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Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back

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Speaker 1: with yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl justs hilarious.

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Speaker 2: What I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess.

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Speaker 1: And we got my girls Taylor here, Taylor probably knock

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Speaker 1: going be talking today. She getting further and further into

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Speaker 1: this pregnancy, and she getting closer and closer to this

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Speaker 1: due day. When is your dude a bol July twelfth, Oh,

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Speaker 1: July twelfth, Okay, oh my god, So at least you

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Speaker 1: don't got to go through the whole summer pregnant.

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Speaker 3: I like you've seen that. But regardless, I'm probably gonna

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Speaker 3: be yeah in size and im.

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Speaker 2: Like, I know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: It's annoying your shit being pregnant and as hot as

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Speaker 1: a bitch.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I mean, even how the wedd has been going,

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Speaker 3: I feel like they don't really get hot until June.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, Like seasons are definitely different.

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Speaker 1: But all right, so we got another crazy ass motherfucking's story.

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Speaker 1: I didn't really read all the way into this because

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Speaker 1: I really liked the element of surprise.

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Speaker 2: I like natural reactions. So we're gonna read this. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Hello Jessica.

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Speaker 1: First of all, don't nobody fucking call me Jessica, But

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Speaker 1: hello Jessica. I just recently lost my husband of fifteen years.

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Speaker 1: We were lovers ever since college, so it's just so

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Speaker 1: weird trying to continue life without him. What's even weirder

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Speaker 1: is that's not even the word. But I'm gonna let

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Speaker 1: you slacksh your husband that all right. What's even weirder

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Speaker 1: is I, well, what's even more weird because I can't

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Speaker 1: even bring myself to talk that dumb Okay, what's even

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Speaker 1: more weird? I've learned more about my husband in the

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Speaker 1: past week than the fifteen.

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Speaker 2: Years we were together.

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Speaker 1: Oh shit, surely after the funeral at the repass, all right,

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Speaker 1: this way, I stopped.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so it's about to get good. Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: I mean the piece, but it's gonna be it.

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Speaker 1: Shortly after the funeral at the repast, I was approached

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Speaker 1: by this woman who was clearly way younger than me.

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Speaker 2: I'd say mid twenties. Okay.

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Speaker 1: She asked me if I was his wife, and I

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Speaker 1: said yes. So this bitch is popped upout the fucking repass.

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Speaker 1: Bitches as reckless as fuck. Okay, she told me that

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Speaker 1: her and Edwin, Oh yeah, this was definitely a old nigger.

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Speaker 1: Her and Edwin, I can say the name, what is

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Speaker 1: he gonna do?

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Speaker 4: Ah? Ah?

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Speaker 2: Wait what she said? She told me that her and Edwin,

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Speaker 2: I can say the name, what is he going to do?

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Speaker 2: Because you know I.

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Speaker 1: Tell people that I keep it anonymous. So she just

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Speaker 1: said his name, but she like, what you gonna do

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Speaker 1: he did? Oh my god, she got a little sense

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Speaker 1: of Haimer. Okay, her and Edwin had been seeing each

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Speaker 1: other and that he promised her a brand new car

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Speaker 1: and a ten thousand dollar check to start her business.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, this definitely sound like a sugar daddy, because

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Speaker 1: I said, I said, oh, is you out of your mind?

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Speaker 1: She said she didn't want me to find out about

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Speaker 1: her this way, but here we are. I asked her

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Speaker 1: how long have they been sleeping with each other? And

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Speaker 1: she says two years. I couldn't believe I didn't see this.

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Speaker 1: She also tells me that they have an eight month

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Speaker 1: old daughter, and I told her that that couldn't be

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Speaker 1: true because he had a vasectomy, and she says, no,

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Speaker 1: he just got it after they had their daughter.

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Speaker 2: What the fuck?

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Speaker 1: She said, that's not true, because my husband got a

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Speaker 1: sect me and she said, no, no, no, he just

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Speaker 1: got it after we gave birth to my daughter. Jessica,

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Speaker 1: I choked. Oh, Jessica, I choked her. Oh shit, Jessica,

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Speaker 1: I choked her. That man told me he had a

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Speaker 1: vasectomy two years ago because we were struggling to get pregnant,

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Speaker 1: and I guess that was how.

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Speaker 2: He dealt with it.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, We definitely argued about it because that was

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Speaker 1: I don't think so unless she tell us that by

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Speaker 1: the time I finished the story, but so far, No,

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Speaker 1: we definitely argued about it because that was another thing

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Speaker 1: that was quite weird. But it's just crazy how he

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Speaker 1: supposedly got of exectomy two years ago when he met her.

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Speaker 1: Now they have a kid. Wow, back to it, though.

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Speaker 1: It took three of my cousins to get me off

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Speaker 1: of that wench. M. Yeah, she' old to you calling

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Speaker 1: somebody wench. She ain't do shit, and I wasn't expecting

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Speaker 1: her to neither. This is all too much for me,

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Speaker 1: jess I really thought I knew this man a kid though. Wow, man,

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Speaker 1: how do I even deal with all this?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Wow? Well, she ain't never say how.

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Speaker 1: Old they were, but this nigga name is Edwin, so

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Speaker 1: obviously he was a bit seasoned.

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Speaker 2: And then she's more than likely older as well. Well,

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Speaker 2: she asked you for I think she did.

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Speaker 1: Said how does she deal with all this? I think

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Speaker 1: she did the right thing to you. But what's so

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Speaker 1: fucking heartbroken? Is that doing not even hear like you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Yeah, it's like, excuse me, I'm

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Speaker 1: back in the grave.

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Speaker 2: That's so crazy.

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Speaker 1: No, I know, but it's like, you know, he not

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Speaker 1: even here. You can't confront of soon. Now you're man

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Speaker 1: that your dead ex husband. I mean, now that you're

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Speaker 1: mad at your dead husband, you're a widow and it's

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Speaker 1: fucked up.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, that would make me I won't even feel sad

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Speaker 3: about him dying anymore.

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Speaker 1: Yo, To be honest with you, I was literally about

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Speaker 1: to say the same ship.

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Speaker 2: You know, I very fucked because this is easier for

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Speaker 2: me to get over.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It's so betraying though, because it's like nigga and then

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Speaker 1: it's like, Nigga, you died and got away with the ship, right,

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Speaker 1: That's that's what they took.

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Speaker 2: Get me upset. Yeah, he literally took it to the

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Speaker 2: grave sala. That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I ain't gonna lie to sent that bitch

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Speaker 1: with him, because ain't no way you knew he was married.

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Speaker 1: You knew she had to know. That was her sugar daddy.

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Speaker 1: She ain't lot that nigga. She had a baby. He

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Speaker 1: was probably he was giving a bread and she like, look,

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Speaker 1: I'm just going you know, because and it's the thing

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Speaker 1: you had.

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Speaker 2: Your child, you hid your child.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but her asking her going up to the wife that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was pointless as fuck.

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Speaker 1: Hold up, hold up, I know this ship getting good,

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Speaker 1: but listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial.

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Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen, because.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because he probably didn't leave a will or anything,

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Speaker 1: you know, or if he did, shorty and a baby

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Speaker 1: not in it, you know what I'm saying, Because then

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Speaker 1: that would alert to do that obligated to what pay

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Speaker 1: Like they were married.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so all your debts become like inclusive. That's why, mother, that's.

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Speaker 1: Right, that's what He didn't want to marry me in

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Speaker 1: DC the real way. Like you know, remember, it took

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Speaker 1: them a while to really finalize the marriage, to officiate

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Speaker 1: their marriage because he was in a lot of debt

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Speaker 1: I think like with like courts and ship courtporateceedings like

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Speaker 1: became her dad. So she waited until he got all

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Speaker 1: that shit situated and then May officiated the marriage because no,

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Speaker 1: and I don't I don't blame her either, but.

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Speaker 3: That's I think that's a lot of people in that

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Speaker 3: type of situation though. Yeah, like people just think, oh married,

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Speaker 3: and no, you gotta think about other ship. I heard

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Speaker 3: say this, well not that, but what's your name? Ari

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Speaker 3: Fletcher sayce she don't want to get married in a

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Speaker 2: M but she already married the big they already married.

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Speaker 2: They're married.

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Speaker 1: They've been married for a while. They've been married for

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Speaker 1: like a whole year or two. I remember her not

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Speaker 1: with that nigga. Yep, they went and got married quietly

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Speaker 1: some well probably not quietly, but like privately.

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Speaker 3: He has said, well, how do you know though that

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Speaker 3: she she showed the ringing they found out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it went.

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Speaker 4: Viral, but I didn't know if it was.

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Speaker 2: They're married. She is money Bag's wife. She is Mario's wife.

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Speaker 2: But time she was saying like she didn't want because

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Speaker 2: it's a child support or something.

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Speaker 1: But she probably didn't want Mary a nigga who couldn't

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Speaker 1: afford child support, because then that becomes her bill too.

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Speaker 2: But money bag, yo, better be able to afford the

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Speaker 2: child support. Money bag? Yeah, yeah, exactly. You can't be

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Speaker 2: walking around and you broke a stop.

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Speaker 1: Like come on, now, I know manifestation works in many

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Speaker 1: different ways, but that's not it, you know, so, but

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Speaker 1: this lady's story is complete asinine, like it's crazy and

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Speaker 1: her But I'm upset.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, right, it's like him. I know. I

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Speaker 2: wonder what type of measures could she take to and

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Speaker 2: they had a prenup, would it be the same thing?

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Speaker 1: Still, No, I'm not sure. We got to ask Lauren

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Speaker 1: because you know all the lawyer and ship. I have

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Speaker 2: It's just like I'm almost at a loss for words.

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Speaker 2: I don't really know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she she the advice that she's asking for

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Speaker 2: The thing is to tell you the thing that you

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Speaker 2: have to kill two bodies. You have to kill the way.

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Speaker 2: So that's crime. I don't think she I know you did, like.

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Speaker 4: If you if she was to, you know, do something

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Speaker 2: Girl, it's still but the baby. She don't want the baby.

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Speaker 2: It's not about even the mom though.

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Speaker 3: It's still like that was the dad though, So it's

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Speaker 3: still she need to take care.

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Speaker 1: Of right because she because if she killed her mother,

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Speaker 1: but she's gonna have to take care of that child.

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Speaker 2: But then because that's our step child, honestly, right.

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Speaker 3: But it's eight months she honestly get away with because

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Speaker 3: maybe eight months she could make the baby hers if

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Speaker 3: they don't have any kids too.

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Speaker 2: Though he was not gonna remember they much. I wonder

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Speaker 2: how who Edwin was. Listen, those fish were still swimming.

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Speaker 2: I would I'm like thinking about this though, because it

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Speaker 2: was me.

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Speaker 3: I would be like, you know, I would have to

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Speaker 3: kill her off, raised the baby, like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, give the baby away in better hands. I

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Speaker 1: would have every single day I looked at that baby,

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Speaker 1: and I know this, this mind canceled, but that's.

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Speaker 3: All right, get checked my mind, like you know this

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Speaker 3: is my child?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, exactly, you got it. Almost developed a mental

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Speaker 1: illness like that baby because both of the parents gone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I wonder how he died. Was old. He probably

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Speaker 2: had a heart attack or something, all right, but he

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Speaker 2: Ain't he better not be that motherfucking old for real?

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Speaker 2: You all here cheating.

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Speaker 1: I thought, like, all that ship supposed to expire at

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Speaker 1: a certain age, you hold a ship. That's crazy, Lord

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Speaker 1: Jesus anyway, so you just want her to just find

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Speaker 4: This means a therapist, like I know how his friends are.

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Speaker 4: Maybe they're just gonna sit back, have a blend his

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Speaker 2: But what therapists will smoke a blunt and hear me out.

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Speaker 1: You know, I want to how long you got to

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Speaker 2: What ayauasca? Ayahuasca is different, Yo.

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Speaker 4: Don't they need like a person there.

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Speaker 1: Yes, they need a shaman, they need a guy, a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, therapy because they're going through.

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Speaker 1: you're right, but those people that ship can go and

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Speaker 2: Like, how you like, what do you do? Like? How

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Speaker 2: do you do it? He said? It gotta call you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he said, pep.

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Speaker 3: Or people make it seem like you see a whole

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Speaker 1: See, that's what I want to do that though, But

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Speaker 1: so we gotta do that. Soon as you drop my baby,

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Speaker 1: we gotta go ahead and do that. Oh you had

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was cracking the Oh yeah, watching Bad Trip with.

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Speaker 1: So you did trooms and watch Bad Trip movie? Okay,

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Speaker 2: Eric Andre? No, I never saw a Bad Trip. It's

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Speaker 2: Oh why, yeah, you was definitely big high. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what shrooms are, you know. I feel like yo,

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Speaker 1: Point, ayahuasca is that too, But it's just that times ten.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, we're gonna do some drugs well after you

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Speaker 1: have the bedding. But we've come to you at the

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Speaker 1: Just larious what I'll be doing. I'll be fixing mess

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Speaker 1: or at least I'll be trying, y'all. Say by the tailor, Tailor,

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