1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. Do you remember in the in the 2 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: at what point in the nineties was this Mr snard Lee? 3 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:11,399 Speaker 1: Was it pre or post Lewinsky? That A A P 4 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: did this post Lewinsky? So it was in the second 5 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 1: term of Bill Clinton. You you all remember ap Ran, 6 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 1: a series of stories picked up by all of the 7 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: other drive by media telling us that lying was good. 8 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:38,200 Speaker 1: Little lies were helpful, they spared people's feelings. Everybody does it, uh, 9 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 1: and it was just it's it's a It actually has 10 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 1: redeeming social quality and value if if not done too much. 11 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: But even you know that within reason, lying is actually 12 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: a well calculated way to get through life, causing yourself 13 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: less pain and obviously others less pain. Well, you won't 14 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: believe this. What's it been about ten days since the 15 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:09,400 Speaker 1: Was it this past Sunday? It's four foot time? So 16 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 1: Clinton appears on Fox News Sunday Show this past Sunday? 17 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:16,119 Speaker 1: Though Monday Tuesday? Was it? So it's four days ago? 18 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: And I have here, ladies and gentlemen in h in 19 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: my formerly nicotine Stained Fingers, A story from our buddies 20 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: at the Associated Press by Joscelyn Novak. Is it cool 21 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 1: to lose your cool. That's one of the questions of 22 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:36,959 Speaker 1: the week as we evaluate and reevaluate Bill Clinton's finger pointing, 23 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: knee poking interview with Chris Wallace on Fox. The first debate, 24 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 1: of course, was whether Clinton had actually lost it at all, 25 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: a full bore tantrum, one conservative columnists called it, or 26 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: knew exactly what he was doing, but splitting the difference 27 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 1: for a moment, the interesting issue becomes, I kid you 28 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: not can I can't see this with a straight face. 29 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 1: Can public anger in politics, business and elsewhere be a 30 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: good thing? Is? Yes, Let's have more road rage, Let's 31 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: have more threatening of journalists here what Ailes said? Ales 32 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: came out and said this was an assault or an 33 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: attack on all journalists. Uh. Clinton was totally over the time. 34 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: I'm not kidding you what. We have a story here 35 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: from the ap on how this is really good? Uh, 36 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:29,360 Speaker 1: public anger, politics, business and elsewhere it could be a 37 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: good thing. Is a little tantrum now? And then just 38 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: what's called for? Well, they went out and they found 39 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: somebody who agrees with their question and answers it the 40 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: way they wanted under the right circumstances, Yes, say some 41 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 1: analysts of social behavior when's the last time, folks, anybody 42 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 1: ever told you it was good to have a public 43 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: display of temper? When was it? When was the last 44 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: time anybody praised you for doing a smart thing and 45 00:02:55,800 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 1: the right thing by losing your cool. Well, just as 46 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:06,959 Speaker 1: b j's are now not sex, so is road rage 47 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: a good thing. Blowing your cool, losing your temper in public, 48 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 1: even in business, is the right thing to do under 49 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: the right circumstances. According to um A senior associate dean 50 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:23,800 Speaker 1: at Yale's School of Management, Jeffrey Sonnenfeld, it's more important 51 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 1: than ever to cut through the clutter. All of us 52 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 1: are so overmanaged these days. Public figures have platoons at protectors. 53 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: It's more important than ever to show authentic, real emotions. 54 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: Sonenfel believes that Clinton's anger was genuine and yet intentionally uncensored, 55 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: and he says Clinton has told him personally in the 56 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: past that when your critics are wrong, your fireback on 57 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 1: all cylinders, taken on with the full force, and don't 58 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: let up. In the Fox News interview, Clinton pointed his finger, 59 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 1: leaning sharply in toward Wallace, poked his leg all in 60 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: animated response to the question of whether his administration had 61 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: done enough to pursue Osama bin Laden. I went back 62 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: to my website. I wanted to find out exactly when 63 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: all these stories about how good it is to lie? 64 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: We're we got it. We have a whole segment on 65 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 1: it and the essential stack of stuff and it ran 66 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 1: this October two thousand five, almost a year ago. Will 67 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 1: we see stories on how healthy lying is? And we 68 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 1: chronicle here on the website all of the stories that 69 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 1: came out in the sea from February through um September 70 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:34,799 Speaker 1: on how healthy it is to lie? Cleveland playing dealer. 71 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 1: They want Clinton to be a saint, Boston Herald to 72 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: tell the truth Clinton's troubles, get couples talking, Rocky Mountain, 73 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 1: Knews when if ever is lying okay? And CNN in 74 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 1: Time Magazine the truth about lying. All of these stories 75 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 1: were we're oriented around how healthy it can be. UH 76 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: spares people's feelings, and we we wonder if if the 77 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 1: same sentiment will be extended towards good or libby Because 78 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 1: Clinton lied under oath in a grand jury deposition. Of 79 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: course he's lying about sex. He had to do a a 80 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 1: smart thing to do to protect the family, protecting daughter, 81 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: protect everything else. It's a two way street. And now 82 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 1: we've got this story from the AP. Jeffrey Sonnenfeld, an 83 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: associate dean at Yale's School of Management, saying, Hey, none 84 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 1: of the right circumstances, blow your top, cut through the clutter. 85 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: It's too controlled out there. It can be. It'd be 86 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: a really great thing to do out there. Public anger, politics, business, UH, elsewhere, 87 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,919 Speaker 1: and there's a let's see who else. Kathleen hall Jamison, 88 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 1: an analyst of political communication UH, said that none of 89 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: Clinton's gestures is necessarily indicative of a loss of control. 90 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 1: What we usually see from politicians are scripted moments or 91 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: interviews that are puff pieces. We rarely see a tough 92 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:56,919 Speaker 1: one on one Kathleen, do you ever watch Meet the 93 00:05:56,960 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: Press when Dick Cheney's on UH or when Donald Rumcell's 94 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 1: on somewhere? I continue to be mystified. But at any rate, 95 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: ladies and gentle feel free blow your top, have a 96 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: little road rage out there. UH. It's cool, therapeutic and 97 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 1: a very helpful