WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Drop- Off Daddy

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<v Speaker 1>Second. We've handled school crushes on this segment before. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and normally it's between two adults who maybe used to

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<v Speaker 1>be high school sweethearts years ago. Yeah, it's always really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Or sometimes it's a couple of teachers who got freaky

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<v Speaker 1>in the art room supply closet during assembly, also cute.

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<v Speaker 1>But today's is gonna be a little bit different because

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna be handling a current school crush between two parents.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh glad, that's the twist that we took. And one

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<v Speaker 1>of them is on the phone asking for our help today.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name's Maddie. What's up, Maddie. Hey, how are you

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<v Speaker 1>guys doing. Oh you found that one hot single guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh yeah, the rare one no attachment single dad. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she has a kid. Okay, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Oh, honestly, the rest of the single moms

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<v Speaker 1>are pissed at you. Sorry, sorry, Well, let's find out

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<v Speaker 1>more about the single dad. What's his name? What his

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<v Speaker 1>name is? Derek? And so we met. Our kids go

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<v Speaker 1>to the same school, and we have a double lane

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<v Speaker 1>drop off system in our school, so we would like parallel,

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<v Speaker 1>we'd be parallel to each other. So you know we

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<v Speaker 1>could see in each other's window. Hey, what's up? Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the drop off line is like the pickup spot, now

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<v Speaker 1>picking up more than just your kids. Yeah, so are

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<v Speaker 1>your kids about the same age? Are they in the

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<v Speaker 1>same class or well, they're not in the same class,

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<v Speaker 1>but they are at the same age. Okay, your kid

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<v Speaker 1>was held back. Oh okay, there's multiple classes of the

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<v Speaker 1>same That makes more sense. I'd call for help. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my goodness. So how did you and Derek finally get

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<v Speaker 1>to talking? Okay? So, um, one day we were we

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<v Speaker 1>were actually walking out together and he was like, you

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<v Speaker 1>want to get some coffee or I was like, um, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, let's go. Are the whole time is your

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<v Speaker 1>kid just like tugging on your coat, like let's go? Mom? No,

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<v Speaker 1>they there, they were in school, they were gone, so

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<v Speaker 1>you just dropped them off. I see, I see. Okay. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so you ended up going to coffee with him? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we were going to coffee. We're talking. We had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time. Like sometimes, you know, when you have recent exes,

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<v Speaker 1>you tend to talk about them on the on the

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<v Speaker 1>dates and you don't realize it. And this one we

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<v Speaker 1>really I found myself not talking about Okay, good start.

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<v Speaker 1>That's growth for you. It sounds like it's really proud

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<v Speaker 1>of yourself. That's a good thing. Yeah, it's been like

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<v Speaker 1>five years. Yeah, you don't even have any kids with

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<v Speaker 1>that act. I mean, didn't feel like a date because

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went straight from like drop off to coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>like was was there sparks? That's the thing. Like it

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<v Speaker 1>felt so easy, so nat tr like I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>I known him for the locket you know, and I

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<v Speaker 1>and I had. But yeah, I just felt so comfortable

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<v Speaker 1>and and then you know, the check came in. He

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, let me, let me get this, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh no, no, no, because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want it to feel like a date date.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't want it to feel like a date date?

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of date did you want it to feel like? Means? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, we're not going to beat around the bush

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<v Speaker 1>a date with the expectation that there might be something

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<v Speaker 1>happening afterwards. What she's saying is she wants to have

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<v Speaker 1>a date date, but she wants it to be an

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<v Speaker 1>outlined let's go on a date. Yeah before they go Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want any confusion. Did you at least do

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<v Speaker 1>like a but you can get me next time, so

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<v Speaker 1>that it like eludes that this is going to happen again.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I should have said that. I'm like, no, man,

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<v Speaker 1>pay for you now. Not ever, that would have been good.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just wonder if it like put him

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<v Speaker 1>down a little bit in terms of, like you then

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<v Speaker 1>turned it into a friend zone thing by doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>I understood what you were saying, but I also understand

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<v Speaker 1>what Brooke is saying. Yeah, I personally would be offended.

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<v Speaker 1>I love to pay for everyone all the time, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>so if I get rejected, it would feel like a

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<v Speaker 1>rejection to me. Would you like to pay for me? Yeah? So, Maddie,

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<v Speaker 1>are you thinking that that really offended him? Is that

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<v Speaker 1>the vibe you were getting from Derek? Something seemed different

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<v Speaker 1>after that, But he was still cordial. He was still

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<v Speaker 1>cracking jokes and all that. And you know, we we

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<v Speaker 1>said goodbye, you know, we waved, you know, there was

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<v Speaker 1>a little contact. Okay, we left and I had him

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<v Speaker 1>actually given him my number, Okay, you know hopefully you

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<v Speaker 1>know he would text me with like, hey, let's go

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<v Speaker 1>on the second pedle. Maybe you know something didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like I'm confused because I'm thinking that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not to like, sound too cocky or anything, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like this, I like that about your job. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>you should feel that way. So how long has it

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<v Speaker 1>been since that coffee date. It's been two weeks. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you seen him at the drop offline? Yes, but

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<v Speaker 1>not as often. And at the time I did see him.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was an accident. I think he wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to happen. In fact, now he's tinted all the windows

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<v Speaker 1>on his cars and I can't set him. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that's really weird. My only thought here is are

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<v Speaker 1>you sure that he's a single dad? Oh? Yeah, we talk.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked about it. There's no tan lines, like that's

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<v Speaker 1>something you you you notice? Oh you get tan lines

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<v Speaker 1>when you are wedding on the ring. Oh. I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this coffee date got really interested. But anyway, let's let's

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<v Speaker 1>play a song. We're gonna come back. We'll call Derek

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<v Speaker 1>for you and we'll try and get you your second

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<v Speaker 1>date up date. All right, all right, thank you all.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold one, two single parents, two identical minivans, two children

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<v Speaker 1>in the same class, but only one has an STD.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the lacky wrong com everybody's waiting to see PTA

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<v Speaker 1>with HPV coming this fall. No, I'm just joking about

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<v Speaker 1>that last part. It's coming out of the the spring. But

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners, Maddie, is a single mom and

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<v Speaker 1>she met a single dad recently named Derek in the

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<v Speaker 1>school drop offline. The two of them hit it off

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<v Speaker 1>and ended up going out to coffee together, but afterwards,

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<v Speaker 1>Derek has been acting a little bit strange kind of

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<v Speaker 1>avoiding Maddie and she does not know why, so she's

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<v Speaker 1>asking for our help. Maddie, is there any is there

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<v Speaker 1>any parts of the story that we didn't cover there?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? STDs? When I know you

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<v Speaker 1>were joking, but my goodness, sorry, I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>give up the spoilers to the ending of this. Jes

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<v Speaker 1>you just really thought that was funny, didn't you, Maddie? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what exactly exactly? Listen, Like the bottom line is is

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm a single mother, hard out there finding you know,

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<v Speaker 1>quality guys, so you know I click. I clicked with him,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's rare. I know, we got you. We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to fix this. And you did mention though that your

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<v Speaker 1>kids are the same age. There's no chance that the

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<v Speaker 1>two of them have some sort of school crush going on.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you doing? What would that matter? They're in

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<v Speaker 1>elementary school. If you don't want the parents, get them together.

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<v Speaker 1>If the kids are getting together too, nobody's getting together

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<v Speaker 1>at elementary school. Maybe they're kicking each other in the shins.

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<v Speaker 1>To say, I like it, like that's not actually know

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<v Speaker 1>what parents and kids getting together. That's another good idea

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<v Speaker 1>for a movie. I'm going to pitch it to Hollywood

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<v Speaker 1>after this. But first we're get Derek on the phone. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're just gonna call Derek and we'll ask him what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on. Are you ready, Maddie, I'm ready. Number nine?

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Derek. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>here's this. Hey, my name's Jeff from the radio show

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing, man? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Hi Derek? What's going on? So we're doing a segment

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<v Speaker 1>on our show. It's called a second date Update. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sure if you're familiar with that, but basically, it's

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<v Speaker 1>where we help out our listeners who are being ghosted

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<v Speaker 1>try to figure out why the other person isn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>them back after a good date. Okay, I'm not a listener.

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay, most people aren't broke. But we do have

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<v Speaker 1>a listener that went on a date with you, and

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<v Speaker 1>her name's Maddie. I mean, I know, Matti. We had coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't know about a date. Okay, Well

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<v Speaker 1>I could see that. I could see how it could

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<v Speaker 1>be deciphered either way. Be sure he told us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about it. There may or may not have

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<v Speaker 1>been considered an actual date, but there was a hangout

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<v Speaker 1>with you and Maddie, and she had a really good

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<v Speaker 1>time with you. Yeah, she's been a really nice person.

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<v Speaker 1>It was nice to meeting her and studing some time

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<v Speaker 1>with her. Okay, was there any vibes like did you

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<v Speaker 1>get the vibe from her that she was looking, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for like a real date maybe in the future. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say anything that would paint her

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<v Speaker 1>in a bad light. So paint her in a bad light. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she listens to our show. I mean a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>times that happens. Whenever we have somebody on this show

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<v Speaker 1>for this segment, we have to tell them ahead of time.

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<v Speaker 1>They might hear something a little bit embarrassing about themselves,

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<v Speaker 1>so they have to agree to it, and Maddie is

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<v Speaker 1>prepared for whatever the real answer is. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to be polite, but fine, this is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>sound weird. After we had coffee, right, I found her

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<v Speaker 1>on Facebook and that's kind of excited because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't hung out with a single mom in a while. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you were actually, yeah, you were actually thinking this

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<v Speaker 1>could turn into something then, I mean you were positive

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<v Speaker 1>at that point. After the date, you're like, okay, let's

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<v Speaker 1>do this. Yeah. After coffee, I was definitely like, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe there's something here. Oh okay, So what changed? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I was excited. As I was dropping my son off

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<v Speaker 1>at his grandparents. My dad and like, I'm telling him

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<v Speaker 1>about Maddie and I showed him a picture of her

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<v Speaker 1>on my phone and my dad got this weird book

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<v Speaker 1>on his face and he says, I know her, And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what what are you talking about? What your

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<v Speaker 1>dad knows Maddie. I mean, it makes sense. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>are in the same community, you go to the same school,

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<v Speaker 1>like it does. I mean, everybody's like two degrees separation

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<v Speaker 1>when you're in an elementary school. Honestly, I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>guess it's possible that they would know each other. How

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<v Speaker 1>my dad goes, this is gonna sound strange, but I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen her online. She's on the website only Fans. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I think the bigger question fans, why wouldn't you see? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>This seems more normal to me. It Did he give

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<v Speaker 1>you more details? Did you go and look up her

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<v Speaker 1>only Fans page? Yeah? I didn't. I didn't believe my

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<v Speaker 1>dad at first, but then he showed me. Then sure enough,

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<v Speaker 1>that's her. I mean she's you know, under a different

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<v Speaker 1>name there, but like he was already open on his browser.

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<v Speaker 1>That's weird. He's like, I have pictures of her too.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm sorry. She did not do anything wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>She's an adult woman, she's a single mom, Blair, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she's hot. What do you think about that? It was

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<v Speaker 1>just like a little shocking. I never pictured myself of

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<v Speaker 1>someone from only Fans, And like she's quite popular on

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<v Speaker 1>the site. How popular? Who wonders she paid for her

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<v Speaker 1>own coffee? Yeah that makes sense out What do you

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<v Speaker 1>mean she's popular? She has like a large amount of

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<v Speaker 1>subscribers there, and you know, I'm just like a dad

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<v Speaker 1>with a kid. It just weird. Me out. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You definitely want the more popular the less popular, if

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<v Speaker 1>you are going to that's a good point, but I

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<v Speaker 1>also get it as a parent that would feel kind

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<v Speaker 1>of weird. I need to tell you, Maddie's on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening, and she wants to speak with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and she wants you to subscribe. I don't know about

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<v Speaker 1>that made hi. Oh my, oh my god, you were

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone the whole time. I thought they were

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<v Speaker 1>just going to relay it to you, like, wait, oh boy, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know. So you have a you have

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<v Speaker 1>a problem with me having the only fans, pase that's

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<v Speaker 1>what it was. I don't know that problems the right where.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't know how I feel about it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. Maybe you have some suggestions for her? What

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean, like content? Yeah? Like maybe is that

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<v Speaker 1>what you never? That's where we're going? Where are listen?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I can be with somebody like that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I did feel a connection with you, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to feel that you are that narrow minded

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<v Speaker 1>that you can't get past something like this. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a single mother trying to make ends meet. I

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<v Speaker 1>make a lot of money, and I spend a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of time with my son. I just I can't get

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<v Speaker 1>my mind around that. You you really just did not

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<v Speaker 1>talk to me because I have an only fancy. I

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<v Speaker 1>think maybe maybe I'm just guessing for Derek. He he

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<v Speaker 1>just doesn't know how to approach the situation the right way. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he was taken aback by it and he's

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<v Speaker 1>not sure the right way to handle it. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>saying it's good or bad. I was just processing it

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<v Speaker 1>at my own speed, you know, while dealing with my responsibilities.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't dated him a very long time. It's quite

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<v Speaker 1>possible everyone has an only fans at this point. I

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<v Speaker 1>acknowledge that, just the entire PGA board. All right, Derek,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't don't think you understand what we're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>It like you're you're a lucky position to be in

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<v Speaker 1>right now. You know how many I want to date me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very popular on only fans, you know. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>hear that you're you're a little bit um defensive defensive there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to use the right words here. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to say desperate. Yeah, I'm not saying that, but uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean clearly you're seeking his approval here, like you

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<v Speaker 1>definitely want to go out on another date with him.

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<v Speaker 1>So we had a connection, a connection that doesn't happen often,

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<v Speaker 1>and I felt a spark and I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 1>have a belief that he's going to come through. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we understand it. And let's see if Derek

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<v Speaker 1>can come through here, because he's been thinking about this,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'd like to offer Derek to send you guys

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<v Speaker 1>out on another date. I mean, I think the thing

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<v Speaker 1>is Derek, like, this is your opportunity to ask all

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<v Speaker 1>the questions that you have about her line of work.

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<v Speaker 1>Very good and if you don't feel comfortable after that,

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<v Speaker 1>then you know, move on. You know it's not right

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<v Speaker 1>for that's okay too, conversation. You could bring your dad

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<v Speaker 1>along too, and some questions. I'm sure he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>know a lot talk subscriber. I mean, I could probably

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<v Speaker 1>get my head around the only fans thing, but like

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<v Speaker 1>just from this radio thing and the way she just

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<v Speaker 1>like it's quite aggressive, so early on I'm gonna respectfully pass.

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<v Speaker 1>He just wants to hang up so bad right now,

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<v Speaker 1>it's maybe not the right fit for him. Comfortable. Wow, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Oh great, there's a million guys on the

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<v Speaker 1>text board here again, I kind of want to know

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<v Speaker 1>what her only fans is. I'm just curious. I'm just curious.

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<v Speaker 1>I think your husband would mind it all. Yeah, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>find all that information out and then we're gonna call

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<v Speaker 1>Derek's dad interested. That's terrible. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.