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Speaker 1: Calling all my sweeties to the forefront. I'm your host,

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Speaker 1: Christopher and this is the Keep It Positive, Sweetie Show.

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Speaker 2: Hello and welcome to another episode of the Keep It Positive,

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Speaker 2: Sweetish Show, a place where we bring real conversation with

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Speaker 2: a whole lot of heart and positivity. I'm your host, CHRISTOPHINEE. Hazelt,

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Speaker 2: and today we have a certified superstar joining us. She's

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Speaker 2: a rapper, entrepreneur, and all around powerhouse. She's taken the

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Speaker 2: industry by storing with her confidence and authenticity. Get ready

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Speaker 2: because we have Cash Doll in the building. You know

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Speaker 2: her from hits like Ice Me Out and for Everybody,

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Speaker 2: and you may have seen her on your favorite TV show.

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Speaker 2: Today She's hit to drop Jim's about her journey, staying

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Speaker 2: true to herself and how she keeps it moving on

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Speaker 2: no matter what. She's an inspiration to fans everywhere. Please

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Speaker 2: welcome the one, the only Cash Doll.

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Speaker 1: Cash We got you here. Here, you are here, honey,

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Speaker 1: looking good? That is us. We imagine you guys, we

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Speaker 1: already page. I love that. Yes, they're high. I appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for taking time to stop by. Sure,

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Speaker 1: so I was excited. I was excited I'm like, yes,

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Speaker 1: we're going to go somewhere positive.

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Speaker 2: Yes, listen, ye safe place, say thank you, yeah, thank

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Speaker 2: you so much. I want to learn about you, more

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Speaker 2: about your journey.

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Speaker 1: You're from Detroit.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's a place that has so much rich history.

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Speaker 2: What was it like growing up and what were the

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Speaker 2: inspirations that really pushed you to want to do music.

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Speaker 1: Growing up in Detroit? I mean.

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Speaker 3: It's bittersweet, you know. I don't even remember how how

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Speaker 3: it like, if it was bad or not, because we

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Speaker 3: made it great. Yeah, me and my siblings. You know,

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Speaker 3: my mom had five of us at twenty one. I'm

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Speaker 3: the oldest of six right now. And we had each other.

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Speaker 3: You know, we didn't have much, but we had each other.

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Speaker 3: And I can't complain about my upbringing in Detroit. You know,

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Speaker 3: Detroit is Detroit though. Yeah it's rough, you know, it's

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Speaker 3: a home of hustlers and pimps and birds and hair.

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Speaker 2: What was that like, Like was it almost just like

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Speaker 2: second nature?

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Speaker 1: Because that's all you knew.

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Speaker 3: That's all I know, you know, So it like think

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Speaker 3: about second nature to you? How people could say, how

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Speaker 3: are you so positive? That's second nature? I can't explain

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Speaker 3: to you how to just be bothered, like that's just

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Speaker 3: who I am. So it's like that's Detroit, That's just

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Speaker 3: who I am, and that's all I know. But as

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Speaker 3: I traveled the world, I noticed that every place is

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Speaker 3: not like this, you know what I'm saying, Like, you know,

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Speaker 3: it's easier in Detroit. It's not a lot of opportunities

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Speaker 3: that just come and people not just traveling to Detroit.

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Speaker 3: I mean now, but you have to go get it.

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Speaker 3: You got to figure it out. And I got got

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Speaker 3: the mugs. I started from nothing and made it into something,

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Speaker 2: I love that you're in this industry where women are

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Speaker 2: dominating the rap game, Like y'all are killing it and

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Speaker 2: I'm asked, I'm loving it. It's like beautiful to see

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Speaker 2: like everybody's just doing their thing and y'all are so

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Speaker 2: confident and powerful in this space. How do you feel

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Speaker 2: about it? And then who would be like your dream collab?

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Speaker 2: If you could collab with anybody.

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Speaker 1: Who would it be? Like of all time? Anybody? Yeah

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Speaker 1: they're alive.

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Speaker 2: I like to ask those questions, like if anybody like

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Speaker 2: if you could have oh what you.

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Speaker 1: Already got the bang?

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Speaker 3: That's my number one favorite artist time I remember where

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Speaker 3: I was eftless, effortless, beautiful, just I wanted to her

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Speaker 3: just so fire her beautiful, like she didn't have to

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Speaker 3: And just Aliah is my favorite. You know, she's from

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Speaker 3: this exactly, so coming up and I'm seeing her, I'm like,

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Speaker 3: I could do that, but I don't know if I'm

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Speaker 1: That's Aliah.

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Speaker 2: The fact that you thought that and look at you now,

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Speaker 1: And that is my girl.

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Speaker 3: She really helped me just even have that that inspiration

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Speaker 3: of like coming out of Detroit. Yeah, well I could

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Speaker 3: be that girl, you know, so Aliah of all times?

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Speaker 1: Yes, Rihanna, Yes I could. Y'all would kill a song together?

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Speaker 1: Is my girl? We me and and the DMS talking.

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Speaker 1: That is my girl. I love it.

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Speaker 3: It's who else I like? Uh as far as dreaming.

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Speaker 1: Her, She's so talented. You feel like all these R

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Speaker 1: what I listened to. Wow, Yeah, that's all I listen.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna ask you that, like, what where do

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Speaker 2: You listen to other music to be like, let me

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Speaker 2: see what's out here? Are you like when people like

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Speaker 2: I can't because some.

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Speaker 3: Artists cannot listen to nobody, I don't. I can't, especially

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Speaker 1: And it ain't even that I don't like them.

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Speaker 3: I can't listen to them because I get a studio,

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Speaker 3: like like right now, I like that song Brokey.

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Speaker 1: I like Brokey. I'm like, catch myself, want and say that.

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Speaker 1: You're like, no, that's not yours. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: So I don't even listen to them so that I

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Speaker 3: far as female rappers, I like CARDI love CARDIEH.

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Speaker 1: I like all of them that like Meg, I love glow.

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Speaker 3: Baby, Come on my girls, I love a lot of

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Speaker 3: all everybody that's out right now.

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Speaker 1: I like to just do a whole like collaboration. I

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Speaker 3: But and then the fact that we living in a

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Speaker 3: It's just like dang, it's it's like we living in

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Speaker 3: history literally something that it's a new way. Yeah, And

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Speaker 1: It's crazy. Yeah, I love that.

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Speaker 2: I was at meals on wheels like two years ago

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Speaker 2: and you performed oh yeah, right around the corner. And

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Speaker 2: my publicist she is Jennifer the whitest black girl you

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Speaker 3: When I say she was like at my at my shoulds,

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Speaker 1: It's like very diverse crowd. Wow, Yeah, how did you

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Speaker 3: This is really helping me realize who I am. Wow,

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Speaker 3: because I've been in the clubs and just like doing

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Speaker 3: These people are here to see me. So it's like

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Speaker 1: I'm like, this is where we are.

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Speaker 2: The little girl from Detroit that looking up to Ali.

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Speaker 1: And wondering if I could do I can't do it

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Speaker 3: I'm not even gonna it is, you know. And then

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Speaker 3: I'm just slumped and it's like, you know, finding that

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Speaker 1: That's why my son is here. I want Yeah, Cash

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Speaker 1: is here, my guy. It's just having at all. I

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Speaker 3: God, come on, like literally, it's nobody else but God.

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Speaker 1: I just let it go and let God just help me.

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Speaker 1: You know. I want to be the best mom I

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Speaker 3: I want to be the best woman I could be.

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Speaker 3: For myself, yeah, you know, I want to wake up

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Speaker 1: But when you're on the rush. You're going going, going, going, going,

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Speaker 1: going going something. Something's fall short. Yeah, and don't have

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Speaker 3: And that love and nurturing that relationship too. You have

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Speaker 3: to nurture all the relationships in your life. And I

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Speaker 3: tell people all the time, like you have to make

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Speaker 3: I feel like some people getting relationships and they just

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Speaker 3: when that relationship don't work, they're searching and looking for

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you dropped that ball. Now you're trying to go

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're like, no, I mean, when you when you're

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Speaker 3: Me when you was all love me, double hold on

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Speaker 1: You forgot about your girls.

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Speaker 2: Guilty of that, you guilty. I've been guilty of that,

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Speaker 2: like being so hit over heels. Well, like I just

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Speaker 2: like I'm pouring more important to my person that my girls,

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Speaker 2: Like damn's been time with us, but like your person

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Speaker 2: is always like, let's do this, let's do this, let's

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Speaker 2: because when you especially at beginning, in the beginning, forget about.

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Speaker 1: It, forget about it, y'all will never see it. I

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Speaker 1: a bitshed you off, you call your friends, they're like, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: you miss me now. Yeah, yeah, I.

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Speaker 2: Do better about prioritizing now. And it comes with maturity

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Speaker 2: and just world and learning how to balance it.

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Speaker 3: And then it's healthy for your relationship with him too,

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Speaker 3: because I feel like he has time to miss you

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Speaker 3: and see that you have a life outside of him.

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Speaker 1: And not just like you have other things to do,

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Speaker 1: like yeah, separate.

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Speaker 2: That's so I absolutely love that because I've.

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Speaker 1: Been like that. It does. It comes home in growth maturity.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we're grown now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then it helped the relationship last longer. I

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Speaker 3: feel like, yeah, yeah, it's like when you miss him,

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Speaker 3: you know, you got other things to do, and y'all

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Speaker 3: like scheduling and trying to be together.

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Speaker 1: It's like when you get together that time just yes,

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Speaker 1: And all the down payment, ma'am and the maintenance, ma'am,

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Speaker 3: And then all the doors at night. You want to

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Speaker 1: And then I didn't have a man. Yeah, it's like nope, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think it's when I came to Atlanta to film BMS.

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Speaker 1: And that view David sexy that.

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Speaker 1: It's still the life. I said, Oh, I'm overdoing it.

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Speaker 1: Overdoing it. Yeah, I'm overdoing it. You are, especially for me,

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's when you have a family and

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's what mansions are for. They not

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Speaker 1: But I got a condo in Miami, just like you.

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Speaker 1: I got to come to Miami. It's only like twelve

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Speaker 2: he said, so peaceful, so peaceful that I'm with you.

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Speaker 1: See.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, in my realtive, she was like, I called and said,

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,320
Speaker 1: I just waited out, like you don't even need that

435
00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 1: right now. I mean, it's good, it's not good. It's

436
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:55,160
Speaker 1: no way I could see because.

437
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:57,399
Speaker 3: It's so much money into it. It's you spend so

438
00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:01,000
Speaker 3: much money, you're not even really all the ways safe.

439
00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 3: You know, houses is not like my house got broken into,

440
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,760
Speaker 3: you know, so yourself.

441
00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:10,040
Speaker 2: You a woman, yeah, oh my, I can't even imagine

442
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,359
Speaker 2: a violation. And just even the state of the world

443
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:16,920
Speaker 2: right now. I see all these posts about this outage

444
00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 2: that's gonna come in the blackout, and one guy was

445
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,240
Speaker 2: just saying he was like, imagine, he said, when people

446
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 2: who are prepared have it eaten in three days? What

447
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,040
Speaker 2: they're gonna do. They're gonna start breaking the houses. It's

448
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:28,400
Speaker 2: gonna be in flight or flight mode and like trying

449
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 2: to survive.

450
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 1: And I was like, that's really scared. We're not safe,

451
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And I'm like, what am

452
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:37,040
Speaker 1: I gonna do? Come on here? You know I don't

453
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:39,879
Speaker 1: want to No, I don't want to be We're women.

454
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 1: We want to be sold. Yes, nobody want to feel

455
00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:47,159
Speaker 1: like shoot them up? Baby, don't nobody feel like that?

456
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 1: Speaking of bay Bang, one of.

457
00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 2: My guilty pleasures is like mafia, drug movies and TV.

458
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,440
Speaker 1: Shows like it just makes you feel like that. I

459
00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 1: love them like so much, especially when their true story,

460
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,680
Speaker 1: like it don't matter what it is, like that really happened. Yes,

461
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 1: I'm fascinated by it. I'm just like, oh my gosh.

462
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 1: People love like true crime. I love like the Mafia

463
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 1: and mob and gang movies.

464
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,920
Speaker 2: Okay, So when it came to be a math true

465
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 2: story and storytime, I auditioned for Monique.

466
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 1: Yes, So when I saw them, I sware, So you know,

467
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 1: when you don't get it, you like who got it?

468
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,879
Speaker 1: And like who got it? And then when I saw you.

469
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 1: I was like, she's perfect, like because you know sometimes

470
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 1: like and it's so funny because we're like the same time,

471
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 1: like as we're kicking and it's like we're in the

472
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:42,160
Speaker 1: same claw. Yes, you that was your role, and that's

473
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 1: one of my favorite shows. You killed it, Thank you.

474
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:47,680
Speaker 1: I was sad when when it was Lamar.

475
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 3: But you know, Monique really died in real life. No, yeah,

476
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,320
Speaker 3: she really died in real life before he moved to Atlanta.

477
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 1: She died. Oh my god. That was his first baby

478
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 1: mama and she passed away. Yeah, so I knew that

479
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:01,639
Speaker 1: that was going to happen.

480
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just wanted to stay a little bit longer.

481
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 3: I was having a good time, and every time it aired,

482
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 3: I was like so excited, so good because I didn't

483
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 3: watch nothing until the erul be surprised him. Plus not

484
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 3: sitting there critiquing myself and just like nervous and have

485
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:21,919
Speaker 3: anxiety and want to change stuff and I can't, so everything.

486
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 1: Was out of my control. So I was like, I'm

487
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 1: just gonna let this fly. Yeah, and I just watched

488
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:27,480
Speaker 1: it with the world I love. And then I also

489
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 1: loved the r from Detroit that you are bag.

490
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 2: No, I didn't I didn't even know about that show,

491
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 2: but I actually I loved the r Kilpatrick and Shannon

492
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:40,879
Speaker 2: another one of my friends, he's on that show too,

493
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:41,640
Speaker 2: and John.

494
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 1: It's a few people that I know on that show.

495
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:44,720
Speaker 1: But I love that. So when I saw you on

496
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:46,359
Speaker 1: Their Town, I was like, you better be working. And

497
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:49,119
Speaker 1: then I like that bro. Yes, like Monique was my

498
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 1: girl too, because Monique was a player, like you got

499
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:57,720
Speaker 1: these crazy at all? So I was. But it was like,

500
00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:00,959
Speaker 1: you know, she she was on the wild a little bit.

501
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 1: She had her little but it was acting and it

502
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 1: was fun. But I like that I could go into

503
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,160
Speaker 1: being gang.

504
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 4: Yeah.

505
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah you girl boss. Yeah, I love that.

506
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 1: So now I need to be in a movie where

507
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: I'm shooting up something there you go, Listen, I need

508
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 1: to be shooting I need I need to be rolling

509
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 1: around on the ground right hiding on the cars like

510
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 1: I want to do that. Put it out there, it's

511
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 1: gonna happen. I want to do that. I want to

512
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 1: do that, you know, and one time I want to

513
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,160
Speaker 1: I want to be a crackhead. Listen.

514
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 2: I actually auditioned for a character where I was a

515
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,920
Speaker 2: heroin adict Listen, the stuff that you auditioned.

516
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 3: For and I'm not mad at that because I want

517
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 3: to see the rain, the range and just having fun.

518
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 1: I want to look crazy.

519
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 3: I want people to see me in a different light

520
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,880
Speaker 3: and I just blamed a time and beautiful like see

521
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 3: me looking crazy like.

522
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,439
Speaker 1: That girl really can act? Yes, it's crazy. Now did

523
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 1: you do like acting classes? How did you prepare for these?

524
00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:00,920
Speaker 3: I did acting class with Tasha Smith, so I did

525
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,119
Speaker 3: a couple of classes with her. But other than that,

526
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 3: I didn't do anything. But I'm about to do some more.

527
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 2: Okay, got it amazing? Where you body those roads? That's amazing.

528
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. What else is next for you? What

529
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:16,640
Speaker 1: more acting? More acting?

530
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna get back and I'm getting back to

531
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 3: it in March, finishing the worst of this tour. Yeah,

532
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 3: I'm really get into products and different because I want

533
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:28,360
Speaker 3: to sit at home.

534
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:32,679
Speaker 1: Baby. That's that's another thing. What can I do? They

535
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 1: can make money when I'm sleeping, because I have to

536
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:35,400
Speaker 1: make money.

537
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:40,680
Speaker 3: So if it's between getting on a road and not

538
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:42,919
Speaker 3: making money, I'm getting on a road no matter how tired, I.

539
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:43,920
Speaker 1: Am going to get the money.

540
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 3: But if I can sit down and make money, I'm

541
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 3: doing it. So as soon as I find my niche,

542
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 3: I'm going to take that and I'm running with it. Yeah,

543
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 3: because I could be at home with my kids just

544
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,879
Speaker 3: having a where I build me a warehouse or something.

545
00:26:57,640 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 1: On my land.

546
00:26:58,560 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

547
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, come on, and yeah, cause I'm gonna get it.

548
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get a house again. Right, I have kids,

549
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 1: you have family. Yeah, it makes sense. You have to

550
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 1: make it make sense. Yeah.

551
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't have it now, but eventually I will

552
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 3: feel me something or something you know. But in the

553
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 3: next five years, by the time my son starts school

554
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:20,119
Speaker 3: and get into them activities, Yes, it's time for me.

555
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 3: I'm going to them games. So I need to find

556
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 3: my way without having to move around. Yes, make their

557
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 3: life all complicated.

558
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. I love that.

559
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 2: Through everything that you've been through in life, what is

560
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 2: a moment or a point that pulled you close to

561
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 2: to guy to make you leaning.

562
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 1: On your faith. Hm.

563
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 3: I feel after I had both of my kids, for sure,

564
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 3: kind of a switch was like yeah, like even knowing

565
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,880
Speaker 3: that you know, given birth, you could that's hot.

566
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 1: That's listen. That is one of my greatest fears. Yes,

567
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 1: you could life or death. Yeah, and then you created life,

568
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:05,160
Speaker 1: like you create life in the process.

569
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 4: Yeah.

570
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 3: So it's like you know that just knowing that and

571
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 3: you know, overcoming and you know, coming out on the

572
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:11,680
Speaker 3: positive side of it.

573
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 1: So it was like I'm just grateful.

574
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I get closer to God and just knowing

575
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 3: how he operates and having and getting closer as being

576
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 3: more intuitive with him and He's showing me things and

577
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 3: it's and it's happening and I'm like, wow, that was you.

578
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 3: You told me that, and it's like it just brings

579
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 3: me closer because I know you're real, you know, because

580
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 3: I mean, coming up, we don't know for sure parents,

581
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 3: but we just you start realizing that on your own

582
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 3: and you live in this thing called life and you're

583
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 3: seeing how it operates with him and it's spiritual. You

584
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 3: start to learn like, okay, I gotta get closer, you know,

585
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 3: and I still feel like I can be closer.

586
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

587
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 2: I feel like it's an ever evolving relationship. Yeah, likeship.

588
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 1: It is to always yeah yeah, to keep you and

589
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 1: then and just yeah, I'm with you on that.

590
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 2: And I feel like in this past year, I feel

591
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 2: like every conversation I had with friends, at some point

592
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 2: God comes up. You notice because it's all the tension

593
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 2: everything's going on.

594
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 1: I feel like he's just pulling us closer and closer,

595
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: and I feel everything was going on in the world.

596
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 1: It's too much. It's too much. It's like I was

597
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 1: thinking about, like I'm not about to drive to Memphis.

598
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 1: I'm going to get on a plane and I'm plane

599
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:25,880
Speaker 1: and flipped over.

600
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 2: I'm baby, it's scary, Like I don't think I've prayed.

601
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 2: It's always like thank you love for let us make

602
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 2: her safe. Now it's like heaven, like I want to

603
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 2: kneel down on the floor before we take off.

604
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: Heavenly fly the police.

605
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 2: Let just make it like you you're very intentional now,

606
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 2: like about like, am I going to get there safely?

607
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 3: Because it's crazy because it's like when you know what's

608
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 3: so crazy? I think that you can speak thinks to

609
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 3: assistance and also think it. Oh absolutely when you have

610
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 3: that stuff on your brain all day and every day,

611
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 3: and you don't want to have this on your brain

612
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 3: all day because sometimes it happens when you just thinking

613
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 3: about it and you manifest this.

614
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like you can't help when you get

615
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 1: on it internet, this is all you see in your face,

616
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 1: like I have to log out. It's like it's like,

617
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 1: let me just give this a break.

618
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 2: I had to start doing like a time limit on

619
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 2: my social media, like on Instagram, like two hour daily

620
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,719
Speaker 2: limit throughout the day. I can only say for two

621
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 2: hours two hours. Yeah, because it is it's so much negativity.

622
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:20,200
Speaker 3: You have to take that, Yeah, because I'd be moving

623
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 3: around so much. Like when I do get a chance

624
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 3: to get on there, I'll be in there, oh and stuck.

625
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 1: Whether you find all the new stuff like pregnant, oh wow,

626
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 1: limit any sense stuff now you buy?

627
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 3: It takes it so much, so I'm gonna take that.

628
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 3: Give me a limit a day, ye, just a limit, Yeah,

629
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 3: just slid up.

630
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 1: Jas.

631
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 2: We do something that's called positive outcomes, and a lot

632
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 2: of times when women see us, they feel like we're

633
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 2: exempt from heartache or even you know what I'm saying,

634
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 2: being taken advantage of. I don't know why, because they

635
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 2: look at us and like gets so perfect and like

636
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 2: who would ever cheat on you or break your heart?

637
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 2: Are heartbreaks and stuff and make fun of it because

638
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 2: they're like, oh, she got her heart broken too.

639
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 1: It's like I mean it just like yeah, we're not exempt.

640
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, but if you were if there's a woman watching,

641
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 2: what advice would you give her if she's going through something.

642
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 3: Like that, a heartbreak, yeah, or even just feeling like

643
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 3: she was taking for granted. It's a light at the

644
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 3: end of the tunnel. And trust the process because God

645
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 3: do not play about his children, and that get back the.

646
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 1: God get back. It's different from so don't even try it.

647
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: Don't even try it. Just let it be.

648
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 3: Pray, get in your back, yes, put your energy into

649
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 3: yourself and your back, and let God handle the rest

650
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 3: because the way he can do his get back.

651
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 2: Baby, Listen, I didn't seen there may be some years

652
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 2: down the line you'd be like you did not forget

653
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 2: about You did.

654
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 3: Not forget about me, and you just be sitting there like,

655
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 3: look how that unfolded.

656
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: And by time and unfolded, you are over it. So

657
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 1: you not even living in the No, you really feel

658
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 1: bad for them? Yes, yeah, you know.

659
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 3: Don't do nothing intentional, that's ill, that's so good. I

660
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 3: have pure intentions at all times, you know, so that

661
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 3: God could take care of HI.

662
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 1: Don't do nothing with ill intentions. Let him take care

663
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 1: of it because he do with the best. Maybe he

664
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:34,480
Speaker 1: knew the best. I love God. I love him, Thank you.

665
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 1: That's perfect advice to close out. I made a game,

666
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: a little spin on cash commandments. Okay, it's a rapid fire.

667
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 2: You're just gonna answer this or that type of game.

668
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 2: All right, first cash commandment? Always get the bag or

669
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 2: always check the contract first?

670
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 1: Which one? Get the bag or check the contract? Check

671
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 1: the contract? All right? First? More money or more respect?

672
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 1: More respect? Big flex are low key wealth? Low key

673
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: wa Come on?

674
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 2: It is.

675
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: Invest in real estate or invest in yourself. Wow, that's

676
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: a tough one. I know. Wow. You know why. I'm

677
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 1: gonna say invest in myself because the more you invest

678
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 1: in yourself, you can invest in real estate. I love that.

679
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 1: Now you love your breaking bags. So this is gonna

680
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 1: be a tough one. Designer bags or property deeds. Property deeds?

681
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: Come on, all right, now I'm gonna go with that.

682
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna yeah, because that's both. But that helps get

683
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 1: that exactly. You got a sacrifice one for them, right,

684
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 1: I'll get both? Right, all right? One has to go

685
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 1: forever were letting go of wigs or lashes. This is

686
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: tough because Lord have mercy. Oh my god, that's a

687
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: tough one. Are lashing if you forever? Oh? My god,

688
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:02,560
Speaker 1: I probably say wigs just because we can still do

689
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 1: bundles and quick weeds like that.

690
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 3: Keep our lashes, yes, because we were looking a little

691
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 3: sleepy with yah lash.

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00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 1: Oh yeah. After I stopp getting those individuals, it was

693
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 1: I have no lashes. You was an individual?

694
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Speaker 3: See you is my girl, because I was one, and

695
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 3: I pulled them all out there and they're doing clusters.

696
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 2: Now, yes, that might be good that it don't take

697
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 2: a lot of time, right you like last I've never

698
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 2: done that.

699
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 3: I did it one time and my eyes was floodshot red,

700
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 3: so I never did it again, like plus coming out

701
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 3: my eyes.

702
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 1: So I only can do strips. Oh, yes, what I

703
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:37,239
Speaker 1: do now?

704
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I only strips because those the well the individuals,

705
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 2: because they put them like more towards the skin.

706
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 1: But it was like literally pulling my lashes out. It

707
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:49,320
Speaker 1: was so bad. Yeah. Oh yeah, I said, do lashes

708
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 1: grow back?

709
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 2: Well they have grown back since then, but it's not

710
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:54,880
Speaker 2: nowhere near what it was before I started getting them.

711
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. I wish we was just used to Mascar pictures

712
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 1: pre like two thousand.

713
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:04,360
Speaker 2: In nineteen when everybody was getting the last extensions, I

714
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 2: had some beautiful lashes with just yeah, look at us.

715
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: Doing too much. You know what I'm saying, doing too much?

716
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, let's see late nights in the club

717
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:16,640
Speaker 2: or early mornings on a business.

718
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 1: Call, early mornings on a business call, because it gets

719
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,959
Speaker 1: your structure right. Yes, you gotta get okay, what I'm doing.

720
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 1: What I'm doing. Yeah, that's good.

721
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 2: Spend a weekend. It is hard spend the weekend with

722
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:31,919
Speaker 2: Beyonce Arihanna. That are really too word Okay, I say, okay,

723
00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:36,319
Speaker 2: if someone I love bea though exactly, No, we love, but.

724
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 1: It's like a weekend. I want to have a good time.

725
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:39,280
Speaker 1: Well be probably a good time.

726
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:42,800
Speaker 2: Too, Yeah, especially like I feel like behind closed doors

727
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 2: when she could just.

728
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:48,799
Speaker 1: Beat herself, I think she a good time. It's a tie, okay,

729
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 1: all right.

730
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 2: If someone disrespects you in public, are you clapping back?

731
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 1: Are you keeping it positive? Sweetie? See it's a mixture

732
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 1: because I'm both, I'm both, I'm both on both. It

733
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 1: depends on how you disrespect.

734
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:05,320
Speaker 3: See, like it be things going on on the internet

735
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:07,760
Speaker 3: right now, and that I don't say nothing about until

736
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 3: you said something about my kid.

737
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so now the gloves are off. But I'm

738
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 1: not about to tweet I'm not about to make a video.

739
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:16,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say.

740
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 3: Something on stage or I'm gonna say it to where

741
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,800
Speaker 3: it makes sense for me, right, you know, because I

742
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 3: ain't tolerate no disrespect hello, and especially about my kids.

743
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 2: No, that's I feel like there are certain lines that

744
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 2: should not be crossed, that shouldn't be crossed, and once

745
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:33,359
Speaker 2: you do that, all better off for sure.

746
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 1: I'm with you on that.

747
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 2: If you can listen to only one artist forever besides yourself,

748
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:39,960
Speaker 2: who would it be?

749
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:47,880
Speaker 1: Eliir? I love that sneakers are heels hell hells. You

750
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 1: see that the booty day.

751
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 2: If a man wants to be in your life, he

752
00:36:54,200 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 2: must bring what loyalty or luxury both both your biggest

753
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:07,760
Speaker 2: A man with bad credit or a man with no ambition,

754
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 2: no ambition.

755
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 1: That's credit. Can we can fix that, We figured out back,

756
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 1: we figured out. But the no ambition, like how I'm

757
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 1: gonna get you, that's how we're gonna get you, Like

758
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,919
Speaker 1: you gotta have that? That is so disgusting. No, I'm

759
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,839
Speaker 1: with you. Yeah, that's the biggest, my biggest thing. Yeah.

760
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:25,920
Speaker 1: Would you rather be swore with gifts or swell with

761
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:29,440
Speaker 1: time and attention? She said, are you asking me so hard.

762
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 1: I want everything. I want all of it. Well, they

763
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 1: asked me my favorite love lady, and like all of them,

764
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: I can't answer that. Yeah, because I want love and

765
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 1: attention too. I love love and attention.

766
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,320
Speaker 3: But you gotta give me a gift that makes me

767
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:46,799
Speaker 3: so happy and to make we make our own money.

768
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 3: So it's not like you're giving me something I can't

769
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:52,279
Speaker 3: get myself and him too, like I want to buy

770
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 3: your stuffy something. Don't make me feel like I'm the trick, hello,

771
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:59,759
Speaker 3: like I'm a truth or something by talking about your stuff.

772
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 1: I don't feel bad. Oh, you brought me so cool.

773
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 1: I'm about to go get you something, all right, lads

774
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,880
Speaker 1: two or three? If he fumbles the bag meaning you,

775
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 1: does he get a second chance or no? Have you

776
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 1: have you spuned a black cash? It'd be over. It's over.

777
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:27,320
Speaker 1: It's over. Sorry, we could be cool. Maybe yeah, I

778
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 1: tried it and it just didn't want almost a read

779
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 1: like and then you trust the reason why you originally

780
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 1: broke it. I originally broke up with it.

781
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:40,320
Speaker 3: I mean sometimes it haven't happened, okay, and it was

782
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 3: successful No, okay, I'm sorry.

783
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:47,879
Speaker 1: Broke, but loyal or rich and slightly toxic, he said,

784
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 1: slightly toxic or just toxic, slightly like a little bit

785
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 1: of toxic, just enough, a nothing not like okay, he cared,

786
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 1: it's toxic. Care though, I think what is toxic? Like

787
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 1: a good time toxic or like cheating and stuff, No,

788
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 1: not cheating and stuff. Oh toxic and rich. I am rich.

789
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,399
Speaker 1: I can't deal with it. I can't. I mean, well,

790
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 1: I'm not rich. I do good for myself. I don't

791
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 1: even like saying that, but it's like, I do so

792
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 1: good for myself. I just don't want.

793
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 3: Somebody next to me that just can't even do it

794
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 3: for themselves like I could do for myself, and I

795
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:33,360
Speaker 3: feel bad doing myself because I can, Like I just

796
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 3: have to be myself and I can't be myself if

797
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 3: I'm around someone that just don't have nothing, like broke,

798
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:40,239
Speaker 3: it's broke.

799
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but you're loyal to me broke.

800
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:49,400
Speaker 3: It's like I don't even want nobody feeling comfortable being broke.

801
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's where the ambition comes in. Yeah, like I don't, no,

802
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:58,279
Speaker 1: don't be broken around No, absolutely not. It's not gonna work.

803
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:02,839
Speaker 1: Don't do it aim as high All right, last question,

804
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:03,839
Speaker 1: we're gonna get out of here.

805
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 2: Your biggest turn on in a man power moves or

806
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 2: a good sense of humor.

807
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: Both. Yeah, I need you to get me laugh and

808
00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 1: I don't. I better laugh. I want to be laying

809
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:18,399
Speaker 1: that makes them fine. I want to be in the bed.

810
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 1: I'm too goofy. Yes, and then you have to be

811
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 1: making some power moves, some moves inspiring, Yes, motivation. I

812
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 1: want a man that inspire me.

813
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:35,360
Speaker 3: Motivating, which already we do a lot in life on

814
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:37,959
Speaker 3: our own, and it's like the person that you land

815
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,799
Speaker 3: with and giving yourself too. You want to be able

816
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:42,720
Speaker 3: to look at them like, wow, that's amazing.

817
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 1: Absolutely, yeah, I love that. Amazing Alright with me, I

818
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,920
Speaker 1: come kicking with you. Come on back. You are welcome

819
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 1: any time. I'm serious, I'm coming back. Let me know

820
00:40:56,360 --> 00:41:02,239
Speaker 1: when you get that condo out here. Okay, yeah, let's

821
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 1: do it. Let's away. Thank you so much. I had

822
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 1: a good time.

823
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 2: What an incredible conversation I have with Cash Doll. Her

824
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 2: story is all about.

825
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 1: Resilience, confidence, and staying true to your vision. I hope

826
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 1: you're walking away just as inspired as I am. One

827
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 1: of my takeaways from this episode is that Cash is

828
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 1: really a Girl's girl. I absolutely love that about her.

829
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 2: I love how she emphasized sisterhood and how important it

830
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 2: is to have your sisters. I got me a new

831
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 2: one today. Love you, Cash and thanks for stuffing Bidy.

832
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of

833
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 2: the Keep It Positive Sweetie Show. Don't forget to subscribe,

834
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 2: leave a review, and share this episode with someone who

835
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 2: could use some positive energy. And while you're at it,

836
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 2: make sure you tune into the new episode of Sisters

837
00:41:56,719 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 2: this Wednesday, and remember, no matter what life throws at you,

838
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 2: stay focused, stay confident, and of course keep it positive.

839
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 1: You guys can follow me.

840
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 2: On all platforms at Love Crystal Renee, you can follow

841
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:11,839
Speaker 2: us at keep It Positive Sweetie, and you can write

842
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 2: into our positive outcomes listener letter at keep It Positive

843
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:16,799
Speaker 2: Sweetie at gmail dot com.

844
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:19,800
Speaker 1: In the meantime, in between time, y'all know what to do.

845
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 1: Keep it positive, sweeties. I'll see you guys next time,