Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome back to episode two of Casual Chaos.
Speaker 1: It has definitely been a chaotic week. I had iHeartRadio Awards,
Speaker 1: I announced my podcast, and I went to go see
Speaker 1: my dad in the Bahamas. That was much needed and
Speaker 1: very relaxing. So we have had a lot of positive
Speaker 1: moments this week and some negative moments. I'm sure you
Speaker 1: all have seen the news and a lot of you
Speaker 1: have been commenting on the Casual Chaos Instagram wondering if
Speaker 1: I will comment on this topic. I told you guys
Speaker 1: that I want to be real with you, and I'm
Speaker 1: commenting on it. So let's start from the beginning a
Speaker 1: little bit.
Speaker 2: My mom has been.
Speaker 1: The sole provider for my sisters and I since the
Speaker 1: minute my father left for prison.
Speaker 2: The second my mom got home from jail.
Speaker 1: She has been working her ass off to make sure
Speaker 1: that my sisters and I live a stable life and
Speaker 1: that my family is financially stable. Like I can't stress
Speaker 1: enough how much my mom has worked. Everything will be resolved.
Speaker 1: My mom has everything under control and there's nothing to
Speaker 1: worry about. My stepdad, Louis, is the most amazing stepfather.
Speaker 1: He treats my sisters and I like we are his own.
Speaker 1: He is also working on getting everything resolved as well.
Speaker 1: But there's nothing to worry about. Everything's going to be fine.
Speaker 1: But thank you for your concern. And Bethany Frankel, thank
Speaker 1: you so much for your sweet video. You are a
Speaker 1: mother with a daughter. I bet you wouldn't like if
Speaker 1: somebody was saying this about you. So I hope that
Speaker 1: one thousand dollars TikTok paycheck was really worth it. And thanks.
Speaker 1: But we're doing perfectly fine over here, all right, and
Speaker 1: now let's get into episode two. I have a really
Speaker 1: fun guest for you guys this week. I get so
Speaker 1: many questions about my boyfriend, Christian. I want to give
Speaker 1: you guys the background story on our relationship, how we've met,
Speaker 1: and I guess our story a little bit. So Christian,
Speaker 1: welcome to casual chaos. Thank you so much for having me,
Speaker 1: and congratulations. Thank you. I love you. Are you nervous?
Speaker 1: I'm very nervous. Well, last night Christian said I'm.
Speaker 3: Said last week, since said since you said it last week.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god. All week, I don't
Speaker 1: want to sweet to end this. We were like in
Speaker 1: his room last night with his brother and he was
Speaker 1: like I didn't want every day to end, because then
Speaker 1: it would be it would mean that.
Speaker 3: I'm I just don't know why I get so nervous.
Speaker 3: It's like me being in school and presenting in front
Speaker 3: of the class. Yeah, and like I can't speak, and
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: You're doing great and you're not that run No. It
Speaker 1: was so funny last night. I feel like, if we
Speaker 1: put the mic close enough to his throat, you're like,
Speaker 1: here the heartbeat, if I feel it right now? No, Okay, stop,
Speaker 1: there's nothing to be nervous about. Everything's gonna be fine.
Speaker 1: So we met like six years ago. I just graduated
Speaker 1: high school. I was in a serious relationship in high
Speaker 1: school that ended like halfway through my senior year, and
Speaker 1: then I was kind of just ready to have fun.
Speaker 1: I did not think I would be getting a boyfriend
Speaker 1: anytime soon. I was ready to just kind of be me,
Speaker 1: find myself and just find my happiness again. So one
Speaker 1: of both of our really good friends, Dante. Actually he
Speaker 1: has known me since I was in middle school. You guys,
Speaker 1: actually some of you might know Dante. I went to
Speaker 1: eighth grade prom with him. I'm on the Real Housewives
Speaker 1: in New Jersey, so go way back. But he finally
Speaker 1: said to me our senior year of high school, he
Speaker 1: was like, all right, come out meet my Bergen County friends.
Speaker 1: Come see like what we're all about, Like we're a
Speaker 1: lot of fun. I was, I said, okay. So it
Speaker 1: was a Fourth of July weekend. They all rented a
Speaker 1: house in Seaside. I show up to this house. I
Speaker 1: had the best weekend of my life. Yeah, out of control,
Speaker 1: but it was so much fun. Never seen anything like this,
Speaker 1: A bunch of kids in a house just having so
Speaker 1: much fun. So I think it was the morning. I
Speaker 1: don't even it.
Speaker 3: Was the morning of like our Friday night going out,
Speaker 3: like Saturday morning.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, it was Saturday morning, Sunday, something like that.
Speaker 2: One of the days.
Speaker 1: I'm sitting on the couch and all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: I see the door open up. There's girls in the room.
Speaker 1: She has like marks all over his face. I think
Speaker 1: our friend Frankie drew on his face. And I just
Speaker 1: see him sprint out of bed, chase Frankie out of
Speaker 1: the house up to the beach, and I'm sitting there like,
Speaker 1: holy crap, these kids are actually out of their mind,
Speaker 1: Like what are we getting myself into it's time to
Speaker 1: go home. This was fine, We'll revisit this another time.
Speaker 1: Then my good friend at the time ended up having
Speaker 1: like this summer romance with one of our friends, and
Speaker 1: so I was kind of just tagging along with wherever
Speaker 1: she went. And it was my best friend, so yeah,
Speaker 1: we yeah.
Speaker 2: So it was like my best friend and then his
Speaker 2: best friend.
Speaker 1: Yeah, not me though, I'm not friends with the girl anymore.
Speaker 2: But it was the best summer.
Speaker 1: So then we get on the tree to go to
Speaker 1: the Florida Georgia Line concert and it was a small
Speaker 1: group of us. So as we're at the Florida Georgia
Speaker 1: Line concert, it starts raining and the concert gets shut down.
Speaker 1: At the time, I did not like country music, so
Speaker 1: I was definitely a little tipsy just having fun and.
Speaker 3: Then absolutely.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, because I just I didn't like.
Speaker 2: Country music, so I was like, what else am I
Speaker 2: going to do?
Speaker 1: This is like yeah. So then it starts raining, the
Speaker 1: concert gets shut down. We are all like under this awning.
Speaker 1: Half of us are in the bathroom, like trying not
Speaker 1: to get wet in the rain. And I looked at
Speaker 1: my friend Lily and I was like, should I go
Speaker 1: kiss him and she was like, yeah, but don't sleep
Speaker 1: with him on the first night, and I was like okay.
Speaker 1: And then in the rain and then we left, and
Speaker 1: then we picked us and picked us up. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: then we picked us up in his parents Gea wag
Speaker 1: like this was some thing. It's just like not real,
Speaker 1: Like it's like, okay, seventeen year old driving around a Gea.
Speaker 3: Wagon And it was me and you in the trunk. No,
Speaker 3: well me, you and Frankton Frankie. Frankie was like, I
Speaker 3: can't do this anymore. Of these guys can kiss him
Speaker 3: in the back seat trunk and he hops over the
Speaker 3: front seat and it was all them in the back seat.
Speaker 1: And then yeah, that's the story of how we met.
Speaker 1: And that was it. We hung out the rest of
Speaker 1: the summer, Yeah, we did. We hung out the rest
Speaker 1: of the summer. I would I just kept going to
Speaker 1: their parties. They always had something going on, like these kids,
Speaker 1: I saw, they always had something to do. Then I
Speaker 1: left for college. He didn't say bye to me, and
Speaker 1: I was really.
Speaker 3: Upset, but I didn't think anything of it because he was.
Speaker 1: Just dumb, like really dumb. But I was like, come
Speaker 1: say bye to me. He didn't say bye to me,
Speaker 1: So then I said, doing anything. You were hanging out
Speaker 1: with your boy, with your with the boys. You weren't
Speaker 1: doing anything, like literally nothing. I think you actually went
Speaker 1: to the movies. I don't think you did anything. So
Speaker 1: I left for school. He didn't say bye to me,
Speaker 1: and I was like, okay, didn't know where we were
Speaker 1: at this point. It was weird. I was Moto. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, maybe this isn't what I thought
Speaker 1: it was going to be.
Speaker 2: I felt weird.
Speaker 1: I was never the girl to do something if I
Speaker 1: had feelings for someone, so I definitely had feelings for him.
Speaker 2: So I was never one.
Speaker 1: To like sleep around or do that. That was never me.
Speaker 1: So I was kind of just like, all right, we'll
Speaker 1: see what happens. And then I came and visited.
Speaker 4: Yeah, soon after, I don't really remember.
Speaker 1: It was like he was definitely he was doing things
Speaker 1: with other girls school. I might have kissed two people
Speaker 1: during CYLB this week, and I felt horrible.
Speaker 2: You God knows.
Speaker 1: What you did. I don't know. Yeah, he never knows.
Speaker 1: But yeah, basically our first date was him asking me
Speaker 1: to go to Florida, and I was like, what am
Speaker 1: I doing? What am I doing this isn't normal. So
Speaker 1: it was my freshman year. I had literally just moved
Speaker 1: into school. I think he came to visit me at
Speaker 1: least once or twice.
Speaker 3: I was with you like every single day throughout that
Speaker 3: summer doing certain things.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, fine, but it still was a little crazy
Speaker 1: to me, Like, no one's asked you to just like
Speaker 1: go to Florida. He was just a spontaneous thing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so spontaneous. So we ended up going to Florida and
Speaker 1: that was our first date, going to Florida.
Speaker 2: After Florida, I definitely didn't do anything.
Speaker 1: I don't know what he did. I was just living
Speaker 1: my life, honestly. Oh, so you did two things. I
Speaker 1: wasn't doing anything.
Speaker 3: It was just like, yeah, I didn't know what we were.
Speaker 1: You asked me out in Florida again in January and
Speaker 1: January we started dating January fourteen. We dated for like
Speaker 1: a year and a half, yeah, leading year and a
Speaker 1: half or two.
Speaker 2: Yeah, leading up until.
Speaker 1: My junior year of college March. Okay, but like it
Speaker 1: started getting foggy like February. Honestly, it was after my
Speaker 1: date night that it all went downhill. Yeah, it was
Speaker 1: basically just immature.
Speaker 3: Very The reason we broke up was because I was
Speaker 3: immature and like communication was horrible. He was always with
Speaker 3: my friends and I had no drive. You said, yeah,
Speaker 3: because I didn't have my first job until what I
Speaker 3: was twenty two one, twenty one. I got my first
Speaker 3: job when I was twenty one.
Speaker 1: That bothered me. I hated it bothered me so much. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I thought it was I just it didn't.
Speaker 2: Turn me on.
Speaker 1: Honestly, I just felt like you had no motivation, no drive,
Speaker 1: and it really bothered me. Community school, yeah, I at
Speaker 1: least wanted him to finish his associates degree, but I
Speaker 1: get it, like school's not for everyone, and school really
Speaker 1: wasn't for you at all. But then it was so
Speaker 1: funny because then we break up and he gets.
Speaker 2: A job, so jobs, job.
Speaker 1: During the day.
Speaker 2: He wanted to kill him.
Speaker 1: So he gets two jobs, and I'm like, obviously getting
Speaker 1: wind of it. I was like, oh yeah, going out
Speaker 1: every weekend, two jobs. He was, Yeah, cool, So was I.
Speaker 1: I went on college spring break, but yeah, I know
Speaker 1: you didn't.
Speaker 3: I went to Florida. Oh cool, Florida.
Speaker 1: I went to Cancun. Yeah whatever, it was very different. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it is cool. What'd you do go to the ship? Cum, No,
Speaker 1: no fun. We're not getting into this. So that was
Speaker 1: basically why I broke up with him. And then he
Speaker 1: just obviously was doing everything to show me that he
Speaker 1: was growing as a person for sure. So in that
Speaker 1: time though, then it was summer and it was our
Speaker 1: twenty one summer, so we were having so much fun
Speaker 1: in general.
Speaker 2: It was our first time.
Speaker 1: At the bars, Parker House, everything like DJ's every night,
Speaker 1: Parker House, all day on Saturday, Janks on Friday. It
Speaker 1: was just a weekend full of things.
Speaker 2: But we saw each other.
Speaker 3: Everywhere as much as we wanted to not. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: saw you every I would go somewhere and I'd be like,
Speaker 3: I'm not going there, like I heard g is there,
Speaker 3: and then my friends would be like, yo, we can't
Speaker 3: go there, like you're there, and just go back and forth.
Speaker 3: But all the time that one summer, so he told
Speaker 3: me everything, so I just knew about everything so fun.
Speaker 1: I was like I was doing. I knew everything that
Speaker 1: he Christian was doing from our friend too. He was
Speaker 1: he was literally telling both of us everything that I
Speaker 1: He was telling Christian everything that I was doing, and
Speaker 1: then he was telling me everything that Christian was doing
Speaker 1: to the point one night, I was drunk and spray
Speaker 1: and I like belying the girl that he was talking to,
Speaker 1: and I went up to her and I acted so
Speaker 1: dumb and I was like, oh, my god, you're iusy right.
Speaker 1: You look so familiar. I think I know you from college.
Speaker 1: And she was like, no, I don't think, so I go, oh,
Speaker 1: must be the wrong person. And I walked away, and
Speaker 1: I just like I just needed to really look at
Speaker 1: her and just be like, Hi, I'm so much prettier
Speaker 1: than yes, So I really needed to get a close
Speaker 1: look in person, and I did. And it was so
Speaker 1: funny because you know, one of the times where Christian
Speaker 1: and I hooked up over the summer while we were
Speaker 1: broken up. I mean, everyone does that. You're lying if
Speaker 1: you don't a few times, but oh would that make
Speaker 1: you feel better? Okay, but one of those times, because
Speaker 1: it didn't matter even though we were broken up, but
Speaker 1: still felt like he was my boyfriend, Like it still
Speaker 1: felt like the connection was so he was mine, so
Speaker 1: I was very It was just still a lot. But
Speaker 1: when he went to the bathroom, because it was like
Speaker 1: I was in my house, like I was in his shorehouse.
Speaker 2: It wasn't weird. I don't know, I felt normal.
Speaker 1: I walk in. His mom was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: knew you would be around soon. But she would like
Speaker 1: look at me and be like, oh, he's so lost
Speaker 1: without you. Like, yeah, she would we talk, but when
Speaker 1: he was in the bathroom, I was like looking through
Speaker 1: their texts wanting to throw up. But the one text,
Speaker 1: the one text was holy, your EXI just came up
Speaker 1: to me in the bar and I was like, she's
Speaker 1: such a weirdo, and like, but this girl had anough
Speaker 1: session with me because it was like every time I
Speaker 1: was somewhere, she would text you, and I'm like, this
Speaker 1: is so weird. It was very weird. So one Christian
Speaker 1: came back from the bathroom, I wasn't even trying to
Speaker 1: hide it, like he fully saw me on his phone
Speaker 1: and I was like, you're literally heading up with a weirdo. True,
Speaker 1: But yeah, that summer was fun. It was fun. We
Speaker 1: obviously hooked up a little bit, but it was also
Speaker 1: fun to like grow. I think we both grew a
Speaker 1: little bit.
Speaker 2: And then in Austin, Yeah do.
Speaker 1: You think we're still young? Yeah?
Speaker 3: You see, if we still wanted to be together, Yeah,
Speaker 3: you're with other people, with other people, and then it
Speaker 3: just didn't feel it.
Speaker 1: Then we got back together after like six seven months. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and we've been together ever.
Speaker 4: Since now yeah, three years from then. I guess see,
Speaker 4: this is where you get like annoyed.
Speaker 1: Yeah, very annoyed.
Speaker 3: Because I never wanted to reask you about I was like,
Speaker 3: you broke up with me, Like I don't want to
Speaker 3: ask you.
Speaker 1: You're so petty, like you deserve to be broken off.
Speaker 3: Yes, And I was just like, honestly, like I don't
Speaker 3: want a new anniversary daily.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's not like you've ever it's not like
Speaker 1: you still have honored January fourteenth.
Speaker 3: So technically we don't really have an anniversary date. But
Speaker 3: I always said to keep it January fourteenth. That's why
Speaker 3: always said to keep this well.
Speaker 1: Because I mean, realistically, when at this point we've been
Speaker 1: together for so long. Yes, I bet like none of
Speaker 1: you even knew we broke up during that time, honestly,
Speaker 1: but now at this point we're twenty three, we've been
Speaker 1: together for so long. I would just I consider it
Speaker 1: like we've been together for six years. Yeah, Like I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna pick the whole thing, but you don't honor
Speaker 1: our anniversary. We don't have one, I guess right if
Speaker 1: we don't ask me at right now? I don't like
Speaker 1: this date.
Speaker 2: Oh no, what's wrong with today?
Speaker 1: What is today? Anniversary? We're just going to pick a
Speaker 1: date when we're engaged or something. Oh great anniversary. No,
Speaker 1: then it'll be the wedding date. We're never going to
Speaker 1: have one until then. No January fourteenth. So let's get
Speaker 1: into how we met the family. Okay, so did you
Speaker 1: know me when we hooked up at Florida Georgia Line
Speaker 1: or know who I was?
Speaker 2: And like public eye wise.
Speaker 1: I had no idea. Okay, we love that you knew that.
Speaker 1: I think I did. Yeah, I forgot Christian answered so long,
Speaker 1: but I remember this vividly. So, like I said, I
Speaker 1: was like in my single era. Didn't think anything of it,
Speaker 1: especially when Chrish and I hooked up at the Florida
Speaker 1: Georgia Land concert that was actually just fun for play.
Speaker 1: No no idea, but I didn't.
Speaker 2: Think anything of what I did, like was wrong.
Speaker 1: So basically we all we're taking like the cutest photos
Speaker 1: and our friend Jeds they were just like cute photos,
Speaker 1: so I posted them on my Visco. You guys, remember
Speaker 1: Vesco and they are the talk of Christians town.
Speaker 3: And that's kind of like when I figured out, like
Speaker 3: who the hell is this girl?
Speaker 2: Like why does anyone care?
Speaker 3: And then like and then my parents found out that
Speaker 3: I was with you, and they didn't know who you
Speaker 3: were either, but like their friends knew, like my neighbors knew,
Speaker 3: and it was just like a huge thing for no reason.
Speaker 1: I was like, what the hell is going on? Do
Speaker 1: you remember when you went my mom?
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was on the uh she was on like
Speaker 3: a business trip.
Speaker 1: Oh, I had drove over and we were oh.
Speaker 3: God, and I was in your room and we had
Speaker 3: no idea your mom was coming home. Great, And I
Speaker 3: was like what, like what you're talking about? And I
Speaker 3: got so scared because I remember you like she was
Speaker 3: like a herd of you know, she doesn't let people
Speaker 3: in the room.
Speaker 1: And I was bad, so do we leave the room?
Speaker 3: And then she knocked on the door and I was
Speaker 3: standing at the edge of the bed and waving to
Speaker 3: me either just right there, like high said. She was
Speaker 3: just so thrown off, and she was like hi, honey,
Speaker 3: and she was so sweet. And then that was it,
Speaker 3: And now.
Speaker 1: My mom's obsessed with him, literally she's the best. My
Speaker 1: mom loves Christian, but you know, Christian honestly has an
Speaker 1: amazing relationship with everyone in my family. So then my dad,
Speaker 1: you actually met when.
Speaker 4: I think it was after we got back together this yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: probably because she was still at the time. Yeah, it
Speaker 4: was he more settled down in the Bahamas.
Speaker 1: So yeah, so Christian met my dad when he moved
Speaker 1: to Bahamas because Italy it was just too much, Yeah,
Speaker 1: because Italy during COVID and everything.
Speaker 3: And then we got close.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'd always go on the phone together, on the
Speaker 1: phone with them, Yeah, and then I and then that
Speaker 1: following year we went there a lot. Yeah, we did,
Speaker 1: like four times. Yeah, he comes whenever. He basically comes
Speaker 1: whenever he can. A lot of the times when I go,
Speaker 1: especially if it's during the holidays, and also like my
Speaker 1: cousins and I go like couples. We've gone a couple
Speaker 1: of times, which is always fun. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't know we go all the time.
Speaker 1: But you guys have a great relationship. You guys always
Speaker 1: joke around with each other.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's for sure.
Speaker 1: But my dad actually knows Christian's family from way back,
Speaker 1: which is so funny. And we found that out once
Speaker 1: we started dating close. Yeah, so him and his uncle Sonny.
Speaker 1: His uncle Sonny would give my dad work growing up,
Speaker 1: and like my dad's father work, like they all work together.
Speaker 1: And then my dad actually like so Christian's uncle Sonny
Speaker 1: years back, wanted to hook up Christian's mom and my
Speaker 1: dad but they never actually went on date. But yeah,
Speaker 1: well because she was dating that other guy. Yeah so so.
Speaker 1: But like, our families have always been kind of connected,
Speaker 1: which is super funny. But Christian was there during the
Speaker 1: whole process of my mom dating and kind of getting
Speaker 1: to where she is now, to where like to meeting Louie.
Speaker 1: So yeah, Christian saw the boyfriends the tantrums and connected
Speaker 1: from the beginning great and then you got obviously you
Speaker 1: and little Louis worked together, got really close.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he was closer with my brother because Milania and Kevin. Yeah,
Speaker 3: you guys don't know, but Malania and Kevin used to
Speaker 3: date as well.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you're putting them on blasts Christian's younger brother. Yep,
Speaker 1: so Christian's one of four. I'm one of four. But
Speaker 1: Milania and Kevin started dating after Christian and I started dating.
Speaker 2: Because our families were really close. Everything was vacation.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we went on vacation together, both of our families
Speaker 1: together to pun Takana. We've done a lot. But our
Speaker 1: siblings started dating. That was like crazy, it was so weird. No,
Speaker 1: Kevin and Milania broke up.
Speaker 3: Everything's good.
Speaker 1: They still talk. Yeah, they talk, they do the thing,
Speaker 1: I mean whatever, they need to talk. But yeah, family
Speaker 1: is very close. Everyone's in Caho. It's clearly. I remember
Speaker 1: meeting your mom though. I was so nervous. I was
Speaker 1: sitting at your kitchen table. You didn't know I think
Speaker 1: she was going to come home either. And she walked
Speaker 1: in and I was like, I remember looking over at
Speaker 1: my friend and I was like, she's so pretty. Oh
Speaker 1: my god. Yeah, but she was so nice. Gave you
Speaker 1: a bracelet that day. She just she literally gave me
Speaker 1: a bracelet. I was like, what is going on? I was.
Speaker 3: Tas, she's get get used to that.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yeah, yeah, it was like two months in.
Speaker 1: But no, she was. She's so sweet and she literally
Speaker 1: still spoils me. But she tells me all the time,
Speaker 1: I'm like the daughter she's never had because she's such
Speaker 1: a girl mom and she had four boys, so me
Speaker 1: coming in she really definitely made her happy, So I
Speaker 1: guess we could talk go out the rumors a little
Speaker 1: bit that we've gone through. There's a lot of those,
Speaker 1: a lot, But I guess it kind of stems from, like,
Speaker 1: were you ever nervous when I posted you on Instagram
Speaker 1: for the first time?
Speaker 3: I wasn't nervous, only because you started with a private Instagram,
Speaker 3: so so like it was just like friends and like
Speaker 3: random people. Yeah, but like there wasn't as many.
Speaker 1: As you have. Yeah, I had both, you had both.
Speaker 3: And then like down the line where people started to find.
Speaker 1: Out Instagram, Yeah, until I was twenty one. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: you know, maybe I was doing some under a drinking.
Speaker 3: But yeah, okay, but no, never nervous, only for that
Speaker 3: because that reason, because like then eventually like everyone find out,
Speaker 3: yeah that we were together, So it wasn't like as
Speaker 3: like how'd you say.
Speaker 1: Public, but definitely dating someone in the public eye causes
Speaker 1: a lot of attention. Like last week, I think I
Speaker 1: was pregnant, Yeah, not pregnant. We're engaged, Yeah, we're engaged.
Speaker 1: Everyone wants us to get engaged, but that doesn't like
Speaker 1: the engagement doesn't really bother me, and those don't really
Speaker 1: bother menant also it's like you guys, you think I
Speaker 1: look fat. That's all I got from it, And I'm like, great,
Speaker 1: I actually work my ass off in the gym every day.
Speaker 1: But thank you so much, no, because it's just like,
Speaker 1: obviously that's I think the cheating rumors are what bother
Speaker 1: you the most. I mean they bother me the most too,
Speaker 1: But then deep down I just know they're not true.
Speaker 1: But I think you get very frustrated.
Speaker 2: With them a little bit.
Speaker 1: I think they just upset you. Yeah, why Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think the biggest thing that you always say is I
Speaker 1: don't understand why people want to ruin our relationship and
Speaker 1: trying to like break it down basically. I mean, it
Speaker 1: definitely isn't the nicest thing to hear. I mean it
Speaker 1: definitely makes you think for a second.
Speaker 3: It's just like we're in such a good spot and
Speaker 3: it's like that comes on us. It's like really, yeah,
Speaker 3: like come on, I really needed that right now. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and then it just turns to a headache for the
Speaker 3: next week to investigate, and it's like, come on, I.
Speaker 1: Feel like we investigated a little more than when we
Speaker 1: were younger, and now we like.
Speaker 3: Well, that was the year and a half because it
Speaker 3: happened a lot, yeah, before you broke up. Yeah, it
Speaker 3: did because I was going out all the time. I
Speaker 3: was surrounded by like kids that were just hooking up
Speaker 3: with girls left and right.
Speaker 2: Well that's the thing, his hometown friends.
Speaker 1: They all look the same, black hair, like this whole
Speaker 1: get up, Like, they all.
Speaker 2: Look the same.
Speaker 1: So basically that's kind of what happened when we were
Speaker 1: in the process of breaking up. But with all those rumors,
Speaker 1: actually the cheating rumors during that first year and a
Speaker 1: half of us dating before we broke up, I would
Speaker 1: get dms and text messages and videos of you constantly
Speaker 1: not ever doing anything, just being there and being around,
Speaker 1: you know, people that were doing things, and it was
Speaker 1: kind of just guilty by association and it was just
Speaker 1: things that a person in a relationship should not be around.
Speaker 3: And I agreed, So that was the true.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So that was honestly the main reason why we
Speaker 1: broke up. And now that was another reason, but the reasons, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that was so for it. But now we really don't
Speaker 1: get those that much, like if anything is like I
Speaker 1: think I've actually gotten like one.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like it's like I don't even know how long
Speaker 4: since have time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but other than that, the pregnancy, the engagement, it's
Speaker 1: all funny. It's just whatever.
Speaker 2: But the pregnant ones stop calling me vab.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna answer some questions now from Instagram.
Speaker 2: What is your favorite thing about each other?
Speaker 3: I see your hustle.
Speaker 1: Okay, I think you keep me very calm. Your patients,
Speaker 1: you're very patient. Thank you. I need that in my life.
Speaker 1: Do you talk about marriage? Yes, I have my dream
Speaker 1: wedding venue, but now I think this might need to
Speaker 1: be a honeymoon destination because if you want guests there,
Speaker 1: you need to make a realistic wedding venue and it
Speaker 1: needs to be destination regardless, because you know, my dad's deported.
Speaker 1: So yeah, we're trying to figure that out. Just we
Speaker 1: like to talk about it.
Speaker 2: Would you ever do your own show together?
Speaker 1: First?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's never really been a thought in my mind. Yeah,
Speaker 3: doing and like the housewive? Would I want to be
Speaker 3: like a house would you call it the house husband?
Speaker 1: I want? I would want you to be so behind.
Speaker 3: It's like you're like my space isn't the public eye,
Speaker 3: Like I'm like one of those guys who likes to
Speaker 3: do like the work, like nobody knows about it.
Speaker 1: No, I agree.
Speaker 3: You sticks over there and I stick over here.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I still like you to be involved with
Speaker 1: me a little here, a little there, but not overkill.
Speaker 1: Hate the overkill. Just to come around school. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: love that. Okay, what are your summer plans? Down the shore?
Speaker 1: I've been doing it for my whole life. Same Yeah, No,
Speaker 1: we really aren't. Oh and Italy, Italy. We're going to
Speaker 1: Italy for my cousin's wedding in May. I'm so excited.
Speaker 1: It's going to be his first time in Italy and
Speaker 1: I cannot wait to show him around.
Speaker 2: I'm so excited.
Speaker 1: Two and a half weeks. Two weeks, two weeks. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we've shrutened it a little bit. It's literally going to
Speaker 1: be Italy, straight down the shore. We're landing on the Friday,
Speaker 1: Memorial Day weekend, straight to Janks, straight Stanks on Friday,
Speaker 1: Oh Jans on Friday, sleeping What we went over this already.
Speaker 1: What We're sleeping home Friday and I'm not going down
Speaker 1: on that day. Oh so we're sleeping Friday. We're not
Speaker 1: changing our trip Parker House Saturday. See you there. How
Speaker 1: do you work your way through disagreements? I think that's
Speaker 1: something we still work on honestly, But I think the
Speaker 1: biggest thing is, if you.
Speaker 3: Know, my basically thing is if we're in an argument
Speaker 3: like trying to walk away, we're both heated, like just
Speaker 3: like it gets us even more bad, Like when we're
Speaker 3: like hanging up the phone and we're on the phone
Speaker 3: just like going at each other that we hang up,
Speaker 3: Like that's the most frustrating thing it is.
Speaker 1: I think if we know, if I know I'm wrong,
Speaker 1: it's better to just let you have the floor and
Speaker 1: apologize to you and the other way around.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take my own advice and same with you.
Speaker 1: If you know you're wrong, you honestly do apologize that
Speaker 1: most of the time. Yeah, I feel like the biggest
Speaker 1: way that we work through our disagreements, I mean it
Speaker 1: is communication, but it's also giving us both time to
Speaker 1: just quoll come back. How do you balance a busy
Speaker 1: life and quality time together? So we both work a
Speaker 1: lot during the day and a lot of the times
Speaker 1: we like to come together at night. We always sleep together,
Speaker 1: so we sleep together almost every night. We go back
Speaker 1: and forth.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the hardest part is that was thirty five
Speaker 3: minutes from each other, so it's like annoying. It is
Speaker 3: annoying again, done with the gym and your day. It's
Speaker 3: seven thirty, it's a shower, dinner, it's the drive half hour.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's literally I think the biggest want for us
Speaker 1: to move out is just because we also want to
Speaker 1: see each other after ending our days. But the thirty
Speaker 1: five minute drive does get a lot every other night
Speaker 1: switching on and off between my house and his house.
Speaker 2: So eventually if we obviously, eventually we're going to move
Speaker 2: out and going to live together.
Speaker 1: But that's honestly, the biggest reason why is for us
Speaker 1: to just live together rather than going back and forth.
Speaker 1: But we both enjoy living home. We have younger siblings,
Speaker 1: We have younger siblings like wet.
Speaker 3: That we financially can't move out. We can move out tomorrow,
Speaker 3: ready to like once i'm ow, you're out. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 3: just not coming back now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And honestly, basically all of our friends are still home.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: It's yeah, it's not anything that.
Speaker 3: We're pushes, honest but it's like it's really not that
Speaker 3: big of a deal, Like I'm twenty three or twenty four,
Speaker 3: Like you don't have to be out of the house. No,
Speaker 3: like there's people that live home that are older like this.
Speaker 1: I'm sure it'll happen with the next Yeah, soon it'll Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not we can't put a timeline on it, but
Speaker 1: it's it's going to happen soon.
Speaker 2: I don't know when, but we'll take out my little at.
Speaker 1: Home studio with us to apartment.
Speaker 2: Or house. I don't know.
Speaker 1: See, that's another thing that we're trying to figure out.
Speaker 1: We don't know if we're getting an apartment or house.
Speaker 2: There's just a lot of things, so.
Speaker 1: One thing at a time.
Speaker 2: We just launched Casual Chaos.
Speaker 1: Y's a lot from all the years of dating. What's
Speaker 1: your favorite memory?
Speaker 3: Honestly our cruise to euro Yeah.
Speaker 1: It was so so much fun.
Speaker 2: We did a European cruise with Virgin Voyages.
Speaker 1: And we went to Spain and friends and it was amazing,
Speaker 1: so much fun.
Speaker 3: Every day is the way to do it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was so beautiful and then you have like
Speaker 1: one day to chill on the cruise. But it was
Speaker 1: an adults only cruise, so it was very relaxing. The
Speaker 1: food was honestly pretty good. Yeah, it was really good. No,
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, it was great. But also one of
Speaker 1: our favorite. One of my favorite memories is it was
Speaker 1: our one year anniversary and we did a helicopter ride
Speaker 1: around New York City and that was really cute. That
Speaker 1: was really cool. If you moved in together, where would
Speaker 1: you want to live? Yeah, I kind of want to
Speaker 1: go closer to the city, just because I'm always in
Speaker 1: the city for work, So that's a little bit of
Speaker 1: a problem. Yeah, he works in Bergen County, So we're
Speaker 1: kind of trying to find a happy medium as well
Speaker 1: on where we would want to move to in Jersey.
Speaker 1: I kind of want to be a little closer to
Speaker 1: the city. He obviously wants to stay a little close
Speaker 1: closer to Bergen County, so we have to find a
Speaker 1: happy medium there too. So you have any suggestions of
Speaker 1: towns in between Bergen County and the city. Let us
Speaker 1: know what relationship advice do you have for others in
Speaker 1: their twenties.
Speaker 3: Take it slow and enjoin the ride.
Speaker 1: Love that seriously, No, but yeah, for real, there's no rush,
Speaker 1: no rush. Just enjoy each other, don't fight over the
Speaker 1: little things, and just listen to each other honestly. All right,
Speaker 1: now we're going to do some rapid fire questions. I'm
Speaker 1: going to go to you first. What is my favorite
Speaker 1: thing we do together? Honestly, you spend quality time together? Yeah,
Speaker 1: good answer.
Speaker 2: Where is my dream honeymoon?
Speaker 3: Greece in Italy? The Danmuffy Coast kinda over there.
Speaker 2: Where did we go on our first date?
Speaker 1: Florida? How old is Bella? Ten? Eleven? Eleven? Sorry?
Speaker 3: I was very confident in that answer too.
Speaker 1: What is my favorite dessert? You have to know this.
Speaker 3: Chocolate ice cream?
Speaker 1: Now it's horrible answer?
Speaker 2: Now wrong?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: It started with a say like if I go out
Speaker 2: to a restaurant, this is what I would get?
Speaker 3: Oh, cheese cake?
Speaker 2: Yes, thank you?
Speaker 1: What is my zodiac sign Capricorn? What's my favorite workout plates?
Speaker 1: Who's my best friend? Lauren? How do you know? How
Speaker 1: did you know you were in love with me? How
Speaker 1: did I know? It was just a feeling that I've
Speaker 1: never felt before?
Speaker 2: And you answered all the questions? You actually got all
Speaker 2: of them correct.
Speaker 1: Huh, let's see what you got? Actually nervous? Are you ready? Oh? Yeah?
Speaker 1: What's my favorite football teams?
Speaker 3: What's my nickname for you?
Speaker 1: For me? You don't have a nickname for me? Where's
Speaker 1: my favorite color? Blue?
Speaker 2: What was my favorite Coastal Carolina?
Speaker 1: Blue? Yeah, like blue? Yeah? What was my favorite trip
Speaker 1: of taking Europe? Where's my favorite restaurant? Oh? My god,
Speaker 1: what's what's the one the one that you just said,
Speaker 1: the one that's the number one. I know it's very
Speaker 1: like common though, where? Okay? Catch? What's my favorite drink? Oh? Manhattan?
Speaker 1: Basil Hayden is that Manhattan? Okay?
Speaker 3: What was the best me?
Speaker 1: Like christ for you? Oh? His steak is so good.
Speaker 1: I don't know what he does so good.
Speaker 3: Who's my celebrity crush?
Speaker 2: Megan Fox?
Speaker 3: Probably Megan Fox when I was young, though I don't
Speaker 3: have one anymore.
Speaker 1: It's just what Yeah, I don't really have money there?
Speaker 2: Oh yes I do.
Speaker 1: The guy from through sixty five?
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's everyone's nice. And then what sports did I
Speaker 3: play in high school?
Speaker 2: Football and wrestling?
Speaker 1: Yep? I got all them right, yay. So I hope
Speaker 1: you guys enjoyed this podcast. This is the end of
Speaker 1: episode two with Christian. Thank you for coming on. Thank you,
Speaker 1: I love you. I love you. That was actually so
Speaker 1: much fun. So if you guys enjoyed this podcast, make
Speaker 1: sure to like, rate, and subscribe and come back next week.
Speaker 1: Love you guys.
Speaker 2: Bye,