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<v Speaker 1>This is he said a Yadiho with Eric Winter and

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<v Speaker 1>Rodlin Fantas.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, welcome back to another episode back he said it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the listeners, we are like the third week, third

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<v Speaker 1>week of January or January. It is already going so fast. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so freaking fast.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of positives, a lot of negatives, a lot

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<v Speaker 2>a weird way to start this new year. But we're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna keep picking up and try to, you know, turn

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<v Speaker 2>the corner.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, ya yah. Not the not the best beginning

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<v Speaker 1>for twenty twenty five. But things will settle, Things will settle.

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<v Speaker 2>So we thought we get some of your questions in

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<v Speaker 2>common sense. A lot of a lot has been coming

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<v Speaker 2>in and it's it's been a minute since we were

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<v Speaker 2>able to do this together, right, because you've been gone.

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<v Speaker 2>You might leave again. Oh my gosh, I might leave it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I'm out of the country.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Gary, really Budapest really far away. It's really far away,

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<v Speaker 1>but I've never been to the country and I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to see if it pushes a little bit. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>you guys can come for maybe a week and a

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<v Speaker 1>half or something, and but it's good. It's it's I've

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<v Speaker 1>never done horror, so it's a lot of fun scripts

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<v Speaker 1>and really really good actor that I love. He's like

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<v Speaker 1>a legend, so it'll be amazing. Like we'll talk about

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<v Speaker 1>it more soon if it materializes.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So this is from first question from Marine

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<v Speaker 2>Happy New Year. Can I just start by saying, I

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely love your podcast. The idea that you guys have

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<v Speaker 2>a sick compass in your life is unreal. I would

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<v Speaker 2>definitely watch Thank You. We want to make that happen

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<v Speaker 2>at some point.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been trying to make that happen for years.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we stopped trying because I got the rookie and

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<v Speaker 2>you got Grand Hotel. That's why it stopped.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe at some point, some point we'll revisit, like give

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<v Speaker 1>us a name. It'll be interesting if we do end

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<v Speaker 1>up working together and we have our own comedy. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you submit some names for us? What was it going

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<v Speaker 1>to be called? I've what was the name?

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<v Speaker 2>I never had a name.

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<v Speaker 1>We never had a name. Now was untitled Rosson in

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<v Speaker 1>scentiez Eeric Winter Project. Remember Eric winter rosens it first

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm the female.

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<v Speaker 2>Just kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>That was interesting. Guys, did you did you put a

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<v Speaker 1>check on that I was joking, Wow, he's upset that

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<v Speaker 1>I've put my name first.

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<v Speaker 2>You know how long I was, Wow, Eric Sanchez, since

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<v Speaker 2>we've been dating, Like, how'd we go anywhere? It was like,

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<v Speaker 2>mister Eric Sanchez, Eric Winter, mister Sanchez, do you what

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<v Speaker 2>the heck? No?

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<v Speaker 1>But no, everybody knows Eric Winter. Now.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I was Eric Sanchez forever. The question

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<v Speaker 2>all right, So we got totally sidetracked here kind of

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<v Speaker 2>related to the choices you're currently making in life. If

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<v Speaker 2>you could choose any career any place in the world,

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<v Speaker 2>where would it be and why? I know Roslin's answer,

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<v Speaker 2>what is what is my answer? Actress in Spain right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I want to act in Madrid, Oh, Valencia, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>see to act in Spanish. It's much easier for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, If I had any career to choose, and this

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<v Speaker 2>is I don't. It's so weird to think about that.

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<v Speaker 2>What I would do differently? I would still if I

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<v Speaker 2>had a family and the family's all with me and

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<v Speaker 2>we can all travel, I'd be an actor and I

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<v Speaker 2>would go work in Europe somewhere. But my other career

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<v Speaker 2>path in life, you never really had another career path.

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<v Speaker 2>You always wanted to be an actress or a performer,

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<v Speaker 2>but I believe it or not, I wanted to be

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<v Speaker 2>a firefighter paramedic, so I would have probably loved to

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<v Speaker 2>have done that.

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<v Speaker 1>You would have been fighting the fires if I would

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<v Speaker 1>have chose that path, guys. You know, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I ever said this story. For the longest time,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember when I had a manager. Her name was

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<v Speaker 1>Dian Perez, and she was my manager for many, many years,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said to me, what would be your dream?

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, besides doing brought Away, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>have my own my entertainment show, meaning like Share, like

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<v Speaker 1>Saunia Share, like that kind of thing. I said, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to be Share. How do you pronounce your name? Share? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be I want to be Shared. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to be able to do interviews and perform with

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<v Speaker 1>with my guest stars, and and do comedy sketches, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and look fabulous and have designers like dress me. So

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<v Speaker 1>every time I come out like Share, you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was like a fashion statement. I wanted that so badly.

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<v Speaker 1>So I ended up having a big development deal at

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<v Speaker 1>the time with ABC and they I remember we sat

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<v Speaker 1>down with all the executives and so what is it

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<v Speaker 1>that you would like to do? And I said, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to have my my one woman show like Share

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like, oh, that's very interesting. But it's very

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<v Speaker 1>very difficult because you know, it has been we have

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<v Speaker 1>tried before, like the Mary Taylor More era. It's very difficult.

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<v Speaker 1>But we actually have Wayne Brady. Now that it's doing one,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not performing the way we want to, but would

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<v Speaker 1>you be interested in being a guest star and doing

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<v Speaker 1>a show with him just so we can see you

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<v Speaker 1>in your element? And I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>that'll be a incredible So I did. So I was

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<v Speaker 1>a guest star on the WAYN Brady Show and I

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<v Speaker 1>danced and I sang and I did like comedy stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>It was. I was in heaven. He was lovely. I

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<v Speaker 1>had a great time. It never aired because the show

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<v Speaker 1>got canceled before my so I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doomed because if that didn't work and he was

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<v Speaker 1>Wayne Brady, you know, and he's incredibly talented, there's no

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<v Speaker 1>way they're going to give me the chance because they

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<v Speaker 1>have tested it and it didn't work. And I will

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<v Speaker 1>never forget. Oh my god, I wonder if they would

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<v Speaker 1>have seen it, and maybe if the show was highly rated,

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<v Speaker 1>if I was ever going to have the opportunity to

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<v Speaker 1>have my own show. So for a long time that

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<v Speaker 1>was my dream. But everybody, guys, every single person, even

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<v Speaker 1>my team, it's too difficult, it's too hard. Nobody's doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>That format doesn't work anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Watching something like that. I wouldn't watch something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Why.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care. Why I don't care about watching someone

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<v Speaker 2>be one person show. It was incredible at the time

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<v Speaker 2>because that's all it was on TV.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like sn L. It's just a bunch of comedian No,

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<v Speaker 1>I know what is a lot of comedians doing comedy

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<v Speaker 1>and singing and and somebody opening the show for you

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<v Speaker 1>is like, why can't it work?

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<v Speaker 2>That show wouldn't work at like primetime television either it's

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<v Speaker 2>a late night It's been that time forever. It's what works.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think it woul work at eight o'clock.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys, I would eat that if I had a man

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<v Speaker 1>or a woman and they were comfortable and they were talented,

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<v Speaker 1>and I will watch.

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<v Speaker 2>One man show like watch just stand up comedy. Get

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<v Speaker 2>that's what I like.

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<v Speaker 1>No, but I want to sing it at Anyways, next question.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't work, Sue. Thank you so much, Sue for loving

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<v Speaker 2>the podcast. Yeah, the naughty professor thing was out of control.

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<v Speaker 2>That clip Rosland say and nutty instead of not.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, guys, I didn't mean.

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<v Speaker 2>To question for you. Is you're giving a green light

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<v Speaker 2>for a twenty episode season or of a new show,

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<v Speaker 2>either acting in or producing directing. What is the premise

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<v Speaker 2>to this show and what other TV actors would you

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<v Speaker 2>want to start in it with. I'm gonna tell you

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<v Speaker 2>right now, the comedy with Roz and I. That would

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<v Speaker 2>be my dream gig. Twenty episodes, shooting a comedy in

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<v Speaker 2>Los Angeles, producing it Rosin condrect an episode. That'd be

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<v Speaker 2>my dream gig.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like, I want to go to Greenland and be

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<v Speaker 2>on the smallest part of a city somewhere else and

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<v Speaker 2>shoot a very dramatic piece where no one recognizes me.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love that, and then where we don't see

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<v Speaker 2>her for five months.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, that's so sad, I did. I did tell my.

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<v Speaker 2>Mind was about the family game, be like I would

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<v Speaker 2>to be on the moon shooting an as my family around,

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<v Speaker 2>because it'd be great to be an astronaut and I

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<v Speaker 2>make it nominated.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so funny because I had a conversation with my

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<v Speaker 1>agent last week. He said, well, I'm so excited for

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<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty five, and like, what do you want? What

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<v Speaker 1>is it that you want? And I said, I want

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<v Speaker 1>you to give me a gig where I do a

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<v Speaker 1>find out they can do a movie that is critically acclaimed.

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<v Speaker 1>Just give me one scene, one freaking scene in a

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<v Speaker 1>movie that gets someone. You never know what's going to

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<v Speaker 1>get I know, And he was like he's and then

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<v Speaker 1>he laughed and Eric, I whant to told Eric the

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<v Speaker 1>story Eric is. Of course he laughed because it's not

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<v Speaker 1>that easy. It's not That's how my laugh is. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't we know that mine is the comedy Rosland's

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<v Speaker 1>is something critically acclaimed, which probably wouldn't be our comedy.

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<v Speaker 1>Why not just you know, why what if we?

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<v Speaker 2>Demi Moore just got her first Nomina, and.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how inspiring that was to witness something to

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<v Speaker 1>no she's not sixty ye I don't know. And her

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<v Speaker 1>speech was so incredible, like like like like you know

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<v Speaker 1>what speaking her truth about Nobody ever thought that I

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<v Speaker 1>was capable of doing that because I am. I just

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<v Speaker 1>do popcorn blog Boster. You know, she's so stunning and

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<v Speaker 1>and nobody really she was incredible. She's incredible. And finally,

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<v Speaker 1>so you don't what. I'm fifty one. I still have time.

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<v Speaker 1>Although guys, it's not about being nominated and none of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to give me more.

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<v Speaker 2>Sixty two years old. Wow, So dude, you're plenty of time.

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<v Speaker 2>You had a decade.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really care, Eric, to be honest with Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really care. I just want to work.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, let's go next question.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to. I just want to work, and

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<v Speaker 1>then a brand to do well so I can so

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have to work.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna work. You're gonna work, just fine. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>a brand I want to. I want to have a business.

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<v Speaker 2>Will probably what we have fun Republic to be jamming.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Michelle, Happy near to you as well. The

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<v Speaker 2>Rookie on Hulu over your Christmas break you Binge watched

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<v Speaker 2>the whole thing Fantastic Love It. Season seven's out now,

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<v Speaker 2>although I think our first episode got preempted in some areas,

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<v Speaker 2>so you can check it out on Hulu. Watching The

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<v Speaker 2>Rookie led me to finding our podcast. Great to Know

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<v Speaker 2>the personal side of the actress watching. Thank you so much,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm so glad you're you know, you're just happy

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<v Speaker 2>with us being willing to share everything. That means a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't see a question here from you, Michelle, but

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<v Speaker 2>we appreciate everything that you said and being a fan

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<v Speaker 2>of the podcast and a fan of the show. It's awesome. Lynn.

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<v Speaker 2>This is for Roz. Do you want to read it.

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<v Speaker 1>What's happening with your clothing line? We haven't heard anything lately.

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<v Speaker 1>Will you have new styles coming out and when might

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<v Speaker 1>they be available?

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<v Speaker 2>Also, the audio movie and English.

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<v Speaker 1>So would your Daary movie have English subtitles? Yes, it

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<v Speaker 1>already has that. We're working on that. It was interesting

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<v Speaker 1>because we have one of my producers of me, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing the subtitles, and we both our first language is

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<v Speaker 1>not English, so I'm so proud. We're so proud. We

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<v Speaker 1>do the whole the subtitles the way I think work,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I have my American, non Spanish speaking producers

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<v Speaker 1>proof reading it.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's a lot of naughty behaviors down now.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, there's so many mistakes that We're like, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean? Like, I work so hard and I

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<v Speaker 1>guess we're redoing them because we need an English but

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<v Speaker 1>it's tricky because it's in Spanish. Yeah, so a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of mistakes. But guys, I guess it's someone is you know,

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<v Speaker 1>medi the your mind is what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, I'm gonna I'm want to take the question for

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<v Speaker 2>you on on the clothing line, because I helped you

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<v Speaker 2>orchestrate that deal and I know it's something that's just

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<v Speaker 2>has been tough for you in general. Listen, her clothing line,

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<v Speaker 2>she did. Rosland did everything she could to be an

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<v Speaker 2>inspiration to build this clothing line up. Now, the people

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<v Speaker 2>designing the clothes didn't come to Roslind for enough input.

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<v Speaker 2>They didn't come to her for her for her feedback

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<v Speaker 2>as much as we wanted early on in this deal.

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<v Speaker 2>And to be honest, Ross has never really worked with

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<v Speaker 2>celebrity brands in a way to launch one. They've taken

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<v Speaker 2>on brands that celebrities have had that have already been

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<v Speaker 2>out in the marketplace, so they're just placing it there,

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<v Speaker 2>but they don't really know how to launch. I'll say

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<v Speaker 2>that I don't think they know how to launch a

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<v Speaker 2>brand new celebrity brand because they don't market towards it.

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<v Speaker 2>Ross is all about the scavenger hunt. That's their branding,

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<v Speaker 2>and when you're launching a new brand, very difficult to

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<v Speaker 2>have a scavenger hut when people don't know where to

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<v Speaker 2>find it. And so I'll be honest, We're going to

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<v Speaker 2>and I say we because like I said, I helped

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<v Speaker 2>orchestrate the deal with Ros, but we are going to

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<v Speaker 2>part ways with that partner with Ross, and we are

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<v Speaker 2>going to and even our design partner, and we are

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<v Speaker 2>going to get back out there and find another deal

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<v Speaker 2>with the product with the same you know, the Ross

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<v Speaker 2>Essenti's clothing line.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys. It was very launching it difficult for me. Since

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning. I was super excited because of the possibilities.

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<v Speaker 1>Ross is a massive, massive store. They have almost three

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<v Speaker 1>thousand yeah stores nationwide. Clearly, their business model works incredibly well.

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<v Speaker 1>People love it, you know, and a lot of Hispanics

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<v Speaker 1>go to Ross. So they have their business model so

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<v Speaker 1>tight that they don't really care to be honest with

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<v Speaker 1>you about doing celebrity collaborations because they don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>because they do extremely well. We got the opportunity and

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<v Speaker 1>immediately I was like, this is incredible. I want I

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<v Speaker 1>want to do something that is for the masses. I

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<v Speaker 1>want things that are affordable because you know what, I

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<v Speaker 1>come from very normal beginnings, and my mom was a

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<v Speaker 1>same stress, so I know the value of fabric and clothing.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like I want to do something that is

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<v Speaker 1>getting to me, which is something very pretty, very affordable.

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<v Speaker 1>Very early on we realized Ross doesn't want me to

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<v Speaker 1>do any kind of publicity. So every single thing that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys saw that I posted, I was advised not

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<v Speaker 1>too because Ross they didn't want me to post absolutely anything.

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<v Speaker 1>They wanted to be a discovery. Whoever goes to Ross,

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<v Speaker 1>if they see it, and if they're interested, they'll buy it,

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<v Speaker 1>But they want no publicity and no attachment because that's

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<v Speaker 1>not their business model. So that was a little hard

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<v Speaker 1>of me. So for many months I couldn't post anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Then finally, after all a lot of us pressing guys,

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<v Speaker 1>if I have a line that has my name and

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<v Speaker 1>has my face hanging on the tag, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to promote it. So I was allowed to

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<v Speaker 1>in a very simple way. Don't do too much, just

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<v Speaker 1>to a little bit. And that's what you saw when

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<v Speaker 1>I was posting, and I was so excited, and I

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<v Speaker 1>try to make everything look very, very very pretty. But again,

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<v Speaker 1>since the very beginning, I thought I was going to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to be part of the designing team and

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<v Speaker 1>I was not allowed to. They will send me samples

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<v Speaker 1>and they will send me stuff, but I will always

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<v Speaker 1>have some kind of like feedback about what about this?

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<v Speaker 1>And I like, I don't respond to this fabric, what

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<v Speaker 1>about that one? And it was not a collaboration per se.

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<v Speaker 1>It was more like, this is what Ross wants, this

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<v Speaker 1>is what works, They know their market. Just trust, just

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<v Speaker 1>trust and somebody as me that is very alpha, that

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<v Speaker 1>is very controlling. It was very difficult for me to

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<v Speaker 1>swallow that pill of going, guys, if it's my face,

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<v Speaker 1>if it's my name, I want to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely love everything that I'm selling. What I posted is

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<v Speaker 1>I did because I liked. The other stuff that I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't post is because I was not going to post

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<v Speaker 1>something that I know I was not gonna wear. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not discrediting the company that we had to design

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, they do great stuff and they know

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<v Speaker 1>their market. It doesn't mean that it's my taste. So

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<v Speaker 1>there was a big disconnect with not being able to

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<v Speaker 1>promote the way I wanted to not being able to

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<v Speaker 1>design the way I wanted to, and ultimately I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have to I'm gonna have to walk away

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<v Speaker 1>because I just don't want to do something to see

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<v Speaker 1>if it sticks, you know, because I don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to. I honestly don't have to. If I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to do clothing is because I have a passion for it,

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<v Speaker 1>not because I need the money, not because I need

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<v Speaker 1>to do it, just because I like I like it,

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<v Speaker 1>So it wasn't a good match. Again, I appreciate the opportunity.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was a great experiment for them, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to allow somebody that has a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a resume, you know, in their entertainment business to

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<v Speaker 1>do it. We could have continued doing it. But if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not happy and I want to be super happy

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<v Speaker 1>and proud of what I'm doing, if my name is involved,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why we're like, you know, it's better two part ways. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate the opportunity. I think it's a massive department

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<v Speaker 1>store that does incredibly work incredibly well, that serves a purpose.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you want to buy cute stuff that is affordable.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all about that and hopefully I get to do

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<v Speaker 1>it my way very soon. You know, we're cooking something.

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<v Speaker 1>But until I have something that I'm one hundred percent

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<v Speaker 1>happy with, I'm not gonna say anything. So I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>your question, and I hope that clorifies everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Another question before we head out. I think those great

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<v Speaker 2>job clarifying. By the way, Edith is actually pretty funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for the congratulations on the podcast. And you're

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<v Speaker 2>loving our little love fights that we have. We have

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of love.

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<v Speaker 1>Fights, love fights of love fights.

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<v Speaker 2>Question one, this is fun. Imagine you had to live

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<v Speaker 2>in one of these two worlds Rosland, one where everyone

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<v Speaker 2>sings instead of talking, or one where everyone dances instead

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<v Speaker 2>of walking. What would you choose. I'd be dead because

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<v Speaker 2>I had to sing and dance all day long. Forget

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<v Speaker 2>about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know dance, I'd probably, but I'll probably do

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<v Speaker 1>the dance.

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<v Speaker 2>We'd never meet the end of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I know they'll be there. Can we have a world

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<v Speaker 1>where everything is singing and dancing, so everything is a

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<v Speaker 1>musical all day long.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love that, two different worlds. That question two.

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<v Speaker 2>If your life had a soundtrack, what song would be

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<v Speaker 2>its main theme and why? That's tough on the spot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I have to think about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Really.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't live my life like a carnival at all,

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<v Speaker 1>but if I could, yeah, I would live like your

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<v Speaker 1>sorrows go away by singing.

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<v Speaker 2>I have no idea how to squabble up.

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<v Speaker 1>Kendrick guys Okay, parentheses over here. So my kid, our kid, Daylan,

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<v Speaker 1>seven years old, is obsessed with that song that it's

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<v Speaker 1>all fwordwordword no. But then lest yesterday, he goes daddy

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<v Speaker 1>and then he has a repeat because he goes, hey, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what is the apple? Alexa? Hey, Alexa, And he asked

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<v Speaker 1>Alexa for the songs over and over again, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was cute like we are cleaning the closet where he

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<v Speaker 1>was losing his mind because they have no school because

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<v Speaker 1>because the fires. So we're clean the closets and he

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<v Speaker 1>is unrepeat right putting all the stuff is inside his shirt,

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<v Speaker 1>jumping from the bed to the floor. Unrepeat. It was

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<v Speaker 1>I can lude to that song doing Japarazzi Parazzi, Lady.

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<v Speaker 2>Gaga and Jack Harlowe love it on.

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<v Speaker 1>Me, love it. But the funny thing is that he

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<v Speaker 1>asked daddy. They're they're playing the explicit right, and Daddy goes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's okay, that's fine, but maybe just make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that you don't repeat the bad words. Okay, don't, don't, don't,

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<v Speaker 1>don't listen to the.

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<v Speaker 2>Battery way, listen to the songs.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a game, so I keep walking by, and

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<v Speaker 1>every time there was an F He's sitting on his

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<v Speaker 1>rocking chair and he's like loving it, and I'm looking

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<v Speaker 1>at him. And every time there's an F he's laughing, hysterical,

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<v Speaker 1>and then the song keeps going another F word and

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<v Speaker 1>he's laughing historical. Oh my god. It was cute. But

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<v Speaker 1>are we damaging our.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, said no, we're losing our minds. I was just

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<v Speaker 2>trying to keep entertaining. I know, all right, let's see,

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<v Speaker 2>uh TikTok. The third question. If you had to give

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<v Speaker 2>away all of your things, and you're only allowed to

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<v Speaker 2>take back one item each day, what would those What

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<v Speaker 2>would be the first three things you would choose? You

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<v Speaker 2>gave away everything, what's the first thing he'd ask back?

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<v Speaker 1>Material?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my wedding ring, okay, I would agree with.

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<v Speaker 1>That, my wedding album.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, on the Bible, those are the three things you

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<v Speaker 2>take back?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, No, I have all the pictures for the kids

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<v Speaker 1>and the kids albums. I don't know. It's very tricky.

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<v Speaker 2>I do the wedding ring with you, and I take

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<v Speaker 2>my phone because then and then I also have my website,

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<v Speaker 2>so I could order more Palm Republic, I wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 2>to take it back at his buying new ones. And

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<v Speaker 2>then the third thing I would take already car so

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<v Speaker 2>I could drive around to get places. Yeah, the car,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't just you're just sitting in the front yard

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<v Speaker 2>with as.

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<v Speaker 1>I get my dogs that.

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<v Speaker 2>But so I'm driving around on my phone with Palm

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<v Speaker 2>Republic and wedding rings and you were sitting in the

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<v Speaker 2>front yard looking at pictures and you have your ring

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<v Speaker 2>and you have no what was your third thing? You

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<v Speaker 2>can't take one of mine. Now You're just stuck.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what I'll do, and that's a problem.

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<v Speaker 2>Good questions, though, And answer your other question. You saw

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<v Speaker 2>the clip about me playing guitar on TikTok. I have

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<v Speaker 2>not played guitar in about a year. I'm about to

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<v Speaker 2>stop production, so I'm gonna start getting back on the guitar.

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<v Speaker 2>I have been terrible and I have slacked. It's really bad,

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<v Speaker 2>really bad. My guitar skills.

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<v Speaker 1>That I wonder why people a lot of brand new

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<v Speaker 1>guitar Why do we do that?

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<v Speaker 2>What do we like?

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<v Speaker 1>And I think this is like a very common thing

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<v Speaker 1>within human beings. Like you say you're going to start

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<v Speaker 1>something and then you're I've got to get back DV

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<v Speaker 1>eight and then you forget about it. It's like we

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<v Speaker 1>do it all the time, and it's very it's very weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's really. It was a mess.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I wonder if there's a human being that will

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<v Speaker 1>actually start something and stick to it until it's completion.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so hard to do marriage, which leads us to

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<v Speaker 1>our no not even that people like different an exit?

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<v Speaker 1>What about?

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<v Speaker 2>What about?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean this was announced a couple of Let me

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<v Speaker 1>ask his last fan question because it's about the topic.

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<v Speaker 2>Michelle, Oh, no, this is kim on kim On. I

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<v Speaker 2>hope I pronounced that correctly. Thank you for loving the

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<v Speaker 2>podcast and everything we're doing on it. Your husband said,

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<v Speaker 2>it's I guess it's your new fix, which is great.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's see you absolutely love decided right and okay, I

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<v Speaker 2>know you have a how would you do it? I

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<v Speaker 2>was wondering how to deal with grief in your marriage.

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<v Speaker 2>My husband and I have been married for one year

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<v Speaker 2>and two months. We both lost our moms and the

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<v Speaker 2>first year of marriage, we have been trying hard to

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<v Speaker 2>be strong for each other, but I'm dying inside. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel depressed, broken, and I know he must feel the

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<v Speaker 2>same way. I have tried many times to get him

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<v Speaker 2>to open up about it, but he always says he's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>So what does he said AAD hosts say about this

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<v Speaker 2>m that's tough.

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<v Speaker 1>So they both lost lost their moms.

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<v Speaker 2>They're both struggling inside. She has been trying to get

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<v Speaker 2>him to open up about it. He just keeps saying

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<v Speaker 2>he's fine. How do you handle?

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<v Speaker 1>I think they have to talk about it, but she's trying.

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<v Speaker 2>He just says, I'm fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you're going to have to keep trying and

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<v Speaker 1>just tell him. Listen. I know you're saying you're fine,

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<v Speaker 1>but I I went through the same experience and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not fine. So either you tell me what's going on,

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<v Speaker 1>or I'm going to talk to you about what's going

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<v Speaker 1>on with me because I need I need a release.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think there's a version though, of just giving

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<v Speaker 2>him space as well? Maybe he processes differently.

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<v Speaker 1>For sure, and that would be me. You know, like

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<v Speaker 1>between you and me, I think you're more and more

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<v Speaker 1>open to speaking about everything. I'm more into. Can you

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<v Speaker 1>just let me be for a second because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to speak, but I think at some point it

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<v Speaker 1>has to be And.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, we can. We've been together for nineteen years, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>sixteen married, so it's easier for us to kind of

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<v Speaker 2>understand each other's dynamic. You've been married for a year.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I do think Rosland's right though in this

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<v Speaker 2>regard that, you know, it's fine line. I think you've

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<v Speaker 2>got to give a little bit of space. But if

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<v Speaker 2>space has been given for quite some time now and

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<v Speaker 2>you feel you need someone to talk to, you could

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<v Speaker 2>ask him if you're able to share what you're going

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<v Speaker 2>through to him, because you want to have someone to

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<v Speaker 2>lean on. And if he says I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>hear that, I don't want to talk about it, then

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<v Speaker 2>that's tough. You might want to go to therapy. Ask

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<v Speaker 2>if he'd be open at therapy, not marriage therapy, but

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<v Speaker 2>just therapy for each other what you're going through and

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<v Speaker 2>how to navigate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Or write it down. If he says I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to hear it. Just write him a letter, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just write something, put all your thoughts into that, and

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<v Speaker 1>then just leave it on his nightstand and he's going

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<v Speaker 1>to read it, and that might trigger something.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's fair enough to say in that letter probably

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<v Speaker 2>how it makes you feel that the two of you

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<v Speaker 2>aren't communicating about it, and you know, for the sake

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<v Speaker 2>of your marriage, you want to be able to communicate.

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<v Speaker 2>You want to be able to air these things out.

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<v Speaker 2>You want him to be there to be your rock

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<v Speaker 2>even though he's struggling, and you want to be his

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<v Speaker 2>rock even though you're struggling. I think it's important to

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<v Speaker 2>keep that communication somehow. So writing is a great idea

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<v Speaker 2>as an alternative.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let me ask you something.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, I'm sorry, so sorry the bull you're

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<v Speaker 2>going through that at the same time, losing a parent.

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<v Speaker 2>I've had to go through it. It is very difficult.

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<v Speaker 2>So I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. It's interesting because when we were cleaning

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<v Speaker 1>up and cleaning the closets and the bedroom to donate

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<v Speaker 1>because of the fires, I've found a lot of pictures

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<v Speaker 1>of events that I've done in Puerto Rico, my triathlons

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<v Speaker 1>and things that i've done that. My father was a

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<v Speaker 1>part of it, and from vacations, you know, the when

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<v Speaker 1>my kid, when Sabella was born, that my parents came

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<v Speaker 1>to Los Angeles to be with me when I deliver

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<v Speaker 1>the baby. Both times, actually my father was so healthy

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<v Speaker 1>and so vibrant, and I'm going, oh my god, this

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<v Speaker 1>is not my dad anymore. And I'm kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>preparing myself because I don't know. I mean, listen, my

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<v Speaker 1>dad is such a lucky person that he always like

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<v Speaker 1>nine eighty four, but he's the unhealthiest person that is

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<v Speaker 1>still alive. We don't want to, you know, and and

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<v Speaker 1>he's just been very lucky even though he's sick with longevity.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that he's still fighting. So we think it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a matter of time. But who knows, he might

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<v Speaker 1>live ten more years.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have no idea they're going to confirm cancer.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, it's it's a it's a mess. But it's sad. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>When you lose a parent, you you lost your dad,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know that was to this day. It's very hard.

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<v Speaker 1>I have never experienced that because they're both alive and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to prepare myself. I'm dealing with my own issues.

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<v Speaker 1>With daddy issues, you know that I have because I

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<v Speaker 1>have no idea how I'm going to react when they

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<v Speaker 1>comes I have. You know, it's so crazy. I have

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<v Speaker 1>no idea. I don't even know if I'm going to cry.

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<v Speaker 2>You will at some point. It might be by yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>At the end of the day, I'm wed. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that's the tricky part. And and I can't say I

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<v Speaker 2>had dad issues, but I think when you have issues,

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<v Speaker 2>you know it's your parent. There's still going to be

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<v Speaker 2>good memories with your parents. There are going to be

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<v Speaker 2>moments that were powerful and it's still your dad or

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<v Speaker 2>your mom, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Who really the most vivid memory that I have about

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<v Speaker 1>my dad growing up is I mean in terms of

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<v Speaker 1>a good one Like my dad, I used to like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, you don't believe it, but I used

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<v Speaker 1>to run very very fast. And my father was always

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<v Speaker 1>like so proud of of any form of athletics that

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<v Speaker 1>I would do. And he'll be like drinking his rum

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<v Speaker 1>in the terraces, right, And I decided, oh, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to exercise, and I will exercise in front of him, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And I will do jumping jacks and I will try

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<v Speaker 1>to be super super, super super active. And he was

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<v Speaker 1>just looking at me, into his trios, his music, drinking

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<v Speaker 1>his rum, looking at me so proud because I was

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<v Speaker 1>working on in front of him. Yeah, isn't that crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>And I wanted to like do it so well because

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<v Speaker 1>it was so important to do it. He's approval, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean that? Oh, he's proud of me.

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<v Speaker 1>He's proud of me. He's proud of me. So weird,

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<v Speaker 1>so weird.

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