1 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 1: Well, hello, gorgeous, we are back at it again. 2 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 2: Give them la la with rample. 3 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:22,799 Speaker 1: Dude, exciting things today. 4 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 2: Well, first of all, it is a season finale. Vander 5 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 2: Pomp has happened. Yes, it's over. Let's just take a 6 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 2: minute and celebrate that. You just rock twenty episodes of 7 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 2: vander Pump Rules. Yes, yes, Okay, Now I'm gonna interview 8 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 2: you for a second. Okay, how do you feel about 9 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 2: your season? 10 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:49,239 Speaker 1: I feel absolutely epic. You don't, yeah, because like you know, 11 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: here's the thing, and I'm going to really make this 12 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: short and sweet. 13 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 2: You get the hands up, so I definitely think it's 14 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 2: gonna be It's going to be intense. 15 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 1: For me, vander Pump Rules is very much real life, correct, 16 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:07,559 Speaker 1: that's our real lives correct. However, the show is one 17 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: hour long. It is a produced show. So for me, 18 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: when I have my freakouts or my meltdowns, or I 19 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: have a really great scene, like however I feel about it, 20 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: I disconnect because I'm like, if I take this home 21 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: with me, I'll crawl into a hole. 22 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 2: No, first of all, we'll back up years before when 23 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:29,759 Speaker 2: we first started dating. You did take this shit home 24 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 2: with you, and it was World War three. Right, what 25 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 2: I'm most proud of is that it really is your 26 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 2: real life and it kind of all blends together. But 27 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:40,320 Speaker 2: I think that when you have tough scenes where it 28 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 2: gets like a little tough for you, I think you're 29 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 2: able to disconnect. 30 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 1: Now, well, you have to. And when I watch it, 31 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: when I have to like relive it, I sit there 32 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 1: and I'm like, fuck, this is entertaining, you know, like wow, 33 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: look at me go And then I know when it's 34 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: like great and I should probably apologize. But in order 35 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: for me to maintain like sanity, I have to just 36 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: look at it and be like, damn, that's so entertaining, 37 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:08,799 Speaker 1: Like we did a great job. You know. That's how 38 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: you have to look at it. Are you gonna freak out? 39 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 2: Well, now that Astas calls me a Bravo leberty, I'm 40 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 2: gonna say that I just had a season vander promp 41 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 2: as well, so I have something to contribute. I after 42 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 2: my first scene coming out of the gate how to 43 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 2: let it go too, because I felt that they made 44 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 2: me look like I am the only person eating at 45 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 2: that dinner when I had a double chicken. 46 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 1: Sandap Oh, wow, you're really throwing it back to like 47 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 1: episode four. 48 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 2: I only had like two episodes the whole season, so 49 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 2: let me just revel in my one. First of all, 50 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 2: I didn't order two chicken fucking sandwiches. And second of all, 51 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 2: I'll order two more again. And by the way, y'all 52 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 2: ate two? Why was it only me? Why was it 53 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 2: only Randall? 54 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: Because it's because it's entertaining, Like that scene there memes about. 55 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:52,239 Speaker 2: It, there's like slow motion to be eating chicken sandwiches. 56 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:55,079 Speaker 1: Which keep in mind, I ordered like five dishes. Right wait, wait, 57 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: by the way, you when I know production is paying, 58 00:02:57,639 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, bring them out, bring them out, give me 59 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 1: all the goodness. 60 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 2: Off the way you you jacks, you Jacks and Brittany 61 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 2: or multiple dishes and I was a slow motion chicken 62 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 2: sandwich heater. It's bunch of bullshit. I also want to 63 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 2: say that the end of the season was. 64 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: Very Yeah, why are you asking me how I feel 65 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: about it? How do you feel about it? Your first 66 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 1: your first time ever appearing on Vanner Pump Rules, which 67 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: I literally told everybody that will never happen. 68 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 2: Never the way I told everybody will never happen. 69 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: And not only did it happen, your manipulator, absolutely, I 70 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: do reality TV. No one is safe. 71 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:32,839 Speaker 2: And you also you also gave me that bullshit when 72 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 2: you're like, you know, this is my real life and 73 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 2: like we need to show this side. And I said, 74 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 2: you know that's not happening, he said, and then you 75 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 2: gave me that look like give me right now. And 76 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 2: then I folded like a like a like a like 77 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 2: a you know, just fold it. 78 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: Fold is like an envelope, licky lick, throw a stamp 79 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: on it, deliver it to Vanner pump rules. 80 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 2: But I will tell you I didn't film a lot. 81 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 2: Obviously I didn't. 82 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: You didn't, but it was hardcore. You had a scene 83 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 1: with James Kennedy. You're like, not only am I going 84 00:03:57,840 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: to film now, I'm going to have a scene one 85 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: on one with James. 86 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,119 Speaker 2: Now, hold on a second. I got trapped. They call 87 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 2: me your little producers for they're big producers, but your 88 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 2: big producers call me. They said, will you show up 89 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 2: at the at the season finale? And they said, there's 90 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 2: no reason for me. I'm not relevant to this. I'm 91 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 2: just going to stay home let Lalla do her thing. 92 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 2: They said, no, no, no, you got to be there 93 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 2: for her. It's a last night. We're going to celebrate. 94 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 2: It's a big party. So I come, I get wasted. 95 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 2: I'm having the time of my life. And by the way, 96 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 2: I bring Emma, Martin Scorsese's partner, so she and she's 97 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 2: a fan girl of the show. So she's going crazy 98 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 2: taking selfies and we're having the best time. So I 99 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 2: think this is easy. They're focused on you, guys. I'm 100 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 2: over in the corner with Emma drinking, and all of 101 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 2: a sudden, I get a little tap tap and they say, 102 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:43,479 Speaker 2: when will you come over here for a second. We 103 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 2: just need to shoot one little thing with you. I 104 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 2: was like, oh, this is a good bye randal or 105 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 2: something like that, or maybe they want me to eat 106 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 2: a chicken sandwich again. Long story, short, long story, Well, 107 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:53,600 Speaker 2: I was going to order chicken sandwich. I thought they'd 108 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 2: want a slow motion shot. So they bring me over 109 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 2: and there's James. They say, James wants to say something. 110 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 2: You know. I'm like, these fucking people are good. They 111 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 2: are so but but having said that, now I'm going 112 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 2: to be the serious side. James was sober, and he 113 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 2: came over to me and he was beyond sincere and 114 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 2: very genuine, and it was so endearing and he said, 115 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 2: you know, I want to apologize for all the things 116 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:18,559 Speaker 2: I said and did. It wasn't in my right state. 117 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:21,919 Speaker 2: It doesn't make it okay. I will you, you know, 118 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 2: forgive me. And I said, dude, that is such a 119 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 2: big step and a big so big of you to 120 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 2: do that. Of course I am. I know my fiance, 121 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 2: you know, and you are very good friends, and I 122 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 2: want to have the same friendship. And the fact that 123 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 2: you did this is so honorable and I I forget, 124 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:42,479 Speaker 2: know and I forgive. And you know what since then, 125 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 2: he since he's been our podcast and we text each 126 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 2: other here and there, and it's like, you know what, 127 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 2: he has come so far, and you know, life is 128 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 2: about forgiveness. You know we've done We've forgiven each other 129 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 2: for shit, and we forgive people for doing things to 130 00:05:57,760 --> 00:05:59,919 Speaker 2: us that maybe, you know, aren't the kindness. And at 131 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 2: the end of the day, I'm glad I went to 132 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 2: that party. I'm glad I went to that final taping 133 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 2: or filming, whatever you call it. And it was very sweet. 134 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,279 Speaker 2: And I watched the episode, which I don't watch a lot, 135 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 2: you know, and the ending was exciting. It was like 136 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 2: music and that exit and Jackson Lisa going at it. 137 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:19,559 Speaker 2: I loved it. 138 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 1: We broke the fourth wall on vander Pump Rules, Like 139 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: Jax goes crazy and he's talking to Lisa vander Pump 140 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 1: and he's like, this is my show, and she just 141 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: was like, oh, it's your show, vander Pump Rules, that's 142 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: my name. Like it was crazy. It was amazing, the 143 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 1: first finale episode I've ever like got intery. 144 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 2: Oh when you watched it. 145 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought it was really sweet. 146 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 2: I loved it. I love the music. I loved how 147 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 2: each person or each couple kind of or each cast 148 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 2: member walked out. 149 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 1: Hold on. I have a really fun fact though. So 150 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 1: that night, Danica gets into a little scuffle with like 151 00:06:56,000 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: this new person that hooked up with Max. Her name's Kara, 152 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 1: and Danica shoves Kara, and Danica spills her wine on 153 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 1: my outfit okay, And in the interview process, they wanted 154 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:13,679 Speaker 1: me to talk about the outfit because in their mind 155 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 1: it was like some fabulous outfit. 156 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 2: Okay. 157 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not going to talk about it 158 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: because that outfit costs me all of like maybe a 159 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 1: hundred bucks for the whole thing, So like we're not 160 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 1: talking about no big deal, you know. The throat in 161 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: the wash. It's all good exactly like I come. I'm 162 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: a pretender. People think I'm a bougie bitch, but hell no, 163 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: I am scrolling the internet for a good deal. What's happening? 164 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 2: Sorry? 165 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 1: Wow, Randall, are you for real? 166 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 2: No? I was trying to do something. 167 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 1: Pull it together. Yeah, hold on, get it to the chorus. 168 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 2: It's coming. 169 00:07:56,080 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 1: Turn it to the chorus. It's coming, It's coming. We 170 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: free hold. I wait for every young boom. You know that. 171 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 3: The best day your glasses, Hi, this one's for you 172 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:38,079 Speaker 3: soon night, dude. 173 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 1: It did make me happy. It did make me happy. 174 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:46,119 Speaker 1: You know what, we are fucking young, wild and free man. Yeah, well, 175 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 1: we may have birthdays that make us older. You guys 176 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 1: are young, You're young, wild and free. To age is 177 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 1: just a number. I don't believe in celebrating a birthday 178 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: to be like a year older. It's like, no, we're 179 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:00,559 Speaker 1: celebrating this day because without it, I will an exist. 180 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 2: I got to tell you eight years. 181 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 1: So you're freaking welcome. 182 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:06,199 Speaker 2: You know eight years you were on this show so far? 183 00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: Only five I've completed five seasons. 184 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:10,679 Speaker 2: But the show eight years what an epic run so far? 185 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 2: And I know you guys are going to go into 186 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 2: your ninth season, so I get I got to give 187 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:14,559 Speaker 2: you this episode. 188 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 1: I love that you said you know that we're going 189 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 1: into our ninth season, because we don't know that yet. 190 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 1: But put it into the universe. I speak it. 191 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 2: I know you are good, not if when when your 192 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 2: ratings are good, you're going another season. 193 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:29,720 Speaker 1: It was definitely epic, and you know, the just the 194 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,680 Speaker 1: cast when I watch them. Some like to blame editing, 195 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:35,960 Speaker 1: which is fine, but it's like if we all just 196 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 1: looked five star like, we wouldn't be eight seasons in, 197 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,959 Speaker 1: you know, so just be like, thanks for making a 198 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 1: great scene, even though I look like an asshole. Put 199 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:47,839 Speaker 1: it out. Mention it all, mention it all. 200 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:51,680 Speaker 2: Oh you got the hands up fire today? Holy shit, 201 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 2: I am Yesterday you were like in a hole. Today 202 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 2: you're like, boom, she's away. 203 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 1: Boom baby, Bring on the virtual reunion. I'm about to 204 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 1: slay these hosts. Just kidding a lot at the reunion. Okay, 205 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 1: I cried a lot, a lot of apologies. 206 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 2: O question, what was your favorite moment of vander Pump 207 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 2: this season and your worst moment of vander Pump this season? Oh, 208 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 2: by the way, don't feel like any pressure to say 209 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 2: me being on the show, but go ahead. 210 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 1: That was definitely a highlight. Having you on the show 211 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:21,840 Speaker 1: was a highlight because we got to hang out all summer. 212 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 1: It was awesome, which usually we don't get to do that. 213 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 1: But I think that, yeah, what else besides me, I'm 214 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: gonna get cheesy again. I think the highlight of this 215 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 1: season was just being so clear and aware and waking 216 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 1: up and not feeling guilty about anything I had done, 217 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: you know, being sober. Completing a season of reality TV, 218 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 1: which can be a nightmare. I completed that shit. 219 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 2: Sober and I give you mad props for that. 220 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 1: Thank you, babe. 221 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 2: I agree with you and I support that answer. I 222 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 2: love it. And what was the what was the worst moment? 223 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 2: Because I don't even know what your worst moment was, 224 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:54,839 Speaker 2: So what was the worst moment? 225 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 1: The worst moment was the way I treated Raquel, for sure, 226 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 1: Like there are a few things that when I watch 227 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, don't regret it that it was like, oh, 228 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:11,560 Speaker 1: can someone please muzzle you? Like you know, but it 229 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: is what it is like again silver Lining. People were entertained. 230 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 1: They had an opinion whether it was good or bad. 231 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 1: People had an opinion. 232 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:22,199 Speaker 2: By the way, that's what makes you, in my opinion, 233 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 2: why your show is so successful is all of you 234 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 2: have this thing that happens and then everybody just you know, 235 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 2: has an opinion because you drive people and what you 236 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 2: guys do. 237 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, when people when people write me crazy DMS, they're like, 238 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 1: I can't believe you acted that way, all I send 239 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 1: back is thank you so much for watching me. I like, 240 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:47,680 Speaker 1: for real, without you wouldn't be eight seasons in just 241 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: saying yeah, you know. 242 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 2: Well, I think the fact that you I have never 243 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 2: seen you have such conflict right over the years I've 244 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 2: been with you, where yeah, that's such conflict and it 245 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:03,080 Speaker 2: be resolved and such amicable and quick way. Like normally 246 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 2: back in the old days, hence, you know, pre sober, 247 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 2: you would just assassinate the world, continue to assassinate, blow 248 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 2: it up three more times, and then eventually start repairing. 249 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 2: Now I see you. 250 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:18,079 Speaker 1: Now what I would do is blow things up. Tornadoes 251 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 1: come through AK forty sevens, and then I'd look behind 252 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:23,199 Speaker 1: me and be like, why is everyone so sad and upset? 253 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 2: But now but now you handle things so gracefully. I 254 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 2: really give you a lot of props, like something will happen, 255 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 2: and then you'll you'll get home and you'll be like, 256 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 2: you know, I feel bad and I really, you know, 257 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 2: didn't want to do that, and and blah blah blah, 258 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 2: and then you and then on your own, like without 259 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:45,000 Speaker 2: cameras there, I see you sending text saying, look, I 260 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 2: really don't feel that way, and I'm sorry that I 261 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 2: said something. It's just very jack cat. 262 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:52,559 Speaker 1: My cast members are not just my cast members, that's 263 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 1: my that's my LA family, Like I love them so much, 264 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 1: and I know that we're all always going to go 265 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 1: toes with each other because we're all very strong foreronalities. 266 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 2: When you go toes, what does it mean exactly? 267 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 1: Step up, bitch? Oh go toes? Toe to toe? Baby. 268 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 2: So if I'm in a meeting at a studio talking 269 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 2: about a movie and the guy's pissing me off on 270 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 2: a deal, can I be like, let's go to toes, bitch, 271 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:17,079 Speaker 2: I'm just asking you can. 272 00:13:17,800 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, but. 273 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:22,320 Speaker 2: Right because you have done that. 274 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 1: Though, when I say let's go toes, if I know 275 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 1: that that person really is a fighter, like I don't 276 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:31,719 Speaker 1: want to do it. I'm a very fast runner, like. 277 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 2: Let's fight the words, you'll back down, you are. 278 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 1: You kidding me? Do I look like someone who's gonna 279 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:38,559 Speaker 1: punch anybody? 280 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 2: So just tell me one thing. 281 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 1: I am a classy bitch. 282 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 2: Oh okay, just tell me one thing. Then tell me 283 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 2: one thing. So in the four years when I've got 284 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 2: toes with you, I'll give you a never back down. 285 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:53,080 Speaker 1: Oh the drink. The drink is like like the battery, 286 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 1: you know, the the drink is like a battery, the 287 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 1: little fucking engine that could. We're getting up the hill. 288 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 2: But you know it's funny. I talk shit and you're 289 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 2: you are a fighter. I pushed in the wrong direction, 290 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 2: but you know what, at the end of the day, 291 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 2: you are way more of a lover than a fighter, 292 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 2: way more, way more. 293 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 1: Of course, I always say like, I hate confrontation, but 294 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 1: I'm extremely good at it. You professional professional. So I'm 295 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 1: excited for our guest today though, because he I'm gonna 296 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: be honest. I looked at his resume and was like, 297 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: am I up for this challenge? Like he's, you know, 298 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 1: graduating from Columbia, And I'm like, have you ever heard 299 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 1: of slick like Sally Community College? Up in this bitch? 300 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 1: Two years? Oh shit, don't be rude. I attempted. 301 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 2: You know, if I would have known this when I 302 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 2: met you, I might have diverted. 303 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 1: And then I got all the credits I needed to 304 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 1: transfer to the University of Utah. 305 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 2: University hardly did you go for one day? 306 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 1: I went for like a month, and I was like 307 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 1: going through from one class to the other in the snow, 308 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 1: and I like literally was like, what am I doing? 309 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 2: You a work? 310 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 1: Hate this and literally went home and was like, Mom, 311 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 1: by the way, I'm moving to LA. 312 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 2: Can't give you a word advice? Tell me from now 313 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 2: when we lead in about your education, can you just 314 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 2: start with the University of View talents and pretend the 315 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 2: community college thing to happen. 316 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 1: This is who I am. Randall shit, like, are you crazy? 317 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 1: Why would I ever? 318 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 2: I thought you went to Harvard? 319 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 1: Don't I act like it didn't sound like it. 320 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 2: They So we have Ben Mankowitz, who is the host 321 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 2: of Turner Classic Movies Channel, the host of screen Time 322 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 2: segment on CBS Sunday Morning show. His grants. He's his 323 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 2: grand sorry, his father was a press secretary to Senator 324 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 2: Bob Kennedy. I mean, this guy is loaded to the girls. 325 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna say something. I don't get impressed. That 326 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 2: easily takes a lot at my old age, right, this 327 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 2: guy is impressive. And by the way, this and I 328 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 2: want to tell you, Lala, what really is putting us 329 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 2: to the test? This this next guest. This isn't like 330 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 2: a movie guy that I can just kind of like 331 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 2: sit back and have a cigar. Or it's not a 332 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 2: cast memory or is that you could just sit back 333 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 2: and spill the tea as you say this dude, This 334 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 2: dude is the real shit. 335 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 1: So we're not only not only is he like epic 336 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 1: in his family Randall, you're such a rookie. When Ben 337 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 1: gets on the line, you better mute your phone. 338 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 2: Okay for real. But this is what I want to 339 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 2: say about this guest. I feel like this like the 340 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:26,280 Speaker 2: network threw this guest on us to see are we 341 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 2: ready for the next level? Yeah? Because if we fucked 342 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 2: this up, we have to go back to what we 343 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 2: know and we can never get outside our comfort zone. 344 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 2: But if we crush this and I want, I want 345 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 2: your fans and my three fans to write in after 346 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 2: this episode and tell us did we handle ourselves in 347 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 2: a professional, engaging manner or did we flop? And we 348 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 2: need to go back to what we. 349 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 1: All try try to make the criticism constructive. I don't 350 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 1: really respond well to people telling me I suck. 351 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 2: You know, well, just give us advice, like did we 352 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 2: handle ourselves? Well, we're did we ask intriguing questions? Was 353 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 2: or were we boring and dismal? Right? 354 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:08,359 Speaker 1: I don't think that's ever going to be a problem. 355 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:10,680 Speaker 1: So let's take a short break, and when we get back, 356 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: we have Ben Mancowitz. I won't lie. Our guest is 357 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:25,200 Speaker 1: someone I read your resume, Ben, and I am extremely intimidated, 358 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 1: and I don't get intimidated by many things. We have 359 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:31,879 Speaker 1: Ben Mancowitz on our podcast today. 360 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:35,360 Speaker 2: Yes, I'm freaking and you're the man I just want 361 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 2: to say. He is host of the new TCM podcast 362 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:40,479 Speaker 2: The Plot Thickens, about the life and career of one 363 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 2: of my favorite most epic directors, Peter Bugdanovich. This is 364 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 2: the coolest thing ever. I just want to know, Ben, 365 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 2: how do you even come up with the idea to 366 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 2: do that? Because now I want to go do a 367 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 2: podcast about every epic director I've ever loved. So can 368 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:57,640 Speaker 2: you just tell us, like how that even started? 369 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:00,160 Speaker 4: Well, many of them, of course, have lives that are 370 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:02,960 Speaker 4: worthy of being chronicled. But first of all, Peter and 371 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 4: I were friends, and I like Peter. The first time 372 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 4: I met him, as I tell the story in the podcast, 373 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 4: I think in episode one, I was very nervous when 374 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 4: I first met Peter. It was in an event I 375 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 4: think in twenty twelve or thirteen in Toronto where we 376 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 4: in advance to the TCM Festival. We did some events 377 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 4: around the country, and so I was in Toronto with Peter. 378 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 4: We weren to screen the Last Picture Show. And because it's 379 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 4: Peter Bogdanovitch the same reason that you admire him, I 380 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:34,520 Speaker 4: was nervous. This guy. He is an encyclopedia of classic movies, 381 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 4: and I just thought, you know, you know, the way 382 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 4: all of us are frequently where you sort of think 383 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:42,440 Speaker 4: that you've perpetrated your any success you've had in life 384 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:45,480 Speaker 4: is because you've perpetrated some great fraud. And I thought 385 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:49,080 Speaker 4: he'd see right through me. But he had a cold, 386 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:52,760 Speaker 4: pretty bad cold, and he was sniffling and drinking hot 387 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 4: tea at this bar we met in a hotel, and 388 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 4: you know, it just humanized him instantly, and he made 389 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 4: some joke and then Sybil Shepherd, who he hasn't been 390 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 4: linked to romantically since nineteen seventy nine, called him to 391 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 4: check on Hi because she was worried about him traveling 392 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 4: with a WOW And I was like, oh, listen, this 393 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:13,760 Speaker 4: guy's he's still friends with his ex and he's got 394 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 4: a cold just like me. And that began a friendship. 395 00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:19,920 Speaker 4: And then so there's a long way of answering your question. 396 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 4: Peter did all these wonderful interviews with classic film directors Hitchcot, 397 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:27,399 Speaker 4: john Ford, Orson Wells, Howard Hawk's, many others, including dating 398 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:30,440 Speaker 4: back to the Silent era before he became a director, 399 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:32,760 Speaker 4: when he was a film writer, a very good one 400 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:36,360 Speaker 4: wrote for Esquire magazine, Most Freak Wow, and he compiled 401 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 4: them into a wonderful book called Who the Devil Made It, 402 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:41,360 Speaker 4: which is a great Howard Hawk's line about how when 403 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:44,000 Speaker 4: you watch a movie, you should know who the devil 404 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 4: made it, like there should be some signature about the 405 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 4: director which you would be able to identify. Peter had 406 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:52,359 Speaker 4: recordings of these interviews, and I thought we should do 407 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:54,680 Speaker 4: a podcast. I wanted to do a podcast for years, 408 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:57,600 Speaker 4: and TCM was interested, but I was pushing, i must say, 409 00:19:57,600 --> 00:20:00,639 Speaker 4: and I thought Peter would be a great topic and 410 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:03,119 Speaker 4: we would spend each episode talking about one of these 411 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:08,880 Speaker 4: directors and play clips, and then professional storytellers took over, 412 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 4: namely our executive producer for this podcast, Angela Corone, and 413 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 4: they were like, yeah, that's a great idea. Here's what 414 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 4: we're going to do instead with Peter, And they just 415 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 4: made this whole thing ten thousand times better because Peter's 416 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 4: life is a story worth telling, full of success, failure, 417 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 4: horrible tragedy, hubris with the normal parts of recovery from 418 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:34,639 Speaker 4: a tragedy, and it turned him into a different person 419 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 4: and he is an interesting guy, incredibly funny, incredibly smart, 420 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 4: and I find now incredibly inviting and caring and thoughtful. 421 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:47,639 Speaker 4: So it worked out great, and Peter was so open 422 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:52,399 Speaker 4: with us and willing to tell his crazy, crazy Hollywood story. 423 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 1: Well, it's absolutely fantastic. I found myself listening last night. 424 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:02,159 Speaker 1: It's very well done, and it's such a safe platform, 425 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 1: so people just are feeling comfortable to tell it all. 426 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 1: And I thought that it was you know, the episodes 427 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:11,280 Speaker 1: that you have out are very well done. So again 428 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 1: that is the plot thickens and it's about the life 429 00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 1: and career of Peter Bogdanovich amazing. And I have a 430 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:21,120 Speaker 1: question because I know that, you know, you come from 431 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:24,399 Speaker 1: a background of journalism. I mean, your resume as far 432 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 1: as education is incredible. What you've done, you know in 433 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 1: your your what is the word I'm looking for your 434 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:35,719 Speaker 1: career when you, you know, started as the reporter and anchor 435 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:39,399 Speaker 1: for w c SCTV and Charleston, Like, when did you 436 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 1: realize that news journalism wasn't really what you wanted to do? Well? 437 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:45,399 Speaker 2: You know, first of. 438 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 4: All, I grew up a Jewish kid in Washington, DC, 439 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,440 Speaker 4: you know, in sort of a middle class to upper 440 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:53,159 Speaker 4: middle class upbringing. And you're like, well, I guess I 441 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:58,200 Speaker 4: go to law school. That's what we do, doctor, I'm 442 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:01,959 Speaker 4: a jew from Miami. Well that was or lawyer? Yeah, doctor, 443 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:03,679 Speaker 4: there was no chance of that. 444 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 2: I did not. 445 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 4: I thought, you know, you can sort of you know, 446 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 4: I have these images of me in front of a jury, 447 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,879 Speaker 4: and I'm like, well, I can try to be charming 448 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:14,919 Speaker 4: in front of a jury, but you can't, like be 449 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,000 Speaker 4: charming in front of a ruptured spleen. Like I'd actually 450 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:21,280 Speaker 4: have to know what I was talking about. So but 451 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:24,879 Speaker 4: I wasn't really into that, And and my you know 452 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:29,399 Speaker 4: father was in politics and the media, and and you 453 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 4: know he'd sort of been a pre bitnot sort of. 454 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,399 Speaker 4: He was press secretary to Robert Kennedy. 455 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 2: Oh, Ben, Ben, Ben, real quick, Yeah, I heard that. 456 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:38,440 Speaker 1: He just dropped you. 457 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:41,320 Speaker 2: But Ben, let me tell you something, the fact that 458 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,719 Speaker 2: your father was a press secretary to the center of Robert Kennedy. 459 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:48,000 Speaker 2: Just explain what that was like for a minute, please, 460 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:51,120 Speaker 2: because that's that's epic. Epic. Yeah. 461 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 4: Well, first of you know, my dad he died six 462 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:57,840 Speaker 4: five and a half years ago and he was ninety 463 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,159 Speaker 4: and he led this. He wrote a book called so 464 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 4: As I was saying because everything every story my dad 465 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 4: told is like in the middle of a story, like 466 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 4: he would starting expect you to He's like, you got 467 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 4: to have to catch up, like I. 468 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:11,360 Speaker 2: And so I met. 469 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,400 Speaker 4: But that helped me tell the Peter story. That helps 470 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 4: me in interviews, right, I mean I and it helped 471 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 4: sort of. It helped me even though I'm talking a 472 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 4: lot now. It helped me be a really good listener, 473 00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:25,879 Speaker 4: which is definitely a strength that I have when I 474 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 4: do these interviews. But the so he was in the 475 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 4: he was my dad was the Latin American director of the 476 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 4: Peace Corps first Latin American Director of the Peace Corps. 477 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,440 Speaker 4: And he met Senator Kennedy first in a phone call 478 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,240 Speaker 4: when the Senator was going to come down to Peru 479 00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:42,680 Speaker 4: and sort of figure out what was wrong with American 480 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 4: foreign policy in Latin American, and he got this itinerary 481 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 4: to like, you know, go to the American language school 482 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:53,359 Speaker 4: and go to a party at the you know, at 483 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 4: the ambassador's house, and tour the embassy. And my dad 484 00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:59,359 Speaker 4: spoke up and he was like, yeah, look, man, you 485 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,439 Speaker 4: could do that from Washington, Like that doesn't matter. You 486 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:07,240 Speaker 4: want to meet striking you know, vegetable pickers, right, and 487 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 4: you want to go through the barrios of people living 488 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 4: in incredible poverty in Lima. And my dad was like, 489 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 4: who's this guy? And said, can I meet you? I'm 490 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 4: flying into Panama, come meet me. Who's gonna land in 491 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:19,639 Speaker 4: Panama to refuel like two thirty in the morning. 492 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 2: Oh. 493 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 4: So my dad went to Panama to meet him and 494 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 4: they met for like three hours, and Hannity was like, look, 495 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,600 Speaker 4: whenever you're done here, come work for me. 496 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:28,760 Speaker 2: Come on. 497 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, if you knew my dad, you would 498 00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:33,879 Speaker 4: know that story is that makes total sense. He was 499 00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 4: just my dad was always the smartest person in the room, 500 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 4: and I wow, other people thought that too, So he 501 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:42,560 Speaker 4: hired him. He was the press secretary in the Senate 502 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,960 Speaker 4: and then he ran for president and then famously you 503 00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:48,639 Speaker 4: can see my father announcing the senator's death after he 504 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 4: was when he was murdered. 505 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:51,879 Speaker 2: So I have a question, So growing up with a 506 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 2: father who was the press secretary, I mean, did you 507 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 2: grow up going to the White House like it was 508 00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:56,960 Speaker 2: like a regular thing. 509 00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 4: No, of course, all know the uh no, because as 510 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 4: soon as I was of age, Richard Nixon. 511 00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:04,400 Speaker 2: Was in the White House. 512 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:08,440 Speaker 4: Oh, my dad very famously was on the White House 513 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 4: enemies List, something he was very proud of till this wow, 514 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 4: till the day he died. He wrote two really good 515 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:17,159 Speaker 4: books on Nixon. His first book was the bestseller, was 516 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,719 Speaker 4: called Perfectly Clear. And then after Gerald Ford pardoned Nixon, 517 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 4: my father wrote a book about what the prosecution of 518 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:24,720 Speaker 4: Nixon would have looked like. 519 00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 1: Oh, my god was blown. So then, with you know 520 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,400 Speaker 1: your dad and what he was doing in his accomplishments, 521 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:36,240 Speaker 1: did you ever feel pressure to be on that same path? 522 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:39,120 Speaker 1: Did he kind of pushed that onto you in any way. 523 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 4: So my dad was as good a dad as you 524 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:44,439 Speaker 4: can get. So he never he never pushed anything onto me. 525 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 4: He was great, he was supportive. I was a huge 526 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 4: sports fan. He was as he was. He was very 527 00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:51,480 Speaker 4: you know, I wanted to go into sports, you know, 528 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:53,159 Speaker 4: when it became clear I couldn't play, I wanted to 529 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 4: be as you know, like a baseball broadcaster. 530 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:56,400 Speaker 2: That was sort of but. 531 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 4: I was shy, and so it was hard for me 532 00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:00,920 Speaker 4: to sort of do that. I'd go to ball games 533 00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 4: and sit up in the you know, behind home plate, 534 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 4: way up in the top deck, and I you know, 535 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 4: broadcast games into a. 536 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:07,679 Speaker 1: Tape recorder, and oh I love this. 537 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 4: So and then my dad was president of National Public 538 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:13,120 Speaker 4: Radio two for six years. So journalism was just sort 539 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 4: of in my blood. My brother is twelve years older 540 00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:18,639 Speaker 4: than I am. He's a correspondent for Dateline NBC. And 541 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:20,879 Speaker 4: so my brother sort of taught me how to be 542 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:23,920 Speaker 4: on TV and you know, how to do all these things. 543 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 4: I mean, you know, he taught me how to be 544 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,440 Speaker 4: a reporter, which I was first. And so eventually when 545 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 4: I sort of got and became less shy, I just 546 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 4: sort of thought, well I try and I'll try and 547 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,919 Speaker 4: do what my brother does. But politics was always super 548 00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,359 Speaker 4: important to me also because I grew up with I 549 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,040 Speaker 4: grew up in DC, and I grew up where in 550 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:44,040 Speaker 4: a family where were very prominent, and they just they mattered. 551 00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,679 Speaker 4: They weren't like, they weren't a game. They were about 552 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 4: the future of country, of the country and making people's 553 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,399 Speaker 4: lives better. Like That's how it always seemed to me. 554 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,439 Speaker 4: So I never had this cynical view of politicians. I 555 00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 4: thought the people who many of the people who served most. 556 00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 4: And I think it's still true. Most of the people 557 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:02,560 Speaker 4: who serve they get. 558 00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 2: Into it because they they want to change the world. 559 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, because my dad ran George McGovern's campaign in nineteen 560 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,200 Speaker 4: seventy two, and so you know, Robert Kennedy and George 561 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 4: mc govern with these sort of like these were guys 562 00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:14,680 Speaker 4: who were in it for the right reasons. 563 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,480 Speaker 1: You know, Wow, it's really amazing to hear all of 564 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 1: these things. And then you know, you say, Ben, like, no, 565 00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,119 Speaker 1: there was no pressure, way could do it. You know, 566 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 1: like it's pretty insane. You would think coming from that background, 567 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:29,160 Speaker 1: that there would be tremendous pressure on you to kind 568 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:32,680 Speaker 1: of stay on the same path. I think that's really beautiful. 569 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,400 Speaker 4: Well okay, so now you think it won't be beautiful my. 570 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: Dad, Okay, just spill the tea. Spill the tea. 571 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 4: My dad put note pressure on. But you know, he's 572 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 4: the person I admired most. And you know, boys who 573 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,720 Speaker 4: love their dads and admire their dads want to impress 574 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 4: like him. I want to impress him. And the way 575 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 4: to impress him was to try and be as smart 576 00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:54,639 Speaker 4: as he is. And so eventually you just give up, like, okay, 577 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,760 Speaker 4: he loves me anyway, that's good, but I can't fight 578 00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:01,240 Speaker 4: this back. I can't do it. So there was enormous pressure. 579 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,639 Speaker 4: You know, my grandfather and my great uncle they you know, 580 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 4: won Oscars for you know, my grandfather wrote Citizen Kane and. 581 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:08,679 Speaker 2: Okay, it's away fen so Ben, you know what, But 582 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,159 Speaker 2: you know, I'm a movie nerd. Obviously I've produced a 583 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 2: lot of films. So I read I read this, Just 584 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:17,720 Speaker 2: just take a beat on that he co wrote Citizen Kane. 585 00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,359 Speaker 2: Come on, I mean that's I mean for me, that 586 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:25,520 Speaker 2: would thrust me into like movie anxiety at the highest level. 587 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,439 Speaker 2: Did you like, what was the takeaway you got being around, 588 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 2: you know, this family that has epic oscars and you know, 589 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 2: writer Citizen Kane, the greatest movie of all time period. 590 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 2: Did you get anything out of, you know that, that relationship? Yeah, 591 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:42,840 Speaker 2: of course. 592 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,840 Speaker 4: I mean, you know, it's weird because my dad was this, 593 00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 4: you know, mythic figure to me. But again it was 594 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:53,600 Speaker 4: totally normal, dude. I mean, you know, but my so, 595 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 4: my grandfather, who Sherman Manglho by the way, wrote Citizen Kane, 596 00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 4: didn't co write it. I know that it says he 597 00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:01,239 Speaker 4: co wrote it, but he okay, I the uh so 598 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,360 Speaker 4: the uh that was a you know, source of great controversy, 599 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 4: the writing credit for that. Whether it's my grandfather's Orson Wellson, 600 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,120 Speaker 4: oh my, but it's. 601 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:10,680 Speaker 1: A fun story about that. 602 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 2: We deal with that every hour. 603 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 4: And by the way, Peter's on the other side, Bogdanovitch, 604 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 4: So that's a fun conversation for me and Peter to 605 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:19,120 Speaker 4: have a good natured conversation. And by the way, just 606 00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:21,440 Speaker 4: real quick, doesn't matter. It's Orson Wells's movie, and nobody 607 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,040 Speaker 4: should mistake that one hundred percent his movie. He just 608 00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:27,560 Speaker 4: didn't write, right, this is great, you know, but like 609 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:29,240 Speaker 4: you know, it's like saying that, you know, I mean 610 00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 4: Martin Scorsese. He didn't write screenplay for The Irishman, but 611 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 4: that's a Martin Scorsese movie, and nobody should doubt that 612 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:36,800 Speaker 4: for a second. So the Hollywood part of the family 613 00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 4: I knew about, of course, but it didn't mean anything 614 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 4: to me. The politics part mattered. I came out to 615 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 4: La I think when I was twenty one, like before 616 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,760 Speaker 4: my senior year of college, and a cousin of mine 617 00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:51,400 Speaker 4: who's also a Mankowitz, but he doesn't have the same 618 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 4: last name. I went to a party with him and 619 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,600 Speaker 4: I got introduced to the coast of the party because 620 00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:58,160 Speaker 4: he was like, I brought my cousin, he's out here, 621 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 4: you know, Ben Mankowitz, and the guy I put his 622 00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 4: heels together and bowed and said Hollywood Royalty. And I 623 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,920 Speaker 4: literally I just remember thinking, is like, you know, Larry 624 00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 4: Spielberg behind me, like what. 625 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:11,760 Speaker 2: About you know? 626 00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,240 Speaker 4: So it just was then I was like, oh, like, 627 00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 4: I mean, of course I knew it. We have you know, 628 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,000 Speaker 4: Joe Maco, who's one of the great writer directors of 629 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 4: all time, and Herman's brother, my great uncle, and and 630 00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:24,200 Speaker 4: other cousins who you know, my cousin Tom Mancowitz, you 631 00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 4: know wrote three Bond movies, Superman one and two. But 632 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,720 Speaker 4: I didn't know that it like to the people who 633 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:37,880 Speaker 4: love movies, right, that it mattered to them like that, 634 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,040 Speaker 4: and so and that was nice, of course, you know. 635 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:43,520 Speaker 4: But so yeah, there's pressure to make sure you're not 636 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,560 Speaker 4: the You're not the one in the family who. 637 00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:49,680 Speaker 2: Faltered fault right, who screws it up. 638 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 4: You're the You're the one who didn't. He didn't get 639 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:52,840 Speaker 4: that gene, you know. 640 00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:56,840 Speaker 2: I I think I think hosting uh the uh Turner 641 00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 2: Classic Movies Channel and doing all the different things that 642 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 2: you do far exceeded all of those, you know, expectations 643 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:05,880 Speaker 2: on you. We're gonna cut to a quick break then, 644 00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 2: and we're gonna come right back to talk to you about. 645 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:19,600 Speaker 1: We are back my Loves with Ben Mankowitz. You're super legendary. 646 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:23,600 Speaker 1: I'm just listening to you. My mind is blown. And 647 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:27,400 Speaker 1: I'm actually really curious because Randall just said earlier, you know, 648 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,000 Speaker 1: like he's over here making movies and then he sees 649 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 1: you know that you come from a line of family 650 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 1: that's I don't know, just writing citizens Kane, Do you 651 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:40,720 Speaker 1: have any interest in ever directing or producing films? 652 00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 4: I have some you know, I'm not a director, and 653 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:47,720 Speaker 4: I'm really appreciative of the I love artists, man, and 654 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,400 Speaker 4: I you know, admire what they do. I'm not I 655 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,160 Speaker 4: would never be a director. First of I don't. I 656 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:55,120 Speaker 4: don't really think visually, guys. Wife, you could literally hang 657 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 4: a new painting or poster in front of me in 658 00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 4: my home office and nine months later I'll be like, 659 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:04,080 Speaker 4: when'd you put that up? It's ten feet from your face, 660 00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,719 Speaker 4: and I put it up in twenty eighteen. But I'm 661 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 4: not a bad writer, and you know, a storyteller, So 662 00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 4: I mean, if I ever got the courage, it would 663 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,920 Speaker 4: probably be to right. And you know, producing, I love 664 00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 4: that producing can mean ten billion things. I have come 665 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,640 Speaker 4: to meet some producers who are so hands on. I mean, 666 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:24,720 Speaker 4: I you know Irwin Winkler, of course, who you know 667 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,800 Speaker 4: worked on the on the Irishman, and but who had 668 00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:31,960 Speaker 4: produced you know, some of the Seminals Corsese movies earlier, earlier. 669 00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:35,800 Speaker 2: I've known Irwin forever. I produced. I produced the movie 670 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:37,440 Speaker 2: that Irwin directed. That's how he met. 671 00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 1: What movie was that Home of the. 672 00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,800 Speaker 2: Brave, Home of the Brave? Well, yeah, sure, a while back, 673 00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 2: but that was how I met Irwin yeah, and Irwin 674 00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:49,240 Speaker 2: is uh so like and Irwin. You know, Irwin's not 675 00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:51,920 Speaker 2: the kind of producer who you know, just puts up 676 00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:54,600 Speaker 2: money and then you know, has his name on the credits. 677 00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:55,280 Speaker 2: At least he wasn't. 678 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:57,720 Speaker 4: Then you know producers who who. 679 00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:00,160 Speaker 2: Now he's his hands on? 680 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, and and sort of and you protect the director 681 00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 4: from the studio that's who have the money, right, That's 682 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 4: a big part of it. And I admire that part too, 683 00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:11,080 Speaker 4: and that that has always struck me as something that 684 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:12,640 Speaker 4: but I don't do it. I mean, the fact is 685 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,960 Speaker 4: I don't so I you know, I think we have 686 00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 4: our answer. 687 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:19,680 Speaker 2: I don't do it. I have a question. So so 688 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,760 Speaker 2: now we know how you know, TV has become epic 689 00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:25,760 Speaker 2: and huge and really gone to another level today. I'm 690 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:29,200 Speaker 2: just curious on your take with film versus TV today. 691 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:31,239 Speaker 2: You know, how do you feel and what are your 692 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 2: favorite TV shows, if any that you watch? 693 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,720 Speaker 4: I know I watch a lot of television. I mean, 694 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,520 Speaker 4: I've been so busy the last few years that I've 695 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:43,440 Speaker 4: watched less. But I still manage with a you know, 696 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:47,280 Speaker 4: young daughter and fairly busy schedule, which I'm grateful for 697 00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 4: to to get a fair amount of shows in. I 698 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 4: love that we're at this sort of you know this, 699 00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:56,920 Speaker 4: what is it be third Golden age for for television. 700 00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:00,800 Speaker 4: I don't see television and movies competing. I just think 701 00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:06,000 Speaker 4: they're all this visual storytelling. And I hope we never 702 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:08,920 Speaker 4: lose the theater experience. I don't think we will. I 703 00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:11,280 Speaker 4: think it'll come back. You know, it's going to change 704 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,759 Speaker 4: and maybe there won't be as many, but you'll still 705 00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:15,319 Speaker 4: be able to go to a theater. It's still a 706 00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:18,319 Speaker 4: night out. It's still a social connection, and I think 707 00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:22,759 Speaker 4: we all realize now how valuable that is, how much 708 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,680 Speaker 4: we miss it. So I think as soon as it's safe, 709 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:27,719 Speaker 4: it will come back. I don't think people will be like, 710 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,799 Speaker 4: oh great, I never have to leave my I think 711 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:34,040 Speaker 4: it'll be the opposite. But that's okay. It's also okay 712 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:37,440 Speaker 4: to have movies show up on streaming services. There's no 713 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 4: it's all good. But you know, I mean, I have saved. 714 00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,120 Speaker 4: I have not watched this season A Better Call Saul. 715 00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:45,800 Speaker 4: I wanted to watch it all at once. It became 716 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,440 Speaker 4: easier during this to do that because nobody was spoiling 717 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:50,080 Speaker 4: it for me. I love Better Call Saw, I love 718 00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:52,680 Speaker 4: the Americans. I love succession of. 719 00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 2: Our favorite show, our. 720 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 4: Favorite successions, maybe a top ten. That's season two of 721 00:34:58,239 --> 00:34:59,600 Speaker 4: Succession one of the best seasons. 722 00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:01,840 Speaker 2: To tell it was unbelievable, unbelieved. 723 00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:04,880 Speaker 4: I watched Homeland, you know, I mean it sort of 724 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,360 Speaker 4: run its course, but I watched it all. I watched 725 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:08,720 Speaker 4: you know, Ray Donovan. 726 00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 2: And Billions are are two of my favorite I love. 727 00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:16,399 Speaker 4: Well a dollar Bill on bill the great an actor 728 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:20,439 Speaker 4: named Kelly o'coyney's one of my best friends. Oh really, guy, yeah, 729 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 4: and would be a great guest for you guys. 730 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:25,000 Speaker 2: He would love wait wait, not only hold on, not 731 00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 2: only will I kiss his ass on the show, but 732 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 2: tell him that I am a fan, and if he 733 00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,520 Speaker 2: wants to reach out to me through you, I would 734 00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,320 Speaker 2: love when he's off the show to put him in 735 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:38,600 Speaker 2: one of my films. He is. What a great actor, 736 00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:40,080 Speaker 2: What a great actor. 737 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:42,680 Speaker 4: I don't know if you guys watched The Americans, which is, 738 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:44,439 Speaker 4: by the way, the show totally worth seeing. 739 00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:44,799 Speaker 2: It's great. 740 00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:47,319 Speaker 4: It's not rand on FX, it's done, it's phenomenal. It's 741 00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,120 Speaker 4: as good as TV can be. And but Kelly played 742 00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:53,359 Speaker 4: a character there that is so dramatically different than Dollar Bill, 743 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:57,239 Speaker 4: so it buttresses your point. Kelly is a really skilled actor. 744 00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:58,719 Speaker 4: I went to high school with him, were on a 745 00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:02,040 Speaker 4: basketball team. He's one of my closest friends. 746 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:05,759 Speaker 1: Yes, thout my the Americans. That's on the list. 747 00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,480 Speaker 2: We're going to watch Americans and we have to get 748 00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:07,719 Speaker 2: him in. 749 00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:12,719 Speaker 1: And since we're talking about guests that we should have on, 750 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:16,080 Speaker 1: I want to know, Ben, who have been some of 751 00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,919 Speaker 1: the favorites of yours that you've interviewed this year? 752 00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:21,200 Speaker 4: Well this year, I mean obviously Peter. You know that 753 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:24,920 Speaker 4: was fifteen hours of interviews Peter Bogdanovich. Wow, And you know, 754 00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:27,080 Speaker 4: interviewing for a podcast where you're trying to get somebody 755 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:28,920 Speaker 4: to sort of tell their life story to take you 756 00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,319 Speaker 4: through the highest point. You know, he was at the 757 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:34,839 Speaker 4: top of the world nineteen seven. He was Scorsese and 758 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:37,960 Speaker 4: Coppola and Friedkin and Mike Nichols. In the early seventies 759 00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:40,120 Speaker 4: he was as big as any of them. And then 760 00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:43,120 Speaker 4: he had some flops and people didn't like Peter. He 761 00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:46,320 Speaker 4: was perceived as arrogant in part because he was arrogant, 762 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:50,200 Speaker 4: but that's sort of his his his but his arrogance 763 00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:52,960 Speaker 4: is like it's the right kind of arrogance in that. 764 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 2: It's his genius. It's probably his genius, right. 765 00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:57,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, And he's not putting it on. It's sort of 766 00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:00,160 Speaker 4: just the way he talks. He doesn't look down on people. Well, 767 00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:03,920 Speaker 4: he just he's very smart about the things he knows 768 00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:06,719 Speaker 4: and he wants to talk about them. And anyway, he 769 00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 4: was he and Sybil were so perfect together and on 770 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:12,880 Speaker 4: the cover of Magazinis and so so his fall was 771 00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:16,960 Speaker 4: his fall. Hollywood sort of took lee in his fall. 772 00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 4: Billy Wilder, the great director, great writer, director, said I'm 773 00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:25,120 Speaker 4: gonna paraphrase it here, but he basically said that, you know, 774 00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:28,960 Speaker 4: everyone says that that Hollywood is a splintered town, that 775 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:32,440 Speaker 4: we're all, you know, in this for ourselves and we 776 00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,880 Speaker 4: never look after each other. He goes, that's nonsense. We 777 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 4: all come together to celebrate a Peter Bogdanovich flop. 778 00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:40,800 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 779 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:44,680 Speaker 4: So that's sort of what Peter was up against. And then, 780 00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:46,320 Speaker 4: you know, and then is the woman he loved, the 781 00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,239 Speaker 4: woman who's going to marry, was murdered and he went 782 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:52,760 Speaker 4: into a five year depression, tail spend, lost all his money. 783 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,920 Speaker 4: So that's a challenging interview and a great interview. But 784 00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:57,840 Speaker 4: TCM is fort you got. 785 00:37:57,840 --> 00:37:59,520 Speaker 2: No, I just want to say I agree with you. 786 00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:01,440 Speaker 2: By the I was just thinking about Hollywood. It's like 787 00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,040 Speaker 2: they lift you up, they build you up, they build 788 00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:06,160 Speaker 2: you up, they build you up here the underdog. Once 789 00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 2: you get there, then they want to see you fall. 790 00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:13,600 Speaker 2: And it's just this weird, weird, bad thing. And yeah, 791 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:16,160 Speaker 2: I hope that through this pandemic that we're in, and 792 00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,120 Speaker 2: I feel like people really come together and I feel 793 00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:21,680 Speaker 2: like the world is changing for the best. I mean, 794 00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,799 Speaker 2: I'm an optimist, you know, Ben, So I don't know 795 00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:27,120 Speaker 2: if I'm delusional, but I do feel that people are 796 00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:29,080 Speaker 2: really leaning on each other right now, more than I've 797 00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:33,320 Speaker 2: ever seen, you know, versus like a hurricane or a tornado. 798 00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:35,839 Speaker 2: You know, maybe they'll come together and then once it's 799 00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:39,120 Speaker 2: kind of gets better, everybody goes back to their regular lives. 800 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:42,239 Speaker 2: This is effect that the entire universe all at the 801 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:45,560 Speaker 2: same time, and we've never experienced this. So I'm hoping. 802 00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 1: Well, the silver lining is, you know, we have to 803 00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:49,560 Speaker 1: figure out how we can do better. 804 00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:52,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, Yeah, I hope. 805 00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 4: So I'm not as I'm pretty optimistic. We know, we 806 00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:57,359 Speaker 4: started talking about my father, and my father's the most 807 00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:59,319 Speaker 4: optimistic person in the world. So in a sense, I'm 808 00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:03,320 Speaker 4: glad he's not living through the last few years politically 809 00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:06,600 Speaker 4: because it would really have distressed him. But I hope 810 00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:08,920 Speaker 4: we come back together. I certainly do. Hollywood, though, is 811 00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:11,120 Speaker 4: a there's a and I love Hollywood and I love 812 00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:14,279 Speaker 4: the people and yeah, I just meet Yeah, I like, 813 00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:16,719 Speaker 4: you know, I had this reputation when I came out 814 00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:19,200 Speaker 4: to l A about you know, what kind of town 815 00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:21,919 Speaker 4: it was going to be, and you know, it's superficial 816 00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:23,719 Speaker 4: and that's all horseship. 817 00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:26,120 Speaker 2: I mean it can be and it can like it 818 00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:28,479 Speaker 2: can be and yeah, go ahead, go ahead. 819 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:30,440 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, no, yeah, of course we could have that 820 00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:33,640 Speaker 4: idea where, you know, where people celebrate other people's failures. 821 00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:36,480 Speaker 4: And there is a slightly weird thing when a friend says, hey, man, 822 00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:39,319 Speaker 4: they bought my screenplay that you think, why did they 823 00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:40,120 Speaker 4: buy my screenplay? 824 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:40,799 Speaker 2: You know, for an. 825 00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:44,080 Speaker 4: Instant that that that's that's sort of unique to LA. 826 00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:46,560 Speaker 4: But the flip side is, man, I would you know, 827 00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:49,000 Speaker 4: I'd play poker and I'd meet some guy. 828 00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:51,799 Speaker 2: Oh, hold on, we're super time out. 829 00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:56,560 Speaker 1: Then you keep dropping things like, you know, Robert Kennedy 830 00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:58,000 Speaker 1: than poker, like your. 831 00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 2: You know, I don't know what they call it, semi 832 00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:05,520 Speaker 2: professional poker player. I live for poker. I play on 833 00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:09,760 Speaker 2: television on a regular basis up until COVID. I am obsessed. 834 00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:14,040 Speaker 2: If you google me, you'll see my poker antics. I 835 00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:16,319 Speaker 2: play in the World Series. I go for the entire month, 836 00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:18,520 Speaker 2: play all the events. I live for poker. So if 837 00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:22,120 Speaker 2: you love poker, when I wherever you where are you based? 838 00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:27,239 Speaker 2: Oh you're based there? Okay, So when when COVID goes away, 839 00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:29,719 Speaker 2: I'm gonna invite you over to my poker game so 840 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 2: we can hang out and play poker. 841 00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 4: You know, by the way, we have the same birthday. 842 00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:33,719 Speaker 4: I just want to point that out. 843 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:35,480 Speaker 2: Oh this is getting better by the minute. This is 844 00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:38,080 Speaker 2: just getting better. We're gonna party together next year, and 845 00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:40,160 Speaker 2: we're gonna have poker together. This is great. 846 00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:43,279 Speaker 4: Most of my gambling is a sports gambling. I mean, 847 00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 4: I love gambling. I just you know, it's part of mine. 848 00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:46,680 Speaker 2: That makes two of us funny, two of. 849 00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:50,239 Speaker 4: But you know, you'd go and you so you'd be 850 00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:52,800 Speaker 4: I just playing poker with friends and they some friend, 851 00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:55,840 Speaker 4: some guy somebody there would bring a guy. And you know, 852 00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:59,560 Speaker 4: I met a couple of incredibly successful writer producers on 853 00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:03,360 Speaker 4: big s and comedies, and like the whole night he 854 00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:05,960 Speaker 4: would you know, the guy would like, never say anything 855 00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:09,280 Speaker 4: remotely funny. He tried and I and he didn't seem 856 00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:11,960 Speaker 4: and I'd be like, how's this possible? And then the 857 00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:14,799 Speaker 4: next week somebody else would come and it's a bartender, right, 858 00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,279 Speaker 4: and a waiter and a guy working hard to make it, 859 00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:20,200 Speaker 4: and I would think, this is the most talented person 860 00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:23,040 Speaker 4: I've ever seen in my time, Like, how how is 861 00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:26,680 Speaker 4: this guy not? You know? So I love that And 862 00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:29,799 Speaker 4: I love meeting creative people. You know, every time I 863 00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:32,719 Speaker 4: run into somebody you can make fun of writers at Starbucks, 864 00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:34,719 Speaker 4: but then you have a conversation with him and it's 865 00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:38,719 Speaker 4: incredibly interesting. Like I love artists, man, I like being around. 866 00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:41,080 Speaker 2: I do to not only that, I want to say everyone, 867 00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,200 Speaker 2: my guy, oh on, my, my producer Timmy, who was 868 00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:49,080 Speaker 2: sitting here too. I found him at Starbucks. He was 869 00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:52,440 Speaker 2: a a barista, then he became an intern, then he 870 00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:55,520 Speaker 2: became an assistant, then he became a junior development executive, 871 00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:56,920 Speaker 2: and now he's the president of the company. 872 00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,360 Speaker 1: Wow, Hollywood dreams come true? 873 00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:00,799 Speaker 2: Yeah right, yeah, yeah yeah. 874 00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 1: Working at Starbucks one day filmmaker the next So yeah, 875 00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:08,680 Speaker 1: of course you touched on how your wife sometimes decorates 876 00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:11,160 Speaker 1: your office and you don't notice, which I love that. 877 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:14,960 Speaker 1: How did you meet this epic woman who was just 878 00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,080 Speaker 1: like putting fabulous art in your office. 879 00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:22,160 Speaker 4: We met at the TCM Film Festival, the first ever 880 00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:26,560 Speaker 4: TCM Film Festival. She was like, she's a big movie fan, 881 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:30,360 Speaker 4: she loves TCM, and she tried to get she was 882 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:33,200 Speaker 4: working in the city. She was in New York, and 883 00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:36,680 Speaker 4: she wanted to get a bunch of her girlfriends to 884 00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 4: come out with her to the our first ever film festival. 885 00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,640 Speaker 4: And you know, they were like, oh, we don't want 886 00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:44,319 Speaker 4: to go to a film festival black and white movies 887 00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:47,160 Speaker 4: or whatever, whatever dumb thing they said. 888 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:48,520 Speaker 2: And so she's cool, and. 889 00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:50,480 Speaker 4: She was like she loves architecture too, so she's like, 890 00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:53,120 Speaker 4: screw it, I'm going. So she went herself, why don't 891 00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:56,080 Speaker 4: you take a week a week afterwards in la and 892 00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:59,040 Speaker 4: Palm Springs to tour to just look at great houses, 893 00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,440 Speaker 4: look at you know, Frank Lloyd Wright designed houses, and 894 00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:04,319 Speaker 4: like she was just she was like, I'll take a 895 00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:06,480 Speaker 4: ten day vacation by myself. And we met at the festival. 896 00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:08,680 Speaker 4: I had a girlfriend at the time, but we met 897 00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,080 Speaker 4: and then you know, I broke up with my girlfriend 898 00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:13,960 Speaker 4: like three months later, and I met Lee Lee again 899 00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:18,040 Speaker 4: then at a TCM event in Atlanta where she was 900 00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:21,520 Speaker 4: with girlfriends and I was hosting some event and we 901 00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:24,000 Speaker 4: hung out. And then you know, over the next like 902 00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:26,759 Speaker 4: year and a half, she lived out of town. She 903 00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:28,759 Speaker 4: lived in New York and then moved briefly to Saint 904 00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:31,640 Speaker 4: Louis and we you know, she'd come into town a lot, 905 00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:33,440 Speaker 4: and we'd see each other and it's just sort of 906 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,200 Speaker 4: and then one because again she takes charge. It's like 907 00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:39,680 Speaker 4: two Christmas seasons later, she was like, yeah, I got 908 00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:41,479 Speaker 4: work to let me come to LA for two months. 909 00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:43,640 Speaker 4: I'm going to rent a small little house in LA 910 00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:46,960 Speaker 4: for two months and let's just see how this goes. Wow, 911 00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:50,720 Speaker 4: and now we have, you know, dogs and a family 912 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:51,720 Speaker 4: and a daughter. 913 00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:53,919 Speaker 2: How many years have you guys been together since then? 914 00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:57,040 Speaker 4: So we've been sort of like seeing each other since 915 00:43:57,160 --> 00:44:00,000 Speaker 4: like twenty eleven, and we got married in twenty thirteen. 916 00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:03,360 Speaker 2: Okay, Now I have one other question. You got married 917 00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:07,880 Speaker 2: on a cruise for the same festival, is that or 918 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:08,560 Speaker 2: explain it? 919 00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:12,040 Speaker 4: The festival is here in LA like at those great 920 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:15,240 Speaker 4: theaters at the Chinese and the Egyptian sort of in Hollywood. 921 00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,000 Speaker 4: That's where were the base at the Roosevelt Hotel. We 922 00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:19,839 Speaker 4: of course had to cancel it this year, but it'll 923 00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:23,239 Speaker 4: be back, you know, hopefully in twenty twenty one. We're 924 00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:26,359 Speaker 4: working on it. So, but that's here, that's where we met. 925 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:30,640 Speaker 4: But then we also have a cruise and so you know, 926 00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:32,440 Speaker 4: we were seeing each other and we were on the 927 00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:36,960 Speaker 4: cruise and I proposed to her and we thought, oh, 928 00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:39,520 Speaker 4: this will be fun since we met at TCM, like, 929 00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:41,719 Speaker 4: let's get married on the cruise and have you know 930 00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:48,960 Speaker 4: Gavin McLeod marius, you know, and oh wow, and you 931 00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:52,520 Speaker 4: know it wasn't Captain Steuben, but it was. And then 932 00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:54,440 Speaker 4: of course it turns out it turns out you get 933 00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:57,520 Speaker 4: married in the Caribbean on a cruise, it doesn't really count, 934 00:44:57,640 --> 00:44:58,320 Speaker 4: right because. 935 00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:00,839 Speaker 2: You have to have allasis of the piece in the city. Yeah. 936 00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:02,759 Speaker 4: Mostly you have to pay for a marriage license. That's 937 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:04,280 Speaker 4: what that's what California wants. 938 00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:05,840 Speaker 1: Exactly. 939 00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:09,080 Speaker 4: We came back and got married again, and but do 940 00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:12,560 Speaker 4: we count the real date is that one of the crews. 941 00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,480 Speaker 4: That's our anniversary was fun. Robert Wagner, who was a 942 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,400 Speaker 4: guest on the cruise. He walked, he walked my wife 943 00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:19,080 Speaker 4: down the aisle. 944 00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:21,920 Speaker 2: Come on, I mean, you just live. You live. Honestly, 945 00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 2: we are definitely playing poker together. You live the coolest life. 946 00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:28,200 Speaker 2: I'm dead serious. As soon as this shit's over, where 947 00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,200 Speaker 2: you're coming to a poker game because I think you 948 00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,560 Speaker 2: and I have a lot more in common. Even though 949 00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:36,880 Speaker 2: I am not as highly educated as you, I'm a 950 00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:40,400 Speaker 2: film school education. I definitely can relate to the gambling 951 00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:42,319 Speaker 2: and the fun that I think you are. 952 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,680 Speaker 1: Just the story like I want to come to just 953 00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:46,239 Speaker 1: hear everything. 954 00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:52,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I have one last question question. I know you're like, 955 00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:55,120 Speaker 2: you know, you're a phenomenal interviewer and you've interviewed pretty 956 00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:59,360 Speaker 2: much everybody on the planet. What interview tips would you 957 00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:03,600 Speaker 2: give us young ones who are only like twelve episodes in? 958 00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:05,600 Speaker 2: What what? What? What? What? 959 00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:05,320 Speaker 1: What? 960 00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:06,799 Speaker 2: What do we need. 961 00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:08,280 Speaker 1: To give used? 962 00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:10,480 Speaker 4: So the best thing that I look first of all, 963 00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:15,040 Speaker 4: I paid attention to Howard Stern, David Letterman, and Dan Patrick, 964 00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:17,920 Speaker 4: who I think is actually a really good interview interviewer. 965 00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,719 Speaker 4: They're all different, but the most important thing, you know, 966 00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:24,520 Speaker 4: prepare right, like, don't get caught up because the preparation 967 00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:28,759 Speaker 4: helps you, and it helps it also helps them, but 968 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:31,080 Speaker 4: it helps you. You don't need to memorize it. But 969 00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:34,399 Speaker 4: when you feel secure that you're not going to get blindsided, 970 00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:36,680 Speaker 4: that you're not afraid to figure out how to pronounce 971 00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:39,760 Speaker 4: somebody's name or what movies they did or who directed 972 00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:42,680 Speaker 4: those movies, it just gives you confidence. It gives you 973 00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:45,960 Speaker 4: confidence to then be funny because you're not scared. So 974 00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:48,000 Speaker 4: the preparation, it's not so much that you need to 975 00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:50,640 Speaker 4: recall what you prepared. It's fine if you can't remember something. 976 00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:54,600 Speaker 4: But when I realized that if I prepped and I 977 00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:57,840 Speaker 4: felt confident, then when I couldn't think of something, I 978 00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:01,040 Speaker 4: didn't have to pretend I could day. You know, when 979 00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:04,000 Speaker 4: you were doing oh for crying out loud the Hitchcock 980 00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:07,080 Speaker 4: movie with Carrie Grant Ingrid Bergmann had come down the stairs, 981 00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:09,840 Speaker 4: you know, you know, and then the person go notorious. 982 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:10,760 Speaker 2: I go right notorious. 983 00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:14,920 Speaker 4: Whereas if I weren't prepared, I'd be terrified of that moment. 984 00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,719 Speaker 2: So it's really just doing your homework, like, really do 985 00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:18,520 Speaker 2: your homework. 986 00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:21,200 Speaker 4: So they do two things, Okay, two things real quick, 987 00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:23,040 Speaker 4: So yes, do your homework because it lets you be 988 00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,960 Speaker 4: funny and spontaneous, which you might be afraid to do. 989 00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 4: And then secondly, this is obvious, but it's really hard 990 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,320 Speaker 4: to do. It took me a long time. Don't worry 991 00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:34,560 Speaker 4: about your questions. Think about what you want to ask, 992 00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:38,720 Speaker 4: but then just listen. If you're really listening, you will 993 00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:43,760 Speaker 4: ask something different. And frequently the best questions are really 994 00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:45,919 Speaker 4: because then there's some personal just because then the person 995 00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:49,480 Speaker 4: will just go on or huh, and I didn't know 996 00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:53,600 Speaker 4: that really those three things that just gets people talking, 997 00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:56,160 Speaker 4: and they like it when people are interested in what 998 00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:59,720 Speaker 4: they had to say. And if you avoid the cliches 999 00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:02,600 Speaker 4: of in an interview, and don't fake laugh, and don't 1000 00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:04,840 Speaker 4: you know these little things. I learned all that stuff 1001 00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:07,640 Speaker 4: from being on local TV. And I'd see myself fake laugh. 1002 00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:09,959 Speaker 4: If I recorded a and i'd cringe. 1003 00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:11,719 Speaker 1: I'd be like, you knew it was a fake laugh. 1004 00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:14,600 Speaker 1: You're like, oh, that's the time that I pretended super hard, right. 1005 00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:16,240 Speaker 4: You could you know you're an ankor you're an anchor 1006 00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,120 Speaker 4: and the weather person says, you know, you'd say to Sherry, 1007 00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:21,600 Speaker 4: you'd be like, you know, our weather person, you know. 1008 00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:25,000 Speaker 4: I'd be like Sherry, what's our Sunday looking like? Like, 1009 00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:27,560 Speaker 4: why a laughing laugh? 1010 00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:30,919 Speaker 2: That's not kidding, I'm kidding. It's not even a joke. 1011 00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:32,560 Speaker 2: That's right. 1012 00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:35,000 Speaker 4: Well that no, right, My laugh is like now you know, 1013 00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:37,920 Speaker 4: because it's so absurd, you know. Okay, Sherry, great stuff, 1014 00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:41,640 Speaker 4: thanks you, Thanks for the good weather today. 1015 00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:45,160 Speaker 2: This is good. Honestly, Ben, that is really good advice 1016 00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:47,359 Speaker 2: because number one, I need to shut up a lot. 1017 00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:48,919 Speaker 2: You can see that, so I'm going to get better 1018 00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:52,040 Speaker 2: at that. But two, I do like the preparation because 1019 00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:55,640 Speaker 2: I feel like in the twelve episodes we've done, when 1020 00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:58,600 Speaker 2: we're prepared, baby, we we are really like on point. 1021 00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:02,719 Speaker 1: But we'll be honest though, Ben. Sometimes I'm interviewing, you know, 1022 00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,359 Speaker 1: like people on vander Pump Rules, which you probably don't 1023 00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:07,719 Speaker 1: even know. That is easy. When I look at a 1024 00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:10,840 Speaker 1: resume like yours, I'm like, what's my name again? 1025 00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:16,359 Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like I'm talking to a 1026 00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:19,600 Speaker 2: colleague versus having no clue. When we bring on the 1027 00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:21,880 Speaker 2: vanderfug people and I'm like, who did you beat the 1028 00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:24,560 Speaker 2: shit out of last episode? I have no clue. So 1029 00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:29,279 Speaker 2: this has actually been really enjoyable, Ben, and very appreciative 1030 00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:32,040 Speaker 2: and I'm a huge fan of yours now and we 1031 00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:34,920 Speaker 2: could go on for another hour, but they're telling us 1032 00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:37,319 Speaker 2: we got to wrap it up, which Ben, is there 1033 00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:40,400 Speaker 2: anything else I can say or or let people know 1034 00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:42,960 Speaker 2: where to find you besides the new podcast? Is there 1035 00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:44,040 Speaker 2: any other things? Sure? 1036 00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:47,640 Speaker 4: Definitely check out Definitely check out the block thickens. I'm 1037 00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:51,240 Speaker 4: still Peter Bugdanovich. Wherever you get podcasts. We've had four episodes, 1038 00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:53,680 Speaker 4: we got I think the three or three more and 1039 00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:56,399 Speaker 4: you can on Twitter's really the only place I am. 1040 00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:58,520 Speaker 4: Ben MANK seven seven perfect. 1041 00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:01,120 Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Ben, I'm so appreciative your your 1042 00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:03,359 Speaker 1: story is epic. Plus you gave us advice. I feel 1043 00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:04,480 Speaker 1: like I should be paying person. 1044 00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:06,279 Speaker 2: Thank you, it was fun. 1045 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:07,239 Speaker 4: Thanks for having me guys. 1046 00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:08,040 Speaker 1: Thank you, Ben. 1047 00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:10,520 Speaker 2: Hi, this is Kim. 1048 00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:12,520 Speaker 3: I love, love, love your podcast. 1049 00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:14,880 Speaker 2: And just to let Randall know he does have fans 1050 00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:16,680 Speaker 2: because he is the number one guy. 1051 00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:20,760 Speaker 1: Thank you, my loves to everyone who has already left 1052 00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:23,160 Speaker 1: us epic messages and keep. 1053 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:25,160 Speaker 2: Them coming because we love hearing from you. Guys. 1054 00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:28,319 Speaker 1: Call us anytime at eight sixty six La La Pod. 1055 00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:30,640 Speaker 1: That's eight sixty six La La Pod. 1056 00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:32,360 Speaker 2: Yes, thank you for listening.