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Speaker 1: Forever.

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Speaker 2: Wow, whoa I am? I feel like I'm delirious right now?

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Speaker 3: Did you just wake up before we started recording this episode?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but this is a different type of feeling discombobulated.

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Speaker 4: M I'm serious one because my MIC's situation is fucked up.

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Speaker 2: But also, yeah, I just feel out of it.

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Speaker 4: I like, I know today is well when this comes out,

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Speaker 4: it's Friday, but today is actually Wednesday. But all of

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Speaker 4: Monday I thought it was Tuesday. All of Tuesday I

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Speaker 4: thought it was Wednesday. I've just been I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I'm given real drug addict energy right now?

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Speaker 2: Well, friend, have you.

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Speaker 3: Been outside in the last three days?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, of course, of course. I went to the bank yesterday. Okay,

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Speaker 4: you want to tell the listeners what happened at the bank?

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Speaker 4: Send it robbed the bank.

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Speaker 2: Let's tell imagine. Send it all. Never robbed the bank.

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Speaker 2: I robbed it for the podcast.

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Speaker 3: Oh you robbed it for yourself.

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Speaker 4: Don't put me in there, no mayams God. I went

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Speaker 4: to the bank because y'all don't know this, but I've

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Speaker 4: been banking with Vemo for several years now, several several years.

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Speaker 4: I could not have a bank account because I owed

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Speaker 4: the government money, and I finally I'm in a good place,

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Speaker 4: good standing. But people knew you banked with Vemo because

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Speaker 4: you always say you banked with Venmo.

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Speaker 2: You listeners say, Andrew.

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Speaker 1: I just I completely forgot until you brought it up again.

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Speaker 1: I completely forgotten you too.

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Speaker 3: She says it on Instagram, she says it on her

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Speaker 3: She says it all the time.

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Speaker 1: But I do recall that you haven't like done your

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Speaker 1: taxes since two thousand and nine or something.

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Speaker 2: A long time ago Reagan administration got up, Marie.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, I'm I'm finally am I'm finally in the

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Speaker 4: process of, you know, paying everything that I owe off

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Speaker 4: and I can have a bank account now. And I

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Speaker 4: went to the bank and they said, in order to

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Speaker 4: to have one form of ID, you have to have

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Speaker 4: two forms of ID. That's bullshit, is it. Yes, if

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Speaker 4: you have a passport, that's enough.

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Speaker 1: Don't you have like a driver's license? No?

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Speaker 4: No, No, Sydney's passport is her ID.

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Speaker 3: Wait, So in order to open.

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Speaker 4: An account to put money in it, you need two

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Speaker 4: forms of ID.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 4: When I was little and my parents opened a bank

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Speaker 4: account for me, I didn't have any ID, or maybe

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Speaker 3: Maybe they might with buys like social Security card.

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Speaker 2: As they did. They did, so I didn't.

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Speaker 4: So I came back to the house and I was

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Speaker 4: freaking out because I could not find my Social I

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Speaker 4: couldn't find my birth certificate, and I was like, somebody

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Speaker 4: is walking around with Sydney Washington identity. But they would

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Speaker 4: have been thrown in jail by now because they were like,

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Speaker 4: you know all the money I owed, but but Adrian

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Speaker 3: But Adrian has your ID stull No.

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Speaker 2: What she still has your ID?

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Speaker 4: No, she has my Social Security card and birth certificate.

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Speaker 2: Why wait?

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Speaker 3: When you said no, you should have said yes. Why

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Speaker 3: did he have that?

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Speaker 4: It was mixed in with her papers and she moved,

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Speaker 4: You're sending it to me today?

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Speaker 2: Girl?

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Speaker 3: The mess?

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Speaker 4: This is?

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Speaker 2: How are you doing? Marie?

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Speaker 4: You know where my social and my birth certificate are

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Speaker 4: at my family's house.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't have it on you.

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Speaker 4: I never have had that stuff on me. I know

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Speaker 4: stuff in my house. I mean, I lost my headphones

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Speaker 4: for this podcast, So we're gonna who But the last

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Speaker 4: time I was at my mom's house, I found my

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Speaker 3: Was like, whoa, is that my birthday?

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Speaker 4: And no, it's I was born on the twenty third,

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Speaker 2: Wait, what if your birthday is on the twenty ninth.

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Speaker 3: My birth certificate says the twenty third, babe, is what

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Speaker 4: But next year, I got to hit you on the

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Speaker 4: twenty ninth. Happy birthday, babe. You know I was I

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Speaker 4: was due in October, but I came early, so yo.

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Speaker 2: I was supposed to be born on Valentine's.

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Speaker 4: Day, but I was born on Groundhowk's Day. But they

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Speaker 4: I got out of the hospital on Valentine's Day because

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Speaker 4: I ate my mother's placenta starting early. Okay, gay, I

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Speaker 4: ate the placenta and the you know, the poo poo

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Speaker 4: and I got really sick. They had to shave my

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Speaker 4: I got sick?

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Speaker 3: Help people? You like eats?

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Speaker 2: No check up? Okay, whatever, Marie, how are you doing?

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Speaker 3: I'm okay, friends.

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Speaker 4: I was just telling Andrew I woke up before my

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Speaker 4: I'm already tired and i've been What time.

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Speaker 2: Was your alarm?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, your alarm isn't that early.

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Speaker 3: My alarm was for a forty five. But Andrew, you

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Speaker 2: Okay? Okay?

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Speaker 1: What time did you go to bed?

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Speaker 3: At? Two am?

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Speaker 3: I like to do what like?

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Speaker 4: I like my sleep to be like a round number,

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Speaker 3: But I woke up at like seven something, and now

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Speaker 4: So I've been up for four hours and I'm already done.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well what did you do in the four hours?

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Speaker 2: I shot a.

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Speaker 4: Video for Instagram, that is I was trying to put

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Speaker 4: we get off this thing. It's about skincare. Really, yeah,

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Speaker 4: because I told you I was going to post about

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Speaker 3: I told you about this. This is not new information.

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Speaker 4: But uh yeah, So that's and I trying to do

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Speaker 2: The same thing, the same thing.

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Speaker 3: You're saying, the same thing, but we can see that

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Speaker 4: So no, no, no, I meant like the same thing that's

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Speaker 4: in like the front of my building. She's doing a

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Speaker 2: So well, you look, you look great, Murray, you do

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Speaker 3: Thank you, friend.

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Speaker 2: Did you put some makeup on?

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Speaker 4: No? Sydney, stop asking me if I have one makeup

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Speaker 4: and you do it, and it's always it's a backhand compliment.

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Speaker 3: It's what are you wearing makeup? Like asking me that

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Speaker 4: Me before and I ignored you and you asked me,

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Speaker 4: and it's like, bitch, please go lay down. That's just

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Speaker 4: because you're not slick and you do it all the time. No, bitch,

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Speaker 4: it's just like what, Sydney, what is it like? Okay, well,

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Speaker 4: let's let's if you want to be real. You know,

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Speaker 4: we all have a little darkness under our eyes, and

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Speaker 2: Your skin is perfect.

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Speaker 4: You are perfect, But I don't see no darkness under

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Speaker 2: So you have a little bit of good sealer your eyes.

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Speaker 2: I know you.

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Speaker 3: So, Sydney, stop asking me that question. This is what

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Speaker 3: I'm getting at. You do this all the time. Recorded

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Speaker 4: Like Marie's wearing concealer Like it was, bro what what's happening?

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Speaker 3: What's wrong?

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Speaker 1: I was thinking? And then this also might be a

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Speaker 2: Please don't add it if it's not.

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Speaker 1: I was thinking earlier and I refrained from saying it.

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Speaker 1: Your boobs look huge today? Is that a backhanded COMPLIMENTE?

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Speaker 3: No, I'm wearing a sports bra and there's like these weird.

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Speaker 3: They do look big today.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, half a cup in it or something.

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Speaker 4: But you could have said that that's that's nice. Your

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Speaker 4: are you wearing makeup, especially if you you know the

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Speaker 3: It's like you're just saying it because you want me

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Speaker 3: that's true. It's like anyway, whatever, I'm not gonna sorry,

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Speaker 2: I'm jealous, sorry a mess.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna let you ruin my Wednesday or.

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Speaker 2: Our Wednesday Friday. Okay.

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Speaker 4: So we're ten minutes in and you know, as you know,

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Speaker 4: Biden is the president or projected president.

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Speaker 2: I don't like that. I'm a projected president. I don't

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Speaker 2: like that bullshit.

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Speaker 1: Wait, that's that's how it is every time he's the

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Speaker 1: president elect until he's actually no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: are you saying because the count?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, yeah, that's what I'm saying. I don't like that.

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Speaker 3: So what happens if Trump never concedes?

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Speaker 1: I don't think you cady? Well yeah they didn't. Someone

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Speaker 1: on Biden's team say like, we will use force if

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Speaker 1: he doesn't like actually want to leave the White House.

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Speaker 3: Well, you know what I was just doing.

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Speaker 4: I was reading about the whole George Bush al Gore situation,

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Speaker 4: and because people are comparing the two to that, and

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Speaker 4: so what I don't remember what year that was.

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Speaker 3: It was like two thousand. What a year was that?

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Speaker 1: I think I was like maybe in late nineties now.

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Speaker 3: Because Obama became president in like eight.

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Speaker 4: Yes, so George Bush was like two thousand to two

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Speaker 4: thousand and eight, right because he was president.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, okay, so al.

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Speaker 4: it was like, well, isn't that the state where your

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Speaker 4: The thing that makes me so upset, so upset, even

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Speaker 2: And it's like, yo, I remember when y'all.

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Speaker 4: Bitches were putting up all these black squares and all

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Speaker 4: I'm I'm flabbergascid. I just could not believe it.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't make any sense to it does.

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Speaker 2: Not make any sense. Tell me that the numbers are wrong.

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Speaker 3: Please, no more white women voted for him this time

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Speaker 3: around than last time. But also, Matt Latinos.

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Speaker 1: Trump Trump, your post brought to my attention to Eva

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Speaker 2: No, she still used Goya.

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Speaker 4: And she said, yeah, we see what black women did

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Speaker 3: And it's like, first of all, you didn't have to

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Speaker 4: Latina is not a Cuban, it is, but you know

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Speaker 4: But she's they you know, they don't they don't want

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Speaker 3: It doesn't matter. Cubans belong to them. Cubans are theirs.

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Speaker 4: That's they're riding with Cubans on a bus like that's

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Speaker 4: I'm still like, babe, how how Jesse, how how did you?

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Speaker 2: How did you do that?

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Speaker 4: How did you go down there and thought that it

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Speaker 2: I'm upset. I'm upset.

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Speaker 4: It's just like y'all talk about women's rights and X,

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Speaker 2: It's all social media and then the real, the real, tea.

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Speaker 2: Is that.

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Speaker 4: No, Trump being president benefits you as well, So sorry.

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Speaker 3: Right, but it's like ultimately it hurts you and people like.

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Speaker 4: Well Biden is this, and Butden is that, and it's

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Speaker 4: like we're not celebrating Biden winning truly Trump losing.

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Speaker 2: I just really truly.

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Speaker 4: Needed him and his family to feel like garbage, like

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Speaker 4: los like losers for the weekend, because people were dancing

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Speaker 4: in the street on Saturday, like honking horns, going ham

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Speaker 3: Like, oh my god, thank you so much. Like people

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Speaker 4: Everybody was happy. But there was still it was still

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Speaker 4: like not a far off race. People still voted for him.

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Speaker 4: It just doesn't if all these people hate him per se,

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Speaker 4: then how was he still How is the race still.

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Speaker 2: Not far off?

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Speaker 3: Well, because it's not that all these people hate him.

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Speaker 4: Seventy five million people hate him, but seventy people seventy.

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Speaker 4: People love him and they agree with him, and they're

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Speaker 4: If you look at the map, it's all red.

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Speaker 4: Major cities are blue. And yeah, there's thirteen million people

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Speaker 2: Dude drinking like, Oh, I can't stand it. I'm so mad.

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Speaker 3: But if you look at.

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Speaker 2: Oh and let's let's get the realty.

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Speaker 4: New York City, yes, blue, upstate New York, fucking red, Syracuse, Albany,

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Speaker 2: That you're like, I got a cabin for the weekend.

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Speaker 2: Them niggas, they don't want no parts them niggas.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. Oh I love NSNBCCD.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. I just could not believe it. I

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Speaker 4: I just was like, are we really serious here? And

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Speaker 4: then the main one, it's a it's a bad abortion.

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Speaker 4: It's a bad abortion. It's like, is it a bad abortion?

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Speaker 4: Because the ones who are voting this, SI, you are

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Speaker 2: You can't even get pregnant no more, what do you.

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Speaker 3: Get that metopause vote?

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Speaker 4: But also, now, why do people care so much about

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Speaker 4: You know, That's that's the only way that would work

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Speaker 4: to do, because when that baby is born, you don't

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Speaker 4: y'all don't really care about lives, because if y'all did

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Speaker 2: Like no, no, no, no, no, all lives matter.

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Speaker 4: It's like, well, these are the lives that I'm not

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Speaker 4: but this person was actually like living. This person is

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Speaker 3: Speaking of uterus.

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Speaker 4: Uh, No, I was I spent the night at somebody's

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Speaker 3: And it was cute, and in the morning it was different.

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Speaker 4: And I'm not saying that we need to like cuddle.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, right now, we're doing runs to target.

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Speaker 4: But he left and I was like all right, Well,

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Speaker 3: But he didn't ask me to like walk the dog with.

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Speaker 4: I was watching a movie in his living room and

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Speaker 4: it was a terrible movie. It was the Keanu Reeves

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Speaker 4: It's trash. But it was like I was in the house,

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Speaker 4: It's like, well, what you are planning for the day, okay, Well,

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Speaker 3: But this was none of that. And me and this

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Speaker 4: For long enough that it's it wouldn't have been a

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Speaker 4: And I'm stomping down the stairs and on my way

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Speaker 3: you know, my dog is old, and you know I

444
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:50,480
Speaker 3: gotta wait for him. And it was like it doesn't matter,

445
00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:51,240
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna leave.

446
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 1: Wait, So did he want you to say or not?

447
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 4: It didn't feel like he wanted me to stay. He

448
00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 4: was gone for like, I want to say, a full hour,

449
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 4: because I watched the whole movie. I mean I watched

450
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:04,439
Speaker 4: an hour of it, and then I skipped to the

451
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:06,840
Speaker 4: end because I was like, this show is pissing me off.

452
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:09,919
Speaker 3: But he was like, wheare you're going? And it was like,

453
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 3: it doesn't matter what you're saying with your face right now.

454
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:15,880
Speaker 4: Everything that you did this morning didn't feel like what

455
00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:18,680
Speaker 4: you're trying to give me at this doorway right now.

456
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 4: And then I left, and I and also I again

457
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 4: we you know that word gas light. I don't like

458
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 4: when someone is like not acknowledging like how I feel

459
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 4: or what I think is going on, Like just say,

460
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:33,760
Speaker 4: you know.

461
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 2: What I did? Take a while? My bad?

462
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 4: You know the time slipped. I didn't know that. I like,

463
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:41,720
Speaker 4: I just you know, the.

464
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:43,399
Speaker 2: Dog was slow. I don't know.

465
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 4: It just feels like you could see the time that

466
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:47,960
Speaker 4: this person left, and.

467
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 2: Like when you came back, it was a long time.

468
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 4: It's not just that him and the dog took mad long.

469
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:57,119
Speaker 4: It was every little thing like I'm butt making in

470
00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 4: your bed. This is priority number one booboo, Like, I'm

471
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 4: in your bed right now with my cities out, So

472
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:06,399
Speaker 4: what are we.

473
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:07,880
Speaker 1: Can I can?

474
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 2: I ask?

475
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 1: What did he get? Like a morning? Not what?

476
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 3: Or not? No? Next, I gotta send out stuff. And

477
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:19,640
Speaker 3: it was like, okay, well, I'm I'm a hang and.

478
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 1: Then he was like, but like, did you not have

479
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:23,360
Speaker 1: anything to do today that day?

480
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:25,120
Speaker 2: Or Andrew?

481
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:30,520
Speaker 4: I'm sorry against Saturday Andrew Saturday day morning.

482
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 2: He was a Saturday morning cartoon. How dare you you.

483
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 4: Woke up at nine am on a Saturday? Okay, funny,

484
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 4: I had stuff to.

485
00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 1: Do with these Sorry, it was an honest question.

486
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 2: I just worse than me. You weren't, Marie jump on him.

487
00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 1: Andrew's like, you've unemployed, wealthy, like you have time to

488
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 1: watch this movie? Just be naked in this man's bed.

489
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,199
Speaker 3: Literally the alarm went off at nine o'clock in the morning.

490
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 4: And the thing about this person is they're also like

491
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 4: very much in their phone all the time.

492
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 3: And it's like when I like, I'll be.

493
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 4: On my phone when I'm in my house by myself,

494
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:09,400
Speaker 4: but when people are at my house, I'm not staring

495
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 4: at my phone the entire time. I'm like being present

496
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:16,679
Speaker 4: with my friends or my lover or whoever. But like,

497
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 4: but also I didn't need to be there, and honestly

498
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 4: that that's on me.

499
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 3: But I text him in.

500
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 4: The car because I was so mad, and I was like,

501
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 4: am I being crazy?

502
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 2: Damn it sounds it sounds like he's still mad.

503
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 4: Well, I mean, I'm talking about it now and I

504
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 4: am still upset, not upset, but like it's irritating. But anyway,

505
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:41,159
Speaker 4: I text him and I was like, I shouldn't have

506
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:45,399
Speaker 4: spend the night. Take care and he was like emoji

507
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 4: peace sign. I said take care because this is not

508
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:54,920
Speaker 4: something that like I'm we're not together. So he was like,

509
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 4: he's something along the lines of being with me is stressful.

510
00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,360
Speaker 3: And I was like, I I'm not going to fun.

511
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 4: I'm going to turn to the council, to the group

512
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 4: chat and they'll talk me off this ledge. And that's

513
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 4: what you know Sydney and Mina and Carolina did for me,

514
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 4: because I was like, am I insane?

515
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,160
Speaker 3: Is this a lifetime movie that I'm in right now?

516
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 4: Like girl, no, girl, It's like okay, but like backstory

517
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:23,400
Speaker 4: is I mean you you kind of had ended things

518
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 4: with this person, yes, and so bruck up like two

519
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 4: weeks ago, three right, the backstory, Okay, that's what happened.

520
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 4: And then we had been sixteen yes, a week right. Well,

521
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 4: I guess because I knew I was going to see

522
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,239
Speaker 4: him before the end of the year, because you have

523
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 4: you have to go back one time when you say

524
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 4: something is done, at least once you go back and then.

525
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 3: You say oh, or you say this is why I left,

526
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 3: And that's what That's what it was. You know.

527
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 4: The Friday night was cool and then the Saturday morning

528
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,880
Speaker 4: was not, and I was like, m and I'll never

529
00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:00,639
Speaker 4: be here again.

530
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:03,640
Speaker 3: This is that's why I was like, take care.

531
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 4: And then he was like it's stressful and I was like, okay,

532
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 4: well I will say Marie that one You're not stressful,

533
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 4: but it does feel like, I mean, you know, we've

534
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 4: been we've been friends for a minute now, and like

535
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 4: you're that kind of person. Yeah, I don't really want

536
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,920
Speaker 4: to let you down, Like, yeah, I could. I could

537
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 4: let down tons of people, but you're one of the

538
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,879
Speaker 4: You're one of the people that I'm like, fuck, I

539
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:37,120
Speaker 4: would hate for you to.

540
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 2: Be disappointed with me.

541
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 4: That's so so that is that is a little stressful

542
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 4: at times.

543
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:47,640
Speaker 3: Interesting.

544
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 1: I just think, I mean, it's I think it's good

545
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: that you you did this. You have this experience as

546
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: like sort of closure, and like, uh, it's validating. It

547
00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 1: seems that it's just like, Okay, this person doesn't.

548
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:06,159
Speaker 3: But I feel like Eva Longoria butt coming. But but

549
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 3: I don't know.

550
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 1: If you needed to stay as long as you did

551
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 1: to be like infuriated.

552
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 4: And I mean, Andrew, we were having sex all night long, yes,

553
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:21,639
Speaker 4: but holl out, I'm supposed to run like a whore

554
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 4: in the night at five o'clock in the morning or whatever.

555
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 1: What it's not at five o'clock in the morning. It's

556
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:28,240
Speaker 1: nine a m. And I think that's it.

557
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:29,239
Speaker 3: I'm telling you.

558
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:33,240
Speaker 4: When we stopped having it was like four a in Okay,

559
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 4: So you're telling me that at that time, me, my

560
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 4: bra my ze rag. Everything has to leave after right.

561
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that I would be rather be pissed

562
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 1: in my own apartment than someone someone's apartment while they're

563
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 1: at Target. I don't know, that's just me.

564
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I guess you're right, but I honestly

565
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 3: I didn't think.

566
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 4: I don't know, it doesn't matter because I don't want

567
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 4: to be with this person and I didn't want to

568
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 4: be with the like. But you know, sometimes it be

569
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 4: people's ego though, because I will say that before I

570
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 4: was all the way gay, you know, I was in

571
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 4: a relationship with a man for I don't know, like

572
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 4: a year and a half or two, and I broke

573
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 4: up with him because I didn't like his moves and

574
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 4: I felt like he needed to do better. And then

575
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 4: of course I hit him up I don't know, like

576
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 4: a month after and with the you.

577
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 2: Know, let's hook up.

578
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 4: And the next morning he was like distant, he was

579
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 4: like okay, he wasn't treated me the same because in

580
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 4: his eyes, it's like, well, you don't want to be

581
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 4: with me, and now you're just coming over here because

582
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 4: you want to hook up, so I'm supposed to be

583
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 4: all over you.

584
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 3: But like, I still think I think that there's some

585
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 3: of that.

586
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 4: He's like, I still feel a type of way you

587
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 4: leaving me out to dry. Yeah, I get that, and

588
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 4: I think that there could have been some ego there

589
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 4: as well. But like I mean, if you're trying to

590
00:29:56,280 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 4: get back with me, which is what the situation was.

591
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 3: Then you should orders for, which is what I thought

592
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 3: the situation was.

593
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 2: That's what you thought, didn't that what he said?

594
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,240
Speaker 3: Girl? We don't have conversations like that no more because

595
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 3: we're not together.

596
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:14,719
Speaker 4: So it's like I went there on Friday thinking, Oh,

597
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 4: we're gonna have a conversation, like we're gonna talk. And

598
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 4: when I was at his house, I was like, I

599
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 4: don't actually, I don't want to talk about this because

600
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 4: I don't want to get back together, like I just

601
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 4: I was literally.

602
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 3: There just to have sex. So Andrew's right, I should have.

603
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 4: Left at four am, like thank you, yes, like Mary,

604
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 4: Andrew does have a point. He does and I and

605
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 4: I think that's why I was so mad in the morning,

606
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 4: because I was like, I shouldn't be here. I should

607
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 4: not be here, and I'm like putting my stuff on

608
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 4: to leave, and I'm like, I'm like, well, I'm not

609
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:50,239
Speaker 4: gonna see him.

610
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say that I'm leaving. I'm just gonna leave.

611
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 4: And then I bummed into him at the front door

612
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 4: and I was like god damn, Like I didn't have

613
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 4: nothing prepared to say.

614
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 3: I was just mad.

615
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 1: You know, how do you spend the rest of your day?

616
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 1: I mean, it was Saturday, we got.

617
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 3: This Saturday, we got the news.

618
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 4: Well, when I was waiting for my uber, I heard

619
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 4: all the horns honking and people screaming in the street,

620
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 4: and I was like, what's happening? And then my uber

621
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 4: driver was like, what's up? And I was like, I

622
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 4: think maybe the Trump thing, and he turned the radio on.

623
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 4: We started screaming in the car together. So the rest

624
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 4: of my Saturday was lovely.

625
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 2: It was a good Saturday.

626
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 3: Yeah.

627
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Sydney's name on on you know, I

628
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 1: just noticed, did you just change it?

629
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 4: I'm gonna change And then went to uh the SNL

630
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 4: taping to see Chappelle.

631
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, how was that?

632
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 4: First of all, they made us do our own I

633
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 4: changed my name too. They made us do our own

634
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 4: COVID tests.

635
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 2: Oh that ship was.

636
00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 4: I don't want to do stuff to I don't be honest.

637
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 4: I don't really like masturbating. I want somebody else to

638
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 4: do it. So that's how I felt.

639
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 2: I felt like I had to take care of myself

640
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 2: and I didn't. I didn't want.

641
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 4: That said, what do I have to do it?

642
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 2: Yow all the way off.

643
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 1: Does anybody prefer masturbating over actual intercourse? Right?

644
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 2: I want somebody else to do it. I don't really want,

645
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 2: you know, to do it myself.

646
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 3: Anybody prefers masturbating.

647
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 2: Over I don't know. I've talked to some men and

648
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 2: they're like, yeah.

649
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 3: Rather masturbate than have sex with a human being.

650
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: There are a lot of people that don't know what

651
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 1: they're doing, so it's like, let me just finish the job.

652
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 4: M and it's like, you know what you want and

653
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 4: it's gonna be like boom boom, thank you, bam, mam, mam.

654
00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 2: You know, no, not me AnyWho. Yeah, we went to

655
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 2: SNL and that was dope.

656
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 4: That was cool, you know, just to get to see

657
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 4: comedy again and people doing what they love or they're

658
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 4: actual getting paid to do a career based thing that

659
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 4: isn't in the confines of their home.

660
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 2: It was It was nice to see that.

661
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 4: But also it was just great to be with my

662
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 4: friends and like hug each other. Yeah, and it was

663
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 4: a nice night and we had a nice little group together.

664
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 4: But you know, we had to leave our mests on

665
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 4: the entire time from like when we walked into thirty

666
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 4: rock to. When we left, I was like, but you

667
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 4: made me like a test, like I should be able

668
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 4: to take this off.

669
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 3: Everybody in here is negative. And it was like, no,

670
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 3: put it on.

671
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 4: And then they sat us in the nosebleeds in the

672
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:55,239
Speaker 4: dark corner shadows of snls and I was like, well,

673
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 4: I'm not going to collap for any of this.

674
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 2: We was so mad. She was like, I'm glad I

675
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 2: didn't waste an outfit.

676
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 1: How many people are there in this in the audience.

677
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 2: It seemed like a lot.

678
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 4: It wasn't a lot because they took a bunch of

679
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 4: the seats out, but everybody that was there had to

680
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:22,359
Speaker 4: be in a group of eight, So I don't know,

681
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 4: maybe there was like eight groups of eight.

682
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:24,919
Speaker 3: I don't have no idea.

683
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:27,000
Speaker 2: You don't know. I don't do numbers.

684
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not really a numerologist's ma'am. I'm make me quit,

685
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 4: you know, but I want to go back to Marie.

686
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 4: You know, this is this is a great time for

687
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 4: you and other people like yourself.

688
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:45,879
Speaker 2: It's like the holidays are coming up.

689
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 4: We don't need to pretend that things are closer than

690
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:50,280
Speaker 4: they are.

691
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:54,320
Speaker 2: You know, either either I'm gonna run free or I'll

692
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 2: be by myself.

693
00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 4: But this is like that grey area during the hellish

694
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 4: year that we have we don't need.

695
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:03,879
Speaker 2: We can pick pick.

696
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 4: You know that dating relationship thing back up in February

697
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:12,320
Speaker 4: the sixteenth, you know, says cuffing season is among us,

698
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 4: and uh, you know we uh, I am back to

699
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,359
Speaker 4: getting my little roster together for the twenty twenty one

700
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:17,919
Speaker 4: school years.

701
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 3: So don't don't say that.

702
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 4: You know that's different, because that that's you're like openly dating,

703
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:27,320
Speaker 4: but you're not looking for the one.

704
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 3: But I don't think that I was ever looking for

705
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:29,919
Speaker 3: the one.

706
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 4: I was having fun with one and it was like, oh,

707
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,240
Speaker 4: this is cool, and then it wasn't cool no more,

708
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:37,800
Speaker 4: and then he went to Target.

709
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 3: So that is what happened with that. But I and

710
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 3: I also.

711
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 4: Like that text about it being stressful and not knowing

712
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 4: what I want and not knowing what I need.

713
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 3: It's like, well you should.

714
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 4: If it's stressful to be with somebody, why are you

715
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 4: with that person? Can we be adults about this, Like

716
00:35:57,080 --> 00:36:00,320
Speaker 4: if somebody is like any time you're getting ready to

717
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 4: see somebody, you're like your heart is beating and your

718
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:05,280
Speaker 4: palms are sweaty, and you feel like eminem in eight miles.

719
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 4: Then maybe you need to sit and think about why

720
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 4: you feel like that before you link up with somebody. No, friend,

721
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:16,360
Speaker 4: I don't think I think he is stressful, and it

722
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 4: might have been the moment that he was talking to you,

723
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:21,399
Speaker 4: but I don't think he means like I'm anxious when

724
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 4: I'm around you. I think that Sydney, that's exactly what

725
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 4: he meant, because in the text he was like, I

726
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 4: feel like I'm gonna disappoint you and blah blah blah

727
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 4: blah blah, and it's like, well, the language.

728
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,880
Speaker 3: Is wrong here. You would have just said I'm not

729
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 3: going to disappoint you.

730
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 4: I'm going to try my best to bla like, but

731
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 4: the language was ah, this is hard.

732
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 3: You are hard.

733
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 4: This is hard, and it's like, okay, well if it's hard,

734
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 4: then stop doing it because I'm done. It's really not that,

735
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 4: it's actually quite easy. Like, yes, relationships overall take work.

736
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 4: But if all you feel like is ah, I'm afraid

737
00:36:57,920 --> 00:36:59,520
Speaker 4: to do this because that might be the wrong move,

738
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:01,479
Speaker 4: or I don't want to say the wrong thing because

739
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 4: that might upset her, or is this okay, then that's

740
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 4: not the person that you're supposed to be with, dude,

741
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 4: like relax and step back, stand by and step back,

742
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,879
Speaker 4: like what do you what are you doing to see yourself.

743
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 2: For I mean, I will say I will say.

744
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 4: You know you guys, remember when I was in a long,

745
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 4: long relationship and I felt like that, But it had

746
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,839
Speaker 4: nothing to do with her. It was just like I

747
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 4: was mismanaging my life and my emotions.

748
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 2: And it was like, I can't really be in a

749
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 2: relationship right now.

750
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 4: I need to focus on me and work the work

751
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 4: that I have to do within myself. So I don't

752
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 4: necessarily think that like the last person that I was

753
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 4: with was stressful, but me trying to make someone, not

754
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 4: make them happy, but me just trying to be a

755
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:01,120
Speaker 4: present person when I I really couldn't.

756
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:02,280
Speaker 2: That is stressful.

757
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:09,280
Speaker 4: Okay, I received that friend, but I also don't care.

758
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:16,360
Speaker 4: I mean, you know, these things happen, and we have

759
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:20,720
Speaker 4: instincts and intuition and we have them for a reason.

760
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 4: And everything in my mind was like should I should

761
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 4: get in like I knew and I shouldn't have been

762
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:29,880
Speaker 4: there on Friday.

763
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,400
Speaker 3: I was just being a horny little Haitian.

764
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 2: And I was like, you were, lady.

765
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm just sit on it and leave.

766
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 2: And then it was like you, we're ready.

767
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 3: I was fully prepared.

768
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 4: So like what you're saying about being in a relationship

769
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 4: with somebody and being you know, dealing with depression and

770
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 4: like being on edge about making somebody happy when you're.

771
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 3: Not happy is all valid. But and that may or

772
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 3: may not be the case here with him, but it

773
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 3: also doesn't matter. He's not my man no more.

774
00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 4: And uh, we're you know, we're moving on working that

775
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 4: word friend and it is what it is.

776
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:09,359
Speaker 3: You know, I'm a grown up.

777
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:14,399
Speaker 4: I mean, you're taking this hit different, hit different, hy

778
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 4: different hit different. I I just right now, I mean,

779
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 4: just this would be tough for me to like let

780
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:31,360
Speaker 4: go of somebody because it feels good to like know

781
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 4: that somebody is available and can talk to you and

782
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 4: eventually were like an available babe.

783
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 3: This person was at Targa, So that's unavailable to me,

784
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 3: you know.

785
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 4: And you, I mean, honey, if your emotions are still

786
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:49,720
Speaker 4: in the uber, we can't work.

787
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 2: This is not gonna work.

788
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 4: If you forgot your emotions in the uber, just get

789
00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 4: back in the uber, babe, babe.

790
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 3: Andrew, you have, that's what you do.

791
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm just like, I just think it's

792
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 1: really great that you had this experience where it's like

793
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 1: you're able to talk about it and be like, Okay,

794
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 1: it happened, and I know this is not what I like.

795
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:15,880
Speaker 1: You know, he still left you at his apartment. He

796
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:19,439
Speaker 1: didn't rightfully, like not rightfully, he didn't like tell you

797
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 1: to like leave his apartment, you know while he was gone,

798
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:23,279
Speaker 1: you know.

799
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 3: So yes, okay, okay.

800
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:29,760
Speaker 1: So I don't know. I don't think he's as villainous

801
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 1: as maybe we're making him out to be.

802
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:34,760
Speaker 3: I'm not saying that he's the villain.

803
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 4: I'm saying that I knew I shouldn't have been there,

804
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 4: and I went after breaking this person to spin out

805
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 4: of the.

806
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 1: Night right because that's because that's less scary than meeting

807
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 1: up with someone else that would be insane. You know, I'm.

808
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:53,839
Speaker 3: Back out here.

809
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 4: Wendy Williams says the best way to get over a

810
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:56,920
Speaker 4: man is to get under another man.

811
00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 1: So we are taking relationship advice from when Williams.

812
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 4: You won't no no offense. We just can't and we

813
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 4: won't and we shouldn't.

814
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 3: And I should take from Wendy Williams is that it's

815
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:11,879
Speaker 3: how to get over somebody is to get under somebody else.

816
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 2: I say take I say take her tea.

817
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 4: And even that's like girl misinformation all the time.

818
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:22,720
Speaker 3: Sources say that's wrong.

819
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:26,280
Speaker 1: She doesn't even know how to pronounce corona. She pronounces

820
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 1: it cornova.

821
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 2: Hilarious, full mess.

822
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 3: Well, she's a mess. I hope she gets the help

823
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 3: that she needs. But these things happen, and it's fine.

824
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:38,719
Speaker 2: Sometimes I wish that.

825
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 4: I wish I wasn't a serial monogamous person. I wish I, like,

826
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 4: I haven't had a well I did have a like

827
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 4: an eat prey local hoe situation, you know, years ago,

828
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:59,919
Speaker 4: but I never really got to like go off as

829
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 4: an adult adults, like my own apartment, you know, just

830
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 4: having different people up in my in my crib doing

831
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 4: what I want. I didn't have a uh, she's gotta

832
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 4: have it, Nola Darling type of life.

833
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:16,880
Speaker 2: And so sometimes I'm like damn.

834
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 4: But also I'm like yo, I'm tired, I am exhausted,

835
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:24,719
Speaker 4: I can't and the apps are stupid and people are

836
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:27,760
Speaker 4: dumb and not in good places.

837
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 3: Right now.

838
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 2: This is just I commend you. I salute you.

839
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:34,759
Speaker 4: I am tipping my motherfucking hat Forrie because you're doing

840
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 4: the work.

841
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:36,439
Speaker 2: You're doing the work.

842
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 4: No wording that you're using makes it seem like I

843
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 4: got a revolve and ass door of an.

844
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 2: No no no no no no no no no no

845
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 2: no no.

846
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:45,920
Speaker 3: No, doing the work, babe.

847
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 4: And it's like, oh, I mean they're like you. Some

848
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 4: people act like, oh my god, I didn't.

849
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 2: Work out with somebody, What am I gonna do?

850
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:58,360
Speaker 4: I'm stuck, And you were like, actually, no, I'm gonna

851
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:02,280
Speaker 4: get Mike. I'm gonna get i HO adjacent cape back

852
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 4: on and get back in the streets.

853
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 3: It's a whole cloak. Uh well, yeah, I think it's.

854
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 4: Because, as we said, I stop seeing this person. I

855
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 4: broke up with this dude like three weeks ago, so

856
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 4: I've had time to think about why I needed to

857
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:22,440
Speaker 4: do that before I did it, because it was like

858
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 4: a build up, and then after it happened, it was

859
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:26,560
Speaker 4: like I felt lighter.

860
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,839
Speaker 3: It was like, oh, that was what I needed to do.

861
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 3: It was like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders.

862
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 4: That doesn't mean that I didn't miss, you know, banging them,

863
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 4: but I ultimately like know that I did the right

864
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 4: thing by ending things.

865
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,280
Speaker 3: He's not in the like we're not in the right place.

866
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 3: Our lives are in two completely different lanes right now,

867
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:48,439
Speaker 3: and it's like I don't have to actually be here.

868
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,800
Speaker 4: I chose to be here, and now I feel dumb

869
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:52,880
Speaker 4: and I'm mad about it and I'm leaving.

870
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 3: So that's it's not that.

871
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 4: I'm like I'm more mature and also like I don't

872
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 4: when somebody shows you the true colors, you just gotta

873
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 4: believe them, siss. And it was like I knew what

874
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:06,720
Speaker 4: you were when I got here on Friday.

875
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 2: What's that true colors?

876
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 3: Uh, it's like your aura is very shady. It's it's

877
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 3: in the air. Yeah, we talked full circle. Sys, Let's

878
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 3: go back.

879
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 4: To uh the beginning of the episode.

880
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 3: It's a little orange. But I mean, I don't know.

881
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 4: I feel like Sidney, you're a nice person and you

882
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 4: sometimes put people above yourself and you could take better

883
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 4: care of yourself but you don't want to. But I

884
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 4: feel like you're doing some of the work and you

885
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 4: just got to keep doing that work, that's all. And

886
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 4: you like being in relationships. You love a long ass relationship,

887
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 4: Sydney and miss Bitch.

888
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:59,280
Speaker 2: I just it's not that I don't get complacent.

889
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 4: It's just like I know know that I have ADHD

890
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 4: and I can't.

891
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 2: I can't have all these you know that.

892
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 4: You know what I tried to do in the beginning

893
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,240
Speaker 4: of the quarantine, and that was just dumb.

894
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 2: So I gotta stay more focused.

895
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 3: Well, we're not all built the same. Some people like

896
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 3: being in relationships.

897
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:20,879
Speaker 4: They find what they like, they find what makes them

898
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:23,880
Speaker 4: feel good, and they they're there. Other people, you know,

899
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:26,319
Speaker 4: they it's like a buffet. They want a little bit

900
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:28,359
Speaker 4: of everything. They want somebody to do this, They want

901
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 4: somebody to do that. They're like, well, I need this

902
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 4: person for that. This person eats my ass, this person

903
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 4: has a car, you know what I mean. Like people,

904
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:39,960
Speaker 4: some people like to do a little bit of everything,

905
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:44,280
Speaker 4: and some people like to one person to do everything

906
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 4: for them.

907
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 3: So I think that's who we are.

908
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:50,879
Speaker 2: Friend. Yeah, Andrew, I'm surprised that you didn't change your name.

909
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: Oh, I'll change it right now. Let's see.

910
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:57,760
Speaker 4: I think we name yeah, because you know, I'm taking

911
00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:58,399
Speaker 4: a picture of it.

912
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 1: There we go, Marie, Do.

913
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 2: I like that? I love that for you.

914
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna forget that I named myself this

915
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:20,879
Speaker 1: and go into the next zoom and fully.

916
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 4: Be Marie no, No, I think it'll go back to

917
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 4: the default.

918
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,959
Speaker 2: You'll go back to Is that true? Yeah, so it does.

919
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:30,719
Speaker 1: I don't want an hr complain.

920
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 4: A zoom background. It don't come back for the next thing.

921
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 4: I actually don't know how to do background.

922
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 1: Wait does this man listen to the podcast? Still?

923
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:43,719
Speaker 2: Surely do? Sure? Sure does?

924
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 1: Okay, just wanted to clarify. Okay, Well, I.

925
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 4: Didn't say anything bad, anything bad, and I said all

926
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:54,839
Speaker 4: things that I would say to him if I ever

927
00:46:54,920 --> 00:47:00,280
Speaker 4: responded to his text. But you know, also he should

928
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 4: it be listening to the podcast because I'll stress you

929
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:03,280
Speaker 4: about So why are you listening?

930
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 3: Why are you listening to me? At work?

931
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:10,680
Speaker 4: Oh my god, Marie, Marie, you feel some type away?

932
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 2: Feel some type away? You feel some type away?

933
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 3: Anyway, I feel fine. Anything else on the docket for

934
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:22,920
Speaker 3: the day? Andrew?

935
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 4: Uh, where are you in terms of single ass Marie

936
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:28,320
Speaker 4: and monogamous?

937
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:28,839
Speaker 2: Where?

938
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 4: Oh?

939
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 1: I'm leaning more toward the Sydney of it all.

940
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 4: Ay, let's go, let's go.

941
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:40,799
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, no, it's been. It started off, like, you know,

942
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 1: a week before quarantine meeting up and I was like, oh,

943
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would like typically like still

944
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 1: see that person. But like just the fact that you know,

945
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:55,520
Speaker 1: we were like comforting each other during the craziness.

946
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 3: Of marchin comforting each other exactly.

947
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,240
Speaker 1: Yes, And I love.

948
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:04,280
Speaker 2: A support uh dog type of situation.

949
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:13,359
Speaker 1: Yes, support dog Dick. Yes, I hate that visual. That's disgusting.

950
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:17,719
Speaker 1: I will write it down if you'd like. But yeah, no,

951
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 1: it's it's going well.

952
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:21,439
Speaker 2: Emotional support, Dick.

953
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 1: Emotional support Dick.

954
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what it is.

955
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 3: We're talking about the.

956
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 1: Dogs, Dick, and we don't want to we don't want

957
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 1: to talk about that, but.

958
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:34,320
Speaker 2: We do want people to click. So I'm just saying.

959
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 1: Emotional support, Dick. I think they'll come.

960
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 4: Out for Okay, Okay, so go ahead, Andrew, you were

961
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 4: comforting each other.

962
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 1: Emotional and and I don't know how much I want to, like,

963
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 1: I guess talk about it in a public format.

964
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:52,720
Speaker 2: But wow, things have changed.

965
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 1: That's how you know. That's how you know? Like I care?

966
00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, yep, So what the fuck are me and Marie?

967
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 3: We care?

968
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, Marie's pretty complacent about this man listening to this

969
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:12,400
Speaker 1: entire episode. Uh so, yeah, no, it's going well. He

970
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: met my mom and sister the other day.

971
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:19,840
Speaker 4: Oh bitch, Oh wow, you're beyond Sydney.

972
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:22,359
Speaker 3: You are you getting a ring? He went to jail.

973
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 1: Okay, No, here's the thing I was.

974
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:25,919
Speaker 2: I was, here's the thing. Here's the thing.

975
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 1: Over the weekend, while everyone was celebrating in their in

976
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,720
Speaker 1: their giant cities, I was at home and in Red County,

977
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

978
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:35,720
Speaker 2: I can't believe.

979
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 4: I'm blown away that you would take you would take

980
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:41,280
Speaker 4: your gay ass all the way to Long Island.

981
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 1: I'm not from Long Island for the last time, Sydney,

982
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 1: from from New Jersey, Long Island from like the southern

983
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 1: point of New Jersey, and uh, and so like no

984
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 1: one was celebrating on Saturday. It's like another day, no one.

985
00:49:57,960 --> 00:49:59,839
Speaker 1: It was whatever, And so I wanted to come back.

986
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 1: Even Kathy, Kathy was Kathy.

987
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:03,319
Speaker 4: Yeah.

988
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 1: I mean we went to the beach and we had

989
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 1: she had her first white claw on the beach. It

990
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 1: was cute, and so that was a celebration. Then on Sunday,

991
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 1: my mom obviously doesn't want to drive all the way

992
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:15,920
Speaker 1: back to New York City. That's like a two and

993
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:20,799
Speaker 1: a half hour drive one way, and so my you know,

994
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:25,359
Speaker 1: emotional support. Dick. He texted and he said, I can

995
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:26,759
Speaker 1: pick you up, and I was like, you're not coming

996
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:27,320
Speaker 1: all the way.

997
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 2: Either, so we just can't pick you. Now that gets

998
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 2: me wet, I can pick you up.

999
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 1: Whoa, And so we met halfway.

1000
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:38,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, list so your mom drove you an hour, he

1001
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:38,759
Speaker 3: drove an hour.

1002
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 2: Yes, Oh, you guys are in college. That's so cute.

1003
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 3: You have laundry in the car.

1004
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:48,439
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, of course, yeah, one car to the other.

1005
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:55,320
Speaker 1: It's going well, oh he has a car. Well he's

1006
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:58,280
Speaker 1: here's he's from New Jersey. He lives in New Jersey.

1007
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 1: That's a little bit of a dowd. But you know

1008
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:02,040
Speaker 1: that means he has a really.

1009
00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 2: Nice you say it, down grade.

1010
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 3: Lower at a lower volume university.

1011
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 2: Yes, that should be the title. Dating in New Jersey

1012
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 2: is a downgrade.

1013
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:16,399
Speaker 1: It's getting a little long.

1014
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 2: You're right, you're right, Okay, Sorry.

1015
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 3: You're trying to alienate the New Jerseyans.

1016
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 4: Absolutely, especially if they're voting for fucking drunk.

1017
00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:27,760
Speaker 3: Did Jersey go blue or red?

1018
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:32,799
Speaker 1: Blue? But there's like, you know, it's there's parts that

1019
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 1: are read obviously.

1020
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 3: Yes, well, most of the country is red.

1021
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 4: The major the majorly populated cities are blue, and that's

1022
00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:43,439
Speaker 4: what turns the state red.

1023
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 3: I mean, oh, Wow, what are time to be alive?

1024
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 4: Everybody's in love and living their very best lives this week.

1025
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 3: I love this for us.

1026
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:58,479
Speaker 4: I mean I saw Marie on Saturday and I was like, wow,

1027
00:51:58,520 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 4: Marie looks so good.

1028
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:00,880
Speaker 2: I would date her.

1029
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 3: Thank you Sidney emotionally support coach.

1030
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 4: I was like, damn Saturday, I almost tried to try

1031
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:13,359
Speaker 4: tried to hold your hand when we were in the park.

1032
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 3: Well, that's because your fingers were cold and you were.

1033
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 2: And so I was holding Devin's hand. I was so cold.

1034
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,800
Speaker 3: First of all, watch it it was hot on Saturday.

1035
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:29,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, it wasn't cold. What are you talking about.

1036
00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:34,920
Speaker 3: We were outside in no coats. The park felt very.

1037
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:40,320
Speaker 4: I am legend, but like instead of zombies, it was young,

1038
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:42,759
Speaker 4: drunk white people and at.

1039
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 2: One point they started, which are also zombies.

1040
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:49,799
Speaker 4: This drunk girl came over to us and she's like,

1041
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:52,360
Speaker 4: when I say Biden, you say Harris.

1042
00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:55,279
Speaker 3: And we just looked at her and she was like,

1043
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:56,240
Speaker 3: what the fuck?

1044
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:58,760
Speaker 2: Really? So you voted for Trump?

1045
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 4: And it was like, bitch, if you don't take you

1046
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:03,440
Speaker 4: and your skippies out of here goodbye, you gonna.

1047
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 3: Get them rolled up. Tori Birch flats up out my.

1048
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:10,400
Speaker 4: Face, but yeah, she she was very drunk. Everybody in

1049
00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:14,000
Speaker 4: the park was wasted. And at one point somebody started

1050
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 4: lighting fireworks and we were like.

1051
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 3: We gotta go.

1052
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:19,200
Speaker 2: Some some white guy was burning a flag.

1053
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 4: It was crazy. I was like, what is this? Are

1054
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:23,280
Speaker 4: we gonna die here tonight?

1055
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 2: We gotta go. Sprinklers.

1056
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 4: The sprinklers went on and caught people and that was

1057
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:32,240
Speaker 4: so funny. Yeah, that I loved. I love to see.

1058
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:36,560
Speaker 3: I do actually love that. All in all, a beautiful saturday.

1059
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 4: Oh but before uh well not before we go, but oh,

1060
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:43,360
Speaker 4: I I have an update that.

1061
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:49,640
Speaker 2: You know, my lover is gonna be here for a while.

1062
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:55,439
Speaker 4: And I'm really excited because I think when I get

1063
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:58,400
Speaker 4: in the house by myself, like I love my space

1064
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 4: because I know that I'm going to procrastinate, I'm gonna

1065
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:08,320
Speaker 4: bullshit procrastinate bullshit, I'm gonna get in a really dark

1066
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 4: place and I don't have to worry about somebody hovering

1067
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 4: over me, and so I think it's probably best that

1068
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:18,440
Speaker 4: somebody is here making sure I'm like getting up and

1069
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 4: I'm eating and I'm making sure there's lights on in

1070
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:24,520
Speaker 4: the house and not being in the dark.

1071
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:26,640
Speaker 3: I feel like there's always lights on at your house.

1072
00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 3: Don't do that. You definitely don't need nobody, don't.

1073
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 1: It wasn't like that pink like light.

1074
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 3: He doesn't turn them off, So what do you say?

1075
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 2: No? But I think I need to stop.

1076
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:40,440
Speaker 4: I like love when it hits five o'clock because then

1077
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 4: it's like, hey, I can make it look like a

1078
00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 4: nightclurb in here, and it's just like, girl.

1079
00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:47,719
Speaker 1: You're the only person that's getting excited about it being

1080
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:50,680
Speaker 1: pitch dark at five. I hate this. This is the world.

1081
00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:54,040
Speaker 4: Yesterday I spent most of the day procrastinating because I

1082
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:55,600
Speaker 4: was like, oh, I'm gonna do this and then I'm

1083
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:58,400
Speaker 4: gonna go outside this And then I looked and I was.

1084
00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:00,839
Speaker 3: Like, why is this so dark? It's nice time? And

1085
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:03,279
Speaker 3: it was five pm? And I was like, why did

1086
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:06,840
Speaker 3: anybody tell me? I mean, I guess it was a

1087
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:09,040
Speaker 3: little bit earlier than that. But the sun starts to

1088
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:11,520
Speaker 3: go down. I think at like three it does.

1089
00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:13,040
Speaker 2: It really really does.

1090
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:18,080
Speaker 3: So Sidney, you're gonna have somebody to chaperone you, is

1091
00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 3: what you was saying.

1092
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:22,239
Speaker 4: Not chaperone, but just hold me accountable and make sure

1093
00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:27,680
Speaker 4: that like you know, because I forgot that, like oh,

1094
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:32,720
Speaker 4: I was already depressed, right, So then there's like pandemic depression,

1095
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:35,960
Speaker 4: and then there's seasonal depression. So it's like a depression

1096
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:40,480
Speaker 4: sandwich in this bitch, and I can't have this. I'm

1097
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:45,839
Speaker 4: not on this time. I'm not on my watch. That's nonexistent. Yeah,

1098
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:48,959
Speaker 4: you're definitely doing with like double stuffed depression over there.

1099
00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 4: And I think that it's important to I mean, I

1100
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:55,880
Speaker 4: get it because I'm to be in the house by myself.

1101
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:58,520
Speaker 4: And then sometimes somebody will call me and they'll be

1102
00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:01,080
Speaker 4: like or they'll text me and be like, girl, I'm

1103
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:04,080
Speaker 4: outside or are you home? And it's like I know

1104
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:05,399
Speaker 4: the person wants to come in.

1105
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 2: Here, and it's like, yeah, yeah, this is my space.

1106
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:14,880
Speaker 4: I mean it's up and down, but usually I like

1107
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 4: to be here by myself for.

1108
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:17,720
Speaker 3: The most part.

1109
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 4: But every once in a while, like my cousin will

1110
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 4: will be like, I'm downstairs with some banana pudding and

1111
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 4: I'll be like, it's always nice to see him, you know,

1112
00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 4: he like always makes me feel better because he's just nice.

1113
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:32,080
Speaker 4: And then certain friends will come over and it's like,

1114
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:33,719
Speaker 4: I guess it's nice to see her too.

1115
00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 2: Is she talking about me?

1116
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:40,799
Speaker 4: Who knowsh You'll never know but you'll never fucking yo.

1117
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 2: But yeah, I think.

1118
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:45,560
Speaker 4: It's important to not isolate ourselves. And I'm saying that

1119
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:47,760
Speaker 4: as somebody who likes to be in the house by myself.

1120
00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 4: But I think it's important too. Even if you're giving

1121
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:53,839
Speaker 4: yourself like maybe two days a week where you either

1122
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:55,920
Speaker 4: one you go to somebody else's house or two you

1123
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:58,799
Speaker 4: invite someone into your space. I think that that is

1124
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:03,759
Speaker 4: very important, you know, safely, of course. But I mean,

1125
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:05,920
Speaker 4: I'm having y'all come over this weekend. This weekend and

1126
00:57:05,960 --> 00:57:07,000
Speaker 4: I'm cooking for my friends.

1127
00:57:07,239 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 2: I can't wait. I'm going to kiss you on the mouth. What. Yeah,

1128
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 2: I'm excited.

1129
00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 4: I don't know where you're cooking, but whatever, it is

1130
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 4: going to be, like, m better. Yeah, I'm looking at

1131
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 4: recipes on the Epicurious in the New York Times.

1132
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:26,120
Speaker 3: What should I cook for the week?

1133
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 2: Do you have?

1134
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:30,680
Speaker 4: Do you have something that you a suggestion friend that

1135
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:33,680
Speaker 4: might get my creative cooking juices flowing?

1136
00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:40,040
Speaker 2: Something with noodles? Okay, like Apasta?

1137
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:45,600
Speaker 1: When is sid can Cook coming back? We talk about it?

1138
00:57:45,720 --> 00:57:49,600
Speaker 3: Or maybe when is it coming back?

1139
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 2: Baby? Yeah?

1140
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:55,439
Speaker 4: I think I I think I've hit rock bottom right

1141
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 4: now in the sense that like I don't want to

1142
00:57:57,920 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 4: do anything, Like I stayed up all last night trying

1143
00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:05,160
Speaker 4: to finish this writing packet and I just don't.

1144
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 2: I don't have it any and so I want to

1145
00:58:08,720 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 2: do sid can't cook, But I'm also like, I don't.

1146
00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 2: I don't have it. I don't have it.

1147
00:58:14,920 --> 00:58:17,600
Speaker 4: If somebody, if Carolina came down here and helped me

1148
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:22,440
Speaker 4: set up, I could probably do it. But me having

1149
00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:24,320
Speaker 4: to do it on my own and like go to

1150
00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:27,560
Speaker 4: the grocery store and and then set everything. Marie, you

1151
00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 4: saw when you come here, Like I'm doing it all

1152
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 4: day and I'm going crazy and I'm making sure everything

1153
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 4: is on time, and and she's eating the oven at noon.

1154
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 4: It's like this here oven is hot, but she's putting

1155
00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:47,520
Speaker 4: on a look. She's encrusting her eyes with jewels.

1156
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 3: She's sick, can't cook. Is an all day affair for real?

1157
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:51,600
Speaker 2: And I get it.

1158
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:55,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess it's draining, but I mean not.

1159
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:57,880
Speaker 4: Really, It's just one day. It's like one day girl

1160
00:58:57,920 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 4: that actually you enjoyed doing.

1161
00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:02,320
Speaker 2: But I think I.

1162
00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:07,480
Speaker 4: Definitely have to go get a therapist again, because I

1163
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:10,000
Speaker 4: think I'm in a I think I'm in a.

1164
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:14,080
Speaker 2: Really not a good place. I'm not. I don't think

1165
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:14,439
Speaker 2: I am.

1166
00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 4: Okay, actually, well, I mean I think that you just

1167
00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 4: said that you're in a double triple stuffed depression sandwich

1168
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 4: a big mac if you will. But you know, I

1169
00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 4: had been doing a lot of research on depression recently

1170
00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 4: because of, you know, my current situation. And it's more

1171
00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 4: than just antidepressants. It's you have to make lifestyle changes.

1172
00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:43,480
Speaker 4: The food that you eat affects your mood, the like

1173
00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 4: working out is also something that like makes people happy

1174
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 4: when you're done doing it. Like it's stuff that's gonna

1175
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 4: like give you dopamine and serotonin and like bring you joy.

1176
00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 4: But you have to change more than just you know,

1177
00:59:57,360 --> 00:59:59,760
Speaker 4: whether or not you're on antidepressants in order to actually

1178
00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:00,400
Speaker 4: be happy.

1179
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:01,200
Speaker 3: When it comes to depression.

1180
01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:06,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, absolutely, And I know that from just like

1181
01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:11,640
Speaker 4: personal experience, because yeah, I'm on antidepressants and.

1182
01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:15,520
Speaker 2: I'm I'm doing better than I.

1183
01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 4: Was last year, but oh my god, like I'm still struggling.

1184
01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:26,600
Speaker 4: So I don't even know how I was managing last year,

1185
01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 4: to be honest, And it's gracious, you know, like I

1186
01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 4: still feel blah, Like I got I got some kind

1187
01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:38,360
Speaker 4: of good news yesterday, and I felt nothing. I was

1188
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:44,840
Speaker 4: just like, Okay, and yesterday, oh about that podcast for

1189
01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:53,680
Speaker 4: Sydney is cheating on this podcast with yet another podcast.

1190
01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 2: I'm not cheating. I'm trying to double the numbers, honey.

1191
01:00:58,160 --> 01:00:59,600
Speaker 3: Okay. I love that for us.

1192
01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:02,840
Speaker 4: And I'm trying to get Marie more money.

1193
01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:05,920
Speaker 3: I love that for me even more.

1194
01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 4: I'm trying to get and I'm trying to get Andrew

1195
01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 4: some work.

1196
01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:13,240
Speaker 3: Okay, So Sydney, what are you gonna do? What are

1197
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 3: I mean? Today? The week is almost over? What are

1198
01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:17,560
Speaker 3: some things we're gonna do?

1199
01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:20,880
Speaker 4: Maybe give me like two give me something you're gonna

1200
01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:24,919
Speaker 4: do this week to combat this feeling of blindness.

1201
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 2: I have to clean my house. Like my house is just.

1202
01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:32,400
Speaker 4: I hate it, like it's probably the worst it's ever

1203
01:01:32,440 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 4: been at this moment.

1204
01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:38,440
Speaker 3: Really let me see.

1205
01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:40,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like you just showed the other corner.

1206
01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:41,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, it looks fine.

1207
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:46,240
Speaker 4: The living room is okay, but like the second bedroom,

1208
01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:50,200
Speaker 4: oh my god, so rich the second bedroom is isn't

1209
01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:52,320
Speaker 4: mess my bedroom?

1210
01:01:52,560 --> 01:01:54,080
Speaker 2: I have like clothes on the floor.

1211
01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:56,920
Speaker 4: Remember when I took those clothes out of my dresser,

1212
01:01:57,200 --> 01:01:58,480
Speaker 4: They're still on the floor.

1213
01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 2: Well, no, I think I close.

1214
01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:06,360
Speaker 3: I don't remember that, friend, when.

1215
01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 4: You came over for turkey burgers, I had clothes all

1216
01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:10,480
Speaker 4: over the floor, right, But.

1217
01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:12,520
Speaker 3: I don't remember you taking them out. I just feel

1218
01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 3: like that's.

1219
01:02:12,800 --> 01:02:14,200
Speaker 2: Why I was on the phone with you when I

1220
01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:15,240
Speaker 2: took them out of my dresser.

1221
01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:19,880
Speaker 4: So to answer your question, remember when I took those

1222
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:21,360
Speaker 4: clothes out my dresser?

1223
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:21,960
Speaker 2: Remember?

1224
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:23,280
Speaker 3: I don't remember.

1225
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:26,400
Speaker 4: But Sydney, I feel like there's always clothes on your floor.

1226
01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 4: You you get back from a trip and the suitcase

1227
01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:34,400
Speaker 4: be on the floor with the cat laying in it.

1228
01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:39,440
Speaker 2: I think the cat broke the microphone. To be honest, do.

1229
01:02:39,600 --> 01:02:42,360
Speaker 1: Not blame it on the cat. Don't do that.

1230
01:02:42,680 --> 01:02:46,080
Speaker 2: Dam is heavy.

1231
01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:51,120
Speaker 1: Jam also stole Marie's headphones to.

1232
01:02:56,160 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 2: Wait.

1233
01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:58,760
Speaker 3: So what you're saying that the cat laid on the microphone?

1234
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:02,040
Speaker 4: I think so or or I could have just stepped

1235
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:06,960
Speaker 4: on it by accident, But I think it's jam.

1236
01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:09,360
Speaker 2: Wow, friend, Yeah, I was.

1237
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:12,520
Speaker 4: I think I I think I cried twice this week

1238
01:03:13,120 --> 01:03:14,919
Speaker 4: and it's just Wednesday, so.

1239
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:17,520
Speaker 2: It's fine.

1240
01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:21,120
Speaker 4: I'm going to give my period soon, so that's probably

1241
01:03:21,120 --> 01:03:21,800
Speaker 4: what it is too.

1242
01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 3: But what are you crying about?

1243
01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:29,080
Speaker 4: What am I crying about? Yes, like you want me

1244
01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:30,400
Speaker 4: to be honest on the podcast.

1245
01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:31,840
Speaker 3: Yes, that's all.

1246
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:33,720
Speaker 4: I want you to do on the podcast is be honest.

1247
01:03:33,840 --> 01:03:37,240
Speaker 4: I'm honest here, what are you crying about?

1248
01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:38,960
Speaker 3: This is a safe space.

1249
01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 4: Well, we got to wrap this up soon, so I

1250
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:43,600
Speaker 4: don't want to. I don't want to end on a

1251
01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:48,360
Speaker 4: sad note. But like my existence, it was so sad.

1252
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:51,760
Speaker 2: I was like, why am I here? I'm like, oh

1253
01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:55,240
Speaker 2: my god, I need crying about Sydney. Yeah, oh girl,

1254
01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 2: you got to.

1255
01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:59,240
Speaker 4: Call a therapist tonight, like yesterday, Like, let's matter of fact,

1256
01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:01,000
Speaker 4: let's zoo a therapist.

1257
01:04:03,600 --> 01:04:04,760
Speaker 1: Maybe they'll have headphones.

1258
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:13,320
Speaker 4: Yeah maybe, okay, Andrew, he's a comedian, but also Sydney,

1259
01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:16,920
Speaker 4: Like that's something that you can't that can't be your

1260
01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:17,600
Speaker 4: every day.

1261
01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:20,000
Speaker 3: You cried twice this week about your existence?

1262
01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

1263
01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:23,600
Speaker 4: I just was like, man, I can't get it together,

1264
01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:26,760
Speaker 4: like I really, I really was like, let me.

1265
01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 2: It's not about me wanting this job.

1266
01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:31,440
Speaker 4: I just wanted to prove to myself like oh I

1267
01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:36,960
Speaker 4: can write this packet, you know. And so it just

1268
01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:39,240
Speaker 4: took me forever to start, and then I started it

1269
01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:41,920
Speaker 4: and then I was writing things down. I was like, Okay,

1270
01:04:41,960 --> 01:04:45,000
Speaker 4: I'm not I'm not stupid, like I I do have ideas,

1271
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:48,440
Speaker 4: But then I was like, am I even funny anymore?

1272
01:04:48,680 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 2: I feel like.

1273
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:56,760
Speaker 4: Such a different person than what I was maybe four

1274
01:04:56,800 --> 01:05:00,720
Speaker 4: months ago. And we're all different people than we weren't

1275
01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:05,479
Speaker 4: four months ago. We've all changed in the last year.

1276
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:08,800
Speaker 4: We're coming out different than we're going in. But I

1277
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:12,320
Speaker 4: think that the way that you're thinking about yourself is

1278
01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:13,880
Speaker 4: obviously not.

1279
01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:15,680
Speaker 3: The best way to think about yourself.

1280
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:19,120
Speaker 4: No, a lot of it's more normal right now than

1281
01:05:19,160 --> 01:05:23,160
Speaker 4: you think it is. Yeah, but it just like like

1282
01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:26,960
Speaker 4: today is gray and I'm just like and then I'm like,

1283
01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:33,240
Speaker 4: it has nothing to do with my age, but I'm

1284
01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:34,560
Speaker 4: just like, what am I doing?

1285
01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:39,000
Speaker 2: Doude? I even want to do comedy anymore? Oh?

1286
01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:41,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, girl, I think about I think that at least once.

1287
01:05:41,480 --> 01:05:44,959
Speaker 4: A day people message me and they're like, hey, girl,

1288
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:48,040
Speaker 4: audition for and I'm like, I'm retired. I said that

1289
01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:51,960
Speaker 4: I'm retired on Instagram and somebody was like why, and

1290
01:05:52,000 --> 01:05:53,360
Speaker 4: I was like, girl, don't nobody.

1291
01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:55,240
Speaker 3: Want to do a show outside in the ring on

1292
01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:56,640
Speaker 3: a sidewalk.

1293
01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:00,320
Speaker 2: And hearing the train pass by. Yeah?

1294
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:04,640
Speaker 4: No, but Sydney, please don't bring this energy to my house.

1295
01:06:04,640 --> 01:06:05,680
Speaker 4: On Friday for this dinner.

1296
01:06:05,960 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 2: I'm not I promise I won't.

1297
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:11,640
Speaker 3: But and I'm not saying that to be like insensitive.

1298
01:06:12,320 --> 01:06:14,640
Speaker 4: If you feel like that, I think all of us

1299
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:17,640
Speaker 4: being together on Friday is gonna be good for us.

1300
01:06:18,680 --> 01:06:21,600
Speaker 3: So you know, if that's how you feel, then when

1301
01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:23,040
Speaker 3: then we'll deal with it when it gets here.

1302
01:06:23,120 --> 01:06:24,640
Speaker 2: But no, no, no, I get it.

1303
01:06:24,680 --> 01:06:26,479
Speaker 4: But also it's like you don't want to bring your

1304
01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:28,680
Speaker 4: I don't want I don't want to bring nobody down

1305
01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:29,040
Speaker 4: right now.

1306
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:34,280
Speaker 2: Everybody is already down where they are. I'm just yeah,

1307
01:06:34,440 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 2: it sounds it sounds.

1308
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:37,960
Speaker 4: Like you need to call on Nicole Kidman and be undoing.

1309
01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 4: I feel like that she was like a therapist on

1310
01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:40,760
Speaker 4: that show.

1311
01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 3: So maybe you need to.

1312
01:06:44,480 --> 01:06:46,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, But you can't think of yourself as a burden though.

1313
01:06:46,600 --> 01:06:49,640
Speaker 1: I feel like that's what you're thinking about yourself.

1314
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:51,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I went down.

1315
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:55,000
Speaker 4: I went down a bad rabbit hole on Monday, and

1316
01:06:55,200 --> 01:07:00,720
Speaker 4: so I'm still having the effects of that or rabbit hole.

1317
01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:03,960
Speaker 3: What you were looking at stuff on social media?

1318
01:07:04,360 --> 01:07:08,960
Speaker 4: Uh? Sometimes a friend of a friend, Okay, now it's

1319
01:07:09,040 --> 01:07:11,440
Speaker 4: really getting dark. Wow, all right, a friend of a

1320
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Speaker 4: friend had died and it was like the person died

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Speaker 4: of suicide, and then there was all this stuff on

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01:07:19,280 --> 01:07:23,560
Speaker 4: the thread like this person is so selfish and how

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01:07:23,680 --> 01:07:28,520
Speaker 4: could you Like now everybody is traumatized.

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Speaker 2: And they're thinking it's their fault.

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Speaker 4: Like I'm reading all these these comments and I was like,

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Speaker 4: oh my god, you don't even know, like you're being selfish?

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01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:37,280
Speaker 2: Well you don't know what this person.

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01:07:37,120 --> 01:07:41,400
Speaker 4: Was freaking going through or how they feel, Like do

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01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:43,320
Speaker 4: you know how hard it is for somebody to get

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01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:46,520
Speaker 4: the strength to feel like they don't want to be

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01:07:46,560 --> 01:07:47,200
Speaker 4: here anymore?

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01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:49,280
Speaker 2: Like, come on, dude.

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Speaker 4: So I'm just I guess I'm just feeling conflicted from

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01:07:55,760 --> 01:08:00,800
Speaker 4: the stuff that I know. Okay, well, I don't want

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01:08:00,840 --> 01:08:01,960
Speaker 4: to say the wrong thing, but.

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01:08:03,960 --> 01:08:05,640
Speaker 2: You can never say the wrong thing.

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01:08:08,400 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm just going.

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01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:15,040
Speaker 4: Guys, well I'm saying on behalf of my friend. She

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01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:18,360
Speaker 4: doesn't say wrong things to me. She always makes me

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01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 4: feel like I'm listened to and loved, and she's only

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01:08:23,840 --> 01:08:26,400
Speaker 4: going to say the thing that can push me in

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01:08:26,439 --> 01:08:29,000
Speaker 4: the right direction. Except I feel like you called me

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01:08:29,040 --> 01:08:31,200
Speaker 4: on Monday and I didn't kick up. I was watching

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01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 4: TV and I was like, I don't want to be

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01:08:32,960 --> 01:08:36,479
Speaker 4: on FaceTime right now. I'm watching something but I also

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01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:38,519
Speaker 4: didn't know you were, you know, going down a rabbit hole.

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01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 3: And I you know, didn't want to be on FaceTime.

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01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:43,599
Speaker 2: But that's fine. You don't have to be on FaceTime.

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01:08:43,680 --> 01:08:44,120
Speaker 2: It's good.

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01:08:44,320 --> 01:08:46,120
Speaker 4: People need to take their time and they don't need

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01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:51,040
Speaker 4: to push themselves too much. You deserve your time and

1352
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:55,559
Speaker 4: your space. And I like to have boundaries too. But

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01:08:55,680 --> 01:08:58,760
Speaker 4: do you have someone that you can actually I mean,

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01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:01,439
Speaker 4: I guess that's the thing about therapy, friend, you call

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01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:03,519
Speaker 4: your therapist when you really need to speak to somebody.

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01:09:05,560 --> 01:09:13,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, ok, yeah, right in the mic what I said?

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01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:14,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, right in the mica.

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01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:16,400
Speaker 2: Sorry.

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01:09:17,360 --> 01:09:22,000
Speaker 4: I remember when someone wrote on the the iTunes reviewer

1360
01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:26,200
Speaker 4: like when Sydney Yawn's ion too, but not because not

1361
01:09:26,320 --> 01:09:30,000
Speaker 4: because the podcast is boring, but it just like it.

1362
01:09:30,000 --> 01:09:32,400
Speaker 4: It's uh contagious.

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01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:37,360
Speaker 3: Yeahous uh yeah.

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01:09:37,560 --> 01:09:40,920
Speaker 4: Apparently sometimes there are some people that when they see

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01:09:40,960 --> 01:09:42,880
Speaker 4: you yawn, it makes them yon too, But I am

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01:09:42,880 --> 01:09:43,719
Speaker 4: not one people.

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01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:46,439
Speaker 3: So I watched you do it with a straight face.

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01:09:48,200 --> 01:09:52,599
Speaker 1: No, it does look really relaxing, it does seem nice,

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01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:54,160
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna yawn as a result.

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01:09:54,280 --> 01:09:59,679
Speaker 4: No, okay, sorry, Well, yeah, I'm gonna try to get

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01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:04,000
Speaker 4: to finding this therapist this week the rest of the week.

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01:10:04,200 --> 01:10:07,000
Speaker 4: I'm I'm kind of just gonna give up on this

1373
01:10:07,040 --> 01:10:12,680
Speaker 4: packet and just email my agent like, hey, I just

1374
01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:16,280
Speaker 4: I'm pressuring myself. And it's like, if I don't want

1375
01:10:16,280 --> 01:10:19,000
Speaker 4: to do something, it's okay. If I don't want to

1376
01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 4: do it, like there's other things that I do, then

1377
01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:24,800
Speaker 4: it's fine. It's like, why am I breaking myself down

1378
01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:27,800
Speaker 4: for something that I'm I just don't have it in

1379
01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:31,320
Speaker 4: me right now exactly. I mean. Also, the packet that

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01:10:31,360 --> 01:10:34,479
Speaker 4: you're talking about my friend, our friend I was telling

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01:10:34,479 --> 01:10:37,120
Speaker 4: you the other day, that's the packet that he was

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01:10:37,160 --> 01:10:40,200
Speaker 4: doing when he had a panic attack this weekend. Yeah,

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01:10:41,320 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 4: and it's sitting in my inbox on on read because

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01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:47,840
Speaker 4: because I'm not about to stress myself to like try

1385
01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:50,800
Speaker 4: to do something that I wasn't really able to do

1386
01:10:51,360 --> 01:10:56,240
Speaker 4: that well before the pandemic. So, you know, I think

1387
01:10:56,280 --> 01:10:59,280
Speaker 4: that it's okay to say no toe stuff. If something

1388
01:10:59,560 --> 01:11:03,160
Speaker 4: something's not working, don't force it, just let it go.

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01:11:03,880 --> 01:11:04,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:11:04,720 --> 01:11:08,080
Speaker 1: I think it's really really commendable that you tried it,

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01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:11,280
Speaker 1: you know, in the first place. I think that you know,

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01:11:11,400 --> 01:11:14,720
Speaker 1: that takes a lot of courage to even try it.

1393
01:11:14,760 --> 01:11:17,000
Speaker 1: With the amount of things that you already have going on.

1394
01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:19,479
Speaker 1: But like the fact that you already have so many

1395
01:11:20,000 --> 01:11:22,120
Speaker 1: things I feel like in your bucket right now that

1396
01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 1: are positive. I just I would suggest holding on to

1397
01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:30,320
Speaker 1: those and and like really catering to the things that

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01:11:30,360 --> 01:11:34,120
Speaker 1: you already have going on instead of bringing in other forces.

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01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:35,439
Speaker 2: Thank you, Andrew.

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01:11:36,040 --> 01:11:37,400
Speaker 3: A word from the wise.

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01:11:40,200 --> 01:11:40,960
Speaker 2: Thank you guys.

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01:11:41,439 --> 01:11:47,080
Speaker 4: I guess yeah, all right, this has been a lovely podcast.

1403
01:11:47,400 --> 01:11:51,400
Speaker 4: I'm glad we do this. We do this every Friday.

1404
01:11:53,320 --> 01:11:55,519
Speaker 4: You know, hug your friends, tell them you love them.

1405
01:11:55,840 --> 01:11:59,840
Speaker 4: Break up if you need to. Tomorrow is not guaranteed.

1406
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:02,880
Speaker 4: Break up now, break up now, and.

1407
01:12:03,160 --> 01:12:06,280
Speaker 3: Only hug your friends. Don't hug your Trump supporter friends

1408
01:12:06,280 --> 01:12:08,080
Speaker 3: that he said nice to them.

1409
01:12:08,360 --> 01:12:11,240
Speaker 4: No, you don't have to be nice to them. If

1410
01:12:11,240 --> 01:12:13,360
Speaker 4: they choose hate, then you can leave them. You can

1411
01:12:13,400 --> 01:12:15,040
Speaker 4: hate them. They're dead to us.

1412
01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:17,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, say no if you have to.

1413
01:12:17,600 --> 01:12:20,559
Speaker 4: And you know, if you see someone that you have

1414
01:12:20,680 --> 01:12:22,760
Speaker 4: been dating and you think it's going in a good place,

1415
01:12:22,840 --> 01:12:23,839
Speaker 4: let them meet your mom.

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01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:25,639
Speaker 3: Let them meet your mom.

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01:12:25,800 --> 01:12:31,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yes, yeah, yeah, it was nice. He was.

1418
01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:33,559
Speaker 1: It was like a normal interaction. I was concerned, but

1419
01:12:33,600 --> 01:12:33,800
Speaker 1: it was.

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01:12:33,800 --> 01:12:37,440
Speaker 3: Good, like a freeway like a parking lot of Jenny's.

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01:12:37,120 --> 01:12:40,640
Speaker 1: Like the parking lot of a you know, like the

1422
01:12:40,280 --> 01:12:42,240
Speaker 1: the trucker stop, you know.

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01:12:44,320 --> 01:12:48,720
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, so there was a it was an Rby's.

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01:12:49,520 --> 01:12:49,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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01:12:52,360 --> 01:12:54,320
Speaker 3: Okay, guys, we'll have a fabulous week.

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01:12:54,439 --> 01:12:58,920
Speaker 4: Please bring the energy from Saturday, uh into the rest

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01:12:58,920 --> 01:13:00,559
Speaker 4: of the week that you guys coming up.

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01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:04,840
Speaker 3: Because at the end of the day, Trump did lose, and.

1429
01:13:04,800 --> 01:13:07,080
Speaker 4: He's got the L. He's got to take that L.

1430
01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:09,080
Speaker 4: And if he doesn't take the L, and I'm gonna

1431
01:13:09,120 --> 01:13:11,000
Speaker 4: shove that L up his ass.

1432
01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:17,600
Speaker 3: No, Okay, more button some emotional support, Dick, Bye, guys.

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01:13:17,640 --> 01:13:21,559
Speaker 2: Bye, Forever Dog.

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01:13:22,200 --> 01:13:24,320
Speaker 3: This has been a Forever Dog production.

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01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:29,320
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1436
01:13:29,360 --> 01:13:31,200
Speaker 1: Silio and Alex Ramsey.

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01:13:31,920 --> 01:13:38,120
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1438
01:13:38,240 --> 01:13:42,559
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1439
01:13:42,920 --> 01:13:46,479
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1440
01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:49,480
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1441
01:13:50,160 --> 01:13:53,920
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1442
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1443
01:13:58,640 --> 01:14:03,440
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