Speaker 1: Hell I Suck at Dating with Dengler and Dared Haven
Speaker 1: and I heard radio podcast What's going on? Everyone? Welcome
Speaker 1: to an all new episode of Help I Suck At Dating.
Speaker 1: I still don't really know our format, Jared, do you?
Speaker 1: Is this a Wednesday's episode? Listen? And I'm plugging in
Speaker 1: my mic right now. I'm printing papers for the shop.
Speaker 1: There's a lot going on. Okay, I didn't know we
Speaker 1: were starting this soon. I thought you were gonna give
Speaker 1: me a minute. So the format is that we're doing
Speaker 1: two can I don't know if you can hear me,
Speaker 1: but the format. Welcome to a bonus Help I Suck
Speaker 1: at Dating episode where we get to interview your favorite guests.
Speaker 1: Let's say that yeah, so yeah, like, well, I don't
Speaker 1: know what we're doing two episodes a week and listen.
Speaker 1: If you guys didn't know this already, TENA and I
Speaker 1: don't make any decisions around here. My heart says, hey, listen,
Speaker 1: jump and we say, okay, cool, that's what happens. We
Speaker 1: don't even ask how high because we're like, we'll just
Speaker 1: do our best and then figure out the rest later.
Speaker 1: But the good news is the best news is that
Speaker 1: Abigail is back. That's the most important thing. Abigail is
Speaker 1: back co hosting, because let's all be real, she's the
Speaker 1: only one who really does a good job on this thing.
Speaker 1: I agree. I just blurred stuff, you know, That's all
Speaker 1: we do. I guess that's what a podcast is is
Speaker 1: when you think about the bare bones of a podcast
Speaker 1: is you just talk and talk. So we do a
Speaker 1: good job at that. Keep talking, just keep going. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but we do have a really special guest that's coming
Speaker 1: up as well. For any fans of Joe Millionaire out there,
Speaker 1: let me bring up my rundown. Very professional with me
Speaker 1: right now. I know it's Steve, but I want to
Speaker 1: get his last name correct. So Steve mcbe Steve, what
Speaker 1: a name. So we had Kurt on here from Joe
Speaker 1: Millionaire a few weeks ago. Kurt is the guy who's
Speaker 1: not a millionaire, and and now we have Steve, who
Speaker 1: is the actual millionaire from Joe Millionaire and uh, the
Speaker 1: episode spoiler alert, the finale aired last night. Uh, he
Speaker 1: leaves with Kala. I'm saying that correctly, right, I think so,
Speaker 1: I think it's supposed now, Yeah, it's not Kayla, it's Kala. Kala.
Speaker 1: Hannah can you confirm, I'm confirming, and it's Steven. What
Speaker 1: do I say, Steve? Steven? Listen, Jared, you don't become
Speaker 1: a multi millionaire by letting people call you Steve. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's Steven, get it right, Yeah you do. Have you
Speaker 1: ever heard of Steve Jobs? Steven Jobs? You mean? Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: I've never heard of the revolutionized in the world. Uh.
Speaker 1: So we have Steven McBee. I'm gonna ask him if
Speaker 1: he like Steven or Steve better. I would love that.
Speaker 1: I would love to do that. I would love you.
Speaker 1: And we have Kala, who, of course, he gave, once
Speaker 1: again spoiler alert, a promise ring to last night. They
Speaker 1: left together after he disclosed that he is the millionaire.
Speaker 1: He is a millionaire and also told her that he
Speaker 1: owns a helicopter and flies it himself. So this guy
Speaker 1: is getting cooler by the day. I'm sure cal is
Speaker 1: very excited about that. So we're gonna talk to them.
Speaker 1: Uh in just a few minutes. There you go. So
Speaker 1: if you're a Joe millionaire fans, stick around, all right,
Speaker 1: welcome back to help I suck at dating. Like we
Speaker 1: talked about before the break, we have some very special guests.
Speaker 1: If you guys are fans of Joe Millionaire for rich
Speaker 1: or Poor, which I know you are because pretty much
Speaker 1: it's captivated the entire country, Uh and world, really I
Speaker 1: think it anyway, it doesn't matter, boy it is. We
Speaker 1: have two very special guests. We have Stephen McBee and
Speaker 1: we have Kala Jackson. Kala Stephen, how are you guys?
Speaker 1: Congratulations you're finally publicly known to be in a relationship.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. It's been a long time coming. Uh,
Speaker 1: you know, it was a stressful few months. Haven't you
Speaker 1: stay in the house. And we probably snug We definitely
Speaker 1: snuck more trips than we should have, but we made
Speaker 1: it snug trips. What does that mean? Like you going,
Speaker 1: what are you doing? I promise you made under the
Speaker 1: radar trips. So whenever you're on a dating show, you know,
Speaker 1: obviously most people know you can't be seen in public
Speaker 1: and you're not supposed to be seeing each other unless
Speaker 1: there's a producer there, and you know the network has
Speaker 1: set up the you know, the visit, so it's all
Speaker 1: kept under the road. Well, we snuck a few more
Speaker 1: than we should have. Like, I think we've seen each
Speaker 1: other three out of four weekends since the show. You're
Speaker 1: not gonna get in trouble for saying that, are you know?
Speaker 1: It's all over? We made it. Three are sometimes where
Speaker 1: I was sweating a little bit. Do you what do
Speaker 1: you guys do? Do Do you want to like a say pause?
Speaker 1: You go do like a different country? What do you do?
Speaker 1: The reason why it works is that I live in
Speaker 1: the middle of nowhere. In my nearest house is five
Speaker 1: miles from my nearest neighbors. So she would just come
Speaker 1: up and there was not a soul in sight. Nice, Well, hey,
Speaker 1: whatever works, I guess did you Kyla? Has he picked
Speaker 1: you up in this helicopter yet? We have taken a
Speaker 1: few helicopter rides. Are you terrified? It's scary, but it's fun.
Speaker 1: I just remember that. Oh my god, that sounds terrifying.
Speaker 1: Good for you? Is Stephen a good pilot? He actually is.
Speaker 1: He takes like a good hour to prep and like
Speaker 1: walk around and he has like a little checklist before
Speaker 1: we go up in there. So it made me feel
Speaker 1: very safe for sure. Nice. I don't want I don't
Speaker 1: want to brag or anything, but I've got fifteen hours
Speaker 1: into my student pilot's license. So Steve, you want to
Speaker 1: fly together? Man, Yeah, you're getting there. But yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I can fly a drone. I can fly he No,
Speaker 1: I know it's not that easy. But hey, Steven, I
Speaker 1: got a question for you that Jared and I are
Speaker 1: dying to know the answer to. Um, do you ever
Speaker 1: go by Steve? Uh? No. So my mom grew up
Speaker 1: like anyone. Anytime anyone called me Steve, she made it
Speaker 1: a point of emphasis to say, hey, his name is Stephen,
Speaker 1: and that's because my dad, you know, my dad goes
Speaker 1: by Steve. So that's the distinction there, right, separated by
Speaker 1: one letter the end is all the all the difference
Speaker 1: you need. Yeah, because when we were talking about how
Speaker 1: you're coming to the the podcast and I was like Steve
Speaker 1: McBee then, what a cool name. And then our producer
Speaker 1: was like it's Steven and I'm like, yeah, I know,
Speaker 1: it's Steve. Would be upset. We don't want to upset
Speaker 1: Mrs McBee. So now that so, now that you're finally
Speaker 1: able to be public with with your relationship, have you
Speaker 1: seen it change at all or is it more or
Speaker 1: less the same? Uh? Well, we have not actually been
Speaker 1: out in public yet. We went to Texas Roadhouse last
Speaker 1: night for a little celebratory dinner. But were we drove
Speaker 1: down to Dallas because we're celebrating this weekend. So we're
Speaker 1: actually meeting up with Kurt Um and then her friend
Speaker 1: Whitney from the show, and we're having like this big celebration.
Speaker 1: So it's gonna be a good time this weekend. It'll
Speaker 1: be interesting to see how things go tonight, Dallas. What
Speaker 1: what bar are we going to? Uh? Sistance tonight on
Speaker 1: the Dallas side. Okay, all right, I'll catch my next
Speaker 1: flight out of Las Vegas. I'll eat you guys down there.
Speaker 1: Nice Abigail. So, Abigail hasn't been fully caught up on
Speaker 1: this season. So can you guys listened on the last
Speaker 1: episode between you two, Kurt and the rest of them? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: spoiler alert, Abigail. Alright, so basically, you know, I'm left
Speaker 1: with Annie and Kala, Kurt's left with Amanda and Caroline,
Speaker 1: and uh, you know, any such an incredible woman, um,
Speaker 1: no doubt about it. But my connection with Kala um,
Speaker 1: you know, it was just so much better. She fit
Speaker 1: in with my family. Uh, and it really just loves
Speaker 1: a farm life and everything about it and has some
Speaker 1: experience in it, and um, you know, my connection was
Speaker 1: so much stronger, even though you do not see that
Speaker 1: on the screen. The producers purposely cut that away to
Speaker 1: mislead the viewers. Uh, And if you ask Kala and myself,
Speaker 1: it was a little over the top. Yeah, yeah, so
Speaker 1: it was. You know, we had We've done several interviews
Speaker 1: this week and they're all just absolutely flabbergasted at the
Speaker 1: fact that I picked Kala, and I'm like, yeah, you
Speaker 1: didn't see anything, any of the intimate moments between us. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I guess that was productions point was to do the
Speaker 1: shock factor at the end. I think definitely got the
Speaker 1: shock factor. Yeah, so are you guys? Are you guys
Speaker 1: not upset? But are do you wish they had portrayed
Speaker 1: a little differently? Yeah, definitely, because we had a pretty
Speaker 1: solid connection since the beginning, but none of it was shown,
Speaker 1: Like all of our sentimental moments were cut out, most
Speaker 1: of our conversations as well. Yeah yeah, I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: it's really rough for her, especially, you know, she's telling
Speaker 1: her family and friends to watch the show, and they're
Speaker 1: watching it and they're like, Kelly, you aren't even on here,
Speaker 1: Like yeah, and then you know, I had yesterday on
Speaker 1: Twitter right before the show, someone was like, um, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna buy Stevens. I have a jerky and meat
Speaker 1: stick Lion. Someone's like, I'm gonna buy Steven's meat sticks
Speaker 1: unless he picks call and then I'm not going to.
Speaker 1: And then like right after the finale, they're like, I'm
Speaker 1: never buying his meat. Yeah, we're well to offset that,
Speaker 1: I'll buy twice as many of your meat sticks to
Speaker 1: drive to sales up a little bit. Kelly, So you
Speaker 1: see yourself living, like fitting into his lifestyle pretty well,
Speaker 1: you're saying, then, Yeah, yeah, for sure. I mean I'm
Speaker 1: from Dallas and my stepdad owns a cattle ranch. I
Speaker 1: grew up with horses, Um, you know, working stables early morning,
Speaker 1: so I'm kind of used to have a little bit
Speaker 1: of experience, and you know, it really hasn't been too bad.
Speaker 1: We actually have a house closing in three weeks in
Speaker 1: Kansas City, so we'll be closer to the city and
Speaker 1: you know, bars and restaurants. Congratulations, congratulationss go ahead. But
Speaker 1: I was gonna say how long ago was filming? So
Speaker 1: filming ended October eighteen, so yeah, wow, that's a long
Speaker 1: time ago. Yeah, it was a while back. I mean
Speaker 1: what is it? Five months? Yeah? Months? Yeah? Yeah. Has
Speaker 1: it been a pretty smooth sailing for you guys all?
Speaker 1: Five months? Yeah? I mean it's honestly, it's been smooth
Speaker 1: sailing for the most part. I mean the episodes were
Speaker 1: you know, a little rough, you know, just because of
Speaker 1: you know, we knew what we had during filming and
Speaker 1: it just wasn't shown. So there were some ups and
Speaker 1: downs there, But for being long distance and you know,
Speaker 1: having to keep it under wraps for six months, it's
Speaker 1: pretty solid. Nice. Yeah, that's the cursory out of TV.
Speaker 1: I think all us cann test do you think or
Speaker 1: you get something like hilarious or you're like scared they're
Speaker 1: gonna show something, and then the episode comes and like
Speaker 1: none of it gets there and you're like, okay, like
Speaker 1: what's going on with this? I don't know, It's it's
Speaker 1: a it's an interesting situation. Um seven. So it's great
Speaker 1: that she fits into your lifestyle. Is that something that
Speaker 1: you like wanted to make sure you're looking for when
Speaker 1: it came to who you chose? Yeah, I had to.
Speaker 1: I mean you know what, right now, I live in
Speaker 1: that little bitty small town and I knew that if
Speaker 1: you know, whenever I found the girl I wanted to
Speaker 1: settle down with, that wasn't gonna work. But even living
Speaker 1: in Kansas City, like whenever we get our new house,
Speaker 1: the farm is always going to be a big part
Speaker 1: of my life, even if I'm not living there full time.
Speaker 1: And so she's got to be someone, uh, you know
Speaker 1: that can fit in on the farm, can fit in
Speaker 1: around my family and college checks all those boxes for sure. Nice.
Speaker 1: I love that. I love that. What's what's your relationship
Speaker 1: with Kurt? Like, now, I know you said you're meeting
Speaker 1: him to party, but yeah, I mean it's honestly, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's stronger than ever. I mean, it's it's only built
Speaker 1: since the show ended. I mean there was one weekend
Speaker 1: where my dad flew out to Charlotte, uh, and he
Speaker 1: ended up hanging out with Kurt and I wasn't even there. So,
Speaker 1: you know, Kurt's basically just another family member at this point.
Speaker 1: You guys did seem like brothers on the show. Like
Speaker 1: it seems like you guys grew a bond pretty quick. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean we hit it off from day one. I
Speaker 1: was actually nervous about it, you know, whenever I found
Speaker 1: out there was another guy. I was like, oh man,
Speaker 1: it's just just gonna be a jealous competition the entire time.
Speaker 1: And within two minutes of meeting him, you know, he
Speaker 1: was just a brow to me and such another guy. Yeah. Well,
Speaker 1: so I got a question, then, how did you Because
Speaker 1: we talked to Kurt on this podcast maybe like a
Speaker 1: month ago, um, and we kind of got his origin
Speaker 1: story as to how he got picked for the show.
Speaker 1: How did you get selected for the show or how
Speaker 1: did that all come about? Yeah, so January one, they
Speaker 1: messaged me on Instagram. Cornwall Casting, a casting company hired
Speaker 1: by Fox did um and honestly I thought it was
Speaker 1: a joke, responded to it, just you know, lighthearted response,
Speaker 1: and he said, hey, let's just set up a quick
Speaker 1: zoom And ended up working from casting company to four
Speaker 1: nine five Productions to Fox the network and uh actually
Speaker 1: found out I was the first guy they interviewed and
Speaker 1: Kurt was literally the last one. So it's interesting the
Speaker 1: too perspect this we got. Um. You know, obviously I
Speaker 1: had to send over a bunch and we went through
Speaker 1: like three months of audits on all my financial information
Speaker 1: to make sure that I was truly qualified as a millionaire.
Speaker 1: I guess they've had some issues, Um, you know with
Speaker 1: some people falsifying information was getting like I was like
Speaker 1: telling them at the end of it. I was so frustrated.
Speaker 1: I was like, look, I'm giving you guys more information
Speaker 1: that I give my taxes. Uh. And then you know,
Speaker 1: ended up getting selected and it's all sensitive information to
Speaker 1: like your social security class. I'm like, I don't know
Speaker 1: you guys were Adam, like, this is really starting to
Speaker 1: weird me out. My accounts are gonna be wiped out. Yeah, well, hey,
Speaker 1: props to you for going through it. Obviously it worked out.
Speaker 1: What about you? How did you end up on the show? Yeah,
Speaker 1: the same thing. We're well. Casting reached out to me
Speaker 1: a via Instagram and um, we went through about six
Speaker 1: months of interviews and yeah, it was from March up
Speaker 1: until September, and they told me probably two weeks beforehand
Speaker 1: that I was selected. Isn't so funny to think about,
Speaker 1: like just some random casting agency reach outs to both
Speaker 1: of you separately and now here you are together. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It so Yeah. I just I made a post on Instagram.
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know how or why the
Speaker 1: stars aligned. It's weird, how you know, twists and turns
Speaker 1: of life goes, but it's pretty neat. Yeah. I want
Speaker 1: to talk about the finale a little bit because obviously
Speaker 1: the crux of the show is that you don't know
Speaker 1: who the millionaires and who like quote unquote the average
Speaker 1: Joe is, even though I think Kurt has pretty well
Speaker 1: from suff Yes, the point is, um, you know, Kla,
Speaker 1: what were you What was your emotions going into that night?
Speaker 1: Do you think anything really would have changed if Stephen
Speaker 1: wasn't a millionaire? Oh? Not at all. I had gotten
Speaker 1: to know Stephen for who he was as a person,
Speaker 1: and I think this process really helped with that. Um,
Speaker 1: and so I just I knew how genuine he was
Speaker 1: and how good hearted he was, and that's really all
Speaker 1: I care about. Stephen. Were you, like not inst cure
Speaker 1: about it, but especially going into this entire process where
Speaker 1: you nervous that that people might be trying to get
Speaker 1: with you for quote unquote the wrong reasons? Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, going into it, I thought, honestly that they
Speaker 1: were going to try and find a bunch of legitimate
Speaker 1: gold diggers, and so that's what it was going to be.
Speaker 1: But once I got there, especially once we got to
Speaker 1: like the top ten or twelve women. It was a
Speaker 1: really really good group for women. And you know, it's like,
Speaker 1: from one perspective, you're like, you know, probably would have
Speaker 1: made the show better if they actually had true gold
Speaker 1: diggers there, But we had a really good group of
Speaker 1: women to where I don't think, you know, it was
Speaker 1: almost like production forced them to talk about the money aspect.
Speaker 1: Otherwise they had never even talked about it. Definitely prompted
Speaker 1: more than you would think, so, Kelly, even from your perspective, like, uh,
Speaker 1: when it was just the girls hanging out talking, you
Speaker 1: didn't really see much of that, uh then talking about
Speaker 1: the money, asked, I mean, there are a few girls
Speaker 1: who aren't you know, prompted, who are trying to figure
Speaker 1: it out for sure, especially early on. But I think
Speaker 1: as it dwindled down, those are the more genuine girls
Speaker 1: who are actually they're looking for like a real relationship
Speaker 1: on it. For sure. The bigger aspect, or the bigger
Speaker 1: you know, twist of this was the two guys rather
Speaker 1: than one being a millionaire one not just the fact
Speaker 1: that these two guys I think was the more interesting. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we had no idea what the show was called until
Speaker 1: I think the day three of filming, so we didn't
Speaker 1: know the content, what it was called, or that there
Speaker 1: were two men and either. So, um, how was that
Speaker 1: first day like jitter's wise? Oh, I know, whenever Kurt
Speaker 1: and I walked out on the back patio to introduce
Speaker 1: ourselves to the women, we were sitting in that the
Speaker 1: butler's quarters like choreographing our movements for like three hours
Speaker 1: and we ended up having like three large glasses of scotch.
Speaker 1: The producers came in there and took the scotch out
Speaker 1: of the room like you guys are done, and uh yeah,
Speaker 1: so it was you know, we were pretty nervous. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie nice. Yeah, That's why it's funny how
Speaker 1: that always is. I've been on four reality dating shows,
Speaker 1: and every single time, the first day I'm always like,
Speaker 1: this is terrifying. The first day you're just like I've
Speaker 1: made a giant mistake. And it was such a long
Speaker 1: day night of filming. I think we started at three
Speaker 1: pm and we didn't end until ten am the next morning. Yeah,
Speaker 1: wrapped the first day, I was like do I didn't
Speaker 1: even want to do this? Still, Like is this gonna
Speaker 1: be an everyday thing? Yeah? Yeah, And sure enough. It
Speaker 1: basically was for yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I want to
Speaker 1: ask to because Stephen in the finale that you give
Speaker 1: Kala a promise ring. Yeah, tell me what the significance
Speaker 1: of a promise ring is. Well, you know, the producers
Speaker 1: were really pushing Kurt and I to do a proposal,
Speaker 1: and we're just not people that are going to do that,
Speaker 1: you know, be forced into a proposal. You know, We're like, look,
Speaker 1: we barely you know, really know these girls. I've been
Speaker 1: on two solo dates with Kala. Other than that it
Speaker 1: was just group dates. And yeah, I know we have
Speaker 1: a good connection, but I don't know anything about her
Speaker 1: other than that. Um. And so I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: she'da ran off if I pulled out and got on
Speaker 1: one knee. Sheeta ran out of that house so fast. Um.
Speaker 1: And so I was like, look, what I'll do is
Speaker 1: a promise ring. And this the significance of this promise
Speaker 1: ring is that, you know, I promised to you that
Speaker 1: my feelings are true, my connection with you is true,
Speaker 1: and that once we leave these walls, this this bubble
Speaker 1: of filming, that we're actually gonna give this a real shot,
Speaker 1: a legitimate shot. And this isn't just for some ploy
Speaker 1: just to you know, just for the cameras. I think
Speaker 1: that's so much more realistic too. I mean, we had
Speaker 1: known each other for seven weeks at that point. So
Speaker 1: did you guys talk about it beforehand that you guys
Speaker 1: weren't gonna get engaged or where do you thinking? Maybe
Speaker 1: that I was actually really nervous because I knew Kala.
Speaker 1: You know, Kala is someone that takes it really slow.
Speaker 1: You can see that throughout the episodes, even that she's
Speaker 1: really slow to open herself up, really slow to catch
Speaker 1: those feelings and really fall for anyone, which I like,
Speaker 1: and I'm I find myself a lot of the same way.
Speaker 1: Um So walking down there, like Kurt and I were like,
Speaker 1: we gotta talk to these women and let them know, like, hey,
Speaker 1: we're not just you know, we pull these rings out,
Speaker 1: they're gonna freak out. And so I was freaking out
Speaker 1: because we didn't have the chance to talk talk to him.
Speaker 1: So you don't see it make the cut in the finale,
Speaker 1: but like, as soon as I'm reaching into my jacket,
Speaker 1: before I even do anything, I'm like, just so you know,
Speaker 1: this is not a proposal. And then I pulled the
Speaker 1: ring out. But yeah, she had taken off if I'd
Speaker 1: pulled it out and got to the knee. Nice reaction was,
Speaker 1: oh my god, thank you, Like I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: That would have made for a great television so amazing.
Speaker 1: And Steve and I think, you know, hopefully one day
Speaker 1: when you do propose, you reach into your jacket and
Speaker 1: you're like, just so you know, this is a propose name. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And for the record too, I've done I'm doing the
Speaker 1: promise thing right now. I still wear a promised ring
Speaker 1: with my girlfriend. It's great. You know, more people should
Speaker 1: do promised rings. I feel like promises are incredibly underrated. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: the Dean as he just showed, he wears like seven rings.
Speaker 1: That was a promised ring. I want to build out
Speaker 1: the collection. It's hard to find quality rings these days,
Speaker 1: you know. I just want to stumble across them as
Speaker 1: they come in my life. So, um, Stephen and kla
Speaker 1: I suppose we've got the promised ring. There had to
Speaker 1: be some conversation now that you guys know each other
Speaker 1: more six months in the relationship, is they're going to
Speaker 1: be a level up from the promise ring anytime soon?
Speaker 1: Do you think you know? Klle just moved up last weekend,
Speaker 1: so we wanted to cross that hurdle of going from
Speaker 1: long distance to seeing if we're compatible when we live together. Um.
Speaker 1: And so you know, we have the house that's closing
Speaker 1: here at the end of March, and we're both people
Speaker 1: again that take it slow. So we're just taking things
Speaker 1: day by day, making sure we can live together and
Speaker 1: not want to kill each other. Um. And you know,
Speaker 1: once we see that we can do that. I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, we don't want to put a specific timeline
Speaker 1: on anything, but we're just gonna play by ear. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's not need to put pressure on it right now.
Speaker 1: Just take things at our own pace. And I think
Speaker 1: we're enjoying each day as it's come so far. And
Speaker 1: you guys are being way way too rational about this.
Speaker 1: I want to hear something. I want to hear something crazy,
Speaker 1: like you guys got married actually are if if Kurt
Speaker 1: would have had his if Kurt would have had his
Speaker 1: choice on night one of filming, he would have proposed Caroline.
Speaker 1: No doubt they ran off together. Like the producers were
Speaker 1: telling curR, Hey, you've got like there's nineteen other women
Speaker 1: here at the time. You've got to open yourself up
Speaker 1: and he's like no, He's like, I'm leaving with Caroline
Speaker 1: right now. He didn't pick Caroline, no good thing, he
Speaker 1: didn't run off with her on the person night. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it's crazy. And by night one he was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: he's like, Caroline's in that's my that's my girl. And
Speaker 1: you could tell even in group settings they definitely gravitated
Speaker 1: towards each other each time. Before we let you, guys go,
Speaker 1: I got one question. I guess it's maybe less of
Speaker 1: a question more of a request. Um, you're moving to
Speaker 1: Kansas City, you said here pretty soon? Can you guys
Speaker 1: just promise me you're not gonna be Kansas City Chiefs fans?
Speaker 1: I promise you on everything all the way. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get her into Patrick Mahomes Jersey here pretty quick.
Speaker 1: Are you Are you already a Chiefs fan? Oh? I'm
Speaker 1: a huge Chiefs I'm a Broncos fan. We got Russell Wilson,
Speaker 1: so yeah, my need the West is looking good, Jared,
Speaker 1: I haven't even had a chance to talk to you
Speaker 1: about Russell Wilson yet. Well, here's the thing. So I'm
Speaker 1: a die hard Patriots fan, also a diehard Tom Brady
Speaker 1: fan because I'll always support that man. Point being, I
Speaker 1: think what the Raiders need to do very two seconds
Speaker 1: on sports, Josh McDaniels needs to do whatever he needs
Speaker 1: to do in order to try to get Tom Brady
Speaker 1: out of Tampa, out of retirement, into the into a
Speaker 1: Raiders uniform because long story short, McDaniels and the Raiders
Speaker 1: are gonna finish in last place two years and then
Speaker 1: he's gonna get fired, So he needs to do whatever
Speaker 1: you have Russell Wilson, Patrick Mahomes and Justin Herbert all
Speaker 1: own one division get Tom Brady to the Raiders. Yeah,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, and uh yeah, you know. I mean, hey,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be fun. They f C West is like
Speaker 1: loading up now Khalil Max on the charges. It should
Speaker 1: be a lot of fun things. Anyway we do, we
Speaker 1: are dating, and then I'm sure we just lost a
Speaker 1: lot of followers right now. But I do want to
Speaker 1: ask one more question. Now that you guys are out
Speaker 1: in public, you don't have to hide your relationship anymore.
Speaker 1: What is the thing that you're most looking forward to
Speaker 1: doing together? A question? What we're gonna be doing this weekend?
Speaker 1: Just going out with friends, going out to dinner, going
Speaker 1: out to bars, and just being a normal couple. It
Speaker 1: has been so hard staying pooped up because we're both
Speaker 1: social people and we have a lot of friends. It's
Speaker 1: been hard keeping this a secret for five six months. Yeah. Nice,
Speaker 1: that's all. It's definitely the best to see your signal
Speaker 1: failer in that light, to like being able to take
Speaker 1: them out and like hang out their friends and all
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. Um, you definitely learn a lot
Speaker 1: over the six first six months, but I feel you
Speaker 1: guys are gonna learn a lot more about each other
Speaker 1: over the next three months, probably right, especially now that
Speaker 1: you guys are like in the media doing all these
Speaker 1: interviews and everything, like, it's such an exciting time for
Speaker 1: you guys. Absolutely, Yeah, Yeah, we definitely definitely enjoy it.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's been a long time coming, remember now,
Speaker 1: and I like when we were able to go on
Speaker 1: public just the first team months work just so fun.
Speaker 1: So I definitely enjoy yeah, very much. Thank you guys
Speaker 1: so much for joining us. We're so happy for the
Speaker 1: both of you. You can't wait to see you guys
Speaker 1: at the Chiefs game when they're getting their butts kicks
Speaker 1: by the Broncos. This next season. Um, we hope you
Speaker 1: guys have the best time together and we're excited to
Speaker 1: see what you guys to you next. So thanks so
Speaker 1: much for joining us. Than thank you, Yeah, cheers, guys.
Speaker 1: H alright, bye guys, thank you, congrats, thank you, appreciate you.
Speaker 1: All Right, Well, that's gonna do it for this week's
Speaker 1: episode of Help I Suck At Dating. Abigail, thank you
Speaker 1: so much once again for co hosting. Please come back
Speaker 1: and give no all of our best. Uh Dean, make
Speaker 1: sure you give big kisses to Alistair because he deserves them,
Speaker 1: and uh suck Army, make sure you tune in next week,
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