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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the

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Speaker 1: to other, Please I don't join me? You got turning?

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Speaker 1: I show will good morning everybody, y'all listen to the VARs,

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Speaker 1: come on dig me now one and on it. Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey got a radio show, Man on Man on man.

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Speaker 1: Grateful for it comes with a huge amount of responsibility.

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Speaker 1: I didn't really know I was gonna have to be

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Speaker 1: I started out to Finally I had gotten on track

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Speaker 1: my dream. It has been a long, a long trip

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Speaker 1: that I've been on, and I've gone through so many

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Speaker 1: let me put it together, because I got so much

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Speaker 1: running through my head right now. You know, it's it's

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Speaker 1: one thing to accomplish your dream, but there's joy in

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Speaker 1: the process of achieving it. See, some people are so

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Speaker 1: far more blessed than the average person to know what

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Speaker 1: it is you really want to do. To find your

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Speaker 1: work in life, your purpose, to find out what direction

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Speaker 1: you want to go in is such a blessing. The

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Speaker 1: average person, if you sit down and talk to them,

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Speaker 1: oftentimes don't have their life on track. And it'd be

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Speaker 1: some people that you're looking at you think God it

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Speaker 1: going on because of their appearance, their swagger, or they

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Speaker 1: But if you sit down and talk to the average person,

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Speaker 1: the average hearsing man does not know what their purpose is,

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Speaker 1: if you have an idea of what you want to be,

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Speaker 1: and you are on your way there, you are truly blessed.

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Speaker 1: And in that blessing. You must recognize it as a blessing.

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Speaker 1: You must recognize the fact that you are on the

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Speaker 1: get here, but steve hold on, man, can't you see

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Speaker 1: we're looking at the end. Tomot, I ain't there yet.

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Speaker 1: You on your way. I'm gonna give you an example.

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Speaker 1: So about a year later we were talking. He had

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Speaker 1: You on your way. You don't went from your He thought,

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Speaker 1: come on, man, can't you see? Can't you see? So

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Speaker 1: he said eventually a man, I kind of see what

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Speaker 1: it my life when I had it like that? I said,

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Speaker 1: And then we talked. I said, hey, man, don't worry

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Speaker 1: life for what it is. Because like life, Jenny's got

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Speaker 1: that song that he got out off this album. Still

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Speaker 1: I still believe it could have been worse. And now

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Speaker 1: that it is worse, what's on your mind now, folks,

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Speaker 1: You're accomplishing what the majority of people never ever do.

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Speaker 1: So be grateful for your process. Don't tumble yourself, don't

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Speaker 1: Success takes a measure of time. It is not easy.

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Speaker 1: If success were easy, everybody would be successful. You're listening show,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, without further ado, it's mourning time. Steve Harving,

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Speaker 1: Marty show us here, man, I'm so glad about it again?

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Speaker 1: Or look at God? Ain't he something else? Just keeps

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Speaker 1: You know what I've decided, man, And I don't know

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Speaker 1: how you feel about You can feel the same way too.

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Speaker 1: But I'm actually one of his favorites. And I've just

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Speaker 1: no argument. He's speaking the truth from Thomas. Oh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Mouth of the South, Mississippi, Monica, everybody, Junior Kills Spakes, everybody, Nephew, Timmy,

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Speaker 1: everybody in yours truly, Junior. What's on your mind? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I like to pick up what Tommy just less all, Like,

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Speaker 1: how do you know you wanted his favorites? How you

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Speaker 1: a recipient of his unmerited grace and faithful. Unmerited mean

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Speaker 1: I have not earned it that I've done, not nothing

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Speaker 1: And all of us have been a recipient of him.

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Speaker 1: It's just sometimes we don't recognize what it is, you know, Like,

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Speaker 1: have you ever had something that could have happened to

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Speaker 1: It's almost like in just layman turns, hey man, could

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you, um. Coming up with thirty two

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we're gonna start the show off

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Speaker 1: with Nephew. Tommy's run that crank back. That's right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Nephew,

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Speaker 1: time to start us off with the prank. What you got,

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Speaker 1: run that prank back? I feel stupid this moment, feeling

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Speaker 1: it yeah, yeah, yeah, yes, yeah, because yesterday I would

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Speaker 1: can prove different. That's what I'm going with. I'm with it, okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, kat And Lafayette says, my parents are getting

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Speaker 1: older and I want to move closer to them in Texas.

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Speaker 1: But I just got a promotion at work and my

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Speaker 1: husband doesn't want to move to the big city, as

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Speaker 1: he calls it. I can work from home if I move,

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Speaker 1: and I can get a small place for myself or

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Speaker 1: stay with my parents. Would I be selfish to split

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Speaker 1: my time in Texas? Wow, you married your husband, you

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Speaker 1: said some violes. You want to help your parents. That's

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Speaker 1: a tough one m Margie goes to visit her parents often.

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Speaker 1: Just go visit them often. You can't move in and

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Speaker 1: help them though, I mean, unless that's what y'all's arrangement is.

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't know. I wouldn't let nothing happen

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Speaker 1: to my parents. But you know, if they're not like

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Speaker 1: you know, real and real bad shape, you just want

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Speaker 1: to be close to them, then just go visit them often.

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Speaker 1: But if they're in bad shape, you know, health wise,

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Speaker 1: you gotta do something to help them. You know, I

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00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:40,959
Speaker 1: don't really know when you move them to Texas, move

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Speaker 1: them where they are. Yeah, you know you're gonna you're

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Speaker 1: gonna do like you want. Your man told you don't

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Speaker 1: move up. You move up there and get your little

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Speaker 1: place if you want to. All right, go ahead, right now,

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Speaker 1: come back home? He visitor, female visitors not to move

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Speaker 1: who I'm supposed to do? All right? Moving on to

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Speaker 1: Josette in Southfield? Is that right? So I'm a choreographer

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Speaker 1: at a dance studio and one of my students is

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Speaker 1: twenty four years old and he's a hip hop dancer

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Speaker 1: in need of some help. He's cute as he can be,

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Speaker 1: and he's a flirt but I'm old enough to be

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Speaker 1: his mother. He grabbed me in places that he shouldn't

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Speaker 1: and it makes me blush? Should I just ask him?

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Speaker 1: What's up? You know what you just said? What are

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Speaker 1: you doing? Cute as hell? He didn't grabbed you in

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Speaker 1: inappropriate places and you flirt? You're gonna ask him what's up?

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Speaker 1: You know what's up? He needs some help. He need

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Speaker 1: to stay sugar mama couger. He find moving your old

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Speaker 1: ass house. You're gonna have to tell your friends who

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Speaker 1: he is? Who? What's she gonna say? Who is a

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Speaker 1: little bar? This is take? This is this is take

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Speaker 1: my brother, sir? All right, we gotta move on. Clo

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, Will Smith

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Speaker 1: apologizes to Chris Rock. We'll talk about it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. All right,

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Speaker 1: So Will Smith has finally apologized to Chris Rock. He

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Speaker 1: did it yesterday and said that slapping Chris was unacceptable

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Speaker 1: and inexcusable. As we all know, Will did not apologize

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Speaker 1: to Chris Sunday night during his Best Actor acceptance speech,

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Speaker 1: but now he is acknowledging that violence in all of

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Speaker 1: its forms is poisonous and destructive. Here is a full

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Speaker 1: apology that will post it on his Instagram page. He says,

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Speaker 1: violence and all of its forms, it's poisonous and destructive.

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Speaker 1: My behavior at last night's Academy Awards was unacceptable and

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Speaker 1: then inexcusable. Jokes at my expense are part of the job,

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Speaker 1: but a joke about Jada's medical condition was way too

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Speaker 1: much for me to bear, and I reacted emotionally. I

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Speaker 1: would like to publicly apologize to you, Chris. I was

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Speaker 1: out of line and I was wrong. I'm embarrassed and

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Speaker 1: my actions are not indicative of the man I want

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Speaker 1: to be. There is no place for violence in a

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Speaker 1: world of love and kindness. I would also like to

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Speaker 1: apologize to the Academy, the producers of the show, all

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Speaker 1: the attendees, and everyone watching around the world. I would

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Speaker 1: like to apologize to the Williams family and my King

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Speaker 1: Richard family. I deeply regret my behavior has stained what

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Speaker 1: has been an otherwise gorgeous journey for all of us

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Speaker 1: be and that sincere to Well, I can't speak for him.

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Speaker 1: Tell me to answer your question. I wish the apology

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Speaker 1: had come Sunday night, when he apologized to the Academy

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Speaker 1: and everyone else on Sunday night. That's when I wish

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Speaker 1: he had made this apology. I mean, I'm glad he

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Speaker 1: finally you made an apology to Chris Rock, but I

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Speaker 1: wish it comes Yeah, yeah, I wish it was more

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Speaker 1: of like I don't have to know about it, but

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Speaker 1: verbally took Chris, like a phone call to Chris. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is a step, So I'm not upset about it.

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Speaker 1: This is a step. Yeah. I think he should have

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Speaker 1: done it publicly, because he slapped him publicly, publicly and

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Speaker 1: then went in part yeah, well see that's the thing.

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Speaker 1: You gave the apology to the academy, then you know

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Speaker 1: the incident happened. You apologize to the Academy and your peers.

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Speaker 1: You didn't apologize to Chris, didn't your party. You're doing

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Speaker 1: too much to slap me. You're doing way too much

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Speaker 1: slap Yes, he did not realize the magnitude of it

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Speaker 1: until after the fact. I've made some very very public

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Speaker 1: mistakes and you don't really know the magnitude and after

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Speaker 1: until after the public gets a hold to it. The

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Speaker 1: problem that I have with this, see I understand the apology.

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Speaker 1: I also understand what it's coming from, because I look

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Speaker 1: into the words everybody said talking about my wife's I'm

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Speaker 1: cool with jokes and jokes about me, blah blah blah,

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Speaker 1: but when you talk about my wife's medical condition, that

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Speaker 1: ain't what the man said though. See there was no

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Speaker 1: mention of a disease or anything like that. I don't

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Speaker 1: even think. I don't I really don't even think Chris

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Speaker 1: knew anything about the medical condition. It was about her

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Speaker 1: wearing her hair short and her looking like Demi Moore

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Speaker 1: that and and said, because all it was was about

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Speaker 1: the g I Jane joke. It wasn't about no, you

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Speaker 1: look like you know, uh you know, you know now

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Speaker 1: if you say something medical, you know you look like

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Speaker 1: a you know, you know, you look you are posted

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Speaker 1: girl for chemo or something like that. You can't get

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Speaker 1: your ass whoop. I'm in all support or we are

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Speaker 1: walking up on that stage and knocking his ass out

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Speaker 1: because if you do my wife publicly in a negative way,

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Speaker 1: here I come. See I'm with that. Yeah, but but

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Speaker 1: but no, no, let me finish what I'm saying. But

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Speaker 1: that apology with that word in it, and then again

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Speaker 1: to make sure you apologize to the academy. See, the

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Speaker 1: most important thing is that cademy. You know that that

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Speaker 1: deviling back making sure you talking with the academy. When

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Speaker 1: you put those words in there, it's like, this is

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Speaker 1: why I did it. So now you justifying what you did.

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Speaker 1: Now you're gonna come back with the violence thing. But

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Speaker 1: I did it because yeah, it was like he was

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Speaker 1: trying to justify the violence. I apologize, but that's the button.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh. Yeah, but I don't. I don't think. I

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Speaker 1: don't think Steve, you would have like, I don't think

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Speaker 1: I would have. But yeah, I mean, I'm the craziest

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Speaker 1: one on this show, y'all know that. But I'm glad

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Speaker 1: I go. But I got a wife that that's by

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Speaker 1: my side that ain't gonna let me walk up down

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Speaker 1: and do nothing crazy like that. She's gonna be like,

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Speaker 1: you gonna sit your hands down. You can't. I think

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Speaker 1: I would personally be like, I'm gonna go to the

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Speaker 1: back and talk to him. I don't think I would

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Speaker 1: have right tried to go and handle it right there,

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Speaker 1: many million people looking at that. I'm ninety pursuit. Sure

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Speaker 1: that's how I would have done it. But if I'm

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Speaker 1: sitting there and my wife has a medical condition, and

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00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 1: you make mention of the medical condition and it breaks

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Speaker 1: her right there. I hope that I got enough sense

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Speaker 1: to get around to the back of that stage. And

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Speaker 1: that's how I think I would handle it. That's how

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00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:35,359
Speaker 1: I think I would handle it. But I know right now,

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Speaker 1: But I'll tell you about Marjorie, Marjorie Harvey. She wouldn't

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00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 1: gonna grab me. Ain't no way. But stre talking. You're

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Speaker 1: talking like a regular man right now, and what you are,

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Speaker 1: of course, but you're also a comedian, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's and Chris Rock is a comedian and

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Speaker 1: he was just doing his job, Christian. You know what, No,

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Speaker 1: he just did nothing wrong. Yeah, he was just doing

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Speaker 1: his job. You're talking as a regular man sitting there

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Speaker 1: with your wife who had some sort of medical condition.

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Speaker 1: And but you, as a comedian, what would you you know,

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Speaker 1: would how would you have handled that same tonight if

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00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 1: I'm the comedian and I'm on stage. Yeah, well, we

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00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 1: we'll not gonna turn around because we're up in here.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna have to come in. We got to go.

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Speaker 1: We've been to do like folk commercial breaks in a

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Speaker 1: row because they gotta fixed the stage in. They gotta

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Speaker 1: put the lights back up. They ump up to the

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00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 1: lights stage up. What I cannot do? Thank you Chris

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Speaker 1: Rock for being You cannot slap me and walk off.

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00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 1: You're gonna be trying to dig this Oscar. I chill

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Speaker 1: the hand because that's the way I didn't put it up.

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00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: See I ain't didn't ye handling it the right way

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Speaker 1: at that particular moment. I hope I could be that

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Speaker 1: guy at that particular moment. All right, we'll be back

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Speaker 1: with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right. So

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Speaker 1: this past weekend there was a Trump rally in Commerce, Georgia,

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Speaker 1: and the crowd started channing her show her Shaw meaning

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Speaker 1: herschel Walker of course, uh senate hopeful. Herschel Walker talked

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Speaker 1: about what he is sick and tired of taking Listen.

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Speaker 1: People want to ask me all the time why I'm running.

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Speaker 1: I'm sick and tired. I'm sick and tired and want

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Speaker 1: to teach CTR and in school critical race theory. Can

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Speaker 1: you tell me what that means? We're Americans, we're not black,

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Speaker 1: we're not white, we're married so much too unpacked R.

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Speaker 1: That's yeah, somebody like our medical issue. Yeah, race trading?

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Speaker 1: What is RT critical? Race theory? Ste that's what it is.

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Speaker 1: We're not black, We're not white. We're America's boy. Boy boy.

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00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,839
Speaker 1: That's the fight we've been having since we got here,

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00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: and that's the fight that continues. And if you don't

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00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:14,880
Speaker 1: think your ass is black, just hold one. He said it.

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Speaker 1: He We're not black, We're not white, We're Americans. What brother, brother,

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Speaker 1: listen to me. That line been drawn in the same

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00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 1: long time ago. And you one ass ain't finn change

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00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 1: it because that's because you want to get the white vote.

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Speaker 1: That's not Finn to change. I'm gonna vote for you,

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Speaker 1: black ass. But I tell you what. I tell you

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Speaker 1: what I tell you, I tell you where Hershey, you

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Speaker 1: better win half of don't even know what you are.

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Speaker 1: I like that Hershey, boy, I tell you that right now,

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00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 1: like the chocolate bar. He has no clue herschel Walker. Man,

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Speaker 1: you're you're in the world that don't exist. Man. I

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00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 1: mean it's great. I'm tired of everybody talking me about

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Speaker 1: why are you running? Why are you running? Run? Teach

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Speaker 1: up CTR boy, QUIQUI too much yeah, it really is,

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Speaker 1: it really is. All right, Well, Georgia voters, the Georgia

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Speaker 1: primary is May twenty fourth, Okay, May twenty fourth. Please

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Speaker 1: know that Trump's returned to Georgia this past weekend. It's

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Speaker 1: part of this plan to get back at Georgia. You know,

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00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 1: he's out for revenge, of course. And Georgia voters please

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Speaker 1: register to vote. We have to do this. We have

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Speaker 1: to register to vote at when we all vote dot

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Speaker 1: org because we probably stand in full support of Senator

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Speaker 1: Reverend Warnock. Raphael Warnock one mission in Georgia, that is

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Speaker 1: to flip that state back red. They want this to

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Speaker 1: be done. We ain't having it. We've been told y'all

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Speaker 1: one time. Now we're gonna have to show you again.

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Speaker 1: But see what they're gonna try to counter him with herschel. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the American, not the black man. I guess who black man. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I'm bringing ant your mama back. I'm bringing ant your

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Speaker 1: mom and uncle being back. I'm getting all these slaves

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Speaker 1: back on the shield. You wait, I'm gonna get it

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Speaker 1: all to gil Gosh. All right, uh, please go vote.

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Speaker 1: Uh coming up with thirty four minutes after we're gonna

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Speaker 1: check Steve's voicemail again right after this. You're listening Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, it is time to check

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Speaker 1: Steve's voicemail at eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve eight

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Speaker 1: seven seven twenty nine, Steve, Steve, you're ready to go

631
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Speaker 1: to the phones. Absolutely. This one is from Atlanta and Atlanta.

632
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 1: Caller wants voters to stay woke, Steves, Steven, the man

633
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: has been trying to teach our people something. What is

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00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:57,800
Speaker 1: going on in Atlanta. I looked on the news and

635
00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 1: they got Hersha Walker leading by four points against Walnut.

636
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 1: Wake up Atlanta, Please tell them to wake up, because

637
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 1: now we're gonna have our uncle Tom up. And then

638
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 1: in Congress the Trump gonna be pull a stream like

639
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Speaker 1: he Please wake up a Landa. Oh my god, don't

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Speaker 1: don't points listen to me. Don't don't. No, I'm with

641
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 1: the caller. It's not We're not letting it happen. That's it.

642
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 1: That's done. Yeah, and we're going tolop see it's a deal.

643
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: We've seen Herschel before many times. We've seen the herschel

644
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:51,040
Speaker 1: Walkers many times. We're we're very well versed as to

645
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 1: how you come and you dress up the package. Why

646
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 1: oh why this is a Republican party all of a

647
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 1: sudden endorsing Herschel walk black man? Yeah what what black person?

648
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 1: Always they take a close look at the black people

649
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:14,840
Speaker 1: that they do go and get. Yeah, it's amazing the

650
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:18,800
Speaker 1: ones they do go and get. And we're very conscious

651
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 1: of that. If you think that you're going to replace

652
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 1: Warnock with with with him, you're sadly mistaken. Watch us.

653
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: I'm calling dial hugely. I'm calling Ricky Smiley and Steve Harvey,

654
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:45,240
Speaker 1: the Frat brothers. We control the airways. It's a done dollar.

655
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 1: You're listening to me. We control the airways. Watch what happened? Okay,

656
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 1: watch you can get all your people, but I's gonna

657
00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 1: be there running gets. I was gonna do all I

658
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 1: can to get this country back where supposed to be.

659
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:09,800
Speaker 1: I mean that means a lot to you. The Herschel.

660
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: You're dog gone right. We ain't black white masking our agent.

661
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 1: We all is Americus. Both got realize that right there,

662
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 1: And we're gonna give CPR to everybody here. You see dry.

663
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 1: If we don't get out of yards colored people racism,

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Speaker 1: oh wow, they won't if we don't get out of

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00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 1: this is what it is. All right. Here we go

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00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:49,880
Speaker 1: call her Sheila from Buffalo. Hi, my name is Sheila

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00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: Smith Wayne from Buffalo, New York. Hello, Steve and the crew.

668
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 1: I'd like to give a hand. Trap and Dedication is

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Speaker 1: called to Junior, also known as Jay Brad. We all

670
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:03,840
Speaker 1: know what it stands for. Junior's raggedy ass poem. He

671
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 1: puts his all into them, so leave them alone. He

672
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 1: took a lot of thought in two what he's trying

673
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:15,720
Speaker 1: to get across, although he's ridiculed by Steve, his loving boss, Junior.

674
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 1: I love your poems. They make me laugh so hard,

675
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 1: looking forward to hearing more. All the teasing disregards Junior

676
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 1: richly adventurous poems, changing the name because that's a win.

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00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: So keeps them coming, Jay Rap, I love you the end.

678
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 1: Oh wait, I want to stop her poetry speaking ass

679
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 1: right now. Don't call us talking to us in poetry.

680
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 1: We love Junior and his name. We love Yesterday and

681
00:43:55,400 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 1: all the science like we in kindergarten. You're telling us

682
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 1: a damn story or something. Humpty Dumpty sat on the wall.

683
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: Get off the damn phone, all right, ragget an your

684
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:17,839
Speaker 1: VS man, your VS man with Ragge coming up next,

685
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,240
Speaker 1: and is the nephew with the frank phone call for today.

686
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.

687
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:29,479
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. Right about

688
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for today and

689
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 1: the subject is my ex children aren't welcome. We'll get

690
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 1: into that find out what that's all about about in

691
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,800
Speaker 1: just a bit, but right now it is the nephew

692
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 1: with today's frank phone call. What you got for us,

693
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Speaker 1: neph what's happening? Let me jump this out there first,

694
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Speaker 1: Shirley Nashville, Tennessee Zanis Comedy Club. The nephew was coming

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Speaker 1: to Friday to Saturday to Sunday. That is this coming weekend,

696
00:44:56,280 --> 00:45:03,760
Speaker 1: which is what April fools, we can what thetter food

697
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Speaker 1: to have in your city to spend April foods with? Okay,

698
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:12,239
Speaker 1: who Friday too, Sadday to Sunday Friday soul out, Sad

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Speaker 1: to soul Out. First show Sunday Soulo. I put another

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Speaker 1: one on sale for Sunday evening, so we're gonna go

701
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 1: to work. So all right, six shows two Friday too,

702
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:24,839
Speaker 1: Saday to Sunday. Laying in the cut is Charlotte, North Carolina.

703
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:27,399
Speaker 1: That's right. That is the comedy Zone April eight through

704
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Speaker 1: ten Ticket Center, like hot cakes. So I appreciate that, Charlotte.

705
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Speaker 1: I'm coming. I'm gonna be stupid in Nashville first. Then

706
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come down there a week later and be

707
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 1: stupid down there too. You see what I'm saying. Stupid

708
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 1: is moving around the country. That's me. I magnified. I

709
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:44,400
Speaker 1: make it bigger than what it is. I'm amazing with it.

710
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 1: You gotta watch me do it. It's it's incredible when

711
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 1: you see it in person. I'm just I'm just saying.

712
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying that it's the timing. You have been met yet,

713
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 1: So see me right now, right now, we're gonna take

714
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 1: time to be a little bit more ignorant. This right

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Speaker 1: hill Shirley is no and shoulder. Black people don't eat

716
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 1: anchovies on their pick. No, Shobies do not mushrooms. Yes, yes,

717
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 1: mushroom pepper runing Italian size. Might do a little bell

718
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:19,720
Speaker 1: pepper on you will do that. We don't do ant chovies.

719
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 1: I don't even know what the anchoviy is. What is that? Well,

720
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:25,799
Speaker 1: you see right there, ain't but you ain't never hearing

721
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 1: nobody say the anchovies his biden? Oh who they're pulling

722
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 1: them anchovies in Boy Cat Dog. Let's go hello, hey, man?

723
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 1: Who who? Who? Who is the person I need to

724
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:45,279
Speaker 1: talk to about that? I got a pizza that's been

725
00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:48,359
Speaker 1: messed up? Who do I need to talk to? Well,

726
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 1: you can talk to me. What's going on? What happened

727
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:53,720
Speaker 1: to in pizza? He puts some anchovies on my pizzas

728
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:59,719
Speaker 1: black people do eat nchobies? Man? Who who? Who? Who

729
00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 1: would do that? Who would put answer channels? That settled

730
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:06,800
Speaker 1: down with the language that Pal, all right, you know

731
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 1: if you got answerviies on your pizza, he just must

732
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 1: have gotten mixed up with another water. I'll send you

733
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Speaker 1: another pizza. It ain't a big deal. But I ain't

734
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 1: asking anchoviies man, matter fact, let me ask you. So

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00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:21,359
Speaker 1: what there is the ant shoby any damn Wait, it's

736
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 1: like a sardine. That's what a man shovy is. Okay, Pal,

737
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:28,359
Speaker 1: It's like a sardine. Hey, hey, hey, let me tell

738
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Speaker 1: you something. Man. First of all, what's your name? What

739
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 1: is your name? I'm Gino. I'm Gino. So you're the

740
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 1: owner of the damn pizza plates. Yeah, I owned the

741
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:38,520
Speaker 1: damn pizza place, and I don't need people calling me

742
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Speaker 1: and cursing at me because there was a mistake and

743
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 1: all mistakes happened, pal where things go on in his life.

744
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 1: And then you're getting some anchovies on your pizza A right, man? Hey, Okay,

745
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 1: so here's the deal. I don't have a bunch of

746
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 1: guests coming to mind or all the pizzas and every

747
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:54,960
Speaker 1: last one of them got manchobies on them, you know

748
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I got an issue with it.

749
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,760
Speaker 1: I have spent over fifty dollars with you with these pizzas,

750
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:06,879
Speaker 1: and in the right wrong nobody likes anchovies black people,

751
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 1: you know, man trophies. Man. Okay, hold on, I'm I'm

752
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:17,400
Speaker 1: almost certain I've served anchovie peaching of black people before. Okay,

753
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:23,359
Speaker 1: the black people that I know don't eat and shobies. Okay, Well,

754
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:26,800
Speaker 1: then we'll send you some pizzas without any man chovies

755
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 1: on him. You know what I don't like your I

756
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: don't like your attitude. You know what, man, you man,

757
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:33,920
Speaker 1: You didn't tell me to so much attitude to start with.

758
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: You wouldn't get no attitude. Okay, Okay, look at it.

759
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 1: Don't get yours what okay, don't get what? What do

760
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:43,880
Speaker 1: you talk? You know? What did you just did you

761
00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 1: just threaten me? I said, don't get show. Why do

762
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,839
Speaker 1: you think you're talking? Who does do you think you're

763
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:56,240
Speaker 1: talking to face? I'm talking to Gino the owner, right, please,

764
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 1: the real that's right, that's right. You don't tell me.

765
00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 1: You then to kick my phone? Okay, pound you know

766
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:05,839
Speaker 1: where the picture is? You know you just come down,

767
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 1: do you do you? Okay, that's it. I'll tell you what. Man,

768
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 1: in the next three to five minutes, open to walk

769
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 1: down there and kick your little fine putting hand shobies

770
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 1: on here and having a little pump us attitude like

771
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 1: you think you can't get joy. You come on down here,

772
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 1: okay and we'll see. Do be a favor, go yourself

773
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:28,719
Speaker 1: and the once rode in on. Okay, I'm bringing it

774
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 1: on down here, all right, we'll take care of it there.

775
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 1: Stop staring, man, shobes up, It's all right, poul okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, cool,

776
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 1: all right, cool, okay, okay, okay. You'd like to say,

777
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 1: okay a lot, do you let your words? Okay? You

778
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 1: need to have somebody there, which you when I get there,

779
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 1: because I promise you git offen. Yeah, you don't shake

780
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,160
Speaker 1: it in his boat's pound Me and my aunt chovies.

781
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:57,280
Speaker 1: We're sitting here scared out of our minds right now. Okay,

782
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:03,359
Speaker 1: dealt with clowns like you life. Please let me tell

783
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:05,279
Speaker 1: you to see it? Do you do you know who

784
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:08,839
Speaker 1: you're talking to? IM puppet, to some an idiot who

785
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 1: don't know how to talk. That's what I'm talking to. No,

786
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 1: you're talking to nip him talk from the Steve Harvey

787
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 1: more this show, mister Gino, you just got freak. You're

788
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:25,000
Speaker 1: telling me I'm throwing F bombs all over the radio.

789
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 1: You're topping a bombs all over the radio. Baby, who

790
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 1: I want to know who did this to me? Because

791
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 1: they're getting some F bomps. Do you have a guy

792
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 1: that works for you? He says he works five to close. Andre.

793
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 1: You gotta you gotta Drede that works for you. Yeah,

794
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:43,959
Speaker 1: I gotta Drede that works for me. And Tred's gonna

795
00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 1: be spending some time in a walking freezer. Uh. People

796
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 1: don't need anchovies. Huh. Black people don't need the anto. Baby. Hey,

797
00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 1: I gotta ask you this, mister, gino. What is the

798
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:02,920
Speaker 1: baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the land.

799
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 1: Your show, The baddest radio show in the land is

800
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:17,919
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Show. No, I man, I'll be sad.

801
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:20,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to send yourself pizzas. I'm sending that station

802
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 1: dozens of pizzas with anti double antrovies and every one

803
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 1: of them. There you have it, ladies and gentlemen. No,

804
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 1: there you got it. Yeah, you nail that. It comes

805
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:38,359
Speaker 1: out by the pizza man. You know you're doing good. Now.

806
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:46,600
Speaker 1: I want to beat this exactly. No anchovies. No, what's

807
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:48,439
Speaker 1: your what's you? Let me see you call it? Load

808
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:53,279
Speaker 1: your pizza? What you got on? Okay, pepperoni? Like you said, mushrooms,

809
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:57,320
Speaker 1: Italian sausage. I like. You know what I like on

810
00:51:57,400 --> 00:52:01,960
Speaker 1: my pizza, Basil. I will do basils, spin, I will

811
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 1: do I do the spin. There. Yeah, a couple of onions.

812
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:10,800
Speaker 1: That's it. No, somebody on this show actually has a

813
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 1: pizza oven at the house. You might be, well, you

814
00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:19,040
Speaker 1: know it's not me. You know it's not me. She

815
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:23,439
Speaker 1: got a regular oven she don't need and I don't

816
00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 1: use that right, it's not me. I wish I had

817
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:29,759
Speaker 1: one am I Land Junior. Does somebody on this show

818
00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:33,879
Speaker 1: have a pizza oven? No, it's brick. It's nice too.

819
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 1: It's nice everything. He pretty much has it his house

820
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 1: much nice. Yeah. Pepperoni, onion, double cheese, black olives okay,

821
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 1: jalapino Yeah, really, you really want to get strong with

822
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:57,680
Speaker 1: it sometimes I do beef okay, onion, black olive, jalapino,

823
00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:04,400
Speaker 1: pineapp ok Yeah, I love the pineapple. It was an

824
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 1: acquired taste though once I moved to La it was

825
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:10,879
Speaker 1: an acquired taste. It works, but I like it now. Yeah.

826
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 1: And the little peppery sweet. In case you didn't know,

827
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:23,880
Speaker 1: he's the one with the pizza oven. Moving on, Moving on,

828
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 1: Coming up. At the top of the hour, we got

829
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:31,839
Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter coming up. The subject is my ex

830
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Speaker 1: children aren't welcome. My ex children aren't welcome. We'll get

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Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if

833
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more.

834
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com

835
00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your

836
00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:57,400
Speaker 1: letter live I'm the air popup, just like we're going

837
00:53:57,440 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 1: to read this one right here, right now, and you know,

838
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,840
Speaker 1: ever know, it could be yours. It could be yours.

839
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Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for

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00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:09,360
Speaker 1: you here. It is the Strawberry Never thankn nephew. Subject

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00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 1: my ex children aren't welcome. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a

842
00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 1: forty eight year old married man and my wife and

843
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:20,240
Speaker 1: I have family. She has one son from her last marriage,

844
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 1: and I have two sons and two stepsons from my

845
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:26,160
Speaker 1: last marriage. And my new wife is having a hard

846
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:30,439
Speaker 1: time accepting my stepsons as part of the blend. I've

847
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 1: been in my stepson's live since one of them was

848
00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 1: nine and the other was eleven. Now they're twenty and

849
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:39,759
Speaker 1: twenty two. My new wife is an outstanding mother. She's

850
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 1: a great businesswoman, gourmet cook, and the most beautiful girl

851
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 1: in the world to me. But it is her attitude

852
00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:48,640
Speaker 1: that I have a big problem with. We bought a

853
00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 1: house together after the wedding, and I compromised and told

854
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 1: her my sons could share a bedroom when they came.

855
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:59,479
Speaker 1: When they come visit. They're preteens and almost six feet tall.

856
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:02,360
Speaker 1: But I told her it was fine. Her son is

857
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:05,160
Speaker 1: ten and he has his own bedroom because he lives

858
00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:07,840
Speaker 1: with us full time. There's a bonus room on the

859
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:10,400
Speaker 1: third floor of our home, and I suggested that we

860
00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 1: put a nice sleep or so up there for when

861
00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:16,240
Speaker 1: my stepsons come to visit. They live out of state,

862
00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:19,320
Speaker 1: and we spend time together when they're in town. My

863
00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:22,720
Speaker 1: wife told me that they're my ex and they should

864
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:27,359
Speaker 1: stay elsewhere. I'm infuriated by her rudeness when it comes

865
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:30,800
Speaker 1: to these boys, just because they're my ex wife's sons

866
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 1: and she doesn't like my ex wife. She's taking it

867
00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:36,080
Speaker 1: out on the boys. One of them has a son,

868
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:39,080
Speaker 1: and he considers me the grandfather. But my wife says

869
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:41,840
Speaker 1: I'm not the grandfather and I should be focused on

870
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:45,880
Speaker 1: her son and my biological sons only. I'm a grown

871
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 1: man and I will see these boys and I don't

872
00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:51,480
Speaker 1: care if it causes a rift in our marriage. How

873
00:55:51,560 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 1: can she call them my ex children? Should I reconsider

874
00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 1: marriage and make her the ex? Wow? You know what,

875
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:02,800
Speaker 1: that's a wrong, strong question right there. You just asked,

876
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:07,120
Speaker 1: but you ask it for a reason. It's concerning to you.

877
00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:11,080
Speaker 1: You have some thoughts about it. You know you're thinking

878
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:13,719
Speaker 1: about it. And I'll start by saying, I think you're

879
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:18,200
Speaker 1: right and just about everything. I agree with you. Your

880
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:21,480
Speaker 1: wife is selfish. Your wife is being mean, and she

881
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 1: needs to grow the heck up, she really does. What

882
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:28,680
Speaker 1: have these boys done to her? Her not liking their mom,

883
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:32,880
Speaker 1: that's no excuse to treat them badly. These are boys,

884
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 1: and how are they going to learn to be good men,

885
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:41,440
Speaker 1: good good parents, you know, good productive men in society

886
00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 1: if they don't have a good role model like you.

887
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I think that's what we as women and

888
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:48,440
Speaker 1: men talk about a lot. We think about it a lot,

889
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:52,360
Speaker 1: especially in our community. Good men, good fathers, and the

890
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 1: home husband's, good boyfriends, good sons, etcetera, etcetera. We want

891
00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 1: our black men to grow up and be good people.

892
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:01,600
Speaker 1: And she's a problem, not you or the boys. She

893
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:05,800
Speaker 1: can't make a difference between these boys just because you

894
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 1: guys have one together and you have you know, biological

895
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 1: sons and except sons as you call them. I think

896
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:16,200
Speaker 1: it's creating major problems in the family, as you've so,

897
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:20,480
Speaker 1: you know, as you've spoken about and written us about,

898
00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 1: and it's causing problems in your marriage. I don't think

899
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:27,720
Speaker 1: she understands the seriousness of all of this. She's in

900
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:30,600
Speaker 1: her feelings because she doesn't like the ex wife, and

901
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 1: you need to have a real talk with her about

902
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 1: her attitude and and uh, you know how she's starting

903
00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 1: to tear down this marriage. I mean, it's not like

904
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:42,160
Speaker 1: the older boys live there permanently. They live out of state.

905
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 1: When they come, they're only coming to visit. I think

906
00:57:45,280 --> 00:57:47,440
Speaker 1: she's wrong, and I think you're right, and I think

907
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 1: you need to let her know. Steve, I don't really

908
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:53,560
Speaker 1: have a lot to say about this letter. I really don't,

909
00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:59,560
Speaker 1: because I just don't like it. This woman that you're

910
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:05,400
Speaker 1: married to. See, here's a deal for everybody involved. Whenever

911
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:10,240
Speaker 1: you get married, remarried, or you married late in life,

912
00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 1: that person that you marry is gonna come with a history.

913
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 1: Nobody's history free. Now it comes with an ex marriage,

914
00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:27,800
Speaker 1: some step children, as they call him, some stepson. That's

915
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:31,000
Speaker 1: the package. Either way you go on the woman's side

916
00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:36,960
Speaker 1: or the man's side, that's the deal. Because a man

917
00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:42,400
Speaker 1: marries you, that does not turn off his feelings for

918
00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 1: everybody in his prior life. The only person he should

919
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:50,280
Speaker 1: cut the feelings off for is the ex girlfriend or wife.

920
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 1: Now he's done that, You're not having a problem with

921
00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:58,040
Speaker 1: him because he's continued to see the ex wife. You're

922
00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 1: having a problem because he still has a relationship with

923
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:11,760
Speaker 1: her children, which he met when they were nine and eleven. Yeah,

924
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:15,880
Speaker 1: nine and eleven. Now they're twenty and twenty two. But

925
00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 1: now you want him because they're twenty and twenty two.

926
00:59:20,280 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 1: They live out of state. Now the ho ho holo

927
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:27,640
Speaker 1: of world. Now you have Okay. The man has two

928
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:30,880
Speaker 1: sons and two stepsons from the last marriage with the woman. Right,

929
00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:35,360
Speaker 1: the new wife don't like the stepsons from the last marriage.

930
00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 1: She wants them out. The new wife is an outstanding mother,

931
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 1: she's a great businesswoman, gourmet cook, and the most beautiful

932
00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:47,240
Speaker 1: girl in the world to me. But it's her attitude

933
00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:50,240
Speaker 1: that I have a big problem with. Well, now we're

934
00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:52,959
Speaker 1: gonna run up into the problem of what I've learned

935
00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:56,840
Speaker 1: a long time ago. I don't care how fine a

936
00:59:56,920 --> 01:00:00,680
Speaker 1: woman is. There's a man somewhere sick and tired of

937
01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:05,840
Speaker 1: her ass. And now here we go. The beautiful girl

938
01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 1: in the world got an ugly attitude. And it's about

939
01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:13,400
Speaker 1: some children who are some young men now, And when

940
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 1: I come back, I'm gonna tell you why your relationship.

941
01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:20,600
Speaker 1: But these men are so important. Okay, that's much all right,

942
01:00:20,680 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 1: Thank you, Steve, Thank you, Steve. We'll have part two

943
01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:25,919
Speaker 1: of your response coming up at twenty three minutes after

944
01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:31,080
Speaker 1: the hour. Today's subject my ex children aren't welcome. We'll

945
01:00:31,120 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening Steve

946
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:38,840
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Come on, Steve. Let's recap today's strawberry letter.

947
01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 1: The subject my ex children aren't welcome. Okay, this man

948
01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:45,760
Speaker 1: is forty eight years old, he's married to his wife.

949
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 1: They've got a blended family now. She has one son

950
01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:55,240
Speaker 1: from her last marriage. The man that writing a letter

951
01:00:55,360 --> 01:01:00,000
Speaker 1: got two sons and two stepsons from his last marriage,

952
01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 1: and the new wife is having a hard time accepting

953
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 1: the stepsons as part of the blend. The problem is

954
01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:09,959
Speaker 1: he's been in the stepsons lives when one was nine

955
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:12,760
Speaker 1: and one was eleven, and then him and his ax

956
01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:16,320
Speaker 1: had two children. Now they're twenty and twenty two. And

957
01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:18,960
Speaker 1: your new wife, as I was standing up a mother,

958
01:01:19,120 --> 01:01:22,760
Speaker 1: she is businesswoman, gonna make cooking beautiful girl on outside,

959
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 1: is having a big problem with the two stepsons from

960
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 1: your previous marriage. We bought a house together after the

961
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:32,840
Speaker 1: wed and I compromise and told him my sons could

962
01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:35,840
Speaker 1: share a bedroom when they come to visit. They're past

963
01:01:36,000 --> 01:01:39,120
Speaker 1: their preteens and almost six feet tall, but I told

964
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 1: it was fine. Her son is ten. He's got his

965
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:45,480
Speaker 1: own bedroom because he lives full time. There's a bonus

966
01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: room in the third floor of our home, and I

967
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:49,720
Speaker 1: suggested that they put a sleeper sofa up there for

968
01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 1: when his stepsons come to visit. Now, these are the

969
01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:56,480
Speaker 1: twenty and the twenty two year old dudes. Okay, Now,

970
01:01:56,560 --> 01:01:59,840
Speaker 1: my wife told me that my ex children, that they

971
01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:04,240
Speaker 1: your ex children. They should stay elsewhere. I'm infuriated at

972
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:07,240
Speaker 1: her rusiness when it come to these boys, just because

973
01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 1: they're my ex wife's sons. She doesn't like my ex wife.

974
01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:13,480
Speaker 1: She's taking it out on the boys. One of them

975
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 1: has a son, and he considers me the grandfather. But

976
01:02:16,480 --> 01:02:18,600
Speaker 1: my wife says I'm not the grandfather. I should be

977
01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:23,600
Speaker 1: focused on her son and my biological sons only. I'm

978
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:25,600
Speaker 1: a grown man. I'll see these boys now. I don't

979
01:02:25,640 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 1: care what riffs are costing our marriage. How can she

980
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:31,560
Speaker 1: call them my ex children? Should I reconsider marriage and

981
01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:34,720
Speaker 1: make her the ex Well, here's a deal. She's got

982
01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:37,880
Speaker 1: to glurn. She's got to learn something him. See what

983
01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:43,520
Speaker 1: pisses me off when men step up to be men? Yes, yes,

984
01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:48,000
Speaker 1: and take on the role of somebody else's children. Lady,

985
01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:50,760
Speaker 1: you you got a son that don't belong to him

986
01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:54,439
Speaker 1: if he've accepted him, he's got two sons that don't

987
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:56,439
Speaker 1: belong to you, and you've accepted him. Now, the fact

988
01:02:56,480 --> 01:03:00,840
Speaker 1: that he accepted his ex wife's two sons and been

989
01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:04,040
Speaker 1: in their life since they ninety eleven. See, instead of

990
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:06,400
Speaker 1: calling them step fathers, they are to start calling them

991
01:03:06,440 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 1: step up fathers because he didn't stepped up and took

992
01:03:09,160 --> 01:03:11,840
Speaker 1: the place of some ragged ass man that wouldn't spend

993
01:03:11,920 --> 01:03:14,680
Speaker 1: no time with the boys. Not the boys then had

994
01:03:14,720 --> 01:03:18,400
Speaker 1: a son and calling him their grandfather because they got

995
01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:21,080
Speaker 1: a connection to a man. You want him to break

996
01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:24,919
Speaker 1: the bond with these boys because it's your ex wife's son.

997
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:30,040
Speaker 1: You trifling lady, Come on, come on, But you know

998
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:35,760
Speaker 1: it's always the case man, Sometimes not all women, but

999
01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:41,160
Speaker 1: there are sometimes women always using children as a pond. Now,

1000
01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:43,240
Speaker 1: why would this man give up this relationship with this

1001
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:46,040
Speaker 1: twenty and his twenty two year old dude that really

1002
01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 1: still need him in their life? Because man, the twenty

1003
01:03:49,400 --> 01:03:52,000
Speaker 1: twenty two boys, you you finish step on some land

1004
01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:54,919
Speaker 1: minds out here and that for the enyear old dude

1005
01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 1: can help them through it. And I think this lady's

1006
01:03:58,120 --> 01:04:00,240
Speaker 1: right now. I don't think you need to make because

1007
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:05,520
Speaker 1: your ex wife yet, not yet, because she does have

1008
01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:10,040
Speaker 1: some good qualities. She just doesn't understand. But if she

1009
01:04:10,200 --> 01:04:13,000
Speaker 1: could look at what happens in our community and in

1010
01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:16,720
Speaker 1: our culture, from the fact that so many young girls

1011
01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:20,680
Speaker 1: don't have fathers and so many young men don't have fathers,

1012
01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:24,440
Speaker 1: to see a man like yours that steps up and

1013
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:27,840
Speaker 1: takes on the role and refuses to give up the

1014
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:31,160
Speaker 1: reins of being a father in some fatherless boys lives.

1015
01:04:31,520 --> 01:04:34,760
Speaker 1: If she don't see that something wrong with her and

1016
01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:38,440
Speaker 1: it don't hurt nothing for him to have relationship. These

1017
01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 1: dudes live out of state and they twenty and twenty two,

1018
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:44,880
Speaker 1: so they come to visit. What's wrong with that? Need

1019
01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:47,600
Speaker 1: to focus on your own sons. Hell, boys need a

1020
01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 1: big brother. You don't see that now, But you're so

1021
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 1: busy trying to hate on the ex wife. You keep

1022
01:04:53,760 --> 01:04:55,560
Speaker 1: on you're gonna mess around and be an ex wife

1023
01:04:55,600 --> 01:05:01,400
Speaker 1: calling it this letter, so good luck. Okay, take care,

1024
01:05:02,960 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 1: take it easy. Hey, hey, I won't be needing the

1025
01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:10,600
Speaker 1: big sleeper sofa upstairs. We're all moving, right, that's what's

1026
01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:17,200
Speaker 1: gonna happen. Kudos, Bye bye, good man, I mean man.

1027
01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:21,040
Speaker 1: You know what when when you have a man who's

1028
01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:25,560
Speaker 1: caring and understanding, he cares about something that ain't really his,

1029
01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:28,320
Speaker 1: but he didn't take it on. Can you not understand

1030
01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:31,440
Speaker 1: that that's your man, That that's the man you have,

1031
01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:37,120
Speaker 1: That that man with that heart is your man. Now, Yeah,

1032
01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:41,640
Speaker 1: because God forbid something happened to you. God forbid something

1033
01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 1: happened to you. You do remember he took on your

1034
01:05:45,080 --> 01:05:50,440
Speaker 1: son from previous marriage to not right? Yeah, since you

1035
01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 1: making him get rid of men, get rid of boys.

1036
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:55,800
Speaker 1: Suppose something happened to you and then he'd get rid

1037
01:05:55,840 --> 01:06:01,479
Speaker 1: of yours. You see what we had with this Yee,

1038
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:06,240
Speaker 1: that could happen, but it's not. This is your man. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is a good man, and this is how you

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01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:11,680
Speaker 1: want to treat him. I don't like women like this.

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01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:14,600
Speaker 1: I don't like her. I ain't even at home. Women

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01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:18,240
Speaker 1: don't like women like this, just like we don't like

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01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:23,200
Speaker 1: bad men. We don't like that. This ain't about bad

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01:06:25,280 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying we don't like her either. That's

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Speaker 1: all I'm fashing. Stay on the subject with you that

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01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:44,120
Speaker 1: it's not all right? Listen, post your comments on Today's

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01:06:44,160 --> 01:06:48,160
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM and on Instagram and Facebook,

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01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:51,160
Speaker 1: and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now

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01:06:51,240 --> 01:06:53,440
Speaker 1: coming up at forty six minutes after the hour. You

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01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:55,680
Speaker 1: know what time it is, It's time for Junior and

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Speaker 1: Sports Talk right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. Now it is time for Junior and Sports Talk.

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Speaker 1: What you got mister junior? Okay, Shirley, But let me

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01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:09,760
Speaker 1: just remind Dallas Three days away, showtime April Foods, Comedy

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Speaker 1: Jam Bruce Bruce, Earthquake, Bill Bellamy, Ryan, David Chantey, Williams,

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Speaker 1: Texas Trust Theater. Get your tickets at ticketmaster dot com.

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Speaker 1: Three days away. All right, unc, Well, over the weekend. Un.

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Speaker 1: I know you're in Dubidy. You don't know nothing just

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01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:27,080
Speaker 1: going on over here. But Deshaun Watson was formally introduced

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Speaker 1: as the Cleveland Traveler. My back, Well, Deshaun Watson was

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Speaker 1: introduced as the Cleveland Browns quarterback. Formally introduced now he

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Speaker 1: had the press sference yeah, formally they had it. They

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01:07:41,320 --> 01:07:43,720
Speaker 1: rolled out the car before he sat there. Man, but

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Speaker 1: he in the press company, he was yeah, he was

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Speaker 1: asked about the sexual allegations. He did they need to

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Speaker 1: ask him about it? And then Watson answered with he

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01:07:51,880 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 1: was shocked, and he still maintains his innocence. He says

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Speaker 1: that he plans not to settle any of the civil cases.

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01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:03,480
Speaker 1: So we just go to see he's just gonna maintain

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01:08:03,560 --> 01:08:06,440
Speaker 1: his innercy. He's not giving it. Here's here's my opinion

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01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:09,000
Speaker 1: of it. If you did something to any woman, you

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01:08:09,080 --> 01:08:12,520
Speaker 1: have to pay for that, clear, point blank, no questions asked.

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01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:15,280
Speaker 1: Here's the problem with the case that they have right now.

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01:08:16,120 --> 01:08:18,640
Speaker 1: They took their strong nine cases in front of the

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01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:21,800
Speaker 1: grand jury and they found nothing to charge him with.

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01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:27,080
Speaker 1: So now I've heard that the guy who is bringing

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01:08:27,120 --> 01:08:30,000
Speaker 1: these charges happens to be the next door neighbor to

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01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:36,040
Speaker 1: the owner of the Texans yep. And this came after

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01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:39,920
Speaker 1: he said you've demanded a trade. Now I've heard that.

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01:08:40,520 --> 01:08:42,880
Speaker 1: Don't know if it's true, but it's a very very

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01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:45,760
Speaker 1: strong rumor because the address he is, he is, and

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01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:51,200
Speaker 1: he is right next door. So now I'm thinking this

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01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:55,240
Speaker 1: ambulance chasing guy that rounded up all these cases easy

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01:08:55,320 --> 01:08:58,760
Speaker 1: to find out find twenty two people who who's been

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01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:01,520
Speaker 1: a masseuse because it's you know, you find them online

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01:09:01,560 --> 01:09:04,599
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. So you got that. But now

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01:09:05,760 --> 01:09:09,800
Speaker 1: there are women because Deshaun Watson's lawyer has found women

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01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:13,639
Speaker 1: who have given him massages and praising him, talking about

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01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:16,880
Speaker 1: how professional he was in a nice guy. And so

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01:09:17,160 --> 01:09:19,519
Speaker 1: now in this civil case, even though you don't have

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01:09:19,640 --> 01:09:23,160
Speaker 1: to be as proven in a burden to proof as different,

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01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:26,800
Speaker 1: it has thrown quite a bit of doubt on it

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01:09:26,880 --> 01:09:29,439
Speaker 1: because they took their nine strong cases to the jury

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01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:32,160
Speaker 1: and nothing. So now I'm just curious as to what

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01:09:32,280 --> 01:09:34,880
Speaker 1: this is really all about. If he's guilty of something,

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01:09:34,960 --> 01:09:39,120
Speaker 1: he has to pay, but if he's not, I wish

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01:09:39,240 --> 01:09:42,960
Speaker 1: something would happen to people who falsely accused people ruined

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01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:45,639
Speaker 1: their reputation and all like that, and then just skip

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01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:47,760
Speaker 1: skip the loo down where we didn't get no money,

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01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:51,000
Speaker 1: skipped the loop. So that's my opinion. Though. No, well

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01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:54,360
Speaker 1: he's dead though, man, so you know he's still he

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01:09:54,479 --> 01:10:02,920
Speaker 1: about to be a pre all right, junior, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, Will Smith

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01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:10,000
Speaker 1: apologizes to Chris Rock Finally, we'll talk about it right

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.

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01:10:15,880 --> 01:10:19,559
Speaker 1: All right, So Will Smith has finally apologized to Chris Rock.

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01:10:19,640 --> 01:10:22,519
Speaker 1: He did it yesterday and said that slapping Chris was

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01:10:22,680 --> 01:10:26,720
Speaker 1: unacceptable and inexcusable. As we all know, Will did not

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01:10:26,920 --> 01:10:31,599
Speaker 1: apologize to Chris Sunday night during his Best Actor acceptance speech,

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01:10:31,960 --> 01:10:35,080
Speaker 1: but now he is acknowledging that violence in all of

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01:10:35,120 --> 01:10:39,639
Speaker 1: its forms is poisonous and destructive. Here's a full apology

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01:10:39,680 --> 01:10:42,120
Speaker 1: that Will post it on his Instagram page. He says,

1113
01:10:42,200 --> 01:10:45,320
Speaker 1: violence and all of its forms is poisonous and destructive.

1114
01:10:45,680 --> 01:10:48,840
Speaker 1: My behavior at last night's Academy Awards was unacceptable and

1115
01:10:48,920 --> 01:10:52,639
Speaker 1: then inexcusable. Jokes at my expense are part of the job,

1116
01:10:52,960 --> 01:10:55,840
Speaker 1: but a joke about Jada's medical condition was way too

1117
01:10:55,960 --> 01:10:59,040
Speaker 1: much for me to bear, and I reacted emotionally. I

1118
01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:01,880
Speaker 1: would like to publicly apologize to you, Chris. I was

1119
01:11:01,960 --> 01:11:05,439
Speaker 1: out of line and I was wrong. I'm embarrassed and

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01:11:05,560 --> 01:11:08,120
Speaker 1: my actions are not indicative of the man I want

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01:11:08,200 --> 01:11:10,400
Speaker 1: to be. There is no place for violence in a

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01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:12,960
Speaker 1: world of love and kindness. I would also like to

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01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:16,080
Speaker 1: apologize to the Academy the producers of the show, all

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01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:19,880
Speaker 1: the attendees, and everyone watching around the world. I would

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01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:22,720
Speaker 1: like to apologize to the william family and my King

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01:11:22,880 --> 01:11:26,600
Speaker 1: Richard family. I deeply regret my behavior has stained what

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01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:30,120
Speaker 1: has been an otherwise gorgeous journey for all of us

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01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:37,120
Speaker 1: be and that sincere to it. Well, I can't speak

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01:11:37,200 --> 01:11:39,559
Speaker 1: for him. Tell me to answer your question. I wish

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01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:43,479
Speaker 1: the apology had come Sunday night, when he apologized to

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01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:46,760
Speaker 1: the academy and everyone else on Sunday night, That's when

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01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:49,479
Speaker 1: I wish he had made this apology. I mean, I'm

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01:11:49,520 --> 01:11:53,800
Speaker 1: glad he finally you made an apology to Chris Rock,

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01:11:53,960 --> 01:11:56,880
Speaker 1: but I wish it it comes. Yeah, yeah, I wish

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01:11:56,960 --> 01:11:59,519
Speaker 1: it was more of like I don't have to know

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01:11:59,560 --> 01:12:02,479
Speaker 1: about it and verbally took Chris like a phone call

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01:12:02,640 --> 01:12:06,040
Speaker 1: to Chris. Yeah, yeah, this is a step. So I'm

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01:12:06,040 --> 01:12:08,360
Speaker 1: not upset about it. This is a step. Yeah. I

1139
01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:11,479
Speaker 1: think he should have done it publicly, because he slapped

1140
01:12:11,520 --> 01:12:15,880
Speaker 1: them publicly publicly. And then yeah, well see that's the thing.

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01:12:16,400 --> 01:12:20,760
Speaker 1: You gave the apology to the academy, then you know

1142
01:12:20,840 --> 01:12:23,880
Speaker 1: the incident happened. You apologize to the academy and your peers,

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01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 1: you didn't apologize to Chris then your party. You're doing

1144
01:12:28,200 --> 01:12:31,439
Speaker 1: too much to slap me. You're doing way too much slap. Yes,

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01:12:32,120 --> 01:12:37,000
Speaker 1: he did not realize the magnitude of it until after

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01:12:37,160 --> 01:12:41,479
Speaker 1: the fact. I've made some very very public mistakes, and

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01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:46,200
Speaker 1: you don't really know the magnitude and after until after

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01:12:46,320 --> 01:12:49,960
Speaker 1: the public gets a hold to it. The problem that

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01:12:50,160 --> 01:12:53,680
Speaker 1: I have with this, See, I understand the apology. I

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01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:56,559
Speaker 1: also understand what it's coming from because I look into

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01:12:56,640 --> 01:13:01,880
Speaker 1: the words everybody's saying talking about my wife's I'm cool

1152
01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:04,080
Speaker 1: with jokes and jokes about me, blah blah blah, but

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01:13:04,200 --> 01:13:07,880
Speaker 1: when you talk about my wife's medical condition, that ain't

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01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:11,160
Speaker 1: what the man said though. See, there was no mention

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01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:15,800
Speaker 1: of a disease or anything like that. I don't even think.

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01:13:17,080 --> 01:13:19,799
Speaker 1: I don't I really don't even think Chris knew anything

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01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:23,800
Speaker 1: about the medical condition. It was about her wearing her

1158
01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:26,760
Speaker 1: hair short and her looking like Demi Moore that and

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01:13:26,960 --> 01:13:28,960
Speaker 1: and said, because all it was was about the g

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01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:31,680
Speaker 1: I Jane joke. It wasn't about no, you look like

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01:13:31,920 --> 01:13:34,760
Speaker 1: you know, uh, you know, you know now if you

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01:13:34,880 --> 01:13:37,760
Speaker 1: say something medical, you know, you look like a you know,

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01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:40,280
Speaker 1: you know, you look you are posted girl for chemo

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01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:42,719
Speaker 1: or something like that. You can't get your ass whoop.

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01:13:43,280 --> 01:13:46,160
Speaker 1: I'm in all support or we are walking up on

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01:13:46,280 --> 01:13:50,240
Speaker 1: that stage and knocking his ass out because if you

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01:13:50,360 --> 01:13:54,280
Speaker 1: do my wife publicly in a negative way, here I come.

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01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:57,680
Speaker 1: See I'm with that. Yeah, but don't but but no, no,

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01:13:58,280 --> 01:14:00,240
Speaker 1: let me finish what I'm saying, but that I don't

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01:14:00,240 --> 01:14:04,600
Speaker 1: apology with that word in it. And then again to

1171
01:14:04,840 --> 01:14:07,680
Speaker 1: make sure you apologize to the academy. See, the most

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01:14:07,720 --> 01:14:11,680
Speaker 1: important thing is that you know that that doubling back

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01:14:11,840 --> 01:14:14,720
Speaker 1: making sure you talking with the academy when you put

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01:14:14,800 --> 01:14:17,280
Speaker 1: those words in there's like this is why I did it,

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01:14:17,360 --> 01:14:20,080
Speaker 1: So now you justify what you did. Now you won't

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01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 1: come back with the violence thing. But I did it

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01:14:22,280 --> 01:14:25,679
Speaker 1: because yeah, it was like he was trying to justify

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01:14:25,760 --> 01:14:32,320
Speaker 1: the violence. But I apologize. But that's the button. Uh huh. Yeah,

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01:14:32,400 --> 01:14:35,320
Speaker 1: But I don't. I don't think. I don't think Steve,

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01:14:35,439 --> 01:14:37,720
Speaker 1: you would have like I don't think I would have.

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01:14:37,840 --> 01:14:39,519
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, I'm the craziest one on the show,

1182
01:14:39,600 --> 01:14:43,680
Speaker 1: y'all know that. But I'm glad I go. But I

1183
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:45,880
Speaker 1: got a wife that that's by my side that ain't

1184
01:14:45,880 --> 01:14:47,599
Speaker 1: gonna lett me walk up down and do nothing crazy

1185
01:14:47,640 --> 01:14:48,880
Speaker 1: like that. You're gonna be like, you gonna sit your

1186
01:14:48,920 --> 01:14:51,400
Speaker 1: hands down. You can't. I think I would personally be like,

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01:14:52,000 --> 01:14:53,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to the back and talk to him.

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01:14:54,360 --> 01:14:56,960
Speaker 1: Right all right, We'll have more of the Steve Harvey

1189
01:14:57,000 --> 01:15:01,040
Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this. You're listening the Stave Harvey

1190
01:15:01,080 --> 01:15:06,040
Speaker 1: Morning Show. When we saw this on Instagram, Mike Tyson

1191
01:15:06,160 --> 01:15:09,639
Speaker 1: recently gave his pot or his marijuana plants a pep

1192
01:15:09,720 --> 01:15:14,160
Speaker 1: talk on reaching their highest potential and challenge people to

1193
01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:16,879
Speaker 1: submit their videos to prove they have the best cannabis

1194
01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:21,360
Speaker 1: in California or Nevada. Take a listen to Mike pot

1195
01:15:21,479 --> 01:15:24,639
Speaker 1: pep talk. Are you ready to reach your highest potential?

1196
01:15:24,720 --> 01:15:27,200
Speaker 1: To be a champion? Gotta give it all? You got

1197
01:15:27,479 --> 01:15:29,800
Speaker 1: to depend on what you came to do, but doing

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01:15:29,840 --> 01:15:46,160
Speaker 1: it right new leaping, Oh beautiful you champion. Be a

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01:15:46,320 --> 01:15:49,560
Speaker 1: champion like you daddy. Yeah, what it takes me to

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01:15:49,680 --> 01:16:03,640
Speaker 1: penalty pound chap? I challenge you good. I love you.

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01:16:03,840 --> 01:16:06,920
Speaker 1: Keep growing, baby. You know you know he got I

1202
01:16:06,920 --> 01:16:08,360
Speaker 1: don't know if y'all here. You know he got some

1203
01:16:08,520 --> 01:16:16,320
Speaker 1: gummies right edible, It is the shape of it here yeah, yeah, yeah,

1204
01:16:17,560 --> 01:16:26,040
Speaker 1: uh huh like making money bag? Well, steve your thoughts. Yeah,

1205
01:16:26,280 --> 01:16:28,680
Speaker 1: once you started talking to plants, I really don't know

1206
01:16:28,760 --> 01:16:33,920
Speaker 1: what to say to you. Hi, Hi, put it put

1207
01:16:33,960 --> 01:16:37,000
Speaker 1: it down? Maybe yeah you need whatever you're talking to

1208
01:16:37,479 --> 01:16:42,160
Speaker 1: is what you're using. So yeah, yeah, all right, thanks guys.

1209
01:16:42,240 --> 01:16:44,280
Speaker 1: Coming up in thirty three minutes after, we'll play a

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01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:47,360
Speaker 1: round of would you rather? Right after this, you're listening

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01:16:47,680 --> 01:16:52,040
Speaker 1: to show Time now for a round of would you rather?

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01:16:52,280 --> 01:16:57,160
Speaker 1: Would you rather put hot sauce eyedrops in your eyes

1213
01:16:57,640 --> 01:17:03,439
Speaker 1: be or you step on a lego every morning you

1214
01:17:03,520 --> 01:17:07,479
Speaker 1: get out of bed every single morning. We're not putting

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01:17:07,520 --> 01:17:12,200
Speaker 1: that pep in my eye. Yeah, I'm not going to

1216
01:17:14,280 --> 01:17:19,120
Speaker 1: leg lego. It don't hurt that much every day though,

1217
01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:24,000
Speaker 1: I don't hurt. We're not putting this tabasco in my heart.

1218
01:17:24,080 --> 01:17:29,280
Speaker 1: That's what we're not going blind your stupid right, then

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01:17:29,320 --> 01:17:31,599
Speaker 1: you're gonna end up stepping on legos all the time,

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01:17:31,680 --> 01:17:38,000
Speaker 1: any damn? Go to lego? All right, here's what would

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01:17:38,040 --> 01:17:41,000
Speaker 1: you rather bite off a piece of your tongue or

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01:17:41,160 --> 01:17:47,000
Speaker 1: fall into a pole injuring your private bar? I gotta

1223
01:17:47,080 --> 01:17:53,040
Speaker 1: go with b What Wait, what you're talking about biting

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01:17:53,080 --> 01:17:56,439
Speaker 1: off your tongue. Yeah, yeah, just a piece of it,

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01:17:56,640 --> 01:17:58,599
Speaker 1: not on your whole tongue, just a piece of your

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01:17:59,040 --> 01:18:02,280
Speaker 1: and in comparison and falling off the pole and landed

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01:18:02,320 --> 01:18:05,719
Speaker 1: on myself, right, you're falling on a pole and injured

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01:18:06,120 --> 01:18:10,519
Speaker 1: your private I'm not doing that. No, I don't give

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01:18:10,560 --> 01:18:15,000
Speaker 1: a damn. You're gonna take this tongue off. I'm definitely that.

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01:18:15,600 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 1: I know. Tommy surprised me with ruined. Ruined, the one

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01:18:20,280 --> 01:18:26,960
Speaker 1: thing that giving me mo plasure than any tongue. Let me.

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01:18:27,400 --> 01:18:33,000
Speaker 1: He has created some problems to put his ass on

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01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:39,080
Speaker 1: punishment many times I can't. I can't put him out

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01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:45,280
Speaker 1: of commission. Okay, all right? Would you rather have great sex?

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01:18:45,880 --> 01:18:48,600
Speaker 1: Listen to this? Would you rather have great sex with

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01:18:48,840 --> 01:18:54,280
Speaker 1: someone who is eighty years old? Or have terrible, I

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01:18:54,400 --> 01:18:57,920
Speaker 1: mean terrible, the worst sex ever with someone who is

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01:18:58,000 --> 01:19:06,280
Speaker 1: twenty five? Terrible work with I think I can't. I can't.

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01:19:06,920 --> 01:19:09,519
Speaker 1: That that aided, that's that's I can't do this. The

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01:19:09,560 --> 01:19:13,040
Speaker 1: best sex ever, though, the best sever ever? What is

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01:19:13,120 --> 01:19:16,000
Speaker 1: she doing? What is she doesn't matter? It's the best.

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01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:18,280
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I'm gonna find ever. That's what

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01:19:18,320 --> 01:19:22,200
Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna find out. Come on, miss had It. Yeah,

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01:19:22,320 --> 01:19:24,040
Speaker 1: I miss had I know you're gonna take a while,

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Speaker 1: but miss Hattie. Heah, all right now, don't fall now.

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Speaker 1: My grandmother's name on my father's side, Grandma Hattie. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna racial blood pressure up today. Yeah, I miss had It.

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Speaker 1: Oh you Oh wait a minutements. You know what, Julian,

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Speaker 1: You've actually changed my mind. You're going, You're going over there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm with Julian. Man, it's the best sex ever think

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Speaker 1: about I don't know the best. All right, we gotta go,

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01:20:03,600 --> 01:20:05,840
Speaker 1: we gotta go. But coming up next to it is

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01:20:05,840 --> 01:20:08,040
Speaker 1: our last break of the day at forty nine minutes

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Speaker 1: after some closing from Steve Harvey. Right after this, you're

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Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,

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01:20:15,360 --> 01:20:20,679
Speaker 1: here we are our last break of the day. And listen.

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Speaker 1: It's been a great Tuesday. It's been wonderful. I'm just

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Speaker 1: glad to be here. I'm just thinking about our last

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01:20:27,640 --> 01:20:30,560
Speaker 1: break when we did our would you rather? Would you

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01:20:30,680 --> 01:20:33,280
Speaker 1: rather have your best sex ever with someone who's eighty

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01:20:33,400 --> 01:20:38,200
Speaker 1: or the worst sex ever with someone who's twenty five? Yeah,

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01:20:38,520 --> 01:20:44,320
Speaker 1: two out of three picked eighty. Tommy picked the twenty

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Speaker 1: five year olds. Yeah, that whole, but I was going

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Speaker 1: with Tommy for a minute. But that whole. But I've

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01:20:49,560 --> 01:20:54,640
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah but that yeah, but the

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Speaker 1: best ever, best sex of ever. Why wouldn't you want

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01:20:58,960 --> 01:21:02,479
Speaker 1: the best? Well, Tommy, you know, I do hope to

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Speaker 1: be eighty one day. So it had a lot to

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Speaker 1: do with my ans. We will see, we will see,

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Speaker 1: we will see, we will see. Yeah, we'll see. Hey,

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Speaker 1: my closing before you get to hey, you know what,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to share something that you all, Oh, your friends, Uh,

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01:21:41,160 --> 01:21:47,560
Speaker 1: take inventory often with your friends. But then again, you

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01:21:47,840 --> 01:21:50,760
Speaker 1: don't have to take inventory with your friends so much,

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01:21:50,960 --> 01:21:53,640
Speaker 1: but you do have to take inventory with your associates

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01:21:53,680 --> 01:21:58,000
Speaker 1: all the time because everybody associated with you. You have

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01:21:58,160 --> 01:22:00,519
Speaker 1: to remember some people are in your life just for

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01:22:00,640 --> 01:22:03,840
Speaker 1: a season. Everybody ain't gonna make it all the way

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01:22:03,880 --> 01:22:06,320
Speaker 1: to the end with you. Everybody ain't going to the table.

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01:22:06,880 --> 01:22:10,320
Speaker 1: Some of your friends are seasonal friends. And it don't

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01:22:10,360 --> 01:22:12,960
Speaker 1: make them bad people. It's just this is as far

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01:22:13,040 --> 01:22:15,560
Speaker 1: as they can go on the journey. They can't go

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01:22:15,760 --> 01:22:19,240
Speaker 1: no higher, especially if you are on the move. If

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01:22:19,280 --> 01:22:22,120
Speaker 1: you are on the move and trying to progress and

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01:22:22,320 --> 01:22:25,759
Speaker 1: better your life. That everybody not gonna make that trip.

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01:22:26,240 --> 01:22:30,600
Speaker 1: Everybody ain't gonna stand the change. Everybody ain't gonna be

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01:22:30,680 --> 01:22:34,360
Speaker 1: able to handle the new you because they're gonna want

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01:22:34,400 --> 01:22:37,760
Speaker 1: to remind you of who you was, because that new

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01:22:37,880 --> 01:22:40,960
Speaker 1: you is leaving them behind. And you got to be

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01:22:41,080 --> 01:22:45,720
Speaker 1: careful of that, because jealousy sets in, envy sets in,

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01:22:46,040 --> 01:22:49,800
Speaker 1: resentment sets in. You got to be conscious of that.

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01:22:50,200 --> 01:22:52,640
Speaker 1: And sometimes when you're a good person, you don't know

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01:22:52,720 --> 01:22:55,439
Speaker 1: how to look for those things because you expect everybody

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01:22:55,479 --> 01:22:59,600
Speaker 1: to be just like you. Well they're not. They're not.

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you something, Man, if you got

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Speaker 1: somebody in your life that you're trying to point out

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01:23:07,640 --> 01:23:10,720
Speaker 1: an issue too, I want you to learn this that

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01:23:10,880 --> 01:23:14,479
Speaker 1: I had to learn the hard way. You can't change

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Speaker 1: someone who doesn't see an issue in their actions. I'm

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01:23:21,120 --> 01:23:23,200
Speaker 1: gonna repeat that and I'm gonna explain it to you.

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01:23:23,880 --> 01:23:29,200
Speaker 1: You can't change someone who doesn't see an issue in

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01:23:29,360 --> 01:23:33,280
Speaker 1: their actions. Have you ever tried to point out something

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01:23:33,400 --> 01:23:36,120
Speaker 1: to a person that you thought would help them out

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01:23:36,320 --> 01:23:38,240
Speaker 1: or something they was doing and they don't have no

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01:23:38,360 --> 01:23:40,640
Speaker 1: problem with what they're doing. They just don't see it.

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01:23:42,040 --> 01:23:43,880
Speaker 1: I mean they just don't see it, and to you,

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01:23:43,960 --> 01:23:47,479
Speaker 1: it's as obvious as all get out. Everybody around them

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01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:50,000
Speaker 1: knows this is a problem and they don't have a

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01:23:50,120 --> 01:23:52,760
Speaker 1: problem with it. You can't change that person. You can

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01:23:52,840 --> 01:23:56,680
Speaker 1: stop trying, because in order to fix a problem, you

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01:23:56,800 --> 01:24:01,400
Speaker 1: must identify a problem, and then once you identified you

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01:24:01,520 --> 01:24:04,960
Speaker 1: gotta admit that that's your problem. A person don't do that,

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01:24:05,120 --> 01:24:07,200
Speaker 1: you can't change them. It's like it's like trying to

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01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:10,720
Speaker 1: get a person to go down to who's an alcoholic

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01:24:11,040 --> 01:24:13,400
Speaker 1: and trying to get him to go to get some treatment.

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Speaker 1: If they don't think that they're drinking is an issue,

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01:24:17,400 --> 01:24:19,400
Speaker 1: you can talk to, you blew in the face, you

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01:24:19,479 --> 01:24:22,519
Speaker 1: can have all the interventions you want. If until they

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01:24:22,640 --> 01:24:25,280
Speaker 1: come to the conclusion that I have a problem, that

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01:24:25,400 --> 01:24:28,599
Speaker 1: I'm drinking a tirely too much dog, you can't stop nobody.

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Speaker 1: I've had a person in my life really close to

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01:24:32,000 --> 01:24:35,000
Speaker 1: me man and I knew they had a drinking problem.

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01:24:35,600 --> 01:24:37,760
Speaker 1: Talk to him over and over and over and over,

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01:24:38,240 --> 01:24:40,880
Speaker 1: but until they finally said, you know what, man, ain't

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01:24:40,920 --> 01:24:44,080
Speaker 1: dog right, I got a problem. Now I need some help.

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01:24:44,439 --> 01:24:46,840
Speaker 1: Now he can move forward. But if you're trying to

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01:24:47,000 --> 01:24:50,120
Speaker 1: change somebody, then they don't see an issue with their actions.

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01:24:50,400 --> 01:24:53,960
Speaker 1: You wasting your time. And I'm saying all this to

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Speaker 1: say this, y'all, just be conscious and it don't make

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01:24:57,680 --> 01:24:59,680
Speaker 1: you a bad person. When you got to shed some

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01:24:59,800 --> 01:25:03,320
Speaker 1: of the some of the people, it doesn't. It just

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01:25:03,479 --> 01:25:06,920
Speaker 1: doesn't make you a bad person. It's just you're taking

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Speaker 1: care of your journey. Everybody, come what you ain't going

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01:25:11,200 --> 01:25:13,559
Speaker 1: with you? Everybody start on the trip, ain't gonna finish

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Speaker 1: the trip. All you know this, I'm gonna tell you

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Speaker 1: right now. If you're over thirty years old, you already

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01:25:20,680 --> 01:25:24,120
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It's true. You already know now.

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01:25:24,120 --> 01:25:26,080
Speaker 1: If you're twenty twenty one, you're on you may not

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01:25:26,280 --> 01:25:29,519
Speaker 1: understand that. But if you, oh, you're thirty years old,

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01:25:29,560 --> 01:25:32,280
Speaker 1: you know what I'm talking about is true. It's taking inventory,

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01:25:32,439 --> 01:25:36,880
Speaker 1: just watching be conscious about it, and then just do

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Speaker 1: the things that's necessary to keep your life progressive and

1343
01:25:41,439 --> 01:25:43,840
Speaker 1: don't get held to a whole old energist like you

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01:25:43,920 --> 01:25:47,320
Speaker 1: got to keep it real. Most people that's telling you

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01:25:47,439 --> 01:25:49,280
Speaker 1: to keep it real wants you to stay right where

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01:25:49,320 --> 01:25:50,800
Speaker 1: you are so they can be a part of it.

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01:25:51,560 --> 01:25:53,599
Speaker 1: But you're objective in life. Ain't to keep it real.

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01:25:53,800 --> 01:25:57,040
Speaker 1: You're objective in life is to keep it moving. Keep

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01:25:57,080 --> 01:25:59,960
Speaker 1: it y'all. Keep it moving, y'all, on with and upwards.

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01:26:00,680 --> 01:26:03,960
Speaker 1: And anybody that's not trying to aid you, assist you,

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01:26:04,520 --> 01:26:06,880
Speaker 1: pull for you, clap for you, cheer for you, pray

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01:26:06,960 --> 01:26:11,240
Speaker 1: for you. You don't need that. You do not need that.

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01:26:12,640 --> 01:26:20,400
Speaker 1: And sometimes sad to say they are family, and sometimes

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01:26:20,520 --> 01:26:25,400
Speaker 1: sad to say they are your so called friends. So

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01:26:25,640 --> 01:26:28,719
Speaker 1: check the people in your life and making necessary adjustments. Okay,

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01:26:29,040 --> 01:26:31,599
Speaker 1: it'll help you on your journey. And don't feel bad

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01:26:31,640 --> 01:26:34,280
Speaker 1: about it when you gotta let people go because they

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01:26:34,320 --> 01:26:36,120
Speaker 1: didn't even tell you. They wouldn't witch you no more.

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Speaker 1: You just found out you did. Those are my closing remarks.

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Speaker 1: Hope you enjoyed the day. Hey listen, here's some important information. Y'all.

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Speaker 1: Talk to God today. He would love to hear from me.

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01:26:48,520 --> 01:26:51,360
Speaker 1: You feel me, God willing will see y'all. To Mark

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01:26:51,680 --> 01:26:59,320
Speaker 1: Holly For all Steve I recontests. No purchase necessary, void

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show,