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Speaker 1: Oh glad, that's the twist that we took. And one

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Speaker 1: Her name's Maddie. What's up, Maddie. Hey, how are you

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Speaker 1: my goodness. So how did you and Derek finally get

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Speaker 1: That's growth for you. It sounds like it's really proud

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Speaker 1: I didn't want it to feel like a date date.

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Derek. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think the bigger question fans, why wouldn't you see? Now?

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Speaker 1: This seems more normal to me. It Did he give

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Speaker 1: only Fans page? Yeah? I didn't. I didn't believe my

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Speaker 1: do you mean, like content? Yeah? Like maybe is that

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Speaker 1: what you never? That's where we're going? Where are listen?

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Speaker 1: I don't think I can be with somebody like that.

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Speaker 1: But I did feel a connection with you, and I

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Speaker 1: I haven't dated him a very long time. It's quite

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Speaker 1: possible everyone has an only fans at this point. I

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Speaker 1: acknowledge that, just the entire PGA board. All right, Derek,

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Speaker 1: I don't don't think you understand what we're talking about.

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Speaker 1: I'm very popular on only fans, you know. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: I mean clearly you're seeking his approval here, like you

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Speaker 1: So we had a connection, a connection that doesn't happen often,

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Speaker 1: I think we understand it. And let's see if Derek

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Speaker 1: and we'd like to offer Derek to send you guys

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Speaker 1: the questions that you have about her line of work.

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Speaker 1: Very good and if you don't feel comfortable after that,

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Speaker 1: for that's okay too, conversation. You could bring your dad

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Speaker 1: like it's quite aggressive, so early on I'm gonna respectfully pass.

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Speaker 1: it's maybe not the right fit for him. Comfortable. Wow, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I think your husband would mind it all. Yeah, we'll

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Speaker 1: find all that information out and then we're gonna call

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Speaker 1: Derek's dad interested. That's terrible. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.