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Speaker 1: Hello. Is this Ashley from Oregon?

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Speaker 2: Yes, it is.

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Speaker 1: Tell me everything, Ashley from Oregon.

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Speaker 3: Well, hold on one, I got the stream all don't

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Speaker 3: mind me.

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Speaker 4: It's all right.

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Speaker 1: I'm not doing it again. I got all night. This

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Speaker 1: is These are my plans. My plans for the rest

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Speaker 1: of my night are to be a gecko and talk

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Speaker 1: to people on the phone. So this is it. This

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Speaker 1: is it for me. What's going on, Ashley?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Nothing, I just kind of want my break at work.

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Speaker 3: It's kind of hanging out in the car.

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Speaker 1: You do your do your breaks in the car.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because I like to, you know, I like

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Speaker 3: have like a vape and smoking and stuff, and it's

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Speaker 3: kind of raining out. So I'm like, just in the car.

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Speaker 1: Is it a is it a nicotine vape? Is it

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Speaker 1: a CBD vape? Is it a myth? Can you can you?

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Speaker 1: I know you can smoke? Can you vape? Meth?

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Speaker 3: I yeah, I used to be a drug act and

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Speaker 3: we put it in like dab and interesting.

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Speaker 1: Do they have like like meth carts?

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Speaker 3: No, I mean they don't like sell it specifically, you know,

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Speaker 3: Like I guess like tweakers can just like figure out

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Speaker 3: ways around everything. So you figured out a way to

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Speaker 3: do that.

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Speaker 1: I've never thought about that. Can you can you vape crack?

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Speaker 5: I don't.

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Speaker 3: I've never done crack, but probably I feel like there's

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Speaker 3: a way around everything. So you can probably do anything

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Speaker 3: that you like set your mind to, like in that aspect,

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Speaker 3: if you're desperate enough.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know. I mean, like I'm talking about

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Speaker 1: like the physics of it, like is it physically possible?

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Speaker 1: Is it physically possible? Can do you believe that if

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Speaker 1: you set your mind to it you can perform feats

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Speaker 1: that are scientifically physically impossible?

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 3: I feel like it is physically possible because it like

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Speaker 3: heats up, which like you know, does thing and then

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Speaker 3: you get smoke. But I do I mean, like maybe

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Speaker 3: not a scientist. If you put your mind to something

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Speaker 3: that's like scientifically impossible, I don't think you can do it.

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Speaker 1: What is the most non traditional substance that you have vaped?

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Speaker 6: Mess?

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Speaker 3: Crap?

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Speaker 7: That makes sense?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because you're in your car right now, you're vaping,

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Speaker 1: right What are you vaping?

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Speaker 5: If you don't mind me asking, it's like a blue

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Speaker 5: raspberry vape probably like got like familde hyde in it.

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Speaker 1: But oh well, what is formaldehyde?

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Speaker 3: I have no idea, to be honest, I just know

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Speaker 3: that it's bad, and people will say that it's in

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Speaker 3: d thing.

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Speaker 8: You know.

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Speaker 1: What people also say is that what you don't know

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Speaker 1: can't hurt you.

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Speaker 3: Probably exactly. So you kind of close my eyes and

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Speaker 3: I'm like my blue rab berry nicotine.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what when when do you have to go

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Speaker 1: back to work?

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Speaker 3: About like ten minutes?

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Speaker 1: Do you have any what are your plans for the

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Speaker 1: next ten minutes? How like do you like when you

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Speaker 1: take your break? Do you like take it day by

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Speaker 1: day or do you like section it out like these

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Speaker 1: five minutes I'll go on Instagram these five minutes, I'll

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Speaker 1: play touch grind, these five minutes, I'll I'll vape like

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Speaker 1: or do you sort of play.

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Speaker 3: It by I don't really have anything like specifically. I

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Speaker 3: just like either I have like like this crossword puzzle

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Speaker 3: book and I'll do that. I'll just like scroll on TikTok.

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Speaker 3: That's not it.

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Speaker 1: Mm. And what is your job sitting?

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Speaker 3: I've seen this dreamer like, hey, oh, I'm a manager

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Speaker 3: at McDonald's. Yes, babysitting teenagers and adult babies.

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Speaker 1: So you described this as babysitting. Why do you describe

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Speaker 1: it as babysitting.

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Speaker 3: Because nobody has like responsibility. It's like I'm it's like

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm in a daycare trying to tell

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Speaker 3: everyone to do and then they just you know, I

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Speaker 3: have people who like throw fits, like grown ass men

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Speaker 3: who like throw fits over like making a m chicken,

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Speaker 3: time out sometimes as ridiculous as a sound.

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Speaker 1: Tell me to me this like situation. But the last

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Speaker 1: conflict you had, uh that ended with you having to

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Speaker 1: give someone a time out?

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Speaker 3: Actually, yesterday this person had like an order, like the

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Speaker 3: grilled man had an order for like six mc chickens,

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Speaker 3: and he was like this is fucking ridiculous, and he

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Speaker 3: started like punching things, and I was like, go sit down,

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Speaker 3: like go do whatever, and so come back until you

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Speaker 3: are like levelheaded. It I feel it's like I'm talking

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Speaker 3: to a child, like go to the corner, go sit down,

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Speaker 3: and come back when you then you know, it's very frustrating.

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Speaker 1: And if he successfully does his time out with no fusses,

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Speaker 1: does he gets a happy meal toy at the end.

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Speaker 3: No, those are expensive if you like want to have

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Speaker 3: someone to it's like three bucks. So no, he just

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Speaker 3: gets like he just gets like a good for you.

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Speaker 3: Continue to do your job, please, that's nice. I congratulate

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Speaker 3: someone on, you know.

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Speaker 1: Doing the bare minimum right before we go? Can I

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Speaker 1: what's your name again, Ashley?

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Speaker 3: Yes? That is my name?

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Speaker 1: Can I ask you something about the and I don't

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Speaker 1: know you know how deep in you are with corporate,

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Speaker 1: But I'm trying to pitch a therapy. You know how

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Speaker 1: they have the Travis Scott meal and the Sweety meal.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, yes, I want next. I want the therapy

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Speaker 1: got meal.

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Speaker 3: Be I mean I could. I don't think there's any

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Speaker 3: way I could do that. I could bring it up

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Speaker 3: to my boss be like, hey, guess what I have

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Speaker 3: the greatest idea, and he probably would be like okay, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'll think about it and then walk away and like

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Speaker 3: never speak about it again. About it?

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Speaker 1: Well, I appreciate you being honest with me about that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, like I honestly, because you know, we

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Speaker 3: don't know until it's like there, like we had like

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Speaker 3: what was it, like the Travis Scott meal, like the

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Speaker 3: like J B J, Balvin BTS and Sweetie. I think

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Speaker 3: that was it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like if he has one, I can get one.

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Speaker 6: Dude.

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Speaker 3: I have absolutely I think he's like a Spanish singer

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Speaker 3: till I've heard, but I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'm not very popular.

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Speaker 3: I didn't look into it at all. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 3: all it was was like like a big mac. I

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Speaker 3: think I was like, it's like super unoriginal, you know,

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Speaker 3: like the Travis Scott it had some originality to it.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's like bacon whatever, but like the ones

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Speaker 3: that we've had are just like so unoriginal. She's like

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Speaker 3: a mcdouble, you know, or like something like that. Very Travis,

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Speaker 3: you know, has yet to.

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Speaker 1: Be talked with that Ashley, before we go, is there

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Speaker 1: anything else you wished to talk about?

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Speaker 3: No, because I probably need to get back to work,

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Speaker 3: but I've been trying this. I appreciate this so much.

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Speaker 3: I did not think I was actually like gonna get on,

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Speaker 3: and I appreciate it. I haven't been watching the streams,

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Speaker 3: but I have been listening to the podcast on Spotify,

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Speaker 3: like I like, I'll have them on at work all

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Speaker 3: the time, like kind of like background noise. It's very nice.

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Speaker 3: I very appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you very much for listening, Ashley, and good

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Speaker 1: luck with the rest of your babysitting. This evening.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, of course, thank you.

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Speaker 8: Never goes on the line taking your phone calls every night.

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Speaker 1: Never kid goes to upside. He's teaching you about your life.

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Speaker 1: Everbody's expert. Andy from Rhode Island. Hi, Hello, Andy from

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Speaker 1: Rhode Island. What's going on with you?

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Speaker 3: Hey?

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Speaker 5: Nothing, you know, I'm just chilling. I'm putting it. I

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Speaker 5: just put the kids to bed. I'm drinking a glass

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Speaker 5: of wine.

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Speaker 1: How are the kids, That's what I want to know.

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Speaker 1: How are the kids?

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Speaker 4: Ah?

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Speaker 5: Well, the older one's kind of an asshole, but the

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Speaker 5: younger one's cool.

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Speaker 1: Why is the older one an asshole?

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Speaker 5: Well, yesterday she told me that I'm not the best

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's reasonable.

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Speaker 6: Though.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well I asked her why I wasn't the best mom,

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Speaker 5: and she told me it's because I don't buy her

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Speaker 5: fine with being just great.

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Speaker 1: Hey, you know, look that's better. Look great is above average?

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Speaker 1: I feel yeah?

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Speaker 5: You know it could be plus.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so what about the younger one? Which one of them?

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Speaker 1: First of all? Which one of them do you like more?

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Speaker 4: Right? Now?

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Speaker 5: I really like the younger one.

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Speaker 8: A lot more.

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Speaker 1: Okay, why is that?

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Speaker 5: You know she doesn't talk back. I mean she's only

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Speaker 5: three months old, so she's kinda a lot cooler.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm. It's true. I feel like the like the

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Speaker 1: three month old is a little bit cooler because they

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Speaker 1: don't need to because you know, no one who talks

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Speaker 5: Yeah, did she just chill? She goes with the filow,

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Speaker 5: she's look at Jesse.

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Speaker 1: I like that.

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Speaker 4: I like that.

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Speaker 1: And how how's the rest of the family.

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Speaker 5: I you know, my husband's pretty cool. He's with the

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Speaker 1: Do you mind if I read you told our call

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Speaker 1: what you told our call screener. Okay, you told the

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Speaker 1: call screener. You told the call screener that you want

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Speaker 1: your husband to stop coming inside of you, because wait,

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Speaker 1: what is this again? Andy from Rhode Island wants to

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Speaker 1: talk about how her husband thinks it's okay to keep

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Speaker 1: coming inside her even though he doesn't want more kids.

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Speaker 9: But she does, but I do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you so you want him to keep coming inside

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Speaker 1: of you?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I wasn't like I would have a million babies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, Okay, but he doesn't want kids.

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Speaker 5: He doesn't want anymore, like we have two, and he

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Speaker 5: thinks three's a crowd, Like he doesn't want to get

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Speaker 5: you know, he likes he likes to have at least

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Speaker 10: But you know, I like kids.

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Speaker 5: I love babies. They're They're great.

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Speaker 1: Does he know that coming inside of you is how

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Speaker 5: Well, honestly, he's not doing anything to stop it. Like

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, I hope you both have a have

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Speaker 5: Can you wear a tiara?

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Speaker 9: Beautiful, all right, good deal.

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Speaker 1: Would you say your name was.

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Speaker 1: And the good luck with the family and they have

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Speaker 8: Nothing much, just but not super hard stuff, but just

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Speaker 7: Can you hear me?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, So, like I'm about to finish college and everything,

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Speaker 7: It's just really weird to me. I guess.

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Speaker 8: And it's not really something like they take a brain

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry, I'm over explaining, and no, off tell me.

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Speaker 8: Like I find a lot of times that to make

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Speaker 8: But like having this bit of self knowledge, I'm able

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Speaker 1: Know, No, don't be sorry. So what I think there's

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Speaker 8: One of them is my mother, and she worked in

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Speaker 8: I just like, I don't know. It's it's it's hard

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Speaker 7: Go ahead.

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Speaker 1: Oh, when you say, when you say they asked you

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Speaker 8: No, if if I think that I might have something

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Speaker 8: Honestly, it's it's been within the last couple of weeks

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Speaker 1: relationship with your family is like but.

447
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:24,240
Speaker 8: Yeah, it's not like it's not like they're digging at

448
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:25,919
Speaker 8: me or Anything's.

449
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 1: Okay, well, you know, I mean, you know, obviously, you know,

450
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:31,719
Speaker 1: the most important opinion is that of uh, you know,

451
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 1: the medical professional that you're but you don't even know that.

452
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:40,640
Speaker 8: Yeah, it's I'm sorry, I interrupted you. I'm really bad.

453
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 1: No, No, there's a lag on the system.

454
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:50,120
Speaker 8: You're You're fine, okay, yeah, and it's it is something

455
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 8: that like I need to go and get diagnosed. And

456
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 8: I'm not saying.

457
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 1: So you haven't haven't been. Sorry for interrupting you, but

458
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Speaker 1: you haven't been. You But didn't you say you were

459
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:06,680
Speaker 1: formally diagnosed with something that you I don't think. I

460
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 1: don't know if you specified what it was. But did

461
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 1: you say you were formally diagnosed?

462
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Speaker 8: Oh, I've I've been diagnosed with I don't believe I

463
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 8: said I was formally diagnosed with something. But I've been

464
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 8: diagnosed with anxiety, and it causes obsessive compulsive behaviors. And

465
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 8: in my mind, those obsessive compulsive behaviors are more likely

466
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:33,920
Speaker 8: to be stemmed than they are to be manifestations of

467
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,879
Speaker 8: anxiety because it's something that has been occurring throughout my

468
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 8: life and I don't know. I can only walk around

469
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 8: the table four times, and then in my mind THO,

470
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 8: this is what a normal person does, but I'm still

471
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:51,359
Speaker 8: doing it. And it's like, I don't know, man, you know,

472
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 8: but I do. I do value the opinion of a professional,

473
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Speaker 8: and it is something that I'm undergoing.

474
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Speaker 10: The process of being.

475
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 1: Helpful you told I think you told one of the

476
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:15,400
Speaker 1: call screeners that this is changing the way that you're

477
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 1: handling yourself and how you self regulate. Any conversation is

478
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: about that.

479
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Speaker 8: I'm sorry, Am I not self regulating?

480
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 5: No?

481
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 1: No, I know because I wanted to ask. I wanted

482
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Speaker 1: to get your thoughts on that.

483
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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, like when I get into something, I

484
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:40,400
Speaker 8: get really into it. And when I looked at autism

485
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 8: through my mind before, I didn't think that, like an

486
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 8: autistic person should have several different interests. You know, my

487
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:53,640
Speaker 8: cousin who has autism, he he's severe, not severely, He's

488
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 8: very fittated by phones of any time. And I thought

489
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Speaker 8: that's like something that like I would have to check

490
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 8: the bots for. But when I get into like a hobby,

491
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 8: like I know everything about it, like I want to

492
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 8: learn everything about it. I want to talk to everybody

493
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 8: who knows stuff about it. But yeah, in a conversation,

494
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 8: like I could be talking about the Simpsons, and like

495
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:27,439
Speaker 8: my my mom, she'll humor me and listen to me

496
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 8: talking about the Simpsons for like twenty minutes. But like,

497
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 8: you know, nobody really wants to hear about the Simpsons.

498
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Speaker 1: There are lots and lots of you probably are making

499
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Speaker 1: thousands and thousands of dollars a month rambling about the

500
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Speaker 1: Simpsons for much longer than twenty minutes. Actual, Yeah, it'll

501
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 1: be you'll be pleased to find.

502
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Speaker 8: But yeah, I just I use that as an example

503
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Speaker 8: because I get fixated by a number of things like

504
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 8: but yeah that I don't know. See, I'm having a

505
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:00,200
Speaker 8: problem self regulating because I want to jump back and

506
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 8: forth from the conversation. Conversations can be hard for me

507
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 8: at times because I feel like, maybe it's my memory,

508
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 8: but I'll pick up a conversation where I left it

509
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 8: off with a person, but it might be like a

510
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 8: day or two later, and I'll be talking to that

511
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 8: person as if the conversation hadn't ended, And it can

512
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 8: be jarring to people, I suppose, But yeah, me wanting

513
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 8: to jump back and forth in conversation, like I'm looking

514
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 8: at my tied ie shoes and like it's stuff like that,

515
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 8: Like everything has to conform to something so that I

516
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 8: don't have to make a choice.

517
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 7: I'm sorry, but informed.

518
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Speaker 1: Something so I don't have to make a choice. What

519
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 1: do you mean by everything has to conform to something

520
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 1: so you don't have to make a choice.

521
00:29:55,360 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 8: So like, because I feel at heart I don't understand

522
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 8: social situations or really most situations. At times, if I

523
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:14,719
Speaker 8: can abide by a certain rule or something that I

524
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 8: know to be true, then I won't make a mistake.

525
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 8: And things like choosing out clothing for myself, like everything

526
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Speaker 8: that I own is ti as fully as that sounds,

527
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 8: but it takes away that anxiety of me having to

528
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 8: make a choice where I know I love color, but

529
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Speaker 8: I don't have to like be like I'm gonna put

530
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 8: such and such outfit together.

531
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Speaker 1: I suppose you know, I don't know, right, you know,

532
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 1: instead of having to decide what color clothes you're gonna

533
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 1: wear in the morning, you go, fuck it, I'll wear

534
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: every color every day.

535
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 7: Damn.

536
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 1: Don't have to decide. That makes sense, that makes sense, whoever.

537
00:30:58,120 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 8: I'm sorry, I don't know.

538
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 1: Stamble Man River, you have been doing significant you It's

539
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I think it's so funny because like you did,

540
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: you were doing so much significantly less rambling than Trust

541
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 1: trust me, you are not rambling. We've we've heard rambling before.

542
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 1: You are not rambling, all right?

543
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 8: But yeah, but can I can I say like one

544
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 8: or two things really quickly about I'm.

545
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 1: Sorry, yeah, yeah, yeah.

546
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 8: When it comes to being like formally diagnosed. At that

547
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 8: time in my life, when I would have been like diagnosed,

548
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 8: like uh, there was no form of stability, like my

549
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 8: mom was a single mother, and like my father was

550
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 8: a drug addict and he had his demons and was

551
00:31:54,920 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 8: in prison for a number of years. Uh, you know,

552
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 8: like getting a diagnosis for me, like it would be

553
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 8: a really validating thing and I wouldn't feel like like

554
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 8: such a monster, I guess, you know, because I feel

555
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 8: really monstrous when I when I'm engaged in a social

556
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 8: interaction and I don't know how to interact, you know,

557
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 8: like receiving a gift on Christmas and I don't know

558
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 8: to smile or you know, show joy because that's the

559
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 8: appropriate thing to do. I just I don't know, I

560
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 8: got off traffed.

561
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 10: You go ahead.

562
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 1: So it would make you feel a lot better. Two

563
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 1: more valide to like to like know what's going on,

564
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 1: to know why you feel that way, to be formally diagnosed,

565
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 1: so that you're not sort of fucking wondering around, like

566
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: you know, what the why why am I? Why are

567
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 1: these why am I thinking these things? Or you know,

568
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 1: feeling these things.

569
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Speaker 8: Yeah, A lot of my initial like work with my

570
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 8: mental health was like I understood that I have a

571
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 8: family history of addiction and all these other things. But

572
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 8: I also never was able to really have my father

573
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 8: in my life to see like what he struggled with,

574
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 8: you know, and and being able to see like, oh, okay,

575
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 8: that that really made sense that I'd be struggling with

576
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 8: the same things, you know, Like I found a report

577
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 8: card of his and like it's night and day between us,

578
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 8: Like huge struggle in school so much because he was

579
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 8: just lets it and all these things. But I don't know.

580
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 8: I'm rambling now on it.

581
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 1: Rambling. I've heard people rambling. You're not rambling. What what

582
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 1: what do you? What do you want to do with

583
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 1: your life? River? That's what I wanted to ask you.

584
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 1: What was your What is your goal?

585
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 4: You know?

586
00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 8: I I love being creative, like I love writing and

587
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 8: I love writing poetry. But I am realistically minded. So

588
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 8: I have a degree I'm getting in public health and

589
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 8: eventually I'd like to do something in nutrition for it.

590
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 8: I'm not like nutritiously minded right now. But when I

591
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 8: was in home school, I lost like one hundred pounds

592
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 8: doing wrestling in football, and I gained it back and

593
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:32,759
Speaker 8: I'm bout to losing weight again, but I ended up

594
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,360
Speaker 8: gaining a minor nutrition. So if I could do something

595
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 8: like where I'm just helping people to like, either with

596
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 8: their issues with addiction or their issues with or eating

597
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 8: or just something, you know, like just in a positive

598
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 8: space where I can help people, and I think I

599
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 8: can do that with a public health degree. And if

600
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 8: I can't, then I'll fuck you. I'll go join the

601
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 8: maritorps or something.

602
00:34:57,080 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 1: Well, River, you know, look, I don't think you're monster.

603
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 1: You know, you seem perfectly well adjusted as a you know,

604
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 1: regardless of you know whatever you know health issues or

605
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 1: you know, diagnosises. You're clearly you know, have a good

606
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 1: head on your shoulders and are a well adjusted human

607
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:24,240
Speaker 1: being you know who has uh productive intentions with his life.

608
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 7: Uh, you know, I appreciate that.

609
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course. And you know, look, I'm glad to

610
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:35,319
Speaker 1: hear that you're working with specialists. Look, I mean wherever.

611
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds like you got a good head

612
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 1: on your shoulders. Keep doing your thing. You know, I

613
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 1: hope you're not too hard on yourself any more than

614
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 1: you need to be. And yeah, dude, look, I you know,

615
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 1: I appreciate you calling in. I appreciate you being uh

616
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 1: so open with us, and uh you know, I wish

617
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 1: you the I wish you the best.

618
00:35:58,760 --> 00:35:59,399
Speaker 2: I wish you're the best.

619
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 1: Learned love, Thank you, every man. You have a good

620
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 1: rest of the night. Nice dude, Nice dude. I know,

621
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:10,400
Speaker 1: I thought it was funny when he was saying that

622
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 1: he was rambling, because he was. I thought he was

623
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 1: very like he's very He actually was very succinct and

624
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 1: on track with his explanations of his feelings. But that's

625
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 1: the thing about the mind, is that the way that

626
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:30,359
Speaker 1: you are, the way that you think you're coming off

627
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 1: is never it's see the mind. It's tricky, right because

628
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 1: the way that you think you're coming off is rarely

629
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:40,760
Speaker 1: accurate to how you actually are coming off. But the

630
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:44,359
Speaker 1: problem is is that you never know which direction that's

631
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:46,840
Speaker 1: going right, because you could either think that you're coming

632
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 1: off in a a in a way that you like

633
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: but in reality or not. But then you could also

634
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: think that you're coming off as a fucking cum guzzler

635
00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 1: and you're actually, you know, coming off well adjusted. So

636
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,719
Speaker 1: who knows. The mine's crazy. It plays all sorts of

637
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 1: tricks on us. Shout out to some motherfucking river dude.

638
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 7: Okay, Hello, Hello, Hi, what's up?

639
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 1: Maria from New Mexico.

640
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 4: Hello, mister deck.

641
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: What's your favorite sound? Maria?

642
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 4: It's the sound of That's gonna be a little a

643
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 4: little specific, maybe a little niche.

644
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 1: I think the more specific, the betther. To be honest,

645
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: I like when you gets I like when people are specific,

646
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 1: because you know, I feel like, uh, it gives us

647
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 1: a a opportunity to really focus on something that's in

648
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 1: front of us all the time, but that we never

649
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: take the time to really notice and appreciate. So go

650
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 1: for it. Get specific.

651
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:56,239
Speaker 7: Okay.

652
00:37:56,360 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 4: So here's here's a little bit of a back for

653
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:04,800
Speaker 4: why I say this. You know, when we're young, we're kids,

654
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 4: we do really stupid things. And for some reason, when

655
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 4: I was around five or six, give or take a

656
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:15,320
Speaker 4: couple of years, however old I was. Where I'm from,

657
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 4: we have like this certain gas station you get burritos from.

658
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 4: They're awesome, right, And I remember going to this gas

659
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:28,840
Speaker 4: station and getting a burrito and a bottled sprite. And

660
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 4: I remember going home, and you know, I was like

661
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 4: five or six. I tore the burrito apart. And I

662
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 4: put like chunks of it into my sprite and I

663
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 4: would like shake it around like a snow globe, and

664
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Speaker 4: I would just stare at it, and then I would

665
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Speaker 4: drink it. And as I got older, I just continue

666
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 4: to do that. I'm twenty now, so it's been about

667
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 4: sixteen fifteen years that I've been doing with And just

668
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:04,840
Speaker 4: the sound of like the fizziness of a soda, whether

669
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:09,799
Speaker 4: it be like you you're opening the can or my

670
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 4: favorite sound specifically the fizziness, not just any fuzziness it has,

671
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 4: Like I'll accept it if it comes from a can, right,

672
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 4: if you open a can of soda, and if I'll

673
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 4: accept that, But my favorite fizziness comes from a bottled

674
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 4: sprite specifically, like you open it up and it goes,

675
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 4: there's a little right, and you put it up to

676
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:36,840
Speaker 4: your ear and you just listen to it. I'll also

677
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 4: accept the fizziness from a soda fountain. Yeah, fountain, soda.

678
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:40,759
Speaker 5: My bad.

679
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:49,360
Speaker 1: You put a burrito in a sprite? Yes, what was

680
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 1: in the burrito?

681
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 4: It was a bean and beef burrito from a gas

682
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,359
Speaker 4: station and it's it's called alsops.

683
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:04,479
Speaker 1: Okay, so you put chunks of bean and beef into

684
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:05,360
Speaker 1: the sprite.

685
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 4: And tortilla.

686
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and how does that affect the flavor?

687
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:16,720
Speaker 4: It's like, you know, I was young, so I drank

688
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 4: it and I was like all right, And I remember

689
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 4: thinking that I kind of made a mistake by ruining

690
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:25,319
Speaker 4: the flavor because I remember putting the chunks of the

691
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 4: burrito in, shaking it around and whatever. And then I

692
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 4: remember trying to drink the soda to get the piece

693
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:36,480
Speaker 4: of the burrito out, but every time I like tilted

694
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,760
Speaker 4: it up to take a sip, the piece of burrito

695
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:40,719
Speaker 4: would float back to like the top and I just

696
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 4: couldn't get it and I would have to like chug

697
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:46,560
Speaker 4: to try to get it out. And by the time

698
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Speaker 4: I could get it out, I had already drink all

699
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 4: the soda. So it was just a mushy piece of

700
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Speaker 4: bean burrito.

701
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: And how did the soda taste after being filtered through

702
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 1: the burrito?

703
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 4: You know it didn't. I don't well, this is like

704
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 4: fifteen sixteen years ago. I don't remember it tasting bad.

705
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 4: I just remember it kind of tasting like a soda

706
00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:18,360
Speaker 4: and it had gone flat because you know, I was

707
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 4: a kid, and I just I was shaking it up

708
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 4: and leaving it unattended with the lid off, so it's

709
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:30,800
Speaker 4: kind of teoted like a flat soda, like a flat sprite.

710
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:36,240
Speaker 4: And I mean there was like like crumbs of beans,

711
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:39,359
Speaker 4: and I don't remember it tasting like beans, but I'm

712
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 4: sure it had like a slight tinge of beans.

713
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: Maybe they could make that a flavor bean sprite, you.

714
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 4: Know, I don't know how that would looking back on

715
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 4: it and reflecting as a young adult, I think that

716
00:41:59,280 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 4: was kind of gross.

717
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 5: Me hm.

718
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:07,919
Speaker 1: I thought you said that you have been doing this.

719
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:15,240
Speaker 4: Recently, not with bean burritos. I find that it tastes

720
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 4: better with I don't know, I'm trying to think. Or

721
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 4: usually when they go to the gas station and they

722
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 4: pick up like a sprite, I always get like a

723
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 4: bag of like dill pickle chips, and you know, sometimes

724
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 4: I like to crush those up. I wouldn't do it

725
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 4: again with the bean burrito. I should have been more specific,

726
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:38,879
Speaker 4: But with like dill pickle chips, I think because they're

727
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 4: both kind of sour or even lamon chips, you know

728
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 4: what I'm talking about, the lime flavored Laies chips. That that,

729
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:50,800
Speaker 4: to me, that tastes a little better than the bean burrito.

730
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 4: I couldn't even think about putting the bean burrito back

731
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 4: in there.

732
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:57,319
Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad that you found something that works for you.

733
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 1: Thank you, Adam.

734
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 7: What's up is this?

735
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:06,359
Speaker 10: Gak?

736
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:07,919
Speaker 1: Yes?

737
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 7: This is Adam.

738
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 1: What's going on?

739
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 11: I'm having some classic girl problems?

740
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 1: Oh dear, well, uh, what's going on?

741
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 11: But can you hear that loud ship?

742
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:31,319
Speaker 1: I can hear you chat? Can you hear Adam? He

743
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 1: wants he has girl problems and we need thank you

744
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:36,839
Speaker 1: for the sub k listard, and we need to be able.

745
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:42,720
Speaker 1: We need to hear Adam. Everyone can hear you, Adam,

746
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 1: tell us everything. They are here, all right, that's it.

747
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, we're here to help, but I

748
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 1: can't prom I can only promise that we're here. I

749
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:55,320
Speaker 1: can promise nothing more than just we are here.

750
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:56,919
Speaker 9: So I would see.

751
00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:00,560
Speaker 7: I was listening to your episode on Autif I was

752
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:02,439
Speaker 7: whip it where it was this guy.

753
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:04,879
Speaker 11: Yeah, this girl, he's like she's gone in the off.

754
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 11: She's always like uh, she's telling him like like one

755
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 11: day she's like in love with him and the next

756
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 11: she's like ghosting him. And he doesn't know really whether

757
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 11: he should like give up or not. And so that's

758
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:17,479
Speaker 11: basically what's going on with like me and this girl.

759
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 11: It's like she she's telling me like one day like yeah,

760
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:26,880
Speaker 11: they's like so we dated for like four months around

761
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:30,439
Speaker 11: like and we broke up two months ago, and she's

762
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:34,240
Speaker 11: basically like telling me like, yeah, maybe it might happen,

763
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,959
Speaker 11: Like I'm not over you yet, but like she wants

764
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 11: like a break, but it's like the break's like impossible

765
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 11: for me to do. Like he's trying to like cut

766
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 11: connections because I'm still a senior in high school. So

767
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 11: it's like I can't. I like she's in my school

768
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 11: and I don't know how I would get over her.

769
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:56,439
Speaker 1: You're a senior in high school, you, sir?

770
00:44:57,960 --> 00:44:59,399
Speaker 7: I am. I am a team though.

771
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 1: What is Well, what were you going to do after school?

772
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 7: Like one school I did, I'm actually going to take

773
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 7: a gap year to Europe.

774
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 1: Oh you take a gap year to Europe?

775
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 7: Yeah?

776
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 1: What's she gonna do?

777
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:17,839
Speaker 7: No? No college, no college plans.

778
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 1: Yet, but no, what's what's she gonna do?

779
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 7: What is she going to do? I don't know what

780
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:26,120
Speaker 7: she's gonna do. I think she's she's.

781
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 11: Applied to a bunch of colleges already.

782
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 7: I don't know she's definitely planning on college, though, like.

783
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 1: Look, here's the thing. Is I actually it sounds like dude,

784
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:42,480
Speaker 1: it sounds as though there is a lot of friction here,

785
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 1: both logistical friction and then the other friction of you know,

786
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,439
Speaker 1: she's like, I need some time, I need some time.

787
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 1: This is actually kind of nice that, you know, this

788
00:45:55,320 --> 00:46:00,840
Speaker 1: is happening at a transitionary stage in both of your lives,

789
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: and you both have separate life plans. She's gonna go

790
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 1: off to college and do her thing. You're gonna go

791
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 1: to Europe and do your thing. I think that's fucking awesome.

792
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 9: You know.

793
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:14,879
Speaker 1: I think if I were you, my friend, I mean, look,

794
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 1: you know, stop stalking her Instagram and start stalking the

795
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 1: you know, r slash Europe. Where are the best fucking

796
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 1: cafes in town? How many days should I spend in uh,

797
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 1: in Belgium or whatever? You know, That's what I would do.

798
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 1: You know, you're going to Europe, You're taking a gap year.

799
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 1: I love that idea. Immerse yourself in the world of travel.

800
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 1: You're gonna you're gonna go off to Europe and you're

801
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:49,359
Speaker 1: gonna find that there are thousands and thousands and thousands

802
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 1: and thousands of people in the world that are not

803
00:46:52,880 --> 00:47:00,880
Speaker 1: her that you would have very enjoyable interactions with, perhaps romantically,

804
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 1: but you don't. I don't even think about that. Just

805
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:06,359
Speaker 1: go out and uh are you going alone? You're going

806
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 1: alone to Europe?

807
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:08,440
Speaker 4: Uh?

808
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:09,800
Speaker 7: Yeah, I will be alone.

809
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 1: Oh I love that. Now you're killing it. Mannah. I

810
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:15,360
Speaker 1: don't worry about this girl.

811
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 10: Man.

812
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 1: Let her do her thing, give bless her, bless her.

813
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:23,280
Speaker 1: Here's I heard this from Uh, I heard this somewhere

814
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:26,960
Speaker 1: that this is something I've been using a lot. Everyone

815
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 1: feel free to use this is uh. If there's a

816
00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: person who like, uh, you really like, you know, romantically,

817
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:39,279
Speaker 1: or even just I don't know, you think he's cute

818
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,840
Speaker 1: or whatever, and and you know, but you can't, like

819
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:45,080
Speaker 1: you know, continue your relationship with them, or logistically you

820
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:48,400
Speaker 1: can't form whatever it is. Just go ahead, think of

821
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 1: them and go and uh and bless them. You know

822
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:53,759
Speaker 1: what's this girl's name? Give me a fake name, even

823
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 1: if don't want to give me her real name. Isabella.

824
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 1: Think to yourself, you know what, Isabella, bless you. I

825
00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 1: wish you the best, I want, I wish happiness for you. Isabella.

826
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 1: You're gonna go off to You're gonna go live a

827
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:10,839
Speaker 1: great life. I'm so happy for you, Isabella. Bless you,

828
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 1: and then be done and then move on and then

829
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 1: go to Europe and go solo travel at eighteen and

830
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 1: get into Wacky's any adventures. I like that for you.

831
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 11: I guess it's the one thing. Like it's like I

832
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 11: really don't know, like the school you really just started

833
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:30,399
Speaker 11: right there, so like eight months after school, and it's

834
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 11: like it's gonna be hard to be Like she's like

835
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 11: she's friends with like a lot of the people I'm

836
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:38,840
Speaker 11: friends with, and it's like almost impossible for me to

837
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,359
Speaker 11: just get away from her, and I just don't know how.

838
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:45,279
Speaker 11: It's like we wanted distance so bad from each other

839
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,440
Speaker 11: to try and figure stuff out, like right now, but

840
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:52,239
Speaker 11: it's like, no matter what we end up like like

841
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 11: talking again or something, it's like it's hard to get

842
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 11: away from someone who's always there.

843
00:48:57,760 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 5: You know.

844
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 1: Well, good news, Uh, there's a time expiration date to

845
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 1: this anyway, so you know, no matter no matter what,

846
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:11,839
Speaker 1: what what what what is it? It's October. You got

847
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:16,399
Speaker 1: until the end of the school years in fucking May, right, Yeah,

848
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 1: May is gonna come before you even know it. And

849
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 1: you're gonna be in Europe and you're gonna be, uh,

850
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 1: you know, doing Stacy in Amsterdam with two people that

851
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:30,479
Speaker 1: you met on a park bench, and you're not gonna

852
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 1: be thinking about her. You're gonna be thinking about all

853
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 1: the wonders of life that await you as you uh

854
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:39,640
Speaker 1: you know venture. So hold out until then? Can you

855
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:45,080
Speaker 1: do that? Hold out until then? Yep, my best, beautiful,

856
00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:46,160
Speaker 1: thank you for calling?

857
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:48,320
Speaker 10: Hit me?

858
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 1: What's the thing thing?

859
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 7: Ma you?

860
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:56,400
Speaker 11: You obviously have this whole thing with like podcasts and

861
00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 11: like people calling and stuff.

862
00:49:57,640 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 7: How did it all start?

863
00:49:59,000 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 10: Like?

864
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 11: How did you get these people to call him? And like,

865
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:04,800
Speaker 11: because this has been going on for like two years?

866
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:08,240
Speaker 1: Right, I saw a burning bush outside of my house

867
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:11,399
Speaker 1: and I went and I went over to it, and uh,

868
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 1: and God appeared as an operation. Uh. He looked a

869
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:20,240
Speaker 1: lot like Adobe from from Harry Potter, very weak and small.

870
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:22,759
Speaker 1: And he said to me, I need you to dress

871
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:24,360
Speaker 1: up as a get go on Reddit and talk to

872
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:27,120
Speaker 1: people on the phone. And that's how it all started.

873
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:30,840
Speaker 7: But like, how did you how did you get people

874
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 7: to actually call you? Did it all start on?

875
00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:39,280
Speaker 9: Like, well, you called, that's true, but that's because.

876
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 11: I found you on like, I guess on Spotify, and

877
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 11: I like, I wanted.

878
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:43,719
Speaker 9: To be part of it.

879
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:46,399
Speaker 11: But how did like, did you start off doing something

880
00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:47,880
Speaker 11: other than he's like calls.

881
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 1: And stuff or No, I just got very very very

882
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 1: very lucky, uh on our PAN, the right of public

883
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:56,560
Speaker 1: access network. Shout out to the red of Public Access

884
00:50:56,600 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 1: to No, it's got very lucky on our PAN. If

885
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,240
Speaker 1: you ever want to be a streamer or do anything

886
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:07,959
Speaker 1: involving streaming, or do it on our PAN first before

887
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 1: you do it on Twitch, because our PAN already has

888
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:13,320
Speaker 1: people watching it, and and people don't watch twitch. Twitch

889
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:17,960
Speaker 1: is very poor discoverability. But you don't need to worry

890
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 1: about that because you're not gonna be streaming. You're gonna

891
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:22,640
Speaker 1: be speaking French. Here's you know, here's my final piece.

892
00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:24,279
Speaker 1: Here's my final piece of advice for you. And then

893
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:28,399
Speaker 1: I'm and then I'm going and then I'm picking you up. Adam, Hi,

894
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 1: hie one minute, yeah, Adam, here's my final piece of

895
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,600
Speaker 1: advice to you. I'm actually serious about this. Where where

896
00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:37,439
Speaker 1: in Europe are you going?

897
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 7: Most likely France.

898
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 1: Learn a little bit of French. It's gonna make your

899
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:47,319
Speaker 1: experience a thousand times better. Go to fucking duelingo. That's

900
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 1: what that's what you do. Fucking what's your fucking name, Adam.

901
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:52,560
Speaker 1: I'm telling you this right now. If you listen to me,

902
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:54,920
Speaker 1: you will have a great time in France instead of

903
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:59,720
Speaker 1: fucking around on Snapchat, text him whatever. Learn fucking French.

904
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 1: It's gonna make your life. You're gonna have way more

905
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 1: fun if you learn a little bit of French. All right,

906
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 1: I'm kicking you off. Go learn French. Have a good time.

907
00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 1: I'll talk to you soon. Hey, Jordan's.

908
00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 10: Yeah, what's up?

909
00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 1: Geckoh? What's up?

910
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:18,279
Speaker 10: Man?

911
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:24,920
Speaker 1: Have you ever gotten you in a no like wrecked?

912
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:27,359
Speaker 1: Like you know, like in Fortnite when they're when kids

913
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 1: are like get wrecked.

914
00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 12: Oh okay, okay, So I see what you're saying, but

915
00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:35,320
Speaker 12: unfortunately I did not play Fortnite. My friend does, though

916
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 12: I see him. I'm a I'm an old school m

917
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 12: W two player.

918
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 1: I never mind. It's just kind of a stupid topic anyway.

919
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:44,879
Speaker 1: What what are you? What are you up to right now? Jordan?

920
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 1: You sound like you're outside.

921
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:51,799
Speaker 12: I am, I am, I'm not even exaggerating. I've been

922
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 12: stuck in the middle of the desert at a gas

923
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 12: station of flag five five hours.

924
00:52:57,440 --> 00:52:59,800
Speaker 1: You've been stuck in a gas station in the middle

925
00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 1: of the desert for five hours?

926
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 12: Yeah, all right, let me give you a backstory on that.

927
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 12: So I worked for a moving company and I I'm

928
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 12: driving a U haul moving someone from Kentucky to California.

929
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 12: And I made it all the way to Arizona and I.

930
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:20,239
Speaker 10: Blew out a tire.

931
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 1: Okay, you blew out a tire and then what are

932
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 1: you just waiting for trickle a to come?

933
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:35,920
Speaker 12: Yeah, so you gotta like contact U haul and uh.

934
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:37,560
Speaker 12: I contacted them and.

935
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 1: They said, if you contacted them before you called me.

936
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 12: Oh yeah, yeah, definitely, I've been it's been too long now,

937
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:51,080
Speaker 12: but yeah. They gave me an ETA of like three hours,

938
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:53,279
Speaker 12: and it's been an hour and a half half that

939
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 12: and it's starting to get It is dark out here,

940
00:53:57,719 --> 00:53:59,480
Speaker 12: like the sun stew up a little bit on the

941
00:53:59,520 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 12: west side.

942
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:02,399
Speaker 10: When I drove through the desert.

943
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,560
Speaker 12: Last night for the first time and it got.

944
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:05,839
Speaker 10: Really dark out here.

945
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 1: What time is it where you are?

946
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:14,279
Speaker 12: Six twenty.

947
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:20,839
Speaker 1: Twenty six? Oh, I thought you were using like army time.

948
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 10: Oh no, I do not do that.

949
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:25,840
Speaker 12: I'm not smart enough for that.

950
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:28,319
Speaker 10: To be honest with you, I mind my head.

951
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm glad we're on the same page.

952
00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:31,400
Speaker 4: It is.

953
00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:32,399
Speaker 1: It's a ton of work to.

954
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 10: Subtracts easier to you know, it makes more sense in

955
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 10: my mind.

956
00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 12: Just stick with that.

957
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 1: What have you been doing for the past five hours

958
00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: to tie to your to pass the time?

959
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 10: So I got very lucky.

960
00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:54,080
Speaker 12: I was supposed to do this trip by myself, which

961
00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:58,560
Speaker 12: was like a thirty two hour drive that's been a

962
00:54:58,600 --> 00:55:01,280
Speaker 12: long time by myself, and I convinced to my company

963
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 12: to let me bring my friend with me to help me.

964
00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:06,920
Speaker 12: And I got very lucky on that end. But now

965
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:09,440
Speaker 12: we're kind of both just sitting here for.

966
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:15,320
Speaker 1: Okay, do you feel like, after after how long how

967
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:17,680
Speaker 1: where you're in Arizona, because you've been driving for do

968
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 1: you feel like you've ran out of things to talk

969
00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 1: with your friend about?

970
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:28,000
Speaker 12: Not necessarily, So we got lucky. We have a gracious

971
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:31,719
Speaker 12: view of some desert in front of us, so we

972
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 12: kind of just been like, not really zone now, but

973
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:38,279
Speaker 12: staring at that. I've been doing some people watching. It's

974
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:43,319
Speaker 12: a pretty big truck stop we seen, I mean seeing

975
00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:44,760
Speaker 12: there's a lot of people that they coming.

976
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:44,960
Speaker 10: In and out.

977
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:49,839
Speaker 1: Anyone particularly interesting that you've watched.

978
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 12: Not watched, but I don't know.

979
00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 7: Or not.

980
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 12: But when I was in the bathroom utilizing the facilities,

981
00:55:59,640 --> 00:56:04,680
Speaker 12: man extity utilizing facilities was moaning an awfully amount, like

982
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:09,320
Speaker 12: too much, in my opinion, I kind of got concerned

983
00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:10,280
Speaker 12: for his health for a minute.

984
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:12,320
Speaker 10: I hope he goes to a doctor.

985
00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:16,400
Speaker 1: Hmm. What's an appropriate amount of noise to make? Do

986
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:19,160
Speaker 1: you feel when you are on the toilet?

987
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 12: Well, he was just urinating. If it makes a difference

988
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 12: or not, so, I'm sure it doesn't make a difference

989
00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:30,800
Speaker 12: to some people. But I'd say if you were drinking,

990
00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:35,440
Speaker 12: I think it would be more understandable. But for road trips,

991
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 12: if he isn't over the road truckor I feel like

992
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:39,160
Speaker 12: that is very unhealthy.

993
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,239
Speaker 1: No, I'm kind of with you with the pee thing,

994
00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:44,759
Speaker 1: because I feel like, if you're taking a dump, it

995
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:48,040
Speaker 1: makes more sense that you would, like, you know, give

996
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 1: out a moment event.

997
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:52,000
Speaker 12: You guys, you deserve the moment to yourself on that.

998
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:55,320
Speaker 1: Right, Well, okay, but how do you know he wasn't

999
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:56,799
Speaker 1: Do you know he wasn't pooping and peing at the

1000
00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 1: same Maybe that's what he was doing, is he was

1001
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:01,239
Speaker 1: pooping and ping at the same time, and that's why

1002
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:01,839
Speaker 1: he gave off.

1003
00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:07,040
Speaker 12: Well, so it was that a urinal, but that doesn't still,

1004
00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:10,360
Speaker 12: that doesn't exclude, that doesn't exclude that he wasn't hooping.

1005
00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:11,120
Speaker 12: I don't know that.

1006
00:57:12,719 --> 00:57:14,400
Speaker 1: See there we got how much how much time have

1007
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 1: we already killed talking about this? You're gonna be fine.

1008
00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 1: You're gonna be fine if.

1009
00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:22,439
Speaker 12: I will share one cool story. This helped me pass

1010
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:25,160
Speaker 12: a good thirty minutes. So there's the Arby's at this

1011
00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:29,520
Speaker 12: truck stop right uh, and there's these ravens flying around

1012
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:30,960
Speaker 12: the park and they.

1013
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 10: Are majestically soreing.

1014
00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 12: These are big ravens and they're just floating in the sky.

1015
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:37,440
Speaker 12: So that that did take up some of my time too.

1016
00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:40,800
Speaker 12: I was we were watching the birds, but we figured,

1017
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 12: you know, like the ravens are trying to get food.

1018
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 12: So I threw all my curly fries out to him.

1019
00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:51,680
Speaker 12: And this raven's just been picking up early. See how

1020
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 12: big they are.

1021
00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 1: Man, I respect this guy. This man, what's your name again?

1022
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:01,400
Speaker 1: Jordan's Jordan doesn't have a fucking games on his phone.

1023
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 1: You know, when Jordan needs to pass the time. I

1024
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:06,640
Speaker 1: fuck with this, by the way, I fuck with this

1025
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 1: you stare at sunsets, you feed ravens, you listen to

1026
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:14,360
Speaker 1: people poop you. You find you don't need crash cart

1027
00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 1: on your phone to pass the time. You've You've taken

1028
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 1: what's around you. You've lived in the moment of these

1029
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 1: five hours you've been spending at the gas station. I

1030
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:25,640
Speaker 1: respect that intensely.

1031
00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 10: Definitely, I appreciate that.

1032
00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 1: Of course, I.

1033
00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 10: Uh, the tire guy did pull up.

1034
00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 12: And my friend got him started on changing the tire,

1035
00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:38,400
Speaker 12: So that is super super big.

1036
00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:42,760
Speaker 1: Damn I am. I am honored to be present at

1037
00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:46,919
Speaker 1: the conclusion of this story, as as we all are

1038
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:50,080
Speaker 1: in the stream, not only my whole life in making,

1039
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:53,560
Speaker 1: but this is like five hours today gone but not gone.

1040
00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:54,800
Speaker 12: You know, we made the list.

1041
00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 7: Out of it.

1042
00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 1: You're an inspiration.

1043
00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:00,760
Speaker 12: Only downside, the only downside that we were about to

1044
00:59:00,840 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 12: hit dispensary.

1045
00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:03,200
Speaker 2: We had to put that a whole.

1046
00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:09,240
Speaker 12: But the sunset at least for today, you know, we

1047
00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 12: got tomorrow to still drive see some desert. Make up

1048
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 12: for it.

1049
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 1: Say I travel to Jordan, thank you for calling.

1050
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:21,760
Speaker 12: Thank you have a great light.

1051
00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:31,880
Speaker 1: Jordan honestly an inspiration. Jordan, honestly an inspiration. What did

1052
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:35,120
Speaker 1: Jordan was stuck out the fucking I was on an

1053
00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:43,080
Speaker 1: airplane for like five hours playing Super Mario Run like

1054
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:48,240
Speaker 1: an idiot. I could have sat in my seat trying

1055
00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:51,920
Speaker 1: to figure out how planes work for an hour, could

1056
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:54,480
Speaker 1: have stared at the guy next to me doing a

1057
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:58,080
Speaker 1: Sudoku puzzle. I don't know, I could just he seems

1058
00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:01,280
Speaker 1: like he knows how to how to? Uh, I believe

1059
01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:05,000
Speaker 1: in the moments. I mean, those were five exciting hours.

1060
01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:09,120
Speaker 1: So much happened to him because he went in search

1061
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:14,080
Speaker 1: of the adventure that was available to him. What he

1062
01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 1: had was enough rem Hello, what's up?

1063
01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:25,880
Speaker 13: You know?

1064
01:00:26,480 --> 01:00:30,480
Speaker 4: Uh, it's a good night. I'm good, I'm doing well.

1065
01:00:31,680 --> 01:00:33,520
Speaker 1: What what what tell me? Tell me? Tell me more

1066
01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:37,040
Speaker 1: about that run? Tell me tell me what makes the

1067
01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 1: night so good?

1068
01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:47,440
Speaker 4: You know, I just cleaned my kitchen, so that's that's great,

1069
01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:53,520
Speaker 4: and uh, you know, I think that's made the day productive.

1070
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 1: What tell me about the state of your kitchen before

1071
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:58,320
Speaker 1: you cleaned it? What kind of messes were around? Where

1072
01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:01,480
Speaker 1: there's spills, where there's stains, where there bowls where their cups?

1073
01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:04,360
Speaker 1: Was there shattered glass upon the floor?

1074
01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:10,479
Speaker 4: Sure, well, this is this is kind of not something

1075
01:01:10,480 --> 01:01:14,439
Speaker 4: I would admit, admit to like friends. But I had

1076
01:01:14,600 --> 01:01:17,000
Speaker 4: my boyfriend over a few days ago, well not a

1077
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:20,280
Speaker 4: few days ago, like yesterday, and I had dirty dishes everywhere,

1078
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:22,640
Speaker 4: and I put the dirty dishes in a closet so

1079
01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:25,960
Speaker 4: he wouldn't see them, and so I just said them

1080
01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 4: just now.

1081
01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 1: Mhm. Is that something that you have ever done before?

1082
01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 7: Uh?

1083
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:38,560
Speaker 4: Yes, I have done that one a the third time.

1084
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:40,440
Speaker 1: Uh oh tell me.

1085
01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:49,640
Speaker 9: At the time, I I.

1086
01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:51,440
Speaker 4: Think I just was. I had a lot to do

1087
01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:55,800
Speaker 4: that day. I just finished mid terms, so I you know,

1088
01:01:55,880 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 4: I've been busy, but you know, I'm not too ashamed

1089
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:07,520
Speaker 4: about it. Honestly. It just was one of those days.

1090
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:13,160
Speaker 4: But sometimes you can only address problems not in a

1091
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:13,919
Speaker 4: final matter.

1092
01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 1: You know, you get to it eventually, out of sight,

1093
01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:19,800
Speaker 1: out of mind.

1094
01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:26,360
Speaker 4: Well uh not out of mind. Actually was giving me

1095
01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:28,960
Speaker 4: a lot of anxiety having dirty dishes in a closet.

1096
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 1: Oh does it give you more anxiety to have dirty

1097
01:02:32,560 --> 01:02:34,480
Speaker 1: dishes in a closet or to have dirty dishes in

1098
01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:34,840
Speaker 1: the sink?

1099
01:02:37,600 --> 01:02:39,600
Speaker 4: It depends on the dishes. If I have a lot

1100
01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:42,640
Speaker 4: of dishes, then it's definite. You know what. I'm just

1101
01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:47,720
Speaker 4: now realizing I've every time I go over to his place,

1102
01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:50,840
Speaker 4: there are a lot of dishes in the sink, so

1103
01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 4: I probably don't need to I probably don't need to

1104
01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 4: be hiding them in the closets.

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01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:00,479
Speaker 1: I don't think do either.

1106
01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:07,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean yeah, I guess maybe it's more of

1107
01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:10,520
Speaker 4: like a like. I don't really compare myself to him.

1108
01:03:11,680 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 4: I think it's more of like a self.

1109
01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 13: Like.

1110
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:18,919
Speaker 4: I hold myself to a high standard, not really high

1111
01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:23,919
Speaker 4: enough to do dishes, you know, after I finished using them,

1112
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:26,440
Speaker 4: but high enough where I don't want dirty dishes to

1113
01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:26,840
Speaker 4: be seen.

1114
01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:32,800
Speaker 1: Do you wish he would he would do? Do you

1115
01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:35,000
Speaker 1: wish he would put his dirty dishes in the closet

1116
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:35,240
Speaker 1: for you?

1117
01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:39,880
Speaker 4: There's a lot of them. And also he has a

1118
01:03:39,960 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 4: roommate whereas I do not, so I feel like he

1119
01:03:43,040 --> 01:03:45,600
Speaker 4: could just say those dishes are his roommates.

1120
01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:49,960
Speaker 1: You know, why are you ashamed of having dirty dishes

1121
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 1: being seen?

1122
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:58,000
Speaker 4: I think I would want him. I would prefer him

1123
01:03:58,040 --> 01:04:01,000
Speaker 4: to think of me as a cleanly person as opposed

1124
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:05,320
Speaker 4: to a not organized or disorderly person.

1125
01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:09,840
Speaker 1: You know why.

1126
01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:13,840
Speaker 4: I think it's this is like a newer relationship. We've

1127
01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:16,400
Speaker 4: been together for like a month and a half, so

1128
01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:21,800
Speaker 4: I want to, like, you know, put my best foot forward.

1129
01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 1: H You know, I feel like, you know, I understand

1130
01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:35,920
Speaker 1: the desire to put that best foot forward. But I mean, look,

1131
01:04:35,960 --> 01:04:40,800
Speaker 1: if the truth is that you're a little messy and

1132
01:04:40,840 --> 01:04:44,640
Speaker 1: you don't clean the dishes up, you know, right when

1133
01:04:44,680 --> 01:04:48,960
Speaker 1: they're dirty, there is nothing wrong with that. But it's

1134
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:51,960
Speaker 1: it's just the truth, you know, And I feel like

1135
01:04:52,600 --> 01:04:58,960
Speaker 1: you're better off showing the truth and you are trying

1136
01:04:58,960 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 1: to cover it up. Unless if for whatever reason, this

1137
01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:09,480
Speaker 1: person inspires you to be different in some way that

1138
01:05:09,520 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 1: you find to be positive. What were you gonna say?

1139
01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:18,760
Speaker 4: I think, well, I agree, like I wouldn't like if

1140
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:20,800
Speaker 4: you asked me if there's dishes in my closet, I

1141
01:05:20,800 --> 01:05:25,760
Speaker 4: don't think I would lie, But I I don't like.

1142
01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:29,240
Speaker 4: It's the same reason I wouldn't like share all my

1143
01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 4: childhood trauma.

1144
01:05:32,440 --> 01:05:33,919
Speaker 5: Immediately, you know what I mean.

1145
01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:37,880
Speaker 4: It's like like, once I'm comfortable with you, I'm gonna

1146
01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:40,800
Speaker 4: you know, I'll like, I'll let you see my dirty

1147
01:05:40,840 --> 01:05:43,720
Speaker 4: dishes figuratively and literally.

1148
01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:53,160
Speaker 1: M How does someone get your trust to see the

1149
01:05:53,160 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 1: dirty dishes that you have in your closet.

1150
01:05:57,280 --> 01:05:57,920
Speaker 8: Figuratively?

1151
01:05:58,160 --> 01:06:00,440
Speaker 4: Oh well, I guess that's kind of know, you know,

1152
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 4: I yeah, Okay, I like to know about them. I

1153
01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 4: like to h.

1154
01:06:08,440 --> 01:06:08,920
Speaker 3: I like to.

1155
01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:12,120
Speaker 7: Have that.

1156
01:06:12,560 --> 01:06:16,320
Speaker 4: I like to know more about them.

1157
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:18,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, And are you.

1158
01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:20,080
Speaker 4: Want to know that they're not going to like.

1159
01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:22,200
Speaker 1: I'll continue.

1160
01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:26,000
Speaker 4: I just want to know that they're not going to

1161
01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:29,600
Speaker 4: like scoot off if they see dirty dishes. You know,

1162
01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:33,600
Speaker 4: they're not going to think, oh gosh, shouldn't be around

1163
01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:37,520
Speaker 4: her before they actually even you know, know, if they

1164
01:06:37,640 --> 01:06:39,000
Speaker 4: like my personality or not.

1165
01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:44,440
Speaker 1: You know, And what do you think of your boyfriend

1166
01:06:44,480 --> 01:06:45,720
Speaker 1: when you see his dirty dishes?

1167
01:06:49,240 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 4: I really I haven't thought about it that much. But again,

1168
01:06:53,160 --> 01:06:57,800
Speaker 4: he has the roommate. I feel like, you know, it's

1169
01:06:57,920 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 4: it's less revealing if but has dirty dishes and they

1170
01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:07,760
Speaker 4: live with somebody else versus me living by myself and

1171
01:07:07,840 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 4: having dirty dishes.

1172
01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:12,160
Speaker 1: Forgive me if I asked you this already, because my

1173
01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:16,000
Speaker 1: brain doesn't work all the time. But what do you

1174
01:07:16,000 --> 01:07:18,280
Speaker 1: think your boyfriend would think if he saw your dirty dishes?

1175
01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:23,360
Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know if you ask that already.

1176
01:07:23,480 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 4: My brain is anyway.

1177
01:07:25,200 --> 01:07:26,080
Speaker 7: I don't think.

1178
01:07:28,280 --> 01:07:33,320
Speaker 4: I think he appreciates cleanliness. That's I think. That's why, Like,

1179
01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:37,160
Speaker 4: like if it were my ex and I like had dishes.

1180
01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:41,040
Speaker 4: That's gonna sound bad. I just mean I have less

1181
01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:44,040
Speaker 4: respect for my ex than I do for my current boyfriends.

1182
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:49,040
Speaker 4: I have respect, So I would like to appear like

1183
01:07:49,080 --> 01:07:50,280
Speaker 4: I keep my space clean.

1184
01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:52,920
Speaker 7: You know what I mean?

1185
01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:53,800
Speaker 4: Does that make sense?

1186
01:07:54,800 --> 01:07:59,120
Speaker 1: Do you beneath wanting to appear as though you keep

1187
01:07:59,160 --> 01:08:02,000
Speaker 1: your space clean, have a genuine desire to keep your

1188
01:08:02,000 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 1: space clean?

1189
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:10,320
Speaker 4: I absolutely do. I'm just I'm like a busy person. Yeah, I.

1190
01:08:12,240 --> 01:08:18,880
Speaker 1: Think in that sense. I think in that sense. You know,

1191
01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:22,120
Speaker 1: having someone over is a good excuse to clean up

1192
01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:26,320
Speaker 1: the house as some sort of you know, all tasks

1193
01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:32,200
Speaker 1: requires some amounts of time pressure to actually get done. Yeah.

1194
01:08:32,680 --> 01:08:35,800
Speaker 4: I usually, I usually am like a clean person. It's

1195
01:08:35,920 --> 01:08:39,120
Speaker 4: just been a like busy as school and like hanging

1196
01:08:39,120 --> 01:08:41,400
Speaker 4: out with friends and stuff, So I haven't you know,

1197
01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:48,479
Speaker 4: it has been a you know, effective use of my

1198
01:08:48,600 --> 01:08:50,439
Speaker 4: time to make sure the dishes are clean.

1199
01:08:53,320 --> 01:08:56,200
Speaker 1: Would you say your nameless Yeah?

1200
01:08:56,960 --> 01:08:58,680
Speaker 7: M M.

1201
01:08:59,160 --> 01:09:00,679
Speaker 1: Remember there anything else to talk about?

1202
01:09:04,320 --> 01:09:04,679
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1203
01:09:04,880 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 4: I I uh, okay. So I just started my sophomore

1204
01:09:09,280 --> 01:09:11,600
Speaker 4: year of college. But because of COVID last year, I

1205
01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:15,240
Speaker 4: didn't make any friends. So I have new friends this year,

1206
01:09:15,920 --> 01:09:17,920
Speaker 4: and I just met them like I met one of

1207
01:09:17,960 --> 01:09:20,280
Speaker 4: them a couple of weeks ago from the other one

1208
01:09:20,320 --> 01:09:23,160
Speaker 4: I met a month ago, and I thought they would

1209
01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:26,240
Speaker 4: be good together, so I set them up on a

1210
01:09:26,320 --> 01:09:29,000
Speaker 4: date and they had their date just happened tonight and

1211
01:09:29,000 --> 01:09:32,280
Speaker 4: it went well. And that made me feel good for

1212
01:09:32,320 --> 01:09:33,559
Speaker 4: them and for myself.

1213
01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:36,920
Speaker 1: Why did I make you feel good?

1214
01:09:40,240 --> 01:09:46,519
Speaker 4: I think, Well, except for the guy that I'm currently dating,

1215
01:09:46,800 --> 01:09:53,080
Speaker 4: I have not found myself dating like great people. So

1216
01:09:54,400 --> 01:10:00,640
Speaker 4: I am very excited to have like that people up

1217
01:10:00,680 --> 01:10:02,439
Speaker 4: that seem good for each other and they seem happy,

1218
01:10:02,520 --> 01:10:04,799
Speaker 4: like I feel like that seems like sort of redemption.

1219
01:10:07,520 --> 01:10:10,120
Speaker 1: Oh in some ways, though, you know, if you can't

1220
01:10:10,120 --> 01:10:12,240
Speaker 1: make it happen for yourself, you can make it happen

1221
01:10:12,240 --> 01:10:12,799
Speaker 1: for other people.

1222
01:10:14,640 --> 01:10:15,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, in a sense.

1223
01:10:16,720 --> 01:10:18,920
Speaker 1: But it sounds like you are dating someone right now

1224
01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:22,439
Speaker 1: that you like. You're dating someone right now, rem that

1225
01:10:22,520 --> 01:10:28,720
Speaker 1: you like and respect enough that when they come over

1226
01:10:29,680 --> 01:10:36,800
Speaker 1: you put your dishes in the closet. Yeah, that's pretty good, But.

1227
01:10:38,320 --> 01:10:40,880
Speaker 4: I think so I'm excited about that.

1228
01:10:42,120 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 1: Well, thank you very much for showing rem. I hope

1229
01:10:44,080 --> 01:10:46,200
Speaker 1: you have a go rest of the night. Hello.

1230
01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:50,599
Speaker 2: Hello, is this a gag?

1231
01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:52,160
Speaker 1: This is a gag? What's up? Man?

1232
01:10:54,560 --> 01:10:55,040
Speaker 9: What's up?

1233
01:10:55,080 --> 01:10:55,760
Speaker 10: Man?

1234
01:10:55,520 --> 01:10:57,439
Speaker 7: I actually think I'd make it through, but fuck it.

1235
01:10:57,520 --> 01:10:59,080
Speaker 1: Here we are, well, here we are.

1236
01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:04,120
Speaker 7: Yeah. Yeah, man, I want to tell you about like

1237
01:11:04,720 --> 01:11:09,080
Speaker 7: my fifty year old lover in Jamaica. Man, yeah, I'm

1238
01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:12,040
Speaker 7: kind of like, I gotta say the backstory. I gotta

1239
01:11:12,040 --> 01:11:14,160
Speaker 7: take the backstory before I tell you the problem. Tourist.

1240
01:11:14,479 --> 01:11:18,080
Speaker 1: Okay, you have a fifty year old lover in Jamaica.

1241
01:11:19,520 --> 01:11:20,559
Speaker 10: Yeah, this is correct.

1242
01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:21,360
Speaker 1: How old are you?

1243
01:11:23,760 --> 01:11:24,960
Speaker 10: Uh, twenty?

1244
01:11:25,479 --> 01:11:27,559
Speaker 7: It's just like, you know, it's a big age gap,

1245
01:11:27,640 --> 01:11:29,479
Speaker 7: but you know, love is love.

1246
01:11:30,280 --> 01:11:32,759
Speaker 1: All right, you have a secret lover in Jamaica.

1247
01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:33,200
Speaker 13: Why right?

1248
01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:34,679
Speaker 1: How did you meet this person?

1249
01:11:36,320 --> 01:11:36,640
Speaker 2: All right?

1250
01:11:36,680 --> 01:11:40,160
Speaker 7: So basically, somehow she got a hold of my number, right,

1251
01:11:40,680 --> 01:11:43,840
Speaker 7: and she sends me a voice message saying she saw

1252
01:11:43,840 --> 01:11:46,040
Speaker 7: on me on her phone and my things looks familiar

1253
01:11:46,280 --> 01:11:49,160
Speaker 7: and like when was the last time I went to Jamaica?

1254
01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:53,400
Speaker 7: Because she's like she messaged me or whatever, and you know,

1255
01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:55,280
Speaker 7: I'm telling her like, yeah, I remember you from that

1256
01:11:55,320 --> 01:11:58,080
Speaker 7: one time. Never seen this like woman in my life.

1257
01:11:58,560 --> 01:11:59,880
Speaker 7: But besides the.

1258
01:12:02,320 --> 01:12:04,719
Speaker 1: You, okay, how did she start messaging you again?

1259
01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:08,479
Speaker 7: She found my number in her phone?

1260
01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:13,360
Speaker 1: Somehow she found your number in her phone? Somehow she

1261
01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:17,800
Speaker 1: messages you saying that she remembers you, and then you

1262
01:12:19,320 --> 01:12:21,479
Speaker 1: don't remember her, but you play along as if you do.

1263
01:12:23,479 --> 01:12:25,719
Speaker 7: Yeah, I say, yeah, I remember you from that one time.

1264
01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:28,519
Speaker 7: And this is all through voice messages. You know, we're

1265
01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:30,479
Speaker 7: not texting, so you know, I get to hear what

1266
01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:33,839
Speaker 7: she sounds like. She has, like that thick, beautiful Jamaican accent.

1267
01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:37,200
Speaker 7: I can play. I can play one of the voice

1268
01:12:37,200 --> 01:12:39,559
Speaker 7: messages for you, so you can hear what she sounds like.

1269
01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:40,719
Speaker 7: This is what she sends me to listen.

1270
01:12:41,040 --> 01:12:45,360
Speaker 1: Let's let's just finish the story first, all right.

1271
01:12:48,520 --> 01:12:50,880
Speaker 7: So yeah, I know we're you know, chattering it up,

1272
01:12:51,200 --> 01:12:53,640
Speaker 7: getting to know each other, and eventually we take it

1273
01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:57,080
Speaker 7: to you know, phone calls and she's asking me when

1274
01:12:57,080 --> 01:12:59,479
Speaker 7: am I coming to Jamaica. So I tell her second

1275
01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:01,439
Speaker 7: week of this, I'm there. You know, I want to

1276
01:13:01,439 --> 01:13:03,880
Speaker 7: meet her. This could potentially be the love of my life.

1277
01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:07,320
Speaker 7: You know, I have an open mind, so I'm not limited.

1278
01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:12,120
Speaker 7: And basically, you know, I'm telling her, what do you

1279
01:13:12,120 --> 01:13:13,720
Speaker 7: want me to wear when I go to Jamaica? You know,

1280
01:13:13,760 --> 01:13:16,000
Speaker 7: what's your favorite color? And she's like blue, like she

1281
01:13:16,040 --> 01:13:19,000
Speaker 7: loves blue. So I tell her I'm going to dress up,

1282
01:13:19,040 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 7: you know, blue shoes, blue pants, blue shirt, blue everything.

1283
01:13:22,560 --> 01:13:24,160
Speaker 7: And she goes, no, no, no, no, you have to

1284
01:13:24,200 --> 01:13:26,280
Speaker 7: mix it up. You have to be blue and black,

1285
01:13:26,360 --> 01:13:29,960
Speaker 7: you know, black pants, blue shirt, and you know, you know,

1286
01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:34,559
Speaker 7: we're getting more intimate with her talk, and you know,

1287
01:13:34,640 --> 01:13:38,040
Speaker 7: she's texts me good night with hearts and I'm responding,

1288
01:13:38,760 --> 01:13:40,280
Speaker 7: and you know, the next day, I don't hear from

1289
01:13:40,280 --> 01:13:42,400
Speaker 7: her for a while, so send her voice and I

1290
01:13:42,520 --> 01:13:44,559
Speaker 7: just saying like, hey, I know you're out there doing

1291
01:13:44,600 --> 01:13:49,120
Speaker 7: the dirty wine with some other guy, you know, call me,

1292
01:13:49,240 --> 01:13:52,880
Speaker 7: like what's up? And she she replies like, no, no, no,

1293
01:13:53,040 --> 01:13:55,640
Speaker 7: I'm not out there doing no dirty wine with no

1294
01:13:55,760 --> 01:13:58,519
Speaker 7: other guy. You know, it's just you. And I'm like okay,

1295
01:13:59,320 --> 01:14:02,680
Speaker 7: And you know, I'm trying to get recipes from her

1296
01:14:02,760 --> 01:14:06,320
Speaker 7: now and she's being really hesitant to give me recipes.

1297
01:14:06,400 --> 01:14:09,559
Speaker 7: She wants me to buy her cookbook. So you know,

1298
01:14:09,680 --> 01:14:11,439
Speaker 7: like at this point, I feel like I don't know

1299
01:14:11,439 --> 01:14:14,040
Speaker 7: if I'm in for like some crazy scam or if

1300
01:14:14,040 --> 01:14:15,880
Speaker 7: I'm potentially going to meet the love of my life.

1301
01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:18,320
Speaker 7: But like I don't know where to like take this

1302
01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:20,920
Speaker 7: because I might actually have to go to Jamaica. In

1303
01:14:20,960 --> 01:14:23,320
Speaker 7: December to meet her, because like, what.

1304
01:14:23,280 --> 01:14:27,920
Speaker 1: If this is the one, let's let's hear a voice message.

1305
01:14:30,160 --> 01:14:31,599
Speaker 7: Do you want to hear one of the voice messages?

1306
01:14:31,640 --> 01:14:32,879
Speaker 1: Let one of the voice messages?

1307
01:14:34,520 --> 01:14:37,720
Speaker 7: All right, I got yeah, I will tell you the

1308
01:14:37,760 --> 01:14:39,800
Speaker 7: one of her talking about the dirty wine. That's a

1309
01:14:39,880 --> 01:14:42,799
Speaker 7: it's a good one. Just give me a second.

1310
01:14:46,280 --> 01:14:54,840
Speaker 13: All right here, what you're abage roun? I'm not doing

1311
01:14:54,880 --> 01:14:57,800
Speaker 13: no dirt to wine. I got your actually with me,

1312
01:14:58,600 --> 01:15:02,639
Speaker 13: I'm doing dirty wine. The phone dropping signal. I'm so

1313
01:15:02,680 --> 01:15:05,640
Speaker 13: sorry about that, but give me the time that I

1314
01:15:05,680 --> 01:15:08,479
Speaker 13: can't call her in the morning, it says the phone.

1315
01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:15,400
Speaker 1: Sign one example of hey, dirty wine is sex right

1316
01:15:15,600 --> 01:15:16,320
Speaker 1: with each other.

1317
01:15:18,479 --> 01:15:21,599
Speaker 7: So honestly, when I accused her of doing the dirty wine,

1318
01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:23,519
Speaker 7: I didn't really know what it was, you know, I

1319
01:15:23,640 --> 01:15:25,960
Speaker 7: just heard it like the mostly like thrown around, right,

1320
01:15:26,560 --> 01:15:28,639
Speaker 7: But then I looked it up and it's a very

1321
01:15:28,680 --> 01:15:32,600
Speaker 7: sexual dance that is performed by Jamaicans, Like it's a

1322
01:15:32,600 --> 01:15:38,920
Speaker 7: cultural dance. So I've read, and you know, apparently she

1323
01:15:38,920 --> 01:15:43,120
Speaker 7: took offense in me accusing her of doing that. But okay,

1324
01:15:43,200 --> 01:15:46,280
Speaker 7: yeah she I don't know if she was or wasn't.

1325
01:15:46,320 --> 01:15:49,360
Speaker 7: She wasn't answering my calls and text so I assume

1326
01:15:49,400 --> 01:15:50,920
Speaker 7: she's just out there cheating or something.

1327
01:15:51,000 --> 01:15:54,439
Speaker 1: But okay, So so when you said cheating, I mean

1328
01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:57,160
Speaker 1: you and this uh in this woman? Would you consider

1329
01:15:57,200 --> 01:16:00,760
Speaker 1: yourselves to be in a in an exclusive monoga relationship?

1330
01:16:02,800 --> 01:16:04,760
Speaker 7: Well, I mean the way I've been talking to her,

1331
01:16:04,800 --> 01:16:08,800
Speaker 7: I imply that it's exclusive because you know, I made

1332
01:16:08,800 --> 01:16:10,800
Speaker 7: it clear that I wouldn't be happy with her doing

1333
01:16:10,800 --> 01:16:14,719
Speaker 7: stuff with other people, and she, you know, got defensive

1334
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:18,560
Speaker 7: about it. So maybe she understands also that it's exclusive.

1335
01:16:18,720 --> 01:16:21,720
Speaker 7: So you know, just based on how things have been,

1336
01:16:21,800 --> 01:16:23,080
Speaker 7: I'd say it's exclusive.

1337
01:16:23,560 --> 01:16:25,640
Speaker 1: Okay, have you have you been seeing anyone else? Or

1338
01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:28,120
Speaker 1: is it just just you? And what's what's her name?

1339
01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:30,559
Speaker 10: Opal?

1340
01:16:31,360 --> 01:16:31,719
Speaker 1: Opal?

1341
01:16:31,800 --> 01:16:32,000
Speaker 10: Has it?

1342
01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:33,040
Speaker 1: Has it just been you and Opaul?

1343
01:16:35,080 --> 01:16:37,639
Speaker 7: It's just for me and her? And honestly, I can't

1344
01:16:37,640 --> 01:16:41,880
Speaker 7: stop thinking about her, so like, I think she might

1345
01:16:41,920 --> 01:16:42,360
Speaker 7: be the one.

1346
01:16:42,960 --> 01:16:45,640
Speaker 1: Okay, So are you or do you have plans to do

1347
01:16:45,760 --> 01:16:47,519
Speaker 1: to Jamaica to see her?

1348
01:16:48,800 --> 01:16:51,640
Speaker 7: Yeah? Second week of December and to go, you know,

1349
01:16:51,720 --> 01:16:53,760
Speaker 7: stay by her, have your cooked for me, maybe meet

1350
01:16:53,760 --> 01:16:56,680
Speaker 7: her family, you know, any dogs she might have. I

1351
01:16:56,680 --> 01:16:58,599
Speaker 7: haven't asked her if she has petya, I should.

1352
01:16:58,439 --> 01:17:07,920
Speaker 1: Ask, Oh, you're it's serious about this? Yeah, man, let's

1353
01:17:07,920 --> 01:17:09,680
Speaker 1: hear another I want to hear another message from her.

1354
01:17:09,960 --> 01:17:13,000
Speaker 1: Play me your favorite message. I want to hear another one.

1355
01:17:13,080 --> 01:17:13,760
Speaker 10: I'll play you.

1356
01:17:14,880 --> 01:17:16,720
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'll play you the first message and sent me.

1357
01:17:16,960 --> 01:17:19,840
Speaker 7: It's just like nostalgic because it takes me back to

1358
01:17:19,960 --> 01:17:23,760
Speaker 7: the beginning of it all, you know, and it's like, I.

1359
01:17:24,080 --> 01:17:28,240
Speaker 13: Go, how are you doing? How are you doing that?

1360
01:17:29,439 --> 01:17:32,559
Speaker 13: I'll say this number and I'm checking out you see.

1361
01:17:32,360 --> 01:17:37,200
Speaker 2: If luke funny?

1362
01:17:37,680 --> 01:17:41,599
Speaker 7: Yeah, that was that was the beginning of it all. Yeah,

1363
01:17:42,240 --> 01:17:46,880
Speaker 7: send my face looked funny, So you know, yeah, I

1364
01:17:46,880 --> 01:17:49,439
Speaker 7: remember you from that one time and then the rest

1365
01:17:49,439 --> 01:17:49,920
Speaker 7: of the history.

1366
01:17:50,000 --> 01:17:51,880
Speaker 1: Man, how do you how do you think that she

1367
01:17:51,960 --> 01:17:54,200
Speaker 1: can that she procured your number?

1368
01:17:56,400 --> 01:18:01,040
Speaker 7: So there's there could be like a bunch of reasons

1369
01:18:01,080 --> 01:18:05,200
Speaker 7: for it. The one I'm most convinced I might have

1370
01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:10,679
Speaker 7: been under the influence in Jamaica and just have gotten

1371
01:18:10,680 --> 01:18:14,200
Speaker 7: her number a few years ago and you know, never

1372
01:18:14,200 --> 01:18:16,240
Speaker 7: did anything about it, but maybe you know, she just

1373
01:18:16,280 --> 01:18:17,360
Speaker 7: discovered it again.

1374
01:18:18,200 --> 01:18:21,479
Speaker 1: And wallah have you ever have you so you've been

1375
01:18:21,560 --> 01:18:22,960
Speaker 1: to Jamaica?

1376
01:18:24,200 --> 01:18:25,759
Speaker 7: Yeah, I've been to Jamaica.

1377
01:18:26,680 --> 01:18:28,599
Speaker 1: Okay, how many years ago were you in Jamaica?

1378
01:18:28,680 --> 01:18:31,400
Speaker 7: But I haven't been. I haven't been specifically for her,

1379
01:18:31,560 --> 01:18:32,320
Speaker 7: That's what I'm saying.

1380
01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:35,559
Speaker 1: Okay, So okay, you left this party, so you went

1381
01:18:35,640 --> 01:18:40,439
Speaker 1: to Jamaica. When did you go to Jamaica two years ago?

1382
01:18:40,439 --> 01:18:41,160
Speaker 7: When I was eighteen?

1383
01:18:42,240 --> 01:18:45,240
Speaker 1: Okay, so you went to Jamaica and you believe that

1384
01:18:46,200 --> 01:18:48,280
Speaker 1: you might have actually met this woman before.

1385
01:18:50,800 --> 01:18:53,280
Speaker 7: I mean, like, I can't imagine any other way she

1386
01:18:53,360 --> 01:18:56,040
Speaker 7: would have gotten my younger. I don't remember her at all,

1387
01:18:56,120 --> 01:18:57,479
Speaker 7: but you know it could have been just like one

1388
01:18:57,520 --> 01:18:58,520
Speaker 7: of those nights.

1389
01:18:58,800 --> 01:19:02,680
Speaker 1: Okay, m hmm. What do you What do you like

1390
01:19:02,680 --> 01:19:05,200
Speaker 1: about OPAULM? What do you What do you see in her?

1391
01:19:05,200 --> 01:19:07,200
Speaker 1: How do you your future will play will play out?

1392
01:19:08,560 --> 01:19:10,600
Speaker 7: First of all, I wish, I wish I wouldn't be

1393
01:19:10,600 --> 01:19:13,439
Speaker 7: able to show you the picture of her, But let

1394
01:19:13,520 --> 01:19:19,200
Speaker 7: me tell you ten out of ten, like she's beautiful man. Second,

1395
01:19:19,880 --> 01:19:22,120
Speaker 7: you know, I like the way she talks. She's very smooth.

1396
01:19:22,520 --> 01:19:25,800
Speaker 7: You know, she's very charismatic. She like like I can

1397
01:19:25,840 --> 01:19:30,080
Speaker 7: tell like she wouldn't even care about me. And you

1398
01:19:30,120 --> 01:19:33,080
Speaker 7: know she has good morning, good night every night. She

1399
01:19:33,200 --> 01:19:35,320
Speaker 7: does a miss with the heart. You know, it makes

1400
01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:41,479
Speaker 7: me feel one inside. And you know, she asked her

1401
01:19:41,439 --> 01:19:43,360
Speaker 7: to smoke ganja. You know, I can you make that

1402
01:19:43,360 --> 01:19:45,840
Speaker 7: that's what they do and she's like, of course they

1403
01:19:45,880 --> 01:19:53,519
Speaker 7: smoke ganja, So you know that's another plus mm hmm. Yeah, man.

1404
01:19:53,560 --> 01:19:55,840
Speaker 7: And and like every day I'm just learning more and

1405
01:19:55,880 --> 01:19:58,720
Speaker 7: more about her and getting to like him, you know

1406
01:19:58,840 --> 01:19:59,400
Speaker 7: even more.

1407
01:20:02,240 --> 01:20:05,360
Speaker 1: Well, you know, look, what's your name again?

1408
01:20:07,640 --> 01:20:09,400
Speaker 7: Damn me, Sammy?

1409
01:20:10,080 --> 01:20:13,280
Speaker 1: You know, Sammy, A lot of people, when you tell

1410
01:20:13,280 --> 01:20:15,880
Speaker 1: them this, they're probably going to tell you that if

1411
01:20:15,920 --> 01:20:21,480
Speaker 1: you go to Jamaica, you're gonna bet kidnapped and trafficked

1412
01:20:22,960 --> 01:20:26,840
Speaker 1: and possibly have your organs removed and sold on the

1413
01:20:26,840 --> 01:20:30,640
Speaker 1: black market. But let me tell you something, sir. I

1414
01:20:30,720 --> 01:20:36,720
Speaker 1: think those people there's never been in love before, so

1415
01:20:36,960 --> 01:20:39,840
Speaker 1: don't listen to them.

1416
01:20:39,920 --> 01:20:42,719
Speaker 7: Damn man. You know, honestly, I thought you were about

1417
01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:44,720
Speaker 7: to tell me not to go through with it. But

1418
01:20:45,320 --> 01:20:47,160
Speaker 7: it makes me so happy that you're supporting me.

1419
01:20:47,240 --> 01:20:47,439
Speaker 1: Man.

1420
01:20:48,439 --> 01:20:51,000
Speaker 7: Now, like I want to do it even more, man,

1421
01:20:51,160 --> 01:20:54,200
Speaker 7: knowing that I got you, you know, right behind me.

1422
01:20:54,880 --> 01:21:00,479
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. They'll tell you that that there, they're going

1423
01:21:00,560 --> 01:21:03,960
Speaker 1: to tell you that someone will probably cut off one

1424
01:21:03,960 --> 01:21:05,719
Speaker 1: of your thumbs. And mail it back to your parents

1425
01:21:05,720 --> 01:21:10,040
Speaker 1: in exchange your ransom money. But they don't get it.

1426
01:21:10,800 --> 01:21:12,880
Speaker 7: So they don't get it.

1427
01:21:12,920 --> 01:21:13,120
Speaker 10: Man.

1428
01:21:13,439 --> 01:21:17,120
Speaker 7: Love is love, man, and sometimes you got to sacrifice things.

1429
01:21:17,120 --> 01:21:23,519
Speaker 7: I love you know totally. What's the man? Eternal happiness?

1430
01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:28,800
Speaker 1: Sammy? You know you can let us know how it goes.

1431
01:21:29,240 --> 01:21:29,760
Speaker 1: Go luck to you.

1432
01:21:31,280 --> 01:21:33,720
Speaker 7: I will thank you, man, thank you for the for

1433
01:21:33,800 --> 01:21:34,240
Speaker 7: the advice.

1434
01:21:34,280 --> 01:21:37,439
Speaker 1: Brose love you take you play us one more message

1435
01:21:37,479 --> 01:21:39,120
Speaker 1: from hopel.

1436
01:21:41,360 --> 01:21:42,639
Speaker 7: You want to play one? When we play?

1437
01:21:42,680 --> 01:21:46,960
Speaker 1: One more message from something something nice, some sweet? I'm

1438
01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:47,840
Speaker 1: starting to fall forward to.

1439
01:21:49,840 --> 01:21:51,600
Speaker 7: All right, let me give me a give me a

1440
01:21:51,640 --> 01:21:57,240
Speaker 7: second about life. Well, dude, I'll play you a good

1441
01:21:57,320 --> 01:21:58,320
Speaker 7: night message.

1442
01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:08,600
Speaker 14: Kah in your second like exsive?

1443
01:22:08,800 --> 01:22:09,160
Speaker 10: What time?

1444
01:22:09,200 --> 01:22:10,360
Speaker 7: We kind of call it tomorrow?

1445
01:22:12,640 --> 01:22:19,840
Speaker 1: Beautiful? Can I Sammy? How romantic? I'm getting butterflies just

1446
01:22:19,840 --> 01:22:23,480
Speaker 1: thinking about it. Cynthia? Is that you?

1447
01:22:23,600 --> 01:22:23,760
Speaker 4: Yes?

1448
01:22:25,439 --> 01:22:28,040
Speaker 1: What's up? Cynthia? Oh?

1449
01:22:28,080 --> 01:22:28,680
Speaker 4: Sorry?

1450
01:22:29,040 --> 01:22:35,679
Speaker 14: Oh hi, hey, Hi.

1451
01:22:37,640 --> 01:22:40,920
Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm scared what what the hell? What are you

1452
01:22:40,960 --> 01:22:41,559
Speaker 1: scared of.

1453
01:22:44,080 --> 01:22:44,680
Speaker 4: Myself?

1454
01:22:45,920 --> 01:22:47,280
Speaker 1: You're scared of yourself?

1455
01:22:49,200 --> 01:22:49,879
Speaker 3: Oh talking?

1456
01:22:50,800 --> 01:22:52,000
Speaker 4: I get I don't know.

1457
01:22:53,320 --> 01:22:56,479
Speaker 1: I'm kind of hungry. What's the I need? I knowed?

1458
01:22:56,520 --> 01:22:58,400
Speaker 1: What's that thing? I feel like I've just seen some

1459
01:22:58,400 --> 01:23:00,720
Speaker 1: streamers have that thing where like someone can click a

1460
01:23:00,760 --> 01:23:04,000
Speaker 1: button and it sends to them a taco any one

1461
01:23:04,040 --> 01:23:09,400
Speaker 1: of those? Would you would you eat today? Would you

1462
01:23:09,439 --> 01:23:12,240
Speaker 1: eat for dinner? No, it's a real talk. Well, a

1463
01:23:12,320 --> 01:23:14,519
Speaker 1: taco bell taco is like a real But when you

1464
01:23:14,600 --> 01:23:17,640
Speaker 1: say a real taco, are you asking like an authentic

1465
01:23:17,840 --> 01:23:22,040
Speaker 1: like Mexican taco or are you asking like like like

1466
01:23:22,120 --> 01:23:24,760
Speaker 1: a not like a physical, non digital taco.

1467
01:23:27,520 --> 01:23:28,240
Speaker 6: Authentic?

1468
01:23:30,720 --> 01:23:36,400
Speaker 1: What did you eat for dinner? Kick a fuck? That

1469
01:23:36,479 --> 01:23:39,680
Speaker 1: sounds good? What'd you get.

1470
01:23:41,400 --> 01:23:51,599
Speaker 6: The regular sandwich with with cheese? I guess yes, Sorry, Cynthia.

1471
01:23:51,640 --> 01:23:53,120
Speaker 1: By the time I get off a stroom, it's gonna

1472
01:23:53,120 --> 01:23:55,599
Speaker 1: be past midnight, and then all the stores are gonna

1473
01:23:55,600 --> 01:23:57,160
Speaker 1: be closed. I'm gonna have to go to seven eleven

1474
01:23:57,200 --> 01:23:58,840
Speaker 1: and get their pizza. But it's not even gonna be

1475
01:24:00,040 --> 01:24:02,479
Speaker 1: it's gonna be old pizza. I'm gonna like last time

1476
01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:04,680
Speaker 1: I went to seven Okay, So sometimes I just go

1477
01:24:04,720 --> 01:24:07,240
Speaker 1: to seven eleven after the stream to get food because

1478
01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:10,439
Speaker 1: I'm hungry. And every time I've done it, it's been

1479
01:24:10,439 --> 01:24:12,120
Speaker 1: at one I am. And every time I do it,

1480
01:24:12,479 --> 01:24:14,160
Speaker 1: I ask for pizza. And then when I go to

1481
01:24:14,160 --> 01:24:17,760
Speaker 1: pay them. They're like, you can just take this, and

1482
01:24:17,760 --> 01:24:20,800
Speaker 1: that's never a good sign. When they give you the

1483
01:24:20,840 --> 01:24:24,200
Speaker 1: pizza for free, never a good sign. And what do

1484
01:24:24,240 --> 01:24:25,920
Speaker 1: I do, Cynthia? What do I do? What do you

1485
01:24:25,960 --> 01:24:27,120
Speaker 1: think I do with that pizza? Cinthia?

1486
01:24:29,160 --> 01:24:29,599
Speaker 6: Eat it?

1487
01:24:29,920 --> 01:24:32,160
Speaker 1: I eat it? Cynthia, Cynthia, how can I help you today?

1488
01:24:32,160 --> 01:24:32,720
Speaker 1: What's going on?

1489
01:24:36,200 --> 01:24:37,720
Speaker 4: I guess I'll just pause.

1490
01:24:39,160 --> 01:24:44,800
Speaker 6: A question, well, not a question. I don't know what

1491
01:24:45,000 --> 01:24:45,800
Speaker 6: you will call it.

1492
01:24:46,160 --> 01:24:48,599
Speaker 1: Whatever it is, we don't even have to call it anything.

1493
01:24:48,680 --> 01:24:49,240
Speaker 1: Let's hear it.

1494
01:24:51,080 --> 01:24:51,439
Speaker 7: Okay.

1495
01:24:52,160 --> 01:24:55,719
Speaker 6: So my boyfriend and I have been together for like

1496
01:24:56,200 --> 01:25:02,080
Speaker 6: three years and we I still haven't like, we still

1497
01:25:02,120 --> 01:25:05,000
Speaker 6: close the door when we use the bathroom, and I

1498
01:25:05,000 --> 01:25:09,400
Speaker 6: feel like every other relationship I know, they all just

1499
01:25:10,080 --> 01:25:13,920
Speaker 6: are free. And I wonder if my boyfriend doesn't trust

1500
01:25:13,920 --> 01:25:16,679
Speaker 6: me or love me enough to have the door open.

1501
01:25:17,560 --> 01:25:22,360
Speaker 1: Mmm? Have you brought this up to him every day?

1502
01:25:23,720 --> 01:25:26,920
Speaker 1: And what does he say?

1503
01:25:28,360 --> 01:25:30,120
Speaker 6: No, he doesn't want me to smell it.

1504
01:25:31,360 --> 01:25:34,400
Speaker 1: M I think that's rather reasonable.

1505
01:25:37,120 --> 01:25:37,759
Speaker 7: Why though?

1506
01:25:38,840 --> 01:25:42,360
Speaker 1: Okay, so you ask him why and he says he

1507
01:25:42,360 --> 01:25:45,080
Speaker 1: doesn't want you to smell it, And what is your

1508
01:25:45,080 --> 01:25:45,680
Speaker 1: response to that?

1509
01:25:50,840 --> 01:25:53,559
Speaker 6: Our door doesn't walk to the bathroom. So I try

1510
01:25:53,600 --> 01:25:55,760
Speaker 6: to open it and he yells at me.

1511
01:25:57,600 --> 01:25:59,479
Speaker 1: Oh, I thought you're gonna say, so you smell it anyway,

1512
01:26:00,160 --> 01:26:01,559
Speaker 1: don't you by the way I smell it anyway?

1513
01:26:01,920 --> 01:26:08,479
Speaker 6: No? No, I walk away. I respect it when I

1514
01:26:08,520 --> 01:26:12,000
Speaker 6: pretend to open the door, and I just like, He

1515
01:26:12,080 --> 01:26:14,320
Speaker 6: gets mad and I walk away and laugh.

1516
01:26:15,280 --> 01:26:17,240
Speaker 1: So you just try to open the door while he's chidding?

1517
01:26:19,120 --> 01:26:19,320
Speaker 13: Yes?

1518
01:26:21,160 --> 01:26:22,439
Speaker 1: And how does that make him feel?

1519
01:26:25,880 --> 01:26:26,960
Speaker 6: I guess vulnerable?

1520
01:26:31,040 --> 01:26:31,679
Speaker 1: That makes sense.

1521
01:26:34,600 --> 01:26:35,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't know.

1522
01:26:36,400 --> 01:26:37,120
Speaker 3: Is that normal?

1523
01:26:38,640 --> 01:26:41,040
Speaker 1: Is it normal for him to feel vulnerable?

1524
01:26:43,560 --> 01:26:43,880
Speaker 4: Mmm?

1525
01:26:44,800 --> 01:26:50,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you.

1526
01:26:50,000 --> 01:26:55,840
Speaker 6: Know I feel again it is. I didn't think it

1527
01:26:55,840 --> 01:26:58,040
Speaker 6: would be a big deal, but I guess it's to

1528
01:26:58,160 --> 01:26:58,760
Speaker 6: him it is.

1529
01:27:00,479 --> 01:27:00,920
Speaker 8: Mm hmm.

1530
01:27:02,400 --> 01:27:06,880
Speaker 1: So he doesn't want you to smell the poop while

1531
01:27:07,400 --> 01:27:09,960
Speaker 1: he is pooping, and that's why he keeps the door closed.

1532
01:27:12,080 --> 01:27:16,759
Speaker 1: And have you assured him that you would love him

1533
01:27:17,120 --> 01:27:18,679
Speaker 1: regardless of the smell of his poop.

1534
01:27:21,479 --> 01:27:28,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, but I don't think he believes me. What he

1535
01:27:28,360 --> 01:27:31,040
Speaker 6: can't do that he doesn't let me be in there.

1536
01:27:33,760 --> 01:27:40,280
Speaker 1: You cry? Yeah, and what is his response to the crying?

1537
01:27:43,160 --> 01:27:46,240
Speaker 6: He doesn't know why I'm crying, but he doesn't understand

1538
01:27:46,240 --> 01:27:48,720
Speaker 6: why I am.

1539
01:27:48,720 --> 01:27:51,200
Speaker 1: And do you tell him that you're crying because he

1540
01:27:51,240 --> 01:27:53,280
Speaker 1: doesn't trust you to smell his poop.

1541
01:27:55,320 --> 01:27:55,720
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

1542
01:27:56,680 --> 01:28:04,040
Speaker 6: I don't understand, though. I guess I don't understand because

1543
01:28:04,439 --> 01:28:09,679
Speaker 6: I feel like all other couples do. And I'm still

1544
01:28:09,720 --> 01:28:11,920
Speaker 6: here three years later, not able to.

1545
01:28:13,160 --> 01:28:17,639
Speaker 1: Well, Cynthia, you can't compare yourself to other couples. I'm not.

1546
01:28:17,840 --> 01:28:26,000
Speaker 1: I'm asked you directly. Are Yeah, you're envious of the

1547
01:28:26,080 --> 01:28:30,160
Speaker 1: other couples that are all smelling each other's poop. And

1548
01:28:30,560 --> 01:28:33,479
Speaker 1: you know, you have to accept a relationship for what

1549
01:28:33,560 --> 01:28:38,960
Speaker 1: it is, not what it is in relationship to, not

1550
01:28:39,120 --> 01:28:45,160
Speaker 1: what it is in comparison to other standard not in

1551
01:28:45,200 --> 01:28:49,800
Speaker 1: comparison to other so called standard relationships.

1552
01:28:53,400 --> 01:28:56,920
Speaker 3: So what if it never happens, then.

1553
01:28:56,800 --> 01:28:59,240
Speaker 1: That's your relationship and you should accept.

1554
01:28:58,960 --> 01:28:59,519
Speaker 10: It for it is.

1555
01:29:02,720 --> 01:29:09,519
Speaker 6: Oh, I guess I'll tell him I want a longer

1556
01:29:09,640 --> 01:29:14,120
Speaker 6: parts in the bathroom.

1557
01:29:14,160 --> 01:29:15,960
Speaker 1: Good, I'm glad to hear that.

1558
01:29:17,840 --> 01:29:20,360
Speaker 6: What were you gonna say?

1559
01:29:28,200 --> 01:29:28,439
Speaker 1: Glad?

1560
01:29:28,479 --> 01:29:28,679
Speaker 13: Hello?

1561
01:29:30,800 --> 01:29:31,200
Speaker 4: Oh?

1562
01:29:33,000 --> 01:29:35,120
Speaker 1: Is he with you? Is he in the room?

1563
01:29:36,200 --> 01:29:36,439
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1564
01:29:36,560 --> 01:29:37,640
Speaker 6: He's making fun of me.

1565
01:29:38,439 --> 01:29:42,080
Speaker 1: Let me talk to him.

1566
01:29:42,160 --> 01:29:42,920
Speaker 9: That's what you get.

1567
01:29:45,520 --> 01:29:47,920
Speaker 1: Hello, what's up?

1568
01:29:51,000 --> 01:29:51,680
Speaker 10: What's going on?

1569
01:29:54,479 --> 01:29:56,120
Speaker 9: I kind of just walk in the living room and

1570
01:29:56,479 --> 01:29:59,840
Speaker 9: I got talking to uh a gecko man about my

1571
01:30:00,080 --> 01:30:01,400
Speaker 9: uh pooping status?

1572
01:30:01,880 --> 01:30:04,679
Speaker 1: Sure, all right, so what do you think about all those.

1573
01:30:07,960 --> 01:30:09,760
Speaker 9: I kind of caught half of it, but.

1574
01:30:11,240 --> 01:30:11,600
Speaker 7: I don't know.

1575
01:30:14,240 --> 01:30:18,639
Speaker 1: Your girlfriend is upset that you won't leave the door

1576
01:30:18,640 --> 01:30:25,080
Speaker 1: open when you use the bathroom.

1577
01:30:25,120 --> 01:30:29,840
Speaker 9: Oh go, okay, okay, it's really for her protection. That's

1578
01:30:29,960 --> 01:30:33,920
Speaker 9: heard that all the time. But I guess she just

1579
01:30:33,960 --> 01:30:34,840
Speaker 9: doesn't understand that.

1580
01:30:35,880 --> 01:30:42,040
Speaker 1: What are you protecting her from from the smell? She says,

1581
01:30:42,040 --> 01:30:43,400
Speaker 1: she wants to smell the smell.

1582
01:30:45,439 --> 01:30:46,559
Speaker 9: Oh, she wants to smell it.

1583
01:30:47,800 --> 01:30:53,040
Speaker 10: Yes, Oh, then, uh, I don't know about that.

1584
01:30:54,560 --> 01:30:57,200
Speaker 1: Does that freak you out that she wants to smell it? Smell?

1585
01:30:58,320 --> 01:30:59,520
Speaker 1: Does that make you uncomfortable?

1586
01:31:00,200 --> 01:31:04,560
Speaker 9: App yeah, that make it stillble? So like she smells it,

1587
01:31:04,680 --> 01:31:05,479
Speaker 9: you'd probably leave me?

1588
01:31:09,040 --> 01:31:15,200
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, Well what if? Okay, so it makes you

1589
01:31:15,320 --> 01:31:17,920
Speaker 1: uncomfortable because the idea that if she smelled it she

1590
01:31:17,960 --> 01:31:21,040
Speaker 1: would not like it. Because I thought I would think

1591
01:31:21,080 --> 01:31:23,200
Speaker 1: that you would be made uncomfortable by the by the

1592
01:31:23,240 --> 01:31:25,479
Speaker 1: idea that she smells it and she likes it. That's

1593
01:31:25,520 --> 01:31:26,600
Speaker 1: what would make me uncomfortable.

1594
01:31:27,120 --> 01:31:30,200
Speaker 9: Oh yeah, that would probably make me even more uncomfortable.

1595
01:31:30,800 --> 01:31:32,479
Speaker 1: All right, So this is a lose lose situation.

1596
01:31:34,640 --> 01:31:37,880
Speaker 9: Yeah, all right, I think I was gonna start to

1597
01:31:37,880 --> 01:31:38,400
Speaker 9: your bush.

1598
01:31:38,479 --> 01:31:40,759
Speaker 10: Had handling my business.

1599
01:31:43,600 --> 01:31:47,400
Speaker 1: Keep that door closing, Yeah, I'm gonna keep that door closed.

1600
01:31:47,520 --> 01:31:49,639
Speaker 9: That don't like the possibility beautiful?

1601
01:31:50,200 --> 01:31:50,880
Speaker 1: Hey what was her name?

1602
01:31:52,880 --> 01:31:53,040
Speaker 4: Oh?

1603
01:31:53,360 --> 01:31:53,679
Speaker 10: Hector?

1604
01:31:54,479 --> 01:31:56,360
Speaker 1: Thank you for calling Hector. Have agrest of the night.

1605
01:31:58,040 --> 01:32:02,000
Speaker 9: An pitch had a get Ash?

1606
01:32:02,400 --> 01:32:02,800
Speaker 1: What's up?

1607
01:32:03,200 --> 01:32:04,519
Speaker 10: Yeah? Ash? How's you going?

1608
01:32:05,720 --> 01:32:08,040
Speaker 1: It's going good? Tell me everything with you, Ash?

1609
01:32:10,000 --> 01:32:13,840
Speaker 2: I'm just chaing man, this it's four. I am where

1610
01:32:13,840 --> 01:32:16,840
Speaker 2: I am right now, just just for I give you

1611
01:32:16,880 --> 01:32:18,280
Speaker 2: a quick shout and see what's going on?

1612
01:32:20,640 --> 01:32:24,720
Speaker 1: Not a whole lot, mate? Uh? What how can I

1613
01:32:24,760 --> 01:32:25,639
Speaker 1: get you? This evening?

1614
01:32:28,280 --> 01:32:28,479
Speaker 13: Good?

1615
01:32:29,720 --> 01:32:31,400
Speaker 2: A bit? I'm in a bit of a bit of

1616
01:32:31,400 --> 01:32:32,599
Speaker 2: a quandary over here.

1617
01:32:32,640 --> 01:32:34,920
Speaker 7: You know, I'm I.

1618
01:32:34,920 --> 01:32:35,839
Speaker 10: Need a bit of advice.

1619
01:32:36,439 --> 01:32:37,080
Speaker 1: Sure hit me.

1620
01:32:37,880 --> 01:32:41,080
Speaker 2: I think I figure you if you're the guy to

1621
01:32:41,080 --> 01:32:45,000
Speaker 2: to give me, give you that ship. So right here

1622
01:32:45,040 --> 01:32:48,600
Speaker 2: we go. I'm basically thirty six year old guy. I

1623
01:32:48,680 --> 01:32:52,439
Speaker 2: live in I live in this this pretty cool place

1624
01:32:52,479 --> 01:32:54,360
Speaker 2: in in London called Brixton. I don't know if you

1625
01:32:54,400 --> 01:32:59,960
Speaker 2: ever been to London before, but Brixton is buzzing. Brixtain

1626
01:33:00,120 --> 01:33:02,479
Speaker 2: is my home Brixton. I've been for ten years now.

1627
01:33:02,560 --> 01:33:06,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, Brixton, Go Brixton, go to the Brixton Bees. That's

1628
01:33:06,520 --> 01:33:13,280
Speaker 1: the mascot right at the mascot Brixton Bees. You would

1629
01:33:13,320 --> 01:33:16,519
Speaker 1: know you're the Brixton guy, all right, the.

1630
01:33:16,520 --> 01:33:21,040
Speaker 2: Brixton b That's what it is. So I've been for

1631
01:33:21,080 --> 01:33:24,320
Speaker 2: a long time now, I've been Yeah, we've been on

1632
01:33:24,360 --> 01:33:25,880
Speaker 2: a bit of a bear flex tonight already.

1633
01:33:25,960 --> 01:33:26,439
Speaker 7: I know that.

1634
01:33:26,920 --> 01:33:33,040
Speaker 9: Sorry, I'm so yeah, I've been here.

1635
01:33:33,080 --> 01:33:36,160
Speaker 2: I've been having a great the best time. Brixton is beautiful.

1636
01:33:36,840 --> 01:33:40,479
Speaker 2: It's a buzzing place. There's always some fun going off.

1637
01:33:40,880 --> 01:33:44,720
Speaker 2: And recently, I've been living with my best friend up

1638
01:33:44,760 --> 01:33:48,160
Speaker 2: until about a year ago he moved out. He ended

1639
01:33:48,240 --> 01:33:51,559
Speaker 2: up moving in with his girlfriend, so I had to

1640
01:33:51,560 --> 01:33:55,479
Speaker 2: find my own place. I found one bedsitat here in Brixton,

1641
01:33:56,280 --> 01:33:58,439
Speaker 2: and I love it. I've been here for a year

1642
01:33:58,520 --> 01:34:03,800
Speaker 2: now by myself and by myself. But my issue is,

1643
01:34:03,920 --> 01:34:07,800
Speaker 2: like living by yourself is expensive, especially in London.

1644
01:34:07,680 --> 01:34:09,320
Speaker 7: Like it's really expensive.

1645
01:34:10,960 --> 01:34:17,240
Speaker 2: So I'm just trying to figure out now, Like you know,

1646
01:34:18,320 --> 01:34:22,120
Speaker 2: having all these living costs doesn't leave me with much

1647
01:34:22,120 --> 01:34:24,240
Speaker 2: money to spend, like to have fun at the end

1648
01:34:24,240 --> 01:34:26,120
Speaker 2: of the morle, Like, after I've paid on my bills

1649
01:34:26,160 --> 01:34:28,760
Speaker 2: and everything. So what do I do now? Like do

1650
01:34:28,880 --> 01:34:31,000
Speaker 2: I just stay here living in a place where I'm

1651
01:34:31,000 --> 01:34:34,519
Speaker 2: really happy and content, or do I move somewhere where

1652
01:34:34,560 --> 01:34:37,879
Speaker 2: I don't have that connection with outskirts of London, Maybe

1653
01:34:38,040 --> 01:34:41,920
Speaker 2: somewhere cheaper where I'll have more money to enjoy my

1654
01:34:42,080 --> 01:34:45,800
Speaker 2: life and come on holidays and go out partying doing

1655
01:34:45,840 --> 01:34:47,000
Speaker 2: all that kind of fun stuff.

1656
01:34:47,720 --> 01:34:50,599
Speaker 1: That's interesting. Well, when's your lease run up?

1657
01:34:53,320 --> 01:34:55,720
Speaker 2: At any time? I can go whenever I want. I've

1658
01:34:55,760 --> 01:34:56,799
Speaker 2: been here for a year now.

1659
01:34:56,800 --> 01:34:58,320
Speaker 1: Oh you can go and everywhere. Well, okay, you've been

1660
01:34:58,360 --> 01:35:02,040
Speaker 1: living in Brickstall. You've been Bees fan for ten years now,

1661
01:35:02,040 --> 01:35:02,840
Speaker 1: It seems right.

1662
01:35:04,400 --> 01:35:06,840
Speaker 2: I've been the Bees fan for for ten years. I'll

1663
01:35:06,840 --> 01:35:08,880
Speaker 2: fill in love with the Bees as soon as I

1664
01:35:09,080 --> 01:35:10,400
Speaker 2: sit my eyes on the Bees.

1665
01:35:11,000 --> 01:35:14,400
Speaker 1: Well, listen, you know, if you've been there for ten years,

1666
01:35:14,760 --> 01:35:18,600
Speaker 1: I don't think that there is anything wrong with you, know,

1667
01:35:18,680 --> 01:35:20,559
Speaker 1: especially since you said you could leave any time, right,

1668
01:35:20,600 --> 01:35:22,439
Speaker 1: Like you have like a month to month lease or

1669
01:35:22,479 --> 01:35:27,280
Speaker 1: something like that. That's right, Yeah, beautiful, Well fuck it, dude,

1670
01:35:27,280 --> 01:35:29,360
Speaker 1: do a month? Do it? Try it? Try a month

1671
01:35:29,400 --> 01:35:33,000
Speaker 1: in the outskirts of town, right, see if you can

1672
01:35:33,040 --> 01:35:37,160
Speaker 1: make it work, and if you can't, head back over

1673
01:35:37,200 --> 01:35:38,599
Speaker 1: to brickstill. But you know, I mean, look, if you've

1674
01:35:38,600 --> 01:35:40,080
Speaker 1: been there for ten years, I mean go ahead and

1675
01:35:40,080 --> 01:35:42,320
Speaker 1: give it a shot of living somewhere else, you know,

1676
01:35:42,360 --> 01:35:44,479
Speaker 1: because sure you might be really really happy where you

1677
01:35:44,520 --> 01:35:46,920
Speaker 1: are right now, but you know you could be even

1678
01:35:46,960 --> 01:35:50,560
Speaker 1: happier somewhere else and still have that, you know, money

1679
01:35:50,720 --> 01:35:53,400
Speaker 1: to fuck with. And if you're not, you just fucking

1680
01:35:53,479 --> 01:35:55,840
Speaker 1: go back. So I think it's worth a try.

1681
01:35:57,520 --> 01:35:58,400
Speaker 7: That's a good point.

1682
01:35:58,560 --> 01:35:59,680
Speaker 2: I never thought about that.

1683
01:36:00,760 --> 01:36:03,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, you always come back unless if it's like unless,

1684
01:36:03,720 --> 01:36:07,559
Speaker 1: if there's like a you know those turnstiles that you

1685
01:36:07,600 --> 01:36:08,719
Speaker 1: can't go back on.

1686
01:36:11,200 --> 01:36:13,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you just have to go one way.

1687
01:36:14,000 --> 01:36:17,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, unless if Bristol, unless if Bristol is covered in those,

1688
01:36:17,680 --> 01:36:21,520
Speaker 1: because I believe me, I have tried. I've like contorted

1689
01:36:21,560 --> 01:36:23,439
Speaker 1: my body to try to get back through one of

1690
01:36:23,439 --> 01:36:27,400
Speaker 1: those and it does not work. But right, but if

1691
01:36:27,400 --> 01:36:28,840
Speaker 1: that's if that is not the case, which I don't

1692
01:36:28,840 --> 01:36:30,320
Speaker 1: think it is, then you should be fine.

1693
01:36:32,320 --> 01:36:35,000
Speaker 2: All right, nice what I get? What goes on? Have

1694
01:36:35,040 --> 01:36:36,680
Speaker 2: you ever been to London before? You've ever been to

1695
01:36:36,760 --> 01:36:37,200
Speaker 2: the UK.

1696
01:36:38,360 --> 01:36:41,840
Speaker 1: I went to the UK like three years ago. I

1697
01:36:41,920 --> 01:36:46,120
Speaker 1: hung out. I hung out in London for like a

1698
01:36:46,200 --> 01:36:50,040
Speaker 1: little and it was nice. This is it was probably Yeah,

1699
01:36:50,040 --> 01:36:50,960
Speaker 1: it's about three years ago.

1700
01:36:51,000 --> 01:36:53,280
Speaker 2: Now nice like that?

1701
01:36:54,439 --> 01:36:58,200
Speaker 1: Come on, Yeah, I was there for like a second.

1702
01:36:58,240 --> 01:37:00,320
Speaker 1: You know, I was there. Let's see, I hung out. Uh,

1703
01:37:01,640 --> 01:37:05,439
Speaker 1: I stayed at a hostel. I hung out. I went

1704
01:37:05,479 --> 01:37:09,360
Speaker 1: to this Piccadilly circus whatever it's called. H there was

1705
01:37:09,400 --> 01:37:12,240
Speaker 1: a ferris wheel somewhere that I went on. That was it.

1706
01:37:12,280 --> 01:37:14,559
Speaker 1: That's about all I have from London.

1707
01:37:16,880 --> 01:37:19,760
Speaker 2: Travel a little bit.

1708
01:37:19,880 --> 01:37:21,880
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I mean, well, you know what

1709
01:37:22,040 --> 01:37:25,240
Speaker 1: I don't like. Everyone's always like, you know, oh, you

1710
01:37:25,320 --> 01:37:27,680
Speaker 1: did the touristy thing. Of course, Yeah, I did the

1711
01:37:27,720 --> 01:37:29,360
Speaker 1: touristy thing. I was a tourist.

1712
01:37:29,560 --> 01:37:31,840
Speaker 10: Hey, you look, nothing long with that, nothing wrong with that.

1713
01:37:31,920 --> 01:37:36,400
Speaker 2: I still got the other day just.

1714
01:37:35,600 --> 01:37:37,920
Speaker 1: I was a tourist. Ash of course I'm gonna do

1715
01:37:37,960 --> 01:37:42,040
Speaker 1: the touristy things. I am a tourist. I'm touring London.

1716
01:37:43,080 --> 01:37:46,960
Speaker 2: All I'm saying is anytime you come come to London,

1717
01:37:47,000 --> 01:37:48,439
Speaker 2: next time, I'll show you the real side.

1718
01:37:48,479 --> 01:37:52,080
Speaker 1: Event all right, man, I'm I'm going to Bristol. We'll

1719
01:37:52,120 --> 01:37:55,920
Speaker 1: go to a B's game and get arrested for public drunkenness.

1720
01:37:57,160 --> 01:37:58,640
Speaker 1: I'll wear the costume.

1721
01:38:00,520 --> 01:38:03,439
Speaker 2: You're gonna wait, Okay, okay, I'll sew you down d C.

1722
01:38:03,600 --> 01:38:05,960
Speaker 2: The other day we're in a contumea Rick and you

1723
01:38:06,000 --> 01:38:07,719
Speaker 2: can in Brixton as well.

1724
01:38:08,080 --> 01:38:11,080
Speaker 1: That'd be fun. Actually, no, I'll make my I'll gack

1725
01:38:11,160 --> 01:38:13,840
Speaker 1: my way over to the UK at some point. Once

1726
01:38:13,880 --> 01:38:16,280
Speaker 1: I saw my once I once I finally sell my

1727
01:38:16,360 --> 01:38:19,360
Speaker 1: TV show Gack across the World to Netflix. You and

1728
01:38:19,400 --> 01:38:24,440
Speaker 1: I are in business, all right. I'm there for you, brother, beautiful.

1729
01:38:24,640 --> 01:38:26,519
Speaker 1: Thank you very much for calling Ash. Good luck to you.

1730
01:38:28,160 --> 01:38:29,439
Speaker 2: Have a good life, man, Take care.

1731
01:38:30,200 --> 01:38:34,320
Speaker 4: Never goes on the line taking your phone calls every night.

1732
01:38:34,720 --> 01:38:38,600
Speaker 1: Never goes to a teaching you your li