry and how he's achieved his 615 00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:19,560 Speaker 7: vision of bringing representation and reform the industry, which has 616 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 7: historically left the black community disenfranchised. 617 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 5: When I jumped in, it was not popular. 618 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 13: You know. 619 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 5: Now every entertainer, athlete, everybody's making investments in, you know, 620 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:31,880 Speaker 5: trying to endorse products. 621 00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:32,200 Speaker 10: You know. 622 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 5: When I did this, you know I was I put 623 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:38,200 Speaker 5: my contract at risk, I put my freedom at risk essentially, right, 624 00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:39,960 Speaker 5: you know, and we still do. I mean, it's still 625 00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 5: federally illegal. I had seen that help my grandmother. That's 626 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 5: what's just really inspired. 627 00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 7: If you want to listen to the full interview with 628 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:52,360 Speaker 7: Al Hereton is available on Moneymaking Conversation dot com. 629 00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 15: Welcome back to Money Making Conversations with your host, Rashawn McDonald. 630 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 7: My next guest is doctor Tapitha Car. Indeed, she's the 631 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:05,320 Speaker 7: leading authority in the field of women's health and wellness. 632 00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:08,480 Speaker 7: She's the founder of the vegan based Good Girl Chocolate, 633 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:11,520 Speaker 7: a best selling author after high school. Let's talk about 634 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:13,840 Speaker 7: all this and continue to battle of high blood pressure 635 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 7: and blood where all nobody in the black community or 636 00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:19,480 Speaker 7: the minority community, high blood pressure is always out there 637 00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:24,160 Speaker 7: and sugar and balances. Doctor Tapitha decided not only to 638 00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,440 Speaker 7: focus on her diet and desire to contribute positive energies 639 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:30,800 Speaker 7: of community, but through studies with the focus on women's 640 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 7: health and wellness, she created. She created Good Girl Chocolate 641 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:38,960 Speaker 7: to thrive at the intersection of science, simplicity, and flavor. 642 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 7: Good Girl Chocolate has been featured in the Grammys Gift 643 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 7: Giving Sweet and select Oscar nominee gift bags, and was 644 00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:48,680 Speaker 7: a twenty twenty grant recipient of Beyonce's Big Good Foundation. 645 00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:53,240 Speaker 7: Our interviews about following your dreams that leads to a 646 00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,040 Speaker 7: healthy lifestyle and becoming a leading authority in the field 647 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,720 Speaker 7: of women's health and fitness. Please welcome to Money Making Conversation. 648 00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 7: For the first time, I feel like I've known that 649 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:04,880 Speaker 7: because we've had some technical glitches. Doctor Tabitha car and 650 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 7: d how you. 651 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 3: Doing good morning? Good morning. I am fantastic. 652 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 10: How are you doing well? 653 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 7: I'm doing good. You know some of your chocolate, So 654 00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:16,680 Speaker 7: I was kind of you know, one thing I've learned now, 655 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,560 Speaker 7: when you eat something that good, you shouldn't like immediately 656 00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:24,560 Speaker 7: going to introducing someone. So in between between certain sentences, 657 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 7: I was just getting that that nice taste was just 658 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:30,080 Speaker 7: rushing through my mouth. And so I want to apologize 659 00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:33,080 Speaker 7: to anybody going Rachade doesn't sound like he normally sounds, 660 00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:37,440 Speaker 7: so he introduces people. Well, I was enjoying Good Girl chocolate. 661 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:39,880 Speaker 7: That was all in my mouth. It was all in 662 00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,880 Speaker 7: my system, and I'm having a good time. I apologize. 663 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 7: I apologize to everybody who's watching and to everybody who's listening. 664 00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:49,520 Speaker 7: I have some come to Good Girl chocolate, and that's 665 00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:50,560 Speaker 7: a good thing. By the way. 666 00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,080 Speaker 3: I love it. I love it. I love it. 667 00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:57,240 Speaker 19: Hey, you're not the first one, and you are not 668 00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,720 Speaker 19: the first one to taste Good Girl chocolate and absolutely 669 00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:01,160 Speaker 19: loved it. 670 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:02,760 Speaker 11: I'm thrilled that you like it. 671 00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:05,600 Speaker 7: Well, I am thank you for sending me something. This 672 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:07,680 Speaker 7: is another packaging that she sent me. But I was 673 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:11,320 Speaker 7: dining on this because the whole brownie batter and this, 674 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,319 Speaker 7: this is the sweetest item that you make right here? 675 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 3: Correct it is? It is. 676 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:20,319 Speaker 19: I started out making seventy percent dark chocolate, and that's 677 00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 19: not your average grocery story dark chocolate because folks can 678 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:27,839 Speaker 19: claim dark chocolate and have sixty percent sugar in it. 679 00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:31,719 Speaker 19: So I have real seventy percent dark chocolate. And what 680 00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:35,360 Speaker 19: I found is some people like a semisweet, some people 681 00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 19: like are really sweet. 682 00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:38,879 Speaker 3: So I go from seventy percent. 683 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:42,600 Speaker 19: All the way down to thirty four percent cacao, so 684 00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 19: I can bless everyone's palate absolutely. 685 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:47,919 Speaker 7: You know the whole thing about it. When you put 686 00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:50,440 Speaker 7: the word vegan in front of anything, people tend to 687 00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,040 Speaker 7: run off or tend to think it doesn't taste the same, 688 00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 7: or it doesn't it's not going to taste as good. 689 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,360 Speaker 7: And right now this is like this is began based, 690 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:02,439 Speaker 7: gluten free, dairy free, and free. Talk about being able 691 00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:04,880 Speaker 7: to deliver something I'm eating right now that tastes so 692 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:08,920 Speaker 7: very good, but also overcoming the stigma that if you 693 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,760 Speaker 7: go vegan, it will not taste as good. 694 00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:13,560 Speaker 3: Here's the thing. 695 00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 19: I have been on a different diet like every single 696 00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,640 Speaker 19: day of my life I was sixteen when I was 697 00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:23,880 Speaker 19: put on my very first blood pressure peel and I 698 00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:27,239 Speaker 19: was a woman size twenty twenty two. So I've been 699 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:33,120 Speaker 19: on the keto diet, the cabbage soup diet, raw plant based, pescatarian, 700 00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:36,960 Speaker 19: everything you can think of. So I actually wanted to 701 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:42,880 Speaker 19: create a chocolate that would basically fit into everyone's healthy lifestyle. 702 00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:47,920 Speaker 19: So what it actually is is a plant based chocolate 703 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 19: that supports all healthy lifestyles. You can be vegan, you 704 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 19: can be paleo, you can be whole thirty. It's soy free, 705 00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:00,360 Speaker 19: it's gluten free for those who can't tolerate blue suten 706 00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:05,040 Speaker 19: or or ciliacs, is sy free, it's it's non gmo, 707 00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:10,160 Speaker 19: it's uh made with organic ingredients, it's single origin, fair trade, 708 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:13,680 Speaker 19: and it's being to bar. So this is about really 709 00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:17,760 Speaker 19: spreading this to everyone, not just vegans. 710 00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:21,200 Speaker 7: Well, the thing about it is that I'm gonna be 711 00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:23,160 Speaker 7: honest with you. You know when I talk about it, I'm 712 00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:25,759 Speaker 7: a meat eater. I'm a guy who goes out there. 713 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:29,640 Speaker 7: I have fallen in with product like beyond meat. I love. 714 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:32,600 Speaker 7: I enjoy my beyond Me burgler. Now they've got beyond 715 00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,359 Speaker 7: Me chicken. So I'm excited about trying that out. But 716 00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:37,919 Speaker 7: then we talk about vegan and you talk about vegetarians. 717 00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:40,160 Speaker 7: So you know, I really want to get a clarification 718 00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:42,000 Speaker 7: cause I ran into a friend of mine and she 719 00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,799 Speaker 7: went over to Jr's barbecue, and she said, well, I'm 720 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:46,840 Speaker 7: a I'm a I'm a I'm a vegetarian. So what 721 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,799 Speaker 7: is the difference between a vegan and a vegetarian or 722 00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,399 Speaker 7: is there or is there a difference there? 723 00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 19: There is a difference, And I first want to start 724 00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 19: off by saying I identify with being plant based. So 725 00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:04,440 Speaker 19: a vegan is truly a person who supports animals. I 726 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:09,080 Speaker 19: mean it's a movement. So they don't eat anything as 727 00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:13,120 Speaker 19: it relates to animal products, they don't wear anything as 728 00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:18,080 Speaker 19: it to relates to animal products. They are true animal activists. 729 00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:23,720 Speaker 19: They don't even consume honey because it's produced from bees, 730 00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,320 Speaker 19: which I don't use honey in my product as well, 731 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:29,040 Speaker 19: because I want to make sure it still supports that 732 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:30,080 Speaker 19: vegan lifestyle. 733 00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,880 Speaker 3: A vegetarian is a non meat eater. 734 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:37,480 Speaker 19: However, they do consume things like cheese, They do consume 735 00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 19: things like eggs, but vegans will not consume dairy. They 736 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 19: will not consume eggs, so there is a difference. And 737 00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:48,920 Speaker 19: then there's a pescatarian, you know, and they eat fish. 738 00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:52,319 Speaker 19: So there's so many out there. But the good thing 739 00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,640 Speaker 19: about Good Girl Chocolate is whichever one you fall in, 740 00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:59,240 Speaker 19: whichever bucket you fall in, you can enjoy Good Girl 741 00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:03,920 Speaker 19: Chocolate because one hundred percent free of any animal products. 742 00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,200 Speaker 7: Well, you know, interesting thing about your brand, and I 743 00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 7: know we're talking about the Good Girl Chocolate brand right now, 744 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:12,360 Speaker 7: but you as a person that's always been about uplifting individuals, 745 00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:16,160 Speaker 7: especially empowering female. You did the book Believe in twenty 746 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:20,000 Speaker 7: seventeen with my girl Kim Cole, actress Fame of Living Single, 747 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:24,680 Speaker 7: about Open your Gifts, Gifts twenty two lessons on finding 748 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:27,960 Speaker 7: and embracing your personal power. We find so much that 749 00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:32,200 Speaker 7: is so much in the forefront of conversation, right, personal power, 750 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:35,640 Speaker 7: leading with your gifts, leading with your passions. What is 751 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,680 Speaker 7: the book about? Why did you feel the need to 752 00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:40,759 Speaker 7: do a book and then you did a book with 753 00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 7: a did the book with a very very funny actress 754 00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 7: named Kim Cole's So I want to know the basis 755 00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:52,520 Speaker 7: of your whole structure of empowering people. Why is it 756 00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:54,799 Speaker 7: so important to empower because, like you said, at the 757 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:58,600 Speaker 7: age of sixteen, you own blood pressure pills, so right there, 758 00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:00,319 Speaker 7: that means that you are the point of your life 759 00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:04,400 Speaker 7: where you need to be empowered both physically mentally. It 760 00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 7: had to be understanding that it was all right you 761 00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,640 Speaker 7: were beautiful as you are. Nobody needed to tell you 762 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:13,239 Speaker 7: how you look, to be special and things like that. 763 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:17,240 Speaker 7: So talk about the whole empowerment and embracing your personal 764 00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:18,200 Speaker 7: personal power. 765 00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:21,839 Speaker 3: I tell you what this is actually the book right here. 766 00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:22,960 Speaker 3: I don't know if you can see. 767 00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:23,520 Speaker 7: It, but I can see it. 768 00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 3: I exists, and it was so important. 769 00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,680 Speaker 19: And Kim is a dear, dear friend of mine, and 770 00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:34,680 Speaker 19: it was so important to write this chapter because I 771 00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:38,240 Speaker 19: know there are women out there that are going through 772 00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:41,839 Speaker 19: the same things that I went through. And the name 773 00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,239 Speaker 19: of my chapter is about triumph. And the name of 774 00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:46,840 Speaker 19: the chapter is are you ready to free yourself? And 775 00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:48,920 Speaker 19: let me just read you the first sentence it says, 776 00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,800 Speaker 19: I'm free, I'm finally free. 777 00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:55,520 Speaker 3: That's two sentences. Actually, are you ready to free yourself? 778 00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:59,799 Speaker 19: And triumph from weight challenges, from hormone challenges, from fibroids, 779 00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:03,680 Speaker 19: from cysts, from lack of energy, from blood pressure challenges, 780 00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:07,200 Speaker 19: from blood sugar challenges. These are all the things that 781 00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:11,319 Speaker 19: affected me. I remember that day when I was at 782 00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:14,000 Speaker 19: the doctor's office and she said that she was putting 783 00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:17,840 Speaker 19: me on a blood pressure pill. And I asked her, Okay, why, 784 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:20,440 Speaker 19: you know, why do I have to take medicine? I'm sixteen? 785 00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:24,560 Speaker 19: And she said, so you don't have a stroke at 786 00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:29,880 Speaker 19: the age of thirty. And you know, when I look back, 787 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:33,319 Speaker 19: you know, I come from the South, and we come 788 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:34,759 Speaker 19: from you know, a family of. 789 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:36,759 Speaker 3: Just rich cooking rich foods. 790 00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,759 Speaker 19: You know, we cook with back back and pork and 791 00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:42,840 Speaker 19: bacon and things like that. And when I look back, 792 00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:48,360 Speaker 19: there was an opportunity there to figure out why was 793 00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:53,000 Speaker 19: a sixteen year old having blood pressure problems. You know, 794 00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,960 Speaker 19: it couldn't be clogged dotteries. You know, I wasn't old enough. 795 00:40:56,480 --> 00:41:00,480 Speaker 19: But because things did not change, by the time I 796 00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,320 Speaker 19: was thirty, I was on. 797 00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:04,480 Speaker 3: Three different blood pressure pills. 798 00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:09,080 Speaker 19: And when you are a large child, when you're getting. 799 00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:13,239 Speaker 3: Teased about your weight, being almost three hundred pounds, being 800 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:17,239 Speaker 3: on blood pressure pills, that affects you and that just 801 00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:18,040 Speaker 3: carries on. 802 00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 19: Into your adulthood. So the self doubt, the lack of confidence. 803 00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:28,960 Speaker 19: All of that carried on into my adulthood. I majored 804 00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,800 Speaker 19: in pre med I ended up getting a master's in 805 00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:34,800 Speaker 19: health administration, but I did not go into the medical 806 00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:39,720 Speaker 19: field because I felt like a hypocrite. I felt like someone, 807 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:42,680 Speaker 19: you know, I can't tell anyone how to eat and 808 00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:45,600 Speaker 19: how to live, and here I am three hundred pounds. 809 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:49,200 Speaker 19: So I actually ended up working for a technology company 810 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:53,560 Speaker 19: for eleven years before I really started. 811 00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:55,759 Speaker 3: Having panic attacks and hormone problems. 812 00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:58,279 Speaker 19: And it was the hormone problems and being on a 813 00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:02,640 Speaker 19: cycle for three months that really really made me realize 814 00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,320 Speaker 19: and say, Okay, enough is enough. 815 00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:07,880 Speaker 3: I have got to deal with this because I want kids. 816 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:12,280 Speaker 19: And my grandmother, my mother, my aunt, I had cousins, 817 00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:18,839 Speaker 19: all have hysterectomies before the age of forty, and they 818 00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,560 Speaker 19: had kids, you know, and so of course they just 819 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:25,120 Speaker 19: followed their doctor's orders and you know, telling them, Okay, 820 00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:27,720 Speaker 19: we need to have a hysterectomy. 821 00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:31,520 Speaker 3: But I didn't want my options taken away from me. 822 00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:34,799 Speaker 19: And that's why I said, Okay, I need to go 823 00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,239 Speaker 19: back to the roots. I need to go back to 824 00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:41,360 Speaker 19: natural health. And within thirty days because my doctor basically 825 00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:45,440 Speaker 19: suggested to me surgery or more medication to fix my 826 00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:49,880 Speaker 19: hormone problems. And within thirty days of natural health and 827 00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:56,040 Speaker 19: researching it myself, I stopped the cycle and I ended 828 00:42:56,160 --> 00:43:00,560 Speaker 19: up losing over eighty pounds. And that's when I actually 829 00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:04,480 Speaker 19: went back to school to study natureopathy because there are 830 00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:08,720 Speaker 19: so many of women in our community. I'm suffering from 831 00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:12,799 Speaker 19: the estrogen dominance, suffering from the fibroids, the cysts, the 832 00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:16,520 Speaker 19: blood pressure, the blood sugar, and I wanted to let 833 00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:21,000 Speaker 19: women know through this book that there is hope, there's 834 00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,719 Speaker 19: another way. Now that doesn't mean that you can one 835 00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:28,840 Speaker 19: hundred percent get off all of your medication. Fortunately enough 836 00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:32,440 Speaker 19: I was able to, but it took some work, It 837 00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:37,880 Speaker 19: took exercise, I mean a complete lifestyle change for me. 838 00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:42,680 Speaker 7: So when if somebody said, okay, complete lifestyle change, and now, 839 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,520 Speaker 7: how do we tie good Girl chocolate into that? Because 840 00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:48,319 Speaker 7: when people hear the word good girl chocolate, they hear sweets, 841 00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:52,920 Speaker 7: they hear fact, they hear weight gain, all those things. 842 00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:54,600 Speaker 7: And so that's why I wanted people to hear your 843 00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:57,399 Speaker 7: story because when we go on these journeys and I'm 844 00:43:57,480 --> 00:43:59,719 Speaker 7: able to do all my show money making conversation I 845 00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:02,759 Speaker 7: like to be able to tie things together and why 846 00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:06,759 Speaker 7: there is a purpose behind the actual creation of this product. Now, 847 00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:10,080 Speaker 7: let's talk about the evolution of Good Girl Chocolate from 848 00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:13,520 Speaker 7: the conversation we just had about your journey of being 849 00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:17,040 Speaker 7: a sixteen year old nearly three hundred pounds, being bullied, 850 00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:21,359 Speaker 7: being ostracized, and then your family history with all your 851 00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:25,719 Speaker 7: relatives nearly an age of forty and not and you 852 00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:29,160 Speaker 7: also wanted to have a normal life. Talk about that 853 00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 7: and then into Good Girl Chocolate. And I think the 854 00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:35,840 Speaker 7: journey of our conversation would have a certain motivational tone 855 00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:38,799 Speaker 7: to it and as well as a product that we 856 00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:41,839 Speaker 7: all should buy are all considered buying. 857 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:47,040 Speaker 19: Absolutely So, like I said, I have been on a 858 00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,960 Speaker 19: diet every single day of my life, a different diet 859 00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:51,600 Speaker 19: every year of my life. 860 00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:55,239 Speaker 3: And one year, over ten years ago, I decided to 861 00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:55,799 Speaker 3: go raw. 862 00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,600 Speaker 19: And of course, when you're on a raw diet, you know, 863 00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:02,040 Speaker 19: you don't eat meat unless you're gonna eat it raw. 864 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,760 Speaker 19: You know, you don't eat cheese and dairy and things 865 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:09,160 Speaker 19: like that. So it was a truly raw diet. And 866 00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:12,600 Speaker 19: I said, okay, you know I need something sweet to eat, 867 00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:14,640 Speaker 19: you know, to really wash down. 868 00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:18,000 Speaker 7: All the raw food I'm telling you. I'm telling you 869 00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:21,200 Speaker 7: those raw diets they are good in theory, but you 870 00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:23,120 Speaker 7: got to have something to get rid of that taste. 871 00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:25,759 Speaker 3: Thank you, Yes you do. 872 00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:29,480 Speaker 19: So I started making raw chocolate. I mean seriously, I 873 00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,880 Speaker 19: would melt down cocoa butter at one hundred and twelve 874 00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:36,440 Speaker 19: degrees because when you dehydrate your food on a raw diet, 875 00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:37,960 Speaker 19: you have to keep it at that one hundred and 876 00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:41,200 Speaker 19: twelve degree temperature, so it still is a raw food. 877 00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:43,400 Speaker 19: But I would melt down my cocoa butter, you know, 878 00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:47,680 Speaker 19: mixing my coco powders and coconut oils, and I would 879 00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:51,600 Speaker 19: use organic raw agave and all of this to mix 880 00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:54,640 Speaker 19: up this chocolate. I brought bought equipment to mold the 881 00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:57,839 Speaker 19: chocolate and it just started from there. 882 00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:01,200 Speaker 3: And I kept this chocolate myself for years. 883 00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:03,640 Speaker 19: My mom loved it, and she was like, you know what, 884 00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:06,400 Speaker 19: you need to spread this chocolate to the world. 885 00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:10,600 Speaker 3: Let it ruod okay. 886 00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:15,480 Speaker 19: So back in twenty seventeen, I went to the Texas 887 00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:21,120 Speaker 19: Women's Conference and applied to present in front of QBC, 888 00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:27,719 Speaker 19: and the food buyer loved the chocolate and she said 889 00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:31,880 Speaker 19: it was actually like the best chocolate or plant based 890 00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:34,680 Speaker 19: chocolate that she had ever tasted. 891 00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:39,360 Speaker 3: And that was my confirmation that I'm onto something. 892 00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:44,319 Speaker 19: I ended up quitting my technology job and started my 893 00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:47,600 Speaker 19: own business, and by the time twenty eighteen rolled around, 894 00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:51,839 Speaker 19: I was online, I had my own packaging, and I 895 00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:55,240 Speaker 19: was selling Good Girl Chocolate. But it's called good Girl 896 00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:59,279 Speaker 19: chocolate because you can eat it every single day and 897 00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:04,040 Speaker 19: still say you've been good. So it's about clean eating. 898 00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:08,480 Speaker 3: It doesn't have the hydrogenated oils in it. The sugar 899 00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:12,200 Speaker 3: that I use is coconut sugar. It doesn't have table 900 00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:13,280 Speaker 3: sugar in it. 901 00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:17,080 Speaker 19: It's free from gluten, it's free from soy, it's single origin, 902 00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:21,160 Speaker 19: it's fair trade, so the workers are treated equally, and 903 00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:22,800 Speaker 19: we make it ourselves. 904 00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:25,640 Speaker 3: So it takes four days. That brownie batter bar that 905 00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:27,439 Speaker 3: you're eating, it takes. 906 00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:30,560 Speaker 19: Four days to make that chocolate because we actually roast 907 00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:34,200 Speaker 19: the beans ourselves and we put it into our grinders 908 00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:37,799 Speaker 19: and we grind the beans, we grind the coked Keep. 909 00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:41,520 Speaker 7: Talking Georgie's chocolate, Keep talking Good Girl flyund George's chocolate. 910 00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:42,680 Speaker 7: Come on that, that's. 911 00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:47,040 Speaker 19: Right, and it is the best chocolate ever. And let 912 00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:49,120 Speaker 19: me tell you if that one is too sweet for you, 913 00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:51,719 Speaker 19: then I'll put you in the semi sweet. I love 914 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:55,480 Speaker 19: being able to figure out what people like from the 915 00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:58,799 Speaker 19: seventy percent dark to the fifty two percent dark to 916 00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:03,280 Speaker 19: the thirty four percent dark, and just really enjoying chocolate. 917 00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:04,520 Speaker 3: You know, we have. 918 00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:07,640 Speaker 19: One life to live, and I believe in the eighty 919 00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:12,200 Speaker 19: twenty room. Anyway, you know, you eat clean eighty percent 920 00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:15,520 Speaker 19: of your your life, but that twenty percent because we 921 00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:19,200 Speaker 19: have birthdays, we have Christmases, we have Thanksgiving, and let 922 00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:22,080 Speaker 19: me tell you, I get down during those days. 923 00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:27,960 Speaker 7: But this clean, doctor tabit. I just had gallbladder survey surgery. 924 00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:30,880 Speaker 7: You know my gallbladders removement what forty? Of course that's 925 00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:34,480 Speaker 7: when you usually the symptoms of having a gallbladder issue. 926 00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:37,399 Speaker 7: Now me, eating good girl chocolate should be a good. 927 00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:41,279 Speaker 3: Thing, right, So let me tell you this. 928 00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:46,640 Speaker 19: Everything and moderation, and as a natural pathic doctor, I 929 00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:50,160 Speaker 19: do have to tell you when you do not have 930 00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:54,640 Speaker 19: a gall bladder, it's harder for you to digest facts. 931 00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:58,080 Speaker 19: And that's why for all of my clients, I recommend 932 00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:02,640 Speaker 19: a food enzyme that has life pace in it because 933 00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:05,320 Speaker 19: life pace actually helps you digest fast. 934 00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:07,640 Speaker 3: But everything no matter what. 935 00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:10,839 Speaker 19: You're eating, whether it's the beyond sausage or meat that 936 00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:15,000 Speaker 19: we're talking about. You know, eat everything in moderation. Just 937 00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:18,239 Speaker 19: because it's plant based doesn't mean that you should be 938 00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:18,960 Speaker 19: eating a. 939 00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:22,360 Speaker 3: Whole wagon full of it. A potato chip is plant based, 940 00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:26,200 Speaker 3: but you shouldn't eat the whole higher a big. 941 00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:27,440 Speaker 11: Bag of them, right right. 942 00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:29,239 Speaker 7: But and that's me, and I'm saying I'm one of 943 00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:31,400 Speaker 7: those people I eat out of control. Like when you 944 00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:34,320 Speaker 7: said we shall you can eat this every day, I went, okay. 945 00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,680 Speaker 7: But you need to get the whole story before you 946 00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:40,640 Speaker 7: start just jumping into the wagon and having a party 947 00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:43,279 Speaker 7: and destroying all the good things that can happen in 948 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:46,439 Speaker 7: your life by misinterpreting what you are trying to say 949 00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:49,200 Speaker 7: in this interview, or what anybody's ever trying to say 950 00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:53,520 Speaker 7: is about moderation. Weight loss is by moderation. Living an 951 00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:56,960 Speaker 7: uncomfortable life is moderation. They always tell you, don't overdrink, 952 00:49:57,200 --> 00:50:01,239 Speaker 7: don't over party, don't overdo it, don't overex size can 953 00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:04,319 Speaker 7: leads to knee injuries, pulled muscles. You know, people out 954 00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:06,960 Speaker 7: there they want to become young in the day by 955 00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,000 Speaker 7: going in the gym and trying to run a mile 956 00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:10,880 Speaker 7: when they only should be walking a mile instead of 957 00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:14,960 Speaker 7: running a mile. And so the whole purpose of when 958 00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:17,080 Speaker 7: I look at the whole platform of what you've done 959 00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:19,920 Speaker 7: with Good Girl Chocolate is tied to good health and 960 00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:24,600 Speaker 7: a good healthy lifestyle with moderation and a product that 961 00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,720 Speaker 7: allows you to eat. I've never used the words healthy 962 00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:32,440 Speaker 7: and mislead people, but this is a naturally sweetened it 963 00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:36,120 Speaker 7: is vegan based, and it's free of gluten, dairy, and soy, 964 00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:40,879 Speaker 7: and it's made with our GMOs. That's pretty good to me, doctor. 965 00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:42,160 Speaker 3: Thank you. 966 00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,560 Speaker 19: And I want to piggyback on what you just said, 967 00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:50,600 Speaker 19: don't use the term healthy, and I don't. I don't say, oh, 968 00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:54,880 Speaker 19: I have a healthy chocolate. What I do is I 969 00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:59,640 Speaker 19: say I have a chocolate that supports this lifestyle, that 970 00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:04,120 Speaker 19: free of the gluten, the soy, you know, the dairy, 971 00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:07,200 Speaker 19: supporting the vegan, the paleo and the whole thirty lifestyle. 972 00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:12,800 Speaker 19: And it's sweetened with coconut sugar, which is a lower 973 00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:14,040 Speaker 19: glycemic sugar. 974 00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:16,600 Speaker 3: And while we're at it, we also have sugar free. 975 00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:20,080 Speaker 19: One of the things that my my diabetics or my 976 00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:23,520 Speaker 19: ketos told me, they said, hey, you know doctor T. 977 00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:26,240 Speaker 3: We really want something free of sugar. 978 00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:28,799 Speaker 19: I understand you have the coconut sugar in it, but 979 00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:31,799 Speaker 19: we want something sugar free. So we also have a 980 00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:35,880 Speaker 19: sugar free chocolate that has xylotol from Birch, which is 981 00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:38,640 Speaker 19: the best of the best when it comes to alternative 982 00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:43,880 Speaker 19: sweeteners for the diabetic A community and for the keto community. 983 00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:47,560 Speaker 7: Now you're based in Oklahoma, and the Good Girl Chocolate 984 00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,680 Speaker 7: is based in Oklahoma. You just opened to a rick 985 00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:53,239 Speaker 7: and mortar in the Pinch Square mall in Oklahoma. And now, 986 00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:55,480 Speaker 7: doctor T, let's talk about some good things that have 987 00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:56,960 Speaker 7: happened that made you smile. 988 00:51:57,760 --> 00:51:57,960 Speaker 12: You know. 989 00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:01,359 Speaker 7: Beyonce one says she came to your rescue, but bore 990 00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:05,560 Speaker 7: her brand really came in and put some love on you. Really, 991 00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:07,799 Speaker 7: it's not really about the amount of money she gave you. 992 00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:10,279 Speaker 7: It's the brand association, don't you agree. 993 00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:16,480 Speaker 19: Absolutely, It's just and first of all that it just 994 00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:17,400 Speaker 19: felt so good. 995 00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:19,760 Speaker 3: I didn't receive an email or anything. 996 00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:24,160 Speaker 19: It was posted on social media who the grant recipients were, 997 00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:28,520 Speaker 19: and I saw my chocolate, and let me tell you 998 00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:30,480 Speaker 19: that I think I cried. 999 00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:31,840 Speaker 11: I'm serious. 1000 00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:35,640 Speaker 3: I was crying because it was just so. 1001 00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:42,759 Speaker 19: I felt so much overwhelming joy from seeing that and 1002 00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:47,520 Speaker 19: knowing that I'm onto something, I'm doing something right. 1003 00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:49,399 Speaker 3: You know, when I was invited to. 1004 00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:54,640 Speaker 19: The Grammy's Gifting Suite, you know, they tasted it first 1005 00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:57,640 Speaker 19: and said, hey, we really don't like healthy chocolate, but 1006 00:52:57,680 --> 00:52:58,960 Speaker 19: your chocolate is awesome. 1007 00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:02,240 Speaker 3: Your energy it's great. We definitely want you here. 1008 00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:07,440 Speaker 19: It's just been confirmation after confirmation and being the first 1009 00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:12,680 Speaker 19: permanently black owned business in my local mall. 1010 00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:16,840 Speaker 3: Oh man, you I'm just I'm just full of joy. 1011 00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:21,319 Speaker 3: I'm very very very grateful, and I'm just excited. I 1012 00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:23,920 Speaker 3: just celebrated a birthday too, this past weekend. 1013 00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:26,600 Speaker 19: We've been over open a week, so it was like 1014 00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:28,719 Speaker 19: the per perfect birthday gift to me. 1015 00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:31,200 Speaker 7: Well, let's let's go and talk about you know, being 1016 00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:35,400 Speaker 7: the first of anything is tied to pressure because you 1017 00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:37,360 Speaker 7: can't be the first to close. You know, you're the 1018 00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:39,840 Speaker 7: first o. So that means that you have to endure 1019 00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:45,000 Speaker 7: you know, internal mental sometimes depression. You have to deal 1020 00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:48,719 Speaker 7: with being in an environment that people can surround you 1021 00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:52,440 Speaker 7: positive people and also surround yourself with people who understand 1022 00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:55,760 Speaker 7: your dream. Talk about your network of people who support 1023 00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:58,600 Speaker 7: you and also who have enabled you to get to 1024 00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:00,560 Speaker 7: where you are today with good girls chocolate. 1025 00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:04,520 Speaker 19: You know, I tell you I would be remiss if 1026 00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:10,640 Speaker 19: I didn't say my parents first when it comes to support. 1027 00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:14,320 Speaker 19: They are my number one supporters. As a matter of fact, 1028 00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:18,520 Speaker 19: right now, it's so hard to find people to work 1029 00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:23,960 Speaker 19: right now, and my parents, who are retired, have stepped 1030 00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:27,480 Speaker 19: up and have been helping me in the store, you 1031 00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:32,920 Speaker 19: know this past week. Keep things together. But I believe 1032 00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:35,880 Speaker 19: your network is very important. You know, there's that saying 1033 00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:40,120 Speaker 19: your network is your net worth, but it really really 1034 00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:46,760 Speaker 19: is about building relationships. I am an alpha Kappa alpha woman, 1035 00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:51,440 Speaker 19: and you know I have a network from my sorority sisters, 1036 00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:54,280 Speaker 19: you know, who came together and supported me my first 1037 00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:55,720 Speaker 19: you know, week open. 1038 00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:57,200 Speaker 3: You already know. 1039 00:54:57,320 --> 00:55:00,880 Speaker 19: My good friend Kim Cole's you know, he has definitely 1040 00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:04,920 Speaker 19: opened up some amazing, amazing doors for me. 1041 00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:09,960 Speaker 3: But it's really about relationships. You know. I think your 1042 00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:13,759 Speaker 3: character and who you are is very important and people 1043 00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:14,520 Speaker 3: are going. 1044 00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:15,080 Speaker 13: To see that. 1045 00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:18,880 Speaker 3: People are going to see that uniqueness about you. And 1046 00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:22,040 Speaker 3: I'm a believer. I believe in God. 1047 00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:26,319 Speaker 19: God is first in my life and I've just been 1048 00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:30,400 Speaker 19: so blessed with people who love me, people who have 1049 00:55:30,600 --> 00:55:33,920 Speaker 19: embraced me, people who have helped me get. 1050 00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:36,719 Speaker 3: To where I am today. I am truly grateful. 1051 00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:40,640 Speaker 19: I went through the Oklahoma City Thunder Accelerator program here 1052 00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:41,800 Speaker 19: in Oklahoma. 1053 00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:44,960 Speaker 3: City, and I came out with my first investor. 1054 00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:48,480 Speaker 19: And it was that investor who helped me because I 1055 00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:52,080 Speaker 19: had to totally redo this store in Pennsquirre Mall from 1056 00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:55,120 Speaker 19: drop ceilings to electrical to equipment. 1057 00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:59,520 Speaker 3: That's fifteen thousand dollars of peace. So all of. 1058 00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:03,360 Speaker 19: That cost money. And I'm just excited. I'm excited about 1059 00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:08,120 Speaker 19: the growth. I'm excited about the wholesale opportunities that. 1060 00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:11,600 Speaker 3: Are out there that have approached me. It's just an 1061 00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:12,560 Speaker 3: exciting time. 1062 00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:17,799 Speaker 19: I'm thinking about opening up for another investor fund here 1063 00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:22,960 Speaker 19: in the fall, and it's just it's truly about relationships. 1064 00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:26,400 Speaker 19: And I'm excited about sitting here with you, talking to 1065 00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:29,960 Speaker 19: you and on your show. And I appreciate the opportunity 1066 00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:32,000 Speaker 19: and thank you so much from the bottom of my heart. 1067 00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:34,319 Speaker 7: Well, thank you for this good girl Chalkolic. First of all, 1068 00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:37,719 Speaker 7: it's gonna be real. It's a selfish motivation here. You 1069 00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:39,640 Speaker 7: give me some good I gotta talk to you about 1070 00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:42,279 Speaker 7: how good it is, and it's really I can't wait 1071 00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:45,520 Speaker 7: to get in this little this little bag of tricks 1072 00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:48,440 Speaker 7: right here, the little covered with those pecan nuts. This 1073 00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:49,960 Speaker 7: is going to be my favorite. 1074 00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:53,040 Speaker 19: Let me tell you that pecan fudge. I don't know 1075 00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:54,880 Speaker 19: if we can even let you dig on it, if 1076 00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:57,279 Speaker 19: you can dig in on it on the show, but 1077 00:56:57,440 --> 00:57:03,080 Speaker 19: that pecan fudge truffle that's in that. 1078 00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:03,560 Speaker 3: That's probably going to be your favorite. 1079 00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:07,520 Speaker 7: Well I know, but you know a rich old Rushan, 1080 00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:12,920 Speaker 7: you know, immorsels in moderation. So I'm working on this. 1081 00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:16,320 Speaker 7: I knt immediately busts open this little package here, especially 1082 00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:19,480 Speaker 7: limity just wrapping up surgery. But more importantly, just I 1083 00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:21,680 Speaker 7: wanted to tell your story. I just you know, And 1084 00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:25,280 Speaker 7: there's always a great story. There's always the product's fantastic. 1085 00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:28,560 Speaker 7: Let's let's move past that. But what made that product 1086 00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:32,560 Speaker 7: a reality? And the reality is through personal triumph. A 1087 00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:35,080 Speaker 7: reality is trying to change not only your lives, but 1088 00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:38,000 Speaker 7: other people alives through your empowerment. And it started with 1089 00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:40,840 Speaker 7: you with your book. It started when you're sixteen years old. 1090 00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:43,160 Speaker 7: It started with you not accepting the fact that this 1091 00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:44,840 Speaker 7: is going to be your life and you didn't want 1092 00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:47,160 Speaker 7: it to be your life. It started through your education. 1093 00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:49,640 Speaker 7: It started through you realizing that the way you look 1094 00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:52,040 Speaker 7: was limited in your dreams and you had to change that. 1095 00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:55,440 Speaker 7: But more importantly, doctor Carr, your your product is amazing. 1096 00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:58,560 Speaker 7: Don't let the word vegan run you away from this product. 1097 00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:02,040 Speaker 7: It is what it is, but it's for you. It 1098 00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:05,240 Speaker 7: tastes good. Everybody knows I'm a dessert nut. I am 1099 00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:08,080 Speaker 7: a foodie. When I say something is good, and you 1100 00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:10,640 Speaker 7: should stamp that as a reality. I do not allow 1101 00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:12,640 Speaker 7: people to come on my show and then, you know, 1102 00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:14,600 Speaker 7: eat their food and then go around the corner and 1103 00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:16,800 Speaker 7: split it out. That's not how it works on money 1104 00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:20,840 Speaker 7: making conversation. This is fantastic and I will be dying 1105 00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:23,080 Speaker 7: on this this weekend. Thank you very much for coming 1106 00:58:23,120 --> 00:58:24,320 Speaker 7: on those show, doctor Carr. 1107 00:58:25,520 --> 00:58:26,680 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. 1108 00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:29,400 Speaker 19: Thank you so much for the opportunity I have enjoyed 1109 00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:32,800 Speaker 19: this time. I love talking about health and wellness. I 1110 00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:35,720 Speaker 19: love talking about good Girl chocolate, and I love to 1111 00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:37,479 Speaker 19: inspire and empower women. 1112 00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:39,640 Speaker 7: Well, you did it all in this interview. I'd like 1113 00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:41,320 Speaker 7: to believe we hit all those touch We hit all 1114 00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:42,080 Speaker 7: those touch points. 1115 00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:47,080 Speaker 15: Okay, we will be right back with more money. Making 1116 00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:49,600 Speaker 15: conversations with your host, Rashaun McDonald. 1117 00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:54,720 Speaker 20: There's a monumental shift empower at work. Employees are speaking up. 1118 00:58:54,920 --> 00:59:00,040 Speaker 20: Turnover is rising, salaries are increasing, hiring is tough, and 1119 00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:04,880 Speaker 20: burnout is real. It's time to unleash growth. 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You 1129 00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:37,760 Speaker 2: gotta be extra careful with things like burning yard waste. 1130 00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:41,560 Speaker 2: After all, wildfires can start anywhere, even in your neck 1131 00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:44,400 Speaker 2: of the woods. Go to Smokeybear dot com to learn 1132 00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:47,200 Speaker 2: more about wildfire prevention, brought to you by the US 1133 00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:49,880 Speaker 2: Forest Service, your state forester, and the ad Council. 1134 00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:54,080 Speaker 21: And we're live here outside the Perez family home, just 1135 00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:54,920 Speaker 21: waiting for the. 1136 00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:57,200 Speaker 10: And there they go, almost on time. 1137 00:59:57,240 --> 00:59:59,920 Speaker 21: This morning, Mom is coming off the front door straw 1138 01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:02,640 Speaker 21: with a double arm kid carry. Looks like dad has 1139 01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:05,880 Speaker 21: the bags. Daughter is bringing up the rear. Oh, but 1140 01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:11,440 Speaker 21: the diaper bag wasn't closed. Diapers and toys are everywhere. Ooh, 1141 01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:14,920 Speaker 21: but mom has just nailed the perfect car seat buckle 1142 01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:18,080 Speaker 21: for the toddler. And now the eldest daughter, who looks 1143 01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:21,080 Speaker 21: to be about nine or ten, has secured herself. 1144 01:00:20,680 --> 01:00:21,520 Speaker 20: In the booster seat. 1145 01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:25,360 Speaker 21: Dad zips the bag closed and they're off. Ah, but 1146 01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:27,919 Speaker 21: looks like mom doesn't realize her coffee cup is still 1147 01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:28,800 Speaker 21: on the roof of the. 1148 01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:30,840 Speaker 17: Car and there it goes. 1149 01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:34,920 Speaker 10: Oh, that's a shame that mug was a fan favorite. 1150 01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:37,640 Speaker 6: Don't sweat the small stuff, just nail the big stuff, 1151 01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:39,520 Speaker 6: like making sure your gates are buckle correctly in the 1152 01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:42,200 Speaker 6: right seat for their agent's eyes. Learn more at NHTSA 1153 01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:46,520 Speaker 6: dot gov slash the Right Seat visits NHDSA dot gov 1154 01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:49,320 Speaker 6: slash the Right Seat Brought to you by NITZA and 1155 01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:50,040 Speaker 6: the Ad Council. 1156 01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:55,600 Speaker 18: You are now tuned into the money making conversations Minute 1157 01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:57,720 Speaker 18: of Inspiration with Rashaan McDonald. 1158 01:00:57,760 --> 01:01:02,480 Speaker 7: I recently interviewed Gina Yashari, a British comedian of Nigerian heritage. 1159 01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:05,640 Speaker 7: She's the co creator court ejacutive producer, writer and actress 1160 01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:09,880 Speaker 7: on the hit CBS series Bob Hart Abbashola. Gina is 1161 01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:13,360 Speaker 7: releasing her first book, a memoir, Cat Handy, which chronicles 1162 01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:16,560 Speaker 7: her odyssey to get to America and break into Hollywood. 1163 01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:18,920 Speaker 13: I wrote the book convidually. It started off as just 1164 01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:20,120 Speaker 13: on Instagram. 1165 01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:22,959 Speaker 22: There was a hashtag foe back Thursdays, where you post 1166 01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:26,120 Speaker 22: old pictures, and I was posting old pictures and writing 1167 01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:28,120 Speaker 22: the story behind the pictures. So I post a picture 1168 01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:31,640 Speaker 22: and write an elaborate post explaining the history behind the picture. 1169 01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,560 Speaker 22: And people were really interested in saying, oh my god, 1170 01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:36,840 Speaker 22: your story is so good, why don't you write a book? 1171 01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:39,560 Speaker 22: So I started keeping those and I wanted to talk 1172 01:01:39,600 --> 01:01:42,080 Speaker 22: about my history because people don't seem to realize that 1173 01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:44,560 Speaker 22: the UK started safely. 1174 01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:47,600 Speaker 7: If you want to hear the full interview with Gina Yasharade, 1175 01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:51,040 Speaker 7: it's available on money Making Conversations dot com. 1176 01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:56,240 Speaker 15: Welcome back to money Making Conversations with your host Rashan McDonald. 1177 01:01:56,600 --> 01:02:00,000 Speaker 7: Welcome to Money Making Conversation. I am your host, Rashan McDonald. 1178 01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:02,360 Speaker 7: I always tell people every week, you know it's time 1179 01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:05,320 Speaker 7: to stop reading other people's success stories to start writing 1180 01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:08,440 Speaker 7: your own. People always talking about gifts and passions. If 1181 01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:10,520 Speaker 7: you have a gift, lead with your gift and don't 1182 01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:14,000 Speaker 7: let your age, friends, family, coworkers stop you from planning 1183 01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:16,360 Speaker 7: or living your dreams. The people I bring on money 1184 01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:19,840 Speaker 7: making conversations or celebrity CEOs, entrepreneurs, and people I like 1185 01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:22,920 Speaker 7: to call industry decision makers. My next guest is what 1186 01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:25,960 Speaker 7: I like to believe is truly an industry decision maker. 1187 01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:28,720 Speaker 7: His name is Kurt Mays. He is the CEO of 1188 01:02:28,840 --> 01:02:33,200 Speaker 7: Forgotten Harvest, one of Michigan's top nonprofit organizations and one 1189 01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:37,520 Speaker 7: of the nation's premier food rescue organizations. Forgotten Harvest was 1190 01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:41,840 Speaker 7: formed in nineteen ninety to fight two problems, hunger and waste. 1191 01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:45,520 Speaker 7: Forgotten Harvest rescue forty one point five million pounds of 1192 01:02:45,560 --> 01:02:49,960 Speaker 7: food last year by collecting surplus prepared and perishable food 1193 01:02:50,000 --> 01:02:53,880 Speaker 7: from eight hundred sources that include grocery stores, fruit and 1194 01:02:53,960 --> 01:03:01,240 Speaker 7: vegetable markets, restaurants, caterers, dairies, farmers, wholesale food distributors, wholesale 1195 01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:05,800 Speaker 7: food distributors, and other Department approved sources. This donated food 1196 01:03:06,120 --> 01:03:09,400 Speaker 7: which would otherwise go to waste and just deliver free 1197 01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:11,920 Speaker 7: of charge to more than two hundred and eighty emergency 1198 01:03:11,920 --> 01:03:15,160 Speaker 7: food providers in the metro Detroit area. He's on the 1199 01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:18,400 Speaker 7: show to talk about the purpose but also his purpose 1200 01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:22,840 Speaker 7: please work with the money making conversations, my man, Kurt Maids, 1201 01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:25,520 Speaker 7: thank you. 1202 01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:28,600 Speaker 13: Sir Wesi Donald, thank you for having me on the show. 1203 01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:29,320 Speaker 13: This designer. 1204 01:03:29,640 --> 01:03:31,920 Speaker 7: Hey, Cur, I've had to put you out there. Man, 1205 01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:32,920 Speaker 7: you change your lives. 1206 01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:35,840 Speaker 13: Brother, A man just trying every day to just do 1207 01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:36,919 Speaker 13: what we can to help. Man. 1208 01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:40,920 Speaker 7: We know, Curry when I interview individuals like you, because 1209 01:03:40,960 --> 01:03:44,680 Speaker 7: you're such forward thinkers and you're all about what you 1210 01:03:45,280 --> 01:03:48,080 Speaker 7: can do more, what you can do better? What does 1211 01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:50,640 Speaker 7: that start? I'm gonna delve into you a little bit. 1212 01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:53,760 Speaker 7: Where does that start for you? Who initiated this type 1213 01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:56,560 Speaker 7: of behavior or thought process in your life? 1214 01:03:57,880 --> 01:03:59,960 Speaker 13: It comes from my home, It comes from my moms. 1215 01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:01,520 Speaker 13: It comes from the way I grew up. 1216 01:04:01,680 --> 01:04:05,160 Speaker 23: You know, my mother, my family are from Jamaica and 1217 01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:09,880 Speaker 23: really started with like you know, third world country property 1218 01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:12,880 Speaker 23: just a different level. You know, my mom didn't have 1219 01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:16,080 Speaker 23: her first pair of shoes until she actually had to 1220 01:04:16,080 --> 01:04:18,520 Speaker 23: go to school, right, So you know, it's just kind 1221 01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:23,120 Speaker 23: of like having that family background of people that started 1222 01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:27,720 Speaker 23: so far away from their dreams and ambitions and just 1223 01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:31,680 Speaker 23: taking those one day at a time steps towards like progress. 1224 01:04:31,880 --> 01:04:32,800 Speaker 13: It's something that I. 1225 01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:37,200 Speaker 23: Lived in, lived around my whole life and realizing the 1226 01:04:37,840 --> 01:04:40,040 Speaker 23: gift and the blessing that. 1227 01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:43,240 Speaker 13: I had to be, you know, in America for them. 1228 01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:45,480 Speaker 23: To make the sacrifice the day that did to actually 1229 01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:48,400 Speaker 23: I was born here to be able to actually realize 1230 01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:51,960 Speaker 23: that every opportunity that I had was an extension of 1231 01:04:52,040 --> 01:04:54,480 Speaker 23: the dreams that they have in themselves. So it was 1232 01:04:54,560 --> 01:04:57,160 Speaker 23: always instilled in me to actually stay on the right 1233 01:04:57,200 --> 01:05:02,440 Speaker 23: path and be patient about achieving goals because nothing comes, 1234 01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:05,320 Speaker 23: you know, overnight, So it really just came from home 1235 01:05:05,400 --> 01:05:06,520 Speaker 23: and how I was raised. 1236 01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:10,760 Speaker 7: Well, you know that's important because it shapes your vision. 1237 01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:15,080 Speaker 7: Like I said, my service was really introduced when I 1238 01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:17,440 Speaker 7: was in college at the University of Houston, and that 1239 01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:20,960 Speaker 7: players to Magasi five fraternity and all fraternities there as 1240 01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:24,000 Speaker 7: are service based organization. If anybody doesn't know anything about that, 1241 01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:26,080 Speaker 7: that's what they really are. And that's what I really 1242 01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:29,760 Speaker 7: got into community service given you know, raising funds for 1243 01:05:29,880 --> 01:05:34,080 Speaker 7: local community activists organizations, donating food I mean we should 1244 01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:37,840 Speaker 7: give away government cheese, was givaway water, all those things 1245 01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:39,880 Speaker 7: and seeing how the people react. I remember, man, when 1246 01:05:39,920 --> 01:05:41,800 Speaker 7: we had when we loaded up that truck, it was 1247 01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:43,680 Speaker 7: giving where that government chiefe. Man, it was a line 1248 01:05:43,720 --> 01:05:47,600 Speaker 7: around the block. And so the need is real, and 1249 01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:48,959 Speaker 7: so let's talk about that need. 1250 01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:53,360 Speaker 13: Kirk. Well, you know it starts with a. 1251 01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:58,120 Speaker 23: Moment where people have to realize that they can't do 1252 01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:01,120 Speaker 23: it on their own, and they got to actually figure 1253 01:06:01,120 --> 01:06:03,959 Speaker 23: out who they can trust in that moment of vulnerability 1254 01:06:04,640 --> 01:06:07,600 Speaker 23: to get what they need, but also try to walk 1255 01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:10,360 Speaker 23: away with enough energy and time so they can actually 1256 01:06:10,360 --> 01:06:12,840 Speaker 23: work on the root cause, which is how do I 1257 01:06:12,920 --> 01:06:14,560 Speaker 23: make sure I don't I. 1258 01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:15,720 Speaker 13: Don't have to deal with this again. 1259 01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:19,280 Speaker 23: And you know, in our lives, we'd be surprised how 1260 01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:22,160 Speaker 23: many times people fall into that one scenario where it's 1261 01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:25,200 Speaker 23: like I can't do it by myself. Whether it's a 1262 01:06:25,240 --> 01:06:28,800 Speaker 23: corporation that's doing major layoffs, whether it's the government shutdown 1263 01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:32,560 Speaker 23: that we've seen, the pandemic, or just the regular cycles 1264 01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:35,880 Speaker 23: of our economy that are changing every day from. 1265 01:06:35,680 --> 01:06:37,120 Speaker 13: Local to global. 1266 01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:43,960 Speaker 23: Right, so we see in our work, unfortunately, the lines 1267 01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:48,120 Speaker 23: wrapped around the corner every day in multiple places. So 1268 01:06:48,840 --> 01:06:54,320 Speaker 23: the issue of human need is persistent, it's constant, and 1269 01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:57,320 Speaker 23: unfortunately it's more dynamic than just being able to put 1270 01:06:57,360 --> 01:06:58,400 Speaker 23: food in a place for. 1271 01:06:58,360 --> 01:06:59,120 Speaker 13: People to get it. 1272 01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:03,720 Speaker 23: Got to think we got to really come together and 1273 01:07:03,760 --> 01:07:05,760 Speaker 23: think about the ways that we can help each other, 1274 01:07:05,840 --> 01:07:09,360 Speaker 23: even before people asks, so that we can help, you know, 1275 01:07:09,480 --> 01:07:12,760 Speaker 23: stam some of these gaps that people have and sometimes 1276 01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:16,600 Speaker 23: they don't say anything until it's too bad. It's worse 1277 01:07:16,640 --> 01:07:17,360 Speaker 23: than it should have been. 1278 01:07:18,360 --> 01:07:21,960 Speaker 13: And if we can work together and be that safety 1279 01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:22,720 Speaker 13: net for each. 1280 01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:25,600 Speaker 23: Other, we really can do a lot to reduce the 1281 01:07:25,640 --> 01:07:28,040 Speaker 23: pain that a lot of people are actually suffering through quiety. 1282 01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:31,240 Speaker 7: But let's talk about that because when you said that 1283 01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:33,960 Speaker 7: people are wrapped around the building, you know, let's go 1284 01:07:34,040 --> 01:07:36,479 Speaker 7: back to twenty twenty when this country was shut down. 1285 01:07:37,080 --> 01:07:40,600 Speaker 7: Restaurants could even do any business, and so you get 1286 01:07:40,800 --> 01:07:42,880 Speaker 7: a lot of your food from these type of what 1287 01:07:42,960 --> 01:07:45,960 Speaker 7: they say, prepared or preperishable food, and one of the 1288 01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:50,240 Speaker 7: things is restaurant caterers, you know, farmers, wholesale and food distributors. 1289 01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:52,680 Speaker 7: Walk us through that moment right there in time where 1290 01:07:52,720 --> 01:07:55,360 Speaker 7: you had a system in place where you did business 1291 01:07:55,400 --> 01:07:58,000 Speaker 7: with and retrieving this type of food. Then when the 1292 01:07:58,040 --> 01:08:00,280 Speaker 7: country got set down shut down in twenty two want 1293 01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:03,120 Speaker 7: to do the COVID, how did that dynamic change and 1294 01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:05,560 Speaker 7: how did you walk through the process and dealing with 1295 01:08:05,600 --> 01:08:08,320 Speaker 7: companies now who are not even making money, but now 1296 01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:09,960 Speaker 7: you need the food that they're offering. 1297 01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:12,960 Speaker 23: Yeah, so that's a good that's a good point. So 1298 01:08:13,120 --> 01:08:14,960 Speaker 23: let me just kind of level set a little bit 1299 01:08:15,000 --> 01:08:17,559 Speaker 23: on how the whole system is set up for us 1300 01:08:17,560 --> 01:08:21,439 Speaker 23: and how we kind of approached it first. Over the 1301 01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:25,480 Speaker 23: years that we've become more dynamic and have more capacity 1302 01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:28,600 Speaker 23: to serve our community, we actually forgotten harvest of this. 1303 01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:31,960 Speaker 13: For instance, at the time that that pandemic went into. 1304 01:08:31,760 --> 01:08:35,200 Speaker 23: Play, our largest sources of food coming from places like 1305 01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:40,439 Speaker 23: grocery stores, farmers, food manufacturers like Canagra, and the places 1306 01:08:40,479 --> 01:08:41,840 Speaker 23: where the food getting warehouse. 1307 01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:44,800 Speaker 13: And we have a farm of our own. 1308 01:08:45,240 --> 01:08:48,680 Speaker 23: So when you think about the actual prepared foods, the 1309 01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:54,479 Speaker 23: stuff that's already cooked, we actually specialized and that other 1310 01:08:54,520 --> 01:08:56,640 Speaker 23: stuff I just talked about. And then we have some 1311 01:08:56,680 --> 01:09:01,439 Speaker 23: select partners like certain restaurant groups like the casinos as well, uh, 1312 01:09:01,560 --> 01:09:05,080 Speaker 23: you know Tiger Stadium when they when they didn't finish 1313 01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:06,120 Speaker 23: with all the hot dogs. 1314 01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:08,800 Speaker 13: We go get those, but because of the food safety. 1315 01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:12,639 Speaker 23: Parameters that we want to put in place, we didn't 1316 01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:15,759 Speaker 23: really deal with a lion's share. 1317 01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:16,439 Speaker 13: Of pair of food. 1318 01:09:16,720 --> 01:09:20,160 Speaker 23: Yes, now, when when the restaurants shut down because of 1319 01:09:20,200 --> 01:09:23,519 Speaker 23: the pandemic, we do have a capacity to deal with that, 1320 01:09:23,600 --> 01:09:25,600 Speaker 23: and we had to make that adjustment so that we 1321 01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:28,040 Speaker 23: could actually go get the stuff that was actually going 1322 01:09:28,120 --> 01:09:30,479 Speaker 23: to go to waste because the restaurants couldn't get it 1323 01:09:30,479 --> 01:09:31,200 Speaker 23: out to the community. 1324 01:09:31,240 --> 01:09:32,840 Speaker 13: So there was a small flipping. 1325 01:09:32,560 --> 01:09:36,360 Speaker 23: Time where we got a bunch of the restaurants rations 1326 01:09:36,400 --> 01:09:38,759 Speaker 23: and got that back out to the community. Right now, 1327 01:09:39,000 --> 01:09:41,720 Speaker 23: our typical way of doing things, as I mentioned, is 1328 01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:46,320 Speaker 23: our trucks leave our daily uh, the daily picture of 1329 01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:51,200 Speaker 23: forgotten harvest is our trucks leave our warehouse and metro 1330 01:09:51,240 --> 01:09:54,320 Speaker 23: detroited every day and they go out on routes to 1331 01:09:54,360 --> 01:09:59,400 Speaker 23: go pick up food from dedicated grocery store partners. And 1332 01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:01,680 Speaker 23: then after they go hit about twelve to fifteen to 1333 01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:04,000 Speaker 23: those grocery store partners, they didn't turn that food back 1334 01:10:04,040 --> 01:10:07,640 Speaker 23: around and drop it off at some of the community organizations, 1335 01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:11,400 Speaker 23: the churches, the senior centers throughout the community. In order 1336 01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:14,720 Speaker 23: for those organizations and turn back around and then redistributed 1337 01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:17,559 Speaker 23: for folks that need in the community at our home 1338 01:10:17,640 --> 01:10:21,680 Speaker 23: warehouse while things are coming in from farmers and manufacturers 1339 01:10:21,680 --> 01:10:22,400 Speaker 23: and things like that. 1340 01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:24,280 Speaker 13: We have about sixteen thousand. 1341 01:10:24,040 --> 01:10:28,120 Speaker 23: Volunteers a year that help us with actually sorting through things, 1342 01:10:28,160 --> 01:10:30,160 Speaker 23: making sure we separate the good for the bad, but 1343 01:10:30,240 --> 01:10:32,840 Speaker 23: also break down things like the onions and tomatoes and 1344 01:10:32,840 --> 01:10:35,639 Speaker 23: corn into smaller bundles so that we're not just taking 1345 01:10:35,640 --> 01:10:38,840 Speaker 23: big galers or big boxes to the community and dropping 1346 01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:40,960 Speaker 23: them off. We're actually dropping them off, but they're also 1347 01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:44,760 Speaker 23: already kind of unitized, so people who walk through the 1348 01:10:44,760 --> 01:10:47,479 Speaker 23: line can actually get their portion for themselves. So it's 1349 01:10:47,560 --> 01:10:50,280 Speaker 23: kind of a dynamic operation going on a daily basis. 1350 01:10:50,320 --> 01:10:52,320 Speaker 13: As we walked into COVID, we had to realize a 1351 01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:53,240 Speaker 13: few things. 1352 01:10:53,320 --> 01:10:57,360 Speaker 23: Number One, our distribution network was going to potentially be 1353 01:10:57,400 --> 01:11:01,200 Speaker 23: greatly affective because if you know how the actual emergency 1354 01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:05,360 Speaker 23: food distribution system is set up throughout our communities, it's 1355 01:11:05,479 --> 01:11:08,439 Speaker 23: largely done by volunteers. You know that church group that's 1356 01:11:08,439 --> 01:11:11,240 Speaker 23: actually giving out the food, that's probably you know Grandma 1357 01:11:11,280 --> 01:11:12,000 Speaker 23: and the church Ms. 1358 01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:13,800 Speaker 13: Johnson and the church that says, you know, this is 1359 01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:15,040 Speaker 13: something that's passionate. 1360 01:11:14,760 --> 01:11:17,120 Speaker 23: For her and she wants to do that, So just 1361 01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:19,720 Speaker 23: take two hours out her Wednesday to give away that 1362 01:11:19,800 --> 01:11:22,879 Speaker 23: free food that gets sourced for however that particular location 1363 01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:26,160 Speaker 23: does it. There's a lot of situations like that. That's 1364 01:11:26,160 --> 01:11:30,479 Speaker 23: actually the safety net for our communities. And when COVID 1365 01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:34,240 Speaker 23: came in that those were vulnerable populations, yes, with with 1366 01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:37,760 Speaker 23: very little infrastructure for sustainability, and a lot of those 1367 01:11:37,800 --> 01:11:40,800 Speaker 23: folks weren't getting paid so they were volunteer roles. 1368 01:11:40,840 --> 01:11:41,840 Speaker 13: So we knew that there was. 1369 01:11:41,800 --> 01:11:46,840 Speaker 23: Gonna be some real instability in our distribution network. A 1370 01:11:46,880 --> 01:11:49,879 Speaker 23: lot of our volunteers it's the same sixteen thousand volunteers 1371 01:11:49,920 --> 01:11:50,200 Speaker 23: a year. 1372 01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:52,679 Speaker 13: We got some great corporate relationships, so. 1373 01:11:52,600 --> 01:11:55,400 Speaker 23: Our volunteers come in bundles of thirty and fifty at 1374 01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:57,840 Speaker 23: the time, because we got corporate corporations that are sending 1375 01:11:57,840 --> 01:12:00,240 Speaker 23: people to us on a daily basis for corporate raation 1376 01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:03,559 Speaker 23: shut down and start actually sending people to work from home. 1377 01:12:04,080 --> 01:12:08,800 Speaker 23: Changing the parameters around how volunteerism and just how people 1378 01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:11,040 Speaker 23: were going to be deployed into the community. We had 1379 01:12:11,080 --> 01:12:13,080 Speaker 23: to figure out what we're going to do about volunteers. 1380 01:12:13,160 --> 01:12:15,679 Speaker 23: But that's a core way of what we do. Forgotten 1381 01:12:15,680 --> 01:12:18,599 Speaker 23: Harvest distributes to about fifty million pounds of food last 1382 01:12:18,640 --> 01:12:21,120 Speaker 23: year to our community and helped about a million people. 1383 01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:23,639 Speaker 13: We can't do that with the eighty staff and ninety 1384 01:12:23,680 --> 01:12:24,720 Speaker 13: five staff that we had. 1385 01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:27,400 Speaker 23: We need our volunteers, so we also had to come 1386 01:12:27,479 --> 01:12:28,680 Speaker 23: up with a way to address that. 1387 01:12:29,439 --> 01:12:32,720 Speaker 13: In addition to all of that, in the working spaces 1388 01:12:32,760 --> 01:12:34,080 Speaker 13: that we have, we had some. 1389 01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:36,720 Speaker 23: Things that we had to consider, like ppe like the 1390 01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:40,559 Speaker 23: distance between how far people could be when we actually 1391 01:12:40,560 --> 01:12:42,880 Speaker 23: give away the food, what's the best ways to give 1392 01:12:42,880 --> 01:12:46,320 Speaker 23: away the food so that everybody is actually kept protected, 1393 01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:49,160 Speaker 23: And when we're actually doing our side of the processing, 1394 01:12:49,479 --> 01:12:52,200 Speaker 23: how was our space going to be transformed? So in 1395 01:12:52,280 --> 01:12:54,360 Speaker 23: order to address these things, we did a couple of things. 1396 01:12:54,360 --> 01:12:56,000 Speaker 23: The first thing we did is we came up a 1397 01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:59,200 Speaker 23: way to actually quickly distribute the food to the community 1398 01:12:59,439 --> 01:13:02,000 Speaker 23: with the system that we actually ran in controlling our 1399 01:13:02,040 --> 01:13:05,440 Speaker 23: own instead of actually depending on our typical system. 1400 01:13:05,439 --> 01:13:08,000 Speaker 13: Of going to our community distribution partner. 1401 01:13:08,160 --> 01:13:10,600 Speaker 7: And that was about because of COVID. Right, that. 1402 01:13:12,120 --> 01:13:14,439 Speaker 13: Was because of COVID. Now we have already been kind 1403 01:13:14,439 --> 01:13:15,519 Speaker 13: of working on. 1404 01:13:16,960 --> 01:13:19,599 Speaker 23: A model that we were actually as a team kind 1405 01:13:19,600 --> 01:13:21,679 Speaker 23: of testing on our own We were kind of doing 1406 01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:24,680 Speaker 23: our own little R and D, and it turns out 1407 01:13:24,720 --> 01:13:26,559 Speaker 23: that that little thing that we were working on was 1408 01:13:26,560 --> 01:13:28,400 Speaker 23: the exact thing that we needed to do in order 1409 01:13:28,439 --> 01:13:31,040 Speaker 23: to address that particular hole, which was how do we 1410 01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:34,959 Speaker 23: actually put distribution mechanisms out there to get to the community, 1411 01:13:35,479 --> 01:13:38,680 Speaker 23: knowing that the whole distribution network that we had in 1412 01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:42,080 Speaker 23: place will probably shut down. And what we did for 1413 01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:45,640 Speaker 23: that was we set up what we call our mobile pantry, but. 1414 01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:48,240 Speaker 13: We basically go and to deployed one of. 1415 01:13:48,160 --> 01:13:52,240 Speaker 23: Those fifty three foot refrigerated trucks into our community with 1416 01:13:52,439 --> 01:13:55,160 Speaker 23: volunteers and it serves as at that stag unit. 1417 01:13:55,520 --> 01:13:59,120 Speaker 13: We put all the stuff on the parking lot on 1418 01:13:59,200 --> 01:14:00,439 Speaker 13: a pallette. 1419 01:14:00,040 --> 01:14:02,679 Speaker 23: And we had role of distributions with the community coming 1420 01:14:02,680 --> 01:14:04,880 Speaker 23: through in their cars and we were able to put 1421 01:14:04,920 --> 01:14:08,320 Speaker 23: stuff in the trunks. We had to go from fishing 1422 01:14:08,320 --> 01:14:10,400 Speaker 23: with a net, so to speak, to fishing with the 1423 01:14:10,439 --> 01:14:11,160 Speaker 23: hook again with. 1424 01:14:11,320 --> 01:14:13,000 Speaker 13: Volunteers and calling one at a time. 1425 01:14:13,360 --> 01:14:16,960 Speaker 23: So we put partnerships in place with some of our 1426 01:14:16,960 --> 01:14:19,200 Speaker 23: community partners so we can get the volunteers and be 1427 01:14:19,320 --> 01:14:22,080 Speaker 23: specific about how we did that. Were really in the 1428 01:14:22,120 --> 01:14:23,920 Speaker 23: middle of all of that, really had to pause that 1429 01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:27,320 Speaker 23: I had to the team had to really get serious 1430 01:14:27,360 --> 01:14:30,800 Speaker 23: about trying to get to every partner we could get ppe. 1431 01:14:33,439 --> 01:14:34,040 Speaker 13: Right quick, Kirk. 1432 01:14:34,479 --> 01:14:37,080 Speaker 7: The whole process of what you're talking about, you know, 1433 01:14:37,120 --> 01:14:40,160 Speaker 7: it's fear you know, COVID because like I said, plus Michigan, 1434 01:14:40,200 --> 01:14:42,280 Speaker 7: in the state of Michigan. I'm talking to Kirk Made. 1435 01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:45,320 Speaker 7: He's the CEO of Forgotten the Harvest. UH runs one 1436 01:14:45,360 --> 01:14:50,200 Speaker 7: of the Michigan's top nonprofit organizations where Premier rescue food organization. 1437 01:14:50,320 --> 01:14:52,200 Speaker 7: This is a key in this conversation. Food that will 1438 01:14:52,240 --> 01:14:55,160 Speaker 7: be perishable food that we'll be thrown away, he repurposes 1439 01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:57,120 Speaker 7: it and it gives it to people in need, and 1440 01:14:57,160 --> 01:15:00,320 Speaker 7: it's safe food that's being be repurposes and delivered free 1441 01:15:00,320 --> 01:15:02,680 Speaker 7: of charge. That's what we're talking about. It's not only 1442 01:15:02,720 --> 01:15:05,360 Speaker 7: happens there, but there are other organizations in the in 1443 01:15:05,360 --> 01:15:07,240 Speaker 7: the state of America, in this world that does that 1444 01:15:07,320 --> 01:15:10,880 Speaker 7: as well. But we're talking to Curt Made right here. Hey, Kurt, 1445 01:15:10,920 --> 01:15:12,720 Speaker 7: I wanted to talk slow down just a little bit 1446 01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:15,599 Speaker 7: because the ready made food that you was getting from 1447 01:15:15,640 --> 01:15:19,000 Speaker 7: this restaurant played a role because that food went to 1448 01:15:19,080 --> 01:15:23,280 Speaker 7: certain individuals or certain groups. What happened there when you 1449 01:15:23,280 --> 01:15:26,160 Speaker 7: didn't have the ready made food anymore to be given 1450 01:15:26,240 --> 01:15:29,240 Speaker 7: out to these certain groups of individuals that needed or 1451 01:15:29,439 --> 01:15:31,160 Speaker 7: was expecting it five days a week. 1452 01:15:32,000 --> 01:15:34,920 Speaker 13: You know, we relied on some of our resistant relationships. 1453 01:15:35,280 --> 01:15:37,840 Speaker 23: We were all at that point, we realized that we 1454 01:15:37,960 --> 01:15:40,519 Speaker 23: had to change the way we looked at bringing in 1455 01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:43,960 Speaker 23: our full supply, so our supply chain partnerships had to actually. 1456 01:15:43,840 --> 01:15:46,160 Speaker 13: Pivot on the dime so instead of. 1457 01:15:46,360 --> 01:15:47,760 Speaker 23: You know, a lot of the food came from the 1458 01:15:47,760 --> 01:15:50,680 Speaker 23: grocery store, and grocery store shelles was clear, so what 1459 01:15:50,720 --> 01:15:53,960 Speaker 23: we was going to do. So we have these relationships 1460 01:15:54,000 --> 01:15:56,639 Speaker 23: with a lot of food producers and food manufacturers, so 1461 01:15:56,680 --> 01:15:59,640 Speaker 23: we started to actually approach some of our partners to 1462 01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:02,479 Speaker 23: buy the food because we knew we needed to actually 1463 01:16:02,760 --> 01:16:05,240 Speaker 23: start getting out here and actually making sure that we 1464 01:16:05,240 --> 01:16:05,599 Speaker 23: were there. 1465 01:16:05,640 --> 01:16:06,920 Speaker 13: We were on the ground with food. 1466 01:16:07,040 --> 01:16:09,120 Speaker 23: So there was a portion of time where I had 1467 01:16:09,160 --> 01:16:11,639 Speaker 23: to get a poogo from our board to be able 1468 01:16:11,680 --> 01:16:14,040 Speaker 23: to actually go into our cash reserves up to a 1469 01:16:14,080 --> 01:16:17,000 Speaker 23: million dollars so that I could actually be able to 1470 01:16:17,080 --> 01:16:19,639 Speaker 23: purchase food so that we could actually feel the gas 1471 01:16:19,680 --> 01:16:22,760 Speaker 23: we needed to feel in case we couldn't get the 1472 01:16:22,800 --> 01:16:25,479 Speaker 23: food from the food manufacturers and at the same or 1473 01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:27,880 Speaker 23: from the community the way we were getting it, and 1474 01:16:27,920 --> 01:16:30,320 Speaker 23: at the same time we started actually putting the word 1475 01:16:30,320 --> 01:16:33,040 Speaker 23: out to people. You know what, man I got to say, 1476 01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:35,559 Speaker 23: it's such a blessing. We never had to dip into 1477 01:16:35,600 --> 01:16:38,680 Speaker 23: that million dollars to buy the food. We did have 1478 01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:41,360 Speaker 23: to buy food, but we got food that was coming 1479 01:16:41,400 --> 01:16:44,400 Speaker 23: in from places that we didn't even expect. We had 1480 01:16:44,439 --> 01:16:46,599 Speaker 23: partners that actually stepped up to make sure that we 1481 01:16:46,600 --> 01:16:49,680 Speaker 23: were in place where we need to be. We have 1482 01:16:49,760 --> 01:16:52,800 Speaker 23: a coalition of partners in the state of Michigan called 1483 01:16:52,800 --> 01:16:55,720 Speaker 23: the Food Bank Council of Michigan, which is seven organizations 1484 01:16:55,720 --> 01:16:57,000 Speaker 23: and we covered the entire state. 1485 01:16:57,600 --> 01:16:58,600 Speaker 13: We started putting. 1486 01:16:58,320 --> 01:17:00,960 Speaker 23: Our hands together and we went to the governor and 1487 01:17:01,040 --> 01:17:03,800 Speaker 23: we started speaking as one voice about the shortfalls that 1488 01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:05,880 Speaker 23: were coming to us based on what was going on, 1489 01:17:07,000 --> 01:17:09,840 Speaker 23: the moves that FEMA did, the moves to be able 1490 01:17:09,880 --> 01:17:11,600 Speaker 23: to get the boxes on the ground. A lot of 1491 01:17:11,600 --> 01:17:15,040 Speaker 23: that conversation actually started a Michigan and they proliferated throughout 1492 01:17:15,080 --> 01:17:17,639 Speaker 23: the rest of the country as the way that everybody 1493 01:17:17,680 --> 01:17:20,599 Speaker 23: would actually get that solution in place. So the Cares 1494 01:17:20,640 --> 01:17:23,960 Speaker 23: Act program. Some of the things that happened through FEMA 1495 01:17:24,360 --> 01:17:29,439 Speaker 23: ultimately was what actually stem the tide to be able 1496 01:17:29,479 --> 01:17:31,120 Speaker 23: to give all of us the food we needed. 1497 01:17:31,200 --> 01:17:32,880 Speaker 13: So the food boxes. 1498 01:17:32,800 --> 01:17:35,479 Speaker 23: Then Forgotten Harvest because we have all the relationships with 1499 01:17:35,520 --> 01:17:39,240 Speaker 23: other fresh group providers. Also many also supplemented the food 1500 01:17:39,280 --> 01:17:45,160 Speaker 23: boxes with vegetables, fruits, lunches for the kids and all 1501 01:17:45,280 --> 01:17:48,160 Speaker 23: we've been given away and average seventy pounds of food 1502 01:17:48,200 --> 01:17:50,599 Speaker 23: for every family that comes through our line. 1503 01:17:51,840 --> 01:17:52,200 Speaker 13: Wow. 1504 01:17:52,760 --> 01:17:56,240 Speaker 7: You know when I listened to you talk, you the CEO. Okay, 1505 01:17:56,720 --> 01:17:59,080 Speaker 7: So that means there's a journey to become the CEO 1506 01:17:59,200 --> 01:18:04,000 Speaker 7: of Forgotten Heart. How is that possible? How does that work? 1507 01:18:04,080 --> 01:18:07,160 Speaker 7: You know, when you know your surface are oriented, young man, 1508 01:18:07,160 --> 01:18:10,280 Speaker 7: You've been honored by your alumni, your school, Michigan State University, 1509 01:18:10,360 --> 01:18:13,439 Speaker 7: been honored for other efforts within the community, How does 1510 01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:17,280 Speaker 7: Kurt Mads become the CEO of Forgotten Harvests? 1511 01:18:19,320 --> 01:18:20,599 Speaker 13: And that's the main dollar question. 1512 01:18:23,320 --> 01:18:26,280 Speaker 7: You though you already you gotta You showed me your 1513 01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:29,639 Speaker 7: visionary You showed me that you you wrather the pivot. 1514 01:18:29,720 --> 01:18:33,040 Speaker 7: When when when confusion steps in place, you already had places, 1515 01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:35,519 Speaker 7: You already had an idea that, hey, this is something 1516 01:18:35,520 --> 01:18:38,040 Speaker 7: we need to look at COVID hits it. You already 1517 01:18:38,080 --> 01:18:40,200 Speaker 7: got the model. You put the model in place, and 1518 01:18:40,240 --> 01:18:42,840 Speaker 7: then it moves you forward, and then you're able to 1519 01:18:42,880 --> 01:18:46,200 Speaker 7: create a one voice. You tell the council look notifying 1520 01:18:46,200 --> 01:18:48,720 Speaker 7: them that hey, there is a problem out there. I'm 1521 01:18:48,760 --> 01:18:50,760 Speaker 7: not saying we're going to get the money, but that 1522 01:18:50,880 --> 01:18:55,719 Speaker 7: means that you're a guy who foresees the problem with resolution. Yeah, 1523 01:18:55,840 --> 01:18:57,120 Speaker 7: that has been your personality. 1524 01:18:57,160 --> 01:19:00,960 Speaker 13: Correct, Yeah that's all. That's all you know. Humbly I 1525 01:19:00,960 --> 01:19:01,960 Speaker 13: can say that's all fair. 1526 01:19:02,560 --> 01:19:05,760 Speaker 23: Right, So, but to answer your question, I got to 1527 01:19:05,800 --> 01:19:08,280 Speaker 23: actually go probably a little bit off the script and just. 1528 01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:11,559 Speaker 13: Go say that I've just been trying to make sure 1529 01:19:11,680 --> 01:19:16,040 Speaker 13: my fire don't burn me up, and I gotta fire 1530 01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:19,040 Speaker 13: for our people. Yes, I gotta fire for our community. 1531 01:19:19,400 --> 01:19:20,360 Speaker 13: I understand. 1532 01:19:21,640 --> 01:19:25,599 Speaker 23: I think I understand well enough the politics and change. 1533 01:19:26,680 --> 01:19:30,280 Speaker 23: My greatest focus is studying people and trying to understand 1534 01:19:30,360 --> 01:19:31,960 Speaker 23: people so I can do as much as I can 1535 01:19:32,000 --> 01:19:34,680 Speaker 23: as a servant to people to help I started as 1536 01:19:34,680 --> 01:19:38,800 Speaker 23: a grass roots or community organizer with the hope that 1537 01:19:39,080 --> 01:19:41,439 Speaker 23: I could actually be a part of an effort to 1538 01:19:42,200 --> 01:19:45,679 Speaker 23: you know, twenty years ago, I started with a dream 1539 01:19:45,760 --> 01:19:49,439 Speaker 23: that we could recreate black Wall Street and Detroit and 1540 01:19:49,600 --> 01:19:50,519 Speaker 23: now I see people. 1541 01:19:50,400 --> 01:19:51,559 Speaker 13: Talking about it everywhere. 1542 01:19:51,680 --> 01:19:54,680 Speaker 23: So I honestly is just a young man who just 1543 01:19:54,680 --> 01:19:57,200 Speaker 23: want to see change with the people around me. I 1544 01:19:57,200 --> 01:19:59,280 Speaker 23: got to burn and fire. I had a great education, 1545 01:19:59,600 --> 01:20:03,599 Speaker 23: and I want point. I realized that I can probably 1546 01:20:03,640 --> 01:20:07,400 Speaker 23: do anything and be successful. And I could go sell 1547 01:20:07,479 --> 01:20:10,080 Speaker 23: myself my talent and my ability, my time and somebody 1548 01:20:10,120 --> 01:20:12,600 Speaker 23: and probably gonna make a lot of money. But I 1549 01:20:12,640 --> 01:20:14,240 Speaker 23: want to I want to leave a legacy, you know, 1550 01:20:14,439 --> 01:20:17,200 Speaker 23: this life that my my child, my family could be 1551 01:20:17,240 --> 01:20:19,479 Speaker 23: proud of. And it got to be something more than 1552 01:20:19,640 --> 01:20:25,040 Speaker 23: just cash. So I dedicated my life to serving our community. 1553 01:20:25,080 --> 01:20:27,000 Speaker 13: And I got to say, it didn't start being a 1554 01:20:27,080 --> 01:20:28,680 Speaker 13: CEO forgotten Harvardy. 1555 01:20:29,000 --> 01:20:31,840 Speaker 23: You know, it didn't start being the CEO and nothing 1556 01:20:31,880 --> 01:20:35,599 Speaker 23: except this dream I had. And I was always the 1557 01:20:35,600 --> 01:20:38,320 Speaker 23: CEO of that dream. And I never stopped being a CEO. 1558 01:20:38,920 --> 01:20:42,160 Speaker 23: And I've always been putting my fire into the place 1559 01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:43,920 Speaker 23: where I felt like I could add the. 1560 01:20:43,840 --> 01:20:46,120 Speaker 13: Most value to the moment in the conversation. 1561 01:20:46,520 --> 01:20:49,280 Speaker 23: And it's turned out that that service has put has 1562 01:20:49,320 --> 01:20:51,400 Speaker 23: positioned me in a place where I've been able to 1563 01:20:51,479 --> 01:20:54,120 Speaker 23: actually be in front of a conversation or in front 1564 01:20:54,120 --> 01:20:57,240 Speaker 23: of a group and be considered as somebody. 1565 01:20:56,840 --> 01:20:59,360 Speaker 13: To be able to be, you know, to follow into 1566 01:20:59,520 --> 01:21:00,320 Speaker 13: into the fire. 1567 01:21:00,600 --> 01:21:00,760 Speaker 7: You know. 1568 01:21:00,840 --> 01:21:04,000 Speaker 13: Before I was at Forgotten Harvest, my job was. 1569 01:21:03,960 --> 01:21:07,880 Speaker 23: As the grasstop leader for a hard hit community in 1570 01:21:07,920 --> 01:21:11,599 Speaker 23: Detroit called Brightmore, And you know, I applied the same 1571 01:21:11,680 --> 01:21:16,759 Speaker 23: kind of fire towards community development and made some change 1572 01:21:16,800 --> 01:21:20,599 Speaker 23: and made some problems, you know what I'm saying. And 1573 01:21:20,720 --> 01:21:22,920 Speaker 23: that got me a role that was pulled into the 1574 01:21:22,920 --> 01:21:26,360 Speaker 23: Mayor's office as the deputy for Economic Development. 1575 01:21:26,400 --> 01:21:29,200 Speaker 13: And I think what happened was. 1576 01:21:30,720 --> 01:21:32,720 Speaker 23: The powers that be, whatever you want to call it, 1577 01:21:33,200 --> 01:21:35,759 Speaker 23: the cross section of our community in the business world 1578 01:21:36,800 --> 01:21:39,680 Speaker 23: got a chance to see my light shining in a 1579 01:21:39,760 --> 01:21:43,320 Speaker 23: lot of different ways as they were looking for the 1580 01:21:43,360 --> 01:21:46,920 Speaker 23: person to fulfill the role of Forgotten the Harvest. It 1581 01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:49,240 Speaker 23: wasn't something I saw in my future, but when I 1582 01:21:49,280 --> 01:21:51,720 Speaker 23: really understood what it could be, I sat down in 1583 01:21:51,760 --> 01:21:54,559 Speaker 23: the interview and I gave them everything I had. And 1584 01:21:54,640 --> 01:21:58,760 Speaker 23: I've been doing that for the last seven years to 1585 01:21:58,880 --> 01:22:01,559 Speaker 23: try to do that through you know, this role, to 1586 01:22:01,600 --> 01:22:04,000 Speaker 23: do the most I can to continue to change our community. 1587 01:22:04,040 --> 01:22:06,320 Speaker 13: Man, I wish I could tell you a game plan 1588 01:22:06,400 --> 01:22:07,599 Speaker 13: to get here, but. 1589 01:22:07,560 --> 01:22:10,479 Speaker 23: I was just I've just been trying to do as 1590 01:22:10,560 --> 01:22:12,360 Speaker 23: much as I can to get back to my people. 1591 01:22:12,640 --> 01:22:15,160 Speaker 7: Well, let me tell you a game plan. You know, 1592 01:22:15,200 --> 01:22:17,040 Speaker 7: it's like a lot of people because you're a grinder. 1593 01:22:17,120 --> 01:22:19,120 Speaker 7: I call you grinders, people that just put their head 1594 01:22:19,160 --> 01:22:22,000 Speaker 7: down and they like I always always tell people when 1595 01:22:22,000 --> 01:22:23,599 Speaker 7: I look back on my life, I've been doing what 1596 01:22:23,640 --> 01:22:26,360 Speaker 7: I'm doing today since I was eighteen years old, uplifting, 1597 01:22:26,920 --> 01:22:30,000 Speaker 7: you know, stepping beyond the word ask. I just did it, 1598 01:22:30,920 --> 01:22:34,160 Speaker 7: seeing a problem and creating a resolution. And yes I 1599 01:22:34,200 --> 01:22:36,759 Speaker 7: did rub people the wrong way, but it was always 1600 01:22:36,760 --> 01:22:39,720 Speaker 7: but I walked away with respect. The thing about it, 1601 01:22:39,720 --> 01:22:41,400 Speaker 7: when you hear the word rubbing people the wrong way, 1602 01:22:41,439 --> 01:22:44,559 Speaker 7: these are people don't want change, and change is usually 1603 01:22:44,560 --> 01:22:47,280 Speaker 7: tied to putting forth effort. And when you ask people 1604 01:22:47,280 --> 01:22:48,720 Speaker 7: to put forth effort, that means they have to think 1605 01:22:48,760 --> 01:22:52,880 Speaker 7: about the resolution of the new concept, and that creates resistance, 1606 01:22:53,280 --> 01:22:55,360 Speaker 7: and that's where you get bumped. And so when you're 1607 01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:57,439 Speaker 7: creating resistance, that means you have to have a plan 1608 01:22:57,520 --> 01:22:59,880 Speaker 7: in place. And that's what he does. See, he doesn't 1609 01:23:00,040 --> 01:23:02,599 Speaker 7: create resistance without a plan. And so while people over 1610 01:23:02,640 --> 01:23:05,080 Speaker 7: there with their lips stuck out he's he's over here 1611 01:23:05,120 --> 01:23:07,880 Speaker 7: telling people this is how it can be operate or executed. 1612 01:23:08,280 --> 01:23:10,559 Speaker 7: And then they then they calm down and they have 1613 01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:12,519 Speaker 7: to come to the table at least listen to you. 1614 01:23:13,080 --> 01:23:16,080 Speaker 7: And while they're listening, then you have their attention in 1615 01:23:16,120 --> 01:23:18,960 Speaker 7: their ear and we can move forward. That is who 1616 01:23:19,120 --> 01:23:21,920 Speaker 7: Kurt made it basis. He may not want to say 1617 01:23:21,960 --> 01:23:22,400 Speaker 7: that one of. 1618 01:23:22,439 --> 01:23:24,240 Speaker 13: The piece the piece. 1619 01:23:24,280 --> 01:23:26,960 Speaker 23: If you don't agree, and I really believe that this 1620 01:23:27,040 --> 01:23:29,320 Speaker 23: is the thing, yes, I build it myself. 1621 01:23:29,560 --> 01:23:33,280 Speaker 24: There you go, people like jumping on bandwagon. 1622 01:23:33,640 --> 01:23:35,200 Speaker 23: You might have been the one at the tables said 1623 01:23:35,280 --> 01:23:38,639 Speaker 23: nah no. But if and I'm like, look, let's see, yes, 1624 01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:40,000 Speaker 23: and if you don't want to, if you don't want 1625 01:23:40,000 --> 01:23:41,559 Speaker 23: to jump down this road and stay with me, I'm 1626 01:23:41,600 --> 01:23:42,880 Speaker 23: not gonna do as much as I can. 1627 01:23:42,920 --> 01:23:43,679 Speaker 13: I got enough. 1628 01:23:43,479 --> 01:23:47,400 Speaker 23: Capacity to build it so that this wagon is wabbling 1629 01:23:47,520 --> 01:23:49,479 Speaker 23: and I'm gonna get somebody else to fix that wheel. 1630 01:23:49,479 --> 01:23:52,960 Speaker 23: But you see by action, if you don't believe by word, 1631 01:23:53,160 --> 01:23:56,400 Speaker 23: and that's what really is my hidden I think jewel 1632 01:23:56,520 --> 01:23:57,080 Speaker 23: I can do it. 1633 01:23:58,080 --> 01:24:00,680 Speaker 7: See I finally got the real cur the pop out 1634 01:24:00,720 --> 01:24:01,320 Speaker 7: in this interview. 1635 01:24:01,360 --> 01:24:01,960 Speaker 13: You did the same. 1636 01:24:02,240 --> 01:24:02,960 Speaker 3: You move forward. 1637 01:24:03,200 --> 01:24:05,840 Speaker 7: He started pointing at me. He's telling me, if you 1638 01:24:05,880 --> 01:24:08,320 Speaker 7: don't do it, I get the nail and the hammer 1639 01:24:08,600 --> 01:24:11,400 Speaker 7: and the saw. I'll build it myself. And that's really 1640 01:24:11,439 --> 01:24:13,639 Speaker 7: what Why are you the CEO? That's all I That's 1641 01:24:13,640 --> 01:24:16,519 Speaker 7: all I was asking Because sometimes along the way, it's 1642 01:24:16,560 --> 01:24:19,080 Speaker 7: your passion, your desire, you'll get out of the way 1643 01:24:19,520 --> 01:24:22,360 Speaker 7: and function as a as a leader. Is why we're 1644 01:24:22,360 --> 01:24:25,360 Speaker 7: here today. We're talking about Kirk Mais. In eighteen ninety 1645 01:24:25,680 --> 01:24:28,800 Speaker 7: for Gotten Harvest was founded. Is dedicated to be leaving 1646 01:24:29,080 --> 01:24:33,719 Speaker 7: hunger and preventing food waste, and they deliver one hundred 1647 01:24:33,760 --> 01:24:37,360 Speaker 7: and thirty eight thousand pounds per day, five days a 1648 01:24:37,400 --> 01:24:41,040 Speaker 7: week to families in need. And recently, I shouldn't say recently, 1649 01:24:41,080 --> 01:24:43,639 Speaker 7: within this past year, you guys received a twenty five 1650 01:24:43,640 --> 01:24:46,400 Speaker 7: million dollar grant from Filatchi Business. But kids, it's got 1651 01:24:46,680 --> 01:24:49,400 Speaker 7: walk us through that process and how would the money 1652 01:24:49,520 --> 01:24:51,720 Speaker 7: be used a Forgotten Harvests. 1653 01:24:52,439 --> 01:24:55,360 Speaker 13: Well, first, it was an absolute blessing, right. 1654 01:24:55,479 --> 01:24:59,880 Speaker 23: So what many people may not realize is that what 1655 01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:01,640 Speaker 23: that's no process for us. 1656 01:25:02,320 --> 01:25:06,040 Speaker 13: This was literally an angel that dropped twenty five. 1657 01:25:05,880 --> 01:25:09,400 Speaker 23: Million dollars on that leapt And when I found out 1658 01:25:09,880 --> 01:25:13,679 Speaker 23: it was a call like literally the decision was already made, 1659 01:25:14,000 --> 01:25:15,719 Speaker 23: and it was like one of it was an email 1660 01:25:15,760 --> 01:25:18,960 Speaker 23: that I could have missed, and it was just like, hey, 1661 01:25:19,360 --> 01:25:20,880 Speaker 23: you got a woman that wants to talk to you 1662 01:25:20,920 --> 01:25:24,559 Speaker 23: tomorrow about a gift. And I've gotten anonymous gifts before. 1663 01:25:24,680 --> 01:25:29,080 Speaker 23: So I get on the phone and she's like, is 1664 01:25:29,120 --> 01:25:30,200 Speaker 23: this Kirk made. I'm like yeah. 1665 01:25:30,240 --> 01:25:32,160 Speaker 13: It was like it's mister Maize. This conversation has to 1666 01:25:32,160 --> 01:25:32,800 Speaker 13: be confidential. 1667 01:25:32,800 --> 01:25:35,400 Speaker 23: I'm like, okay, no problem, and she says, do you 1668 01:25:35,479 --> 01:25:37,519 Speaker 23: know who Mackenzie Scott is. 1669 01:25:37,560 --> 01:25:40,479 Speaker 13: I'm like, nah, I don't. And she's like, well she's 1670 01:25:40,479 --> 01:25:41,840 Speaker 13: an author and miss that and the other. 1671 01:25:42,600 --> 01:25:46,759 Speaker 23: And she didn't tell me about her affiliation with mister Bezos, 1672 01:25:46,880 --> 01:25:50,040 Speaker 23: nothing like that. And then she's like, well, mister Mays, 1673 01:25:50,400 --> 01:25:53,559 Speaker 23: we've done our research and we've heard about you, so 1674 01:25:53,560 --> 01:25:54,479 Speaker 23: we want to give you a gift. 1675 01:25:54,520 --> 01:25:56,160 Speaker 13: We're going to give you twenty five million dollars. 1676 01:25:56,240 --> 01:26:02,000 Speaker 7: I was like, what, okay, let's up, because numbers, see 1677 01:26:02,280 --> 01:26:05,759 Speaker 7: see see see you you you know math, you've heard numbers. 1678 01:26:05,760 --> 01:26:09,240 Speaker 7: You know, we've heard twenty dollars, one hundred dollars. When 1679 01:26:09,320 --> 01:26:13,559 Speaker 7: somebody says twenty five million dollars to you over the 1680 01:26:13,560 --> 01:26:16,639 Speaker 7: phone with the word give Where were you at mentally? 1681 01:26:17,800 --> 01:26:20,280 Speaker 23: I was, I was, I was kind of dumbfound because 1682 01:26:20,360 --> 01:26:24,480 Speaker 23: it stopped me because one, I don't think it's ridiculous 1683 01:26:24,520 --> 01:26:26,599 Speaker 23: to say that's the biggest gift I've ever gotten. 1684 01:26:26,600 --> 01:26:28,519 Speaker 13: It's the biggest gift that organization's ever gotten. 1685 01:26:30,680 --> 01:26:33,639 Speaker 23: You know, you don't understand getting something when you didn't 1686 01:26:34,000 --> 01:26:36,120 Speaker 23: go through the process and ask for it or anything 1687 01:26:36,240 --> 01:26:36,479 Speaker 23: like that. 1688 01:26:36,520 --> 01:26:37,120 Speaker 13: You know what I'm saying. 1689 01:26:38,080 --> 01:26:39,840 Speaker 23: If somebody came up to you and knock on your 1690 01:26:39,880 --> 01:26:42,880 Speaker 23: door and say, hey, you just want the lottery, here's 1691 01:26:42,960 --> 01:26:45,120 Speaker 23: one hundred million dollars, you kind of be suspicious that 1692 01:26:45,160 --> 01:26:49,519 Speaker 23: you didn't buy that ticket. At that point, I was like, man, 1693 01:26:49,560 --> 01:26:52,920 Speaker 23: are you for real? What twenty five million dollars? And 1694 01:26:52,960 --> 01:26:55,519 Speaker 23: I immediately I have to understand I had to admit. 1695 01:26:55,600 --> 01:26:58,040 Speaker 23: I immediately picked up my phone. I was like, Mackenzie Scott, 1696 01:26:58,400 --> 01:27:01,240 Speaker 23: who is this right? And the first thing that came 1697 01:27:01,320 --> 01:27:05,519 Speaker 23: up was Mackenzie Scott value that sixty billion dollars. 1698 01:27:06,280 --> 01:27:07,240 Speaker 13: I put the phone down. 1699 01:27:07,320 --> 01:27:11,639 Speaker 24: I was like, well, tell me more right, And what 1700 01:27:11,680 --> 01:27:15,960 Speaker 24: she told us was they have been she has been 1701 01:27:16,000 --> 01:27:20,320 Speaker 24: going through a process to give away all her cash 1702 01:27:21,120 --> 01:27:25,200 Speaker 24: and what she's doing is she's going through and doing 1703 01:27:25,240 --> 01:27:29,480 Speaker 24: her own assessment of organizations and based off of leadership, 1704 01:27:30,080 --> 01:27:32,920 Speaker 24: based off a track record, based off of impact. 1705 01:27:33,280 --> 01:27:38,160 Speaker 13: There's certain areas that she actually is focused on. And 1706 01:27:38,800 --> 01:27:39,360 Speaker 13: we were. 1707 01:27:39,200 --> 01:27:43,519 Speaker 23: One of six thousand plus organizations that got scrutinized, that 1708 01:27:43,560 --> 01:27:45,720 Speaker 23: got boiled down. The three hundred and eighty four that 1709 01:27:45,800 --> 01:27:48,720 Speaker 23: got to give it was an absolute honor, one of 1710 01:27:48,800 --> 01:27:54,200 Speaker 23: seven in the state of Michigan. And I got to 1711 01:27:54,240 --> 01:27:57,320 Speaker 23: say one of few brothers in the work out of 1712 01:27:57,400 --> 01:27:59,120 Speaker 23: all food organizations in. 1713 01:27:59,040 --> 01:28:01,040 Speaker 13: Feed in America is one hundred plus food. 1714 01:28:00,840 --> 01:28:05,200 Speaker 23: Organizations that feed in America, only forty five gotta get right. 1715 01:28:05,400 --> 01:28:08,040 Speaker 13: So it was it was quite a. 1716 01:28:09,560 --> 01:28:12,200 Speaker 23: It was quite a head jerking moment because you got 1717 01:28:12,200 --> 01:28:14,720 Speaker 23: to understand, I'm in the middle of the We're in 1718 01:28:14,720 --> 01:28:17,800 Speaker 23: the middle of this pandemic. Yes, sir, we have a 1719 01:28:17,920 --> 01:28:21,160 Speaker 23: vision for the future that got interrupted because we had 1720 01:28:21,200 --> 01:28:24,679 Speaker 23: to turn to the community to help doing everything we're doing. 1721 01:28:25,160 --> 01:28:27,519 Speaker 23: We have a vision that involves us building a brand 1722 01:28:27,560 --> 01:28:31,960 Speaker 23: new facility to really change the way that we systemically 1723 01:28:32,040 --> 01:28:33,440 Speaker 23: actually serve the community. 1724 01:28:33,880 --> 01:28:36,000 Speaker 13: And with everything going on, it's like, how are we 1725 01:28:36,000 --> 01:28:36,800 Speaker 13: going to do all of this? 1726 01:28:37,600 --> 01:28:39,880 Speaker 23: How are we gonna do all of this in this moment, 1727 01:28:40,040 --> 01:28:46,439 Speaker 23: and that gift was like the It was more than 1728 01:28:46,600 --> 01:28:47,800 Speaker 23: just help right now. 1729 01:28:49,360 --> 01:28:49,920 Speaker 10: It was. 1730 01:28:51,600 --> 01:28:55,080 Speaker 23: Verification and validation that every decision I made up to 1731 01:28:55,160 --> 01:28:55,639 Speaker 23: now was. 1732 01:28:55,640 --> 01:28:59,719 Speaker 7: Right that fire, that fire was burning for the right reasons. 1733 01:29:00,120 --> 01:29:02,880 Speaker 23: It's the best award I've ever gotten, and not just 1734 01:29:02,920 --> 01:29:04,040 Speaker 23: because of the money. 1735 01:29:04,600 --> 01:29:05,479 Speaker 13: It's the gesture. 1736 01:29:05,840 --> 01:29:07,599 Speaker 7: Yes, the gesture. 1737 01:29:07,680 --> 01:29:08,280 Speaker 13: You know what I'm saying. 1738 01:29:08,320 --> 01:29:12,760 Speaker 23: It was backed up by a magnificent dollar amount that 1739 01:29:13,240 --> 01:29:17,400 Speaker 23: right now, what we're doing is, you know, you ask. 1740 01:29:17,360 --> 01:29:18,840 Speaker 13: How we're going to spend the money. 1741 01:29:19,080 --> 01:29:21,960 Speaker 23: You know, that starts with conceptually understanding how we look 1742 01:29:22,000 --> 01:29:25,720 Speaker 23: at it, and if I can break that down, try 1743 01:29:25,760 --> 01:29:28,440 Speaker 23: to do it in a short way. First and foremost, 1744 01:29:31,280 --> 01:29:34,800 Speaker 23: the effort we're in right now to transform how we 1745 01:29:35,080 --> 01:29:39,320 Speaker 23: deliver food to the community is inherent that we have 1746 01:29:39,439 --> 01:29:42,760 Speaker 23: to have a new facility forgotten harvest, going out and 1747 01:29:42,760 --> 01:29:45,800 Speaker 23: getting food every day from food providers, but also food 1748 01:29:45,840 --> 01:29:49,920 Speaker 23: coming in from the gross like from the bolt and 1749 01:29:49,960 --> 01:29:54,120 Speaker 23: commodity providers. We don't really have a capability inside of 1750 01:29:54,120 --> 01:29:56,400 Speaker 23: our existing warehouse to mix all of that so that 1751 01:29:56,479 --> 01:29:58,840 Speaker 23: everybody can get what I would call an equitable mix 1752 01:29:58,880 --> 01:30:01,559 Speaker 23: of everything we get on a day any basis. Those 1753 01:30:01,720 --> 01:30:05,360 Speaker 23: those route drivers go out and actually pick up from 1754 01:30:05,360 --> 01:30:07,360 Speaker 23: each of those grocery stores and they just give to 1755 01:30:07,439 --> 01:30:10,400 Speaker 23: like the three or four community partners on their route. 1756 01:30:10,800 --> 01:30:14,000 Speaker 23: Right What we're going to do in the future is 1757 01:30:14,040 --> 01:30:16,439 Speaker 23: we're going to bring everything from every grocery store that 1758 01:30:16,479 --> 01:30:18,720 Speaker 23: we touch, all the farms, all the manufacturers. We're going 1759 01:30:18,800 --> 01:30:21,600 Speaker 23: to use the processes we have with our volunteers to 1760 01:30:21,680 --> 01:30:24,720 Speaker 23: actually mix all of that stuff so that there's not 1761 01:30:24,840 --> 01:30:27,360 Speaker 23: a line somewhere on the east side of town that 1762 01:30:27,479 --> 01:30:30,240 Speaker 23: only got from those couple crokers, a couple Mayer or 1763 01:30:30,240 --> 01:30:33,479 Speaker 23: a couple grocery stores, and there's another line over here 1764 01:30:33,479 --> 01:30:33,760 Speaker 23: that just. 1765 01:30:33,760 --> 01:30:34,880 Speaker 13: Getting from the farms. 1766 01:30:35,040 --> 01:30:37,519 Speaker 23: We want everybody to get as much as possible because 1767 01:30:37,560 --> 01:30:40,360 Speaker 23: the nature of food rescue is we don't really know 1768 01:30:40,360 --> 01:30:41,639 Speaker 23: what we're gonna get on a daily. 1769 01:30:41,439 --> 01:30:44,639 Speaker 13: Basis, but we get so much that if. 1770 01:30:44,479 --> 01:30:46,680 Speaker 23: We mix it all, people will be able to make 1771 01:30:46,720 --> 01:30:48,679 Speaker 23: the right decisions to be able to get the meals 1772 01:30:48,680 --> 01:30:50,639 Speaker 23: they need so they can go home and make it 1773 01:30:50,680 --> 01:30:52,720 Speaker 23: and solve the problem of food and security. 1774 01:30:52,880 --> 01:30:54,200 Speaker 13: And I got to talk about that. 1775 01:30:54,360 --> 01:30:57,360 Speaker 23: Food and security for us is a person or a 1776 01:30:57,400 --> 01:30:59,960 Speaker 23: family not knowing where their next meal of the future 1777 01:31:00,280 --> 01:31:02,720 Speaker 23: is coming from an anxiety that comes from that is 1778 01:31:02,720 --> 01:31:05,799 Speaker 23: that simple. So I use that to hold us, myself 1779 01:31:05,800 --> 01:31:09,000 Speaker 23: and our organization accountable. How do we address that definition 1780 01:31:09,200 --> 01:31:14,080 Speaker 23: and broken into that as knowledge, access, proximity, and then supply. 1781 01:31:14,640 --> 01:31:17,400 Speaker 23: So the way that translates into the way that forgotten 1782 01:31:17,439 --> 01:31:20,200 Speaker 23: harvest is going to actually transform or address that from 1783 01:31:20,200 --> 01:31:21,680 Speaker 23: a systemic level is we. 1784 01:31:21,720 --> 01:31:23,040 Speaker 13: Got to change our communication. 1785 01:31:23,479 --> 01:31:27,120 Speaker 23: So we've also been looking at and analyzing the distribution 1786 01:31:27,640 --> 01:31:31,040 Speaker 23: territory that we're working in, and we've actually created data 1787 01:31:31,040 --> 01:31:34,560 Speaker 23: systems to help us understand and qualify, but also quantify 1788 01:31:34,640 --> 01:31:37,680 Speaker 23: what food and security actually looks like in our community. 1789 01:31:38,040 --> 01:31:42,080 Speaker 23: We're collecting data from our community members that are getting 1790 01:31:42,120 --> 01:31:44,679 Speaker 23: the food so that we can actually now have first 1791 01:31:44,720 --> 01:31:47,479 Speaker 23: hand information about where people are coming from, where some 1792 01:31:47,520 --> 01:31:50,640 Speaker 23: of their health mechanisms are, where some of their particular 1793 01:31:50,720 --> 01:31:54,160 Speaker 23: cultural preferences may be, and how we can. 1794 01:31:54,120 --> 01:31:56,479 Speaker 13: Potentially bring food closer to. 1795 01:31:56,280 --> 01:31:59,320 Speaker 23: The actual places where people are actually in need instead 1796 01:31:59,360 --> 01:32:01,360 Speaker 23: of just for on the place where people are picking 1797 01:32:01,439 --> 01:32:01,920 Speaker 23: up the food. 1798 01:32:02,560 --> 01:32:03,960 Speaker 13: So when we look at. 1799 01:32:04,000 --> 01:32:08,439 Speaker 23: Look at this combination of being able to change the 1800 01:32:08,439 --> 01:32:11,200 Speaker 23: way we move plus being able to change the way 1801 01:32:11,240 --> 01:32:14,320 Speaker 23: we think as an organization, for Gotten Harvest is actually 1802 01:32:14,320 --> 01:32:17,600 Speaker 23: transforming into a thinking and data driven organization, and the 1803 01:32:17,640 --> 01:32:20,880 Speaker 23: new facility is actually going to actually help enable us 1804 01:32:20,880 --> 01:32:24,720 Speaker 23: to make that turn. That's already plan in place, That's 1805 01:32:24,760 --> 01:32:27,920 Speaker 23: already what I was doing, right, and we already raising 1806 01:32:28,000 --> 01:32:30,080 Speaker 23: the money for that. We already got cash coming in 1807 01:32:30,120 --> 01:32:32,720 Speaker 23: for that. And then we get this magnificent get from 1808 01:32:32,760 --> 01:32:34,760 Speaker 23: Ms Scott in the middle of all this, and my 1809 01:32:34,840 --> 01:32:37,280 Speaker 23: board is like now what, I'm like, well, yo, we 1810 01:32:37,439 --> 01:32:40,439 Speaker 23: already going deep. So now the question is how do 1811 01:32:40,520 --> 01:32:43,439 Speaker 23: we go wide? So there now there's some additional questions 1812 01:32:43,439 --> 01:32:46,320 Speaker 23: that we have about whether the throughput of the distribution 1813 01:32:47,920 --> 01:32:50,880 Speaker 23: outlets that we get a food to are actually adequate 1814 01:32:51,640 --> 01:32:54,519 Speaker 23: in their capacity in order to actually start the community. 1815 01:32:54,560 --> 01:32:55,640 Speaker 13: One of the largest. 1816 01:32:55,360 --> 01:32:58,120 Speaker 23: Challenges and people being able to get the food that 1817 01:32:58,160 --> 01:33:00,000 Speaker 23: they need is being able to get to the place 1818 01:33:00,000 --> 01:33:02,719 Speaker 23: that's where it is in time. So it's like I said, 1819 01:33:02,760 --> 01:33:05,160 Speaker 23: back to that example I had earlier, If Grandma I 1820 01:33:05,240 --> 01:33:08,320 Speaker 23: can only come to the church on Wednesday from two 1821 01:33:08,400 --> 01:33:11,040 Speaker 23: to four to be able to get food out, what 1822 01:33:11,160 --> 01:33:14,800 Speaker 23: about the working family that can't actually get there. So 1823 01:33:14,880 --> 01:33:17,759 Speaker 23: what we would like to see is a distribution network 1824 01:33:17,760 --> 01:33:21,280 Speaker 23: that has something closer than the retail hours. 1825 01:33:21,439 --> 01:33:23,040 Speaker 13: I'd like to eliminate the line. 1826 01:33:23,320 --> 01:33:25,040 Speaker 23: And the way that I think that we can eliminate 1827 01:33:25,080 --> 01:33:26,680 Speaker 23: that line that wraps around the. 1828 01:33:26,600 --> 01:33:28,960 Speaker 13: Corner is we need to have places that look a 1829 01:33:29,000 --> 01:33:32,320 Speaker 13: lot more like grocery stores, that have hours that are 1830 01:33:32,320 --> 01:33:36,240 Speaker 13: a lot more like a retail establishment, but still get food. 1831 01:33:35,960 --> 01:33:39,200 Speaker 23: Away for free, but still has an actual high quality 1832 01:33:39,200 --> 01:33:42,040 Speaker 23: staff working in there, treating people with dignity and like 1833 01:33:42,120 --> 01:33:44,600 Speaker 23: their customers that people come in there and they go 1834 01:33:44,800 --> 01:33:46,400 Speaker 23: get that food and they go home, and they go 1835 01:33:46,479 --> 01:33:50,320 Speaker 23: home with enough variety and enough volume so they can 1836 01:33:50,360 --> 01:33:53,519 Speaker 23: fix that problem and thereby and not have to worry 1837 01:33:53,560 --> 01:33:57,000 Speaker 23: about where the next meal, future meal is coming from. 1838 01:33:57,080 --> 01:34:00,680 Speaker 13: So everything that we do going forward with Forgotten is. 1839 01:34:00,640 --> 01:34:04,040 Speaker 23: Going to actually help us actually widen our ability to 1840 01:34:04,080 --> 01:34:07,559 Speaker 23: affect the need that we're addressing. And the next step, 1841 01:34:07,560 --> 01:34:09,800 Speaker 23: I believe is when we move out of the building 1842 01:34:09,920 --> 01:34:12,519 Speaker 23: we're in this is about thirty thousand square feet and 1843 01:34:12,600 --> 01:34:17,200 Speaker 23: move into our seventy seven thousand square foot facility. I 1844 01:34:17,240 --> 01:34:21,320 Speaker 23: want to turn this old facility into community care centers 1845 01:34:21,439 --> 01:34:24,120 Speaker 23: and not only allows people to come in and shop 1846 01:34:24,640 --> 01:34:27,559 Speaker 23: at their regular pace like they will that they went 1847 01:34:27,640 --> 01:34:29,839 Speaker 23: to any grocery store, but check out for free. 1848 01:34:29,960 --> 01:34:31,320 Speaker 13: And before you leave, there's going. 1849 01:34:31,320 --> 01:34:34,639 Speaker 23: To be offices in here where some of our community partners. 1850 01:34:34,680 --> 01:34:36,920 Speaker 23: We don't do this, but we can invite partners in 1851 01:34:36,960 --> 01:34:40,800 Speaker 23: to work on mental health services, housing, get your water 1852 01:34:40,840 --> 01:34:43,640 Speaker 23: cut on, get to get the lights cut on. And 1853 01:34:43,680 --> 01:34:45,400 Speaker 23: I want to bring our partners in to do that. 1854 01:34:45,760 --> 01:34:49,920 Speaker 23: So that'll be one facility to come, you know immediately, 1855 01:34:50,520 --> 01:34:52,320 Speaker 23: I mean, and then we can talk about other ways 1856 01:34:52,320 --> 01:34:52,919 Speaker 23: to expand. 1857 01:34:53,000 --> 01:34:57,240 Speaker 13: But brother, as you may already know, everybody. 1858 01:34:56,680 --> 01:35:00,280 Speaker 23: Can can't really absorb the whole vision all that, so 1859 01:35:00,320 --> 01:35:03,640 Speaker 23: I just give it out there. We move to the 1860 01:35:03,680 --> 01:35:05,759 Speaker 23: next stage and then we can see the other horizon. 1861 01:35:05,840 --> 01:35:07,920 Speaker 23: We can see the horizon differently once we get down 1862 01:35:07,960 --> 01:35:10,320 Speaker 23: the road. So that's what it looks like in the 1863 01:35:10,360 --> 01:35:12,559 Speaker 23: short term. In the midst of all of that, we 1864 01:35:12,680 --> 01:35:14,519 Speaker 23: got some cash manage you to do to make sure 1865 01:35:14,560 --> 01:35:16,800 Speaker 23: we stay in our position and strength. And I'm gonna 1866 01:35:16,800 --> 01:35:19,040 Speaker 23: continue to just beat the streets. And I love to 1867 01:35:19,080 --> 01:35:21,280 Speaker 23: talk to our community, so I'm continue to beat the street, 1868 01:35:21,600 --> 01:35:24,320 Speaker 23: make sure I got the approval and the sanction from 1869 01:35:24,320 --> 01:35:26,360 Speaker 23: our community as we make this turn. 1870 01:35:26,640 --> 01:35:28,360 Speaker 7: Well, Kirk, let me just tell you this man, Thank 1871 01:35:28,360 --> 01:35:30,720 Speaker 7: you for coming on the show that fire I got 1872 01:35:30,920 --> 01:35:34,560 Speaker 7: I got to. It warmed me, okay, it warmed me, okay. 1873 01:35:34,800 --> 01:35:37,439 Speaker 7: So I know it's out there warming a lot of people. 1874 01:35:37,479 --> 01:35:41,040 Speaker 7: They're changing lives man, And definitely I want to come 1875 01:35:41,120 --> 01:35:43,040 Speaker 7: up there and visit you and Truge one of my 1876 01:35:43,120 --> 01:35:47,120 Speaker 7: favorite cities, and see that thirty three thousand square foot facility, 1877 01:35:47,160 --> 01:35:48,719 Speaker 7: and you're going to move to the eventual, the seventy 1878 01:35:48,760 --> 01:35:51,519 Speaker 7: seven thousand squad foot facility, and I think you're absolutely 1879 01:35:51,600 --> 01:35:55,960 Speaker 7: right repurposing that old facility into a care center, a 1880 01:35:56,000 --> 01:35:58,280 Speaker 7: life center. I think just basically what you're saying, well 1881 01:35:58,280 --> 01:36:01,880 Speaker 7: you can. You can be educated and nourish not your 1882 01:36:01,880 --> 01:36:04,200 Speaker 7: body and your head. And that's what we need in 1883 01:36:04,240 --> 01:36:08,200 Speaker 7: these diverse communities that are being underserved again forgotten to harvest. 1884 01:36:08,280 --> 01:36:10,439 Speaker 7: He is the CEO. I know how hey got there. 1885 01:36:10,680 --> 01:36:12,559 Speaker 7: I just had to let you guys hear how he 1886 01:36:12,640 --> 01:36:15,320 Speaker 7: got there and let him drop that humble veil and 1887 01:36:15,360 --> 01:36:17,720 Speaker 7: tell us this story on money making conversation. 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He loves the freedom 1924 01:38:12,080 --> 01:38:15,479 Speaker 7: of creating amazing music no matter whether it's gospel, R 1925 01:38:15,520 --> 01:38:17,200 Speaker 7: and B, hip hop or rock. 1926 01:38:17,479 --> 01:38:19,519 Speaker 26: You open up the doors to be heard out by 1927 01:38:19,560 --> 01:38:21,800 Speaker 26: a different race, and then it gets uncomfortable for me 1928 01:38:22,400 --> 01:38:25,759 Speaker 26: just because you start bringing out different issues. 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I am your host, Rashan McDonald. 1943 01:39:06,320 --> 01:39:09,360 Speaker 7: Like I say every episode, it's time to stop reading 1944 01:39:09,400 --> 01:39:12,559 Speaker 7: other people's success stories and start writing your own. And 1945 01:39:12,600 --> 01:39:15,080 Speaker 7: when you talk about your passions, you talk about your gifts. 1946 01:39:15,520 --> 01:39:18,519 Speaker 7: Lead with your gifts, and don't let your age, friends, family, 1947 01:39:18,640 --> 01:39:21,320 Speaker 7: or coworkers stop you from planning or living your dreams. 1948 01:39:21,560 --> 01:39:26,160 Speaker 7: My interviews on money Making Conversation with celebrities, CEOs, entrepreneurs, 1949 01:39:26,200 --> 01:39:29,120 Speaker 7: and people I like to call industry decision makers. My 1950 01:39:29,200 --> 01:39:32,120 Speaker 7: next guest is Reggie Butler. Reggie is the founder and 1951 01:39:32,200 --> 01:39:37,960 Speaker 7: CEO of Performance Paradigman, LLC and Executive Education Human Capital Consultancy. 1952 01:39:38,439 --> 01:39:42,560 Speaker 7: His areas of expertise include high high performing team development, 1953 01:39:42,920 --> 01:39:46,879 Speaker 7: organizational change management, diversity and inclusion, which is really important 1954 01:39:46,920 --> 01:39:49,720 Speaker 7: in these days. Since twenty twenty has become the forefront 1955 01:39:50,000 --> 01:39:54,360 Speaker 7: of all major corporations. Tone of employment and understanding, their 1956 01:39:54,400 --> 01:39:58,000 Speaker 7: color and the way people speak should not be a differentiator. 1957 01:39:58,160 --> 01:40:02,760 Speaker 7: It should be treated as equal. Training development, workforce retention strategies, 1958 01:40:02,920 --> 01:40:07,200 Speaker 7: emotional intelligence, and executive coaching. Reggie believes the human connection 1959 01:40:07,800 --> 01:40:11,519 Speaker 7: and understanding the cornerstone of changing life and behavior. Whe 1960 01:40:11,560 --> 01:40:14,879 Speaker 7: Reggie works in collaboration with executive leadership teams to develop 1961 01:40:14,960 --> 01:40:20,280 Speaker 7: and execute strategies to change organizational culture, build leadership bench strength, 1962 01:40:20,560 --> 01:40:24,479 Speaker 7: and increase human capital effectiveness. Please work in the money 1963 01:40:24,520 --> 01:40:27,080 Speaker 7: making conversations by Man Reggie Butler. 1964 01:40:27,080 --> 01:40:28,960 Speaker 10: How you doing, Reggie, I'm doing well. 1965 01:40:28,960 --> 01:40:29,160 Speaker 12: Man. 1966 01:40:29,320 --> 01:40:31,519 Speaker 27: Good to be with you today. You're doing some important 1967 01:40:31,560 --> 01:40:33,160 Speaker 27: work and you got to keep doing what you're doing. 1968 01:40:33,240 --> 01:40:35,680 Speaker 27: We need you in this space to not stop or 1969 01:40:35,680 --> 01:40:36,240 Speaker 27: back down. 1970 01:40:36,760 --> 01:40:39,320 Speaker 7: Well, I can't back down, and I bring individuals on 1971 01:40:39,760 --> 01:40:41,680 Speaker 7: the show like you, Reggie, so you can support what 1972 01:40:41,760 --> 01:40:44,559 Speaker 7: I'm trying to do, because you know. 1973 01:40:46,240 --> 01:40:46,559 Speaker 13: You're not. 1974 01:40:46,600 --> 01:40:49,639 Speaker 7: Both are living a long life and we will live 1975 01:40:49,680 --> 01:40:54,080 Speaker 7: even longer life. But somewhere along the line, as people 1976 01:40:54,120 --> 01:40:56,640 Speaker 7: have put qualifiers, if you haven't done certain things at 1977 01:40:56,680 --> 01:41:00,519 Speaker 7: a certain age, then you stuck. And that's where I 1978 01:41:00,520 --> 01:41:03,400 Speaker 7: wanted to talk about initially with you, because that's the 1979 01:41:03,400 --> 01:41:07,280 Speaker 7: whole part about pushing beyond what you're capable of, because 1980 01:41:07,360 --> 01:41:10,080 Speaker 7: people can limit it, say and you reach your limit, 1981 01:41:10,720 --> 01:41:11,559 Speaker 7: talk to us about that. 1982 01:41:12,400 --> 01:41:12,639 Speaker 10: Yeah. 1983 01:41:12,680 --> 01:41:15,759 Speaker 27: So, first of all, I just have this really strong 1984 01:41:15,800 --> 01:41:19,400 Speaker 27: belief that another person's perception of me shouldn't define where 1985 01:41:19,439 --> 01:41:21,800 Speaker 27: I go. And you got to think about what that 1986 01:41:21,800 --> 01:41:22,559 Speaker 27: actually looks like. 1987 01:41:22,600 --> 01:41:23,800 Speaker 10: In some spaces, there are. 1988 01:41:23,680 --> 01:41:28,080 Speaker 27: People who wind up in careers or in positions, only 1989 01:41:28,120 --> 01:41:30,400 Speaker 27: to find out later in their careers that's not what 1990 01:41:30,439 --> 01:41:33,080 Speaker 27: they wanted to do, where they wanted to go, where 1991 01:41:33,120 --> 01:41:35,000 Speaker 27: they wanted to be, how they wanted to do it, 1992 01:41:35,000 --> 01:41:38,000 Speaker 27: because they were listening to somebody else's narrative that was 1993 01:41:38,040 --> 01:41:42,760 Speaker 27: based on someone else's perception of their value or their worth. 1994 01:41:42,880 --> 01:41:46,160 Speaker 27: So I spend time in this space trying to get 1995 01:41:46,160 --> 01:41:48,360 Speaker 27: the people to understand and see things they can't see 1996 01:41:48,360 --> 01:41:52,120 Speaker 27: for themselves, so they not only can explore, but reach 1997 01:41:52,280 --> 01:41:54,559 Speaker 27: whatever next is for them by choice. 1998 01:41:55,040 --> 01:41:57,320 Speaker 7: We talk about the path of resistance. Sometimes we live 1999 01:41:57,360 --> 01:42:00,639 Speaker 7: our life through the past of leafs resistance. Reggie, Okay, 2000 01:42:00,960 --> 01:42:04,200 Speaker 7: And that means that, like you said earlier, were relationship 2001 01:42:04,280 --> 01:42:06,200 Speaker 7: we go deep like that. There are people in relationship 2002 01:42:06,200 --> 01:42:08,360 Speaker 7: they should be getting out of. And there are people 2003 01:42:08,400 --> 01:42:10,639 Speaker 7: who are at jobs they should be walking away from, 2004 01:42:11,000 --> 01:42:13,080 Speaker 7: but they stay there out of fear. They stayed out 2005 01:42:13,080 --> 01:42:15,200 Speaker 7: of there because they don't want to hear somebody complaining, 2006 01:42:15,600 --> 01:42:17,639 Speaker 7: or they stay there because they don't want to hear 2007 01:42:17,680 --> 01:42:21,759 Speaker 7: somebody tell them that they are questioning their decision making. 2008 01:42:22,520 --> 01:42:26,160 Speaker 7: How you're coaching, do you push people past that because 2009 01:42:26,160 --> 01:42:28,799 Speaker 7: you like a you're like a new modern day therapist. 2010 01:42:28,920 --> 01:42:30,840 Speaker 7: You know, you're not putting us on the couch. 2011 01:42:33,040 --> 01:42:36,960 Speaker 27: I'm right, yeah, So you know, Rashan, So, first of all, 2012 01:42:36,960 --> 01:42:38,639 Speaker 27: I got to get people to be honest with themselves, 2013 01:42:38,680 --> 01:42:41,559 Speaker 27: and I take people through, you know, a framework to 2014 01:42:41,560 --> 01:42:45,080 Speaker 27: help them understand what their truth is about how they're 2015 01:42:45,120 --> 01:42:48,000 Speaker 27: seeing the world, what the truth of somebody else is 2016 01:42:48,040 --> 01:42:50,920 Speaker 27: like managing their perspectives. And then the highest order try 2017 01:42:50,960 --> 01:42:53,040 Speaker 27: to get people to is accepting what they need to 2018 01:42:53,040 --> 01:42:54,839 Speaker 27: accept in order to move forward, to make a difference. 2019 01:42:54,840 --> 01:42:56,439 Speaker 27: So if I view that, if I look at that, 2020 01:42:57,200 --> 01:42:59,840 Speaker 27: there are some people that haven't accepted what they need 2021 01:42:59,840 --> 01:43:03,200 Speaker 27: to accept about themselves. And one of the big things 2022 01:43:03,200 --> 01:43:05,760 Speaker 27: that people don't accept is that they're much better than 2023 01:43:05,800 --> 01:43:09,599 Speaker 27: anybody else says they are because we let people define 2024 01:43:09,640 --> 01:43:11,920 Speaker 27: who we are and what our wan coaches. And I've 2025 01:43:11,960 --> 01:43:15,000 Speaker 27: put people into situations that say, let me show you 2026 01:43:15,479 --> 01:43:17,639 Speaker 27: not only what your worth is, but you be able 2027 01:43:17,680 --> 01:43:19,080 Speaker 27: to articulate that value. 2028 01:43:19,520 --> 01:43:21,200 Speaker 10: Not somebody else do that for you. 2029 01:43:21,520 --> 01:43:23,599 Speaker 27: And once a person starts to accept that, they also 2030 01:43:23,640 --> 01:43:26,040 Speaker 27: start to see those things that they know they have 2031 01:43:26,120 --> 01:43:28,040 Speaker 27: to move past. And that's that thing you're talking about 2032 01:43:28,040 --> 01:43:32,679 Speaker 27: about resistance. Resistance comes at you when you are solid 2033 01:43:32,720 --> 01:43:34,640 Speaker 27: and your confidence has no competition. 2034 01:43:34,840 --> 01:43:38,760 Speaker 10: You know that, yes, you're confident in yourself and your abilities. 2035 01:43:39,080 --> 01:43:42,280 Speaker 27: Resistance goes around you, you go right through it. 2036 01:43:42,680 --> 01:43:44,519 Speaker 10: You've got to get people to see that. To get 2037 01:43:44,520 --> 01:43:44,920 Speaker 10: people to. 2038 01:43:44,840 --> 01:43:49,000 Speaker 7: See that, it's like that's why a ship has a point, 2039 01:43:49,560 --> 01:43:51,400 Speaker 7: you know, and it goes through the water. You know, 2040 01:43:51,600 --> 01:43:54,439 Speaker 7: it cuts through the resistance. That's what you're talking about, 2041 01:43:54,520 --> 01:43:56,640 Speaker 7: you know. And as it cuts through the resistance, it 2042 01:43:56,680 --> 01:43:59,240 Speaker 7: gets to the destination a lot faster. Now you've had 2043 01:43:59,280 --> 01:44:02,360 Speaker 7: over twenty eight years was in the bio, but I'm 2044 01:44:02,360 --> 01:44:06,080 Speaker 7: sure it's more years of experience and delivering this transformative 2045 01:44:06,520 --> 01:44:08,320 Speaker 7: Like I told you, I've been doing this. I was eighteen. 2046 01:44:08,360 --> 01:44:10,960 Speaker 7: When you really look at it, who you are, You 2047 01:44:11,000 --> 01:44:14,280 Speaker 7: don't really be defined by the moment you defined out 2048 01:44:14,280 --> 01:44:17,879 Speaker 7: how you were raised and who put these these seeds 2049 01:44:18,000 --> 01:44:20,559 Speaker 7: in you? Who put these seeds in you. Let's let's 2050 01:44:20,600 --> 01:44:23,040 Speaker 7: take a journey back a little bit, Reggie, who put 2051 01:44:23,040 --> 01:44:24,000 Speaker 7: these seeds in you? 2052 01:44:24,720 --> 01:44:26,280 Speaker 10: Yeah? So if I look at it, I'm going to 2053 01:44:26,320 --> 01:44:27,880 Speaker 10: start back. So I started off as. 2054 01:44:27,760 --> 01:44:31,840 Speaker 27: A classically training musician, so classic trained pianist, and for 2055 01:44:32,000 --> 01:44:35,839 Speaker 27: years I thought that that was my path. And my father, 2056 01:44:36,200 --> 01:44:38,920 Speaker 27: who's military, I was raised military. I've never served, but 2057 01:44:39,560 --> 01:44:43,120 Speaker 27: I was raised military in the discipline that he instilled 2058 01:44:43,200 --> 01:44:47,320 Speaker 27: in me about how to be successful through discipline and 2059 01:44:47,400 --> 01:44:49,720 Speaker 27: doing what's necessary, do what you have to do so 2060 01:44:49,760 --> 01:44:50,960 Speaker 27: you can do what you want to do. 2061 01:44:51,280 --> 01:44:52,479 Speaker 10: And he instilled that in me. 2062 01:44:53,240 --> 01:44:55,760 Speaker 27: Once I had made the decision, with his help and 2063 01:44:55,760 --> 01:45:01,000 Speaker 27: the help of some other colleagues, that a classically pianist 2064 01:45:01,439 --> 01:45:04,720 Speaker 27: in this body, at that time in my life, there 2065 01:45:04,760 --> 01:45:06,960 Speaker 27: was a high probability I was not going to be 2066 01:45:06,960 --> 01:45:09,000 Speaker 27: as successful as I wanted to be because of the 2067 01:45:09,040 --> 01:45:12,280 Speaker 27: constructs of race around who I was. When my father 2068 01:45:12,400 --> 01:45:14,439 Speaker 27: looked at me and he says, but that doesn't mean 2069 01:45:14,439 --> 01:45:18,479 Speaker 27: you still can't be a musician like oh, and my 2070 01:45:18,600 --> 01:45:23,559 Speaker 27: mom wonderful woman that she is. They created what I'm 2071 01:45:23,600 --> 01:45:25,720 Speaker 27: going to call some of the things you do. They 2072 01:45:25,720 --> 01:45:29,280 Speaker 27: decided to manage my life at the young age of fifteen. 2073 01:45:29,439 --> 01:45:32,519 Speaker 27: So had a band here I am having a band 2074 01:45:32,800 --> 01:45:36,320 Speaker 27: at fifteen and work and use That band played every 2075 01:45:36,360 --> 01:45:41,080 Speaker 27: weekend eleven pm to two am, just doing all the things. 2076 01:45:41,120 --> 01:45:44,120 Speaker 27: But what it taught me was the organization of skills 2077 01:45:44,120 --> 01:45:46,080 Speaker 27: and the discipline of creating a team. 2078 01:45:46,280 --> 01:45:47,799 Speaker 10: Because you know this about music. 2079 01:45:48,560 --> 01:45:50,479 Speaker 27: Music is from my heart and from my soul, but 2080 01:45:50,560 --> 01:45:53,519 Speaker 27: it is the foundation of everything we do. Because that 2081 01:45:53,600 --> 01:45:56,280 Speaker 27: band would not be the band it is and was 2082 01:45:57,000 --> 01:45:59,720 Speaker 27: the music we created would not have landed the way 2083 01:45:59,720 --> 01:46:02,439 Speaker 27: it was supposed to if we didn't have structure. I 2084 01:46:02,479 --> 01:46:05,280 Speaker 27: was leading that band. So from that it took me 2085 01:46:05,360 --> 01:46:07,920 Speaker 27: all throughout my life. I used those tenets of what 2086 01:46:07,960 --> 01:46:10,479 Speaker 27: it means to create a high performing team, what it 2087 01:46:10,520 --> 01:46:12,479 Speaker 27: means to lead a team, what it means to deal 2088 01:46:12,520 --> 01:46:14,720 Speaker 27: with dysfunction, what it means to deal with change when 2089 01:46:14,800 --> 01:46:17,600 Speaker 27: change change comes up. And I've taken that all the 2090 01:46:17,600 --> 01:46:21,439 Speaker 27: way throughout my professional life. Wound up being so interesting. 2091 01:46:21,800 --> 01:46:26,599 Speaker 27: I wound up was a was a choir director at 2092 01:46:26,600 --> 01:46:30,760 Speaker 27: a church and one of my one of my choir members. 2093 01:46:30,479 --> 01:46:33,360 Speaker 10: Said, you realize you have a gift for speaking, you 2094 01:46:33,400 --> 01:46:33,960 Speaker 10: should come. 2095 01:46:34,479 --> 01:46:36,719 Speaker 27: You should come, you know, not out of the church, 2096 01:46:36,760 --> 01:46:39,599 Speaker 27: but you should come. You know, speak it in corporate America. 2097 01:46:40,040 --> 01:46:42,840 Speaker 27: I thought, I resisted that forever you did a school teacher. 2098 01:46:44,120 --> 01:46:47,280 Speaker 27: A school teacher I had, that means I had twelve 2099 01:46:47,320 --> 01:46:49,120 Speaker 27: months of pay and three months off. I was like, 2100 01:46:49,200 --> 01:46:52,760 Speaker 27: I'm not messing up this formula. And then realized, you know, 2101 01:46:52,880 --> 01:46:58,040 Speaker 27: after I substitute substituted as an instructor as a trainer 2102 01:46:59,160 --> 01:47:03,519 Speaker 27: for this boot boutique firm in Cincinnati, Ohio called Globally 2103 01:47:03,640 --> 01:47:07,040 Speaker 27: Management Consulting at the time, I'll never forget it. I 2104 01:47:08,280 --> 01:47:12,040 Speaker 27: got a check for that day of training that I did. 2105 01:47:12,680 --> 01:47:14,320 Speaker 27: I got it like three four weeks later. I looked 2106 01:47:14,320 --> 01:47:16,000 Speaker 27: at it and I gave it back. I was like, 2107 01:47:16,560 --> 01:47:17,559 Speaker 27: that's way too much money. 2108 01:47:17,600 --> 01:47:21,799 Speaker 10: That wasn't for me. It's like teacher. 2109 01:47:22,360 --> 01:47:25,640 Speaker 27: Only to realize that what she was trying to introduce 2110 01:47:25,720 --> 01:47:28,439 Speaker 27: me to, which is what everyone has in their life. 2111 01:47:28,439 --> 01:47:29,519 Speaker 10: They have what's called insight. 2112 01:47:29,600 --> 01:47:33,000 Speaker 27: Humans people that continue to give you insights for things 2113 01:47:33,000 --> 01:47:35,800 Speaker 27: you can't see for yourself. I wound up transitioning from 2114 01:47:35,800 --> 01:47:38,800 Speaker 27: being a school teacher into the corporate space and doing 2115 01:47:38,840 --> 01:47:42,120 Speaker 27: training and development, and at that firm at that time, 2116 01:47:42,520 --> 01:47:46,040 Speaker 27: I ascended throughout that firm with some great mentors Vincent Brown, 2117 01:47:46,160 --> 01:47:49,479 Speaker 27: Janet Reed, Sam Lynch, John Peeples. All the people that 2118 01:47:49,520 --> 01:47:53,120 Speaker 27: were back at that firm at that time trained me, 2119 01:47:53,120 --> 01:47:55,840 Speaker 27: mentored me, helped me develop the skill that I have 2120 01:47:56,040 --> 01:47:59,959 Speaker 27: now now that I use in my own human capital consults. 2121 01:48:00,160 --> 01:48:03,400 Speaker 27: So a lot of people along the way shaped me. 2122 01:48:03,560 --> 01:48:05,639 Speaker 27: And I tell this to people all the time, never 2123 01:48:05,720 --> 01:48:08,760 Speaker 27: forget who shaped you, right, because you didn't get where 2124 01:48:08,800 --> 01:48:11,799 Speaker 27: you are by yourself, and now you owe. 2125 01:48:12,080 --> 01:48:14,519 Speaker 7: Well, you know the thing about it, one hundred percent degree. 2126 01:48:14,520 --> 01:48:18,200 Speaker 7: That's why. Because you're a unique individual because you bet 2127 01:48:18,240 --> 01:48:20,880 Speaker 7: on yourself and you can't really tell people how you 2128 01:48:20,920 --> 01:48:22,680 Speaker 7: generate income. You know, you can say it, but the 2129 01:48:23,200 --> 01:48:26,160 Speaker 7: average person can't put though. Does he make money? Does 2130 01:48:26,200 --> 01:48:27,880 Speaker 7: he have a nine to five? Does he work Monday 2131 01:48:27,920 --> 01:48:30,799 Speaker 7: through Friday? When does he have off? Does he say vacation? 2132 01:48:30,920 --> 01:48:34,760 Speaker 7: Does he have insurance? So you're that individual that really 2133 01:48:34,800 --> 01:48:37,840 Speaker 7: steps out. You're the word a lot on faith and 2134 01:48:37,880 --> 01:48:40,240 Speaker 7: faith is tied to you gifts. But I go back 2135 01:48:40,280 --> 01:48:42,519 Speaker 7: to when you were fifteen year old and fifteen years old, 2136 01:48:42,840 --> 01:48:46,519 Speaker 7: and your parents managing you. They were shaping the gift 2137 01:48:46,600 --> 01:48:48,640 Speaker 7: because I know the power of music because I was 2138 01:48:48,840 --> 01:48:52,640 Speaker 7: I played B flat clarinet, I played tennis, saxophone, so 2139 01:48:52,720 --> 01:48:55,839 Speaker 7: I knew that. I know the power of music. Music 2140 01:48:56,040 --> 01:48:59,880 Speaker 7: is so incredible from an intellectual and also from a 2141 01:49:00,000 --> 01:49:03,679 Speaker 7: discipline standpoint. And as we see you today, I'm seeing 2142 01:49:03,680 --> 01:49:07,360 Speaker 7: that same discipline. I'm seeing that same skill set of 2143 01:49:07,680 --> 01:49:10,840 Speaker 7: live performances. I'm watching it right now that were just 2144 01:49:10,920 --> 01:49:14,360 Speaker 7: incubated into you at such an early age. Now it's 2145 01:49:14,400 --> 01:49:18,800 Speaker 7: translating those gifts. And I see you, Reginald, and I 2146 01:49:18,840 --> 01:49:22,040 Speaker 7: can call you Reginald your parents, but it's Reggie Butler. 2147 01:49:22,360 --> 01:49:25,240 Speaker 7: Excuse me for stepping out into that parent land, but 2148 01:49:25,360 --> 01:49:27,559 Speaker 7: I want to just say that in talking to you, 2149 01:49:28,680 --> 01:49:32,439 Speaker 7: how do you get people to understand their value? Because 2150 01:49:32,479 --> 01:49:35,599 Speaker 7: you're in the human capital and sometimes and I want 2151 01:49:35,640 --> 01:49:37,960 Speaker 7: to just say this real quick before we get this clear. 2152 01:49:38,400 --> 01:49:40,719 Speaker 7: We can blame a lot of issues on the company 2153 01:49:40,760 --> 01:49:43,200 Speaker 7: we work for. We can blame a lot of issues 2154 01:49:43,240 --> 01:49:46,360 Speaker 7: on race, we can blame a lot of issues on gender. 2155 01:49:46,840 --> 01:49:49,679 Speaker 7: But the core of making that change has to start 2156 01:49:49,720 --> 01:49:51,840 Speaker 7: with how we value ourselves. 2157 01:49:52,000 --> 01:49:53,439 Speaker 10: That's right, talk to us. 2158 01:49:53,439 --> 01:49:53,880 Speaker 7: That's right. 2159 01:49:54,240 --> 01:49:57,280 Speaker 27: Yeah, and so one of the frames that try to 2160 01:49:57,320 --> 01:49:58,080 Speaker 27: put people through. 2161 01:49:58,160 --> 01:49:59,800 Speaker 10: So there's two ways to look at it. 2162 01:50:00,240 --> 01:50:02,960 Speaker 27: One way is to look at your lived experiences and 2163 01:50:03,000 --> 01:50:05,879 Speaker 27: the comfort zone radius you have around your lived experience. 2164 01:50:06,040 --> 01:50:08,680 Speaker 27: So let's say you grew up in a dual family household, 2165 01:50:09,360 --> 01:50:11,960 Speaker 27: you went to college, you have all these lived experiences 2166 01:50:11,960 --> 01:50:13,759 Speaker 27: the shape who you are and give you the messages. 2167 01:50:15,360 --> 01:50:18,840 Speaker 27: That's only one version of a lived experiences. We occupy 2168 01:50:19,080 --> 01:50:22,040 Speaker 27: and cohabitate a world with people that have very different 2169 01:50:22,080 --> 01:50:25,280 Speaker 27: lived experiences. And so how you find your value is 2170 01:50:25,320 --> 01:50:27,400 Speaker 27: you look at the comfort zone radis you have around 2171 01:50:27,400 --> 01:50:31,000 Speaker 27: your own life, your lived experiences, and you overlay that 2172 01:50:31,080 --> 01:50:33,080 Speaker 27: on the people that you need to interact with to 2173 01:50:33,160 --> 01:50:35,120 Speaker 27: get you to next or to be in service to 2174 01:50:35,200 --> 01:50:35,840 Speaker 27: somebody else. 2175 01:50:36,439 --> 01:50:38,439 Speaker 10: And you look up, you step back one day and go. 2176 01:50:40,200 --> 01:50:43,000 Speaker 27: I actually have a purpose, Like I'm supposed to be 2177 01:50:43,040 --> 01:50:47,200 Speaker 27: here in this space doing this thing because it serves something. 2178 01:50:47,800 --> 01:50:51,160 Speaker 27: Tell people all the time, always be in service of 2179 01:50:51,360 --> 01:50:54,400 Speaker 27: changing an outcome, not in service of yourself. Some people 2180 01:50:54,920 --> 01:50:58,400 Speaker 27: get bristle at that because they start to think of 2181 01:50:58,439 --> 01:50:59,200 Speaker 27: themselves as well. 2182 01:50:59,200 --> 01:50:59,960 Speaker 10: That's just being self. 2183 01:51:00,560 --> 01:51:04,000 Speaker 27: I'm saying, It's not about being selfish or not being selfish. 2184 01:51:04,360 --> 01:51:07,519 Speaker 27: But when you live through the lens of who are 2185 01:51:07,560 --> 01:51:13,360 Speaker 27: you helping or what condition are you improving, you live 2186 01:51:13,400 --> 01:51:17,000 Speaker 27: a much you live a much richer life. And that's 2187 01:51:17,040 --> 01:51:18,920 Speaker 27: where you start to look back at yourself and say, 2188 01:51:19,000 --> 01:51:21,840 Speaker 27: now I know what my value proposition is. One thing 2189 01:51:21,880 --> 01:51:25,880 Speaker 27: I tell entrepreneurs all the time, don't negotiate your price, 2190 01:51:27,439 --> 01:51:29,479 Speaker 27: and they go, but I have to because negotiation is 2191 01:51:29,479 --> 01:51:31,800 Speaker 27: part of the thing. It's like, every time you leave 2192 01:51:31,840 --> 01:51:33,920 Speaker 27: with negotiation, that doesn't mean you That means you don't 2193 01:51:33,960 --> 01:51:36,759 Speaker 27: know what you're worth right, know what you're worth first, 2194 01:51:37,320 --> 01:51:40,920 Speaker 27: and then negotiate from that, and negotiation from that could 2195 01:51:40,960 --> 01:51:42,720 Speaker 27: be well, then I must not be your person for 2196 01:51:42,800 --> 01:51:47,479 Speaker 27: today because you can't afford it. But that people have to. 2197 01:51:47,720 --> 01:51:50,960 Speaker 27: You have to get there first. And it's not doesn't 2198 01:51:50,960 --> 01:51:54,479 Speaker 27: happen by accident. It's very intentional. And what I'm trying 2199 01:51:54,479 --> 01:51:57,240 Speaker 27: to get people to really understand Brushan and you, of 2200 01:51:57,280 --> 01:51:59,559 Speaker 27: all people, I know, you know this that different people, 2201 01:51:59,640 --> 01:52:02,600 Speaker 27: because their different life experiences, think there's only one or 2202 01:52:02,640 --> 01:52:03,599 Speaker 27: two ways to do things. 2203 01:52:03,720 --> 01:52:04,920 Speaker 7: Yes, that's it's not true. 2204 01:52:05,640 --> 01:52:08,840 Speaker 27: There are multiple ways to get to certain locations. There 2205 01:52:09,439 --> 01:52:11,840 Speaker 27: is not just one way, and you have to own 2206 01:52:12,479 --> 01:52:16,880 Speaker 27: this thing called change. And I even took this. Most 2207 01:52:16,920 --> 01:52:20,320 Speaker 27: recently I've started doing it. I've created a module again 2208 01:52:20,439 --> 01:52:24,519 Speaker 27: using music that's called find your Rhythm and find your Rhythm. 2209 01:52:24,600 --> 01:52:28,640 Speaker 27: It literally is about any change management principle and organizational 2210 01:52:28,680 --> 01:52:30,519 Speaker 27: designs and things like that. What people have to do 2211 01:52:30,600 --> 01:52:32,439 Speaker 27: is find their rhythm. So I want you to think 2212 01:52:32,479 --> 01:52:35,160 Speaker 27: about people who because of the pandemic. You know, there's 2213 01:52:35,200 --> 01:52:38,200 Speaker 27: three pandemics out there. There's the health pandemic. Yes, there's 2214 01:52:38,200 --> 01:52:41,680 Speaker 27: a racial pandemics, there's an economic pandemic. And in the 2215 01:52:41,720 --> 01:52:44,160 Speaker 27: last fifteen months, we've seen people have to deal with 2216 01:52:44,200 --> 01:52:47,560 Speaker 27: that those pandemics, yes, and they've. 2217 01:52:47,320 --> 01:52:48,200 Speaker 10: Lost their rhythm. 2218 01:52:48,439 --> 01:52:51,280 Speaker 27: Now everybody's tiding nobody, let's go back to work and 2219 01:52:51,800 --> 01:52:53,840 Speaker 27: going back to work, like, how do you find your 2220 01:52:53,960 --> 01:52:56,920 Speaker 27: rhythm to get back into what I tell people to 2221 01:52:56,920 --> 01:52:58,839 Speaker 27: stop saying, which is the new normal? 2222 01:52:59,080 --> 01:52:59,200 Speaker 13: Right? 2223 01:53:00,680 --> 01:53:01,280 Speaker 10: Stop it? 2224 01:53:01,600 --> 01:53:04,000 Speaker 27: Stop saying the new normal because most of you didn't 2225 01:53:04,080 --> 01:53:07,000 Speaker 27: like the last normal, right, and we're about to go through. 2226 01:53:07,000 --> 01:53:09,200 Speaker 27: You have to find your rhythm. And it's not return 2227 01:53:09,320 --> 01:53:11,559 Speaker 27: to work, it's returned to life. 2228 01:53:12,800 --> 01:53:14,639 Speaker 10: You know, you want to deal with that. Man. 2229 01:53:14,840 --> 01:53:16,600 Speaker 7: You know, when I hear you say that, you know, 2230 01:53:16,720 --> 01:53:20,760 Speaker 7: I the thing that because I've been fortunate in my life. 2231 01:53:20,760 --> 01:53:24,000 Speaker 7: I work for the Post Office, I worked for IBM, 2232 01:53:24,080 --> 01:53:26,320 Speaker 7: so I've worked a forty hour shift. I don't understand 2233 01:53:26,360 --> 01:53:29,120 Speaker 7: hourly wage. I understand how to work over time. And 2234 01:53:29,160 --> 01:53:33,599 Speaker 7: then the process individual and a personal job frustration because 2235 01:53:33,600 --> 01:53:36,000 Speaker 7: you deal with a lot of individuals who live in 2236 01:53:36,000 --> 01:53:39,720 Speaker 7: that forty hour weeks structure. Because we're going to talk 2237 01:53:39,760 --> 01:53:43,519 Speaker 7: about Google contracts, you just recently to developed their own diversity, 2238 01:53:43,560 --> 01:53:47,439 Speaker 7: equity and inclusion programs. I talk about that because when 2239 01:53:47,439 --> 01:53:50,400 Speaker 7: you come in and do a program like that, there 2240 01:53:50,439 --> 01:53:52,880 Speaker 7: has to be two sides of this development. There has 2241 01:53:53,000 --> 01:53:58,240 Speaker 7: been an acknowledgement that just because you feel that another 2242 01:53:58,280 --> 01:54:00,280 Speaker 7: person always Let me just share this quick story with you, 2243 01:54:00,400 --> 01:54:04,240 Speaker 7: right quick. I bem. I got hired with two other 2244 01:54:04,320 --> 01:54:08,680 Speaker 7: white guys and I came in simultaneously, and my supervisor 2245 01:54:08,680 --> 01:54:11,439 Speaker 7: asked me what was my goals? What did I want 2246 01:54:11,520 --> 01:54:13,280 Speaker 7: to do? And I told him I didn't know at 2247 01:54:13,280 --> 01:54:16,040 Speaker 7: the time. Okay, he said, okay, whenever you figured out 2248 01:54:16,120 --> 01:54:18,200 Speaker 7: Rashan come back and I come in, just tell me 2249 01:54:18,200 --> 01:54:21,880 Speaker 7: that my door's open. Well, two months went by, three 2250 01:54:21,920 --> 01:54:24,400 Speaker 7: months went by. I still hadn't went back in that door, 2251 01:54:24,960 --> 01:54:28,680 Speaker 7: and the white guys started getting other assignments, and guess what. 2252 01:54:28,800 --> 01:54:31,240 Speaker 7: I started huddling up with my Hey, this is wrong. 2253 01:54:31,240 --> 01:54:33,560 Speaker 7: It is a racial thing going on here, Rachel, what's 2254 01:54:33,600 --> 01:54:35,800 Speaker 7: going on here? And I went and storming in that 2255 01:54:35,920 --> 01:54:38,080 Speaker 7: office and sat down with my supervisory. Hey man, look 2256 01:54:38,520 --> 01:54:40,880 Speaker 7: we started at the same time. Why are they doing 2257 01:54:40,960 --> 01:54:45,840 Speaker 7: more than I'm doing? He said. Rashan, I asked you 2258 01:54:45,880 --> 01:54:48,600 Speaker 7: on your first day, what were your goals? What did 2259 01:54:48,600 --> 01:54:49,760 Speaker 7: you want to do in this company? You told me 2260 01:54:49,800 --> 01:54:52,200 Speaker 7: you're gonna get back with me. Well they got back 2261 01:54:52,240 --> 01:54:55,160 Speaker 7: with me to their very first day, and they're only 2262 01:54:55,240 --> 01:54:58,200 Speaker 7: doing the things that they I'm helping them do the 2263 01:54:58,200 --> 01:54:59,600 Speaker 7: things that they said they want to accomplish. 2264 01:54:59,640 --> 01:55:00,000 Speaker 10: It the company. 2265 01:55:00,640 --> 01:55:02,440 Speaker 7: I say that to put that statement out in front 2266 01:55:02,480 --> 01:55:04,400 Speaker 7: of you, to say, I'm not gonna point in their 2267 01:55:04,400 --> 01:55:07,160 Speaker 7: fingers on this. Reggie, I'm gonna tell you I've been 2268 01:55:07,240 --> 01:55:09,600 Speaker 7: the I want to say, the person who sitting in 2269 01:55:09,640 --> 01:55:13,960 Speaker 7: the corner mad, But I didn't do my job, So 2270 01:55:14,240 --> 01:55:16,560 Speaker 7: who am I mad at? So that now you have 2271 01:55:16,640 --> 01:55:19,960 Speaker 7: to come in with a company like Google try to 2272 01:55:20,040 --> 01:55:23,160 Speaker 7: change the environment. But know there are some ushawn sitting 2273 01:55:23,200 --> 01:55:26,680 Speaker 7: out there. Who told Google adorn thing about what they 2274 01:55:26,720 --> 01:55:27,120 Speaker 7: want to do? 2275 01:55:27,640 --> 01:55:31,280 Speaker 10: Correct? Yes, yeah, and I will tell you one of 2276 01:55:31,320 --> 01:55:32,000 Speaker 10: the things. 2277 01:55:32,000 --> 01:55:35,960 Speaker 27: So there are a lot of companies in the portfolios, 2278 01:55:36,000 --> 01:55:38,320 Speaker 27: you know, all the way from big tech and absolute 2279 01:55:38,360 --> 01:55:41,800 Speaker 27: health care and retail and you know, professional services, automotive, 2280 01:55:41,840 --> 01:55:42,480 Speaker 27: all the things. 2281 01:55:42,800 --> 01:55:45,480 Speaker 10: But here's here's what happens when you have an organization 2282 01:55:45,640 --> 01:55:47,680 Speaker 10: that that's big, like a Google. 2283 01:55:48,000 --> 01:55:51,240 Speaker 27: They had the resources to actually investigate and use data 2284 01:55:51,600 --> 01:55:54,680 Speaker 27: to actually drive towards the source of what the issue is. 2285 01:55:55,040 --> 01:55:57,320 Speaker 10: So they had a hypothesis. 2286 01:55:57,080 --> 01:56:01,240 Speaker 27: That the people that are black, Latin X and women 2287 01:56:01,440 --> 01:56:04,680 Speaker 27: are having different lived experiences inside the organization. And instead 2288 01:56:04,720 --> 01:56:07,920 Speaker 27: of going to the mad rushans, instead of going to 2289 01:56:07,960 --> 01:56:10,560 Speaker 27: the people in the organization and trying to focus on 2290 01:56:10,640 --> 01:56:12,880 Speaker 27: making them feel better, they decided, let's go to the 2291 01:56:12,880 --> 01:56:17,400 Speaker 27: manager population who makes decisions about them every day and 2292 01:56:17,440 --> 01:56:20,440 Speaker 27: get them to understand that the lived experiences aren't the same. 2293 01:56:21,680 --> 01:56:22,080 Speaker 10: And it was. 2294 01:56:22,160 --> 01:56:26,440 Speaker 27: It's amazing when when an organization understands that it's about 2295 01:56:26,480 --> 01:56:28,600 Speaker 27: shifting the culture, not changing the people. 2296 01:56:28,880 --> 01:56:31,480 Speaker 10: Yes, and that's what I do at the firm. 2297 01:56:31,640 --> 01:56:35,000 Speaker 27: We actually work across change management, but we do it 2298 01:56:35,040 --> 01:56:37,600 Speaker 27: through the lens of culture. So if there's a people 2299 01:56:37,720 --> 01:56:40,800 Speaker 27: issue to address, we address it through the culture. 2300 01:56:40,840 --> 01:56:43,120 Speaker 10: We don't address it through the people. We address it 2301 01:56:43,120 --> 01:56:43,480 Speaker 10: through the. 2302 01:56:43,440 --> 01:56:47,000 Speaker 27: Culture, and sometimes the culture will dictate to us after 2303 01:56:47,040 --> 01:56:49,360 Speaker 27: we do some auditor or something like that is to 2304 01:56:49,440 --> 01:56:53,080 Speaker 27: find out where's the issue, where's the problem, let's solve it. 2305 01:56:53,640 --> 01:56:56,360 Speaker 27: And so what we wound up doing, which is while 2306 01:56:56,400 --> 01:57:01,080 Speaker 27: the Forbes article we got highlighted, we created a very 2307 01:57:01,160 --> 01:57:06,960 Speaker 27: experiential program that was at the intersection of understanding the 2308 01:57:07,000 --> 01:57:11,600 Speaker 27: experience of black and brown people, of women, and anybody 2309 01:57:11,600 --> 01:57:14,560 Speaker 27: that was in an underrepresented group and taking it through 2310 01:57:14,560 --> 01:57:17,920 Speaker 27: the lens of art. So we use performance artists, we 2311 01:57:18,080 --> 01:57:21,920 Speaker 27: use singers, we use musicians, we use drummers, we use 2312 01:57:22,000 --> 01:57:25,640 Speaker 27: interpretive dancers, same type of diversity training that most people 2313 01:57:25,720 --> 01:57:27,880 Speaker 27: would say, so let's talk about what it's like to 2314 01:57:27,920 --> 01:57:30,400 Speaker 27: be black here at this organization. Let's talk about what 2315 01:57:30,400 --> 01:57:34,160 Speaker 27: it's like instead of just talking to them, we showed them, right, 2316 01:57:34,400 --> 01:57:37,200 Speaker 27: We created an experience. So just think you have a 2317 01:57:37,280 --> 01:57:40,960 Speaker 27: room of dominant culture people, mostly white, sitting there trying 2318 01:57:41,000 --> 01:57:43,720 Speaker 27: to understand what it's like to be somebody that's not them, 2319 01:57:43,920 --> 01:57:45,960 Speaker 27: that doesn't have the lived experience they do. 2320 01:57:46,200 --> 01:57:50,200 Speaker 10: But the way they get the message is through art. 2321 01:57:50,760 --> 01:57:53,360 Speaker 27: So we have someone curate an art piece and explain 2322 01:57:53,520 --> 01:57:55,400 Speaker 27: why this piece of art was done and the reason 2323 01:57:55,400 --> 01:57:58,200 Speaker 27: it was done because this person feels invisible and that's 2324 01:57:58,200 --> 01:58:00,360 Speaker 27: why this piece of art looks like that. We would 2325 01:58:00,360 --> 01:58:03,080 Speaker 27: then turn to the audience and say, is there anybody 2326 01:58:03,120 --> 01:58:05,760 Speaker 27: on your team that feels like they are invisible? And 2327 01:58:05,800 --> 01:58:08,400 Speaker 27: what's that reason? Can you do anything about it? It 2328 01:58:08,480 --> 01:58:11,200 Speaker 27: was so different. We took some survey results. This was 2329 01:58:11,360 --> 01:58:13,520 Speaker 27: one of the most interesting things. You know, how you 2330 01:58:13,560 --> 01:58:16,680 Speaker 27: do these inclusions for every organization that's surveys to see 2331 01:58:16,720 --> 01:58:19,680 Speaker 27: how their people feel. And one of the questions was 2332 01:58:19,680 --> 01:58:21,600 Speaker 27: about inclusion. Do you feel like you feel included? And 2333 01:58:21,640 --> 01:58:24,640 Speaker 27: the score was pretty low. We took some of the 2334 01:58:24,760 --> 01:58:27,760 Speaker 27: comments from the survey that said, this is what it 2335 01:58:27,800 --> 01:58:29,600 Speaker 27: feels like for me to be here, I don't feel 2336 01:58:29,600 --> 01:58:32,880 Speaker 27: like I'm seeing etcetera, etc. We took those comments, we 2337 01:58:32,960 --> 01:58:35,800 Speaker 27: strung them together, put a music bed under it, and 2338 01:58:35,840 --> 01:58:39,360 Speaker 27: then had dancers to interpret the dance to it to 2339 01:58:39,440 --> 01:58:42,280 Speaker 27: show the emotion. Because as long as there's just data 2340 01:58:42,640 --> 01:58:44,920 Speaker 27: in one dimension on a page in a survey, in 2341 01:58:44,960 --> 01:58:50,160 Speaker 27: a spreadsheet, you can't feel that. So we created a 2342 01:58:50,400 --> 01:58:54,360 Speaker 27: story and a narrative that allowed people to feel just 2343 01:58:54,440 --> 01:58:56,440 Speaker 27: the next space we sit in, I. 2344 01:58:56,400 --> 01:58:57,640 Speaker 10: Am to rushine. You know this. 2345 01:58:58,120 --> 01:59:00,480 Speaker 27: You can talk and complain all you want. You get 2346 01:59:00,480 --> 01:59:04,120 Speaker 27: somebody to feel, I mean, connect the emotion with the intellect. 2347 01:59:04,400 --> 01:59:05,680 Speaker 10: You won't get changed. 2348 01:59:05,360 --> 01:59:09,680 Speaker 7: To happen, you know, And you absolutely correct. And because 2349 01:59:10,000 --> 01:59:12,200 Speaker 7: this is what this interview is about. Change also about 2350 01:59:12,280 --> 01:59:15,720 Speaker 7: acceptance also by recognizing, like I said, you're not invisible, 2351 01:59:16,080 --> 01:59:20,320 Speaker 7: and so you know, being that I've walked these different 2352 01:59:20,360 --> 01:59:23,760 Speaker 7: lanes and entertainment you know, uh, the corporateb be and 2353 01:59:23,800 --> 01:59:27,520 Speaker 7: an entrepreneur, and then but that workspace that's really the 2354 01:59:27,600 --> 01:59:32,240 Speaker 7: key dynamic and especially have working remotely, that's the that's 2355 01:59:32,280 --> 01:59:34,680 Speaker 7: the other part of the conversation. You broke down the 2356 01:59:34,680 --> 01:59:39,520 Speaker 7: three that working remotely now also leads to damage because 2357 01:59:39,520 --> 01:59:42,520 Speaker 7: of the fact that how do you how do you 2358 01:59:43,320 --> 01:59:45,840 Speaker 7: properly supervise somebody who's working from home? How do you 2359 01:59:45,840 --> 01:59:49,400 Speaker 7: properly promote somebody who's working from home? Which creates another 2360 01:59:49,600 --> 01:59:53,320 Speaker 7: anks And am I being treated right? Am I going 2361 01:59:53,360 --> 01:59:56,400 Speaker 7: to get a proper recognition for the work I'm producing? 2362 01:59:56,960 --> 01:59:59,320 Speaker 7: Your world has gotten even more complicated in. 2363 01:59:59,280 --> 01:59:59,800 Speaker 10: A good way. 2364 02:00:00,680 --> 02:00:03,600 Speaker 7: That's right in a good way with the remote tool 2365 02:00:03,640 --> 02:00:06,120 Speaker 7: that's suddenly been thrown into your little tool box. 2366 02:00:06,840 --> 02:00:07,360 Speaker 13: Yeah. 2367 02:00:07,520 --> 02:00:10,800 Speaker 27: Yeah, I have no shortage of examples of people doing 2368 02:00:10,800 --> 02:00:13,640 Speaker 27: the on ramp back into work. So you do realize, 2369 02:00:13,800 --> 02:00:14,720 Speaker 27: I think everybody knows this. 2370 02:00:14,800 --> 02:00:15,440 Speaker 10: So a lot of. 2371 02:00:15,400 --> 02:00:19,480 Speaker 27: Companies actually experience exponential growth over the last fifteen months, 2372 02:00:19,520 --> 02:00:21,600 Speaker 27: and they hired a lot of people virtually and they 2373 02:00:21,760 --> 02:00:25,120 Speaker 27: never met them. Yes, so they have to deal with that. 2374 02:00:25,600 --> 02:00:28,920 Speaker 27: Then you have some companies that decided, hey, I didn't 2375 02:00:28,920 --> 02:00:30,840 Speaker 27: know this flexible work thing was actually going to work, 2376 02:00:30,880 --> 02:00:32,720 Speaker 27: and now there's working, I don't need them to come 2377 02:00:32,760 --> 02:00:35,560 Speaker 27: back and need them to stay home. Okay, So now 2378 02:00:35,600 --> 02:00:38,879 Speaker 27: you got that population. Then you have the what everybody's 2379 02:00:38,880 --> 02:00:41,560 Speaker 27: saying is the hybrid population. We're your own rotation that 2380 02:00:41,640 --> 02:00:43,320 Speaker 27: comes to the building, but you only have to come 2381 02:00:43,360 --> 02:00:44,960 Speaker 27: in for two days and you have to rotate with 2382 02:00:45,000 --> 02:00:45,640 Speaker 27: somebody else. 2383 02:00:46,480 --> 02:00:47,280 Speaker 10: Now you've got a. 2384 02:00:47,400 --> 02:00:52,080 Speaker 27: Manager who's never ever had to do that before. They 2385 02:00:52,160 --> 02:00:55,200 Speaker 27: don't know how to do that, and they are ill equipped. 2386 02:00:55,480 --> 02:00:59,480 Speaker 27: They're well intended though, because they are trying. And what 2387 02:00:59,520 --> 02:01:01,640 Speaker 27: we try to do is put some framing around to 2388 02:01:01,720 --> 02:01:04,960 Speaker 27: say just the just all of the different versions and 2389 02:01:05,000 --> 02:01:07,680 Speaker 27: iterations you're gonna have to go through. Do not look 2390 02:01:07,760 --> 02:01:09,400 Speaker 27: for a new normal soon. 2391 02:01:09,240 --> 02:01:11,160 Speaker 10: Because it's a phased approach. 2392 02:01:11,440 --> 02:01:11,920 Speaker 7: Yes it is. 2393 02:01:11,960 --> 02:01:14,120 Speaker 27: You still have to create human connection and you have 2394 02:01:14,160 --> 02:01:17,560 Speaker 27: to do it through screens. I'm gonna give you. I'm 2395 02:01:17,680 --> 02:01:19,920 Speaker 27: give you a tip. I told a manager the other day. 2396 02:01:19,960 --> 02:01:23,080 Speaker 27: I said, when you everybody's back, you've been doing all 2397 02:01:23,080 --> 02:01:26,960 Speaker 27: these things, would you stop asking people on Mondays how 2398 02:01:27,000 --> 02:01:27,920 Speaker 27: their weekend was? 2399 02:01:28,280 --> 02:01:28,480 Speaker 13: Right? 2400 02:01:29,000 --> 02:01:32,440 Speaker 27: That is not inclusive? What are you talking about? I said, 2401 02:01:32,520 --> 02:01:35,520 Speaker 27: think about the pandemic all of them? Do you realize 2402 02:01:35,520 --> 02:01:37,240 Speaker 27: that some people the last thing they want to talk 2403 02:01:37,280 --> 02:01:40,600 Speaker 27: about what they had to deal with on the weekend. 2404 02:01:41,320 --> 02:01:43,879 Speaker 27: I lost somebody to COVID, I'm going through a divorce, 2405 02:01:44,040 --> 02:01:46,640 Speaker 27: my friends are out of jobs. I'm still trying, still 2406 02:01:46,680 --> 02:01:49,800 Speaker 27: doing zoom school. But I hear some of my colleagues 2407 02:01:49,840 --> 02:01:51,400 Speaker 27: on the call. When you ask what did you do 2408 02:01:51,440 --> 02:01:53,360 Speaker 27: over the weekend? They say, oh, I was able to 2409 02:01:53,400 --> 02:01:56,320 Speaker 27: go hiking. I feel so much better now. It's like, 2410 02:01:56,720 --> 02:02:00,800 Speaker 27: that's not my experience, right, Right, I'm telling managers now, 2411 02:02:01,080 --> 02:02:03,640 Speaker 27: pay attention to the questions you ask. A much better 2412 02:02:03,720 --> 02:02:07,080 Speaker 27: question is not how is your weekend? A better question 2413 02:02:07,120 --> 02:02:09,800 Speaker 27: as a leader, right, now is to say what's important 2414 02:02:09,800 --> 02:02:11,520 Speaker 27: to you this week and how can I help? 2415 02:02:12,360 --> 02:02:15,800 Speaker 7: And also what's important how are you doing? That's important too, 2416 02:02:15,840 --> 02:02:18,720 Speaker 7: because what happens is the interesting thing about the work 2417 02:02:18,960 --> 02:02:21,280 Speaker 7: and a home dynamic Reggie, as we wrapped us up, 2418 02:02:21,800 --> 02:02:25,320 Speaker 7: is that you got kids. You might have a wife 2419 02:02:25,360 --> 02:02:28,120 Speaker 7: running around in the background, you might have a dog barking. 2420 02:02:28,480 --> 02:02:31,720 Speaker 7: You might you know you're an electrician, might show up 2421 02:02:31,720 --> 02:02:34,040 Speaker 7: at the same time that your meetings going on with 2422 02:02:34,040 --> 02:02:37,680 Speaker 7: your zoom call. It's bringing on a whole slew of 2423 02:02:37,760 --> 02:02:41,840 Speaker 7: dynamics that can make you look unprofessional, which can in 2424 02:02:41,920 --> 02:02:45,320 Speaker 7: turn impact how you think you're being perceived by the 2425 02:02:45,360 --> 02:02:48,080 Speaker 7: company that's hiring you. So when you lay out these 2426 02:02:48,120 --> 02:02:50,120 Speaker 7: shields and when you when you get hired by a 2427 02:02:50,200 --> 02:02:52,680 Speaker 7: company like Google, like I said, they brought you in 2428 02:02:52,720 --> 02:02:57,360 Speaker 7: and you use these bigger words diversity, training, equity, inclusion, 2429 02:02:58,280 --> 02:03:00,560 Speaker 7: that's a lot to put on your plate. How do 2430 02:03:00,640 --> 02:03:05,160 Speaker 7: you how do you not replicate because every situation is different. 2431 02:03:05,200 --> 02:03:09,280 Speaker 7: I always say that fintechic health companies, you don't bring 2432 02:03:09,360 --> 02:03:11,800 Speaker 7: the same model in. How do you bring a model 2433 02:03:11,840 --> 02:03:14,120 Speaker 7: in and how do you survey the right approach to 2434 02:03:14,160 --> 02:03:15,600 Speaker 7: that particular company's needs. 2435 02:03:16,360 --> 02:03:19,480 Speaker 27: Well, some of it is is most companies already have 2436 02:03:19,520 --> 02:03:22,160 Speaker 27: identified what the problem is. They're still working on this source. 2437 02:03:22,160 --> 02:03:23,800 Speaker 27: So we try to go in and say, I don't 2438 02:03:23,840 --> 02:03:25,400 Speaker 27: need you to do new work with me. I don't 2439 02:03:25,400 --> 02:03:27,280 Speaker 27: need you to go look up stuff that you've already 2440 02:03:27,280 --> 02:03:29,400 Speaker 27: looked up. I need to start where you are, and 2441 02:03:29,440 --> 02:03:32,600 Speaker 27: which I try to get. You know, companies, businesses, people's 2442 02:03:32,640 --> 02:03:36,080 Speaker 27: individuals start where you are, not where you were, right, 2443 02:03:36,200 --> 02:03:38,600 Speaker 27: and way too many people going, well, let's go back 2444 02:03:38,640 --> 02:03:41,920 Speaker 27: and let's study the past so we can figure out 2445 02:03:41,920 --> 02:03:43,720 Speaker 27: how to deal with now. And I'm going, can we 2446 02:03:43,760 --> 02:03:44,960 Speaker 27: start with now and. 2447 02:03:45,000 --> 02:03:46,000 Speaker 10: Focus on the future. 2448 02:03:47,240 --> 02:03:50,440 Speaker 27: You think about that the past already happened. Yes, you 2449 02:03:50,600 --> 02:03:53,360 Speaker 27: have so much data, so much surveys. How much data 2450 02:03:53,360 --> 02:03:55,160 Speaker 27: do you need to know that things are just. 2451 02:03:55,080 --> 02:03:55,960 Speaker 7: A little messed up? 2452 02:03:56,160 --> 02:03:59,040 Speaker 27: Yes, yes, and that there is an answer. Let's go 2453 02:03:59,160 --> 02:04:01,720 Speaker 27: with what we know and move forward. I tell people 2454 02:04:01,760 --> 02:04:05,200 Speaker 27: all the time, create forward momentum. If you're not creating 2455 02:04:05,280 --> 02:04:09,600 Speaker 27: forward momentum, you're holding things back. Answer the question every 2456 02:04:09,600 --> 02:04:11,920 Speaker 27: single day, what did I do this week that created 2457 02:04:11,960 --> 02:04:15,360 Speaker 27: traction and momentum. I call it the relevancy paradigm. You 2458 02:04:15,360 --> 02:04:17,040 Speaker 27: spend a lot of energy on a lot of stuff. 2459 02:04:17,200 --> 02:04:19,360 Speaker 27: You do a lot of actions. If it's not having 2460 02:04:19,400 --> 02:04:22,840 Speaker 27: any impact and you're not creating any momentum, then make 2461 02:04:22,880 --> 02:04:26,839 Speaker 27: the business choice and the human choice to stop focusing 2462 02:04:26,960 --> 02:04:31,000 Speaker 27: energy on it, focus on where you create momentum. 2463 02:04:31,160 --> 02:04:34,880 Speaker 7: Yes, sir, you standing there, and it's engaging me so 2464 02:04:34,960 --> 02:04:37,800 Speaker 7: much because you probably know that yourself. You know, I've 2465 02:04:37,800 --> 02:04:41,440 Speaker 7: never interviewed anybody's standing. That is so important. It's so 2466 02:04:41,520 --> 02:04:44,840 Speaker 7: powerful because I feel like you're communicating with me. I 2467 02:04:44,880 --> 02:04:47,760 Speaker 7: feel like that if you extended your hand right now, Rechie, 2468 02:04:47,800 --> 02:04:50,920 Speaker 7: I will probably have I'll probably stand my hands trying 2469 02:04:50,920 --> 02:04:53,800 Speaker 7: to shake it because it feels so natural. You feel me. 2470 02:04:54,120 --> 02:04:57,960 Speaker 7: So if you're doing it like this, keep doing it 2471 02:04:58,000 --> 02:05:02,480 Speaker 7: like this. This is fantastic, very welcoming personality you feel. 2472 02:05:02,520 --> 02:05:05,720 Speaker 7: With a world world of information, I will be the 2473 02:05:05,720 --> 02:05:08,560 Speaker 7: first to lie for whatever you do. Send me your flyers, 2474 02:05:08,600 --> 02:05:10,200 Speaker 7: send me all your informations. I can put it on 2475 02:05:10,200 --> 02:05:13,360 Speaker 7: our social media, and let's keep building your brand and 2476 02:05:13,440 --> 02:05:16,080 Speaker 7: also changing lives because that's what you're doing. You're changing 2477 02:05:16,120 --> 02:05:17,400 Speaker 7: lives for black and brown people. 2478 02:05:17,520 --> 02:05:20,280 Speaker 27: Were good, We're good man, and you keep doing what 2479 02:05:20,280 --> 02:05:22,760 Speaker 27: you're doing. I'm telling you what you do matters. I 2480 02:05:22,760 --> 02:05:24,320 Speaker 27: know you may not get that a lot, but I'm 2481 02:05:24,360 --> 02:05:25,720 Speaker 27: telling you it does work. 2482 02:05:26,080 --> 02:05:27,200 Speaker 13: I don't I don't. 2483 02:05:27,040 --> 02:05:28,440 Speaker 10: Care what you say. 2484 02:05:28,720 --> 02:05:30,720 Speaker 27: I don't care if you don't get the accolades you 2485 02:05:30,800 --> 02:05:33,760 Speaker 27: think you deserve. You are making a difference. We need 2486 02:05:33,800 --> 02:05:35,960 Speaker 27: you to be you in this space now. Will I 2487 02:05:36,040 --> 02:05:37,800 Speaker 27: thank you, thank you for everything, and. 2488 02:05:37,720 --> 02:05:39,840 Speaker 7: I thank you for coming on Money Making Conversation. If 2489 02:05:39,880 --> 02:05:41,800 Speaker 7: you want to see this interview or hear this interview 2490 02:05:41,800 --> 02:05:44,640 Speaker 7: on Money Making Conversation, please go to money Making Conversation 2491 02:05:44,720 --> 02:05:46,680 Speaker 7: dot com money. I'm Rashaan McDonald. 2492 02:05:46,720 --> 02:05:49,120 Speaker 18: I am the operation with McDonald. 2493 02:05:49,200 --> 02:05:55,680 Speaker 7: We will set down the legendary foundation and unite network. 2494 02:05:55,840 --> 02:05:57,680 Speaker 7: He was on the show to discuss his star role 2495 02:05:57,760 --> 02:06:02,000 Speaker 7: in Steven Starterberg's do crime drama No Sudden Moves, available 2496 02:06:02,080 --> 02:06:03,600 Speaker 7: on HBO Max. 2497 02:06:04,120 --> 02:06:06,080 Speaker 28: If you were black, you had to be able to 2498 02:06:06,160 --> 02:06:09,240 Speaker 28: play chess and the chess games, so if they had 2499 02:06:09,320 --> 02:06:13,400 Speaker 28: negotiators with them, you have to negotiate. If the negotiations 2500 02:06:13,440 --> 02:06:16,120 Speaker 28: didn't go well and they had guns, you had to 2501 02:06:16,160 --> 02:06:20,360 Speaker 28: have guns. Yes, so you know you could not negotiate 2502 02:06:20,520 --> 02:06:23,840 Speaker 28: with someone who felt you were weak and unprepared. 2503 02:06:24,240 --> 02:06:26,440 Speaker 11: The only way you could negotiate. 2504 02:06:25,960 --> 02:06:28,160 Speaker 28: With them is to look them in the eye, and 2505 02:06:28,160 --> 02:06:31,600 Speaker 28: they understood the consequences of disrespecting. So I played the 2506 02:06:31,600 --> 02:06:36,640 Speaker 28: head of the black gang and we negotiate over some issues. 2507 02:06:36,720 --> 02:06:38,720 Speaker 7: If you want to hear the full interview, would Bill 2508 02:06:38,840 --> 02:06:41,960 Speaker 7: do It? 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