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Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome back to episode two of Casual Chaos.

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Speaker 1: It has definitely been a chaotic week. I had iHeartRadio Awards,

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Speaker 1: I announced my podcast, and I went to go see

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Speaker 1: my dad in the Bahamas. That was much needed and

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Speaker 1: very relaxing. So we have had a lot of positive

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Speaker 1: moments this week and some negative moments. I'm sure you

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Speaker 1: all have seen the news and a lot of you

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Speaker 1: have been commenting on the Casual Chaos Instagram wondering if

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Speaker 1: I will comment on this topic. I told you guys

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Speaker 1: that I want to be real with you, and I'm

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Speaker 1: commenting on it. So let's start from the beginning a

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Speaker 1: little bit.

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Speaker 2: My mom has been.

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Speaker 1: The sole provider for my sisters and I since the

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Speaker 1: minute my father left for prison.

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Speaker 2: The second my mom got home from jail.

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Speaker 1: She has been working her ass off to make sure

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Speaker 1: that my sisters and I live a stable life and

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Speaker 1: that my family is financially stable. Like I can't stress

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Speaker 1: enough how much my mom has worked. Everything will be resolved.

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Speaker 1: My mom has everything under control and there's nothing to

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Speaker 1: worry about. My stepdad, Louis, is the most amazing stepfather.

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Speaker 1: He treats my sisters and I like we are his own.

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Speaker 1: He is also working on getting everything resolved as well.

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Speaker 1: But there's nothing to worry about. Everything's going to be fine.

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Speaker 1: But thank you for your concern. And Bethany Frankel, thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for your sweet video. You are a

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Speaker 1: mother with a daughter. I bet you wouldn't like if

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Speaker 1: somebody was saying this about you. So I hope that

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Speaker 1: one thousand dollars TikTok paycheck was really worth it. And thanks.

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Speaker 1: But we're doing perfectly fine over here, all right, and

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Speaker 1: now let's get into episode two. I have a really

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Speaker 1: fun guest for you guys this week. I get so

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Speaker 1: many questions about my boyfriend, Christian. I want to give

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Speaker 1: you guys the background story on our relationship, how we've met,

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Speaker 1: and I guess our story a little bit. So Christian,

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Speaker 1: welcome to casual chaos. Thank you so much for having me,

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Speaker 1: and congratulations. Thank you. I love you. Are you nervous?

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Speaker 1: I'm very nervous. Well, last night Christian said I'm.

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Speaker 3: Said last week, since said since you said it last week.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god. All week, I don't

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Speaker 1: want to sweet to end this. We were like in

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Speaker 1: like I didn't want every day to end, because then

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Speaker 3: I'm I just don't know why I get so nervous.

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Speaker 3: It's like me being in school and presenting in front

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Speaker 3: of the class. Yeah, and like I can't speak, and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: You're doing great and you're not that run No. It

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Speaker 1: was so funny last night. I feel like, if we

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Speaker 1: here the heartbeat, if I feel it right now? No, Okay, stop,

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Speaker 1: there's nothing to be nervous about. Everything's gonna be fine.

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Speaker 1: So we met like six years ago. I just graduated

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Speaker 1: high school. I was in a serious relationship in high

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Speaker 1: school that ended like halfway through my senior year, and

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Speaker 1: then I was kind of just ready to have fun.

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Speaker 1: I did not think I would be getting a boyfriend

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Speaker 1: anytime soon. I was ready to just kind of be me,

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Speaker 1: find myself and just find my happiness again. So one

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Speaker 1: actually some of you might know Dante. I went to

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Speaker 1: eighth grade prom with him. I'm on the Real Housewives

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Speaker 1: in New Jersey, so go way back. But he finally

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Speaker 1: Come see like what we're all about, Like we're a

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Speaker 1: lot of fun. I was, I said, okay. So it

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Speaker 1: had the best weekend of my life. Yeah, out of control,

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Speaker 1: but it was so much fun. Never seen anything like this,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, it was Saturday morning, Sunday, something like that.

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Speaker 2: So it was like my best friend and then his

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Speaker 1: Yeah, not me though, I'm not friends with the girl anymore.

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Speaker 2: But it was the best summer.

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Speaker 1: So then we get on the tree to go to

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Speaker 1: the Florida Georgia Line concert and it was a small

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Speaker 1: At the time, I did not like country music, so

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, because I just I didn't like.

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Speaker 3: Wagon And it was me and you in the trunk. No,

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Speaker 3: well me, you and Frankton Frankie. Frankie was like, I

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Speaker 3: can't do this anymore. Of these guys can kiss him

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Speaker 1: And then yeah, that's the story of how we met.

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Speaker 3: Upset, but I didn't think anything of it because he was.

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Speaker 1: So then I said, doing anything. You were hanging out

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Speaker 2: I felt weird.

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Speaker 1: I was never the girl to do something if I

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Speaker 2: So I was never one.

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Speaker 1: To like sleep around or do that. That was never me.

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Speaker 1: So I was kind of just like, all right, we'll

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Speaker 4: Yeah, soon after, I don't really remember.

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Speaker 1: It was like he was definitely he was doing things

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Speaker 1: with other girls school. I might have kissed two people

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Speaker 2: You God knows.

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Speaker 1: What you did. I don't know. Yeah, he never knows.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, basically our first date was him asking me

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Speaker 1: it was my freshman year. I had literally just moved

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Speaker 3: I was with you like every single day throughout that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, fine, but it still was a little crazy

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Speaker 2: After Florida, I definitely didn't do anything.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what he did. I was just living

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Speaker 3: It was just like, yeah, I didn't know what we were.

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Speaker 1: January we started dating January fourteen. We dated for like

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Speaker 1: My junior year of college March. Okay, but like it

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Speaker 3: Very The reason we broke up was because I was

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Speaker 3: my friends and I had no drive. You said, yeah,

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Speaker 3: because I didn't have my first job until what I

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Speaker 3: was twenty two one, twenty one. I got my first

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Speaker 1: That bothered me. I hated it bothered me so much. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I just felt like you had no motivation, no drive,

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Speaker 1: get it, like school's not for everyone, and school really

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Speaker 2: A job, so jobs, job.

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Speaker 1: During the day.

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Speaker 2: He wanted to kill him.

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Speaker 1: So he gets two jobs, and I'm like, obviously getting

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Speaker 1: I went on college spring break, but yeah, I know

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Speaker 3: I went to Florida. Oh cool, Florida.

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Speaker 1: I went to Cancun. Yeah whatever, it was very different. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it is cool. What'd you do go to the ship? Cum, No,

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Speaker 1: no fun. We're not getting into this. So that was

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Speaker 3: You see, if we still wanted to be together, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Since now yeah, three years from then. I guess see,

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Speaker 3: Because I never wanted to reask you about I was like,

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Speaker 1: You're so petty, like you deserve to be broken off.

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Speaker 3: Yes, And I was just like, honestly, like I don't

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's not like you've ever it's not like

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Speaker 2: Oh no, what's wrong with today?

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Speaker 1: What is today? Anniversary? We're just going to pick a

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Speaker 1: into how we met the family. Okay, so did you

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Speaker 1: So basically we all we're taking like the cutest photos

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Speaker 1: My mom's obsessed with him, literally she's the best. My

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Speaker 3: And then we got close.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'd always go on the phone together, on the

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Speaker 1: like four times. Yeah, he comes whenever. He basically comes

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Speaker 1: But my dad actually knows Christian's family from way back,

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Speaker 1: And then my dad actually like so Christian's uncle Sonny

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Speaker 1: But like, our families have always been kind of connected,

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Speaker 1: So yeah, Christian saw the boyfriends the tantrums and connected

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he was closer with my brother because Milania and Kevin. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you're putting them on blasts Christian's younger brother. Yep,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we went on vacation together, both of our families

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Speaker 3: Everything's good.

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Speaker 1: They still talk. Yeah, they talk, they do the thing,

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Speaker 1: is very close. Everyone's in Caho. It's clearly. I remember

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Speaker 1: my god. Yeah, but she was so nice. Gave you

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Speaker 1: a bracelet that day. She just she literally gave me

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Speaker 3: Tas, she's get get used to that.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yeah, yeah, it was like two months in.

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Speaker 1: But no, she was. She's so sweet and she literally

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Speaker 1: still spoils me. But she tells me all the time,

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Speaker 1: I'm like the daughter she's never had because she's such

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Speaker 1: a lot, But I guess it kind of stems from, like,

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Speaker 3: I wasn't nervous, only because you started with a private Instagram,

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Speaker 1: As you have. Yeah, I had both, you had both.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, okay, but no, never nervous, only for that

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00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 3: because that reason, because like then eventually like everyone find out,

439
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 3: yeah that we were together, So it wasn't like as

440
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,200
Speaker 3: like how'd you say.

441
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:04,439
Speaker 1: Public, but definitely dating someone in the public eye causes

442
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,679
Speaker 1: a lot of attention. Like last week, I think I

443
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 1: was pregnant, Yeah, not pregnant. We're engaged, Yeah, we're engaged.

444
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:18,920
Speaker 1: Everyone wants us to get engaged, but that doesn't like

445
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 1: the engagement doesn't really bother me, and those don't really

446
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 1: bother menant also it's like you guys, you think I

447
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 1: look fat. That's all I got from it, And I'm like, great,

448
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: I actually work my ass off in the gym every day.

449
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:36,679
Speaker 1: But thank you so much, no, because it's just like,

450
00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 1: obviously that's I think the cheating rumors are what bother

451
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,200
Speaker 1: you the most. I mean they bother me the most too,

452
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: But then deep down I just know they're not true.

453
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 1: But I think you get very frustrated.

454
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:49,400
Speaker 2: With them a little bit.

455
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: I think they just upset you. Yeah, why Yeah, I

456
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,159
Speaker 1: think the biggest thing that you always say is I

457
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 1: don't understand why people want to ruin our relationship and

458
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: trying to like break it down basically. I mean, it

459
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,919
Speaker 1: definitely isn't the nicest thing to hear. I mean it

460
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:12,160
Speaker 1: definitely makes you think for a second.

461
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 3: It's just like we're in such a good spot and

462
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 3: it's like that comes on us. It's like really, yeah,

463
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,399
Speaker 3: like come on, I really needed that right now. Yeah,

464
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:22,879
Speaker 3: and then it just turns to a headache for the

465
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:27,160
Speaker 3: next week to investigate, and it's like, come on, I.

466
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 1: Feel like we investigated a little more than when we

467
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:30,960
Speaker 1: were younger, and now we like.

468
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 3: Well, that was the year and a half because it

469
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:37,199
Speaker 3: happened a lot, yeah, before you broke up. Yeah, it

470
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 3: did because I was going out all the time. I

471
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 3: was surrounded by like kids that were just hooking up

472
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 3: with girls left and right.

473
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 2: Well that's the thing, his hometown friends.

474
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 1: They all look the same, black hair, like this whole

475
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 1: get up, Like, they all.

476
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 2: Look the same.

477
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 1: So basically that's kind of what happened when we were

478
00:27:55,600 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: in the process of breaking up. But with all those rumors,

479
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 1: actually the cheating rumors during that first year and a

480
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: half of us dating before we broke up, I would

481
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 1: get dms and text messages and videos of you constantly

482
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 1: not ever doing anything, just being there and being around,

483
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: you know, people that were doing things, and it was

484
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:23,639
Speaker 1: kind of just guilty by association and it was just

485
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: things that a person in a relationship should not be around.

486
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 3: And I agreed, So that was the true.

487
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, So that was honestly the main reason why we

488
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 1: broke up. And now that was another reason, but the reasons, Yeah,

489
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 1: that was so for it. But now we really don't

490
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 1: get those that much, like if anything is like I

491
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: think I've actually gotten like one.

492
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like it's like I don't even know how long

493
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 4: since have time.

494
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, but other than that, the pregnancy, the engagement, it's

495
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 1: all funny. It's just whatever.

496
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 2: But the pregnant ones stop calling me vab.

497
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: So we're gonna answer some questions now from Instagram.

498
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 2: What is your favorite thing about each other?

499
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 3: I see your hustle.

500
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 1: Okay, I think you keep me very calm. Your patients,

501
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 1: you're very patient. Thank you. I need that in my life.

502
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 1: Do you talk about marriage? Yes, I have my dream

503
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 1: wedding venue, but now I think this might need to

504
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 1: be a honeymoon destination because if you want guests there,

505
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 1: you need to make a realistic wedding venue and it

506
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 1: needs to be destination regardless, because you know, my dad's deported.

507
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: So yeah, we're trying to figure that out. Just we

508
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 1: like to talk about it.

509
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 2: Would you ever do your own show together?

510
00:29:58,680 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 1: First?

511
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's never really been a thought in my mind. Yeah,

512
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 3: doing and like the housewive? Would I want to be

513
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 3: like a house would you call it the house husband?

514
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 1: I want? I would want you to be so behind.

515
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 3: It's like you're like my space isn't the public eye,

516
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 3: Like I'm like one of those guys who likes to

517
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,239
Speaker 3: do like the work, like nobody knows about it.

518
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 1: No, I agree.

519
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 3: You sticks over there and I stick over here.

520
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I still like you to be involved with

521
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 1: me a little here, a little there, but not overkill.

522
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 1: Hate the overkill. Just to come around school. Yeah, I

523
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 1: love that. Okay, what are your summer plans? Down the shore?

524
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 1: I've been doing it for my whole life. Same Yeah, No,

525
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: we really aren't. Oh and Italy, Italy. We're going to

526
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 1: Italy for my cousin's wedding in May. I'm so excited.

527
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 1: It's going to be his first time in Italy and

528
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 1: I cannot wait to show him around.

529
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 2: I'm so excited.

530
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 1: Two and a half weeks. Two weeks, two weeks. Yeah,

531
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 1: we've shrutened it a little bit. It's literally going to

532
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 1: be Italy, straight down the shore. We're landing on the Friday,

533
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 1: Memorial Day weekend, straight to Janks, straight Stanks on Friday,

534
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: Oh Jans on Friday, sleeping What we went over this already.

535
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 1: What We're sleeping home Friday and I'm not going down

536
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 1: on that day. Oh so we're sleeping Friday. We're not

537
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 1: changing our trip Parker House Saturday. See you there. How

538
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: do you work your way through disagreements? I think that's

539
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 1: something we still work on honestly, But I think the

540
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 1: biggest thing is, if you.

541
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 3: Know, my basically thing is if we're in an argument

542
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 3: like trying to walk away, we're both heated, like just

543
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 3: like it gets us even more bad, Like when we're

544
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 3: like hanging up the phone and we're on the phone

545
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 3: just like going at each other that we hang up,

546
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 3: Like that's the most frustrating thing it is.

547
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: I think if we know, if I know I'm wrong,

548
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: it's better to just let you have the floor and

549
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 1: apologize to you and the other way around.

550
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take my own advice and same with you.

551
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 1: If you know you're wrong, you honestly do apologize that

552
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 1: most of the time. Yeah, I feel like the biggest

553
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 1: way that we work through our disagreements, I mean it

554
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 1: is communication, but it's also giving us both time to

555
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 1: just quoll come back. How do you balance a busy

556
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 1: life and quality time together? So we both work a

557
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 1: lot during the day and a lot of the times

558
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 1: we like to come together at night. We always sleep together,

559
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 1: so we sleep together almost every night. We go back

560
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 1: and forth.

561
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the hardest part is that was thirty five

562
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:06,960
Speaker 3: minutes from each other, so it's like annoying. It is

563
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 3: annoying again, done with the gym and your day. It's

564
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 3: seven thirty, it's a shower, dinner, it's the drive half hour.

565
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's literally I think the biggest want for us

566
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 1: to move out is just because we also want to

567
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 1: see each other after ending our days. But the thirty

568
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 1: five minute drive does get a lot every other night

569
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: switching on and off between my house and his house.

570
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 2: So eventually if we obviously, eventually we're going to move

571
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 2: out and going to live together.

572
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 1: But that's honestly, the biggest reason why is for us

573
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 1: to just live together rather than going back and forth.

574
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 1: But we both enjoy living home. We have younger siblings,

575
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 1: We have younger siblings like wet.

576
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 3: That we financially can't move out. We can move out tomorrow,

577
00:33:57,080 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 3: ready to like once i'm ow, you're out. Yeah, I'm

578
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 3: just not coming back now.

579
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, And honestly, basically all of our friends are still home.

580
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 1: I don't know.

581
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 2: It's yeah, it's not anything that.

582
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 3: We're pushes, honest but it's like it's really not that

583
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 3: big of a deal, Like I'm twenty three or twenty four,

584
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 3: Like you don't have to be out of the house. No,

585
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 3: like there's people that live home that are older like this.

586
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 1: I'm sure it'll happen with the next Yeah, soon it'll Yeah,

587
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 1: I'm not we can't put a timeline on it, but

588
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 1: it's it's going to happen soon.

589
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 2: I don't know when, but we'll take out my little at.

590
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 1: Home studio with us to apartment.

591
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 2: Or house. I don't know.

592
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 1: See, that's another thing that we're trying to figure out.

593
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:44,920
Speaker 1: We don't know if we're getting an apartment or house.

594
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 2: There's just a lot of things, so.

595
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 1: One thing at a time.

596
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 2: We just launched Casual Chaos.

597
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 1: Y's a lot from all the years of dating. What's

598
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: your favorite memory?

599
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 3: Honestly our cruise to euro Yeah.

600
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 1: It was so so much fun.

601
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 2: We did a European cruise with Virgin Voyages.

602
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 1: And we went to Spain and friends and it was amazing,

603
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 1: so much fun.

604
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 3: Every day is the way to do it.

605
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was so beautiful and then you have like

606
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,680
Speaker 1: one day to chill on the cruise. But it was

607
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: an adults only cruise, so it was very relaxing. The

608
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 1: food was honestly pretty good. Yeah, it was really good. No,

609
00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, it was great. But also one of

610
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:41,560
Speaker 1: our favorite. One of my favorite memories is it was

611
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 1: our one year anniversary and we did a helicopter ride

612
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: around New York City and that was really cute. That

613
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 1: was really cool. If you moved in together, where would

614
00:35:56,320 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: you want to live? Yeah, I kind of want to

615
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,759
Speaker 1: go closer to the city, just because I'm always in

616
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: the city for work, So that's a little bit of

617
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 1: a problem. Yeah, he works in Bergen County, So we're

618
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 1: kind of trying to find a happy medium as well

619
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:15,360
Speaker 1: on where we would want to move to in Jersey.

620
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:17,440
Speaker 1: I kind of want to be a little closer to

621
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 1: the city. He obviously wants to stay a little close

622
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:24,319
Speaker 1: closer to Bergen County, so we have to find a

623
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 1: happy medium there too. So you have any suggestions of

624
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 1: towns in between Bergen County and the city. Let us

625
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:36,800
Speaker 1: know what relationship advice do you have for others in

626
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 1: their twenties.

627
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 3: Take it slow and enjoin the ride.

628
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:47,240
Speaker 1: Love that seriously, No, but yeah, for real, there's no rush,

629
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 1: no rush. Just enjoy each other, don't fight over the

630
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:54,879
Speaker 1: little things, and just listen to each other honestly. All right,

631
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 1: now we're going to do some rapid fire questions. I'm

632
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 1: going to go to you first. What is my favorite

633
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 1: thing we do together? Honestly, you spend quality time together? Yeah,

634
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: good answer.

635
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 2: Where is my dream honeymoon?

636
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 3: Greece in Italy? The Danmuffy Coast kinda over there.

637
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 2: Where did we go on our first date?

638
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 1: Florida? How old is Bella? Ten? Eleven? Eleven? Sorry?

639
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:25,799
Speaker 3: I was very confident in that answer too.

640
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:32,839
Speaker 1: What is my favorite dessert? You have to know this.

641
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 3: Chocolate ice cream?

642
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:36,800
Speaker 1: Now it's horrible answer?

643
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 2: Now wrong?

644
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 1: I don't know.

645
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 2: It started with a say like if I go out

646
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 2: to a restaurant, this is what I would get?

647
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 3: Oh, cheese cake?

648
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 2: Yes, thank you?

649
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: What is my zodiac sign Capricorn? What's my favorite workout plates?

650
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 1: Who's my best friend? Lauren? How do you know? How

651
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:00,920
Speaker 1: did you know you were in love with me? How

652
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 1: did I know? It was just a feeling that I've

653
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: never felt before?

654
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 2: And you answered all the questions? You actually got all

655
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:11,800
Speaker 2: of them correct.

656
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 1: Huh, let's see what you got? Actually nervous? Are you ready? Oh? Yeah?

657
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:20,920
Speaker 1: What's my favorite football teams?

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Speaker 3: What's my nickname for you?

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Speaker 1: For me? You don't have a nickname for me? Where's

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Speaker 1: my favorite color? Blue?

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Speaker 2: What was my favorite Coastal Carolina?

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Speaker 1: Blue? Yeah, like blue? Yeah? What was my favorite trip

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Speaker 1: of taking Europe? Where's my favorite restaurant? Oh? My god,

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Speaker 1: what's what's the one the one that you just said,

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Speaker 1: the one that's the number one. I know it's very

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Speaker 1: like common though, where? Okay? Catch? What's my favorite drink? Oh? Manhattan?

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Speaker 1: Basil Hayden is that Manhattan? Okay?

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Speaker 3: What was the best me?

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Speaker 1: Like christ for you? Oh? His steak is so good.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what he does so good.

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Speaker 3: Who's my celebrity crush?

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Speaker 2: Megan Fox?

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Speaker 3: Probably Megan Fox when I was young, though I don't

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Speaker 3: have one anymore.

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Speaker 1: It's just what Yeah, I don't really have money there?

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Speaker 2: Oh yes I do.

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Speaker 1: The guy from through sixty five?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's everyone's nice. And then what sports did I

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Speaker 3: play in high school?

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Speaker 2: Football and wrestling?

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Speaker 1: Yep? I got all them right, yay. So I hope

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Speaker 1: you guys enjoyed this podcast. This is the end of

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Speaker 1: episode two with Christian. Thank you for coming on. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: I love you. I love you. That was actually so

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Speaker 1: much fun. So if you guys enjoyed this podcast, make

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Speaker 1: sure to like, rate, and subscribe and come back next week.

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Speaker 1: Love you guys.

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Speaker 2: Bye,