1
00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:06,360
Speaker 1: Conversations on life, style, beauty, and relationships. It's The Velvet's

2
00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:08,200
Speaker 1: Edge Podcast with Kelly Henderson.

3
00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:14,160
Speaker 2: Hey mar Hello Kelly, Kelly.

4
00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:15,560
Speaker 3: Happy June to ya.

5
00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:19,640
Speaker 2: Happy Gemini to you.

6
00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:23,000
Speaker 3: You changed it to Gemini, I said, June. But it's

7
00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:25,840
Speaker 3: all the same, isn't it. We're in Gemini season and

8
00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:28,600
Speaker 3: we were just discussing the fact that the Gemini New

9
00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,280
Speaker 3: moons already happened by the time the listeners are hearing this,

10
00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:33,560
Speaker 3: So we're going to go through a couple of different

11
00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:36,520
Speaker 3: things that are happening. This is obviously like the overall

12
00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:39,320
Speaker 3: forecast for the month of June, and it sounds a

13
00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:42,159
Speaker 3: little spicy, sounds like a little there's a lot going on,

14
00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:45,160
Speaker 3: but I think like as per usual in twenty twenty five.

15
00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:48,199
Speaker 3: I'm getting a little used to this. So we'll tell

16
00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:49,800
Speaker 3: us a little bit about the new moon.

17
00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:55,160
Speaker 2: Gemini is all about how we experience the world and

18
00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:57,920
Speaker 2: then give it a name. That's the easiest way to

19
00:00:57,960 --> 00:00:59,960
Speaker 2: think about Gemini experience.

20
00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:01,440
Speaker 3: We have to have names.

21
00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:04,440
Speaker 2: So we have to have names of things to be

22
00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:09,000
Speaker 2: able to communicate to other people, right, you know, so

23
00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:11,840
Speaker 2: we can survive on our own, we can discover on

24
00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:15,480
Speaker 2: our own, e rees Taurus. But when we get to Gemini,

25
00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:20,479
Speaker 2: we have a neighborhood, and we got neighborhood kids, and

26
00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:23,959
Speaker 2: we got brothers and sisters, and these are the first

27
00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:27,600
Speaker 2: people that we learned to communicate with, which is also

28
00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:33,400
Speaker 2: how Gemini relates to relationships to things. And the biggest

29
00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:37,720
Speaker 2: of all relationship for Gemini is a relationship between man

30
00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:41,920
Speaker 2: and God and how you communicate with your higher self

31
00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:48,040
Speaker 2: and your and nature. And I mean the cadusis the healer,

32
00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:54,520
Speaker 2: is what represents Gemini, and so this is the connection piece.

33
00:01:55,360 --> 00:02:00,600
Speaker 2: Everything's a connection. I'm just reading something about healing replace

34
00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:07,000
Speaker 2: pain with light. That's a connection, not a beautiful connection. Yeah,

35
00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:12,680
Speaker 2: And so we're in a connection period, and then we're

36
00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:21,400
Speaker 2: in a communication period about everything. And so Gemini rules, writing, teaching, research.

37
00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:28,200
Speaker 2: But obviously we've been going through a crazy year. Things

38
00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:32,360
Speaker 2: are changing, right, And we talked about beliefs and the

39
00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:35,400
Speaker 2: perceptions that we have and there and this is a

40
00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:38,760
Speaker 2: month that we're probably reframing over the last week or so,

41
00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:44,680
Speaker 2: probably have give and take conversations that allow us to

42
00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:49,280
Speaker 2: have some objectivity and give us an opportunity to have

43
00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:53,840
Speaker 2: a different perception and perspective about things. And so this

44
00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:59,880
Speaker 2: is the way that we are connecting and opening new

45
00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:05,480
Speaker 2: doors is through learning Gemini and talking to people and communicating.

46
00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:09,680
Speaker 2: I love the degree symbol for the new moon, which

47
00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:14,200
Speaker 2: is natural wisdom when we pause to tap into it.

48
00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:20,680
Speaker 2: So you know, Gemini is learning and it's knowledge, and

49
00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:24,760
Speaker 2: Geminis are very intelligent people, but they don't go a

50
00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:28,480
Speaker 2: lot of depth in Gemini. Gemini is just curious. Just

51
00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:31,000
Speaker 2: give me a little give me a little cliff note

52
00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:34,000
Speaker 2: about everything. I don't need to get into any depth.

53
00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,960
Speaker 2: And so that would be Sagittarius. That'll be the full

54
00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:41,520
Speaker 2: moon coming up in a week or so. And so

55
00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:45,440
Speaker 2: one of the biggest questions that people ask me when

56
00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:50,400
Speaker 2: I talk to them about spiritual matters is well, how

57
00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:54,960
Speaker 2: do I know universal law? Well, universal law is going

58
00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:58,120
Speaker 2: to come in a lot of different ways. It certainly

59
00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:03,920
Speaker 2: comes from nature, It certainly comes from your intuition, feelings,

60
00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:08,800
Speaker 2: and when you follow your feelings, well you're closer to

61
00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:12,880
Speaker 2: truth than you are any other time. I mean, thinking

62
00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:18,440
Speaker 2: is not true. Thinking is just what's true for us

63
00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:22,159
Speaker 2: in this moment. It isn't true for everybody. This is

64
00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:25,160
Speaker 2: why ten people can watch an event and you get

65
00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:30,600
Speaker 2: ten different descriptions, but learning to understand the world by

66
00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:36,120
Speaker 2: nature because nature is natural, it's a natural flow of

67
00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:39,760
Speaker 2: life and death. So we need to pay attention to

68
00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:44,600
Speaker 2: all the symbols and images. I mean, you know, I

69
00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,400
Speaker 2: like to I love to interpret dreams. I think that

70
00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:51,680
Speaker 2: people ought to think more of what their dreams and

71
00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:55,840
Speaker 2: what their meaning is from a symbolic standpoint, because that's

72
00:04:55,880 --> 00:05:02,960
Speaker 2: how spirit speaks to us, is through symbol and metaphors.

73
00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:07,920
Speaker 2: So attuning to nature and Mother Nature's what I wanted

74
00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:11,960
Speaker 2: people to understand. And right now we're in the gibbus

75
00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:16,400
Speaker 2: phase of this new moon. So I would say working relationships.

76
00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:21,000
Speaker 2: When you hear this podcast, look at all your working

77
00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:24,240
Speaker 2: relationships for about the for about a week. How are

78
00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:29,800
Speaker 2: you interacting with people? Are you being totally open or

79
00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:35,280
Speaker 2: are you suppressing? Are you hiding things about yourself? Are

80
00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:41,640
Speaker 2: you speaking your authentic self? And so this is all Gemini.

81
00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,400
Speaker 3: And can stop you for a second. When you say

82
00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:47,800
Speaker 3: working relationships, do you mean that any relationship that we're

83
00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:50,159
Speaker 3: in that you're actively in right now or do you

84
00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:52,520
Speaker 3: mean at work? Literally, well, not.

85
00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:56,960
Speaker 2: Only relationships that you're in, but when you are at work, Okay,

86
00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:01,800
Speaker 2: whatever your service, you're doing. I mean, as you are

87
00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:06,800
Speaker 2: working with these musicians to get them to look pretty,

88
00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:11,240
Speaker 2: there's got to be an interaction of communication. There can

89
00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:17,040
Speaker 2: be miscommunications. There could be misinterpretations when somebody has a

90
00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:22,440
Speaker 2: mercury retrograde, which mercury rules Jim and I. There's all

91
00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:27,200
Speaker 2: kinds of misinterpretation. I said this, but I meant this,

92
00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:30,679
Speaker 2: or this is what I heard? Is that what you meant?

93
00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:35,440
Speaker 2: And so this is the month and this is really

94
00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:38,760
Speaker 2: going to come to bear at the full moon, which

95
00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:41,720
Speaker 2: we'll get into in a second. But one of the

96
00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:45,560
Speaker 2: tensions that's going on right now is going on with

97
00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:50,279
Speaker 2: between faith and reality. So there's a there's a truth,

98
00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:54,200
Speaker 2: a meaning, and a growth and that's Jupiter. So Jupiter

99
00:06:54,320 --> 00:07:00,560
Speaker 2: is being under stress by Neptune and Saturn, two of

100
00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:03,960
Speaker 2: the most opposite planets there could be. Saturn is the

101
00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:09,600
Speaker 2: structure of reality, Neptune is the dissolver of reality. Neptune

102
00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:15,080
Speaker 2: is more spiritual, so Saturn is more disciplined. So when

103
00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:18,240
Speaker 2: those two are together in the sky, like right now,

104
00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:22,560
Speaker 2: we're moving more into that airyan way. And when you're

105
00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:26,600
Speaker 2: in arees, when we communicate to ourselves or what we

106
00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:30,200
Speaker 2: want to do, it needs to come through instincts, and

107
00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:34,080
Speaker 2: it needs to happen in immediate so ares is immediate.

108
00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:39,920
Speaker 2: And so if you want to respond immediately in life,

109
00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:44,600
Speaker 2: well then you better be responding from feelings, not thinking,

110
00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:50,040
Speaker 2: because when you start thinking, then you start analyzing, evaluating,

111
00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:55,160
Speaker 2: and that always turns it into a soup.

112
00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:59,240
Speaker 3: Yeah. I have a question about that though, because a

113
00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:03,080
Speaker 3: lot of times feelings aren't facts. They're feelings, and they

114
00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:06,400
Speaker 3: I mean, as a big feeler, I think I have

115
00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,840
Speaker 3: noticed in my life like feelings can change fairly rapidly.

116
00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:12,960
Speaker 3: Sometimes if you're in a big seat, like in a

117
00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:16,440
Speaker 3: big situation that you have a big reaction to, for instance,

118
00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:20,000
Speaker 3: like your immediate feeling might not be what you should

119
00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:24,960
Speaker 3: act on because, like from a psychological standpoint or a

120
00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:28,120
Speaker 3: therapeutic standpoint, if you're just reacting all the time, like

121
00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:31,840
Speaker 3: from your feeling, that is going to cause some erratic

122
00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:33,160
Speaker 3: behavior sometimes.

123
00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:35,679
Speaker 2: Well, I hear what you're saying, but it's wrong.

124
00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:38,000
Speaker 3: Well I disagree with you.

125
00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:40,800
Speaker 2: Well you can disagree.

126
00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:42,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I think.

127
00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:45,800
Speaker 2: Feeling a moment to moment values.

128
00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:50,080
Speaker 3: Correct, but they change very rapidly, So that's what I'm saying,

129
00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:51,120
Speaker 3: But to moments.

130
00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:55,800
Speaker 2: So if you whatever, you feel Now you're you're don't

131
00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:58,800
Speaker 2: confuse emotions with feelings.

132
00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:01,439
Speaker 3: Well, I guess I am, because.

133
00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:05,240
Speaker 2: Well I think you are, because when you're saying, well,

134
00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:10,440
Speaker 2: I might not act appropriate. Feelings, don't take, don't do

135
00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:14,080
Speaker 2: a response. Emotions are the responder.

136
00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:19,040
Speaker 3: Okay, well you got to the stimuli. What I think

137
00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:21,640
Speaker 3: when you say feelings, what we would equate that to

138
00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:23,560
Speaker 3: is emotion like.

139
00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:31,080
Speaker 2: Well, but that's there's a big division, Okay, huge, and

140
00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:36,400
Speaker 2: it's a it's highly important that that that division be

141
00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:44,760
Speaker 2: understood because emotions are negative traits. Now you have good emotions,

142
00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:49,440
Speaker 2: which can be joy and love and stuff like that

143
00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:56,319
Speaker 2: that are good, but they're still there. They also create anxieties,

144
00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:02,000
Speaker 2: they create frustrations, so they create a lot of things.

145
00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:07,720
Speaker 2: Emotions are responsible for all diseases. You don't get a

146
00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:11,800
Speaker 2: disease because you think something. You get a disease because

147
00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:17,200
Speaker 2: you're emotionally trapped in a perception that is an error.

148
00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:20,800
Speaker 2: And you've got a difference between your head and your heart.

149
00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:26,720
Speaker 2: Feelings are following your heart. So feelings are true.

150
00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:29,880
Speaker 3: How do we know the difference in our like? Is it?

151
00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:33,400
Speaker 3: You're saying like what you feel in your body and

152
00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:34,240
Speaker 3: trying to tell.

153
00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:41,040
Speaker 2: A feeling, because a feeling withdraws very quickly, an emotion

154
00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:46,120
Speaker 2: can hang on to you for years, and so emotion

155
00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:52,880
Speaker 2: is an energized feeling that's bringing something up that you have.

156
00:10:54,400 --> 00:11:00,400
Speaker 2: In all most cases it's fear. So they're true because

157
00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:05,679
Speaker 2: the fear is true, but it's a response that isn't necessary,

158
00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:11,480
Speaker 2: especially if you listen to spirit or listen to your intuition.

159
00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:14,000
Speaker 2: That's the guidance principle.

160
00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:19,360
Speaker 3: Okay, I mean I think, I think I see what

161
00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:22,360
Speaker 3: you're saying. I think this is probably very confusing to

162
00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:24,520
Speaker 3: a lot of people, what we're talking about. So I'm

163
00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:26,720
Speaker 3: just gonna let you keep going and continue to ask

164
00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:31,880
Speaker 3: questions maybe as we go. But the difference between thinking, feeling,

165
00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:36,560
Speaker 3: and emotion is a big conversation that I think you're

166
00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:40,000
Speaker 3: coming at it from one place, and I'm not sure

167
00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:43,800
Speaker 3: the rest of us understand exactly the differentiation.

168
00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:48,440
Speaker 2: Well, just think of it as a feeling as a

169
00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:51,240
Speaker 2: moment to moment, and then I would.

170
00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:53,040
Speaker 3: Think emotion is moment to moment.

171
00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:59,040
Speaker 2: Absolutely not. When you have an emotional outbreak, is that

172
00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:02,640
Speaker 2: one more moment in time or is that about thirty minutes?

173
00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:11,000
Speaker 2: I mean it depends, Yeah, that's the energy behind the emotion.

174
00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:15,160
Speaker 3: But I guess my question about that would be, if

175
00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:18,120
Speaker 3: you have a feeling about something you're saying, maybe before,

176
00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:21,800
Speaker 3: like before your brain or your emotion can talk yourself

177
00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:24,079
Speaker 3: out of your intuition. Is I'm going to use the

178
00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:26,800
Speaker 3: word intuition instead of feeling, And maybe that's wrong, but

179
00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:30,360
Speaker 3: that's what's helping my brain process it. I think is

180
00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:35,360
Speaker 3: like my first initial knowing in my body is typically

181
00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:38,480
Speaker 3: the one I should go with, but my brain will

182
00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:42,120
Speaker 3: often talk me out of it, like logic it's way

183
00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:46,040
Speaker 3: out of it, or maybe a feeling and that's usually

184
00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:50,640
Speaker 3: the fear stuff can creep in or whatever I'm thinking

185
00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:54,320
Speaker 3: about it. Let me give an example. When I meet people,

186
00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:58,080
Speaker 3: I immediately know everything I need to know based on

187
00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:00,880
Speaker 3: how my body responds to a person. It is hard

188
00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:03,800
Speaker 3: for me to often always stay with that. That's what

189
00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:07,000
Speaker 3: I would deem a feeling like whatever my response is

190
00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:10,480
Speaker 3: to them. That is never wrong. It's never been wrong

191
00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:14,360
Speaker 3: in my life. What gets wrong is when my brain

192
00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:18,160
Speaker 3: will go, oh, but they yeah, maybe you don't like

193
00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:21,160
Speaker 3: You didn't initially like them, and you don't, but you

194
00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:24,000
Speaker 3: can't explain why, so everyone else likes them so you

195
00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:29,160
Speaker 3: should be nice and you should befriend them or whatever,

196
00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:31,960
Speaker 3: and then, like you know, time will go by and

197
00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:34,920
Speaker 3: that ends up backfiring because the person is exactly like

198
00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:37,440
Speaker 3: something will happen where I'm like, oh, that's why I

199
00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:39,720
Speaker 3: had that feeling at the very beginning. I wish I

200
00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:42,200
Speaker 3: would have listened to that, and now I do, Like,

201
00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:46,040
Speaker 3: now I just trust things that I can't explain, but

202
00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:49,600
Speaker 3: I feel in my body. Is that what you mean? Like,

203
00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:51,520
Speaker 3: would that be a good way to explain?

204
00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:55,439
Speaker 2: And don't work? Well?

205
00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:58,040
Speaker 3: If you have another example case, how.

206
00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:04,600
Speaker 2: Many that your thinking mind creates five percent of your reality?

207
00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:06,840
Speaker 3: Five right? The conscious mind, Yes.

208
00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:11,320
Speaker 2: Your subconscious mind creates ninety five percent, right, and he

209
00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:14,280
Speaker 2: doesn't respond to words. So you say, I have a

210
00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:16,920
Speaker 2: feeling and I can talk myself out of it, Well,

211
00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:20,720
Speaker 2: that's your ego personality talking yourself out of it, right,

212
00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:26,080
Speaker 2: And that's that ego personality could have a perception and

213
00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:29,520
Speaker 2: a perspective that makes it an emotional state.

214
00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:32,120
Speaker 3: Okay, I can see what you're saying, like, because it

215
00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:36,560
Speaker 3: produces fear or it produces anger, yes, okay.

216
00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:41,520
Speaker 2: Exactly okay, And so a feeling comes from an outside

217
00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:47,920
Speaker 2: world reacting with our five senses. An emotion it's produced

218
00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:52,880
Speaker 2: by a thought, a memory, or an external motivator and

219
00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:59,440
Speaker 2: can often change our physical state. They're vastly different, and

220
00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:04,400
Speaker 2: so when you follow feelings, you can believe in trust

221
00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:10,000
Speaker 2: in your intuition because it's it's typically eighty percent, right, Yeah,

222
00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:13,600
Speaker 2: I mean your thinking mind is typically less than fifty

223
00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:19,560
Speaker 2: and your thinking mind is your ego personality, which is

224
00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:21,200
Speaker 2: conditioned and programmed.

225
00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:27,000
Speaker 3: So your thinking mine in your emotions are typically That's

226
00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:30,440
Speaker 3: what I would look at and say, that's typically what

227
00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,880
Speaker 3: people like, what we project onto other people, like, Okay,

228
00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:37,240
Speaker 3: here's another example. I'm just gonna I'm having a hard

229
00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:39,560
Speaker 3: time understanding that. So I feel like if I am,

230
00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:41,440
Speaker 3: then the listeners are to you. So I just want

231
00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:42,080
Speaker 3: to get to the virus.

232
00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:42,600
Speaker 2: Probably are.

233
00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:57,200
Speaker 3: So let's say you're in a relationship and your partner

234
00:15:57,240 --> 00:16:00,640
Speaker 3: says something you have a like your body can like

235
00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:03,520
Speaker 3: have a reaction. It's a feeling. That's a feeling to me.

236
00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:07,200
Speaker 3: But then let's say in the past, like I've talked

237
00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:08,840
Speaker 3: about this on the podcast, like I was cheated on

238
00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:12,000
Speaker 3: in the past. So what I might start associating with

239
00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:14,720
Speaker 3: what that feeling is is, oh, well, they must be cheating.

240
00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:18,520
Speaker 3: But that's actually my emotions coming from my fear or

241
00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:20,600
Speaker 3: my brain trying.

242
00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:22,320
Speaker 2: To make from your fear.

243
00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:24,480
Speaker 3: Okay, but it's like, but I'll.

244
00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:25,640
Speaker 2: Try to like from a memory.

245
00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:30,640
Speaker 3: Correct. So then I'm projecting those emotions onto the feeling

246
00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:33,640
Speaker 3: without getting to the bottom of what the feeling is.

247
00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:35,880
Speaker 3: It's not to say there's not something going on that

248
00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:40,480
Speaker 3: I'm feeling, but it doesn't. Necessarily it's what I've wanted.

249
00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:43,400
Speaker 3: It is not always the emotion that I'm attaching to it.

250
00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:47,120
Speaker 2: The pure feeling ended when you made it an emotion.

251
00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:50,240
Speaker 3: Oh, I see what you're saying. Yeah, But and then

252
00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:50,800
Speaker 3: the only.

253
00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,520
Speaker 2: Thing that's no wronger just to feel. You see, if

254
00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:56,160
Speaker 2: I hold your hand, you're going to feel my hand,

255
00:16:56,200 --> 00:17:00,400
Speaker 2: You're going to feel my warmth, and that'll pass. Right.

256
00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:04,560
Speaker 2: So feelings are moment to moment. This is what you

257
00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:07,960
Speaker 2: have to understand. They just go from one moment to

258
00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:10,960
Speaker 2: the next moment to the next moment. You don't hold

259
00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:15,639
Speaker 2: on to them. That's where people get into their biggest

260
00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:20,400
Speaker 2: troubles is when they hold on to them for ego

261
00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:27,240
Speaker 2: personality reasons and they become an emotion, which then reacts

262
00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:32,639
Speaker 2: on the body when you have an emotion that's a

263
00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:36,560
Speaker 2: negative emotion, you lose fifty percent of your muscle strength.

264
00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:45,800
Speaker 2: That's kinesiology. And so why because an emotion now is

265
00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:50,040
Speaker 2: locked up into your muscle tissue. And this is where

266
00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:55,520
Speaker 2: muscle memory is so vastly important in massage work, in

267
00:17:55,600 --> 00:17:58,879
Speaker 2: rite and therapy and so forth, because the memory is

268
00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:03,199
Speaker 2: held in the musclesue. And so when we have this

269
00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:08,040
Speaker 2: square going on of faith and reality, in other words,

270
00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:14,879
Speaker 2: which one's going to win, this can bring confrontations without data, dogma,

271
00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:22,720
Speaker 2: spiritual fatigue, or creative blockages. Once you get the mind involved, well,

272
00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:26,239
Speaker 2: now you're losing your sense of truth. Now you're just

273
00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:34,240
Speaker 2: evaluating with words that came from program and conditioning. See,

274
00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:38,760
Speaker 2: this is where language comes from. Feelings don't require language.

275
00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:42,840
Speaker 2: If you're cold, you're cold. I'm cold. If you get

276
00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:44,880
Speaker 2: up from a nap and you say I'm sleepy, well

277
00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:48,600
Speaker 2: i'm sleepy. Can you feel sleepy when you get up

278
00:18:48,640 --> 00:18:52,040
Speaker 2: from a nap? Yes? Can you feel cold when you

279
00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:57,040
Speaker 2: got a code on? Yes. You can't argue with people's feelings,

280
00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:02,679
Speaker 2: you can argue with what they think. Thinking creates duality.

281
00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:07,240
Speaker 2: That's the trouble with this Gemini new Moon that we're

282
00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:10,480
Speaker 2: going to be confronting for the rest of the month

283
00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:13,960
Speaker 2: when it starts with the full Moo. And this is

284
00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:19,359
Speaker 2: going to give us an opportunity to break free from

285
00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:24,560
Speaker 2: what we think that doesn't work. I mean, we're aving

286
00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:29,600
Speaker 2: to go through tremendous changes since the first of the year. Yeah,

287
00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:33,960
Speaker 2: we've got to adapt in some way. You can't use

288
00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:41,119
Speaker 2: yesterday's thinking, you can't use yesterday's beliefs. So this is

289
00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:45,080
Speaker 2: a thinking month. How do we change our perspective and realities?

290
00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:48,359
Speaker 2: How do we let go of what we wish was

291
00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:55,439
Speaker 2: true except what work is needed, and then remain open

292
00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:59,600
Speaker 2: to our higher wisdom, which does not come through thinking.

293
00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:06,480
Speaker 2: That's why spirit gives you dreams that give you symbolism,

294
00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:11,160
Speaker 2: because you can't use the words and how you perceive

295
00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:16,880
Speaker 2: the words to me, And this is why spirit speaks

296
00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:20,719
Speaker 2: through dreams and symbols metaphors.

297
00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,800
Speaker 3: I'm just thinking through these last three things you just said.

298
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,960
Speaker 3: It's already been happening in my world, but like to

299
00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:31,160
Speaker 3: let go of what you wish were true? How often

300
00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:33,679
Speaker 3: are we trying to fight or maybe this is just me,

301
00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:37,280
Speaker 3: but I will try to you know, It's like getting

302
00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:40,440
Speaker 3: to the acceptance of reality is sometimes the hardest part,

303
00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:43,600
Speaker 3: and like, once you can kind of sit in acceptance,

304
00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:46,840
Speaker 3: I love accept the work that's needed, Like it just

305
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:50,080
Speaker 3: never looks like what we think it will look like either,

306
00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:53,280
Speaker 3: and it's so getting out of your own ego to

307
00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:56,480
Speaker 3: be like, like, I have a situation right now that

308
00:20:56,600 --> 00:21:01,040
Speaker 3: I wish was different, and it's kissing me off that

309
00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:03,679
Speaker 3: I have to go back to old principles that I

310
00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:08,199
Speaker 3: know and have lived by, but it feels very like

311
00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:11,720
Speaker 3: I'm having to go backwards. It's not backwards, it's just

312
00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:14,239
Speaker 3: like applying these principles again to my life, but they

313
00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 3: feel very like how am I here again? Kind of feeling,

314
00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:21,560
Speaker 3: And so I've been not wanting to do them, like

315
00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:23,800
Speaker 3: I've been in denial of it. But it's only making

316
00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:28,120
Speaker 3: my life harder by doing that, And I can't really

317
00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:31,000
Speaker 3: remain open to the higher wisdom because I haven't let

318
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:36,480
Speaker 3: myself step into that until this weekend. I finally was like, okay,

319
00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 3: there is I have to fucking stop. And it's like

320
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 3: immediately the reliefs started to come in. But because I

321
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,479
Speaker 3: feel like I've already crossed that off the list and

322
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:47,359
Speaker 3: this is a thing of mine, like where I don't

323
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:50,400
Speaker 3: like to feel like I'm going backwards. Ever, I kind

324
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:54,360
Speaker 3: of had like attached some definition to what was happening

325
00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 3: that this felt like going backwards, and it's not. It's

326
00:21:57,160 --> 00:22:01,439
Speaker 3: just like applying certain principles that I just pretended like

327
00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 3: I never wanted to have to apply in my life again,

328
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 3: if that makes any sense on a broad stroke.

329
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 2: You can't figure things out when you start trying to

330
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 2: put your slant on what you want, what you wish

331
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:19,159
Speaker 2: was the way it was. Yeah, you're never going to

332
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:21,359
Speaker 2: figure it out. The only way you can figure life

333
00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:25,240
Speaker 2: out is let reality be reality and deal with it

334
00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:29,240
Speaker 2: as it is. But I mean, if you put your

335
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:32,479
Speaker 2: if you put an ego personality into it, well, then

336
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,760
Speaker 2: you're going to go through an array of emotions to

337
00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:37,480
Speaker 2: try to make it what you want it to be. Right, Well,

338
00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:41,480
Speaker 2: that ain't the way. That'll cause problems for sure.

339
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:46,160
Speaker 3: Use Yeah it has okay really only for me though, Yeah,

340
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:49,440
Speaker 3: like it just it just makes it more miserable in fact.

341
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:56,159
Speaker 2: Right, Well, and it's confrontational with a relationship, yeah, you can't.

342
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 2: There's no way you can think a relationship could be

343
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,679
Speaker 2: cheating on you and it doesn't change the relationship in

344
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 2: some way, shape or form, just because you think it now,

345
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, that that little cobweb's going to

346
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:16,920
Speaker 2: be in your mind as you start relating to someone,

347
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 2: and it gets bigger and grows, It gets bigger and

348
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:25,560
Speaker 2: bigger and bigger, until all of a sudden it causes

349
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 2: a problem because whatever gets repressed has to come out

350
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:33,480
Speaker 2: and it gets distorted. Yeah, and it has to come

351
00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 2: out and objectified through somebody else. So you can start

352
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:41,399
Speaker 2: a little seed that, oh, he must be cheating on

353
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 2: me because that's what happened fifteen years ago. Well, that

354
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:51,479
Speaker 2: seed will grow. Do you accept the fact that, how

355
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 2: about if I just live in the now and let

356
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,920
Speaker 2: go of what happened then, because this is a whole

357
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:57,960
Speaker 2: different circumstance.

358
00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 3: Well yeah, and also what keeps coming into my brain.

359
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 3: And I don't know if this is actually that relevant,

360
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 3: but like the vibe of just stay curious, Like, I mean,

361
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:10,159
Speaker 3: that's that was an old example. I haven't that's not

362
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 3: something I'm going through right now. But like I do

363
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 3: think the more we stay curious, and I think that's

364
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 3: how you're saying, like, stay in the moment instead of

365
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 3: looking back to the past, it kind of changes the

366
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 3: whole thing. It goes through these three things that you

367
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 3: just described, of the three different planets with the Neptune

368
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 3: into the Saturn, like accepting the problem, accepting the reality

369
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,879
Speaker 3: whatever it is. Saturn is accepting what you have to

370
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,679
Speaker 3: do or right, like what your part of it is

371
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 3: or what work you need to do, and then what

372
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:48,679
Speaker 3: was the last one? Jud Yeah, but like that's what

373
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 3: if you stay curious. It's like the universe is the

374
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 3: only the only part that knows all these other options.

375
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 3: My brain can only think of what it's already gone through,

376
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 3: so like it can't create off in these new solutions

377
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:04,719
Speaker 3: that I would have never thought of. So yeah, that

378
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:05,639
Speaker 3: makes sense.

379
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 2: Okay, so we on board?

380
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 3: Now I think we're on board. Yeah, well I just

381
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:15,200
Speaker 3: have to clarify for myself for listeners.

382
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 2: So the full mood and Sagittarius, you see, this is

383
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:26,360
Speaker 2: where it becomes really important because Sagittarius is higher mindedness,

384
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 2: it's the super conscious mind. And so we're going to

385
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 2: be mostly this month evaluating our belief system, psychological, physical,

386
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:45,639
Speaker 2: philosophical outlook and try to understand the interactions that we're having. Okay,

387
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 2: are we coming from our highest self? Are we coming

388
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:53,120
Speaker 2: from our ego self. So in other words, the full

389
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:57,879
Speaker 2: moon degree meaning is examining beliefs from all sides and

390
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 2: learning how to communicate despite differences of opinions. Sometimes we

391
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:08,160
Speaker 2: have to try out a new belief. Yeah, and so

392
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 2: this is where the crisis of belief and faith come in.

393
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 2: And of course it breaks into what is our sole purpose?

394
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 2: What's our world view? What's the inner compass, what's guiding us?

395
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 2: What truth are we living by? And is it still

396
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 2: aligned with who you're becoming? That's a huge, huge question.

397
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 2: That is a good question, you see. So we're always

398
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 2: evaluating that because we're always changing, evolving and growing.

399
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 3: Isn't that an interesting thing though, because I think our

400
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 3: society teaches if you just get to this point, you'll

401
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 3: have it figured out basically or by this age, you know,

402
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 3: And it's like we don't really leave the space for no,

403
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,919
Speaker 3: this isn't ever evolving and changing journey. If you're not

404
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 3: growing and changing then and that is a bigger problem, right.

405
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 2: It's just like people that think people that are just

406
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 2: ordinary people, that think rich people have it all made

407
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 2: that they're happy and everything, and it's quite contrary to that. Yes,

408
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:23,199
Speaker 2: so I mean, you know, when we discover what we

409
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 2: think we want and then we get it, there must

410
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:31,159
Speaker 2: be something more. And that's always the case. There must

411
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:35,199
Speaker 2: be something more because what are we trying to do.

412
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 2: We're trying to experience and feel. So the freedom, desire

413
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 2: for freedom is going to be big tension what you

414
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:49,199
Speaker 2: know and what you're still learning. And sometimes you have

415
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:55,120
Speaker 2: to do the leaf you release old dogma, limiting narratives.

416
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:58,920
Speaker 2: I mean, just think of all the confrontation that we

417
00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:02,479
Speaker 2: got going on right now out that we have to

418
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 2: try to reconcile. One of the things I was asked

419
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 2: is how do I stay out of it? Well, I

420
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 2: don't read the news and I don't uh, I don't

421
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 2: care about politics. Yeah, when you do that. There was

422
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 2: a book called star Seed Transmission written back in the

423
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 2: eighties where the guy went into the woods five years,

424
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:29,480
Speaker 2: stayed totally away from society and became full blown psychic

425
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:35,159
Speaker 2: and intuitive and was able to be guided spiritually in

426
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:37,160
Speaker 2: his life by just living.

427
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 3: In nature because he didn't have all the programming being

428
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 3: put in them.

429
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 2: Because he didn't have all the conditioning and programming coming down.

430
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 2: I believe, and this is what we got to try

431
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 2: to do. And so the energy patterns for all of

432
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 2: this is, you know, we got to bring we got

433
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 2: to acceptcountability for our words. We got we got to

434
00:28:56,640 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 2: challenge some of our ideas. This is our job to

435
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:05,959
Speaker 2: do for ourselves. And so we can have mental fatigue,

436
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 2: we can get into dreams and fantasies and distortions. We

437
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 2: got to discover the difference between fact and fiction. If

438
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 2: it comes out of your thinking mind, I can assure

439
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 2: you it's fiction. If it comes from your intuitive instincts, intuition,

440
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 2: your heart, your gut, probably a fact. And see, you

441
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 2: can relate to facts. I can state a fact about me,

442
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 2: and I can share that with you. But you have

443
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 2: your own facts and your own experience, and we can

444
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 2: interrelate to that, and then that can change our mindset

445
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 2: about oh gaggle full of things. Yeah, and Pluto squares Venus.

446
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 2: So that means that there's going to be a lot

447
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 2: of deep rooted patterns of control, manipulation, and obsession coming

448
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 2: to the surface this month, because that's what Pluto does.

449
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 2: It brings everything that's ego driven that we no longer

450
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 2: need to hold onto. So it's going to unveil hidden desires, attachments, traumas,

451
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 2: traumas of well I got cheated on. Oh and he

452
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 2: used that buzzword on me a little bit. Is it

453
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,719
Speaker 2: pushing a button inside of me? Or is it just

454
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 2: roll off my duck's back? Because that was yesterday. So

455
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 2: we'll we'll all be called attention to self worth, our affection.

456
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 2: There will be kind of a little bit of a

457
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 2: death and reverse cycle this month, especially around relationships and

458
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 2: our values. And then we'll come into the Cancer New Moon,

459
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 2: and it's going to be a lot of the same thing.

460
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 2: I mean, because this is emotional security. It's our home,

461
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 2: is our true home. Our true home is internal intuition,

462
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 2: it's our inner child. So it's going to be the

463
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 2: cancer New Moon will start out on the twenty fifth

464
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 2: of June. It's going to be potent for healing and

465
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 2: resetting emotional foundations, which is what cancer is about. Yeah,

466
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 2: And so there you go for the month.

467
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 3: So basically we go into a place of needing to

468
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:42,719
Speaker 3: work on accepting reality as it is the work that

469
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 3: we need to do based on that reality, and then

470
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 3: finding our place for healing and emotional foundations and like

471
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 3: and I'm sorry before that was the inviting in the

472
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 3: higher wisdom.

473
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 2: Yes, you're thinking how you perceive things is going to

474
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 2: dictate whether it can just be a moment to moment

475
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 2: feeling or you're going to turn it into an emotional rangutang.

476
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 2: And when you turn it into an emotional rangutang, well

477
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 2: it's going to be the seed of a disease, this ease.

478
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 2: And so whether it's something that how you want it

479
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 2: to be or whay it is, you have to discover

480
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 2: what is your perception and belief about it. Is it

481
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 2: in error, is it correct? Feelings are honest. I can't

482
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 2: argue with your feelings. That's what I tell couples all

483
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 2: the time. Start every conversation with I feel I'm not

484
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 2: going to argue with your feelings. I care about you.

485
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 2: I'm going to be supportive of how you feel, and

486
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 2: I'll make an adjustments on how I feel so that

487
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,479
Speaker 2: we can make it a win win for both of us. Sure, oh,

488
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 2: there's a recipe.

489
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 3: Right, But we often attach so much to the feelings,

490
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 3: Like that's what we were saying earlier with the cheating example.

491
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 3: You attached the emotion to you. You attached the thinking

492
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 3: brain of what this meant in the past, instead of

493
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 3: actually just staying with the feeling and then, like you said,

494
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 3: speaking out the feeling even like I just feel this,

495
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 3: and then you can actually often like I'll get information

496
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 3: back to those feelings that is completely different what my

497
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 3: mind would have made up about those feelings.

498
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 2: Right, you can speak of feelings, right, and when within

499
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 2: a context of a relationship, now you can adjust your

500
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 2: feelings of if it's you know, why you feel like

501
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 2: you feel?

502
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 3: H Yeah, that's actually all we ever have control over anyway,

503
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 3: because we can't control other people. So it's like, I

504
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 3: think why you feel what you feel is an interesting

505
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 3: statement because often like the feeling is real, but it's

506
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 3: also like, well, why is that coming up? Though? What

507
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:08,919
Speaker 3: is that? And mean that's ready to be healed? There's

508
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:13,800
Speaker 3: something there obviously because you're feeling it, but it doesn't

509
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 3: necessarily have to do with our go to what our

510
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,839
Speaker 3: brain or emotions are going to say that it is,

511
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 3: and like, well, yeah.

512
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 2: Because you got a past and if as long as

513
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 2: you bring things out of the past into the present, yeah,

514
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 2: that's going to be an anxiety. Yeah, attached to it

515
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 2: or if you're attached to.

516
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:37,320
Speaker 3: It, right, right, Okay, let's go into I know you

517
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 3: did the breakdown for each sign based on well, this is.

518
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:45,800
Speaker 2: The full moon, so this starts on the tenth okay,

519
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 2: and so air raids is going to be really looking

520
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 2: at their beliefs and how are they limiting themselves?

521
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 3: Okay.

522
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:59,280
Speaker 2: Tarus is going to be releasing control issues, maybe depths

523
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 2: and entangled moments with others or within their own their

524
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 2: own financial situations. Jim and I is going to be

525
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 2: could mark the end of an agreement that some things

526
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:15,880
Speaker 2: are going to come to light because it's about relationships.

527
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:23,000
Speaker 2: Is there a breakthrough in relating? Can we communicate honestly? Cancer?

528
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 2: This is going to be about your daily routines, health patterns,

529
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 2: work life balance, so you can it's excellent time to

530
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 2: heal the nervous system and balances and clear the subconscious

531
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:40,760
Speaker 2: habits that you come up with. Leo's about emotional release

532
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 2: or realization around self expression, romance, children, something that you've created. Virgo,

533
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 2: it's about revelations around the home, ancestry, your emotional foundations.

534
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 2: For Libra, it's about speak truth or let go of

535
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:03,800
Speaker 2: scattered mental distractions because it's the third house of Gemini,

536
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 2: so we all need to speak truth and let go

537
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 2: of scattered mental distractions. For Scorpio, this is what you

538
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 2: truly value is changing. Are your actions in alignment with

539
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 2: your values, and so it might be a time to

540
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:33,800
Speaker 2: release scarcity of thinking and anchor in self trust. For Sagittarius,

541
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 2: you may release an old identity or a way of

542
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:40,840
Speaker 2: expressing yourself. For Capricorn, it's time to let go and

543
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 2: surrender old patterns, addictions, grief need will surface to be healed,

544
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 2: so be looking out for. For Aquarius, emotional truth arises

545
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 2: around friendships, groups, and your soul mission. Let go of

546
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 2: out dated affiliations or visions. And for Pisces, this is

547
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 2: a career path or a status shift may culminate or

548
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 2: be reevaluated. Are you happy with your career or would

549
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:15,399
Speaker 2: you prefer to change?

550
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 3: Do we do this based on our sun are arising

551
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 3: because he did the houses, so.

552
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 2: That's based on your son as your solar.

553
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 3: I see, okay, that through me because I thought, because

554
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,799
Speaker 3: i'm tourists, rising inside is my eighth house, and so

555
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 3: I thought, because it's a Sagittarius full moon, that's what

556
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:35,439
Speaker 3: I would look at.

557
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:39,320
Speaker 2: No, well, I mean, but you're looking at it from

558
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 2: your your own horoscope, which is as an ascendant right,

559
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 2: but see, I have to when we look at it

560
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:53,280
Speaker 2: like this, looking at it from your son, your drive

561
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 2: for significance, your power, your purpose, your creativity, and that

562
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:03,319
Speaker 2: is what most people relate to to begin with. Very

563
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 2: few people relate to their ascendant.

564
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and they or their moon.

565
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:13,880
Speaker 2: The moon is the ego. Really, that's all the past.

566
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well all right, Marv. That that ended up

567
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 3: being a little bit of a debate discussion more than astrology, didn't.

568
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 3: I just could not fully understand. Yeah, I just had

569
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 3: to understand.

570
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:33,879
Speaker 2: It's just the evaluation of energy, right, sure, and how

571
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 2: we use it.

572
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 3: Yeah. I think that the words feelings and emotions not

573
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 3: being the same thing is interesting because you know, like

574
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:46,240
Speaker 3: in therapy there's statements like feelings aren't facts and things

575
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 3: like that, and so.

576
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 2: They're well, feelings are facts.

577
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 3: Well, so you're saying it from a place of how

578
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:56,799
Speaker 3: we just discussed feelings. They're they're using it more in

579
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 3: the way of what I would say you describe as emotions,

580
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 3: so like right, yeah, So that's where the confusion came from,

581
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 3: because that's what's being spoken out out in the world

582
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 3: very often. So well, so we had to get on

583
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:10,799
Speaker 3: the same page.

584
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 2: A whole bunch of people that mix up feelings and emotions.

585
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:17,839
Speaker 3: Sure, yeah, clearly, because that's all I've ever thought.

586
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:21,720
Speaker 2: It's pretty dag going. See a feeling ain't ever caused

587
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 2: a disease. Yeah, you have a right to feel whatever you.

588
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:29,800
Speaker 3: Feel, right, but the emotion, Yeah.

589
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 2: It's the emotion makes sense to me.

590
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 3: Well, if people want to do an individual reading with

591
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,800
Speaker 3: you and learn more about their own birth chart or

592
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:40,440
Speaker 3: natal chart or just astrology that's happening the transits that

593
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 3: are happening for them right now. Where would they find you?

594
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:49,799
Speaker 2: Hey, find me at astromarv dot com. Send me an

595
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 2: email at Marvin at astromarv dot com.

596
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 3: As always, I will put that in the description of

597
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:58,719
Speaker 3: this podcast for you guys, and Marve will be back

598
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 3: in July, my birthday month war for all sorts of

599
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 3: cancer talks, So y'all, y'all come back for that. Marv,

600
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 3: thank you so much for being here with us.

601
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 2: It's my pleasure.

602
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to The Velvet's Edge podcast with Kelly Henderson,

603
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,759
Speaker 1: where we believe everyone has a little velvet in a

604
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 1: little edge. Subscribe for more conversations on life, style, beauty,

605
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 1: and relationships. Search velvet's edge. Wherever you get your podcasts,