Speaker 1: Forever.
Speaker 2: Wow, whoa I am? I feel like I'm delirious right now?
Speaker 3: Did you just wake up before we started recording this episode?
Speaker 4: Yeah, but this is a different type of feeling discombobulated.
Speaker 4: M I'm serious one because my MIC's situation is fucked up.
Speaker 2: But also, yeah, I just feel out of it.
Speaker 4: I like, I know today is well when this comes out,
Speaker 4: it's Friday, but today is actually Wednesday. But all of
Speaker 4: Monday I thought it was Tuesday. All of Tuesday I
Speaker 4: thought it was Wednesday. I've just been I don't know.
Speaker 4: I'm given real drug addict energy right now?
Speaker 2: Well, friend, have you.
Speaker 3: Been outside in the last three days?
Speaker 4: Yeah, of course, of course. I went to the bank yesterday. Okay,
Speaker 4: you want to tell the listeners what happened at the bank?
Speaker 4: Send it robbed the bank.
Speaker 2: Let's tell imagine. Send it all. Never robbed the bank.
Speaker 2: I robbed it for the podcast.
Speaker 3: Oh you robbed it for yourself.
Speaker 4: Don't put me in there, no mayams God. I went
Speaker 4: to the bank because y'all don't know this, but I've
Speaker 4: been banking with Vemo for several years now, several several years.
Speaker 4: I could not have a bank account because I owed
Speaker 4: the government money, and I finally I'm in a good place,
Speaker 4: good standing. But people knew you banked with Vemo because
Speaker 4: you always say you banked with Venmo.
Speaker 2: You listeners say, Andrew.
Speaker 1: I just I completely forgot until you brought it up again.
Speaker 1: I completely forgotten you too.
Speaker 3: She says it on Instagram, she says it on her
Speaker 3: She says it all the time.
Speaker 1: But I do recall that you haven't like done your
Speaker 1: taxes since two thousand and nine or something.
Speaker 2: A long time ago Reagan administration got up, Marie.
Speaker 4: But yeah, I'm I'm finally am I'm finally in the
Speaker 4: process of, you know, paying everything that I owe off
Speaker 4: and I can have a bank account now. And I
Speaker 4: went to the bank and they said, in order to
Speaker 4: open up a bank account, not only do you have
Speaker 4: to have one form of ID, you have to have
Speaker 4: two forms of ID. That's bullshit, is it. Yes, if
Speaker 4: you have a passport, that's enough.
Speaker 1: Don't you have like a driver's license? No?
Speaker 4: No, No, Sydney's passport is her ID.
Speaker 3: Wait, So in order to open.
Speaker 4: An account to put money in it, you need two
Speaker 4: forms of ID.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 4: When I was little and my parents opened a bank
Speaker 4: account for me, I didn't have any ID, or maybe
Speaker 4: I did.
Speaker 3: Maybe they might with buys like social Security card.
Speaker 2: As they did. They did, so I didn't.
Speaker 4: So I came back to the house and I was
Speaker 4: freaking out because I could not find my Social I
Speaker 4: couldn't find my birth certificate, and I was like, somebody
Speaker 4: is walking around with Sydney Washington identity. But they would
Speaker 4: have been thrown in jail by now because they were like,
Speaker 4: you know all the money I owed, but but Adrian
Speaker 4: had it. So I'm good, I'm in better. I feel
Speaker 4: better now.
Speaker 3: But Adrian has your ID stull No.
Speaker 2: What she still has your ID?
Speaker 4: No, she has my Social Security card and birth certificate.
Speaker 2: Why wait?
Speaker 3: When you said no, you should have said yes. Why
Speaker 3: did he have that?
Speaker 4: It was mixed in with her papers and she moved,
Speaker 4: You're sending it to me today?
Speaker 2: Girl?
Speaker 3: The mess?
Speaker 4: This is?
Speaker 2: How are you doing? Marie?
Speaker 4: You know where my social and my birth certificate are
Speaker 4: at my family's house.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't have it on you.
Speaker 4: I never have had that stuff on me. I know
Speaker 4: where it is because at first my dad wouldn't give
Speaker 4: it to me. And now I'm afraid to have that
Speaker 4: stuff in my house. I mean, I lost my headphones
Speaker 4: for this podcast, So we're gonna who But the last
Speaker 4: time I was at my mom's house, I found my
Speaker 4: birth certificate and I was looking at it and it
Speaker 4: said September twenty ninth on it, and I.
Speaker 3: Was like, whoa, is that my birthday?
Speaker 4: And no, it's I was born on the twenty third,
Speaker 4: but it was issued on the twenty ninth or something
Speaker 4: like that.
Speaker 3: I don't know. It's something weird, but oh my gosh,
Speaker 3: I almost had a little breakdown. I've been celebrating on
Speaker 3: the twenty third all the year.
Speaker 2: Wait, what if your birthday is on the twenty ninth.
Speaker 3: My birth certificate says the twenty third, babe, is what
Speaker 3: I'm saying to you.
Speaker 4: But next year, I got to hit you on the
Speaker 4: twenty ninth. Happy birthday, babe. You know I was I
Speaker 4: was due in October, but I came early, so yo.
Speaker 2: I was supposed to be born on Valentine's.
Speaker 4: Day, but I was born on Groundhowk's Day. But they
Speaker 4: I got out of the hospital on Valentine's Day because
Speaker 4: I ate my mother's placenta starting early. Okay, gay, I
Speaker 4: ate the placenta and the you know, the poo poo
Speaker 4: and I got really sick. They had to shave my
Speaker 4: hair off. I was they kept me in the hospital
Speaker 4: also starting early hair and and I do like eating
Speaker 4: ass so oh wait, what placenta and being bald because
Speaker 4: I got sick?
Speaker 3: Help people? You like eats?
Speaker 2: No check up? Okay, whatever, Marie, how are you doing?
Speaker 3: I'm okay, friends.
Speaker 4: I was just telling Andrew I woke up before my
Speaker 4: alarm today, which always makes me feel like yay, but
Speaker 4: I'm already tired and i've been What time.
Speaker 2: Was your alarm?
Speaker 1: Yeah, your alarm isn't that early.
Speaker 3: My alarm was for a forty five. But Andrew, you
Speaker 3: didn't ask.
Speaker 4: Me what's on?
Speaker 2: Okay? Okay?
Speaker 1: What time did you go to bed?
Speaker 3: At? Two am?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 3: I like to do what like?
Speaker 4: I like my sleep to be like a round number,
Speaker 4: like six and a half hours, seven hours.
Speaker 3: But I woke up at like seven something, and now
Speaker 3: I'm tired.
Speaker 4: So I've been up for four hours and I'm already done.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well what did you do in the four hours?
Speaker 2: I shot a.
Speaker 4: Video for Instagram, that is I was trying to put
Speaker 4: up before we recorded this episode, but I didn't put
Speaker 4: it up yet, so I'm gonna put it up after
Speaker 4: we get off this thing. It's about skincare. Really, yeah,
Speaker 4: because I told you I was going to post about
Speaker 4: meeting stuff from my face.
Speaker 3: I told you about this. This is not new information.
Speaker 4: But uh yeah, So that's and I trying to do
Speaker 4: it like in front of my window because you know,
Speaker 4: it's about to rain, and I couldn't post anything or
Speaker 4: shoot anything for the last couple of days because they've
Speaker 4: been doing construction right below my window in front of
Speaker 4: my building. So it's like Caribbean people down there, drilling
Speaker 4: in sandals. It's very it's very West Indian down there.
Speaker 2: The same thing, the same thing.
Speaker 3: You're saying, the same thing, but we can see that
Speaker 3: you're looking at your phone.
Speaker 4: So no, no, no, I meant like the same thing that's
Speaker 4: going on over here. They're doing construction in the actual building,
Speaker 4: not across the street in the basement. Yeah, mine is
Speaker 4: in like the front of my building. She's doing a
Speaker 4: step or something coming into the building. So it's at
Speaker 4: the front door, and you know, my windows are right
Speaker 4: above the front of the building.
Speaker 2: So well, you look, you look great, Murray, you do
Speaker 2: look really great.
Speaker 3: Thank you, friend.
Speaker 2: Did you put some makeup on?
Speaker 4: No? Sydney, stop asking me if I have one makeup
Speaker 4: and you do it, and it's always it's a backhand compliment.
Speaker 3: It's what are you wearing makeup? Like asking me that
Speaker 3: because you asked.
Speaker 4: Me before and I ignored you and you asked me,
Speaker 4: and it's like, bitch, please go lay down. That's just
Speaker 4: because you're not slick and you do it all the time. No, bitch,
Speaker 4: it's just like what, Sydney, what is it like? Okay, well,
Speaker 4: let's let's if you want to be real. You know,
Speaker 4: we all have a little darkness under our eyes, and
Speaker 4: you don't have any today. So that's the only reason
Speaker 4: why I know your skin is perfect.
Speaker 2: Your skin is perfect.
Speaker 4: You are perfect, But I don't see no darkness under
Speaker 4: your eyes.
Speaker 2: So you have a little bit of good sealer your eyes.
Speaker 2: I know you.
Speaker 3: So, Sydney, stop asking me that question. This is what
Speaker 3: I'm getting at. You do this all the time. Recorded
Speaker 3: the Patreon a couple of days ago, and you're.
Speaker 4: Like Marie's wearing concealer Like it was, bro what what's happening?
Speaker 3: What's wrong?
Speaker 1: I was thinking? And then this also might be a
Speaker 1: backhanded clock.
Speaker 2: Please don't add it if it's not.
Speaker 3: So we can.
Speaker 1: I was thinking earlier and I refrained from saying it.
Speaker 1: Your boobs look huge today? Is that a backhanded COMPLIMENTE?
Speaker 3: No, I'm wearing a sports bra and there's like these weird.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I was like, wow, where have they been?
Speaker 3: They do look big today.
Speaker 4: But you know, I'm wearing a sports bra with the
Speaker 4: I don't know, half a cup in it or something.
Speaker 4: But you could have said that that's that's nice. Your
Speaker 4: boobs look huge today is a different thing than you
Speaker 4: are you wearing makeup, especially if you you know the
Speaker 4: answer to the question.
Speaker 3: It's like you're just saying it because you want me
Speaker 3: to say what which you want me to sayher M,
Speaker 3: that's true. It's like anyway, whatever, I'm not gonna sorry,
Speaker 3: bring me down to.
Speaker 2: I'm jealous, sorry a mess.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna let you ruin my Wednesday or.
Speaker 2: Our Wednesday Friday. Okay.
Speaker 4: So we're ten minutes in and you know, as you know,
Speaker 4: Biden is the president or projected president.
Speaker 2: I don't like that. I'm a projected president. I don't
Speaker 2: like that bullshit.
Speaker 1: Wait, that's that's how it is every time he's the
Speaker 1: president elect until he's actually no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: are you saying because the count?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, yeah, that's what I'm saying. I don't like that.
Speaker 3: So what happens if Trump never concedes?
Speaker 1: I don't think you cady? Well yeah they didn't. Someone
Speaker 1: on Biden's team say like, we will use force if
Speaker 1: he doesn't like actually want to leave the White House.
Speaker 3: Well, you know what I was just doing.
Speaker 4: I was reading about the whole George Bush al Gore situation,
Speaker 4: and because people are comparing the two to that, and
Speaker 4: so what I don't remember what year that was.
Speaker 3: It was like two thousand. What a year was that?
Speaker 1: I think I was like maybe in late nineties now.
Speaker 3: Because Obama became president in like eight.
Speaker 4: Yes, so George Bush was like two thousand to two
Speaker 4: thousand and eight, right because he was president.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, okay, so al.
Speaker 4: Gore and George Bush, Uh there was George Bush won
Speaker 4: Florida by five hundred and seventy votes something real little
Speaker 4: like that. And when it's that low, you're allowed to
Speaker 4: like it's an automatic recount. And they and George Bush's
Speaker 4: brother was the governor of Florida.
Speaker 3: So I was like, oh, this is fishy.
Speaker 4: So they were recounting the votes and the Supreme Court
Speaker 4: stopped it. And that's how George Push became president in
Speaker 4: the year two thousand wow. Right, So that's why people
Speaker 4: are like, well, because Gore won the popular vote. So
Speaker 4: it was like, well, isn't that the state where your
Speaker 4: brother works is the state where it's the anyway, this
Speaker 4: is not that Joe Biden is beating him by like
Speaker 4: hundreds and thousands of votes, right, and he's still like.
Speaker 3: It's a scam, it's fake. I'm still president.
Speaker 2: And it's like, and.
Speaker 4: The thing that makes me so upset, so upset, even
Speaker 4: though Joe Biden was winning by so many votes, right,
Speaker 4: we still looked at the map and we still saw
Speaker 4: the percentages and they took their Tory birch flats, and
Speaker 4: these white women came in stronger this fucking time around.
Speaker 2: And it's like, yo, I remember when y'all.
Speaker 4: Bitches were putting up all these black squares and all
Speaker 4: this ship and then come to find out, come to
Speaker 4: find out, y'all came back and vote. Is your husband
Speaker 4: beating you? Why are you voting for? I'm no, I'm
Speaker 4: I'm I'm flabbergascid. I just could not believe it.
Speaker 3: It doesn't make any sense to it does.
Speaker 2: Not make any sense. Tell me that the numbers are wrong.
Speaker 3: Please, no more white women voted for him this time
Speaker 3: around than last time. But also, Matt Latinos.
Speaker 1: Trump Trump, your post brought to my attention to Eva
Speaker 1: Longoria of it all. I had to look that up
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, this is crazy.
Speaker 4: She got her She got her a Zobo ass on
Speaker 4: MSNBC or whatever, the website, whatever the you.
Speaker 2: No, she still used Goya.
Speaker 3: You know, she still used Goya prob you know, she's
Speaker 3: still using them free from Goya.
Speaker 4: And she said, yeah, we see what black women did
Speaker 4: in Georgia, but Latinas were the real heroines of this election.
Speaker 3: And it's like, first of all, you didn't have to
Speaker 3: talk about black women at all.
Speaker 4: You could have cheap And then she tried to fix
Speaker 4: it and say she was talking about Latino women compared
Speaker 4: to Latino men, and it's like, you could you didn't
Speaker 4: have to include black people in that at all. You
Speaker 4: could have just started the sentence with Latino women are
Speaker 4: the first lies, and it's like lies FLRDA. Then well,
Speaker 4: don't backtrack and don't gaslight. Also, what happened to the
Speaker 4: Cubans because they didn't vote for uh, they didn't vote
Speaker 4: for who you saying they voted for?
Speaker 2: She said, she said Latinas. That's different from Cuban.
Speaker 4: Latina is not a Cuban, it is, but you know
Speaker 4: she's talking about like Puerto Rican, Oh, Latinos, Latinas are
Speaker 4: I thought Hispanic people as.
Speaker 2: A whole or Latinas.
Speaker 4: But she's they you know, they don't they don't want
Speaker 4: to claim the Cubans right now.
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter. Cubans belong to them. Cubans are theirs.
Speaker 4: That's they're riding with Cubans on a bus like that's
Speaker 4: they're that's, it's hand in hand.
Speaker 2: I'm still upset.
Speaker 4: I'm still like, babe, how how Jesse, how how did you?
Speaker 2: How did you do that?
Speaker 4: How did you go down there and thought that it
Speaker 4: was the smartest idea? Like we're not going to see
Speaker 4: that you bitches are voting for him.
Speaker 2: I'm upset. I'm upset.
Speaker 4: It's just like y'all talk about women's rights and X,
Speaker 4: Y and Z and blah blah blah, and it's it's
Speaker 4: all for it's all for clout.
Speaker 2: It's all social media and then the real, the real, tea.
Speaker 2: Is that.
Speaker 4: No, Trump being president benefits you as well, So sorry.
Speaker 3: Right, but it's like ultimately it hurts you and people like.
Speaker 4: Well Biden is this, and Butden is that, and it's
Speaker 4: like we're not celebrating Biden winning truly Trump losing.
Speaker 2: I just really truly.
Speaker 4: Needed him and his family to feel like garbage, like
Speaker 4: los like losers for the weekend, because people were dancing
Speaker 4: in the street on Saturday, like honking horns, going ham
Speaker 4: eyeing with strangers, and you know, internationally people were like
Speaker 4: joyous partying because he lost. Paris rang bells, Germany had fireworks,
Speaker 4: like everybody in the world was.
Speaker 3: Like, oh my god, thank you so much. Like people
Speaker 3: were happy.
Speaker 4: Everybody was happy. But there was still it was still
Speaker 4: like not a far off race. People still voted for him.
Speaker 4: It just doesn't if all these people hate him per se,
Speaker 4: then how was he still How is the race still.
Speaker 2: Not far off?
Speaker 3: Well, because it's not that all these people hate him.
Speaker 4: Seventy five million people hate him, but seventy people seventy.
Speaker 3: One million or whatever the number is, million.
Speaker 4: People love him and they agree with him, and they're
Speaker 4: like Trump, you know, Latinos for Trump, but also like
Speaker 4: square states with no lakes for Trump, like all those
Speaker 4: If you look at the map, it's all red.
Speaker 2: Oh, and then the.
Speaker 4: Major cities are blue. And yeah, there's thirteen million people
Speaker 4: in and there's.
Speaker 2: Only a few major cities.
Speaker 4: Everything else is fucking east bumblefuck, middle of the ball,
Speaker 4: sketcher ass mountain.
Speaker 2: Dude drinking like, Oh, I can't stand it. I'm so mad.
Speaker 3: But if you look at.
Speaker 4: Like a map of Pennsylvania, it's all red and then
Speaker 4: there's blue in like the big cities.
Speaker 2: Oh and let's let's get the realty.
Speaker 4: New York City, yes, blue, upstate New York, fucking red, Syracuse, Albany,
Speaker 4: all those places.
Speaker 2: That you're like, I got a cabin for the weekend.
Speaker 2: Them niggas, they don't want no parts them niggas.
Speaker 3: Thank you. Oh I love NSNBCCD.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I just could not believe it. I
Speaker 2: just couldn't.
Speaker 4: I just was like, are we really serious here? And
Speaker 4: then the main one, it's a it's a bad abortion.
Speaker 4: It's a bad abortion. It's like, is it a bad abortion?
Speaker 4: Because the ones who are voting this, SI, you are
Speaker 4: fifty five, fifty five, hidden sixty.
Speaker 2: You can't even get pregnant no more, what do you.
Speaker 3: Get that metopause vote?
Speaker 4: But also, now, why do people care so much about
Speaker 4: what other women choose to do with their bodies? Like, basically,
Speaker 4: I can sit on sixteen dirty dicks and that's my business,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. I've never had an abortion,
Speaker 4: but like I would drive myself to an abortion if
Speaker 4: I needed it. Well, I wouldn't drive myself. I would
Speaker 4: hope that the person to me would have a car.
Speaker 4: You know, That's that's the only way that would work
Speaker 4: for me. But like, let people do what people want
Speaker 4: to do, because when that baby is born, you don't
Speaker 4: give a damn about that kid when he's here. Also,
Speaker 4: y'all don't really care about lives, because if y'all did
Speaker 4: care about lives when it said black lives matter, you
Speaker 4: wouldn't be.
Speaker 2: Like no, no, no, no, no, all lives matter.
Speaker 4: It's like, well, these are the lives that I'm not
Speaker 4: saying are more important than the baby. And someone's stemming,
Speaker 4: but this person was actually like living. This person is
Speaker 4: here and you're out of the uterus, living for several years,
Speaker 4: for so many years, and you don't care about them.
Speaker 3: Speaking of uterus.
Speaker 4: Uh, No, I was I spent the night at somebody's
Speaker 4: house on Friday, God bless, thank you.
Speaker 3: And it was cute, and in the morning it was different.
Speaker 4: I don't know if this has happened to you guys,
Speaker 4: but like at night the night before, it's like, you know,
Speaker 4: it's affection, it's hot, sweaty six, And in the morning
Speaker 4: it was like distant.
Speaker 3: It was like.
Speaker 4: And I'm not saying that we need to like cuddle.
Speaker 4: I'm not saying that we got to sleep spooned up
Speaker 4: in a sport, but I'm saying that, like, like, I
Speaker 4: know what it feels like when somebody wants you at
Speaker 4: their house, and it felt like this person did not
Speaker 4: want me at their house.
Speaker 3: So I woke up in the.
Speaker 4: Morning and he was like, oh, I gotta do I
Speaker 4: gotta send out some emails, and I was like, okay, cool.
Speaker 3: I stayed in the bed.
Speaker 4: This person went into the living room, and after a
Speaker 4: while I was like, well, I guess I'll go into
Speaker 4: the living room too, like I'm lonely. So I get
Speaker 4: up and I go into the living room and he's like, oh,
Speaker 4: I got to go to Target to go pick something
Speaker 4: up for somebody.
Speaker 3: And I was like, right now, we're doing runs to target.
Speaker 3: Oh I didn't know you did door dash.
Speaker 4: But he left and I was like all right, Well,
Speaker 4: he was like, do you need anything from the store.
Speaker 3: I was like, yes, I need this, this, this because
Speaker 3: I was hungry.
Speaker 4: And then he brings me a snack and he's like, oh,
Speaker 4: I got a walk my dog.
Speaker 3: And it was like, wait, I have.
Speaker 1: Not asked you to leave at this point or is
Speaker 1: he just kidding me to leave?
Speaker 3: But he didn't ask me to like walk the dog with.
Speaker 4: I was watching a movie in his living room and
Speaker 4: it was a terrible movie. It was the Keanu Reeves
Speaker 4: Knock Knock. If you haven't seen it, you don't watch it.
Speaker 4: It's trash. But it was like I was in the house,
Speaker 4: like am I going crazy? Like should I have gone
Speaker 4: with him to walk the dog?
Speaker 3: Or I left?
Speaker 4: Like usually he drops me off at my house, like
Speaker 4: he'll be like, all right, let's let's go, or he'll
Speaker 4: get me a car or whatever. But I was just
Speaker 4: in his house and the longer I'm in the house,
Speaker 4: the angrier I'm getting. And I'm like, I'm putting my
Speaker 4: clothes on, I'm putting my my ass lists panties one
Speaker 4: because I'm like, I've spent the night at people's houses before,
Speaker 4: and it's completely different. You wake up in the morning,
Speaker 4: you know, maybe it's a little you know, it's a
Speaker 4: little morning sex, or it's like some kissing, or it's
Speaker 4: like you want some tea? Do you want some coffee?
Speaker 2: I pretended to act like I'm a cook for you, right, But.
Speaker 3: We're having a conversation.
Speaker 4: It's like, well, what you are planning for the day, okay, Well,
Speaker 4: like I gotta get to work, so like I'll see
Speaker 4: you x whatever day, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: But this was none of that. And me and this
Speaker 3: person have been doing this.
Speaker 4: For long enough that it's it wouldn't have been a
Speaker 4: problem if he was like, oh, I gotta do this,
Speaker 4: or I gotta do that, or can I get you
Speaker 4: a car home?
Speaker 3: But I was like, well this is what I get
Speaker 3: because I knew I shouldn't spend the night. So I'm
Speaker 3: like angrily putting my clothes on.
Speaker 4: And I'm stomping down the stairs and on my way
Speaker 4: out of the building, him and the dog are coming
Speaker 4: back inside.
Speaker 3: He's like, where are you going. I was like, I'm
Speaker 3: going home. You were gone for mad law and he's like, oh,
Speaker 3: you know, my dog is old, and you know I
Speaker 3: gotta wait for him. And it was like it doesn't matter,
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna leave.
Speaker 1: Wait, So did he want you to say or not?
Speaker 4: It didn't feel like he wanted me to stay. He
Speaker 4: was gone for like, I want to say, a full hour,
Speaker 4: because I watched the whole movie. I mean I watched
Speaker 4: an hour of it, and then I skipped to the
Speaker 4: end because I was like, this show is pissing me off.
Speaker 3: But he was like, wheare you're going? And it was like,
Speaker 3: it doesn't matter what you're saying with your face right now.
Speaker 4: Everything that you did this morning didn't feel like what
Speaker 4: you're trying to give me at this doorway right now.
Speaker 4: And then I left, and I and also I again
Speaker 4: we you know that word gas light. I don't like
Speaker 4: when someone is like not acknowledging like how I feel
Speaker 4: or what I think is going on, Like just say,
Speaker 4: you know.
Speaker 2: What I did? Take a while? My bad?
Speaker 4: You know the time slipped. I didn't know that. I like,
Speaker 4: I just you know, the.
Speaker 2: Dog was slow. I don't know.
Speaker 4: It just feels like you could see the time that
Speaker 4: this person left, and.
Speaker 2: Like when you came back, it was a long time.
Speaker 4: It's not just that him and the dog took mad long.
Speaker 4: It was every little thing like I'm butt making in
Speaker 4: your bed. This is priority number one booboo, Like, I'm
Speaker 4: in your bed right now with my cities out, So
Speaker 4: what are we.
Speaker 1: Can I can?
Speaker 2: I ask?
Speaker 1: What did he get? Like a morning? Not what?
Speaker 3: Or not? No? Next, I gotta send out stuff. And
Speaker 3: it was like, okay, well, I'm I'm a hang and.
Speaker 1: Then he was like, but like, did you not have
Speaker 1: anything to do today that day?
Speaker 2: Or Andrew?
Speaker 4: I'm sorry against Saturday Andrew Saturday day morning.
Speaker 2: He was a Saturday morning cartoon. How dare you you.
Speaker 4: Woke up at nine am on a Saturday? Okay, funny,
Speaker 4: I had stuff to.
Speaker 1: Do with these Sorry, it was an honest question.
Speaker 2: I just worse than me. You weren't, Marie jump on him.
Speaker 1: Andrew's like, you've unemployed, wealthy, like you have time to
Speaker 1: watch this movie? Just be naked in this man's bed.
Speaker 3: Literally the alarm went off at nine o'clock in the morning.
Speaker 4: And the thing about this person is they're also like
Speaker 4: very much in their phone all the time.
Speaker 3: And it's like when I like, I'll be.
Speaker 4: On my phone when I'm in my house by myself,
Speaker 4: but when people are at my house, I'm not staring
Speaker 4: at my phone the entire time. I'm like being present
Speaker 4: with my friends or my lover or whoever. But like,
Speaker 4: but also I didn't need to be there, and honestly
Speaker 4: that that's on me.
Speaker 3: But I text him in.
Speaker 4: The car because I was so mad, and I was like,
Speaker 4: am I being crazy?
Speaker 2: Damn it sounds it sounds like he's still mad.
Speaker 4: Well, I mean, I'm talking about it now and I
Speaker 4: am still upset, not upset, but like it's irritating. But anyway,
Speaker 4: I text him and I was like, I shouldn't have
Speaker 4: spend the night. Take care and he was like emoji
Speaker 4: peace sign. I said take care because this is not
Speaker 4: something that like I'm we're not together. So he was like,
Speaker 4: he's something along the lines of being with me is stressful.
Speaker 3: And I was like, I I'm not going to fun.
Speaker 4: I'm going to turn to the council, to the group
Speaker 4: chat and they'll talk me off this ledge. And that's
Speaker 4: what you know Sydney and Mina and Carolina did for me,
Speaker 4: because I was like, am I insane?
Speaker 3: Is this a lifetime movie that I'm in right now?
Speaker 4: Like girl, no, girl, It's like okay, but like backstory
Speaker 4: is I mean you you kind of had ended things
Speaker 4: with this person, yes, and so bruck up like two
Speaker 4: weeks ago, three right, the backstory, Okay, that's what happened.
Speaker 4: And then we had been sixteen yes, a week right. Well,
Speaker 4: I guess because I knew I was going to see
Speaker 4: him before the end of the year, because you have
Speaker 4: you have to go back one time when you say
Speaker 4: something is done, at least once you go back and then.
Speaker 3: You say oh, or you say this is why I left,
Speaker 3: And that's what That's what it was. You know.
Speaker 4: The Friday night was cool and then the Saturday morning
Speaker 4: was not, and I was like, m and I'll never
Speaker 4: be here again.
Speaker 3: This is that's why I was like, take care.
Speaker 4: And then he was like it's stressful and I was like, okay,
Speaker 4: well I will say Marie that one You're not stressful,
Speaker 4: but it does feel like, I mean, you know, we've
Speaker 4: been we've been friends for a minute now, and like
Speaker 4: you're that kind of person. Yeah, I don't really want
Speaker 4: to let you down, Like, yeah, I could. I could
Speaker 4: let down tons of people, but you're one of the
Speaker 4: You're one of the people that I'm like, fuck, I
Speaker 4: would hate for you to.
Speaker 2: Be disappointed with me.
Speaker 4: That's so so that is that is a little stressful
Speaker 4: at times.
Speaker 3: Interesting.
Speaker 1: I just think, I mean, it's I think it's good
Speaker 1: that you you did this. You have this experience as
Speaker 1: like sort of closure, and like, uh, it's validating. It
Speaker 1: seems that it's just like, Okay, this person doesn't.
Speaker 3: But I feel like Eva Longoria butt coming. But but
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 1: If you needed to stay as long as you did
Speaker 1: to be like infuriated.
Speaker 4: And I mean, Andrew, we were having sex all night long, yes,
Speaker 4: but holl out, I'm supposed to run like a whore
Speaker 4: in the night at five o'clock in the morning or whatever.
Speaker 1: What it's not at five o'clock in the morning. It's
Speaker 1: nine a m. And I think that's it.
Speaker 3: I'm telling you.
Speaker 4: When we stopped having it was like four a in Okay,
Speaker 4: So you're telling me that at that time, me, my
Speaker 4: bra my ze rag. Everything has to leave after right.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that I would be rather be pissed
Speaker 1: in my own apartment than someone someone's apartment while they're
Speaker 1: at Target. I don't know, that's just me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I guess you're right, but I honestly
Speaker 3: I didn't think.
Speaker 4: I don't know, it doesn't matter because I don't want
Speaker 4: to be with this person and I didn't want to
Speaker 4: be with the like. But you know, sometimes it be
Speaker 4: people's ego though, because I will say that before I
Speaker 4: was all the way gay, you know, I was in
Speaker 4: a relationship with a man for I don't know, like
Speaker 4: a year and a half or two, and I broke
Speaker 4: up with him because I didn't like his moves and
Speaker 4: I felt like he needed to do better. And then
Speaker 4: of course I hit him up I don't know, like
Speaker 4: a month after and with the you.
Speaker 2: Know, let's hook up.
Speaker 4: And the next morning he was like distant, he was
Speaker 4: like okay, he wasn't treated me the same because in
Speaker 4: his eyes, it's like, well, you don't want to be
Speaker 4: with me, and now you're just coming over here because
Speaker 4: you want to hook up, so I'm supposed to be
Speaker 4: all over you.
Speaker 3: But like, I still think I think that there's some
Speaker 3: of that.
Speaker 4: He's like, I still feel a type of way you
Speaker 4: leaving me out to dry. Yeah, I get that, and
Speaker 4: I think that there could have been some ego there
Speaker 4: as well. But like I mean, if you're trying to
Speaker 4: get back with me, which is what the situation was.
Speaker 3: Then you should orders for, which is what I thought
Speaker 3: the situation was.
Speaker 2: That's what you thought, didn't that what he said?
Speaker 3: Girl? We don't have conversations like that no more because
Speaker 3: we're not together.
Speaker 4: So it's like I went there on Friday thinking, Oh,
Speaker 4: we're gonna have a conversation, like we're gonna talk. And
Speaker 4: when I was at his house, I was like, I
Speaker 4: don't actually, I don't want to talk about this because
Speaker 4: I don't want to get back together, like I just
Speaker 4: I was literally.
Speaker 3: There just to have sex. So Andrew's right, I should have.
Speaker 4: Left at four am, like thank you, yes, like Mary,
Speaker 4: Andrew does have a point. He does and I and
Speaker 4: I think that's why I was so mad in the morning,
Speaker 4: because I was like, I shouldn't be here. I should
Speaker 4: not be here, and I'm like putting my stuff on
Speaker 4: to leave, and I'm like, I'm like, well, I'm not
Speaker 4: gonna see him.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say that I'm leaving. I'm just gonna leave.
Speaker 4: And then I bummed into him at the front door
Speaker 4: and I was like god damn, Like I didn't have
Speaker 4: nothing prepared to say.
Speaker 3: I was just mad.
Speaker 1: You know, how do you spend the rest of your day?
Speaker 1: I mean, it was Saturday, we got.
Speaker 3: This Saturday, we got the news.
Speaker 4: Well, when I was waiting for my uber, I heard
Speaker 4: all the horns honking and people screaming in the street,
Speaker 4: and I was like, what's happening? And then my uber
Speaker 4: driver was like, what's up? And I was like, I
Speaker 4: think maybe the Trump thing, and he turned the radio on.
Speaker 4: We started screaming in the car together. So the rest
Speaker 4: of my Saturday was lovely.
Speaker 2: It was a good Saturday.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Sydney's name on on you know, I
Speaker 1: just noticed, did you just change it?
Speaker 4: I'm gonna change And then went to uh the SNL
Speaker 4: taping to see Chappelle.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, how was that?
Speaker 4: First of all, they made us do our own I
Speaker 4: changed my name too. They made us do our own
Speaker 4: COVID tests.
Speaker 2: Oh that ship was.
Speaker 4: I don't want to do stuff to I don't be honest.
Speaker 4: I don't really like masturbating. I want somebody else to
Speaker 4: do it. So that's how I felt.
Speaker 2: I felt like I had to take care of myself
Speaker 2: and I didn't. I didn't want.
Speaker 4: That said, what do I have to do it?
Speaker 2: Yow all the way off.
Speaker 1: Does anybody prefer masturbating over actual intercourse? Right?
Speaker 2: I want somebody else to do it. I don't really want,
Speaker 2: you know, to do it myself.
Speaker 3: Anybody prefers masturbating.
Speaker 2: Over I don't know. I've talked to some men and
Speaker 2: they're like, yeah.
Speaker 3: Rather masturbate than have sex with a human being.
Speaker 1: There are a lot of people that don't know what
Speaker 1: they're doing, so it's like, let me just finish the job.
Speaker 4: M and it's like, you know what you want and
Speaker 4: it's gonna be like boom boom, thank you, bam, mam, mam.
Speaker 2: You know, no, not me AnyWho. Yeah, we went to
Speaker 2: SNL and that was dope.
Speaker 4: That was cool, you know, just to get to see
Speaker 4: comedy again and people doing what they love or they're
Speaker 4: actual getting paid to do a career based thing that
Speaker 4: isn't in the confines of their home.
Speaker 2: It was It was nice to see that.
Speaker 4: But also it was just great to be with my
Speaker 4: friends and like hug each other. Yeah, and it was
Speaker 4: a nice night and we had a nice little group together.
Speaker 4: But you know, we had to leave our mests on
Speaker 4: the entire time from like when we walked into thirty
Speaker 4: rock to. When we left, I was like, but you
Speaker 4: made me like a test, like I should be able
Speaker 4: to take this off.
Speaker 3: Everybody in here is negative. And it was like, no,
Speaker 3: put it on.
Speaker 4: And then they sat us in the nosebleeds in the
Speaker 4: dark corner shadows of snls and I was like, well,
Speaker 4: I'm not going to collap for any of this.
Speaker 2: We was so mad. She was like, I'm glad I
Speaker 2: didn't waste an outfit.
Speaker 1: How many people are there in this in the audience.
Speaker 2: It seemed like a lot.
Speaker 4: It wasn't a lot because they took a bunch of
Speaker 4: the seats out, but everybody that was there had to
Speaker 4: be in a group of eight, So I don't know,
Speaker 4: maybe there was like eight groups of eight.
Speaker 3: I don't have no idea.
Speaker 2: You don't know. I don't do numbers.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not really a numerologist's ma'am. I'm make me quit,
Speaker 4: you know, but I want to go back to Marie.
Speaker 4: You know, this is this is a great time for
Speaker 4: you and other people like yourself.
Speaker 2: It's like the holidays are coming up.
Speaker 4: We don't need to pretend that things are closer than
Speaker 4: they are.
Speaker 2: You know, either either I'm gonna run free or I'll
Speaker 2: be by myself.
Speaker 4: But this is like that grey area during the hellish
Speaker 4: year that we have we don't need.
Speaker 2: We can pick pick.
Speaker 4: You know that dating relationship thing back up in February
Speaker 4: the sixteenth, you know, says cuffing season is among us,
Speaker 4: and uh, you know we uh, I am back to
Speaker 4: getting my little roster together for the twenty twenty one
Speaker 4: school years.
Speaker 3: So don't don't say that.
Speaker 4: You know that's different, because that that's you're like openly dating,
Speaker 4: but you're not looking for the one.
Speaker 3: But I don't think that I was ever looking for
Speaker 3: the one.
Speaker 4: I was having fun with one and it was like, oh,
Speaker 4: this is cool, and then it wasn't cool no more,
Speaker 4: and then he went to Target.
Speaker 3: So that is what happened with that. But I and
Speaker 3: I also.
Speaker 4: Like that text about it being stressful and not knowing
Speaker 4: what I want and not knowing what I need.
Speaker 3: It's like, well you should.
Speaker 4: If it's stressful to be with somebody, why are you
Speaker 4: with that person? Can we be adults about this, Like
Speaker 4: if somebody is like any time you're getting ready to
Speaker 4: see somebody, you're like your heart is beating and your
Speaker 4: palms are sweaty, and you feel like eminem in eight miles.
Speaker 4: Then maybe you need to sit and think about why
Speaker 4: you feel like that before you link up with somebody. No, friend,
Speaker 4: I don't think I think he is stressful, and it
Speaker 4: might have been the moment that he was talking to you,
Speaker 4: but I don't think he means like I'm anxious when
Speaker 4: I'm around you. I think that Sydney, that's exactly what
Speaker 4: he meant, because in the text he was like, I
Speaker 4: feel like I'm gonna disappoint you and blah blah blah
Speaker 4: blah blah, and it's like, well, the language.
Speaker 3: Is wrong here. You would have just said I'm not
Speaker 3: going to disappoint you.
Speaker 4: I'm going to try my best to bla like, but
Speaker 4: the language was ah, this is hard.
Speaker 3: You are hard.
Speaker 4: This is hard, and it's like, okay, well if it's hard,
Speaker 4: then stop doing it because I'm done. It's really not that,
Speaker 4: it's actually quite easy. Like, yes, relationships overall take work.
Speaker 4: But if all you feel like is ah, I'm afraid
Speaker 4: to do this because that might be the wrong move,
Speaker 4: or I don't want to say the wrong thing because
Speaker 4: that might upset her, or is this okay, then that's
Speaker 4: not the person that you're supposed to be with, dude,
Speaker 4: like relax and step back, stand by and step back,
Speaker 4: like what do you what are you doing to see yourself.
Speaker 2: For I mean, I will say I will say.
Speaker 4: You know you guys, remember when I was in a long,
Speaker 4: long relationship and I felt like that, But it had
Speaker 4: nothing to do with her. It was just like I
Speaker 4: was mismanaging my life and my emotions.
Speaker 2: And it was like, I can't really be in a
Speaker 2: relationship right now.
Speaker 4: I need to focus on me and work the work
Speaker 4: that I have to do within myself. So I don't
Speaker 4: necessarily think that like the last person that I was
Speaker 4: with was stressful, but me trying to make someone, not
Speaker 4: make them happy, but me just trying to be a
Speaker 4: present person when I I really couldn't.
Speaker 2: That is stressful.
Speaker 4: Okay, I received that friend, but I also don't care.
Speaker 4: I mean, you know, these things happen, and we have
Speaker 4: instincts and intuition and we have them for a reason.
Speaker 4: And everything in my mind was like should I should
Speaker 4: get in like I knew and I shouldn't have been
Speaker 4: there on Friday.
Speaker 3: I was just being a horny little Haitian.
Speaker 2: And I was like, you were, lady.
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm just sit on it and leave.
Speaker 2: And then it was like you, we're ready.
Speaker 3: I was fully prepared.
Speaker 4: So like what you're saying about being in a relationship
Speaker 4: with somebody and being you know, dealing with depression and
Speaker 4: like being on edge about making somebody happy when you're.
Speaker 3: Not happy is all valid. But and that may or
Speaker 3: may not be the case here with him, but it
Speaker 3: also doesn't matter. He's not my man no more.
Speaker 4: And uh, we're you know, we're moving on working that
Speaker 4: word friend and it is what it is.
Speaker 3: You know, I'm a grown up.
Speaker 4: I mean, you're taking this hit different, hit different, hy
Speaker 4: different hit different. I I just right now, I mean,
Speaker 4: just this would be tough for me to like let
Speaker 4: go of somebody because it feels good to like know
Speaker 4: that somebody is available and can talk to you and
Speaker 4: eventually were like an available babe.
Speaker 3: This person was at Targa, So that's unavailable to me,
Speaker 3: you know.
Speaker 4: And you, I mean, honey, if your emotions are still
Speaker 4: in the uber, we can't work.
Speaker 2: This is not gonna work.
Speaker 4: If you forgot your emotions in the uber, just get
Speaker 4: back in the uber, babe, babe.
Speaker 3: Andrew, you have, that's what you do.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm just like, I just think it's
Speaker 1: really great that you had this experience where it's like
Speaker 1: you're able to talk about it and be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: it happened, and I know this is not what I like.
Speaker 1: You know, he still left you at his apartment. He
Speaker 1: didn't rightfully, like not rightfully, he didn't like tell you
Speaker 1: to like leave his apartment, you know while he was gone,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 3: So yes, okay, okay.
Speaker 1: So I don't know. I don't think he's as villainous
Speaker 1: as maybe we're making him out to be.
Speaker 3: I'm not saying that he's the villain.
Speaker 4: I'm saying that I knew I shouldn't have been there,
Speaker 4: and I went after breaking this person to spin out
Speaker 4: of the.
Speaker 1: Night right because that's because that's less scary than meeting
Speaker 1: up with someone else that would be insane. You know, I'm.
Speaker 3: Back out here.
Speaker 4: Wendy Williams says the best way to get over a
Speaker 4: man is to get under another man.
Speaker 1: So we are taking relationship advice from when Williams.
Speaker 4: You won't no no offense. We just can't and we
Speaker 4: won't and we shouldn't.
Speaker 3: And I should take from Wendy Williams is that it's
Speaker 3: how to get over somebody is to get under somebody else.
Speaker 2: I say take I say take her tea.
Speaker 4: And even that's like girl misinformation all the time.
Speaker 3: Sources say that's wrong.
Speaker 1: She doesn't even know how to pronounce corona. She pronounces
Speaker 1: it cornova.
Speaker 2: Hilarious, full mess.
Speaker 3: Well, she's a mess. I hope she gets the help
Speaker 3: that she needs. But these things happen, and it's fine.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I wish that.
Speaker 4: I wish I wasn't a serial monogamous person. I wish I, like,
Speaker 4: I haven't had a well I did have a like
Speaker 4: an eat prey local hoe situation, you know, years ago,
Speaker 4: but I never really got to like go off as
Speaker 4: an adult adults, like my own apartment, you know, just
Speaker 4: having different people up in my in my crib doing
Speaker 4: what I want. I didn't have a uh, she's gotta
Speaker 4: have it, Nola Darling type of life.
Speaker 2: And so sometimes I'm like damn.
Speaker 4: But also I'm like yo, I'm tired, I am exhausted,
Speaker 4: I can't and the apps are stupid and people are
Speaker 4: dumb and not in good places.
Speaker 3: Right now.
Speaker 2: This is just I commend you. I salute you.
Speaker 4: I am tipping my motherfucking hat Forrie because you're doing
Speaker 4: the work.
Speaker 2: You're doing the work.
Speaker 4: No wording that you're using makes it seem like I
Speaker 4: got a revolve and ass door of an.
Speaker 2: No no no no no no no no no no
Speaker 2: no no.
Speaker 3: No, doing the work, babe.
Speaker 4: And it's like, oh, I mean they're like you. Some
Speaker 4: people act like, oh my god, I didn't.
Speaker 2: Work out with somebody, What am I gonna do?
Speaker 4: I'm stuck, And you were like, actually, no, I'm gonna
Speaker 4: get Mike. I'm gonna get i HO adjacent cape back
Speaker 4: on and get back in the streets.
Speaker 3: It's a whole cloak. Uh well, yeah, I think it's.
Speaker 4: Because, as we said, I stop seeing this person. I
Speaker 4: broke up with this dude like three weeks ago, so
Speaker 4: I've had time to think about why I needed to
Speaker 4: do that before I did it, because it was like
Speaker 4: a build up, and then after it happened, it was
Speaker 4: like I felt lighter.
Speaker 3: It was like, oh, that was what I needed to do.
Speaker 3: It was like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders.
Speaker 4: That doesn't mean that I didn't miss, you know, banging them,
Speaker 4: but I ultimately like know that I did the right
Speaker 4: thing by ending things.
Speaker 3: He's not in the like we're not in the right place.
Speaker 3: Our lives are in two completely different lanes right now,
Speaker 3: and it's like I don't have to actually be here.
Speaker 4: I chose to be here, and now I feel dumb
Speaker 4: and I'm mad about it and I'm leaving.
Speaker 3: So that's it's not that.
Speaker 4: I'm like I'm more mature and also like I don't
Speaker 4: when somebody shows you the true colors, you just gotta
Speaker 4: believe them, siss. And it was like I knew what
Speaker 4: you were when I got here on Friday.
Speaker 2: What's that true colors?
Speaker 3: Uh, it's like your aura is very shady. It's it's
Speaker 3: in the air. Yeah, we talked full circle. Sys, Let's
Speaker 3: go back.
Speaker 4: To uh the beginning of the episode.
Speaker 3: It's a little orange. But I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 4: I feel like Sidney, you're a nice person and you
Speaker 4: sometimes put people above yourself and you could take better
Speaker 4: care of yourself but you don't want to. But I
Speaker 4: feel like you're doing some of the work and you
Speaker 4: just got to keep doing that work, that's all. And
Speaker 4: you like being in relationships. You love a long ass relationship,
Speaker 4: Sydney and miss Bitch.
Speaker 2: I just it's not that I don't get complacent.
Speaker 4: It's just like I know know that I have ADHD
Speaker 4: and I can't.
Speaker 2: I can't have all these you know that.
Speaker 4: You know what I tried to do in the beginning
Speaker 4: of the quarantine, and that was just dumb.
Speaker 2: So I gotta stay more focused.
Speaker 3: Well, we're not all built the same. Some people like
Speaker 3: being in relationships.
Speaker 4: They find what they like, they find what makes them
Speaker 4: feel good, and they they're there. Other people, you know,
Speaker 4: they it's like a buffet. They want a little bit
Speaker 4: of everything. They want somebody to do this, They want
Speaker 4: somebody to do that. They're like, well, I need this
Speaker 4: person for that. This person eats my ass, this person
Speaker 4: has a car, you know what I mean. Like people,
Speaker 4: some people like to do a little bit of everything,
Speaker 4: and some people like to one person to do everything
Speaker 4: for them.
Speaker 3: So I think that's who we are.
Speaker 2: Friend. Yeah, Andrew, I'm surprised that you didn't change your name.
Speaker 1: Oh, I'll change it right now. Let's see.
Speaker 4: I think we name yeah, because you know, I'm taking
Speaker 4: a picture of it.
Speaker 1: There we go, Marie, Do.
Speaker 2: I like that? I love that for you.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna forget that I named myself this
Speaker 1: and go into the next zoom and fully.
Speaker 4: Be Marie no, No, I think it'll go back to
Speaker 4: the default.
Speaker 2: You'll go back to Is that true? Yeah, so it does.
Speaker 1: I don't want an hr complain.
Speaker 4: A zoom background. It don't come back for the next thing.
Speaker 4: I actually don't know how to do background.
Speaker 1: Wait does this man listen to the podcast? Still?
Speaker 2: Surely do? Sure? Sure does?
Speaker 1: Okay, just wanted to clarify. Okay, Well, I.
Speaker 4: Didn't say anything bad, anything bad, and I said all
Speaker 4: things that I would say to him if I ever
Speaker 4: responded to his text. But you know, also he should
Speaker 4: it be listening to the podcast because I'll stress you
Speaker 4: about So why are you listening?
Speaker 3: Why are you listening to me? At work?
Speaker 4: Oh my god, Marie, Marie, you feel some type away?
Speaker 2: Feel some type away? You feel some type away?
Speaker 3: Anyway, I feel fine. Anything else on the docket for
Speaker 3: the day? Andrew?
Speaker 4: Uh, where are you in terms of single ass Marie
Speaker 4: and monogamous?
Speaker 2: Where?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: I'm leaning more toward the Sydney of it all.
Speaker 4: Ay, let's go, let's go.
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, no, it's been. It started off, like, you know,
Speaker 1: a week before quarantine meeting up and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would like typically like still
Speaker 1: see that person. But like just the fact that you know,
Speaker 1: we were like comforting each other during the craziness.
Speaker 3: Of marchin comforting each other exactly.
Speaker 1: Yes, And I love.
Speaker 2: A support uh dog type of situation.
Speaker 1: Yes, support dog Dick. Yes, I hate that visual. That's disgusting.
Speaker 1: I will write it down if you'd like. But yeah, no,
Speaker 1: it's it's going well.
Speaker 2: Emotional support, Dick.
Speaker 1: Emotional support Dick.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what it is.
Speaker 3: We're talking about the.
Speaker 1: Dogs, Dick, and we don't want to we don't want
Speaker 1: to talk about that, but.
Speaker 2: We do want people to click. So I'm just saying.
Speaker 1: Emotional support, Dick. I think they'll come.
Speaker 4: Out for Okay, Okay, so go ahead, Andrew, you were
Speaker 4: comforting each other.
Speaker 1: Emotional and and I don't know how much I want to, like,
Speaker 1: I guess talk about it in a public format.
Speaker 2: But wow, things have changed.
Speaker 1: That's how you know. That's how you know? Like I care?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yep, So what the fuck are me and Marie?
Speaker 3: We care?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Marie's pretty complacent about this man listening to this
Speaker 1: entire episode. Uh so, yeah, no, it's going well. He
Speaker 1: met my mom and sister the other day.
Speaker 4: Oh bitch, Oh wow, you're beyond Sydney.
Speaker 3: You are you getting a ring? He went to jail.
Speaker 1: Okay, No, here's the thing I was.
Speaker 2: I was, here's the thing. Here's the thing.
Speaker 1: Over the weekend, while everyone was celebrating in their in
Speaker 1: their giant cities, I was at home and in Red County,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: I can't believe.
Speaker 4: I'm blown away that you would take you would take
Speaker 4: your gay ass all the way to Long Island.
Speaker 1: I'm not from Long Island for the last time, Sydney,
Speaker 1: from from New Jersey, Long Island from like the southern
Speaker 1: point of New Jersey, and uh, and so like no
Speaker 1: one was celebrating on Saturday. It's like another day, no one.
Speaker 1: It was whatever, And so I wanted to come back.
Speaker 1: Even Kathy, Kathy was Kathy.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean we went to the beach and we had
Speaker 1: she had her first white claw on the beach. It
Speaker 1: was cute, and so that was a celebration. Then on Sunday,
Speaker 1: my mom obviously doesn't want to drive all the way
Speaker 1: back to New York City. That's like a two and
Speaker 1: a half hour drive one way, and so my you know,
Speaker 1: emotional support. Dick. He texted and he said, I can
Speaker 1: pick you up, and I was like, you're not coming
Speaker 1: all the way.
Speaker 2: Either, so we just can't pick you. Now that gets
Speaker 2: me wet, I can pick you up.
Speaker 1: Whoa, And so we met halfway.
Speaker 3: Yeah, list so your mom drove you an hour, he
Speaker 3: drove an hour.
Speaker 2: Yes, Oh, you guys are in college. That's so cute.
Speaker 3: You have laundry in the car.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, of course, yeah, one car to the other.
Speaker 1: It's going well, oh he has a car. Well he's
Speaker 1: here's he's from New Jersey. He lives in New Jersey.
Speaker 1: That's a little bit of a dowd. But you know
Speaker 1: that means he has a really.
Speaker 2: Nice you say it, down grade.
Speaker 3: Lower at a lower volume university.
Speaker 2: Yes, that should be the title. Dating in New Jersey
Speaker 2: is a downgrade.
Speaker 1: It's getting a little long.
Speaker 2: You're right, you're right, Okay, Sorry.
Speaker 3: You're trying to alienate the New Jerseyans.
Speaker 4: Absolutely, especially if they're voting for fucking drunk.
Speaker 3: Did Jersey go blue or red?
Speaker 1: Blue? But there's like, you know, it's there's parts that
Speaker 1: are read obviously.
Speaker 3: Yes, well, most of the country is red.
Speaker 4: The major the majorly populated cities are blue, and that's
Speaker 4: what turns the state red.
Speaker 3: I mean, oh, Wow, what are time to be alive?
Speaker 4: Everybody's in love and living their very best lives this week.
Speaker 3: I love this for us.
Speaker 4: I mean I saw Marie on Saturday and I was like, wow,
Speaker 4: Marie looks so good.
Speaker 2: I would date her.
Speaker 3: Thank you Sidney emotionally support coach.
Speaker 4: I was like, damn Saturday, I almost tried to try
Speaker 4: tried to hold your hand when we were in the park.
Speaker 3: Well, that's because your fingers were cold and you were.
Speaker 2: And so I was holding Devin's hand. I was so cold.
Speaker 3: First of all, watch it it was hot on Saturday.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it wasn't cold. What are you talking about.
Speaker 3: We were outside in no coats. The park felt very.
Speaker 4: I am legend, but like instead of zombies, it was young,
Speaker 4: drunk white people and at.
Speaker 2: One point they started, which are also zombies.
Speaker 4: This drunk girl came over to us and she's like,
Speaker 4: when I say Biden, you say Harris.
Speaker 3: And we just looked at her and she was like,
Speaker 3: what the fuck?
Speaker 2: Really? So you voted for Trump?
Speaker 4: And it was like, bitch, if you don't take you
Speaker 4: and your skippies out of here goodbye, you gonna.
Speaker 3: Get them rolled up. Tori Birch flats up out my.
Speaker 4: Face, but yeah, she she was very drunk. Everybody in
Speaker 4: the park was wasted. And at one point somebody started
Speaker 4: lighting fireworks and we were like.
Speaker 3: We gotta go.
Speaker 2: Some some white guy was burning a flag.
Speaker 4: It was crazy. I was like, what is this? Are
Speaker 4: we gonna die here tonight?
Speaker 2: We gotta go. Sprinklers.
Speaker 4: The sprinklers went on and caught people and that was
Speaker 4: so funny. Yeah, that I loved. I love to see.
Speaker 3: I do actually love that. All in all, a beautiful saturday.
Speaker 4: Oh but before uh well not before we go, but oh,
Speaker 4: I I have an update that.
Speaker 2: You know, my lover is gonna be here for a while.
Speaker 4: And I'm really excited because I think when I get
Speaker 4: in the house by myself, like I love my space
Speaker 4: because I know that I'm going to procrastinate, I'm gonna
Speaker 4: bullshit procrastinate bullshit, I'm gonna get in a really dark
Speaker 4: place and I don't have to worry about somebody hovering
Speaker 4: over me, and so I think it's probably best that
Speaker 4: somebody is here making sure I'm like getting up and
Speaker 4: I'm eating and I'm making sure there's lights on in
Speaker 4: the house and not being in the dark.
Speaker 3: I feel like there's always lights on at your house.
Speaker 3: Don't do that. You definitely don't need nobody, don't.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like that pink like light.
Speaker 3: He doesn't turn them off, So what do you say?
Speaker 2: No? But I think I need to stop.
Speaker 4: I like love when it hits five o'clock because then
Speaker 4: it's like, hey, I can make it look like a
Speaker 4: nightclurb in here, and it's just like, girl.
Speaker 1: You're the only person that's getting excited about it being
Speaker 1: pitch dark at five. I hate this. This is the world.
Speaker 4: Yesterday I spent most of the day procrastinating because I
Speaker 4: was like, oh, I'm gonna do this and then I'm
Speaker 4: gonna go outside this And then I looked and I was.
Speaker 3: Like, why is this so dark? It's nice time? And
Speaker 3: it was five pm? And I was like, why did
Speaker 3: anybody tell me? I mean, I guess it was a
Speaker 3: little bit earlier than that. But the sun starts to
Speaker 3: go down. I think at like three it does.
Speaker 2: It really really does.
Speaker 3: So Sidney, you're gonna have somebody to chaperone you, is
Speaker 3: what you was saying.
Speaker 4: Not chaperone, but just hold me accountable and make sure
Speaker 4: that like you know, because I forgot that, like oh,
Speaker 4: I was already depressed, right, So then there's like pandemic depression,
Speaker 4: and then there's seasonal depression. So it's like a depression
Speaker 4: sandwich in this bitch, and I can't have this. I'm
Speaker 4: not on this time. I'm not on my watch. That's nonexistent. Yeah,
Speaker 4: you're definitely doing with like double stuffed depression over there.
Speaker 4: And I think that it's important to I mean, I
Speaker 4: get it because I'm to be in the house by myself.
Speaker 4: And then sometimes somebody will call me and they'll be
Speaker 4: like or they'll text me and be like, girl, I'm
Speaker 4: outside or are you home? And it's like I know
Speaker 4: the person wants to come in.
Speaker 2: Here, and it's like, yeah, yeah, this is my space.
Speaker 4: I mean it's up and down, but usually I like
Speaker 4: to be here by myself for.
Speaker 3: The most part.
Speaker 4: But every once in a while, like my cousin will
Speaker 4: will be like, I'm downstairs with some banana pudding and
Speaker 4: I'll be like, it's always nice to see him, you know,
Speaker 4: he like always makes me feel better because he's just nice.
Speaker 4: And then certain friends will come over and it's like,
Speaker 4: I guess it's nice to see her too.
Speaker 2: Is she talking about me?
Speaker 4: Who knowsh You'll never know but you'll never fucking yo.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I think.
Speaker 4: It's important to not isolate ourselves. And I'm saying that
Speaker 4: as somebody who likes to be in the house by myself.
Speaker 4: But I think it's important too. Even if you're giving
Speaker 4: yourself like maybe two days a week where you either
Speaker 4: one you go to somebody else's house or two you
Speaker 4: invite someone into your space. I think that that is
Speaker 4: very important, you know, safely, of course. But I mean,
Speaker 4: I'm having y'all come over this weekend. This weekend and
Speaker 4: I'm cooking for my friends.
Speaker 2: I can't wait. I'm going to kiss you on the mouth. What. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm excited.
Speaker 4: I don't know where you're cooking, but whatever, it is
Speaker 4: going to be, like, m better. Yeah, I'm looking at
Speaker 4: recipes on the Epicurious in the New York Times.
Speaker 3: What should I cook for the week?
Speaker 2: Do you have?
Speaker 4: Do you have something that you a suggestion friend that
Speaker 4: might get my creative cooking juices flowing?
Speaker 2: Something with noodles? Okay, like Apasta?
Speaker 1: When is sid can Cook coming back? We talk about it?
Speaker 3: Or maybe when is it coming back?
Speaker 2: Baby? Yeah?
Speaker 4: I think I I think I've hit rock bottom right
Speaker 4: now in the sense that like I don't want to
Speaker 4: do anything, Like I stayed up all last night trying
Speaker 4: to finish this writing packet and I just don't.
Speaker 2: I don't have it any and so I want to
Speaker 2: do sid can't cook, But I'm also like, I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't have it. I don't have it.
Speaker 4: If somebody, if Carolina came down here and helped me
Speaker 4: set up, I could probably do it. But me having
Speaker 4: to do it on my own and like go to
Speaker 4: the grocery store and and then set everything. Marie, you
Speaker 4: saw when you come here, Like I'm doing it all
Speaker 4: day and I'm going crazy and I'm making sure everything
Speaker 4: is on time, and and she's eating the oven at noon.
Speaker 4: It's like this here oven is hot, but she's putting
Speaker 4: on a look. She's encrusting her eyes with jewels.
Speaker 3: She's sick, can't cook. Is an all day affair for real?
Speaker 2: And I get it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess it's draining, but I mean not.
Speaker 4: Really, It's just one day. It's like one day girl
Speaker 4: that actually you enjoyed doing.
Speaker 2: But I think I.
Speaker 4: Definitely have to go get a therapist again, because I
Speaker 4: think I'm in a I think I'm in a.
Speaker 2: Really not a good place. I'm not. I don't think
Speaker 2: I am.
Speaker 4: Okay, actually, well, I mean I think that you just
Speaker 4: said that you're in a double triple stuffed depression sandwich
Speaker 4: a big mac if you will. But you know, I
Speaker 4: had been doing a lot of research on depression recently
Speaker 4: because of, you know, my current situation. And it's more
Speaker 4: than just antidepressants. It's you have to make lifestyle changes.
Speaker 4: The food that you eat affects your mood, the like
Speaker 4: working out is also something that like makes people happy
Speaker 4: when you're done doing it. Like it's stuff that's gonna
Speaker 4: like give you dopamine and serotonin and like bring you joy.
Speaker 4: But you have to change more than just you know,
Speaker 4: whether or not you're on antidepressants in order to actually
Speaker 4: be happy.
Speaker 3: When it comes to depression.
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, absolutely, And I know that from just like
Speaker 4: personal experience, because yeah, I'm on antidepressants and.
Speaker 2: I'm I'm doing better than I.
Speaker 4: Was last year, but oh my god, like I'm still struggling.
Speaker 4: So I don't even know how I was managing last year,
Speaker 4: to be honest, And it's gracious, you know, like I
Speaker 4: still feel blah, Like I got I got some kind
Speaker 4: of good news yesterday, and I felt nothing. I was
Speaker 4: just like, Okay, and yesterday, oh about that podcast for
Speaker 4: Sydney is cheating on this podcast with yet another podcast.
Speaker 2: I'm not cheating. I'm trying to double the numbers, honey.
Speaker 3: Okay. I love that for us.
Speaker 4: And I'm trying to get Marie more money.
Speaker 3: I love that for me even more.
Speaker 4: I'm trying to get and I'm trying to get Andrew
Speaker 4: some work.
Speaker 3: Okay, So Sydney, what are you gonna do? What are
Speaker 3: I mean? Today? The week is almost over? What are
Speaker 3: some things we're gonna do?
Speaker 4: Maybe give me like two give me something you're gonna
Speaker 4: do this week to combat this feeling of blindness.
Speaker 2: I have to clean my house. Like my house is just.
Speaker 4: I hate it, like it's probably the worst it's ever
Speaker 4: been at this moment.
Speaker 3: Really let me see.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like you just showed the other corner.
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, it looks fine.
Speaker 4: The living room is okay, but like the second bedroom,
Speaker 4: oh my god, so rich the second bedroom is isn't
Speaker 4: mess my bedroom?
Speaker 2: I have like clothes on the floor.
Speaker 4: Remember when I took those clothes out of my dresser,
Speaker 4: They're still on the floor.
Speaker 2: Well, no, I think I close.
Speaker 3: I don't remember that, friend, when.
Speaker 4: You came over for turkey burgers, I had clothes all
Speaker 4: over the floor, right, But.
Speaker 3: I don't remember you taking them out. I just feel
Speaker 3: like that's.
Speaker 2: Why I was on the phone with you when I
Speaker 2: took them out of my dresser.
Speaker 4: So to answer your question, remember when I took those
Speaker 4: clothes out my dresser?
Speaker 2: Remember?
Speaker 3: I don't remember.
Speaker 4: But Sydney, I feel like there's always clothes on your floor.
Speaker 4: You you get back from a trip and the suitcase
Speaker 4: be on the floor with the cat laying in it.
Speaker 2: I think the cat broke the microphone. To be honest, do.
Speaker 1: Not blame it on the cat. Don't do that.
Speaker 2: Dam is heavy.
Speaker 1: Jam also stole Marie's headphones to.
Speaker 2: Wait.
Speaker 3: So what you're saying that the cat laid on the microphone?
Speaker 4: I think so or or I could have just stepped
Speaker 4: on it by accident, But I think it's jam.
Speaker 2: Wow, friend, Yeah, I was.
Speaker 4: I think I I think I cried twice this week
Speaker 4: and it's just Wednesday, so.
Speaker 2: It's fine.
Speaker 4: I'm going to give my period soon, so that's probably
Speaker 4: what it is too.
Speaker 3: But what are you crying about?
Speaker 4: What am I crying about? Yes, like you want me
Speaker 4: to be honest on the podcast.
Speaker 3: Yes, that's all.
Speaker 4: I want you to do on the podcast is be honest.
Speaker 4: I'm honest here, what are you crying about?
Speaker 3: This is a safe space.
Speaker 4: Well, we got to wrap this up soon, so I
Speaker 4: don't want to. I don't want to end on a
Speaker 4: sad note. But like my existence, it was so sad.
Speaker 2: I was like, why am I here? I'm like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, I need crying about Sydney. Yeah, oh girl,
Speaker 2: you got to.
Speaker 4: Call a therapist tonight, like yesterday, Like, let's matter of fact,
Speaker 4: let's zoo a therapist.
Speaker 1: Maybe they'll have headphones.
Speaker 4: Yeah maybe, okay, Andrew, he's a comedian, but also Sydney,
Speaker 4: Like that's something that you can't that can't be your
Speaker 4: every day.
Speaker 3: You cried twice this week about your existence?
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.
Speaker 4: I just was like, man, I can't get it together,
Speaker 4: like I really, I really was like, let me.
Speaker 2: It's not about me wanting this job.
Speaker 4: I just wanted to prove to myself like oh I
Speaker 4: can write this packet, you know. And so it just
Speaker 4: took me forever to start, and then I started it
Speaker 4: and then I was writing things down. I was like, Okay,
Speaker 4: I'm not I'm not stupid, like I I do have ideas,
Speaker 4: But then I was like, am I even funny anymore?
Speaker 2: I feel like.
Speaker 4: Such a different person than what I was maybe four
Speaker 4: months ago. And we're all different people than we weren't
Speaker 4: four months ago. We've all changed in the last year.
Speaker 4: We're coming out different than we're going in. But I
Speaker 4: think that the way that you're thinking about yourself is
Speaker 4: obviously not.
Speaker 3: The best way to think about yourself.
Speaker 4: No, a lot of it's more normal right now than
Speaker 4: you think it is. Yeah, but it just like like
Speaker 4: today is gray and I'm just like and then I'm like,
Speaker 4: it has nothing to do with my age, but I'm
Speaker 4: just like, what am I doing?
Speaker 2: Doude? I even want to do comedy anymore? Oh?
Speaker 3: Yeah, girl, I think about I think that at least once.
Speaker 4: A day people message me and they're like, hey, girl,
Speaker 4: audition for and I'm like, I'm retired. I said that
Speaker 4: I'm retired on Instagram and somebody was like why, and
Speaker 4: I was like, girl, don't nobody.
Speaker 3: Want to do a show outside in the ring on
Speaker 3: a sidewalk.
Speaker 2: And hearing the train pass by. Yeah?
Speaker 4: No, but Sydney, please don't bring this energy to my house.
Speaker 4: On Friday for this dinner.
Speaker 2: I'm not I promise I won't.
Speaker 3: But and I'm not saying that to be like insensitive.
Speaker 4: If you feel like that, I think all of us
Speaker 4: being together on Friday is gonna be good for us.
Speaker 3: So you know, if that's how you feel, then when
Speaker 3: then we'll deal with it when it gets here.
Speaker 2: But no, no, no, I get it.
Speaker 4: But also it's like you don't want to bring your
Speaker 4: I don't want I don't want to bring nobody down
Speaker 4: right now.
Speaker 2: Everybody is already down where they are. I'm just yeah,
Speaker 2: it sounds it sounds.
Speaker 4: Like you need to call on Nicole Kidman and be undoing.
Speaker 4: I feel like that she was like a therapist on
Speaker 4: that show.
Speaker 3: So maybe you need to.
Speaker 1: Yeah, But you can't think of yourself as a burden though.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's what you're thinking about yourself.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I went down.
Speaker 4: I went down a bad rabbit hole on Monday, and
Speaker 4: so I'm still having the effects of that or rabbit hole.
Speaker 3: What you were looking at stuff on social media?
Speaker 4: Uh? Sometimes a friend of a friend, Okay, now it's
Speaker 4: really getting dark. Wow, all right, a friend of a
Speaker 4: friend had died and it was like the person died
Speaker 4: of suicide, and then there was all this stuff on
Speaker 4: the thread like this person is so selfish and how
Speaker 4: could you Like now everybody is traumatized.
Speaker 2: And they're thinking it's their fault.
Speaker 4: Like I'm reading all these these comments and I was like,
Speaker 4: oh my god, you don't even know, like you're being selfish?
Speaker 2: Well you don't know what this person.
Speaker 4: Was freaking going through or how they feel, Like do
Speaker 4: you know how hard it is for somebody to get
Speaker 4: the strength to feel like they don't want to be
Speaker 4: here anymore?
Speaker 2: Like, come on, dude.
Speaker 4: So I'm just I guess I'm just feeling conflicted from
Speaker 4: the stuff that I know. Okay, well, I don't want
Speaker 4: to say the wrong thing, but.
Speaker 2: You can never say the wrong thing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm just going.
Speaker 4: Guys, well I'm saying on behalf of my friend. She
Speaker 4: doesn't say wrong things to me. She always makes me
Speaker 4: feel like I'm listened to and loved, and she's only
Speaker 4: going to say the thing that can push me in
Speaker 4: the right direction. Except I feel like you called me
Speaker 4: on Monday and I didn't kick up. I was watching
Speaker 4: TV and I was like, I don't want to be
Speaker 4: on FaceTime right now. I'm watching something but I also
Speaker 4: didn't know you were, you know, going down a rabbit hole.
Speaker 3: And I you know, didn't want to be on FaceTime.
Speaker 2: But that's fine. You don't have to be on FaceTime.
Speaker 2: It's good.
Speaker 4: People need to take their time and they don't need
Speaker 4: to push themselves too much. You deserve your time and
Speaker 4: your space. And I like to have boundaries too. But
Speaker 4: do you have someone that you can actually I mean,
Speaker 4: I guess that's the thing about therapy, friend, you call
Speaker 4: your therapist when you really need to speak to somebody.
Speaker 2: Yeah, ok, yeah, right in the mic what I said?
Speaker 3: Yeah, right in the mica.
Speaker 2: Sorry.
Speaker 4: I remember when someone wrote on the the iTunes reviewer
Speaker 4: like when Sydney Yawn's ion too, but not because not
Speaker 4: because the podcast is boring, but it just like it.
Speaker 4: It's uh contagious.
Speaker 3: Yeahous uh yeah.
Speaker 4: Apparently sometimes there are some people that when they see
Speaker 4: you yawn, it makes them yon too, But I am
Speaker 4: not one people.
Speaker 3: So I watched you do it with a straight face.
Speaker 1: No, it does look really relaxing, it does seem nice,
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna yawn as a result.
Speaker 4: No, okay, sorry, Well, yeah, I'm gonna try to get
Speaker 4: to finding this therapist this week the rest of the week.
Speaker 4: I'm I'm kind of just gonna give up on this
Speaker 4: packet and just email my agent like, hey, I just
Speaker 4: I'm pressuring myself. And it's like, if I don't want
Speaker 4: to do something, it's okay. If I don't want to
Speaker 4: do it, like there's other things that I do, then
Speaker 4: it's fine. It's like, why am I breaking myself down
Speaker 4: for something that I'm I just don't have it in
Speaker 4: me right now exactly. I mean. Also, the packet that
Speaker 4: you're talking about my friend, our friend I was telling
Speaker 4: you the other day, that's the packet that he was
Speaker 4: doing when he had a panic attack this weekend. Yeah,
Speaker 4: and it's sitting in my inbox on on read because
Speaker 4: because I'm not about to stress myself to like try
Speaker 4: to do something that I wasn't really able to do
Speaker 4: that well before the pandemic. So, you know, I think
Speaker 4: that it's okay to say no toe stuff. If something
Speaker 4: something's not working, don't force it, just let it go.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think it's really really commendable that you tried it,
Speaker 1: you know, in the first place. I think that you know,
Speaker 1: that takes a lot of courage to even try it.
Speaker 1: With the amount of things that you already have going on.
Speaker 1: But like the fact that you already have so many
Speaker 1: things I feel like in your bucket right now that
Speaker 1: are positive. I just I would suggest holding on to
Speaker 1: those and and like really catering to the things that
Speaker 1: you already have going on instead of bringing in other forces.
Speaker 2: Thank you, Andrew.
Speaker 3: A word from the wise.
Speaker 2: Thank you guys.
Speaker 4: I guess yeah, all right, this has been a lovely podcast.
Speaker 4: I'm glad we do this. We do this every Friday.
Speaker 4: You know, hug your friends, tell them you love them.
Speaker 4: Break up if you need to. Tomorrow is not guaranteed.
Speaker 4: Break up now, break up now, and.
Speaker 3: Only hug your friends. Don't hug your Trump supporter friends
Speaker 3: that he said nice to them.
Speaker 4: No, you don't have to be nice to them. If
Speaker 4: they choose hate, then you can leave them. You can
Speaker 4: hate them. They're dead to us.
Speaker 2: Yeah, say no if you have to.
Speaker 4: And you know, if you see someone that you have
Speaker 4: been dating and you think it's going in a good place,
Speaker 4: let them meet your mom.
Speaker 3: Let them meet your mom.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yes, yeah, yeah, it was nice. He was.
Speaker 1: It was like a normal interaction. I was concerned, but
Speaker 1: it was.
Speaker 3: Good, like a freeway like a parking lot of Jenny's.
Speaker 1: Like the parking lot of a you know, like the
Speaker 1: the trucker stop, you know.
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, so there was a it was an Rby's.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Okay, guys, we'll have a fabulous week.
Speaker 4: Please bring the energy from Saturday, uh into the rest
Speaker 4: of the week that you guys coming up.
Speaker 3: Because at the end of the day, Trump did lose, and.
Speaker 4: He's got the L. He's got to take that L.
Speaker 4: And if he doesn't take the L, and I'm gonna
Speaker 4: shove that L up his ass.
Speaker 3: No, Okay, more button some emotional support, Dick, Bye, guys.
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