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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Teddy is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Maya. So in

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Speaker 2: a few minutes we're gonna call her see if she

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Speaker 2: told us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: another date.

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Speaker 3: But first, Teddy, how long has it been since you

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Speaker 3: heard from her?

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Speaker 4: I spent about a week.

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Speaker 5: How many times have you tried to reach out to her?

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Speaker 6: Maybe three times, like once every couple days, two or

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Speaker 6: three days, just you know, saying what's up, how's it going.

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Speaker 4: We were talking before and after we went out that

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Speaker 4: it just kind of stopped.

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Speaker 1: She didn't respond to any of those I know, not

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Speaker 1: not at all. Well, let's talk about the date and

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Speaker 1: see if we can see went wrong? What and see

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Speaker 1: what went wrong?

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Speaker 6: We went to a really nice place we went to.

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Speaker 6: I don't know if you've ever been there, but really cool.

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Speaker 6: If they have a rooftop dining area. So she suggested,

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Speaker 6: you know that we sit outside because it was a

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Speaker 6: really really nice day.

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Speaker 7: It was cool.

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Speaker 4: We had a really great conversation. She's got her head

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Speaker 4: on her shoulders, you know, in the right way.

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Speaker 6: You know how a lot of people they focus too

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Speaker 6: much on like social media and stuff, you know what

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Speaker 6: I mean, they saying about everything like their job, and

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Speaker 6: that's I'm not I'm not trying to meet anybody like that,

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Speaker 4: But she really loves her job. She's got a really

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Speaker 4: good job.

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Speaker 6: She workship, and she's got goals, which is always a

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Speaker 6: good thing, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: It's like like like a five year plan.

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Speaker 6: That's you know, that's that's important, and that's something that

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Speaker 6: I was I really thought we hit it off.

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Speaker 4: On on that level. And uh, you know, the food

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Speaker 4: is great and the hombi anption is great. You know.

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Speaker 6: So I really can't really think off the top of

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Speaker 6: my head of why after such a nice date that,

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Speaker 6: you know, I just she just stopped communicating with me.

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Speaker 6: Like I can't say that we've stopped communicating. I'm so,

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Speaker 6: you know, trying to.

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Speaker 2: Reach out, you know, but there's nothing on the other end. Well,

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Speaker 2: is there anything awkward that happened on the date at

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Speaker 2: all that you can think of?

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Speaker 4: I don't know if it's anything I did.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I'm thinking maybe she didn't like the restaurant

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Speaker 6: even though it was great, you know, but I picked it.

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Speaker 4: That might have been something. I will admit. The service

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Speaker 4: wasn't the best.

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Speaker 6: You know. We wanted to sit outside like that she

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Speaker 6: suggested it, but then they sat as were the suns

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Speaker 6: like directly in our faces, you know, so I had

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Speaker 6: to ask them to move us. And maybe, like because

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Speaker 6: the service wasn't so great, I think maybe like the way,

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Speaker 6: you know, I can be a little assertive when I

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Speaker 6: you know, when when the situation calls for it.

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Speaker 4: And maybe that's part of the reason.

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Speaker 6: Why A feel like the second time that I had

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Speaker 6: to ask to be moved to get somebody's attention, that

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Speaker 6: might be it, you know. Other than that, we talked

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Speaker 6: for a while. We watched you know, the sun go down.

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Speaker 6: It was really really cool, you know, and again we

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Speaker 6: had a lot in common, and you know, we had you.

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Speaker 4: Know, we had we talked about goals. That was always

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Speaker 1: So like after you were being assertive, she didn't seem

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Speaker 1: to change her on my quote unquote assertive. She didn't

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Speaker 1: change her demeanor. Do you feel like she kind of

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Speaker 1: was like, what are you doing?

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Speaker 6: Bro? No, I mean in the moment, I can't I

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Speaker 6: don't remember any disagreement.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to say, no, you sound really really nice.

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Speaker 1: So I'm having a hard time picturing that, Like what

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Speaker 4: Well, no, it was because it's like, you know, excuse me.

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Speaker 6: You know, I don't know if you remember the old

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Speaker 6: Bugs Bunny cartoon where he's trying to get Bee.

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Speaker 4: Another animal's attention. He's like, hey, e's all the animals

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Speaker 6: He's trying to figure out what's going on, you know,

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Speaker 6: And then finally I was like, hey, excuse.

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Speaker 4: Me for a second, you know.

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Speaker 7: Okay, I didn't.

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Speaker 6: Like raise my voice or anything, but I definitely had

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Speaker 5: Yeah, very very tame. That's what I was trying to

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Speaker 3: Like, it wasn't an excusemer, No, I'm not going to

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Speaker 4: That's inappropriate.

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Speaker 5: Did you guys kiss or anything?

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Speaker 6: No? No, I didn't hug. I don't really make any

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Speaker 6: moves in that direction. It was a nice little hug

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Speaker 6: at the end.

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Speaker 3: Okay, not like a side hug.

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Speaker 7: Oh no, it wasn't.

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Speaker 6: No, I wasn't like a side but it was very brief, like, oh,

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Speaker 6: thank you very much, a little peck of the cheek.

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Speaker 4: That was it.

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Speaker 2: Well, play a song come back, and then call her

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Speaker 2: see if she tell us why she's ghosting you, and

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Speaker 2: maybe get you another date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, great, all right, Well play.

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Speaker 3: Song come back? You get your first a follow up next.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of the first, ay, follow up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Teddy is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted by Maya. So we're about to

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Speaker 2: call her if she tells us why she's ghosting him,

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Speaker 2: and maybe get him another date. But first, Teddy, why

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Speaker 2: don't you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Maya?

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Speaker 4: No, we met online, We talked for a while.

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Speaker 6: We went on a really nice date at dinner and

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Speaker 6: talk for a while, and I thought.

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Speaker 4: Everything was going great. And I haven't been able to

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Speaker 4: get a touch to her since.

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Speaker 3: You ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 4: Please? Yeah, okay, here we go.

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Speaker 3: I may A speaking to Maya. Please. This is she,

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Speaker 3: Hey Maya? How are you? My name is Jewbell and

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Speaker 3: this is a radio show. It's called the Jebel Show.

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Speaker 5: Hi, Maya, the whole show's here. My name is Nina Hi,

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Speaker 5: and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 7: Hi cool, how are you I'm good. Are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm wonderful. Thank you for asking.

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Speaker 2: Well, we're calling you today because we do a segment

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Speaker 2: on the show it's called the first Date follow Up.

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Speaker 2: What that is is if you go out on a

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Speaker 2: date with somebody and then you ghost them, that person

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Speaker 2: can email us to call you and ask why you're

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Speaker 2: ghosting them.

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Speaker 7: Okay, that makes me nervous.

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Speaker 5: Are you ghosting?

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Speaker 7: I guess like kin and I feel like I know

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Speaker 7: who this is up? Maybe about guess Teddy.

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Speaker 3: You're correct. Congratulations, you got it right. You don't get

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Speaker 3: any price for that, but yes it's Teddy. Would you

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Speaker 3: mind telling us why you're ghosting him?

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Speaker 7: Uh?

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Speaker 8: Well, so we So I met him online and I

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Speaker 8: had when I was when I was online and I

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Speaker 8: was like going to the app or whatever. A friend

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Speaker 7: And she was telling me all about him. She like

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Speaker 8: A tool and that like, I don't know, like dating

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Speaker 8: him is condidence just so bad. Dating him is kind

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Speaker 8: And so for some reason that really made that I

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Speaker 7: Maybe he's totally not and it'll be great.

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Speaker 8: So I ended up we ended up going on the date,

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Speaker 8: and I just like the whole time he was complaining

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Speaker 7: What's exactly is she?

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Speaker 8: Like?

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Speaker 7: I just felt like I had like no say in it.

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Speaker 7: And I was like, Okay, this was kind of strange.

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Speaker 5: Don't we want somebody that wants to date us?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 8: Of course, of course, I think it was just that

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Speaker 8: He was just like, what's your job? Like do you

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Speaker 7: Like what what do you do?

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Speaker 4: You like?

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Speaker 7: You know what I mean? It was very like, I

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Speaker 1: Those are kind of weird questions, especially on a first date.

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Speaker 1: There's ways to get those answers without asking that question.

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Speaker 1: By the way, you'd like to learn that, but.

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Speaker 2: Well, guess what MAYA Well, it's not as easy as

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Speaker 2: you think, because Teddy's actually on the phone and has

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Speaker 2: been listening this whole time, wants to talk about.

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Speaker 6: I don't really know how much I want to have

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Speaker 4: Now. That's that's super messed up.

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Speaker 6: You know that, you know, you and your friends are

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Speaker 6: with these apps. Instead of trying to get to know

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Speaker 6: it's just, oh, let me go see what this person

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Speaker 6: is like really about with a you know, with a

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Speaker 6: with an agenda that you don't even like articulate you know,

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Speaker 6: it wasn't like.

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Speaker 7: A vet or anything. I was just genuinely curious.

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Speaker 6: You're genuinely curious, and you could have just asked that

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Speaker 6: before we went out, all of the questions that saying

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Speaker 6: that we were talking about.

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Speaker 4: You could have asked me about me before we went out.

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Speaker 6: You could have actually just said, Hey, I spoke to

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Speaker 6: and we you know, we could have had this conversation

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Speaker 6: and just avoided all that whole thing. It's just it's

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Speaker 8: You think that you would have just acted probably like

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Speaker 7: Like I just think that that's a silly thing.

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Speaker 8: I just I went on the date, I like tried

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Speaker 7: You just cared about like the way I like was

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Speaker 4: I don't know about other people online.

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Speaker 4: So if you would have asked me. We could have

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Speaker 6: All you had to do was ask me about my

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Speaker 6: Now I don't know how the it was. You know

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Speaker 7: Know, I mean it was all me. I just I

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Speaker 6: Well when you when you say job interview, if you're gonna,

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Speaker 6: I just wanted to make sure that I was, you know,

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Speaker 4: You know, goals. I mean, do you even have any

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Speaker 8: So it's like a silly, silly thing to say, you know,

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Speaker 8: I just I just expected you to give a little

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Speaker 8: bit more like, I don't know, like swab about it

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Speaker 8: or something. It did not go well, Well, tell me

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Speaker 7: Tell me because if if it was good, then you

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but that's not the point, all right now.

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Speaker 2: You know, hey, Maya, would you like another date with Teddy?

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Speaker 3: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 7: No, thank you, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to go out with you again.

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Speaker 6: I get it, you know, they just just have fun

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Speaker 6: on your apps. Maybe you can meet somebody that you're

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Speaker 6: not going to be playing games with.

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Speaker 4: From the beginning.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Teddy, Well, you have fun playing games with yourself.

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Speaker 5: Juble's first Date follow up