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Speaker 2: Well, hello, Hi.

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Speaker 1: I'm not wearing shoes right now, but it's okay. It

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Speaker 1: feels more free this way. You can't tell that I'm

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Speaker 3: That is the voice of our lovely guest, Sabrina.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they don't know yet. They're probably just like,

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Speaker 2: who's the footless voice? Footless? I mean she is I

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Speaker 3: Becca is running a tad bit late this morning, so

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Speaker 3: I am just taking over and we have Sabrina here

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Speaker 1: So Surena is always early fun fact about Sabrina she

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Speaker 3: You know what, I actually want to talk about this

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Speaker 3: because so for people that that don't know you, how

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Speaker 3: would you They know you from Girl MAT's World, they

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Speaker 3: know you from your music. What people don't know is

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Speaker 3: you were one of your just her nineteen. Yeah, you

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Speaker 3: are one of the most hardest, one of the most

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Speaker 3: one of the most one of the most hard working

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Speaker 3: people in this industry. You're always go, go go. You're

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Speaker 3: such a good person, You're such a good friend. So

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Speaker 3: I'm so honored that you are a guest on the podcast.

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Speaker 3: Today because I think so highly of you and I

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Speaker 3: want to get into all that all the goodness with you.

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Speaker 3: But I just want people to know that you work

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Speaker 3: really hard and it's all paying off and I'm so

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Speaker 1: You know what's really at the end of the day,

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Speaker 1: I just I can't sit still for too long. So

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Speaker 2: Is so exciting for the first time. Yeah. So I

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Speaker 3: I do this and You're just you have the biggest heart,

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Speaker 2: You for having me. Guys, I'm so excited.

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Speaker 3: Uh what should we cover first with Sabrina music?

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Speaker 4: Absolutely? Okay?

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Speaker 3: Single coming out it's called Almost Love. Yeah, You're gonna

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Speaker 3: perform it live for the very first time at Window Tango.

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Speaker 3: You completely cleared out your Instagram.

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Speaker 2: I did. I'm so dramatic.

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Speaker 3: No, but I want to know, like, what was the

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Speaker 1: I think that there's you know, there's only so many ways.

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Speaker 3: There's actually a couple aside from almost Love, there's a

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Speaker 1: No, like you really I haven't been able to play

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Speaker 5: I want to see it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you should have seen my face. I was literally like,

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Speaker 2: So I'm really excited to see what everyone says.

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Speaker 3: It's just music is so crazy right now. There's just

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Speaker 4: Last week Tanya read some text that she sent to

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Speaker 5: O great, are you good at flirting?

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Speaker 7: but I really feel that too, and I think we

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Speaker 7: need to step away from our well, sorry, a plug

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Speaker 7: of my book. Look, it's called portology. Stop swiping, start talking,

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Speaker 7: and find love.

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Speaker 3: There you go the good that Yeah, ties it all

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Speaker 3: nicely together. Thank you so much for calling in and helping.

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Speaker 3: That was really awesome.

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Speaker 6: We're gonna get an update on Tanya and see what

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Speaker 6: she does with this information. Hopefully she has more success

448
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Speaker 6: than the last one. Thank you so much for being gene.

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Speaker 7: Bye pleasure.

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Speaker 3: You know what they say when you strike ones, keep that.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know that, she said.

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Speaker 6: I didn't know that, que.

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Speaker 1: No one ever knows like I missed.

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Speaker 5: I happen to miss that one because I was like,

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Speaker 5: was there an end?

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Speaker 2: Do you feel like you know things now from that call?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: For sure?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, basically I I all in all, I agree with

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Speaker 1: what she said.

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Speaker 6: I think I think face to face interaction clearly you

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Speaker 6: you get more from.

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Speaker 3: That one hundred I think I think I'm a thousand

464
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Speaker 3: percent better in person than I am on text.

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Speaker 2: I yes, I'm a horrible texter.

466
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Speaker 3: So the fact that everybody's meeting on apps and d

467
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Speaker 3: ms and stuff is I like, how.

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Speaker 1: Thorough you are though most of the time think you

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Speaker 1: everyone is trying to be like all right, h m

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Speaker 1: u K question, like you know what I mean, It's

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Speaker 1: very like, oh, let me just like show as little

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Speaker 1: emotion as possible, so they have to so they have

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Speaker 1: to figure it all out, whereas, like you know, at

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Speaker 1: least they know with Tanya.

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Speaker 5: Like she's watching no but but seriously like.

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Speaker 1: It's there's no there's no hiding behind anything, which is

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Speaker 1: very real, transparent.

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Speaker 4: Very yeah. But I have un interesting that Jane loved

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Speaker 4: your text to mister Cricket totally. When you read it,

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Speaker 4: Sabrina had the exact same reaction Becka did, which was like,

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Speaker 4: oh my god, she did not.

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Speaker 2: Just Jane liked it. It was it was it. I

483
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Speaker 2: was surprised. Yeah, me too, I was surprised. I did

484
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Speaker 2: not like it. That's the thing is.

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Speaker 5: Like face it enough, no, but I think no one

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Speaker 5: saw my face.

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Speaker 6: I think opinion. I think Jeane's opinion swayed Sabrina a

488
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Speaker 6: little bit because she's like, oh, it's true. Tanya is

489
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Speaker 6: like straightforward and open and what you see is what

490
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Speaker 6: you get and that's one of your most endearing qualities

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Speaker 6: about you.

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Speaker 5: I personally just it was a lot of information right

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Speaker 5: off the bat.

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Speaker 1: I just also feel like if you tell the me

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Speaker 1: like Gray's anatomy, like you just he know, like he

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Speaker 1: knows everything now, like for me, where it's like you

497
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Speaker 1: doesn't know what show I'm watching, like there's still something

498
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Speaker 1: to figure out, something to figure out.

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Speaker 6: No mystery anymore. With Tanya, he knows what she's doing

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Speaker 6: on Thursday night, true and every other night watching reruns.

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Speaker 3: It's true. Well you know what a Jeane would like.

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Speaker 5: I know what's a big part of flirting.

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Speaker 6: Good breath, yeah, clean, a clean mouth, smiling smiling too,

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Speaker 6: good breath and smiling.

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Speaker 2: Great, Oh I could have done that. That would have been funny.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, like speaking of flirting, you know how like

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Speaker 4: Wait?

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Speaker 3: What you're You're supposed to brush like every section for

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Speaker 3: two minutes?

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Speaker 2: No, I did learn that in elementary school.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'll try it again on the next one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've got some callers that we're trying to get

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Speaker 4: on the phone, but that's not really happening right now.

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Speaker 4: So I wanted to get to some of these emails

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Speaker 4: early and we can get Sabrina's opinion on these two Yeah,

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Speaker 4: some juicy situations. This is from Caitlin So in a nutshell.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Mark is like offended because I suggested. So we

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Speaker 3: get really great listener emails and they give us a

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Speaker 3: emails and then we discuss what we would do in

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Speaker 3: the situation. I have thought that it would be who

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Speaker 3: of us if we if we taper down the emails,

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Speaker 3: we kind of just like summarize them, so like instead

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Speaker 3: of saying every little detail, we say, like girl cheated on,

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Speaker 3: a girl hooked up with a guy that had a girlfriend,

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Speaker 3: what would you do?

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Speaker 2: Would you tell the girl?

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Speaker 6: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Like kind of just do a little cliff notes version

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Speaker 3: so that we can get through more emails instead of,

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Speaker 3: you know, Mark to offense.

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Speaker 4: I love it. It's a great idea.

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Speaker 2: Mark was like, oh you am offending aggressive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, He's like, do you not want me to do

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Speaker 3: not like my reading?

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Speaker 2: I was like, no, I love you.

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Speaker 6: I love your reading.

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Speaker 4: Thank you back, I do.

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Speaker 6: I love your reading.

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Speaker 3: But so you think it would behoove us.

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Speaker 6: You're like trying to use the word. Is that like.

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Speaker 5: The hoof?

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Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, I I loved the idea of like

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Speaker 6: doing more emails, but I love I find it therapeutic

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Speaker 6: to listen to Mark reads.

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Speaker 4: Well, let me give you.

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Speaker 2: He read like commas and everything here.

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Speaker 4: Caitlin's sister is twenty. She broke up with her boyfriend

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Speaker 4: in December. A month ago. She was out at a

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Speaker 4: bar with her friends and met a really hot thirty

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Speaker 4: five year old twenty thirty five. They're flirting, making god

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Speaker 4: all night, and he wanted to go back to her place,

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Speaker 4: and she said no, no, no, no, no no. But they exchanged

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Speaker 4: numbers and he added her on Snapchat. She forgot about

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Speaker 4: him at that point, but then recently now she gets

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Speaker 4: a DM from a girl she doesn't know, saying, so,

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Speaker 4: I saw my boyfriend has you on Snapchat? How the

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Speaker 4: F did that happen? Then she got another one saying

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Speaker 4: clearly he was being inappropriate. Just trying to find out

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Speaker 4: what happened. Lol. Now the sister isn't sure what to do,

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Speaker 4: but she did kind of go deep and figure out

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Speaker 4: that Okay, this was the thirty five year old, that's

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Speaker 4: who this is. This is his girlfriend, and she did

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Speaker 4: message back saying, I don't want to get in the

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Speaker 4: middle of anything. You should talk to him. But now

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Speaker 4: you know, the girl's asking more questions. She's not sure

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Speaker 4: how to handle it. How much does she open up

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Speaker 4: to this woman? Does she be honest, tell her the

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Speaker 4: whole story, or does she not get involved?

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Speaker 2: They look at me? Wait what no? Okay, wait, so

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Speaker 2: yeah she had the twelve Wait first of all.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so on the girl's twenty and then the girl

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Speaker 1: how old is the girlfriend messaging we don't know Bobby

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Speaker 1: and herties in her thirties.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 3: I have clear as day, crystal clear advice.

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Speaker 6: I would just tell her what happened. I would want

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Speaker 6: to know if my boyfriend was out doing stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm just saying, like, if she she obviously like

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Speaker 1: it says NEMO, that she forgot about this guy, and

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Speaker 1: she's not really like, you.

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Speaker 5: Know, oh, she hasn't thought about him or anything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean, So it should just

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Speaker 1: be like, oh, if he's got a girlfriend, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: should definitely let her know what happened. That feels yeah,

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Speaker 1: like if she'd like, yeah, Abraham Lincoln was really honest.

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Speaker 2: You know what I.

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Speaker 3: Do anyways, Yeah, I would one thousand percent, because it's

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Speaker 3: not like I always say, stay out of it. If

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Speaker 3: it's like you going out of your way to find

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Speaker 3: the girl and whatever, but this girl is coming to

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Speaker 3: you and like in desperation a little bit, like help me,

663
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 3: my boyfriend clearly did something wrong.

664
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 2: Tell me what happened.

665
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 3: I would give her every detail. I would say he

666
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 3: wanted to go home with me, because that's what I

667
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 3: would want for me if that, if the situation were

668
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 3: reversed I was the girlfriend, I would want to know.

669
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 4: At what point do you stay out of it? Like

670
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 4: what if she had gone home with him? Does that

671
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 4: change her response to this girlfriend?

672
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 2: Oh?

673
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 5: Well she she didn't know that he had a.

674
00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 4: Girlfriend and nothing wrong, did nothing wrong?

675
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, So if whether they went home, whether they made out,

676
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 6: it's someone else's boyfriend behaving like that. So she I mean,

677
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 6: I think in any situation she should expose expose him

678
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 6: that dirty dogs.

679
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 3: She could do like uh Samantha Jones and Sex and

680
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 3: City and like make flyers and like post them all

681
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 3: around town, like stay away from this chet.

682
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, like one hundred years ago, I would have said

683
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 1: do that for sure. I feel like it's big and

684
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: I'm kidding. Actually, it's a fun idea. I mean, yeah,

685
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 1: definitely get creative with it, but but expose him.

686
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 2: Start a hashtag blank blank is over party.

687
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 6: Yeah.

688
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 2: I keep getting this printer.

689
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 4: It's not working anything. Stacy has a question I think

690
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 4: a lot of women deal with and in a nutshell

691
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 4: she uh, she's noticed her boyfriend liking a lot of

692
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 4: pictures of women on Instagram. Oh no, so she's saying,

693
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 4: what is the policy here? How do you feel about

694
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 4: your significant other liking pic of the opposite sex and

695
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 4: social media. They've been dating for five months. He wants

696
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 4: to take her to the next level. She's a little

697
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 4: Becca like, she says, and that she's afraid of commitment. Recently,

698
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 4: he's liking cleavage pictures, bikini pictures, and it does not

699
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 4: sit well with me. I'd like to know your thoughts

700
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 4: on this, She says. Your podcast is my mini getaway

701
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 4: when I'm feeling down. So thank you so much for

702
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 4: what you're doing, being so open and real.

703
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 1: You know, how like you can look at a picture

704
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:25,719
Speaker 1: for a really long time, and after you've looked at

705
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 1: it for like eight years, it's like, oh, Okay, it's

706
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 1: just a picture, So why is it that like cleaving?

707
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 2: Like why is that still interesting?

708
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 4: Now?

709
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

710
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 1: Like so much to the point no, no, I'm saying

711
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 1: for guys so much that they go out of their

712
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 1: way to like be like.

713
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 2: Whoa you know what I mean.

714
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 6: Why can't a guy just look at it and enjoy

715
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 6: it if he wants and then not?

716
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 2: And I'd be like, oh, I have a girlfriends. The problem.

717
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 6: That's the thing.

718
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 3: Just you can clear you could look at Instagram all

719
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 3: day long and just be casperon. You have to make

720
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 3: a single move.

721
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 2: The fact that he's liking those.

722
00:30:57,000 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 4: Things, but sending a message of some sort to that person, Yeah.

723
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 2: Some sort of like photo.

724
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 1: But if it's if it's a friend and you know,

725
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: a friend of his is posting a picture, you know,

726
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 1: then that's one thing.

727
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 2: But I think if it's like.

728
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 6: A random girl, yeah, I used to be like it's fine, whatever,

729
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 6: I can't stay. It drove me crazy when because Robert,

730
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 6: like so my ex Robert, he his job, he has

731
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 6: an agency and they go on these like influencer trips

732
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 6: and have like these hot bikini models around him, and

733
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 6: he was never like he was just like in charge

734
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 6: of making sure everyone he's not like.

735
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 2: Pervy or like at all.

736
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 6: But he would I would see that he liked these

737
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 6: photos of these like random girls because his job is

738
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 6: like in a sense, scouting models and stuff to work

739
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 6: with the brands that he reps. But it drove me.

740
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 6: I hated it, and it was like a conversation be like, Becca,

741
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 6: I don't want any of them, and I'm.

742
00:31:57,120 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 2: Like, but I know, it's so sad that it gets

743
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 2: in your head. I know.

744
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 3: My advice to her would almost be to play it

745
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 3: cool and like not say anything.

746
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 2: You know.

747
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: I also have to think about, like when social media

748
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 1: wasn't a thing and you didn't have the information that

749
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 1: you have now, and you didn't know when people were

750
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 1: like seeing other.

751
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 2: People, you know what I mean.

752
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 1: It's just such a different world now we have so

753
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 1: we have so much information that we would never privileged

754
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 1: to before.

755
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 2: So it does get in your head.

756
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: So I almost agree with you in a sense that

757
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 1: it's like, you know, if we didn't have social media,

758
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 1: you wouldn't know.

759
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 3: I mean, how do you know if he's not like

760
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 3: looking at people at Starbucks?

761
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 4: You know, So you're saying that this is gross and

762
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 4: guys shouldn't do this and it's annoying, But deal with it.

763
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 4: Is that what you're saying, Because that's yeah.

764
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 6: I almost feel like if it's bothering you, so like.

765
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 5: I had Robert and I talked about it because it

766
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 5: would bother.

767
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 6: Me so much that I'm like, I can't just be

768
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 6: mad at him or frustrated with him without having a reason.

769
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 6: When he's like, what's going on, what's wrong? Something's bothering you.

770
00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 6: And even if he's like, Becca, that's dumb, Like I

771
00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 6: only want you, I'm like, Okay, well you know how

772
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 6: I feel about it now, so how you handle that?

773
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 6: And he he like, wouldn't do it because he knew

774
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 6: it bothered me. So it's like, have a conversation. If

775
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 6: he keeps doing it knowing that it bothers you, then.

776
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe there's a bit of a problem. Maybe there's

777
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 2: a problem.

778
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: But if not, yeah, But I mean, it's it's all like,

779
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 1: just communicate with you.

780
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 4: Because his first reaction as a guy, I think his

781
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 4: first reaction is going to be, don't tell me how

782
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 4: to live my life. I can do what I want

783
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 4: to do. You're not my mom. You know, He's going

784
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 4: to go through that mode. But if he knows it

785
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 4: bothers you and keeps doing it, I think I think

786
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 4: that's a problem.

787
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 3: Isn't that just like a like, I just feel like

788
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 3: guys no offense, present company exclusive guys can be kind

789
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 3: of like du yeah, and so I don't I don't

790
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 3: think that he realizes he's like, you know what I mean.

791
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 3: I don't think he realizes a problem. And then they're

792
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 3: only five months in. Maybe in five more months, he's

793
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 3: just going to be so enamored with her that he

794
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 3: won't even be doing it anymore and it'll be a

795
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 3: non issue.

796
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 6: He's not enamored with her enough to like he wants

797
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 6: to take it to the next level five months.

798
00:33:56,080 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 2: If someone's on a namor by way, bye.

799
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 4: I don't think you should deal with it. I think

800
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 4: it's I think it's yeah.

801
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 6: I'm with Mark on this one. I think you need

802
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 6: to say something, Okay.

803
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 4: Maggie has a problem. She has a very intimidating father.

804
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 4: He is six' three muscular and has a presence about,

805
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,680
Speaker 4: him so when guys meet her, dad they're very. Intimidated

806
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 4: she also feels when she tells people what her dad

807
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 4: does for a living they get. Scared he's a retired

808
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 4: cop and he did contract work In. Afghanistan, wow he

809
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 4: sounds like a very intimidating. Dad but he is the,

810
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 4: sweetest most gentleman in the. World is my best. Friend

811
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 4: he's never. Intimidating he's the. Best BUT i don't want

812
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 4: to lie to guys Because i'm so proud of him

813
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:38,320
Speaker 4: and what he's done for a. Living how SHOULD i

814
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 4: approach this with? Guys or DO i just need to

815
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 4: find a guy that understands what he did for a

816
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 4: living and isn't intimidated by.

817
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:45,399
Speaker 6: That, YEAH i think you need to find a guy

818
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 6: Who but.

819
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:50,160
Speaker 2: Also, like how quickly into it are you telling them

820
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 2: what your parents? DO i first date for? Me, really

821
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 2: but at.

822
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 4: All we do know that she's an.

823
00:34:56,360 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 2: Oversharer, yeah, well, pod and here's my. Family that's really.

824
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 2: FUNNY i think it's all about how you approach.

825
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 1: It.

826
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 3: Again it goes back to the thing with, like you,

827
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,320
Speaker 3: know if you're dating and you have, children and you

828
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 3: you say it, like, oh, LIKE i have two.

829
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 2: KIDS i was just gonna, say how old are?

830
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 1: THESE i have the opposite, ADVICE i should be doing

831
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 1: a teen's dating.

832
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 5: COLUMN i DON'T i feel like she's so. Mature but

833
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 5: you know.

834
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 1: What i'm, saying, no because Like i'm not going to

835
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 1: day being, like oh, WELL i MEAN i wonder how

836
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:30,959
Speaker 1: soon until you have? Kids like it's not Something i'm

837
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 1: it's not Something i'm focused, on BUT i understand how

838
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: like sometimes people need to speed up the.

839
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 3: Process but What i'm saying is it's how you like say.

840
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:40,720
Speaker 3: It so if she's, saying, like my dad's a retired

841
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 3: cop and he did work In, afghanistan you know WHAT i,

842
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 3: Mean like it's About.

843
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 2: Carrie that's extra. Safety he's, like you're going to be

844
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 2: chilly about the way you approach, it the way you

845
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 2: talk about.

846
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:51,839
Speaker 3: It so if you talk about it like it's it's

847
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:55,280
Speaker 3: something that is intimidating and it's an insecurity of, yours

848
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 3: then that's gonna rub off a.

849
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 2: Guy and we talk about how.

850
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 3: Loving and amazing he is and how much to a teddy.

851
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,839
Speaker 1: Bear, yeah start off with like my, dad Teddy bearry

852
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:05,280
Speaker 1: is so, sweet fun fact he's also live tired, cop

853
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:07,880
Speaker 1: so extra, savage you know WHAT i, Mean like it

854
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 1: just it makes.

855
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,400
Speaker 2: It, yeah you're, right it's just how you pay approach.

856
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 4: It as a. GUY i don't see her father being

857
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 4: a deal. Breaker, YEAH i was.

858
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:18,399
Speaker 6: Just gonna ask as a guy because in my, Head i'm,

859
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 6: LIKE i don't think that's a big deal at.

860
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 8: All i've never been intimidated by, anybody let alone someone else's.

861
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 8: Father's and, furthermore if you say my dad's involved with

862
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 8: law enforcement and the guy gets nervous he's hiding, something

863
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 8: he's obviously a, criminal don't.

864
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 4: Why else would he be intimidated by.

865
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:38,400
Speaker 8: That, yeah and my dad is six three and muscular

866
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 8: and a retired, cop SO i can speak from.

867
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:42,319
Speaker 2: Experience it's so convenient for this.

868
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 8: Conversation he didn't do Any afghanistan contract. Work BUT i almost, say,

869
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:47,360
Speaker 8: well we should.

870
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 4: Have Mentioned easton's dad was is was a professional.

871
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 8: Bodybuilder, yeah he's also a bodybuilding still and he's still building.

872
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 2: Bodies he's still building the.

873
00:36:55,880 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 4: Body last weekend you find pictures of him in a

874
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:01,839
Speaker 4: banana hammock and nothing.

875
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 8: Else SO i can relate to this listener's problem BECAUSE

876
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 8: i had a lot of girlfriends that were super intimidated

877
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:06,799
Speaker 8: by my.

878
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:11,720
Speaker 2: Mom used to be a. Bodybuilder, really no way what years,

879
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 2: ago because years ago we got to talk about. Everything

880
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 2: that's a, BADASS i, know.

881
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 4: Right, WELL i think find the right. GUY i think

882
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 4: that's what we're, saying because guy should not be, Intimidate.

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00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,359
Speaker 2: No not at, all especially for someone to be proud about.

884
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 6: It. Yeah if he's if he's so, wonderful then you

885
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 6: should be proud to tell people about.

886
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 4: Him oh, boy here's an anonymous. One those are always uh?

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00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 2: Fun who is?

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00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 4: Guy always intrigue? Involved what? Guy some. Bachelors we're going

889
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 4: to get to, her but she's not answering her. Phone

890
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 4: claudia from The facebook group is not. Answering oh that's.

891
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 2: The one she went. On what's his? Name?

892
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 4: Blake No?

893
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:51,480
Speaker 2: Camille oh, wow what's the anonymous?

894
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 4: One, okay thank you keeping us.

895
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 6: On, sorry.

896
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 2: Five, years.

897
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 4: Five years. Together things are. SERIOUS i love, him he's

898
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 4: my best. Friend, backstory when they start first started, dating

899
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:06,839
Speaker 4: he Said i've only been with one other person before

900
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 4: in the bedroom. Okay about a month later he, admitted,

901
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 4: OKAY i was. LYING i am a. Virgin it hurt

902
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:16,919
Speaker 4: because he, lied but we're past that, now she, says now,

903
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 4: though we're having troubles in the bedroom where he's having

904
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 4: a hard time getting. Excited he swears it's not because of,

905
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 4: me BUT i find myself putting the blame on. MYSELF

906
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 4: i feel like he's not as attracted to me as

907
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 4: he should, be and that Maybe i'm just not doing

908
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 4: it for. Him he loves, me he shows me every,

909
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:32,400
Speaker 4: day but it's taking a toll on me that we

910
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 4: aren't successful in the. Bedroom he is on medication For crohn's,

911
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 4: disease BUT i still find myself beating myself up inside.

912
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 4: LATELY i havn't really down about it. Anyway thanks any

913
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:42,319
Speaker 4: advice you might.

914
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:45,839
Speaker 3: HAVE i think that's the answer right. There the, Medication, yeah,

915
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 3: Absolutely Like i've NEVER i don't know what medication you

916
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 3: take For crone's, disease BUT i do think that medication

917
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 3: has an effect on every little part of your, body

918
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 3: AND i think that that could be a huge factor

919
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 3: in what's going. ON i don't think it has anything

920
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:02,879
Speaker 3: to do with her.

921
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 4: Whatsoever it has to be never has anything to do with, her, never, honestly.

922
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 3: And that sucks that she feels that.

923
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:15,359
Speaker 4: Way, yeah and ALSO i would Do anxiety is an

924
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 4: interesting psychological, topic but when it happens, once he is

925
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 4: obsessed with it not happening, again and it's all he

926
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 4: can think, about and so it's going to happen, again

927
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 4: it's going to be in his head that you think

928
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 4: it's about, you and then that's going to bother, him

929
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 4: and then it's going to going to compound itself from there. On,

930
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 4: yeah so it's not about. You.

931
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 3: NO i would do some digging on the medication and

932
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 3: see what side effects it. Has, HONESTLY i really. DO

933
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 3: i think it's like a medical. THING i don't think

934
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 3: it has anything to do with.

935
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:46,800
Speaker 4: Her and in terms of, ADVICE i don't. KNOW i,

936
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 4: mean obviously the medication is. Good if he knows it's bothering,

937
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 4: you it's good to get in his. Head so maybe

938
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 4: try to keep it as light and as fun as

939
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 4: possible without any kind of. Pressure.

940
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:01,320
Speaker 6: YEAH i think if it's if it's never happened before

941
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 6: and all of a sudden he's on this, MEDICATION i

942
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 6: think That's i'm no Doubt tanya knows a lot of

943
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 6: like details about, medication and.

944
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 2: WELL i DO i think like it.

945
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 3: Totally like it can just affect your, libido it can

946
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:20,000
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947
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 4: Everything and also she's his, first so there might be

948
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 4: he's never experienced in that situation.

949
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 2: Too, yeah but they've.

950
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 6: Been together for a long. Time SO i mean five, Years, well.

951
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959
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961
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:07,120
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962
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1025
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1028
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1031
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1034
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1035
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1036
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:13,960
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1037
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:14,239
Speaker 4: DID i.

1038
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:14,560
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1039
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,359
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1040
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:17,840
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1041
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:21,200
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1042
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:23,680
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1043
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 3: her mom was talking about all like just like the

1044
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:30,080
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1045
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:32,760
Speaker 3: have that same type of like brain.

1046
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:35,520
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1047
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:39,400
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1048
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:41,120
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1050
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:44,760
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1051
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:47,399
Speaker 3: COOL i Told, becca And becca's, like are we? International,

1052
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:50,080
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1053
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,800
Speaker 4: GLOBAL i guess we. Are so Raised, Finale i'm almost

1054
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 4: afraid of WHAT i had to say about it BEFORE

1055
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 4: i hear what you guys had to say about.

1056
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 6: It you're afraid of what you have to say about.

1057
00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 4: IT i have my.

1058
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 2: But you, Loved oh My. Mark it was.

1059
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 6: Good it was, fun so, Cheesy, no there was.

1060
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 5: Full of it was all.

1061
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:15,120
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1062
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:19,439
Speaker 6: I Thought tany was gonna like, it and, yeah she's.

1063
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 5: NOT i definitely.

1064
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 3: CRIED i cried twice And i'm not ashamed to admit.

1065
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 3: It it really it tugged at my. Heartstrings it was

1066
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:27,440
Speaker 3: not a finale.

1067
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:32,880
Speaker 5: Reversal and, no, yeah, no.

1068
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 2: It was so it was like shawnnas.

1069
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 4: Gonsoft, look it was a happy ending For April. Caper,

1070
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 4: no it's.

1071
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:41,839
Speaker 2: Not she should be With. Jackson she's With.

1072
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 4: Matthew we have an issue With. Matthew matthew is a great.

1073
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:48,080
Speaker 6: Guy but he's Not he's Not. Jackson they were.

1074
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 4: Meant to be, Together matthew And april were meant.

1075
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 5: To Be, no they just had to do that last.

1076
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 2: Minute i'm gonna look up the spark notes From.

1077
00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:00,799
Speaker 3: It's basically like it was a great love, story Like

1078
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:02,879
Speaker 3: jack And Rosie.

1079
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:09,840
Speaker 2: Rachel are you a friend talking about But i'll go with. Friends.

1080
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 3: Okay so it's like you Want ross And rachel to be,

1081
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 3: together right for? Sure so it's like the season's over

1082
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:21,440
Speaker 3: And ross, no And rachel decides to Marry Joey.

1083
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 5: Chandler, well, No Tandler's Mary. Joey it was, like how

1084
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 5: The joey storyline and his friends was?

1085
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:27,160
Speaker 6: Terrible.

1086
00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:29,359
Speaker 3: Joey, no it's not Even. Joey it's not like one

1087
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 3: of the. Media it's Like matthew was like a you're, right, Gun.

1088
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 6: Yeah wouldn't you hate that because she was leaving the.

1089
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 6: Show so instead of them like killing all.

1090
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 1: He was leaving the, show they were, like we're just

1091
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 1: never married this gun Through.

1092
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:47,720
Speaker 2: Matthew matth was it hard decision to leave the? Show

1093
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 2: so that's. It that's a.

1094
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 4: Controversial she was going to Marry matthew years. Ago april

1095
00:46:57,200 --> 00:47:01,720
Speaker 4: left him at The altar For jackson For ross maybe

1096
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,719
Speaker 4: her true, love we don't. Know but the fact that

1097
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 4: she's back With, matthew it came full. Circle it's a happy.

1098
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 2: Ending, wait that was wrong what you just?

1099
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 1: Said, yeah, yeah it all didn't sound right because, like

1100
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:14,879
Speaker 1: what do you want.

1101
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 2: Her to do With?

1102
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 5: Ross, yes.

1103
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,799
Speaker 4: They have a kid, together ship.

1104
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:26,279
Speaker 2: Ship, yeah that ship does math left at The, yeah, No.

1105
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 1: MATTHEW i MEAN i don't know the, show BUT i

1106
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 1: Mean matthew obviously just isn't as good As Ross.

1107
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 6: Friend, Okay, okay so that that was a whole issue in.

1108
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 1: Itself, WELL i just, like that's just like my love

1109
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 1: but without seeing it. Obviously SO i mean either, Way

1110
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 1: i'm sure your opinion is just as.

1111
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 2: Lovely but but just in my own, logic like if

1112
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:51,839
Speaker 2: we're talking About ross From, friends she asked me with Ros,

1113
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 2: okay so Then.

1114
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 4: Arizona we have a fairly happy ending For. Arizona, okay

1115
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 4: that was even.

1116
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:57,879
Speaker 5: Worse it was like.

1117
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 1: Maybe i'll see, You, okay Maybe i'm going to end

1118
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 1: up With calli And.

1119
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 6: Califuni but it was so like out of. Nowhere it

1120
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 6: was just like force upon. US i didn't like. IT

1121
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 6: i wanted more of like they could have prepared us

1122
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 6: a little.

1123
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:16,239
Speaker 2: More the episodes an hour an. Hour, YEAH i was

1124
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:17,839
Speaker 2: gonna say maybe they were short for, time BUT i don't.

1125
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,360
Speaker 2: KNOW i, mean that's my head just goes to the technical.

1126
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 1: Things right Then i'm, like, oh they had to get that,

1127
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:23,840
Speaker 1: scene like so you only got like half of what

1128
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:24,759
Speaker 1: it was supposed.

1129
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 6: To Be meredith officiating the wedding was so.

1130
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 5: Cheesy she was, Like alex karrab do you Love?

1131
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 2: Joe so why do you watch the? Show you obviously

1132
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 2: don't like? It?

1133
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,319
Speaker 6: Good, NO I i love it so. Much and it's

1134
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 6: on its fourteenth, season And i've.

1135
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,279
Speaker 2: Watched so in the beginning fourteen, season.

1136
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 6: And the seasons at the beginning are so. Good and

1137
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,400
Speaker 6: the last week's episode like really brought back some of

1138
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 6: the old timey, feels and SO i, Thought, okay we're

1139
00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:54,799
Speaker 6: getting back into.

1140
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:59,040
Speaker 4: It and then you didn't like and getting locked in.

1141
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:06,399
Speaker 6: That funny planner having like a that was.

1142
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:08,360
Speaker 4: Funny when they had to give her ben but her

1143
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 4: throat was closed and try to open upranks to get

1144
00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 4: it in. Her that was. Hilarious, Mark you're. GONE i

1145
00:49:16,040 --> 00:49:19,319
Speaker 4: thought it was very fun light. Finale is there a?

1146
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 3: Show Because, sabrina you're an actress as well you act.

1147
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:23,919
Speaker 3: Sing you're a little bit of a.

1148
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 2: Trifecta, no that's the Word i'm looking for all.

1149
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 4: Trades let her come up with the. Word can't wait

1150
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:29,400
Speaker 4: to hear.

1151
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 2: It i'm.

1152
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:32,560
Speaker 3: EXCITED i was gonna say, ambidexterous but that's not the.

1153
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 2: Word what is the word? Chameleon m, hmm, okay keep

1154
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 2: trying like it's.

1155
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 6: Fun chamellion kind of, worst not your, worst, yeah not your, best,

1156
00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:48,480
Speaker 6: Okay BUT i think you were looking it was a.

1157
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:50,960
Speaker 2: COMPLIMENT i think it was a social. Comment but you

1158
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 2: act and you.

1159
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:56,320
Speaker 3: Sing is there a show that you, like are super

1160
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:58,280
Speaker 3: invested in that you would ever want to be a guestar?

1161
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:00,399
Speaker 2: On oh that's a, good great.

1162
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 1: Question you know, what for someone who worked in, TELEVISION

1163
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:05,359
Speaker 1: i really don't watch MUCH, tv AND i think that

1164
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:08,360
Speaker 1: that's that's the real tea there is. That it's JUST

1165
00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 1: i DON'T i don't have a lot of time Because

1166
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:13,239
Speaker 1: i'm always, Working SO i don't watch a lot of.

1167
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:16,960
Speaker 1: Television but my favorite show when it was on it's

1168
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:19,919
Speaker 1: not on anymore With. Sherlock that was like my favorite.

1169
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 1: SHOW i LOVED i loved. It but like right, NOW

1170
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:26,920
Speaker 1: i am watching season two Of Thirteen Reasons, why BECAUSE

1171
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 1: i haven't.

1172
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 2: Started i'm only On i'm only on episode four or.

1173
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 2: Five there's a lot. Happening, yeah it's just very.

1174
00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:35,400
Speaker 3: Stressful oh, YEAH i did want to watch that this.

1175
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 2: Weekend you, know it's it's. INTERESTING i think it's interesting

1176
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:38,919
Speaker 2: to like.

1177
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:40,759
Speaker 1: Look at a first season of a show like, that

1178
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: we're obviously something so traumatic, happens and this episode is

1179
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 1: kind of like everyone realizing that they were awful in.

1180
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:47,880
Speaker 2: Season, one like bad, people you know WHAT i. Mean

1181
00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 2: so there's just a lot of that.

1182
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:52,479
Speaker 1: Happening but to answer your, question, YEAH i MEAN i think,

1183
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:54,279
Speaker 1: That oh that's so.

1184
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 2: HARD i think you.

1185
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:57,920
Speaker 1: Do you look at shows Like friends and like if

1186
00:50:57,920 --> 00:50:59,919
Speaker 1: that was still on, Air, LIKE i think everyone would

1187
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:01,720
Speaker 1: to be a part of it because it's such a nice.

1188
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:05,319
Speaker 1: Environment but what show would you want to be, On,

1189
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 1: tanya even though you hate it The?

1190
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:10,879
Speaker 4: Brenda would you be a patient Done grays or? Whatever

1191
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:11,799
Speaker 4: because that's just a nice little.

1192
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:13,359
Speaker 1: ONE i feel Like i've had a lot of friends

1193
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:15,839
Speaker 1: that have been like patients On Gray's. ANATOMY i mean,

1194
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:18,800
Speaker 1: really my first job was Was law And ORDER s For,

1195
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:20,320
Speaker 1: You SO i was a victim on LON rs for.

1196
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:22,840
Speaker 1: You SO i feel like that's like a you know

1197
00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:24,359
Speaker 1: WHAT i, Mean like it's it's kind of like having

1198
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 1: a guest star On, grays but just you're just like

1199
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:27,799
Speaker 1: a little more.

1200
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 6: Intense who is your dream like co star to work?

1201
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 6: With if you could choose, one like in a movie

1202
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:35,440
Speaker 6: OR tv.

1203
00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:38,760
Speaker 1: Show oh my, god that's that's such a hard question

1204
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:41,799
Speaker 1: because there's so, many so, many and it also depends

1205
00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:44,080
Speaker 1: on like the movie you're. DOING i think for the longest,

1206
00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:46,440
Speaker 1: Time i've always wanted to just do like a really

1207
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 1: well done musical Because i've Never i've never melted the two,

1208
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 1: together AND i think that the first TIME i do,

1209
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:54,840
Speaker 1: That i'd want it to be something really special in

1210
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:58,319
Speaker 1: a script That i'm really passionate. About, yeah but, oh that's.

1211
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 1: HARD i Love Emma. Stone i've always loved The. Stone

1212
00:52:01,719 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 1: i'm trying to think of H this is really, hard you.

1213
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 1: KNOW i can't wait to See OCEAN zd BECAUSE i

1214
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 1: want to See rihanna and just the cast of that

1215
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 1: movie looks.

1216
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:11,640
Speaker 5: Amazing i'm so excited that.

1217
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 2: Movie so, Yeah i'm excited to see. That what about?

1218
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 2: You who would be your ultimate post?

1219
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:15,919
Speaker 3: Song?

1220
00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:20,280
Speaker 2: Right it's a boiler? Alert?

1221
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:23,480
Speaker 1: Yeah we don't, Act, no but even if you, DID i,

1222
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:25,880
Speaker 1: mean like if we were playing, pretend which is what acting.

1223
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 2: IS i feel LIKE i feel like everyone has LIKE.

1224
00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:31,560
Speaker 6: A i feel LIKE i would like love to.

1225
00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 1: Do.

1226
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:35,000
Speaker 6: Yeah i've just loved her since friends who inspired, you.

1227
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:38,840
Speaker 4: Like you, Know Christina. Aguilera, yeah, musically but who whee

1228
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 4: you want to be an? Actress you.

1229
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 1: KNOW i think there's there's two different times THAT i

1230
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 1: REMEMBERED i wanted to be an, Actor and one was

1231
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 1: Watching The wizard Of oz for the first, time SO

1232
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: i have to give a little credit you To. Garlan

1233
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:53,720
Speaker 1: and then the second one was WHEN i was watching

1234
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 1: the pilot Of Hannah. Montana Like i'm not kidding, guys

1235
00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:59,040
Speaker 1: AND i don't even mean like this, was you, know

1236
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:01,399
Speaker 1: an oscar winning but it was, lovely it was a

1237
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:04,040
Speaker 1: wonder it would be An emmy. Anyways So i'm just,

1238
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:05,880
Speaker 1: saying but WHEN i watched the first episode of, THAT

1239
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:07,840
Speaker 1: i was, LIKE i was, Six SO i was, like,

1240
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: whoa you can sing an act at the same.

1241
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 2: Time that's. Insane and so THEN i wanted to do.

1242
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 4: Both, yeah, yeah how old were you when you DID?

1243
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:19,440
Speaker 2: SVU i was, Eleven so that's pretty.

1244
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:22,759
Speaker 4: Adult material for an eleven year, old did you? Mind, gosh,

1245
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 4: yeah they only give you certain pages of the script.

1246
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:28,959
Speaker 2: Or, yeah you got sides for for whatever your your role.

1247
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 2: Is AND i.

1248
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:31,800
Speaker 1: WAS i was a guest role in that was. EPISODE

1249
00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 1: i was so, LITTLE i was so. SWEATY i don't

1250
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:35,920
Speaker 1: know WHY i was so, Sweaty LIKE i JUST i

1251
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:37,719
Speaker 1: watched the episode now And i'm, like, OH i just.

1252
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 1: Cringe BUT i was at a scene With Chris maloney

1253
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:42,880
Speaker 1: and he was so. Nice he was just, like that

1254
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:44,680
Speaker 1: was my first job. Ever we didn't even know What

1255
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 1: Craft services. Was that's how NEW i. Was we were

1256
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 1: literally so hungry and we were just, like does anyone

1257
00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:50,920
Speaker 1: know where you can get some? Food they're like that

1258
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 1: entire table is for, us.

1259
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 2: And we're, like, oh, great, great gret, great, thanks, okay

1260
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:57,600
Speaker 2: cool yeah, yeah, yeah but, yeah we were like we

1261
00:53:57,600 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 2: were so new to it and they were they were so.

1262
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:01,880
Speaker 1: Kind so it was interesting because WHEN i was, younger you,

1263
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 1: KNOW i always envisioned like comedy is WHAT i want to.

1264
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:04,400
Speaker 4: DO i want to be.

1265
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:05,040
Speaker 2: People laugh and.

1266
00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:08,720
Speaker 1: Smiling but then the first JOB i get WAS spu

1267
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:10,719
Speaker 1: and THEN i decided after, THAT i was, like, OH

1268
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 1: i really like acting just for what it, is AND

1269
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 1: i want to AND i want to try to do

1270
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 1: more of.

1271
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:19,480
Speaker 2: It oh that's. Awesome so. Crazy, yeah And i'm, twelve

1272
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:19,960
Speaker 2: so it's.

1273
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 5: Right so last, Year so last year it was a crazy.

1274
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 2: Year, yeah so.

1275
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:27,960
Speaker 4: Now we have to.

1276
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:30,799
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