WEBVTT - Over My Dead Body 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.119 Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 0:00:03.240 --> 0:00:16.599 and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back 0:00:16.640 --> 0:00:19.880 with yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl justs hilarious. 0:00:19.960 --> 0:00:21.439 What I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess. 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:23.480 And we got my girls Taylor here, Taylor probably knock 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:27.160 going be talking today. She getting further and further into 0:00:27.240 --> 0:00:29.520 this pregnancy, and she getting closer and closer to this 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:36.760 due day. When is your dude a bol July twelfth, Oh, 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:40.640 July twelfth, Okay, oh my god, So at least you 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:42.400 don't got to go through the whole summer pregnant. 0:00:42.400 --> 0:00:44.600 I like you've seen that. But regardless, I'm probably gonna 0:00:44.600 --> 0:00:47.320 be yeah in size and im. 0:00:47.120 --> 0:00:49.080 Like, I know what I'm saying. 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:52.320 It's annoying your shit being pregnant and as hot as 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:52.680 a bitch. 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:55.920 Yeah, because I mean, even how the wedd has been going, 0:00:56.240 --> 0:01:00.720 I feel like they don't really get hot until June. 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:06.480 Yeah, exactly, Like seasons are definitely different. 0:01:06.720 --> 0:01:11.919 But all right, so we got another crazy ass motherfucking's story. 0:01:12.319 --> 0:01:14.160 I didn't really read all the way into this because 0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:15.640 I really liked the element of surprise. 0:01:15.760 --> 0:01:19.319 I like natural reactions. So we're gonna read this. Okay, 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:20.640 Hello Jessica. 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:24.120 First of all, don't nobody fucking call me Jessica, But 0:01:24.880 --> 0:01:28.480 hello Jessica. I just recently lost my husband of fifteen years. 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:31.800 We were lovers ever since college, so it's just so 0:01:31.920 --> 0:01:36.160 weird trying to continue life without him. What's even weirder 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:38.240 is that's not even the word. But I'm gonna let 0:01:38.240 --> 0:01:40.959 you slacksh your husband that all right. What's even weirder 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:43.399 is I, well, what's even more weird because I can't 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:45.960 even bring myself to talk that dumb Okay, what's even 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:48.800 more weird? I've learned more about my husband in the 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:50.680 past week than the fifteen. 0:01:50.320 --> 0:01:51.440 Years we were together. 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:55.640 Oh shit, surely after the funeral at the repass, all right, 0:01:55.680 --> 0:01:56.560 this way, I stopped. 0:01:56.600 --> 0:01:58.520 Okay, so it's about to get good. Oh my god, 0:01:59.560 --> 0:02:01.560 I mean the piece, but it's gonna be it. 0:02:01.760 --> 0:02:05.440 Shortly after the funeral at the repast, I was approached 0:02:05.480 --> 0:02:07.840 by this woman who was clearly way younger than me. 0:02:08.360 --> 0:02:10.160 I'd say mid twenties. Okay. 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:12.320 She asked me if I was his wife, and I 0:02:12.360 --> 0:02:15.639 said yes. So this bitch is popped upout the fucking repass. 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:20.200 Bitches as reckless as fuck. Okay, she told me that 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:22.440 her and Edwin, Oh yeah, this was definitely a old nigger. 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:26.920 Her and Edwin, I can say the name, what is 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:27.480 he gonna do? 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:28.240 Ah? Ah? 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:33.160 Wait what she said? She told me that her and Edwin, 0:02:33.360 --> 0:02:35.480 I can say the name, what is he going to do? 0:02:35.560 --> 0:02:36.240 Because you know I. 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:38.080 Tell people that I keep it anonymous. So she just 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:39.680 said his name, but she like, what you gonna do 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:42.079 he did? Oh my god, she got a little sense 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:46.440 of Haimer. Okay, her and Edwin had been seeing each 0:02:46.480 --> 0:02:49.119 other and that he promised her a brand new car 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:51.799 and a ten thousand dollar check to start her business. 0:02:52.280 --> 0:02:54.600 Oh yeah, this definitely sound like a sugar daddy, because 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:57.560 I said, I said, oh, is you out of your mind? 0:02:58.000 --> 0:02:59.800 She said she didn't want me to find out about 0:02:59.840 --> 0:03:02.560 her this way, but here we are. I asked her 0:03:02.560 --> 0:03:04.560 how long have they been sleeping with each other? And 0:03:04.600 --> 0:03:08.720 she says two years. I couldn't believe I didn't see this. 0:03:09.720 --> 0:03:11.840 She also tells me that they have an eight month 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:15.840 old daughter, and I told her that that couldn't be 0:03:15.919 --> 0:03:19.480 true because he had a vasectomy, and she says, no, 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:22.280 he just got it after they had their daughter. 0:03:24.080 --> 0:03:25.000 What the fuck? 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:27.560 She said, that's not true, because my husband got a 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:29.000 sect me and she said, no, no, no, he just 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:33.079 got it after we gave birth to my daughter. Jessica, 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:39.080 I choked. Oh, Jessica, I choked her. Oh shit, Jessica, 0:03:39.160 --> 0:03:41.360 I choked her. That man told me he had a 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:44.880 vasectomy two years ago because we were struggling to get pregnant, 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:46.320 and I guess that was how. 0:03:46.160 --> 0:03:47.040 He dealt with it. 0:03:47.200 --> 0:03:50.760 Oh man, We definitely argued about it because that was 0:03:52.040 --> 0:03:57.320 I don't think so unless she tell us that by 0:03:57.360 --> 0:04:00.480 the time I finished the story, but so far, No, 0:04:02.080 --> 0:04:04.600 we definitely argued about it because that was another thing 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:08.640 that was quite weird. But it's just crazy how he 0:04:08.800 --> 0:04:12.280 supposedly got of exectomy two years ago when he met her. 0:04:12.720 --> 0:04:15.160 Now they have a kid. Wow, back to it, though. 0:04:15.600 --> 0:04:18.120 It took three of my cousins to get me off 0:04:18.160 --> 0:04:20.560 of that wench. M. Yeah, she' old to you calling 0:04:20.640 --> 0:04:24.560 somebody wench. She ain't do shit, and I wasn't expecting 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:26.920 her to neither. This is all too much for me, 0:04:27.040 --> 0:04:32.440 jess I really thought I knew this man a kid though. Wow, man, 0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:34.040 how do I even deal with all this? 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:38.480 Oh? Wow? Well, she ain't never say how. 0:04:37.960 --> 0:04:41.520 Old they were, but this nigga name is Edwin, so 0:04:41.680 --> 0:04:43.240 obviously he was a bit seasoned. 0:04:44.680 --> 0:04:48.880 And then she's more than likely older as well. Well, 0:04:48.920 --> 0:04:50.320 she asked you for I think she did. 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:51.880 Said how does she deal with all this? I think 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:54.240 she did the right thing to you. But what's so 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:58.320 fucking heartbroken? Is that doing not even hear like you 0:04:58.400 --> 0:05:05.560 know what I'm saying. Yeah, it's like, excuse me, I'm 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:06.559 back in the grave. 0:05:07.000 --> 0:05:08.640 That's so crazy. 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:12.560 No, I know, but it's like, you know, he not 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:14.680 even here. You can't confront of soon. Now you're man 0:05:14.720 --> 0:05:16.920 that your dead ex husband. I mean, now that you're 0:05:17.160 --> 0:05:20.039 mad at your dead husband, you're a widow and it's 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:20.600 fucked up. 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:24.360 Honestly, that would make me I won't even feel sad 0:05:24.360 --> 0:05:25.400 about him dying anymore. 0:05:25.600 --> 0:05:28.080 Yo, To be honest with you, I was literally about 0:05:28.120 --> 0:05:29.039 to say the same ship. 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:32.279 You know, I very fucked because this is easier for 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:32.800 me to get over. 0:05:33.080 --> 0:05:33.279 Yeah. 0:05:33.320 --> 0:05:36.600 It's so betraying though, because it's like nigga and then 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:40.280 it's like, Nigga, you died and got away with the ship, right, 0:05:41.080 --> 0:05:42.240 That's that's what they took. 0:05:42.960 --> 0:05:45.280 Get me upset. Yeah, he literally took it to the 0:05:45.440 --> 0:05:48.400 grave sala. That's crazy. 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:51.560 Yeah, but I ain't gonna lie to sent that bitch 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:55.159 with him, because ain't no way you knew he was married. 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:58.880 You knew she had to know. That was her sugar daddy. 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:02.039 She ain't lot that nigga. She had a baby. He 0:06:02.200 --> 0:06:05.880 was probably he was giving a bread and she like, look, 0:06:06.880 --> 0:06:08.719 I'm just going you know, because and it's the thing 0:06:08.760 --> 0:06:11.040 you had. 0:06:10.040 --> 0:06:11.480 Your child, you hid your child. 0:06:12.040 --> 0:06:16.960 Yeah, but her asking her going up to the wife that. 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:19.120 Yeah, that was pointless as fuck. 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:21.479 Hold up, hold up, I know this ship getting good, 0:06:21.480 --> 0:06:23.800 but listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial. 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:26.760 If you love me, you'll listen, because. 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:31.400 Yeah, because he probably didn't leave a will or anything, 0:06:31.440 --> 0:06:34.119 you know, or if he did, shorty and a baby 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:35.880 not in it, you know what I'm saying, Because then 0:06:35.920 --> 0:06:42.120 that would alert to do that obligated to what pay 0:06:42.200 --> 0:06:44.400 Like they were married. 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:51.360 Yeah, so all your debts become like inclusive. That's why, mother, that's. 0:06:51.279 --> 0:06:53.160 Right, that's what He didn't want to marry me in 0:06:53.240 --> 0:06:58.040 DC the real way. Like you know, remember, it took 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:00.600 them a while to really finalize the marriage, to officiate 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:02.800 their marriage because he was in a lot of debt 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:05.520 I think like with like courts and ship courtporateceedings like 0:07:05.560 --> 0:07:08.080 all of that type ship and if he would have 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:10.680 married Yandy would have married him, his debt would have 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:13.360 became her dad. So she waited until he got all 0:07:13.400 --> 0:07:18.720 that shit situated and then May officiated the marriage because no, 0:07:19.080 --> 0:07:20.880 and I don't I don't blame her either, but. 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:23.120 That's I think that's a lot of people in that 0:07:24.040 --> 0:07:28.960 type of situation though. Yeah, like people just think, oh married, 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:33.040 and no, you gotta think about other ship. I heard 0:07:33.640 --> 0:07:37.280 say this, well not that, but what's your name? Ari 0:07:37.520 --> 0:07:40.600 Fletcher sayce she don't want to get married in a 0:07:40.640 --> 0:07:41.840 sense because. 0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:46.360 M but she already married the big they already married. 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:47.440 They're married. 0:07:47.440 --> 0:07:49.880 They've been married for a while. They've been married for 0:07:49.920 --> 0:07:52.960 like a whole year or two. I remember her not 0:07:53.080 --> 0:07:55.560 with that nigga. Yep, they went and got married quietly 0:07:55.640 --> 0:07:58.120 some well probably not quietly, but like privately. 0:07:58.240 --> 0:07:59.760 He has said, well, how do you know though that 0:07:59.800 --> 0:08:02.000 she she showed the ringing they found out. 0:08:02.080 --> 0:08:03.880 Yeah, I think it went. 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:07.360 Viral, but I didn't know if it was. 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:10.960 They're married. She is money Bag's wife. She is Mario's wife. 0:08:12.280 --> 0:08:14.160 But time she was saying like she didn't want because 0:08:14.160 --> 0:08:15.480 it's a child support or something. 0:08:18.800 --> 0:08:20.720 But she probably didn't want Mary a nigga who couldn't 0:08:20.720 --> 0:08:22.880 afford child support, because then that becomes her bill too. 0:08:22.880 --> 0:08:24.960 But money bag, yo, better be able to afford the 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:28.880 child support. Money bag? Yeah, yeah, exactly. You can't be 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:30.600 walking around and you broke a stop. 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:32.800 Like come on, now, I know manifestation works in many 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:36.560 different ways, but that's not it, you know, so, but 0:08:37.360 --> 0:08:42.040 this lady's story is complete asinine, like it's crazy and 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:44.480 her But I'm upset. 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:48.400 Yeah, I know, right, it's like him. I know. I 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:52.839 wonder what type of measures could she take to and 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:55.199 they had a prenup, would it be the same thing? 0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:58.640 Still, No, I'm not sure. We got to ask Lauren 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:01.680 because you know all the lawyer and ship. I have 0:09:01.800 --> 0:09:02.360 no idea. 0:09:02.880 --> 0:09:04.880 It's just like I'm almost at a loss for words. 0:09:05.120 --> 0:09:05.880 I don't really know. 0:09:06.000 --> 0:09:08.360 I mean, she she the advice that she's asking for 0:09:08.480 --> 0:09:10.120 is how she can deal with all this. 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:12.559 The thing is to tell you the thing that you 0:09:12.720 --> 0:09:15.280 have to kill two bodies. You have to kill the way. 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:23.480 So that's crime. I don't think she I know you did, like. 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:28.440 If you if she was to, you know, do something 0:09:28.440 --> 0:09:29.040 to the girl. 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:32.840 Girl, it's still but the baby. She don't want the baby. 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:34.079 It's not about even the mom though. 0:09:34.080 --> 0:09:36.360 It's still like that was the dad though, So it's 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:37.680 still she need to take care. 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:39.920 Of right because she because if she killed her mother, 0:09:39.920 --> 0:09:41.640 but she's gonna have to take care of that child. 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:45.679 But then because that's our step child, honestly, right. 0:09:45.559 --> 0:09:50.120 But it's eight months she honestly get away with because 0:09:50.200 --> 0:09:53.800 maybe eight months she could make the baby hers if 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:55.000 they don't have any kids too. 0:09:55.000 --> 0:09:58.120 Though he was not gonna remember they much. I wonder 0:09:58.160 --> 0:10:02.480 how who Edwin was. Listen, those fish were still swimming. 0:10:02.520 --> 0:10:04.280 I would I'm like thinking about this though, because it 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:04.560 was me. 0:10:04.640 --> 0:10:06.240 I would be like, you know, I would have to 0:10:06.280 --> 0:10:09.320 kill her off, raised the baby, like. 0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:17.800 Yeah, okay, give the baby away in better hands. I 0:10:17.840 --> 0:10:21.600 would have every single day I looked at that baby, 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:25.640 and I know this, this mind canceled, but that's. 0:10:25.559 --> 0:10:29.240 All right, get checked my mind, like you know this 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:30.080 is my child? 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:34.880 Yeah, yeah, exactly, you got it. Almost developed a mental 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:39.800 illness like that baby because both of the parents gone. 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:45.400 Yeah. I wonder how he died. Was old. He probably 0:10:45.440 --> 0:10:47.320 had a heart attack or something, all right, but he 0:10:47.400 --> 0:10:50.559 Ain't he better not be that motherfucking old for real? 0:10:50.640 --> 0:10:51.440 You all here cheating. 0:10:51.559 --> 0:10:54.600 I thought, like, all that ship supposed to expire at 0:10:54.640 --> 0:10:59.319 a certain age, you hold a ship. That's crazy, Lord 0:10:59.400 --> 0:11:03.280 Jesus anyway, so you just want her to just find 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:05.720 a way to kill the lady, kill a side check 0:11:06.200 --> 0:11:07.640 and take the baby and figure it. 0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:09.440 Out just as she wants the baby. And that I 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:12.959 just feel like, okay, you know, because. 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:17.240 The baby's innocent, definitely, so the girl. No, the girl 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:20.680 is not innocent in any of the shit. No, Okay, 0:11:20.760 --> 0:11:24.480 So Taylor could be feeling her hormones right now, but 0:11:25.480 --> 0:11:28.280 I think to deal with it, because that's what she 0:11:28.400 --> 0:11:29.880 really want to know how to deal with it. I 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:33.880 think you should definitely start some type of therapy for yourself. 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:35.520 And I know this seems repetitive. 0:11:35.600 --> 0:11:38.760 All you've probably been hearing from people is go to therapy, 0:11:38.800 --> 0:11:42.160 Go to therapy, go to therapy, and listen. I've never 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:43.640 been a fucking therapy so I don't know if that's 0:11:43.640 --> 0:11:44.400 gonna work for you or not. 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:47.400 But it's really really a great outlet. 0:11:47.520 --> 0:11:50.440 I've seen that so many people do work on themselves, 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:53.200 and the work that they're doing on themselves they get 0:11:53.600 --> 0:11:55.760 from their therapist. 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:57.040 You know, I'm not mad. 0:11:57.880 --> 0:12:00.319 Yeah, I'm not mad at people doing it. Like before, 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:03.240 like ten years ago, black people really didn't want. 0:12:03.080 --> 0:12:03.640 To do that shit. 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:06.000 I can't speak for whites, you know what I'm saying, Like, 0:12:06.080 --> 0:12:08.440 I can't, but I can only speak for my people 0:12:08.520 --> 0:12:13.360 and mostly the out Yeah it is, you know, And 0:12:13.720 --> 0:12:17.640 the problem with black people though, like we don't trust motherfuckers. 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:21.040 We don't trust people with our business. We don't really 0:12:21.120 --> 0:12:22.840 like for our business to be ever thrown back in 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:23.280 our face. 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:26.679 I know that's the thing. But we're just guarded as 0:12:26.760 --> 0:12:27.520 a people. 0:12:27.320 --> 0:12:29.240 Anyway, you know what I'm saying, a lot of people, 0:12:29.520 --> 0:12:32.080 A lot of us hold shit from our friends, like 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:34.720 really good friends. A lot of us like sit with secrets. 0:12:34.720 --> 0:12:36.840 We sit with shit, and that's how people go crazy. 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:40.199 But a therapist, I mean, the only thing is that 0:12:40.280 --> 0:12:43.280 theists probably gonna just tell their person. 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:49.360 Yeah yeah, no, I feel you, but I do kind 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:52.800 of understand why, like fans is wrong. My ash dad 0:12:53.200 --> 0:12:58.280 Rome has been trying to gather himself to push toward 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:00.680 therapy for about seven years. 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:02.640 He cannot do it. 0:13:03.080 --> 0:13:07.199 Charlemagne even referenced him like to like three of them 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:10.480 He did one session with each therapist and was like, yo, 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:12.560 I nah, I just don't feel right. 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:17.240 I'm like, what is wrong? Though? I don't know? 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:19.880 Or is this the fact that he cause I think 0:13:19.960 --> 0:13:21.000 he has a ga of his mindset. 0:13:21.000 --> 0:13:25.440 That's a therapist, another person that is not biased and 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:27.880 that won't judge you. You just gotta lay it all out, 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:29.120 but you gotta tell the true if you got to 0:13:29.200 --> 0:13:33.240 keep that shit a hunted, yeah, because Rome will hold 0:13:33.280 --> 0:13:34.400 back like that's what I'm saying. 0:13:34.440 --> 0:13:36.520 Enough, this is a therapist. You gotta trust them. 0:13:36.760 --> 0:13:38.880 You have to trust your therapist, right, because then you're 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:41.200 a lie about shit and they can't really fully assess 0:13:41.280 --> 0:13:43.640 you if you're not giving them everything. 0:13:43.760 --> 0:13:46.320 You know. But I do know that Rome was. 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:50.679 At first, he was very hesitant because he felt like 0:13:50.679 --> 0:13:52.480 a lot of therapists were white and he didn't want 0:13:52.480 --> 0:13:54.720 to be looked down on by a white person. Like 0:13:54.800 --> 0:13:56.680 He's just like, no, they if they not my color, 0:13:56.720 --> 0:13:59.720 they can't relate to me. Like that's exactly how he feels. 0:14:00.520 --> 0:14:03.720 It's a lot of black therapists, so and that's exactly 0:14:03.720 --> 0:14:08.840 what Charlemagne referred to him. He referred black therapists to him. 0:14:09.559 --> 0:14:13.839 Two men and one woman and room trying to flirt 0:14:13.880 --> 0:14:16.000 with the woman. I'm like, listen, this is not what 0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:18.959 you do because it was virtual obviously, and he was like, 0:14:19.200 --> 0:14:19.920 surety bad. 0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:22.800 I'm like, look, no, you're bad and you're trying to 0:14:22.800 --> 0:14:23.120 be good. 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:29.040 So just focus on the you know, the whole subject here, Like, 0:14:29.200 --> 0:14:30.440 let's focus on the goal. 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:33.280 If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and 0:14:33.320 --> 0:14:34.240 then we'll be right back. 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:37.720 This means a therapist, like I know how his friends are. 0:14:37.840 --> 0:14:39.520 Just that's just maybe it's a setting. 0:14:39.520 --> 0:14:41.320 Right, and then Rome don't really have many friends. You 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:44.040 can count on one hand how many friends. Wrong guys 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:49.560 same here. I mean I was just, yeah, yes, you 0:14:49.640 --> 0:14:51.840 grow into yourself and you grow away from other people, 0:14:51.840 --> 0:14:52.320 grow apart. 0:14:52.760 --> 0:14:58.160 Maybe they're just gonna sit back, have a blend his 0:14:58.280 --> 0:14:59.080 hand and talk to him. 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:00.840 Yeah yeah, setting. 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:03.479 Maybe he's seeing too much like oh he's trying. 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:07.000 Yeah yeah yeah, Because yeah, Rome don't like for it 0:15:07.000 --> 0:15:09.680 to feel like an interrogation, like why am I just 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:11.960 telling you all my information? Like and I'm uncomfortable we 0:15:12.040 --> 0:15:14.120 in this clinic or we in this office and this 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:18.880 is just set up to it's too corporate, like so yeah, 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:19.560 I do get it. 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:23.320 But what therapists will smoke a blunt and hear me out. 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:27.560 Therapist out with you definitely would give the outlet. Right hmm. 0:15:28.320 --> 0:15:29.960 That's different, right. 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:33.920 I like that because now, in a sense, no, seriously, 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:37.240 because he might be really onto something. Because it's the 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:39.520 settings and you have to provide that safe space in 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:42.440 that environment for somebody to even open up to you, 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:45.360 to be vulnerable, you know what I mean? That's different. 0:15:45.640 --> 0:15:48.520 That is different, all right? Let me ask you this 0:15:48.840 --> 0:15:54.600 smoke hookah, that's different, all right? What about wine? I 0:15:54.640 --> 0:15:56.680 would say no, hard liquor. I would just say why 0:15:56.760 --> 0:15:59.640 because but then sometimes it really opens you up. 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:01.560 Liquor really may open you up. 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:05.120 I'm not saying like drink champs this shit, but I'm saying, 0:16:05.280 --> 0:16:09.000 like at least three shots, two shots whatever, and your 0:16:09.000 --> 0:16:12.120 therapist is not drinking. You're you're comfortable enough to drink. 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:14.440 They may have a glass of wine, or they may 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:16.520 a mocktail. They may act like because they still got 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:18.920 to do their job, but no, you really might be 0:16:19.000 --> 0:16:22.520 on something day. I don't know what policy and protocol 0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:28.320 that might go against letting a client deal with drugs 0:16:28.360 --> 0:16:31.200 and shit, you know, because they would classify that as drugs, 0:16:31.240 --> 0:16:31.920 you know, white people. 0:16:32.040 --> 0:16:35.880 Yeah, but like if it's like a. 0:16:36.040 --> 0:16:38.840 If it's therapeutic for you, yeah, yeah, you might be 0:16:38.920 --> 0:16:39.400 onto something. 0:16:39.440 --> 0:16:41.080 I never heard anybody refer to. 0:16:42.560 --> 0:16:46.920 A therapy session with like spirits and and when I 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:49.360 say spirits, I mean like wine liquor shit, like you know, 0:16:49.440 --> 0:16:54.160 wine and spirits, or like even hookah or you know, marijuana, 0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:56.600 like just for stress relief and just to open up 0:16:56.960 --> 0:16:57.680 and loosen up. 0:16:57.800 --> 0:16:58.040 Yeah. 0:16:58.200 --> 0:17:00.880 We talk over a blunt of a glass of wine 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:04.000 all the time, you know, and sometimes those are the best, 0:17:04.040 --> 0:17:05.640 most needed conversations. 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:08.240 So yeah, I might look into that. 0:17:08.480 --> 0:17:11.040 You know, I want to how long you got to 0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:12.719 go to school to be a therapist, because that might 0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:15.399 be something I might do, like just go to school 0:17:15.400 --> 0:17:19.639 and then allow my clients to to smoke and ship 0:17:19.960 --> 0:17:21.879 if anything. Y'all heard it here first and Tailor gave 0:17:21.920 --> 0:17:23.719 me the idea. So I know you're gonna want some money, 0:17:24.280 --> 0:17:30.639 but exactly exactly or addibles, you gotta eat the edible? 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:32.399 Oh yeah, I was gonna say you gotta eat the 0:17:32.520 --> 0:17:35.840 edible like ten minutes or no, it's thirty minutes before 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:36.760 you come to my session. 0:17:38.680 --> 0:17:42.960 What ayauasca? Ayahuasca is different, Yo. 0:17:43.280 --> 0:17:45.280 Don't they need like a person there. 0:17:45.480 --> 0:17:47.240 Yes, they need a shaman, they need a guy, a 0:17:47.280 --> 0:17:48.720 spiritual guy sense. 0:17:49.680 --> 0:17:51.840 Yeah, therapy because they're going through. 0:17:52.440 --> 0:17:56.280 Well, yeah, that is definitely a form of therapy. The ayahuasca. Yeah, 0:17:56.320 --> 0:17:59.760 you're right, but those people that ship can go and 0:17:59.800 --> 0:18:01.359 that's shit lasts for so long. 0:18:01.600 --> 0:18:03.040 I do too. 0:18:03.320 --> 0:18:05.520 Oh that's what's up. You're not scared to try r 0:18:05.600 --> 0:18:07.439 ak it. That's cool, that's what's up. I want to 0:18:07.520 --> 0:18:10.400 as well. I love when Charlamagne was like yo, because 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:10.680 I was. 0:18:10.600 --> 0:18:12.159 Like, how you like, what do you do? Like? How 0:18:12.200 --> 0:18:16.000 do you do it? He said? It gotta call you. 0:18:15.160 --> 0:18:16.160 Yeah, he said, pep. 0:18:18.040 --> 0:18:19.960 Or people make it seem like you see a whole 0:18:20.040 --> 0:18:22.960 nother light up understanding of life. 0:18:23.359 --> 0:18:25.639 See, that's what I want to do that though, But 0:18:26.000 --> 0:18:28.439 I feel like they don't do that shit nowhere in America. 0:18:28.480 --> 0:18:30.880 I think that's like you gotta go out the country 0:18:31.000 --> 0:18:33.800 or something, because it's like a whole camp. It's like 0:18:33.840 --> 0:18:38.560 a treatment camp, a holistic therapeutic camp or some shit. Yeah, 0:18:38.600 --> 0:18:40.399 so we gotta do that. Soon as you drop my baby, 0:18:40.440 --> 0:18:44.119 we gotta go ahead and do that. Oh you had 0:18:44.119 --> 0:18:46.720 shrimp tea. That shit hit you quick. Didn't it. 0:18:46.880 --> 0:18:52.760 Yeah, I was cracking the Oh yeah, watching Bad Trip with. 0:18:54.119 --> 0:18:58.199 So you did trooms and watch Bad Trip movie? Okay, 0:18:58.200 --> 0:19:00.480 all right, because Bad Trip. You can have a Bad 0:19:00.480 --> 0:19:01.560 Trip if you No. 0:19:01.520 --> 0:19:01.880 I don't. 0:19:02.359 --> 0:19:03.719 It's a funny ass movies. 0:19:04.480 --> 0:19:08.480 Okay, this movie Bad Trip? Who else is in it? 0:19:08.520 --> 0:19:09.440 Is that Mark Wahlberg? 0:19:10.520 --> 0:19:11.040 Who is it? 0:19:12.080 --> 0:19:12.399 Oh? 0:19:12.600 --> 0:19:16.000 Eric Andre? No, I never saw a Bad Trip. It's 0:19:16.080 --> 0:19:17.959 on Netflix. I'm gonna watch it. Okay. 0:19:18.240 --> 0:19:20.760 I never say I never even heard of it. And 0:19:20.800 --> 0:19:24.320 so just now, no, I'm telling you I didn't shit, 0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:27.760 all right, I gotta watch it because my peoples. 0:19:28.000 --> 0:19:30.320