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Speaker 1: The media said that Paul Pierce got arrested from suspicion

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Speaker 1: of duy. Do you have something that you want to

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 1: Karen Stephans superhead.

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Speaker 2: She went on, that's crazy to have that type of nickname.

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Speaker 1: Right, Mary the hole, meaning like man should marry whores?

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Speaker 2: Come on, man, is she married?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: There we go, why she's not married? Then a woman

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Speaker 2: to last? Yeah, we hate like when we're in the

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Speaker 2: dog house and then y'all, you know, we get it

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Speaker 2: cracking that night. Okay, it just be one of the knights.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, And so he thinks he's back good yeah

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Speaker 2: yeah yeah, and then like you know, day or two

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Speaker 2: later he tried to get it back cracking and you off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah yeah.

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Speaker 2: What was we just like just cool, like we're not cool? Now.

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Speaker 1: Cam Newton, let me make sure I do not misquote him.

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Speaker 1: He said that he needs the list of his girls

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Speaker 1: partners that she's left with, period the names.

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Speaker 2: It's probably crazy.

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Speaker 1: It's not.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna send you. I'm gonna fact you these because

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Speaker 2: I don't want you.

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Speaker 1: To say no, actually, my list is not crazy. No,

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Speaker 2: This is taken over the game. All right, everybody, Welcome

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Speaker 2: to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 1: Do you think that men or women are more toxic?

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Speaker 1: Hello to all the beautiful people out there you are

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Speaker 1: watching the Truth after Dark. Thank you for joining us

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Speaker 1: and continuing to support us. I am your host Tazar for.

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Speaker 2: To day and your boy Truth in the Building.

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Speaker 1: In the building. So today we're gonna start with a

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Speaker 1: few current events. The first most pressing one is that

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Speaker 1: the media said that Paul Pierce got arrested from suspicion

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Speaker 1: of a duy. Do you have something that you want

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Speaker 2: Man friving stuck in traffic cars wasn't moving right. I'm like, dang,

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Speaker 2: I'm like past my bedtime right, like I'm at nine

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Speaker 1: Show'm nine o'clock.

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Speaker 2: It was like ten thirty. I'm sitting in there like man,

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Speaker 2: Like there was none moving. I never even seen non moving.

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Speaker 2: At least you're gonna inch, you know. I just closed

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Speaker 2: my eyes and then it was man, I can't put

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Speaker 2: myself in that situation though. You know when you close

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Speaker 1: And not riding, well, you weren't driving.

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Speaker 2: I put it in park. Actually, I put it in park.

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Speaker 2: You were sitting there so long.

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Speaker 1: It was like forty five minutes. You was sitting there.

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Speaker 2: Theah, yeah, I know, and it was just like damn.

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Speaker 2: I didn't think it was ever gonna end. I thought

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Speaker 2: somebody had died on the freeway. I thought it was

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Speaker 2: you know, I don't have my day in court.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, I get it. I would fall asleep

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Speaker 1: to forty five minutes sitting somewhere at past my bedtime.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure knocking the fuck out. I'm gonna tell you

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Speaker 1: that right now. That's crazy. I'm sorry that happened to you,

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Speaker 1: wild but you know, the truth will prevail, period. The

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Speaker 1: Stephan's superhead. She went on right, So she she went

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Speaker 1: on actually one of my friends podcasts, and she has

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Speaker 1: meaning like men should marry horrores because they really want

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Speaker 1: You wrote like a tell all of all the men

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Speaker 2: To get back relevant and everything. Man, nobody messing with her.

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Speaker 1: Man, come on and little Wayne? And you know what's

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Speaker 1: Cooked well, she was saying that what a hole will

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Speaker 1: Because sex is everywhere, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: And she could get it and you can see it.

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Speaker 2: It's like, damn, you didn't look at everything else I

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Speaker 1: You feel miserable after you get got and oh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, until you make a mistake. And that's why making

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Speaker 2: Or love is what you can deal with. Yeah, like

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Speaker 1: But are you willing to do the work, recognize where

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Speaker 1: All right, Like that's half the battle, they says. Half

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Speaker 2: Like this is the thing about man. We you know,

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Speaker 2: and she gonna drop to her knees apologize all that.

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Speaker 2: to like go overboard sometimes with that apology. Yeah, yo,

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Speaker 2: And we always figure like and you know what our

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Speaker 1: True, that's right, man, do that a.

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Speaker 2: are we gonna work through this?

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Speaker 1: Exactly?

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Speaker 2: Like, let's work on working through this, because that's not

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Speaker 1: But you have to put it. Like you said, it's

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Speaker 1: It's not going to work. Then if one of you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a tough situation.

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Speaker 1: It's a tough situation.

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Speaker 2: There's no real timeline on that. Yeah, you know what

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Then a woman gonna hard part it. For I

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Speaker 2: If he he ain't gonna sit out here and mope,

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Speaker 2: Be like man, you know, we're gonna talk about it

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Speaker 1: Can we cool?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we might be cool?

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Speaker 2: Like, all right, we're getting back somewhere, we're getting back cool.

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Speaker 2: Man? You know you like what's going on? Like I

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Speaker 1: of saying her vows, he says his vowels, and she

438
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:11,520
Speaker 1: starts reading off the text. Means in front of his

439
00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,919
Speaker 1: whole family and her family and everyone about his affair.

440
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 1: Isn't that wild? Like you have to be a vindictive right?

441
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:24,320
Speaker 2: Did they still get married? No, oh they didn't get

442
00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 2: married or you waited till that day.

443
00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:29,200
Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to tell you. You went through

444
00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 1: with a whole wedding, got your makeup, of dress, bridesmaid's families, everything,

445
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 1: paid for everything. You want to dral feel it you. Yeah,

446
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:43,480
Speaker 1: And she went up there and she basically read all

447
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:48,000
Speaker 1: the texts. She exposed all the shooting in front of anyone,

448
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:50,359
Speaker 1: because like.

449
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 2: You made him look bad, right, but you.

450
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,440
Speaker 1: Did to me in my opinion, I think so.

451
00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:59,919
Speaker 2: You publicly embarrassed yourself too.

452
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,160
Speaker 1: I agree, like what are you doing?

453
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,640
Speaker 2: Like that's the society and that's the generation we live

454
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 2: in situated for it to be a whole public thing

455
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:11,440
Speaker 2: to like say, hey, I'm gonna put you on blast

456
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 2: in front of everybody, making so like really he like,

457
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 2: oh really, that's what you was on all right?

458
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,679
Speaker 1: I know he's sick though. You gotta be sick.

459
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 2: You got to be paid for the way and he's sick.

460
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:24,879
Speaker 1: And you're in front of your family and your friend.

461
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 2: Because that's embarrassing. Like this is the one day I

462
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 2: thought this was gonna be the happiest day of my life,

463
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 2: turned out to be one of the saddest. Days of

464
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:35,560
Speaker 2: my life, Like why would you do that?

465
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:38,320
Speaker 1: That's a girl, that's but.

466
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:42,440
Speaker 2: Like that's also a blessing in disguise too. It's like, damn,

467
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 2: if I had to marry into this and this is

468
00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 2: what it was going to be, like I might have

469
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 2: saved my life. I might have saved some money and

470
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 2: some headache, truthfully, So like if I'm here, I'm glad

471
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 2: this happened today because if once I put the ring

472
00:23:56,800 --> 00:24:01,919
Speaker 2: on as a man and marriage and I gotta do this, what.

473
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 1: That means you trying to bring me save?

474
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:08,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, like thanks, I'm glad you did that.

475
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 1: Like instead of behind closed doors, you can't community. See,

476
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:13,399
Speaker 1: this is what I don't like. I don't like a

477
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 1: motherfucker that can't have communication. You can't be with someone

478
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 1: for all these years willing to get married and something

479
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:22,240
Speaker 1: happens and you don't have a conversation. I don't like that.

480
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,439
Speaker 1: Talk to your partner. What happened? What is it?

481
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:25,639
Speaker 2: Like?

482
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 1: Have a price? I don't like all that public sham

483
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 1: in somebody making them feel so bad. You're this you're discussing,

484
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,639
Speaker 1: Like I don't like that. I'm not dealing with that.

485
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,920
Speaker 1: I don't fuck with that. Like generation I don't fuck

486
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 1: with that, like, yeah, I know he.

487
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 2: Took me to cheesecake, Like I'm that type of feel like.

488
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 1: A yeah, you're embarrassing yourself though as a woman, be classic,

489
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 1: like I don't want people in my business. I don't

490
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,400
Speaker 1: want everybody my mom, my dad, my cousin, my niece,

491
00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 1: my nephew to see the text message you was sheting

492
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 1: on me with, like have some koof about yourself. And

493
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:06,119
Speaker 1: I feel like this generation over is over exposed. We

494
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 1: have no privacy, Like you are afraid to fuck with

495
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: someone because they're gonna blast your business. Like it's blowing

496
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 1: me because it's like give us an opportunity to have

497
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 1: something for ourselves. If we're going through something in our

498
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:24,719
Speaker 1: personal relationship, this is not a place to put it

499
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 1: out to the whole world to see. This is not

500
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 1: for social media. This is the intimacy of our relationship.

501
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 1: Why is everyone need to know this?

502
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:37,960
Speaker 2: Like this is that error, like like we're an air

503
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 2: of like social media. We're in the era of like

504
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 2: I want you to know what's going on live right now.

505
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:47,440
Speaker 1: Stream exposing yeah, exposing.

506
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 2: My life, like this is the error to the people

507
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 2: making a lot of money from exposing the Yeah.

508
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:54,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

509
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I don't want to like deal with that

510
00:25:58,800 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 2: type of pressure.

511
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 1: Yea expose my life, yeah.

512
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,119
Speaker 2: Twenty four hours and then we watch that, So people

513
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 2: want to do it. Yeah, and they think that creates popularity,

514
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:15,880
Speaker 2: They think it generates money, they think it becomes fame. Yeah,

515
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 2: and people chase fame, money and popularity more than ever

516
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 2: by exposing everything you do and letting everybody see it,

517
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 2: because they saying, this is my true author, they self,

518
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 2: and this is what you get to see on it

519
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,800
Speaker 2: every day, and this is who I am. Like, Yeah,

520
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,400
Speaker 2: I'm like, come on, man, something either be kept right

521
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 2: behind the scenes, and I'm always gonna have that. I'm

522
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 2: always gonna have that moving forward. It's gonna be like

523
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 2: something I can keep. I can hold on to this.

524
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, you expose for you.

525
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:50,159
Speaker 2: This is for me my sanity because I'm keeping on

526
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 2: sanity because that type of behavior will drive you crazy.

527
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. And you have no privacy, And I feel like

528
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 1: I value privacy where we live in a generation of

529
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 1: people who do not, And I value my privacy. I

530
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 1: value keeping the things that go on between me and

531
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 1: my personal relationships private. I don't need that to be

532
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 1: publicized everywhere. And I realize that even now when it

533
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 1: comes to everything, like women used to have to pay

534
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,919
Speaker 1: to see them like naked or something or see a titty.

535
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: Now I could literally open my Instagram and see titties

536
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:28,680
Speaker 1: like anything so exposed it leaves no mystery what happened

537
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,119
Speaker 1: to Like mystery used to be sexy, you know, Like

538
00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 1: now it's like I could just see everything.

539
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 2: Everything gets driven by the dollar in a variety, you know,

540
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:44,160
Speaker 2: because like now like to be, everything is sexualized, everything

541
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:50,959
Speaker 2: is visualized, everything is exposed because you are able to

542
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:56,199
Speaker 2: monetize all all of that. Yeah, and like instead of

543
00:27:56,280 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 2: like me, you know, the only fans now and the

544
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 2: watching the fight, instead of breaking it up like everything,

545
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 2: they try to monetize it because now it's just like no,

546
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 2: there's no just like where's the dignity in it? You

547
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:16,640
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, where's the like where's the compassion

548
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 2: for like just self care and care for other people,

549
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 2: or like it's just like dude, I don't like people

550
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,200
Speaker 2: will feel somebody getting their ass right.

551
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 1: There before helping, before help, then.

552
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 2: Like people will expose somebody instead of like getting to

553
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 2: the real issue just before the notoriety of it for monetizing,

554
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 2: and it's like then when everything is now monetized and

555
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 2: you can make money off embarrassing and just exposing yourself.

556
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 1: And other people and other people like people going to

557
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 1: expose it to people. Think about young in jail whoever

558
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 1: was selling his his recordings of his phone, his intimate conversations,

559
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:08,239
Speaker 1: like whatever, whatever, whatever. He was saying, Okay, I'm not

560
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: defending it, but I'm just saying, like the fact that

561
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 1: people can't have intimate conversations. If they feel like they

562
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 1: can make a dollar off of you, they're gonna sell

563
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 1: that information. It doesn't matter. It's just like, damn, can

564
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: someone just have a privacy for once.

565
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 2: Like so glad I'm not a Wian in this generation. Yeah,

566
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 2: like and just doing stuff. But like, come on, man, like.

567
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:34,240
Speaker 1: I'm good, Yeah, I'm.

568
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 2: Good that I was able to keep some stuff to

569
00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 2: myself and have like this in my back pocket and

570
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 2: I didn't have to show, you know, all the behind

571
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 2: the scenes stuff, like come on, man, like, just it's.

572
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 1: Just mystery is not there anymore. And that's yeah. So

573
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: Cam Newton, let me make sure I do not misquote him.

574
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:03,120
Speaker 1: He said that he the list of his girls partners

575
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 1: that she's left with, period, the names, and he said

576
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 1: he needs the names because he wants to know who

577
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: got one up on him. And he doesn't want to

578
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 1: walk into the place with his girl and he's like, yeah, she'

579
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 1: bad she did. He wants some juice baby, blah lah.

580
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 1: He said that is the juice babe line and everything.

581
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 1: And he was like, I don't want to be in

582
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 1: front of a man who I know, like you had

583
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 1: that and now I'm key king with a man and

584
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 1: you was with my girl. And he was like, it's

585
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 1: just about me having that transparency and knowing so I

586
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 1: could move accordingly. And then his girl came out and

587
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 1: was just like, I'm so glad I gave him my

588
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 1: whole list. I feel relieved. You know, she's tweeted that

589
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 1: or put it somewhere. So yeah, that was his thing.

590
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,479
Speaker 1: And he was like, and there's a lot of people

591
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 1: that are like, all right, cool, I could work with that.

592
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 1: And he said, and then if it's someone like that

593
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 1: was my teammates, you know, like that was someone I

594
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 1: see every day, Like I'm not, I'm not I might

595
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 1: not be able to deal with that, he said. But

596
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: if it's someone cool, cool, you know. But yeah he

597
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 1: said I need that list.

598
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I get it, you know, And that's

599
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 2: it's for me, it's a double less sword because it's like, damn,

600
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,719
Speaker 2: do I really want to know or do I Like?

601
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 2: I get it? I get it, Like I completely get it,

602
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. I was in a situation

603
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 2: to where I was talking to this girl. I was

604
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:34,239
Speaker 2: dating this girl, right and you know, we went out

605
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 2: a couple of times and then uh it was like

606
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 2: I remember, uh we had dinner if we sat down

607
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 2: and she was like, yeah, my ex is woof the

608
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 2: woop And I was just like what, like I currently

609
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 2: kick it with him like from time to time, but

610
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 2: his number, like we just kicked it, like like why

611
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 2: wouldn't you say nothing at the beginning? Yeah, like you

612
00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 2: know that, uh kick it with dude. Yeah, Like so

613
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 2: I get it, you know what I'm saying. So Like

614
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 2: for me, I was like I'm not talking to you

615
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 2: no more. You know, I'm good on that because I

616
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 2: don't move like that. If it's a dude I'm kicking

617
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 2: it with and I know you hear ex, I'm not

618
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 2: moving like yeah, facts you know. So like I get

619
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 2: where Cam is coming from with that, because those type

620
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 2: of situations can come about. And I'm not mad at that,

621
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 2: you know, because like I've been in situations or with

622
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 2: girls that I was committed to to where I asked,

623
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 2: like who else you know? And you could tell me

624
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 2: the truth or you could lie whatever. I'm an ass,

625
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. But it's gonna show anyway eventually.

626
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 2: But like, nah ma, somebody I kick it with, like

627
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 2: you should have the type of like you know, like

628
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 2: you should be with somebody be like like you shouldn't

629
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 2: even want to talk to me.

630
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 1: If you know what I'm saying, that's on you.

631
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 2: Are you talking to me like I'm not the get

632
00:32:58,000 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 2: back dude.

633
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:03,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're trying to get that on some sid that's

634
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 1: not gonna work. And that's true. I feel like the

635
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 1: whole list or whatever the names are, to me, I'm

636
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: like not against it, but I also feel like it's

637
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 1: for me more of a thing of like respect, Like look,

638
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna have my man in front of someone's

639
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 1: shaking hand bow up with someone that I know I

640
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 1: used to mess with. I'm gonna tell him, like, Yo,

641
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 1: we had a situation going on. I'm just letting you know,

642
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: like that's more of the thing, Like I'll give a

643
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: list if it's needed, but I think that the bigger

644
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 1: thing is, like I'm not gonna let my man feel

645
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 1: like he's out of control and like not respected or

646
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 1: like someone feels like they got a one up. I

647
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 1: never want anyone to feel like they got a one

648
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 1: up on my man because that's a reflection of me.

649
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 1: I'm a reflection of him, Like I don't want that feeling,

650
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 1: and I don't want that for me, Like I don't

651
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 1: want to be out with my man and this girl

652
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: like yeah, girl, that's like I'm gonna feel crazy and

653
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: if I'm key keying with you and I'm cool, like

654
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 1: that makes me uncomfortable. And I would never want my

655
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 1: man to feel that same way.

656
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 2: So he's just gonna tell him right out the gate,

657
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 2: like I wuld yeah, it's probably crazy.

658
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 1: It's not.

659
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna send you. I'm gonna fact you these because

660
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 2: I don't want you.

661
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 1: To say no, actually, my list is not crazy. No,

662
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 1: it's not, and I honestly haven't. No. My list is small,

663
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,399
Speaker 1: like I can count my list on my hands, Like

664
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 1: I don't have a big list, and I know who

665
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,280
Speaker 1: I've slept with, and and for me, like I said,

666
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,480
Speaker 1: it's more of a respecting to where if I'm like, yeah,

667
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,840
Speaker 1: if my man is kicking with someone, Like first of all,

668
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:40,399
Speaker 1: if I have a man and I know I mess

669
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 1: with his friend or someone he kicks it with, that's

670
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 1: not my man. I'm not We're not fucking around like

671
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:49,279
Speaker 1: to begin with, unless I just did not know, and

672
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: once I find out, I'm telling you like, oh, look,

673
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 1: this is the situation because I don't want someone else

674
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 1: to say it like that's weird.

675
00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 2: This is the one thing I would love to ask

676
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 2: can Like I would love to ask Kim if he

677
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 2: gave her his list? Was that required?

678
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:10,760
Speaker 1: I don't think that was required.

679
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:12,959
Speaker 2: Would that be a thing?

680
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 1: I don't think that's a thing, Like.

681
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 2: Like, you know, he's a pretty famous dude. Yeah, you know,

682
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,839
Speaker 2: it's a possibility he been with some famous women. Or

683
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 2: it's a possibility he could have been with like some

684
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 2: of the girls he's dated or been like in a situation.

685
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 1: Like his girl friends.

686
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, one of her friends. I wonder if he gave

687
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 2: the list too, So I don't know, caim it go

688
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 2: both ways too? Did you give your list up or

689
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 2: it's just required from her. I'm just saying, like, damn,

690
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 2: I ain't ever, I'm sure I wondered, like damn.

691
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think that it was like me personally.

692
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:57,319
Speaker 1: I'll be honest. If I'm with a man, I don't

693
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: want to know his list. But what I want to

694
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 1: know is like, don't have me looking to but I

695
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: would about.

696
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:08,959
Speaker 2: A man don't even know That's what I'm saying.

697
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 1: Remember his name?

698
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, hold on, let me go through the phone. Like

699
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:18,359
Speaker 2: what Like I used to like.

700
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 1: A man don't know his list? Man, And that's the difference.

701
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 1: And I think that for women, we're expected to have

702
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 1: less partners, right, So like his girl, he has a girl,

703
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 1: she's beautiful and they have kids together, whatever, And she

704
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 1: came out she said, you give him list?

705
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 2: You know.

706
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 1: I'm sure she messed with some celebrities or whoever. Maybe like,

707
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 1: but I feel like with a man, you are not

708
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: expected to do that because you we don't know who

709
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,840
Speaker 1: the hell y'all slept, because y'all don't know this.

710
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 2: Celebrity men that beyond public that have had women come

711
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 2: up to them like, hey, remember we hang out?

712
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, I've been out with a man that

713
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 1: I'm with, and women have came up like hello, hello,

714
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:04,720
Speaker 1: like and as a woman, I know what that means.

715
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:05,879
Speaker 1: That means, like you have sex.

716
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 2: I don't mean hello, maybe you just know me or

717
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:08,840
Speaker 2: we talk.

718
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:11,839
Speaker 1: No no, no no no. It's a certain energy because it's

719
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 1: like a girl will be like because I'm a girl,

720
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 1: so I don't do that type of stuff because I'm

721
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 1: not a woman.

722
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:19,439
Speaker 2: Maybe you used to talk to them, talk or.

723
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 1: Like you had sex with them and you just left

724
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:23,319
Speaker 1: them hind and dry, because I know that energy of

725
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:26,839
Speaker 1: what a woman brings like oh hello, yeah me, yeah,

726
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:28,240
Speaker 1: you like girl?

727
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 2: Well, and it's embarrassed me trying to embarrass a guy. Truthfully,

728
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:37,919
Speaker 2: girls to be out and like talk to this guy

729
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 2: for like years and seeing what a girl and he

730
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 2: probably curved her and might do that too, yeah like

731
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 2: oh hey and then he looking at her get out

732
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 2: of here.

733
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel like women do that and I've noticed

734
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 1: that too, where it's like girl like and for me,

735
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: I've never done that because that's an embarrassed women. Hey,

736
00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:00,280
Speaker 1: yeah they are. And you know what I know noticed

737
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 1: about women, like women are such haters sometimes like if

738
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:07,760
Speaker 1: someone hit me up and was like, hey, my man,

739
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,440
Speaker 1: was my man flirting with you? And I would probably

740
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 1: be like nah, because that's not my business. I would

741
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 1: either not reply or I would say no. But I've

742
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 1: noticed that women are haters, and sometimes women think that

743
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 1: a man is flirting with them or someone's flirting with

744
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:25,919
Speaker 1: them and I'm just being friendly, like you doing too much?

745
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 2: Now?

746
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 1: You cocky enough to think that I even want you?

747
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 1: It is blowing me, like, and I think that women

748
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 1: have an inflated ego sometimes and you think that somebody

749
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 1: wants you when they don't, and y'all just I just

750
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 1: can't like. And I've been noticing that a lot. So yeah, anyways,

751
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:49,240
Speaker 1: getting into this next thing. So there, huh. So there's

752
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 1: a woman, right and she's in a relationship with a man,

753
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 1: and it was her birthday he sent her and mind you,

754
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 1: he posted the text messages on the inner She sent

755
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:05,799
Speaker 1: her two K for her birthday, like just for the day,

756
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: like baby, yeah, that's cool. Yeah, but they are together.

757
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 1: So she he sent her two K and was like,

758
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 1: you know, happy birthday. Yeah, they're in a relationship.

759
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:16,800
Speaker 2: Okay.

760
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 1: So he sent her two K and she returned it

761
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 1: and sent it back on because it's Apple Pay sent

762
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 1: it back on the Apple Pay and said, first of all,

763
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:30,359
Speaker 1: we've been together way too long for you to think

764
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 1: sending me two K for my birthday is cool. I

765
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 1: deserve way more than two K, and I know my worth,

766
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 1: Like two thousand is not enough money. If you're gonna

767
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 1: send me money, it needs to be way more than that,

768
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 1: Like I'm cool. And she sent it back, so everyone

769
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 1: is outraged. You know, the man are like, bitch, like

770
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:51,279
Speaker 1: two K is cool, Like you're tripping da da da

771
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 1: da da. What are your thoughts on that?

772
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 2: Thoughts on that is, if she did that, if everybody's

773
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 2: reacting to that, he's given her her more than two

774
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 2: K just on a regular day. M hm, And today

775
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 2: it's her birthday and you only gave her two K

776
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:10,759
Speaker 2: because I'm trying to tell you like, she wouldn't have

777
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,800
Speaker 2: did that if he has never given her two K before.

778
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 2: First of all, he's probably been on some like hey man,

779
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 2: take this five K on a regular Yeah you know

780
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, take this ten racks. But then it's

781
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:25,319
Speaker 2: my birthday. Hold on, you didne gave me more on

782
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 2: like a basic day, on a regular I'm trying to

783
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 2: take She looking like, damn, I'm really getting a deuced

784
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:34,919
Speaker 2: piece like you gave me five just on some chill

785
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 2: like oh, he goes.

786
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 1: Oh you're going out of town like regular, yeah go five?

787
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, So like for her to do that, man, he

788
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 2: gave her more on some like basic shit because ain't

789
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:51,760
Speaker 2: no girl if he ain't never gave her two K before,

790
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 2: and he was like, oh you up to Annie, we

791
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 2: go two thousand?

792
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, like damn. I didn't know if it meant like

793
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 1: I want you to make an actual effort and not

794
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 1: give me money like I or she just was like

795
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 1: mad because it seemed like she was just mad because

796
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: it was only two K.

797
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 2: Though, yeah, because he didne gave her more before I

798
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 2: had on a basic day. He probably gave her more

799
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 2: on Valance. Are right here go shopping five thousand? Big?

800
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 2: Two K on your birthday?

801
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:21,359
Speaker 1: Is because she was like, I know my worth and

802
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:23,280
Speaker 1: this is for you for we has to be together

803
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: this long and you only giving me two K. Let

804
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 1: me tell you. I'll tell you exactly what she said too.

805
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 1: This is her exact message she said. He said, happy

806
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 1: early birthday baby, love you forever, wishing you many more.

807
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:37,799
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be sleep at twelve, so telling you now

808
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:41,319
Speaker 1: elol and sent her two thousand. She said, thanks, but

809
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:43,399
Speaker 1: I'm gonna send it back. I just feel like we've

810
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:45,799
Speaker 1: been together way too long for me to only get

811
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 1: two thousand dollars for my b day. You spend that

812
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 1: on food in a month. I'm not being ungrateful. I

813
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 1: just know my worth. Thank you though You've always been sweet,

814
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 1: but it's Nigga's really out here trying to spend a

815
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:00,840
Speaker 1: bag on me. I don't like her. She don't like

816
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 1: you really, Yeah, she don't really like you because you've.

817
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 2: Worried about other guys spending more money on you, because

818
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:13,440
Speaker 2: when it's love, you're not even chripping off that that's cool.

819
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 2: I appreciate that. Like maybe he's trying to test me,

820
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 2: like because if like see females, y'all don't know y'all

821
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 2: play checkers, not chess, and what I mean by that,

822
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 2: Like he could have gave her five K on another day,

823
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 2: ten K on another day, a basic day. He gave

824
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 2: her too k on her birthday if she had have

825
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 2: been like, oh, I appreciate that. Just everything you do

826
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 2: for me is so sweet. It's just amazing that I

827
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 2: got you in my life. He's like, damn, that's the

828
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 2: answer I really wanted to hear. He probably was testing

829
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 2: her and he would have put through her more. And

830
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 2: that's why I be trying to like like like females

831
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:49,279
Speaker 2: like get so reactive and emotional off like like damn,

832
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 2: you should be thankful he like for that. Come on, damn.

833
00:42:54,760 --> 00:43:00,120
Speaker 2: Like I hate the fact that a man has to

834
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 2: like do something for a woman and that sets the bar.

835
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:06,840
Speaker 2: So if I do anything less than that, it's a disappointment,

836
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 2: Like come on, man, it should be like, oh, I

837
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 2: might have did this this time, but I'm gonna do

838
00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:14,440
Speaker 2: this this time. Like at least I'm doing like come

839
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 2: on now I'm doing I'm putting her nails is done right, boo,

840
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 2: damn them the stilettos is looking right them, heels, lips

841
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 2: is popping, like damn, you're eating good right, you're eating

842
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 2: good right, like damn, man, And I just hate that,

843
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 2: like man, so that that goes into the unto the

844
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 2: like category and things that we speak of of you

845
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 2: lad with money, my boy, So like now when the

846
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 2: money and keep going up, she gonna go to motherfuckers

847
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 2: that's offering her ship. And this is what I hate.

848
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 2: I hate the fact that, like it's so tough to

849
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 2: have a relationship when she when he offered her too,

850
00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:00,399
Speaker 2: and like she threw, like, niggas is off from your back?

851
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 2: How what do you mean niggas is? Why? Yeah? Because

852
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 2: now I got my Instagram to where I got to

853
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 2: compete with Instagram every day, where gods saying how beautiful

854
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 2: I am, How you deserve this, you deserve that, and

855
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:17,320
Speaker 2: they gas and you see, and this is the problem

856
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 2: with relationships.

857
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:19,479
Speaker 1: Man, you're wrong.

858
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:22,800
Speaker 2: I gotta compete every day. If I don't upstage whoever

859
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:25,840
Speaker 2: I'm competing with, I gotta compete with millions of dudes

860
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 2: every day from my girl. Yeah, Like come on, man,

861
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 2: that's crazy to me. Like i gotta like make sure

862
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:34,840
Speaker 2: her mind is right, and I'm telling her she beautiful.

863
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 2: The one day I don't tell her she beautiful, I'm

864
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,800
Speaker 2: gonna be at a disadvantage because she got millions telling

865
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 2: her this and because I was mad and all this,

866
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:45,479
Speaker 2: I gotta deal with this. I'm like, come on, man, that's.

867
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:49,400
Speaker 1: Great period period. I agree. I agree. I feel like

868
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 1: Instagram does create a false sense of options because a

869
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 1: lot of those people who are telling you look good

870
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 1: and this they not doing nothing. They're not going to

871
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: really be committed to you in a relationship. I think

872
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 1: women mistake attention with actual like someone who wants to

873
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 1: really deal with you. Just because someone gives you attention

874
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:12,399
Speaker 1: doesn't mean they would want to be in a committed relationship,

875
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 1: work with you, do this, da da da dah. So yes,

876
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 1: you can feel like it's a competition, but at the

877
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:19,759
Speaker 1: same time, like, if you have any sense at all,

878
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:24,399
Speaker 1: you know that that's not a real competition because they're

879
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: not really gonna do nothing like and for her. What

880
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 1: I don't like is I don't like people who like

881
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:32,840
Speaker 1: try to put people down. If I give you two thousand,

882
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 1: this is what I'm doing for you, and then you

883
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 1: tell me some other people are gonna go go with them,

884
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 1: then like, I'm that type of someone else doing it. Cool.

885
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 1: If that's what matters to you more is monetary shit

886
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:47,399
Speaker 1: than being in a real relationship, you go there, That's all.

887
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 1: I'm so sick of people right now. Okay, we're gonna

888
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:58,879
Speaker 1: play a little game to where you tell me if

889
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:02,280
Speaker 1: this is a red fla flag or this you'll stay,

890
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 1: Like would you stay or would you walk? So you

891
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 1: find out that your girl is texting there her ex

892
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 1: every birthday, Happy birthday, wish you the best, hope everything

893
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 1: is well. Every year.

894
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:24,160
Speaker 2: Now your exes like break it down. This your ex.

895
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,759
Speaker 1: Y'all, don't have kids, because it's different. If you have kids,

896
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:31,400
Speaker 1: you're gonna say happy birthday. We're not talking.

897
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:34,280
Speaker 2: About your don't kids with this person.

898
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 1: No attachments, No attachments.

899
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 2: That's a real flyd That's that's tricky.

900
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 1: That's tricky because like you know, no.

901
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 2: That's weak, and that you in a relationship. Yeah, no,

902
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:50,720
Speaker 2: I'm good. Don't do that. That's disrespectful. I agree, super disrespectful.

903
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 2: I agree, I'm over that.

904
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 1: I'm cool.

905
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you still got feelings, you still out here? Like

906
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:00,160
Speaker 2: why you gotta do all that? Let it go.

907
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 1: It's so funny because I was in a relationship and

908
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 1: I saw my ex he texted, well, it was my

909
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 1: boyfriend at the time. He texted his ex a paragraph

910
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:11,880
Speaker 1: like happy birthday. I know you're doing great and I

911
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 1: hope all is well, and I just there's a whole thing,

912
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 1: and I'm like, uh, you still have feelings for this person? Okay,

913
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 1: So you find in your girl's phone a bunch of

914
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:30,120
Speaker 1: old sex tapes, and naked photos of her and her ex.

915
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:35,919
Speaker 1: But they're old. I didn't even know. I didn't see them.

916
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:38,760
Speaker 1: These are old, babe, Like I just forgot to delete

917
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:47,359
Speaker 1: them red flag or the pictures are old, they're not

918
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:50,440
Speaker 1: recent at all, but she still has keeping them in

919
00:47:50,480 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 1: her phone. Basically, you're not trippling off for that. Yeah, okay, okay, okay.

920
00:48:04,239 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 1: You catch your girl liking thirst traps at at two am,

921
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:13,359
Speaker 1: like man doing weird sexy shit me, like you see

922
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 1: it on Instagram?

923
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:18,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not even like I'm not even that advanced

924
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:21,359
Speaker 2: on Instagram where I can look to see whoever's.

925
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 1: Like No, but like what if you go past it

926
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,720
Speaker 1: and you see like she's all on a man's page

927
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 1: liking every pick and it's that two am. You're not

928
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 1: tripping off of that, okay, Like.

929
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 2: I'm the type of dude that picked my battles, Like like,

930
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's your brother, I don't know

931
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:46,400
Speaker 2: if that's show your sister in law's brother cousin. Like

932
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna just assume nothing right away. Yeah, And

933
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 2: like I always feel like, and I say this all

934
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:56,239
Speaker 2: the time, that the real truth will come to light,

935
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 2: Like you know if you consistently do that in the

936
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 2: middle of the night, then I'm gonna have some questions.

937
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 2: But if I catch you like once in a blue moon,

938
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:08,759
Speaker 2: like I ain't like I'm oh, I'm cool on all

939
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 2: that trying to this. I'm good and all that stress.

940
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 2: I worry about the big things.

941
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:25,759
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, what about okay? What about they go through

942
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 1: your phone while you're asleep and what they're just you

943
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 1: catch them, you are sleeping, you wake up, and you

944
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 1: catch them going through all your shit. I'm your phone.

945
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:44,920
Speaker 2: I hope you don't find nothing.

946
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 1: That's what I mean.

947
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:50,359
Speaker 2: What do you want me to do?

948
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 1: Are you mad?

949
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 2: Like?

950
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:54,439
Speaker 1: Why would you evade my privacy? Why are you going

951
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 1: through my phone while I'm sleep? Or are you just

952
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:57,320
Speaker 1: like whatever?

953
00:49:58,719 --> 00:49:59,240
Speaker 2: Like whatever?

954
00:49:59,560 --> 00:49:59,840
Speaker 1: Okay?

955
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 2: Like we sleep together? What do you mean we sleep together?

956
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:05,360
Speaker 2: We live together?

957
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 1: You're a relationship? Yeah, you sleep with the ship? Okay,

958
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:19,879
Speaker 1: got you? Okay? What about okay, if.

959
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 2: You catch the dude and you wake look over get

960
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 2: your phone? Like you be mad?

961
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:29,279
Speaker 1: No? Not really, I'm not going to be mad. I

962
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 1: think that I'm just gonna be like whatever. Like if

963
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 1: I'm in a relationship and we're together, about that? I

964
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 1: don't think I would be mad at that. I think

965
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:40,440
Speaker 1: I would just be like, whatever, I don't care about that, Honestly.

966
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 1: I think that for me obviously, like do you not

967
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:48,720
Speaker 1: trust me? Like maybe it's a deeper conversation, but hopefully

968
00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 1: you saw the phone and you didn't find nothing, obviously,

969
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:54,319
Speaker 1: so you you like, I'm not worried about it in

970
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,240
Speaker 1: that way. I think what I would be more concerned

971
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:58,919
Speaker 1: about is is there a trust issue here?

972
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 2: Well, maybe he's never down to before. He just I

973
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:02,240
Speaker 2: just want to be sure.

974
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:07,439
Speaker 1: He just wants to be.

975
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:11,279
Speaker 2: I just want to be sure one time.

976
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 1: And that's the answer that I get. Like, so you

977
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 1: just wanted to be extra and you had your own

978
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:20,280
Speaker 1: issues from the past type of thing, then I probably

979
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:22,880
Speaker 1: would get it. I'll be like, all right, cool. What

980
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 1: about you ask your partner to share locations and they

981
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 1: say no, why not? They say, like, I don't like that.

982
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:35,319
Speaker 1: I'm old school. I don't do ship like that.

983
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:40,440
Speaker 2: Share a location. I think we live in that time.

984
00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:44,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah you should.

985
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 2: Like I guess your partner, you should be able to

986
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:46,480
Speaker 2: do all that.

987
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, But what I feel like, I don't want to

988
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:53,440
Speaker 1: do that, Like what if you're like I think you

989
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:58,439
Speaker 1: got something high you think automatically.

990
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:02,719
Speaker 2: Lying about where you at, but like the location is

991
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 2: nothing to me.

992
00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 1: Right, anyone be at any location and still be lying.

993
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:12,359
Speaker 1: That's my point. I can say that I'm here at

994
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:14,880
Speaker 1: dinner with my friend and I'm really with somebody.

995
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:17,000
Speaker 2: You can pull up to that location of a later

996
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:20,400
Speaker 2: day like you know, like if you had somebody house.

997
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:22,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, what if I'm at my house and someone's.

998
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:25,120
Speaker 2: Be at that apartment building? Yeah, that's the tricky part.

999
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:27,440
Speaker 2: You had an apartment building, you say your girl live here.

1000
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:32,759
Speaker 1: I'm gonna find out exactly. There's so many things. It's like,

1001
00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:35,440
Speaker 1: this is my thing about the location thing. If we

1002
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 1: have to get to that point of the location, it

1003
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:41,840
Speaker 1: goes back into like you're trying to micro manage the

1004
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 1: relationship and you're never gonna be able to control where

1005
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 1: someone is what they're doing. If someone is gonna cheat

1006
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 1: on you, they're gonna cheat on you. If someone's gonna

1007
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:51,399
Speaker 1: do this, they're gonna do this. And in my thing,

1008
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 1: I'm like okay, but it makes me feel like damn,

1009
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 1: like do you know what? Like you're trying to control,

1010
00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 1: that's you trying to have a sense of control.

1011
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 2: The argument and all this, Where are you at about it?

1012
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 1: That's wild? Yeah, But it's like for you to want

1013
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:15,320
Speaker 1: to just say, let me micro manage everything, irust Yeah, exactly.

1014
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 1: So if someone's like, where are you, I'm here, like

1015
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 1: whatever the case is, like you want to FaceTime? Okay, Like,

1016
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 1: but I think that when you're trying to micromanager control

1017
00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 1: the situation, like I've been in past relationships where I

1018
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 1: have been like I want to control everything. I want

1019
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:31,400
Speaker 1: to see this, I want to see that. But you

1020
00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:34,359
Speaker 1: can do all of that and the motherfucker who's gonna

1021
00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:37,600
Speaker 1: cheat is going to cheat on you. It don't matter

1022
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:40,319
Speaker 1: what you do. Matter of fact, the more pressure you

1023
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:42,880
Speaker 1: put up on somebody, the more likely they're gonna do

1024
00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 1: it because they feel pressurized and they feel like damn

1025
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:48,400
Speaker 1: now you like damn near putting it on me, like

1026
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:50,719
Speaker 1: to where I'm about to go do that shit? Or

1027
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:53,320
Speaker 1: like a woman will bring up a girl so often

1028
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:55,399
Speaker 1: to a man he wasn't even thinking about her, Now

1029
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:58,839
Speaker 1: I'm starting thinking about now, I'm like, da, well, shit,

1030
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:03,320
Speaker 1: she's in my mind all the time. You're pushing somebody

1031
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:05,799
Speaker 1: to go, Like I feel like a lot of people

1032
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 1: end up pushing people into the arms of others and

1033
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:11,360
Speaker 1: it's like, you gotta lay back. I learned that I

1034
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:13,440
Speaker 1: used to be uptight like and I have to just

1035
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 1: be like now that I'm older. When I was young,

1036
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 1: I used to think you can control shit. Now I

1037
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:20,719
Speaker 1: realize you can't control nothing that nobody do. And I'm

1038
00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:23,440
Speaker 1: not trying to do you. I'm not trying to stock

1039
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 1: you down. But anyways, okay, well that's about it.

1040
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:31,360
Speaker 2: All right, man. We had a good conversation.

1041
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:36,160
Speaker 1: Man, all right, good stuff off man.

1042
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:38,479
Speaker 2: Hopefully y'all continue to support Truth Off the Dark.

1043
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:40,520
Speaker 1: Yes, please, we're gonna get through this.

1044
00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:44,239
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1045
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:47,040
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1046
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:51,160
Speaker 2: what's going on exactly and trust me, everything.

1047
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:54,359
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1048
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:58,000
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1049
00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:00,680
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1050
00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 1: Any questions we should, we will. We need to do

1051
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 1: a live show for sure, and we will do that.

1052
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:12,480
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1053
00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:13,440
Speaker 2: Put that in the comments.

1054
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:15,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all want us to live stream what y'all want

1055
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:18,480
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1056
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 1: to do some live shows and live streams like let

1057
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 1: us know what you guys are feeling. Next for Truth

1058
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Speaker 1: after Dark, we have a lot of dope things coming

1059
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 1: and a lot of things in the mix. So thank

1060
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:29,759
Speaker 1: you again for all the support and the love. Peace out.

1061
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:57,880
Speaker 2: This is taking over the game, all right, everybody, welcome

1062
00:55:57,920 --> 00:56:00,080
Speaker 2: to Truth after Dark.

1063
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 1: Do you think that men or women are more toxic