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Speaker 1: Good morning, peeps, and welcome to ok F Daily with

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Speaker 1: me your Girl, Daniel Moody recording from the Home Bunker, Folks,

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Speaker 1: I want to address something that I saw across social

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Speaker 1: media yesterday when it came out. So the Wall Street Journal,

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Speaker 1: who we know, is a conservative, right wing Republican outlet, Okay,

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Speaker 1: make no bones about it. You may go there to

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Speaker 1: like get you know, stock reports, business updates, blah blah,

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Speaker 1: but it's coming through a white male cis conservative straight lens. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So they decided to run a hit piece on Joe Biden,

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Speaker 1: and everybody on social media was outrage. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: how could the Wall Street Journal bahblah blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, can we all understand why the Wall

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Speaker 1: And if I were Joe Biden, I would use it

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Speaker 1: and the campaign I would use it to my advantage.

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Speaker 1: Wall Street doesn't want me as their president. You know why,

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Speaker 1: because I'm not in the business of creating American oligarchs

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Speaker 1: in the way that the Republican Party is. You see,

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Speaker 1: Wall Street doesn't want me as president in twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 1: Do you know why? Because that's when the welfare checks,

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Speaker 1: the tax breaks that Donald Trump wrote in to law expire.

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Speaker 1: And so what does that mean for the CEOs and shareholders,

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Speaker 1: the multi billionaires and multi millionaires. Well, it means that

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Speaker 1: in twenty twenty five, the jig is up and we're

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Speaker 1: gonna make sure that these people pay their fair share.

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Speaker 1: Because if there's anyone that should be getting tax breaks,

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Speaker 1: it should be hard working, everyday American people who are

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Speaker 1: struggling with student loan debt, who are struggling with health

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Speaker 1: care costs, who are struggling with inflation. And why are

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Speaker 1: they struggling with inflation. It's not my hand that's doing it.

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Speaker 1: It is greed and the Wall Street Journal, they are

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Speaker 1: the purveyors of the greed is good mantra that we

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Speaker 1: heard back in the eighties that was cemented by Reagan

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Speaker 1: right and legitimized and immortalized by every Republican thereafter. That's

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Speaker 1: how the fuck you use bad press and you spin

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Speaker 1: it to your advantage. This is not fucking rocket science.

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Speaker 1: Trust and believe when you see these stories that pop up,

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Speaker 1: understand who the fuck is running these newsrooms and where

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Speaker 1: their allegiance lies, which is to their own fucking deep,

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Speaker 1: dark pockets. These motherfuckers don't want a Democrat who may,

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Speaker 1: in fact have them actually pay what is owed back

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Speaker 1: to this country. Let me tell you something, the Mark

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Speaker 1: Cubans of the world, who will come out and say, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I paid two hundred and eighty eight million dollars in

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Speaker 1: and that is the least that I can do, because

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Speaker 1: you know what, he's making multi fucking billions. Where would

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Speaker 1: from the Wall Street Journal that is deeply criticizing Donald

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Speaker 1: Trump and the fact that he's a fucking convicted felon,

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Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, their whiteness and

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Speaker 1: their wealth is going to protect them, or they think

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Speaker 1: it's going to protect them from fascism, but you know

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Speaker 1: history tells us otherwise. Coming up next, dear friends, we

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Speaker 1: have brought back to the show GEO Santiago, who I

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Speaker 1: interviewed back in January when I was in New Orleans

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Speaker 1: at the LGBTQ Task Force Creating Change Conference, and today

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Speaker 1: GEO joins us during Pride as we discuss the stories

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Speaker 1: of trans people. What does it mean to tell your

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Speaker 1: own story instead of one being dictated to you. That

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Speaker 1: conversation with Geo is coming up next, folks. I am

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Speaker 1: very excited to welcome back to WOKF Daily Geo Santiago,

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Speaker 1: who you on may remember we did an interview back

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Speaker 1: Task Force and Creating Changes, a conference that happens every

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Speaker 1: during Pride Month, where you are involved in a new

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Speaker 1: campaign that was launched by Glad as well as ground

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Speaker 1: Media entitled Here We Are. And I was going to

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Speaker 1: decided to get involved with Here we Are and tell

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Speaker 3: First off, thank you for having me back. Super excited

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Speaker 1: We see that enough, you know, And I think that

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Speaker 1: I want to go back to what you said about

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Speaker 3: So I knew it i was five that I was different,

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Speaker 3: I lived most of my life as a black, masculine

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Speaker 3: But you know, I come from a large family. I

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Speaker 2: But you know, I'm I'm literally just me, Like I

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Speaker 1: Another piece of who you are is a veteran. You

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Speaker 3: We are your brothers, we're your sisters, your nieces, your nephews,

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Speaker 3: And what I want people to see is that we're.

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Speaker 3: And so when you're watching our stories, you know, you're

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Geo Santiago, I thank you so much for making

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Speaker 1: Geo's story and the other stories of just trans people

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Speaker 1: at here we Are now dot com. Really appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: That is it for me today. Dear friends on wok

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Speaker 1: F as always power to the people and to all

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Speaker 1: the people. Power, get woke and stay woke as fuck.