1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:04,560 Speaker 1: What y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all but. 2 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 2: All at all? So given them all black Amlican but 3 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 2: busting boozy, listening. 4 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 3: To together to hand. I don't joy, yeah, joy. 5 00:00:52,240 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 4: They you you gotta turn. 6 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:30,680 Speaker 5: I can't. 7 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 3: To turn the mouth turn probably got to turn the mouth, 8 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 3: turn out the water. 9 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 2: Then up, come. 10 00:01:57,000 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 1: Come on, you're think, I sure will. Good morning everybody. 11 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 6: You're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now, 12 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 6: one and only Steve Harvey, I got a radio show. 13 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 6: Sometime you wake up and you're not feeling your best. 14 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 6: The reason I'm talking about this today is because today 15 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 6: is one of those days for me. You know, you 16 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 6: can stay positive, and I'm a very very positive person. 17 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:28,799 Speaker 6: Now I'm turning it around as I speak to you 18 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:33,799 Speaker 6: because I've learned a trick in my life. I've learned 19 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 6: a self motivating tool that I use and I'm gonna 20 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 6: share it with you today. So if you wake up 21 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 6: and you're not quite feeling yourself that day, as is 22 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 6: the case with me today, here's what I do. I 23 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 6: immediately immediately, and I'm I'm not kidding you, I'm in 24 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 6: the process of doing it right now. I immediately start 25 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 6: thinking of all the little things that I have that 26 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 6: I can be grateful for. And I start with the 27 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:03,839 Speaker 6: fact that the reason I had to get up this morning. See, 28 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:06,359 Speaker 6: the reason I had to get up this morning was 29 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 6: because of the job I have. Now, you may not 30 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 6: have a job that you in love with like I'm 31 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 6: in love with mine. But let me ask you this 32 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 6: right here, suppose you didn't have that job. Oh man, 33 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 6: how would today be? Well, you could sleep in a 34 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 6: little bit longer, but when you woke up, man, you'd 35 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:27,079 Speaker 6: have to be faced with the cold realization that hey, man, 36 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:30,679 Speaker 6: I ain't working. Man, I ain't making it happen for 37 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:34,239 Speaker 6: me and mine, I'm not getting it done. And so 38 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 6: with that in mind, I immediately I start showing some 39 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 6: gratitude for waking up and man, just having work to 40 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 6: go do. And then I started telling myself that man, 41 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 6: he didn't have to do it, but he did. He 42 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 6: woke me up this morning, that I'm up, I'm actually able, 43 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 6: that I'm here again, that he ain't through with me yet, 44 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 6: that there's really still things me to do. Man, Okay, cool, 45 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 6: I'm on point with that. I'm on point with that. 46 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 6: And then I just started going over the little things. 47 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 1: Man. 48 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 6: You know, my coffee machine wasn't working this morning. I said, Man, 49 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 6: I've been down. I've been fitting with that coffee machine, 50 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 6: trying to get it to work. You know, couldn't get 51 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 6: it to work. I called somebody, you know, I get 52 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:21,280 Speaker 6: some coffee. It's okay. They at the end of the world, 53 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 6: you know. And I I start thinking about, man, that 54 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:27,599 Speaker 6: I have a place that I can go to once 55 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 6: a year. That's beautiful, you know. I start thinking about 56 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 6: you know, man, look I got a place that I 57 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 6: lay my head. 58 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 1: That's mine. 59 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 6: I mean, you know, as my father in law once 60 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 6: told me, when somebody came to see about him and 61 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:42,159 Speaker 6: his house was inside his house talking to him crazy 62 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 6: the police, he said, listen to me, he said, this 63 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 6: is my house. He says, as Meaga, as it may be, 64 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 6: this is my house, and I'm the king of this 65 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 6: castle right here. However, Meaga, it may be, this is mine. 66 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,159 Speaker 6: And you know, when you start that stuff in terms 67 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 6: like that, man, I mean, for me, it's just a trick. 68 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: I use. I start feeling better. I started looking. 69 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 6: Around, man, I started thinking about, man, I had I 70 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 6: got something to wear today, you know, I start looking 71 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 6: at little stuff, man, I'm gonna have some eggs later on. Today, 72 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 6: I started looking at other stuff. Somebody's hungry today. See, 73 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:20,840 Speaker 6: somebody don't don't really have an option of knowing what 74 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 6: they're going to have today. I actually have a refrigerator 75 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 6: with an option in it. 76 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 1: You know. 77 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 6: I start looking at the little things, man, that God 78 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:31,039 Speaker 6: has done for me, the little things is in my life. 79 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 1: And I started picking myself up. Man. 80 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 6: I started feeling a whole lot better about myself. And see, 81 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 6: the more I start telling it to you right now, 82 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 6: the better I'm starting to feel. Because man, is you 83 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 6: could you know? I mean, look, I mean, listen to 84 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 6: my voice. My energy is picking up, my pace is 85 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 6: picking up because now I didn't hit out of hit 86 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:47,359 Speaker 6: my rhythm. 87 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:50,159 Speaker 1: I'm up. I'm glad, I'm up. I'm grateful to be here. 88 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 1: I'm glad. I got a family. I'm glad. God Didne 89 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: kept my kids. Glad God kept my wife. You know, 90 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 1: I'm glad. 91 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,159 Speaker 6: You know, whoever you are, whatever your situation is, God 92 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 6: Didne kept somebody for you on your behalf. That's a 93 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 6: benefit to you or somebody you're trying to teach something, 94 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 6: they may finally get it today or something you've been 95 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 6: trying to know. You may finally know it today, but 96 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 6: you got to accept the blessing of what it is 97 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 6: that you know now okay, you know, see, if you've 98 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 6: been looking for an answer, a solution to a problem 99 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 6: and then the solution come, you know you got to 100 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 6: be grateful for it. 101 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:27,840 Speaker 1: You know, Lord, help me with this relationship. 102 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 6: Maybe today is today you find out that that's been 103 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 6: the toxic and the poison in your life, that that 104 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 6: relationship is what's wrong. 105 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 1: But because we. 106 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 6: Want to hang on to it, or we tried to 107 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 6: make it go against everything that was in us. Now 108 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 6: we got this toxic poison in our life. You know, 109 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 6: you may find out today that that's it that you 110 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 6: need to move on. Well, you know that ain't the 111 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 6: most devastating thing you can find out. There's a blessing 112 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 6: and a lot of things that looks painful at times. 113 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 6: You know, I said it at best one time, I said, 114 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 6: you know, sometimes to break up is the blessing for 115 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 6: a lot of people. It is, man, because you know, look, man, 116 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:07,040 Speaker 6: you know we make choices with who we want to 117 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 6: be with, and sometimes you don't pick the wrong person, 118 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 6: and it don't make that person to bass. 119 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: That person just wasn't good together with you. That's all 120 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: it is. And so when you come to that realization, 121 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 1: sometimes you know it's time to move on. 122 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 6: You got to be grateful for all of the little things, man, 123 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 6: the fact that you have a way to get around, 124 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 6: the way that you have, the reason that you have 125 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 6: some money to go get on something to go get around, 126 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 6: that you in school. It might not be going just 127 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 6: perfect for you right now, but guess what you in school, man, 128 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 6: you got a shot. You're making it happen, you know 129 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 6: what I'm saying, a lot of people don't have that. Man, 130 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 6: A lot of people don't know what the next move is. 131 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 6: At least you're in the process of doing something about it. 132 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 6: And you may not know how to see your way 133 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 6: all the way to the end. But just knowing what 134 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 6: to do what the next step could be for you, 135 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 6: that's good enough. 136 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 1: You know. You don't have to know all the steps. 137 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 1: Just what am I gonna do next? 138 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 6: Well, if I do this and I'm gonna take this course, 139 00:07:58,040 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 6: then after I complete this semester, I move on. 140 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 1: That's semester. I don't care what it is. 141 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 6: Look, man, we just got to find something to be 142 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 6: grateful about today, because in your gratitude, God blesses you 143 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 6: with more. See when God sees that we're grateful for 144 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 6: the things we have, he gives us more things to 145 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 6: be grateful for. It's simply the law of attraction. It 146 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 6: works in every aspect of your life. Matter fact that 147 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 6: you don't know the rule, it does not matter. So 148 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 6: the thing that you want the most of in your 149 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 6: life is the thing that you're gonna have to give 150 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:33,319 Speaker 6: the most of the things that the thing that you 151 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:36,959 Speaker 6: hope happens to you the most. It's the thing that 152 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 6: you're gonna have to have happen to others the most. Lord, 153 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 6: I want you to cover me, You're gonna have to 154 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 6: cover some people. 155 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 1: Lord. 156 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:47,319 Speaker 6: I want you to hear my crime. You're gonna have 157 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 6: to hear some people's crimes. Lord, I want more love 158 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:53,839 Speaker 6: in my life. You're gonna have to love more people. 159 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 6: I'm talking about real, real love. 160 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:55,840 Speaker 4: Now. 161 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 6: I'm not talking about going out fooling around with somebody. 162 00:08:58,640 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 6: That's that's ridiculousness. 163 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: Let's see. 164 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 6: Here's well, well, since I'm talking about love and wrong, 165 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 6: love and ridiculousness, here's how you know that it ain't 166 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 6: from God. I want you to hear me. Now, if 167 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 6: God is involved in it, there is no sin. If 168 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 6: there is sin involved in it, is not from God. 169 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 1: Just remember that rule. It took me a long time 170 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 1: learned that one. 171 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 6: You know what the Bible says doing tellings that you 172 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 6: would have them do it when they did it to me, 173 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 6: so they must want it done to them. 174 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:31,959 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go down here, I'm gonna do this. 175 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:35,319 Speaker 6: If what you're going to do is a sin, you 176 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 6: have now twisted a Bible verse to fit your method 177 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 6: or what you want to do. To know, simply know 178 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 6: that if it's God's voice is talking to you, or 179 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 6: something that's going on is in it. 180 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:49,319 Speaker 1: Bishop Oldma talked, is to me. The God's voice in 181 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 1: God's methods or ways has no sin in it. That's you. 182 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 1: All right, have a great day, everybody. 183 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:58,680 Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 184 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, it is here. 185 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 6: The time has come, it has arrived, the Steve Harvey 186 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:15,959 Speaker 6: Morning Show. It's what I'm talking about, ladies and gentlemen. 187 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 6: I and the propriety, the engineer, the fourth thought, the ambiguitu, 188 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 6: the how shall I say, the originator, the visionary, startup 189 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 6: company Steve Harvey Morning Show. This idea was born and 190 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 6: conceived in the year two thousand. Number one adn't contemporary. 191 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: Music show. 192 00:10:54,400 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 6: In the world erban, I might add, which is what 193 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 6: I specialize in, because I myself happened to be irving 194 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 6: with a strong dosage of country. Little known fact about me. 195 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 6: He Hauled was one of my favorite TV shows, well 196 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:24,679 Speaker 6: allow of them country. Every Saturday night I watched He Hauled. 197 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 6: I thought it was the best show ever invented. He 198 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 6: Holed dog on good. 199 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:32,240 Speaker 1: It was pretty good. He haul and Live in Color 200 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:34,199 Speaker 1: two of the greatest shows ever created. 201 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:42,560 Speaker 6: Ladies and Gentlemen Shirley Strawberry, the Legend that is Nephew 202 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:48,320 Speaker 6: Tommy y'all and Junior Government named kill Spates. 203 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 1: Junior, what's on your mind this morning? I tell you 204 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:52,959 Speaker 1: what I can't take it. I can't do this. 205 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 7: You know what they don't tell you when you're getting 206 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 7: married up, how much food you're gonna lose? 207 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 8: They don't tell you that part. In the beginning. Every 208 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 8: time I get something, she got to be on this plate. 209 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 8: She got to eat what I eat. She got to 210 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 8: have what I have. You had the same menu. You 211 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 8: saw the same name. I saw I wanted chicken. You didn't. 212 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 8: You wanted to sell it? Not here this on my plate. 213 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 7: I can't do this for the rest of my life. 214 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 7: Not much weight I'm gonna lose if she keep eating something. 215 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 7: You know how much food I'm gonna lose over the 216 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:26,959 Speaker 7: rest of this man, I ain't got thirty years of 217 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 7: losing food no more. I'll tell you what you need 218 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 7: to do. Understand how much do you want off the plate? 219 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 5: Up? 220 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 8: Is this fail? 221 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:33,599 Speaker 9: Not? 222 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:35,079 Speaker 10: How much? 223 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:35,199 Speaker 11: This? 224 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,439 Speaker 7: Ain't Marjorie off a Harvey plate? Do you understand how 225 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 7: hard this is? 226 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:39,680 Speaker 11: Be done? 227 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 7: Every time I order something? If I get a Cdonald's bag, 228 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:44,439 Speaker 7: you're in my fry? 229 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 5: What fault? 230 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 12: What fault? 231 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:48,439 Speaker 8: The whole time? Not thirty years. This is not a 232 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 8: lifetime of lose it. I'm gonna lose what I got. Sickle, 233 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 8: say I'm sick. 234 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 7: I can't have. I need all minds, protein, missile, protein, everything. 235 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:01,439 Speaker 8: Everything, time, all the time. You know what, I went 236 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:04,599 Speaker 8: to the bathroom, k back, half my coat gone. What 237 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:08,839 Speaker 8: you gonna break half his coat? I'm on out. I'm 238 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 8: not ready. I'm not ready. I'm not all this motivation, 239 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 8: love and marriage. I want none of that. 240 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 1: Harvey. 241 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:16,959 Speaker 8: I want Steve by myself. 242 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 2: I can't do it. 243 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:19,960 Speaker 8: You ain't motivating me no more. 244 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 7: None of this test all love, this woman, care, this one, 245 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 7: this woman eating everything. 246 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 9: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, it's 247 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:36,079 Speaker 9: church complaints with Reverend Motown and Deacon deaf Jam right 248 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 9: after the YO. 249 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 1: This is Jamie Fox. 250 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 2: This is Keim Whitley. 251 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:40,559 Speaker 1: You already know what it is. 252 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 13: Man, your man, Chico Bean, and you are now listening 253 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:44,680 Speaker 13: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 254 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it is Monday, 255 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:55,680 Speaker 9: so you know what that means. It's time for church 256 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 9: complaints with Reverend Motown and Deacon deaf Jam. 257 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, where's the argon. 258 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:07,120 Speaker 9: Here? 259 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 1: Now? Now, now we're gonna have to talk about find him. 260 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 6: I don't thank you, Deacon, because I don't come out 261 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 6: until cics Row goes to work. 262 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna find sensing Row. 263 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 4: Well. 264 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:24,840 Speaker 6: I don't know what cis Row was doing or why 265 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 6: he was late with the organ, but we we're not 266 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 6: gonna have this. We gather here in the most pro 267 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 6: lificous way. Yeah, we have been pontificating. 268 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 1: We have derived at the moment of education come out here. 269 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 6: Now we are oftentimes perplexed by the density mm hmm 270 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 6: and the level of continuity. That's right, that Overlachs in 271 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 6: the population. What did you say, Overleachs. That means there's 272 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 6: something coming soon. Yeah, yeah, over there we leaning towards 273 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 6: our deacon for posterior postivity. 274 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 1: God or studies can play. Letting jump deep, del Joe, 275 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: come on. 276 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 14: No, all right past that. Now you need to get 277 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 14: yourself together for this one. Now they say that your 278 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 14: ancestry results are in and it has definitely surprised the 279 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 14: congregation that you are sixty percent Caucasian, twenty percent African American, 280 00:15:54,320 --> 00:16:00,080 Speaker 14: ten percent Russian, and last you are ten percent a 281 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 14: region on Australian. So they are the congregation wants an explanation. 282 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 14: We thought he was black. Now they calling you a 283 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 14: call car Russian kyl rush kyl rush heah, that's what 284 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 14: they call you. 285 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 1: That's news to me. 286 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 6: Because I'm not doing well down at the bank. If 287 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:29,440 Speaker 6: there's any or percenter Caucasions available, I would like to 288 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 6: take it to my next visit to the credit Union 289 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 6: when I'm trying to get a building expansion loan. 290 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. 291 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:43,480 Speaker 6: Oh, and the only part of Russian is me is 292 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 6: when I'm rushing to get in here to work, rushing 293 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:50,280 Speaker 6: to get down there for the sale go off? 294 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 11: Now? 295 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 1: Is Russian trying to get to this doctor's appointment. 296 00:16:57,600 --> 00:17:00,160 Speaker 14: The Australian party that way your lips are now was 297 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 14: kind of from that must be where. 298 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:06,879 Speaker 6: That I know I'm is Aborigines. I know I'm he 299 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 6: is Africa. I feels no kindo jointness. 300 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:17,920 Speaker 1: To be in Caucasian man, he's six different. 301 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:20,160 Speaker 2: That's not true. 302 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:26,360 Speaker 6: I am from Zimbabwe. I have done the research, I've 303 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 6: met the people. I've been there. The whole tribe looks 304 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 6: just like men, So that's not true. You're gonna have 305 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:40,879 Speaker 6: to redo your d NA resources and don't bring us 306 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 6: nothing else. 307 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 1: In here like that. We will redo your task path. 308 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 1: We will redo it. 309 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:48,200 Speaker 14: You are no longer a called Russia or until we 310 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:56,119 Speaker 14: figured out all right, Anna part though I can relate 311 00:17:56,200 --> 00:18:00,879 Speaker 14: to call Russia Igo, definitely can relate to that. 312 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:01,399 Speaker 6: Last. 313 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 1: We got an issue here. 314 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:08,200 Speaker 14: Little Jimmy one Leg got caught coming out of sister 315 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 14: Clara's minivan on Wednesday night by her husband, brother Curtis. 316 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 14: As you know, they call him little Jimmy one Leg 317 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:19,880 Speaker 14: because he's blessed. Let's just say they just call him 318 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 14: little Now, Brother Curtis slammed his blessings in that many 319 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 14: van though five times is broken in three sections, and 320 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 14: he wants you to make Brother Curtis pay for the 321 00:18:32,560 --> 00:18:33,200 Speaker 14: medical bill. 322 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:41,680 Speaker 6: Well, I'm not sure that we're responsible for the medical bill. 323 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 1: Out all of us can relate. 324 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 6: We've all caught our blessing and the zipple as boys 325 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:51,119 Speaker 6: as he boss. 326 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:57,200 Speaker 1: I know what that threw me into next week. But 327 00:18:57,359 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 1: a vain though a mini van man, man, that's pretty rare. 328 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 6: I might get it hung up in there one time, 329 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 6: But I'm trying to figure out how Lord Jimmy Steward 330 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 6: there lett him shut it three times on the wood 331 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 6: because you gotta press that buttony to come back slow. 332 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 6: You just can't slam minivan door. You gotta press that 333 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 6: button here. Come, oh lord here, come, get you confined 334 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 6: four three two. I don't know why little one leg 335 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 6: was stunning there. You get yourself called the minivan door? 336 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 6: Two turns something wrong with you? Here has another situation 337 00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:37,680 Speaker 6: we got. 338 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:42,399 Speaker 14: Sister Sierra is wanting to design the outfits for the 339 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 14: Praise Dancers. 340 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 1: Similar to what she wore to the Oscar. 341 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 14: Sister Gretu said, we're not gonna have no dancing Jezebel's 342 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:54,440 Speaker 14: and our church, but it's your final decision that to 343 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:54,800 Speaker 14: make it. 344 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 1: A pastor, I I kind of like that outfit, man. 345 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:04,200 Speaker 1: I kind of myself, Deacon we Our, I had already 346 00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: voted to ban the praise team because we was tearing 347 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 1: up the church. 348 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:12,720 Speaker 6: You got a lot of overweight people doing ballet moves 349 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:17,399 Speaker 6: they've never been able to do before. U ballet should 350 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:25,240 Speaker 6: be restricted to ballet sized peoples. All you UH, full 351 00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 6: figured women, as beautiful as you are, as much as 352 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 6: the Lord love you it is, UH should also have 353 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:41,119 Speaker 6: been the same love shared by the congregation. And I 354 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 6: don't want to see another big girl spin and tear 355 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:51,200 Speaker 6: all the crosses off the podium that knocked all the 356 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:57,200 Speaker 6: freeze dried plants down off the offering table. I'm gonna 357 00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 6: gainst this praise dance team. So we're gonna straighten up 358 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:02,200 Speaker 6: these off fits. When we're gonna have, we're gonna do 359 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:03,639 Speaker 6: body shaming to. 360 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 1: Get on the crew. 361 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:06,920 Speaker 2: Ask the clo right after. 362 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:11,200 Speaker 1: This, this is Steve Harbin Martin show Man. You can't 363 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:17,680 Speaker 1: do nothing around my crack at all. Ye you're tattoo. 364 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:19,119 Speaker 1: You can't sketch on it. 365 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 2: You can't. 366 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 6: You can't put tracing paper on my crack. And I'm 367 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,520 Speaker 6: not gonna hold steal. I just can't do it because 368 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:27,119 Speaker 6: I'm a clinch. 369 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 1: I'm a clinch. I'm gonna tell your PayPal. I'm gonna 370 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:33,240 Speaker 1: tell your paper. Steve Harbow coming up. 371 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 6: Right after. 372 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:42,680 Speaker 9: It is time now for ask the CLO Chief Love Officer, 373 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 9: Steve Harvey. We have some good questions from Steve Harvey 374 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 9: FM dot com. Keep them coming, people, keep them coming, 375 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:53,639 Speaker 9: Tyler and Syracruse Right, Syracuse Rites. I'm a forty two 376 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 9: year old woman and I work at a bank by 377 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,200 Speaker 9: day and I work at a bar at night. I 378 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 9: serve the same customers in both, so I try to 379 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 9: remain professional. Last night a coworker from the bank came 380 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,639 Speaker 9: in the bar and hit on me. He said he 381 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:10,479 Speaker 9: sees me differently at the bar, so I look easy 382 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:11,880 Speaker 9: because I work at a bar. 383 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 1: Baby. 384 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,439 Speaker 6: All the man said was he see you differently at 385 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 6: the bar. It's not saying that you look easy. He 386 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 6: keeps it professional at work. Now, y'all ain't at work. 387 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:27,719 Speaker 6: You at work, so that old not talking to your 388 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 6: co worker is out of his head when he comes 389 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 6: to the bar. He just said he sees you differently. 390 00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:37,880 Speaker 6: You think he sees you easy, that's not it. He's 391 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:38,959 Speaker 6: hoping it's easy. 392 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:42,600 Speaker 1: You know if you easy? Hello? 393 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 6: But now your problem ain't the fact that he talking 394 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 6: to you. Just don't want to appear easy. Obviously you 395 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:55,159 Speaker 6: attracted to it. Hello, I'll be trying to get it 396 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,200 Speaker 6: at the bank and the bar. I don't Yeah, that's 397 00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 6: for real. I don't give it two rules. 398 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:08,440 Speaker 2: Was moving on. It could be Vicky and Missouri Bicky 399 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 2: and Missouri rights. 400 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,639 Speaker 9: My husband of four years cheated on me and he 401 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 9: won't tell me who the woman is. I found an 402 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:17,680 Speaker 9: ear ring back and lip gloss between her between his 403 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 9: car seat, and he said he gave an old friend 404 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 9: of ride and that's it. If it is totally innocent, 405 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 9: then why can't he tell me her name? 406 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 6: Ain't nobody finn to do that? Lady, are you kidding me? 407 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:36,160 Speaker 6: You're saying that your man cheated on you four years ago. 408 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:40,679 Speaker 6: Now you're saying he's telling you because you found an 409 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:44,120 Speaker 6: ear ring in the car, not four years ago. They've 410 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:47,879 Speaker 6: been married four years. Okay, you said he cheated on 411 00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 6: you because you found an ear ring and something in 412 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 6: the caring back. He said it was an old friend. 413 00:23:56,880 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 6: You want a name. He won't give you the name. Now, Shirley, 414 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 6: is she saying she caught him cheating? Or because of 415 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 6: the ear ring in the car, he was cheating? 416 00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,640 Speaker 9: Now, she didn't say she caught him. She just said 417 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:12,640 Speaker 9: he cheated on her. She's presenting this evidence. 418 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 1: And that's not earring then, and that's just what he said. 419 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:20,400 Speaker 6: He picked the old friend of them, gave her ride, 420 00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 6: gave her ear rings fall off all the time. 421 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 2: What's her name? 422 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 1: I'll be if I give you her name? 423 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,359 Speaker 2: What happens with the lipt gloss? It falls off? It's mine? 424 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:36,399 Speaker 6: You know you have in your purse. You know, I 425 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:38,920 Speaker 6: don't know what you got to put your redo your 426 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,800 Speaker 6: lips for it. Show wasn't because we was in here 427 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 6: kissing real hard and nothing. You can't assume that maybe 428 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,119 Speaker 6: she just trying to get ready for her next appointment 429 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 6: and she but what we not even do is give 430 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:53,239 Speaker 6: a name up. 431 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:57,520 Speaker 1: Though I didn't want to tell you that I be crossed. 432 00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 1: I just did not want to but hers, I'm allergic 433 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,560 Speaker 1: to chapstick. I have to use gloss. 434 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 7: Really was a drag by living lost throne, and you 435 00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:17,679 Speaker 7: happen to catch one. 436 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 1: And I have them. 437 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,879 Speaker 6: I have a doctor's excuse for your next teennesday, So 438 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 6: fast the next question. 439 00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:26,640 Speaker 2: Shirley, he told himself, I give an old friend or rhyme. 440 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 9: All right, Chelsea and Birmingham says, I'm a single mother 441 00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 9: of a seventeen year old girl and she is always 442 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 9: in the middle of drama with her girlfriends, her best 443 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,200 Speaker 9: friends call. Her best friend called to tell me that 444 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,440 Speaker 9: my daughter almost got beat up. So I talked to 445 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 9: my daughter. 446 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:44,480 Speaker 2: Her first reaction was to go and beat up her 447 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 2: friend for calling me. What kind of hell raiser am 448 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:48,199 Speaker 2: I raising? 449 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 11: You? 450 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:50,719 Speaker 1: Tell us you raised them? 451 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 6: If her idea of conflict resolution is fighting, has she 452 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:57,920 Speaker 6: not been taught any other way? 453 00:25:58,720 --> 00:25:58,879 Speaker 11: You know? 454 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 1: Stop all this. I didn't raise her that way. Okay, 455 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:03,919 Speaker 1: who raised him? 456 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:04,600 Speaker 11: You know? 457 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:10,720 Speaker 6: But she's seventeen. She a drama queen. Now what's gonna 458 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,159 Speaker 6: happen is but if she was a boy, this is 459 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:16,360 Speaker 6: what would happen if you a hell raised at seventeen, 460 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:19,480 Speaker 6: you're a boy, you keep drama going, somebody gonna beat 461 00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 6: your It's just amount of time. It's no way around that. Now, 462 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 6: let me give you an example. I know a kid 463 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 6: that works for me that doesn't really you know, just 464 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:37,439 Speaker 6: he just nice guy, but he just don't know how 465 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 6: to be around a lot of men. And he says 466 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:45,399 Speaker 6: stuff sometimes because he's never been around men. That's not 467 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:51,360 Speaker 6: you know, appropriate, it's just what men don't do well now. 468 00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:54,800 Speaker 6: Because he grew up around his mother and stuff, he's 469 00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 6: never had his actual but he twenty nine. And I'll 470 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 6: try to tell this kid, if you keep going this route, partner, 471 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:06,000 Speaker 6: you got to learn the ways of manhood quick because 472 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:07,600 Speaker 6: somebody's gonna knock your out. 473 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:11,280 Speaker 5: You didn't know how shocking I whooping if you ain't 474 00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 5: never had one, that first one in your. 475 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 1: Eye opener. 476 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 2: She may need some counselor yeah, I think you want 477 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,440 Speaker 2: to fight. I think you're acting out. 478 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:32,200 Speaker 1: Yeah it could be daddy issues in here. We don't know. 479 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 1: But you got to get her some help because some 480 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 1: I'm wrong with her. 481 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:37,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah for sure. 482 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:39,159 Speaker 6: Humphrey and called and told you she was about to 483 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,359 Speaker 6: got jumped on her go down and whoop her friend? 484 00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 10: Who what is that? 485 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:45,480 Speaker 2: That's bullying? 486 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 12: And yeah, is trying to give her mother heads up 487 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:54,800 Speaker 12: girls arms way, all right, all. 488 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 9: Right, moving on to Mignon and Detroit, she says, I'm 489 00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:02,000 Speaker 9: sixty nine year old retired female and I've been relaxing 490 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 9: at home without a bron lately. My husband's friend was 491 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,280 Speaker 9: at the house for the Super Bowl, and my husband 492 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 9: told me to put a bron. I was at home, 493 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:12,440 Speaker 9: so why should I have to be uncomfortable? 494 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 1: Oh come on, well, come on now, you walking around 495 00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 1: sixty nine? You know you heavy chest. 496 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:29,920 Speaker 6: Chesty' that's the old folk turn nine. 497 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 1: She's sixty nine. She didn't heard this before, you heavy chest? 498 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 1: Put a bra? 499 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,440 Speaker 6: Why should I be uncomfortable? You say you, well, don't 500 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 6: wear a bra all the time. It's Super Bowl. He 501 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,720 Speaker 6: got some friends, come over, put a brawn. It's not 502 00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 6: while you're being uncomfortable. Let's just be respectful. Everybody can't 503 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,200 Speaker 6: handle us here walking around and stuff. We got all 504 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 6: these solo cups on this table. You just knocking solo 505 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:58,239 Speaker 6: cups over the bra sting in here. Look over here 506 00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 6: now you all yo, you hanging all let the chip deal. 507 00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:02,280 Speaker 2: Put a bra on. 508 00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 1: Asked you sitting up in the hell all that chicken 509 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 1: rain sauce on your breath? 510 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,520 Speaker 2: Put up braw on coming up at the top of 511 00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 2: the hour. Thank you. 512 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:15,080 Speaker 9: C l O. 513 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,480 Speaker 2: More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. 514 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,000 Speaker 1: This is Steve Harvey Marley show Man. I like the 515 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 1: praise that. 516 00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,080 Speaker 5: I just wish they had the same toe nail polish though, 517 00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:27,840 Speaker 5: if you please, so we can be uniform. 518 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:29,320 Speaker 1: They need to be banned. 519 00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:32,240 Speaker 6: You know, they had them two little boys with the 520 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 6: white face on doing mine and stuff while I was 521 00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 6: tolerating them, you know, oh the minds, the good mine. 522 00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:43,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I tolerated them. I like them, but the praise danswers. 523 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 7: Now, first of all, we ain't got room enough for 524 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:48,120 Speaker 7: everybody to be up there. I sanctuary that big allready 525 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:49,920 Speaker 7: know we got one pert go up there in town and. 526 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:54,240 Speaker 6: Don't people stop coming down the aisle with the two clothes. 527 00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,520 Speaker 6: Get back up there where we can see everybody. All 528 00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 6: that coming down the out all behind me and next to. 529 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 2: Me, Carland my grandmother laugh. 530 00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:06,880 Speaker 6: Now, don't need it, hot white downs just staying in 531 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 6: this front round this church. 532 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:11,760 Speaker 1: Get back up there on the platform where we can say, 533 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 1: see y'all. And you got a bathe before you dance. 534 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 1: Now you do have the baby. 535 00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:20,280 Speaker 7: Everybody can't test day toes if if everybody can't just 536 00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:20,960 Speaker 7: day toes. 537 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 8: Don't even do the toe movement in. 538 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 1: The right. 539 00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:30,360 Speaker 11: Coming up right after you're. 540 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 2: Listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 541 00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 9: All right, so here's the question, guys, should we really 542 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:41,160 Speaker 9: ever blame the other woman or the other man? Now, 543 00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 9: every time we hear that someone was left, they were 544 00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:47,240 Speaker 9: cheated on with another man or woman, folks, always we 545 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:51,200 Speaker 9: always blame the person. Uh, we always blame that person first. 546 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:54,280 Speaker 9: Then they blame the significant other, the spouse. We always 547 00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 9: blame the woman first, I mean, and that's down down 548 00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:57,400 Speaker 9: through history. 549 00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 2: So so the question is. 550 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:02,320 Speaker 9: Who really should get the blame? I think there's enough 551 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:07,040 Speaker 9: blame to go around quite fright. Yeah, but you know 552 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:11,320 Speaker 9: this is crazy, but normally the woman is always the blame. 553 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:13,719 Speaker 9: I mean when you think about it, down through history, 554 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:15,480 Speaker 9: people mostly blame the woman. 555 00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:16,800 Speaker 11: Yeah. Yeah. 556 00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 12: So then the question is like, okay, so if you're 557 00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:24,360 Speaker 12: in a relationship and you leave that relationship to get 558 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 12: with someone else, whose fault is it. Is it the 559 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:31,200 Speaker 12: new person's fault, you know, the woman's fault, or is 560 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:35,640 Speaker 12: it the man's fault for leaving and hurting his significant other? 561 00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 9: Mean you know what I mean, but he had to 562 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:41,080 Speaker 9: have had your saying a relationship with this other person 563 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:43,240 Speaker 9: before he left his significant other. 564 00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:46,280 Speaker 2: Right, yeah, yeah, so he was blame. 565 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 6: Yeah, well, you know, look, whoever is in the supposed 566 00:31:53,880 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 6: committed relationship is to blame for breaking the commitment. You know, Look, 567 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 6: you're not Look, you can't blame the other person. The 568 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:08,680 Speaker 6: other person ain't promised you nothing. The other other person 569 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:13,480 Speaker 6: didn't take no vows. The other person didn't promise you nothing. 570 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:18,160 Speaker 6: Your directed anger should be at the person who broke 571 00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 6: the commitment to you, who broke your trust. 572 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 1: That's your problem now you can feel it. 573 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 12: Now. 574 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,200 Speaker 1: If you see her, you're gonna have problem with her. 575 00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:28,760 Speaker 9: Because she knew that you were in a relationship. Why 576 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:32,000 Speaker 9: didn't she leave you alone? That that's the other argument, 577 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 9: you know what I'm saying, that's the argument on the 578 00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 9: other side, Well, she knew we were in a relationship, 579 00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:38,440 Speaker 9: Why was she in it and she already knew he 580 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 9: had a girl? 581 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:40,600 Speaker 1: Or like, why did he pursue it? 582 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:44,520 Speaker 6: Is the bigger thing, yes, because see, if it wasn't her, 583 00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 6: it would have been somebody else. Right, because if he's 584 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,680 Speaker 6: in the pursuit of the women business, it doesn't matter 585 00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:52,960 Speaker 6: that it's her. If it's not her, it's gonna be 586 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:56,520 Speaker 6: somebody else, right, Yeah, because he in the pursuit game. 587 00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 9: But the women, so most of the time gets blame 588 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,680 Speaker 9: get blamed for that. Women do she knew we were 589 00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:07,080 Speaker 9: in a relationship that women don't usually blame the men 590 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 9: if the men cheat, I mean after the fact. 591 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:09,680 Speaker 13: Yeah. 592 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,440 Speaker 2: But and and they go so far as to take 593 00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:16,400 Speaker 2: the man back that is cheated on. Yeah yeah, but 594 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 2: the woman his outcast. Yeah, they're done. So you said, 595 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,840 Speaker 2: blame the person that with the commitment. I agree with that. 596 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:27,840 Speaker 11: I do too. 597 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:31,440 Speaker 2: That's how that's how it should go. But it doesn't 598 00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:34,440 Speaker 2: often go that way. You're right though, you. 599 00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 8: Get well, I blame my best friend from breaking out. 600 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,280 Speaker 2: Breaking up what what relationship I had? 601 00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 7: He dated he ended up messing around with my girlfriend 602 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,840 Speaker 7: a long, long time ago, But I blamed his idea. 603 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:53,960 Speaker 8: Don't say that, Tommy. 604 00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,880 Speaker 2: You know everything that's so personal on this show. 605 00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,800 Speaker 1: But you know who it is we could meet. That's 606 00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:04,000 Speaker 1: how we we we this therapy. 607 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 8: There's jokes that come from that. 608 00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:08,720 Speaker 1: This highway. 609 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, I come back and then I catch them kissing 610 00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,960 Speaker 7: on the cap like, oh dog, but they looked at 611 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 7: me like you're gonna put that in the kitchen. 612 00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:20,040 Speaker 8: I'm not gonna put that in the kitchen. 613 00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:20,760 Speaker 1: I told. 614 00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 8: You were there, you know, you know, he looking like 615 00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:32,399 Speaker 8: like other two days though, looking like are you gonna 616 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:33,319 Speaker 8: put that down right there? 617 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:33,400 Speaker 9: No? 618 00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:34,839 Speaker 8: I just caught you kissing my parent. 619 00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:35,319 Speaker 11: Yeah. 620 00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 8: What you went to the store or something. 621 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:41,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you left them alone in the house. 622 00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:43,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, and this is your boy. 623 00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:48,359 Speaker 8: When you come back, you over door, you know, they'll say, oh, man, 624 00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:50,279 Speaker 8: you got to be kidding me. But he looked at 625 00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:51,040 Speaker 8: me like, what's. 626 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:51,759 Speaker 2: Up, man? What's up? 627 00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:52,080 Speaker 5: Man? 628 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:54,520 Speaker 2: You're gonna put that in the kitchen. 629 00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 8: Like you're living like you're gonna put that in the 630 00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:56,000 Speaker 8: kitchen like. 631 00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:59,839 Speaker 7: The Drakes is going in the kitchen right now, Coca CoA. 632 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,680 Speaker 5: If if you whooped this back there, like I said, 633 00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:04,360 Speaker 5: we wouldn't be even talking about everything. 634 00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:10,400 Speaker 1: That's how get paid. If I walk. 635 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:14,120 Speaker 6: Into my house and my pardner kissing my girl on 636 00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,359 Speaker 6: the couch, it's finna be some hal up in here. 637 00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,440 Speaker 6: It's finna be some real hell up in here, because 638 00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:24,400 Speaker 6: dog my house dog, and you think less of me. 639 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:26,400 Speaker 1: You don't even have enough respect for me. 640 00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,360 Speaker 6: You already disrespected me with my girl, and so she 641 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,080 Speaker 6: disrespected me with you but you gonna come in my 642 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:33,800 Speaker 6: house like I ain't nothing. 643 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:39,320 Speaker 1: Oh no, dog, I promise you me and yo at wall. 644 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,720 Speaker 9: But see, and that's normally what happens, Steve, that's normally 645 00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:44,560 Speaker 9: what happens. 646 00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 2: That's not that's normally what happens. 647 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:47,959 Speaker 1: What you just said. 648 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,960 Speaker 9: But earlier you said it's the responsibility of the one 649 00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:53,000 Speaker 9: who's in the commitment. 650 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, but see, no, if here you see and see 651 00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:56,600 Speaker 1: the ex. 652 00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:02,320 Speaker 2: Had it's a double standard. No, I get it, but I'm. 653 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:03,759 Speaker 1: Saying it ain't no double standardship. 654 00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:06,720 Speaker 2: This is what Okay, go ahead, finish your thoughts. 655 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:12,520 Speaker 1: Now listen to me. Now were in this here, but 656 00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 1: now if you my dude, yeah, and I know you see. 657 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:19,279 Speaker 1: Now we got to go into man cold. 658 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:24,160 Speaker 6: Man cold is you don't do your boys. Girl, there's 659 00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:28,040 Speaker 6: too many women out here, something available. So now you 660 00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,480 Speaker 6: over here in mind, then. 661 00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:31,680 Speaker 1: You in my house. 662 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what happened to her. Same thing. Why wasn't 663 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:36,439 Speaker 2: that my house? It was her house? 664 00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:36,680 Speaker 12: Yeah? 665 00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,000 Speaker 2: Well, oh I was a comedian, you know, I just 666 00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:41,400 Speaker 2: thought I had noo. I was with her Jeffer Shelter. 667 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:42,479 Speaker 2: But it was your friend. 668 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 8: You don't understand. 669 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,120 Speaker 2: We had to stay at places. 670 00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:51,319 Speaker 1: This is true, man. Yeah, where you girl? I love 671 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:52,680 Speaker 1: her for places. 672 00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:56,879 Speaker 6: When I was homeless. Man, I probably told about six firls. 673 00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,800 Speaker 6: I wasn't with him because I had They let me 674 00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 6: stay that I love you. They come home, I'll be 675 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:07,000 Speaker 6: cooking everything, You'll be doing everything. 676 00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:10,719 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, and just just know that Junior, we can 677 00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:12,520 Speaker 1: still He's still right. 678 00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:17,480 Speaker 2: S right, all right, we gotta go. 679 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:27,080 Speaker 9: You're listening Hardy Morning Show and it's time now for 680 00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:31,440 Speaker 9: a rounded. Would you rather would you rather be alone 681 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:35,120 Speaker 9: for the rest of your life? Would you rather always 682 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:40,280 Speaker 9: be surrounded by annoying people? Alone or surrounded by annoying people? 683 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:42,319 Speaker 1: Well, that's my life. 684 00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 6: Now. 685 00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:50,160 Speaker 2: You don't have to say everything that to yourself. 686 00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. 687 00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:58,319 Speaker 2: If you want to do over, pick one one. 688 00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:01,920 Speaker 1: I'm going. I'm just go and stay with these annoying 689 00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:02,840 Speaker 1: people around. 690 00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:10,800 Speaker 2: I think about a rodeo. 691 00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 9: Would you rather be a clown who distracts the bull 692 00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:17,359 Speaker 9: or would you rather be the cowboy who rides the bull? 693 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:21,319 Speaker 1: So the clown or the cowboy, I'm that clown all day. 694 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,040 Speaker 1: I'm not getting on that bull. I'm not getting on 695 00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:25,480 Speaker 1: that bull. You scared. 696 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:28,880 Speaker 5: Matter of fact, I'm getting in that little tire that 697 00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,440 Speaker 5: the clown get in, and I'm not coming out of 698 00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:31,879 Speaker 5: that either. 699 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:34,400 Speaker 1: I'm just that clown that won't work. I'm just stuck 700 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:35,360 Speaker 1: in that tie. 701 00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:37,439 Speaker 2: Doing your job. 702 00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:45,800 Speaker 6: What Oh, I'm the clown, and my suggestion to you is, 703 00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:49,200 Speaker 6: before they open that gate, stay on top of this bull, homie, 704 00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:55,480 Speaker 6: get your full eight in, help your off, and get up. 705 00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:56,160 Speaker 1: On this rail. 706 00:38:56,640 --> 00:39:02,400 Speaker 6: Because that's why I am. I ain't even on the ground. 707 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,640 Speaker 6: I ain't in the tie, I ain't in the barrel, 708 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,880 Speaker 6: I ain't in none of that. I'm fucking here on 709 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:08,359 Speaker 6: the guard. 710 00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:14,440 Speaker 1: Hey man, hang on in the dog, the dog, give 711 00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:18,640 Speaker 1: me the makeup all that. Yeah, the chaps everything. 712 00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,520 Speaker 6: My set up there with black face on and at 713 00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:26,120 Speaker 6: the rodeo as the clown. Yeah, I set up before 714 00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,440 Speaker 6: I'm out there on that ball. Yeah, I do it 715 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:33,960 Speaker 6: in a heartbeat, before I get on that ball. The 716 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:39,680 Speaker 6: person with the Yeah, I introduced the rode on then 717 00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:45,600 Speaker 6: the real homie, the clown. You're right now, I'm not getting. 718 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,680 Speaker 1: On this bull man. I took my head off to 719 00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:51,080 Speaker 1: those that dude, because we gonna throw me off in 720 00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:54,040 Speaker 1: the shoe came back. 721 00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:57,400 Speaker 9: Would you rather make love with the lights on, or 722 00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:59,479 Speaker 9: would you rather make love with the lights off. 723 00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,200 Speaker 5: As long as we're doing it, it's gonna mind. I 724 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:03,640 Speaker 5: don't I don't like picture black. 725 00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:05,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't like what? 726 00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,239 Speaker 1: That don't work for me to see? So what what 727 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:13,240 Speaker 1: out of one? Let me see. 728 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:17,080 Speaker 2: One one? 729 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:25,080 Speaker 1: Let me see what I want? All these you, all 730 00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:28,920 Speaker 1: these bullers and all this here and then and then 731 00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:30,880 Speaker 1: you just want Yeah what. 732 00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:33,200 Speaker 5: I just like on? 733 00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:33,800 Speaker 1: Let me see what? 734 00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:34,640 Speaker 11: You know. 735 00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:38,560 Speaker 1: What marks is at? 736 00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:39,000 Speaker 11: You know what. 737 00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:42,520 Speaker 1: Everybody got marks? You see mine? 738 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:46,440 Speaker 2: That's today's rounded. Would you rather. 739 00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:49,360 Speaker 1: Steve Robin Marty. 740 00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:52,319 Speaker 7: Show man if you was gonna commit a robbery? Who 741 00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,200 Speaker 7: would you do with Shirley a caller? 742 00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:55,840 Speaker 8: Why we're hered calling? 743 00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 1: Hands down? 744 00:40:56,640 --> 00:41:01,759 Speaker 6: We stopped asking this question. Kelly got cup problem. First 745 00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,880 Speaker 6: of all, she don't cuss. Now, how we don't get 746 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:07,239 Speaker 6: everybody in the floor at the robby? And you don't 747 00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:08,320 Speaker 6: want to cuss at. 748 00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:11,080 Speaker 2: Guys, we need everyone to get on the floor. 749 00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:13,800 Speaker 1: No, see, you need somebody to cuss. That's how you 750 00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 1: get him in the floor. 751 00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:26,640 Speaker 9: After you you're listening hardy morning show, ladies and gentlemen, 752 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:28,520 Speaker 9: see why don't you do the honors? 753 00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:34,200 Speaker 6: Please, ladies and gentlemen, it is time for another poem. 754 00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:36,479 Speaker 6: By Jay Rapp. 755 00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:40,520 Speaker 1: J RAP is the new name I've chosen for him. 756 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:44,680 Speaker 6: Ladies and gentlemen, is time for j RAP, which stands 757 00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:48,320 Speaker 6: for simply Junior's Raggedy Poems. 758 00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:52,359 Speaker 8: Come on, J Rapp, Thank you, sir, Thank y'all very much. 759 00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:53,920 Speaker 7: You know, I put a lot of thought into this, 760 00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,480 Speaker 7: as I do all my poems, but this one here 761 00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,880 Speaker 7: is more especial because this is a Black History Month poem, 762 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 7: and I would like to begin thank you. It's Black 763 00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:08,759 Speaker 7: History Month and I need your attention. I'm gonna tell 764 00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:12,120 Speaker 7: you what history books don't mention. The correct term is 765 00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:15,640 Speaker 7: African American, you see. But black history did not start 766 00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:18,919 Speaker 7: with slavery. See, we are proud and we stand tall. 767 00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:22,560 Speaker 7: We made so many inventions to help all y'all. You 768 00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:26,040 Speaker 7: dance like us and braid your half. Your booty is 769 00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:29,600 Speaker 7: like ours, and it's not fair. So calm down, Karen, 770 00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:31,400 Speaker 7: what's your fuss? 771 00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:34,080 Speaker 8: You really do love everything about us. 772 00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:38,360 Speaker 7: There are so many black inventors and scholars, designers and 773 00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:41,840 Speaker 7: restale stores thrive off our dollars. We don't need to 774 00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:45,359 Speaker 7: show this month to celebrate. We celebrate Black pride three 775 00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:46,360 Speaker 7: sixty five. 776 00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:46,879 Speaker 8: Days a year. 777 00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:54,080 Speaker 7: The end, Yes, your nail did Yeah, your time goad 778 00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:55,480 Speaker 7: shows up Black History Month? 779 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,920 Speaker 8: Yeah, show us right on up for Black History. I 780 00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:01,040 Speaker 8: know you confused time. I see to look on your face. 781 00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:02,360 Speaker 8: I think I could do that. 782 00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:07,160 Speaker 5: I know you see you see the look on my face. Shot, 783 00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:11,200 Speaker 5: Come on, that was that was more of a That 784 00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:13,800 Speaker 5: was more of a statement than a poem. 785 00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:14,759 Speaker 6: I know it was. 786 00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:17,600 Speaker 8: But it needs to be staying though. You ain't. 787 00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:19,560 Speaker 7: You ain't gonna just limit us just a February we 788 00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:21,440 Speaker 7: three sixty five and this jump. 789 00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:26,920 Speaker 6: You better your your reaches into the deep water. That's 790 00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:30,239 Speaker 6: what always throws me when you don't normally go deep. 791 00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:33,840 Speaker 6: It's always interesting when I see people dive in the 792 00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:38,120 Speaker 6: deep end of the pool that normally stay in the shallows. 793 00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:39,000 Speaker 1: It just throws me. 794 00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:42,960 Speaker 8: Yeah, I see you see. Can you call that with 795 00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:44,120 Speaker 8: a raggedy yeah. 796 00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:48,880 Speaker 6: No, pray for me, Pray for me and my understanding 797 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,520 Speaker 6: of what it is you're doing. Can I call that 798 00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:53,120 Speaker 6: with raggedy yeah? 799 00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:53,719 Speaker 11: Yeah. 800 00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:55,560 Speaker 2: So you have a rebuttal. 801 00:43:56,080 --> 00:44:00,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, your name is Jay Rapp label. 802 00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:06,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, before you say it, I'm looking for it to 803 00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:09,880 Speaker 5: fit into the name. What do you pull from, Junior? 804 00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:11,839 Speaker 5: What do you pull from for your creativity. 805 00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:13,879 Speaker 8: What do you oh? Where I pulled from? 806 00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,320 Speaker 7: Just just something I see on TV? And then you 807 00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:21,080 Speaker 7: know what life people? You know, you know, because you 808 00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:22,880 Speaker 7: know I see people going through stuff. You know, I 809 00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:24,239 Speaker 7: just put it in a poem for him, you know, 810 00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:25,360 Speaker 7: stuff like that. 811 00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:27,399 Speaker 2: I see it. I got to write about it. That's 812 00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:34,560 Speaker 2: all you know. Abut No, I shot was shocked for you. 813 00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:38,879 Speaker 6: It was deep and it was like it had love, 814 00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,040 Speaker 6: It had loves in it where it made sense, but 815 00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:49,879 Speaker 6: it wasn't really. Yeah, we've had booties that's always been there, 816 00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:51,880 Speaker 6: and now you on booties like us, and that's just 817 00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:52,479 Speaker 6: not fair. 818 00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:56,160 Speaker 8: What Yeah, yeah, they're getting you know, they're going down. 819 00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:59,279 Speaker 1: Understand why are we talking about booties black history? 820 00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:04,880 Speaker 8: Ma, you're trying to I'm just carrying about how they 821 00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:06,759 Speaker 8: try to be like us. They want a dollar, but 822 00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:07,279 Speaker 8: they want to be. 823 00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:07,920 Speaker 11: Just like us. 824 00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:08,839 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 825 00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:11,000 Speaker 8: You know black women come with booty already. 826 00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:16,439 Speaker 1: You know, you know when you're talking and you hunt 827 00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:18,960 Speaker 1: your shoulders, that doesn't make it more faction. 828 00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:22,400 Speaker 7: Well that's how I felt about it was fashion when 829 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:26,120 Speaker 7: I said I like it, thank you? Sure, I know 830 00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:26,600 Speaker 7: you would. 831 00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:30,720 Speaker 1: Well, the girls are always they try to be more supported. 832 00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:31,560 Speaker 1: They don't like. 833 00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:40,440 Speaker 6: And Monica just sit over there, just be grinted and surely, 834 00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:42,240 Speaker 6: you know, surely is such a good person. 835 00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:43,840 Speaker 1: That was really nice, Junior. 836 00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:48,799 Speaker 2: I'm not I have to support, yes, you know what, encouragement. 837 00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:50,239 Speaker 2: That's nice. 838 00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:56,000 Speaker 8: I don't expect your your support because you are already 839 00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:56,320 Speaker 8: named it. 840 00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:56,640 Speaker 11: Rag. 841 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:00,239 Speaker 1: That's eight. 842 00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:07,440 Speaker 2: Well, Junior, thank you. That's all we've got to hear. 843 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:10,880 Speaker 9: But yeah, coming up next, it's the Nephew with the 844 00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:11,640 Speaker 9: prank phone call. 845 00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:14,440 Speaker 2: The ignorance continues on the show. It never stops. We'll 846 00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:18,959 Speaker 2: be right back. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 847 00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:25,200 Speaker 9: Coming up at four minutes after the hour, it's my 848 00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:30,040 Speaker 9: Strawberry letter for today and the title is My Peace 849 00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:34,480 Speaker 9: and Happiness is next Door. We'll get into that find 850 00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:37,560 Speaker 9: out what that's all about in just a bit, but 851 00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:40,800 Speaker 9: right now it is time for the Nephew and today's 852 00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:44,280 Speaker 9: prank phone call. Tommy, what do you have for us today? 853 00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:44,960 Speaker 2: What's on the. 854 00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:48,640 Speaker 1: Don't we don't you know? It's Monday? I got to be. 855 00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:58,000 Speaker 5: Extra exceedingly ignorant, understand, Yeah, exceedingly that's easy. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 856 00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:00,600 Speaker 5: that should be eating leave. 857 00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:05,520 Speaker 1: Okay, So this right here. Now, don't y'all, don't y'all, 858 00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:06,560 Speaker 1: don't y'all fall apart. 859 00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:08,960 Speaker 5: Wet road. We're going to the church. And now we're 860 00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:12,040 Speaker 5: going down there to the church. Nice little you know, 861 00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:14,960 Speaker 5: little wet road. But you know, I mean, I don't 862 00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:16,640 Speaker 5: think that's six wet road. 863 00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:21,120 Speaker 2: That's the one you picked today, man, the one. 864 00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:24,040 Speaker 5: I mean, that's how I want when I get to 865 00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:25,560 Speaker 5: the house. I'd like for her to be in the 866 00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:27,440 Speaker 5: red road. Let's go get down. 867 00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:36,040 Speaker 11: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach miss sister Tanan uh Goddarian. 868 00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:40,080 Speaker 11: This is uh Brian. I'm representing the youth and of 869 00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:43,399 Speaker 11: course you know we're already having the uh the fundraiser 870 00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:45,879 Speaker 11: on Saturday, and I would like to know are you're 871 00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:48,320 Speaker 11: going to be Are you going to be available to 872 00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:51,040 Speaker 11: come out on Saturday, because we got pretty much most 873 00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:54,160 Speaker 11: of the most of the choir you in the choir, correct, Yeah, 874 00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:55,000 Speaker 11: I never heard. 875 00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:57,320 Speaker 10: Of anything about anything on Saturday that well. 876 00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,720 Speaker 11: We are most of the choir members coming out on Saturday, 877 00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:01,759 Speaker 11: and we'd like to know if you're going to be 878 00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:04,600 Speaker 11: available on Saturday to come out and participate in the 879 00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:08,359 Speaker 11: fundraiser for the children that's going on their vacation next year. 880 00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:09,560 Speaker 11: Oh you said all the. 881 00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:12,200 Speaker 10: Other choir memories. I never heard anything from them. 882 00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,120 Speaker 11: Yeah, all of the choir members. We probably have about 883 00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,040 Speaker 11: ninety five percent of the require members coming out. 884 00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:20,520 Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm free on Saturday. 885 00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:21,240 Speaker 1: Okay. 886 00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:24,920 Speaker 11: Now, we're doing from five to seven on Saturday. So 887 00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,520 Speaker 11: are you available five pm to seven pm? It's only 888 00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:28,200 Speaker 11: two hours? 889 00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:29,279 Speaker 10: Yeah, what's your say? 890 00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:33,560 Speaker 11: Your name was Brian? I'm sorry they call me Brian, Brian, 891 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:35,360 Speaker 11: they call me Ba. I'm sorry. 892 00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:37,919 Speaker 10: Oh okay, did I meet you at the church? 893 00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:42,759 Speaker 11: Well, I just joined about three weeks ago and they've 894 00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:46,320 Speaker 11: already given me an assignment. So I'm majored in marketing 895 00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:48,839 Speaker 11: in school, so they trying to get me to take 896 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:51,799 Speaker 11: care of the children and their vacation that's coming up. 897 00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:55,279 Speaker 11: We put together some things, a great fundraiser, and you know, 898 00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,799 Speaker 11: the choir members have been very receptive. You're the last 899 00:48:57,840 --> 00:48:59,960 Speaker 11: one for me to call, and I wanted to make 900 00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:01,440 Speaker 11: sure you are on board with us. 901 00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:03,160 Speaker 10: Oh okay, yeah, I just never heard. 902 00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:06,160 Speaker 11: About this, So right right now, are you able to 903 00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:09,279 Speaker 11: bring your choir robe on on Saturday? Uh? 904 00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:12,920 Speaker 10: Yeah, we singing? We singing a song? What song did 905 00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:15,640 Speaker 10: you need us to sing? Did you tell the pastor 906 00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:16,000 Speaker 10: about this? 907 00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:18,320 Speaker 11: No, no, no, you guys are not actually going to 908 00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:21,719 Speaker 11: be singing a song. What it is is that we're 909 00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:25,360 Speaker 11: having a uh and I'm glad, I'm so glad that 910 00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:27,719 Speaker 11: you're you're, you're, you're ready to participate in what we're doing. 911 00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:29,680 Speaker 11: So I want to first of all say thank you 912 00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:32,320 Speaker 11: first and foremost, I want to say thank you. Okay, 913 00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:38,759 Speaker 11: all right, all right, and all of the I'm sorry 914 00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:41,320 Speaker 11: that we need the robes for I can bring my 915 00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:43,960 Speaker 11: robe by, just the robe. What's going to happen is 916 00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:46,080 Speaker 11: you guys aren't singing a song, but we're having a 917 00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:49,279 Speaker 11: wet robe uh contest. 918 00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:50,879 Speaker 10: So what now. 919 00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:54,880 Speaker 11: A wet robe contest? 920 00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:58,200 Speaker 10: You're talking about like a wet T shirt contest type 921 00:49:58,200 --> 00:49:58,440 Speaker 10: of thing. 922 00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:01,640 Speaker 11: Well, it's it's not a T shirt, it's a robe. 923 00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:04,239 Speaker 11: So you don't have a T shirt on. What we 924 00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:04,960 Speaker 11: need you to do with? 925 00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,160 Speaker 10: No, no, no, no, no no no, not in the 926 00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:10,200 Speaker 10: church you're talking about the whole fire said they're going to. 927 00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:10,400 Speaker 11: Do a. 928 00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:13,960 Speaker 1: Wet robe contest. 929 00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:18,279 Speaker 10: You said a wet rode contest. I heard a wet 930 00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:21,160 Speaker 10: T shirt contest. That's not that's not the same thing, though. 931 00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:23,920 Speaker 11: Right, Well, no, it's a little bit different what it is. 932 00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:26,320 Speaker 11: You don't have a T shirt on, You actually have 933 00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:29,320 Speaker 11: your your your choir robe on, and you don't have 934 00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:32,760 Speaker 11: anything all underneath it. You don't wear any clothes underneath 935 00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:33,400 Speaker 11: of what we do is. 936 00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:36,680 Speaker 1: Ladies, listen to me. 937 00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,600 Speaker 11: We're gonna let wet all of the ladies down, and 938 00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:44,799 Speaker 11: the sexiest one that's wet with their role is going 939 00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:48,160 Speaker 11: to win five hundred dollars and path of the money 940 00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:50,440 Speaker 11: is going to go to the children's vacation. 941 00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:55,560 Speaker 10: Hello, are you're talking about a wet T shirt contest 942 00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:56,279 Speaker 10: in the church? 943 00:50:56,880 --> 00:50:59,879 Speaker 11: No, I'm talking about a wet rope contest at the church. 944 00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,719 Speaker 10: No, I'm not sending there, getting there and and and 945 00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:03,800 Speaker 10: be naked under. 946 00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:05,880 Speaker 11: It's gonna be it's gonna be out. It's gonna be 947 00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:08,400 Speaker 11: out naked under a road. We need you to be 948 00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:11,160 Speaker 11: completely naked under your road, and we're gonna wig everybody 949 00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:14,360 Speaker 11: down with the water holes and the finest one is 950 00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:18,000 Speaker 11: going to be able to uh to win five hundred 951 00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:20,279 Speaker 11: dollars and two hundred and fifty of that half of 952 00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:22,560 Speaker 11: that money is gonna go to the children's bay. 953 00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:23,960 Speaker 10: Came Hold on, Hold on what you say? Your name 954 00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:27,840 Speaker 10: was again my name, my name is Brian Bayne. How 955 00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:29,960 Speaker 10: long you've been a member of this church, because I 956 00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:30,800 Speaker 10: don't ever remember me. 957 00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:35,359 Speaker 11: Okay, I've been a member for about three weeks now, 958 00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:38,360 Speaker 11: Like I said, since I was amajoring in marketing. They 959 00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:39,800 Speaker 11: they actually threw me into. 960 00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:42,200 Speaker 10: No way after three weeks that they gonna put you 961 00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:43,240 Speaker 10: in charge of something. 962 00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:46,279 Speaker 11: I don't understand why there's a problem with you trying 963 00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:54,719 Speaker 11: to pitch in help. They're trying to create a You 964 00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:55,520 Speaker 11: don't want to help me. 965 00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:58,000 Speaker 10: I want to help the kids, but I'm not going 966 00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:00,279 Speaker 10: to get up there and no, choir Rod, I'm doing 967 00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:02,720 Speaker 10: my best right now not to cush you out because 968 00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:03,600 Speaker 10: I'm a woman of God. 969 00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:06,319 Speaker 11: So you too good to be naked under your role? 970 00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:07,240 Speaker 11: Is that what you're saying? 971 00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:08,160 Speaker 2: You're too good? 972 00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:11,239 Speaker 10: Look, I don't have to explain myself, but I'm not 973 00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:12,680 Speaker 10: gonna be naked up to no church. 974 00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:15,399 Speaker 11: Okay. So, so you can't do it the naked role, 975 00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:18,280 Speaker 11: car or content. You can't do that for the kids. 976 00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:20,400 Speaker 10: I know you're not about to tell me what I 977 00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:22,040 Speaker 10: can and cannot do for no kids. 978 00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:22,440 Speaker 11: Now. 979 00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:24,080 Speaker 10: I don't know who gave me my number, but I 980 00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:25,799 Speaker 10: think you need to figure out who else to call 981 00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:27,320 Speaker 10: for this, because I'm not gonna be a part of this. 982 00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:30,359 Speaker 11: We called all the other quod members and they don't 983 00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:31,239 Speaker 11: have a problem with it. 984 00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:35,520 Speaker 10: All the fire members. What are that names? What other 985 00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:36,920 Speaker 10: quir members did you call. 986 00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:40,520 Speaker 1: That we called? 987 00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:43,920 Speaker 11: We called sister Sister Bridget in the choir. Sister Bridget 988 00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:45,040 Speaker 11: that have a problem with it. 989 00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:47,600 Speaker 10: Ain't no Sister Bridget in the choir. 990 00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:52,480 Speaker 11: Okay, how about Sister Rachel. Sister Rachel in the choir 991 00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:53,400 Speaker 11: was fine with it. 992 00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:56,000 Speaker 7: Ain't no Sister Rachel. 993 00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:57,719 Speaker 10: Sister Rachel wouldn't be getting naked. 994 00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:03,359 Speaker 11: Okay, okay, okay, let me ask you the something. Look, look, 995 00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:13,200 Speaker 11: do you know sister Divita in the choir? Hello? Yes? 996 00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:16,120 Speaker 11: Do you know Sister DaVita in the choir? 997 00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:18,520 Speaker 10: Yes, I know Sister Divita. 998 00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:19,240 Speaker 13: Okay. 999 00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:24,080 Speaker 11: So, so if Sister DaVita said that Sister Bridge and 1000 00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:27,520 Speaker 11: his Sister Rachel didn't have a problem doing it, why 1001 00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:29,600 Speaker 11: do you have a problem doing it. 1002 00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:33,200 Speaker 10: I'm not about to be naked in a church, kid. 1003 00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:36,000 Speaker 11: You're not getting naked in the church. You're gonna be 1004 00:53:36,040 --> 00:53:38,160 Speaker 11: in the back part of the church and we're gonna 1005 00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:40,359 Speaker 11: spray you down with a water holes on your robe. 1006 00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:41,400 Speaker 11: That's what we're not. 1007 00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:43,319 Speaker 10: Gonna be up there. This is disgusting. 1008 00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:45,920 Speaker 11: Well, Tommy said you would do it. Tommy said you 1009 00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:47,279 Speaker 11: didn't have no problem doing. 1010 00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:50,000 Speaker 10: Who the hell is Tommy? We don't even have a 1011 00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:51,600 Speaker 10: Tommy at the church. You keep making up. 1012 00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:53,560 Speaker 7: I made Tommy his. 1013 00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:57,400 Speaker 11: Nephew tom from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. That's who 1014 00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:05,840 Speaker 11: Tommy is. Hello, Yes, this is Tommy, Baby, this is 1015 00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:07,359 Speaker 11: nephew Tommy. Are you sure? 1016 00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:11,279 Speaker 10: Oh my god, that's not real. 1017 00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:14,239 Speaker 11: This is not it's not real baby, that nobody was 1018 00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:17,200 Speaker 11: calling you about doing a wet rope. You are. 1019 00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:19,960 Speaker 10: I was gonna go off on you. 1020 00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:23,719 Speaker 11: You was already going off on me. Meda got me 1021 00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:25,160 Speaker 11: the prank phone call you. 1022 00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:28,040 Speaker 10: Oh my god, I'm gonna gere. 1023 00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:32,800 Speaker 11: I was holding my tongue what you said you was 1024 00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:33,200 Speaker 11: about to. 1025 00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:35,600 Speaker 10: Cut I was about to cut you out right out. 1026 00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:38,600 Speaker 11: Hey, maybe I gotta ask you, gotta tell me what's 1027 00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:41,239 Speaker 11: the baddest that, I mean, the baddest radio show in 1028 00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:50,600 Speaker 11: the late Steve hob Show. And you have it all right? 1029 00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:51,040 Speaker 11: Thank you? 1030 00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:52,120 Speaker 2: That you a great one. 1031 00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:56,600 Speaker 9: Coming up next Strawberry letters subject my piece and happiness. 1032 00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:58,680 Speaker 2: Is next door. We'll get into that right after this. 1033 00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:02,960 Speaker 6: This is Steve Harbin Martin show Man. I mean we've 1034 00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:06,720 Speaker 6: known each other long enough. Man, We've we've been around 1035 00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:14,759 Speaker 6: each other with children's successes, graduations, acceptance in the college, marriages. 1036 00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:21,279 Speaker 1: He is being born graduated. Wait, Shirley, what'd you say? 1037 00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:22,360 Speaker 2: Divorce? 1038 00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:29,879 Speaker 6: Oh divorces? Oh yeah, yeah yeah, don't leave that out? 1039 00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:34,200 Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, me and you know who leading that group 1040 00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:39,120 Speaker 6: right there? Who it is? 1041 00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:44,000 Speaker 1: What I'm gonna lead you? What you ain't finna do 1042 00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:44,800 Speaker 1: is I'll do me. 1043 00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:49,200 Speaker 2: You can have that a divorce. 1044 00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:52,600 Speaker 1: You ain't getting no divorce. I don't get one. 1045 00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:57,319 Speaker 6: Oh oh you're gonna get somebody new. 1046 00:55:58,120 --> 00:55:59,920 Speaker 1: Oh you ain't finna get somebody new? I am. 1047 00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:05,759 Speaker 2: Yes, you're not gonna be out done. What you're not 1048 00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:06,279 Speaker 2: gonna do. 1049 00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:12,680 Speaker 6: To Steve Harby Morn Show coming up right after you're 1050 00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:15,200 Speaker 6: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1051 00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:22,839 Speaker 9: It is time now for the Strawberry Letter, And if 1052 00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:26,319 Speaker 9: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, are more, 1053 00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:29,879 Speaker 9: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 1054 00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:33,080 Speaker 9: by clicking Submit Strawberry Letter, we could be reading your 1055 00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:35,520 Speaker 9: letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read 1056 00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:38,759 Speaker 9: this one right here, right now, and uh, you know what, 1057 00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:39,480 Speaker 9: you never know. 1058 00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:42,600 Speaker 2: It could be yours, It. 1059 00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:44,719 Speaker 1: Could be Michael. I've been hold on tight. We got 1060 00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:47,359 Speaker 1: it for you. Here it is strawberry letter. 1061 00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:50,920 Speaker 9: Thank you, not your subject. My peace and happiness is 1062 00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:54,719 Speaker 9: next door. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm fifty one years old 1063 00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:57,920 Speaker 9: and I've been married nine years to a miserable man. 1064 00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:00,800 Speaker 9: He owns a bar, and he's drinking half of his 1065 00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:03,719 Speaker 9: profits and then he comes home and drinks some more. 1066 00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:07,440 Speaker 9: I can't tolerate the mood swings and the sloppy intimacy 1067 00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:10,240 Speaker 9: with him, so I've been avoiding him for the past 1068 00:57:10,320 --> 00:57:13,919 Speaker 9: few months because I have found something better next door. 1069 00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:17,880 Speaker 9: There's a younger couple that moved next to us, and 1070 00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:21,320 Speaker 9: they started out being very bothersome by always calling me 1071 00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:24,520 Speaker 9: to ask a lot of questions about the neighborhood. As 1072 00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:27,320 Speaker 9: a thank you, they invited me to dinner one night. 1073 00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:30,120 Speaker 9: We sat around and listened to music and had some 1074 00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:33,600 Speaker 9: drinks after we ate. They have a small dog and 1075 00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:36,560 Speaker 9: he was being frisky and started hunching my leg. So 1076 00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:39,040 Speaker 9: the man next door said he wished he could do that. 1077 00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:41,960 Speaker 9: His wife said she would like to see him try it, 1078 00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:45,440 Speaker 9: but it wasn't in a mean spirited way, so I 1079 00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:50,920 Speaker 9: was confused. He told me my legs look soft, and 1080 00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:53,320 Speaker 9: he asked me if he could rub on them. I 1081 00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:55,280 Speaker 9: looked at his wife and she gave me a thumbs 1082 00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:58,480 Speaker 9: up like it was fine. So he rubbed them and 1083 00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:02,400 Speaker 9: his hands slipped up my thigh. His wife got on 1084 00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:04,480 Speaker 9: the other side of me and said my right leg 1085 00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:08,400 Speaker 9: was feeling left out. Needless to say, that was a 1086 00:58:08,480 --> 00:58:11,480 Speaker 9: good night. From then on we've been They've been my 1087 00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:14,560 Speaker 9: escape from everything that is troubling me in my marriage. 1088 00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:17,080 Speaker 9: I can have one or both of them whenever I 1089 00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:20,800 Speaker 9: go over for a visit since my husband works long hours. 1090 00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:24,120 Speaker 9: They are my peace and happiness. The three of us 1091 00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:27,080 Speaker 9: went to my husband's bar, and my husband said we 1092 00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:30,200 Speaker 9: looked like a happy threesome. I think he might be 1093 00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:32,880 Speaker 9: aware of what we're up to, but he doesn't care 1094 00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:36,800 Speaker 9: since he and I haven't had sex lately. Do you 1095 00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:41,040 Speaker 9: think he has a side piece too, Well, it's funny 1096 00:58:41,040 --> 00:58:44,360 Speaker 9: you should ask, because anything is possible, and he's doing 1097 00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:47,680 Speaker 9: all of that drinking for some reason. Either he's miserable 1098 00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:51,120 Speaker 9: at home and in the marriage, or he feels guilty 1099 00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:53,000 Speaker 9: for cheating and he's trying to cover it up with 1100 00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:57,560 Speaker 9: the drinking. Something's going on, and that's what you're feeling anyway, 1101 00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:01,400 Speaker 9: right that he had something going on going on. But 1102 00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:04,320 Speaker 9: here's the thing, you need to stop acting like you 1103 00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:09,000 Speaker 9: don't care because of what you got going on. You care, 1104 00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:11,640 Speaker 9: or you wouldn't have written us. And that's the problem. 1105 00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:15,160 Speaker 9: You're talking to us about your marital problems and not him. 1106 00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:17,600 Speaker 9: I mean, is there a time when he's not drunk 1107 00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:20,880 Speaker 9: or drinking so you guys can have a conversation. Do 1108 00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:23,560 Speaker 9: you even know if he wants to still be married 1109 00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:26,600 Speaker 9: to you? Do you guys communicate? Do you still want 1110 00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:29,280 Speaker 9: to be married to him? I mean, he's an alcoholic 1111 00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:33,720 Speaker 9: and you're having threesomes with the neighbors. That's your answer 1112 00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:37,360 Speaker 9: right there. Your nine year marriage is on life support. 1113 00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:41,280 Speaker 9: It's in major trouble and pretty much over. You and 1114 00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:44,760 Speaker 9: your husband have grown miles apart for whatever reason that 1115 00:59:44,880 --> 00:59:46,920 Speaker 9: you left out of the letter. So what are you 1116 00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:49,440 Speaker 9: and him going to do about it? I mean, you 1117 00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:52,680 Speaker 9: have some choices here. You can move on and divorce, 1118 00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:56,520 Speaker 9: Just divorce and move on, or you try and fix this. 1119 00:59:57,080 --> 00:59:59,960 Speaker 9: It's not a lot that's fixable. In this marriage because 1120 01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:02,760 Speaker 9: of what both of you guys are doing. But you know, 1121 01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:06,080 Speaker 9: I mean, I always believe in hope you can try, 1122 01:00:06,200 --> 01:00:08,680 Speaker 9: but it looks over to me, it looks over. You 1123 01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:11,160 Speaker 9: guys really need some help, Steve. 1124 01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:16,960 Speaker 6: The only question in this letter is do you think 1125 01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:20,800 Speaker 6: he has a side piece? The rest of it is 1126 01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:24,240 Speaker 6: you don't care, You ain't got no problem you okay. 1127 01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:29,080 Speaker 6: There's nothing about trying to save the marriage in this letter. 1128 01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:32,640 Speaker 6: And you've stated at the subject my peace and happiness 1129 01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:35,960 Speaker 6: is next door, and then at the end of the 1130 01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:39,720 Speaker 6: letter does he have a side piece too? That's the 1131 01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:44,240 Speaker 6: only question here. So let me just address this letter 1132 01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:48,160 Speaker 6: from what all you seem to care about. You're fifty one, 1133 01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:52,200 Speaker 6: been married nine years to a miserable man. Now you 1134 01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:54,280 Speaker 6: say he got a bar, he drink up half his 1135 01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:56,439 Speaker 6: profit and then he come home and he drank some more. 1136 01:00:57,000 --> 01:01:02,320 Speaker 6: So your man is an alcoholic that owns a bar. Wow, Wow, 1137 01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:08,880 Speaker 6: this this is you can't win. First of all, if 1138 01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:12,120 Speaker 6: you're alcoholic and you're trying to get a you know, 1139 01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:16,280 Speaker 6: get on the wagon. You gotta stay away from the temptation. 1140 01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:20,800 Speaker 6: He worked, he owned the bar, he owned the ball, 1141 01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:23,680 Speaker 6: He round too much of it. He round people that 1142 01:01:23,840 --> 01:01:26,520 Speaker 6: drink all the time. He can smell it. He got 1143 01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:30,840 Speaker 6: no a secondly, he ain't went to get no help. Now. 1144 01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:33,560 Speaker 6: Shirley says he's drinking for a reason. Maybe he's unhappy 1145 01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:40,880 Speaker 6: in his marriage, whatever the case. I know up close alcoholics. Alcoholics, 1146 01:01:41,840 --> 01:01:46,000 Speaker 6: once they get hooked on that taste of alcohol. You 1147 01:01:46,120 --> 01:01:50,880 Speaker 6: can create all the reasons you won't, but they'll use 1148 01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:55,920 Speaker 6: any reason to drink. Then once they it's an addictive thing. 1149 01:01:56,000 --> 01:01:58,680 Speaker 6: If you keep drinking, it's addictive. If you're drinking to 1150 01:01:58,800 --> 01:02:02,800 Speaker 6: get high, it's addictive. If you use drugs to get high, 1151 01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:08,280 Speaker 6: it's addictive. He's addicted to alcohol. He's an alcoholic now. 1152 01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:10,880 Speaker 6: He got mood swings and sloppy intimates. And he said, 1153 01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:14,480 Speaker 6: you'd have been avoiding in the past few months, and 1154 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,400 Speaker 6: because you'd have found something better next door, this young 1155 01:02:17,440 --> 01:02:19,280 Speaker 6: couple and moved in. I used to call you and 1156 01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:21,600 Speaker 6: ask you all these questions, bothering you all the time, 1157 01:02:22,160 --> 01:02:25,720 Speaker 6: and finally, as a as a a thank you, they 1158 01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:28,080 Speaker 6: invite you to dinner. One night, y'all sitting up listening 1159 01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:30,600 Speaker 6: to music, have some drinks. They got a little dog 1160 01:02:30,720 --> 01:02:33,360 Speaker 6: came over and started humping your leg. Then the man 1161 01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:34,080 Speaker 6: next door. 1162 01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:35,320 Speaker 1: Said he wished he could do that. 1163 01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:38,600 Speaker 6: Then his wife said, I suldn't want to see you tried, 1164 01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:41,000 Speaker 6: but it wasn't in a mean spirit of way, so 1165 01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:44,120 Speaker 6: I was confused. Then he said, your legs look soft 1166 01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:45,640 Speaker 6: and asked me if I could rub them. I looked 1167 01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:48,200 Speaker 6: at his why she gave the thumbs up. She rubbed them. 1168 01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:50,040 Speaker 6: She got on the other side and say the other thigh. 1169 01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:52,880 Speaker 6: Look his hand slid up your leg and touch your thigh. 1170 01:02:53,200 --> 01:02:53,600 Speaker 1: She said. 1171 01:02:53,600 --> 01:02:55,720 Speaker 6: The other one looked lonely too. And now after that 1172 01:02:56,040 --> 01:02:58,560 Speaker 6: it's own and cracking. When I come back the rest 1173 01:02:58,640 --> 01:02:59,720 Speaker 6: of it, all right. 1174 01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:01,960 Speaker 2: Well, part two of Steve's response coming up. 1175 01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:05,560 Speaker 6: I'm talking to the woman who's listening with somebody hand 1176 01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:06,760 Speaker 6: on her thout. 1177 01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:09,960 Speaker 9: Twenty three minutes after the hours when we'll be back 1178 01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:19,760 Speaker 9: right after this. You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, Steve, 1179 01:03:19,840 --> 01:03:22,840 Speaker 9: come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is 1180 01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:26,560 Speaker 9: my peace and happiness is next door. 1181 01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:30,040 Speaker 6: Got this woman that's been married for nine years. She's 1182 01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:35,240 Speaker 6: fifty one, means she got married at forty two. She's 1183 01:03:35,320 --> 01:03:38,320 Speaker 6: married to what she says is a miserable man. He 1184 01:03:38,480 --> 01:03:42,280 Speaker 6: drinks all the time. He owns a bar. He drinks 1185 01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:45,160 Speaker 6: at the bar. He's shrinking up all his profits. Then 1186 01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:47,840 Speaker 6: he come home and he drinks some more. He man 1187 01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:48,760 Speaker 6: is an alcoholic. 1188 01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:51,080 Speaker 1: Then she tied of. 1189 01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:54,880 Speaker 6: The mood swings and the sloppy intimacy he all over 1190 01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:58,840 Speaker 6: the place. So now you're sick of it and got. 1191 01:03:58,720 --> 01:03:59,760 Speaker 1: On your nerves with it. 1192 01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:05,880 Speaker 6: The young couple moves in next door, calling you all 1193 01:04:05,920 --> 01:04:08,720 Speaker 6: the time, asking you differ stuff about neighborhood. Got to 1194 01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:12,240 Speaker 6: bother them, so they as a thank you for answering 1195 01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:14,320 Speaker 6: all their questions to invite you to dinner. One night, 1196 01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:17,200 Speaker 6: fifty one year old lady go over to have dinner. 1197 01:04:18,320 --> 01:04:21,800 Speaker 6: She's sitting up there. After dinner, they listen to music 1198 01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:26,880 Speaker 6: and drinking. The dog, they little dog who is probably 1199 01:04:26,960 --> 01:04:30,520 Speaker 6: trained to do this, goes over and start humping on 1200 01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:34,240 Speaker 6: her leg. The dog is the opening act. They have 1201 01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:38,520 Speaker 6: got this dog involved. They don't train this dog to 1202 01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:43,720 Speaker 6: hump legs. He could a treat now because the dog 1203 01:04:43,960 --> 01:04:48,640 Speaker 6: is in on it. He is a conversation starter. Now 1204 01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:51,280 Speaker 6: the dog over, that little dog humping your leg, and 1205 01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:55,040 Speaker 6: the husband on que gos, I sure wish I could 1206 01:04:55,120 --> 01:04:59,320 Speaker 6: do that And then the wife says, I want to 1207 01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:02,400 Speaker 6: see you try. But it wasn't in a mean spirited way. 1208 01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:05,880 Speaker 6: So he asked, could he rub my leg because they 1209 01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:08,760 Speaker 6: look soft. The wife gave him the thumbs up. He 1210 01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:11,960 Speaker 6: rubbing my leg, his hand go up my thigh. She 1211 01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:14,120 Speaker 6: jump on the other side and say, will the other 1212 01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:17,320 Speaker 6: one feel lonely? She started rubbing your thigh too. 1213 01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:21,600 Speaker 1: Wow, what a night. 1214 01:05:23,280 --> 01:05:25,560 Speaker 6: I looked at his wife. She gave the thumbs up. 1215 01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:28,560 Speaker 6: His wife got on the other side, said, your right 1216 01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:31,919 Speaker 6: leg was feeling left out. Needless to say, needless to say, 1217 01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:34,880 Speaker 6: I love when these letters just go. Needless to say, 1218 01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:39,680 Speaker 6: needless to say what just happened? Needless to say, that 1219 01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:44,520 Speaker 6: was a good night. From then on, they've been my 1220 01:05:44,800 --> 01:05:47,720 Speaker 6: escape from everything that is troubling me and my marriage. 1221 01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:51,440 Speaker 6: I can have one or both of them whenever I 1222 01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:56,439 Speaker 6: go over for a visit, and since my husband worked 1223 01:05:56,480 --> 01:05:58,560 Speaker 6: long hours, they are my peace and happiness. 1224 01:05:58,960 --> 01:06:04,480 Speaker 1: Okay, now right here, so far we don't have a problem. 1225 01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:08,920 Speaker 6: The only problem you was happing was your husband was 1226 01:06:09,120 --> 01:06:14,680 Speaker 6: drinking and sloppy intimacy. You dodnet fix that, cause you'd 1227 01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:16,960 Speaker 6: have found this young couple necks going that don't do 1228 01:06:17,120 --> 01:06:24,040 Speaker 6: sloppy intimacy. Matter of fact, they do full blown active intimacy. One, two, three, 1229 01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:27,040 Speaker 6: What you want, what you need? Come on over to 1230 01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:29,840 Speaker 6: the house, flip it, come on my turn, your turn tag. 1231 01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:32,320 Speaker 6: I mean, I'm out you in that business. But you 1232 01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:36,080 Speaker 6: involved the whole time. So now you ain't had this 1233 01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:36,720 Speaker 6: much action? 1234 01:06:37,880 --> 01:06:40,160 Speaker 1: You doing? Har him both of them doing? 1235 01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:40,320 Speaker 11: You? 1236 01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:43,080 Speaker 1: Him doing? How are you all you doing? 1237 01:06:43,240 --> 01:06:43,280 Speaker 11: Is? 1238 01:06:43,280 --> 01:06:50,959 Speaker 6: Got time to go downstairs, gets some water. So since 1239 01:06:51,040 --> 01:06:54,040 Speaker 6: your husband worked long hours, they are your piece and happiness. 1240 01:06:54,040 --> 01:06:57,560 Speaker 6: See you, cop, you fix your problem. The three of 1241 01:06:57,720 --> 01:07:02,880 Speaker 6: us went to my husband's bar. Oh okay, your husband said, 1242 01:07:03,000 --> 01:07:07,000 Speaker 6: we look like a happy threesome. Now guilty set in 1243 01:07:07,200 --> 01:07:08,840 Speaker 6: on you. So you say, I think he might be 1244 01:07:08,920 --> 01:07:11,400 Speaker 6: aware of what we up to, but he don't care 1245 01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:14,600 Speaker 6: since he and I haven't asked sex lady, here's the 1246 01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:15,200 Speaker 6: only question. 1247 01:07:15,560 --> 01:07:17,520 Speaker 1: Do you think he has a side piece too? 1248 01:07:19,160 --> 01:07:19,440 Speaker 5: Lady? 1249 01:07:19,800 --> 01:07:21,000 Speaker 1: Or what difference to him? Man? 1250 01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:23,960 Speaker 8: You don't want him? 1251 01:07:25,200 --> 01:07:29,840 Speaker 6: You avoiding him? Your question and all this is does 1252 01:07:29,960 --> 01:07:33,280 Speaker 6: he have a side piece too? What did you write 1253 01:07:33,360 --> 01:07:33,600 Speaker 6: us for? 1254 01:07:34,240 --> 01:07:40,440 Speaker 1: We don't know, and you and we really don't care anything. 1255 01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:42,240 Speaker 1: You don't care about your husband. 1256 01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:43,680 Speaker 6: You need to try to get him some help with 1257 01:07:43,800 --> 01:07:46,600 Speaker 6: that drinking, but you ain't try to do that, So 1258 01:07:46,720 --> 01:07:50,000 Speaker 6: your help is next door. So now you'd have found 1259 01:07:50,040 --> 01:07:51,840 Speaker 6: some peace and happiness next door and the type of 1260 01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:54,040 Speaker 6: intimacy you want. And you can go over there any 1261 01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:56,120 Speaker 6: time you want to for a visit. You can have one, 1262 01:07:56,320 --> 01:07:58,640 Speaker 6: both of them, all of them. So you just over 1263 01:07:58,680 --> 01:08:01,920 Speaker 6: there getting it however you want. So now where we're at. 1264 01:08:02,520 --> 01:08:05,920 Speaker 6: So now you the roade us for what because I 1265 01:08:06,040 --> 01:08:10,320 Speaker 6: don't care. I don't care about your marriage, because you 1266 01:08:10,440 --> 01:08:14,240 Speaker 6: don't care about your marriage at all. Your peace and 1267 01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:21,559 Speaker 6: happiness is next door. You said it, wam bam, thank you, ma'am. 1268 01:08:22,280 --> 01:08:27,160 Speaker 6: Ho where, thank you sir? Here here I'll come. And 1269 01:08:27,240 --> 01:08:30,600 Speaker 6: then the hood dog involved in the whole thing. It 1270 01:08:30,800 --> 01:08:34,000 Speaker 6: just don't make no sense. So now you just set 1271 01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:36,240 Speaker 6: up in here. You gotta pull into a threesome by 1272 01:08:36,600 --> 01:08:42,320 Speaker 6: puppet you easy if all it took was a dog. 1273 01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:46,960 Speaker 6: It's me and everywhere now considering buying small dogs, teaching 1274 01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:54,679 Speaker 6: them how to hump for treats, hump for treats, wish 1275 01:08:54,760 --> 01:08:56,719 Speaker 6: out of new this here all the dinners and stuff 1276 01:08:56,760 --> 01:09:00,120 Speaker 6: I've been buying my whole life lone, and. 1277 01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:05,160 Speaker 1: Help them putting kids through school, all his hell, making 1278 01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:06,040 Speaker 1: car notes and. 1279 01:09:07,600 --> 01:09:14,920 Speaker 6: Rent payments, old platform programs, Bronze program All I had 1280 01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:16,799 Speaker 6: to do is buy small dug. 1281 01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:20,599 Speaker 1: Well. 1282 01:09:20,600 --> 01:09:22,479 Speaker 6: I don't know how you teach a dog how to hunk, 1283 01:09:22,560 --> 01:09:24,160 Speaker 6: but hell, they'll do anything for a treat. 1284 01:09:24,280 --> 01:09:25,519 Speaker 1: Roll over, roll over now. 1285 01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:31,360 Speaker 9: Hump all right, listen, hit us up an insturgramm to 1286 01:09:31,479 --> 01:09:35,479 Speaker 9: come in Today's Strawberry Letters. You can always check out 1287 01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:37,439 Speaker 9: the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. 1288 01:09:38,800 --> 01:09:40,559 Speaker 1: It'ster Steve Harbin, Martin shaw Man. 1289 01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:43,240 Speaker 5: If you're not a certified prankster and this is not 1290 01:09:43,360 --> 01:09:45,280 Speaker 5: what you do for a living, you should not be 1291 01:09:45,400 --> 01:09:46,000 Speaker 5: jumping into this. 1292 01:09:50,360 --> 01:09:58,080 Speaker 1: That's interesting. See the certification is what I've heard. You 1293 01:09:58,120 --> 01:10:00,200 Speaker 1: can actually go somewhere. 1294 01:10:02,600 --> 01:10:06,880 Speaker 2: Frank School to have a graduation tim. 1295 01:10:09,400 --> 01:10:10,280 Speaker 1: Coming up right after. 1296 01:10:12,040 --> 01:10:14,479 Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1297 01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:28,720 Speaker 6: Them ladies and gentlemen, the Twisted demented mind. Oh j Anthony. 1298 01:10:28,360 --> 01:10:31,040 Speaker 1: Brown, brilliance, brilliance. 1299 01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:34,479 Speaker 13: Okay, we only have a I think a few more 1300 01:10:34,560 --> 01:10:36,240 Speaker 13: days left for Black History Month? 1301 01:10:36,520 --> 01:10:36,960 Speaker 1: Is that right? 1302 01:10:37,680 --> 01:10:37,880 Speaker 10: Yeah? 1303 01:10:38,960 --> 01:10:41,240 Speaker 1: Yeah? So what I'd like to read? I found this. 1304 01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:47,160 Speaker 13: It's a letter from a runaway slave or freedman. I 1305 01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:52,640 Speaker 13: would like to read this hit it crystalpher Oh my god, lion. 1306 01:10:52,479 --> 01:10:54,519 Speaker 2: King a king. 1307 01:11:11,040 --> 01:11:13,800 Speaker 1: If you got this letter, I made it now. 1308 01:11:13,800 --> 01:11:16,800 Speaker 13: If the person who opens this letter can't read, give 1309 01:11:16,880 --> 01:11:20,720 Speaker 13: it to someone who can. First of all, I told 1310 01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:25,000 Speaker 13: y'all to come, but no y'all wanted to stay. Trust me, 1311 01:11:25,720 --> 01:11:28,920 Speaker 13: it wasn't easy. But it is such a good feeling 1312 01:11:28,960 --> 01:11:30,519 Speaker 13: to wake up in the morning and not have to 1313 01:11:30,600 --> 01:11:33,840 Speaker 13: pick a thing. It wasn't easy getting up here. Missus 1314 01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:38,120 Speaker 13: tupman don't play. She don't play at all. She had 1315 01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:40,280 Speaker 13: to pull a gun out on John Henry and pistol 1316 01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:42,880 Speaker 13: whip him when he started to cry, saying he wanted 1317 01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:46,719 Speaker 13: to go back after the swelling with down, he changed 1318 01:11:46,760 --> 01:11:51,080 Speaker 13: his mind. She passed out a couple of times, but 1319 01:11:51,200 --> 01:11:55,280 Speaker 13: when she came to she made up for it, just 1320 01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:57,640 Speaker 13: in case she comes back from some of y'all on 1321 01:11:57,800 --> 01:12:02,439 Speaker 13: the second run. Do not you use the phrase please please, 1322 01:12:02,680 --> 01:12:06,400 Speaker 13: do not use a phrase when we gonna get there. 1323 01:12:07,360 --> 01:12:09,639 Speaker 13: That seems to upset her a lot. 1324 01:12:12,640 --> 01:12:13,880 Speaker 1: So when we gonna get there. 1325 01:12:14,880 --> 01:12:18,639 Speaker 13: One thing I found out about running away the female 1326 01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:21,280 Speaker 13: slaves are real friendly at night. 1327 01:12:21,200 --> 01:12:23,360 Speaker 1: When it is cold. Yes, they are. 1328 01:12:25,520 --> 01:12:28,960 Speaker 13: Upon my arrival, I met some uppity blacks acting like 1329 01:12:29,160 --> 01:12:33,000 Speaker 13: they had never picked cotton. By the here, y'all say uppity, 1330 01:12:33,040 --> 01:12:34,839 Speaker 13: yall ain't been free for twelve minutes. 1331 01:12:35,600 --> 01:12:39,799 Speaker 1: I said, s P. That's short for slave. Please. 1332 01:12:40,760 --> 01:12:42,719 Speaker 13: I get a few in the slave please. It's gonna 1333 01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:46,879 Speaker 13: change one day. I don't know what to also met pregnance. 1334 01:12:48,320 --> 01:12:51,640 Speaker 13: I also met pregless Douglas. I don't know what's up 1335 01:12:51,680 --> 01:12:55,519 Speaker 13: with his hair either. He ain't no white woman. He 1336 01:12:55,760 --> 01:13:00,599 Speaker 13: introduced me to her sister. Yes, I have crossed over. Well, 1337 01:13:00,800 --> 01:13:04,200 Speaker 13: so much for talking to y'all. I'll holler at y'all later. Ps, 1338 01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:05,800 Speaker 13: that's what you put at the end of the letter. 1339 01:13:06,040 --> 01:13:08,560 Speaker 13: When you have more to say, Give my shoes to 1340 01:13:08,640 --> 01:13:13,360 Speaker 13: the Williams brother since they both have one foot later 1341 01:13:15,680 --> 01:13:17,559 Speaker 13: this coming to ask you if I wanted to come 1342 01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:18,720 Speaker 13: back for a second run. 1343 01:13:18,880 --> 01:13:28,760 Speaker 2: I said, hell no, that's the greatest money. Happy Black history, mother, everybody. 1344 01:13:30,439 --> 01:13:31,880 Speaker 1: Steve Harbin, Marty show Man. 1345 01:13:32,520 --> 01:13:35,519 Speaker 2: Would you rather be a pastor or a lawyer? 1346 01:13:36,080 --> 01:13:36,200 Speaker 11: Oh? 1347 01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:41,040 Speaker 1: I'm crooker. I'm not visiting the sickest shutting in here 1348 01:13:41,120 --> 01:13:44,080 Speaker 1: we go? Oh that on, I ain't coming to my 1349 01:13:44,240 --> 01:13:45,679 Speaker 1: office telling me your problem. 1350 01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:48,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh, well, you don't need to be a pastor. Yeah, 1351 01:13:50,120 --> 01:13:52,360 Speaker 2: that requires compassion. 1352 01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:55,400 Speaker 1: For you know, I don't go down there every Sunday. 1353 01:13:57,080 --> 01:13:57,800 Speaker 11: Ship job. 1354 01:14:02,880 --> 01:14:09,880 Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 1355 01:14:09,960 --> 01:14:12,400 Speaker 9: it is time for comedy Roulette and Jay. 1356 01:14:12,600 --> 01:14:13,680 Speaker 2: Can we just have a here? 1357 01:14:13,840 --> 01:14:16,519 Speaker 13: How it goes? Take any subjects, put them on a wheel, 1358 01:14:16,640 --> 01:14:18,320 Speaker 13: spun the wheel where it stops. 1359 01:14:18,800 --> 01:14:21,120 Speaker 1: We can make it funny. Put them up and spun it. 1360 01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:21,760 Speaker 1: Here we go. 1361 01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:25,920 Speaker 9: Here goes the subjects right now. Ways women will tell 1362 01:14:26,040 --> 01:14:29,920 Speaker 9: you no, not tonight. Ways that women will tell you no, 1363 01:14:30,320 --> 01:14:30,920 Speaker 9: not tonight. 1364 01:14:32,160 --> 01:14:32,639 Speaker 1: One of them. 1365 01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:44,120 Speaker 9: Stupid questions that white people ask black people okay, and. 1366 01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:51,000 Speaker 2: Things a drunk person will blurt out, okay. Those are 1367 01:14:51,040 --> 01:14:53,479 Speaker 2: the subjects. All right, let's send. 1368 01:15:04,080 --> 01:15:04,640 Speaker 11: What do you know? 1369 01:15:05,600 --> 01:15:08,960 Speaker 9: It's stupid questions that white people ask black. 1370 01:15:09,240 --> 01:15:09,640 Speaker 12: Here we go. 1371 01:15:11,160 --> 01:15:15,320 Speaker 13: Stupid questions that white people asked black people. 1372 01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:17,200 Speaker 2: Can I touch your hair? 1373 01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:19,800 Speaker 1: Can I touch more? 1374 01:15:20,240 --> 01:15:20,479 Speaker 3: Hell? 1375 01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:22,360 Speaker 1: No, you can't touch my head hair? 1376 01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:23,400 Speaker 10: That's it? 1377 01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:25,280 Speaker 1: Good questions? 1378 01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:28,280 Speaker 7: And white people ask black people is chicken really that good? 1379 01:15:32,160 --> 01:15:32,360 Speaker 1: Too? 1380 01:15:33,600 --> 01:15:34,600 Speaker 8: I'm just asking is it? 1381 01:15:34,800 --> 01:15:35,040 Speaker 5: I mean? 1382 01:15:35,760 --> 01:15:36,200 Speaker 6: Every time? 1383 01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:40,040 Speaker 1: Goodhead? Stupid questions that white people ask black people. So 1384 01:15:40,160 --> 01:15:41,639 Speaker 1: how do you know the watermelon is good? 1385 01:15:43,960 --> 01:15:44,000 Speaker 9: What? 1386 01:15:45,720 --> 01:15:49,519 Speaker 11: What come on Steve. 1387 01:15:49,600 --> 01:15:52,360 Speaker 2: Stupid questions that white people asked black people. 1388 01:15:52,960 --> 01:15:54,600 Speaker 1: Hey do you know the black guy that robbed the 1389 01:15:54,640 --> 01:15:55,840 Speaker 1: liquor store last night? 1390 01:16:04,600 --> 01:16:08,200 Speaker 13: Stupid questions that white people ask black people coming to relent, 1391 01:16:08,960 --> 01:16:10,439 Speaker 13: So you're in first class? 1392 01:16:10,760 --> 01:16:11,200 Speaker 9: What do you do? 1393 01:16:13,040 --> 01:16:14,360 Speaker 1: That happened all the. 1394 01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:16,200 Speaker 6: Ya? 1395 01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:19,880 Speaker 8: I mean I hear you guys talk about it all 1396 01:16:19,920 --> 01:16:22,680 Speaker 8: the time. So how is government cheese is just like 1397 01:16:22,800 --> 01:16:25,360 Speaker 8: rape cheese? Or is it just cheese that are different? 1398 01:16:27,920 --> 01:16:30,920 Speaker 5: Stupid questions uh that white people ask black people, So 1399 01:16:31,280 --> 01:16:32,040 Speaker 5: are you serious? 1400 01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:33,599 Speaker 2: I mean you really can't dance? 1401 01:16:33,880 --> 01:16:34,120 Speaker 11: Are you. 1402 01:16:35,840 --> 01:16:36,599 Speaker 1: You can't dance? 1403 01:16:36,600 --> 01:16:44,320 Speaker 9: Stupid questions and white people ask black people Steve Hope. 1404 01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:46,479 Speaker 1: I'm not, uh, you know, being in trucier. 1405 01:16:46,560 --> 01:16:48,080 Speaker 2: But is your dad around? 1406 01:16:50,040 --> 01:16:50,240 Speaker 5: Yeah? 1407 01:16:56,760 --> 01:16:58,280 Speaker 1: Hell yeah he died. Yeah. 1408 01:17:01,600 --> 01:17:04,519 Speaker 13: Stupid questions that white people asked black people. 1409 01:17:05,080 --> 01:17:06,320 Speaker 1: How did you get a new car? 1410 01:17:07,240 --> 01:17:10,000 Speaker 13: How you get a new car? 1411 01:17:10,320 --> 01:17:16,040 Speaker 8: Nice to pumping on the yes. Stupid questions white people 1412 01:17:16,240 --> 01:17:18,439 Speaker 8: ask black people. So tell me when did you meet 1413 01:17:18,520 --> 01:17:24,479 Speaker 8: jay Z? I don't know, he never said I so 1414 01:17:24,720 --> 01:17:25,000 Speaker 8: jay Z. 1415 01:17:29,200 --> 01:17:31,840 Speaker 5: Stuber questions that white people ask black people. So you 1416 01:17:31,920 --> 01:17:34,519 Speaker 5: mean you you're you're not fast? You can't run, You're 1417 01:17:34,560 --> 01:17:37,200 Speaker 5: not fast all oh my god. 1418 01:17:40,920 --> 01:17:45,400 Speaker 2: All right, come on, Steve. Stupid questions that some white 1419 01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:46,639 Speaker 2: people ask black. 1420 01:17:46,479 --> 01:17:49,479 Speaker 1: People, Hey, are those your real lips? 1421 01:17:54,240 --> 01:17:55,439 Speaker 2: You haven't had any injection? 1422 01:17:58,880 --> 01:17:59,839 Speaker 1: Just snap size. 1423 01:18:07,000 --> 01:18:11,400 Speaker 13: Stupid questions that white people ask black people The police 1424 01:18:11,439 --> 01:18:13,760 Speaker 13: are not the police are not hassling a lot of 1425 01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:14,960 Speaker 13: black people. Isn't that true? 1426 01:18:15,320 --> 01:18:15,519 Speaker 11: Really? 1427 01:18:15,520 --> 01:18:16,439 Speaker 13: Wouldn't you agree to that? 1428 01:18:17,479 --> 01:18:17,679 Speaker 11: Yeah? 1429 01:18:21,280 --> 01:18:24,559 Speaker 7: Stupid questions that white people ask black people They don't 1430 01:18:24,560 --> 01:18:26,719 Speaker 7: mean to bother you, but are your church service? 1431 01:18:26,840 --> 01:18:27,639 Speaker 1: Is really this long? 1432 01:18:27,720 --> 01:18:31,400 Speaker 2: Because seven it's two thirty long. 1433 01:18:35,640 --> 01:18:39,479 Speaker 6: Last one Stupid questions white people ask black people, Hey, 1434 01:18:39,680 --> 01:18:41,280 Speaker 6: why can't we use in word? 1435 01:18:43,880 --> 01:18:49,519 Speaker 2: And we'll be back with more of the Steve Harby 1436 01:18:49,560 --> 01:18:52,280 Speaker 2: Morning Show. It's twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're 1437 01:18:52,360 --> 01:18:54,599 Speaker 2: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1438 01:18:58,720 --> 01:19:02,240 Speaker 9: Four day work week game mean's momentum in England. That 1439 01:19:02,439 --> 01:19:06,200 Speaker 9: is the headline. Two hundred companies in England have decided 1440 01:19:06,520 --> 01:19:08,720 Speaker 9: to make the switch to a permanent four day work 1441 01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:11,040 Speaker 9: week and they're not cutting anyone's pay. 1442 01:19:11,520 --> 01:19:13,440 Speaker 2: The move is expected to benefit. 1443 01:19:13,160 --> 01:19:17,400 Speaker 9: Over five thousand employees across various industries, including marketing, tech 1444 01:19:17,560 --> 01:19:20,920 Speaker 9: and charities. If the extra free time leads to greater 1445 01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:24,519 Speaker 9: employee retention and motivation. The companies that offer four day 1446 01:19:24,560 --> 01:19:27,439 Speaker 9: work weeks will have an advantage over the companies who 1447 01:19:27,520 --> 01:19:29,759 Speaker 9: still demand employees show up Monday through Friday. 1448 01:19:30,240 --> 01:19:31,120 Speaker 2: What do you guys think? 1449 01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:32,719 Speaker 1: Hello, you guys think. 1450 01:19:32,560 --> 01:19:36,720 Speaker 2: It's out there? Hell, you already do it. 1451 01:19:36,840 --> 01:19:40,360 Speaker 5: Tommy, you already saying Monday two Thursday is all we 1452 01:19:40,520 --> 01:19:40,920 Speaker 5: need to do. 1453 01:19:41,080 --> 01:19:42,080 Speaker 1: Hen I've been saying it. 1454 01:19:42,880 --> 01:19:44,759 Speaker 2: That's what you've been doing. Come on Monday. 1455 01:19:45,040 --> 01:19:45,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't come on? 1456 01:19:46,320 --> 01:19:53,759 Speaker 2: That's the thing. Adjustments, Steve, may we hear you speak? Please? 1457 01:19:54,640 --> 01:19:56,600 Speaker 1: I agree with it. I think it should be a 1458 01:19:56,680 --> 01:20:00,720 Speaker 1: four day birth week on the radio too. Listen radio 1459 01:20:00,840 --> 01:20:01,280 Speaker 1: here everything? 1460 01:20:02,520 --> 01:20:03,960 Speaker 9: What so? 1461 01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:04,759 Speaker 1: How should. 1462 01:20:07,040 --> 01:20:07,320 Speaker 2: Okay? 1463 01:20:07,400 --> 01:20:07,680 Speaker 3: Tell me? 1464 01:20:07,760 --> 01:20:12,040 Speaker 2: Let's go back to you. Sorry, like every day, I 1465 01:20:12,160 --> 01:20:13,160 Speaker 2: think every week. 1466 01:20:13,240 --> 01:20:15,000 Speaker 1: I think we are all today to day. 1467 01:20:17,160 --> 01:20:18,240 Speaker 2: Junior, What you got. 1468 01:20:20,720 --> 01:20:21,240 Speaker 11: Four weeks? 1469 01:20:22,680 --> 01:20:23,160 Speaker 1: Go on to day. 1470 01:20:23,200 --> 01:20:24,640 Speaker 7: I'm here because you don't never no one to day. 1471 01:20:24,640 --> 01:20:27,200 Speaker 7: I'm gonna be missing. I'm off of old for they 1472 01:20:27,240 --> 01:20:28,000 Speaker 7: work weekim. 1473 01:20:32,040 --> 01:20:33,559 Speaker 1: I ain't you had no more. 1474 01:20:34,760 --> 01:20:38,280 Speaker 9: Thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play around it, 1475 01:20:38,360 --> 01:20:38,960 Speaker 9: would you rather? 1476 01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:40,000 Speaker 2: Right after this. 1477 01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:48,519 Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, and it's 1478 01:20:48,560 --> 01:20:51,080 Speaker 9: time now for around and would you rather would you 1479 01:20:51,360 --> 01:20:55,439 Speaker 9: rather be alone for the rest of your life or 1480 01:20:55,479 --> 01:20:59,040 Speaker 9: would you rather always be surrounded by annoying people? 1481 01:20:59,600 --> 01:21:02,160 Speaker 2: Alone or surrounded by annoying people? 1482 01:21:03,240 --> 01:21:04,200 Speaker 1: Well, that's my life. 1483 01:21:04,280 --> 01:21:11,920 Speaker 2: Now, you don't have to say everything to yourself. 1484 01:21:15,800 --> 01:21:16,240 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. 1485 01:21:17,360 --> 01:21:20,040 Speaker 2: If you want to do over, pick one one. 1486 01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:23,240 Speaker 1: I'm going and then we just don't stay with these 1487 01:21:23,240 --> 01:21:27,280 Speaker 1: annoying people. I got. 1488 01:21:31,400 --> 01:21:32,400 Speaker 2: Think about a rodeo. 1489 01:21:32,880 --> 01:21:35,719 Speaker 9: Would you rather be a clown who distracts the bull 1490 01:21:36,160 --> 01:21:38,920 Speaker 9: or would you rather be the cowboy who rides the bull? 1491 01:21:39,360 --> 01:21:42,800 Speaker 1: So the clown or the cowboy, I'm that clown all day. 1492 01:21:43,160 --> 01:21:45,519 Speaker 5: I'm not getting on that bull. I'm not getting on 1493 01:21:45,640 --> 01:21:49,679 Speaker 5: that bull. Matter of fact, I'm getting in that little 1494 01:21:49,760 --> 01:21:52,599 Speaker 5: tire that the clown get in. And I'm not coming 1495 01:21:52,640 --> 01:21:55,080 Speaker 5: out of that either. I'm just that clown that won't work. 1496 01:21:55,120 --> 01:21:56,679 Speaker 5: I'm just stuck in that time. 1497 01:21:57,600 --> 01:21:58,760 Speaker 2: Not even doing your job. 1498 01:22:01,200 --> 01:22:03,240 Speaker 1: What oh, I'm the clown. 1499 01:22:05,560 --> 01:22:08,080 Speaker 6: And my suggestion to you is, before they open that gate, 1500 01:22:08,600 --> 01:22:13,559 Speaker 6: say on top of this bull, homie, get your full 1501 01:22:13,720 --> 01:22:16,719 Speaker 6: eight in, help your off, and get up. 1502 01:22:16,640 --> 01:22:22,599 Speaker 1: On this railing. Because that's why I am. I ain't 1503 01:22:22,680 --> 01:22:24,760 Speaker 1: even on the ground, i ain't in the tie I 1504 01:22:24,840 --> 01:22:25,759 Speaker 1: ain't in the barrel. 1505 01:22:25,880 --> 01:22:28,920 Speaker 6: I ain't in none of that. I'm up here on 1506 01:22:29,040 --> 01:22:35,439 Speaker 6: the guard. Hey man, hang on, dog the dog, give 1507 01:22:35,479 --> 01:22:37,000 Speaker 6: me the make up all. 1508 01:22:36,960 --> 01:22:39,639 Speaker 8: That, yeah, the chaps everything. 1509 01:22:40,960 --> 01:22:43,439 Speaker 6: My set up there with black face on and at 1510 01:22:43,479 --> 01:22:47,040 Speaker 6: the rodeo as the clown. Yeah, I set up before 1511 01:22:47,080 --> 01:22:48,240 Speaker 6: I'm out there on that ball. 1512 01:22:48,800 --> 01:22:51,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. I do it in a heartbeat, before I. 1513 01:22:51,640 --> 01:22:55,559 Speaker 2: Get on that ball, the black person. 1514 01:22:56,520 --> 01:22:56,720 Speaker 11: Yeah. 1515 01:22:58,400 --> 01:23:01,559 Speaker 6: I introduced the rod on the hon the real homie, 1516 01:23:01,600 --> 01:23:07,080 Speaker 6: the clown. You're right now, I'm not getting on this bull. 1517 01:23:08,439 --> 01:23:10,600 Speaker 6: I took my hand off to those that dude, he 1518 01:23:10,680 --> 01:23:12,680 Speaker 6: gonna throw me off in the shoot. 1519 01:23:14,240 --> 01:23:14,639 Speaker 1: Your back? 1520 01:23:15,320 --> 01:23:18,040 Speaker 9: Would you rather make love with the lights on? Or 1521 01:23:18,040 --> 01:23:20,040 Speaker 9: would you rather make love with the lights off? 1522 01:23:20,680 --> 01:23:22,760 Speaker 1: As long as we're doing it, it don't matter. I 1523 01:23:22,800 --> 01:23:23,519 Speaker 1: don't I don't like. 1524 01:23:25,640 --> 01:23:26,120 Speaker 2: You don't like what? 1525 01:23:29,200 --> 01:23:33,120 Speaker 1: That don't work? So what what out of one? Let 1526 01:23:33,160 --> 01:23:33,679 Speaker 1: me see. 1527 01:23:36,240 --> 01:23:45,639 Speaker 6: One. Let me see what I want you all these 1528 01:23:45,720 --> 01:23:49,360 Speaker 6: dealers and all this hit and then and then you 1529 01:23:49,600 --> 01:23:51,160 Speaker 6: just want yeah what. 1530 01:23:52,880 --> 01:23:54,880 Speaker 1: I just lie on. Let me see what you know 1531 01:23:57,520 --> 01:23:58,800 Speaker 1: what Marx is at. 1532 01:23:59,000 --> 01:23:59,200 Speaker 11: You know. 1533 01:24:01,040 --> 01:24:01,760 Speaker 1: Everybody got. 1534 01:24:03,360 --> 01:24:07,559 Speaker 9: That's today's rounded. Would you rather coming up in forty 1535 01:24:07,680 --> 01:24:09,960 Speaker 9: nine minutes after it's our last break of the day, 1536 01:24:09,960 --> 01:24:12,960 Speaker 9: and we'll close out the show with Steve Harvey right after. 1537 01:24:12,880 --> 01:24:15,360 Speaker 1: This Lost People. This is Kirk Franklin. 1538 01:24:15,479 --> 01:24:17,120 Speaker 2: Hey, this is Sakakh what's going on? 1539 01:24:17,240 --> 01:24:18,280 Speaker 8: This is your boy Kevin Hart. 1540 01:24:18,320 --> 01:24:19,559 Speaker 12: Hey, this is Chloe Kardashian. 1541 01:24:19,600 --> 01:24:21,040 Speaker 2: Hey, what up? This is your boy Chris Brandon. 1542 01:24:21,640 --> 01:24:25,439 Speaker 11: Your boy's the big Snoop Dogg. Hi. 1543 01:24:25,640 --> 01:24:28,639 Speaker 1: This is your boy, Sandy Entertainer. 1544 01:24:28,800 --> 01:24:30,599 Speaker 2: This is your Linda Adams. Less up. 1545 01:24:30,600 --> 01:24:34,120 Speaker 6: It's DJ Cavin and you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1546 01:24:34,360 --> 01:24:38,320 Speaker 6: There's morning shows, and there's the Greatest Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1547 01:24:38,720 --> 01:24:39,320 Speaker 1: Another one. 1548 01:24:39,520 --> 01:24:42,000 Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1549 01:24:46,560 --> 01:24:47,680 Speaker 1: This is Steve Harvey. 1550 01:24:47,439 --> 01:24:52,559 Speaker 6: Martin show Man, Will Junior, You've been real interesting lately. 1551 01:24:53,800 --> 01:24:55,040 Speaker 8: I got a question for you day, huh. 1552 01:24:55,920 --> 01:24:57,040 Speaker 1: I just need to know something, man. 1553 01:24:57,240 --> 01:24:59,360 Speaker 8: You know you've had a lot of hate over your 1554 01:24:59,520 --> 01:25:02,360 Speaker 8: over your You've had a lot of things. Do you 1555 01:25:02,520 --> 01:25:03,840 Speaker 8: ever feel this ever time for you? 1556 01:25:03,960 --> 01:25:05,719 Speaker 7: You ever want to just address some of these people 1557 01:25:05,720 --> 01:25:07,880 Speaker 7: because you don't never really respond back to them. 1558 01:25:08,360 --> 01:25:11,160 Speaker 2: You don't wait what what you want to? 1559 01:25:11,520 --> 01:25:12,240 Speaker 11: Hell me? 1560 01:25:13,080 --> 01:25:18,080 Speaker 6: I want you to address it, oh Jr. Because I 1561 01:25:18,360 --> 01:25:22,439 Speaker 6: can set the record straight. I got four hour radio show. 1562 01:25:23,439 --> 01:25:26,880 Speaker 6: I could address every single thing ever said about me, 1563 01:25:27,280 --> 01:25:30,280 Speaker 6: ever said about y'all, ever said about. 1564 01:25:30,120 --> 01:25:34,200 Speaker 1: Us, anything I could. I could do it all. But yeah, 1565 01:25:34,720 --> 01:25:36,680 Speaker 1: but for what. 1566 01:25:38,200 --> 01:25:41,040 Speaker 6: Hey, Man, if you stop and take the time to 1567 01:25:41,200 --> 01:25:45,839 Speaker 6: address every hater, you're gonna slow your own progress. 1568 01:25:47,520 --> 01:25:48,800 Speaker 1: Stay on the wall. 1569 01:25:49,960 --> 01:25:53,519 Speaker 6: And what I really learned in my life is for 1570 01:25:53,680 --> 01:25:57,600 Speaker 6: those that love you, no explanation necessary. For those that 1571 01:25:57,760 --> 01:26:01,559 Speaker 6: hate you, no explanation except that's it. I don't care 1572 01:26:01,600 --> 01:26:03,880 Speaker 6: what you say to a hater, they got they gonna 1573 01:26:03,920 --> 01:26:04,639 Speaker 6: find something else. 1574 01:26:05,160 --> 01:26:07,720 Speaker 1: Why you do that? Why you do that? And then 1575 01:26:07,960 --> 01:26:10,080 Speaker 1: soon as something happened to you this day, favorite work, 1576 01:26:10,240 --> 01:26:13,920 Speaker 1: that's calm. People don't even know what calma is. God, 1577 01:26:14,040 --> 01:26:14,880 Speaker 1: don't man? 1578 01:26:15,360 --> 01:26:17,760 Speaker 6: Do you think it take God thirty years to pay 1579 01:26:17,800 --> 01:26:19,559 Speaker 6: you back for something you did thirty years ago? 1580 01:26:19,640 --> 01:26:20,479 Speaker 1: You think it just now? 1581 01:26:21,080 --> 01:26:23,840 Speaker 6: You think God just now bringing it up? Man, do 1582 01:26:23,920 --> 01:26:25,760 Speaker 6: you know how crazy our life would be if that's 1583 01:26:25,800 --> 01:26:27,040 Speaker 6: how God Almighty worked. 1584 01:26:27,600 --> 01:26:33,720 Speaker 1: God deals with us immediately, e immediately. 1585 01:26:33,600 --> 01:26:37,040 Speaker 6: And if you ask for forgiveness and are sincere about it, 1586 01:26:37,720 --> 01:26:39,000 Speaker 6: he do that immediately too. 1587 01:26:39,960 --> 01:26:42,519 Speaker 1: So you got to quit letting people, man bring your 1588 01:26:42,640 --> 01:26:44,160 Speaker 1: pass up to remind you of. 1589 01:26:44,200 --> 01:26:44,840 Speaker 11: What you did. 1590 01:26:47,360 --> 01:26:47,640 Speaker 1: After that. 1591 01:26:49,800 --> 01:26:52,840 Speaker 2: All right, So Steve, this is our last break of 1592 01:26:52,920 --> 01:26:55,599 Speaker 2: the day. You wanted to do something special, all right, 1593 01:26:55,680 --> 01:26:56,360 Speaker 2: I got I. 1594 01:26:56,439 --> 01:26:58,120 Speaker 6: Want to say something first, and then I'm gonna let 1595 01:26:58,200 --> 01:27:02,559 Speaker 6: my friend talk for a second. So let's go today. 1596 01:27:03,000 --> 01:27:06,320 Speaker 6: I want to have a conversation with you all about faith. 1597 01:27:07,360 --> 01:27:09,200 Speaker 6: You know, I think a lot of people don't like 1598 01:27:09,600 --> 01:27:16,080 Speaker 6: talking about faith because for some reason. I don't know, man, 1599 01:27:16,120 --> 01:27:19,720 Speaker 6: I just think a part of it is political correctness 1600 01:27:19,840 --> 01:27:23,240 Speaker 6: in our society today. I think some people don't talk 1601 01:27:23,280 --> 01:27:28,120 Speaker 6: about faith because so many people are from different faiths. 1602 01:27:29,160 --> 01:27:32,120 Speaker 6: But when I'm talking about faith, I'm merely talking about 1603 01:27:32,160 --> 01:27:35,880 Speaker 6: the belief in the belief in God. That's all I'm 1604 01:27:35,920 --> 01:27:38,800 Speaker 6: talking about. You know, for whatever your faith is, I'm 1605 01:27:38,920 --> 01:27:42,559 Speaker 6: cool with everybody's faith, man, I'm not that judgmental God. 1606 01:27:43,040 --> 01:27:44,920 Speaker 6: I'm not the guy that says, if you don't believe 1607 01:27:45,000 --> 01:27:47,800 Speaker 6: what I believe, yours is off base, because that's not true. 1608 01:27:48,520 --> 01:27:54,240 Speaker 6: That's just one hundred percent not true. All faiths are valid. 1609 01:27:54,960 --> 01:27:59,800 Speaker 6: Every faith is valid, that is God based all of 1610 01:28:00,160 --> 01:28:08,240 Speaker 6: a valid you. I don't care if you Jewish, Muslim, Catholic, Protestant, Gentile, 1611 01:28:08,680 --> 01:28:10,080 Speaker 6: jew I don't care. 1612 01:28:11,000 --> 01:28:11,679 Speaker 1: I don't care. 1613 01:28:12,880 --> 01:28:15,679 Speaker 6: As long as your faith is God based, the belief 1614 01:28:15,760 --> 01:28:19,160 Speaker 6: that God is who he is, that's all that matters. 1615 01:28:20,600 --> 01:28:22,759 Speaker 6: I want to talk to you about faith for a minute, 1616 01:28:22,800 --> 01:28:25,680 Speaker 6: from the standpoint of what are what are you and 1617 01:28:25,840 --> 01:28:32,040 Speaker 6: God talking about? Because man, I've learned so much about faith. 1618 01:28:32,479 --> 01:28:36,000 Speaker 6: A friend of mine sent me a scripture Psalms five three, 1619 01:28:37,360 --> 01:28:40,200 Speaker 6: and it's an important scripture, man, because what it did 1620 01:28:40,360 --> 01:28:44,360 Speaker 6: for me was it taught me something about my faith. 1621 01:28:44,439 --> 01:28:47,200 Speaker 6: Because if you're a person of faith, then you have 1622 01:28:47,240 --> 01:28:50,000 Speaker 6: a relationship with God, and God has a relationship with you, 1623 01:28:51,000 --> 01:28:56,400 Speaker 6: and he hears you when you cry. And it was 1624 01:28:56,479 --> 01:29:00,880 Speaker 6: sort of ironic because I had started having my meditation 1625 01:29:01,439 --> 01:29:03,880 Speaker 6: a few weeks ago. Now I just can't even tell 1626 01:29:03,920 --> 01:29:08,120 Speaker 6: you how it has completely changed the outcome of my days. 1627 01:29:08,800 --> 01:29:13,360 Speaker 6: It hasn't stopped anything from happening, but it has changed 1628 01:29:13,760 --> 01:29:16,519 Speaker 6: the way I cope with it and the way I 1629 01:29:16,640 --> 01:29:19,360 Speaker 6: look for it. See, I don't worry about tomorrow anymore. 1630 01:29:20,320 --> 01:29:24,439 Speaker 6: Oh I'm making plans, but I'm not worrying about tomorrow 1631 01:29:24,920 --> 01:29:30,599 Speaker 6: because I was reading something somewhere that you cannot change. 1632 01:29:31,040 --> 01:29:36,759 Speaker 6: By worrying, you cannot give yourself one hour of extra 1633 01:29:36,920 --> 01:29:38,080 Speaker 6: life from worrying. 1634 01:29:38,640 --> 01:29:41,439 Speaker 1: If you worry, you can't add an hour to your life. 1635 01:29:42,680 --> 01:29:45,679 Speaker 6: So if by worrying you can't even add an hour 1636 01:29:46,240 --> 01:29:49,160 Speaker 6: of time to your life, which is one of the 1637 01:29:49,200 --> 01:29:51,360 Speaker 6: most important things you can have, is your time, why 1638 01:29:51,400 --> 01:29:54,400 Speaker 6: would you worry about anything else. So in the morning, 1639 01:29:54,439 --> 01:29:59,040 Speaker 6: when I'm talking to God Psalms five and three, I 1640 01:29:59,200 --> 01:30:02,799 Speaker 6: always ask God in the morning to hear my voice. 1641 01:30:03,840 --> 01:30:06,439 Speaker 6: When I'm praying to you, I'm asking him to hear 1642 01:30:06,560 --> 01:30:10,560 Speaker 6: my voice. And after he hears my voice, then I 1643 01:30:10,720 --> 01:30:16,240 Speaker 6: wait for him with an expect with an expectation that 1644 01:30:16,400 --> 01:30:20,639 Speaker 6: what I cried out for will happen, no doubt, no worry. 1645 01:30:21,200 --> 01:30:24,479 Speaker 1: It is going to happen. Now. 1646 01:30:24,640 --> 01:30:27,519 Speaker 6: It may not happen that day, But since I put 1647 01:30:27,560 --> 01:30:30,200 Speaker 6: in my request with that kind of faith attached to it, 1648 01:30:31,439 --> 01:30:35,519 Speaker 6: God's promises never come back void. God has never told 1649 01:30:35,600 --> 01:30:37,960 Speaker 6: us he would do something for us, and he didn't 1650 01:30:38,000 --> 01:30:40,880 Speaker 6: do it. God didn't ever promise something to be so, 1651 01:30:41,320 --> 01:30:44,439 Speaker 6: and we found out later on it wasn't. All of 1652 01:30:44,560 --> 01:30:46,040 Speaker 6: God's promises is true. 1653 01:30:46,439 --> 01:30:46,800 Speaker 1: He don't. 1654 01:30:47,040 --> 01:30:50,720 Speaker 6: His word don't come back void. So when you do that, man, 1655 01:30:50,840 --> 01:30:54,240 Speaker 6: you put your your prayer out there and your meditation 1656 01:30:54,400 --> 01:30:56,360 Speaker 6: and you put it out there with the faith and 1657 01:30:56,479 --> 01:31:00,120 Speaker 6: you look forward expectingly, and that has changed me. Are 1658 01:31:00,160 --> 01:31:03,400 Speaker 6: you discussing your future with God? He wants us to 1659 01:31:03,439 --> 01:31:05,920 Speaker 6: make decisions now. He would love to be included in 1660 01:31:06,000 --> 01:31:09,120 Speaker 6: the decision making process. That's the relationship he wants with us. 1661 01:31:09,640 --> 01:31:12,479 Speaker 6: But when God allows you to make a decision a plan, 1662 01:31:12,800 --> 01:31:15,760 Speaker 6: he wants to hear your plan. Sometimes your plan are 1663 01:31:15,800 --> 01:31:19,000 Speaker 6: in line with what he is, and sometimes he needs 1664 01:31:19,080 --> 01:31:21,840 Speaker 6: to make an adjustment. So when you ask God for 1665 01:31:21,960 --> 01:31:24,639 Speaker 6: something and at the end of it you say, God, 1666 01:31:24,760 --> 01:31:27,479 Speaker 6: let your will be done, then guess what. I may 1667 01:31:27,640 --> 01:31:30,880 Speaker 6: ask for something, but always tag with let your will 1668 01:31:30,920 --> 01:31:33,439 Speaker 6: be done, because if it's not your will, then show 1669 01:31:33,479 --> 01:31:38,880 Speaker 6: me whatever that is. Because his adjustment that he makes 1670 01:31:39,680 --> 01:31:43,560 Speaker 6: is gonna be way better than your plans. God's adjustments 1671 01:31:44,120 --> 01:31:47,920 Speaker 6: is better to be open. And a cool part about 1672 01:31:47,920 --> 01:31:51,240 Speaker 6: it is if he makes the adjustment, you're going to 1673 01:31:51,400 --> 01:31:55,120 Speaker 6: agree with him because it's gonna be spot on your chest. 1674 01:31:55,520 --> 01:31:58,520 Speaker 9: See if every contest no purchase necessary void where prohibited 1675 01:31:58,600 --> 01:32:02,080 Speaker 9: participants must be legal residents at least eighteen years old 1676 01:32:02,200 --> 01:32:06,439 Speaker 9: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit STEVEHARVEYFM. 1677 01:32:06,600 --> 01:32:10,160 Speaker 2: Dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.