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Speaker 1: tuned in the second date update. That's where we're going.

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Speaker 1: This is for everybody that's out there dating, and everybody

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Speaker 1: that's not might be grateful after hearing these. This is

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Speaker 1: uh an issue coming to us from Pasadena. So Cassie

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Speaker 1: This morning. Cassie says she got introduced to this guy

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Speaker 1: So you went out a few times with this guy

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Speaker 1: and you had a good time essentially, Cassie. Um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: well we met up for for coffee today. M all right,

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Speaker 1: So you go out, you meet for coffee and then

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Speaker 1: what happened? How did it end? Well? I mean it

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Speaker 1: was really exciting, right because like we've been messaging back

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Speaker 1: like not responding to my text. He was coming from

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Speaker 1: of a sudden, come out of the blue. No, he did.

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Speaker 1: He was like, well, how many dates in was this by? Now?

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Speaker 1: It was our first date? This was the first date. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: coffee date looks cute breath and the poop. No, you

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Speaker 1: guys know, great first day. That is do you even

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Speaker 1: drink coffee? Who drinks coffee? Really drinks? I mean not

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Speaker 1: really really? And I'm also not fighting with you, oh correct, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm fighting was a fighting guy. This is just my

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Speaker 1: have to go to the bathroom. So anyway, Cassie, that's

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Speaker 1: a side conversation that we'll have with our family. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we'll put a pin in it. Who's who's the pinkeeper? Me? Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's so loud, I know, very exciting. That's not true.

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Speaker 1: I did it last week. Well, now now that I

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Speaker 1: Cassie again, I apologize together. So it's December. This happens

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Speaker 1: every year, just kind of like, does it. I don't

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Speaker 1: recall this ever happening before. Actually your ends cranky. All right, Cassie,

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Speaker 1: you hold on for a second. We're gonna try and

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Speaker 1: get him on the line. We have his number, thank

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Speaker 1: he cut the date short. Second date update. So we

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Speaker 1: are in the middle of a second date update. Cassie

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Speaker 1: reached out struggling to find answers. She was set up

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Speaker 1: But I'm wondering if there's a little bit of pressure, Cassie,

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Speaker 1: come on the air with us, Greg, and I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: find out why Greg left you abruptly at the coffee shop. Okay, thanks, sure,

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Speaker 1: here we go, Greg, Good morning, Thank you for green

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Speaker 1: and coming on. Can you hear me now? Yeah? I can. Great. Hey, uh,

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Speaker 1: calling you about a woman that you were set up with.

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Speaker 1: You guys went apparently out together named Cassie. Does that

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Speaker 1: But how was the conversation after the fact. I mean

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Speaker 1: Cassie's on the line listening to this right now. Cassie,

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Speaker 1: do you understand what he's saying? Does this make any

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Speaker 1: I mean, like I should have gotten you a coffee.

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Speaker 1: a priority date. It's not a great idea and here's

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Speaker 1: go back to work? Well, no, but our work at

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Speaker 1: a different time. But the work was working. It was

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Speaker 1: but the universe, the stars, the horoscopes, whatever spoke. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Blew it with the coffee, and Greg, you blew it

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Speaker 1: shot right Like, I'm sorry I screw up. Honestly, I

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Speaker 1: if you had time, I'd love a second chance. But

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Speaker 1: like I was already obviously kind of stressed. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: I definitely maybe we could definitely try it again when

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Speaker 1: I have a little bit more time. Sure, very utterly, like, well,

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Speaker 1: when is it, Let's make it. Let's make a close

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Speaker 1: ended determination here. When is that? Alright? Pool, pull all

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Speaker 1: I could do tonight. I can definitely do tonight, Cassie,

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Speaker 1: can you see him tonight? Um? Sure, okay, yeah I can. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you too. Thanks for reaching out, Cassie, Thanks for talking.

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Speaker 1: Greg take care of text offline. See I didn't see

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Speaker 1: too much stress for this relationship for me. Everyone has stress, Ryan,

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Speaker 1: I get it, but I think these stresses a red

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Speaker 1: for me. For her. We all have stress. But you

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Speaker 1: you have dated way more than you I think Tanka

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Speaker 1: random I've witnessed it. Yeah, the most randoms for sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah so, but I've been on the planet longer. It

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Speaker 1: doesn't matter. Doesn't matter to so many, thank you. I

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