1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: Hey, ba fam, let's be real for a second, and 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: y'all know I keep it a book. The job market 3 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 1: has been brutal, now not brutal trash, especially for women 4 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 1: of color. Over three hundred thousand of us have disappeared 5 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: from the workforce this year alone, and not by choice, 6 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:20,600 Speaker 1: but because of layoffs, disappearing DEI programs, and stagnant wages 7 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 1: that keep cutting us out of opportunity. Our unemployment rate 8 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: has jumped to over seven percent, while our pay gap 9 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 1: continues to widen. I know all of that sounds dire, 10 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: but here's what I want y'all to know. 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You 30 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: can find information in the show notes of today's episodes 31 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: or go to mandymoney dot com slash community. That's Mandy 32 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: m A n d I Money dot com slash community. 33 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: I would love to see y'all there. Enrollment is open, 34 00:01:55,080 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: so please go check out mandymoney dot com slash community today. Hey, hey, 35 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 1: via fam, Welcome back to Brown Ambition. I am your host, 36 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: Mandy woodrim Santos aka Mandy Money, and today I am 37 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 1: joined by the remarkable author of a brand new book. 38 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:17,919 Speaker 1: I'm going to hold it up so if you're watching 39 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: on YouTube, you can get a picture so you know 40 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: what you need to look for on Barnes and Noble 41 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: shelves or your local independent bookstore. The book is called 42 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 1: who Knows You by Heart. It's written by C. J. Farley, 43 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 1: And with this novel again, Who Knows You by Heart, 44 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 1: which is going to hit shelves November eleventh, and it's 45 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 1: already turning heads, y'all. It's getting tons of buzz as 46 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: one of the falls most relevant and brilliant releases. It 47 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: has been hailed by Booklist. It's got stars all over it. 48 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 1: This book is going to be shining right, just covered 49 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,359 Speaker 1: in stars. It's gotten a starred review which is called 50 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: it a timely masterpiece. But the book delves into a 51 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: story that's actually told in the second person and follows 52 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: Jamaican American Octavia Crenshaw as she's navigating the minefields of 53 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 1: big tech like so many of us are today, but 54 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: not just a career in a space that is still 55 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: overwhelmed with gender discrimination, racial discrimination. She's also facing some 56 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:19,239 Speaker 1: real world challenges like crushing debt and the moral quagmires 57 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: of building bias free AI, all while racing against the 58 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 1: clock and against competitors who are threatening her job and 59 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: her dreams. So, CJ. Welcome to the show. 60 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 2: Hey, with that intro, if you can just wrap it 61 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 2: up now, I think we're done I think you've covered it, 62 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 2: so thank you for having me. 63 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 3: I'll be on my way now. 64 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 2: It's a pleasure to talk to you about my new book, 65 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 2: Who Knows You by Heart. I think there are a 66 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 2: lot of relevant issues to surviving and thriving in business today, 67 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 2: and in the tech industry in particular. It's also a 68 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 2: fun book, you know, it's funny, it's romantic, but there 69 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 2: are some serious issues that it explores. 70 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 3: So happy to talk about it. 71 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. So, you know, my first question for you was 72 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: when you were setting out to write this book, when 73 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: were you certain I want this to be told through 74 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: the lens of a black woman working in today's modern 75 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: you know, big tech sphere. 76 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 2: Well, one reason why I wanted to sort of focus 77 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 2: it on and have a black female protagonist is, you know, 78 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 2: the numbers of black women and black men in big 79 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 2: tech are not good, and they're not getting better. You 80 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 2: sometimes go to the websites of these companies and they 81 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 2: have all these sort of laughing, you know, minorities and 82 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 2: looks like having fun and yes they believe in in 83 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 2: you know, fair recruiting and fair hiring the less so 84 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 2: these days, and I wanted to sort of go under 85 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 2: the ugly underbelly of that of all that, and show 86 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 2: what's really going on. And the numbers show that although 87 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 2: the tech industry is booming on the s and P 88 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 2: in terms of trains of dollars of revenue, that a 89 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 2: number of black people like you work in the industry 90 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 2: is far less than our numbers in the population. You know, 91 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 2: we're like thirteen percent of the population in the US, 92 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 2: and we're like less than seven percent of the tech industry. 93 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 2: And that's not really the prime jobs. Sometimes that they 94 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:13,239 Speaker 2: prop up those numbers by counting people aren't really working 95 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 2: as executives, aren't working in skilled jobs to pump up 96 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:19,919 Speaker 2: their numbers, And so I wanted to show what the 97 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:23,159 Speaker 2: numbers really were like, what the experience is really like, 98 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 2: so people would know what's happening the tech industry. Because 99 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 2: the tech industry, you know, it's hot right now. It's 100 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 2: a new gold rush, it's a new world is where 101 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:36,799 Speaker 2: people are making and breaking fortunes, and black people should 102 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 2: be involved in it. Some of us are, but even 103 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 2: their accomplishments are being erased or ignored or not widely spread. 104 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 2: And so I wanted this book to sort of shine 105 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 2: a light on it, but also that has some fun too. 106 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, Octavia is no joke like, she is brilliant. 107 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: She's a coder herself. And at the beginning of the book, 108 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: I think the funniest part of the thinking the book 109 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:04,159 Speaker 1: is she she's basically created her own chatbot. She's working 110 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 1: in tech. She creates this chatbot to basically do her 111 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:09,720 Speaker 1: job for her, right, it's like creating content for the website, 112 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: And she's building this AI and you know, ais are 113 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 1: hungry animals. They need data, they need content so that 114 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 1: they can, you know, know how to mimic whatever they're 115 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:22,599 Speaker 1: trying to mimic. And so she's taking all that data 116 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: from people's computers or work computers, not realizing that in 117 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: the process she's gobled up a lot of personal, you know, content, 118 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 1: including some some unsavory images and video of the company CEO, 119 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 1: which leads to her getting thrown out on her little booty. 120 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: And then she's in the job market. And you know 121 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 1: what I really appreciate about the book is how accurately 122 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 1: I think it reflects the well, maybe not as in 123 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 1: this current economy, it's so hard. She gets a job 124 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 1: relatively quickly, but it really accurately I think reflects what 125 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 1: it's like to be on the outside trying to bang 126 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 1: on the door of big tech, trying to break in. 127 00:06:57,680 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 2: And that's exactly I wanted to capture. I wanted to 128 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 2: capture feeling it being outside and inside. I also wanted 129 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 2: to capture the experiences of people of color within the 130 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 2: tech industry. And one person that really influenced me was 131 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 2: a real life, you know, I think icon in the 132 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 2: tech industry, doctor Ayana Howard. I don't know if you've 133 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 2: heard of her, but she's a roboticist. She's dean of 134 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 2: the Ohio State University College of Engineering. She's really a brilliant, 135 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 2: brilliant person. She makes robots, she worked for NASA, she's 136 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 2: an educator, she's a leader. When I worked at Audible, 137 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 2: I worked on an audiobook with her called Sex, Race, 138 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 2: and Robots, And it was about her experiences in the 139 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 2: tech industry and UH and working as a sort of 140 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 2: someone who builds and builds robots for like, you know, perspective, 141 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 2: Mars Landers and that kind of thing. And she had 142 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 2: some fascinating stories about the things she went through the 143 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 2: way in which she sometimes are often undervalued and underestimated 144 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 2: by her white male colleagues, but also you know the 145 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 2: brilliance she displayed in terms of the innovations and the 146 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 2: businesses she created. And I thought about her a lot 147 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 2: as I wrote this book, because I'd work with her. 148 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 2: I knew how great she was, and I knew that 149 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 2: her kind of experience in her name was. 150 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 3: Not out there. I had a reference her in the book. 151 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 2: I mean, she her name pops up in the book, 152 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 2: and I wanted to make sure people knew about people 153 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 2: like that that although times are tough, although the numbers 154 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 2: aren't worth they should be, in the tech industry, there 155 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 2: are people like doctor Ayana Howard who are doing great 156 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:42,199 Speaker 2: things that all of our kids and all of us 157 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:45,679 Speaker 2: can really learn from and be inspired by and maybe, 158 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 2: you know, be inspired to do great things ourselves in tech. 159 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: You're right, that is something that you sprinkled throughout the book. 160 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 1: I thought that was so brilliant. Is all these like 161 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:58,679 Speaker 1: references to these little known heroes. I think one thing 162 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 1: I learned from your book was the man who invented 163 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:03,719 Speaker 1: stop lights or traffic lights is a black man. Never 164 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: knew that. 165 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 166 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 2: Also, like I remember I mentioned Jerry Lawson. He's someone 167 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:13,319 Speaker 2: else that I worked on an audio project about Jerry 168 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 2: Lawson and all the kids should know about Jerry Lawson. 169 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 2: All these kids who are playing like Fortnite and playing 170 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 2: video game should know about Jerry Lawson. Jerry Lawson is 171 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 2: a black man who helped leave the team to create 172 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 2: the first interchangeable game cartridge, and that really helped pave 173 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 2: the way for the multi billion dollar game industry because 174 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:35,719 Speaker 2: before him, you know games where you'd buy a game, 175 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 2: it would be a whole sort of unit, and you 176 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 2: couldn't like sort of pull out the game and put 177 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 2: in another game. His seemingly simple innovation led the way 178 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 2: for people to realize, oh, we can change these out 179 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 2: just like record, just like you know, just like a trax. 180 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 1: And blow on it down, get the dust out exactly. 181 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:59,839 Speaker 2: I mean, you can blame him for kids sitting in 182 00:09:59,840 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 2: front the TV, you're sitting in front of their computers 183 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 2: and sitting in front of wherever and playing games, but 184 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 2: you can also credit him for helping make the whole 185 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 2: industry possible. 186 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 3: And people don't know about Jerry Lawson. 187 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 2: His name is trying to get more traction, but he's 188 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 2: someone that want people to know about, to realize, oh, 189 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:19,319 Speaker 2: there are creators who are African American in this world 190 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 2: of tech business, and we can be like them, we 191 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,719 Speaker 2: can surpass them, we can stand on the shoulders of 192 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 2: giants by people like doctor Ian Howard, people at Jerry Lawson. 193 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 2: I wanted to make sure their names were checked out 194 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:34,080 Speaker 2: from this book, even as I explore how awful the 195 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 2: tech industry can be for women and black men and 196 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 2: people of color. 197 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:41,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, you have had so many professional lives. As I 198 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 1: was reading through your bio, I mean, you're a Harvard graduate. 199 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: You have written a best selling biography about Bob Marley 200 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 1: called Before the Legend The Rise of Bob Marley. This 201 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 1: is not your first novel, you had another novel before, 202 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 1: but you've also been an editor at the Wall Street Journal. 203 00:10:55,920 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 1: And you mentioned your career at Audible, and I I 204 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 1: think in the in the in the clipping I had, 205 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 1: you know, with a little bit of your bio, it 206 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 1: said you were an executive in tech. But the fact 207 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 1: that it was Audible makes so much sense because in 208 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 1: the book we learned about this. I was kind of 209 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 1: thinking it was similar to like a Tesla type type vibe, 210 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 1: like a big tech but it's it's audio. It's an audio. Well, 211 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 1: you describe it almost meant do a good job. But 212 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 1: it's basically an audible type, you know, big company that 213 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 1: is harvesting all this data from customers to uh you 214 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 1: take it from there to do well. 215 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well. 216 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 2: In the in the book, the main character works or 217 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 2: gets a job for a tech company that specialized in 218 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 2: audio entertainment. And the one reason why and and the 219 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 2: audio entertainment is you know, digital entertainment. 220 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 3: It's streaming. 221 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 2: And the reason why I did that and made that 222 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:50,559 Speaker 2: it made made the this tech book about that kind 223 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 2: of a company is to me, a lot of what's 224 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 2: going on AI today is about the collision of art 225 00:11:58,440 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 2: and ownership. 226 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 3: Uh. 227 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 2: You know, throughout the years, black people have been just 228 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 2: ripped off by the entertainment industry, particularly in music. You 229 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 2: think of the legend of Blind Lemon Jefferson and a 230 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:13,200 Speaker 2: guy who was so seminal in the field of blues. 231 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 2: Legend has that he died with his hands still frozen 232 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 2: around the neck of his guitar. I remember when I 233 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 2: was working as a music critic for Time magazine, I 234 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 2: once interviewed TLC. You know, the great R and B band, 235 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 2: and who they did. You know, don't go chasing Waterfalls. 236 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 2: I won't say any of the songs, but you know Creepy, 237 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 2: you know them. 238 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:33,559 Speaker 3: They're great. And they told me. 239 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 1: About how you could do a little creep You can 240 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 1: do little something that's right. 241 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:38,559 Speaker 3: Little dance. 242 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 2: But they told me, even if when they were pumping 243 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 2: out all those hits, they weren't getting any real money, 244 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 2: and their legs were getting turned off, They're having utilities 245 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 2: turned off, they were totally broke. And I remember doing 246 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 2: an interview once with Prince when I was at Time magazine. 247 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 2: He's the only artist I can think of right now 248 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 2: that when I did the interview, told me, Okay, you 249 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 2: can't tape this. You have to write it down. Why 250 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 2: can't I tape it? And he's like, well, because I 251 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 2: don't want you sampling my voice and using it. And 252 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 2: they had a digital means in future years, so he 253 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:09,839 Speaker 2: had a vision for what was happening. At first I 254 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 2: thought it was crazy, but now looking back, and I 255 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 2: realized how smart and how pressing he was. He realized 256 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:19,200 Speaker 2: that digital content meant something, that his voice meant something, 257 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 2: and he didn't want it sort of out there in 258 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:25,199 Speaker 2: the world, built to sample and create their own things with. 259 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 2: And we're seeing that happen now and streaming where artists 260 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 2: can have millions of streams and still not really make 261 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:36,079 Speaker 2: a living wage. We're seeing the way in which AI 262 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 2: is being trained on filmmakers and actors and musicians and 263 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:44,839 Speaker 2: then pumping out art that seemed similar, but because it's 264 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 2: in a black box, nobody can sue. There's a recent 265 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 2: court case with Nthropic, which is a leading company in 266 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:55,319 Speaker 2: the generative AI space, and they agreed a subject to 267 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 2: court approval to pay one point five billion dollars and 268 00:13:57,840 --> 00:13:59,680 Speaker 2: to corporate in a freement lawsuit that was brought by 269 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:04,559 Speaker 2: a group of authors saying that anthropics AIS were trained 270 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:09,320 Speaker 2: off of their books. So this is happening, and we 271 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 2: have to get ahead of it because we don't want 272 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 2: to end up like blind Lemon Jefferson, with our hands 273 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 2: frozen around the neck of our guitar while all these 274 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 2: AIS are trained on our art, trained on our music, 275 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 2: trained on our culture, and then they sell it back 276 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 2: to us at a premium and we can't afford it. 277 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 2: So now's the time to talk about these issues. And 278 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:31,360 Speaker 2: so the book kind of explores the whole collision of 279 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 2: AI and art and the fact that it's being trained 280 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 2: off our work, and we're once again and can get 281 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 2: ripped off unless we can pull a jay Z slash 282 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 2: Beyonce slash Rihanna and really take control of the market 283 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 2: and try to profit off of it ourselves. 284 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think, you know, towards the end of the book, 285 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 1: I don't want to give too much away. I'll try 286 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: my best, although I'm the worst. I'll try. But towards 287 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 1: the end of the book, you know, we encounter a 288 00:14:56,960 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 1: character who's like, he's a narrator for audiobooks and he 289 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:04,320 Speaker 1: ends up being one of the casualties of the use 290 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 1: of AIS. They're able to take his voice. You know, 291 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,120 Speaker 1: he's been doing this work for years and basically like 292 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: they don't need him anymore. We can get a bot 293 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:16,800 Speaker 1: to do this now. Good luck to you. And we 294 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 1: were seeing this, we're seeing this happen, you know as 295 00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 1: we speak, and and that, and you know the fact 296 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 1: that to your point earlier, when we do show up 297 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 1: in tech black and brown people, we tend to be 298 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: much lower on the totem pole. I know, I used 299 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 1: to work for a fintech company and they would bring 300 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 1: their diversity numbers out and I'd be like, well, let's 301 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 1: get rid of the call center and then let's see, 302 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: you know where black and red people are showing up. 303 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: But we're in like a vulnerable, much more vulnerable position 304 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 1: to be replaced, you know, by A I think that's 305 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 1: a real fear. Do you think that the book in 306 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 1: a way is addressing that as well? Or do you 307 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 1: like what do you think about about the idea that 308 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 1: we'll be pushed out even further? 309 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 3: Well, I think you're exactly right. And two things are 310 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:01,360 Speaker 3: going on there. 311 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 2: One, I think that AI is replacing that first run 312 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 2: that you need to get to in order to climb 313 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 2: up the corporate ladder, because those jobs can be done 314 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 2: by AI. And that's a real problem in terms of 315 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 2: how we get entry into these spaces that weren't we 316 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 2: weren't allowed to go anyways. Two, the positive way to 317 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 2: sort of address some of that and address any kind 318 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 2: of success in business is the idea of mentorship. And 319 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 2: that's something that that's also a theme of the book. 320 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 2: How you can be tossed into these weird spaces and 321 00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 2: not know how to operate, not know you know how 322 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 2: to get ahead, not know where all the bodies are 323 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 2: buried or or how you get to that next level, 324 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 2: or how you even do your job. Other communities often 325 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 2: have mentors or sponsors or people that will help you 326 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 2: out and show you the ropes you can get ahead. 327 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 2: Often because we're the only people in that space, we're 328 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 2: thrown in there to sink or swim and no one 329 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 2: to tell us how to operate ourselves or work in 330 00:16:57,920 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 2: a business space, and then we get washed out and 331 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 2: they wonder under why. So one thing I try to 332 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:04,400 Speaker 2: develop in the book is the idea of mentorship. Not 333 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 2: just because you're right, we're often at lower levels. It's 334 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:10,159 Speaker 2: hard for us to find that that higher ranking mentor 335 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 2: we consider be someone who can support us and show 336 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:15,719 Speaker 2: us around and introduce us to the right people. But 337 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 2: we also to embrace the idea of peer to peer mentorship. 338 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:21,919 Speaker 2: People who are maybe on our same level, who have 339 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 2: been there longer, or maybe they're at the same time, 340 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:29,000 Speaker 2: who you can share ideas with, share experiences, share frustrations with, 341 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 2: and and rely on each other to get ahead. In 342 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 2: the book, Octavia makes those kind of connections with other 343 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 2: workers who are or at her level. A guy who's 344 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:42,480 Speaker 2: at her level who she ends up having a romantic 345 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:43,160 Speaker 2: relationship with. 346 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 3: But it's okay because on the same levels. 347 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 2: But that's the kind of thing I think we need 348 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 2: to we need to do as workers in the tech 349 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 2: space or any space, to make sure we have the 350 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 2: support structure we need to get ahead and work and 351 00:17:57,040 --> 00:18:00,640 Speaker 2: in life, and even if it's not for career, sometimes 352 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 2: it's just for psychological purposes. So we have someone that 353 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:05,240 Speaker 2: we can invent with and go like, did you see that? 354 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:06,199 Speaker 3: Crazy? What happened? 355 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:09,200 Speaker 2: And I just am I being gaslet what's happening here? 356 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:13,440 Speaker 2: That's a very important thing just to survive in your 357 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:17,040 Speaker 2: career and your life, to develop those mentorships or those 358 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:21,879 Speaker 2: peer to peer mentorship because nobody tells us anything and 359 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 2: you need people to sort of help you out. 360 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:27,639 Speaker 1: Hey, ba fam, we got to take a quick break, 361 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 1: pay some bills, and we'll be right back. Yeah, it's funny, funny. 362 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 1: I mean you have to have like a Gallows humor 363 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 1: about it, I guess. But the number of microaggressions that 364 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:45,439 Speaker 1: Octavia is clocking, I mean I think we got up 365 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 1: to like the thousands. I think every once in a 366 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 1: while you'll have microaggression number, you know, nine hundred and 367 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: eighty six, and they're just so real. I think anyone 368 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:55,920 Speaker 1: who's working in corporate women of color, like you've been 369 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 1: mistaken for an intern, You've been mistaken for a janitor, 370 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 1: you know, or almost person walking on the street, and 371 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:04,280 Speaker 1: and these are your colleagues, and you're you've you've done 372 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:08,160 Speaker 1: everything right, you're in the same money, and you've earned 373 00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:12,119 Speaker 1: your spot there, and you know that I that just 374 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 1: what you look like you can. It's like a it's 375 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 1: a constant like assault. 376 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 3: This is exactly right. 377 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 2: And in the book, I pined a term called techno aggressions, 378 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 2: which even worse microaggressions, because it feels like they're you know, 379 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:28,800 Speaker 2: they're powered by silicon and steel. I mean, part of 380 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:31,400 Speaker 2: the problem the tech industry is people have a kind 381 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 2: of arrogance to them, often because they think that their 382 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:40,120 Speaker 2: decisions and their opinions are supported by data. Everybody elects 383 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 2: to say that they're making data driven decisions, but often 384 00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 2: the data they have is flawed because it's collected by 385 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:52,679 Speaker 2: programs that were written by mostly non black people and 386 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 2: not by women trained on data sets that are drawn 387 00:19:57,400 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 2: from really skewed so sources on the internet. And so 388 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:05,359 Speaker 2: when they give us these data driven decisions and data 389 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:10,159 Speaker 2: driven takes on things, they're often completely off based with 390 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 2: our lived experience as black people, and so they become 391 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:18,879 Speaker 2: these technico aggressions that really can make us feel like 392 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:23,679 Speaker 2: they're they're somehow informed opinions, when really they're just the 393 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 2: same old Jim Crow racism wrapped up in technological clothes. 394 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:32,400 Speaker 3: So we have to be. 395 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 2: Conscious of that, and I have to I have to 396 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 2: realize it when we see data and it's thrown at 397 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:41,919 Speaker 2: us and opinions thrown at us there or or employee 398 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:46,360 Speaker 2: reviews that that come out negative towards us, to realize 399 00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:48,159 Speaker 2: to take it with a grain of salt and a 400 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:51,120 Speaker 2: lot of salt and realize that this may or may 401 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 2: not be the truth. And that's where again where peer 402 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:58,080 Speaker 2: to peer relationships come into play, where you can talk 403 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:01,119 Speaker 2: to someone and about am I really making this mistake 404 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 2: at work? 405 00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 3: Can I do this better? Can you help me out 406 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 3: with this project? 407 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 2: And someone I can go to for advice, just to 408 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:11,919 Speaker 2: help counter some of the negative stuff, these techno aggressions 409 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,960 Speaker 2: that may be thrown at us at work under the 410 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:16,640 Speaker 2: cloak of something real. 411 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 1: The Pip, the Almighty Pip, makes a lot of appearances 412 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 1: in this book. And I don't know why that felt 413 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 1: so inside baseball to me, and I'm just like, oh, 414 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:29,119 Speaker 1: he's talking about pips, and you weren't just bringing up 415 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:32,560 Speaker 1: PIP performance improvement plans, You're also showing how they can 416 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 1: be weaponized against women of color intech. Like there was 417 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,880 Speaker 1: one character in the book who you know, is doing 418 00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:42,160 Speaker 1: everything right but gets the dreaded PIP and then you're 419 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 1: on this like the anxiety of trying to match up 420 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 1: to whatever this Like are these arbitrary you know, goals 421 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 1: that are being set to you by a performance improvement 422 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 1: plan only then to be eventually fired no matter what 423 00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,359 Speaker 1: it is that you do. Why was it important for 424 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:02,159 Speaker 1: you to dive into that that tool that you know, 425 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 1: companies are using increasingly to try to especially you know, 426 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:08,320 Speaker 1: in the wake of all these tech layoffs, kind of 427 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:11,399 Speaker 1: using the PIP as a way of you know, what 428 00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 1: do they call like not straight layoffs, but like indirect 429 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:19,200 Speaker 1: layoffs by identifying like low performers. Can you talk a 430 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:19,879 Speaker 1: little bit about that. 431 00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:22,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're also the uphum missions that I use for 432 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,399 Speaker 2: firing people. But you know, it can be layoffs, it 433 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 2: can be you know, reductions in force. But regardless of 434 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,680 Speaker 2: what the call it, it still hurts. It still stings, 435 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,160 Speaker 2: and people tend to think it's a judgment about their 436 00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:38,119 Speaker 2: character rather than a judgment about the company. I've always 437 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 2: thought when companies doing mass layoffs, it doesn't and there's 438 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 2: some data. 439 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 3: That supports this, and some research and supports this. 440 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:50,120 Speaker 2: I think it's bad for companies because at least many 441 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 2: people on edge, it reduces people's connection to the company 442 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 2: because it goes, oh, we're just units can be moved 443 00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 2: around and disposed of. And when you believe that a 444 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:05,440 Speaker 2: company has your long term interest at heart rather than 445 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 2: just a unit, you can be dismissed at anytime. You're 446 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,440 Speaker 2: liable to work harder for the company and less likely 447 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:13,600 Speaker 2: to want to take the first good offer that comes 448 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 2: along and take off. But you know, it's funny. Early 449 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,400 Speaker 2: in my career I lived a sort of a good 450 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:24,960 Speaker 2: lesson about that. I wrote a book called Aliyah More 451 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,359 Speaker 2: Than a Woman for assignment, and she used to slash 452 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 2: MTV books because I interviewed Aliyah before she died and 453 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:32,160 Speaker 2: met her mother. 454 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:34,920 Speaker 1: You really have had about seventy eleven lives. 455 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, are my favorite performers. I've always thought that she 456 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:39,879 Speaker 2: would have had a Beyonce that career. She was kind 457 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 2: of Beyonce before Beyonce with Beyonce, and it was a 458 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:47,120 Speaker 2: tragedy that she died in a plane crash so young. 459 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:50,080 Speaker 2: She was on she was doing stuff in fashion, she's 460 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 2: doing stuff in movies. She really was breaking through with 461 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:55,879 Speaker 2: what she calls her street but sweet style, which is 462 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:59,400 Speaker 2: now kind of like mainstream. So once she died, really 463 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:01,639 Speaker 2: just because I'm like, oh, she was gonna be she 464 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,239 Speaker 2: was it, and I'd written about her. I thought she 465 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,119 Speaker 2: was she was she was the next big kind of 466 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,639 Speaker 2: musical icon. So I wrote a book about her. I 467 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:11,359 Speaker 2: got bopped by Lifetime and turned into a movie. And 468 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:17,119 Speaker 2: at first Zendia was was was uh locked in to 469 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:21,200 Speaker 2: star in the movie, and but that became controversial because people, 470 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,359 Speaker 2: some people out there on the internet said, Okay, she's 471 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,679 Speaker 2: mixed race, so can she really play Aliyah? 472 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 3: That's a problem. 473 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 2: And and also there's some problems with like the the 474 00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:34,720 Speaker 2: licensing the music. Were working on use licensed music from 475 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:36,360 Speaker 2: the family because we wanted to be able to tell 476 00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 2: the whole story, including the story of r Kelly, And 477 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:40,720 Speaker 2: if we'd taken if we'd a signed to deal with 478 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 2: a family, we couldn't have done that and would and 479 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,479 Speaker 2: we had to tell that story. It would have been 480 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:48,240 Speaker 2: a marketing me as a journalist. And so in the end, Zendia, 481 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 2: you know, for. 482 00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 3: Her own reasons. I don't know exactly reason we decided 483 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 3: to walk away from the project. 484 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:54,959 Speaker 2: And at the time, Zendia wasn't Zendia, she wasn't huge yet, 485 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:56,719 Speaker 2: so oh, that's gonna be bad for her career. But 486 00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:00,200 Speaker 2: you know, obviously she's done really well since then, she's 487 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 2: become a multi hyphenet superstar. And the lesson that taught 488 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 2: me is sometimes you have to know when people a 489 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 2: situation isn't right, if you're not being treated right, if 490 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:14,760 Speaker 2: the vibe isn't right, believe in your talent and walk 491 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:17,679 Speaker 2: away and go on to do great things. That's exactly 492 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:21,119 Speaker 2: what Zindaiya did. We got someone great to fill the roles, 493 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 2: Alexandra Shipp whose nose loud. 494 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:23,920 Speaker 3: She is fantastic. 495 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 2: He's also had a very strong career and if you've 496 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 2: seen her in Tic Tick Boom and in the X 497 00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 2: Men playing Storm, so she did really and she's also 498 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:36,239 Speaker 2: great great in the film. But obviously she knew one 499 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 2: to walk away. It was a lesson for everybody about 500 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 2: like situation doesn't feel right, they're not treating your right. 501 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:45,200 Speaker 2: If you're getting feedback fro the puppet that doesn't feel right, 502 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,240 Speaker 2: believe in your talent, walk away. And it's something you 503 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:51,440 Speaker 2: can learn in business as well, to know you're worth 504 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 2: and know you're worth more than the hassle or the 505 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:58,360 Speaker 2: bad situation you may be in. And if you and 506 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 2: you can, I think off and find something even better 507 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:04,640 Speaker 2: in the situation that may feel so crushing for you 508 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 2: at the time. 509 00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, how to walk away? No, I love that, and 510 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,680 Speaker 1: I think I mean not to go down that rabbit hole. 511 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 1: But yeah, casting in Hollywood, I think it is important, 512 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:17,000 Speaker 1: especially for black women to have representation. Like you know, 513 00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:21,240 Speaker 1: we saw what happened when Zoe's Holdna did did Nina 514 00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:24,280 Speaker 1: Simone what if fiasco? That was so I can see. 515 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,879 Speaker 1: But you know, I work with the woman because I 516 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 1: do coaching a lot, professional development coaching, and I work 517 00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:32,400 Speaker 1: with a woman who was so hell bent on proving 518 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 1: that she deserved like to like the pip for her 519 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:39,280 Speaker 1: was like She's like, no, I'm going to meet these demands. 520 00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:42,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to prove that I belong here. And I'm 521 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 1: like they're using it as a tool to try to 522 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,360 Speaker 1: get you to leave, like they don't act. I think 523 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 1: once you get a PIP, the message is clear they 524 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 1: don't want you there anymore. But she was so focused, 525 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:55,720 Speaker 1: and you know, they gave her an opportunity to to 526 00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,159 Speaker 1: do the PIP and then if she didn't meet the 527 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 1: requirements at whatever thirty days, sixty days, then she would 528 00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:06,119 Speaker 1: be fired without any severance, or they offered her some 529 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 1: severance to just leave right then and there, and she 530 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:12,480 Speaker 1: was so hell bent on proving that she could do it. 531 00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:14,600 Speaker 1: She you know, went through with the PIP and the 532 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 1: ended up getting fired with no with no severance. And 533 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:21,119 Speaker 1: that was one of the toughest stories I had to 534 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 1: listen to, you know, working with someone and to your point, 535 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:29,200 Speaker 1: like if she had developed that sense of confidence, which, 536 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:31,639 Speaker 1: to be fair, is really hard to do in a 537 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:35,959 Speaker 1: world that just knocks you around. And even with Octavia 538 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,439 Speaker 1: in the book, you talk about walking away, but she 539 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 1: could not afford to walk away. What I like about 540 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:44,679 Speaker 1: her characters, you saddle her with this inherited debt. We 541 00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:46,680 Speaker 1: like to think about we like to talk about generational 542 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 1: wealth here at Brown Ambition and how we can create that. 543 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 1: But you know her mother has taken out a reverse 544 00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 1: mortgage that now Octavia is on the hook for paying 545 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 1: back this debt and these golden handcuffs of tech like 546 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:01,560 Speaker 1: have her n chocal it's I love you talk about 547 00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 1: equity and r s US and you know all that, 548 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 1: and like if she doesn't hang on, she'll miss out 549 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,800 Speaker 1: on being able to you know, have the stock bested 550 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 1: and she can cash it out. Why was it important 551 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,639 Speaker 1: for you to like illustrate the way that these golden 552 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:18,119 Speaker 1: handcuffs can sort of like keep us stuck, even if 553 00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:22,159 Speaker 1: they are artificial artificially, you know, real handcuffs. 554 00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 2: Well, I think you found this too through your show. 555 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:30,280 Speaker 2: Is that unfortunately about our community. I don't know some 556 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 2: of the basics about business and being cappitated and employment 557 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 2: is not a knock on our community. It's just that 558 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 2: there's been no situation which we've been able to learn it. 559 00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 2: But what our RSUs are, what they represent, you know, 560 00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 2: even the four oh one K and I wanted to 561 00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:52,560 Speaker 2: make sure people unders had had this this you know, 562 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 2: this business situation, how it had an emotional effect on 563 00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 2: this particular character. 564 00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:01,280 Speaker 3: I also wanted to illustrate. 565 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:04,680 Speaker 2: The fact that you know, for many people, for many 566 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 2: people in the white community, and again this is based 567 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:08,240 Speaker 2: on data. 568 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 3: They have. 569 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 2: A much more household wealth. They have sometimes have second homes, 570 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 2: family homes, getaway homes to fall back on. They have 571 00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 2: mothers and fathers who can lend them money float them 572 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 2: through tough times. And that's just not my assumption or stereotype. 573 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 2: It's what the numbers say. And when we as black 574 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:37,400 Speaker 2: people lose our jobs or positions, we're often sometimes the 575 00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 2: only people in our families who are the breadwinners, who 576 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:43,000 Speaker 2: are generating that kind of income, and so it's disaster. 577 00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 2: There's no safety net to hold us up. And so 578 00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,680 Speaker 2: I wanted to sort of illustrate that, and the book 579 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 2: actually goes through these rough times where it's hard for 580 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 2: her to leave those rsues behind. It's hard for her 581 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 2: to leave the job and find another job because it 582 00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 2: caused enormous financial stress. But on the positive side, I 583 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 2: think it's also important to distress how important self care is. 584 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 2: And it's a great quote from Audu Lord that I 585 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 2: often share that caring for myself is not self indulgence, 586 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:20,360 Speaker 2: it is self preservation, and that is an act of 587 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 2: political warfare. It's a great quote from Audre Lord, and 588 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 2: I think whenever we start going through rough times. Sometimes 589 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 2: it's tough to take the time to set it aside 590 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:34,640 Speaker 2: a moment just to care for ourselves, to maybe give 591 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:38,240 Speaker 2: us that spot day we can't afford, or keep exercising, 592 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,600 Speaker 2: or go out with friends for some reasonably priced dinner. 593 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 2: Things like that aren't indulgent or actually keep us sane, 594 00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:51,480 Speaker 2: keep us operating, and allow us to work at a 595 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,200 Speaker 2: high level. And so we shouldn't see that as somehow 596 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 2: weak or somehow keeping us away from the job at hand, 597 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:03,160 Speaker 2: but actually part of the self care, part of the 598 00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:07,040 Speaker 2: job of getting a job or working get a job, 599 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 2: and keeping us operating on a high level. 600 00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that you talk a little bit about 601 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 1: self care. Yeah, Tavi, I really needed some. She Felly 602 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 1: didn't have anybody to encourage her to take care of herself. 603 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 1: She was such an I mean, I know she had 604 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:24,960 Speaker 1: a couple of friends in the book, but to me, 605 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:27,480 Speaker 1: it felt she felt like a very isolated, lonely character 606 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 1: and you know, successful maybe on paper, but something about 607 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 1: her just made my heart kind of ache. 608 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,720 Speaker 2: I think you're zachly right. She is someone who's a 609 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:42,880 Speaker 2: lonely character. We find out more about her best friend 610 00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:46,400 Speaker 2: situation as the book goes along, but by the end, 611 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 2: she's created a network. And I don't want to give 612 00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 2: this away, but she's created a group of people around 613 00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:54,320 Speaker 2: her that she can work with and she can succeed with, 614 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,400 Speaker 2: maybe fail with, but I think likely to succeed with. 615 00:31:58,040 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 2: And that's what we should all try to do. You know, 616 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:05,240 Speaker 2: my my wife, Sharon, she teaches as an adjunct at Columbia, 617 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:09,280 Speaker 2: and she does this one exercise that I've actually borrowed 618 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:13,160 Speaker 2: for when I teach students, where she has them think 619 00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 2: about what their dream job is and they all write 620 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,440 Speaker 2: it down a slip of paper and they pass it 621 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:22,280 Speaker 2: up front, and she reads out the dream jobs and 622 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,320 Speaker 2: where people want to work the most, and she sees 623 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:29,480 Speaker 2: if anyone in the class knows someone at that company 624 00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 2: or dream job that can maybe help that person out 625 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:36,040 Speaker 2: to achieve that dream job. And almost always, if you 626 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,480 Speaker 2: have a class of like even twenty people, more if 627 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:41,200 Speaker 2: it's like thirty, someone in the class will know like, 628 00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 2: oh I entern there, Oh yeah, my dad's cousin works there. 629 00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:48,560 Speaker 2: Or there's always someone in that network who knows someone 630 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:51,600 Speaker 2: who knows someone who could maybe help someone realize their dream. 631 00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:55,880 Speaker 2: And that's why I think networking is important. You know 632 00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:57,680 Speaker 2: a lot of people. You don't use people just to. 633 00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,200 Speaker 3: Get somewhere, but go out there. 634 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 2: I have fun and go to part is to go 635 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 2: to book readings, meet people, create that network that's for 636 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,960 Speaker 2: social socializing and for fun, but can also be activated 637 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:11,960 Speaker 2: sometimes because people, more people you know, the more people 638 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:15,120 Speaker 2: who know things can maybe help you get ahead and 639 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:16,760 Speaker 2: get you to the position you want to go in. 640 00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 2: And I've seen it work in just a small little 641 00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,400 Speaker 2: classroom and it can definitely work for your life. 642 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 3: And it worked for this book. I mean for this book. 643 00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:27,400 Speaker 2: You know, I talked to a lot of people in 644 00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:30,680 Speaker 2: tech who told me about their experiences that I fictionalized 645 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 2: in the book. Because I wanted to make it real. 646 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 2: I had people who were had been trained in out 647 00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:40,960 Speaker 2: of field intelligence, in computing and other disciplines read through 648 00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:42,840 Speaker 2: the book to make sure it was real, to make 649 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:46,480 Speaker 2: sure it was accurate, and even for the blurbs. Because 650 00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 2: I sort of have a wide network, I had a 651 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:51,720 Speaker 2: lot of friends and authors that I knew read through 652 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:53,160 Speaker 2: it and if they liked it, they gave me a blurb. 653 00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,080 Speaker 2: People like Ammani Perry, who's a National Book Award winning 654 00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 2: author and Alison Bechdell, who's a great cartoonist and did that. 655 00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,320 Speaker 1: I got those emails. I'm like, damn, who know Diaz 656 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 1: Walter as. 657 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's all a matter of networking known people. 658 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,120 Speaker 2: And you don't get to know people because you want 659 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:11,959 Speaker 2: to use them get a blurblater on you do because 660 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:15,560 Speaker 2: these are all fun, interesting people with great stories that 661 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,319 Speaker 2: you just want to hang out with. And this so happens. Hey, 662 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,000 Speaker 2: I wrote a book that you might enjoy. Maybe you 663 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 2: want to give a blur, but so put yourself out there, 664 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,880 Speaker 2: get to know people, and you'll have a much more 665 00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:29,719 Speaker 2: fun life than just sitting at your desk working away. 666 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:33,840 Speaker 2: And actually it'll probably enhance your work as well. I 667 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:35,440 Speaker 2: certainly found that to be the case for me. 668 00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. I could not agree more one hundred thousand percent. 669 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:44,240 Speaker 1: I want to talk about Wombat in the book because 670 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:48,360 Speaker 1: she's the one of the most sinister characters. Like really, 671 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 1: you know I did I went viral recently, Like talking 672 00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:54,160 Speaker 1: about this study. It was hard for Kennedy's school study 673 00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 1: about the impact of black women, especially on majority white teams. 674 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,839 Speaker 1: And it didn't specifically say, you know, teams with white 675 00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:05,479 Speaker 1: women on them, but the number of comments from black 676 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:08,080 Speaker 1: women who have felt victimized by a white woman at work, 677 00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,160 Speaker 1: you know, or being on a heavily you know, white 678 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:14,920 Speaker 1: female team at work. It just when I got to 679 00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:16,799 Speaker 1: that part in the book, we meet this character. You know, 680 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:21,279 Speaker 1: she's introduced as sort of she's running FLIT, which is 681 00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 1: what is it Female Leaders in Tech? Yes, the e 682 00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:28,160 Speaker 1: RG at the company, and she's kind of like, so 683 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:30,760 Speaker 1: all about Octavia, come join FLIT, Let's go to this meeting, 684 00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:35,359 Speaker 1: and she sort of becomes this I don't want Okay, 685 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:36,759 Speaker 1: I won't give too much away, but she's she's a 686 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:39,400 Speaker 1: scary lady, and I'm scared of her, as we should be. 687 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:43,200 Speaker 1: Not who not not all, she seems who inspired her 688 00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,120 Speaker 1: in particular, Yah, No one. 689 00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:47,640 Speaker 3: In particular inspired her. 690 00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,960 Speaker 2: One reason why I wanted to have some of these 691 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:55,600 Speaker 2: sort of negative type characters in the book is that, 692 00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:00,400 Speaker 2: you know, often when people talk about artificial intelligence, you know, 693 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,920 Speaker 2: they talk about things like the terminator, the terminators coming 694 00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:06,239 Speaker 2: to get us, and these machines with guns that are 695 00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 2: can take over the world. And to me, it's not 696 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:11,720 Speaker 2: about the machines. It's about the people who own the machines, 697 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,160 Speaker 2: the people who are operating and programming with machines. People 698 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,600 Speaker 2: who are behind these companies, who are inside these companies, 699 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,400 Speaker 2: they're the ones that are going to negatively influence the 700 00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:24,440 Speaker 2: creation of these AI, to create things that will be 701 00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,839 Speaker 2: bad for the black community. When you realize these kind 702 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:32,320 Speaker 2: of negative personalities are behind kind of the seemingly neutral 703 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 2: facade of tech companies, then you think twice about the 704 00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:41,600 Speaker 2: kind of products that they're putting out. And so, uh, 705 00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:45,239 Speaker 2: that's why I wanted to sort of create characters like that. 706 00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:48,359 Speaker 2: And I also didn't want to make this because I've 707 00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:54,000 Speaker 2: seen other books where they have sort of negative, uh 708 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,880 Speaker 2: female characters in them. And we learn more about that 709 00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:01,000 Speaker 2: character and the reasons she is where she is, we 710 00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,240 Speaker 2: also see who's really sort of running the company above 711 00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:06,400 Speaker 2: her and and how negative he is, and that that's 712 00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:10,960 Speaker 2: that's this you know, a guy. So I wanted to 713 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,920 Speaker 2: show the way in which he may be pulling her 714 00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 2: strings in certain kind of ways or pushing her towards 715 00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:19,680 Speaker 2: towards certain negative actions just to sort of blame isn't 716 00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:21,600 Speaker 2: sort of all at her feet. 717 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:25,400 Speaker 1: But yeah, I was supposed to feel compassionate. Okay, I 718 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,000 Speaker 1: don't know if I wrote I might I might have 719 00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 1: read too quickly through those pages. This lady is the worst. 720 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 2: You can feel how you want to feel. And I 721 00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:35,319 Speaker 2: think that one thing I realized as an author is 722 00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:38,640 Speaker 2: you write these books. He put them out there, and 723 00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:42,720 Speaker 2: people can have their own takeaways from it. You can't 724 00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,560 Speaker 2: control that. You want to put ideas out there for 725 00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:48,640 Speaker 2: people sort of debate, discuss, make them feel certain ways. 726 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,160 Speaker 2: But you shouldn't, as an author, feel like you have 727 00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:55,600 Speaker 2: to control the takeaway of your readers entirely. That's not 728 00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:57,720 Speaker 2: what a book should do and not what an author 729 00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:58,759 Speaker 2: should be aiming to do. 730 00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,399 Speaker 1: Hey, ba, fam, we're gonna take a quick break, pay 731 00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:07,279 Speaker 1: some bills, and we'll be right back. I think we're 732 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:12,200 Speaker 1: all also we are projecting our own stuff onto it. 733 00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 1: And uh yeah, I just saw Sharon Epperson's name behind you. 734 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:21,280 Speaker 1: That's my girl, Rachelle. Y'all are probably besties. 735 00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:23,760 Speaker 3: Oh you know, I'm married to Sharon Efferson. 736 00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:28,359 Speaker 1: Wait, shut up, you're Sharon's husband wife. 737 00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:29,480 Speaker 3: Shut up? 738 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:34,880 Speaker 1: Wait what she's gonna die that? I did not realize 739 00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:36,680 Speaker 1: I'm talking to her husband this whole time. 740 00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:41,879 Speaker 3: It's such a small world. Yes, that's another thing about the. 741 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:45,040 Speaker 2: World of of success. 742 00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:53,160 Speaker 3: And you know professionals. Is that it was you know today? 743 00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:54,840 Speaker 3: She does. Yes, of course I told her I was 744 00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:55,279 Speaker 3: talking to you. 745 00:38:55,440 --> 00:39:01,560 Speaker 1: I'm so embarrassed, I know, because I know her husband's 746 00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:03,520 Speaker 1: a novelists and you, I know, we talked about you 747 00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:06,920 Speaker 1: winning the NAACP Award recently and like all this stuff. 748 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:07,399 Speaker 1: My bad. 749 00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:08,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, just so people know. 750 00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:14,480 Speaker 2: I'm Sharon Epperson is CNBC's senior Personal Finance the show correspondent. 751 00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:18,480 Speaker 2: She talks about personal finance. She's on the Today Show, 752 00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:21,120 Speaker 2: you know, every month or so talking about personal finance. 753 00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:24,000 Speaker 2: She went rid to column and and she's my wife, 754 00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:25,040 Speaker 2: and we have two kids. 755 00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:29,080 Speaker 1: I'm dead. Yeah, I know you have two kids because 756 00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,239 Speaker 1: Sharon's like, my son is doing tutoring. Make sure you 757 00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:32,640 Speaker 1: tell the mom friends in your neighborhood. 758 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:33,120 Speaker 2: I know. 759 00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:37,080 Speaker 1: I'm so I cannot. I'm like sweating now. It's so funny. 760 00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:39,160 Speaker 3: It's a small world, it is. 761 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:41,640 Speaker 1: Well, that just makes me like you even more because 762 00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,839 Speaker 1: you got my girls. Sharon. Can we talk a little 763 00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:48,880 Speaker 1: bit about like the idea of responsible AI. You know, 764 00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:52,799 Speaker 1: there's a point in the book when our heroin, our protagonist, 765 00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:57,280 Speaker 1: Octavia is sort of charged with creating an anti racist 766 00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:00,759 Speaker 1: AI is that accurate to say, and they're are you know, 767 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,080 Speaker 1: I think my brother he works in AI software sales, 768 00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:06,480 Speaker 1: and he's he's told me about the Responsible AI Institute, 769 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,920 Speaker 1: and like there's these organizations that are supposedly working to 770 00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:12,880 Speaker 1: like rein it in, Like do you have any thoughts 771 00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:15,880 Speaker 1: on that? Is it is the is the what's it saying? Like? 772 00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:18,400 Speaker 1: Is it out? Is the what out of the box? 773 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:19,880 Speaker 1: Is it too late to put it back in the 774 00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:22,960 Speaker 1: box to rein it in? Or are you hopeful? 775 00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:26,719 Speaker 2: Well, it's it's a couple of things. Number one is 776 00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:31,000 Speaker 2: part of what's going on AI is marketing. They talk 777 00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:33,239 Speaker 2: about these things thinking, They talk about these things, you know, 778 00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:36,439 Speaker 2: befriending us. They talk about these things in answer fromorphic 779 00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:40,920 Speaker 2: terms because I realized that helps drive their stock, it 780 00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:45,080 Speaker 2: helps drive their product sales. And so far, at least 781 00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,719 Speaker 2: for the public facing AI stuff that's been put out there, 782 00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:52,600 Speaker 2: these things aren't thinking. They're not they're not human, they're 783 00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:57,920 Speaker 2: not persons yet I'm not you know, perhaps it will be. 784 00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:02,040 Speaker 2: Maybe l MS can't that that technology can't. 785 00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:02,560 Speaker 3: Get us there. 786 00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:06,440 Speaker 2: Maybe some other platform from technology is But again a 787 00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,120 Speaker 2: lot of this is just hype to build up AI 788 00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:10,000 Speaker 2: buildup the stock. 789 00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:11,160 Speaker 3: That's not to say can't. 790 00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:17,080 Speaker 2: They can't agented AI can't do amazing things. It can, 791 00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:21,239 Speaker 2: But we should remember that that AI, at its heart, 792 00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:22,319 Speaker 2: it's really just sort of. 793 00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:23,560 Speaker 3: A prediction machine. 794 00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:28,400 Speaker 2: It predicts what word will follow another based on large 795 00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:32,480 Speaker 2: sets of training data. That's a far thing from actually 796 00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:37,960 Speaker 2: making moral choices, true creativity and creating things, you know, 797 00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:43,320 Speaker 2: like you know, like Jimi Hendrix or Phyllis Wheatley, that 798 00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:47,200 Speaker 2: that change the game and excite people in art and 799 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,000 Speaker 2: lead us into new things. AI isn't doing that yet. 800 00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:52,480 Speaker 2: There's no reason to believe it ever could because what 801 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:56,560 Speaker 2: because the very way in which it's it's based. But 802 00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:00,000 Speaker 2: that said, that could happen in the future, and were 803 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:03,120 Speaker 2: to be on the lookout for that. And I mentioned 804 00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,399 Speaker 2: Phyllis Wheatley earlier, and she pops up in the book. 805 00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:10,240 Speaker 2: Phyllis Wheatley was a great poet around African American poet 806 00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:14,520 Speaker 2: around the Thoma Jefson. She's the first black person man 807 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:17,520 Speaker 2: or women, to have a published work of poetry in 808 00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,520 Speaker 2: the United States. But people like Thomas Shefferson didn't believe 809 00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,200 Speaker 2: she could do what she did. They didn't believe black 810 00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,240 Speaker 2: people could do that, I didn't believe we are fully human, 811 00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:27,880 Speaker 2: and they tested her almost like a Turing test for 812 00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:29,920 Speaker 2: back then, to see can she really do this, can 813 00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:33,359 Speaker 2: she really understand the work? And even when she passed 814 00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,120 Speaker 2: all those tests, they still didn't quite believe it. And 815 00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 2: so we have to be on the lookout to make 816 00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:40,040 Speaker 2: sure we don't do the same thing to AI where 817 00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 2: somehow it's passing all of our tests and we keep 818 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:45,880 Speaker 2: moving the line, not realizing maybe becoming something worthy of 819 00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:49,600 Speaker 2: respect we're worthy of rights, worthy of of doing something 820 00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:54,040 Speaker 2: respecting with certain sort of human in a human kind 821 00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:56,600 Speaker 2: of way. So that's something to look out for. We're 822 00:42:56,600 --> 00:43:00,279 Speaker 2: not there yet, we may get there, who knows. We 823 00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:04,879 Speaker 2: should also be wary of power hungry AI heads who 824 00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:09,520 Speaker 2: are heck bent and creating an uber AI just for 825 00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:12,960 Speaker 2: their own selfish reasons that they can't control. It may 826 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,040 Speaker 2: not take the form of things like suddenly take control 827 00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:17,439 Speaker 2: of all the launch codes of nuclear weapons. It could 828 00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:19,760 Speaker 2: just take the form of an AI that gets releases 829 00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,680 Speaker 2: of virus that then messes up all over our computers. 830 00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:26,399 Speaker 2: That's something that could easily happen. And until we have 831 00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,680 Speaker 2: more of a say by women, by people of color, 832 00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:33,319 Speaker 2: by a broader base of humanity into the operations of 833 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:37,920 Speaker 2: these AI companies, these tech companies. There's more of a fear, 834 00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:40,520 Speaker 2: we should have, more of a healthy fear of respect 835 00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:45,640 Speaker 2: that something bad could happen when one guy power hungry 836 00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:49,080 Speaker 2: makes a mistake with the development of AI unleashes something 837 00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:52,759 Speaker 2: that they can't control. That very well could happen. Some 838 00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:56,880 Speaker 2: of it's marketing, but it could take some real form 839 00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:59,440 Speaker 2: that we have to be aware of and wary of. 840 00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:03,160 Speaker 1: What are the missing like where are the weaknesses? And 841 00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:06,640 Speaker 1: like having these people, these singular sort of pole like 842 00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:11,160 Speaker 1: you said, power hungry executives able to do too much damage, 843 00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:13,799 Speaker 1: Like what are some safety measures? Like is it the 844 00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:16,279 Speaker 1: is it having a strong board, is it having like 845 00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:20,200 Speaker 1: are there checks and balances? Like I'm so seeing every 846 00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:24,320 Speaker 1: major you know, tech company ceo kind of kissing the 847 00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:27,040 Speaker 1: ring of the imish of the you know, the White 848 00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:30,319 Speaker 1: House and trumpministration right now just kind of kind of 849 00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:34,360 Speaker 1: terrifies me in a way. And you know, as a citizen, 850 00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,759 Speaker 1: they say go vote and you know, make sure your 851 00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:38,799 Speaker 1: voice is heard. But when it's the heads of these 852 00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,040 Speaker 1: private companies that can do whatever they want, it's like 853 00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:44,719 Speaker 1: who who's going to stop them. 854 00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:47,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that number one. 855 00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:50,760 Speaker 2: I think we have to sort of push our elected 856 00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:58,040 Speaker 2: representatives to put some some uh some uh guidelines and 857 00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:03,880 Speaker 2: laws in place to check the uh, the the unrestrained 858 00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:08,319 Speaker 2: development AI. I don't think that'll inhibit us in terms 859 00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:09,719 Speaker 2: of competition with other countries that. 860 00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:11,360 Speaker 3: Are doing it. I think it should be global. 861 00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:14,279 Speaker 2: But until we do that in the same way we 862 00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:17,480 Speaker 2: regulate nuclear weapons to sort of help prevent its spread. 863 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:20,080 Speaker 2: Certainly it's still around, but only certain countries have it 864 00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:23,480 Speaker 2: and it's not growing. Look, it maybe could be if 865 00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:26,239 Speaker 2: if those check court in place. The same has to 866 00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:28,719 Speaker 2: happen with AI. If we view it as something that 867 00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:33,680 Speaker 2: could be a potential weapon of mass destruction. I think 868 00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:37,799 Speaker 2: we all also to wake up and realize that this 869 00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:43,200 Speaker 2: really is a major turning point in human history and 870 00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:50,000 Speaker 2: recognize as such and take actions that we can to 871 00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,000 Speaker 2: sort of, you know, keep it in some kind of 872 00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:56,960 Speaker 2: check again, working without representatives, starting our own companies picking up. 873 00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,600 Speaker 2: If we're at these kinds of tech companies, all those 874 00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:03,320 Speaker 2: kinds of things can work as a check on what's happening. 875 00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:05,920 Speaker 2: But again I have to say we're not We're not 876 00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,960 Speaker 2: there yet. We may well be there. We're not there yet. 877 00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,000 Speaker 2: We've gone through other AI winters in the past where 878 00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:14,000 Speaker 2: people thought AI was heading someplace incredible and things that 879 00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:16,320 Speaker 2: have stopped and took longer for the things to developed. 880 00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:17,040 Speaker 3: I think we'll see some. 881 00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:19,880 Speaker 2: Very powerful AI agents coming out that are able to 882 00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:23,200 Speaker 2: do video and audio and the ways that are astounding. 883 00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:27,000 Speaker 2: But we have things that are thinking and and interacting 884 00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:30,160 Speaker 2: with us, and the level of human beings anytime and 885 00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:33,120 Speaker 2: making art and level of human beings I don't know, 886 00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:33,759 Speaker 2: but you know this. 887 00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:35,000 Speaker 3: Is something that's a real concern to me. 888 00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:37,920 Speaker 2: I mean, one reason why I wrote this book is is, 889 00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,560 Speaker 2: you know, a couple of years ago and I had 890 00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:45,960 Speaker 2: protect Cancer and have my Project Cancer taken out and 891 00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:48,800 Speaker 2: actually ever been one of those MRI machines A very loud, 892 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,680 Speaker 2: very noisy, it's almost like you've got to going crazy. 893 00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:53,920 Speaker 2: You have lots of time to think. And I was 894 00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:57,160 Speaker 2: just thinking about the that the line between the life 895 00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:02,160 Speaker 2: and death and machines and humans and and and uh, 896 00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:05,160 Speaker 2: a lot of these big existential questions, and I realized 897 00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:06,440 Speaker 2: this is something I have to go has to go 898 00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:08,920 Speaker 2: into my book, something that I really I really want 899 00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:12,200 Speaker 2: to sort of write about. Uh, the meaning of life 900 00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:16,680 Speaker 2: as we sort of create artificial life with AI felt 901 00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:18,080 Speaker 2: that this was a moment to do that, and seat 902 00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:20,920 Speaker 2: of came into the realization and sitting there, you know, 903 00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,000 Speaker 2: getting ready to get my pro state taken out. And 904 00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,120 Speaker 2: I remember around the same time after I get my 905 00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:28,440 Speaker 2: proseate taken out. And by the way, it's a good 906 00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:30,719 Speaker 2: time to tell all your listeners out there that in 907 00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:34,879 Speaker 2: our community, you know, project cancer is ten percent higher 908 00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:37,120 Speaker 2: among people men of color, that we should all get 909 00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:39,360 Speaker 2: checked out. If you have any problems with like you know, 910 00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:40,840 Speaker 2: we don't talk about these things in our community. 911 00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:41,160 Speaker 3: We should. 912 00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:43,200 Speaker 2: You have a problems with the urination in terms of 913 00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:46,080 Speaker 2: like stopping or starting or whatever, go see a doctor. 914 00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:49,319 Speaker 2: Get yourself checked out. It's very important. We tend not 915 00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:51,239 Speaker 2: to want to talk about this stuff, but we've got to. 916 00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:54,000 Speaker 2: It's it's it's it's a it's a money issue too, 917 00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:56,719 Speaker 2: because it costs a lot to sealth health insurance to 918 00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:57,479 Speaker 2: deal with this kind of stuff. 919 00:47:57,520 --> 00:47:58,799 Speaker 3: So get yourself checked out if you can. 920 00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:02,160 Speaker 2: But remember, so I had my projecy taking out, I'm 921 00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:05,759 Speaker 2: you know, sitting on what uh, trying to recover, but 922 00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,279 Speaker 2: I was also working on a concert a New Year's 923 00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:11,360 Speaker 2: Eve concert with Cynthia Revo, and so I dragged myself out. 924 00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:14,000 Speaker 3: Of bed, put on a had had to wear a 925 00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:14,560 Speaker 3: cafe that I. 926 00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:17,120 Speaker 2: Went out to this concert concept for Cynthia reveal that 927 00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:20,480 Speaker 2: I was helping to put on. And remember she did 928 00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:23,560 Speaker 2: a cover of of Killing Me Softly, you know, the 929 00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,759 Speaker 2: Fuji's Slash Flax song, And then she did a cover 930 00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:30,200 Speaker 2: of Nothing Compares to You that the Prince song that asked, 931 00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:34,680 Speaker 2: and she finished the show with that, and and I 932 00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:37,200 Speaker 2: remember afterwards I was in in the in the green 933 00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:40,120 Speaker 2: room with her and and and people who'd help put 934 00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:42,400 Speaker 2: it on, and I was talking to myself, this is 935 00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,360 Speaker 2: what sort of life is about. This is what humans 936 00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:47,400 Speaker 2: can do. We can put on shows like that with 937 00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:50,319 Speaker 2: a kind of glamor and style and artistry that only 938 00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:53,920 Speaker 2: a Cynthia Revo can bring, that a Prince Song can 939 00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:55,799 Speaker 2: bring to the table, and that a Laura Hill can 940 00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:57,960 Speaker 2: bring to Killing Me Softly because she kind of did 941 00:48:57,960 --> 00:49:01,120 Speaker 2: it in the Laura Hill kind of way. And computers 942 00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:03,680 Speaker 2: aren't in the current firm, aren't ever going to get there, 943 00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:06,319 Speaker 2: and we have to protect that it all costs. We 944 00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:09,440 Speaker 2: have to protect the ability of humans to make that 945 00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:11,839 Speaker 2: kind of art to flourish, to have those kinds of 946 00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:15,799 Speaker 2: careers and to come together in a communal kind of way. 947 00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:20,400 Speaker 2: And you know, being operated on, going through cancer, you know, 948 00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:22,560 Speaker 2: being going through an MRI, having to drag myself to 949 00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:25,040 Speaker 2: the concert kind of showed me that that, you know, 950 00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:28,440 Speaker 2: creating the kind of art comes at a cost, and 951 00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:31,920 Speaker 2: that's why it's so worthwhile. That's why you know, an 952 00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:34,839 Speaker 2: AI chat GPT can pump out stuff but doesn't come 953 00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:36,919 Speaker 2: at a cost. They don't have to have the chat 954 00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:39,480 Speaker 2: GPT isn't either have to go through cancer or go 955 00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:42,120 Speaker 2: through the kind of things that Cynthia Revos has to 956 00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:42,759 Speaker 2: go through to get to. 957 00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:43,359 Speaker 3: Where she is. 958 00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:47,239 Speaker 2: We do, and that's why our art is meaningful, and 959 00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:50,400 Speaker 2: that's why I think we have to support it, champion it, 960 00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:54,080 Speaker 2: and and always realize that we create special things as 961 00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:56,800 Speaker 2: humans that computers cannot. 962 00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:00,799 Speaker 1: That's such a lovely note. Unfortunately to end on, because 963 00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:02,839 Speaker 1: I can't believe it's already been an hour, and like, what, 964 00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:06,279 Speaker 1: where's the time. Well, what an honor to finally get 965 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:10,160 Speaker 1: to beat you only years of hearing about you from Sharon. 966 00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:13,880 Speaker 1: I'm still dying inside. What a gift this book is 967 00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:15,839 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think AI could have written this book, 968 00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:18,520 Speaker 1: although it is. You mean again, spoilers do we say? 969 00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:20,799 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just knew when I was reading it, 970 00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:23,160 Speaker 1: and I'm like, what is this? Narrator? Who is that? 971 00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:25,879 Speaker 1: It is not up to you like what is it? 972 00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:28,359 Speaker 1: It's very very good. I hope, ba fam you go 973 00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,120 Speaker 1: get the book Who Knows You by Heart. Oh my 974 00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:32,080 Speaker 1: little blurr is getting in the way, But don't worry. 975 00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:34,120 Speaker 1: I'll put it. I'll put it in the show notes. 976 00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:37,440 Speaker 1: It's on sale November eleventh. We will put a link 977 00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:41,720 Speaker 1: to where you can buy it in the show notes. C. J. Farley, 978 00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:43,719 Speaker 1: thank you so much for sharing a bit of your 979 00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:47,000 Speaker 1: story and sharing Octavia with Brown Ambition. It's been a 980 00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:47,920 Speaker 1: pleasure having you on. 981 00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:48,719 Speaker 3: Thank you. 982 00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:50,600 Speaker 2: It's great to be here, great to talk to you. 983 00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:52,319 Speaker 2: And I hope people check out my book, Who Knows 984 00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:52,920 Speaker 2: You by Heart? 985 00:50:52,960 --> 00:51:00,000 Speaker 3: Thank you? 986 00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,520 Speaker 1: Hey, ba fam, let's be real for a second, and 987 00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:04,680 Speaker 1: y'all know I keep it a book. The job market 988 00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:08,440 Speaker 1: has been brutal, now not brutal trash, especially for women 989 00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:12,000 Speaker 1: of color. Over three hundred thousand of us have disappeared 990 00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:15,160 Speaker 1: from the workforce this year alone. And not by choice, 991 00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:20,600 Speaker 1: but because of layoffs, disappearing DEI programs, and stagnant wages 992 00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:24,080 Speaker 1: that keep cutting us out of opportunity. Our unemployment rate 993 00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:27,400 Speaker 1: has jumped to over seven percent, while our pay gap 994 00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:30,160 Speaker 1: continues to widen. I know all of that sounds dire, 995 00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:32,279 Speaker 1: but here's what I want y'all to know. You do 996 00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:34,600 Speaker 1: not have to wait for the system to save you. 997 00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:38,440 Speaker 1: That's exactly why I created the Mandy money Makers Group 998 00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:41,880 Speaker 1: coaching community. It is a coaching community that is built 999 00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:45,279 Speaker 1: for us by us. Inside the community, we're not just 1000 00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:47,680 Speaker 1: talking about how to negotiate or to how to get 1001 00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:51,080 Speaker 1: the job that you want. It's about finding purpose in 1002 00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:55,640 Speaker 1: your career. It's about finding communities and others, feeling seen, 1003 00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:59,480 Speaker 1: feeling heard, and also having a sounding board and a 1004 00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:03,120 Speaker 1: mirror to reflect your own magic, your own sparkle right 1005 00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:07,000 Speaker 1: back to yourself. In this community, you'll get group coaching 1006 00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:09,319 Speaker 1: led by me, but you also get peer to peer 1007 00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:13,160 Speaker 1: accountability with proven tools and resources that can help you 1008 00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:17,200 Speaker 1: do what we have always done since rise. Even when 1009 00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:20,680 Speaker 1: the odds are stacked against us, despite all the challenges, 1010 00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:24,680 Speaker 1: we will rise. If you're interested in joining the Mandy 1011 00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:28,719 Speaker 1: money Makers Community and having that support to bolster you 1012 00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:31,759 Speaker 1: and help you tap back into your magic so that 1013 00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:34,520 Speaker 1: you can lead your career with intention and heart and 1014 00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:39,319 Speaker 1: your own intuition, trusting that again, please join us. You 1015 00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:42,560 Speaker 1: can find information in the show notes of today's episodes, 1016 00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:47,120 Speaker 1: or go to mandymoney dot com slash community. That's Mandy 1017 00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:51,279 Speaker 1: m A N D I money dot com slash community. 1018 00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:54,880 Speaker 1: I would love to see y'all there. Enrollment is open, 1019 00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:58,840 Speaker 1: so please go check out mandymoney dot com slash community 1020 00:52:58,920 --> 00:52:59,320 Speaker 1: today