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Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Subject He asked to see it, and

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Speaker 1: I heard him. Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband and I

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Speaker 1: have an auto detailing shop, but we make the most

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Speaker 1: money with our mobile detailing truck. My husband has been

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Speaker 1: running the mobile detailing business all by himself because he

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Speaker 1: said he can't find anyone that's as good as he is.

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Speaker 1: Most of his mobile customers are single females that don't

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Speaker 1: like going to a car wash. I go by the

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Speaker 1: shop daily to pick up the cash so I can

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Speaker 1: overheard a female telling my detail shop manager that she

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Speaker 1: had to stop getting mobile detailing because the owner was

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Speaker 1: flirting with her and her husband didn't like it since

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Speaker 1: she was talking about my husband. I asked the shop

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Speaker 1: manager if she said anything else about my husband being

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Speaker 1: inappropriate while he was working. The manager minimized the whole

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Speaker 1: complaint by saying, the customer is an airhead that thinks

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Speaker 1: all men want her. I could see that in her,

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Speaker 1: so I didn't dwell on it. The next day, my

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Speaker 1: husband was on a deck smoking a cigar and I

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Speaker 1: could see him on the camera smiling and talking on

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Speaker 1: listen to his conversation. I heard him asking for a

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Speaker 1: picture of something. He asked for a sneak peek, a

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Speaker 1: full view, and then he asked the person to touch

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Speaker 1: whatever it was that he wanted to see. I started

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Speaker 1: talking to him through the camera and it startled him.

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Speaker 1: He hung up without saying bye, and he came in

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Speaker 1: the house. He said he was talking to a guy

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Speaker 1: about a scrap on his car. The guy wanted to

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Speaker 1: see if he could buffet out without having to sand

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Speaker 1: and repaint it. I don't believe that. My intuition tells

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Speaker 1: me he's a cheater. My intuition tells me he was

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Speaker 1: asking to see some part of a female's body. Do

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Speaker 1: I need more proof before I accuse him of lying?

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Speaker 1: Now you know in your soul he was talking to

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Speaker 1: a woman, and yes, he was asking to see it

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Speaker 1: and touch and for her to touch herself.

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Speaker 2: You heard that, period.

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Speaker 1: I don't care how he tried to spin it with

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Speaker 1: those lies he told you after you startled him on

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Speaker 1: the phone. That's what it was. There's nothing wrong with

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Speaker 1: your ears. You heard what you heard. Why did he

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Speaker 1: hang up the phone so abruptly when you started talking

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Speaker 1: to him? Why was he smoking a cigar and smiling about?

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Speaker 1: What was he smoking and smiling about? What was that

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Speaker 1: all about? If it was business?

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Speaker 2: It was?

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Speaker 1: If it was just business. And a scratch doesn't have

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Speaker 1: to be touched to see that it's a scratch. You

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Speaker 1: can just point to a scratch. There's nothing wrong with

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Speaker 1: a little harmless flirting. I get that from time to time.

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Speaker 1: But your husband is out there doing the most in

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Speaker 1: these streets. I think you should get in that truck

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Speaker 1: and start going on these mobile detailing jobs with him. Steve.

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Speaker 3: First of all, let's just go on to deal with

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Speaker 3: the you know, relationship record herself, who just has destroyed

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Speaker 3: another relationship. Try to step in here and try to

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Speaker 3: salvage what I can of the remaining relationship that these

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Speaker 3: poor people have. Lord, have mercy forgive us this day.

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Speaker 3: Our daily bread boy is boring so much damn trouble

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Speaker 3: in this letter. But Lord, how can I help him?

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Speaker 3: You know, it's hard help for fool sometimes because I

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Speaker 3: already know what Shereley gonna do, seek and destroy. She's

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Speaker 3: on a mission and already them as many as she can, obviously,

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Speaker 3: and I understand that it usually comes to the aid

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Speaker 3: of the woman to try to offer her but mostly

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Speaker 3: in out other hand, come with a different mission in

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Speaker 3: mind to all diversity in the letter. My husband and

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Speaker 3: I got an auto detailing shop and we make the

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Speaker 3: the business every day to pick up the money. The

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Speaker 3: problem is most of his customers happened to be single

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Speaker 2: You know, So I you know all this here.

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Speaker 3: So you overheard one of your shop managers talking to

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Speaker 3: husband didn't like it. Now, minute ago, you just said

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Speaker 3: most of the customers were single females. Now that lady married,

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Speaker 3: got a husband. So you know what are you hearing?

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Speaker 2: So let's find out what you heard.

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Speaker 3: He said that my manager said that she had to

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Speaker 3: stop because the owner was flirting with her. So you

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Speaker 3: asked the manager, did she say anything else about your

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Speaker 2: Anything that might be in appropriate?

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Speaker 3: The manager kind of shut the whole thing down by

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Speaker 3: in her, because women can see things. My husband was

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Speaker 3: on the deck smoking a cigar. This is why I

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Speaker 3: come in at because I too smoked cigars and I

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Speaker 3: see him on the camera smiling and talking on the phone.

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Speaker 2: This is where the letter.

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Speaker 3: Gets cloudy for me. He was smiling and talking on

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Speaker 3: the phone. I turned up the sounds so I could

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Speaker 3: listen to his conversation. Now she turned up the sound

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Speaker 3: on what that's what I didn't understand. Camera the camera, Oh,

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Speaker 3: she got one.

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Speaker 1: She could see him on camera talking on the phone,

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Speaker 1: so she turned okay, and I.

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Speaker 3: Heard him asking for a picture of something. He asked

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Speaker 3: camera and it startled him. He hung up without saying

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Speaker 3: and the guy wanted to see if he could buffet

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Speaker 3: out without having the sand and repaint it.

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Speaker 2: I don't believe that.

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Speaker 3: Mind tuition tells me he's a cheator, a cheetah, and

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Speaker 3: my tuition tells me he was asking to see some

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Speaker 3: part of a female body. Do I need more proof

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Speaker 3: before I accuse him of lying?

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm worth two of Steve's response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. My Strawberry letter for today.

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Speaker 1: The subject is he asked to see it, and I

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Speaker 1: heard him. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show, All right, Come on, Steve, let's

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Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter. Subject he has to see it,

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Speaker 1: and I heard him.

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Speaker 3: This lady and her husband have the mobile detail shop.

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Speaker 3: She was over at the shop one day collecting the

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Speaker 3: money and overheard the customer talking to one of the managers,

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Speaker 3: saying she had to stop the mobile detailing bussiness that

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Speaker 3: So then you knew she was talking about your husband.

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Speaker 3: So you went up to the manager, say did she

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Speaker 3: say anything else her husband did was inappropriate? The manager

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Speaker 3: played it off and shot it down by saying, she's

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Speaker 3: an airhead. She think all women, all men won't hurt

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Speaker 3: you said yourself. You could see that. But then the

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Speaker 3: next day your husband was out on the deck smoking

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Speaker 3: a cigar on the phone.

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Speaker 2: Smiling, laughing, cigar on his head.

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Speaker 3: This is where Shirley proceeds to destroy another man whatever,

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Speaker 3: to seek and destroy mission she is on. I am

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Speaker 3: here to try to offer some type of vice. Well,

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Speaker 3: but you know it not necessarily a lie, surely, because

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Speaker 3: you don't know now. Anyway, he heard her say asking

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Speaker 3: for a picture of something. He asked for a sneak peek,

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Speaker 3: a full view, and then he asked the person to

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Speaker 3: touch whatever it was that.

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Speaker 2: He wanted to see.

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Speaker 3: I started talking to him through the camera. They got

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Speaker 3: one of them ring phones. I guess she talked out.

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Speaker 2: On the deck. Hey, what you out there doing.

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Speaker 3: He hung up without saying goodbye. He came in the

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Speaker 3: a scratch on his car, and the guy wanted to

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Speaker 3: see if he could buffet out without having the sand

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Speaker 3: and repaint it. I don't believe that, but you must

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Speaker 3: admit this was a magnificent Oh god, it was all

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Speaker 3: what I love about. What his response was, it was

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Speaker 3: related to what he do, so he turned his phone

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Speaker 3: call into a business call. Now surely you said some stuff.

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Speaker 3: Mm hmm, that's not true.

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Speaker 2: What you.

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Speaker 3: Can't well, you can walk around your car with a cigar.

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Speaker 3: I do it all the time.

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Speaker 2: Everybody rubs the scratch on a car, but.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to. That's not necessary.

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Speaker 3: Everybody rubs the scratch on the car to see how

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Speaker 3: deep the grooves is and if it can be rough

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Speaker 3: buffed out. That's a true statement about a scratch on

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Speaker 3: the car, everybody. If you want me to do my business,

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Speaker 3: you got to show me the scratch.

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Speaker 1: Well, he could have just showed it to it.

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Speaker 2: Man, come and give me a full view of it.

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Speaker 3: Now, touch it, rubbing crossed there with your fringers so

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Speaker 3: I can see if it's down into the paint.

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Speaker 2: What a wonderful thing he said. Now Shelley thinks that.

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Speaker 3: He's talking about a woman's body part, because that's what

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Speaker 3: But then here was the opening. Do I need more

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Speaker 3: showing what we need, which is reasonable doubt. If you

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Speaker 3: knew that you knew what you knew, you would have

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Speaker 3: approached him by now. But you're a little bit unsure

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Speaker 3: because of his quick king and turn it into a paint.

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Speaker 3: In the words of the late Johnny Cockley, if it

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Speaker 3: doesn't fit, you mustn't quick.

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Speaker 2: And that you got it fits.

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Speaker 3: It fits what an autobody man would say. Let me

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Speaker 3: see it. Pull back, give me a full.

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Speaker 2: View of that scrac like that you were talking like that.

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Speaker 4: Put your finger on it. Let me see if that

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Speaker 4: ain't too deep. Put your fingers on that scratch. Let

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Speaker 4: me see how deep it is. Are you see what

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Speaker 4: I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: That's not a business call.

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Speaker 3: And you you with your busy body, Hey, why are

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Speaker 1: The wife?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, what did you touch it out there? What

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Speaker 2: did you got your fingers on there. They got to

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Speaker 2: come in. Now you have messed up the Besit deal.

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Speaker 3: Yeah right right, and yeah you scared me because I

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Speaker 3: heard a voice out of nowhere. See all this could

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Speaker 2: She is, evil just evil?

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Speaker 3: Has I have tried to save a fan.

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Speaker 1: If you tried to help him with a good lie

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Speaker 1: to get out of it.

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Speaker 2: That was better than the ones you could do well.

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Speaker 3: But it was the lie that was needed to cause

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Speaker 3: reasonable doubt. Because now she is now questioning does she

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