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Speaker 1: All right, if you thank you. Subject. I married a

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Speaker 1: flirtatious man. Dear Stephen Shirley. I met a man online

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Speaker 1: and we got married three years ago. He is a

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Speaker 1: dispatcher by day and a DJ at night. I'm thirty

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Speaker 1: seven and he's thirty. When we met, he was trying

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Speaker 1: to find a career that suits his personality. He told

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Speaker 1: me he was djaying to network and meet people that

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Speaker 1: could potentially hire him. When I met his mother, she

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Speaker 1: said to watch out for him because he DJs to

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Speaker 1: I saw it for myself. He is reserved in real life,

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Speaker 1: but he's outgoing in a dancing machine. When he's djaying.

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Speaker 1: I saw it the night he asked me to marry

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Speaker 1: him at the club. He did it on the mic.

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Speaker 1: He called me to the DJ booth and all eyes

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Speaker 1: You would think that women would not flirt with him

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Speaker 1: after that, but it made him more popular. He has

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Speaker 1: been djaying every weekend since we got married. I tried

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Speaker 1: to put my foot down, but he said it is

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Speaker 1: who he is and he loves it. So I decided

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Speaker 1: kind of networking he's doing with my own eyes.

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Speaker 2: I saw my husband.

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Speaker 1: Give out single roses to beautiful women and give shouts

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Speaker 1: out to women that looked like Instagram models. I saw

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Speaker 1: at least six women go to the DJ booth to

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Speaker 1: on the cheek. My cousin was with me, and she

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Speaker 1: looked at me and said that I married a very

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Speaker 1: flirtatious man. She's right. We snuck out when everyone started leaving.

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Speaker 1: I expected him to come home right after me, but

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Speaker 1: he came in almost two hours later. He seems to

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Speaker 1: be quote networking after the club too. Is it cool

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Speaker 1: to tell him what I saw or what I look?

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Speaker 1: Very insecure? Don't worry about looking insecure. This is not

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Speaker 1: about that. And don't be afraid to ask your husband

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Speaker 1: or tell him anything. He's your husband. Your marriage is

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Speaker 1: hanging on by a thread right now because he's too

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Speaker 1: full of himself with all the attention he's getting from

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Speaker 2: You've already seen him with.

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Speaker 1: Your own eyes what he's up to with the ladies,

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Speaker 1: with the flowers and the kisses and all that. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you've already seen that, So ask him about that, but

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Speaker 1: be prepared. He's only gonna, you know, probably lie and say,

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Speaker 1: oh no, baby, you know what, this goes.

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Speaker 2: With the job, whatever whatever.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, the good part about this is that he

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Speaker 1: found a career that suits him, like you say. The

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Speaker 1: bad part about this is that he found a career

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Speaker 1: he loves and that it suits his personality. The problem

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Speaker 1: is his career doesn't suit you. As his wife. You

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Speaker 1: don't like it. You don't like it, you don't like

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Speaker 1: him being married to you and doing.

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Speaker 2: What he loves.

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Speaker 1: But you're torn because of course, you want him to

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Speaker 1: do what he loves. But I'm surprised he's big. He

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Speaker 1: closed is not cool. You gotta talk to him about this.

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Speaker 1: He's not considering you at all or caring about how

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Speaker 1: you need to sit down and talk to him about this.

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Speaker 1: It might bring him back to his senses, but who knows.

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Speaker 1: With mister DJ Steve.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 4: You know, ladies, you're allowing a to treat you some

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Speaker 4: kind of way. Now, listen, you can train a man

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Speaker 4: it's nothing that's extraordinary or elaborate or you gotta be

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Speaker 4: to do is stop allowing bad treatment. You don't have

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Speaker 4: have to accept bad treatment simply because that's what he

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Speaker 4: want to do. That's his dream. This is me, man,

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Speaker 4: what all right? I'm gonna walk you through this thing

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Speaker 4: because you've been bamboozled and I'm gonna show it to you.

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Speaker 4: You met a man online, we got married three years ago.

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Speaker 4: He's a dispatcher by day and he's a DJ at night.

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Speaker 4: You thirty seventy thirty. That's a big jump between men

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Speaker 4: it's tricky. Naturally women mature quicker than men. That's a

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Speaker 3: That's not a Steve Harvey opinion.

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Speaker 4: So if you thirty seven and he thirty, and then

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Speaker 4: he doesn't have the thing together that I described in

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Speaker 4: my first book, act like a lady, think like a man.

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Speaker 4: When I told you, until a man determines who he is,

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Speaker 4: what he is, and how much he gonna make, you're

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Speaker 4: gonna be in a struggle with him unless he has decided.

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Speaker 4: You are to help me to get him there. And

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Speaker 4: this guy right here don't have it together. So now

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Speaker 4: you're finna get in the straining. He told me he

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Speaker 4: was DJing, He was a DJ at night right and

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Speaker 4: then when he met he was trying to find this

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Speaker 4: is critical, trying to find a career that suits his personality.

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Speaker 4: Trying to find a career that suits his personality. That's

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Speaker 4: so because and he was using DJing to network and

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Speaker 4: believe that would help him find a career that suits

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Speaker 4: his personality, because he said and meet people that could

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Speaker 4: potentially hire him. That's what the dj in we told

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Speaker 4: you was for that right, There is nothing but a

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Speaker 4: lie you got right at the beginning of the of

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Speaker 4: the marriage.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, hang on, We'll have a part two of your

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Speaker 1: response coming up, Steve at twenty three minutes after the

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Speaker 1: hour Today's Strawberry Letters subject I married a flirtatious man.

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Speaker 2: We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 6: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 6: The subject is a married, a flirtatious man.

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Speaker 4: See this is really sad because this is a woman

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Speaker 4: who got bamboozel because she didn't have the ability to

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Speaker 4: read between the lines and pay attention closely to what

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Speaker 4: he's saying. You know, ladies, if you listen to a

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Speaker 4: man closely, he will tell you what he's saying.

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Speaker 3: All you gotta do is listen. All right, You thirty seven,

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Speaker 3: he thirty.

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Speaker 4: That's a big age difference between men and women, especially

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Speaker 4: when the man is that young. Thirty you still a

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Speaker 4: young man. You're a man, but you're still a young man.

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Speaker 4: You got a ways to go. And then he doesn't

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Speaker 4: have it together yet. He doesn't know who he is,

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Speaker 4: what he does, and how much he gonna make. Once

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Speaker 4: you have a man that don't know those three things,

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Speaker 4: that don't have a plan of attack.

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Speaker 3: If you sign up for that, get ready, get ready.

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Speaker 4: Unless you are the person who is designated to be

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Speaker 4: a helper to him and he be a helper to you.

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Speaker 3: That's not the case during the daytime.

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Speaker 4: He's a dispatch, but he DJ's at night.

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Speaker 3: Now he told me that he's dj in.

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Speaker 4: First of all, when y'all met, he said he was

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Speaker 4: DJ's the first flirt with women. I'm assuming she was

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Speaker 4: a hater. Where you get hate from, that's called a warning.

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Speaker 4: It was baby, baby, you seem like a nice girl.

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Speaker 4: Now be careful because he dj' to flirt with women.

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Speaker 4: So I had to go see it for myself. He's

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Speaker 4: reserving in real life, but he's outgoing dancing machine with

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Speaker 3: You to marry you. You always on the news because it

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Speaker 4: You would think that women would not flirt with him

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Speaker 4: Most people don't meet their husband in the club. Most

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Speaker 4: But anyway, okay, it was unique, and he been djailed

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Speaker 4: ever since y'all got married. I tried to put my

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Speaker 3: What job recruiter?

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Speaker 4: You know, I'm going down to get some qualified people

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Speaker 4: think I'll go down to Magic City, see what's going

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Speaker 3: Ain't nobody recruited.

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Speaker 4: Job recruiters don't look for job appricants at clubs, all right,

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Speaker 4: So what he did was I tried to put my

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Speaker 3: He said, that's who he is.

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Speaker 4: So you snuck into the club one night to see

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Speaker 4: what kind of network he was doing with my own eyes.

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Speaker 4: Saw your husband giving out single roses to women, giving

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Speaker 4: saw all these six women go to the DJ booth

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Speaker 4: to hugg him.

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Speaker 3: He kissed each one of them on the cheek.

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Speaker 4: My cousin was with me, and she looked at me

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Speaker 4: and said, you married to a very flactationous man.

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Speaker 3: She's right. I don't know why you needed your cousin

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Speaker 4: Snuck out when everybody started leaving. I expecting him to

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Speaker 4: come home right after me. He came home in almost

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Speaker 3: Is it cool to tell him.

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Speaker 4: What I saw or what I looked very insecure? Well,

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Speaker 4: you're not gonna look very insecure. You are insecure, and

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Speaker 4: you have a reason to be insecure. I don't know

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Speaker 4: what it is with y'all new women, but let me

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Speaker 4: talk to you for me.

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Speaker 3: Let me uncle have a word with y'all new women.

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Speaker 4: Y'all got y'all letting these new rules come in, and

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Speaker 4: the stick man, y'all not getting nothing y'all wing out

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Speaker 4: of these relationships, but they getting everything.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 4: It's like, I love watching that show on the internet,

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Speaker 4: Pop my balloon. I love watching that collection. It'll be

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Speaker 4: some ignorant mess on that and then I like that show.

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Speaker 4: It's a relationship show where the black chick named Kitty,

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Speaker 4: attractive girl spiritual, the name is Kitty, and the.

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Speaker 3: Two other guys up there, they give advice and these.

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Speaker 4: Young people come in this relationship and raise their hands

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Speaker 4: and ask questions. She always got a scripture or reason

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Speaker 4: for doing stuff. Real nice show like that, But y'all

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Speaker 4: got some stuff going on now. I don't know how

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Speaker 4: y'all leted me and flip the script on y'all. Y'all

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Speaker 4: got these men talking to y'all like y'all own them something.

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Speaker 4: So you done got to y'all in the y'all in

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Speaker 4: the time period. Now, why you if you act like

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Speaker 4: a man should provide for you, he's offended.

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Speaker 3: They offend it now.

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Speaker 4: But then y'all going into it like if you want

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Speaker 4: my number, here's my cash app and all this here.

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Speaker 4: Y'all got to these relationships to transaction. Y'all need, y'all

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Speaker 4: need to get back, you know, love, Love ain't gonna

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Speaker 4: go out of style.

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Speaker 3: I hate to tell y'all that it's still in style.

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Speaker 3: Love is in style. It works.

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Speaker 4: Why don't y'all try finding that instead of a transaction.

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Speaker 4: That's all I got to say, Uncle, Steve, you' signing

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Speaker 4: out on this one right here?

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