1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:01,320 Speaker 1: I learned real quick. 2 00:00:01,320 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 2: I couldn't leave my drunk night jeans with the yundies 3 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 2: and I'm next to my bedside for more than a day, 4 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 2: or he'd be like the old Aeron and Chris, Hey, 5 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:13,399 Speaker 2: what's going on over here? You know the quick I'm 6 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 2: like getting I'm I've. 7 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: Had a. 8 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 2: Just like throw yourself in bed and it all comes 9 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 2: off in one kind of thing. 10 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 1: Calm Down with Erin and Chrissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 11 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: And Welcome to the College. I just found out, yeah, welcome, 12 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 2: Sorry to interrupt. I just found out, as we talked 13 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,959 Speaker 2: about it in our pregame show your battery right now 14 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:39,879 Speaker 2: is at a seventy. 15 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: I am at. 16 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:44,560 Speaker 2: I just spent forty eight hours with you, I would say, 17 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 2: and I didn't want you to leave. By the way, 18 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:49,279 Speaker 2: it felt too short. I felt like I met. I'm 19 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 2: I'm at a thirty two. 20 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 1: Really, I okay, we're not in the red. 21 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 3: We're not in the red yet hot down to twenty 22 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 3: five where we're or twenty percent where it's blinking low battery. 23 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm met a seventy only because I'm someone 24 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 3: And actually Tony Gonzalez brought this up to me. He 25 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 3: said that I get energy from being around other people 26 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 3: because his wife Toby's like this. He goes, if I'm 27 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 3: around a lot of people, my battery gets strained. You 28 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 3: and Toby, the minute you're around more people, you guys 29 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 3: like get filled with energy. So since I just left 30 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 3: you and we had, even in albeit a short amount 31 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 3: of time, had such a great time great yess. I 32 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 3: was tired physically, but like I'm like emotionally and like spiritually. 33 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 1: Full of happiness. Like yeah, that also leads me too. 34 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 3: When I was with Aaron, I kept being like, I 35 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:39,839 Speaker 3: just feel so connected to you, and She's like what 36 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 3: So when we had this great trip as we talked 37 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,399 Speaker 3: about on last week's podcast, and it was so much 38 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 3: fun and it's hard, Like, let's be honest, when you 39 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 3: go on a trip with a girlfriend and there's Zick 40 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 3: Nick Fick and other there could be couple trips that 41 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 3: get like oh fuck, like what we've had enough of 42 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 3: these people, or like do we have to do enough? 43 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 3: We're out of things to talk about, or like they're 44 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 3: trying to plan stuff we don't want to. 45 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: Do things who booked this restaurant? 46 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 3: Jared, It's like it could get like and even if 47 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 3: you love the person, it could get like nitpicky and 48 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 3: you're like, okay, I'm ready for a break. Our time 49 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:13,919 Speaker 3: together was the perfect amount of time. We did the 50 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 3: perfect amount of stuff. It was like, I don't know, 51 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 3: I just left our vacation feeling really I don't know, 52 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 3: like wait for it connected to you. 53 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 1: And so then when I saw you again, I was 54 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 1: just missing you. So I don't know. 55 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 3: I just kept looking at Aaron the last couple of 56 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 3: days and being like, I'm just like, you know, so happy. 57 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 3: And all relationships and friendships go through like different things 58 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 3: where you're like, eh, they're annoying me or whatever. But 59 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 3: I'm really into Aeron right now. So that's the moral 60 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 3: of the story. 61 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 2: But I got to tell you, and I'm sure this 62 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 2: will be a headline. Aeron Andrews tells Carissia fuck off. 63 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,519 Speaker 2: I felt so bad about that that night we were 64 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 2: having a conversation and I was being like, oh, fuck off. 65 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 2: And I had said that to Jared a couple of 66 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 2: days before too, And I thought to myself at three am, 67 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 2: as I woke up from the sweats, probably the alcohol 68 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 2: and things I was I was going over in my mind, 69 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 2: that's a Sex in the City movie. I was like, 70 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 2: oh my god, I think it's too much of not 71 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 2: hanging out with guys, but more of like using the 72 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 2: using the F word and like being so much like 73 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 2: a guy all the time, like stop, don't say that. 74 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 2: Because when I said it to my husband, he was 75 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 2: like whoa. And then when you said I said it 76 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 2: to you, you were like whoa. And I was like, no, 77 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 2: not like that, like I'm so sorry. 78 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 3: So you're be I love you. You're being sensitive about that, 79 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 3: but I can completely understand. We were just having a 80 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 3: conversation and I said to me to Error and she's. 81 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:33,959 Speaker 1: Like, oh, fuck off, and I was like, whoa. 82 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 3: But I said to Steve shut the fuck up the 83 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 3: other day and I didn't mean it. We were in 84 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 3: our Tommy Linda liked it, and I was like, you 85 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 3: heard it, and I was like, shut the fuck up, Tommy, 86 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 3: and it was like and then later he said to me, 87 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 3: He's like, don't say that to me, and I was like, 88 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 3: I didn't mean it, Like we were in characters. So 89 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 3: I think you and I actually think that's something that's 90 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 3: good to be mindful of, because even if we were 91 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 3: not sensitive people, especially like towards each other. We can 92 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 3: know like when yeah, that's true, I'll take that back. 93 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 3: I am sensitive. Que the number of times I've cried 94 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 3: in the back seat on the way home from events 95 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 3: with you. 96 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: No, it's it. 97 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 2: Woke up with sweats and her palpitations at three am 98 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 2: after saying that to you. 99 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:18,160 Speaker 3: You know, I think that we're sensitive if we, I 100 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 3: don't know. I don't want to, like, you know, overly 101 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 3: diagnose the situation. I think that in general, we could 102 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:26,159 Speaker 3: probably just be mindful of, yes, that we are that 103 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 3: locker room kind of chitter chatty selves and it's like 104 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 3: it's kind of gross sometimes. But that was not the 105 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 3: case in the referenced story above. All right, but I 106 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 3: got to clean up my act, cleaning up our act, 107 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 3: and also just thinking how it sounds like to other people, 108 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 3: because then when I said that to Steve, I was like, 109 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 3: oh my god, people are probably like that's how they 110 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 3: talk to each other, and it does matter, even if 111 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:51,919 Speaker 3: it's joking around. It's kind of nasty to tell, like 112 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 3: your partner in a joking way, shut the fuck up. 113 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:55,719 Speaker 1: That's weird. If I heard that, I'd. 114 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 3: Be like, these two are rude, all right, So we'll 115 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 3: work on it, no problem. But I never felt closer, 116 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:08,039 Speaker 3: never fell closer. So holiday weekend, fourth of July, I 117 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 3: was up in Seattle celebrating my mom's birthday. Still on 118 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 3: the fifth, I got to see my whole family, which 119 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 3: they always have a celebration for my mom's birthday. They 120 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 3: I have not been up there, and this is completely 121 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 3: my fault. Don't not make any excuses for like the 122 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 3: last six years. And I was like, this year, I'm 123 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 3: going up And it was so much fun. And my 124 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 3: nieces and nephews. I know I've talked about this before 125 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 3: when they came to the ranch. There ones going to college, 126 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 3: one's already, one just graduated college, one's a senior in 127 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 3: high school. Like I'm just crazy, so much fun with 128 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 3: this age with them. And I have to say, when 129 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 3: I left, they all sent me separately, and I know 130 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 3: it's not because their parents told them to. They all 131 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 3: individually sent me separate texts that said how much they 132 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 3: enjoyed spending time with me and how much they loved 133 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 3: talking to me, and how they can appreciate that they 134 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:56,280 Speaker 3: can confide in me, and I just again, I'm not 135 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:58,480 Speaker 3: going to be a mother, so for me, to feel 136 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 3: like I can be there and maybe be that like 137 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 3: I don't know where you can't tell your parents, but like, yeah, 138 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 3: you can tell me things, and like, look, I'm not 139 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 3: going to keep stuff from your parents, but I'm also 140 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 3: not going to tell them everything because I think you 141 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 3: need to have a safe space that's not your parents, 142 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 3: you know. So I just left there with a full 143 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 3: heart thinking about how excited I am to be in 144 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:23,559 Speaker 3: their lives, because I wasn't as much as I should 145 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 3: have been the last couple of years. Like life gets 146 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 3: busy and they're busy, and they're also we're in a 147 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:30,039 Speaker 3: teenage phase that where they probably weren't into me anyways. 148 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,479 Speaker 3: But I feel like there's a new season with them 149 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 3: and I'm really excited to foster those relationships. 150 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:37,039 Speaker 1: But yeah, we had a great time. 151 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 3: And let me just tell you what the fireworks show 152 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 3: that my brother and my brother in law put on. 153 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:47,600 Speaker 3: It was like Macy's Fourth of July Parade in New York. 154 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 3: I was like, this went on from I mean it 155 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 3: doesn't get dark in Seattle into like ten thirty. It 156 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 3: went on from ten thirty to like three in the morning, 157 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 3: like to the point where like I had to go 158 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 3: to bed. I was like, cause we were flying out 159 00:06:57,800 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 3: the next day and I was like, Steve, we got 160 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 3: to go to bed three o'clock in the morning. These 161 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 3: fireworks are still going off because they are in an 162 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 3: area where they're totally. 163 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 1: Legal and people just go crazy. 164 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: But yeah, so they bought up still setting them off 165 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 2: at three am. 166 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:14,679 Speaker 3: My brother and brother in law retired somewhere around twelve thirty. 167 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 3: But like the neighborhood because where my parents are at 168 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 3: is like on the water, so there's like all these 169 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 3: other surrounding neighborhoods that you can see, like from. 170 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 1: Across the water. So yeah, they're wild. But it was 171 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: so fun. 172 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 3: And I've said this before about any holiday that has 173 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 3: to do with, like, you know, America, I just love it. 174 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 3: And we played you know, Fourth of July playlist off 175 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 3: Spotify and the barbecue and it's just, I don't know, 176 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 3: it was really fun and it's such a great holiday. 177 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 3: That made me really happy. So I know you were 178 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 3: in Montana, so tell me, Yeah, I was in Montana. 179 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 2: We were. It was fun. We went to a barbecue 180 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 2: out here. It was a good time. Saw a bunch 181 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 2: of friends. No drone show or fireworks. We can't have 182 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 2: fireworks out there because of the rain or rain. They 183 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 2: don't want fires drought drone show. There was a lot 184 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 2: of rain, so it couldn't do it. But listen, it 185 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 2: was a great time. It felt like Fourth of July 186 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 2: when my little firecracker walked through the door on July fifth, 187 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 2: meaning you and that was me and then no and 188 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:16,119 Speaker 2: Steve walked in and uh, yeah, that was a good time. 189 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 2: This is uh, this is an interesting I know it's 190 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 2: not part of our rundown, sorry, Ryan, but this is 191 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 2: an interesting thing to add to the equation. So you 192 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 2: guys like have come over, you know my son, but 193 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 2: we've done a lot of trips without him, because it's 194 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 2: like it's adult time and hosting people. When you have 195 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 2: a child that wakes up at seven am and wakes 196 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 2: up and is like la la la la la la, 197 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 2: and you know that you and your friends probably didn't 198 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:50,320 Speaker 2: shut her d till about two, it's like it's another level. 199 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 1: You're like, oh god, I feel so bad right. 200 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 2: Now, Like now I want to start providing people with 201 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:59,559 Speaker 2: noise machines in their rooms so they really he's. 202 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 1: The noise outside. She's being dramatic. 203 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:05,959 Speaker 3: I heard mac one time, and that was like his 204 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 3: excitement and enthusiasm for life. And I was so excited 205 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 3: to see Aim. Although I got to tell you, I know, 206 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 3: I wasn't there that long because we had to leave, 207 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:16,719 Speaker 3: but I was hoping to spend more time with Mac. 208 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 1: No social calendar is so busy. 209 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 3: Every time I came upstairs, he's off on doing this, 210 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 3: he's off doing this, he's off doing that. I'm like, 211 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 3: he's so busy, where's my nephew. I didn't even get 212 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 3: to see him. This guy is like the mayor over there. 213 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 2: We just tried to set up like a mini playdate 214 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 2: for him if you listen, he doesn't have time, like 215 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 2: if you're he's got things. So playdate didn't happen. And 216 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 2: it was like, yeah, sorry, I mean, I'm busy, busy. 217 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 1: So busy. 218 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 3: But he's in such a great, fun little age and 219 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 3: like walking around with his little Mickey Mouse T shirt 220 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 3: and his Nikes, and he's always styled out. This kid 221 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 3: always has a whole vibe going. But yeah, do you 222 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 3: need to stop it? Your kid was not Also, he's 223 00:09:57,840 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 3: a child. He could hit his house. 224 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, Still you feel you're very cognizant of who 225 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 2: else is in your house and you're like, sorry, please 226 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 2: went to bed three hours ago. 227 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:11,439 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. Please, You're the most gracious host. 228 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 3: I also it's so bad that, like, because you are 229 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 3: so generous and I'm there a lot, I just act 230 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 3: like it's my house. I had you want to start 231 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 3: on your conpectations. I had multiple times that I said 232 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 3: things to you on this trip and I was like, Carissa, 233 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 3: shut your mouth. Are you like saying? 234 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 1: I was like, who do you think you are? I 235 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: was like, what, this is not your house? 236 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 3: All right? We got a lot to talk about on 237 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:41,880 Speaker 3: this here show. Obviously, we just recapped our fourth of 238 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:43,200 Speaker 3: July activities. 239 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:43,559 Speaker 1: Aaron. 240 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 3: I can't not get enough of her. I just need 241 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 3: to spend time with her all the time. But I'm 242 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:48,839 Speaker 3: going to talk or we're going to talk about a 243 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 3: few things on this show. Aaron's gonna need to get 244 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 3: some more sleep, so we're gonna to talk about what 245 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 3: I mean by that. Also, I have this thing that 246 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 3: I think about a lot, and I've sort of mentioned 247 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 3: it on here before so as eron on various podcasts. 248 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 3: But I'm going to get into what I do when 249 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 3: Steve's not around at home, and. 250 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 1: It's I don't know. 251 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 3: I just need to know if anyone else is doing 252 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 3: the same things. We also have some fun headlines that 253 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 3: we're going to get to and let's just jump right 254 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 3: into it. Yeah. So so starting with Aaron getting sleep. Yeah, 255 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 3: we're going to piggyback right off of the Matt conversation 256 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 3: because you do have a child that wakes up early, 257 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:27,959 Speaker 3: and you're a very good mom and you want to 258 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 3: get up with your child. 259 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 1: You're not sleeping in and letting somebody else get up 260 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 1: with your kid. You are up. But then also you 261 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: don't go to bed until later. And so here's the thing. 262 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 2: He gets up at seven, So that's not really that 263 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 2: early if you think about, like, I'm just not sleeping 264 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 2: in it anymore. I'm not sleeping in anymore unless we 265 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:49,440 Speaker 2: go on vacation, which is this is when it alarmed you. 266 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:52,560 Speaker 3: You still didn't sleep in con vication. What's the latest 267 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 3: you slept in when we were gone? Honestly, maybe nine. Okay, 268 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 3: that's not enough time. I don't think that's enough time. 269 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 3: And I'm somebody who I used to now at the ranch, 270 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 3: I would do wake up a lot earlier because I 271 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:08,680 Speaker 3: want to I want to hear an animals. I want 272 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 3: to let them out, Like there's different gates. I need 273 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 3: to let them out. I feel bad like if I 274 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:15,080 Speaker 3: don't if I'm sleeping in, like there's certain things, but 275 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 3: that's not I'm not here all the time. The reason 276 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 3: why I'm so like on you about this sleep situation 277 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 3: is because we talk all the time. We do all 278 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 3: these things for her house. You work out like a 279 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 3: crazy person. You take all of your supplements. You do 280 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 3: all these things for your health the number one thing. 281 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 1: And I'm not a. 282 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 3: Doctor, but I'll see all the articles on sleep, and 283 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 3: I saw this article on Dakota Johnson actually talking about 284 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 3: how she needs like ten to twelve hours of sleep 285 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 3: but really loves to sleep, and I was like, good. 286 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,320 Speaker 3: I was like, I never used to be someone that 287 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 3: would want to sleep. I feel like, oh, I'm missing stuff. 288 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 3: I need to be up, I need to be doing things. 289 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 3: My ass was asleep on this couch last night. I'm 290 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 3: not Stee's not here, but he will be. And I 291 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 3: was asleep by maybe nine thirty, I think I was. 292 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 3: And I was so happy going to bed early, waking 293 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:09,079 Speaker 3: up refreshed. I just want that for you because I 294 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 3: know like you make everybody else a priority, and you 295 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 3: think too much before you go to bed. Yep, So 296 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 3: since we don't have a lot of time before football 297 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 3: season starts, and then football is like, you know, you're 298 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 3: on the hamster wheel and there's a lot of reasons 299 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 3: why you're not gonna get sleep, and you're on planes 300 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 3: and your this and that. I want you to try 301 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 3: to make that a point of emphasis. I'm not a doctor, Cindy, 302 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 3: but I want that for you. So I love you. No, 303 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 3: I have to I Yeah, I just couldn't. 304 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. 305 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 2: Sometimes too, like when we were out on our vacation 306 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 2: and we're drinking like a lot the night before, it's 307 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 2: like I cannot sleep in After I do that, I 308 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:46,559 Speaker 2: feel like the sugar gets me. I don't know, I'm 309 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:47,520 Speaker 2: making excuses. 310 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 1: I need to go to bed a lot earlier than 311 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:51,840 Speaker 1: I do, and I need to you know. 312 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like the key right now with Mackie doodle 313 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 2: Doo is that I've got to go to bed a 314 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 2: lot earlier. 315 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 1: So I will. I gotta do it. 316 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 3: You could, I there's anything you want me to work on, 317 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 3: let me know. This is in a one way stre 318 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 3: my God. Ryan just wrote in our chat. Dakota Johnson 319 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:10,200 Speaker 3: likes to sleep four fourteen hours a night. I'm not 320 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 3: functional if I get less than ten. 321 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 1: There you go. 322 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 2: My number one part is that why her skin looks 323 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:18,680 Speaker 2: that way and her body? Yeah, I'm telling you, yeah, 324 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 2: But then think about it. You're also not making bad choice. 325 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 3: You're not making as many bad choices if you're going 326 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:26,000 Speaker 3: to bed earlier, not staying up now, I'll be at 327 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 3: vacation's fine, or like our little rendezvus are fine. 328 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 1: But like if you the earlier you go to bed, 329 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 1: to bed. 330 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 3: Less, you're eating shitty food, the less you're drinking drinking 331 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 3: sleep is that's my new that's my new hobby. When 332 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 3: people ask your hobby is my new thing is sleeping. 333 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 3: And I'm not going to feel bad about it. 334 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 2: Uh. 335 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 3: I'm sick of waking up with bags under my eyes 336 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 3: and looking like I'm tired. I have to drink more water, 337 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 3: I am. This is so whatever. I'm sure everybody may 338 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 3: be listening to this. Feels like I should drink more 339 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 3: water too. I don't like doing things that everybody else does, 340 00:14:57,800 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 3: those fucking cups that everyone carry around, and it's like, uh, exactly, 341 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 3: And so I was like, I'm not going to carry 342 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 3: around a cup. Okay, I'm gonna tell you what I 343 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 3: am doing carrying around again now because it'll let me 344 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 3: drink more water. And if I don't do it, and 345 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:13,480 Speaker 3: I don't want to have a water bottle, and then 346 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 3: I have drink one ounce out of the water bottle 347 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 3: and it's wasteful. The plastic bottles are everywhere. Just fill 348 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 3: up the cup and drink out of it. I'm gonna 349 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 3: get better about that, because like my skin is looking 350 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 3: dry a high high. 351 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 1: It's not. It's not, but I get it. 352 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, Ryan, since you're our stats guy right now, 353 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 2: is there something on Jennifer Aniston in the amount of 354 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 2: water she drinks? 355 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: I feel like she's a big water gal. The only 356 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 1: thing is having to peel lot. But I don't care. 357 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 1: I have to still do it because there's time. Oh 358 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 1: my god. 359 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 3: The other day I went to the end of the 360 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 3: when I was with you. It was the whole day 361 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 3: when I was like, I haven't Pete, like, this is 362 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 3: a problem. If you're going all day and you haven't 363 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 3: stopped use the bathroom, you think you're doing No. 364 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 1: It was the I got to your house. 365 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 2: I believe this is a quote from our favorite Yeah 366 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 2: ja as I like to say, don't know or would 367 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 2: love to drink so much water. 368 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 1: It's painful, painful, wear like in your stomach. Oh no, 369 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 1: feeling bloated. I don't know. But it's just a day. 370 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 3: So you need sleep and you're good about water hydration 371 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 3: packets and stuff like that. 372 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 2: I am all right. So so you just mentioned Steve 373 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 2: is not there. He's going to be not there. Yeah, 374 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 2: he's on his way. Yes, by the time this hairs, 375 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 2: he will be here. 376 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 3: So I have this thing that when he's gone, I 377 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 3: do things that I wouldn't normally do if he was around. 378 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 3: Nothing crazy and outlandish, but just like I won't make 379 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 3: my bed, and I am a stickler for making the 380 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:50,240 Speaker 3: bed like I was raised every morning before I left 381 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 3: for school, Like my dad made me make my bed, 382 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 3: like I was just ingrained, like you have to do it. 383 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 1: So when I started to take that stead away, he would. 384 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 3: Not always make the bed, and I'm like, oh my god, 385 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 3: you have to make the bed every single day. 386 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 1: Well, when he's not around, I don't make the bed. 387 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:06,199 Speaker 1: And he knows this. 388 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 3: No, he's gonna find out because I my psychology is 389 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:13,600 Speaker 3: if he thinks that I do it every day, then 390 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 3: he should be doing it every day as well, because 391 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 3: I guarantee you when I go out of town for 392 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:21,200 Speaker 3: Thursday night football, that bed is not made Wednesday night 393 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:24,359 Speaker 3: Thursday night, and he fucking scrambles to make that bed 394 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:25,720 Speaker 3: on Friday morning because and. 395 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:27,640 Speaker 1: I go, do you make the bets? 396 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:31,960 Speaker 3: Like yeah, but I just so I don't do it either, 397 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:33,920 Speaker 3: And I feel like we should just both come clean 398 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:36,399 Speaker 3: with each other because he's hiding it from me, and 399 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:37,920 Speaker 3: I bet you he doesn't do it, and he just 400 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:40,119 Speaker 3: says that he does. So things like that were like 401 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 3: I'll let the dishes pile up in the sink, I'll 402 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 3: leave shit all around on my shoes. Yeah, just the 403 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:48,119 Speaker 3: whole place looks like a disaster. And then five minutes 404 00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 3: before I know he's coming home. It was like when 405 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 3: my garage, when my dad came home from work in 406 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 3: the garage door opened, I was like shit and like 407 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 3: cleaned up everything along the house. Yeah. But I have 408 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:02,320 Speaker 3: this thing where I don't know, like, what's the longest 409 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:05,880 Speaker 3: stint that you've lived by yourself, like before you were 410 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:10,120 Speaker 3: oh pre Jarrett. Yeah, because I feel like, I mean, 411 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:15,879 Speaker 3: I've always sort of been until Jarrett. Really yeah, he 412 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 3: was the first guy you lived with. Yes, how was 413 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:25,120 Speaker 3: that transition? Because that is that right? Yeah? 414 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:28,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's pretty much right, because I didn't have a 415 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 2: long distance Yeah, okay, okay, transition. 416 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:33,120 Speaker 1: I learned real quick. 417 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 2: I couldn't leave my drunk night jeans with the yundies 418 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 2: and I'm next to my bedside for more than a day, 419 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 2: or he'd be like the old Aaron and Chris. I 420 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:45,960 Speaker 2: hate what's going on over here? You know the quick 421 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:50,879 Speaker 2: I'm like getting I'm I've had a throw yourself in 422 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 2: bed and it all comes off in one kind of thing, 423 00:18:53,080 --> 00:19:01,520 Speaker 2: not beform. Yeah, yeah, exactly. Yeah, because I've always i mean, 424 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 2: I'm a relationship person, so like I've lived with a 425 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 2: lot of different I've lived with a lot of different guys. 426 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 1: I lived with a lot of men, and I have. 427 00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 3: I've lived I mean, if I really was like I mean, 428 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 3: I was married twice and then I had long term 429 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 3: boyfriends like I lived you know, one with five years 430 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 3: lived with him, one. 431 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 1: Was two years, basically lived with him. 432 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 3: But anyways, so I've just always had someone in the space. 433 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 3: So I feel this freedom when they leave and I'm like, 434 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:33,880 Speaker 3: oh my god, I just get to do whatever I want. 435 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 1: I just eat whatever I. 436 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 3: Want because also too, like Steve like loves cooking. So 437 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:39,359 Speaker 3: every night, so what do you want for dinner? And 438 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 3: I'm like, I want top Rahmen. Like last night, you 439 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:44,919 Speaker 3: know I had I had the tuna fish packets that 440 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:48,360 Speaker 3: are like you basically have for earthquakes because they will 441 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:51,639 Speaker 3: last forever, the tuna fish packet and rice and I 442 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:54,200 Speaker 3: ninety seconds, Yeah your rice? 443 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:58,439 Speaker 1: You like bos Maddy. I love Bosmody that. 444 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:02,879 Speaker 3: When we were in France, everything had Bosmody rice and 445 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:05,440 Speaker 3: I was like, I love Bosmody, but yeah, ninety seconds 446 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:09,200 Speaker 3: in the old microwave. I'm a I am a bachelor, 447 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:13,119 Speaker 3: I am a full dude. When it comes to he 448 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:17,640 Speaker 3: wasn't in my life. I would be malnutrition. I wouldn't 449 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:20,359 Speaker 3: eat like because I don't like cooking. So and it 450 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 3: was the ninety second meal. It was the cores light 451 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 3: and the plastic tupperware on the couch while watching my 452 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 3: HGTV shows last night. And I'm excited again to do 453 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 3: it tonight. And then he's going to come strolling in 454 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 3: here and he's going to go, oh, what do you 455 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:35,879 Speaker 3: want to eat for dinner? And I'm like, why is 456 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:38,160 Speaker 3: every meal need to be a conversation? Like I could 457 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 3: just have some chips and in athletic greens and I'd 458 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 3: be fine. I don't need to have a meal every 459 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:46,639 Speaker 3: five seconds. So anyways, I just love I love my 460 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 3: man so much, irish Are. 461 00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 1: I love him. 462 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 3: But I like when he goes out of town because 463 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:54,320 Speaker 3: then I just here's a bachelor. 464 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 2: That would be the same for me when Jarrett was 465 00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 2: playing hockey or any like hockey trips he goes on now, 466 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:00,919 Speaker 2: or golf for that matter. 467 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:03,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like you kind of let your hair. 468 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 2: Down a little bit and you have a good you know, 469 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,440 Speaker 2: not a good time, but you don't have to clean 470 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 2: up everything. I mean, I got a whole situation right 471 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 2: now in the bathroom where I've got like four different 472 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 2: outfits hanging not hanging, but they're like laying over the tub. 473 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:18,440 Speaker 1: Girl, girl, put those on the I love the tob move. 474 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:21,840 Speaker 2: I do the to move, but it's ye messy right now, 475 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 2: I'm messy. Yeah, I like the tob move because then 476 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 2: you throw because it's stuff that you know, either needs 477 00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 2: to go to dry cleaning, so that's a sember area 478 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:32,560 Speaker 2: or like dirty closes, right there. The hamper's fine, but 479 00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:34,960 Speaker 2: it's stuff that, like you, doesn't need to be dry cleaned. 480 00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 3: And it's the jackets. You just throw that over because 481 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:37,640 Speaker 3: we're not hanging that up. 482 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I like the. 483 00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 2: Bathtub move okay, yeah, and then it was on my way. 484 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 2: I work my way into the side of the bathtub 485 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:47,160 Speaker 2: one where it's like then it now it can't make 486 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:50,840 Speaker 2: the hamper. It's the undies, the socks, the workout closes. 487 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:52,639 Speaker 2: It's like, girl, put it in the hamper. It's right 488 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:54,640 Speaker 2: there in the hamper. Yeah, that's what I do when 489 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:57,440 Speaker 2: he's not in town. Absolutely, and it's a crap TV. 490 00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:00,520 Speaker 2: It's like the stuff I wouldn't watch with him, Like 491 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 2: I am I catching up on a housewives? 492 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:04,680 Speaker 1: Am I not? Yeah, stuff like that. 493 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:08,679 Speaker 3: I did the Mormon housewife reunion the other day. He 494 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 3: comes walking in and I go, I paused it. I go, uhh, 495 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:13,440 Speaker 3: I go. I'm going to tell you right now, you're 496 00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 3: not going to like this. And if you come in 497 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,000 Speaker 3: here and you want to hang out with me, that's great, 498 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 3: and I appreciate that. But there's no questions and there's 499 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,239 Speaker 3: no noises because this is the other thing he'll do. 500 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 3: He'll go oh god, what Yeah, no noises. No, no 501 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 3: no noises. You you are zipping. Put that hostage shape 502 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:33,440 Speaker 3: back on the mouth, and you can sit next to 503 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:35,639 Speaker 3: me and be quiet. There's no questions, there's no noises 504 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 3: because I'm going to tell you right now, I don't 505 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:40,600 Speaker 3: come strolling in to your documentaries that you like to 506 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:44,320 Speaker 3: watch and start asking all these questions about the history 507 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:47,359 Speaker 3: of advertising or your marketing or your golf stuff or 508 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 3: whatever it is that you're watching. 509 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:48,880 Speaker 1: No. 510 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 3: So this is my space. You want to come into it. 511 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 3: Zip it and no judging. 512 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:57,359 Speaker 2: Hey, speaking of Mormon Wives, this show which I need 513 00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:01,119 Speaker 2: to get up on, Yeah, I want to watch it 514 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 2: when I'm alone. I went to a girl to help 515 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 2: fix the nonsense that went on with my roots a 516 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:12,199 Speaker 2: week and a half ago, and she was telling me 517 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:16,479 Speaker 2: that a real big trend right now for gals that 518 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,119 Speaker 2: are coming in is I want the Mormon wave. 519 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 1: Oh you know when curl? You know who asked me 520 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:23,119 Speaker 1: to do that? 521 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,639 Speaker 3: The other day, my sweet niece, she goes, can you 522 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 3: curl my hair like the Mormon Housewives. It's just it's 523 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,399 Speaker 3: it's just so there's the one that they have that 524 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:35,160 Speaker 3: three like crimping, curling, idea like the Mermaid hair. 525 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, the Mermaid thing, that's what it is. I mean 526 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:38,640 Speaker 1: all the hair. 527 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:40,160 Speaker 3: I feel like they all I mean they don't all 528 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,160 Speaker 3: look alike, but there's a lot of the same hair, 529 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:46,479 Speaker 3: and they're getting Jesse's hair salon all one length and 530 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 3: then they're doing the curl and then the ends are 531 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 3: real straight. Yeah right, it's not the Yeah, it's not 532 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 3: the curl. It's just like a little bend and you 533 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:59,199 Speaker 3: leave thekh So wait, well, I actually do I have 534 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:03,240 Speaker 3: it here, this curling around here, and you go back 535 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,360 Speaker 3: like this, and then you're going to hold it there, 536 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 3: hold it there, one, two, three, and then you just 537 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,639 Speaker 3: pull the end straight. So it's just a way. It's 538 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 3: how you do your hair. It's not any different. But yeah, 539 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 3: my needs hasks for that. 540 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:17,680 Speaker 1: No, I don't have hair. It's all gone. 541 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:21,720 Speaker 2: It's like, oh, you need to stop it. I've had 542 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:24,000 Speaker 2: a real thing. And this isn't me being mean to myself. 543 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 2: Over the last year and a half, I've had a 544 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:28,640 Speaker 2: real you know how you clean it like, yeah, I've 545 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,920 Speaker 2: had a real situation. So I'm really looking forward to 546 00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 2: the new growth, the new me, and because I have 547 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:36,480 Speaker 2: a lot of hair. 548 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 1: But you do. 549 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 2: So it's damaged right now, It's just damage. It's over processed, 550 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 2: it's damaged, it's. 551 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,480 Speaker 1: The whole thing. So I'm getting on a real kick 552 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:45,920 Speaker 1: about that. What are we doing it? 553 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:49,520 Speaker 3: Maybe it is a lack of sleep, I'm not kidding. No, 554 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 3: what are you doing at night? Like are you putting 555 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 3: like a hair mask on it? Because at this point, 556 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:55,520 Speaker 3: like what are we doing to fix it? Because I 557 00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,960 Speaker 3: don't know, but I can respect what's going on because 558 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 3: I've had a hair journey for my whole friendship with you. 559 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 1: I'm on a real journey. 560 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you a product you know about 561 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:08,680 Speaker 2: that Rose Roz stuff. They've got a treatment oil that 562 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,040 Speaker 2: I just ordered it waiting for it to come because 563 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,119 Speaker 2: it may or may not have opened up in my suitcase. 564 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:16,399 Speaker 2: Knock great. So yeah, that's going to start going on 565 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,679 Speaker 2: the ends. The problem with that is, and sorry to 566 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:20,760 Speaker 2: any guys that are listening, because I know you guys 567 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:21,159 Speaker 2: don't care. 568 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,520 Speaker 1: We will talk about football in like a month and 569 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:23,960 Speaker 1: a half. 570 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:27,720 Speaker 2: I'm gonna, like, I know, put it on when you 571 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:29,119 Speaker 2: go to bed, But then I don't want it on 572 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:30,960 Speaker 2: the side of my hair because then my face is 573 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:31,840 Speaker 2: there on the pillow. 574 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:36,240 Speaker 3: I worry about it, also staying, oh, yeah, I did 575 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 3: that last night. I sprayed in that ten minute miracle 576 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 3: stuff that I really like. But then I came down 577 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 3: to the couch, I brought a towel down. I put 578 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,080 Speaker 3: the towel on the back of the pillow and then 579 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,360 Speaker 3: laid it down. Because this is this is the whole thing. 580 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:49,679 Speaker 3: We don't want to dry our hair every night, but 581 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,639 Speaker 3: then if we don't dry, everyone's supposed to go to bed. 582 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 1: So what are we supposed to do. 583 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 2: There's a whole line called K eighteen. That stuff's amazing 584 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 2: as well. I'm going to get on a whole journey. 585 00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 1: With them too. 586 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:05,440 Speaker 2: That's expensive. Oh, speaking of it, I was did you 587 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,120 Speaker 2: get my voice note that? I said, I sure did, Oh, 588 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,159 Speaker 2: I sure did. I was going to buy one for 589 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 2: you and I, and then I was like you and 590 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 2: I t y, I'm not. 591 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,200 Speaker 1: We're going to use that. 592 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 3: No, but I don't. I don't know what the name 593 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:20,399 Speaker 3: of it is. I'm just worried about my back name 594 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,040 Speaker 3: right now. Hey, if anyone out there I've been having, 595 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 3: it's not acne. I talked to you about this the 596 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,800 Speaker 3: other day. It's and Ken and I were talking about this. 597 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 3: It is these little bump bumps. Yeah, and it's not 598 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:36,920 Speaker 3: it's not all. I've been dry brushing, I've been exfoliating. 599 00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:38,840 Speaker 3: I went and got one of those body scrubs. I 600 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 3: did you thought it was a rose Shaw going on 601 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:44,639 Speaker 3: back there? You can, I think that's it. Rosees is red, 602 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,679 Speaker 3: isn't it? But this is like rail back here like 603 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 3: you are. You could find out what hotel room you're 604 00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 3: in real quick if you just rubbed this back and 605 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:56,360 Speaker 3: it's gross because it's not z it's it's just like texture. 606 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 3: And I love I proud of myself on having smooth skin, 607 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,080 Speaker 3: like like my coconut WI like the whole thing. Yea, 608 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,520 Speaker 3: And right now we got a lot of texture back there, 609 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:07,480 Speaker 3: and I'm not interested. So if anyone has any suggestions, 610 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 3: that's all. 611 00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:18,040 Speaker 1: I gotta say about that. Hey, you want to throw 612 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:21,119 Speaker 1: fly through some headlines here? Sys I do, I do? 613 00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:25,119 Speaker 1: I do. We love Sarah Jessica Parker. We always have. 614 00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:26,520 Speaker 1: Here's the headline. 615 00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:29,520 Speaker 3: Sarah Jessica Parker on navigating cruel critics on her appearance 616 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:33,679 Speaker 3: since SATC began, of course, Sex and the City. In 617 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:36,440 Speaker 3: the interview with caller Daddy Parker admitted that she wasn't 618 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:39,040 Speaker 3: prepared for the level of scrutiny she received while starring 619 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,200 Speaker 3: on the hit series, and called it a real test 620 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 3: of my coping mechanisms. 621 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:46,080 Speaker 1: There was no chatter about me before the series. 622 00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:49,960 Speaker 3: There was just my work, discussions of my physical my 623 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,160 Speaker 3: physical person stuff that I couldn't change and wouldn't change 624 00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:55,800 Speaker 3: and had never considered changing or even still no interest 625 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:58,639 Speaker 3: in changing it. I was sobbing because it felt so purposeful, 626 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 3: which is so sad. So I know that she's went 627 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:05,119 Speaker 3: on record, I think it was on Howard Stern talking 628 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 3: about how she's now by botox. 629 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:09,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no botox. 630 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:13,399 Speaker 3: And I think that, you know, she's not the only 631 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 3: one too, from that show that's mentioned, uh that, you know, 632 00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,920 Speaker 3: people being critical of appearance and things like that. It's 633 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 3: just everyone gets to say anything they want about people, right, 634 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 3: And so it makes me sad that she was like, 635 00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:29,840 Speaker 3: I hadn't even thought about changing anything until now all 636 00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:33,159 Speaker 3: of a sudden, people say stuff and I don't know, 637 00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 3: I mean to I think that you and I, you know, 638 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 3: definitely being on television, not I know, we're not Sarah 639 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 3: Jessica Parker, but being on television for twenty plus years 640 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 3: we have. You know, I've definitely been vocal about I 641 00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 3: did too much stuff, too much, fillered too much botox, 642 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,560 Speaker 3: went to the wrong person sometimes, and started to like 643 00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:54,200 Speaker 3: look a little bit different because I did feel pressure 644 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 3: when TV goes from three D to four D to 645 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 3: twelve K and you're like basically like up close and 646 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,240 Speaker 3: personal or just feeling like you need to keep up. 647 00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,240 Speaker 3: I hate that she feels that way, but I also 648 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 3: really respect that she's Like I mean, I don't know 649 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:09,120 Speaker 3: if she's changed her tune that she's going to do anything, 650 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:10,760 Speaker 3: but I don't think she is. 651 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,520 Speaker 1: I just think that she's her being honest about it. Is. 652 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,840 Speaker 3: I like hearing that because fuck you, Fuck everybody who 653 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:18,720 Speaker 3: wants to say something like. 654 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 1: You are so successful. 655 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 3: To you, you are so loved, so because you can't win, 656 00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,080 Speaker 3: because if you go do a bunch of stuff then 657 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 3: you've done too much. And if you don't do anything, 658 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 3: then it's like, oh God, why haven't you done anything? 659 00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 3: Like I know Cameron Diaz has even been vocal about 660 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 3: like not wanting to do a lot of stuff. 661 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 1: It's like, oh well, why botox is not that much? 662 00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:39,000 Speaker 1: Just go do that. It's like well, she doesn't want 663 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 1: to do that. 664 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 3: I just feel like you can't win in that situation, 665 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 3: and anyone's allowed to say whatever they want without repercussion. 666 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:48,240 Speaker 1: So Sarah Jessica do you girl? Yeah? I just I 667 00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:48,920 Speaker 1: find it. 668 00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:52,160 Speaker 2: I never would think somebody like Sarah Jessica Parker or 669 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 2: Carrie Bradshaw would would hear or see some of the 670 00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 2: things that people are saying. 671 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 1: But she did. 672 00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,480 Speaker 2: And that makes me sad that, you know, she took 673 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,360 Speaker 2: it the way she did, and I love that she's 674 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 2: being so honest that no, I'm not doing it. I 675 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 2: don't think you have to do it. Like I said, 676 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 2: you will always be Carrie Bradshaw. You will always be 677 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,960 Speaker 2: this beautiful woman running down the streets of New York 678 00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:15,440 Speaker 2: making a run in high heels, look so fabulous. 679 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 3: And those Fendy bags. I remember I wanted to saving 680 00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,880 Speaker 3: up my money. It was when I was in college 681 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,880 Speaker 3: and I was working like multiple restaurant jobs, and I 682 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 3: was like, I just want to buy a Fendy bag 683 00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 3: like Carrie Bradshaw has. And it was like I run 684 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 3: into it. There was I'll never forget it. There was 685 00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 3: a sax in Santa Barbara, which is since closed. Which 686 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 3: makes me so sad. And I walked in and I 687 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:38,840 Speaker 3: was like, do you guys have Fendy bags? And they're 688 00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 3: like no, And I was like, and I wasn't anywhere else. 689 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 3: There wasn't like another department store in Santa Barbara, so 690 00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 3: I'd have to wait to go down down lay to 691 00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:45,440 Speaker 3: buy it. But I was like, oh, I was so 692 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 3: excited to buy my first designer bag because of her 693 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:51,560 Speaker 3: next headline girl, all. 694 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:54,240 Speaker 2: Right, I'm a pediatrician and a dad. Here's my number 695 00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:58,400 Speaker 2: one tip to raise happy, successful kids. Having your child 696 00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:01,120 Speaker 2: help around the house could be a perfect place to start, 697 00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 2: according to doctor Williams. He told Today dot Com this, 698 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:08,320 Speaker 2: when children feel involved in shared responsibilities, they realize they're 699 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 2: contributing to a part of a larger, larger ecosystem, and 700 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,840 Speaker 2: there's a real sense of self worth that comes from that. 701 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:18,080 Speaker 2: I love this. We are pushing on our kid. I mean, 702 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:21,240 Speaker 2: if you saw my Instagram post one time. His vacuum 703 00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 2: cleaner is his favorite toy that comes from his dad. 704 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,200 Speaker 2: But every morning it's like, hey, put your Tony's away, 705 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 2: let's put your books away, put your levies away. 706 00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,120 Speaker 1: And it's so cute because he's like walking around like 707 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 1: it's his job, his business. 708 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:36,040 Speaker 2: So yeah, I've seen a lot of this on Instagram 709 00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:38,840 Speaker 2: about how it's so important to give them responsibility. 710 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 1: Hey, can you put this in the fridge for me? 711 00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,000 Speaker 2: Like, you know, it's obviously a small amount that he's 712 00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 2: doing right now, but it's so so important. 713 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember growing up. I mean, I sit here 714 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,680 Speaker 3: and I look at outside right now, like the chores 715 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 3: that I have here at the ranch every time i'm here, 716 00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:57,120 Speaker 3: and the responsibilities, and it's not a burden because I 717 00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 3: want to do it because it's your house and it's 718 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,280 Speaker 3: something you want to take pride in. It's your animals 719 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,520 Speaker 3: that you want to take care of. But I remember 720 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,520 Speaker 3: growing up and every day in the summertime when we 721 00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 3: had my parents were very reasonable about this, Like when 722 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 3: we had sports in school, our chores were very minimal 723 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:15,560 Speaker 3: because we had other responsibilities, Like your emphasis was on 724 00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 3: school and your emphasis was on your sports. But when 725 00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 3: it was summertime, my mom and dad would go to 726 00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,640 Speaker 3: work and we would get a list. We'd wake up 727 00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 3: to it my chores, my brother, my sister, and if 728 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,200 Speaker 3: those chores were not done by the time they got home, 729 00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 3: there was consequences. Now, we would procrastinate and we would 730 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:33,479 Speaker 3: wait and do them at the very last second. But 731 00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:35,720 Speaker 3: the point is is that we had to do chores, 732 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 3: and it wasn't we didn't get money for them. It 733 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 3: was like, hey, guess what, that's your rent for living here. 734 00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 3: We put a roof over your head, We feed you, 735 00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 3: we buy those basketball shoes that you're going to play in. 736 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,480 Speaker 3: So you're going to do these chores as a contribution, 737 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 3: your contribution to this household. And to me, it's as 738 00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:56,040 Speaker 3: I'm now well into my adulthood, it doesn't feel like 739 00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:58,560 Speaker 3: a burden to have to clean up my house only 740 00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:02,760 Speaker 3: when Steve's not here, because that is your home, and 741 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:06,360 Speaker 3: taking pride in your things is paramount because if you 742 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:08,120 Speaker 3: don't care, then who is going to care. 743 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:08,520 Speaker 1: About your shit? 744 00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:11,440 Speaker 3: When you're oh and you're just you're incomes so expendable 745 00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:12,760 Speaker 3: that you're just going to buy a new thing if 746 00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 3: it gets ruined. Like the other day, Oh my god, 747 00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,360 Speaker 3: it was so funny. I just saw my childhood flash 748 00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 3: before my eyes. Or in my parents yard and they 749 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:24,400 Speaker 3: have a really big yard area or whatever, and my 750 00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:27,000 Speaker 3: niece's out there and she's in her socks, and I 751 00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,160 Speaker 3: go ooh, I didn't say anything, but I was like, ooh, 752 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:30,600 Speaker 3: this is going to be a problem if my dad 753 00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:33,640 Speaker 3: sees this growing up, if my dad saw that you 754 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,520 Speaker 3: were in the grass or outside with just your socks 755 00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 3: and not your shoes, he would rip us a new 756 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,560 Speaker 3: one that you are too lazy that you can't even 757 00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 3: just put your shoes on, that you want to walk 758 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,320 Speaker 3: around in your socks and you just expect us to 759 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,800 Speaker 3: buy you new socks because you're too late. So my 760 00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 3: dad walks around the corner and he goes, hey, y, 761 00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:52,400 Speaker 3: you don't have any shoes. She goes what and he goes, 762 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:54,200 Speaker 3: why are you out here in your socks? And I 763 00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:56,000 Speaker 3: was like, oh, here we go. And I was so 764 00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:58,880 Speaker 3: happy that it wasn't me. And I looked over at Steve, 765 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:02,840 Speaker 3: because Steve will walk around outside with just his socks on, 766 00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:05,160 Speaker 3: and I'm always like, you're going to ruin your socks, 767 00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:07,680 Speaker 3: Just put shoes on. I buy you seven hundred pairs 768 00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:09,440 Speaker 3: of slippers, just slip your slippers on. 769 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 1: Whatever. 770 00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:12,279 Speaker 3: And I looked at Steve and he started laughing and goes, well, 771 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:13,759 Speaker 3: we know you where you get it from. But I'm like, 772 00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,879 Speaker 3: it's stuff like that, Like it's just something small and 773 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 3: remedial like a pair of socks, but like it was 774 00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,719 Speaker 3: ingrained in my head growing up, like, no, we treat 775 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:24,440 Speaker 3: our things with respect. And it's a long story to 776 00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,799 Speaker 3: illustrate the point that my future children that I'm not 777 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:29,960 Speaker 3: having are probably so happy that I'm not their mother, 778 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:33,239 Speaker 3: because I would be a dictator. I'd be like, you're 779 00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:36,240 Speaker 3: doing this, you're doing this, you're doing this a drill sergeant, 780 00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:40,080 Speaker 3: But whatever, I love it. You got it from Scott. 781 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 3: It's perfect. Speaking of men and doing household things. Men's 782 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:48,040 Speaker 3: daily household contribution hits all time high in two thousand 783 00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,839 Speaker 3: and three, when I worked an hour more than men 784 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:54,280 Speaker 3: on the home. In twenty twenty four, women worked forty 785 00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:57,600 Speaker 3: minutes more. At this rate, housework will be equal sometime 786 00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:00,880 Speaker 3: around your twenty sixty six and an NBC News analysis 787 00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:03,640 Speaker 3: Bureau of Statistics blah blah blah data shows met in 788 00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:05,520 Speaker 3: the US are spending a record high amount of time 789 00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:10,480 Speaker 3: on household activities. Great, great, I mean perfect. Yeah, I 790 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:13,759 Speaker 3: gotta tell you. Steve is such. I mean, I have 791 00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:16,480 Speaker 3: no problem with this guy. He is like, he'll run 792 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:17,320 Speaker 3: the vacuum before I do. 793 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 1: We have dogs. 794 00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:21,160 Speaker 3: We have dogs that are inside like that vacuum needs 795 00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:23,759 Speaker 3: to be run at least once a day, Like we're 796 00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 3: not having hair all over the place, Like yeah, I 797 00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,720 Speaker 3: never have to worry about that with him, like laundry 798 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:30,480 Speaker 3: any of that stuff, like you live too. 799 00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:31,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 800 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:33,360 Speaker 3: And by the way, and here's where the compromise is. 801 00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:36,479 Speaker 3: Steve hates folding laundry. So the other days in launder 802 00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:37,920 Speaker 3: room and I was folding it and he's like, you 803 00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:39,200 Speaker 3: don't have to do that. I go, well, I know 804 00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:40,640 Speaker 3: you don't like to do it, so I'll do that 805 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:43,359 Speaker 3: for you. It's just like finding compromise, Like I don't 806 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,239 Speaker 3: take out the trash. He does that. That's like a 807 00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:48,600 Speaker 3: boy job, I think, so like divide and conquer. So yeah, good, 808 00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:49,520 Speaker 3: I love it. 809 00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:50,239 Speaker 1: I love it. 810 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:54,719 Speaker 2: Hey, there is no great way to get into this, 811 00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:56,880 Speaker 2: but you and I were together the other day and 812 00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:59,520 Speaker 2: we were we had the news on, and how could 813 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 2: you not have the news on and just sit and 814 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:05,320 Speaker 2: watch and just get so emotional about what's happening in Texas? 815 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:05,719 Speaker 1: Right now? 816 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:08,799 Speaker 2: You and I were watching a press conference and I 817 00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,400 Speaker 2: don't know the exact quote, but it was like today 818 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,200 Speaker 2: is hard and this week is going to be harder. 819 00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:16,200 Speaker 2: Cannot wrap my head around, much like a lot of 820 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,359 Speaker 2: people that weren't in La at the time during the 821 00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:21,240 Speaker 2: fires what they are going through after the flooding there. 822 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,280 Speaker 1: But man, that's tough to see. 823 00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:26,560 Speaker 2: And yesterday my kid was throwing an absolute fit after 824 00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:28,279 Speaker 2: we got we kept him out too late at a 825 00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:31,680 Speaker 2: restaurant and he was throwing a fit at in the 826 00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:34,239 Speaker 2: bathtub and I just sat and I looked at him 827 00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:36,480 Speaker 2: and I didn't even react, and it was just like, 828 00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:39,280 Speaker 2: you're okay, You're okay. And we went upstairs and Jarrett 829 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:42,200 Speaker 2: was like, God, Mackie was so pissed off, and I said, 830 00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:44,600 Speaker 2: you know what, think about all those families that won't 831 00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,120 Speaker 2: have their babies ever to give a bag again. And 832 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,839 Speaker 2: that shit was just so hard to look at. So yeah, 833 00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,680 Speaker 2: oh man, my heart and my dogs and my thoughts 834 00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:53,680 Speaker 2: go out to those people. 835 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:57,120 Speaker 3: Everybody in Texas going through what you're going through. It 836 00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:03,279 Speaker 3: is unimaginable, It is beyond comprehension. And I just think 837 00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 3: that it is so important to help in any way 838 00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,400 Speaker 3: that you can. Much like you said, when these natural 839 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:10,799 Speaker 3: disasters hit, whether it was fires or it's you know, 840 00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:13,480 Speaker 3: tsunamis or earthquakes or anything, these people what they're going 841 00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:18,400 Speaker 3: through in Texas is just beyond understanding. 842 00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 1: And we just know that we hope that you know 843 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:22,640 Speaker 1: that we're thinking of you and praying for you. 844 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,520 Speaker 3: And you know, the community, whether it's JJ Watt or 845 00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:27,840 Speaker 3: whether it's the Cowboys or whether it's you know, the 846 00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,960 Speaker 3: NBA and everybody in the community that is Texas rallying around. 847 00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:34,160 Speaker 3: And I listen to your friend Jenna talk about it 848 00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:36,719 Speaker 3: on the Today Show and her mom, of course, was 849 00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,800 Speaker 3: a camp counselor there and talking about this magical camp 850 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:42,640 Speaker 3: and what it means to so many families, but also 851 00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:46,080 Speaker 3: Jenna talking about the resiliency of the state of Texas 852 00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:49,600 Speaker 3: and the community. So our thoughts and prayers are with 853 00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:51,000 Speaker 3: each and every one of you. And I know that 854 00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:53,839 Speaker 3: doesn't seem like anything, because thoughts and prayers can only 855 00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,560 Speaker 3: do so much, But we are thinking about you and 856 00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,320 Speaker 3: anything that you can do to help those people. 857 00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:00,759 Speaker 1: I highly encourage our lists to do so. 858 00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:05,200 Speaker 2: And the first responders the stories about just this selfless, 859 00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,680 Speaker 2: selfless act and you and I think we were looking 860 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:09,920 Speaker 2: at some of the first pictures coming out and like 861 00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:13,000 Speaker 2: they're not even more proper clothing for it to get in. 862 00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:16,279 Speaker 2: You know, these waist high chest high waters and they're 863 00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:18,359 Speaker 2: just you know, doing what they can to try to 864 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:20,120 Speaker 2: get to anyone or help everyone. 865 00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:20,719 Speaker 1: It was just. 866 00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:25,160 Speaker 2: The stories of what people do as first responders is 867 00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:29,319 Speaker 2: just so inspirational and so selfless and just wonderful. I'm 868 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:32,040 Speaker 2: so grateful for people like that that choose to do 869 00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:33,000 Speaker 2: that with their life. 870 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:34,319 Speaker 1: Absolutely so. 871 00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:36,840 Speaker 3: If we can take anything away from something like this, 872 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 3: it's perspective, gratitude, and make sure you hold your loved 873 00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:42,400 Speaker 3: ones a little extra tighter. 874 00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:46,000 Speaker 1: Stanning, all right, well, I love you so much, love you. 875 00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,960 Speaker 3: I'm sending you a hug from Afar and thank you 876 00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:51,040 Speaker 3: guys for listening. 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