WEBVTT - Chaos with Christian Carmichael 0:00:02.640 --> 0:00:06.760 Hey guys, welcome back to episode two of Casual Chaos. 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:12.280 It has definitely been a chaotic week. I had iHeartRadio Awards, 0:00:12.400 --> 0:00:14.960 I announced my podcast, and I went to go see 0:00:15.000 --> 0:00:18.200 my dad in the Bahamas. That was much needed and 0:00:18.320 --> 0:00:21.560 very relaxing. So we have had a lot of positive 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:25.360 moments this week and some negative moments. I'm sure you 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:27.120 all have seen the news and a lot of you 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:31.160 have been commenting on the Casual Chaos Instagram wondering if 0:00:31.240 --> 0:00:34.400 I will comment on this topic. I told you guys 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:36.440 that I want to be real with you, and I'm 0:00:36.479 --> 0:00:40.320 commenting on it. So let's start from the beginning a 0:00:40.360 --> 0:00:40.760 little bit. 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:42.959 My mom has been. 0:00:42.920 --> 0:00:45.760 The sole provider for my sisters and I since the 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:47.640 minute my father left for prison. 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:50.360 The second my mom got home from jail. 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:55.120 She has been working her ass off to make sure 0:00:55.520 --> 0:00:59.080 that my sisters and I live a stable life and 0:00:59.120 --> 0:01:02.840 that my family is financially stable. Like I can't stress 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:06.920 enough how much my mom has worked. Everything will be resolved. 0:01:07.440 --> 0:01:11.080 My mom has everything under control and there's nothing to 0:01:11.160 --> 0:01:17.680 worry about. My stepdad, Louis, is the most amazing stepfather. 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:20.480 He treats my sisters and I like we are his own. 0:01:21.240 --> 0:01:24.759 He is also working on getting everything resolved as well. 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:29.000 But there's nothing to worry about. Everything's going to be fine. 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:33.559 But thank you for your concern. And Bethany Frankel, thank 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:36.840 you so much for your sweet video. You are a 0:01:36.920 --> 0:01:42.040 mother with a daughter. I bet you wouldn't like if 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:46.200 somebody was saying this about you. So I hope that 0:01:46.319 --> 0:01:51.720 one thousand dollars TikTok paycheck was really worth it. And thanks. 0:01:51.800 --> 0:01:55.720 But we're doing perfectly fine over here, all right, and 0:01:55.760 --> 0:01:58.000 now let's get into episode two. I have a really 0:01:58.120 --> 0:02:00.800 fun guest for you guys this week. I get so 0:02:00.920 --> 0:02:04.200 many questions about my boyfriend, Christian. I want to give 0:02:04.240 --> 0:02:08.240 you guys the background story on our relationship, how we've met, 0:02:08.880 --> 0:02:13.600 and I guess our story a little bit. So Christian, 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:16.560 welcome to casual chaos. Thank you so much for having me, 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:21.480 and congratulations. Thank you. I love you. Are you nervous? 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:29.239 I'm very nervous. Well, last night Christian said I'm. 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:32.480 Said last week, since said since you said it last week. 0:02:32.560 --> 0:02:34.640 I was like, oh my god. All week, I don't 0:02:34.639 --> 0:02:37.920 want to sweet to end this. We were like in 0:02:37.960 --> 0:02:40.920 his room last night with his brother and he was 0:02:40.960 --> 0:02:43.960 like I didn't want every day to end, because then 0:02:44.000 --> 0:02:45.200 it would be it would mean that. 0:02:45.160 --> 0:02:49.919 I'm I just don't know why I get so nervous. 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:51.639 It's like me being in school and presenting in front 0:02:51.639 --> 0:02:54.280 of the class. Yeah, and like I can't speak, and 0:02:54.320 --> 0:02:55.520 I'm like, oh my god. 0:02:56.560 --> 0:03:01.320 You're doing great and you're not that run No. It 0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:03.200 was so funny last night. I feel like, if we 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:06.280 put the mic close enough to his throat, you're like, 0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:12.160 here the heartbeat, if I feel it right now? No, Okay, stop, 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:15.480 there's nothing to be nervous about. Everything's gonna be fine. 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:21.760 So we met like six years ago. I just graduated 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:28.120 high school. I was in a serious relationship in high 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:32.720 school that ended like halfway through my senior year, and 0:03:32.800 --> 0:03:35.000 then I was kind of just ready to have fun. 0:03:35.520 --> 0:03:37.640 I did not think I would be getting a boyfriend 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:41.360 anytime soon. I was ready to just kind of be me, 0:03:41.920 --> 0:03:47.200 find myself and just find my happiness again. So one 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:51.720 of both of our really good friends, Dante. Actually he 0:03:52.360 --> 0:03:55.600 has known me since I was in middle school. You guys, 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:58.880 actually some of you might know Dante. I went to 0:03:58.880 --> 0:04:01.280 eighth grade prom with him. I'm on the Real Housewives 0:04:01.280 --> 0:04:07.960 in New Jersey, so go way back. But he finally 0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:10.920 said to me our senior year of high school, he 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:14.600 was like, all right, come out meet my Bergen County friends. 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:18.599 Come see like what we're all about, Like we're a 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:23.960 lot of fun. I was, I said, okay. So it 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:29.200 was a Fourth of July weekend. They all rented a 0:04:29.320 --> 0:04:34.880 house in Seaside. I show up to this house. I 0:04:34.880 --> 0:04:41.520 had the best weekend of my life. Yeah, out of control, 0:04:42.240 --> 0:04:45.600 but it was so much fun. Never seen anything like this, 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:49.839 A bunch of kids in a house just having so 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:53.760 much fun. So I think it was the morning. I 0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:54.640 don't even it. 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:57.640 Was the morning of like our Friday night going out, 0:04:57.960 --> 0:04:58.960 like Saturday morning. 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:02.480 Yeah, okay, it was Saturday morning, Sunday, something like that. 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:03.360 One of the days. 0:05:03.440 --> 0:05:06.520 I'm sitting on the couch and all of a sudden, 0:05:06.560 --> 0:05:09.839 I see the door open up. There's girls in the room. 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:15.000 She has like marks all over his face. I think 0:05:15.040 --> 0:05:20.120 our friend Frankie drew on his face. And I just 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:24.080 see him sprint out of bed, chase Frankie out of 0:05:24.080 --> 0:05:27.440 the house up to the beach, and I'm sitting there like, 0:05:27.640 --> 0:05:30.520 holy crap, these kids are actually out of their mind, 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:32.960 Like what are we getting myself into it's time to 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:36.800 go home. This was fine, We'll revisit this another time. 0:05:39.279 --> 0:05:41.839 Then my good friend at the time ended up having 0:05:41.920 --> 0:05:46.039 like this summer romance with one of our friends, and 0:05:46.120 --> 0:05:49.600 so I was kind of just tagging along with wherever 0:05:49.720 --> 0:05:52.880 she went. And it was my best friend, so yeah, 0:05:52.920 --> 0:05:54.400 we yeah. 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:56.000 So it was like my best friend and then his 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:56.599 best friend. 0:05:58.360 --> 0:06:02.720 Yeah, not me though, I'm not friends with the girl anymore. 0:06:04.680 --> 0:06:06.440 But it was the best summer. 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:10.680 So then we get on the tree to go to 0:06:10.680 --> 0:06:14.040 the Florida Georgia Line concert and it was a small 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:17.400 group of us. So as we're at the Florida Georgia 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:20.840 Line concert, it starts raining and the concert gets shut down. 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:25.159 At the time, I did not like country music, so 0:06:26.400 --> 0:06:33.200 I was definitely a little tipsy just having fun and. 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:35.880 Then absolutely. 0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:40.600 Okay, yeah, because I just I didn't like. 0:06:40.560 --> 0:06:42.120 Country music, so I was like, what else am I 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:42.520 going to do? 0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:48.400 This is like yeah. So then it starts raining, the 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:53.160 concert gets shut down. We are all like under this awning. 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:57.040 Half of us are in the bathroom, like trying not 0:06:57.080 --> 0:06:59.400 to get wet in the rain. And I looked at 0:06:59.400 --> 0:07:01.120 my friend Lily and I was like, should I go 0:07:01.200 --> 0:07:03.640 kiss him and she was like, yeah, but don't sleep 0:07:03.680 --> 0:07:06.240 with him on the first night, and I was like okay. 0:07:06.960 --> 0:07:10.840 And then in the rain and then we left, and 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:13.080 then we picked us and picked us up. Yeah, and 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:15.640 then we picked us up in his parents Gea wag 0:07:16.400 --> 0:07:18.840 like this was some thing. It's just like not real, 0:07:19.000 --> 0:07:22.280 Like it's like, okay, seventeen year old driving around a Gea. 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:24.720 Wagon And it was me and you in the trunk. No, 0:07:25.080 --> 0:07:29.400 well me, you and Frankton Frankie. Frankie was like, I 0:07:29.480 --> 0:07:31.240 can't do this anymore. Of these guys can kiss him 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:34.080 in the back seat trunk and he hops over the 0:07:34.080 --> 0:07:36.440 front seat and it was all them in the back seat. 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:38.760 And then yeah, that's the story of how we met. 0:07:38.800 --> 0:07:40.520 And that was it. We hung out the rest of 0:07:40.520 --> 0:07:44.480 the summer, Yeah, we did. We hung out the rest 0:07:44.480 --> 0:07:46.080 of the summer. I would I just kept going to 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:49.280 their parties. They always had something going on, like these kids, 0:07:49.320 --> 0:07:53.360 I saw, they always had something to do. Then I 0:07:53.520 --> 0:07:57.160 left for college. He didn't say bye to me, and 0:07:57.200 --> 0:07:57.880 I was really. 0:07:57.760 --> 0:08:02.040 Upset, but I didn't think anything of it because he was. 0:08:02.080 --> 0:08:06.640 Just dumb, like really dumb. But I was like, come 0:08:06.800 --> 0:08:09.200 say bye to me. He didn't say bye to me, 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:14.120 So then I said, doing anything. You were hanging out 0:08:14.160 --> 0:08:16.360 with your boy, with your with the boys. You weren't 0:08:16.400 --> 0:08:19.480 doing anything, like literally nothing. I think you actually went 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:24.760 to the movies. I don't think you did anything. So 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:29.000 I left for school. He didn't say bye to me, 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:33.439 and I was like, okay, didn't know where we were 0:08:33.480 --> 0:08:37.800 at this point. It was weird. I was Moto. Yeah, 0:08:37.960 --> 0:08:41.800 I was like, okay, maybe this isn't what I thought 0:08:41.840 --> 0:08:42.439 it was going to be. 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:44.240 I felt weird. 0:08:44.320 --> 0:08:47.680 I was never the girl to do something if I 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:50.560 had feelings for someone, so I definitely had feelings for him. 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:52.280 So I was never one. 0:08:52.360 --> 0:08:56.440 To like sleep around or do that. That was never me. 0:08:58.320 --> 0:09:01.280 So I was kind of just like, all right, we'll 0:09:01.320 --> 0:09:05.560 see what happens. And then I came and visited. 0:09:06.000 --> 0:09:10.959 Yeah, soon after, I don't really remember. 0:09:11.400 --> 0:09:15.320 It was like he was definitely he was doing things 0:09:15.320 --> 0:09:23.160 with other girls school. I might have kissed two people 0:09:23.679 --> 0:09:25.880 during CYLB this week, and I felt horrible. 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:27.520 You God knows. 0:09:27.400 --> 0:09:31.079 What you did. I don't know. Yeah, he never knows. 0:09:31.840 --> 0:09:34.000 But yeah, basically our first date was him asking me 0:09:34.040 --> 0:09:36.559 to go to Florida, and I was like, what am 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:40.800 I doing? What am I doing this isn't normal. So 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:43.800 it was my freshman year. I had literally just moved 0:09:43.840 --> 0:09:45.840 into school. I think he came to visit me at 0:09:45.920 --> 0:09:46.880 least once or twice. 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:49.240 I was with you like every single day throughout that 0:09:49.240 --> 0:09:51.200 summer doing certain things. 0:09:51.320 --> 0:09:54.080 Yeah, okay, fine, but it still was a little crazy 0:09:54.080 --> 0:09:56.000 to me, Like, no one's asked you to just like 0:09:56.040 --> 0:10:00.199 go to Florida. He was just a spontaneous thing. Yeah, 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:07.240 so spontaneous. So we ended up going to Florida and 0:10:08.000 --> 0:10:15.920 that was our first date, going to Florida. 0:10:18.840 --> 0:10:21.840 After Florida, I definitely didn't do anything. 0:10:22.760 --> 0:10:25.600 I don't know what he did. I was just living 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:28.360 my life, honestly. Oh, so you did two things. I 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:29.280 wasn't doing anything. 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:31.400 It was just like, yeah, I didn't know what we were. 0:10:32.040 --> 0:10:35.320 You asked me out in Florida again in January and 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:39.160 January we started dating January fourteen. We dated for like 0:10:39.200 --> 0:10:41.280 a year and a half, yeah, leading year and a 0:10:41.280 --> 0:10:41.959 half or two. 0:10:42.000 --> 0:10:44.280 Yeah, leading up until. 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:50.080 My junior year of college March. Okay, but like it 0:10:50.200 --> 0:10:54.800 started getting foggy like February. Honestly, it was after my 0:10:54.920 --> 0:11:00.200 date night that it all went downhill. Yeah, it was 0:11:00.240 --> 0:11:02.239 basically just immature. 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:05.720 Very The reason we broke up was because I was 0:11:05.920 --> 0:11:10.160 immature and like communication was horrible. He was always with 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:14.360 my friends and I had no drive. You said, yeah, 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:16.080 because I didn't have my first job until what I 0:11:16.120 --> 0:11:20.240 was twenty two one, twenty one. I got my first 0:11:20.320 --> 0:11:21.160 job when I was twenty one. 0:11:21.600 --> 0:11:25.760 That bothered me. I hated it bothered me so much. Yeah, 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:28.599 I thought it was I just it didn't. 0:11:28.360 --> 0:11:28.760 Turn me on. 0:11:28.880 --> 0:11:33.120 Honestly, I just felt like you had no motivation, no drive, 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:37.120 and it really bothered me. Community school, yeah, I at 0:11:37.200 --> 0:11:41.480 least wanted him to finish his associates degree, but I 0:11:41.600 --> 0:11:45.520 get it, like school's not for everyone, and school really 0:11:45.600 --> 0:11:48.120 wasn't for you at all. But then it was so 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:50.440 funny because then we break up and he gets. 0:11:50.200 --> 0:11:54.079 A job, so jobs, job. 0:11:55.600 --> 0:11:56.160 During the day. 0:11:58.679 --> 0:11:59.680 He wanted to kill him. 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:05.640 So he gets two jobs, and I'm like, obviously getting 0:12:05.720 --> 0:12:11.560 wind of it. I was like, oh yeah, going out 0:12:11.600 --> 0:12:17.920 every weekend, two jobs. He was, Yeah, cool, So was I. 0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:22.160 I went on college spring break, but yeah, I know 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:22.640 you didn't. 0:12:22.800 --> 0:12:24.439 I went to Florida. Oh cool, Florida. 0:12:24.600 --> 0:12:29.800 I went to Cancun. Yeah whatever, it was very different. Yeah, yeah, 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:34.360 it is cool. What'd you do go to the ship? Cum, No, 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:38.880 no fun. We're not getting into this. So that was 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:41.280 basically why I broke up with him. And then he 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:46.480 just obviously was doing everything to show me that he 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:52.600 was growing as a person for sure. So in that 0:12:52.720 --> 0:12:55.760 time though, then it was summer and it was our 0:12:55.800 --> 0:12:59.320 twenty one summer, so we were having so much fun 0:12:59.360 --> 0:12:59.959 in general. 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:01.600 It was our first time. 0:13:01.440 --> 0:13:07.560 At the bars, Parker House, everything like DJ's every night, 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:12.120 Parker House, all day on Saturday, Janks on Friday. It 0:13:12.240 --> 0:13:15.080 was just a weekend full of things. 0:13:15.400 --> 0:13:16.840 But we saw each other. 0:13:16.679 --> 0:13:20.839 Everywhere as much as we wanted to not. Yeah, I 0:13:20.960 --> 0:13:22.840 saw you every I would go somewhere and I'd be like, 0:13:22.840 --> 0:13:24.520 I'm not going there, like I heard g is there, 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:26.480 and then my friends would be like, yo, we can't 0:13:26.520 --> 0:13:29.240 go there, like you're there, and just go back and forth. 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:34.520 But all the time that one summer, so he told 0:13:34.559 --> 0:13:39.600 me everything, so I just knew about everything so fun. 0:13:39.640 --> 0:13:41.840 I was like I was doing. I knew everything that 0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:46.800 he Christian was doing from our friend too. He was 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:52.400 he was literally telling both of us everything that I 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:54.560 He was telling Christian everything that I was doing, and 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:56.920 then he was telling me everything that Christian was doing 0:13:57.400 --> 0:14:00.400 to the point one night, I was drunk and spray 0:14:00.800 --> 0:14:03.960 and I like belying the girl that he was talking to, 0:14:05.080 --> 0:14:06.920 and I went up to her and I acted so 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:10.600 dumb and I was like, oh, my god, you're iusy right. 0:14:11.000 --> 0:14:13.720 You look so familiar. I think I know you from college. 0:14:14.480 --> 0:14:19.000 And she was like, no, I don't think, so I go, oh, 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:22.400 must be the wrong person. And I walked away, and 0:14:22.440 --> 0:14:25.000 I just like I just needed to really look at 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:28.960 her and just be like, Hi, I'm so much prettier 0:14:28.960 --> 0:14:36.160 than yes, So I really needed to get a close 0:14:36.280 --> 0:14:41.640 look in person, and I did. And it was so 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:45.760 funny because you know, one of the times where Christian 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:48.000 and I hooked up over the summer while we were 0:14:48.000 --> 0:14:51.160 broken up. I mean, everyone does that. You're lying if 0:14:51.160 --> 0:14:55.400 you don't a few times, but oh would that make 0:14:55.440 --> 0:15:00.440 you feel better? Okay, but one of those times, because 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:02.200 it didn't matter even though we were broken up, but 0:15:02.320 --> 0:15:04.400 still felt like he was my boyfriend, Like it still 0:15:04.400 --> 0:15:07.760 felt like the connection was so he was mine, so 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:11.000 I was very It was just still a lot. But 0:15:11.960 --> 0:15:14.320 when he went to the bathroom, because it was like 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:16.360 I was in my house, like I was in his shorehouse. 0:15:16.400 --> 0:15:19.120 It wasn't weird. I don't know, I felt normal. 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:22.120 I walk in. His mom was like, oh my god, 0:15:22.480 --> 0:15:29.240 knew you would be around soon. But she would like 0:15:29.240 --> 0:15:31.160 look at me and be like, oh, he's so lost 0:15:31.200 --> 0:15:39.920 without you. Like, yeah, she would we talk, but when 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:41.920 he was in the bathroom, I was like looking through 0:15:41.960 --> 0:15:45.720 their texts wanting to throw up. But the one text, 0:15:48.440 --> 0:15:52.080 the one text was holy, your EXI just came up 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:56.040 to me in the bar and I was like, she's 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:59.960 such a weirdo, and like, but this girl had anough 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:02.640 session with me because it was like every time I 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:06.600 was somewhere, she would text you, and I'm like, this 0:16:06.800 --> 0:16:13.200 is so weird. It was very weird. So one Christian 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:15.120 came back from the bathroom, I wasn't even trying to 0:16:15.200 --> 0:16:17.080 hide it, like he fully saw me on his phone 0:16:17.080 --> 0:16:22.120 and I was like, you're literally heading up with a weirdo. True, 0:16:23.360 --> 0:16:26.560 But yeah, that summer was fun. It was fun. We 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:28.880 obviously hooked up a little bit, but it was also 0:16:28.920 --> 0:16:32.320 fun to like grow. I think we both grew a 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:32.760 little bit. 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:36.160 And then in Austin, Yeah do. 0:16:36.120 --> 0:16:37.760 You think we're still young? Yeah? 0:16:38.000 --> 0:16:40.160 You see, if we still wanted to be together, Yeah, 0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:42.120 you're with other people, with other people, and then it 0:16:42.160 --> 0:16:42.840 just didn't feel it. 0:16:43.320 --> 0:16:50.960 Then we got back together after like six seven months. Yeah, 0:16:51.000 --> 0:16:52.160 and we've been together ever. 0:16:52.080 --> 0:16:58.600 Since now yeah, three years from then. I guess see, 0:16:58.680 --> 0:17:00.520 this is where you get like annoyed. 0:17:01.080 --> 0:17:02.400 Yeah, very annoyed. 0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:04.240 Because I never wanted to reask you about I was like, 0:17:04.240 --> 0:17:05.840 you broke up with me, Like I don't want to 0:17:05.840 --> 0:17:06.280 ask you. 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:08.800 You're so petty, like you deserve to be broken off. 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:11.560 Yes, And I was just like, honestly, like I don't 0:17:11.560 --> 0:17:12.680 want a new anniversary daily. 0:17:13.200 --> 0:17:14.879 Yeah, but it's not like you've ever it's not like 0:17:14.920 --> 0:17:17.240 you still have honored January fourteenth. 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:21.600 So technically we don't really have an anniversary date. But 0:17:21.680 --> 0:17:25.239 I always said to keep it January fourteenth. That's why 0:17:25.240 --> 0:17:26.360 always said to keep this well. 0:17:26.320 --> 0:17:29.440 Because I mean, realistically, when at this point we've been 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:33.800 together for so long. Yes, I bet like none of 0:17:33.800 --> 0:17:36.359 you even knew we broke up during that time, honestly, 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:39.879 but now at this point we're twenty three, we've been 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:45.399 together for so long. I would just I consider it 0:17:45.440 --> 0:17:48.520 like we've been together for six years. Yeah, Like I'm 0:17:48.560 --> 0:17:52.000 not gonna pick the whole thing, but you don't honor 0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:58.760 our anniversary. We don't have one, I guess right if 0:17:58.800 --> 0:18:07.199 we don't ask me at right now? I don't like 0:18:07.240 --> 0:18:07.640 this date. 0:18:07.760 --> 0:18:09.560 Oh no, what's wrong with today? 0:18:09.880 --> 0:18:15.840 What is today? Anniversary? We're just going to pick a 0:18:15.920 --> 0:18:20.359 date when we're engaged or something. Oh great anniversary. No, 0:18:21.400 --> 0:18:24.080 then it'll be the wedding date. We're never going to 0:18:24.160 --> 0:18:29.280 have one until then. No January fourteenth. So let's get 0:18:29.320 --> 0:18:34.000 into how we met the family. Okay, so did you 0:18:34.080 --> 0:18:36.280 know me when we hooked up at Florida Georgia Line 0:18:36.359 --> 0:18:37.159 or know who I was? 0:18:37.720 --> 0:18:39.399 And like public eye wise. 0:18:39.240 --> 0:18:45.280 I had no idea. Okay, we love that you knew that. 0:18:46.080 --> 0:18:48.920 I think I did. Yeah, I forgot Christian answered so long, 0:18:49.880 --> 0:18:56.639 but I remember this vividly. So, like I said, I 0:18:56.720 --> 0:18:59.040 was like in my single era. Didn't think anything of it, 0:18:59.160 --> 0:19:01.679 especially when Chrish and I hooked up at the Florida 0:19:01.680 --> 0:19:06.200 Georgia Land concert that was actually just fun for play. 0:19:08.040 --> 0:19:10.960 No no idea, but I didn't. 0:19:10.720 --> 0:19:13.320 Think anything of what I did, like was wrong. 0:19:13.680 --> 0:19:17.520 So basically we all we're taking like the cutest photos 0:19:18.119 --> 0:19:24.960 and our friend Jeds they were just like cute photos, 0:19:25.840 --> 0:19:30.000 so I posted them on my Visco. You guys, remember 0:19:30.080 --> 0:19:33.200 Vesco and they are the talk of Christians town. 0:19:33.359 --> 0:19:34.919 And that's kind of like when I figured out, like 0:19:35.400 --> 0:19:36.639 who the hell is this girl? 0:19:37.800 --> 0:19:39.520 Like why does anyone care? 0:19:41.600 --> 0:19:45.080 And then like and then my parents found out that 0:19:45.160 --> 0:19:47.560 I was with you, and they didn't know who you 0:19:47.600 --> 0:19:50.800 were either, but like their friends knew, like my neighbors knew, 0:19:51.560 --> 0:19:53.600 and it was just like a huge thing for no reason. 0:19:53.600 --> 0:19:55.320 I was like, what the hell is going on? Do 0:19:55.359 --> 0:19:57.680 you remember when you went my mom? 0:19:57.920 --> 0:20:01.320 Yeah, she was on the uh she was on like 0:20:01.359 --> 0:20:02.040 a business trip. 0:20:02.119 --> 0:20:08.720 Oh, I had drove over and we were oh. 0:20:05.359 --> 0:20:08.320 God, and I was in your room and we had 0:20:08.320 --> 0:20:10.719 no idea your mom was coming home. Great, And I 0:20:10.760 --> 0:20:13.760 was like what, like what you're talking about? And I 0:20:13.800 --> 0:20:17.000 got so scared because I remember you like she was 0:20:17.040 --> 0:20:19.440 like a herd of you know, she doesn't let people 0:20:19.480 --> 0:20:19.840 in the room. 0:20:20.600 --> 0:20:23.360 And I was bad, so do we leave the room? 0:20:24.200 --> 0:20:25.760 And then she knocked on the door and I was 0:20:25.800 --> 0:20:27.280 standing at the edge of the bed and waving to 0:20:27.359 --> 0:20:30.679 me either just right there, like high said. She was 0:20:30.720 --> 0:20:32.520 just so thrown off, and she was like hi, honey, 0:20:32.600 --> 0:20:36.440 and she was so sweet. And then that was it, 0:20:37.160 --> 0:20:37.760 And now. 0:20:37.640 --> 0:20:41.560 My mom's obsessed with him, literally she's the best. My 0:20:41.560 --> 0:20:46.560 mom loves Christian, but you know, Christian honestly has an 0:20:46.600 --> 0:20:52.080 amazing relationship with everyone in my family. So then my dad, 0:20:52.640 --> 0:20:54.520 you actually met when. 0:20:54.680 --> 0:20:58.240 I think it was after we got back together this yeah, yeah, 0:20:58.320 --> 0:21:03.080 probably because she was still at the time. Yeah, it 0:21:03.160 --> 0:21:06.080 was he more settled down in the Bahamas. 0:21:06.359 --> 0:21:09.160 So yeah, so Christian met my dad when he moved 0:21:09.160 --> 0:21:13.360 to Bahamas because Italy it was just too much, Yeah, 0:21:13.400 --> 0:21:15.640 because Italy during COVID and everything. 0:21:15.800 --> 0:21:16.600 And then we got close. 0:21:16.800 --> 0:21:20.320 Yeah, we'd always go on the phone together, on the 0:21:20.320 --> 0:21:23.119 phone with them, Yeah, and then I and then that 0:21:23.200 --> 0:21:25.600 following year we went there a lot. Yeah, we did, 0:21:25.840 --> 0:21:30.800 like four times. Yeah, he comes whenever. He basically comes 0:21:30.800 --> 0:21:33.320 whenever he can. A lot of the times when I go, 0:21:34.760 --> 0:21:37.080 especially if it's during the holidays, and also like my 0:21:37.160 --> 0:21:41.359 cousins and I go like couples. We've gone a couple 0:21:41.400 --> 0:21:45.960 of times, which is always fun. Yeah. 0:21:45.960 --> 0:21:47.000 I don't know we go all the time. 0:21:47.000 --> 0:21:49.119 But you guys have a great relationship. You guys always 0:21:49.200 --> 0:21:50.160 joke around with each other. 0:21:51.600 --> 0:21:52.720 Yeah, that's for sure. 0:21:52.920 --> 0:21:57.640 But my dad actually knows Christian's family from way back, 0:21:58.560 --> 0:22:00.800 which is so funny. And we found that out once 0:22:00.840 --> 0:22:04.840 we started dating close. Yeah, so him and his uncle Sonny. 0:22:05.800 --> 0:22:08.439 His uncle Sonny would give my dad work growing up, 0:22:08.920 --> 0:22:12.840 and like my dad's father work, like they all work together. 0:22:13.400 --> 0:22:17.840 And then my dad actually like so Christian's uncle Sonny 0:22:18.400 --> 0:22:22.520 years back, wanted to hook up Christian's mom and my 0:22:22.680 --> 0:22:27.040 dad but they never actually went on date. But yeah, 0:22:28.600 --> 0:22:31.800 well because she was dating that other guy. Yeah so so. 0:22:32.680 --> 0:22:35.640 But like, our families have always been kind of connected, 0:22:35.640 --> 0:22:39.040 which is super funny. But Christian was there during the 0:22:39.080 --> 0:22:43.440 whole process of my mom dating and kind of getting 0:22:43.440 --> 0:22:46.600 to where she is now, to where like to meeting Louie. 0:22:47.560 --> 0:22:53.320 So yeah, Christian saw the boyfriends the tantrums and connected 0:22:53.320 --> 0:22:58.439 from the beginning great and then you got obviously you 0:22:58.480 --> 0:23:01.160 and little Louis worked together, got really close. 0:23:01.280 --> 0:23:06.280 Yeah, he was closer with my brother because Milania and Kevin. Yeah, 0:23:06.880 --> 0:23:08.680 you guys don't know, but Malania and Kevin used to 0:23:08.760 --> 0:23:09.320 date as well. 0:23:09.480 --> 0:23:14.080 Oh my god, you're putting them on blasts Christian's younger brother. Yep, 0:23:14.920 --> 0:23:17.800 so Christian's one of four. I'm one of four. But 0:23:18.000 --> 0:23:21.480 Milania and Kevin started dating after Christian and I started dating. 0:23:21.480 --> 0:23:24.919