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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Hunter is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Jamie. So we're

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Speaker 2: gonna find out his story and then give her a

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Speaker 2: call and see if we can figure out why she's

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Speaker 2: ghosting him and maybe get him another date if he

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Speaker 2: still wants one, Hunter Hollins, have been since you heard

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Speaker 2: from Jamie?

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Speaker 3: Well, it's been about six days since I sent a

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Speaker 3: follow up text after our date, and I've heard anything.

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Speaker 4: So did you text her right after the date? Was

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Speaker 4: it days later? When did that happen?

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Speaker 3: So? I texted her two days after our date, and

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Speaker 3: it's been six days since that text.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we got a lot of exact time. Yeah, Hunter,

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Speaker 4: very sure.

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Speaker 5: I like it.

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Speaker 4: Oh, why don't you tell us about your date and

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Speaker 4: how you met Jamie?

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Speaker 3: So we met through our mutual old friend Mike, who thought,

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Speaker 3: you know, we would be a good match. We went

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Speaker 3: to an Italian spot because it just seemed, you know,

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Speaker 3: most romantic, and that was my idea.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, And.

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Speaker 3: After the day was over, you know, I felt like

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Speaker 3: we had good conversation and after the date was over,

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Speaker 3: you know, I said, oh, you know, i'd love to

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Speaker 3: you know, get together again, and she said she would

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Speaker 3: think about it. But I just figured she was playing

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Speaker 3: hard to get.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Did she give you that vibe that she was like

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Speaker 4: playful and flirting into it somewhat?

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Speaker 3: But I'm just you know, I'm just curious that I

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Speaker 3: haven't heard back anything for six days. You know, I

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Speaker 3: just figured I would have, you know, at least heard

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Speaker 3: something or you know, even if she's not interested, just

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Speaker 3: you know, letting me know either way, do you'd think?

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Speaker 4: But it turns out that that's not a common courtesy

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Speaker 4: these days. What is it about her though, that makes

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Speaker 4: you want to get a hold of her?

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Speaker 3: We were we both talked about like similar topics.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: We were both into like space conspiracies, aerospace and.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you know, all political stuff so like aliens.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, And it's weird to find anyone that

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Speaker 3: I can talk to about these things or that'll even listen.

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Speaker 5: She seemed into it though.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, from what I saw, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: That'd be cool.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Well is there anything that could have happened on the

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Speaker 4: date that makes you feel like, I don't know, she

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Speaker 4: would have been like, bye, sorry, Hunter, this was fun,

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Speaker 4: but not for me.

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Speaker 3: You know, maybe I'm a little bit too nerdy for

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Speaker 3: my own good.

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Speaker 5: I don't think though, I think you're you, Hunter.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate that you'll find somebody who is just just

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Speaker 2: as nerdy as you are.

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Speaker 5: I guess maybe it was her. It could have been maybe.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, I mean, maybe maybe I showed too much

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Speaker 4: I can see that.

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Speaker 5: I mean, she's gonna find out eventually, not a bad

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Speaker 5: way or good in a good way.

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Speaker 4: Well, she also could be like a sapio sexual. You

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Speaker 4: know what that is. It's when you're turned on by

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Speaker 4: somebody's brain. So if you're super smart, then I mean,

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Speaker 4: you know, maybe she just had a cooler I've never

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Speaker 4: heard that term before, but sao sexual. I'm totally a

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Speaker 4: sapio sexual, so I know this me too, right. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: so maybe she just had to cool off for a

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Speaker 4: few days, you know, if it was too hot or

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Speaker 4: six days. I don't know. I'm trying to stay optimistic

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Speaker 4: for you, bro, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Keep hoblelive. Hunter. So we're about to call her.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna play a song, come back, and then call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she's als why she's ghosting you, and.

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Speaker 5: Then maybe get you another date. Okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: Please don't go about and get your first safe home

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Speaker 2: in the middle of your first day. Follow up if

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Speaker 2: you're just joining us. Hunter is on the phone and

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Speaker 2: Hunter is getting ghosted by Jamie. So we're about to

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Speaker 2: call her and see a show's house why she's ghosting him,

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Speaker 2: and maybe get him another date if he still wants

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Speaker 2: one after he here's the reason. But before we do that, Hunter,

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Speaker 2: why don't you remind everybody of your date with Jamie.

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Speaker 3: We went on Jamie and I went on a date

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Speaker 3: a little over a week ago. We talked about, you know,

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Speaker 3: kind of aliens and space, and a couple of days

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Speaker 3: after the date, I texted her and it's now been

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Speaker 3: six days since that text and I haven't heard back.

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Speaker 4: Maybe she was abducted by aliens.

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Speaker 3: That would be cool, That would be ironic.

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Speaker 2: Becose she swoops down in a spaceship and picks you

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Speaker 2: up and then you guys can go hang out.

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Speaker 4: I just got a visual.

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Speaker 5: That's so funny.

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Speaker 3: The second date, she beating I see what you did there?

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Speaker 5: All right? Ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm gonna call it here we go. I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: call right now.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, I speak to Jamie. Please listen, Jamie, Jamie,

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Speaker 2: how are you? My name is Jewbell from a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 4: The Whole Radio shows. Here Jamie, surprise. My name is Nina.

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Speaker 1: Why in Victoria? Hi? Everyone? What's going on with not much?

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Speaker 5: Just chilling. How about you?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing good, just working, you know, with them grind nice.

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Speaker 4: Nice.

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Speaker 2: Well, we're calling you today because we got an email

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Speaker 2: about you from one of our listeners. Okay, let's we

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Speaker 2: do a segment called the First Say follow Up. That's

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Speaker 2: where if you go out on a date with someone

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Speaker 2: and then you end up ghosting them, they can email

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Speaker 2: us to get you on the phone and find out

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Speaker 2: why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 5: And we got an email about you from Hunter.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, okay, yes we did. Well. Yeah, I know Hunter.

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Speaker 1: He's told me enough about himself.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Well he really liked you, and he's wondering

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Speaker 2: why you're not calling him back.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I what an awkward time. Even tiw I explained it.

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Speaker 1: We went out, he talked about himself the whole time

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Speaker 1: with things that I had no interest that I just

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Speaker 1: kind of sat there and nodded and yeah, and he

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Speaker 1: just talked. He didn't ask me about anything about myself

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Speaker 1: the ent higher night, and it was very no at

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Speaker 1: all ish and a lot of negative things, and I

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Speaker 1: just kind of just felt and I was just nodding

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Speaker 1: and okay, yeah, sure, yeah's interesting. And that's about the

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Speaker 1: only words I could get in so the whole time.

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Speaker 4: So you're not super into space and stuff because Hunter

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Speaker 4: thought you guys really bonded over Amien.

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Speaker 1: No, but he did talk a lot about aliens and

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Speaker 1: I just nodded my head and I did not know.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't get a break in the conversation to move

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Speaker 1: to something else, or or he was just so excitedly

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Speaker 1: talking about everything he knew about and listening. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm a good listener. I guess people have told me,

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Speaker 1: but wow, you don't.

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Speaker 2: Feel like you had a chance to talk about the

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Speaker 2: things that you know about. It was only him talking

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Speaker 2: about the things he knows.

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Speaker 1: Exactly exact creat. It was very it's very odd. So

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Speaker 1: I at the end of the night, I even said, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'll have to think about it. When he

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Speaker 1: said we should do this together. Then I kind of

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Speaker 1: thought that he would pick up from there, but he

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Speaker 1: did trast me a couple of days later, and I

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Speaker 1: just I was buvy at the time, and then I

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Speaker 1: didn't really have I wasn't sure how to respond. So

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Speaker 1: it's been a while and I probably should have responded,

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Speaker 1: but I didn't know what to say. And oh, man,

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Speaker 1: now everybody's gonna know.

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Speaker 4: He was just really nervous.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I thought first dates, we're kind of

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Speaker 1: getting to know each other like that, both people take

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Speaker 1: part in things that ptain to their lives. But that's

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Speaker 1: not where we were at at all. And he's very smart,

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Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, like very smart.

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Speaker 5: But maybe he hasn't dated a lot.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess that's probably a factor. I, you know,

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Speaker 1: didn't we didn't get on those topics of other things.

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Speaker 1: There was a lot of space, doesn't fall.

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Speaker 5: Jamie.

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Speaker 2: I will let you know that Hunter is actually on

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Speaker 2: the phone listening and he wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: You were more into our conversation than apparently you were.

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Speaker 1: No, I really have no interest in, you know, the

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Speaker 1: space theories and different things, and I was just I

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Speaker 1: was hoping the conversation would move to anything else in

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Speaker 1: the world eventually, but it just, you know, kept going

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Speaker 1: about you, and I'm sorry, that's just not I just

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Speaker 1: didn't feel compatible for another date of that kind.

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Speaker 4: Was about it?

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Speaker 3: Was it the topics? Were they just too kind of

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Speaker 1: No, I mean I'm just not into that stuff, and

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Speaker 1: I was hoping that there would be more share and

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Speaker 1: that I didn't really I wasn't super interested in those topics,

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Speaker 1: but it just didn't stop, and I just kind of

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Speaker 1: things I was into and wasn't the type of date

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Speaker 1: I was thinking it was going to be.

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Speaker 3: Were the topics too intimidating. No, I don't think they're intimidating,

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Speaker 3: just not what I'm interested in, because I thought I

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Speaker 3: thought you were really smart talking on those topics as well.

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Speaker 3: I mean I've.

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Speaker 1: Kind of just agreed with you and nodded and try

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Speaker 1: to move the conversation forward.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you weren't into the topics I was talking about. No,

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Speaker 3: not really. Sorry, I guess that's good to know for future.

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Speaker 2: Well, I do have to ask the question Jamie, would

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Speaker 2: you like to go on another date with Hunter? We'll

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Speaker 2: pay for it.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm good, think thinks but no.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I'm good too as well.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well good, I think this is great. That everybody's

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Speaker 4: good success Hunter. Maybe you learn something too on the

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Speaker 4: next time. Well, the next time you go on a date,

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Speaker 4: maybe just ask them what they're into. Make that one

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Speaker 4: of the questions. Make more conversational for sure.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, do you like Alien?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Okay, I'm good. But I did want to let

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Speaker 3: everyone know that they did release seven chemtrails today, so

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Speaker 3: everyone I would just recommend everyone say at home.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't either. We'll just make sure

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Speaker 5: we do that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, thank you, Hunter, thank you for that.

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Speaker 3: You're welcome.

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Speaker 5: Jubile's first day follow up