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Speaker 1: The courses of this program were pre recorded.

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Speaker 2: Please welcome Hell Australia.

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Speaker 1: Let's hear it.

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Speaker 3: Whoad guys, No idea my voice was that annoying.

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Speaker 4: I used to listening to.

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Speaker 5: The station that I found you guys, and I got

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Speaker 5: no refreshing.

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Speaker 3: Love you guys.

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Speaker 1: Elvis Terran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: My God, get it up, sister, we gotta go. It

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Speaker 2: is Wednesday, April twenty fourth. Yep, it's a day day

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Speaker 2: we should start to show to do a Yeah, what

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Speaker 2: do you want to hear that one? Or some song

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Speaker 2: that he goes.

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Speaker 6: Oh no, no, yeah, that one, that one, that one.

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Speaker 2: I'll have to play this one stage come into you.

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Speaker 2: I remember one year, Julie but did jingle Ball actually

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Speaker 2: performed the song and we were backstage watching. You know,

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Speaker 2: that's the best place to watch the show, right, But

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Speaker 2: it was so cool to see that show jingle Ball.

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Speaker 2: What is jingle Ball run.

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Speaker 7: Christmas time at the same time every year.

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Speaker 2: Let's have another one this year, shall we? Anyway, Welcome

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Speaker 2: to the day. We talked to our first caller of

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Speaker 2: the day. Noel.

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Speaker 8: Hi, Noel, Oh my gosh, Hi, everybody, good morning, good morning.

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Speaker 2: I heard a rumor it's your birthday? Is this true?

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Speaker 8: It is? It's number forty three for me and I'm

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Speaker 8: talking to some of my best friends in the entire world.

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Speaker 2: I'm so wow, birthday, Happy birthday. So what are you

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Speaker 2: doing for your big Noel birthday?

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Speaker 8: I am hoping that the Yankees win tonight, so.

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Speaker 2: That would be the ultimate gift.

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Speaker 1: I guess heck yea, it would be.

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Speaker 8: And to talk to you guy, I've been listening since

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Speaker 8: Elvis and Elliott, so it's been a long time waiting

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Speaker 8: and I'm super pumped and today is just a game

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Speaker 8: changer here.

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Speaker 2: Well, no I think you're changing our game. Actually, I

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Speaker 2: can feel your energy. Are you feeling her energy?

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Speaker 9: Good?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, it's like electricity, electricity.

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Speaker 2: You do Aleapas on the way. We've gotta clean this

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Speaker 2: mess up. Hey, So Noel, howe the class?

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Speaker 8: We have to do the class or do Alipa.

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Speaker 2: I was saying, what if you went to a du

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Speaker 2: Aleipa concert and rather than you know, applause after every song,

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Speaker 2: people just clap twice. Move on. Hey, Okay, so you're

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Speaker 2: hoping for a Yankees victory. But what are you doing

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Speaker 2: for your birthday? Is it a typical day and you're

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Speaker 2: gonna celebrate later or what's up.

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Speaker 8: Well, it's a typical day. But I do have two

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Speaker 8: awesome kids, Sadie and Rocco, who are are planning something

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Speaker 8: I'm sposed to not know, so I'm sure it's going

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Speaker 8: to be amazing. And it's just it's just another day

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Speaker 8: to just see the world and have great weather and

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Speaker 8: the side of the He's not just kill it, just

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Speaker 8: love every part of that.

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Speaker 2: All right, get out there. I know we're all we're

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Speaker 2: all scratching our eyes with these seasonal allergies. Hey, it's

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Speaker 2: her birthday, Nate, give her something good.

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Speaker 4: What do you have?

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Speaker 11: How about a fifty dollars Wendy's gift card for that

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Speaker 11: new Cinnabon pull apart.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah sounds good.

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Speaker 12: It sounds awesome.

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Speaker 8: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening. We appreciate your energy and happy birthday. Noel,

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Speaker 2: it's your day. Don't let anyone try to screw that up.

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Speaker 8: Oh my gosh, you got it.

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Speaker 4: I'm on it.

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Speaker 9: Don't worry about it.

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Speaker 2: Hold on one second. Have a great day. There you go, Noel, Danielle,

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Speaker 2: how are you?

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Speaker 12: I am good? How are you?

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Speaker 2: What's on your mind today?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 12: Same as yesterday?

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Speaker 1: Not much new?

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Speaker 2: Well what about you? Gandhi? What's up?

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Speaker 3: I'm just excited because yesterday was a beautiful day, hoping

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Speaker 3: the same for today.

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Speaker 2: Didn't we have a chance of rain today?

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Speaker 3: A chance?

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Speaker 10: A chance doesn't mean about it?

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Speaker 2: Froggy, how are you feeling this fine morning? I'm all good.

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Speaker 2: I got no complaints elbows during What about you? Scatter?

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Speaker 2: I feel amazing, amazing? What about you, Producer Sam?

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Speaker 10: I feel good.

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Speaker 13: Allergies kick my but yesterday so I'm still feeling that.

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Speaker 13: But otherwise I'm great.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I found out for my doctor I have high

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Speaker 2: cholesterol yesterday. That's what. Let's let's have a steak. How

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Speaker 2: are you doing, Scotty Be you're good? My cholesterol is

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Speaker 2: off the charts. Let's hang out. Okay, it's in the red.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like we would be a really good match.

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Speaker 14: High Diamond, Good morning.

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Speaker 2: What are you doing over there? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Just trying to breathe?

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Speaker 7: You know, my allergies are kicking them off behind.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go. I think even though we are

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Speaker 2: in a good mood.

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Speaker 10: That's good, right, absolutely?

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Speaker 3: Something weird is happening because I usually have horrible allergies

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Speaker 12: Don't you better not done?

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Speaker 2: Your body goes through a change.

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Speaker 3: I hope that I just got my ass beats for

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Speaker 3: so many years that I've become immune.

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Speaker 12: Maybe maybe maybe when you were sick this year, it

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Speaker 12: changed the composition of your body and now you don't

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Speaker 12: have that.

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Speaker 10: Or no, like it's super human.

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Speaker 2: Yes, if you just say you don't have allergies, you

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Speaker 2: never will. I don't, but you will. All right, let's

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Speaker 2: get into the three things we need to know. We

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Speaker 2: do have a thousand dollars free money. Phone tap on

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Speaker 2: the way, du Alipa is on the way. Matthew Hussey

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Speaker 2: is on the way.

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Speaker 15: What us to do?

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Speaker 2: All right? You're up?

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Speaker 10: All right, there's a lot going on.

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Speaker 3: A bill allowing Tennessee teachers to carry guns is headed

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Speaker 3: to the Governor's desk. The bill allows for specially trained

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Speaker 3: teachers to carry handguns in the classroom, but parents and

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Speaker 3: kids will not know if the teacher is armed. The

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Speaker 3: measure passed the state House Tuesday along party lines, with

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Speaker 3: only four Republicans voting against it. Governor Bill Lee has

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Speaker 3: indicated support for the measure. But says he needs to

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Speaker 3: see all the details before signing. The Food and Drug

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Speaker 3: Administration says the bird flu virus has been detected in

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Speaker 3: some samples of pasteurized milk in the US. The FDA

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Speaker 3: made that announcement yesterday, less than a month after the

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Speaker 3: outbreak of the bird flu was found in herds of

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Speaker 3: dairy cows for the first time. The agency says the

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Speaker 3: pastorization of the milk is likely to deactivate the virus

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Speaker 3: and it's therefore still safe to drink, but they're waiting

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Speaker 3: for test results to confirm that statement. And finally, the

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Speaker 3: Federal Trade Commission is non compete agreements. According to the FTC,

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Speaker 3: about eighteen percent of the workforce in the US is

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Speaker 3: covered by these agreements, which stops them from working for

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Speaker 3: competitors or starting a new competing business when leaving a job.

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Speaker 3: That's about thirty million people right now. The rule would

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Speaker 3: ban these agreements for workers and force companies to let

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Speaker 3: current and past employees know that they will no longer

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Speaker 3: be enforced.

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Speaker 2: There, fine, we let them know. I can finally get

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Speaker 2: a job at LIGHTFM.

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Speaker 3: You walk right across the street, Oh, the hallway, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and those are your three things?

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Speaker 2: Thank you. That is a big, big.

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Speaker 10: Huge deal. Not for us here in New York as much.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, I don't think I don't think they are.

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Speaker 2: They cannot enforce them here. So if you want to

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Speaker 2: go work across the street, then you know tough titties.

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Speaker 2: Well wow, just go. Now I'm saying, where are you going?

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Speaker 2: I'm going to I'm going to do ESPN Talk Sports radio.

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Speaker 10: Are you you have been watching basketball?

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Speaker 2: I have been watching basketball. He knows they're ready for me.

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited. Are you guys ready for your Wednesday?

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Speaker 16: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry? Was that funny.

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Speaker 1: Elvista ran in the morning show?

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Speaker 10: Time is running out to.

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Speaker 2: All right, you know it's time. It's been years since

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Speaker 2: we had Remember that lady we hired the efficiency expert.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we need to have her back. I feel

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Speaker 2: like we're just inefficient.

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Speaker 10: I don't think i've met her and I don't think

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Speaker 10: I like her.

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Speaker 12: I don't think she helped anyway.

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Speaker 2: I remember that that was years ago. Yeah, I felt

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Speaker 2: like we were just we needed a little oomph, a

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Speaker 10: Why does she come in tweak?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 2: Everything? Oh she sat here all day and told us

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Speaker 12: It was very funny though, because as like, we're just

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Speaker 12: doing our thing, and every time she picked up her

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Speaker 12: you write down? Who are you writing about? What do

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Speaker 12: we do wrong?

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Speaker 2: Exactly? We need an efficiency network, an expert?

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Speaker 10: Can I volunteer? No, you need it more than all

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Speaker 10: of the Exactly, I do so much around here. You

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Speaker 10: don't even know.

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Speaker 2: You come in here and just you're like a whirling dervish.

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Speaker 10: I enjoy myself. I explore all the corners.

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Speaker 2: Yes, huh, Producer Sam, good morning, let's do some horsecopes.

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Speaker 2: Who are doing with.

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Speaker 10: I'd love to do with you today?

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Speaker 1: Please?

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Speaker 2: All right? Hold on. If you're having a birthday today,

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Speaker 2: you celebrate with Oh my god, I want to go

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Speaker 2: to this lunch. You celebrate with Kelly Clarkson, Barbius dry

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Speaker 2: sand and cedric the entertainer.

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Speaker 10: Oh ah, the talent that would be good for you? You

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Speaker 10: love that?

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Speaker 2: I would love that lunch AnyWho. Cap Acorn, your drive

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Speaker 2: towards perfection is helpful Today. Aim high and your effort

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Speaker 2: will pay off. Capricorn your Dasa.

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Speaker 13: Nine Aquarius, You're gonna need to be creative today. Think

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Speaker 13: outside the box A complex problems come in your way

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Speaker 13: your days.

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Speaker 2: An eight highe Pisces. Sometimes you need to act before

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Speaker 2: you feel ready. Inspiration will then follow your days A

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Speaker 2: nine aries.

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Speaker 13: Today, your efforts have the potential to lead to major gains.

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Speaker 13: Try not to let your inner doubt stifle your actions

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Speaker 13: your days of six Hey Taris.

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Speaker 2: Consistency is usually your strength, but it's on to but

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Speaker 2: it's on to back off a task. What okay? Consistency

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Speaker 2: Hello stars on crack. Consistency is usually your strength, but

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Speaker 2: it's on to back off a test that's been serving you.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, it probably means okay, it's okay, it's okay.

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Speaker 13: Probably your days of six o Jemini are a quick thinker,

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Speaker 3: Because calling someone a bully bitch is not bullying in itself.

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Speaker 2: Look, I don't care.

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Speaker 3: It's just funny to me the way that this whole

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Speaker 12: And by the way, that's just hearsay that kim said

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Speaker 2: So let's say hello to Shella. Hi, Shella, is it Shell?

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Speaker 4: Your name?

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Speaker 2: Is your name? Shella? Yes, Shella hows everything in the

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Speaker 2: City of Brotherly Love.

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Speaker 9: Oh, it's good, it's good.

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Speaker 4: So you just.

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Speaker 2: Well, we love having you here. So I heard rumor

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Speaker 4: I did.

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Speaker 9: I just a book on Audible was the greatest thing. Really,

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Speaker 9: it's pretty good, Yeah, it really was. When is your

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Speaker 4: I need to listen to it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sort of writing it now. And then, uh,

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Speaker 9: I love your first book. I thought it was so raw,

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Speaker 9: so good. Listening to it was even better, and it

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Speaker 9: You need a second one?

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Speaker 2: All right? All right, all right, I need You're right,

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Speaker 2: I need to get that done. What is it going

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Speaker 7: Or are you doing like a Harlequin Romance no.

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Speaker 12: With Fabio on the cover.

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Speaker 2: Yeah no, no, no, no no, it's just you'll see

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Speaker 14: I think you should wait till after you retire to

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Speaker 14: release the book, because then you could spill all the tea.

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Speaker 2: Just what are you saying? You want me to retire now?

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Speaker 17: No?

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Speaker 14: No, no, no, wait ten years, Shella.

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Speaker 2: I'm listening to you loud and clear. I need to

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Speaker 2: get that book done. You're right absolute. I know, Danielle.

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Speaker 2: You just did something on Audible too, didn't you.

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Speaker 12: I just finished The Family Upstairs by Lisa Jewel and

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Speaker 11: I listened to Dan Harris's book, Our friend Dan here

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Speaker 11: happier and his voice, Oh my gosh, so good.

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Speaker 2: You're weird, you tak It's a great book though, it's

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Speaker 2: really great. So look, Shella, thank you for listening to

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Speaker 2: the book. Can we give Shelle something. What do we

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Speaker 2: We're gonna give you an Amazon Echo whoa you know

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Speaker 2: you know her name. Also, we're going to give you

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Speaker 2: And we're gonna give you a two hundred and fifty

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Speaker 18: Yeah yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. Thanks for listening to my book, and you

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Speaker 9: Also, Elvis, I just I just want to say that

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Speaker 9: live like live our love out, live life, live raw,

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Speaker 9: live Who we Are your book. Listening to it was

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Speaker 9: probably the best, most encouraging, most raw book that I

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Speaker 4: Thank you for everything.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, by the way, nice the book always available

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Speaker 14: Shameless.

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Speaker 2: Feel free, all right, Shella, Hold on one second, we're

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Speaker 2: going to send you this big box of stuff. Hold on,

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Speaker 2: how cool is that? How nice?

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Speaker 19: Uh?

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Speaker 2: By the way, if you want to oh by bye bap,

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Speaker 2: dot com slash Elvis. That's audible dot com slash elevits.

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Speaker 2: I have a bag of stuff.

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Speaker 12: What do you have?

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Speaker 2: What's in the bag? Bitch?

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Speaker 12: Did you see a little Snickers that were id?

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Speaker 10: Can we take those?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely? We got by the way, I couldn't even fit

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Speaker 2: those in the bag. We have so many we have

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Speaker 2: Her name is Bev Kroutch. She's a sales analyst at

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Speaker 2: Unique Snacks. She says, it's national pretzel day to day there.

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Speaker 2: These are called puffs puffsils. It's big puff flavor with

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Speaker 12: Okay, what else we got?

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Speaker 2: I got plain one because they also sent jars of mustard.

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Speaker 2: There's a multi grain for longer life.

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Speaker 2: And also let's see what this.

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Speaker 12: Oh, that's probably a good mustard. That's a German mustard.

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Speaker 2: Something else arrived today. You let's see what else I arrived.

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Speaker 10: Can we eat it?

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Speaker 2: Scary's gold microphone? Scary's gold microphone with his name is

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Speaker 14: I can't cool. This is so awesome, whip.

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Speaker 12: What are we going to attach it to?

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Speaker 2: Never? It does it? You can't attach it to you

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Speaker 12: It's are you going to put it at home? At

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Speaker 20: Well, I don't know, yeah, I guess yes, absolutely, yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 14: Thank you so much, Thank you guys.

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Speaker 2: The thing is so cool, so thank you to uh Bosh.

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Speaker 2: By the way, Bosh, there are everything, audible, everything microphone.

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Speaker 2: These are the microphones and we had it gold plated

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Speaker 14: This is phenomenal.

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Speaker 6: Thank you.

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Speaker 14: I can't thank you guys so much. I remember when

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Speaker 20: I thought it was a joke because I'm like what,

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Speaker 20: I don't I'm not worthy of a gold microphone.

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Speaker 2: But thank you so much, and you're more than worthy

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Speaker 7: That's culled.

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Speaker 2: He kissed me.

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Speaker 14: Thank you, guys, you're.

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Speaker 2: Beyond beyond worthy of a gold microphone. Scary, we love you,

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Speaker 2: Thank you. I have a celebratory pretzel.

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Speaker 14: Can I dip it in some mustard?

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Speaker 2: You can do whatever you want.

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Speaker 7: It's your microphone, you do it German mustard. It's really good.

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Speaker 2: My gosh, what if my schnauzers were like some German mustard.

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Speaker 2: There you go, Thank you, You're very welcome. That was

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Speaker 2: So much going on.

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Speaker 12: Let's talk about miss Caitlin Clark. I told you this

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Speaker 12: and it's worth twenty eight million dollars. You deal good

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Speaker 12: million for four years. She had a meeting with Puma

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Speaker 12: and she walked out, apparently because it was a very

449
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Speaker 12: low ball offer of like three million dollars. So oh,

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Speaker 12: but like I said, eight eight years, twenty eight mili

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Speaker 12: from Nike, and I think she's getting her own shoe

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Speaker 12: as well. So that's pretty damn cool.

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Speaker 2: Don't you love seeing that stuff unfold for her?

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Speaker 12: Yeah, good for her, especially when the she only got

455
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Speaker 12: seventy six thousand dollars from the WSBA. I mean, you know,

456
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Speaker 12: it's crazy.

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Speaker 3: Have you guys seen the Olympic runners uniforms that Nike

458
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Speaker 3: put out?

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Speaker 2: The ones who were there, Uh, their unmentionables are hanging out.

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Speaker 3: Yeh. I don't know how you can run in something

461
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Speaker 3: like that. Oh, there's gonna be stuff all over the place.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Even the runners were tweeting like, so where does my

464
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Speaker 3: left one go?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: That's uncomfortable to see Froggy wearing one of them. It's

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Speaker 2: like it's like the boat. Yeah, it's very similar to that.

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Speaker 10: They're very cut, Like what I.

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Speaker 2: Mean because I know that it looks like a guy

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Speaker 2: made them, because a woman would never design those, because

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Speaker 2: because your twigs and berries fall out right.

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Speaker 10: Absolutely. Just the tweets were hilarious.

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Speaker 12: I can't even imagine.

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Speaker 10: Interested to see how this go?

475
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Speaker 12: The pain, the pain. The Tailosworts Education Center wing of

476
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Speaker 12: the Country Music Hall of Fame and Museum has on

477
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Speaker 12: display the friendship bracelets she received from fans during the ariostours.

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Speaker 12: So if you go in there, maybe you'll see the

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Speaker 12: bracelet you gave her, because I'm sure lots of people

480
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Speaker 12: gave her lots of bracelets.

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Speaker 10: Let's see.

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Speaker 12: Marshmallow and Pink Pantheress will be performing at the twenty

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Speaker 12: twenty four MLS All Star Concert. I cannot believe it's

484
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Speaker 12: already that time of year, but yes, the MLS All

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Speaker 12: Star Game is kicking off July twenty first and running

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Speaker 12: through July twenty fourth. It's gonna be It's been a yeah.

487
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Speaker 12: I was there last year in Seattle and it's already

488
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Speaker 12: a year. It's just it's so crazy how quick things

489
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Speaker 12: go and time goes. It's really Kim Kardashian was on

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Speaker 12: Jimmy Kimmelive this week, and she revealed that a lot

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Speaker 12: of the rumors we hear about her are true. She

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Speaker 12: did not comment on Taylor Swift and the song and

493
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Speaker 12: things like that, but she admitted to blow drying her

494
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Speaker 12: jewelry because she hates the feeling of cold metal. Okay, okay,

495
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Speaker 12: so she likes to warm it up, which puts it

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Speaker 12: on her body, and she hates the sound of cardboard,

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Speaker 12: so she has her assistance take off the cardboard sleeve

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Speaker 12: from her Starbucks orders for her. Wow, can't you just

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Speaker 12: get that without.

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Speaker 2: The sleeve or just take it off yourself?

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Speaker 12: But she doesn't like the sound, but the cardboard sound,

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Speaker 12: and it drives her crazy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I guess if.

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Speaker 12: You have like a what is it?

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Speaker 10: What's the one with so Phoni?

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Speaker 12: Yeah, this sounds maybe No, I don't think that's what

507
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Speaker 12: she has, but maybe that's maybe that's what it is.

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Speaker 12: I don't know. My son has it.

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Speaker 2: I have to ask Kanye guys.

510
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Speaker 12: Kanye is starting off his own porn studio, wants to

511
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Speaker 12: call it easy Porn, saying it should be up and

512
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Speaker 12: running as early as this summer. That is all. Uh,

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Speaker 12: this is crazy. A photographer is suing in the Stallion

514
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Speaker 12: ra a toxic work environment. One of the things he's claiming

515
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Speaker 12: is that she forced him to watch her have sex

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Speaker 12: with another woman in the back of an suv. Now,

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Speaker 12: his lawyer is the same guy who's representing the people

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Speaker 12: suing Lizzo for harassment. So a lot of people are

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Speaker 12: wondering what's going on with this. So we'll keep you

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Speaker 12: posted and let you know what that's Please keep us

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Speaker 12: that's right, I'll keep you posted. Jelly Rowl spent a

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Speaker 12: lot of time in a juvenile detention center. You guys

523
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Speaker 12: know that, and now he is giving back. He built

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Speaker 12: them a music studio in the same facility. Thirty five

525
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Speaker 12: songwriters plus the mayor of Nashville. We're there to celebrate

526
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Speaker 12: the grand opening. We love our Jelly Roll.

527
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Speaker 2: He's fantastic here. What can you say about Jelly Row?

528
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Speaker 12: Nothing bad, so fantastic.

529
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Speaker 2: He is a fantastic human being.

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Speaker 7: He really is, absolutely is.

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Speaker 12: And he's taking you know, his past and his past

532
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Speaker 12: mistakes and things he went through, and he is trying

533
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Speaker 12: to give back and he's learned from things and he

534
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Speaker 12: wants to make people's lives better. It's wonderful. The Masked

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Speaker 12: Singer is on tonight the second season finale of Not

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Speaker 12: Dead Yet American Horror Story is back as well for

537
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Speaker 12: a season finale. You've got Sight Unseen, Walker Chucky and

538
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Speaker 12: that is my daniel.

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Speaker 2: I'm taking my time with Palm Royal.

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Speaker 12: Oh, I'm going to start that. I'm hearing that's fantastic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what, Either you're gonna love it or

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Speaker 2: hate it. Yeah, just go on in there.

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Speaker 7: Danielle's Apple TV Plus, Yes it is love it.

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Speaker 12: Oh, No, we gotta good morning.

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Speaker 1: Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Wendy's Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: You know what, Nate, can you? Can you make sure

553
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Speaker 2: Gandhi and Danielle come back to work.

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Speaker 14: Helloting pretzels.

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Speaker 2: I know the pretzels are unbelievable. That's important. I know

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Speaker 2: now the chocolate covered pretzels just arrived. Bev Crouch has

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Speaker 2: no idea what she has caused here.

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Speaker 10: We couldn't even come in because of the pretzels.

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Speaker 2: How about coming in for the paycheck?

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Speaker 14: What do you think?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 12: We were so we were like, oh my gosh, look

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Speaker 12: at this kind of pretzel. Look at that kind of pretzel.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of pretzels.

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Speaker 3: Our paychecks will definitely come. The pretzels will be gone soon,

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Speaker 3: so we have to go investigate what's out there.

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Speaker 2: We got this great text hold on. Let's see, but

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Speaker 2: I needed you here to answer this because I don't

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Speaker 2: know anything about wearing a ramper. Oh, let's go talk

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Speaker 2: to Ashley.

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Speaker 7: Hi.

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Speaker 2: Ashley, Hi, good morning, Good morning. Are you wearing a

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Speaker 2: romper as we speak?

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Speaker 16: No? So the problem is this weekend, it's my honey's

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Speaker 16: grandma's celebration of life. And I was like, looking for

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Speaker 16: something nice to hear. I'm a townboy, I don't I

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Speaker 16: don't have where stuff like that, and we're like overalls

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Speaker 16: and paint tops. And yes, I found this really cute

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Speaker 16: wrapper on Amazon. I was like, I could definitely pull

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Speaker 16: that off, like I'm a little chubby, but it looks great.

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Speaker 2: So hold on, Please don't use the F word while

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Speaker 2: talking about your while talking about your romper. All right,

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Speaker 2: So your question was you put the wrapper on to

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Speaker 2: give it a world and you look good in it.

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Speaker 2: But your question is.

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Speaker 16: What, I don't know how to pee in it?

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Speaker 4: I have no idea because, well, you don't want to

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Speaker 4: pee in it.

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Speaker 7: My shoulders don't don't pee in it.

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Speaker 10: You don't want to what that is the problem with

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Speaker 10: the wropper.

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Speaker 3: You will have a really tough time going to the

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Speaker 3: bathroom and you'll be completely bucket naked when you're peek.

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Speaker 12: You can't and you can't wait for the last minute.

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Speaker 12: You know, sometimes we wait for the last minute. With

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Speaker 12: a romper, there's no wait until the last minute, plan ahead.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, wait, you totally get naked to pee, yes, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you have Okay, look a look at you don't know

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Speaker 2: what you're talking about.

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Speaker 10: But if you're overalls, yes and zippy back up?

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, so yeah, peeing and it requires a team

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Speaker 2: of people.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you get You got to get naked to

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Speaker 3: pee with overalls too, so you should be used to

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Speaker 3: that part.

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Speaker 10: But you just have to make sure there's someone that zippy. Yeah, okay, you.

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Speaker 16: Tuck the back into your underwear so it doesn't touch

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Speaker 16: the floor. That's the key there.

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Speaker 12: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so this isn't this isn't your first radio. You

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Speaker 2: know what's going on? All right? Question, Well you know

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Speaker 2: why it's time to jump into the world of rompers.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, well scary, Well that was I was gonna say.

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Speaker 14: She said she she wears overalls.

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Speaker 20: So you pee in overalls probably the same way right

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Speaker 20: as Gandhi was saying.

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Speaker 2: Well, you can pull them down around your ankles. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you pull the straps off and put them. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: people from Brooklyn don't know overalls. I guess you have.

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Speaker 2: You have Froggy. We have questions, you know we Mine's

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Speaker 2: actually not a question. There's a gentleman here at my job.

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Speaker 2: I don't know who it is yet. I'm trying to

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Speaker 2: figure it out because we've hired some new people. But

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Speaker 2: when he goes into the stall stall like to take

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Speaker 2: care of business, he takes his shirt and pants and

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Speaker 2: brings them over.

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Speaker 7: The top of the line.

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Speaker 3: Guy here, who does it?

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Speaker 2: Take your shirt off? What's going on in there? Because

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Speaker 2: I think it's a cleanliness thing. They don't. They don't

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Speaker 2: want to be touching their clothing. That's one hypothesis. And

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Speaker 2: the person that does it here is a nationally known,

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Speaker 2: syndicated superstar.

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Speaker 10: It's not a.

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Speaker 3: Secret he talks about all the time. I think he

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Speaker 3: wrote about it in his book. Really yeah, yeah, it's

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Speaker 3: like everybody knows he does it.

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Speaker 10: He has no problem talking about.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, when you walk into the stall, into the men'srum, Ashley,

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Speaker 2: what are the stall doors would be closed and there's

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Speaker 2: just clothing draped over the top.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Someone said, if you want to pee whilst wearing a romper.

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Speaker 2: Just cut a hole in it.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, that'll work.

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Speaker 2: I'm sort of slit.

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Speaker 16: I thought maybe I could just like pull it to

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Speaker 16: the side like you do a bathing suit. But I

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Speaker 16: don't think that's gonna work.

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Speaker 10: I mean, you can always try, but that's risky.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, risky.

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Speaker 2: Best to luck. I'm glad that that's the most challenging

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Speaker 2: problem you have in your life. That's pretty cool. Good

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Speaker 2: for you.

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Speaker 16: Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 2: All right, I could hearing from you, Ashley. You have

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Speaker 2: a great day you and your romper.

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Speaker 16: Thanks by way.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, is that the most difficult article of clothing to

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Speaker 11: wear as a woman?

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Speaker 7: No, no, no, what is.

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Speaker 2: The most difficult article of clothing to wear as a woman?

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Speaker 12: You mean clothing wise?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like, thanks man, obviously.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, anything that like sucks and tucks and is really tight.

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Speaker 3: You spill out of that like a can of biscuits

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Speaker 3: when it gets open, and then getting back together is

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Speaker 3: a mess.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and thanks for guys. I had to remember they

670
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Speaker 2: had to cut me out of my It's not funny, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Not funny, y'all.

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Speaker 12: It depends on how big the wedding dresses.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: What, what frog, hopefully we have to wear that one

675
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Speaker 2: time though. Yeah, they repeat wear.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, but if it's if it's heavy, you're wearing it

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Speaker 12: the whole day. That's a lot that's very heavy.

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Speaker 2: But if you just have a wedding dress on, can't

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Speaker 2: you just pull it up?

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Speaker 14: No?

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Speaker 12: You need that's what you need your bridal party to

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Speaker 12: help them come and lift it up. They come and

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Speaker 12: lift it up. Makes you're not peeing on the damn

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Speaker 12: dress for getting it in the toilet.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot of Indian clothing like langas that are

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Speaker 3: very heavy and big.

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Speaker 10: Same thing. You gotta gotta have a friend.

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Speaker 2: You know what Mom always said, Danielle.

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Speaker 12: If it don't look good, no, no, no, she said,

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Speaker 12: a lot of stuff.

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Speaker 2: If it don't hurt it, don't look good, you've got

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Speaker 2: to My mother, beautiful, beautiful woman, God rest her soul.

693
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Speaker 2: But she I know she went through a painful morning

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Speaker 2: every morning to look like that. Every day. Every time

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Speaker 2: she would go out to a party which she would

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Speaker 2: dress up you, she would take hours to do it.

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Speaker 10: She look great.

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Speaker 2: She always look perfect. But that's why you guys always

699
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Speaker 2: always look great because I know he's a lot of

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Speaker 2: time on it. Maybe not today.

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Speaker 10: The shapewear is deadly.

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Speaker 3: I've taken some off before, and there are indents that

703
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Speaker 3: I'm like that will never go away.

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Speaker 12: Oh my god, I just threw out a bunch of

705
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Speaker 12: shape where I looked at it and I was like, nope,

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Speaker 12: I'm not a nope. I can't even think about putting

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Speaker 12: this on anymore.

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Speaker 2: Well, okay, by the way, my arch enemy Bev Crouch

709
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Speaker 2: just texted in from Unique Snacks. She sent all the

710
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Speaker 2: pretzel stuff up here, she says. Heyes, Bev, so glad

711
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:30,719
Speaker 2: you received the pretzels. Please share, take some home into

712
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 2: your family's open all the boxes, so many different kinds,

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Speaker 2: even chocolate covered. Happy National Pretzel Day. Thanks to Bev.

714
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 2: No one's working. It's the radio station of inefficiency. All right,

715
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 2: lot's going on? Do we free money phone? We do well.

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00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 2: We have a free money phone tap worth a thousand

717
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Speaker 2: dollars On the way. Also, I do believe in less

718
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Speaker 2: than an hour, Matthew Hussey is coming in. Just talk

719
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Speaker 2: about all hussy things, his new book, yep, his new book,

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Speaker 2: and do a lipa do Aleapa is on the way.

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Speaker 2: I got ask her where I should get my tattoo,

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Speaker 2: because she she did day drinking with Seth what's his name?

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Speaker 2: And uh, you know Seth?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, what Seth? Was it that she did it with?

725
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Speaker 10: Was it day drinking with Seth?

726
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Speaker 2: It was day drinking.

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Speaker 10: It was another person she was drinking.

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Speaker 2: Was it someone else? Anyway, she was drinking and got

729
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Speaker 2: a tattoo? Where did she have it installed? I want

730
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Speaker 2: to I want to follow suit. It's time for a tattoo.

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Speaker 1: The Brooklyn Boys Podcast.

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Speaker 21: Oh, Joe Kanna's in the studio. He said, scary approach, veryrody.

733
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Speaker 21: You guys should put together reary what's all You don't

734
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Speaker 21: want to be scroaty?

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Speaker 14: No, no, no.

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Speaker 1: Listen to the Brooklyn Boys podcast on the iHeartRadio app,

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Speaker 1: Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Elvis Duran

738
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Speaker 1: in the Morning Show. This is Elvis Duran in the

739
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Speaker 1: Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: You know what we're talking before the show this morning

741
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Speaker 2: about how a lot of people and sometimes us, we

742
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 2: get into these ruts. We just do the same thing

743
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 2: day and day out. Yeah, comes up. We did the

744
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Speaker 2: same thing we did yesterday, the same thing We're going

745
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 2: to do it tomorrow and then we go back to bed.

746
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 2: Sometimes you gotta mix it up.

747
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 12: Yeah.

748
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 2: So here's a good example of someone who mixed it up.

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Speaker 2: Her name is Megan.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 18: Megan, Hey Elvis, good morning.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, So you mixed it up. You just got

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Speaker 2: back from London. You ran the London Marathon. Congratulations.

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Speaker 18: Yeah, thank you, thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: So in doing so, you ran it in three hours

756
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Speaker 2: and thirty five minutes. You're now qualified for the Chicago

757
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Speaker 2: Marathon as well.

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Speaker 18: Yes, I am so. I will be entering the Chicago

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Speaker 18: Marathon for it's for next year, for twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 18: But and I missed Boston qualifying by thirty seven seconds.

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Speaker 10: Woah, next time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Megan, you message, I know you' might be very

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Speaker 2: proud of yourself though very very seriously I am.

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Speaker 18: I am, but let me tell you something. I owe

765
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Speaker 18: it all to you guys. You were my train partners.

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Speaker 18: I woke up every morning at four am and I

767
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Speaker 18: got on the treadmill or went out and you know,

768
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Speaker 18: six am, and I turned your guys on. I listened

769
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Speaker 18: to the replaystation Gandhi, I listened to your new podcast.

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Speaker 18: Thank you, so thank you.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad that we could be there the entire time.

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Speaker 2: You don't. My my best friend Dana, she ran the

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Speaker 2: London Marathon. She was there with you. I don't know

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Speaker 2: what her time was, but her story is very unique.

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Speaker 2: She had an accident in Central Park in New York

776
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Speaker 2: City about a year ago. They were having a bicycle

777
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Speaker 2: something and she was run over, knocked out, woke up

778
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Speaker 2: in the hospital. It was a bad accident. It messed

779
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Speaker 2: with her back, it met messed with her head, concussions, everything,

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Speaker 2: And then she said, you know what, screw it, I'm

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Speaker 2: not going to be afraid. I'm going to get back

782
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Speaker 2: out in the park. I'm going to train. And she

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Speaker 2: ran the London Marathon.

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Speaker 18: God bless her. Amazing, incredible. Yeah, so thank you guys

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Speaker 18: so much, though. I mean, I've been listening to you

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Speaker 18: since I was a little girl in the back of

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Speaker 18: the bus with a disc man.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow.

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Speaker 17: It's just been there for me.

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Speaker 18: For my high my lows, and I cannot say thank

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Speaker 18: you enough. You guys really helped me with this one.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like you have a lot of highs these days, Megan. Congratulations,

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Speaker 2: It's an honor to have you listening to us. And

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Speaker 2: when is Chicago Marathon?

795
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Speaker 18: So Chicago will be I'm doing it twenty twenty five,

796
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Speaker 18: It's in October.

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Nice?

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Speaker 2: Well, I would say break a leg. But that's not

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Speaker 2: for a marathon runner. I guess no, no, that's for

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Speaker 2: stage all right, Megan, thank you so much and have

802
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Speaker 2: a great day.

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Speaker 18: Okay you guys, oh you too, thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Have a good one you too.

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Speaker 12: I wonder where they run through London because it's so cool.

806
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Speaker 12: What did they go over any bridges? And of course

807
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Speaker 12: that's so cool.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure they did there you go wow. I uh yeah.

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Speaker 2: When Dana sent me pictures of the day, I'm like

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Speaker 2: gosh to think about how beating up she was for

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Speaker 2: long she was so she was sad and depressed. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and now she's going to London and running a marathon.

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Speaker 7: Good job, Dana, exactly.

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Speaker 2: Unbelievable. Hey, today a scream day. When's last time he

815
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Speaker 2: had a good scream?

816
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Speaker 12: I screamed this morning in the car and the way here.

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00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 2: Screamed at no, no, no, it's not screamed at day. Okay. Sorry,

818
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:12,919
Speaker 2: Sometimes you get yesterday. Sometimes you gotta belt it out, man.

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00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 3: I was telling Diamond the other day, I'm so jealous

820
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Speaker 3: because she can do that high pitched squeal. I cannot

821
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Speaker 3: do it. I never scream. It doesn't happen because my

822
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 3: scream is more.

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00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:25,720
Speaker 2: Like a diamond, is more like a shrill shriek.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, do it, okay, hold on, but do it long.

825
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 2: I mean, take a deep breath and just scream.

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Speaker 22: Oh do it sounds like a.

827
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Speaker 3: Horror movie in there, it does, and it usually is

828
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Speaker 3: the highest pitch screamer here is Scottie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Scotti is a screamer. I have to be scared.

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Speaker 2: But he screams like Homer Simpson. Yeah, it's kind of

831
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Speaker 2: like a so it is National Scream Day. It sounds

832
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Speaker 2: kind of silly, but it has its merits. You have

833
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:13,920
Speaker 2: this pent up anxiety in pressure, you need a healthy

834
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 2: way to channel it. I mean it may not be

835
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Speaker 2: healthy for your throat, I don't know, and we use

836
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 2: ours to make a living. But releasing these built up

837
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 2: frustrations through screaming surprisingly calming for the brain. Okay, it

838
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:30,399
Speaker 2: may not be coming for those around you, So maybe,

839
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Speaker 2: as Danielle does every morning.

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Speaker 12: I did it today in the car. Well, I did

841
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 12: it in the car because something wasn't working that I

842
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:36,440
Speaker 12: was trying to do, and I was like.

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Speaker 1: Are you freaking fired?

844
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Speaker 7: And I started screaming.

845
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 2: The routine for us is cry in the shower, scream

846
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 2: in the car exactly. Don't get those confused, right, Speaking

847
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 2: of saying things to yourself in the car, this has

848
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 2: happened to all of us where you make a phone

849
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 2: call on your car phone in the car, brother, and

850
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 2: then you think you've hung up, but you haven't, but

851
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:01,440
Speaker 2: you start yelling at people in traffic. I've done that

852
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 2: many times and scary did it to Nate?

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00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 23: Oh?

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00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:04,800
Speaker 4: Yeah?

855
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:05,839
Speaker 2: The other day?

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Speaker 14: Well, I was going to send you a message, but

857
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Speaker 14: I didn't realize what happened.

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00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 20: My SERI was connected to card play and it heard

859
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:14,399
Speaker 20: me talking and I was cursing out a driver because

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Speaker 20: he wouldn't get out of the way on Seventh Avenue.

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00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 14: And people are just boneheads when they drive. I was

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00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:18,879
Speaker 14: on my way home.

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Speaker 20: Next thing, you know, all of my expletives get recorded

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Speaker 20: and then it says, would you like to send you

865
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Speaker 20: Nate Marino?

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00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,719
Speaker 14: And I said no, and it sent it to him.

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Speaker 2: You hear this? Gotcha? So what exactly do you have it?

868
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 2: On your way?

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Speaker 13: Dude?

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Speaker 2: Do you want a dramatic reading? Yes?

871
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:38,800
Speaker 7: Okay, where are you going?

872
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 2: The light is green? Go come on, move the other way.

873
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:48,800
Speaker 2: Stop it s word, come on, We're not an effing drive, dude.

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00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:54,479
Speaker 2: I oh my god, I cannot with these people. Wait,

875
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 2: you said the words, oh my god, I cannot with

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00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 2: these people to yourself.

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00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 14: That was me talking to myself outlast. This is how

878
00:38:59,320 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 14: I think out loud.

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00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:03,800
Speaker 2: You know, it's an interesting exercise. It's until you're recorded

880
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:07,400
Speaker 2: doing that you don't really realize what you say. In

881
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:10,280
Speaker 2: that car. I scream at people all the time. Wow,

882
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 2: and usually to keep it tame at the Hello lady.

883
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,440
Speaker 2: That always works, and people pull out in front of you,

884
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 2: Hello lady. You know they don't hear you. No, It's

885
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 2: like it's like Froggy screaming at the football game watching TV. Yeah,

886
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 2: but that that works?

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00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 12: Oh right, yeah for sure, Yeah they hear you.

888
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 2: How are they going to know somebody's about to tackle

889
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,839
Speaker 2: the I don't scream at the TV. This is true. Hey,

890
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Speaker 2: I I do have a big birthday coming up this year.

891
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 2: I found the gift if you get all chip in

892
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:39,839
Speaker 2: it's a flame throwing robot dog.

893
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 10: Oh you've been excited about this?

894
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 2: Did you see the video?

895
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 4: Yes?

896
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 2: Did you see the video? It's a robot dog, so

897
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:50,399
Speaker 2: it's kind of creepyer. The legs go whatever, but as

898
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:54,080
Speaker 2: a flamethrower connected to its head, and it will it'll

899
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 2: throw flames like up to thirty feet. Because they're not

900
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 2: saying they want you to be destructive with it. You

901
00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:01,800
Speaker 2: can do things like clearing weeds and ice and snow removal.

902
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:04,840
Speaker 3: Right, they said they do not recommend it as a

903
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 3: guard dog type of thing. Oh yeah, one shoots flames

904
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:10,839
Speaker 3: from its head. The other one shoots it from its butt.

905
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:13,720
Speaker 2: Oh, oh my god, one, I beg your pardon.

906
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 12: How much does it cause? We can all chip in

907
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:16,439
Speaker 12: for your bird?

908
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:17,839
Speaker 2: A little less than ten grand?

909
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Speaker 7: Oh okay, oh that's it.

910
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:25,760
Speaker 2: Then it's called the thermonator. Oh, it's from a company

911
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 2: called Throw Flame.

912
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 12: Well maybe if throw Flame here's you and they're listening,

913
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Speaker 12: throw us a.

914
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:31,839
Speaker 7: Little, don't.

915
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:33,839
Speaker 2: Okay, you can see us like allth we can get

916
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:36,480
Speaker 2: all trashed. Oh and like taking that thing.

917
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:38,399
Speaker 10: For a walk, what could possibly go wrong?

918
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:41,760
Speaker 2: Look at that squirrel? Oh what happened to that squirrel?

919
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 3: Elvis with a flamethrower when he was hammered? Oh my god,

920
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 3: scure'll get.

921
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 2: It if you do look up the video, it's great.

922
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:54,879
Speaker 2: Look at a thermometer. No, no thermonator or by throw flame.

923
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:58,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, and this is supposed to also be really you can.

924
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 3: You can operate it from your phone, right, or at

925
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 3: least you can send it out to do your dirty business.

926
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 10: Wow, this is going to be terrible.

927
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 2: I don't know it longer. This is going to last.

928
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Speaker 2: I would say, get them now. There's nothing better than

929
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:17,799
Speaker 2: a robotic flamethrow and pooch. Anyway, let's see, it's scream day.

930
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,799
Speaker 2: I'm going to get a wait, wait, hold on, they

931
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:22,879
Speaker 2: have one that shoots flames out of its butt. Yeah,

932
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 2: I didn't see that one comes.

933
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:26,400
Speaker 3: Out the back, which I can't figure out why you

934
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 3: would ever want to shoot flames backward?

935
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Speaker 10: Yeah, to work.

936
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:31,280
Speaker 24: You'd like dogs walking away and all of a sudden

937
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 24: you think everything's done, and all of a sudden he

938
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 24: shoots fire out of his rear, and that you.

939
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 2: And also it's a good way to get other dogs

940
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:40,439
Speaker 2: to stop mounting dogs. If a dog mounts your.

941
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 12: Dog, I think you're going to get more done though,

942
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:46,879
Speaker 12: with it on its head than the butt.

943
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:47,839
Speaker 2: You thought this through.

944
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 12: I'm really sitting here contemplating.

945
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 2: I want I want dual actions. Yeah, I want flames

946
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:56,399
Speaker 2: coming out the head and the butt.

947
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:57,720
Speaker 12: That's twenty thousand dollars.

948
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Speaker 2: I would happily pay it. All right, coming up next

949
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Speaker 2: your one thousand dollars Conair girl Bomb free money phone tap.

950
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Speaker 2: But until then we get into the three things from Gandhi.

951
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:06,800
Speaker 2: What's up? Gandhi?

952
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 1: All right?

953
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 3: X as we Know, formerly known as Twitter, is launching

954
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Speaker 3: a dedicated app for smart TVs as it continues pushing

955
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:16,799
Speaker 3: video Elon Musk's app, launched on Tuesday. It includes a

956
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Speaker 3: trending video algorithm with topics powered by AI, and cross

957
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:23,800
Speaker 3: device compatibility. A note sent to the company's corporate partners

958
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 3: says the XTV app will not have any ads at launch,

959
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 3: but of course they're leaving it open to possibilities. We've

960
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 3: been talking about how crazy tipping culture has become, and

961
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 3: we are not the only ones feeling it. The average

962
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 3: American says that tipflation is way too much, and on average,

963
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 3: we're tipping about five hundred dollars a year more than

964
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:43,759
Speaker 3: we want to.

965
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 12: Wow.

966
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 3: So that is not tips at restaurants and things we

967
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 3: would typically expect. This number includes times that we get

968
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 3: ambushed by the iPad, turn it around and you're like.

969
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 10: Ah, what do I do?

970
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 3: Five hundred dollars a year. Respondents tipped more than they

971
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 3: would want to six times in the last month. More

972
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 3: than half stay pressure to leave bigger tips is a

973
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 3: regular occurrence, and twenty six percent feel that they are

974
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 3: always or often forced to tip more than they'd like to.

975
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:08,759
Speaker 12: Because when they turn that thing around the iPad and

976
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 12: they're standing right there looking at you, you feel like

977
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 12: a you know, a jackass if you don't give something.

978
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 3: Good absolutely, and it's like, oh, okay, it's just a dollar, fine, okay,

979
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,400
Speaker 3: two dollars whatever, and then at the end of the year, five.

980
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 2: Hundred dollars it adds up.

981
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, And finally, Grinder users are suing the app for

982
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 3: allegedly selling sensitive information like HIV status without their consent.

983
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 3: The suit that was filed in the UK claims the

984
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 3: dating app, targeted towards gay and bisexual men, disclosed information

985
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:40,320
Speaker 3: about help and sex lives of users to advertisers without

986
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 3: them knowing. So this is going to become a big

987
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:43,359
Speaker 3: deal and we'll see if it happened here as well.

988
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 10: This is starting in the US.

989
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 2: Very your HIV status.

990
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 10: And those are your three things.

991
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:51,759
Speaker 1: Thank you, Gandhi Another free money phone tap coming up next,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, did you have a califlower? Eat it now? Anyway?

998
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Speaker 12: You need to take your visit line out for this.

999
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:23,319
Speaker 2: Sometimes, Yeah, take out your visil line.

1000
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 10: Oh no, I can't do it.

1001
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go rummage around for a bowl and take

1002
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 3: it home, rip it out.

1003
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:28,399
Speaker 12: Oh my gosh.

1004
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,720
Speaker 2: So our friend Joey Choppe is here from Salad House.

1005
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:37,320
Speaker 2: We've known him for years now. Taste that cauliflower, my favorite.

1006
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 2: I know it's going to tie chili sauce on it.

1007
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 2: I call it a healthy dose of coliflower with a

1008
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 2: candy sauce.

1009
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:45,439
Speaker 7: That's good.

1010
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Speaker 2: I know.

1011
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:48,320
Speaker 10: We need tupper, We need studio tupper.

1012
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 2: We do, we do? All right, we'll get we'll talk

1013
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,359
Speaker 2: about this a little bit. We've got to get to work. Bye.

1014
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 2: Thank you so much. This is amazing. I know. Here's

1015
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 2: the thing. You go to a place like Salad House

1016
00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 2: because it's all like fresh chop salads. You're like, you know,

1017
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna eat healthy today, y'all have the call of flowers.

1018
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 12: And wait, what is this little hollopeno?

1019
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's Aeah Buffalo Chicken pauper popper.

1020
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 14: I didn't even know.

1021
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,399
Speaker 2: We got to get into the into the phone tap

1022
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:20,760
Speaker 2: towards one thousand dollars. It's free money phone.

1023
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:23,919
Speaker 1: Tap, that free money phone tap.

1024
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Speaker 2: Let's do it the free money phone tap. Hey, I

1025
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 2: love the free money phone tap.

1026
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 4: You know what you know?

1027
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:33,959
Speaker 2: You know who it's all about.

1028
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Speaker 10: Oh yeah, Danielle's chewing.

1029
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 14: Can I talk about it?

1030
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:37,320
Speaker 2: Can you stop chewing for a second?

1031
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Speaker 3: Girl Bomb?

1032
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Speaker 2: It's the girl Bomb.

1033
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Speaker 10: Yes, we love this stuff.

1034
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Speaker 3: So if you have any errant hairs, it really helps

1035
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:45,799
Speaker 3: with your eyebrows, with hair that you want to get

1036
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:47,720
Speaker 3: rid of. And they have a bunch of different tools

1037
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Speaker 3: that you can carry with you and they're super easy

1038
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:51,840
Speaker 3: to use and they help us out a lot because

1039
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 3: some of us have the ability to grow one eyebrow

1040
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Speaker 3: and oday.

1041
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Speaker 12: And there's different kinds. Like I thought it was one

1042
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:00,120
Speaker 12: for everything, but it's not. There's like four different or

1043
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:01,959
Speaker 12: five different types. And they even have a cute little

1044
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 12: mini one that you can take with you.

1045
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Speaker 2: It's so great and look, you know it's about your body.

1046
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Speaker 2: Your body isn't the same all over. You have different

1047
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 2: curves here and there that require a different tool to

1048
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Speaker 2: keep it nice and smooth. Made just for women with

1049
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Speaker 2: the ultimate girl Bomb grip. With these professional grade blades.

1050
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Speaker 2: It's not just a little piece of plastic with a battery.

1051
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Speaker 17: No.

1052
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 2: No, the Conair girl Bomb means business for you and

1053
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 2: people like you that have one eyebrow.

1054
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Speaker 10: Absolutely and they're easy to carry with you. You can

1055
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Speaker 10: travel with them so easily.

1056
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Speaker 2: Take your hair removal routine to a next level with

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Speaker 2: Conair girl Bomb. Look at them. When you see what

1058
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Speaker 2: comes with it or what you can add to it, everything,

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1060
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Speaker 2: That's Conair girl bomb dot com.

1061
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Speaker 12: You can get those little nosehairs that sometimes are up there.

1062
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Speaker 12: Don't tell me you don't have them, because you got them.

1063
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 2: Can I borrow that? All right? So thanks to Conair

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Speaker 2: girl Bomb, you're winning one thousand dollars now with the

1065
00:46:57,719 --> 00:46:59,319
Speaker 2: free money phone tap if you called her one hundred

1066
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Speaker 2: one eight hundred two four to two zero one hundred, right,

1067
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:04,280
Speaker 2: who does the phone tap? Scary?

1068
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 14: All right?

1069
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:09,240
Speaker 1: Don't answer the phone. Elvis Duran the Elvis durand phone tapping.

1070
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Speaker 2: All right, Garrett, what do you have?

1071
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,839
Speaker 25: So Carolyn wants to phone tap her husband Steve. Now

1072
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 25: the couple, I have a rat problem in the house.

1073
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:18,320
Speaker 25: And Carolyn isn't as scared as Steve is. Right, So

1074
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,719
Speaker 25: Carolyn said, all right, I'll take care of the exterminator,

1075
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 25: don't worry about it. So she also figured that would

1076
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 25: be a good time to play a phone tap on

1077
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 25: her husband. So I'm gonna call up Steve as the exterminator, saying, hey,

1078
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 25: a little bit of a problem.

1079
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 2: No one wants to get this call. All right, here

1080
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:33,800
Speaker 2: comes Scarrett's.

1081
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:36,399
Speaker 25: Phone tap closely, Yes, Steve, Hey, this is Jack White

1082
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 25: with the extermination company.

1083
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 2: I was hired by Carolyn.

1084
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:42,399
Speaker 4: Right, yeah, how you doing.

1085
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:45,720
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to come back maybe tomorrow and finish

1086
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 2: the job.

1087
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:50,839
Speaker 4: Can I would prefer that we didn't have to come

1088
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:52,280
Speaker 4: back Tomorrowfore you get it done today?

1089
00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:55,319
Speaker 25: Well, no, I got I got three more jobs. I'm

1090
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 25: already an hour behind because I didn't realize how big

1091
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 25: this issue was. There's at least one one rat that

1092
00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 25: is pregnant that I will need another contraction just to

1093
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 25: remove them from the house.

1094
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 4: Please, if we can do anything.

1095
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 2: I hear you, trust me, the overtime, whatever it is.

1096
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 4: For for her, I can't. I can't deal with having

1097
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 4: to listen to her tonight. If she has to sleep

1098
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 4: in a house full of rats, I'll pay for your

1099
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 4: whole day. You have two more account accounts to go to.

1100
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 4: I'll pay for those accounts. I almost reschedule them for tomorrow.

1101
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:24,800
Speaker 4: Please reschedule with them for tomorrow.

1102
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 2: Please, man, listen as much I feel your pain, trust me,

1103
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 2: I know, I know crazy.

1104
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:31,680
Speaker 4: Man, she's crazy. She won't stay in the house. Man,

1105
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:34,280
Speaker 4: there's no possibility she could eat or bathe or sleep.

1106
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 4: If you would please do this for me?

1107
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Speaker 2: Please please, sir, sir listen, I would love to and uh,

1108
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:41,719
Speaker 2: you know I feel your pain, but there's please do it.

1109
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 4: I'm begging.

1110
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 2: If I have to do it for you, then I

1111
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 2: got to do for everyone else.

1112
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:46,279
Speaker 4: Would Why would you come to the house and leave it?

1113
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:48,320
Speaker 4: Why would you come there and finish it?

1114
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 2: I wasn't expecting to walk into a country of rats.

1115
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:53,640
Speaker 4: Almost. I don't want to live in a wife and

1116
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:55,439
Speaker 4: I don't want to live in a country of rats.

1117
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 5: Can you just lead?

1118
00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 4: What kind of business is this?

1119
00:48:57,880 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 2: Unfortunately, I can't listen. I got to get going. I

1120
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 2: just want to let you know so well, No, I can't.

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00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 25: All right, let's just hope for the best that the

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00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:08,520
Speaker 25: mother does not give birth tonight or else would be

1123
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:09,320
Speaker 25: in a whole situation.

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00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 4: I'm not going. We're not going to sleep in the

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00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 4: house like that.

1126
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:16,800
Speaker 2: Are you there, Carolyn?

1127
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:20,080
Speaker 4: He is so unbelievably scared right here.

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00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:22,319
Speaker 2: You're You're not the one that's scared, right.

1129
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 16: No, he's such a baby about this.

1130
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 2: I'll call back from the radio station right now, and

1131
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 2: you do all the talk and I'll just sit back,

1132
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 2: all right.

1133
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 4: Okay, Hello, that's wrong. The terminent exterminator guy was just there.

1134
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 4: He said he's not gonna be able to finish the job.

1135
00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:42,320
Speaker 4: And our house is filled with pregnant rats.

1136
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 8: I mean, did you say that he was going to

1137
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:44,359
Speaker 8: be back.

1138
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 4: It doesn't that are going to be back. He said,

1139
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:48,840
Speaker 4: he good back in the morning. I wanted to be

1140
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 4: back in two minutes. Out of the van inside and

1141
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 4: cleaning out at home. He's going to be back tomorrow.

1142
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 18: It's it's not a big deal.

1143
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:55,879
Speaker 4: We can is a big deal.

1144
00:49:58,120 --> 00:49:58,839
Speaker 2: Ten pregnant rats.

1145
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 4: We go back in tomorre to be what are you

1146
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 4: ready mind? Are you ready mind?

1147
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:04,360
Speaker 1: It's gonna be okay.

1148
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 4: I mean okay, it's not okay right now? Do you

1149
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 4: understand besides the mice, that we have a private rot

1150
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:15,319
Speaker 4: in my house? I want it out. I wanted out

1151
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 4: to Did you just say, oh, I'm not gonna kill

1152
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 4: the mom. You're gonna kill a mom to be. I'm

1153
00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 4: gonna kill a mom. I'm gonna kill a dad, I'm

1154
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 4: gona kill a kid. I'm gonna kill everybody. I want?

1155
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 4: We got Please, I'm at work. I can't be acting

1156
00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 4: like this. I'm I'm gonna have a heart attack. I'm

1157
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 4: gonna have a stroke. My eyes about to shoot out

1158
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:33,279
Speaker 4: of my head. Please make a phone call. Tell him

1159
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:33,920
Speaker 4: where the money is?

1160
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 8: Are you afraid of the knife?

1161
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 4: You remember the night Maries when we first started dating.

1162
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 4: I break up and say it pouring in through the windows.

1163
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 4: Do you remember me standing up on the bedly cold,

1164
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:45,280
Speaker 4: slim talking about the rats party harmless?

1165
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:45,919
Speaker 23: They're so cute.

1166
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 2: It's like Mickey a mini.

1167
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,520
Speaker 4: Now, there's nothing hut about it. Nobody's taking care of

1168
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 4: the situation.

1169
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:54,719
Speaker 2: Hey, Steve, Steve, Hello, Mine's garrethon and moves during in

1170
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Speaker 2: the morning show and she just got.

1171
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Speaker 1: Elvis Duran's phone tap.

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Speaker 2: Not just a phone tab. It's one thousand dollars free

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Speaker 2: money phone tap.

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Speaker 7: Hello, Hello, lady parlu Heller.

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Speaker 2: All right, let me go talk to Laceo here. Lacero Byelcero.

1176
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Speaker 2: I'm so glad you're listening today because you just want

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Speaker 2: a thousand dollars. Thank you. Yes, it's so weird. You

1178
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:26,920
Speaker 2: wake up in the morning thinking, Okay, what's this day

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Speaker 2: gonna bring. Well, guess what, it just brought a thousand dollars,

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Speaker 2: and we love it. We love that you're listening to us.

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Speaker 2: Thank you very much. What's your day going to be about?

1182
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 2: Now that you want a thousand isn't gonna change anything.

1183
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:37,799
Speaker 4: No, I want to work.

1184
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:42,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta work, break work, work, work. I know

1185
00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 2: we do too.

1186
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:45,160
Speaker 10: But now you've got a thousand dollars, I.

1187
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:47,800
Speaker 2: Know you're going there. You know you can always just

1188
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:49,800
Speaker 2: say to yourself if anyone kind of messages with you

1189
00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 2: at work, hmm, I could walk out right now. I'm

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00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:56,799
Speaker 2: a thousand air Lucearo, thank you.

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00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 14: For me tonight.

1192
00:51:57,760 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 2: I know bye. Everyone. I want money. Hold on one second,

1193
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:02,759
Speaker 2: thanks for listening. It is one thousand dollars free money.

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Speaker 2: Phone tap thanks to our friends at Conair Connair girl Bomb.

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Speaker 2: The girls here love it. It's the bomb. Why do

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Speaker 2: they call it girl Bomb? I wonder. I want to

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Speaker 2: find out because I want to know more about it.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm gonna bring my tool in tomorrow and fix

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Speaker 10: you right up.

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00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 2: You know I can put my right ankle behind my head.

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00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:26,279
Speaker 2: It's so much easier if you need to get in there.

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00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:29,040
Speaker 12: I think you can take care of that on your own.

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Speaker 10: I'd be happy to here.

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Speaker 2: No fun, daniel I am not helping you with that.

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00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 2: I just got a crazy visual I did too. The

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00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 2: optics are really awful. All right, another free money phone

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Speaker 2: tap tomorrow morning, Danielle. What are you coming up?

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Speaker 12: We're gonna talk about another person who they're thinking could

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Speaker 12: replace Katy Perry on American Idol. And also why you

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Speaker 12: won't see Patrick Mahon's hosting Saturday Night Live.

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Speaker 2: Or we may just talk to Matthew Hussey. Oh I

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Speaker 2: totally forgot about.

1213
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Speaker 12: We can talk to him too.

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Speaker 2: Here's a new book. We love Matthew. He's coming up the.

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Speaker 1: Hi from the Mercedes Benz Interview Lounge.

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Speaker 2: When is it not a great time to have Matthew

1235
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:07,720
Speaker 2: Hussey pay us a visit? I hope not today. Hi Matthew, Hello, welcome, Hello,

1236
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 2: I did go. I went immediately to Cuckney. Then don't

1237
00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:15,800
Speaker 2: make me bring Andrew in here. You know when Andrew

1238
00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 2: does is Matthew Hussey impersonation. It can't be called a

1239
00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 2: Matthew Hussey impersonation. It's some sort of strange Dick Van Dyke,

1240
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 2: Mary Poppins, Chimney sweet things.

1241
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:27,879
Speaker 5: It's not good. I can't believe any of you think

1242
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:28,359
Speaker 5: it's good.

1243
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:28,719
Speaker 22: It is.

1244
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:31,880
Speaker 2: It's good. It's a caricature of your voice. It's not

1245
00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:35,400
Speaker 2: your voice. That enough of that. You have a book. Okay,

1246
00:54:35,480 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 2: I think today is day day two. The book is out.

1247
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:40,840
Speaker 5: Correct, the book is officially out. Yeah, it was out yesterday,

1248
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 5: so people can order it now.

1249
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 2: Congratulations, Then congratulations and you know what, and it's too

1250
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 2: early because it's only a day in. But when they

1251
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 2: put that gold New York Times Bestseller emblem on the front.

1252
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:52,560
Speaker 5: Don't jinx it.

1253
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:54,839
Speaker 2: No, no, it's gonna happen. It's going to happen thanks

1254
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 2: to the power of this show.

1255
00:54:58,960 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 1: Is it audible?

1256
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 2: And do you you do the voiceover?

1257
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 12: Voiceover?

1258
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 5: No, Andrew does. Andrew narrated the entire audiop and.

1259
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:13,279
Speaker 2: Let's see how that would sound. I need some love

1260
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:15,800
Speaker 2: music in the background. And then then we got to

1261
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 2: talk about the book, what it's all about it because

1262
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:21,919
Speaker 2: I have thoughts here and Andrew, everyone all right, okay,

1263
00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:31,600
Speaker 2: here grab, grab the book. Do you have any love music? Okay? Okay,

1264
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:35,160
Speaker 2: good morning, Okay, this is not Matthew Hussey. This is

1265
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 2: an impersonator. Andrew. Good morning, Andrew, Good morning everyone.

1266
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:38,880
Speaker 16: How are you?

1267
00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 4: Okay?

1268
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:43,279
Speaker 23: Apparently I sound like Dick van Dyke or you know,

1269
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:45,279
Speaker 23: Mary Poppins is something, but all right.

1270
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:46,880
Speaker 2: Read a passage from your book, Matthew.

1271
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:47,279
Speaker 4: All right.

1272
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:51,719
Speaker 23: This one's from the chapter about red flags, treating people

1273
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 23: badly when they don't think you're looking. This red flag

1274
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:58,680
Speaker 23: occurs when someone who's trying to impress you, seduce you,

1275
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:01,600
Speaker 23: sleep with you, or make you fall in love.

1276
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 2: With the person's a selective version of who they are.

1277
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:07,759
Speaker 23: Bad actors do this, sure, but so does everyone on

1278
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:08,760
Speaker 23: the best behavior.

1279
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:09,400
Speaker 15: There you go.

1280
00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:10,719
Speaker 1: It's pretty good.

1281
00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 2: I think I'd rather hear his version than your give

1282
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:19,040
Speaker 2: me my book, you got too many?

1283
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:23,320
Speaker 5: That sounded like David Attenborough.

1284
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:34,320
Speaker 2: About thank you, Andrew, don't go too far. Winding a

1285
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:37,560
Speaker 2: book is an interesting journey, is it not? Oh my god?

1286
00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:39,759
Speaker 2: So I know you You turned in your first your

1287
00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 2: first draft to the publisher and they looked at you

1288
00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:45,760
Speaker 2: and said this is crap. They didn't say it was crap.

1289
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 5: At I got an email back from my publisher who

1290
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 5: I loved dearly and I worked on her with her.

1291
00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:55,800
Speaker 5: I worked with her on my first book and it

1292
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 5: was all great. And I sent her this email with

1293
00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:00,920
Speaker 5: chapters like first chapters of this book. This was back

1294
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 5: in I must have been twenty eighteen nineteen, and I

1295
00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:06,920
Speaker 5: said to her, here it is like I was like

1296
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 5: just so excited. I was like, just wait till you

1297
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 5: see this floating above the trees. And she took a

1298
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:14,279
Speaker 5: needle up and popped it.

1299
00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 4: She said.

1300
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Speaker 5: The first sentence she said, was I really wanted to

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Speaker 5: like this.

1302
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 7: Oh it was the first my feeling.

1303
00:57:22,440 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 5: It was brutal. And she said, it's so angry. Well,

1304
00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:30,080
Speaker 5: she said, your tone here is so angry.

1305
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:34,120
Speaker 2: Were you angry at the time, yes, okay, so you

1306
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:36,080
Speaker 2: know what, But you know the thing is that you

1307
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:38,560
Speaker 2: recognized that you were in a dark space at that time,

1308
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 2: and the book came out dark. That means you were

1309
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 2: honestly writing that book. I really was.

1310
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was going I'd been going through for like

1311
00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 5: five to God, at that point, five or six years

1312
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:49,440
Speaker 5: of my life. I'd been going through real like physical

1313
00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 5: chronic pain in my head and my ear. I had

1314
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 5: tenatus ringing in my ears NonStop. I still have that,

1315
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:57,360
Speaker 5: but I had like pain in my ear in my head.

1316
00:57:57,440 --> 00:58:00,480
Speaker 5: That for anyone who goes through physical chronic you know,

1317
00:58:00,560 --> 00:58:03,160
Speaker 5: at a certain point it starts to kind of you

1318
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:05,600
Speaker 5: can get quite bitter with it because you just start

1319
00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:06,919
Speaker 5: to it takes you out of your life.

1320
00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:09,280
Speaker 2: So let's turn it around. Then, let's talk about how

1321
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 2: your journey then turned into one that gave us this book,

1322
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:15,480
Speaker 2: which will be bestseller before you know it. I guarantee you.

1323
00:58:16,280 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 2: I was skimming through, picked up a few things here

1324
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 2: and there, and it was true, Matthew Hussey, it was you.

1325
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 2: It sounds so good, it feels warm, it has texture,

1326
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 2: it has taste. Even if you were blind, you would

1327
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 2: see a beautiful, beautiful, beautiful work of art here. You

1328
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:32,960
Speaker 2: did a great job.

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Speaker 5: Thank you so so much. It means the world to

1330
00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 5: me coming from you. I've been doing this show for

1331
00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 5: ten years of my life at this point, which is

1332
00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:41,760
Speaker 5: crazy to me.

1333
00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:42,000
Speaker 4: You.

1334
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:44,800
Speaker 5: I first came on the show when I was talking

1335
00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:47,880
Speaker 5: about my first book, and so much has happened since then.

1336
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:50,800
Speaker 5: And also so much has happened I feel like in

1337
00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 5: dating culture and the way people struggle to find love,

1338
00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 5: you know everyone wants to find love. That desire to

1339
00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:03,000
Speaker 5: fight and someone is universal. A lot of people don't

1340
00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:05,960
Speaker 5: want to date, but they want to find love. And

1341
00:59:06,600 --> 00:59:09,360
Speaker 5: it's hard for so many people out there. Right now,

1342
00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:11,920
Speaker 5: I know there'll be so many people listening who are

1343
00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 5: so scared that is never going to happen for them,

1344
00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 5: or up so sad that it hasn't worked out the

1345
00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:19,400
Speaker 5: way they thought it would by this point in their life.

1346
00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 5: And what happens when that happens for long enough is

1347
00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 5: we have this fear and anxiety that it's never going

1348
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:28,720
Speaker 5: to happen. And when an internal culture of fear and

1349
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:35,000
Speaker 5: anxiety meets an external dating culture of people giving as

1350
00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:38,280
Speaker 5: little as they can and taking as much as they can,

1351
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:42,760
Speaker 5: that creates a recipe for us lowering our standards and

1352
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:45,880
Speaker 5: accepting less than we're worth. And that's what this book

1353
00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 5: is about.

1354
00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:48,320
Speaker 2: Dating is frightening. It can be if you learn it,

1355
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:50,120
Speaker 2: and you become your worst enemy. Let's talk about it.

1356
00:59:50,160 --> 00:59:53,240
Speaker 2: It's about relationships, right. We have relationships not only with people,

1357
00:59:53,320 --> 00:59:55,800
Speaker 2: but with ourselves. We have relationships with money and food

1358
00:59:55,920 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 2: and bosses and careers and an eft up world. Learning

1359
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:04,160
Speaker 2: how to figure out how to master all these relationships

1360
01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:07,840
Speaker 2: makes you, makes you stronger, then therefore your relationship with

1361
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:10,040
Speaker 2: a person will have a better chance of succeeding.

1362
01:00:10,280 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 5: It's so true. I think we're in three relationships our

1363
01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:16,480
Speaker 5: entire life. One is our relationship with other people, the

1364
01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:19,280
Speaker 5: second is our relationship with ourselves, and the third is

1365
01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 5: our relationship with life itself. And I agree with you

1366
01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:26,000
Speaker 5: one hundred percent. If those other two relationships with life

1367
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:30,160
Speaker 5: and with ourselves aren't great, it's going to impact everything.

1368
01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:32,040
Speaker 5: Because one of the reasons we don't have high standards

1369
01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:36,240
Speaker 5: is because we don't respect ourselves, we don't love ourselves,

1370
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 5: and then we go to someone else. And if we

1371
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:43,840
Speaker 5: do have standards, they're almost like fake standards. They're like tactics.

1372
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Speaker 5: If I play hard to get, this person will come

1373
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:49,720
Speaker 5: to me. But when a tactic doesn't work, we just

1374
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:52,360
Speaker 5: change tactic or hard to get didn't work, now, let

1375
01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:55,720
Speaker 5: me text them. But when it's a standard, you don't

1376
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:58,280
Speaker 5: change because you don't get the result you want. Like

1377
01:00:58,400 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 5: there was a time when I'm my wife, Audrey is

1378
01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 5: in the room right now, and hi Adre, Hi Adrey, Hello,

1379
01:01:07,600 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 5: thanks for being here. There was a there was a

1380
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:14,439
Speaker 5: moment where when we were dating. I was the one

1381
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:17,480
Speaker 5: who was like doing the classic kind of fading a

1382
01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 5: little bit. We were playing, not even game playing, we

1383
01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:24,960
Speaker 5: were dating. We weren't like in a relationship. At that point.

1384
01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:27,200
Speaker 5: She was living in London. I flew back to la

1385
01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:29,880
Speaker 5: and I was like, I can't The long distance thing

1386
01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 5: didn't appeal to me. And she hadn't heard from me

1387
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:35,800
Speaker 5: for you know, a couple of weeks at that point,

1388
01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:38,840
Speaker 5: and even before that, my texts and stuff had started

1389
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:42,440
Speaker 5: to become more sporadic. And I did the class I

1390
01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:44,440
Speaker 5: look back on this now and I cringe, But I

1391
01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:46,360
Speaker 5: did the thing where I sent a message and said

1392
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:49,600
Speaker 5: I miss you. And this was after like a couple

1393
01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 5: of weeks of no contact, and she sent me the

1394
01:01:55,760 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 5: ultimate standards message back. Most people in that situation, if

1395
01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:02,919
Speaker 5: they've got someone they like, we'll get excited or they'll

1396
01:02:02,960 --> 01:02:04,720
Speaker 5: be like, oh, I'm just glad they texted me. How

1397
01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:09,760
Speaker 5: did she respond? She said, Hey, I hope you're well

1398
01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:14,160
Speaker 5: to be honest when you say this. I'm not really

1399
01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:17,760
Speaker 5: sure what to say. We haven't felt that close for

1400
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:22,520
Speaker 5: a while, and rightly or wrongly, this text comes off

1401
01:02:22,680 --> 01:02:23,720
Speaker 5: as a bid for attention.

1402
01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:26,960
Speaker 2: Wow, Okay, I got goose, I got goose for you.

1403
01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:31,200
Speaker 2: That is called just I have nothing to lose. I

1404
01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 2: just I'm going to be honest here.

1405
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:35,600
Speaker 12: And so text would have said, bleep, you ask you

1406
01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:35,960
Speaker 12: know what?

1407
01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:37,840
Speaker 4: Wow?

1408
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:40,800
Speaker 2: Do it fair too, which is basically the same thing.

1409
01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:42,960
Speaker 10: So your other girls stopped talking to you. So now

1410
01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:45,880
Speaker 10: you came back to yeah exactly, But could.

1411
01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:50,000
Speaker 2: The could you're stumbling block in our our potholes as

1412
01:02:50,040 --> 01:02:52,680
Speaker 2: well as we call them, be that we're out of

1413
01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 2: another relationship and we didn't learn from it. Yeah, And

1414
01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:57,680
Speaker 2: you know, this is why a lot of people, your

1415
01:02:57,720 --> 01:03:00,320
Speaker 2: friends will say to you, you keep repeating, you keep

1416
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:03,720
Speaker 2: dating the same idiots over and over. We're not learning

1417
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:08,480
Speaker 2: from the relationships that fail. That failing relationship could be

1418
01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 2: the answer to the right relationship on the way right.

1419
01:03:12,520 --> 01:03:14,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I don't think a lot of us ever

1420
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 5: take enough time to really figure that out, or even

1421
01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:21,480
Speaker 5: just enough space for our nervous system to calm down

1422
01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:24,920
Speaker 5: from that last relationship. Because we come out of these

1423
01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:27,720
Speaker 5: relationships and they are very familiar to us. We're used

1424
01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:29,680
Speaker 5: to a certain kind of toxicity, or we're used to

1425
01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 5: a certain kind of chaos, certain kind of push. Paul

1426
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 5: I had a woman I write about this woman in

1427
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:36,720
Speaker 5: the book, and the book is called love Life. For

1428
01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:40,400
Speaker 5: anyone who wants to know this woman, I coached her

1429
01:03:40,480 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 5: and she is. She said to me, I was with

1430
01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:46,320
Speaker 5: a guy for two years. It was really hard. I

1431
01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:50,520
Speaker 5: never really felt safe. I was constantly kind of chasing him,

1432
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 5: but I had this amazing chemistry with him. And now

1433
01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:56,480
Speaker 5: I'm out there dating again, and I feel like I

1434
01:03:56,560 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 5: don't have that feeling with the people who want me.

1435
01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:01,600
Speaker 5: She said, what I do, How can I find that

1436
01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:04,880
Speaker 5: same feeling with someone who wants me? And I had

1437
01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:07,400
Speaker 5: to point out that the feeling she felt in the

1438
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 5: last relationship was actually an unnatural feeling to begin with.

1439
01:04:13,040 --> 01:04:17,560
Speaker 5: What she was calling chemistry was really constant, never ending anxiety.

1440
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:21,880
Speaker 5: And the truth is that feeling we have when we

1441
01:04:22,000 --> 01:04:25,040
Speaker 5: chase someone in early dating that creates all of that excitement,

1442
01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:27,920
Speaker 5: it never ends. If you're in a relationship where you

1443
01:04:28,000 --> 01:04:30,600
Speaker 5: still feel like you're chasing the person, where you feel

1444
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 5: like you're never really safe, you're never really secure. It's

1445
01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:37,360
Speaker 5: like the frenetic anxiety of early dating never ends. And

1446
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 5: then when that person inevitably leaves us or betrays us,

1447
01:04:41,120 --> 01:04:43,680
Speaker 5: or cheats or doesn't want to want us anymore. We

1448
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:46,720
Speaker 5: go looking for that feeling again, and you're not going

1449
01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:48,840
Speaker 5: to have that same feeling with someone who actually turns

1450
01:04:48,920 --> 01:04:52,760
Speaker 5: to meet you and starts asking you questions about yourself

1451
01:04:52,760 --> 01:04:56,440
Speaker 5: because they're genuinely interested in you and you feel safe with.

1452
01:04:56,680 --> 01:04:59,200
Speaker 12: But don't some people just like the chase, like that's

1453
01:04:59,240 --> 01:05:01,320
Speaker 12: what they love, like get in the person, and when

1454
01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:02,760
Speaker 12: they get the person, they get bored.

1455
01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:04,240
Speaker 2: Or don't you get tired of chasing?

1456
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:05,480
Speaker 12: Maybe some people don't.

1457
01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:05,840
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1458
01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:08,720
Speaker 5: You think so, well, that's the thing you have to

1459
01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:12,080
Speaker 5: decide what to value in life, because there are certain

1460
01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:14,800
Speaker 5: feelings that if you value them, there are certain highs

1461
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:17,360
Speaker 5: that if you value them above all else, you'll spend

1462
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:20,840
Speaker 5: a life chasing those highs. And that's okay, but there

1463
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:23,080
Speaker 5: are consequences to that, and most of us don't want

1464
01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:26,240
Speaker 5: those consequences. At a certain point, we realize, oh, this

1465
01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:28,880
Speaker 5: isn't working for me anymore. So I don't think there's

1466
01:05:29,240 --> 01:05:32,560
Speaker 5: it's no judgment for people who are in that phase

1467
01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:34,720
Speaker 5: of their life, and most people have been through that

1468
01:05:34,800 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 5: phase of their life in one way or another. But

1469
01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:39,760
Speaker 5: at a certain point, I think we have to look

1470
01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:43,160
Speaker 5: at it and go is this making me happy? Like

1471
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:45,760
Speaker 5: I do I feel a sense of calm or peace?

1472
01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:47,360
Speaker 5: Or am I constantly on edge?

1473
01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:47,480
Speaker 4: Oh?

1474
01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, stop right there, repeat what you just said.

1475
01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:53,120
Speaker 2: I think this is important. You're in the chase with

1476
01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:57,120
Speaker 2: this individual, You're having a relationship with you. You know

1477
01:05:57,280 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 2: that you have the craziness, the late nights of being

1478
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:06,480
Speaker 2: worried and not feeling settled. You forget about checking in

1479
01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:09,160
Speaker 2: with yourself. It is what you just said. Say it again,

1480
01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:13,400
Speaker 2: am I Is this actually making me happy? Or am

1481
01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:17,439
Speaker 2: I just constantly trying to get this person without paying

1482
01:06:17,480 --> 01:06:20,439
Speaker 2: attention to how I actually feel? Yeah?

1483
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:22,760
Speaker 3: So on that note, somebody once said to me that

1484
01:06:22,880 --> 01:06:26,160
Speaker 3: the common denominator and every failed relationship that someone will have,

1485
01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:29,840
Speaker 3: specifically me, is me. I'm the person that's constant in

1486
01:06:29,920 --> 01:06:31,760
Speaker 3: all of these different things. So if I'm not learning

1487
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:35,840
Speaker 3: something from every failed relationship, because of course we want

1488
01:06:35,880 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 3: to look at the other person and be like, well,

1489
01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:38,960
Speaker 3: this is what they did wrong. You're never going to

1490
01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:41,080
Speaker 3: change the other person. You can only change yourself. But

1491
01:06:41,240 --> 01:06:44,000
Speaker 3: how do you nicely say that to your friends who

1492
01:06:44,160 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 3: keep going down this path and saying everybody's crazy, everyone

1493
01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:49,600
Speaker 3: is making the wrong choice. I just always end up

1494
01:06:49,600 --> 01:06:50,360
Speaker 3: with a crazy person.

1495
01:06:51,160 --> 01:06:54,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a look. They're not. They may not be

1496
01:06:55,160 --> 01:06:58,640
Speaker 5: wrong for the behaviors they're pointing out in someone else,

1497
01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:03,240
Speaker 5: but we have to ask ourselves, why is it I

1498
01:07:03,520 --> 01:07:04,920
Speaker 5: keep going for people like this?

1499
01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:06,040
Speaker 2: Why is it?

1500
01:07:06,400 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 5: You know, if we keep complaining about a partner who

1501
01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:13,520
Speaker 5: is making us miserable or never there or constantly disrespecting us,

1502
01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 5: and we hear ourselves for the one thousandth time telling

1503
01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:19,640
Speaker 5: the same story about this person, it doesn't mean we're

1504
01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:23,160
Speaker 5: wrong about this person, But why am I telling the

1505
01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 5: story for the one thousandth time? What's going on with me?

1506
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:32,520
Speaker 16: At you?

1507
01:07:33,400 --> 01:07:35,480
Speaker 12: I think the same person's name.

1508
01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:40,880
Speaker 5: It's understanding that you're there's something going on with me

1509
01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:45,800
Speaker 5: that I prefer complaining about this person than the alternative,

1510
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:49,440
Speaker 5: which is to leave or to find something better for myself.

1511
01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:52,120
Speaker 5: And why is it I'm uncomfortable with something better?

1512
01:07:53,040 --> 01:07:56,040
Speaker 2: These are your questions you should be asking yourself, and

1513
01:07:56,200 --> 01:07:58,640
Speaker 2: don't be afraid to answer them. You may not get

1514
01:07:58,680 --> 01:08:01,200
Speaker 2: the answer immediately, but you have to at least start

1515
01:08:01,360 --> 01:08:03,400
Speaker 2: on your journey to figure it out. By the way,

1516
01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:07,840
Speaker 2: this is Matthew Hussey. Love Life is the name of

1517
01:08:07,920 --> 01:08:10,520
Speaker 2: his book that came out yesterday how to raise your standards,

1518
01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:12,960
Speaker 2: find your person, and live happily no matter what.

1519
01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:15,880
Speaker 3: So you have a whole lot to say about red flags,

1520
01:08:15,960 --> 01:08:19,000
Speaker 3: which Andrew just read in his impressive points of view.

1521
01:08:19,760 --> 01:08:22,639
Speaker 3: Do you think that red flags have become a little

1522
01:08:22,680 --> 01:08:25,160
Speaker 3: more serious now that everybody has all of these options

1523
01:08:25,240 --> 01:08:26,840
Speaker 3: than they used to be, because every one of us

1524
01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:29,120
Speaker 3: has a red flag at some point. At what point

1525
01:08:29,200 --> 01:08:31,920
Speaker 3: do you say that's just a little character flaweds not

1526
01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:33,840
Speaker 3: that serious, versus oh, this is awful.

1527
01:08:33,880 --> 01:08:34,200
Speaker 10: I'm out.

1528
01:08:35,000 --> 01:08:39,360
Speaker 5: That's a great question. There's there's serious red flags. Like

1529
01:08:39,880 --> 01:08:43,920
Speaker 5: someone's words never match their actions. They can't apologize, I

1530
01:08:44,000 --> 01:08:46,360
Speaker 5: never apologize. That's a big one.

1531
01:08:46,640 --> 01:08:48,800
Speaker 12: They killed that.

1532
01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:52,200
Speaker 1: Move on.

1533
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:53,920
Speaker 10: It depends what they did.

1534
01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:59,720
Speaker 5: That happened in a moment of passion. Uh, all the

1535
01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:02,400
Speaker 5: tree crime that's around. There's more famous people that killed

1536
01:09:02,439 --> 01:09:06,920
Speaker 5: their ex than ever. So it's you know, someone who

1537
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:11,640
Speaker 5: continuously breaks promises. You know, there's there's big ones, but

1538
01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:15,719
Speaker 5: then there's just the everyday stuff that you know, someone

1539
01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:19,639
Speaker 5: got a little bit jealous, or someone you know got scared,

1540
01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:22,040
Speaker 5: or someone was texted you a little too much, or

1541
01:09:22,360 --> 01:09:25,000
Speaker 5: like it's there are these things that we write each

1542
01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:28,040
Speaker 5: other off for really easily, and I think, I don't know.

1543
01:09:28,240 --> 01:09:31,240
Speaker 5: The more I kind of worked on myself and the

1544
01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:33,760
Speaker 5: more I got humbled by life in my own life,

1545
01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:38,160
Speaker 5: the more I became I had to learn to accept

1546
01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:40,880
Speaker 5: all these flaws in myself. I had to learn to

1547
01:09:41,000 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 5: accept all these parts of me that someone else had

1548
01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:47,559
Speaker 5: to work with me on and deal with. And once

1549
01:09:47,640 --> 01:09:51,680
Speaker 5: I became more compassionate towards the flaws in myself, it

1550
01:09:51,800 --> 01:09:53,880
Speaker 5: had the effect for me at least of making me

1551
01:09:54,000 --> 01:09:56,640
Speaker 5: more compassionate for those flaws in others. When I think

1552
01:09:56,680 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 5: about the times in my life where I judged other

1553
01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:01,439
Speaker 5: people the most, it was usually when I was judging

1554
01:10:01,560 --> 01:10:02,320
Speaker 5: myself the most.

1555
01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:07,000
Speaker 2: You're with someone and you realize that they're not flawed,

1556
01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:09,560
Speaker 2: but they are still on their path to try to

1557
01:10:09,600 --> 01:10:12,760
Speaker 2: figure themselves out, which may never happen in their lifetime, right,

1558
01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:16,479
Speaker 2: but you love them. You see there's something in there

1559
01:10:16,520 --> 01:10:20,000
Speaker 2: that is just so fabulously fantastic. But you just know

1560
01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:23,200
Speaker 2: that they were they will always be that person who's

1561
01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:26,040
Speaker 2: going to cause turmoil. It's gonna it's gonna rear its

1562
01:10:26,120 --> 01:10:28,320
Speaker 2: ugly ahead from time to time. Where do where do

1563
01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:32,400
Speaker 2: you draw the line where do you say, Okay, I

1564
01:10:32,840 --> 01:10:35,320
Speaker 2: can't live my life like this anymore. But at the

1565
01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:38,360
Speaker 2: same time you risk losing that wonderful person that shares

1566
01:10:38,400 --> 01:10:39,040
Speaker 2: that same body.

1567
01:10:39,760 --> 01:10:42,880
Speaker 5: Love isn't enough. I mean, that's just the truth. We

1568
01:10:43,280 --> 01:10:45,719
Speaker 5: want to think love is enough, but it actually isn't.

1569
01:10:47,320 --> 01:10:47,360
Speaker 4: That.

1570
01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:50,240
Speaker 5: You need compatibility in the way that you want to

1571
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:52,720
Speaker 5: live life. You need compatibility in the future that you

1572
01:10:52,800 --> 01:10:57,400
Speaker 5: want to have together. You need someone who is capable

1573
01:10:57,479 --> 01:11:00,160
Speaker 5: of me in your core needs, not every single one

1574
01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:03,120
Speaker 5: of the needs you could ever have, but your core needs.

1575
01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:07,280
Speaker 5: And if being with this person is fundamentally incompatible with

1576
01:11:07,360 --> 01:11:10,879
Speaker 5: a life of peace and happiness for you, the idea

1577
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:12,880
Speaker 5: that staying with them is one day going to make

1578
01:11:12,880 --> 01:11:16,200
Speaker 5: you happy is science fiction. The idea that they're gonna

1579
01:11:16,280 --> 01:11:20,519
Speaker 5: change is science fiction. Consider for a moment how hard

1580
01:11:20,600 --> 01:11:23,040
Speaker 5: it is for us to change anything. Like you wake

1581
01:11:23,160 --> 01:11:25,840
Speaker 5: up New Year's Day, you have all these things you'd

1582
01:11:25,920 --> 01:11:26,720
Speaker 5: like to do this year.

1583
01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:27,120
Speaker 2: We all do.

1584
01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:30,599
Speaker 5: We make a few resolutions. Just think for a moment.

1585
01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:33,680
Speaker 5: You made those resolutions because you were motivated, because you

1586
01:11:33,840 --> 01:11:36,880
Speaker 5: wanted that change to happen, because you really were.

1587
01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:37,560
Speaker 2: Serious about it.

1588
01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:41,000
Speaker 5: Then consider how hard it was to actually stick to

1589
01:11:41,080 --> 01:11:46,120
Speaker 5: those resolutions and you wanted to. So now take a

1590
01:11:46,240 --> 01:11:50,920
Speaker 5: person who doesn't even want to take a person who's

1591
01:11:51,040 --> 01:11:54,559
Speaker 5: not even chosen it as their resolution. What they want

1592
01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:57,200
Speaker 5: is just to get you off their back. That is

1593
01:11:57,320 --> 01:12:02,120
Speaker 5: not someone who's intrinsically motivated, and is really hard even

1594
01:12:02,400 --> 01:12:06,880
Speaker 5: when you're intrinsically motivated. So the idea that this person

1595
01:12:07,000 --> 01:12:09,760
Speaker 5: is going to change is a fantasy. And especially by

1596
01:12:09,800 --> 01:12:13,240
Speaker 5: the way, if the change you want is like it

1597
01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:17,400
Speaker 5: would mean essentially a personality transplant for them. Most of

1598
01:12:17,479 --> 01:12:20,760
Speaker 5: us change like five ten percent. And that's, by the way,

1599
01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:24,599
Speaker 5: that's beautiful, that's not pessimistic. Five ten percent will change

1600
01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:27,639
Speaker 5: the whole trajectory of your life. But when we change,

1601
01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:30,840
Speaker 5: we do not get a personality transplant. If for you

1602
01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:34,000
Speaker 5: to be happy in fundamental ways, they would need a

1603
01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:39,439
Speaker 5: personality transplant. You must must assume it will never happen,

1604
01:12:39,600 --> 01:12:42,360
Speaker 5: And when you leave that person or decide to cut

1605
01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:46,240
Speaker 5: them off, it will hurt, and that hurt will trick

1606
01:12:46,360 --> 01:12:49,280
Speaker 5: you into thinking you have made the wrong decision, because

1607
01:12:49,280 --> 01:12:51,519
Speaker 5: when something hurts really badly, it feels like it must

1608
01:12:51,560 --> 01:12:54,800
Speaker 5: be wrong. But just because it hurts, it doesn't mean

1609
01:12:54,880 --> 01:12:56,960
Speaker 5: it was the wrong decision. Some of the greatest hurt

1610
01:12:57,120 --> 01:12:59,080
Speaker 5: is over some of the best decisions in our life.

1611
01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:02,280
Speaker 5: So therefore, everyone listening to this show right now in

1612
01:13:02,360 --> 01:13:06,600
Speaker 5: a relationship, end it. No, just pull the plug, go

1613
01:13:06,760 --> 01:13:07,280
Speaker 5: to that pain.

1614
01:13:08,439 --> 01:13:10,080
Speaker 2: You know. One of my favorite things, Matthew, that you

1615
01:13:10,280 --> 01:13:12,360
Speaker 2: you've said in the past, and you've said it several times,

1616
01:13:12,560 --> 01:13:16,280
Speaker 2: is the most dangerous moment is when you decide and

1617
01:13:16,400 --> 01:13:19,639
Speaker 2: you feel like you really like someone, when you find

1618
01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:23,000
Speaker 2: that person who you really connect with, and you're like, Okay,

1619
01:13:23,640 --> 01:13:27,040
Speaker 2: where do we go with this? That's a you use

1620
01:13:27,080 --> 01:13:29,960
Speaker 2: the word dangerous, actually a dangerous moment? What does that mean?

1621
01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:31,840
Speaker 5: It's I talk about this in the book is the

1622
01:13:31,880 --> 01:13:35,240
Speaker 5: four Levels of the Bullets Love Life. The book Love Life,

1623
01:13:35,400 --> 01:13:37,000
Speaker 5: which by the way, if you want to copy, you

1624
01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:39,240
Speaker 5: can go to lovelifebook dot com.

1625
01:13:39,360 --> 01:13:40,640
Speaker 2: Well can I go to the other places too?

1626
01:13:40,800 --> 01:13:43,040
Speaker 5: You can also go to Amazon, Bonds and Noble. We

1627
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:44,800
Speaker 5: make more percentage if I go to your website. No,

1628
01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:46,920
Speaker 5: we actually have some freebies that were giving away on

1629
01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:50,200
Speaker 5: that website, so that don't give away freebie you always

1630
01:13:50,200 --> 01:13:51,200
Speaker 5: hate when I give away.

1631
01:13:51,520 --> 01:13:54,519
Speaker 12: And tawdry sweatshirts that you have are those freebies? They're cute.

1632
01:13:54,520 --> 01:13:56,360
Speaker 5: They're part of the Everyone who buys a book is

1633
01:13:56,479 --> 01:13:58,360
Speaker 5: entered into a giveaway for the God.

1634
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Speaker 2: Yeah, can we enter away?

1635
01:14:01,200 --> 01:14:03,680
Speaker 5: You can register at lovelifebook dot com.

1636
01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:07,439
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So the moment that is most dangerous is

1637
01:14:07,520 --> 01:14:09,760
Speaker 2: when you meet them and decide, oh, my god, I

1638
01:14:10,240 --> 01:14:12,719
Speaker 2: really really have a feeling this is something.

1639
01:14:13,000 --> 01:14:17,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, because that's mutual attraction feels hard to find, right

1640
01:14:17,360 --> 01:14:20,320
Speaker 5: we especially when we're single and we're we really want

1641
01:14:20,360 --> 01:14:24,559
Speaker 5: to find love. When we find someone who we're attracted to, firstly,

1642
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:29,360
Speaker 5: that feels rare. Then if they like us back who

1643
01:14:29,920 --> 01:14:32,640
Speaker 5: it feels like the Holy Grail. It feels like this

1644
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:35,920
Speaker 5: is it and we want to give everything to it.

1645
01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:39,519
Speaker 5: But the problem is there's two levels beyond that. There's

1646
01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:43,840
Speaker 5: commitment and there's compatibility. And if we don't have those,

1647
01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:48,600
Speaker 5: we have this amazing connection, but to what end? We

1648
01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:51,400
Speaker 5: have to slow ourselves down when we decide something is

1649
01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:53,960
Speaker 5: that important. It doesn't mean you have to ignore your feelings.

1650
01:14:54,040 --> 01:14:57,479
Speaker 5: It means you have to check your feelings and go, Okay,

1651
01:14:57,520 --> 01:15:00,000
Speaker 5: I've been on an amazing date with someone. It was great,

1652
01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:05,160
Speaker 5: it felt incredible, But right now I am not seeing

1653
01:15:05,280 --> 01:15:09,000
Speaker 5: this person's character. I am seeing their impact on me,

1654
01:15:09,600 --> 01:15:11,559
Speaker 5: and there is a huge difference. And by the way,

1655
01:15:11,680 --> 01:15:15,040
Speaker 5: not to be too kind of, you know, fear mongering

1656
01:15:15,080 --> 01:15:17,240
Speaker 5: on this side of the spectrum, but some of the

1657
01:15:17,439 --> 01:15:22,280
Speaker 5: worst people, some of the biggest narcissists, are the greatest

1658
01:15:22,880 --> 01:15:25,559
Speaker 5: at creating the biggest impact on you when you're more

1659
01:15:25,600 --> 01:15:28,559
Speaker 5: hot narcissies, Well, how long.

1660
01:15:28,479 --> 01:15:30,320
Speaker 12: Do you think it takes for you to find out

1661
01:15:30,439 --> 01:15:32,960
Speaker 12: the real person? Because, like you said, you put your

1662
01:15:32,960 --> 01:15:34,679
Speaker 12: best foot forward in the beginning.

1663
01:15:34,920 --> 01:15:37,680
Speaker 5: I think you have to see them in multiple contexts,

1664
01:15:38,360 --> 01:15:42,160
Speaker 5: have different experiences with them, and start to see them

1665
01:15:42,160 --> 01:15:47,000
Speaker 5: over time because character is consistent. Impact can be momentary,

1666
01:15:47,120 --> 01:15:50,800
Speaker 5: but character is consistent. And in order to measure consistency

1667
01:15:51,360 --> 01:15:53,120
Speaker 5: you have to have you have to be seeing this

1668
01:15:53,240 --> 01:15:55,600
Speaker 5: person regularly. You have to see how much do they

1669
01:15:55,640 --> 01:15:57,840
Speaker 5: invest three weeks from now, And if, by the way,

1670
01:15:57,920 --> 01:16:00,280
Speaker 5: the answer is well, we had an amazing too, but

1671
01:16:00,280 --> 01:16:02,519
Speaker 5: I haven't heard from them for two weeks, then you're

1672
01:16:02,600 --> 01:16:06,440
Speaker 5: learning exactly how much they're investing three weeks in exactly.

1673
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:11,439
Speaker 5: He's really looked to Audrey when he said.

1674
01:16:11,280 --> 01:16:16,960
Speaker 2: That, obviously we know where you got that chapter from.

1675
01:16:19,200 --> 01:16:21,639
Speaker 3: I think you got to stress people out immediately and early,

1676
01:16:21,760 --> 01:16:23,559
Speaker 3: so that you can see how they handle conflicts, because

1677
01:16:23,600 --> 01:16:25,479
Speaker 3: that's something that you don't see for a really long time,

1678
01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:27,479
Speaker 3: and that can be a huge deal between people.

1679
01:16:27,760 --> 01:16:31,160
Speaker 5: I do think I'm not sure about the proactively stressing

1680
01:16:31,200 --> 01:16:31,519
Speaker 5: the mass.

1681
01:16:31,560 --> 01:16:32,240
Speaker 10: Yes, proactively.

1682
01:16:33,240 --> 01:16:35,320
Speaker 5: I think going through things together is a good thing.

1683
01:16:35,760 --> 01:16:38,479
Speaker 5: Like going through hard times is one of the greatest

1684
01:16:38,520 --> 01:16:41,679
Speaker 5: measures of any relationship. And that doesn't mean you should

1685
01:16:41,760 --> 01:16:45,680
Speaker 5: necessarily engineer hard times. But what it does mean is

1686
01:16:45,760 --> 01:16:49,240
Speaker 5: that if you haven't been through any hard times with anyone,

1687
01:16:50,160 --> 01:16:53,280
Speaker 5: be careful about saying that this is it, this is

1688
01:16:53,360 --> 01:16:53,799
Speaker 5: the person.

1689
01:16:54,920 --> 01:16:57,120
Speaker 12: You have no idea the reactor.

1690
01:16:57,400 --> 01:17:01,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, how they treat their parents, how they treat a

1691
01:17:01,400 --> 01:17:05,320
Speaker 2: server at a restaurant, how they There's all those little things,

1692
01:17:05,360 --> 01:17:07,320
Speaker 2: and you're like, I get that immediately. By the way,

1693
01:17:07,320 --> 01:17:08,960
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take one call. Do we have to take

1694
01:17:08,960 --> 01:17:12,160
Speaker 2: a break? But there's more unless you gotta go what

1695
01:17:12,280 --> 01:17:12,719
Speaker 2: you're timing?

1696
01:17:13,040 --> 01:17:14,400
Speaker 5: No, I'm so happy.

1697
01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:16,920
Speaker 12: Is having life here?

1698
01:17:17,240 --> 01:17:20,080
Speaker 7: Hello Aaron, Hi, good morning.

1699
01:17:20,280 --> 01:17:23,200
Speaker 2: You just ordered Love Life starring Matthew Husban I did.

1700
01:17:23,920 --> 01:17:26,240
Speaker 2: I did, And so you're actually calling to say thank

1701
01:17:26,280 --> 01:17:29,120
Speaker 2: you for calling me out on my shenanigans. What does

1702
01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:31,360
Speaker 2: that mean, what does that mean in your mind?

1703
01:17:32,280 --> 01:17:32,600
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1704
01:17:32,640 --> 01:17:34,519
Speaker 17: I guess I've never really thought about it, you know,

1705
01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:37,080
Speaker 17: like I just have always assumed like I found crappy

1706
01:17:37,720 --> 01:17:39,720
Speaker 17: people in life, and like I just have learned to

1707
01:17:39,760 --> 01:17:42,080
Speaker 17: deal with it. But that's like when he said, you know,

1708
01:17:42,160 --> 01:17:44,320
Speaker 17: like why are we choosing to deal with it? Like

1709
01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:46,320
Speaker 17: what is it in us that makes this And the

1710
01:17:46,400 --> 01:17:48,960
Speaker 17: fact that maybe it's not like real, real love, it's

1711
01:17:49,040 --> 01:17:51,439
Speaker 17: just like an attraction thing that to me, I think

1712
01:17:51,479 --> 01:17:54,559
Speaker 17: it goes back to like childhood, like there was never

1713
01:17:54,640 --> 01:17:57,519
Speaker 17: like real affection or emotion or things like that. So

1714
01:17:57,720 --> 01:17:59,360
Speaker 17: to me, like I find those people that need you

1715
01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:02,040
Speaker 17: worked on starn and cured, and I think I'm the

1716
01:18:02,080 --> 01:18:05,640
Speaker 17: solution and I'm not. I'm not the solution and it's

1717
01:18:05,680 --> 01:18:06,320
Speaker 17: too much work.

1718
01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:10,800
Speaker 5: I had a friend, Aaron, who was with a guy

1719
01:18:10,920 --> 01:18:14,160
Speaker 5: that treated her awfully and she was with him for

1720
01:18:14,240 --> 01:18:17,560
Speaker 5: a while and then when she found a new relationship

1721
01:18:17,640 --> 01:18:21,160
Speaker 5: after that one that really hurt her, she found this

1722
01:18:21,280 --> 01:18:25,760
Speaker 5: amazing guy lovely treated her well and it was a

1723
01:18:25,840 --> 01:18:28,920
Speaker 5: really healthy relationship in the beginning, and her mom asked

1724
01:18:28,960 --> 01:18:32,080
Speaker 5: her one day, you know, how's it going, and she said,

1725
01:18:32,160 --> 01:18:37,000
Speaker 5: it's so weird, mum, he's so nice to me and

1726
01:18:37,120 --> 01:18:39,960
Speaker 5: her mom. Her mum looked at her and said, that's

1727
01:18:40,000 --> 01:18:43,600
Speaker 5: how it's supposed to be. And so, Aaron, what I

1728
01:18:43,680 --> 01:18:47,120
Speaker 5: want to say to you is that other behavior that

1729
01:18:47,400 --> 01:18:51,120
Speaker 5: deep down you might really need, that safety, that person

1730
01:18:51,160 --> 01:18:53,439
Speaker 5: who really sees you, that person who really shows up

1731
01:18:53,479 --> 01:18:57,680
Speaker 5: for you, that person who's consistent. That might present as

1732
01:18:57,880 --> 01:19:01,200
Speaker 5: really unfamiliar when you first get it from someone. And

1733
01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:05,719
Speaker 5: when something's that unfamiliar, it's a bit uncomfortable. It's weird.

1734
01:19:05,840 --> 01:19:09,080
Speaker 5: It can even be boring, airing. It can feel kind

1735
01:19:09,160 --> 01:19:12,160
Speaker 5: of boring, like this isn't the chaos I'm used to.

1736
01:19:12,920 --> 01:19:15,920
Speaker 5: But that doesn't mean it's wrong. It just means it's

1737
01:19:16,040 --> 01:19:18,120
Speaker 5: not what I'm used to. And it might take me

1738
01:19:18,200 --> 01:19:21,559
Speaker 5: a little bit to acclimatize to something that's more healthy,

1739
01:19:21,800 --> 01:19:23,400
Speaker 5: especially if I've never had it.

1740
01:19:25,040 --> 01:19:26,240
Speaker 17: I want boring in my life.

1741
01:19:28,320 --> 01:19:34,000
Speaker 2: Boring is actually exciting sometimes, like my dad, doing nothing

1742
01:19:34,160 --> 01:19:36,240
Speaker 2: is doing something. And so if I if I can

1743
01:19:36,439 --> 01:19:40,160
Speaker 2: have just relax night with you with no arguing, I'm

1744
01:19:40,240 --> 01:19:42,400
Speaker 2: totally fine with it. Totally fine with it. A quick

1745
01:19:42,479 --> 01:19:43,960
Speaker 2: question from Frog and we've got to take a break.

1746
01:19:44,000 --> 01:19:44,559
Speaker 2: What's up, Frog?

1747
01:19:44,840 --> 01:19:47,040
Speaker 24: I always say that you I would rather do the

1748
01:19:47,120 --> 01:19:50,600
Speaker 24: most mundane, boring thing with the most wonderful person that

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Speaker 24: I enjoy spending time with, been doing the most magical,

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Speaker 24: wonderful thing with the wrong person, because it ruins that

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Speaker 24: experience because it's with the wrong person.

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Speaker 5: Good And I would say, you guys have my heart

1753
01:20:02,360 --> 01:20:07,840
Speaker 5: through the roof. It's why we have to be really

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01:20:07,920 --> 01:20:10,760
Speaker 5: careful if we look at our dating life with someone

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Speaker 5: early on and we just keep doing all of these

1756
01:20:12,600 --> 01:20:16,280
Speaker 5: kind of shiny, exciting things, because those can actually mask

1757
01:20:16,760 --> 01:20:19,280
Speaker 5: how little connection we have with someone. You know, the

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Speaker 5: person you can fold laundry with and you're having the

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Speaker 5: best time because you're just talking and lost in this

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Speaker 5: amazing conversation. That's that's fantastic. The person you have to

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Speaker 5: keep going on fancy dates with and it comes back

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Speaker 5: and you're just like, oh my god, there's so much here.

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Speaker 5: It's like, well, it might just be that the food

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Speaker 5: that person. It's the experiences that this is providing erin.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for your call. And by the way, erin,

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Speaker 2: she said that the classic thing that we hear all

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Speaker 2: the time, Oh my god, you're hitting home with me. Now,

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Speaker 2: we're hitting home with a lot of people because what

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Speaker 2: you're experiencing is what all of us experience. So yeah,

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Speaker 2: this is okay. Matthew Hussey a little more in a second.

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Speaker 1: Love you, guys, Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's such an amazing show. Much needed

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Speaker 2: topic on relationships. Thank you for this conversation. For Matthew,

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Speaker 2: this is all great, but what about when you're twenty

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Speaker 2: years into a relationship. Should you still expect to have

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Speaker 2: great conversations while you're folding laundry? What if you start

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Speaker 2: Does this mean love is no longer enough? Should turn

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Speaker 2: your microphone on? Yes, sir.

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Speaker 5: In any long term relationship, newness is important. So I

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Speaker 5: think the balance can shift there where you're like, are

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Speaker 5: we bringing newness into our relationship?

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Speaker 2: I've had a third party bring a third person in.

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Speaker 2: Who's with me?

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Speaker 4: Hey?

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Speaker 2: A lot of people have been commenting about how they

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Speaker 2: Love Life, Matthew Hussey. Another call will Angela Lane twenty

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Speaker 2: Hello Angela, say good morning to Matthew Hussey. Come one on, Matthew,

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Speaker 2: Hey Angela, what's going on?

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Speaker 26: I had a question as far as like dating having

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Speaker 26: dated a narcissus, Like, how what's the best way to

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01:23:17,520 --> 01:23:19,960
Speaker 26: know what you like? Dating a narcissis and how to

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01:23:20,240 --> 01:23:22,960
Speaker 26: get what's the best way to break away from them

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01:23:23,040 --> 01:23:25,120
Speaker 26: because they can see very kind of ditive.

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Speaker 5: I think the truth is it's look. I think one

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01:23:28,320 --> 01:23:30,360
Speaker 5: of the traps we get stuck in Angela is trying

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Speaker 5: to diagnose someone when we're not an expert and you

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01:23:34,000 --> 01:23:37,519
Speaker 5: don't need to diagnose someone. What you need to check

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Speaker 5: in with is your actual experience. Am I happy? Are

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01:23:40,520 --> 01:23:43,639
Speaker 5: my needs getting met? Or am I consistent? Or am

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01:23:43,680 --> 01:23:46,320
Speaker 5: I trying to figure out if this person is a

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Speaker 5: diagnosable narcissist, which is what you're doing. And if that's

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Speaker 5: the case, you have to say, how did I get here?

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Speaker 5: What's going on that I'm even asking these questions? And

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01:23:56,280 --> 01:23:57,960
Speaker 5: how long has it been going on for? How many

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Speaker 5: times have I cried? How many times have I tried

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Speaker 5: to change and nothing has changed? And then what you

1827
01:24:03,560 --> 01:24:05,800
Speaker 5: have to do is go into a place of acceptance

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Speaker 5: that this person, if they haven't changed so far, why

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01:24:09,000 --> 01:24:11,080
Speaker 5: would I think they're going to change now? And if

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Speaker 5: I have to leave, the hardest thing to do is

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Speaker 5: to be the one who lights the fuse that blows

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Speaker 5: up your own life. That is really, really hard, but

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Speaker 5: you have to accept that if you stay you'll never

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Speaker 5: be happy, and if you leave, there will be an

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01:24:25,439 --> 01:24:28,240
Speaker 5: initial mess. There will be especially if this is a

1836
01:24:28,280 --> 01:24:31,120
Speaker 5: difficult person, they're probably not going to make your life easy.

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Speaker 5: Instead of hoping that won't happen except that it might,

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Speaker 5: accept that it's coming and surrender to the fact that

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Speaker 5: on the other side of that mess is a far

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01:24:40,880 --> 01:24:43,800
Speaker 5: greater degree of peace and happiness than you have experienced

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Speaker 5: in a long, long time, and that it's worth going

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01:24:46,640 --> 01:24:47,760
Speaker 5: through that mess to get to that.

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Speaker 2: Injel, enjoy the mess, Angela. I know easy for us

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01:24:55,240 --> 01:24:58,320
Speaker 2: to say, but can you imagine actually going Okay, I

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Speaker 2: know that if I go through this mess, it's going

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Speaker 2: to be a mess, but I'm going to be so

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01:25:02,040 --> 01:25:05,719
Speaker 2: much stronger out of that mess. Then okay, let's get messy,

1848
01:25:05,760 --> 01:25:08,200
Speaker 2: all right, Angela, thank you so much before you leave.

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Speaker 2: I want to the last chapter in your book, love Life,

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Speaker 2: which is available at lovelife book dot com, is happy enough. Wow.

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Speaker 2: Those two words are pretty powerful because a lot of

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01:25:23,320 --> 01:25:24,599
Speaker 2: people are like, you know, I don't know if I've

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01:25:24,600 --> 01:25:26,360
Speaker 2: found happiness quite yet. I don't know what it is.

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Speaker 2: Am I happy? I don't am I I don't know?

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Speaker 2: And you really kind of address that in this chapter

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Speaker 2: and it really makes you makes me kind of calm

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Speaker 2: in a way.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because I think we always talk about I cringe

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01:25:38,600 --> 01:25:40,120
Speaker 5: a little when I hear people say you have to

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Speaker 5: be happy in whole before you ever meet someone, And

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Speaker 5: I'm like, how many married people do you know that

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01:25:44,880 --> 01:25:47,360
Speaker 5: we're happy in whole before they met someone? Like it's

1863
01:25:47,880 --> 01:25:50,920
Speaker 5: we all come to a relationship with stuff, we all

1864
01:25:51,000 --> 01:25:53,599
Speaker 5: have baggage, we all have wounds that we're still trying

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01:25:53,680 --> 01:25:56,120
Speaker 5: to heal. And by the way, that we have to

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Speaker 5: stop pathologizing people who feel lonely because they haven't found

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01:26:01,080 --> 01:26:03,920
Speaker 5: someone and feel sad that it hasn't happened yet. Those

1868
01:26:04,000 --> 01:26:07,280
Speaker 5: are normal feelings to feel. We all have the longing

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Speaker 5: for love. So instead of aiming for happy, which I

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01:26:10,280 --> 01:26:13,120
Speaker 5: think is intimidating and makes us feel inadequate for not

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Speaker 5: being able to get there, happy Enough says if my

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Speaker 5: life stayed the way it is today, I'd actually be okay.

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Speaker 5: Maybe I can even admit that if I found someone

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Speaker 5: it would be even better.

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Speaker 2: I can admit that.

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Speaker 5: But you know what, I'm happy enough to hold I'm

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Speaker 5: happy enough to say no to the wrong thing when

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Speaker 5: it comes along. I'm happy enough that when the right

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01:26:35,200 --> 01:26:38,799
Speaker 5: thing comes along, I don't change and act like someone

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Speaker 5: who can't lose it, because I'll die if I lose

1881
01:26:41,320 --> 01:26:44,479
Speaker 5: this person that's so right for me. Happy enough is

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Speaker 5: a superpower. It is not settling. It is this strong

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Speaker 5: foundation from which to take risks, show your magic again,

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01:26:53,400 --> 01:26:55,840
Speaker 5: and actually get out there. You can take big risks

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01:26:55,880 --> 01:26:57,920
Speaker 5: when you know you can go home to yourself and

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Speaker 5: still be okay.

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Speaker 2: That I love that. That was something every one of

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Speaker 2: us needed to hear.

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Speaker 9: You know what.

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Speaker 2: Everyone smiled, Matthew. You do say something that's good and

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Speaker 2: right every once in a while that that pearl of

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Speaker 2: wisom will roll out of your oyster. It's fabulous.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: We love you. We love you, Love Life, lovelifebook dot com.

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Speaker 2: coming in to that. Thank you for having me. It's

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Speaker 2: Thank you again to Matthew Hussey. We love Matthew. He's

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Speaker 12: Love his wife.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I like her better. Yeah, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: We're about to get into sound with Garrett. Right now,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go around the room. Who's ready, Gandhi.

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Speaker 10: Yes, I'm ready. All right, it's Wednesday. You know what

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Speaker 3: I have a new episode of my podcast dropping today,

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Speaker 3: And today's was actually with a comedian named Jared Freed

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Speaker 10: So it flows together with what we were talking about today.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, very nice.

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Speaker 10: And Diamond's in it because she's unfixable. I just want

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Speaker 2: She's broken and Unfacebook shattered, shattered in a million, but

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Speaker 2: Hey U, producer Sam, what's up with you today? I

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Speaker 2: don't know how Please help me? Okay, hi, Hi.

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Speaker 13: So I was embarrassed in my own home yesterday and

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Speaker 13: I felt so apologetic.

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Speaker 10: And it wasn't even my fault.

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Speaker 13: So I'm sitting on the couch without pants because I'm

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Speaker 13: alone and do my and the door opens up and

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Speaker 13: I turn around and it is my dog walker.

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Speaker 10: He got the dates wrong when.

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Speaker 13: He's supposed to come and walk my dog, so he

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Speaker 13: just let himself into my apartment and there I am, again,

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Speaker 13: thankfully with my little couch blanket.

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Speaker 22: But my neighbors just heard ash and the poor guy

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Speaker 22: also screamed because he was taken aback. And yeah, it

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Speaker 22: turns out he wrote the wrong date down. But that

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Speaker 22: was one of the most humiliating moments of my adult life.

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Speaker 2: My fault. You had a blanket over your part.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, but you're not really expecting people when you're not

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Speaker 13: wearing pants, no matter what's all So.

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Speaker 10: On you Are you wearing under her were but holding

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Speaker 10: your blanket? No, we don't but hole, okay, no.

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Speaker 2: No, Froggy, what's up with you today?

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Speaker 24: So starting back in February, so friend of ours challenged

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Speaker 24: me to do push ups with them how many I

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Speaker 24: can do? And when I started off, I could only

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Speaker 24: do about twenty at a time and then I would

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Speaker 24: be done. Today I crossed the sixty threshold. Go for you, Frog,

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Speaker 24: I can do sixty at once now. And it's proof

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Speaker 24: that if you just start small, do a little bit

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Speaker 24: at a time, you will reach a goal.

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Speaker 2: And you just skept to keep going.

1964
01:30:19,400 --> 01:30:21,320
Speaker 24: So keep going, very very I can't believe I can

1965
01:30:21,400 --> 01:30:24,120
Speaker 24: actually do sixty because twenty was a big deal at first.

1966
01:30:24,160 --> 01:30:25,720
Speaker 2: But yep, so you can do it. Well, you're a

1967
01:30:25,800 --> 01:30:27,920
Speaker 2: big deal. Congratulations. I wouldn't go that far, but yes,

1968
01:30:27,960 --> 01:30:30,240
Speaker 2: thanks absolutely, Hello, Danielle.

1969
01:30:30,520 --> 01:30:33,880
Speaker 12: I am amazed at how alike so many of us are.

1970
01:30:34,120 --> 01:30:37,160
Speaker 12: Like this morning, Sam was telling me I'm going back

1971
01:30:37,200 --> 01:30:39,439
Speaker 12: to you and your button underwear. But oh Sam this

1972
01:30:39,520 --> 01:30:42,200
Speaker 12: morning was telling me she forgot underwear in her room.

1973
01:30:42,439 --> 01:30:44,439
Speaker 12: And she's like me because she has another half in

1974
01:30:44,520 --> 01:30:46,880
Speaker 12: the house. She puts her clothes out every night so

1975
01:30:46,960 --> 01:30:49,439
Speaker 12: that you don't have to bother your other half. But

1976
01:30:49,600 --> 01:30:52,519
Speaker 12: she forgot underwear. This happens to me all the time,

1977
01:30:52,600 --> 01:30:55,040
Speaker 12: where I have to sneak upstairs to the room, put

1978
01:30:55,080 --> 01:30:57,519
Speaker 12: my flashlight on so I don't wake up Sheldon go

1979
01:30:57,640 --> 01:31:01,080
Speaker 12: and find underwear because I forgot underwear. It's crazy how

1980
01:31:01,200 --> 01:31:03,000
Speaker 12: so many of us are alike and do the same

1981
01:31:03,200 --> 01:31:05,880
Speaker 12: stupid things because we want to be considerate.

1982
01:31:06,040 --> 01:31:07,560
Speaker 2: When you wake up in the dark, you really have

1983
01:31:07,640 --> 01:31:10,280
Speaker 2: to live weird like that life in a cave.

1984
01:31:10,360 --> 01:31:10,640
Speaker 3: It's real.

1985
01:31:11,560 --> 01:31:13,759
Speaker 12: And I think about how many times I forget underwear.

1986
01:31:13,800 --> 01:31:16,559
Speaker 12: It's amazing because I I go, I don't understand again,

1987
01:31:16,560 --> 01:31:18,519
Speaker 12: I forgot to put my underwear out, Like, what's wrong

1988
01:31:18,560 --> 01:31:18,760
Speaker 12: with me?

1989
01:31:19,720 --> 01:31:24,360
Speaker 2: You could turn yesterday's inside out. No, no, no, I'm scary.

1990
01:31:24,400 --> 01:31:25,639
Speaker 2: What's up? Some parents?

1991
01:31:25,720 --> 01:31:26,080
Speaker 1: Can you go?

1992
01:31:26,439 --> 01:31:29,760
Speaker 27: Can you teach your kids some manners? Let me say this, Okay,

1993
01:31:29,760 --> 01:31:31,400
Speaker 27: I live at the top of my building, near the

1994
01:31:31,479 --> 01:31:34,000
Speaker 27: top floor. I get in the lobby with a mother

1995
01:31:34,200 --> 01:31:36,000
Speaker 27: and a son who's maybe like seven eight years old.

1996
01:31:36,360 --> 01:31:38,640
Speaker 27: The kid starts pressing all the buttons and because he

1997
01:31:38,800 --> 01:31:39,559
Speaker 27: likes the lights.

1998
01:31:40,400 --> 01:31:41,759
Speaker 2: The lights, you're so pretty.

1999
01:31:42,000 --> 01:31:43,599
Speaker 20: They get off on the fifth floor and I'm looking

2000
01:31:43,600 --> 01:31:45,640
Speaker 20: at her and she goes, huh, yeah, he just likes

2001
01:31:45,680 --> 01:31:46,400
Speaker 20: sticking up playing.

2002
01:31:46,479 --> 01:31:49,439
Speaker 14: I'm like, that's nice, playing your own time. There's nobody else.

2003
01:31:49,600 --> 01:31:52,720
Speaker 2: Did you say that? No, you should say something. What

2004
01:31:53,200 --> 01:31:55,000
Speaker 2: you should say? Well, I have to wait forty five

2005
01:31:55,080 --> 01:31:57,559
Speaker 2: more floors because your son things lights are pretty well.

2006
01:31:57,600 --> 01:31:59,439
Speaker 14: I gave her the crap eating grin like this.

2007
01:31:59,520 --> 01:32:02,360
Speaker 2: I didn't fix any but I was going to try

2008
01:32:02,439 --> 01:32:03,120
Speaker 2: to stop him.

2009
01:32:03,439 --> 01:32:03,800
Speaker 4: Do it?

2010
01:32:04,200 --> 01:32:05,519
Speaker 14: Go ahead, go play press three.

2011
01:32:06,439 --> 01:32:10,880
Speaker 2: No, I would say something, Hey, get out of here,

2012
01:32:10,960 --> 01:32:13,280
Speaker 2: get out of my elevator. Gotta say something next time.

2013
01:32:13,320 --> 01:32:15,280
Speaker 10: Push the emergency stop. Now you all have to suffer.

2014
01:32:15,479 --> 01:32:17,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go straight. Okay.

2015
01:32:18,160 --> 01:32:20,519
Speaker 11: So a lot of people wear wrist watches, right, I

2016
01:32:20,680 --> 01:32:25,360
Speaker 11: wear one. Okay, So did you know that they were

2017
01:32:25,360 --> 01:32:28,080
Speaker 11: actually designed to be worn on the inside of your wrist?

2018
01:32:28,120 --> 01:32:29,000
Speaker 11: Does anybody know why?

2019
01:32:29,760 --> 01:32:30,000
Speaker 2: Okay?

2020
01:32:30,080 --> 01:32:32,320
Speaker 11: The reason being it was started with the military, and

2021
01:32:32,400 --> 01:32:35,200
Speaker 11: they didn't want anything flashy that would be reflective that

2022
01:32:35,320 --> 01:32:38,559
Speaker 11: the enemy would see from across the way, So they

2023
01:32:38,640 --> 01:32:40,880
Speaker 11: started wearing their watches on the inside so the light

2024
01:32:40,920 --> 01:32:43,439
Speaker 11: wouldn't catch the face and then they would see where

2025
01:32:43,560 --> 01:32:48,000
Speaker 11: they were hiding. That's why they were originally like this, But.

2026
01:32:48,040 --> 01:32:50,080
Speaker 12: If you wear it that way, you crack the thing.

2027
01:32:50,320 --> 01:32:53,320
Speaker 2: I think getting shot over, breaking your eyes probably you're

2028
01:32:53,320 --> 01:32:54,200
Speaker 2: clearly visible today.

2029
01:32:54,720 --> 01:32:55,960
Speaker 10: Those are two choices.

2030
01:32:56,479 --> 01:32:59,200
Speaker 2: We always learned something from straight All right, into the sound.

2031
01:32:59,240 --> 01:32:59,760
Speaker 2: What do you have there?

2032
01:33:00,800 --> 01:33:00,920
Speaker 6: Oh?

2033
01:33:01,000 --> 01:33:03,880
Speaker 2: Hold on, here we go. You're good, you got it,

2034
01:33:03,960 --> 01:33:06,200
Speaker 2: it's on. Okay, go all right, let's start with this.

2035
01:33:06,680 --> 01:33:10,759
Speaker 25: In Belgium there was a seagull screeching competition, the twenty

2036
01:33:10,800 --> 01:33:14,200
Speaker 25: twenty four Seagulls Screeching Competition, and nine year old one

2037
01:33:14,360 --> 01:33:15,519
Speaker 25: listen to this screech.

2038
01:33:20,200 --> 01:33:25,479
Speaker 2: Oh lie, I feel like you met the beach. That's

2039
01:33:25,479 --> 01:33:27,160
Speaker 2: what they sound like, right before they dive bomb your

2040
01:33:27,160 --> 01:33:29,320
Speaker 2: French fries. Yeah, and they steal everything. All right.

2041
01:33:29,360 --> 01:33:31,880
Speaker 25: Now, let's it is baseball season and this dad was

2042
01:33:31,960 --> 01:33:34,280
Speaker 25: out playing baseball with his son, and his son hit

2043
01:33:34,320 --> 01:33:35,920
Speaker 25: a home run off of dad as they were just

2044
01:33:36,000 --> 01:33:39,080
Speaker 25: having some fun. Dad was super excited. Listen to his excitement.

2045
01:33:46,439 --> 01:33:56,200
Speaker 25: Oh now, if my dad did that, Like if I

2046
01:33:56,280 --> 01:33:58,000
Speaker 25: hit a home run off my dad, he would just

2047
01:33:58,240 --> 01:33:59,519
Speaker 25: beaming with the baseball the next time.

2048
01:34:00,520 --> 01:34:03,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, or the bad. Here is a grumpy grandma blowing

2049
01:34:03,800 --> 01:34:05,080
Speaker 2: out her candles on our birthday.

2050
01:34:05,080 --> 01:34:10,439
Speaker 14: Cake will thank you very much.

2051
01:34:11,000 --> 01:34:12,280
Speaker 2: I hope this is my last.

2052
01:34:15,240 --> 01:34:19,439
Speaker 25: It's her birthday. It's her birthday with Dua Lipa coming

2053
01:34:19,520 --> 01:34:21,400
Speaker 25: up in just a few minutes. I found an interesting

2054
01:34:21,520 --> 01:34:24,400
Speaker 25: mashup with Rihanna Dua Lipa that Adam Music did on

2055
01:34:24,479 --> 01:34:26,920
Speaker 25: YouTube has five million views. It's please Don't Stop the

2056
01:34:27,000 --> 01:34:28,840
Speaker 25: music combined with training season.

2057
01:34:40,280 --> 01:34:42,240
Speaker 2: Well that sounds good. Yeah, I wonder if she's heard this.

2058
01:34:42,479 --> 01:34:45,640
Speaker 2: I don't know. We'll find out. Yes, and that's it,

2059
01:34:46,040 --> 01:34:48,559
Speaker 2: all right? You don't play Dan, and you have time?

2060
01:34:48,800 --> 01:34:49,200
Speaker 4: We have time?

2061
01:34:49,240 --> 01:34:50,360
Speaker 2: All right, yes, go we could do it.

2062
01:34:50,640 --> 01:34:52,439
Speaker 25: So we all love Dan and Shay and I fell

2063
01:34:52,520 --> 01:34:55,160
Speaker 25: down a YouTube rabbit hole and found the isolated vocals

2064
01:34:55,320 --> 01:34:57,280
Speaker 25: for one of our favorite songs, Tequila.

2065
01:34:57,200 --> 01:35:01,120
Speaker 7: Fucking Dream, Whiskey re sham thing.

2066
01:35:03,000 --> 01:35:04,519
Speaker 14: It's sketched on the racks.

2067
01:35:04,720 --> 01:35:06,040
Speaker 1: Enough of.

2068
01:35:07,720 --> 01:35:14,680
Speaker 2: Why not taste cuta baby, I still see the sea

2069
01:35:15,080 --> 01:35:21,280
Speaker 2: gives me goose, do a lifas all the way? Who

2070
01:35:24,680 --> 01:35:25,160
Speaker 2: piece to wed?

2071
01:35:25,360 --> 01:35:33,880
Speaker 1: Maybe you'll calm down a little and the morning shows

2072
01:35:34,520 --> 01:35:35,400
Speaker 1: in the morning.

2073
01:35:35,200 --> 01:35:38,439
Speaker 2: Show, do alifah on the way. You know, I have

2074
01:35:38,720 --> 01:35:42,920
Speaker 2: almost mastered the dance that she performed at the Grammys. Really,

2075
01:35:43,280 --> 01:35:45,040
Speaker 2: it's all over. TikTok all the kids are doing it.

2076
01:35:45,200 --> 01:35:46,800
Speaker 10: Please do it when she's no, No, I'm not.

2077
01:35:46,880 --> 01:35:51,240
Speaker 2: I'm not there yet. I'm close. I'm very close. Anyway,

2078
01:35:51,280 --> 01:35:53,759
Speaker 2: do a lipa all the way. She had a tattoo

2079
01:35:53,800 --> 01:35:55,519
Speaker 2: the other day. To ask her where she got her tattoo.

2080
01:35:55,520 --> 01:36:06,800
Speaker 2: We've got all the deep probing questions coming up, ja

2081
01:36:06,960 --> 01:36:07,600
Speaker 2: and here she is.

2082
01:36:09,840 --> 01:36:10,160
Speaker 1: Love it.

2083
01:36:12,920 --> 01:36:13,880
Speaker 2: Okay, thanks for being here.

2084
01:36:14,320 --> 01:36:16,360
Speaker 7: Thank you so much for having me. I'm so happy

2085
01:36:16,439 --> 01:36:16,800
Speaker 7: to be here.

2086
01:36:16,920 --> 01:36:18,960
Speaker 2: New York City traffic sucks, doesn't.

2087
01:36:18,680 --> 01:36:22,479
Speaker 7: It, Ben Bananas, But I'm here and I made it.

2088
01:36:23,920 --> 01:36:25,240
Speaker 2: We're saying it to do it. And if you come

2089
01:36:25,240 --> 01:36:26,640
Speaker 2: to New York you know what we're talking about. If

2090
01:36:26,640 --> 01:36:30,640
Speaker 2: you're if you're running early, then you're like, why did

2091
01:36:30,680 --> 01:36:33,000
Speaker 2: we leave the hotel so early? If you're running lates,

2092
01:36:33,040 --> 01:36:35,519
Speaker 2: like what did we leave? There is no happy media

2093
01:36:35,520 --> 01:36:37,519
Speaker 2: and welcome to Hell. We call it home.

2094
01:36:38,479 --> 01:36:40,240
Speaker 7: I'm very happy to be here. Thanks for having me.

2095
01:36:40,680 --> 01:36:43,360
Speaker 2: It's very interesting because when your first album came out, uh,

2096
01:36:43,760 --> 01:36:44,680
Speaker 2: what year was that?

2097
01:36:45,760 --> 01:36:46,400
Speaker 7: Seventeen?

2098
01:36:46,800 --> 01:36:50,680
Speaker 2: Okay? And this when he's you're getting that getting that

2099
01:36:51,000 --> 01:36:55,639
Speaker 2: motion going right? Second album, Pandemic, Yes, but we still

2100
01:36:55,680 --> 01:36:59,679
Speaker 2: loved it. This the third album, this is like Okay,

2101
01:37:01,439 --> 01:37:03,920
Speaker 2: there's no excuses, there's no way he can't hide no,

2102
01:37:04,840 --> 01:37:06,960
Speaker 2: And it sounds so awesome. How proud of are you

2103
01:37:07,080 --> 01:37:07,639
Speaker 2: of your album?

2104
01:37:07,840 --> 01:37:08,120
Speaker 1: Thank you?

2105
01:37:08,280 --> 01:37:10,960
Speaker 15: Yeah, I'm really proud. And also, is it's like a

2106
01:37:11,080 --> 01:37:15,360
Speaker 15: new experience, you know, doing I don't know, the promotion

2107
01:37:15,640 --> 01:37:18,080
Speaker 15: side of things in a completely different way. It's like, oh,

2108
01:37:18,240 --> 01:37:20,759
Speaker 15: I can actually go out there and see the fans

2109
01:37:20,800 --> 01:37:23,200
Speaker 15: and hang out and do shows and things that I

2110
01:37:23,280 --> 01:37:25,240
Speaker 15: didn't have the opportunity to do with the last record

2111
01:37:25,360 --> 01:37:29,320
Speaker 15: until two years after it was released. Right, So this

2112
01:37:30,040 --> 01:37:33,000
Speaker 15: is like it's it's new stomping ground. I love it,

2113
01:37:33,320 --> 01:37:33,800
Speaker 15: really happy.

2114
01:37:33,960 --> 01:37:36,759
Speaker 2: It is stomping. It's boots on the ground. Man, you're running.

2115
01:37:37,400 --> 01:37:38,840
Speaker 2: I mean, is it to the point now you're like,

2116
01:37:38,880 --> 01:37:39,479
Speaker 2: whoa is this?

2117
01:37:40,600 --> 01:37:40,760
Speaker 22: Is this?

2118
01:37:40,880 --> 01:37:41,519
Speaker 11: What this is like?

2119
01:37:41,640 --> 01:37:42,480
Speaker 2: Forevermore?

2120
01:37:43,080 --> 01:37:45,400
Speaker 7: It's a lot of work, It's a lot, but it's fun.

2121
01:37:45,560 --> 01:37:48,400
Speaker 15: I'm just it feels like such a release now as

2122
01:37:48,439 --> 01:37:50,599
Speaker 15: we're getting closer and closer to the album coming out,

2123
01:37:50,640 --> 01:37:51,639
Speaker 15: it just feels surreal.

2124
01:37:52,320 --> 01:37:55,280
Speaker 12: You know when you were like, sorry, when you originally

2125
01:37:55,360 --> 01:37:58,160
Speaker 12: started writing, didn't you go into CVS and buy like

2126
01:37:58,240 --> 01:38:01,360
Speaker 12: a notebook and thens in it because you love CVS

2127
01:38:01,479 --> 01:38:02,400
Speaker 12: or something? Out of story.

2128
01:38:02,720 --> 01:38:04,240
Speaker 7: Well, yes, I definitely love CVS.

2129
01:38:04,439 --> 01:38:07,800
Speaker 15: I feel like I got I end up going to

2130
01:38:07,880 --> 01:38:09,880
Speaker 15: CVS and just buying a lot of random stuff I

2131
01:38:09,960 --> 01:38:12,479
Speaker 15: don't need. I think that's really what happens with most

2132
01:38:12,560 --> 01:38:15,559
Speaker 15: of my CVS halls. But I really needed a notebook,

2133
01:38:15,800 --> 01:38:18,360
Speaker 15: like I just needed somewhere to write down my ideas.

2134
01:38:18,439 --> 01:38:20,960
Speaker 15: I didn't realize how important that notebook when it ended

2135
01:38:21,000 --> 01:38:21,400
Speaker 15: up becoming.

2136
01:38:21,479 --> 01:38:22,880
Speaker 7: I was like, I'm going into the studio.

2137
01:38:22,920 --> 01:38:25,519
Speaker 15: I need a notebook, And it ended up becoming this

2138
01:38:25,760 --> 01:38:29,840
Speaker 15: like relic almost all my all my words and my

2139
01:38:29,960 --> 01:38:33,160
Speaker 15: lyrics and stories and stuff for everything that I've written

2140
01:38:33,240 --> 01:38:33,800
Speaker 15: for this album.

2141
01:38:33,960 --> 01:38:34,920
Speaker 7: So lock it up.

2142
01:38:35,240 --> 01:38:37,680
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, well so you know every artist we have

2143
01:38:37,800 --> 01:38:41,000
Speaker 2: and we love asking about the writing process. So yours

2144
01:38:41,200 --> 01:38:43,519
Speaker 2: is a CVS notebook. A lot of people use voice

2145
01:38:43,520 --> 01:38:44,360
Speaker 2: notes on the phone.

2146
01:38:44,520 --> 01:38:46,560
Speaker 15: Yeah, I do voice notes too, but I think I

2147
01:38:47,320 --> 01:38:49,439
Speaker 15: wanted to get off my phone as much as possible

2148
01:38:49,439 --> 01:38:51,360
Speaker 15: because I spend so much time on it that I

2149
01:38:51,479 --> 01:38:52,920
Speaker 15: was like, I just want to put pen to paper

2150
01:38:53,080 --> 01:38:55,000
Speaker 15: and kind of see the words. And it was just

2151
01:38:55,360 --> 01:39:00,599
Speaker 15: a new, I don't know, experience, and I loved having something,

2152
01:39:01,560 --> 01:39:03,519
Speaker 15: you know, to hold and to read and to see.

2153
01:39:03,560 --> 01:39:05,160
Speaker 7: It really felt like a diary that I.

2154
01:39:05,360 --> 01:39:08,280
Speaker 2: It won't disappeared the toilet definitely not.

2155
01:39:08,840 --> 01:39:11,479
Speaker 15: Now I have it like I have it, you know,

2156
01:39:11,560 --> 01:39:14,800
Speaker 15: photocoffeed and save very good, you know, scanned and I

2157
01:39:15,120 --> 01:39:16,920
Speaker 15: you know, so nothing will happen to.

2158
01:39:17,400 --> 01:39:21,800
Speaker 2: Be very busy. So the Grammy performance, which was unbelievable.

2159
01:39:22,600 --> 01:39:24,519
Speaker 2: Have you been to TikTok? Have you seen all of

2160
01:39:25,920 --> 01:39:29,080
Speaker 2: the dances everyone's learning? Because that dance was fierce.

2161
01:39:29,120 --> 01:39:32,479
Speaker 15: You have to agree, thank you, thank you. In heels,

2162
01:39:32,680 --> 01:39:34,880
Speaker 15: in heels, you got to You've got to give it

2163
01:39:35,000 --> 01:39:37,160
Speaker 15: some like sass or something. And I feel like in

2164
01:39:37,280 --> 01:39:41,040
Speaker 15: heels I just moved back right. But I think it

2165
01:39:41,160 --> 01:39:43,599
Speaker 15: was really one of my dances. As he had take

2166
01:39:43,760 --> 01:39:47,160
Speaker 15: took my mic and he goes, let's go. That was

2167
01:39:47,240 --> 01:39:50,679
Speaker 15: like the hype excitement part that everyone kind of latched

2168
01:39:50,760 --> 01:39:53,600
Speaker 15: onto and then they're like, all right, let's recreate the

2169
01:39:53,720 --> 01:39:54,400
Speaker 15: dance routine.

2170
01:39:54,479 --> 01:39:56,639
Speaker 7: But it was just so much fun. We had such

2171
01:39:56,920 --> 01:39:58,160
Speaker 7: a blast putting that together.

2172
01:39:58,520 --> 01:40:01,200
Speaker 2: Did you see kiky boots the mus You've seen the

2173
01:40:01,280 --> 01:40:04,160
Speaker 2: kinky boots. Haven't you the long the tall red boots

2174
01:40:04,200 --> 01:40:05,320
Speaker 2: with a high, fierce heel.

2175
01:40:05,760 --> 01:40:07,200
Speaker 7: Maybe pull up a picture.

2176
01:40:08,200 --> 01:40:12,240
Speaker 2: So at night I go home, I closed, I close

2177
01:40:12,280 --> 01:40:14,759
Speaker 2: the blinds. I pulled on my kinky boots. I'm almost

2178
01:40:14,800 --> 01:40:16,200
Speaker 2: halfway done learning your dance.

2179
01:40:16,720 --> 01:40:18,200
Speaker 7: And when it's done, did you do a video?

2180
01:40:18,640 --> 01:40:18,680
Speaker 4: No?

2181
01:40:18,800 --> 01:40:20,280
Speaker 2: No, no, no, it's time.

2182
01:40:20,640 --> 01:40:24,639
Speaker 10: Come on, he actually has them.

2183
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Speaker 7: Okay, I gotta see it.

2184
01:40:27,240 --> 01:40:27,880
Speaker 26: I gotta see it.

2185
01:40:28,000 --> 01:40:30,040
Speaker 2: You didn't go that Grammy stage until you already. I

2186
01:40:30,080 --> 01:40:34,240
Speaker 2: will not show you my kiky grimy dance. So you

2187
01:40:34,360 --> 01:40:37,160
Speaker 2: were who you were with Seth Myers and you got

2188
01:40:37,200 --> 01:40:37,719
Speaker 2: a tattoo?

2189
01:40:38,000 --> 01:40:38,200
Speaker 4: Yes?

2190
01:40:38,640 --> 01:40:40,320
Speaker 2: Were you really day drinking with Seth Myers?

2191
01:40:40,680 --> 01:40:45,160
Speaker 7: I know as I day drinking, I got blackout?

2192
01:40:45,320 --> 01:40:47,479
Speaker 2: Okay, good. What was your cocktail of choice? I forgot?

2193
01:40:47,760 --> 01:40:52,599
Speaker 15: Well, unfortunately, it was like an involuntary cocktail of rum, vodka,

2194
01:40:52,680 --> 01:40:53,760
Speaker 15: gin tequilo.

2195
01:40:55,560 --> 01:40:58,000
Speaker 7: And all of the above. It was a blast. We

2196
01:40:58,080 --> 01:41:00,839
Speaker 7: had the best time, but I should have paced myself.

2197
01:41:00,920 --> 01:41:01,080
Speaker 4: Well.

2198
01:41:01,520 --> 01:41:03,640
Speaker 7: I was like, I was like, I can handle this,

2199
01:41:04,520 --> 01:41:08,719
Speaker 7: I can drink and it kind of backfire.

2200
01:41:08,800 --> 01:41:11,080
Speaker 2: It looks like a fun day. But hitting a tattoo,

2201
01:41:11,240 --> 01:41:12,920
Speaker 2: yeah we did. Is this your first tattoo?

2202
01:41:13,280 --> 01:41:18,360
Speaker 15: No, okay, it's my twenty Okay, whoa. I've got a couple,

2203
01:41:18,439 --> 01:41:20,120
Speaker 15: but they're all quite small, so I have lots on

2204
01:41:20,200 --> 01:41:22,840
Speaker 15: my hands and was it looking.

2205
01:41:23,360 --> 01:41:26,439
Speaker 2: I'm I'm still I'm almost sixty years old. I still

2206
01:41:26,439 --> 01:41:28,600
Speaker 2: don't have my first tattoo because I can't make up

2207
01:41:28,640 --> 01:41:29,040
Speaker 2: my mind.

2208
01:41:29,200 --> 01:41:29,800
Speaker 7: But don't do it.

2209
01:41:31,840 --> 01:41:32,640
Speaker 2: I want to do it.

2210
01:41:33,280 --> 01:41:35,880
Speaker 7: I want to do it's cooler without No, it's not.

2211
01:41:36,320 --> 01:41:42,160
Speaker 15: Yeah, I mean you have tattooler Yeah, because now I've

2212
01:41:42,240 --> 01:41:44,120
Speaker 15: like started, so I might as well carry on. But

2213
01:41:44,200 --> 01:41:46,080
Speaker 15: if you don't have any, it's almost like more rare

2214
01:41:46,200 --> 01:41:49,000
Speaker 15: not to have any, so I wouldn't even start.

2215
01:41:49,080 --> 01:41:52,639
Speaker 2: I just want one look at my boobs. My boob

2216
01:41:52,720 --> 01:41:53,880
Speaker 2: start to fall towards the ground.

2217
01:41:54,000 --> 01:41:54,599
Speaker 7: Kinky boobs.

2218
01:41:54,680 --> 01:42:00,120
Speaker 2: Absolutely, why not? Yeah, let's get to the music. So, well,

2219
01:42:00,360 --> 01:42:02,600
Speaker 2: here you are if you're in the business. Where if

2220
01:42:02,600 --> 01:42:04,639
Speaker 2: you're not, I just understand. This is the promotion time

2221
01:42:04,680 --> 01:42:07,640
Speaker 2: where we have this album. We have this music we

2222
01:42:07,680 --> 01:42:09,000
Speaker 2: want to share with the world. So we're going to

2223
01:42:09,040 --> 01:42:11,559
Speaker 2: travel to every corner of the earth to make sure

2224
01:42:11,600 --> 01:42:15,240
Speaker 2: everyone understands this this album. What is the album talk?

2225
01:42:15,400 --> 01:42:16,719
Speaker 2: I mean talk about radical optimism?

2226
01:42:16,880 --> 01:42:17,400
Speaker 4: What is it?

2227
01:42:17,840 --> 01:42:21,240
Speaker 2: I know that's a stupid kind of broad based question.

2228
01:42:21,600 --> 01:42:25,080
Speaker 15: Well, radical optimism, to me is a term that was

2229
01:42:25,160 --> 01:42:28,880
Speaker 15: introduced to a friend of mine and it basically resonated

2230
01:42:28,920 --> 01:42:31,240
Speaker 15: with me through the whole time I was writing the record,

2231
01:42:31,360 --> 01:42:33,240
Speaker 15: which is about resilience.

2232
01:42:33,360 --> 01:42:34,679
Speaker 7: It's about rolling with the punches.

2233
01:42:34,800 --> 01:42:37,439
Speaker 15: It's about when things don't go your way of keeping

2234
01:42:37,600 --> 01:42:42,800
Speaker 15: like an optimistic mindset. It's thinking about when something goes wrong,

2235
01:42:42,920 --> 01:42:45,639
Speaker 15: how you feel like a week later, a month later,

2236
01:42:45,720 --> 01:42:47,920
Speaker 15: and you look at things in hindsight or with perspective

2237
01:42:47,960 --> 01:42:50,080
Speaker 15: and you go, oh, like, I can't believe I was

2238
01:42:50,160 --> 01:42:51,400
Speaker 15: that worried about this thing.

2239
01:42:51,560 --> 01:42:54,000
Speaker 7: You know, it's over, It's done, you know.

2240
01:42:54,760 --> 01:42:56,840
Speaker 15: And I think with that in mind, that kind of

2241
01:42:56,920 --> 01:42:59,760
Speaker 15: helps to have a more positive and optimistic approach that

2242
01:42:59,800 --> 01:43:01,639
Speaker 15: when things are bad, they're not going to be bad

2243
01:43:01,680 --> 01:43:07,760
Speaker 15: for forever. And having that kind of ideology in your

2244
01:43:07,800 --> 01:43:11,479
Speaker 15: mind makes all the bad things okay because you know

2245
01:43:11,600 --> 01:43:13,479
Speaker 15: that you just have to get through them. That's how

2246
01:43:13,520 --> 01:43:15,679
Speaker 15: you learn, that's how you grow. It's outside your comfort

2247
01:43:15,760 --> 01:43:18,759
Speaker 15: zone where you progress. And that's kind of the radical

2248
01:43:18,800 --> 01:43:22,599
Speaker 15: optimism that I feel like we all need in life

2249
01:43:22,800 --> 01:43:24,400
Speaker 15: to just keep it moving.

2250
01:43:24,760 --> 01:43:27,000
Speaker 2: You have an advantage of musicians who put albums out

2251
01:43:27,040 --> 01:43:28,880
Speaker 2: having advantage over the rest of us who don't, and

2252
01:43:29,000 --> 01:43:31,479
Speaker 2: that is being able to chronicle where you were in life.

2253
01:43:31,479 --> 01:43:33,559
Speaker 2: For instance, you were not the same do a lipa

2254
01:43:33,600 --> 01:43:36,439
Speaker 2: as you were when you did your first album. You're

2255
01:43:36,479 --> 01:43:38,120
Speaker 2: not even the same du aleipa you were when you

2256
01:43:38,360 --> 01:43:41,400
Speaker 2: when you did Radical Optimism. You you have changed, You're Yeah,

2257
01:43:41,520 --> 01:43:42,320
Speaker 2: I'm saying even.

2258
01:43:42,120 --> 01:43:44,400
Speaker 7: When I started this record, I've grown so much.

2259
01:43:44,520 --> 01:43:46,120
Speaker 2: So you can look. You can look at your body

2260
01:43:46,160 --> 01:43:48,120
Speaker 2: of work and goth that's where I was then. I'm

2261
01:43:48,200 --> 01:43:52,080
Speaker 2: not there anymore. I'm a different woman now, Yeah, for sure.

2262
01:43:52,320 --> 01:43:54,160
Speaker 15: And I think I look at it fondly because it's

2263
01:43:54,200 --> 01:43:56,960
Speaker 15: like a time capsture of a point in my life

2264
01:43:57,000 --> 01:44:00,160
Speaker 15: where I was, and it's nice to look back it

2265
01:44:00,400 --> 01:44:02,479
Speaker 15: and be like, oh, I've grown so much from that

2266
01:44:02,560 --> 01:44:03,559
Speaker 15: point to where I am now.

2267
01:44:04,040 --> 01:44:06,200
Speaker 7: I guess that's the that's the fun of it.

2268
01:44:06,880 --> 01:44:09,040
Speaker 3: I read that not only are you having fun with

2269
01:44:09,120 --> 01:44:11,519
Speaker 3: this tour because now you were these promotional tours that

2270
01:44:11,560 --> 01:44:12,559
Speaker 3: you're doing now I'm going out and.

2271
01:44:12,560 --> 01:44:15,120
Speaker 10: Talking to people, but that you also have a book club.

2272
01:44:15,520 --> 01:44:15,720
Speaker 4: I do.

2273
01:44:15,920 --> 01:44:17,800
Speaker 3: And I find this fascinating. Do you actually read the

2274
01:44:17,840 --> 01:44:19,040
Speaker 3: books or do you listen audible?

2275
01:44:19,240 --> 01:44:19,280
Speaker 13: No?

2276
01:44:19,400 --> 01:44:19,720
Speaker 4: I read?

2277
01:44:19,800 --> 01:44:20,280
Speaker 3: You read them?

2278
01:44:20,479 --> 01:44:21,559
Speaker 7: Yeah, I love, I love.

2279
01:44:21,600 --> 01:44:23,360
Speaker 15: I think maybe it's again the thing like the notebook,

2280
01:44:23,400 --> 01:44:27,240
Speaker 15: like I love to have the physical copy, and it's

2281
01:44:27,360 --> 01:44:27,840
Speaker 15: just so fun.

2282
01:44:27,920 --> 01:44:29,600
Speaker 7: I love when like I love when a book's like

2283
01:44:29,720 --> 01:44:31,440
Speaker 7: really like no idea.

2284
01:44:31,400 --> 01:44:33,639
Speaker 12: You are touching like such a special part of my life.

2285
01:44:34,360 --> 01:44:36,519
Speaker 12: I have read what was I telling you today? Seven

2286
01:44:37,080 --> 01:44:38,679
Speaker 12: fourteen books since January.

2287
01:44:38,840 --> 01:44:39,839
Speaker 7: Oh wow, amazing.

2288
01:44:40,120 --> 01:44:42,920
Speaker 12: And I have to have the physical copy as well.

2289
01:44:43,280 --> 01:44:45,719
Speaker 12: I listen audible too, but because I like to pass

2290
01:44:45,760 --> 01:44:47,960
Speaker 12: them on like they're my babies to can you give them?

2291
01:44:48,240 --> 01:44:48,439
Speaker 13: Yeah?

2292
01:44:48,640 --> 01:44:49,080
Speaker 4: I love it.

2293
01:44:50,000 --> 01:44:51,519
Speaker 12: I'd like you to experience this.

2294
01:44:51,680 --> 01:44:52,120
Speaker 1: Here you go.

2295
01:44:52,439 --> 01:44:55,839
Speaker 7: I love this so much. Yeah, yeah, I feel yeah, definitely.

2296
01:44:55,880 --> 01:44:58,160
Speaker 3: And I would imagine that reading so much also helps

2297
01:44:58,200 --> 01:44:59,240
Speaker 3: you in the writing process on.

2298
01:45:00,400 --> 01:45:02,960
Speaker 15: I think it just expands your vocabulary and also just

2299
01:45:03,080 --> 01:45:06,880
Speaker 15: like your train of thought, your perspective, you understand emotions

2300
01:45:07,160 --> 01:45:09,240
Speaker 15: in a completely different way, even things that you haven't

2301
01:45:09,240 --> 01:45:11,120
Speaker 15: been through. You kind of see it from someone else's

2302
01:45:11,600 --> 01:45:13,639
Speaker 15: eyes and it's yeah, it's moving.

2303
01:45:13,840 --> 01:45:19,400
Speaker 2: Do you gravitate toward autobiographies or literature or trashy novels.

2304
01:45:19,600 --> 01:45:21,719
Speaker 7: No, I love fiction mainly.

2305
01:45:22,640 --> 01:45:25,200
Speaker 15: Something that I read recently that I loved so much

2306
01:45:25,479 --> 01:45:29,519
Speaker 15: was Lincoln in the Bardo by George Saunders, and it's

2307
01:45:29,840 --> 01:45:33,160
Speaker 15: just so quirky, and interesting in the way that it's

2308
01:45:33,200 --> 01:45:33,800
Speaker 15: written is.

2309
01:45:35,880 --> 01:45:37,639
Speaker 7: Just beautiful. It takes a second to kind of get

2310
01:45:37,640 --> 01:45:39,560
Speaker 7: into the voice of it. But I think you'd like it.

2311
01:45:39,600 --> 01:45:41,880
Speaker 7: I for you, Oh, just love to read a lot.

2312
01:45:42,080 --> 01:45:42,400
Speaker 2: You should.

2313
01:45:42,439 --> 01:45:43,720
Speaker 15: You should give it a go. It's the kind of

2314
01:45:43,760 --> 01:45:45,439
Speaker 15: book that you should sit through and read it in

2315
01:45:45,880 --> 01:45:52,000
Speaker 15: two sittings. But it's Yeah, I love fiction because I

2316
01:45:52,040 --> 01:45:54,080
Speaker 15: love to dive into a different world.

2317
01:45:54,360 --> 01:45:55,760
Speaker 2: And when you said the title, a lot of people

2318
01:45:55,840 --> 01:45:57,360
Speaker 2: listening going, oh my god, do you leave read the

2319
01:46:00,280 --> 01:46:02,240
Speaker 2: dual lepa clap, the double clap.

2320
01:46:03,280 --> 01:46:04,360
Speaker 7: The double class.

2321
01:46:08,400 --> 01:46:14,679
Speaker 2: I I said, there is there could be a problem

2322
01:46:14,720 --> 01:46:16,400
Speaker 2: if you're doing a big concert in a sold out

2323
01:46:16,400 --> 01:46:19,360
Speaker 2: arena and rather than standing up and applauding, it's in

2324
01:46:19,479 --> 01:46:21,679
Speaker 2: of a song. They just stand up and go and then.

2325
01:46:21,880 --> 01:46:22,439
Speaker 10: And then that's it.

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01:46:24,520 --> 01:46:26,400
Speaker 7: I'm just like, I get it, but I don't get it.

2327
01:46:27,520 --> 01:46:30,439
Speaker 2: I'm in, I'm in. Are you having fun?

2328
01:46:30,560 --> 01:46:31,519
Speaker 7: I'm having the most fun?

2329
01:46:31,640 --> 01:46:33,280
Speaker 2: What's the most fun about this? I know that may

2330
01:46:33,320 --> 01:46:35,760
Speaker 2: be a stupid question, but in the answer will work.

2331
01:46:36,040 --> 01:46:39,600
Speaker 15: I think it's just it's just exciting. Every new experience

2332
01:46:39,800 --> 01:46:43,680
Speaker 15: is so fun. And you know, since I've been able

2333
01:46:43,720 --> 01:46:46,519
Speaker 15: to talk about the album title and like start releasing

2334
01:46:46,680 --> 01:46:48,720
Speaker 15: titles of the songs and stuff. It's just been so

2335
01:46:48,880 --> 01:46:52,639
Speaker 15: freeing because I can really explain what everything's been about.

2336
01:46:52,720 --> 01:46:54,639
Speaker 15: I think in the beginning, when I'm just releasing singles

2337
01:46:54,680 --> 01:46:58,400
Speaker 15: and trying to keep everything secret, that's so hard to

2338
01:46:59,280 --> 01:46:59,960
Speaker 15: talking code.

2339
01:47:00,120 --> 01:47:02,240
Speaker 7: So now I'm like it is, it's coming.

2340
01:47:02,320 --> 01:47:04,880
Speaker 2: A lot of texts are coming through. Do It presents

2341
01:47:04,920 --> 01:47:07,320
Speaker 2: the best shows. Most of the artists these days just

2342
01:47:07,360 --> 01:47:12,519
Speaker 2: sing and run across the stage. You dancers, choreography, everything amazing,

2343
01:47:13,520 --> 01:47:15,960
Speaker 2: love do it. I just watched Argyle You can do

2344
01:47:16,040 --> 01:47:17,240
Speaker 2: It All? How much fun was Argy?

2345
01:47:17,400 --> 01:47:20,080
Speaker 7: Oh, it was so much fun, so much fun. I

2346
01:47:20,120 --> 01:47:21,000
Speaker 7: loved being on set.

2347
01:47:21,160 --> 01:47:26,720
Speaker 15: It was, yeah, again an experience I didn't know what

2348
01:47:26,880 --> 01:47:29,720
Speaker 15: to expect from, and everyone was lovely. I worked a

2349
01:47:29,760 --> 01:47:32,400
Speaker 15: lot with Henry Cavill and John Cena and my parts,

2350
01:47:32,439 --> 01:47:36,080
Speaker 15: and they were so lovely and generous with their time

2351
01:47:36,200 --> 01:47:39,240
Speaker 15: and just like patient with me while I just kind

2352
01:47:39,280 --> 01:47:43,040
Speaker 15: of figured it out on the job and it was

2353
01:47:43,439 --> 01:47:44,160
Speaker 15: it was really fun.

2354
01:47:44,520 --> 01:47:48,000
Speaker 2: It was so it was like reading a great book. Obviously,

2355
01:47:48,439 --> 01:47:51,720
Speaker 2: our guyle. It was just it was just so beautifully done.

2356
01:47:52,560 --> 01:47:55,600
Speaker 2: I'm just blown away at the imagination and the creativity

2357
01:47:55,640 --> 01:47:57,800
Speaker 2: that people have because you start watching Argle. I'm not

2358
01:47:57,800 --> 01:47:59,280
Speaker 2: gonna give anying away if you haven't seen it. You

2359
01:47:59,360 --> 01:48:01,360
Speaker 2: start watching it and they're like, whoa, where are we going?

2360
01:48:02,080 --> 01:48:04,320
Speaker 15: It's all whoa and it's such a ride. And I

2361
01:48:04,360 --> 01:48:09,519
Speaker 15: guess that's like the that's the Matthew Vaughan, right mind. Yeah,

2362
01:48:09,640 --> 01:48:14,080
Speaker 15: there's there's just like lots of ideas and it's it's

2363
01:48:14,200 --> 01:48:15,200
Speaker 15: it's very much his thing.

2364
01:48:15,280 --> 01:48:15,800
Speaker 7: It's so cool.

2365
01:48:15,920 --> 01:48:17,920
Speaker 2: Now you do take time to read books? Do you

2366
01:48:18,080 --> 01:48:18,800
Speaker 2: do you watch film?

2367
01:48:19,720 --> 01:48:23,400
Speaker 7: I do watch film, yeah, but I prefer to read.

2368
01:48:23,439 --> 01:48:23,800
Speaker 7: I guess.

2369
01:48:23,920 --> 01:48:27,639
Speaker 12: Oh gosh, I love her more and more The Gentleman.

2370
01:48:28,240 --> 01:48:30,320
Speaker 7: Oh, yes, I seen. I've seen the film, but I

2371
01:48:30,400 --> 01:48:31,320
Speaker 7: haven't seen the series.

2372
01:48:31,560 --> 01:48:32,479
Speaker 2: Oh it's so good.

2373
01:48:33,560 --> 01:48:37,519
Speaker 7: It's really good. I love but guy Richie. Yeah, it

2374
01:48:37,680 --> 01:48:38,120
Speaker 7: was so good.

2375
01:48:38,360 --> 01:48:40,320
Speaker 3: Is there a book that you've read that you just think,

2376
01:48:40,400 --> 01:48:42,639
Speaker 3: oh my god, when and if this becomes a film,

2377
01:48:42,680 --> 01:48:47,720
Speaker 3: I got to be part of it. Oh, let's make

2378
01:48:47,760 --> 01:48:49,839
Speaker 3: it happen right now, speak it into existence.

2379
01:48:50,280 --> 01:48:50,720
Speaker 6: I don't know.

2380
01:48:50,840 --> 01:48:52,680
Speaker 7: I don't know about like being in it.

2381
01:48:52,840 --> 01:48:55,799
Speaker 15: I would love to like maybe be in the behind

2382
01:48:55,840 --> 01:48:57,760
Speaker 15: the scenes. I'm a really big fan of the Ortho

2383
01:48:57,800 --> 01:49:01,840
Speaker 15: Douglas Stewart, and he wrote this incredible book called Chuggy Bain,

2384
01:49:02,800 --> 01:49:05,479
Speaker 15: And I mean I kind of know that that one's

2385
01:49:05,520 --> 01:49:06,080
Speaker 15: in the works.

2386
01:49:06,439 --> 01:49:08,920
Speaker 7: I'd love to, like maybe make music for it, get

2387
01:49:09,000 --> 01:49:10,920
Speaker 7: involved somehow for sure.

2388
01:49:11,360 --> 01:49:13,320
Speaker 12: Do you love being a redhead? And how much die

2389
01:49:13,400 --> 01:49:14,360
Speaker 12: do you see in the shower?

2390
01:49:14,800 --> 01:49:18,520
Speaker 7: I love being a redhead. The maintenance is a nightmare.

2391
01:49:20,479 --> 01:49:23,240
Speaker 15: It does look like I've murdered someone every time I

2392
01:49:23,360 --> 01:49:27,600
Speaker 15: get into the shower, usually on the first wash, and

2393
01:49:27,640 --> 01:49:28,720
Speaker 15: then it kind of calms down.

2394
01:49:28,840 --> 01:49:33,240
Speaker 7: But I love it. I don't know, I have a

2395
01:49:33,400 --> 01:49:34,639
Speaker 7: lot of fun being a redhead?

2396
01:49:34,760 --> 01:49:35,000
Speaker 12: Nice.

2397
01:49:35,080 --> 01:49:36,720
Speaker 10: How often do you have to keep up with it?

2398
01:49:37,920 --> 01:49:40,360
Speaker 15: I have to diet every like week and a half

2399
01:49:40,560 --> 01:49:46,960
Speaker 15: to just kind of give it as.

2400
01:49:44,640 --> 01:49:45,880
Speaker 2: The payoff is very strong.

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Speaker 7: It's fun. It's fun.

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01:49:47,160 --> 01:49:48,719
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go back to something you were talking about

2403
01:49:48,720 --> 01:49:52,160
Speaker 2: a second ago about how life is basically paraphrasing, life

2404
01:49:52,240 --> 01:49:55,519
Speaker 2: is just full of the adventures, trying new things, doing

2405
01:49:55,720 --> 01:50:00,080
Speaker 2: doing exciting things on your promotional tours and it sp

2406
01:50:00,080 --> 01:50:03,680
Speaker 2: thinking of someone in their car in traffic going to

2407
01:50:03,720 --> 01:50:07,280
Speaker 2: work right now, going gosh, how can that I applied

2408
01:50:07,800 --> 01:50:10,439
Speaker 2: a life like that to me. Let's say you don't

2409
01:50:10,520 --> 01:50:14,000
Speaker 2: have choreographers, and you don't have Grammy performances. You don't

2410
01:50:14,040 --> 01:50:19,120
Speaker 2: have a life full of studio recording sessions and writing sessions,

2411
01:50:19,360 --> 01:50:21,800
Speaker 2: but you have a life where you, you know, whatever

2412
01:50:21,840 --> 01:50:23,920
Speaker 2: your life is, there's got to be a way that

2413
01:50:24,120 --> 01:50:26,280
Speaker 2: any of us can have the dua leap a life

2414
01:50:26,439 --> 01:50:29,640
Speaker 2: where we are experiencing new things. How do you like

2415
01:50:29,880 --> 01:50:33,040
Speaker 2: scratch the surface with like diving into things that are

2416
01:50:33,040 --> 01:50:35,839
Speaker 2: almost frightening because they're so new and different.

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01:50:38,160 --> 01:50:40,400
Speaker 15: I think it's easy. I think it really just starts,

2418
01:50:40,720 --> 01:50:43,519
Speaker 15: like you just have to stop by saying yes, you know.

2419
01:50:44,320 --> 01:50:46,760
Speaker 15: I think whether it's trying a new restaurant and eating

2420
01:50:46,840 --> 01:50:50,080
Speaker 15: something that you probably wouldn't do before, Like that already

2421
01:50:50,240 --> 01:50:52,559
Speaker 15: is like diving into the deep end and something maybe

2422
01:50:52,720 --> 01:50:56,360
Speaker 15: that you wouldn't have thought you would have done before.

2423
01:50:56,920 --> 01:51:00,320
Speaker 15: I think you can find different things exploring and part

2424
01:51:00,400 --> 01:51:04,200
Speaker 15: of town, a new bookstore, a new film, and you like,

2425
01:51:04,800 --> 01:51:08,000
Speaker 15: there's so many different ways to kind of include that

2426
01:51:08,320 --> 01:51:09,679
Speaker 15: discovery into your life.

2427
01:51:09,960 --> 01:51:12,920
Speaker 2: You know, it's scary though, I mean to show up

2428
01:51:12,960 --> 01:51:16,240
Speaker 2: on set it Argyle to Argyle, were you a little nervous?

2429
01:51:16,360 --> 01:51:19,439
Speaker 15: I mean, or you just definitely absolutely, But I get

2430
01:51:19,560 --> 01:51:22,320
Speaker 15: nervous for even like my my everyday job that I

2431
01:51:22,400 --> 01:51:25,200
Speaker 15: think I'm good at. You know, I'm like, I get

2432
01:51:25,280 --> 01:51:29,280
Speaker 15: so nervous because I want to be I want to

2433
01:51:29,320 --> 01:51:31,120
Speaker 15: be really good at it, and I want to be

2434
01:51:31,280 --> 01:51:34,439
Speaker 15: precise or like deliberate with my actions or you know,

2435
01:51:34,640 --> 01:51:37,040
Speaker 15: make sure that I give one hundred and ten percent

2436
01:51:37,120 --> 01:51:39,160
Speaker 15: of what I'm doing. So when I'm going into something

2437
01:51:39,200 --> 01:51:44,240
Speaker 15: where really I'm on like shaky ground on my my

2438
01:51:44,520 --> 01:51:46,519
Speaker 15: like my feet are dangling off the edges, I like

2439
01:51:46,600 --> 01:51:48,400
Speaker 15: to kind of call it where it scares me, where

2440
01:51:48,400 --> 01:51:50,680
Speaker 15: I'm out of my comfort zone, then of course I'm

2441
01:51:50,760 --> 01:51:54,840
Speaker 15: much more nervous, but I'm willing and ready to just

2442
01:51:54,960 --> 01:51:55,840
Speaker 15: kind of learn.

2443
01:51:56,000 --> 01:51:58,000
Speaker 2: So anyone in life can do this, And I guess

2444
01:51:58,000 --> 01:52:00,080
Speaker 2: that's the magic thing. Can I always say that it

2445
01:52:00,160 --> 01:52:01,439
Speaker 2: told to me saying the same thing over and over.

2446
01:52:01,560 --> 01:52:03,880
Speaker 2: But there is such a thin thin line between fright

2447
01:52:04,040 --> 01:52:07,720
Speaker 2: and excitement, right, and it's good to be have that

2448
01:52:07,880 --> 01:52:11,400
Speaker 2: courage to go, Okay, you know, I'm gonna do a

2449
01:52:11,479 --> 01:52:14,960
Speaker 2: pottery class. I'm gonna try to make a vase. It's

2450
01:52:15,000 --> 01:52:17,160
Speaker 2: gonna look like a misshapen penis, but I'm gonna try.

2451
01:52:17,240 --> 01:52:20,000
Speaker 7: No, but it's true because you have to.

2452
01:52:20,200 --> 01:52:23,400
Speaker 15: Like for me, for example, like I know I can't draw,

2453
01:52:23,640 --> 01:52:27,439
Speaker 15: I can't paint. I can't that's like stick people at

2454
01:52:27,479 --> 01:52:28,040
Speaker 15: the very best.

2455
01:52:28,120 --> 01:52:28,400
Speaker 4: Me too.

2456
01:52:29,000 --> 01:52:31,840
Speaker 15: But I would like throw myself into the experience and

2457
01:52:32,040 --> 01:52:33,880
Speaker 15: just be like, all right, this is gonna look terrible,

2458
01:52:33,960 --> 01:52:35,920
Speaker 15: but it's it's you just got to do it, you know,

2459
01:52:36,120 --> 01:52:39,640
Speaker 15: just jump into it correct. Like to the postery thing

2460
01:52:39,800 --> 01:52:42,040
Speaker 15: is a perfect example. I haven't done that yet. I'm

2461
01:52:42,120 --> 01:52:43,320
Speaker 15: too scared, and I should.

2462
01:52:43,439 --> 01:52:49,280
Speaker 2: It's a lot of misshaped penises for a friend. We

2463
01:52:49,479 --> 01:52:51,320
Speaker 2: do a thank you for coming in here today, having

2464
01:52:51,360 --> 01:52:53,519
Speaker 2: of course, radical optimism. It's not it's more than just

2465
01:52:53,600 --> 01:52:55,960
Speaker 2: a bunch of music on an album. It's a lot

2466
01:52:56,040 --> 01:52:59,000
Speaker 2: of work. It's a lot of taking chances. It's the

2467
01:52:59,479 --> 01:53:02,880
Speaker 2: feeling extra of different sounds with different collaborations. I mean,

2468
01:53:02,920 --> 01:53:05,840
Speaker 2: there's so much more that goes into these things than

2469
01:53:05,960 --> 01:53:08,519
Speaker 2: we all then we know that we were aware of,

2470
01:53:08,640 --> 01:53:10,479
Speaker 2: and that's why it's important on this tour that you

2471
01:53:10,560 --> 01:53:12,920
Speaker 2: remind everyone of what goes into this album. It's so

2472
01:53:13,040 --> 01:53:16,280
Speaker 2: cool a lot, dude. Thanks all right, thank you so much.

2473
01:53:16,760 --> 01:53:18,040
Speaker 14: Thanks you all have a great day.

2474
01:53:18,800 --> 01:53:19,559
Speaker 2: Hey yo, what's up?

2475
01:53:19,760 --> 01:53:23,080
Speaker 15: This is Hey, this is Ava, Max, Justin Bieber Here, Hi,

2476
01:53:23,240 --> 01:53:25,040
Speaker 15: this is Elton John, This is Britney Spears.

2477
01:53:25,479 --> 01:53:28,200
Speaker 2: Elvis, you'ran in the morning show. Thank you, Matthew Hussey,

2478
01:53:28,240 --> 01:53:30,479
Speaker 2: thank you to Alipa. What a great day. Tomorrow our

2479
01:53:30,520 --> 01:53:32,880
Speaker 2: favorite day of the week. It's Thursday. Till then. What

2480
01:53:32,960 --> 01:53:33,439
Speaker 2: are we watching?

2481
01:53:33,520 --> 01:53:36,360
Speaker 12: The mass singer not Dead yet American horror story you know.

2482
01:53:37,080 --> 01:53:39,160
Speaker 7: And Palm Royelle and Apple TV plus.

2483
01:53:39,080 --> 01:53:40,920
Speaker 2: Love it till tomorrow. Say peace out, everybody.

2484
01:53:41,080 --> 01:53:41,280
Speaker 17: Pea