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Speaker 2: I am your host is our Faraday.

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Speaker 2: We always be like we.

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Speaker 2: Thank you guys for joining. I really love y'all.

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Speaker 1: You have such a genuine cool spirit, like your chemistry

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Speaker 2: Of course, how did y'all meet? We met?

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's dope, and not everyone, like there's so many podcasts,

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Speaker 2: You have a rule of life.

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Speaker 2: Until I'm married. We don't have that rule. I don't

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you know what I'm saying. Because they get comfortable.

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Speaker 5: They feel like, why do I have to do this?

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Speaker 4: At least we need to be engaged in living together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even want to plan. You would. A

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Speaker 4: I feel better, let me know, because Thomas Chicken.

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Speaker 3: Like like this is the thing, like you all like

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Speaker 3: Here we go. After two years, we're gonna get engaged.

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Speaker 3: After three years, I'm married, and the four years were

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Speaker 3: that's what I want to do?

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Speaker 4: On it is.

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Speaker 5: And I say, I look at it like this because

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Speaker 4: But they don't recognize.

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Speaker 5: That unless that piece of paper says, hey, everything belongs

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Speaker 1: Like, you know, you have this intimant relationship with a

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Speaker 1: He talked to me about everything, he wanted to do,

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Speaker 2: Me to put together.

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Speaker 1: Sure this is straight, your kids are straight, these people

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Speaker 1: and I can't even do that. Yes, now, it's like,

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Speaker 4: Want, and I saw that.

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Speaker 5: I think it's a union before God, It's a beautiful thing,

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Speaker 2: I agree.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like, if it's something that you want,

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Speaker 1: to get break it up. You're letting him do it

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Speaker 2: I'm hoping that he will. And then now, y'all five

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Speaker 1: Six years in seven years, and why he's still haven't

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Speaker 1: Then say, y'all end up breaking up. That's seven years

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Speaker 1: you spent with that person, and you really wanted marriage

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Speaker 3: This is what I'll tell you. This and I started

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Speaker 3: he get one year.

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Speaker 2: M I ain't at it.

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Speaker 3: Living with each other though I live with each other

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Speaker 3: one year. You gotta make a decision, I feel. I

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Speaker 2: But do you think men respond well to ultimatum?

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Speaker 3: So that's kind of like I gotta do something else.

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Well six years go by. But check this out now,

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Speaker 3: I jump because this this we we we were good

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Speaker 3: right now?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 3: We're good? Is everything good?

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Speaker 2: No, it's not. I mean everything. I want to be

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Speaker 2: It's good.

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Speaker 1: But the woman's in her head every day, like am

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Speaker 1: I not worthy enough? Why does he want to marry?

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Speaker 2: Can I have this?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: God forbid? A man's been married before? Then you really like,

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Speaker 1: oh wait, hold on, wheah, yeah, he really ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: You Like my best friend her fiance. They met and

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Speaker 1: In Jamaica like that. I feel like when you're older,

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Speaker 3: But then she said this it's a business, right, So

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Speaker 3: a rush now? Is there still a rush when he's

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Speaker 3: starting to do stuff? Okay, my will your name? Like

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Speaker 3: things that like if something happened, then I'm good. No,

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Speaker 3: it's a business.

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Speaker 1: Though, because to be honest, I'm not putting that. I'm

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Speaker 1: we're not married. Me I'm nervous, and now.

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Speaker 2: We're broken up, and now I have the mortgage And.

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Speaker 1: Why do I have to do it like it's given?

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Speaker 1: It's giving you illegitimate? Yeah, got your ship together?

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Speaker 2: Because why you got a whole of the family. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: because why I need to be.

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Speaker 3: In my name because I just want to make sure

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Speaker 2: Baby, you know, red flags will go up.

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Speaker 1: That would be like both of our names could be

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Speaker 5: Like a smart businessman is gonna make sure his name

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Speaker 4: So if you're doing that, it's.

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Speaker 1: Like what you up to If you just want it

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Speaker 1: do you think, but do you think that the woman

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Speaker 2: More than it just being a business. Do you feel like, damn,

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Speaker 2: I feel special like this? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You know, like I feel like women want that moment

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Speaker 2: You got on your knee.

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Speaker 1: Isn't want to I think women also they love that,

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Speaker 1: like you know, that's something I think just like the

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Speaker 1: I feel like you love me enough that you're choosing

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Speaker 2: Thring, I'm married.

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Speaker 2: I'm not doing that for me that with a man.

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Speaker 1: I'm not doing Yeah, that's gonna blow me and it's

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Speaker 1: Like if you don't want to do it.

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna talk about intimacy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I want you to rank these in order from

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Speaker 1: best to worst. Okay, morning sex, daytime sex, or night

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Speaker 1: time sex.

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Speaker 3: Ooh so oh man, that's a good one. I think

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna rank morning number one.

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Speaker 2: Morning. I agree with that. Why is morning number one?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Because that's the start of your day. And you know,

489
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Speaker 3: I just feel like when you wake up and you

490
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Speaker 3: have that intimacy in the morning, it's just rolls throughout

491
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Speaker 3: your day. You feel good. You know, you just gotta positive,

492
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 3: you smiling, you just everything feel like it's just you're

493
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Speaker 3: gonna have a great day. Okay, So sets the tone

494
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Speaker 3: for the day. You're like, all right, you know, we

495
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Speaker 3: got it in. It was cool, man. I'm feeling good,

496
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Speaker 3: getting the shower, get ready, I'm ready to take on

497
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Speaker 3: the day.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: That's that that morning time be hidden and then so

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Speaker 3: like second is probably gonna be that that night because

501
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Speaker 3: it's a little you could be a little more romantic

502
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Speaker 3: at night. Nighttime is a vibe and right, you know,

503
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Speaker 3: and you just say you you you just got you

504
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:45,439
Speaker 3: might throw some rosies or bath candles. Nighttime give you

505
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Speaker 3: all that type of feel. You know what I'm saying.

506
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:52,200
Speaker 3: You can do so much at night, movie, dinner, wine, drinks,

507
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Speaker 3: lay down, back, massage, all of that. It just hits

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Speaker 3: at night, so I said. And you know, during the day,

509
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Speaker 3: it's just like I feel like a daytime hit is

510
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Speaker 3: like a quickie type situation, right, just like a quick one. Yeah,

511
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Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So that's how I'm a

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Speaker 3: rank up from one to three.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I think I'm gonna do the same. Nothing is

514
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Speaker 1: better than like a morning sex.

515
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 2: Rollover, Like ooh, roll over.

516
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Speaker 1: Hit it, hit it, hit it, move man, ma'am. Then

517
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Speaker 1: you're cracking for the day, you know what I mean.

518
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Speaker 1: I love a morning sex and I love a wake

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Speaker 1: me up sex. Like I'm waking up to it is

520
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Speaker 1: a vibe like I'm waking up.

521
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Speaker 2: Like oh okay, okay, cracking okay.

522
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Speaker 1: And then for sure at nighttime, I'm gonna say a

523
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Speaker 1: nighttime like you said, it's like more sexy vibe. And

524
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Speaker 1: then yeah, daytime sex is like all right, let's get.

525
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Speaker 2: It in real quick.

526
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Speaker 1: But it could be cool if you just you know,

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Speaker 1: all right, like we both feeling it, let's get in.

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Speaker 4: So okay.

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Speaker 1: Another ranking shower sex, beach sex, car sex.

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Speaker 2: Or bathroom sex.

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Speaker 3: You're making this up.

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Speaker 6: I'm making this up right now, break these which one

533
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Speaker 6: sex in the shower, sex in the on the beach,

534
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Speaker 6: sex in the bathroom real quick like boom, babies go

535
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Speaker 6: to the bathroom, you know, or sex in the car.

536
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna say sex in the bathroom one.

537
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 2: That's one.

538
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 4: Okay?

539
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 2: Why is that one?

540
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,880
Speaker 3: Well? I feel like that's a situation where you got

541
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Speaker 3: the mirror right there. You know what I'm saying. If

542
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Speaker 3: ain't nobody around, say it's in your crib or your

543
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Speaker 3: apartment or wherever there's not a public bathroom, not on

544
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Speaker 3: how that that's not a public bathroom? Talking about like

545
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Speaker 3: in the crib or some that where you could just

546
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Speaker 3: like that mirror hit.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you can see the see.

548
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Speaker 3: Reactions from each other right there. Hands might be on

549
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Speaker 3: the window. You're like, oh, okay, okay, so that's one

550
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Speaker 3: for me for sure. And then you said shower will

551
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Speaker 3: be second. It's just something about the shower, you know,

552
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Speaker 3: that's just you know, you like that sud to get

553
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Speaker 3: the SuDS going. Watch your partner, y'all get it cracking.

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Speaker 3: So I'll say the showers number two. And then you

555
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Speaker 3: said what the beach and what was the car? I'm

556
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Speaker 3: gonna say the beach or third? Uh I don't even

557
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Speaker 3: know if I've ever done that on the beach. Wait, yes, yes, yes, Uh,

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Speaker 3: I don't know. Maybe I can't remember if so. But

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Speaker 3: like then I think, uh, I ain't damn cars.

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Speaker 1: The cars uncomfort cars, cars, cars uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: I agree with that car like that for me.

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Speaker 3: Because I'm tall, it's just too uncomfortable for me.

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Speaker 2: I would say, probably a car is going to be

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Speaker 2: last for me.

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Speaker 1: Shower is cool, but shower can get tricky, like shower

566
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Speaker 1: is to me overrated because y'all are trying to.

567
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Speaker 2: Get the position.

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Speaker 1: And then if you're with someone that's like super taar

569
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Speaker 1: and you're not the same highlight.

570
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Speaker 2: It'd be a.

571
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 1: You be uncomfortable and then you can't even focus on

572
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:11,640
Speaker 1: getting me cracking, like the shower is tough to get Yeah,

573
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,120
Speaker 1: slippery is this is that you fall in you trying.

574
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 2: To get it?

575
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 1: Like I like it, but I think that it's just

576
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 1: like overrated sometimes because you know, like I'll still get

577
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 1: it cracking in the shower, but I need like it's

578
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,959
Speaker 1: not my first one. I don't think I would probably

579
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,680
Speaker 1: say bathroom was gonna be one, but like you said,

580
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Speaker 1: not a public because that mirror.

581
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 2: Okay, cool, that hits.

582
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 1: And then maybe I don't feel like these are good options.

583
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, like beach if you're on a vacation

584
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:40,159
Speaker 1: hitting and it's warm.

585
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, the moon out you warm out there. Yeah,

586
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,640
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So that then shower than car,

587
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Speaker 2: That's what I'm going for. Period. I think that's the

588
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Speaker 2: cool one.

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Speaker 3: I should have gave better options.

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Speaker 1: You gotta be likezi, Okay, you give it options.

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Speaker 4: That's the option.

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00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just came up with them. You give three, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, So let me see if you can rank feets. Okay, Uh,

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Speaker 3: bring these in the.

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Speaker 1: Order, Okay, props like toys okay.

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Speaker 7: Uh, a video okay, like making a movie okay, or

597
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Speaker 7: like bondage.

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00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 2: Okay, you went all the way. I think you're gonna

599
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Speaker 2: be like.

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Speaker 1: Like, okay, okay, so you said bondage is like what

601
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: like someone's tying you up and this and that? Right, yes, yes, okay,

602
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: I can get with that.

603
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say.

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00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: Toys, bondage, and then what was the last one?

605
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 2: Sex tape, sex tape. I'm gonna go to those three.

606
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:56,240
Speaker 3: Sex tape is third.

607
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 1: Sex tape is third, because sex tape is cool, but

608
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 1: sex tape has to be like you trust this person,

609
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 1: you love this person, and you know, guys know y'all

610
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: not ever going to be on some really going to

611
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Speaker 1: do it. Yeah you someone you love it?

612
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 2: I think yeah, stuff like that. Yeah for sure. So

613
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 2: I mean sex tape is cool.

614
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: I'm totally with that, Like you can watch your back

615
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 1: when you're not with the person.

616
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 2: Like that's cool, you know.

617
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 1: But I also feel like, okay, maybe yeah, maybe that's

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Speaker 1: my order.

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00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 2: Sex toys you know those are cool? What is your order?

620
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Speaker 3: Well, probably like toys and stuff, you know, you know,

621
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Speaker 3: like stuff that's like like you know, you get.

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Speaker 8: The cream or the yeah or the feather feather stuff

623
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 8: like that that. I like that, And then I'll say

624
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 8: sex tape is too, And then I go to bondage

625
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 8: where it's it's like, oh.

626
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 3: I got you up to the yeah, tied up to

627
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 3: the thing something like that.

628
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Speaker 2: Bondage gets intense.

629
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: It's not just tied up, it's given whips and chains.

630
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't know if I done that.

631
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Speaker 1: I never did that before. I'm willing to try things,

632
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 1: but that's intense. But yeah, okay, those were cool. I

633
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: thought you were gonna have us with.

634
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Speaker 2: Like Jacuzzie, uh in the movie theater. Have you ever

635
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Speaker 2: had sex in a movie theater?

636
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Speaker 3: I don't think so, that's a lot. Yeah.

637
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 2: Okay, where's the craziest place you ever had sex?

638
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Speaker 3: Yeah? I don't know. The plane all right? The plane,

639
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 3: I feel like that's normal.

640
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 2: I never had text on the blame before. That's not normal.

641
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 3: I mean you do like when you do like private jets.

642
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, then that makes a difference. You're talking about a

643
00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 1: public plane in that.

644
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 3: Back that would that would be crazy.

645
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 2: That's blowing me. So I'm not doing it like.

646
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 3: Place so used like damn what maybe like I don't know,

647
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 3: I don't know the plane.

648
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 2: Okay, the plane is cool.

649
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:21,800
Speaker 1: I'm not man of that all right though, Yeah, okay, okay,

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Speaker 5: our show before and he was like, do you want

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Speaker 5: to be a bride or do you want to be

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Speaker 5: a wife?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Oh, because it's a big it's a lot of responsibility

663
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Speaker 5: to be a husband and to be a wife.

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Speaker 4: That's a lot, you know what I'm saying.

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00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 1: They always say gets with someone who doesn't just want

666
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 1: a husband, but they want to be a wife, and

667
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 1: vice versa. Get was someone who doesn't just want a

668
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 1: wife and he also wants to be a husband, because

669
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 1: a lot of people just want the idea of like,

670
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 1: oh I'm a wife now, ring now, and they don't

671
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 1: even be happy, right, or they don't want all that

672
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 1: comes with you because she ain't always gonna be sweet.

673
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 1: But that's what you're signing up for when you decide

674
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 1: to marry somebody.

675
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,959
Speaker 2: Exactly of the poor. But once you marry me, honey,

676
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 2: I'm not divorcing. We're doing we will take a walk,

677
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 2: take a back, come back, and we're gonna talk about it.

678
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 2: We're gonna be all right.

679
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 1: Like I'm not doing no divorce, not at this age

680
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 1: and not at this stage.

681
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 2: If I like, I'm not doing that, like we're gonna be.

682
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: That's the life you we were dying together, we dying,

683
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 1: you die.

684
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 2: I'm going the next day like we were done for real.

685
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 2: I'm not playing that.

686
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 8: Yeah.

687
00:32:55,440 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 3: So what's the worst Probably several relationships, several I'm hearing

688
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 3: her talk and I'm hearing y'all you know, yeah, yeah, yeah,

689
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 3: yeah yeah, never leaving the next man in marriage and

690
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 3: everything because you know y'all getting older and everything. So

691
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 3: what's the worst way you found your man? Cheating? Or

692
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 3: has a man ever cheated on you?

693
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 2: Now you know damn well right, no, cheated.

694
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 3: You haven't even got to day the worst way once?

695
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 3: How did you find up? How did you inspect.

696
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 5: Her gadget relationship. The thing is with my he has

697
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 5: a type. First of all, he has a type like me.

698
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 2: Let me tell you say that I always know exactly.

699
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 5: Who because he has the type of me. His baby mama,

700
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 5: the girl all look alike.

701
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 2: They do have a similar yes, like.

702
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 5: So, he didn't follow a lot of people at the time,

703
00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 5: and this was so crazy. He actually left to be

704
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:01,720
Speaker 5: at his house because he was because I came in

705
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 5: town last minute, and I used to always stay with

706
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 5: him when I would go home, and so he was like, hey, babe,

707
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 5: already had something playing. I gotta go do something, blah blah.

708
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 4: Boss.

709
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, cool, I'll just be at the

710
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 2: house whatever.

711
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:16,320
Speaker 5: So I don't know what made me just like something

712
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:18,359
Speaker 5: in my spirit that into which I was like, what

713
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,800
Speaker 5: is he doing? Because if I'm in town, why you

714
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 5: didn't just push your back move something around, you know,

715
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 5: like you couldn't change your schedule whatever. So I went

716
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 5: to the people he was following and I was just

717
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 5: scrolling and I seen a brown.

718
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:36,879
Speaker 2: Skin, big body bitch that's sir.

719
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 5: Was I mean, I didn't even have to click. I

720
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 5: clicked on her page. I went and looked at her story.

721
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:42,760
Speaker 4: Y'all.

722
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 9: They was at the Dallas Mavericks game having a ball.

723
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 2: He's the camera Like, then no afford him his nuts?

724
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:56,399
Speaker 4: Yes, she was like, because oh my.

725
00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 2: You a sloppy.

726
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:00,600
Speaker 1: But you know, isn't there something about going through a

727
00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 1: following list and you just know which one always know?

728
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:05,319
Speaker 2: As a woman, I've seen memes about this.

729
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 1: As a woman, you could just look and be like,

730
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 1: I feel like, I know, you just know certain things

731
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 1: or you know a certain vibe, like you know, and

732
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 1: men don't realize that we know what kind of girls

733
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:18,920
Speaker 1: you like from like.

734
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,359
Speaker 9: We know it, Like my man, I know his type,

735
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 9: you know this never I know, I don't know.

736
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 1: I feel like for me, it was my friend telling

737
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 1: me because the guy that I was dating, he was

738
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,800
Speaker 1: like in the same vicinity with somebody who knew the girl.

739
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 2: I was cool.

740
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,400
Speaker 1: We and he called her and told her that he

741
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 1: was up there with a girl. But not to be

742
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,479
Speaker 1: like on no, missy. She just like kind of letting

743
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: her know who was up yeah, like she was just

744
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 1: she was basically just like, oh yeah, he told me

745
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,239
Speaker 1: so and so was up there, and so and so

746
00:35:58,400 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 1: was up there, and he was up there with this

747
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 1: per in that person and this is my friend, but

748
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 1: we wasn't really friends like that.

749
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 2: She didn't know that was my man yet basically, and

750
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:09,240
Speaker 2: she told me.

751
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:13,720
Speaker 1: Just on you know, who was up there at the place.

752
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,479
Speaker 2: And so I'm just like, what the fuck he's up.

753
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:16,919
Speaker 1: There with who?

754
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 2: And I'm trying to keep it real cute because like

755
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 2: I said, she didn't know that. Yeah, So I'm like,

756
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 2: what the fuck? So I called him, not asked him

757
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 2: about it, and then he.

758
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: Was like, oh no, that's crazy people be lying. I

759
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 1: wasn't up there with her.

760
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:29,919
Speaker 2: The fuck you were?

761
00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 4: My god, I went look at the.

762
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:34,280
Speaker 1: Girl's story if she was indeed in the same place

763
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 1: as him. Oh yeah, no, no, no, no, no, Now okay,

764
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 1: have y'all ever seen somebody you know, Like, let's say

765
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 1: you have a homegirl, she ain't your best friend, but

766
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: you like know her man and he's out on a

767
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:47,839
Speaker 1: day with someone else.

768
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 2: What are you doing? That's a situation because I just

769
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:54,959
Speaker 2: feel like stuff like that just.

770
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 1: Get real touch and they start to blame. They start

771
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 1: to blame you, and a like, hold on, girl, you

772
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 1: was lying. That's why it's hard. But what if it's

773
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,399
Speaker 1: your best friend, what you're doing? No if it's my

774
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 1: best friend, I'm telling you that I've seen your.

775
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 4: Zoom.

776
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:17,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to know that. I would walk up

777
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 2: to the table. Hey yeah, yeah, you're like, hey, what

778
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 2: you're doing there is this time.

779
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 1: Like, well, that's a best that's only the best, the

780
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 1: best friend certain women.

781
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 2: My man, he can't do no Wronger, you don't even

782
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 2: know what we got going on. I was like, yeah,

783
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 2: I don't be getting involved.

784
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 3: If I see something, you can't look from afar and

785
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 3: go tell because you don't know what that is.

786
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:48,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. I will say that though, because I was going

787
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:51,440
Speaker 1: to say my mom told me this story about how

788
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:54,399
Speaker 1: when her and my dad first started dating. My mom

789
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:57,719
Speaker 1: had four brothers. So one of her brothers, he was

790
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 1: in the navy, and like when he would go away,

791
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 1: she would drive his car, and so one day she

792
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 1: ended up picking him up from the airport when he

793
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 1: got back.

794
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:10,399
Speaker 2: And I guess somebody that was cool with my dad seeing.

795
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 1: Her picking from the airport and then called my dad

796
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 1: and was like, oh, yeah, I seen your girl at

797
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 1: the airport picking up this men and they got hugging

798
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: and X, Y and Z, and then coming to find

799
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 1: out it was my uncle. But my dad trusts my mom,

800
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: so he believes.

801
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 2: You have to trust because people will put things.

802
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:31,880
Speaker 3: In your ear. You have to know exactly what it

803
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 3: really is.

804
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 2: I don't care what it is.

805
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:40,720
Speaker 9: I'm just letting you know context.

806
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 2: When it's my best friend, I'm just letting you know.

807
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 2: This is who he's with. Okay, that's his sister.

808
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:45,319
Speaker 1: Cool.

809
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not gonna be no beef.

810
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 1: That's why you only do that with your best.

811
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 3: No matter if it's like, yeah, that's your best friend,

812
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 3: but like your best friend could be he over here,

813
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 3: arm around this girl walking through her. He lived, but

814
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:01,440
Speaker 3: this is his cousin. But the family his family.

815
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:03,920
Speaker 5: But also if that's his if that's your best friend

816
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 5: and that's her, man, she'll already know, Oh he outside

817
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:09,439
Speaker 5: with such and such, Like you know what I'm saying.

818
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 2: You don't know if I tell her.

819
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 4: Like, hey, girl, I seen your dude. He was outside.

820
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:16,360
Speaker 4: Oh he was with X y Z. Because you know

821
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 4: where he was at.

822
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 2: That's why y'all gotta stop lying exactly.

823
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 1: And your best friend's not gonna be mad at you

824
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 1: because it's your best friend.

825
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:25,360
Speaker 2: Canna, Yeah he's out. Actually he's out with his cousin.

826
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:29,279
Speaker 3: That's man like I said, like a man, we're not

827
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 3: gonna tell you every step of the way. We ain't

828
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,800
Speaker 3: gonna tell you I'm out with x y z's x

829
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 3: y z zz like five of us. We're gonna say,

830
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:42,719
Speaker 3: we're gonna go a little bit. Yeah up. But it's

831
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 3: like you in a section. It's like a couple of girls,

832
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 3: like this is where y'all. This is why y'all get y'all,

833
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:53,880
Speaker 3: y'all rolling with this. Say your man he out with

834
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,360
Speaker 3: his boys. It's three of the boys. They got a

835
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 3: section at the club, and it's like four girls in

836
00:39:58,480 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 3: a section.

837
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 2: Without me at the crib while he out with a.

838
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:11,439
Speaker 3: Bunch of He not with the girls, his boys.

839
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:13,760
Speaker 4: His boys. I'm not gonna lie. Stuff like that doesn't

840
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 4: bother me.

841
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 2: Like I get it, it doesn't bother me.

842
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 4: I mean, think about it.

843
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:19,440
Speaker 5: If your man is outside, they don't want to be

844
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,239
Speaker 5: in the sexual with a bunch of niggas. It's like,

845
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:24,479
Speaker 5: it's it's it's if it's innocent, like women are around

846
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 5: y'all drinking having fun, that's cool. But as long as

847
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 5: it stops right there nothing. I don't want a woman

848
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 5: to ever feel like oh yeah, because a lot of

849
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 5: times it ain't even about him.

850
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:34,839
Speaker 2: It's about how I was with right a man last night.

851
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 2: He was all in my face because you.

852
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:49,759
Speaker 1: And the men don't realize that women are calculated, and

853
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 1: they do that they purpose, they know, and they'll literally

854
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:55,440
Speaker 1: go and and then that's how you get caught up

855
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:57,319
Speaker 1: because the next day they were like girl, And even

856
00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:00,040
Speaker 1: if you weren't doing anything like as a man, you

857
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:01,360
Speaker 1: can never be too friendly.

858
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 2: You can't because a woman's gonna flip back.

859
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 1: He was on me, he was trying to flirt with me,

860
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: and then everyone else is gonna interpret it as that.

861
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 1: So now she going around talking about your man is flirting.

862
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 1: And even if it's not the truth and she forgives you,

863
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,840
Speaker 1: it still just feels it. Don't feel a woman like

864
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:19,840
Speaker 1: I'm not feeling you know what I'm saying, Like you

865
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:21,799
Speaker 1: ain't What is your example of a man I'm being

866
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:22,280
Speaker 1: too friendly?

867
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:26,879
Speaker 2: Like where's you cross the line? I don't know, because

868
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 2: you know, I'm not gonna lie.

869
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 1: I'm a little relax when he comes to that, Like

870
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 1: I'm a little relax when he comes because I feel

871
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: like my ex he was real flirty. Yeah, but people

872
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 1: also tell me I'm really flirty too. And I think

873
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 1: people will think that I'm flirting with them and I'm

874
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 1: not even trying.

875
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:46,759
Speaker 2: To just because of my Yeah, it's just because of

876
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:47,720
Speaker 2: my energy and stuff.

877
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 1: So and he he knows that and he giddy, and

878
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 1: it's the same with me. You So I feel like

879
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 1: it doesn't really bother me sometimes, whereas other women that

880
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 1: I'm friends with they would shut that shit down when

881
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: they feel like man is being too flirty or too friendly.

882
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 1: I don't really mind it because I feel like it

883
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 1: goes with knowing your men. You know, the man I

884
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:08,720
Speaker 1: was with, that's where it stopped.

885
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:10,240
Speaker 2: He gonna be friendly.

886
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:17,280
Speaker 1: But yeah, it just depends on the circumstance in my opinion,

887
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 1: and who's around and what's like, don't you can't just

888
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 1: be making me look and feel That's where I drop

889
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 1: the live. But like I also agree where it's like

890
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 1: you're gonna say stuff, you're gonna do stuff, you're gonna live. Yeah,

891
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 1: like that's just a part of life, you know, Like

892
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:34,240
Speaker 1: you can't be too uptight with a man. I agree,

893
00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 1: And I'm just not an already jealous person, like I

894
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:41,399
Speaker 1: think that first of all, it's just be fine. They're

895
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 1: looking good, so yes, you know, what I mean, So

896
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:50,959
Speaker 1: I don't expect my man to not look I saw

897
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 1: something online the other day and this lady was basically

898
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,799
Speaker 1: saying like she don't want her man looking at anybody.

899
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 2: She don't want him looking at other women looking at that.

900
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 1: Crazy because I heard a girl tell me. She was like,

901
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 1: my man can't be around like pretty girls. I don't

902
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 1: allow him crazy. First of all, girl, you can't control

903
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: a man. He's gonna see pretty women.

904
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:12,799
Speaker 2: You're not the most beautiful woman in the world.

905
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 4: Sorry, none of us are.

906
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 1: There's always gonna be someone prettier, better body, this and that,

907
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:20,280
Speaker 1: just like there's gonna be a.

908
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 2: Finer man of everything.

909
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 1: So you have to be secur into your own ship

910
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 1: like I can't. I don't like to control and micro

911
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:32,399
Speaker 1: manage that. Miserable I'm gonna be stressed out.

912
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:32,760
Speaker 3: I can't.

913
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 1: I can't control that. You be around a matter of fact,

914
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 1: be around the baddest bitches in the world and still

915
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 1: choose me, be the baddest bitches and be able to

916
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 1: be like I'm cool, Like that's what I want. You

917
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, be around that and then

918
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 1: still choose me. Then I'm cracking, like you hit the

919
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 1: best version of your partner when you let people be

920
00:43:57,280 --> 00:44:00,319
Speaker 1: I have to let that nigga disrespect you. What I mean,

921
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:02,360
Speaker 1: he should be trying to holler at no women or

922
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 1: inappropriate while you're around and slipping you seeing it and

923
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 1: you're just being cool with it.

924
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 2: But if he if he like looking, I don't know.

925
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 2: I just don't care about that.

926
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 3: I don't.

927
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 1: I don't want nobody breaking the neck to look at

928
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 1: nobody that's gonna.

929
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 2: Blow like yeah, but it's a man, Like I'm with

930
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:22,719
Speaker 2: a man. He's like, oh, you know, a pretty girl

931
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 2: like you. I don't care. I'm like whatever, But if

932
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 2: you then I'm like, this is crazy.

933
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 1: Now could be much Yeah, now trying to get cuto.

934
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 5: Between somebody being flirty and somebody being thirsty.

935
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:38,440
Speaker 4: I don't want no thirsty.

936
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 3: So y'all walking that's cool?

937
00:44:47,840 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no, that's too much like this. The second time,

938
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 4: he was like.

939
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 3: We know how to do it though, because a dude

940
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:12,840
Speaker 3: a dude, we'd be like.

941
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:13,920
Speaker 4: Now we in Atlanta too, So it's a lot of that.

942
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:20,359
Speaker 2: I'm like, god, damn, look at women all the time.

943
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:21,840
Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, she's hit and got a

944
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:26,120
Speaker 1: little like I'm very friendly. I love people be chopping

945
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 1: like so I get it, and I'll even be like, oh,

946
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:31,440
Speaker 1: look look at that, look at it. Do stuff like that,

947
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: but don't break no neck. Yeah, because now you're taking

948
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:35,399
Speaker 1: it too far.

949
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:37,279
Speaker 2: And now she's already thinking like her. Because you know

950
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 2: what I hate.

951
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 1: As a woman when I'm out and I see a

952
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 1: girl in her man and he's staring me down, so

953
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 1: embarrassing for the girl, and it's like, wow, I would

954
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 1: never want.

955
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:48,800
Speaker 2: My man to do.

956
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:51,920
Speaker 1: I want to feel crazy because I'm looking at him

957
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 1: looking at me.

958
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 2: No, you feel someone.

959
00:45:54,680 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 1: You feel, you feel, you feel it's very uncomb and

960
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: then you see it and it's like you with a

961
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 1: whole woman and you just staring down, and then you

962
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 1: feel stupid for her like a bear's like damn, I

963
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: get seconded barrels from.

964
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:10,359
Speaker 2: The girl and I hate that and I don't want that.

965
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 2: Don't we women like that?

966
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:12,719
Speaker 3: One up?

967
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 1: He was, but why are you staring crazy? Acknowledging that

968
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 1: she fine, but stary?

969
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 4: You know what's crazy.

970
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:28,960
Speaker 5: My friend, one of my closest friends, told me a story.

971
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:31,400
Speaker 5: She was on vacation with the man she was dating

972
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:33,839
Speaker 5: at the time. They went to like Mexico or something.

973
00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 5: They're at a resort. They're like hugged up in the

974
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:40,239
Speaker 5: pool kissing, and I think he had eventually got up

975
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 5: went to the bathroom or something. A girl was like, Hey,

976
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 5: I just don't to let you know your man is

977
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 5: winking at me, and like she was like she had

978
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 5: to tell her.

979
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 4: She was like, they ruined the trip? What are you doing?

980
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 5: Literally, while they're hugging, he was looking at another girl

981
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 5: and winking at house, staring at Yes, I swear to god,

982
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 5: that is crazy, That's what I'm saying. So it's just like, yeah,

983
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 5: you gotta draw that line somewhere, like the line, because

984
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 5: it's like, yeah, a look is a look. But sometimes

985
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 5: when you know, when when somebody's staring you down.

986
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 4: Show looking at.

987
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 1: You know, a break neck things, it's like you're doing

988
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 1: too much?

989
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 2: Do y'all?

990
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 1: Would y'all bring a third into your thing, into your relationship.

991
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 2: Like just for a night or something.

992
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 4: I don't like.

993
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 1: And so see, when I was younger, I used to

994
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 1: like I had a girlfriend before.

995
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 2: Okay, So I don't know, I've.

996
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:36,080
Speaker 1: Been saying once I get married, and me and my

997
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 1: ex have like talked about this before, Like I don't know,

998
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 1: you might be open to it, maybe like a little

999
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 1: girlfriend when I get older. I don't know, Like so

1000
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 1: when an extra girlfriend for both of y'all, Yeah, okay,

1001
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:51,360
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, because.

1002
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:53,360
Speaker 3: It's clear that you still have something.

1003
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 2: Oh wow. Look, look, I think I.

1004
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:01,799
Speaker 1: Feel like we just or not in alignment with the

1005
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:03,840
Speaker 1: things that we wanted currently.

1006
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 2: Which is what? Which is? Like where the fuck is

1007
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 2: the ring nigga?

1008
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:11,759
Speaker 1: Okay, That's just how I feel at this point when

1009
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:13,560
Speaker 1: it comes to me and him, and I feel like,

1010
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 1: you know, he is marriage minded, he wants to get

1011
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 1: married all of those things, but I think he has

1012
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,839
Speaker 1: been like JD, like most men, in a.

1013
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:26,320
Speaker 2: Lot of previous relationships and stuff.

1014
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 1: So I just think he's apprehensive and he's really big too.

1015
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 1: On he already has a kid, so he doesn't want

1016
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:37,359
Speaker 1: to have another kid without being married first because he's

1017
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:38,799
Speaker 1: he like, I don't want to be no two time

1018
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:42,359
Speaker 1: baby daddy. So I'm like, okay, I respect it. So

1019
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:45,239
Speaker 1: we're the ring men because I'm also ready to hop

1020
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 1: babies old period.

1021
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 2: So we just you know, not in a line.

1022
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,919
Speaker 1: So when you give him an ultimatum like we're gonna

1023
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:53,360
Speaker 1: be getting married and we're not gonna be together.

1024
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:55,960
Speaker 2: Oh well, I don't feel like I gave him anutimatum.

1025
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 1: But that's why we're broken up because we're just not

1026
00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:00,879
Speaker 1: on the same page. And I feel like you knows

1027
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 1: where we're staying with it.

1028
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:09,800
Speaker 3: So I feel like, for you, she built something right here.

1029
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:13,400
Speaker 3: And when you build something with somebody and you have

1030
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 3: a history and it's like you're comfortable, and it's like, damn,

1031
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:17,360
Speaker 3: I don't want to tear it all down and start

1032
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:20,720
Speaker 3: all the way over, and then that's a whole nother process.

1033
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:24,920
Speaker 3: That's a whole another five years for something else, and

1034
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:28,360
Speaker 3: it's like you want it to work. It's just like

1035
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 3: but you're just not sure. But then it's like, damn

1036
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 3: if I start something new and start building somewhere else,

1037
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 3: damn to start the rebuild is a process.

1038
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 1: But but do you really feel like you should stay

1039
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 1: for that reason? Because then you do have situations too

1040
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 1: where women get out of long term relationships and they

1041
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:48,439
Speaker 1: end up meeting the love of their life and get

1042
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:52,839
Speaker 1: engaged in like a year, like she has a whole

1043
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 1: baby daddy, he's this that that she left him. It

1044
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:58,320
Speaker 1: was like, I'm not dating whatever went on one day

1045
00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:00,160
Speaker 1: engaged because get that.

1046
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:02,600
Speaker 3: The thing is when you when you break up with somebody,

1047
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 3: you have that initial of like I need to be

1048
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:07,400
Speaker 3: with somebody. When you with somebody like you make a mistake,

1049
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:10,360
Speaker 3: you can make a quick mistake. Yeah you know what

1050
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:13,640
Speaker 3: I'm saying. Because you resented that person now and now

1051
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 3: you're looking for something quick. Then I'm oh, I got

1052
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:16,399
Speaker 3: I found somebody quick.

1053
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's not always.

1054
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:22,920
Speaker 3: A lot of people do that, but no, a lot

1055
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 3: of people that.

1056
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 1: But people she like took a break for like a

1057
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:30,319
Speaker 1: year in general, and then she literally was like, I'm

1058
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 1: so comfortable alone. I don't even want to date, Like

1059
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 1: I don't want to I don't even care to be

1060
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 1: with nobody. And then boom it hit her in the

1061
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,960
Speaker 1: face type thing, you know, because you do hear those

1062
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:41,399
Speaker 1: stories about women and then boom they're with the next man.

1063
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:43,880
Speaker 2: It's like, Wow, you're doing all of this, you're ready

1064
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 2: to marry, you're not playing games with me or whatever.

1065
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:46,799
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1066
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:48,400
Speaker 1: I don't know with men, and I don't know how

1067
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 1: much time you let a man slide with stuff. If

1068
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 1: you want something he's not willing to give it to you,

1069
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 1: then do you let it go?

1070
00:50:56,560 --> 00:50:57,080
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1071
00:50:57,239 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 1: And I think that's where in life if you never

1072
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:03,279
Speaker 1: really know if you're making the right decision. Yeah, you know,

1073
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 1: And I think that's sometimes the scary part about life.

1074
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 1: You never really know, like, Okay, is this the right

1075
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 1: decision that I'm making. I hope it is, because then

1076
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:14,080
Speaker 1: you also, on the other side, have women who leave

1077
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:16,879
Speaker 1: relationships and then they don't never find nobody else.

1078
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. I doubt that's gonna be your situation.

1079
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:21,760
Speaker 2: I thank you.

1080
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:24,640
Speaker 1: I feel like women feel that way, and I'm like

1081
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:25,799
Speaker 1: me and my homegirl say that.

1082
00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 2: I'm like, look at your track record. How long have

1083
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 2: you ever been single? In life?

1084
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:31,240
Speaker 4: You long?

1085
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:34,320
Speaker 2: Like you you are gonna get a new man outside

1086
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 2: of that.

1087
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:38,680
Speaker 4: Single is not scary. No, it's not like a bad thing.

1088
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 5: Like I really enjoy, you know, the freedom that I

1089
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:45,400
Speaker 5: have of like living alone, living alone sometimes, and so

1090
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 5: it's like being alone is not scary and it's not like,

1091
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 5: oh my gosh, the most horrible thing ever either. So

1092
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 5: I feel like it's a win win either way. If

1093
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 5: I find my husband and we have kids and live

1094
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 5: happily ever after, that's cool. But if I'm by myself,

1095
00:51:58,239 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 5: I'm cool with that too, you know.

1096
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:01,440
Speaker 3: Be okay with that.

1097
00:52:01,719 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know that I will be okay with it.

1098
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 4: I think it's because I have a community.

1099
00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:08,400
Speaker 2: Like life is not meant to be lived alone.

1100
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 5: But I'm not alone though, like for me, like I

1101
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:13,520
Speaker 5: have such a strong community, Like me and my sister

1102
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:14,840
Speaker 5: are like extremely close.

1103
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:18,600
Speaker 4: I have my nephews, I have my friends. Alone, yeah,

1104
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:19,359
Speaker 4: I have, you know.

1105
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 2: But it's nothing.

1106
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:24,719
Speaker 1: It's different than having one person and knowing like you

1107
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 1: have that one person you call on.

1108
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 2: But I agree with you.

1109
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:28,840
Speaker 4: Community is important.

1110
00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:32,239
Speaker 1: People always make me feeling like being alone is such

1111
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 1: like a They make it like a sickness, like, oh,

1112
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:39,799
Speaker 1: you're single, Yeah, what's wrong with her?

1113
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:41,840
Speaker 2: They always say that. It's like, what's wrong with y'all?

1114
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 2: It's the real question. That's why we don't want to

1115
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:46,719
Speaker 2: deal with y'all like that. Because it's easy.

1116
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 1: People think, oh, it's so hard to get a man.

1117
00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:49,600
Speaker 1: You can get a man.

1118
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 2: I just don't want to be alone. You can get

1119
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 2: a man, and.

1120
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:56,279
Speaker 1: This is the easiest thing to get. It's getting a

1121
00:52:56,480 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 1: quality man. Yeah, yeah, getting a good man.

1122
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 2: It's they're a statistic that says.

1123
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 1: Women want women are more attracted to men who are

1124
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:11,360
Speaker 1: taken and men are less attracted to women who are taken,

1125
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:14,480
Speaker 1: so like when a woman is knowingly taken less men,

1126
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 1: which I actually can feel that, Like if you're knowingly

1127
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:19,879
Speaker 1: public or you know whatever, less men get at you.

1128
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,719
Speaker 2: I need to shut up there, I'm saying, hut up.

1129
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:24,520
Speaker 2: They say that, but.

1130
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 1: Less men honestly, Like even Cardi b said that when

1131
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 1: she was married, yeah, no, men were getting they were cool, like,

1132
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:39,480
Speaker 1: oh hi, she wasn't getting men at her like that.

1133
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:42,840
Speaker 1: But when men are married or men are taking, women

1134
00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 1: want them more because they're like, oh, you can be

1135
00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 1: a husband, you can be a boyfriend. I might be

1136
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 1: cutter than her, I might be able to take her. Man,

1137
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 1: why he be my boyfriend. He has the ability to

1138
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 1: be a husband and a boyfriend and a relationship person.

1139
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 1: So it makes them to a lot of women more attracted.

1140
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 5: I think there's a lot of truth of that too,

1141
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,359
Speaker 5: because I think it's so interesting all the time when

1142
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 5: a woman has a child with the man they were together,

1143
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:07,319
Speaker 5: then they break up, and then she ended up being

1144
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 5: the side bitch to her baby daddy.

1145
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:13,880
Speaker 2: Oh yes, because yeah, why you go from being the

1146
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:14,959
Speaker 2: main to the side girl.

1147
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:17,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, women go from being the main to the side all.

1148
00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 2: The time, So the baby mama becomes the side.

1149
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:24,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, wanted to get a new girl or whatever, and

1150
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:27,840
Speaker 1: then yeah, you was once the girlfriend. Do you feel

1151
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:30,279
Speaker 1: like if your man cheated on you with his baby mom?

1152
00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 1: Is that like, would you get back with him for that? No,

1153
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:36,759
Speaker 1: that's the cheat. You can't do because I feel like

1154
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:37,800
Speaker 1: you still have feelings.

1155
00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:39,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, y'all have a kidding.

1156
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 1: This is someone you're gonna have to deal with forever,

1157
00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:43,359
Speaker 1: So you can't just be like, I'm gonna cut her.

1158
00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:45,840
Speaker 2: Off, baby, I'm never gonna talk to her again. No,

1159
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 2: I don't deal with that.

1160
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:49,320
Speaker 1: That's the one line where it's like, now, would you

1161
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 1: take a man back if he cheated?

1162
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:55,160
Speaker 4: No? Not now? Yeah. I used to like kind of

1163
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 4: not care, but I.

1164
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 3: Think to cheat.

1165
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 1: So the game said that there's levels that she okay,

1166
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:04,280
Speaker 1: so let's talk about it. So, you know, some people

1167
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:07,440
Speaker 1: say they're cheating to them. Is anything that you do

1168
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:11,120
Speaker 1: that you can't tell your partner? Okay, I'd be more

1169
00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 1: self than like he's physical.

1170
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, for me, emotional to me, cheating is actually worse.

1171
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:19,400
Speaker 2: It's worse.

1172
00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 1: But usually if it's an emotional connection, they fucking yeah,

1173
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:26,760
Speaker 1: what if? What if It's like your man is sending

1174
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:28,799
Speaker 1: somebody money and helping them with.

1175
00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:34,120
Speaker 2: Stuff and yeah, yeah they hit worse.

1176
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:37,800
Speaker 1: That's worse than you paying this bitch bill if you

1177
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:41,200
Speaker 1: like her or you or what if a girl hit

1178
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 1: him up like, hey, I really need help my car

1179
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 1: something something, Can you send me some money?

1180
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 4: I'm cool?

1181
00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 3: And they have sex, but they never had nothing sexual.

1182
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 2: No, but you're about to have sex time you definitely warm.

1183
00:55:57,160 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 1: Even if y'all have sex once or twice, she's hitting

1184
00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 1: you up. What if your man has a home girl

1185
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:04,320
Speaker 1: that he's that he sends money.

1186
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:06,680
Speaker 2: He is that okay, a homegirl that he's sending money

1187
00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:11,719
Speaker 2: to and they're not Where is her? Yeah, where's her job?

1188
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:15,000
Speaker 3: Sticks economy?

1189
00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:17,760
Speaker 1: If you only have one time cool, I'm not appolsed

1190
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 1: to like my man helping one of his friends once

1191
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 1: but sending her money consistently.

1192
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:27,759
Speaker 2: That a man sending a woman money is blowing me.

1193
00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:32,560
Speaker 1: And if you know, unless it's your family members like that,

1194
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:35,600
Speaker 1: what like sitting here having.

1195
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:37,000
Speaker 2: Sex with you and doing this and doing that?

1196
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 1: What but like a cat thing? Like what if she

1197
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 1: needs two hundred dollars? Still pay there saying like is

1198
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:46,960
Speaker 1: there a cat? There a cat be hitting a man

1199
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 1: who's single and available to be giving you money and

1200
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 1: not someone else's man. That's like, who's building a life

1201
00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 1: in an empire? Like it's not his responsibility to take

1202
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 1: care of another woman. Like if it's the mother of

1203
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:02,760
Speaker 1: his children, that's different. Yes, definitely, Like, yeah, that's different.

1204
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:05,720
Speaker 1: You just send your baby my money and for stuff.

1205
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:08,359
Speaker 1: I don't think that that's a problem. But just like

1206
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:09,280
Speaker 1: a home girl.

1207
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:12,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I realized what cheating too. I used to

1208
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:14,920
Speaker 5: be like, oh, I can get over it. You don't

1209
00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 5: like for me personally, like I used to be like

1210
00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:20,320
Speaker 5: in relationships and like he would cheat or something and

1211
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 5: do something. I'm like, oh my gosh, I forgive him.

1212
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 5: We're gonna move on from this. And even if that

1213
00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:27,800
Speaker 5: we did move on and he becomes the perfect guy

1214
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:29,720
Speaker 5: and he changes, it's still in the back of my

1215
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 5: head and I'm just like, you know what, I don't

1216
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:33,760
Speaker 5: think I can forgive this. I think this is actually

1217
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 5: a deal breaker for me.

1218
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 1: Are you a person that bring it up though, Like

1219
00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 1: you can't get over it, and then you bring it

1220
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:41,120
Speaker 1: up like when y'all having other arguments.

1221
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:44,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, like in my last situation, Yeah, that it happened

1222
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:47,440
Speaker 5: because I realized I'm not over this, Like I can't

1223
00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:49,400
Speaker 5: get over it and I won't get over it, you

1224
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. Now, I've had situations like with

1225
00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:54,440
Speaker 5: somebody I'm dealing with, like we're on and off, and

1226
00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:56,680
Speaker 5: like we were off and they were like maybe dealing

1227
00:57:56,680 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 5: with somebody and stuff like that is different. Like if

1228
00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 5: we had an off period and you were dealing with

1229
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 5: somebody else, like it's gonna hurt my feelings that make

1230
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 5: me mad, but you didn't cheat on me, because cheating

1231
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:08,400
Speaker 5: is just different.

1232
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:09,920
Speaker 4: I don't know, it just hits me different.

1233
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:12,400
Speaker 2: Do you have levels of cheating though? Like what is it?

1234
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:12,600
Speaker 3: Like?

1235
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 1: What is like if a man is like, oh, you know,

1236
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 1: he went out, let's say his homegirls in town.

1237
00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 2: He went to go get drinks with her, but he

1238
00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:20,720
Speaker 2: didn't tell you.

1239
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 5: Like if that's your homegirl, why are you not telling

1240
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 5: me anything that you do behind my back? I wouldn't

1241
00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 5: necessarily categorize it as cheating, but you're being You're being dishonest.

1242
00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 5: There's no trust there, you know what I'm saying. You

1243
00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:37,120
Speaker 5: don't trust me not to not trip. I don't trust

1244
00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:38,560
Speaker 5: you to be honest. So it's like, what are we

1245
00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:41,240
Speaker 5: doing here, So anything that you do behind my back,

1246
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:43,720
Speaker 5: that you're being sneaky about it is dishonesty.

1247
00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:45,480
Speaker 4: So I just I can't do this cheating.

1248
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:50,000
Speaker 3: Like he go to the club with his boys, he

1249
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 3: gets drinks, so he just me the girl. You pull

1250
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:57,280
Speaker 3: up to the club and you walk in. There you

1251
00:58:57,320 --> 00:58:59,520
Speaker 3: see and it's a girl on his lap as soon

1252
00:58:59,560 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 3: as you soon as he sees you, he pushed her off.

1253
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:04,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, what are you doing?

1254
00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 3: Club club?

1255
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 2: Not a stripper?

1256
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:14,040
Speaker 3: This happen though, he just met the girl. I've seen

1257
00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:14,560
Speaker 3: this happening.

1258
00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:20,959
Speaker 1: You friendly talking about earlier she walked, but she walked

1259
00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:24,920
Speaker 1: in he thought, he exactly.

1260
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 2: If he pushed her. Now I'm really suspant. She's why

1261
00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:28,960
Speaker 2: are you pushing up? But let me tell you something

1262
00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 2: five minutes ago he saw you. If he didn't push her,

1263
00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:38,120
Speaker 2: is that cheating a woman? It's cheated.

1264
00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:41,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, because you yeah, you know why you feel like

1265
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:42,760
Speaker 5: friendly as hell?

1266
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:45,800
Speaker 3: Because guess what now you have a conversation like, no,

1267
00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:47,920
Speaker 3: we just met she right there, she's like.

1268
00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:52,000
Speaker 1: Walked even more reason why she's sitting on your legs?

1269
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:52,480
Speaker 2: We just mad.

1270
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 3: We was just vibe. There was no other seats, but

1271
00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:56,720
Speaker 3: never another seat.

1272
00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:58,680
Speaker 2: If I never walked in the club.

1273
00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 5: Was you gonna come home and tell me happened? Like, Man,

1274
01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:02,160
Speaker 5: I was at the club and this girl sat on

1275
01:00:02,200 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 5: my lap.

1276
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:05,520
Speaker 3: We're not gonna tell you that exactly. But why would

1277
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 3: we need to tell her? Why we want to start

1278
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 3: an argument?

1279
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:10,040
Speaker 2: Because I like to fight. You want to?

1280
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 1: Okay, let's answer this question. If you walk in the

1281
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:15,760
Speaker 1: club and your girl has a man and she's I mean,

1282
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:16,880
Speaker 1: she's sitting on a man's lap.

1283
01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 3: If I walk in and my girl is sitting on

1284
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 3: the dude lap, I'm good.

1285
01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:31,440
Speaker 1: But I can't that about that man smiling in the

1286
01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:34,120
Speaker 1: girl's slaves flirted. Moment a man even comes talk to

1287
01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:37,840
Speaker 1: you for two seconds, they be like, but what'll talk about?

1288
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:39,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you could be key ken.

1289
01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:40,880
Speaker 4: Like man.

1290
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:44,080
Speaker 3: Girl sitting on somebody lap?

1291
01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 2: You finished out?

1292
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:47,120
Speaker 3: No, no, no, look, if I see it, I'm not

1293
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,200
Speaker 3: even gonna approach her. I'm gonna look and be like,

1294
01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:51,720
Speaker 3: oh that's what she All right, I'm gonna go play

1295
01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:54,040
Speaker 3: it up all over here, and I might go start

1296
01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:56,760
Speaker 3: talking to something else, like all right, now I'm gonna

1297
01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 3: start flirting right here. Now, all right, I'm about do

1298
01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:01,080
Speaker 3: it right here. I want to walk over here, I'm like,

1299
01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:07,360
Speaker 3: come come here real quick, Hey, how you doing?

1300
01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:11,160
Speaker 2: Like the end of the relationship.

1301
01:01:12,080 --> 01:01:13,960
Speaker 1: But get what he had every excuse for when the

1302
01:01:13,960 --> 01:01:16,440
Speaker 1: girl was on his head. But this is the thing, right,

1303
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 1: is what I saw saying. Let me ask you this,

1304
01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:22,080
Speaker 1: are you leaving a man?

1305
01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 2: You see that?

1306
01:01:22,720 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 1: So let's say you come in to the club, the

1307
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 1: girl is sitting I was like rubbing his head.

1308
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:29,560
Speaker 5: And it's not about the actions, about how it makes

1309
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:31,439
Speaker 5: me feel and what every time.

1310
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:33,160
Speaker 4: Now every time you step out.

1311
01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:37,640
Speaker 2: On his head Now you're thinking every topic every time.

1312
01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:40,160
Speaker 5: That is miserable. I don't want to every time you

1313
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:42,160
Speaker 5: step out the house. I don't want to be like, damn,

1314
01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:44,920
Speaker 5: I wonder what he's doing. That's not fun. So the

1315
01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:47,920
Speaker 5: actual action of it is the bigger picture, and it's

1316
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 5: the after effects of what what you did?

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1318
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 3: But you can get over No I can't. Now here's

1319
01:01:56,160 --> 01:02:01,720
Speaker 3: another scenario. Scenario. So that's not cool. But it's cool.

1320
01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:04,160
Speaker 3: If you walk into the strip club and she's working

1321
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Speaker 3: on them.

1322
01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's working. We all love the strip. They do

1323
01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:10,600
Speaker 2: not want that niggas in there. They do not.

1324
01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:17,320
Speaker 1: Sometimes they actually do. But I feel like this is

1325
01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:20,640
Speaker 1: appropriate setting to do that in the club and also

1326
01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 1: to know, like you know, I'm thinking, like this is

1327
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:26,960
Speaker 1: a strip club. You come here to do that. You

1328
01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:30,000
Speaker 1: know what to expect. And I like, my man going

1329
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 1: to the strip club and nobody.

1330
01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:43,920
Speaker 3: Right there getting all rock right there getting.

1331
01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:44,320
Speaker 4: I just feel like dancing, you're going happy.

1332
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:51,200
Speaker 3: That's gonna happen. Yeah, that's not look in the back room,

1333
01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:52,400
Speaker 3: in the back back room.

1334
01:02:52,720 --> 01:03:01,920
Speaker 2: You just get the probably not necessarily get out there

1335
01:03:02,680 --> 01:03:03,240
Speaker 2: to many people.

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01:03:05,200 --> 01:03:09,040
Speaker 4: Private dance is crazy to horny.

1337
01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:10,800
Speaker 3: Head.

1338
01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:15,880
Speaker 2: Why that won me from the back you want me

1339
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:18,440
Speaker 2: it's crazy because I just came to the realization.

1340
01:03:18,560 --> 01:03:20,960
Speaker 1: There was a viral mean like guy and he was

1341
01:03:21,040 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 1: like when guys tell me to go to strip club,

1342
01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 1: They're like, oh, you want to go get hard in

1343
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:24,920
Speaker 1: the club together.

1344
01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:31,280
Speaker 2: And I realized, like that you don't walk up to

1345
01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:34,400
Speaker 2: the mar like water wings. Just let me get that

1346
01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:37,240
Speaker 2: lemon pepper. No, I don't know.

1347
01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:39,760
Speaker 1: I was so young to not realize, like because I'm

1348
01:03:39,800 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 1: not getting like turned off, but I'm not you know whatever.

1349
01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:45,880
Speaker 2: But I'm like thinking, like, y'all are just hard, all

1350
01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:48,200
Speaker 2: all standing around together, just.

1351
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:50,360
Speaker 3: Coming here for.

1352
01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:55,440
Speaker 1: Y'all live in Atlanta, right, So I used to live

1353
01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 1: in Atlanta, honey, and my homegirls worked at Onyx, and

1354
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:02,000
Speaker 1: she was cracking. Okay, that's ten years ago. But them

1355
01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 1: strip clubs is no joking Atlanta. Seen them eating everything. Boys,

1356
01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:11,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, y'all are having a porno.

1357
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 2: Shoot, you're scary but naked. They just be having it

1358
01:04:15,040 --> 01:04:18,240
Speaker 2: if walking around hitting it.

1359
01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:20,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, But I mean if you go to strip of Atlanta,

1360
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 1: is what's more cracking Atlanta Houston for the strip.

1361
01:04:23,400 --> 01:04:24,439
Speaker 2: I've never been in Houston strip.

1362
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:27,400
Speaker 5: To me, I'm biased because I worked at one of

1363
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:30,000
Speaker 5: the really popular strip clubs for a very long time

1364
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:31,240
Speaker 5: and now we go back.

1365
01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 4: We always go to Area twenty nine. We always from Area.

1366
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 2: We love Area twenty nine. It's a good time. But

1367
01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:37,360
Speaker 2: to me, I'm not gonna lie.

1368
01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:39,840
Speaker 1: Atlanta strip clubs be more popping because the girls out

1369
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:44,640
Speaker 1: there be really dancing. Yeah, professionals, They be climbing the polls,

1370
01:04:45,120 --> 01:04:49,200
Speaker 1: be doing the tricks. The Houston girls they just fine

1371
01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:51,120
Speaker 1: and they fine, they know they fine. They're gonna do

1372
01:04:51,200 --> 01:04:51,919
Speaker 1: a little shake.

1373
01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:03,760
Speaker 2: Okay. So before we wrap up, ya, Paul has some

1374
01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:06,040
Speaker 2: viral clips and I want to know what y'all think.

1375
01:05:06,240 --> 01:05:06,880
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

1376
01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 5: I was very scared to come here today. I was

1377
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:11,640
Speaker 5: because I was like, oh my god, he's gonna say

1378
01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:12,200
Speaker 5: something crazy.

1379
01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:16,480
Speaker 2: Who comes. It's always like you're so nice and you're

1380
01:05:16,560 --> 01:05:18,600
Speaker 2: so cool talking crazy?

1381
01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:24,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, crazy scared other people.

1382
01:05:24,520 --> 01:05:24,960
Speaker 2: He don't do that.

1383
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:27,520
Speaker 1: So he'd said cheat to see if you love your

1384
01:05:27,720 --> 01:05:29,080
Speaker 1: you have to cheat on the woman to see if

1385
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:29,600
Speaker 1: she loves you.

1386
01:05:30,440 --> 01:05:31,320
Speaker 2: What do y'all think of this?

1387
01:05:33,040 --> 01:05:33,280
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1388
01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 2: Why is that to go to?

1389
01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:35,439
Speaker 9: Yeah?

1390
01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:38,320
Speaker 2: I don't have to struggle for love, I think, And

1391
01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:40,040
Speaker 2: I think that's a big misconception.

1392
01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:42,800
Speaker 1: People think that they have to go through a lot

1393
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:45,560
Speaker 1: with the men or a lot with the woman for

1394
01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:48,120
Speaker 1: y'all to be compatible or to make sure that y'all

1395
01:05:48,160 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 1: supposed to be able to make it work.

1396
01:05:49,640 --> 01:05:51,920
Speaker 2: Like I feel like, why can't he just be smooth

1397
01:05:52,000 --> 01:05:53,000
Speaker 2: seling from day one?

1398
01:05:53,640 --> 01:05:55,560
Speaker 5: But I'll say this to the point because I think

1399
01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:57,560
Speaker 5: sometimes you do have to go through things to make

1400
01:05:57,600 --> 01:06:01,080
Speaker 5: it work, right, Yeah, but have to be cheating like

1401
01:06:01,280 --> 01:06:04,840
Speaker 5: I have. Like I had a situation where like his

1402
01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:08,720
Speaker 5: grandmother died and it's like, you know, do you how

1403
01:06:08,800 --> 01:06:11,479
Speaker 5: do you suffer? You got to see how somebody goes

1404
01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:14,120
Speaker 5: through something, you know, maybe something that's happened with you

1405
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:16,440
Speaker 5: financially and you're going through a season, or maybe I'm

1406
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:18,720
Speaker 5: going through a season, Like we can go through things.

1407
01:06:18,800 --> 01:06:20,680
Speaker 4: You ain't gotta go fuck another bitch, you see it?

1408
01:06:20,760 --> 01:06:22,840
Speaker 2: Let me see how exactly.

1409
01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:23,920
Speaker 4: No, there's a lot of.

1410
01:06:23,960 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 5: Things that can happen in life that can test our

1411
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:29,320
Speaker 5: relationship outside of cheating to see if we can weather

1412
01:06:29,440 --> 01:06:29,880
Speaker 5: the storm.

1413
01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:33,160
Speaker 3: I'm not saying like initially like hey, all right, you

1414
01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:35,200
Speaker 3: know what, I'm gonna go see let her catch me

1415
01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:38,160
Speaker 3: and let's see let me test her wheel. I ain't

1416
01:06:38,240 --> 01:06:42,880
Speaker 3: initially saying that, But I know, guys, that's found out

1417
01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:45,360
Speaker 3: because like I'm talking about like people in my position,

1418
01:06:45,480 --> 01:06:48,200
Speaker 3: motherfuckers got a hell of money. That's meaning, that's that's

1419
01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:52,760
Speaker 3: already known. Say like shit, he'd already got a hundred million. Now,

1420
01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:55,840
Speaker 3: I mean you how I know that? You know you

1421
01:06:55,880 --> 01:06:58,280
Speaker 3: ain't like the rest of right, you know what I'm saying,

1422
01:06:58,360 --> 01:07:01,200
Speaker 3: you chasing checks here or something. So what I gotta

1423
01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:01,720
Speaker 3: do to know this?

1424
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:02,320
Speaker 2: Well?

1425
01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:02,960
Speaker 5: How do you?

1426
01:07:03,160 --> 01:07:05,959
Speaker 3: How do I find out? And what I'm I'm dumb.

1427
01:07:06,360 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 3: I'm dumb as hell because I'm just I'm just like

1428
01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:12,160
Speaker 3: girls whatever, I'm just like, oh she fine, damn, she

1429
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:15,200
Speaker 3: got a good personality. Okay, let's let's be my girl. Yeah,

1430
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:18,280
Speaker 3: I'm dumb motherfuckers out here, So how do I know

1431
01:07:18,400 --> 01:07:23,160
Speaker 3: for show that she ain't about to just try to

1432
01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:24,080
Speaker 3: get me for my ship?

1433
01:07:24,360 --> 01:07:26,160
Speaker 1: I don't think you really know. I think you have

1434
01:07:26,320 --> 01:07:28,160
Speaker 1: to give it time and really get to know the

1435
01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:30,360
Speaker 1: person in bent them properly. I think a lot of

1436
01:07:30,440 --> 01:07:34,280
Speaker 1: the time men and women just fall ahead over heels

1437
01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:36,680
Speaker 1: really early, and you don't really know this person.

1438
01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:39,880
Speaker 2: You know the representatives. You have to give it time.

1439
01:07:40,000 --> 01:07:40,920
Speaker 2: Time tells all.

1440
01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:44,080
Speaker 1: People can only keep up a facade for so long, right,

1441
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:45,680
Speaker 1: first few months?

1442
01:07:45,880 --> 01:07:49,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, a year in you won't see the real them.

1443
01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:54,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, they say, my six months theresentative for two like

1444
01:07:54,120 --> 01:07:57,280
Speaker 1: and like you've said before, they actually do be knowing.

1445
01:07:57,640 --> 01:07:59,960
Speaker 2: They just decide, like I'm gonna say, because she could

1446
01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:02,680
Speaker 2: with sex schools, You're ready, I can take they be

1447
01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:03,480
Speaker 2: knowing for real.

1448
01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:05,680
Speaker 1: After a while they're like, yeah, she ain't, but you

1449
01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:08,640
Speaker 1: already interviewed that you can deal with it. You know

1450
01:08:08,800 --> 01:08:11,240
Speaker 1: she's not gonna really be with you, rolling with you,

1451
01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:13,680
Speaker 1: you die. She's gonna be taking that money and smiling

1452
01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:16,240
Speaker 1: and laughing to the bank. But you know when a

1453
01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 1: woman is genuine, who she hangs around, how she operates,

1454
01:08:20,200 --> 01:08:22,920
Speaker 1: the real friends she got, the people she talked to

1455
01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:26,240
Speaker 1: like you know, you know, because and then it's like yeah,

1456
01:08:26,840 --> 01:08:29,479
Speaker 1: women going yeah that truly do believe and.

1457
01:08:29,520 --> 01:08:30,679
Speaker 4: Gives you a lot of times.

1458
01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:32,960
Speaker 5: These man gets you a woman that got something to lose,

1459
01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:35,040
Speaker 5: They got her own business, they got her own things

1460
01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:36,600
Speaker 5: going on outside of you.

1461
01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:37,720
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

1462
01:08:37,720 --> 01:08:40,439
Speaker 5: When you have a woman who has something to lose

1463
01:08:40,880 --> 01:08:43,880
Speaker 5: and things going on, it's just like, yeah, it's cool

1464
01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:45,360
Speaker 5: that you have money, it's a plus, but it's not

1465
01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:47,960
Speaker 5: why she's here. Because she got her own going on.

1466
01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:49,800
Speaker 1: She knows how to run a business. She knows how

1467
01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:51,320
Speaker 1: to talk to you, but she knows how to do things.

1468
01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:54,840
Speaker 1: She's adding value to your life exactly wants to you

1469
01:08:54,880 --> 01:08:56,800
Speaker 1: know what I mean. She's not just like, oh, spend

1470
01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:59,360
Speaker 1: this money. Also someone will be like no, don't spend

1471
01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:02,200
Speaker 1: that baby. If this do this like you peep that yo,

1472
01:09:02,360 --> 01:09:04,840
Speaker 1: she really rock with you, Like no, don't don't get

1473
01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:05,320
Speaker 1: it twisted.

1474
01:09:05,400 --> 01:09:14,360
Speaker 2: Like there's other ways. Okay.

1475
01:09:14,560 --> 01:09:17,840
Speaker 1: So Paul also says that he feels like women overseas

1476
01:09:17,920 --> 01:09:20,120
Speaker 1: are better to be in a relationship with.

1477
01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:22,439
Speaker 2: He didn't say what I'm semming it up to be

1478
01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:23,320
Speaker 2: in a relationship with.

1479
01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:26,160
Speaker 1: They're just more submissive. They want a family, they want

1480
01:09:26,200 --> 01:09:27,200
Speaker 1: to do like the Passport.

1481
01:09:27,360 --> 01:09:29,480
Speaker 2: So I was going to say, you support the passport.

1482
01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:32,080
Speaker 3: I never I don't even know who the Passport boys are.

1483
01:09:32,960 --> 01:09:35,240
Speaker 3: She brought that up, and that's my first time ever

1484
01:09:35,320 --> 01:09:39,439
Speaker 3: hearing it. Really. I said that the women overseas have

1485
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:42,880
Speaker 3: more traditional family values than.

1486
01:09:42,800 --> 01:09:46,720
Speaker 5: Americanoen okay, and you know what, I'm not going to say,

1487
01:09:46,760 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 5: you're wrong. But also on the other side of that,

1488
01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:52,320
Speaker 5: the men are more traditional as well. So they're doing

1489
01:09:52,400 --> 01:09:54,559
Speaker 5: that because they're raised in the householder. It's like I'm

1490
01:09:54,640 --> 01:09:57,200
Speaker 5: taking care of the household. I'm being a man, I'm

1491
01:09:57,240 --> 01:10:00,639
Speaker 5: being a leader. We were forced to be independent, so yeah,

1492
01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:03,960
Speaker 5: there's no men in the house, so yeah, I have

1493
01:10:04,080 --> 01:10:05,680
Speaker 5: to pay the bills. I have to be strong, I

1494
01:10:05,800 --> 01:10:07,640
Speaker 5: have to be I'm gonna be a more militant and

1495
01:10:07,680 --> 01:10:09,960
Speaker 5: a little more argumentative because this is how I run

1496
01:10:10,040 --> 01:10:10,240
Speaker 5: my house.

1497
01:10:10,240 --> 01:10:12,200
Speaker 4: Because ain't no man in here. Y'all be gonna get

1498
01:10:12,200 --> 01:10:13,320
Speaker 4: some milk, y'all never come back.

1499
01:10:13,800 --> 01:10:16,439
Speaker 5: So it's like the society and the culture is a

1500
01:10:16,520 --> 01:10:20,160
Speaker 5: lot different here. Because we were forced to be the

1501
01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:23,800
Speaker 5: man of the house, an independent. So yeah, those women

1502
01:10:24,080 --> 01:10:26,400
Speaker 5: are going to able to be more submissive and listen

1503
01:10:26,479 --> 01:10:29,360
Speaker 5: more because they whole family in the house. Literally, they

1504
01:10:29,560 --> 01:10:32,080
Speaker 5: raised their family, the grandmother in the house, the grandfather,

1505
01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:33,639
Speaker 5: everybody in the house together.

1506
01:10:34,160 --> 01:10:34,920
Speaker 2: They got help.

1507
01:10:35,280 --> 01:10:37,800
Speaker 1: And the men are running the bills and this and that,

1508
01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:40,639
Speaker 1: and the women they have a billy and they already

1509
01:10:40,760 --> 01:10:42,000
Speaker 1: see that that's what it is.

1510
01:10:42,640 --> 01:10:43,560
Speaker 2: Oh, this is what it is.

1511
01:10:43,640 --> 01:10:45,559
Speaker 1: Okay, And guess what. The men don't wait three years

1512
01:10:45,640 --> 01:10:47,599
Speaker 1: to marry you. For you, they're gonna be like, we're

1513
01:10:47,680 --> 01:10:48,320
Speaker 1: having a family.

1514
01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:49,080
Speaker 2: We're getting.

1515
01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:54,880
Speaker 1: Exactly exactly. But when them oversees women come over here,

1516
01:10:55,240 --> 01:10:58,559
Speaker 1: they got an agenda. Baby, that's the difference, because.

1517
01:10:58,360 --> 01:11:00,800
Speaker 2: I've seen that they come over here. Baby, they're doing

1518
01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:06,960
Speaker 2: the same thing everybody else. And that's all you take me.

1519
01:11:07,560 --> 01:11:09,880
Speaker 2: Oh you this, Oh yeah, they coming over here for

1520
01:11:10,000 --> 01:11:10,439
Speaker 2: a reason.

1521
01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:11,880
Speaker 3: Period.

1522
01:11:12,960 --> 01:11:14,160
Speaker 4: Milania did it too good?

1523
01:11:14,240 --> 01:11:17,640
Speaker 2: She said, I mean to be the first lady. That

1524
01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:31,000
Speaker 2: pussy guy some trouble how to speak English. Okay, this

1525
01:11:31,080 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 2: has been fun. This is so fun. We're gonna wrap

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Speaker 1: you to what is your fantasy in a relationship? Not

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01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:54,200
Speaker 1: sexually it can be, but like what do you want

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01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:56,800
Speaker 1: more of from your man? Like what do you wish

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01:11:56,920 --> 01:12:00,200
Speaker 1: men knew about women? Like what do you and what

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01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:01,360
Speaker 1: do you wish they did less?

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01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:03,439
Speaker 2: Like I want them to know more of them?

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01:12:04,160 --> 01:12:06,120
Speaker 3: Like for me, she asked me this, what do I

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01:12:06,240 --> 01:12:07,519
Speaker 3: want more from one?

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01:12:07,680 --> 01:12:07,720
Speaker 1: What?

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01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:09,559
Speaker 3: Like let's stop talking some god.

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01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:13,519
Speaker 2: Damn much, I know, And that's a tough one for us.

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01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:21,200
Speaker 5: I tweeted one time and then went viral because like

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01:12:21,320 --> 01:12:22,960
Speaker 5: I was at dinner with my man. I was trying

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01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:24,560
Speaker 5: to be like romance and I was like, babe, like

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01:12:24,960 --> 01:12:25,919
Speaker 5: what's your fantasy?

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01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:27,479
Speaker 4: Like what do you want me to do?

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01:12:27,600 --> 01:12:28,000
Speaker 3: He was like.

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Speaker 2: Me personality?

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01:12:37,680 --> 01:12:38,480
Speaker 9: We laughing.

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Speaker 2: To be quiet, but it's like sometimes what do you

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01:12:44,439 --> 01:12:45,920
Speaker 2: just supposed to sit there you all day?

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01:12:46,080 --> 01:12:46,800
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying?

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01:12:47,360 --> 01:12:48,240
Speaker 4: You know, I don't know.

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01:12:48,360 --> 01:12:50,680
Speaker 1: I think that sometimes we think that we're coming up

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01:12:50,720 --> 01:12:52,720
Speaker 1: with a solution or we think we're helping, and then

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01:12:52,760 --> 01:12:55,439
Speaker 1: they be looking at it like you being combative, but

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01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:57,760
Speaker 1: we're not trying to be combat if we really think

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01:12:57,800 --> 01:12:59,040
Speaker 1: we're helping the situation.

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Speaker 2: That's what it's like.

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01:13:01,080 --> 01:13:03,160
Speaker 1: You always has to question it, but it's like I'm

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01:13:03,200 --> 01:13:05,439
Speaker 1: not questioning, I'm just thinking, like can I also come

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01:13:05,520 --> 01:13:07,840
Speaker 1: up with a different solution or bring this to your

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01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:11,200
Speaker 1: attention because sometimes you don't remember this, like and then

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01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:13,439
Speaker 1: they're like you just always questioned me and you don't

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01:13:13,439 --> 01:13:14,400
Speaker 1: follow your compatity.

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01:13:14,439 --> 01:13:15,679
Speaker 2: But it's like I'm just trying to help.

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01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:22,000
Speaker 1: He told me, he said it's okay because I'm not

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01:13:22,240 --> 01:13:27,040
Speaker 1: always looking for an answer, Like sometimes I'm just talking

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01:13:27,200 --> 01:13:30,880
Speaker 1: to you. I don't necessarily want you to come up

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01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:33,800
Speaker 1: with a solution or to help me. With us as women,

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01:13:33,880 --> 01:13:34,639
Speaker 1: we just can't help.

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01:13:34,880 --> 01:13:36,680
Speaker 2: We can't help it. We be like, well didn't you

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01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:39,720
Speaker 2: say you didn't like that? Girl? I just said I'm

1575
01:13:39,760 --> 01:13:40,080
Speaker 2: going here.

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01:13:41,560 --> 01:13:41,800
Speaker 3: But I.

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01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:47,000
Speaker 5: Think for me, like what I would like more is

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01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:51,000
Speaker 5: just like a balance because he's like a workaholic and stuff,

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01:13:51,000 --> 01:13:52,800
Speaker 5: and so it's like I be having to make him

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01:13:53,320 --> 01:13:55,400
Speaker 5: take a break, Like literally, I'll be having to make

1581
01:13:55,520 --> 01:13:56,800
Speaker 5: him sleep and go.

1582
01:13:56,880 --> 01:13:58,519
Speaker 4: Get a facial, go relax today.

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01:13:58,640 --> 01:14:02,160
Speaker 5: So I wish, like they would, men would find more

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01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:05,759
Speaker 5: of that work life balance of like relaxing sometimes.

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01:14:05,840 --> 01:14:08,160
Speaker 4: But I get it, like you know when you just

1586
01:14:08,439 --> 01:14:10,400
Speaker 4: are in hustle, hustle, I understand that.

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01:14:10,840 --> 01:14:12,800
Speaker 5: But I think life is all about balance because you

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01:14:12,840 --> 01:14:15,760
Speaker 5: don't want to look up and you're like sixty seven,

1589
01:14:15,760 --> 01:14:17,240
Speaker 5: you're like, damn, all I did was work.

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01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:19,960
Speaker 2: All I did was work and then travel or do

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01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:22,160
Speaker 2: nice things for yourself.

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01:14:22,479 --> 01:14:25,000
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, yeah, for sure. Yeah, I think that's something

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01:14:25,040 --> 01:14:26,759
Speaker 4: that I mean, Yeah.

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01:14:26,760 --> 01:14:30,760
Speaker 2: What about anything less from a man? Like they want

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01:14:30,840 --> 01:14:36,720
Speaker 2: us to be quiet less talking? Oh liss, what could

1596
01:14:36,760 --> 01:14:36,960
Speaker 2: they do?

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01:14:37,120 --> 01:14:37,360
Speaker 3: List?

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01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:40,400
Speaker 1: I think I said, I would like a man to

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01:14:40,520 --> 01:14:44,360
Speaker 1: be like less, Like I don't know how to put

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01:14:44,400 --> 01:14:47,200
Speaker 1: this into like the right term, but like stop holding

1601
01:14:47,240 --> 01:14:50,200
Speaker 1: it in so much, you know what I'm saying, because

1602
01:14:50,200 --> 01:14:52,880
Speaker 1: they'll let shit build up and know and it could

1603
01:14:52,880 --> 01:14:55,320
Speaker 1: be small, like it could you could be annoyed by

1604
01:14:55,400 --> 01:14:57,439
Speaker 1: the smallest thing I do, like hey, can you go

1605
01:14:57,560 --> 01:14:59,200
Speaker 1: do this or turn off the light and it's just

1606
01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 1: like I hate when you ask me that, just like

1607
01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:02,960
Speaker 1: little stuff and then they get all mad and it

1608
01:15:03,080 --> 01:15:04,280
Speaker 1: just boils up.

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01:15:04,479 --> 01:15:05,400
Speaker 2: And they're irritated.

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01:15:05,439 --> 01:15:10,320
Speaker 1: It's like just tell me sometimes like communication, communication, more communication.

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01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:11,400
Speaker 2: But you know what, I've.

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01:15:11,280 --> 01:15:14,040
Speaker 1: Realized, I think men don't like doing it though, because

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01:15:14,160 --> 01:15:16,720
Speaker 1: then when they talk too much, that'd be a turn

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01:15:16,800 --> 01:15:18,920
Speaker 1: off for some women, like that'd be like, oh, he nagging,

1615
01:15:19,000 --> 01:15:19,679
Speaker 1: he's sassy.

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01:15:20,520 --> 01:15:21,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm plaining.

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01:15:22,240 --> 01:15:23,880
Speaker 5: But I think that's so crazy because like if this

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01:15:23,960 --> 01:15:26,640
Speaker 5: is your man and somebody you're dealing with, like I

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01:15:26,840 --> 01:15:27,840
Speaker 5: be wanting you to tell me.

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01:15:27,880 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 2: What I want to hear every time everything? What else?

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01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:34,080
Speaker 2: What were you gonna say? Say it?

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01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:37,400
Speaker 1: I want to hear everything a man gotta say, but

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01:15:37,560 --> 01:15:40,120
Speaker 1: men have said it, Like even my past relationships, a

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01:15:40,200 --> 01:15:42,559
Speaker 1: man has told me like, yeah, you actally like women

1625
01:15:42,640 --> 01:15:44,400
Speaker 1: actually want to hear your problems, but once.

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01:15:44,280 --> 01:15:46,840
Speaker 2: You start giving the problems, they start respecting you less.

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Speaker 4: And I don't.

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01:15:47,280 --> 01:15:49,639
Speaker 1: I don't find that to be true because the more

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01:15:49,680 --> 01:15:52,439
Speaker 1: I know, the more I can anticipate your needs and

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01:15:52,600 --> 01:15:56,120
Speaker 1: help you and help us grow, you know, like I'll.

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01:15:55,880 --> 01:15:58,920
Speaker 2: Say this, I definitely want you to tell me.

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Speaker 1: But then I think it gets to a point and

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Speaker 1: this is just people across the board like yeah, how

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01:16:04,439 --> 01:16:06,600
Speaker 1: many times are you gonna bring it up though, the

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01:16:06,720 --> 01:16:07,200
Speaker 1: same thing.

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01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:08,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's over and over and.

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Speaker 4: Over because we don't come to a solution.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, then it gets to a point where it's like, okay,

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Speaker 1: damn yeah, like what we gonna do about women were

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Speaker 1: naturally that way? This is cool, but what are we

1641
01:16:21,320 --> 01:16:23,519
Speaker 1: gonna do about it? Like, I understand how you feel,

1642
01:16:23,600 --> 01:16:24,880
Speaker 1: but let's come up with a solution.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that men or women are more toxic