WEBVTT - and Ben Mankiewicz

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<v Speaker 1>Well, hello, gorgeous, we are back at it again.

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<v Speaker 2>Give them la la with rample.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, exciting things today.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, first of all, it is a season finale. Vander

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<v Speaker 2>Pomp has happened. Yes, it's over. Let's just take a

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<v Speaker 2>minute and celebrate that. You just rock twenty episodes of

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<v Speaker 2>vander Pump Rules. Yes, yes, Okay, Now I'm gonna interview

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<v Speaker 2>you for a second. Okay, how do you feel about

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<v Speaker 2>your season?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel absolutely epic. You don't, yeah, because like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing, and I'm going to really make this

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<v Speaker 1>short and sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>You get the hands up, so I definitely think it's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be It's going to be intense.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, vander Pump Rules is very much real life, correct,

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<v Speaker 1>that's our real lives correct. However, the show is one

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<v Speaker 1>hour long. It is a produced show. So for me,

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<v Speaker 1>when I have my freakouts or my meltdowns, or I

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<v Speaker 1>have a really great scene, like however I feel about it,

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<v Speaker 1>I disconnect because I'm like, if I take this home

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<v Speaker 1>with me, I'll crawl into a hole.

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<v Speaker 2>No, first of all, we'll back up years before when

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<v Speaker 2>we first started dating. You did take this shit home

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<v Speaker 2>with you, and it was World War three. Right, what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm most proud of is that it really is your

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<v Speaker 2>real life and it kind of all blends together. But

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<v Speaker 2>I think that when you have tough scenes where it

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<v Speaker 2>gets like a little tough for you, I think you're

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<v Speaker 2>able to disconnect.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, well, you have to. And when I watch it,

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<v Speaker 1>when I have to like relive it, I sit there

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, fuck, this is entertaining, you know, like wow,

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<v Speaker 1>look at me go And then I know when it's

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<v Speaker 1>like great and I should probably apologize. But in order

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<v Speaker 1>for me to maintain like sanity, I have to just

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<v Speaker 1>look at it and be like, damn, that's so entertaining,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we did a great job. You know. That's how

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<v Speaker 1>you have to look at it. Are you gonna freak out?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, now that Astas calls me a Bravo leberty, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna say that I just had a season vander promp

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<v Speaker 2>as well, so I have something to contribute. I after

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<v Speaker 2>my first scene coming out of the gate how to

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<v Speaker 2>let it go too, because I felt that they made

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<v Speaker 2>me look like I am the only person eating at

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<v Speaker 2>that dinner when I had a double chicken.

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<v Speaker 1>Sandap Oh, wow, you're really throwing it back to like

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<v Speaker 1>episode four.

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<v Speaker 2>I only had like two episodes the whole season, so

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<v Speaker 2>let me just revel in my one. First of all,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't order two chicken fucking sandwiches. And second of all,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll order two more again. And by the way, y'all

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<v Speaker 2>ate two? Why was it only me? Why was it

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<v Speaker 2>only Randall?

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<v Speaker 1>Because it's because it's entertaining, Like that scene there memes about.

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<v Speaker 2>It, there's like slow motion to be eating chicken sandwiches.

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<v Speaker 1>Which keep in mind, I ordered like five dishes. Right wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, you when I know production is paying,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, bring them out, bring them out, give me

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<v Speaker 1>all the goodness.

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<v Speaker 2>Off the way you you jacks, you Jacks and Brittany

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<v Speaker 2>or multiple dishes and I was a slow motion chicken

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<v Speaker 2>sandwich heater. It's bunch of bullshit. I also want to

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<v Speaker 2>say that the end of the season was.

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<v Speaker 1>Very Yeah, why are you asking me how I feel

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<v Speaker 1>about it? How do you feel about it? Your first

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<v Speaker 1>your first time ever appearing on Vanner Pump Rules, which

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<v Speaker 1>I literally told everybody that will never happen.

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<v Speaker 2>Never the way I told everybody will never happen.

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<v Speaker 1>And not only did it happen, your manipulator, absolutely, I

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<v Speaker 1>do reality TV. No one is safe.

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<v Speaker 2>And you also you also gave me that bullshit when

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, you know, this is my real life and

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<v Speaker 2>like we need to show this side. And I said,

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<v Speaker 2>you know that's not happening, he said, and then you

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<v Speaker 2>gave me that look like give me right now. And

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<v Speaker 2>then I folded like a like a like a like

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<v Speaker 2>a you know, just fold it.

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<v Speaker 1>Fold is like an envelope, licky lick, throw a stamp

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<v Speaker 1>on it, deliver it to Vanner pump rules.

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<v Speaker 2>But I will tell you I didn't film a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't, but it was hardcore. You had a scene

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<v Speaker 1>with James Kennedy. You're like, not only am I going

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<v Speaker 1>to film now, I'm going to have a scene one

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<v Speaker 1>on one with James.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, hold on a second. I got trapped. They call

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<v Speaker 2>me your little producers for they're big producers, but your

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<v Speaker 2>big producers call me. They said, will you show up

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<v Speaker 2>at the at the season finale? And they said, there's

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<v Speaker 2>no reason for me. I'm not relevant to this. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just going to stay home let Lalla do her thing.

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<v Speaker 2>They said, no, no, no, you got to be there

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<v Speaker 2>for her. It's a last night. We're going to celebrate.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a big party. So I come, I get wasted.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm having the time of my life. And by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>I bring Emma, Martin Scorsese's partner, so she and she's

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<v Speaker 2>a fan girl of the show. So she's going crazy

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<v Speaker 2>taking selfies and we're having the best time. So I

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<v Speaker 2>think this is easy. They're focused on you, guys. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>over in the corner with Emma drinking, and all of

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<v Speaker 2>a sudden, I get a little tap tap and they say,

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<v Speaker 2>when will you come over here for a second. We

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<v Speaker 2>just need to shoot one little thing with you. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, this is a good bye randal or

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<v Speaker 2>something like that, or maybe they want me to eat

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<v Speaker 2>a chicken sandwich again. Long story, short, long story, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to order chicken sandwich. I thought they'd

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<v Speaker 2>want a slow motion shot. So they bring me over

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<v Speaker 2>and there's James. They say, James wants to say something.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. I'm like, these fucking people are good. They

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<v Speaker 2>are so but but having said that, now I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to be the serious side. James was sober, and he

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<v Speaker 2>came over to me and he was beyond sincere and

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<v Speaker 2>very genuine, and it was so endearing and he said,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I want to apologize for all the things

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<v Speaker 2>I said and did. It wasn't in my right state.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't make it okay. I will you, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>forgive me. And I said, dude, that is such a

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<v Speaker 2>big step and a big so big of you to

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<v Speaker 2>do that. Of course I am. I know my fiance,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and you are very good friends, and I

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<v Speaker 2>want to have the same friendship. And the fact that

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<v Speaker 2>you did this is so honorable and I I forget,

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<v Speaker 2>know and I forgive. And you know what since then,

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<v Speaker 2>he since he's been our podcast and we text each

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<v Speaker 2>other here and there, and it's like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>he has come so far, and you know, life is

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<v Speaker 2>about forgiveness. You know we've done We've forgiven each other

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<v Speaker 2>for shit, and we forgive people for doing things to

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<v Speaker 2>us that maybe, you know, aren't the kindness. And at

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<v Speaker 2>the end of the day, I'm glad I went to

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<v Speaker 2>that party. I'm glad I went to that final taping

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<v Speaker 2>or filming, whatever you call it. And it was very sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>And I watched the episode, which I don't watch a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and the ending was exciting. It was like

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<v Speaker 2>music and that exit and Jackson Lisa going at it.

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<v Speaker 2>I loved it.

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<v Speaker 1>We broke the fourth wall on vander Pump Rules, Like

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<v Speaker 1>Jax goes crazy and he's talking to Lisa vander Pump

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<v Speaker 1>and he's like, this is my show, and she just

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, it's your show, vander Pump Rules, that's

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<v Speaker 1>my name. Like it was crazy. It was amazing, the

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<v Speaker 1>first finale episode I've ever like got intery.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh when you watched it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I thought it was really sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>I loved it. I love the music. I loved how

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<v Speaker 2>each person or each couple kind of or each cast

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<v Speaker 2>member walked out.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on. I have a really fun fact though. So

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<v Speaker 1>that night, Danica gets into a little scuffle with like

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<v Speaker 1>this new person that hooked up with Max. Her name's Kara,

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<v Speaker 1>and Danica shoves Kara, and Danica spills her wine on

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<v Speaker 1>my outfit okay, And in the interview process, they wanted

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<v Speaker 1>me to talk about the outfit because in their mind

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<v Speaker 1>it was like some fabulous outfit.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm not going to talk about it

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<v Speaker 1>because that outfit costs me all of like maybe a

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<v Speaker 1>hundred bucks for the whole thing, So like we're not

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<v Speaker 1>talking about no big deal, you know. The throat in

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<v Speaker 1>the wash. It's all good exactly like I come. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a pretender. People think I'm a bougie bitch, but hell no,

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<v Speaker 1>I am scrolling the internet for a good deal. What's happening?

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, Randall, are you for real?

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<v Speaker 2>No? I was trying to do something.

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<v Speaker 1>Pull it together. Yeah, hold on, get it to the chorus.

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<v Speaker 2>It's coming.

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<v Speaker 1>Turn it to the chorus. It's coming, It's coming. We

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<v Speaker 1>free hold. I wait for every young boom. You know that.

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<v Speaker 3>The best day your glasses, Hi, this one's for you

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<v Speaker 3>soon night, dude.

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<v Speaker 1>It did make me happy. It did make me happy.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, we are fucking young, wild and free man. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we may have birthdays that make us older. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>are young, You're young, wild and free. To age is

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<v Speaker 1>just a number. I don't believe in celebrating a birthday

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<v Speaker 1>to be like a year older. It's like, no, we're

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<v Speaker 1>celebrating this day because without it, I will an exist.

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<v Speaker 2>I got to tell you eight years.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're freaking welcome.

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<v Speaker 2>You know eight years you were on this show so far?

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<v Speaker 1>Only five I've completed five seasons.

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<v Speaker 2>But the show eight years what an epic run so far?

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<v Speaker 2>And I know you guys are going to go into

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<v Speaker 2>your ninth season, so I get I got to give

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<v Speaker 2>you this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that you said you know that we're going

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<v Speaker 1>into our ninth season, because we don't know that yet.

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<v Speaker 1>But put it into the universe. I speak it.

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<v Speaker 2>I know you are good, not if when when your

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<v Speaker 2>ratings are good, you're going another season.

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<v Speaker 1>It was definitely epic, and you know, the just the

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<v Speaker 1>cast when I watch them. Some like to blame editing,

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<v Speaker 1>which is fine, but it's like if we all just

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<v Speaker 1>looked five star like, we wouldn't be eight seasons in,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, so just be like, thanks for making a

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<v Speaker 1>great scene, even though I look like an asshole. Put

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<v Speaker 1>it out. Mention it all, mention it all.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you got the hands up fire today? Holy shit,

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<v Speaker 2>I am Yesterday you were like in a hole. Today

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, boom, she's away.

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<v Speaker 1>Boom baby, Bring on the virtual reunion. I'm about to

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<v Speaker 1>slay these hosts. Just kidding a lot at the reunion. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I cried a lot, a lot of apologies.

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<v Speaker 2>O question, what was your favorite moment of vander Pump

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<v Speaker 2>this season and your worst moment of vander Pump this season? Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, don't feel like any pressure to say

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<v Speaker 2>me being on the show, but go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>That was definitely a highlight. Having you on the show

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<v Speaker 1>was a highlight because we got to hang out all summer.

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<v Speaker 1>It was awesome, which usually we don't get to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think that, yeah, what else besides me, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get cheesy again. I think the highlight of this

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<v Speaker 1>season was just being so clear and aware and waking

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<v Speaker 1>up and not feeling guilty about anything I had done,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, being sober. Completing a season of reality TV,

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<v Speaker 1>which can be a nightmare. I completed that shit.

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<v Speaker 2>Sober and I give you mad props for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, babe.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree with you and I support that answer. I

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<v Speaker 2>love it. And what was the what was the worst moment?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I don't even know what your worst moment was,

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<v Speaker 2>So what was the worst moment?

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<v Speaker 1>The worst moment was the way I treated Raquel, for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>Like there are a few things that when I watch

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, don't regret it that it was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>can someone please muzzle you? Like you know, but it

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<v Speaker 1>is what it is like again silver Lining. People were entertained.

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<v Speaker 1>They had an opinion whether it was good or bad.

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<v Speaker 1>People had an opinion.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, that's what makes you, in my opinion,

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<v Speaker 2>why your show is so successful is all of you

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<v Speaker 2>have this thing that happens and then everybody just you know,

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<v Speaker 2>has an opinion because you drive people and what you

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<v Speaker 2>guys do.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, when people when people write me crazy DMS, they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe you acted that way, all I send

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<v Speaker 1>back is thank you so much for watching me. I like,

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<v Speaker 1>for real, without you wouldn't be eight seasons in just

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<v Speaker 1>saying yeah, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I think the fact that you I have never

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<v Speaker 2>seen you have such conflict right over the years I've

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<v Speaker 2>been with you, where yeah, that's such conflict and it

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<v Speaker 2>be resolved and such amicable and quick way. Like normally

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<v Speaker 2>back in the old days, hence, you know, pre sober,

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<v Speaker 2>you would just assassinate the world, continue to assassinate, blow

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<v Speaker 2>it up three more times, and then eventually start repairing.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I see you.

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<v Speaker 1>Now what I would do is blow things up. Tornadoes

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<v Speaker 1>come through AK forty sevens, and then I'd look behind

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<v Speaker 1>me and be like, why is everyone so sad and upset?

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<v Speaker 2>But now but now you handle things so gracefully. I

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<v Speaker 2>really give you a lot of props, like something will happen,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you'll you'll get home and you'll be like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I feel bad and I really, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>didn't want to do that, and and blah blah blah,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you and then on your own, like without

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<v Speaker 2>cameras there, I see you sending text saying, look, I

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<v Speaker 2>really don't feel that way, and I'm sorry that I

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<v Speaker 2>said something. It's just very jack cat.

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<v Speaker 1>My cast members are not just my cast members, that's

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<v Speaker 1>my that's my LA family, Like I love them so much,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know that we're all always going to go

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<v Speaker 1>toes with each other because we're all very strong foreronalities.

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<v Speaker 2>When you go toes, what does it mean exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>Step up, bitch? Oh go toes? Toe to toe? Baby.

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<v Speaker 2>So if I'm in a meeting at a studio talking

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<v Speaker 2>about a movie and the guy's pissing me off on

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<v Speaker 2>a deal, can I be like, let's go to toes, bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just asking you can.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Right because you have done that.

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<v Speaker 1>Though, when I say let's go toes, if I know

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<v Speaker 1>that that person really is a fighter, like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to do it. I'm a very fast runner, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's fight the words, you'll back down, you are.

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<v Speaker 1>You kidding me? Do I look like someone who's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>punch anybody?

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<v Speaker 2>So just tell me one thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I am a classy bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, just tell me one thing. Then tell me

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<v Speaker 2>one thing. So in the four years when I've got

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<v Speaker 2>toes with you, I'll give you a never back down.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh the drink. The drink is like like the battery,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the the drink is like a battery, the

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<v Speaker 1>little fucking engine that could. We're getting up the hill.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know it's funny. I talk shit and you're

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<v Speaker 2>you are a fighter. I pushed in the wrong direction,

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<v Speaker 2>but you know what, at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 2>you are way more of a lover than a fighter,

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<v Speaker 2>way more, way more.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, I always say like, I hate confrontation, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm extremely good at it. You professional professional. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>excited for our guest today though, because he I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be honest. I looked at his resume and was like,

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<v Speaker 1>am I up for this challenge? Like he's, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>graduating from Columbia, And I'm like, have you ever heard

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<v Speaker 1>of slick like Sally Community College? Up in this bitch?

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<v Speaker 1>Two years? Oh shit, don't be rude. I attempted.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, if I would have known this when I

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<v Speaker 2>met you, I might have diverted.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I got all the credits I needed to

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<v Speaker 1>transfer to the University of Utah.

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<v Speaker 2>University hardly did you go for one day?

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<v Speaker 1>I went for like a month, and I was like

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<v Speaker 1>going through from one class to the other in the snow,

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<v Speaker 1>and I like literally was like, what am I doing?

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<v Speaker 2>You a work?

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<v Speaker 1>Hate this and literally went home and was like, Mom,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, I'm moving to LA.

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<v Speaker 2>Can't give you a word advice? Tell me from now

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<v Speaker 2>when we lead in about your education, can you just

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<v Speaker 2>start with the University of View talents and pretend the

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<v Speaker 2>community college thing to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>This is who I am. Randall shit, like, are you crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>Why would I ever?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought you went to Harvard?

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<v Speaker 1>Don't I act like it didn't sound like it.

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<v Speaker 2>They So we have Ben Mankowitz, who is the host

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<v Speaker 2>of Turner Classic Movies Channel, the host of screen Time

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<v Speaker 2>segment on CBS Sunday Morning show. His grants. He's his

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<v Speaker 2>grand sorry, his father was a press secretary to Senator

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<v Speaker 2>Bob Kennedy. I mean, this guy is loaded to the girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I'm gonna say something. I don't get impressed. That

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<v Speaker 2>easily takes a lot at my old age, right, this

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<v Speaker 2>guy is impressive. And by the way, this and I

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<v Speaker 2>want to tell you, Lala, what really is putting us

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<v Speaker 2>to the test? This this next guest. This isn't like

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<v Speaker 2>a movie guy that I can just kind of like

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<v Speaker 2>sit back and have a cigar. Or it's not a

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<v Speaker 2>cast memory or is that you could just sit back

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<v Speaker 2>and spill the tea as you say this dude, This

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<v Speaker 2>dude is the real shit.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're not only not only is he like epic

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<v Speaker 1>in his family Randall, you're such a rookie. When Ben

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<v Speaker 1>gets on the line, you better mute your phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay for real. But this is what I want to

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<v Speaker 2>say about this guest. I feel like this like the

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<v Speaker 2>network threw this guest on us to see are we

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<v Speaker 2>ready for the next level? Yeah? Because if we fucked

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<v Speaker 2>this up, we have to go back to what we

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<v Speaker 2>know and we can never get outside our comfort zone.

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<v Speaker 2>But if we crush this and I want, I want

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<v Speaker 2>your fans and my three fans to write in after

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<v Speaker 2>this episode and tell us did we handle ourselves in

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<v Speaker 2>a professional, engaging manner or did we flop? And we

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<v Speaker 2>need to go back to what we.

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<v Speaker 1>All try try to make the criticism constructive. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really respond well to people telling me I suck.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, well, just give us advice, like did we

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<v Speaker 2>handle ourselves? Well, we're did we ask intriguing questions? Was

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<v Speaker 2>or were we boring and dismal? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's ever going to be a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's take a short break, and when we get back,

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<v Speaker 1>we have Ben Mancowitz. I won't lie. Our guest is

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<v Speaker 1>someone I read your resume, Ben, and I am extremely intimidated,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't get intimidated by many things. We have

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<v Speaker 1>Ben Mancowitz on our podcast today.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I'm freaking and you're the man I just want

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<v Speaker 2>to say. He is host of the new TCM podcast

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<v Speaker 2>The Plot Thickens, about the life and career of one

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<v Speaker 2>of my favorite most epic directors, Peter Bugdanovich. This is

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<v Speaker 2>the coolest thing ever. I just want to know, Ben,

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<v Speaker 2>how do you even come up with the idea to

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<v Speaker 2>do that? Because now I want to go do a

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<v Speaker 2>podcast about every epic director I've ever loved. So can

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<v Speaker 2>you just tell us, like how that even started?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, many of them, of course, have lives that are

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<v Speaker 4>worthy of being chronicled. But first of all, Peter and

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<v Speaker 4>I were friends, and I like Peter. The first time

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<v Speaker 4>I met him, as I tell the story in the podcast,

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<v Speaker 4>I think in episode one, I was very nervous when

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<v Speaker 4>I first met Peter. It was in an event I

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<v Speaker 4>think in twenty twelve or thirteen in Toronto where we

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<v Speaker 4>in advance to the TCM Festival. We did some events

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<v Speaker 4>around the country, and so I was in Toronto with Peter.

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<v Speaker 4>We weren to screen the Last Picture Show. And because it's

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<v Speaker 4>Peter Bogdanovitch the same reason that you admire him, I

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<v Speaker 4>was nervous. This guy. He is an encyclopedia of classic movies,

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<v Speaker 4>and I just thought, you know, you know, the way

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<v Speaker 4>all of us are frequently where you sort of think

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<v Speaker 4>that you've perpetrated your any success you've had in life

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<v Speaker 4>is because you've perpetrated some great fraud. And I thought

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<v Speaker 4>he'd see right through me. But he had a cold,

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<v Speaker 4>pretty bad cold, and he was sniffling and drinking hot

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<v Speaker 4>tea at this bar we met in a hotel, and

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<v Speaker 4>you know, it just humanized him instantly, and he made

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<v Speaker 4>some joke and then Sybil Shepherd, who he hasn't been

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<v Speaker 4>linked to romantically since nineteen seventy nine, called him to

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<v Speaker 4>check on Hi because she was worried about him traveling

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<v Speaker 4>with a WOW And I was like, oh, listen, this

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<v Speaker 4>guy's he's still friends with his ex and he's got

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<v Speaker 4>a cold just like me. And that began a friendship.

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<v Speaker 4>And then so there's a long way of answering your question.

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<v Speaker 4>Peter did all these wonderful interviews with classic film directors Hitchcot,

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<v Speaker 4>john Ford, Orson Wells, Howard Hawk's, many others, including dating

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<v Speaker 4>back to the Silent era before he became a director,

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<v Speaker 4>when he was a film writer, a very good one

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<v Speaker 4>wrote for Esquire magazine, Most Freak Wow, and he compiled

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<v Speaker 4>them into a wonderful book called Who the Devil Made It,

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<v Speaker 4>which is a great Howard Hawk's line about how when

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<v Speaker 4>you watch a movie, you should know who the devil

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<v Speaker 4>made it, like there should be some signature about the

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<v Speaker 4>director which you would be able to identify. Peter had

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<v Speaker 4>recordings of these interviews, and I thought we should do

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<v Speaker 4>a podcast. I wanted to do a podcast for years,

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<v Speaker 4>and TCM was interested, but I was pushing, i must say,

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<v Speaker 4>and I thought Peter would be a great topic and

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<v Speaker 4>we would spend each episode talking about one of these

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<v Speaker 4>directors and play clips, and then professional storytellers took over,

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<v Speaker 4>namely our executive producer for this podcast, Angela Corone, and

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<v Speaker 4>they were like, yeah, that's a great idea. Here's what

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<v Speaker 4>we're going to do instead with Peter, And they just

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<v Speaker 4>made this whole thing ten thousand times better because Peter's

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<v Speaker 4>life is a story worth telling, full of success, failure,

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<v Speaker 4>horrible tragedy, hubris with the normal parts of recovery from

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<v Speaker 4>a tragedy, and it turned him into a different person

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<v Speaker 4>and he is an interesting guy, incredibly funny, incredibly smart,

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<v Speaker 4>and I find now incredibly inviting and caring and thoughtful.

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<v Speaker 4>So it worked out great, and Peter was so open

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<v Speaker 4>with us and willing to tell his crazy, crazy Hollywood story.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's absolutely fantastic. I found myself listening last night.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very well done, and it's such a safe platform,

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<v Speaker 1>so people just are feeling comfortable to tell it all.

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<v Speaker 1>And I thought that it was you know, the episodes

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<v Speaker 1>that you have out are very well done. So again

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<v Speaker 1>that is the plot thickens and it's about the life

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<v Speaker 1>and career of Peter Bogdanovich amazing. And I have a

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<v Speaker 1>question because I know that, you know, you come from

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<v Speaker 1>a background of journalism. I mean, your resume as far

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<v Speaker 1>as education is incredible. What you've done, you know in

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<v Speaker 1>your your what is the word I'm looking for your

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<v Speaker 1>career when you, you know, started as the reporter and anchor

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<v Speaker 1>for w c SCTV and Charleston, Like, when did you

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<v Speaker 1>realize that news journalism wasn't really what you wanted to do? Well?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, first of.

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<v Speaker 4>All, I grew up a Jewish kid in Washington, DC,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, in sort of a middle class to upper

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<v Speaker 4>middle class upbringing. And you're like, well, I guess I

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<v Speaker 4>go to law school. That's what we do, doctor, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>a jew from Miami. Well that was or lawyer? Yeah, doctor,

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<v Speaker 4>there was no chance of that.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought, you know, you can sort of you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I have these images of me in front of a jury,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm like, well, I can try to be charming

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<v Speaker 4>in front of a jury, but you can't, like be

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<v Speaker 4>charming in front of a ruptured spleen. Like I'd actually

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<v Speaker 4>have to know what I was talking about. So but

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't really into that, And and my you know

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<v Speaker 4>father was in politics and the media, and and you

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<v Speaker 4>know he'd sort of been a pre bitnot sort of.

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<v Speaker 4>He was press secretary to Robert Kennedy.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, Ben, Ben, Ben, real quick, Yeah, I heard that.

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<v Speaker 1>He just dropped you.

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<v Speaker 2>But Ben, let me tell you something, the fact that

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<v Speaker 2>your father was a press secretary to the center of Robert Kennedy.

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<v Speaker 2>Just explain what that was like for a minute, please,

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<v Speaker 2>because that's that's epic. Epic. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, first of you know, my dad he died six

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<v Speaker 4>five and a half years ago and he was ninety

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<v Speaker 4>and he led this. He wrote a book called so

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<v Speaker 4>As I was saying because everything every story my dad

0:23:03.040 --> 0:23:05.080
<v Speaker 4>told is like in the middle of a story, like

0:23:05.119 --> 0:23:07.560
<v Speaker 4>he would starting expect you to He's like, you got

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<v Speaker 4>to have to catch up, like I.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I met.

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<v Speaker 4>But that helped me tell the Peter story. That helps

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<v Speaker 4>me in interviews, right, I mean I and it helped

0:23:17.160 --> 0:23:20.040
<v Speaker 4>sort of. It helped me even though I'm talking a

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<v Speaker 4>lot now. It helped me be a really good listener,

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<v Speaker 4>which is definitely a strength that I have when I

0:23:25.920 --> 0:23:29.080
<v Speaker 4>do these interviews. But the so he was in the

0:23:29.200 --> 0:23:31.000
<v Speaker 4>he was my dad was the Latin American director of the

0:23:31.040 --> 0:23:33.280
<v Speaker 4>Peace Corps first Latin American Director of the Peace Corps.

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<v Speaker 4>And he met Senator Kennedy first in a phone call

0:23:37.000 --> 0:23:39.240
<v Speaker 4>when the Senator was going to come down to Peru

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<v Speaker 4>and sort of figure out what was wrong with American

0:23:42.680 --> 0:23:46.600
<v Speaker 4>foreign policy in Latin American, and he got this itinerary

0:23:47.080 --> 0:23:50.720
<v Speaker 4>to like, you know, go to the American language school

0:23:50.960 --> 0:23:53.359
<v Speaker 4>and go to a party at the you know, at

0:23:53.359 --> 0:23:57.760
<v Speaker 4>the ambassador's house, and tour the embassy. And my dad

0:23:57.800 --> 0:23:59.359
<v Speaker 4>spoke up and he was like, yeah, look, man, you

0:23:59.359 --> 0:24:02.439
<v Speaker 4>could do that from Washington, Like that doesn't matter. You

0:24:02.480 --> 0:24:07.240
<v Speaker 4>want to meet striking you know, vegetable pickers, right, and

0:24:07.320 --> 0:24:09.800
<v Speaker 4>you want to go through the barrios of people living

0:24:09.800 --> 0:24:12.720
<v Speaker 4>in incredible poverty in Lima. And my dad was like,

0:24:12.840 --> 0:24:15.320
<v Speaker 4>who's this guy? And said, can I meet you? I'm

0:24:15.320 --> 0:24:17.520
<v Speaker 4>flying into Panama, come meet me. Who's gonna land in

0:24:17.560 --> 0:24:19.639
<v Speaker 4>Panama to refuel like two thirty in the morning.

0:24:19.920 --> 0:24:20.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 4>So my dad went to Panama to meet him and

0:24:21.880 --> 0:24:25.000
<v Speaker 4>they met for like three hours, and Hannity was like, look,

0:24:25.040 --> 0:24:27.600
<v Speaker 4>whenever you're done here, come work for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, if you knew my dad, you would

0:24:31.920 --> 0:24:33.879
<v Speaker 4>know that story is that makes total sense. He was

0:24:33.920 --> 0:24:37.520
<v Speaker 4>just my dad was always the smartest person in the room,

0:24:37.680 --> 0:24:40.840
<v Speaker 4>and I wow, other people thought that too, So he

0:24:40.920 --> 0:24:42.560
<v Speaker 4>hired him. He was the press secretary in the Senate

0:24:42.600 --> 0:24:44.960
<v Speaker 4>and then he ran for president and then famously you

0:24:44.960 --> 0:24:48.639
<v Speaker 4>can see my father announcing the senator's death after he

0:24:48.680 --> 0:24:49.720
<v Speaker 4>was when he was murdered.

0:24:49.800 --> 0:24:51.879
<v Speaker 2>So I have a question, So growing up with a

0:24:51.920 --> 0:24:54.080
<v Speaker 2>father who was the press secretary, I mean, did you

0:24:54.119 --> 0:24:56.080
<v Speaker 2>grow up going to the White House like it was

0:24:56.119 --> 0:24:56.960
<v Speaker 2>like a regular thing.

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<v Speaker 4>No, of course, all know the uh no, because as

0:25:01.840 --> 0:25:03.960
<v Speaker 4>soon as I was of age, Richard Nixon.

0:25:03.720 --> 0:25:04.400
<v Speaker 2>Was in the White House.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, my dad very famously was on the White House

0:25:08.520 --> 0:25:11.480
<v Speaker 4>enemies List, something he was very proud of till this wow,

0:25:11.720 --> 0:25:13.840
<v Speaker 4>till the day he died. He wrote two really good

0:25:13.840 --> 0:25:17.159
<v Speaker 4>books on Nixon. His first book was the bestseller, was

0:25:17.200 --> 0:25:20.719
<v Speaker 4>called Perfectly Clear. And then after Gerald Ford pardoned Nixon,

0:25:20.920 --> 0:25:23.200
<v Speaker 4>my father wrote a book about what the prosecution of

0:25:23.320 --> 0:25:24.720
<v Speaker 4>Nixon would have looked like.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, my god was blown. So then, with you know

0:25:29.400 --> 0:25:32.400
<v Speaker 1>your dad and what he was doing in his accomplishments,

0:25:32.440 --> 0:25:36.240
<v Speaker 1>did you ever feel pressure to be on that same path?

0:25:36.320 --> 0:25:39.120
<v Speaker 1>Did he kind of pushed that onto you in any way.

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<v Speaker 4>So my dad was as good a dad as you

0:25:41.080 --> 0:25:44.439
<v Speaker 4>can get. So he never he never pushed anything onto me.

0:25:44.480 --> 0:25:46.320
<v Speaker 4>He was great, he was supportive. I was a huge

0:25:46.320 --> 0:25:48.920
<v Speaker 4>sports fan. He was as he was. He was very

0:25:49.280 --> 0:25:51.480
<v Speaker 4>you know, I wanted to go into sports, you know,

0:25:51.520 --> 0:25:53.159
<v Speaker 4>when it became clear I couldn't play, I wanted to

0:25:53.200 --> 0:25:54.879
<v Speaker 4>be as you know, like a baseball broadcaster.

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<v Speaker 2>That was sort of but.

0:25:56.400 --> 0:25:58.800
<v Speaker 4>I was shy, and so it was hard for me

0:25:58.880 --> 0:26:00.920
<v Speaker 4>to sort of do that. I'd go to ball games

0:26:00.920 --> 0:26:02.800
<v Speaker 4>and sit up in the you know, behind home plate,

0:26:02.840 --> 0:26:04.520
<v Speaker 4>way up in the top deck, and I you know,

0:26:04.600 --> 0:26:05.840
<v Speaker 4>broadcast games into a.

0:26:05.800 --> 0:26:07.679
<v Speaker 1>Tape recorder, and oh I love this.

0:26:08.000 --> 0:26:10.080
<v Speaker 4>So and then my dad was president of National Public

0:26:10.200 --> 0:26:13.120
<v Speaker 4>Radio two for six years. So journalism was just sort

0:26:13.119 --> 0:26:15.280
<v Speaker 4>of in my blood. My brother is twelve years older

0:26:15.280 --> 0:26:18.639
<v Speaker 4>than I am. He's a correspondent for Dateline NBC. And

0:26:18.880 --> 0:26:20.879
<v Speaker 4>so my brother sort of taught me how to be

0:26:20.960 --> 0:26:23.920
<v Speaker 4>on TV and you know, how to do all these things.

0:26:23.920 --> 0:26:25.240
<v Speaker 4>I mean, you know, he taught me how to be

0:26:25.280 --> 0:26:27.440
<v Speaker 4>a reporter, which I was first. And so eventually when

0:26:27.440 --> 0:26:29.600
<v Speaker 4>I sort of got and became less shy, I just

0:26:29.640 --> 0:26:31.800
<v Speaker 4>sort of thought, well I try and I'll try and

0:26:31.840 --> 0:26:34.919
<v Speaker 4>do what my brother does. But politics was always super

0:26:35.040 --> 0:26:37.359
<v Speaker 4>important to me also because I grew up with I

0:26:37.480 --> 0:26:39.040
<v Speaker 4>grew up in DC, and I grew up where in

0:26:39.080 --> 0:26:44.040
<v Speaker 4>a family where were very prominent, and they just they mattered.

0:26:44.040 --> 0:26:46.679
<v Speaker 4>They weren't like, they weren't a game. They were about

0:26:46.840 --> 0:26:50.080
<v Speaker 4>the future of country, of the country and making people's

0:26:50.119 --> 0:26:53.399
<v Speaker 4>lives better. Like That's how it always seemed to me.

0:26:53.560 --> 0:26:56.439
<v Speaker 4>So I never had this cynical view of politicians. I

0:26:56.440 --> 0:26:59.840
<v Speaker 4>thought the people who many of the people who served most.

0:26:59.880 --> 0:27:01.320
<v Speaker 4>And I think it's still true. Most of the people

0:27:01.320 --> 0:27:02.560
<v Speaker 4>who serve they get.

0:27:02.359 --> 0:27:04.840
<v Speaker 2>Into it because they they want to change the world.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because my dad ran George McGovern's campaign in nineteen

0:27:07.400 --> 0:27:10.200
<v Speaker 4>seventy two, and so you know, Robert Kennedy and George

0:27:10.240 --> 0:27:12.320
<v Speaker 4>mc govern with these sort of like these were guys

0:27:12.320 --> 0:27:14.680
<v Speaker 4>who were in it for the right reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Wow, it's really amazing to hear all of

0:27:17.480 --> 0:27:20.280
<v Speaker 1>these things. And then you know, you say, Ben, like, no,

0:27:20.359 --> 0:27:22.119
<v Speaker 1>there was no pressure, way could do it. You know,

0:27:22.240 --> 0:27:25.720
<v Speaker 1>like it's pretty insane. You would think coming from that background,

0:27:25.840 --> 0:27:29.160
<v Speaker 1>that there would be tremendous pressure on you to kind

0:27:29.160 --> 0:27:32.680
<v Speaker 1>of stay on the same path. I think that's really beautiful.

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<v Speaker 4>Well okay, so now you think it won't be beautiful my.

0:27:35.400 --> 0:27:37.560
<v Speaker 1>Dad, Okay, just spill the tea. Spill the tea.

0:27:37.720 --> 0:27:40.800
<v Speaker 4>My dad put note pressure on. But you know, he's

0:27:40.840 --> 0:27:44.000
<v Speaker 4>the person I admired most. And you know, boys who

0:27:44.320 --> 0:27:46.720
<v Speaker 4>love their dads and admire their dads want to impress

0:27:46.880 --> 0:27:48.840
<v Speaker 4>like him. I want to impress him. And the way

0:27:48.880 --> 0:27:50.600
<v Speaker 4>to impress him was to try and be as smart

0:27:50.640 --> 0:27:54.639
<v Speaker 4>as he is. And so eventually you just give up, like, okay,

0:27:54.840 --> 0:27:57.760
<v Speaker 4>he loves me anyway, that's good, but I can't fight

0:27:57.840 --> 0:28:01.240
<v Speaker 4>this back. I can't do it. So there was enormous pressure.

0:28:01.280 --> 0:28:03.639
<v Speaker 4>You know, my grandfather and my great uncle they you know,

0:28:03.720 --> 0:28:06.520
<v Speaker 4>won Oscars for you know, my grandfather wrote Citizen Kane and.

0:28:06.800 --> 0:28:08.679
<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's away fen so Ben, you know what, But

0:28:08.800 --> 0:28:11.159
<v Speaker 2>you know, I'm a movie nerd. Obviously I've produced a

0:28:11.200 --> 0:28:14.320
<v Speaker 2>lot of films. So I read I read this, Just

0:28:14.320 --> 0:28:17.720
<v Speaker 2>just take a beat on that he co wrote Citizen Kane.

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:21.359
<v Speaker 2>Come on, I mean that's I mean for me, that

0:28:21.400 --> 0:28:25.520
<v Speaker 2>would thrust me into like movie anxiety at the highest level.

0:28:26.160 --> 0:28:29.439
<v Speaker 2>Did you like, what was the takeaway you got being around,

0:28:29.520 --> 0:28:33.560
<v Speaker 2>you know, this family that has epic oscars and you know,

0:28:33.680 --> 0:28:37.080
<v Speaker 2>writer Citizen Kane, the greatest movie of all time period.

0:28:37.520 --> 0:28:42.440
<v Speaker 2>Did you get anything out of, you know that, that relationship? Yeah,

0:28:42.480 --> 0:28:42.840
<v Speaker 2>of course.

0:28:42.880 --> 0:28:45.840
<v Speaker 4>I mean, you know, it's weird because my dad was this,

0:28:46.360 --> 0:28:49.080
<v Speaker 4>you know, mythic figure to me. But again it was

0:28:49.160 --> 0:28:53.600
<v Speaker 4>totally normal, dude. I mean, you know, but my so,

0:28:53.680 --> 0:28:56.640
<v Speaker 4>my grandfather, who Sherman Manglho by the way, wrote Citizen Kane,

0:28:56.640 --> 0:28:58.520
<v Speaker 4>didn't co write it. I know that it says he

0:28:58.560 --> 0:29:01.239
<v Speaker 4>co wrote it, but he okay, I the uh so

0:29:01.680 --> 0:29:04.360
<v Speaker 4>the uh that was a you know, source of great controversy,

0:29:04.360 --> 0:29:07.640
<v Speaker 4>the writing credit for that. Whether it's my grandfather's Orson Wellson,

0:29:07.720 --> 0:29:09.120
<v Speaker 4>oh my, but it's.

0:29:08.960 --> 0:29:10.680
<v Speaker 1>A fun story about that.

0:29:10.800 --> 0:29:11.760
<v Speaker 2>We deal with that every hour.

0:29:11.800 --> 0:29:14.320
<v Speaker 4>And by the way, Peter's on the other side, Bogdanovitch,

0:29:14.360 --> 0:29:16.400
<v Speaker 4>So that's a fun conversation for me and Peter to

0:29:16.440 --> 0:29:19.120
<v Speaker 4>have a good natured conversation. And by the way, just

0:29:19.120 --> 0:29:21.440
<v Speaker 4>real quick, doesn't matter. It's Orson Wells's movie, and nobody

0:29:21.440 --> 0:29:24.040
<v Speaker 4>should mistake that one hundred percent his movie. He just

0:29:24.040 --> 0:29:27.560
<v Speaker 4>didn't write, right, this is great, you know, but like

0:29:27.640 --> 0:29:29.240
<v Speaker 4>you know, it's like saying that, you know, I mean

0:29:29.280 --> 0:29:31.440
<v Speaker 4>Martin Scorsese. He didn't write screenplay for The Irishman, but

0:29:31.440 --> 0:29:33.800
<v Speaker 4>that's a Martin Scorsese movie, and nobody should doubt that

0:29:33.840 --> 0:29:36.800
<v Speaker 4>for a second. So the Hollywood part of the family

0:29:36.840 --> 0:29:40.600
<v Speaker 4>I knew about, of course, but it didn't mean anything

0:29:40.880 --> 0:29:44.440
<v Speaker 4>to me. The politics part mattered. I came out to

0:29:44.760 --> 0:29:47.400
<v Speaker 4>La I think when I was twenty one, like before

0:29:47.440 --> 0:29:49.760
<v Speaker 4>my senior year of college, and a cousin of mine

0:29:49.800 --> 0:29:51.400
<v Speaker 4>who's also a Mankowitz, but he doesn't have the same

0:29:51.480 --> 0:29:53.840
<v Speaker 4>last name. I went to a party with him and

0:29:54.160 --> 0:29:56.600
<v Speaker 4>I got introduced to the coast of the party because

0:29:56.600 --> 0:29:58.160
<v Speaker 4>he was like, I brought my cousin, he's out here,

0:29:58.440 --> 0:30:00.640
<v Speaker 4>you know, Ben Mankowitz, and the guy I put his

0:30:00.760 --> 0:30:05.280
<v Speaker 4>heels together and bowed and said Hollywood Royalty. And I

0:30:05.480 --> 0:30:08.920
<v Speaker 4>literally I just remember thinking, is like, you know, Larry

0:30:08.960 --> 0:30:10.520
<v Speaker 4>Spielberg behind me, like what.

0:30:10.520 --> 0:30:11.760
<v Speaker 2>About you know?

0:30:12.440 --> 0:30:14.240
<v Speaker 4>So it just was then I was like, oh, like,

0:30:14.280 --> 0:30:15.920
<v Speaker 4>I mean, of course I knew it. We have you know,

0:30:16.000 --> 0:30:18.000
<v Speaker 4>Joe Maco, who's one of the great writer directors of

0:30:18.040 --> 0:30:20.880
<v Speaker 4>all time, and Herman's brother, my great uncle, and and

0:30:21.320 --> 0:30:24.200
<v Speaker 4>other cousins who you know, my cousin Tom Mancowitz, you

0:30:24.200 --> 0:30:30.800
<v Speaker 4>know wrote three Bond movies, Superman one and two. But

0:30:30.920 --> 0:30:33.720
<v Speaker 4>I didn't know that it like to the people who

0:30:33.760 --> 0:30:37.880
<v Speaker 4>love movies, right, that it mattered to them like that,

0:30:38.680 --> 0:30:41.040
<v Speaker 4>and so and that was nice, of course, you know.

0:30:41.120 --> 0:30:43.520
<v Speaker 4>But so yeah, there's pressure to make sure you're not

0:30:43.640 --> 0:30:46.560
<v Speaker 4>the You're not the one in the family who.

0:30:47.080 --> 0:30:49.680
<v Speaker 2>Faltered fault right, who screws it up.

0:30:49.720 --> 0:30:51.760
<v Speaker 4>You're the You're the one who didn't. He didn't get

0:30:51.760 --> 0:30:52.840
<v Speaker 4>that gene, you know.

0:30:52.960 --> 0:30:56.840
<v Speaker 2>I I think I think hosting uh the uh Turner

0:30:56.920 --> 0:30:59.280
<v Speaker 2>Classic Movies Channel and doing all the different things that

0:30:59.320 --> 0:31:03.800
<v Speaker 2>you do far exceeded all of those, you know, expectations

0:31:03.800 --> 0:31:05.880
<v Speaker 2>on you. We're gonna cut to a quick break then,

0:31:05.920 --> 0:31:08.800
<v Speaker 2>and we're gonna come right back to talk to you about.

0:31:13.680 --> 0:31:19.600
<v Speaker 1>We are back my Loves with Ben Mankowitz. You're super legendary.

0:31:19.840 --> 0:31:23.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm just listening to you. My mind is blown. And

0:31:23.640 --> 0:31:27.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm actually really curious because Randall just said earlier, you know,

0:31:27.520 --> 0:31:30.000
<v Speaker 1>like he's over here making movies and then he sees

0:31:30.240 --> 0:31:33.160
<v Speaker 1>you know that you come from a line of family

0:31:33.200 --> 0:31:36.640
<v Speaker 1>that's I don't know, just writing citizens Kane, Do you

0:31:36.880 --> 0:31:40.720
<v Speaker 1>have any interest in ever directing or producing films?

0:31:41.320 --> 0:31:43.320
<v Speaker 4>I have some you know, I'm not a director, and

0:31:43.960 --> 0:31:47.720
<v Speaker 4>I'm really appreciative of the I love artists, man, and

0:31:47.920 --> 0:31:50.400
<v Speaker 4>I you know, admire what they do. I'm not I

0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:52.160
<v Speaker 4>would never be a director. First of I don't. I

0:31:52.160 --> 0:31:55.120
<v Speaker 4>don't really think visually, guys. Wife, you could literally hang

0:31:55.160 --> 0:31:58.000
<v Speaker 4>a new painting or poster in front of me in

0:31:58.080 --> 0:32:00.960
<v Speaker 4>my home office and nine months later I'll be like,

0:32:01.120 --> 0:32:04.080
<v Speaker 4>when'd you put that up? It's ten feet from your face,

0:32:04.360 --> 0:32:07.719
<v Speaker 4>and I put it up in twenty eighteen. But I'm

0:32:08.000 --> 0:32:10.280
<v Speaker 4>not a bad writer, and you know, a storyteller, So

0:32:10.400 --> 0:32:12.120
<v Speaker 4>I mean, if I ever got the courage, it would

0:32:12.120 --> 0:32:14.920
<v Speaker 4>probably be to right. And you know, producing, I love

0:32:15.000 --> 0:32:19.240
<v Speaker 4>that producing can mean ten billion things. I have come

0:32:19.240 --> 0:32:22.640
<v Speaker 4>to meet some producers who are so hands on. I mean,

0:32:22.680 --> 0:32:24.720
<v Speaker 4>I you know Irwin Winkler, of course, who you know

0:32:24.760 --> 0:32:27.800
<v Speaker 4>worked on the on the Irishman, and but who had

0:32:27.800 --> 0:32:31.960
<v Speaker 4>produced you know, some of the Seminals Corsese movies earlier, earlier.

0:32:32.320 --> 0:32:35.800
<v Speaker 2>I've known Irwin forever. I produced. I produced the movie

0:32:35.800 --> 0:32:37.440
<v Speaker 2>that Irwin directed. That's how he met.

0:32:37.640 --> 0:32:40.320
<v Speaker 1>What movie was that Home of the.

0:32:40.240 --> 0:32:42.800
<v Speaker 2>Brave, Home of the Brave? Well, yeah, sure, a while back,

0:32:42.840 --> 0:32:45.640
<v Speaker 2>but that was how I met Irwin yeah, and Irwin

0:32:45.800 --> 0:32:49.240
<v Speaker 2>is uh so like and Irwin. You know, Irwin's not

0:32:49.600 --> 0:32:51.920
<v Speaker 2>the kind of producer who you know, just puts up

0:32:51.960 --> 0:32:54.600
<v Speaker 2>money and then you know, has his name on the credits.

0:32:54.600 --> 0:32:55.280
<v Speaker 2>At least he wasn't.

0:32:55.360 --> 0:32:57.720
<v Speaker 4>Then you know producers who who.

0:32:57.680 --> 0:33:00.160
<v Speaker 2>Now he's his hands on?

0:33:00.280 --> 0:33:02.520
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and and sort of and you protect the director

0:33:02.560 --> 0:33:05.360
<v Speaker 4>from the studio that's who have the money, right, That's

0:33:05.400 --> 0:33:08.600
<v Speaker 4>a big part of it. And I admire that part too,

0:33:08.640 --> 0:33:11.080
<v Speaker 4>and that that has always struck me as something that

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<v Speaker 4>but I don't do it. I mean, the fact is

0:33:12.640 --> 0:33:14.960
<v Speaker 4>I don't so I you know, I think we have

0:33:15.040 --> 0:33:15.560
<v Speaker 4>our answer.

0:33:15.720 --> 0:33:19.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't do it. I have a question. So so

0:33:20.000 --> 0:33:22.760
<v Speaker 2>now we know how you know, TV has become epic

0:33:22.840 --> 0:33:25.760
<v Speaker 2>and huge and really gone to another level today. I'm

0:33:25.800 --> 0:33:29.200
<v Speaker 2>just curious on your take with film versus TV today.

0:33:29.280 --> 0:33:31.239
<v Speaker 2>You know, how do you feel and what are your

0:33:31.280 --> 0:33:34.000
<v Speaker 2>favorite TV shows, if any that you watch?

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<v Speaker 4>I know I watch a lot of television. I mean,

0:33:37.760 --> 0:33:40.520
<v Speaker 4>I've been so busy the last few years that I've

0:33:40.560 --> 0:33:43.440
<v Speaker 4>watched less. But I still manage with a you know,

0:33:43.520 --> 0:33:47.280
<v Speaker 4>young daughter and fairly busy schedule, which I'm grateful for

0:33:47.440 --> 0:33:49.800
<v Speaker 4>to to get a fair amount of shows in. I

0:33:50.640 --> 0:33:53.200
<v Speaker 4>love that we're at this sort of you know this,

0:33:53.440 --> 0:33:56.920
<v Speaker 4>what is it be third Golden age for for television.

0:33:57.240 --> 0:34:00.800
<v Speaker 4>I don't see television and movies competing. I just think

0:34:00.840 --> 0:34:06.000
<v Speaker 4>they're all this visual storytelling. And I hope we never

0:34:06.080 --> 0:34:08.920
<v Speaker 4>lose the theater experience. I don't think we will. I

0:34:08.920 --> 0:34:11.280
<v Speaker 4>think it'll come back. You know, it's going to change

0:34:11.280 --> 0:34:13.759
<v Speaker 4>and maybe there won't be as many, but you'll still

0:34:13.800 --> 0:34:15.319
<v Speaker 4>be able to go to a theater. It's still a

0:34:15.440 --> 0:34:18.319
<v Speaker 4>night out. It's still a social connection, and I think

0:34:18.400 --> 0:34:22.759
<v Speaker 4>we all realize now how valuable that is, how much

0:34:22.800 --> 0:34:25.680
<v Speaker 4>we miss it. So I think as soon as it's safe,

0:34:25.760 --> 0:34:27.719
<v Speaker 4>it will come back. I don't think people will be like,

0:34:27.760 --> 0:34:30.799
<v Speaker 4>oh great, I never have to leave my I think

0:34:30.800 --> 0:34:34.040
<v Speaker 4>it'll be the opposite. But that's okay. It's also okay

0:34:34.080 --> 0:34:37.440
<v Speaker 4>to have movies show up on streaming services. There's no

0:34:38.400 --> 0:34:41.040
<v Speaker 4>it's all good. But you know, I mean, I have saved.

0:34:41.120 --> 0:34:43.120
<v Speaker 4>I have not watched this season A Better Call Saul.

0:34:43.200 --> 0:34:45.800
<v Speaker 4>I wanted to watch it all at once. It became

0:34:45.880 --> 0:34:48.440
<v Speaker 4>easier during this to do that because nobody was spoiling

0:34:48.480 --> 0:34:50.080
<v Speaker 4>it for me. I love Better Call Saw, I love

0:34:50.120 --> 0:34:52.680
<v Speaker 4>the Americans. I love succession of.

0:34:54.000 --> 0:34:55.560
<v Speaker 2>Our favorite show, our.

0:34:55.239 --> 0:34:58.200
<v Speaker 4>Favorite successions, maybe a top ten. That's season two of

0:34:58.239 --> 0:34:59.600
<v Speaker 4>Succession one of the best seasons.

0:34:59.600 --> 0:35:01.840
<v Speaker 2>To tell it was unbelievable, unbelieved.

0:35:01.840 --> 0:35:04.880
<v Speaker 4>I watched Homeland, you know, I mean it sort of

0:35:04.920 --> 0:35:07.360
<v Speaker 4>run its course, but I watched it all. I watched

0:35:07.440 --> 0:35:08.720
<v Speaker 4>you know, Ray Donovan.

0:35:08.560 --> 0:35:11.680
<v Speaker 2>And Billions are are two of my favorite I love.

0:35:12.040 --> 0:35:16.399
<v Speaker 4>Well a dollar Bill on bill the great an actor

0:35:16.480 --> 0:35:20.439
<v Speaker 4>named Kelly o'coyney's one of my best friends. Oh really, guy, yeah,

0:35:20.480 --> 0:35:22.600
<v Speaker 4>and would be a great guest for you guys.

0:35:22.760 --> 0:35:25.000
<v Speaker 2>He would love wait wait, not only hold on, not

0:35:25.040 --> 0:35:28.520
<v Speaker 2>only will I kiss his ass on the show, but

0:35:28.760 --> 0:35:31.080
<v Speaker 2>tell him that I am a fan, and if he

0:35:31.120 --> 0:35:33.520
<v Speaker 2>wants to reach out to me through you, I would

0:35:33.600 --> 0:35:35.320
<v Speaker 2>love when he's off the show to put him in

0:35:35.400 --> 0:35:38.600
<v Speaker 2>one of my films. He is. What a great actor,

0:35:38.880 --> 0:35:40.080
<v Speaker 2>What a great actor.

0:35:40.640 --> 0:35:42.680
<v Speaker 4>I don't know if you guys watched The Americans, which is,

0:35:42.719 --> 0:35:44.439
<v Speaker 4>by the way, the show totally worth seeing.

0:35:44.440 --> 0:35:44.799
<v Speaker 2>It's great.

0:35:44.800 --> 0:35:47.319
<v Speaker 4>It's not rand on FX, it's done, it's phenomenal. It's

0:35:47.320 --> 0:35:50.120
<v Speaker 4>as good as TV can be. And but Kelly played

0:35:50.160 --> 0:35:53.359
<v Speaker 4>a character there that is so dramatically different than Dollar Bill,

0:35:53.440 --> 0:35:57.239
<v Speaker 4>so it buttresses your point. Kelly is a really skilled actor.

0:35:57.280 --> 0:35:58.719
<v Speaker 4>I went to high school with him, were on a

0:35:58.719 --> 0:36:02.040
<v Speaker 4>basketball team. He's one of my closest friends.

0:36:02.080 --> 0:36:05.759
<v Speaker 1>Yes, thout my the Americans. That's on the list.

0:36:05.920 --> 0:36:07.480
<v Speaker 2>We're going to watch Americans and we have to get

0:36:07.520 --> 0:36:07.719
<v Speaker 2>him in.

0:36:07.880 --> 0:36:12.719
<v Speaker 1>And since we're talking about guests that we should have on,

0:36:13.280 --> 0:36:16.080
<v Speaker 1>I want to know, Ben, who have been some of

0:36:16.120 --> 0:36:18.919
<v Speaker 1>the favorites of yours that you've interviewed this year?

0:36:19.160 --> 0:36:21.200
<v Speaker 4>Well this year, I mean obviously Peter. You know that

0:36:21.280 --> 0:36:24.920
<v Speaker 4>was fifteen hours of interviews Peter Bogdanovich. Wow, And you know,

0:36:25.000 --> 0:36:27.080
<v Speaker 4>interviewing for a podcast where you're trying to get somebody

0:36:27.080 --> 0:36:28.920
<v Speaker 4>to sort of tell their life story to take you

0:36:29.000 --> 0:36:31.319
<v Speaker 4>through the highest point. You know, he was at the

0:36:31.320 --> 0:36:34.839
<v Speaker 4>top of the world nineteen seven. He was Scorsese and

0:36:34.920 --> 0:36:37.960
<v Speaker 4>Coppola and Friedkin and Mike Nichols. In the early seventies

0:36:38.440 --> 0:36:40.120
<v Speaker 4>he was as big as any of them. And then

0:36:40.320 --> 0:36:43.120
<v Speaker 4>he had some flops and people didn't like Peter. He

0:36:43.239 --> 0:36:46.320
<v Speaker 4>was perceived as arrogant in part because he was arrogant,

0:36:46.400 --> 0:36:50.200
<v Speaker 4>but that's sort of his his his but his arrogance

0:36:50.280 --> 0:36:52.960
<v Speaker 4>is like it's the right kind of arrogance in that.

0:36:53.120 --> 0:36:55.640
<v Speaker 2>It's his genius. It's probably his genius, right.

0:36:55.680 --> 0:36:57.360
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And he's not putting it on. It's sort of

0:36:57.400 --> 0:37:00.160
<v Speaker 4>just the way he talks. He doesn't look down on people. Well,

0:37:00.200 --> 0:37:03.920
<v Speaker 4>he just he's very smart about the things he knows

0:37:03.960 --> 0:37:06.719
<v Speaker 4>and he wants to talk about them. And anyway, he

0:37:06.880 --> 0:37:09.680
<v Speaker 4>was he and Sybil were so perfect together and on

0:37:09.719 --> 0:37:12.880
<v Speaker 4>the cover of Magazinis and so so his fall was

0:37:13.200 --> 0:37:16.960
<v Speaker 4>his fall. Hollywood sort of took lee in his fall.

0:37:17.160 --> 0:37:21.040
<v Speaker 4>Billy Wilder, the great director, great writer, director, said I'm

0:37:21.440 --> 0:37:25.120
<v Speaker 4>gonna paraphrase it here, but he basically said that, you know,

0:37:25.160 --> 0:37:28.960
<v Speaker 4>everyone says that that Hollywood is a splintered town, that

0:37:29.000 --> 0:37:32.440
<v Speaker 4>we're all, you know, in this for ourselves and we

0:37:32.520 --> 0:37:35.880
<v Speaker 4>never look after each other. He goes, that's nonsense. We

0:37:36.000 --> 0:37:39.080
<v Speaker 4>all come together to celebrate a Peter Bogdanovich flop.

0:37:39.520 --> 0:37:40.800
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

0:37:41.560 --> 0:37:44.680
<v Speaker 4>So that's sort of what Peter was up against. And then,

0:37:44.760 --> 0:37:46.320
<v Speaker 4>you know, and then is the woman he loved, the

0:37:46.360 --> 0:37:49.239
<v Speaker 4>woman who's going to marry, was murdered and he went

0:37:49.280 --> 0:37:52.760
<v Speaker 4>into a five year depression, tail spend, lost all his money.

0:37:53.000 --> 0:37:55.920
<v Speaker 4>So that's a challenging interview and a great interview. But

0:37:56.200 --> 0:37:57.840
<v Speaker 4>TCM is fort you got.

0:37:57.840 --> 0:37:59.520
<v Speaker 2>No, I just want to say I agree with you.

0:37:59.600 --> 0:38:01.440
<v Speaker 2>By the I was just thinking about Hollywood. It's like

0:38:01.800 --> 0:38:04.040
<v Speaker 2>they lift you up, they build you up, they build

0:38:04.040 --> 0:38:06.160
<v Speaker 2>you up, they build you up here the underdog. Once

0:38:06.200 --> 0:38:08.600
<v Speaker 2>you get there, then they want to see you fall.

0:38:09.080 --> 0:38:13.600
<v Speaker 2>And it's just this weird, weird, bad thing. And yeah,

0:38:13.840 --> 0:38:16.160
<v Speaker 2>I hope that through this pandemic that we're in, and

0:38:16.600 --> 0:38:19.120
<v Speaker 2>I feel like people really come together and I feel

0:38:19.160 --> 0:38:21.680
<v Speaker 2>like the world is changing for the best. I mean,

0:38:21.840 --> 0:38:23.799
<v Speaker 2>I'm an optimist, you know, Ben, So I don't know

0:38:24.120 --> 0:38:27.120
<v Speaker 2>if I'm delusional, but I do feel that people are

0:38:27.120 --> 0:38:29.080
<v Speaker 2>really leaning on each other right now, more than I've

0:38:29.080 --> 0:38:33.320
<v Speaker 2>ever seen, you know, versus like a hurricane or a tornado.

0:38:33.480 --> 0:38:35.839
<v Speaker 2>You know, maybe they'll come together and then once it's

0:38:36.080 --> 0:38:39.120
<v Speaker 2>kind of gets better, everybody goes back to their regular lives.

0:38:39.360 --> 0:38:42.239
<v Speaker 2>This is effect that the entire universe all at the

0:38:42.280 --> 0:38:45.560
<v Speaker 2>same time, and we've never experienced this. So I'm hoping.

0:38:45.760 --> 0:38:48.200
<v Speaker 1>Well, the silver lining is, you know, we have to

0:38:48.200 --> 0:38:49.560
<v Speaker 1>figure out how we can do better.

0:38:49.800 --> 0:38:52.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I agree, Yeah, I hope.

0:38:52.000 --> 0:38:55.680
<v Speaker 4>So I'm not as I'm pretty optimistic. We know, we

0:38:55.680 --> 0:38:57.359
<v Speaker 4>started talking about my father, and my father's the most

0:38:57.400 --> 0:38:59.319
<v Speaker 4>optimistic person in the world. So in a sense, I'm

0:38:59.320 --> 0:39:03.320
<v Speaker 4>glad he's not living through the last few years politically

0:39:03.320 --> 0:39:06.600
<v Speaker 4>because it would really have distressed him. But I hope

0:39:06.600 --> 0:39:08.920
<v Speaker 4>we come back together. I certainly do. Hollywood, though, is

0:39:08.960 --> 0:39:11.120
<v Speaker 4>a there's a and I love Hollywood and I love

0:39:11.160 --> 0:39:14.279
<v Speaker 4>the people and yeah, I just meet Yeah, I like,

0:39:14.360 --> 0:39:16.719
<v Speaker 4>you know, I had this reputation when I came out

0:39:16.760 --> 0:39:19.200
<v Speaker 4>to l A about you know, what kind of town

0:39:19.280 --> 0:39:21.919
<v Speaker 4>it was going to be, and you know, it's superficial

0:39:22.200 --> 0:39:23.719
<v Speaker 4>and that's all horseship.

0:39:23.960 --> 0:39:26.120
<v Speaker 2>I mean it can be and it can like it

0:39:26.160 --> 0:39:28.479
<v Speaker 2>can be and yeah, go ahead, go ahead.

0:39:28.480 --> 0:39:30.440
<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, no, yeah, of course we could have that

0:39:30.520 --> 0:39:33.640
<v Speaker 4>idea where, you know, where people celebrate other people's failures.

0:39:33.680 --> 0:39:36.480
<v Speaker 4>And there is a slightly weird thing when a friend says, hey, man,

0:39:36.680 --> 0:39:39.319
<v Speaker 4>they bought my screenplay that you think, why did they

0:39:39.320 --> 0:39:40.120
<v Speaker 4>buy my screenplay?

0:39:40.200 --> 0:39:40.799
<v Speaker 2>You know, for an.

0:39:40.719 --> 0:39:44.080
<v Speaker 4>Instant that that that's that's sort of unique to LA.

0:39:44.239 --> 0:39:46.560
<v Speaker 4>But the flip side is, man, I would you know,

0:39:46.640 --> 0:39:49.000
<v Speaker 4>I'd play poker and I'd meet some guy.

0:39:49.200 --> 0:39:51.799
<v Speaker 2>Oh, hold on, we're super time out.

0:39:52.120 --> 0:39:56.560
<v Speaker 1>Then you keep dropping things like, you know, Robert Kennedy

0:39:56.640 --> 0:39:58.000
<v Speaker 1>than poker, like your.

0:40:00.520 --> 0:40:02.120
<v Speaker 2>You know, I don't know what they call it, semi

0:40:02.120 --> 0:40:05.520
<v Speaker 2>professional poker player. I live for poker. I play on

0:40:05.600 --> 0:40:09.760
<v Speaker 2>television on a regular basis up until COVID. I am obsessed.

0:40:09.760 --> 0:40:14.040
<v Speaker 2>If you google me, you'll see my poker antics. I

0:40:14.080 --> 0:40:16.319
<v Speaker 2>play in the World Series. I go for the entire month,

0:40:16.360 --> 0:40:18.520
<v Speaker 2>play all the events. I live for poker. So if

0:40:18.560 --> 0:40:22.120
<v Speaker 2>you love poker, when I wherever you where are you based?

0:40:24.239 --> 0:40:27.239
<v Speaker 2>Oh you're based there? Okay, So when when COVID goes away,

0:40:27.280 --> 0:40:29.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna invite you over to my poker game so

0:40:29.760 --> 0:40:31.120
<v Speaker 2>we can hang out and play poker.

0:40:31.200 --> 0:40:32.680
<v Speaker 4>You know, by the way, we have the same birthday.

0:40:32.680 --> 0:40:33.719
<v Speaker 4>I just want to point that out.

0:40:33.800 --> 0:40:35.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh this is getting better by the minute. This is

0:40:35.520 --> 0:40:38.080
<v Speaker 2>just getting better. We're gonna party together next year, and

0:40:38.200 --> 0:40:40.160
<v Speaker 2>we're gonna have poker together. This is great.

0:40:40.640 --> 0:40:43.279
<v Speaker 4>Most of my gambling is a sports gambling. I mean,

0:40:43.320 --> 0:40:45.200
<v Speaker 4>I love gambling. I just you know, it's part of mine.

0:40:45.239 --> 0:40:46.680
<v Speaker 2>That makes two of us funny, two of.

0:40:48.440 --> 0:40:50.239
<v Speaker 4>But you know, you'd go and you so you'd be

0:40:50.360 --> 0:40:52.800
<v Speaker 4>I just playing poker with friends and they some friend,

0:40:53.000 --> 0:40:55.840
<v Speaker 4>some guy somebody there would bring a guy. And you know,

0:40:55.880 --> 0:40:59.560
<v Speaker 4>I met a couple of incredibly successful writer producers on

0:40:59.640 --> 0:41:03.360
<v Speaker 4>big s and comedies, and like the whole night he

0:41:03.400 --> 0:41:05.960
<v Speaker 4>would you know, the guy would like, never say anything

0:41:06.040 --> 0:41:09.280
<v Speaker 4>remotely funny. He tried and I and he didn't seem

0:41:09.360 --> 0:41:11.960
<v Speaker 4>and I'd be like, how's this possible? And then the

0:41:11.960 --> 0:41:14.799
<v Speaker 4>next week somebody else would come and it's a bartender, right,

0:41:14.880 --> 0:41:17.279
<v Speaker 4>and a waiter and a guy working hard to make it,

0:41:17.560 --> 0:41:20.200
<v Speaker 4>and I would think, this is the most talented person

0:41:20.239 --> 0:41:23.040
<v Speaker 4>I've ever seen in my time, Like, how how is

0:41:23.080 --> 0:41:26.680
<v Speaker 4>this guy not? You know? So I love that And

0:41:26.719 --> 0:41:29.799
<v Speaker 4>I love meeting creative people. You know, every time I

0:41:29.920 --> 0:41:32.719
<v Speaker 4>run into somebody you can make fun of writers at Starbucks,

0:41:32.760 --> 0:41:34.719
<v Speaker 4>but then you have a conversation with him and it's

0:41:34.719 --> 0:41:38.719
<v Speaker 4>incredibly interesting. Like I love artists, man, I like being around.

0:41:38.560 --> 0:41:41.080
<v Speaker 2>I do to not only that, I want to say everyone,

0:41:42.040 --> 0:41:44.200
<v Speaker 2>my guy, oh on, my, my producer Timmy, who was

0:41:44.239 --> 0:41:49.080
<v Speaker 2>sitting here too. I found him at Starbucks. He was

0:41:49.120 --> 0:41:52.440
<v Speaker 2>a a barista, then he became an intern, then he

0:41:52.480 --> 0:41:55.520
<v Speaker 2>became an assistant, then he became a junior development executive,

0:41:55.560 --> 0:41:56.920
<v Speaker 2>and now he's the president of the company.

0:41:57.040 --> 0:41:59.360
<v Speaker 1>Wow, Hollywood dreams come true?

0:41:59.560 --> 0:42:00.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah right, yeah, yeah yeah.

0:42:00.960 --> 0:42:05.000
<v Speaker 1>Working at Starbucks one day filmmaker the next So yeah,

0:42:05.360 --> 0:42:08.680
<v Speaker 1>of course you touched on how your wife sometimes decorates

0:42:08.680 --> 0:42:11.160
<v Speaker 1>your office and you don't notice, which I love that.

0:42:11.840 --> 0:42:14.960
<v Speaker 1>How did you meet this epic woman who was just

0:42:15.000 --> 0:42:17.080
<v Speaker 1>like putting fabulous art in your office.

0:42:17.200 --> 0:42:22.160
<v Speaker 4>We met at the TCM Film Festival, the first ever

0:42:22.239 --> 0:42:26.560
<v Speaker 4>TCM Film Festival. She was like, she's a big movie fan,

0:42:26.760 --> 0:42:30.360
<v Speaker 4>she loves TCM, and she tried to get she was

0:42:30.440 --> 0:42:33.200
<v Speaker 4>working in the city. She was in New York, and

0:42:33.280 --> 0:42:36.680
<v Speaker 4>she wanted to get a bunch of her girlfriends to

0:42:36.760 --> 0:42:40.000
<v Speaker 4>come out with her to the our first ever film festival.

0:42:40.120 --> 0:42:42.640
<v Speaker 4>And you know, they were like, oh, we don't want

0:42:42.640 --> 0:42:44.319
<v Speaker 4>to go to a film festival black and white movies

0:42:44.400 --> 0:42:47.160
<v Speaker 4>or whatever, whatever dumb thing they said.

0:42:47.200 --> 0:42:48.520
<v Speaker 2>And so she's cool, and.

0:42:48.480 --> 0:42:50.480
<v Speaker 4>She was like she loves architecture too, so she's like,

0:42:50.520 --> 0:42:53.120
<v Speaker 4>screw it, I'm going. So she went herself, why don't

0:42:53.120 --> 0:42:56.080
<v Speaker 4>you take a week a week afterwards in la and

0:42:56.120 --> 0:42:59.040
<v Speaker 4>Palm Springs to tour to just look at great houses,

0:42:59.080 --> 0:43:01.440
<v Speaker 4>look at you know, Frank Lloyd Wright designed houses, and

0:43:02.760 --> 0:43:04.319
<v Speaker 4>like she was just she was like, I'll take a

0:43:04.320 --> 0:43:06.480
<v Speaker 4>ten day vacation by myself. And we met at the festival.

0:43:06.480 --> 0:43:08.680
<v Speaker 4>I had a girlfriend at the time, but we met

0:43:08.960 --> 0:43:11.080
<v Speaker 4>and then you know, I broke up with my girlfriend

0:43:11.080 --> 0:43:13.960
<v Speaker 4>like three months later, and I met Lee Lee again

0:43:14.120 --> 0:43:18.040
<v Speaker 4>then at a TCM event in Atlanta where she was

0:43:18.080 --> 0:43:21.520
<v Speaker 4>with girlfriends and I was hosting some event and we

0:43:21.640 --> 0:43:24.000
<v Speaker 4>hung out. And then you know, over the next like

0:43:24.320 --> 0:43:26.759
<v Speaker 4>year and a half, she lived out of town. She

0:43:26.840 --> 0:43:28.759
<v Speaker 4>lived in New York and then moved briefly to Saint

0:43:28.800 --> 0:43:31.640
<v Speaker 4>Louis and we you know, she'd come into town a lot,

0:43:31.680 --> 0:43:33.440
<v Speaker 4>and we'd see each other and it's just sort of

0:43:33.520 --> 0:43:36.200
<v Speaker 4>and then one because again she takes charge. It's like

0:43:36.239 --> 0:43:39.680
<v Speaker 4>two Christmas seasons later, she was like, yeah, I got

0:43:39.719 --> 0:43:41.479
<v Speaker 4>work to let me come to LA for two months.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to rent a small little house in LA

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<v Speaker 4>for two months and let's just see how this goes. Wow,

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<v Speaker 4>and now we have, you know, dogs and a family

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<v Speaker 4>and a daughter.

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<v Speaker 2>How many years have you guys been together since then?

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<v Speaker 4>So we've been sort of like seeing each other since

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<v Speaker 4>like twenty eleven, and we got married in twenty thirteen.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Now I have one other question. You got married

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<v Speaker 2>on a cruise for the same festival, is that or

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<v Speaker 2>explain it?

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<v Speaker 4>The festival is here in LA like at those great

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<v Speaker 4>theaters at the Chinese and the Egyptian sort of in Hollywood.

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<v Speaker 4>That's where were the base at the Roosevelt Hotel. We

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<v Speaker 4>of course had to cancel it this year, but it'll

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<v Speaker 4>be back, you know, hopefully in twenty twenty one. We're

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<v Speaker 4>working on it. So, but that's here, that's where we met.

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<v Speaker 4>But then we also have a cruise and so you know,

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<v Speaker 4>we were seeing each other and we were on the

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<v Speaker 4>cruise and I proposed to her and we thought, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>this will be fun since we met at TCM, like,

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<v Speaker 4>let's get married on the cruise and have you know

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<v Speaker 4>Gavin McLeod marius, you know, and oh wow, and you

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<v Speaker 4>know it wasn't Captain Steuben, but it was. And then

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<v Speaker 4>of course it turns out it turns out you get

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<v Speaker 4>married in the Caribbean on a cruise, it doesn't really count,

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<v Speaker 4>right because.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to have allasis of the piece in the city. Yeah.

0:45:00.840 --> 0:45:02.759
<v Speaker 4>Mostly you have to pay for a marriage license. That's

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<v Speaker 4>what that's what California wants.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>We came back and got married again, and but do

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<v Speaker 4>we count the real date is that one of the crews.

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<v Speaker 4>That's our anniversary was fun. Robert Wagner, who was a

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<v Speaker 4>guest on the cruise. He walked, he walked my wife

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<v Speaker 4>down the aisle.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, I mean, you just live. You live. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>we are definitely playing poker together. You live the coolest life.

0:45:24.840 --> 0:45:28.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm dead serious. As soon as this shit's over, where

0:45:28.280 --> 0:45:30.200
<v Speaker 2>you're coming to a poker game because I think you

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<v Speaker 2>and I have a lot more in common. Even though

0:45:32.560 --> 0:45:36.880
<v Speaker 2>I am not as highly educated as you, I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>film school education. I definitely can relate to the gambling

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<v Speaker 2>and the fun that I think you are.

0:45:42.280 --> 0:45:44.680
<v Speaker 1>Just the story like I want to come to just

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<v Speaker 1>hear everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I have one last question question. I know you're like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you're a phenomenal interviewer and you've interviewed pretty

0:45:55.200 --> 0:45:59.360
<v Speaker 2>much everybody on the planet. What interview tips would you

0:45:59.440 --> 0:46:03.600
<v Speaker 2>give us young ones who are only like twelve episodes in?

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<v Speaker 2>What what? What? What? What?

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<v Speaker 1>What?

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<v Speaker 2>What do we need.

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<v Speaker 1>To give used?

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<v Speaker 4>So the best thing that I look first of all,

0:46:10.520 --> 0:46:15.040
<v Speaker 4>I paid attention to Howard Stern, David Letterman, and Dan Patrick,

0:46:15.080 --> 0:46:17.920
<v Speaker 4>who I think is actually a really good interview interviewer.

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<v Speaker 4>They're all different, but the most important thing, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>prepare right, like, don't get caught up because the preparation

0:46:25.200 --> 0:46:28.759
<v Speaker 4>helps you, and it helps it also helps them, but

0:46:28.800 --> 0:46:31.080
<v Speaker 4>it helps you. You don't need to memorize it. But

0:46:31.320 --> 0:46:34.399
<v Speaker 4>when you feel secure that you're not going to get blindsided,

0:46:34.400 --> 0:46:36.680
<v Speaker 4>that you're not afraid to figure out how to pronounce

0:46:36.680 --> 0:46:39.760
<v Speaker 4>somebody's name or what movies they did or who directed

0:46:39.800 --> 0:46:42.680
<v Speaker 4>those movies, it just gives you confidence. It gives you

0:46:42.800 --> 0:46:45.960
<v Speaker 4>confidence to then be funny because you're not scared. So

0:46:46.000 --> 0:46:48.000
<v Speaker 4>the preparation, it's not so much that you need to

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<v Speaker 4>recall what you prepared. It's fine if you can't remember something.

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<v Speaker 4>But when I realized that if I prepped and I

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<v Speaker 4>felt confident, then when I couldn't think of something, I

0:46:57.840 --> 0:47:01.040
<v Speaker 4>didn't have to pretend I could day. You know, when

0:47:01.080 --> 0:47:04.000
<v Speaker 4>you were doing oh for crying out loud the Hitchcock

0:47:04.080 --> 0:47:07.080
<v Speaker 4>movie with Carrie Grant Ingrid Bergmann had come down the stairs,

0:47:07.480 --> 0:47:09.840
<v Speaker 4>you know, you know, and then the person go notorious.

0:47:09.880 --> 0:47:10.760
<v Speaker 2>I go right notorious.

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<v Speaker 4>Whereas if I weren't prepared, I'd be terrified of that moment.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's really just doing your homework, like, really do

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<v Speaker 2>your homework.

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<v Speaker 4>So they do two things, Okay, two things real quick,

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<v Speaker 4>So yes, do your homework because it lets you be

0:47:23.160 --> 0:47:25.960
<v Speaker 4>funny and spontaneous, which you might be afraid to do.

0:47:26.400 --> 0:47:30.200
<v Speaker 4>And then secondly, this is obvious, but it's really hard

0:47:30.200 --> 0:47:32.320
<v Speaker 4>to do. It took me a long time. Don't worry

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<v Speaker 4>about your questions. Think about what you want to ask,

0:47:34.760 --> 0:47:38.720
<v Speaker 4>but then just listen. If you're really listening, you will

0:47:39.560 --> 0:47:43.760
<v Speaker 4>ask something different. And frequently the best questions are really

0:47:44.080 --> 0:47:45.919
<v Speaker 4>because then there's some personal just because then the person

0:47:45.920 --> 0:47:49.480
<v Speaker 4>will just go on or huh, and I didn't know

0:47:49.520 --> 0:47:53.600
<v Speaker 4>that really those three things that just gets people talking,

0:47:53.640 --> 0:47:56.160
<v Speaker 4>and they like it when people are interested in what

0:47:56.200 --> 0:47:59.720
<v Speaker 4>they had to say. And if you avoid the cliches

0:47:59.800 --> 0:48:02.600
<v Speaker 4>of in an interview, and don't fake laugh, and don't

0:48:02.640 --> 0:48:04.840
<v Speaker 4>you know these little things. I learned all that stuff

0:48:04.840 --> 0:48:07.640
<v Speaker 4>from being on local TV. And I'd see myself fake laugh.

0:48:07.680 --> 0:48:09.959
<v Speaker 4>If I recorded a and i'd cringe.

0:48:09.719 --> 0:48:11.719
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, you knew it was a fake laugh.

0:48:11.760 --> 0:48:14.600
<v Speaker 1>You're like, oh, that's the time that I pretended super hard, right.

0:48:14.600 --> 0:48:16.240
<v Speaker 4>You could you know you're an ankor you're an anchor

0:48:16.280 --> 0:48:19.120
<v Speaker 4>and the weather person says, you know, you'd say to Sherry,

0:48:19.160 --> 0:48:21.600
<v Speaker 4>you'd be like, you know, our weather person, you know.

0:48:22.160 --> 0:48:25.000
<v Speaker 4>I'd be like Sherry, what's our Sunday looking like? Like,

0:48:26.400 --> 0:48:27.560
<v Speaker 4>why a laughing laugh?

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<v Speaker 2>That's not kidding, I'm kidding. It's not even a joke.

0:48:31.000 --> 0:48:32.560
<v Speaker 2>That's right.

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<v Speaker 4>Well that no, right, My laugh is like now you know,

0:48:35.000 --> 0:48:37.920
<v Speaker 4>because it's so absurd, you know. Okay, Sherry, great stuff,

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<v Speaker 4>thanks you, Thanks for the good weather today.

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<v Speaker 2>This is good. Honestly, Ben, that is really good advice

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<v Speaker 2>because number one, I need to shut up a lot.

0:48:47.400 --> 0:48:48.919
<v Speaker 2>You can see that, so I'm going to get better

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<v Speaker 2>at that. But two, I do like the preparation because

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like in the twelve episodes we've done, when

0:48:55.640 --> 0:48:58.600
<v Speaker 2>we're prepared, baby, we we are really like on point.

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<v Speaker 1>But we'll be honest though, Ben. Sometimes I'm interviewing, you know,

0:49:03.000 --> 0:49:05.359
<v Speaker 1>like people on vander Pump Rules, which you probably don't

0:49:05.360 --> 0:49:07.719
<v Speaker 1>even know. That is easy. When I look at a

0:49:07.760 --> 0:49:10.840
<v Speaker 1>resume like yours, I'm like, what's my name again?

0:49:12.800 --> 0:49:16.359
<v Speaker 2>I feel like I feel like I'm talking to a

0:49:16.440 --> 0:49:19.600
<v Speaker 2>colleague versus having no clue. When we bring on the

0:49:19.680 --> 0:49:21.880
<v Speaker 2>vanderfug people and I'm like, who did you beat the

0:49:21.920 --> 0:49:24.560
<v Speaker 2>shit out of last episode? I have no clue. So

0:49:24.800 --> 0:49:29.279
<v Speaker 2>this has actually been really enjoyable, Ben, and very appreciative

0:49:29.520 --> 0:49:32.040
<v Speaker 2>and I'm a huge fan of yours now and we

0:49:32.120 --> 0:49:34.920
<v Speaker 2>could go on for another hour, but they're telling us

0:49:34.960 --> 0:49:37.319
<v Speaker 2>we got to wrap it up, which Ben, is there

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<v Speaker 2>anything else I can say or or let people know

0:49:40.440 --> 0:49:42.960
<v Speaker 2>where to find you besides the new podcast? Is there

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<v Speaker 2>any other things? Sure?

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely check out Definitely check out the block thickens. I'm

0:49:47.640 --> 0:49:51.240
<v Speaker 4>still Peter Bugdanovich. Wherever you get podcasts. We've had four episodes,

0:49:51.239 --> 0:49:53.680
<v Speaker 4>we got I think the three or three more and

0:49:53.719 --> 0:49:56.399
<v Speaker 4>you can on Twitter's really the only place I am.

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<v Speaker 4>Ben MANK seven seven perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much, Ben, I'm so appreciative your your

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<v Speaker 1>story is epic. Plus you gave us advice. I feel

0:50:03.360 --> 0:50:04.480
<v Speaker 1>like I should be paying person.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, it was fun.

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<v Speaker 4>Thanks for having me guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Ben.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, this is Kim.

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<v Speaker 3>I love, love, love your podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>And just to let Randall know he does have fans

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<v Speaker 2>because he is the number one guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, my loves to everyone who has already left

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<v Speaker 1>us epic messages and keep.

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<v Speaker 2>Them coming because we love hearing from you. Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Call us anytime at eight sixty six La La Pod.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, thank you for listening.