WEBVTT - Remember a childhood summer

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Today's tip is to remember a childhood summer. If you

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<v Speaker 1>spend some time really thinking about what you enjoyed as

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<v Speaker 1>a kid, you can get insights into what might make

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<v Speaker 1>life more enjoyable. Now. If you read a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>American literature, in particular, there's a fantasy of the ideal

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<v Speaker 1>childhood summer. It's spent wild and care free outside with friends,

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<v Speaker 1>filled to the brim with happiness. Now, this is obviously

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<v Speaker 1>not going to be true for every minute for anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>It also presupposes a certain family structure that has someone

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<v Speaker 1>watching out the kitchen window as the kids frolic in

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<v Speaker 1>the yard. That said, for many of us growing up

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<v Speaker 1>in a society that featured long summer breaks from school,

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<v Speaker 1>summer did feature at least a few more hours focused

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<v Speaker 1>on things that were intrinsically interesting for us. Maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>went to a summer camp, but you could choose which

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<v Speaker 1>themed week was of interest, or you choose between different

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<v Speaker 1>kinds of camp. Out of school, there may have been

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<v Speaker 1>a few more hours spent entertaining yourself rather than having

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<v Speaker 1>time dictated, or at least you were engaging in different

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<v Speaker 1>projects than the school year brought. And so these summers

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<v Speaker 1>from the past offer clues to what might be of

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<v Speaker 1>interest in adulthood too. What we chose when we could

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<v Speaker 1>choose might be what we would choose now. Sometimes when

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<v Speaker 1>people think of this question, they make big life changes.

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<v Speaker 1>I recently read Donald Hall's memoir String Too Short to

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<v Speaker 1>Be Saved about his summers on his grandparents New Hampshire farm.

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<v Speaker 1>He wrote the book as an elegy to a disappearing

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<v Speaker 1>way of life. Then, as his grandmother was dying, he

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<v Speaker 1>realized that he could in fact buy the farm from

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<v Speaker 1>her children and adopt that way of life himself. He

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<v Speaker 1>wound up resigning his professorship and doing just that. Now

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<v Speaker 1>most of us are not going to buy the farm,

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<v Speaker 1>but there might be clues to interests, both professional and personal.

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<v Speaker 1>So think back to a childhood summer. What did you

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<v Speaker 1>look forward to, What did you do whenever you could,

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<v Speaker 1>What made time seemed to stand still and fly by.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it was a summer theater production that you were

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<v Speaker 1>part of each year. Maybe it was a wilderness camp

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<v Speaker 1>where you got to sleep out under the stars. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you have happy memories of a summer job, or spending

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<v Speaker 1>all afternoon making crafts with your sister while your parents

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<v Speaker 1>were at work. Think about these memories, spend some time

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<v Speaker 1>really exploring them. Why do you think you felt so happy.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's not the most obvious aspect. You enjoyed summer

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<v Speaker 1>theater not because of the singing and dancing, though those

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<v Speaker 1>were fun, but because you loved pulling a whole project

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<v Speaker 1>together start to finish in three weeks. Maybe you went

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<v Speaker 1>to an academic camp where the obvious pull was time

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<v Speaker 1>away from home, but as you think about it, you

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<v Speaker 1>recall that for the first time, you felt like you

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<v Speaker 1>could really talk with people about your ideas and they

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't think you were weird for being into math. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you had a job you really loved, not because you

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<v Speaker 1>loved selling hot dogs, but because you loved talking with

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<v Speaker 1>different people all day long. Once you've got a grip

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<v Speaker 1>on the why behind your happy summer memories, you can

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<v Speaker 1>figure out how to add a little more of this

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<v Speaker 1>into your current life. Maybe you run a business where

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<v Speaker 1>you are mostly in charge of strategy, but you might

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy spending a day every week or two working directly

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<v Speaker 1>with customers, just like you used to do at that

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<v Speaker 1>hot dog stand. There are probably wise reasons to do this,

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<v Speaker 1>and it would scratch that itch to talk with new people.

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<v Speaker 1>If you loved summer theater, maybe you need to rethink

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<v Speaker 1>your workflow to do more short and intense project X.

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<v Speaker 1>I have long been fascinated by the teams that start

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<v Speaker 1>new magazines and then hand them off to others to run,

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<v Speaker 1>or even the teams that start new schools. Or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>if you loved that academic camp, you just need to

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<v Speaker 1>join some more cerebral discussion groups. No, life probably won't

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<v Speaker 1>be like that magical summer you remember when you were

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<v Speaker 1>fourteen and figuring the world out. But on the other hand,

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<v Speaker 1>there is no reason to consign all summer happiness to

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<v Speaker 1>the past. Because summers may have featured more discretionary time,

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<v Speaker 1>or at least different time. They can give us clues

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<v Speaker 1>to what might make life more interesting now during the

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<v Speaker 1>summer and all year long. So spend some time today

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<v Speaker 1>remembering a childhood summer. The glow might just last into

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<v Speaker 1>the present two In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for listening, and here's to making the most of our time. Hey, everybody,

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