1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: Levels to This is an iHeart women's sports production in 2 00:00:03,080 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 1: partnership with Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment. You can find 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 1: us on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you 4 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: get your podcasts. 5 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 2: Hey, everybody, what's going on? It's your girl, Sarrica Fostor Brasby. 6 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 3: What up, y'all? 7 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 4: Is your girl? 8 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 3: Cheryl's swoop hey? And this is the levels to this. 9 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 2: This is the show where we talk about all the 10 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 2: levels to the ship that women go through. 11 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 3: And when I tell you, we've. 12 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 2: Been going through some shit over the last couple of weeks, 13 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:37,599 Speaker 2: but definitely over the weekend. It's been a lot going on, 14 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:42,240 Speaker 2: but I'm excited to be here Cheryl, Like, how how 15 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 2: is everything going on with you? 16 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 3: We actually got a chance to kick it this week. 17 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 2: As you know, how how have things been since I 18 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:50,639 Speaker 2: last saw you? 19 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: Well, listen, I'm always excited to see you, sis, because 20 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 1: it's always a good time, great weekend, Good to see 21 00:00:58,320 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: you as always. 22 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 3: So my weekend was was good. 23 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 1: I got to speak on the panel at afro Tech, 24 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:10,960 Speaker 1: which was really cool. But my husband decided he wanted 25 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 1: to go into the city and so we had a 26 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: little staycation. You got to you got to meet my man, 27 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 1: he got to meet you, and. 28 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 3: It was good. 29 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 1: But sis, woo, child, dogs are dogs are different. 30 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 2: Now, you told me that because the staycation was impromptu, 31 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 2: it was you had to put your babies in a 32 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 2: in a pet resort. Yeah, which is a beaudiful resort. 33 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 3: They like, they love the resort. Well, you know. 34 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 1: So he decided on Friday after work, like, let's go 35 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 1: into the city. So I'm like, all right, great, but 36 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 1: you do know I have we not I we have 37 00:01:57,720 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: two dogs. What am I gonna do with the dogs? 38 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: And so he said, well, just call the resort. I'm like, great, 39 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 1: but it doesn't work like that. Like I got to 40 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: make sure they got space all the things. 41 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 3: So uh huh they did. 42 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 1: Then she calls me back and says two of their 43 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: vaccines had expired, so they will not let you stay 44 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: if your vaccines aren't up today. 45 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 3: So I'm like, well, so much for that. 46 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: She called back and said, oh, but they have their 47 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: raby so you can go to tractor supply, you can 48 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: buy them. We can administ them here. So I did 49 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: all of that right, get them there. Great weekend. So 50 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 1: on my way home, I'm like, I got to pick 51 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 1: up my dogs. 52 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 3: So stop by. They gave them a bath. I get my. 53 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: Girl dog Queen, put her in the car. Girl, she 54 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 1: just losing her damn mind, like. 55 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 3: What are we doing? 56 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 1: No, first of all, she didn't want to go, but 57 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: then after being there for the weekend, I put her 58 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 1: in the car and she is like just running all 59 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: over the damn car. And my husband's like, girl, if 60 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 1: you don't sit your ass down, down, So I put 61 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: her in the car so I can go. The boy 62 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 1: dog right, and Slim is he's a mama's boy, so 63 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 1: he's like, thank you, where have you been? 64 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 3: All mad at me? I get him put him in 65 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 3: the car. As I'm putting him in the. 66 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: Car, she decides she gonna jump her happy ass out 67 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: the car. 68 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 3: So she jumps out the car. 69 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 4: Girl, I have a ran in years. 70 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:23,239 Speaker 3: Here. 71 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: I am running around the damn parking lot to get 72 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 1: my dog. 73 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 3: I'm like, girl, come on. 74 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: So two of the ladies who work at the pet resort, 75 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 1: they had to come outside and they're calling her like, way, quay, 76 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 1: come here. 77 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 3: Girl. 78 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: She starts running towards them and looks at him like, no, 79 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: y'all not about to trick me. I spent thirty minutes 80 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: running around the parking lot trying to get my dog 81 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: to put her in the car. 82 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 2: Mind you, your boy dog is like this bitch, crazy facts. 83 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 1: Girl. He just laying there like you deal with that 84 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 1: because I'm going home and if she don't want to come, 85 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: let's just leave it now. 86 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 3: Mind you. 87 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: Not only my boy dog, my husband is in a car. 88 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: And he was like, girl, if you don't get your 89 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: ass in this car, we going home and you gonna 90 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: find you a new home. 91 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 2: About You're about to go from the pet resort to 92 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 2: the adoption center if you do not hurry him. 93 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 3: Listen. 94 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: I don't know if you could hear in my voice 95 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 1: when I called you, I was like, Sis, I need 96 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: about thirty more minutes because you didn't tell me you 97 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: were chasing your I'm struggling right now. So I finally 98 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 1: get her in a car I'm driving, but still she's 99 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: just just hyper girl. We get home, I opened the 100 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:40,840 Speaker 1: door and she she jumps out starts running around the 101 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 1: yard like. 102 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 4: Chad. 103 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 3: I listen, dog, did they give her? Seriously? 104 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: I called them, I said, to y'all give my dogs anything. 105 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 1: She said, we just gave him breakfast. I know, because 106 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 1: she's never been like that before. I don't know. I 107 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 1: have no idea. Now she's down here looking on my feet. 108 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 1: She must know I'm talking about her. That's what it is. 109 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 1: That Other than that, I had an amazing weekend. I 110 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 1: got to be in the streets with you for a minute, 111 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: because you know, I on be outside on beside. 112 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 2: You did you? You did you dig it to be 113 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 2: outside with me. So I was in Houston everybody for 114 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 2: the National Panelanic Council seventy third Biennial Conference, and it 115 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 2: just so happened that it's the same week as Afrotech. 116 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 2: So of course when I found out that you would 117 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 2: be downtown, it's like, well, we gotta at least do something, 118 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:36,159 Speaker 2: have lunch, dinner, something, We got something. We did all 119 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 2: the time, right, and so we had a good time. 120 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 2: You know, Halloween is my favorite holiday. So y'all at 121 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 2: this conference. I don't care what we got going on, 122 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 2: but I'm leaving whatever we're doing early because on October 123 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 2: thirty first, I have got to be outside. 124 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:59,479 Speaker 1: This time out because you destroyed the costume I was. 125 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 3: So was Naomi the wrestler for Halloween. 126 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:07,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, the proceed with caution fit. I had the championship 127 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 2: belt like I was like Naomi and I felt this time. 128 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 2: You know, I'm a big kid because her real name 129 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 2: is Trinity Fie too, and Trinity retweeted me, regrammed my 130 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 2: post and it needs to heart video. 131 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 3: Commented on my stuff. 132 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 2: I was like, I have the stamp of approval from 133 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:31,679 Speaker 2: the Queen herself, so you know, like you just wearing 134 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 2: you destroyed it and what I did and it was fun. 135 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: I was like, oh yeah, yeah, y'all better proceed with 136 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: caution because Sis is wearing this costume. 137 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:44,479 Speaker 3: Proceed what caution, bitches. 138 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 1: I told you this too. I'm just for those of 139 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:49,719 Speaker 1: you who didn't see it, and if you didn't, you 140 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 1: must be living in the rocky. Y'all need to go 141 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: look at it because you had a little side by 142 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:57,480 Speaker 1: side picture posted. I was like, oh yeah, yeah, no, no, no, 143 00:06:57,560 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: you you you killed it. 144 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 3: And I told you this in person when I saw 145 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 3: you though, because I was like, you look, you look good. 146 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:08,160 Speaker 3: Go g o o DT goot. 147 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 2: I appreciate compliments, ma'am. I like, are all out here, 148 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 2: We are all out here just trying our best. It 149 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 2: was a great it was a great time. I had fun. 150 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 2: It was a great time. It was a great time. 151 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 2: But you know what, it was needed and necessary because 152 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 2: there are so many things that are happening and that's 153 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 2: going on in the world that can really just be 154 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 2: a downer in depressing and it's reality, and so it 155 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 2: felt good for just at least a day or two 156 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 2: to kind of be able to block all of that 157 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 2: out and just enjoy people, enjoy life. You know, folks 158 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 2: out here, if you follow my Instagram enough, you'll know 159 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 2: that I am a cigar girl. So I was like, 160 00:07:57,240 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 2: let me find a cigar lounge, and you did kick 161 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 2: it and have a smoke, and like, you just got 162 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 2: to find because the world is a mess right now. 163 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 2: People are losing snap benefits, people are losing health care, 164 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 2: and that's what we're going to talk about today. 165 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 3: Like we have just really got to just. 166 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 2: Be honest about where shit is right now. And it's 167 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 2: a tough conversation. It's a depressing conversation, but it's kind 168 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 2: of difficult to talk about every other thing that we 169 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 2: want to talk about when we have the real shit 170 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 2: that has really happening right in front of us right now. 171 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 3: So let's just go ahead and take this to the 172 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 3: next level. True, you know, when. 173 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 2: We came to record this week's episode. We had so 174 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 2: many things that we were going to talk about, Like 175 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 2: we were going to talk about the NBA gambling situation. 176 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 3: We were going to use about. 177 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 4: Hot topic. 178 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 2: We were going to talk about these new coaching hires 179 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 2: in the WNBA. 180 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 4: Because that's a hot topic. 181 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 2: I a't seen on black women yet, right, that's a 182 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 2: hot topic. I'm glad we have been yet yet. 183 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 3: Yes, question as well. 184 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:17,960 Speaker 4: We even said we were good. 185 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 2: I mean, of course we are, because this has levels 186 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:24,439 Speaker 2: to this and so duh, right, duh, We're gonna talk 187 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 2: about it. But all of those things at the time 188 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:34,319 Speaker 2: of this recording seems so insignificant because of everything that's 189 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:39,959 Speaker 2: happening around us right now. We have and I mean obviously, 190 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 2: like you know, you and I are not politicians, we're 191 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 2: not policymakers, we're not legislators, and we are not trying 192 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 2: to like push our political agenda down anybody's throat. But 193 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 2: we are human beings and we have feelings, and we 194 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 2: have empathy and compassion for people, and right now people 195 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 2: are feeling fun up I am to, I mean, just 196 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 2: based off of everything that's going on, and it just 197 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 2: felt like all of the other stuff that we were 198 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 2: going to talk about because it'sn't really matter. 199 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 4: But it doesn't really matter at this moment. 200 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 3: Well, because here's the thing. 201 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: The whole NBA gambling shit is going to be there 202 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 1: as long as there's an NBA, in my opinion. But 203 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 1: whatever and the hiring, the WNBA hiring coaches and all 204 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 1: of that, Yep, that's something we can talk about. 205 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 3: Whenever. 206 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: I told you when I came on, because you were like, 207 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:39,680 Speaker 1: how are you? And I know you were in a 208 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: good moon and I hate that I like, wasn't but 209 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:45,439 Speaker 1: my word to you when you said how are you? 210 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 1: My word was I'm blah. 211 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 4: I don't even know how. 212 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 3: To spell that, but that's how I feel like. 213 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 1: I got so many emotions going through my head and 214 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: I've cried all morning, just you know, I take a 215 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 1: break from social media, I take a break from the 216 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:10,839 Speaker 1: news because that can be so overwhelming, and especially when 217 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: it's a situation where you can't fix it, right like 218 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 1: as an individual, as a person like I can't fix 219 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 1: all the shit that's going on. 220 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 3: And so it's just been one of those mornings or 221 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 3: days where that's how I feel. 222 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 4: I'm just bluw. 223 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 3: I want to cry for our country. 224 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 1: And for people, I just I just feel like us 225 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:40,719 Speaker 1: having this conversation is way more important than what we 226 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 1: were going. 227 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 3: To talk about. 228 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,000 Speaker 1: And I also told you, like I just need a 229 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 1: space where I can be vulnerable and I can be 230 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 1: me and I feel very safe in doing that here 231 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 1: with you. 232 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:54,119 Speaker 3: And with all the listeners. 233 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 2: So yes, I mean, because that's that's what we do 234 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 2: and that's what we are, like we want to make 235 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 2: sure that we always create a safe space for people 236 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 2: to feel the way they want to feel and be 237 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 2: honest about their feelings and their vulnerability. And I'm still 238 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 2: in a great mood overall, right, So like you didn't 239 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 2: like damper my mood, but I mean the real is 240 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 2: the real, right and really is Like you can compartmentalize 241 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 2: various things, but at the end of the day, like 242 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 2: this is just something that is plaguing everybody, Like none 243 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 2: of us are immune. 244 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:31,199 Speaker 4: And what bothers me. 245 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 2: Is people who tend to think that because something may 246 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 2: not directly affect them, that there's no reason for them 247 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 2: to have care or concern for it. And that is 248 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 2: problematic to me, Like we, you know, should at least 249 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 2: care enough about humanity, should care that there are people 250 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 2: like we should care enough about other people to the 251 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 2: point that we should care if there are children who 252 00:12:57,800 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 2: may not have food, because that's what. 253 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:01,440 Speaker 4: We're looking at. 254 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 2: One of the issues that we are about to discuss, 255 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 2: so we might as well get into it, is that, 256 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 2: according to the USDA website that was up on October 257 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:15,840 Speaker 2: twenty seventh, SNAP benefits are going to cease on November first. 258 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 2: And for anyone out there who does not know what 259 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:24,080 Speaker 2: SNAP benefits are, it is basically the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance 260 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:29,439 Speaker 2: Program and they are the ones that provide certain resources 261 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:31,960 Speaker 2: like food stamps and things like that for low income 262 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:35,560 Speaker 2: families and those who need to afford healthy food. And 263 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 2: so what we are facing is that come November friars 264 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 2: according to the government, based on the government shutdown and 265 00:13:42,679 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 2: them not allocating any money for the twenty twenty six 266 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 2: fiscal year, it's millions of families that are not going 267 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 2: to be able to get food benefits come November first. 268 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:57,559 Speaker 4: That's like huge deal. 269 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 1: Like roughly, I think it's like forty one million, Yes, Americans, 270 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:06,319 Speaker 1: Like that's. 271 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 4: A lot of American people. 272 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, And to your point, I want to stress that, yeah, right, 273 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 2: and to your port and I'm saying that for a reason, 274 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 2: because people tend to get this notion that we're talking 275 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 2: about black people. 276 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 4: They're no. 277 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:31,360 Speaker 2: Black people, white people, Hispanic people, men, women, children, American Americans. 278 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 3: That's all. That's all that needs to be said. The 279 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 3: race that doesn't really matter. 280 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 1: But people want to throw the race card and think 281 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 1: that this is only affecting black people. 282 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 3: No, no, no. 283 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 1: And we can have that conversation too, But to me, 284 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 1: doesn't matter black, white, brown, orange, green, purple, I don't care. 285 00:14:52,040 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 1: It's a it's affecting American families, Like this is stuff 286 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 1: that I've been thinking about for a while. But you know, 287 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 1: I have friends, I have family that rely on this stuff. 288 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: And I told you I have to get to a point, 289 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: not that I want to be that person, but you know, 290 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:16,840 Speaker 1: getting text messages or phone calls like. 291 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:17,560 Speaker 3: Like I need help. 292 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 1: To help me, not just me directly, but point me 293 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 1: in a direction where I can go and to not 294 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 1: have answers to be able to help everybody like that. 295 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 3: Shit's overwhelming. It's a lot like it. 296 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 1: Like I thank God every morning when I wake up 297 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: that he has put me in a position where I 298 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 1: can help people when I can. But at the end 299 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 1: of the day, This shit's affecting everybody because you know 300 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 1: why when come come November first, and these people don't 301 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 1: have their food stamps, they don't have their money to 302 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 1: pay rent to get groceries. Whatever it is that's gonna 303 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 1: affect grocery stores, that's gonna affect Walmart or wherever it 304 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 1: is you're shopping. And listen. I don't condone violence, I 305 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 1: don't condone stealing. I don't condone any of that stuff. 306 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 1: But I've been on you know, social media and listening 307 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:17,960 Speaker 1: to people's stories and tea. This shit's gonna get ugly 308 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: when people can't eat and can't feed their families. What 309 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 1: do you think they're gonna do? And you said this, No, 310 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 1: we're not politicians, And to me, I'm not even making 311 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 1: this political because Democrats are to blame, Republicans are to blame. Somebody, 312 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 1: get back to work and open the fucking government because 313 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 1: there are people that are relying on the assistance that 314 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 1: they need, like be better than that, and then and 315 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 1: then to take it even further than that. I'm not 316 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 1: trying to get on an airplane right now because you 317 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 1: you you hire federal workers who aren't being paid, and 318 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:03,360 Speaker 1: I don't blame them everybody that works. Right, let's talk 319 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 1: about the Democrats, Republicans, y'all getting paid. You you you're 320 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:11,960 Speaker 1: not even going to work, but just still getting paid. 321 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 4: Everybody else stop coming in. 322 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 1: You expect everybody else to go to work and not 323 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 1: get paid. 324 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:21,159 Speaker 3: Like, make that shit make sense. 325 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:26,920 Speaker 2: There's no, it doesn't make sense. It doesn't make sense, 326 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 2: and it can't make sense. And I mean, the the 327 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 2: part that's even more disheartening is that these forty one 328 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 2: million Americans, yeah, forty two million Americans that are gonna 329 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:44,720 Speaker 2: be without the benefits that they need, whether that's food benefits, 330 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 2: whether that's here and full transparency moment. I grew up 331 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 2: on food stamps. 332 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:50,160 Speaker 3: Me too, honey. 333 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 4: I passed no judgment, me too. 334 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 3: I we were lied on it every monra lied. 335 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 2: To every single time, every single time. So every single time. 336 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:08,919 Speaker 3: I get it, there is no judgment. I get it. 337 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 2: Every single time. And this was before we had them, 338 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 2: Before y'all got these nice little debit cards. We had 339 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 2: actual money stamps with cover paper, take to the store 340 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 2: paper stamps, paper money. 341 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 4: Damn right, we did. And ain't no shaming our game 342 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:26,919 Speaker 4: for needing it, you know. 343 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:30,199 Speaker 2: But to your point, we you and I are and 344 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 2: others have been blessed to have come from humble beginnings. 345 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:36,840 Speaker 2: And now we know, you know, we have other resources 346 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:37,880 Speaker 2: and other options. 347 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:39,119 Speaker 4: But there are so many people who don't. 348 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 2: And these people, of those forty one forty two a 349 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 2: million American American families, American people who will have to 350 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:54,119 Speaker 2: face this, I often wonder how many of those people 351 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:59,240 Speaker 2: believe the bullshit and believed the rhetoric that they were 352 00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 2: given about grocery prices going down, about things would be better, 353 00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:08,119 Speaker 2: about the recession would be different, about like how many 354 00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 2: of them believed even though we told y'all, don't believe 355 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 2: that shit, even though we told folks. 356 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 4: Tragic twenty five real. 357 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 2: But I wonder how many people believed the foolishness that 358 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 2: came out of the mouth of the individual who calls 359 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 2: himself the forty fifth and forty seventh president of the 360 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 2: United States and now in such a cruel political stunt, 361 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 2: is basically starving American people, weaponizing hunger. That's essentially what 362 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 2: this is. Like, this is bigger, and this is much 363 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:46,919 Speaker 2: greater than just a few people. You know, we just 364 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:49,640 Speaker 2: at a standstill with the government. If you look over 365 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,119 Speaker 2: the course of history, and I ain't gonna go too deep, 366 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 2: but I'm just saying if you look over the course 367 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:56,560 Speaker 2: of history. Everybody who knows me knows I am a 368 00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:59,679 Speaker 2: history nerd. I study the fuck out of things that 369 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 2: came before me because it always comes back. And when 370 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:06,960 Speaker 2: I tell you the player with that d is pulling from, 371 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 2: it's from one of the worst human beings to ever 372 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:13,040 Speaker 2: walk this earth. This is not new. People have to 373 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:15,720 Speaker 2: really pay attention to what's happening. This isn't new. 374 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 5: So I do know that they're a part of the plan. 375 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 5: It's all a part of the part of the plan. 376 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 5: It's a part of the plan. It is a part 377 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:28,200 Speaker 5: of the plan. People have to pay attention because it's 378 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:28,840 Speaker 5: part of the plan. 379 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:31,919 Speaker 2: Now, what I can say is that there are several 380 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:37,639 Speaker 2: states and full transparency. We're recording this before November first, 381 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 2: but you guys will hear this podcast after November first. However, 382 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:48,919 Speaker 2: there are several states that have emergency funding. I know 383 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:52,440 Speaker 2: Connecticut is one of them. I know Michigan is one 384 00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 2: of them. I know Massachusetts, I know, but they have 385 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 2: see what I'm saying, So ain't that some shit? But 386 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:06,680 Speaker 2: there are some states that do have emergency funding available 387 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 2: for residents, and so you have to go to your 388 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:14,000 Speaker 2: state government website in order to find out how to 389 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:19,760 Speaker 2: access those particular funds. They have emergency funding for utility bills, 390 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:22,200 Speaker 2: So if you are in danger of having your lights 391 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:25,119 Speaker 2: cut off, or especially in the north where you in 392 00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:27,919 Speaker 2: winter in states that could be facing any type of 393 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 2: winter conditions and you're worried about like light, gas, utility, 394 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 2: they have benefits that can help for those. And then 395 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:40,879 Speaker 2: they also have food pantries. Check your local food pantry. Churches. 396 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 2: People are really trying to pull together to bring their 397 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:48,159 Speaker 2: community to a place where they can feel good and 398 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 2: try to provide for them as much as possible. So 399 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 2: I don't want everybody to hear this and feel like 400 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 2: it's a desolate time. People are really trying to pull 401 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:59,480 Speaker 2: together their communities to donate what they have. 402 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:01,880 Speaker 4: I know doing it. I know Cheryl is doing it. 403 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:04,880 Speaker 2: So we are coming together as best as possible as 404 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:10,880 Speaker 2: a community to try to help each other. The other thing, 405 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:14,720 Speaker 2: the other thing that we got going on out here, 406 00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 2: because you know we internationally known't. 407 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 4: On the microphone, there's a whole. 408 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 2: Hurricane Category five YEP that has made landfall in the 409 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:25,639 Speaker 2: country of Jamaica. 410 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:26,440 Speaker 4: Yep. 411 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 2: If nothing else, Americans should understand what a category five 412 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:37,359 Speaker 2: can and will do. Because Katrina did not just happened 413 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 2: that long ago. We know what a category five can 414 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:44,720 Speaker 2: do to people, to a community, to a state, let 415 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:52,399 Speaker 2: alone the whole country. Like folks, people got family in Jamaica, 416 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:55,920 Speaker 2: People got friends that live in Jamaica. 417 00:22:56,520 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 3: Or have friends a certain part Jamaica for like vacation, 418 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:04,760 Speaker 3: and I got stuck. 419 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 1: And Jesus and again, So I'm so glad that we 420 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 1: were like, hell no, we ain't talking about no NBA 421 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 1: betting stuff, no coaching, because there's way too much other 422 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:23,840 Speaker 1: stuff going on in this world, in this country that's 423 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:24,919 Speaker 1: way more important than that. 424 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 3: So what they gambling, whatever it is, we'll. 425 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 1: Talk about this, talk about that some other time, because 426 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:37,680 Speaker 1: right now, what is going on is affecting every single American, 427 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 1: every one of us. We're being affected by what's going 428 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,160 Speaker 1: on with this government as far as Jamaica. 429 00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:49,720 Speaker 3: Listen, I just my heart just hurts. 430 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 1: You know, I've prayed, I've sent thoughts, I've done all 431 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,560 Speaker 1: the things that I can do. And you're right, let's 432 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,160 Speaker 1: not forget it wasn't that long ago that hurricane Katrina 433 00:23:59,320 --> 00:23:59,920 Speaker 1: hit us. 434 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,440 Speaker 4: Honey, huck that thing. 435 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:12,800 Speaker 2: I watched the Hurricane Katrina documentary that was on Netflix. 436 00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:17,360 Speaker 4: I did too when Katrina hit. 437 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:21,920 Speaker 2: Originally I was in my early twenties, and so you 438 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 2: see it, you know it, you, I mean, like you 439 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 2: live through it, so you saw it, but like to see. 440 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:28,680 Speaker 4: It again from a different lens. 441 00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:33,200 Speaker 2: I was just like our government failed us, like they 442 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 2: failed the people in the state of Louisiana, they failed 443 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 2: the people in the city of New Orleans, and here 444 00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:46,360 Speaker 2: comes Hurricane Melissa doing something similar. And I just truly 445 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 2: hope that the people in Jamaica because I'm not Jamaica 446 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:51,359 Speaker 2: and I don't have any family there, but I have 447 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,160 Speaker 2: a lot of friends who are Jamaica and have family 448 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:57,119 Speaker 2: in Jamaica, and I just truly hope and pray that 449 00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:02,439 Speaker 2: there was proper taken. I was reading something just a 450 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 2: couple of days ago that there were shelters put in 451 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:10,320 Speaker 2: place and there was housing available, and some people just 452 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:13,440 Speaker 2: had not taken advantage of it. And I just say, please, God, 453 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,960 Speaker 2: let these people at some point have wisened up to say, 454 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 2: let me take advantage of these resources that's available, because 455 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 2: I don't want to see another country or group of 456 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 2: people or community go through what we saw the people 457 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:30,160 Speaker 2: in New Orleans go through. After thinking we get hurricanes 458 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:33,040 Speaker 2: all the time, we'll just ride it out all this 459 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 2: other stuff like no, And then you also think about again, 460 00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 2: Americans being Americans. Usually we're the ones that's able to 461 00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:46,240 Speaker 2: help other countries and other nations whenever there are devastating 462 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 2: and catastrophic natural disasters like this, whether it's the Red Cross, 463 00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:54,720 Speaker 2: whether it's the World Central Kitchen, whether it's you know whomever. 464 00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,240 Speaker 2: But now I'm thinking, Lord, how we're gonna help somebody 465 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 2: else when we can't even help ourselves here in the 466 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 2: United States. 467 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:06,679 Speaker 4: No, it's like it's a it's a it's a domino effect. Listen. 468 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:12,920 Speaker 1: But we meaning this government, they pick and choose who 469 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 1: they helped. Of course, of course, I'm just saying, how 470 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:23,400 Speaker 1: how how can we girl? How how how can we 471 00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:25,960 Speaker 1: send all this money to Argentina? 472 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:27,400 Speaker 3: Am I correct? 473 00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 1: But yet our government is shut down and we have 474 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 1: our We're just gonna let our own people starve to 475 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:35,120 Speaker 1: death here. 476 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:38,800 Speaker 3: So we we help who we want to help. 477 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:43,960 Speaker 1: In addition to all of the other crazy nonsense that's 478 00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:47,520 Speaker 1: going on in all these different cities and States with 479 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:51,360 Speaker 1: with ice and and the detaining of innocent It's. 480 00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:56,119 Speaker 3: Just it's a lot. 481 00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 1: It's a lot that we're that we're dealing with in 482 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 1: this country right now. And I still don't think I 483 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 1: still don't. 484 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,240 Speaker 4: Think people. 485 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 3: Are really truly paying attention. 486 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:13,199 Speaker 1: It's all right there in front of our eyes to 487 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 1: see every day. Yeah, so what yeah, what are we 488 00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: going to do about it? It's just a question that 489 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 1: I that I pose every single day when I see 490 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:28,480 Speaker 1: this stuff happening. 491 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:35,240 Speaker 2: I wonder that myself and I often say, you know, 492 00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:39,800 Speaker 2: we started this year saying, like us, we black women specifically, 493 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:41,640 Speaker 2: we were like, we're gonna sit this one out. Yeah, 494 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 2: because we we wei the eighty two percent said we time. 495 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:50,920 Speaker 2: We've been doing it, We've been saying it. But here 496 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 2: it is October November, election day is right around the corner, 497 00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 2: and we still have to you know, as much as 498 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,920 Speaker 2: we said we tad, we've done, we're still the ones 499 00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 2: out here leading the charge. I just went in September, 500 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,159 Speaker 2: the last couple of weeks of September, I went to 501 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 2: Congressional Black Caucus in DC. And when I tell you 502 00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,919 Speaker 2: a time was had, surel a time was had. But 503 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,159 Speaker 2: outside of the time that was had, there were so 504 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:23,880 Speaker 2: many great discussions around what we need to do, how 505 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 2: we can continue to empower and uplift our community, what 506 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 2: legislation and policy we can make impactful change to that 507 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:34,520 Speaker 2: can help. And at the forefront of majority of those conversations, 508 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:38,239 Speaker 2: we're still black women. So it's like, even when we 509 00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 2: say we tied, even when we say we're done, even 510 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 2: when the eighty two percent say we got to sit 511 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,520 Speaker 2: this one out, we don't know how to sit it 512 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:47,120 Speaker 2: out for real. 513 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:49,560 Speaker 4: We don't know how to sit down for real. 514 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:53,120 Speaker 3: We're not made like that, and we're not built like 515 00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 3: we're not made like that. But I'm not. 516 00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 4: Speaking of women and black woman. 517 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 2: You know. 518 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:05,840 Speaker 1: I have this conversation with someone during the elections, and 519 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 1: this person was pro the dude in office now, and 520 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 1: I was pro the woman who's not in office, Kamala. 521 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 1: So we were having just a discussion and she said 522 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:30,479 Speaker 1: to me, she said, well, Kamala is not perfect. I said, well, 523 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:35,320 Speaker 1: that man that you're voting for, absolutely I'm perfect, I said, 524 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 1: but let's just even bring it to a different level. 525 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:38,720 Speaker 3: Are you perfect? 526 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:41,040 Speaker 4: Am I perfect? 527 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 2: No? 528 00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:44,920 Speaker 3: To me, there's never been a perfect. 529 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 1: Candidate ever because there's always going to be something that 530 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,240 Speaker 1: somebody's not going to agree with, So you're never going 531 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:55,280 Speaker 1: to have a perfect candidate, right But I to this 532 00:29:55,360 --> 00:30:02,360 Speaker 1: day do believe had Kamala been in office, we wouldn't be. 533 00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:04,040 Speaker 3: Going through a lot of this shit we're going through 534 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 3: right now, all. 535 00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 1: Because people wouldn't people would not vote for I'm gonna 536 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 1: just say a woman, and then I'm gonna add black 537 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,280 Speaker 1: to that, but all because people said, oh, hell no, 538 00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:18,959 Speaker 1: we do not want a woman running this country, let 539 00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 1: alone a black woman running this country. 540 00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:23,880 Speaker 3: And what did that get us? 541 00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 2: It's definitely, it's definitely a black woman because people showed 542 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,000 Speaker 2: up to vote for that black man. 543 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 4: They showed up to vote for Barack Obama. I was 544 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:36,960 Speaker 4: one of them. Both, that was two of them, you 545 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 4: know what I'm saying. So I can't even vote. 546 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 2: Yes, So at this point, I can't even say, y'all 547 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:47,720 Speaker 2: want to vote for a black candidate, because you absolutely 548 00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:52,960 Speaker 2: did multiple times, and I'm with it, but you did 549 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:54,640 Speaker 2: not vote, but you didn't vote. 550 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 4: But you didn't vote for Hillary Clinton either. 551 00:30:56,680 --> 00:31:00,719 Speaker 2: No. I mean, granted, Hillary had her own things that 552 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:06,000 Speaker 2: she could have done differently in certain circumstances, but when 553 00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:09,160 Speaker 2: I look at the voting in terms of the numerical 554 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 2: data from twenty sixteen when Hillary loss to twenty twenty four. 555 00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:16,480 Speaker 4: Y'all really wasn't trying to vote for that black woman. 556 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:18,440 Speaker 4: Y'all really wasn't at all. 557 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 2: And that is just and mind blowing, all mind blowing 558 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:27,120 Speaker 2: to me, like how many how many white men do 559 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,240 Speaker 2: you have to get in this office to fuck? Shut 560 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:36,040 Speaker 2: up before you say maybe maybe maybe difference, maybe maybe 561 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:40,800 Speaker 2: I'm really just maybe now by something different. I don't 562 00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:41,280 Speaker 2: mean Steven A. 563 00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:42,880 Speaker 4: Smith. Don't y'all go vote for that food? 564 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 3: Can we not say his name on? 565 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,200 Speaker 4: Can we not say his name saying I heard you're 566 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 4: trying to make you're trying to make a president. 567 00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:52,400 Speaker 3: Anybody vote for that? 568 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:58,520 Speaker 2: Than you know what the end of the day, y'all, 569 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 2: We're not really going to have a super long podcast today, y'all, 570 00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:04,280 Speaker 2: because I think this was just more event. 571 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:08,400 Speaker 4: Session it for me. I'm mom, we just needed to 572 00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:09,160 Speaker 4: get that out. 573 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:14,000 Speaker 1: But to my my heart hurts right like like I'm 574 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:20,040 Speaker 1: I am a god fearing, spiritual woman without a doubt, 575 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:24,000 Speaker 1: and I put all of my trust in the man above. 576 00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,560 Speaker 4: But but I'm but I'm also. 577 00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:34,400 Speaker 1: Very open to to what my eyes are showing me, 578 00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:36,719 Speaker 1: not what I what I hear from people. 579 00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 4: I see it what I see, and and it's. 580 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 1: It's a scary time to be an American in this country. 581 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 1: And and and I think what's devastating. I think what 582 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 1: makes it even scarier for me is I don't see 583 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,720 Speaker 1: it getting anybody better anytime soon. 584 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 4: Not. 585 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,400 Speaker 3: I absolutely say it's getting worse. 586 00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:11,000 Speaker 2: And it doesn't have to like I don't think we 587 00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 2: and I'm saying we generally speaking, but I really ain't 588 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 2: referring to me because I know and I know you know, 589 00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:20,600 Speaker 2: but I don't think we realize the power that we 590 00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,960 Speaker 2: have as people, like we live in a democratic society. 591 00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 2: That's for a reason we don't live in an authoritarian society, 592 00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,320 Speaker 2: even though it feels like we're going that way. We 593 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:33,920 Speaker 2: have so much power. The democracy was meant to be 594 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:37,160 Speaker 2: for the people, and we can make the change when 595 00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,920 Speaker 2: we have to do our part to do that, which means, 596 00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 2: come November fourth, no matter where you are, no matter 597 00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:45,760 Speaker 2: what you got going on, you need to take your 598 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,720 Speaker 2: ass to the polls and it cares to vote for 599 00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:52,520 Speaker 2: the people who will truly make a change and a 600 00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,760 Speaker 2: difference in your community. It means in twenty twenty six, 601 00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:58,960 Speaker 2: when these midterm seats are available, don't. 602 00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:01,400 Speaker 4: Sit there in say that there's nothing. 603 00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:04,840 Speaker 2: Your vote don't count, there's no get your ass up 604 00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 2: and go out there and educate yourself because education is 605 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:13,360 Speaker 2: free ninety nine, so that you can literally put the 606 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 2: people in position who are going to do better, who 607 00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:19,319 Speaker 2: are going to stand up for you. Y'all got a 608 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,360 Speaker 2: lot to say about my girl Jazz and Crockett, but 609 00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,680 Speaker 2: the bottom line is she'd be holding a doubt for 610 00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:28,040 Speaker 2: her constituents wants. She gets down for what she says 611 00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:30,120 Speaker 2: she gets down for, and you have got to love 612 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 2: and respect. 613 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:31,160 Speaker 3: That's fact. 614 00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:34,280 Speaker 2: We can't just be sitting here talking about it's nothing 615 00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:34,759 Speaker 2: we could do. 616 00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:35,920 Speaker 4: It is what it is. 617 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:39,120 Speaker 2: I'm gonna just ride out until twenty twenty because because 618 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:43,360 Speaker 2: if you following along, if you're paying attention, riding it 619 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:46,200 Speaker 2: out until twenty twenty eight might be a problem because 620 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,640 Speaker 2: the way that these people are moving, they're trying to 621 00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:52,080 Speaker 2: make it legal for people to continue terms after serving 622 00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:56,399 Speaker 2: a second consecutive term. 623 00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:00,160 Speaker 1: If you're paying attention, well, we better wake up or 624 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:01,719 Speaker 1: y'all better wake up, because I am. 625 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:03,799 Speaker 2: They're trying to they're trying. They're trying to That's what 626 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,279 Speaker 2: I'm saying, like I ain't. I'm saying we but I 627 00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:08,600 Speaker 2: really ain't speaking to Tarika and Cheryl because we know 628 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:12,040 Speaker 2: what's I'm really speaking to everybody out there that's like 629 00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:15,040 Speaker 2: trying to pretend like this shit ain't happening for real. 630 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:16,799 Speaker 4: You've ever seen a Handmaid's Tale. 631 00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,399 Speaker 2: I used to joke years ago that the Handmaid's Seal, 632 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:23,239 Speaker 2: this whole dystopian universe is gonna fuck around and come 633 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:24,840 Speaker 2: to the US if we didn't get. 634 00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:25,360 Speaker 4: Our ship together. 635 00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:28,759 Speaker 2: And I used to say that jokingly, and now it 636 00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:29,840 Speaker 2: ain't so funny. 637 00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:34,560 Speaker 3: It's real. It's not so funny. 638 00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:38,239 Speaker 2: Because it's every other day there's a different law, a 639 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:41,800 Speaker 2: different policy that's repealing something that was put in place 640 00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,800 Speaker 2: to help us improve and get better and progress. Every 641 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:50,320 Speaker 2: other day there's something different that's being repealed, recalled, overturned. 642 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,880 Speaker 2: Every other day it's something new. Every other day is 643 00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:57,480 Speaker 2: something new. Now y'all got now, y'all got? The National 644 00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:00,759 Speaker 2: Guard just popping up in random cities. I feel bad 645 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:02,959 Speaker 2: for the city of Detroit because it's only a matter 646 00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:05,200 Speaker 2: of time. It's only a matter of time before the 647 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 2: National Guard pop in town. Mytown has one of the 648 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:11,880 Speaker 2: largest Arabic populations in the country. 649 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:15,200 Speaker 4: All of the people, all of the Chaldeans. 650 00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:21,440 Speaker 2: Folks from Yemen, Bangladesh, Iraq, Saudi Arabia, Honey, be worried 651 00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 2: because y'all are flourishing, and y'all are doing whatever it 652 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:26,040 Speaker 2: is that y'all doing in your arib American community in 653 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:28,640 Speaker 2: the state of Michigan. It is only a matter of 654 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:32,759 Speaker 2: time before forty seven get pissed off about something and 655 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:36,520 Speaker 2: send the National Guard to Detroit to start messing with 656 00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:38,759 Speaker 2: them who ain't dead nothing to nobody. 657 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:40,399 Speaker 4: It's only a matter of time. 658 00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:43,640 Speaker 1: It's only a matter of time before it's happening in 659 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 1: every city. 660 00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:47,120 Speaker 3: That is part of the plan. 661 00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:52,240 Speaker 1: When people can't when people don't get their food stamps 662 00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:55,319 Speaker 1: on November first, they gotta eat. 663 00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:58,799 Speaker 3: So what do they mean, What does that look like? 664 00:36:58,880 --> 00:36:59,680 Speaker 3: What happens? 665 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 1: So now there's all these riots, there's all this stuff 666 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:05,440 Speaker 1: going on in all these cities, and now he can 667 00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:07,440 Speaker 1: call martial law and send. 668 00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:12,080 Speaker 3: Like it's all part of the plan. This is this 669 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:13,160 Speaker 3: is me thinking. 670 00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:16,720 Speaker 4: November November just right around the corner. 671 00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 3: What is that? 672 00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:20,759 Speaker 2: Which is which is it is not todays. It's not 673 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:22,960 Speaker 2: even that it's around the corner. It's just that what 674 00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:24,440 Speaker 2: holiday happens in November. 675 00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:29,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, you got Christmas? 676 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:33,319 Speaker 1: Girl, I ain't even thought about no holidays. I just 677 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:35,919 Speaker 1: I don't know how. Seriously, I don't know how any 678 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:40,920 Speaker 1: of us right now could be like ooh making all 679 00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:43,560 Speaker 1: these plans for Thanksgiving, and first of all, that's. 680 00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:49,239 Speaker 4: A whole nother conversation. But yeah, and Christmas, I'm definitely. 681 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:50,440 Speaker 3: Your money, your package. 682 00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:53,879 Speaker 2: I'm just saying, yeah, I'm definitely trying to go see 683 00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 2: my mother and I as you should. But I might 684 00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:59,040 Speaker 2: end up driving. I was gonna fly, but I might 685 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:02,800 Speaker 2: end up driving. And it's a nine and a half 686 00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:06,879 Speaker 2: to ten hour drive. It depends on traffic with time 687 00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:09,040 Speaker 2: I leave, and if I go through Canada or if 688 00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,359 Speaker 2: I just stay in the States, because that can take 689 00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:14,000 Speaker 2: a good thirty to forty five minutes off the drive. 690 00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:17,880 Speaker 4: But I'm going to go see my parents are older. 691 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, And for those moistters out there who may not 692 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:24,120 Speaker 2: know my parents are older, I was raised by my 693 00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:27,360 Speaker 2: great grandmother. She's ninety five years old and she lives 694 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:30,440 Speaker 2: with her daughter, who is my grandmother, who just turned 695 00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:33,480 Speaker 2: seventy nine this year. 696 00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 3: Wow. 697 00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:38,840 Speaker 2: And so so they're both they're both two older elderly 698 00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,279 Speaker 2: women who live together take care of each other. 699 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:42,040 Speaker 3: I love that. 700 00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:43,000 Speaker 4: I'm blessed. 701 00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:46,839 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, my grandmothers still they're still getting around, they're 702 00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:50,080 Speaker 2: still doing what they're doing. She's still like, still doing 703 00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:54,520 Speaker 2: what they're doing. Right, But it's a little difficult being 704 00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:58,879 Speaker 2: in Connecticut and my parents are in Michigan. So I've 705 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,960 Speaker 2: had to hook up the Alexas so that I can, you know, 706 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:04,640 Speaker 2: visually drop in and see what they're doing and talk 707 00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:07,759 Speaker 2: to them in that way. But my parents are also 708 00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:10,960 Speaker 2: on Social Security. They get Social Security to survive, they 709 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,640 Speaker 2: get Medicare, Medicaid. 710 00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 4: Like all of these resources and programs. 711 00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:22,280 Speaker 2: There's a food like a food pantry of food give place, 712 00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:25,319 Speaker 2: food share place in Michigan called Focused Hope, and they 713 00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:26,120 Speaker 2: give food to. 714 00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:27,880 Speaker 4: The kids and they get food to the elderly. 715 00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:29,840 Speaker 2: And so once a month, my mom gets a box 716 00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:33,200 Speaker 2: from Focus Hope that adds bread and milk and all 717 00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:35,200 Speaker 2: types of stuff and most of the time it's way 718 00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 2: more stuff than she needs, and so she will give 719 00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:39,480 Speaker 2: it away to the people in her neighborhood. Right. 720 00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:43,560 Speaker 4: But the point is all of these resources While. 721 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:47,719 Speaker 2: Tarrika's household may not need them, my mother's my mother does, 722 00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:52,440 Speaker 2: and I'm not near her to get her what she needs. 723 00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:56,439 Speaker 2: So dave I care because, like you give what I'm saying. 724 00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,799 Speaker 2: I care because it may not affect me, but it's 725 00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:02,839 Speaker 2: so even affects my family, and it certainly affects the 726 00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:04,760 Speaker 2: livelihood of my parents. 727 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,840 Speaker 4: My mama can't pay her bills without her social Security. 728 00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:11,279 Speaker 2: So it's like, like people really got to wake up 729 00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:14,200 Speaker 2: and realize I've worked my ass off for forty damn years. 730 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:17,359 Speaker 3: It feels like and y'all telling me that I might not. 731 00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:20,120 Speaker 2: Even have Social Security when I'm doing ye, Like, these 732 00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:22,880 Speaker 2: are things that matter and things that people pay attention to, 733 00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:26,400 Speaker 2: so it do matter. Yeah, I definitely, I'm definitely gonna 734 00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:28,680 Speaker 2: gonna go home and visit my mom for Thanksgiving. 735 00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,280 Speaker 4: But I need to see how this shit is gonna. 736 00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:34,200 Speaker 2: Shake, because because some tough conversations don't have to have 737 00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:38,560 Speaker 2: to be had if shit don't shake, Like I can't 738 00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,839 Speaker 2: have Ma Mama living in Michigan by herself now, ran 739 00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:41,920 Speaker 2: my grandma myself. 740 00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:43,919 Speaker 4: I mean, if stuff ain't happening. 741 00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,880 Speaker 1: Tea, and this is it's like a trickle down effect right, like, 742 00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:53,800 Speaker 1: although it may not affect you directly, somewhere down the line, 743 00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:59,640 Speaker 1: it does, right, And as you said, just as a 744 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:07,080 Speaker 1: human being, like we care, we care about people that 745 00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:12,359 Speaker 1: are being affected behind the dumb shit this government is doing. 746 00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:17,560 Speaker 3: And I don't know. 747 00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:22,040 Speaker 1: I wish I could come on here today and just 748 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:26,880 Speaker 1: give y'all some words of encouragement and be like, y'all, 749 00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,839 Speaker 1: it's gonna be all right, Like I want to believe that, 750 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:32,640 Speaker 1: but right now I need I need. 751 00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:36,080 Speaker 3: Somebody to give me some words of encouragement because. 752 00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:43,160 Speaker 1: Just it, don't it just this is just not not 753 00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:46,839 Speaker 1: the America I I. 754 00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:52,360 Speaker 3: Remember not saying that about has always been perfect. 755 00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:57,360 Speaker 4: But yes, that part not the ones my nces to 756 00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:58,680 Speaker 4: spotful that part. 757 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:03,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, before we get out of here, like I said, y'all, 758 00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:06,680 Speaker 2: I want everybody out there who might be dealing with 759 00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:10,640 Speaker 2: being furloughed from the government shut down. Maybe you don't 760 00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:16,680 Speaker 2: have working, a working check coming in right now. There 761 00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:21,280 Speaker 2: are different states that have unemployment benefits that are available 762 00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:26,200 Speaker 2: for furloughed employees, So definitely check out to see if 763 00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:31,279 Speaker 2: your government offers grants, loans, things that you can do, 764 00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:36,719 Speaker 2: layoff resources, hardship resources. Check with your utility companies and 765 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:40,120 Speaker 2: your credit card companies. A lot of them offer different 766 00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:44,759 Speaker 2: types of extensions and resources for people who have been 767 00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:48,280 Speaker 2: furloughed or laid off and can't make the payments timely. 768 00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,280 Speaker 4: Mortgage companies are the same. 769 00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:53,480 Speaker 2: Definitely don't want to hear anybody losing their home because 770 00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:56,040 Speaker 2: they're unable to make their mortgage payments. And that's a 771 00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:59,120 Speaker 2: real thing that people are facing. So please check with 772 00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:02,719 Speaker 2: your mortgage company to see if they're offering hardship benefits. 773 00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,239 Speaker 2: I want you guys to walk away from this podcast 774 00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:08,279 Speaker 2: knowing that we feel you and we understand. But there 775 00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:11,319 Speaker 2: is help available. You just have to go to the 776 00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:14,520 Speaker 2: right places to find it. So check your state government, 777 00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:21,080 Speaker 2: local government. There's a website called fee fee a dot 778 00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:24,560 Speaker 2: org and it also has a bunch of different information 779 00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:28,000 Speaker 2: for resources for people who have been furloughed or laid off. 780 00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:32,080 Speaker 2: But don't give up, y'all, Like, don't give up, don't 781 00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:34,800 Speaker 2: let this government get you down. Don't let what's happening 782 00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:38,160 Speaker 2: right now get you down. Continue to fight, continue to 783 00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:42,719 Speaker 2: find ways to better yourselves and educate yourselves. And when 784 00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:45,080 Speaker 2: it's time to cast your vote in the ballot box, 785 00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:47,760 Speaker 2: do what meet stand on business, y'all. 786 00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:50,200 Speaker 4: That's where we can make a difference. That's where we 787 00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:54,240 Speaker 4: can make a difference, stand on business. Yeah, all right, y'all. 788 00:43:54,239 --> 00:44:09,680 Speaker 4: We will be right back after this, all right, cheryls. 789 00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:11,480 Speaker 2: So I'm just happy that we were able to get 790 00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:14,680 Speaker 2: that out, get all of that off our chests, feel 791 00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:18,680 Speaker 2: a little bit better about moving into these next because 792 00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:20,920 Speaker 2: you know what's crazy, twenty twenty five is about to 793 00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:25,120 Speaker 2: be over right, Like, I don't know how we got 794 00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:28,160 Speaker 2: here so quickly, but this year is literally there's literally 795 00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:29,200 Speaker 2: a month of some change. 796 00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:30,319 Speaker 3: Lest yeah, this year. 797 00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:33,239 Speaker 1: And my thing is, yes, let's please get out of 798 00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:36,920 Speaker 1: twenty twenty five. But there's a part of me that's like, damn, 799 00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:38,719 Speaker 1: what is twenty twenty six? 800 00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,920 Speaker 3: Gona bring crul? What that shifting to look like? What 801 00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:42,759 Speaker 3: that shifting look like? 802 00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,839 Speaker 1: But you know, Tea, I just hoof geez, you got 803 00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:50,400 Speaker 1: me crying all over again, just a real conversation. And 804 00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,839 Speaker 1: I think there's so many people out there that are 805 00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:56,640 Speaker 1: that are feeling it like they're feeling the way we're feeling, 806 00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,680 Speaker 1: if not worse. And sometimes you just got to talk 807 00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:02,560 Speaker 1: about shit and get it out. And like we said, 808 00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:06,000 Speaker 1: no judgment here because I get it. 809 00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:09,920 Speaker 3: I totally get it. So yeah, it's a mess. 810 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:12,480 Speaker 2: It is a mess, but you know what I know. 811 00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:14,200 Speaker 2: But you know what, it's all right though we got 812 00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:14,560 Speaker 2: it out. 813 00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:15,720 Speaker 4: It's a safe space. 814 00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:17,480 Speaker 2: This is always going to be a safe space for 815 00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:19,960 Speaker 2: people to come and hear the real and feel the 816 00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:22,759 Speaker 2: real and be vulnerable and where they are, and we 817 00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,719 Speaker 2: are always going to leave them with some positive, uplifting 818 00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:27,960 Speaker 2: words to help them get through what they need to 819 00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:28,440 Speaker 2: get through. 820 00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:30,520 Speaker 3: So go ahead and level us up. 821 00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:34,839 Speaker 1: Sure, this is a it's actually more about I ain't 822 00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:39,959 Speaker 1: even gonna explain it because I'm hoping this will help somebody. 823 00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:40,680 Speaker 3: Because I know it helps me. 824 00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:45,760 Speaker 1: And it's Mark five seven twenty eight and it says, 825 00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:50,200 Speaker 1: just when you are hanging on by a thread, make 826 00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:52,440 Speaker 1: sure it's the hem of his garment. 827 00:45:56,239 --> 00:46:03,560 Speaker 3: Self explanatory. Yeah, y'all, we I said this before. We 828 00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:05,960 Speaker 3: will get through this. And just know you're not alone, 829 00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:11,160 Speaker 3: whoever you are. And just I know it's hard. 830 00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:13,800 Speaker 1: I know it's difficult, but we gotta we gotta find 831 00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:16,160 Speaker 1: a way to keep the faith and make sure that 832 00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:17,440 Speaker 1: we're taking care of each. 833 00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:22,560 Speaker 2: Other absolutely, And if you do need somebody to lean on, 834 00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:24,839 Speaker 2: as the quote says, just make sure it's the hem 835 00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,720 Speaker 2: of his garment and that that that is always enough. 836 00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:29,960 Speaker 2: And so with that, we just want to thank you 837 00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:32,280 Speaker 2: guys for continuing to rock out with us and listening 838 00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:35,600 Speaker 2: to us at Levels to this podcast. 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