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Speaker 1: I mean, look at Darth Vader. He went from galactic

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Speaker 2: I didn't say that.

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Speaker 1: Award at the end of the movie. That's not sad. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you know like that? What what about Taylor Swift? She

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Speaker 1: went from writing breakup country songs about her exes to

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Speaker 2: You're going to trigger some people.

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Speaker 1: She did it, she changed, and now she's married. She's

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Speaker 2: I feel like you gave two examples of people who

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Speaker 1: I didn't really well today. Our listeners are hoping that

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Speaker 2: Oh, you set us up for hope.

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Speaker 1: It's during a brand news Say Yes to the X.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, it's brooken Jeffrey in the morning and

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Speaker 4: I don't understand that because that doesn't happen for me.

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Speaker 4: I thought you meant we were gonna eat a lot

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, no, no, feel free to shove whatever

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Speaker 1: it's where we help our listeners reach out to an

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Speaker 1: pouring some gas on those dying embers and spark it

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Speaker 1: reconnect not one, but two former couples at the same time.

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Speaker 1: A group thing.

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Speaker 4: I mean, people could do group things.

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Speaker 1: I thought you would fight me more on it. We're

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you guys are open for chaos, but we've

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Speaker 1: got a guy named Bobby on the phone looking to

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Hey, I appreciate it.

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Speaker 4: Even with that intro, you do interesting, Yeah, you're putting

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so my ex, his name is Ashley. Ashley and

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Speaker 3: we were together for a year and a half. We

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Speaker 1: You had babies together.

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Speaker 5: We didn't have babies together, not yet.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so not everything except Mary. Now I don't know

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you guys are still connected in a lot

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, it just happened Monday.

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Speaker 2: Wait the breakup?

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Speaker 2: Wait what happened Monday? Walk us through what happened Monday?

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well it wasn't just I guess we we fight

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we get passionate and I know this is I

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Monopoly game afterwards something like I got that one. Yeah, Oh,

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Speaker 1: I get what you're saying. Human Jenga Okay, tower's coming down,

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Speaker 1: What was the argument about?

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Speaker 2: I'm sure was it about you not being a good listener?

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Speaker 1: Because I couldn't have anything to do with it, Alexis,

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Speaker 1: So here is the situation. We're calling you about a

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't want to label it. Are you

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you know who I'm talking about,

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Speaker 2: Just tell her Bobby.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well she blew it. It's Bobby. Oh my god, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Is that true?

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Speaker 2: Depending what?

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Speaker 1: Well, the thing about this segment we're doing called Say

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Speaker 4: She's gonna say it, and then we're gonna have to

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Speaker 4: say will you go back out with him?

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Speaker 2: Right after week?

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Speaker 1: Really running in on her time to explain what happened.

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Speaker 5: You know, he's a big iron with someone new girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, less than a week and he wants the Netflix account.

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Speaker 1: I pay for the Netflix so that's the only reason

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Speaker 2: Does that mean he was cheating? Did you find him cheating?

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Speaker 4: You think wants is a Netflix password and that's what

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Speaker 3: Literally literally, yes, Hey, Netflix is like really expensive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So let's just at this point tell you Ashley

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Speaker 5: You have been dating this new chick for like seventy

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: No, you're off the account.

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Speaker 1: Us not fix some chill on with you girl. Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: Of this, Papa Pill. We're gonna do more after this.

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Speaker 2: Well, like I just got hit in the face, just like.

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Speaker 2: But you don't have any faith that Brian matured, Alexis.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying, like he didn't reach back after her.

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Speaker 2: I know them, but exactly relationship.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we're just gonna call Brian for her.

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Speaker 2: So don't use that word we already got out there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, hi guys, hey.

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Speaker 2: Man, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're wrong with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for being with us.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, how do you know that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, good question.

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Speaker 1: Well, because Tasha wrote into our.

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Speaker 1: Yeah for sure. Now, the thing is, Tasha wanted to

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Speaker 1: You can just say yes. Now we'll clip it and

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Speaker 1: To hang out like where we talking? Like, yeah, not

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Speaker 1: Wearing a coumber bun Like what did that mean?

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Speaker 4: Not keeping a casual?

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Speaker 4: Have you ever been in a relationship where you just

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Speaker 1: I mean I've had situations where you're just boring for

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Speaker 4: Mean that you don't have other options. It means that

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm not understanding exactly what she's talking about, but

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Speaker 1: if she wants to mess around, I'm down. Okay, I'm

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Speaker 1: That's very obvious. Okay, what we're asking is not just

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Speaker 2: Jeff has to go this. Okay, you and.

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Speaker 4: All the time we were talking about over like over

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Speaker 3: You want to go wait for like a three day cruise?

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Speaker 2: Yes, well, hey, we should give her that offer.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're not paying for a crew now.

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Speaker 1: No, and we don't do that. So look, we're officially

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Speaker 1: if you're willing to say yes to your ex Tasha

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Speaker 2: This is what we're gonna do.

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Speaker 4: We're just gonna write Tasha back and tell her we

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Speaker 1: That's what we're gonna say. This was obviously a bad idea,

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Speaker 1: not just this segment, but it's it's clear that you're

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Speaker 2: I'm happy we had less time on this one.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so I don't know. This was a shot in

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Speaker 5: Man, I'm willing to hook up in a dark too.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for your time, man, You keep doing you. Uh so, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that was say yes to the X double Edition Total film.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I have an ex call Tiffany.

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Speaker 4: Can you tell her that I'm doing.

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Speaker 2: What hard were you present the part where.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: That's a good point. We should set some ground rules.

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Speaker 1: If you want to do this segment with us, you

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Speaker 2: To understand what a relationship is.

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Speaker 1: Gosh, after all these rules, is anybody even going to

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Speaker 4: So this is what you want to go back to?

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Speaker 2: Dating? That bad?

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Speaker 4: He was just that good.

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Speaker 1: You're saying, wherever you are in your dating life, if

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Speaker 2: You and everything in between.

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Speaker 1: Whatever you want, just email the show and we'll call

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