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Speaker 1: Are men messier than we messy boots?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You know he down the soccer player.

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Speaker 2: You know, they say, who is the mess You know

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Speaker 2: it's probably men are so messy and like they don't

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Speaker 2: want to live in it. They don't look at it

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Speaker 2: as gossiping. I remember I told somebody I was friends

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Speaker 2: with recently. I was like, you gossiping and he was like,

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Speaker 2: I don't gossip. I'm a man, So I mean maybe

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Speaker 2: we can. By the way, it's like, maybe we should

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Speaker 2: name it something else.

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Speaker 1: Will that make you comfortable? But you're definitely gossiping.

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Speaker 3: Maybe it should be Boston gossip Boy my Phone.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I think that it's just crazy as hell.

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Speaker 2: Some of the hottest tea that I have ever gotten

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Speaker 2: in my life.

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Speaker 4: The man, the men be having.

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Speaker 1: The rundown too.

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Speaker 2: They will tell you from top to bottom from man,

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Speaker 2: let me tell you, and you be tuned into and

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Speaker 2: y'all let it be yo, mean, why real is ready?

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Speaker 1: What's up? Y'all? Is your girl lisp? And it's your

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Speaker 1: girls raying the call and you are.

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Speaker 3: Tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds.

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Speaker 1: Where a drunk mind speaks So birthday, we gotta guest today?

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Speaker 1: We gotta guest today.

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Speaker 3: Okay, y'all, y'all know we love to read the comments,

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Speaker 3: and y'all know we love and we have the girls on. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So today we have rapper, songwriter, actress, poets, and a

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Speaker 3: college scholar if you we got Maddy Lennon.

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Speaker 4: In the building.

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Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, so much for joining us, y'all for having me.

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Speaker 1: What are you doing girl? You know we have a

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Speaker 1: time we are and you look great. Everybody looks so good.

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Speaker 4: The fashionist cheap.

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Speaker 3: So talk about you know, we're gonna start from the beginning. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So talk about your life, like growing up and how

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Speaker 4: How you got into music and all that stuff.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So I grew up between New York and Jersey in

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Speaker 2: the center and the mecca of hip hop in the

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Speaker 2: around hip hop music, Like my mom never censored, no

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Speaker 2: music around me. Like you listen to an explicit version,

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Speaker 2: you know, like just girl ghetto, just a mess. But

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Speaker 2: I grew up really really into my studies. I was

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Speaker 2: I had like behavioral issues.

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Speaker 1: You was bad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't give me bad vibe. I know I've

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Speaker 2: grabbing baptized. Sometimes I thought that I gotta go back

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I really liked school though, like the academic

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Speaker 1: So I ended up doing going to Howard.

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Speaker 2: I under studied medical sciences at Howard, double major in

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Speaker 2: went to usc CAXT School of Medicine for Global Medicine.

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Speaker 2: Wanted to do some administrative stuff before going to med school,

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Speaker 2: and I was always writing along the way, writing poetry,

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Speaker 2: never really rapping, but just writing poetry.

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Speaker 1: I posted a video doing.

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Speaker 2: Poetry online in twenty eighteen, and it like went super

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Speaker 2: when it wasn't normal to have ten million views, right

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Speaker 2: if people forget that, Yeah we had a time. Yeah

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Speaker 2: they even calculated. You even showed up in the algorithmself.

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Speaker 2: It was like eight point seven million views. It was

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Speaker 1: But you had never even thought about it before.

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Speaker 2: No, And poetry is so different from rap, like you

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Speaker 3: Away and look, I'm not a deep person. I'll be

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Speaker 3: understanding poetry all. They be like and the blue Waves everybody. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I love the snall I love, but it's it's very deep.

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Speaker 3: Vocabulary because you know, to say you learn to rap

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Speaker 3: when you listen to Lady Lending, it gets deep. You

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, definitely. It's it's a big thing.

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Speaker 2: a word. My grandmother used to be like, go look

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Speaker 4: Oh lord, Oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: Like my vocabulary is pretty intense, and I think it

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the very won't understand. I will. I ain't gonna know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they say that about me on the show too,

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Speaker 2: They be like, your vocabulary is so extensive.

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Speaker 3: Not the Twins right.

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Speaker 4: For real.

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Speaker 2: But I definitely wanted to talk a little bit about

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Speaker 2: your documentary, your three part documentary that's about to come

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Speaker 2: out on October teenth on Tube Always Lady Lyndy, could

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Speaker 2: you tell us about it? So it is a docuseriies

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Speaker 2: that follows my journey and making my first album. So

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Speaker 2: it was super invasive, you know, if I could be

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Speaker 1: It's like, I'm so private, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Even want people know. I want to target yesterday, Like

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Speaker 2: I don't. I'm just let's keep it on the hush,

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Speaker 2: it was like months of that, like tracking me and

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Speaker 2: I went to I did a writing camp in Houston

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Speaker 1: All of that.

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Speaker 2: So it basically recaps the process, the nuances that go

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Speaker 3: Yeah, But I also feel like that's so good for

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Speaker 3: like you said, it's sacrifice. You got to give up

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Speaker 4: People are interested in stuff like that.

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Speaker 3: As crazy as it might sound, but I think that

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Speaker 3: it's good to do like more of a like a documentary,

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Speaker 3: So I like, I think we need to go back

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Speaker 3: to documentaries. Do y'all remember when like True Life was

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Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. True Life was crazy making

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Speaker 3: the video situation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like they used to have making the video.

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Speaker 1: That you know that we haven't necessarily seen before.

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Speaker 3: Ye, So do you miss like do you feel like

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Speaker 2: Saying sometimes like it's one part of me that feels

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, right, But I think this was like my

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Speaker 2: I try to quit. I quit wrap every day. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: But I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think I have a message to deliver here, and

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Speaker 2: I don't know if this is the medium, you know.

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Speaker 2: That's what I always question, is like am I doing

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Speaker 2: I think I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be. But

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Speaker 1: Listening to too. So that's that's just basically right.

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Speaker 3: How do you feel though, because now and we're gonna

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Speaker 4: So how do you find that balance?

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Speaker 2: You know what's crazy is I think a lot of

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Speaker 1: But I love that shit.

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Speaker 2: Like in'side my house, like but like that'sh they be

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Speaker 2: trying to box me into this person that's like so poetic,

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Speaker 2: like girl, I am ghetto as fucking.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm I'm, I'm a key, I'm a good.

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Speaker 2: Time all the things. It's just I want it to

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Speaker 2: now is just all inclusive, like if we can have

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Speaker 1: Like we want we need a pop. What we listen

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Speaker 2: You know what I got there at the club, But

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Speaker 2: we do need it somewhere. Somebody needs healing, Yeah, somebody.

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Speaker 2: I mean, at the end of the day, you come

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Speaker 1: I'm all Saturday, still gonna. Never would have made it

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Speaker 1: so they wanted. We just need the balance.

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Speaker 4: That's why I need that because I'm a cry every time.

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Speaker 5: Care, right, That's why I need to shut the hell's

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Speaker 5: dress everything I used to be like that when we

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Speaker 1: It's very strange.

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Speaker 3: I have to tell y'all story. I wasn't gonna tell

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Speaker 4: Right, goddamn minute, bitch.

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Speaker 3: But I think that we are stuck in this society too,

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Speaker 3: Everybody wants to be the cool girl. Everybody wants to

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Speaker 1: That's how they do with me.

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Speaker 2: I mean, obviously, the main thing is my voice always

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Speaker 3: When I love your voice. I was about to say

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Speaker 1: That's how I said it. I loved dealing. Hey, you

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Speaker 3: I mean, that song was so I remember a girl

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Speaker 4: Man, I'm watching.

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Speaker 1: You because this is my beauty, this is my nigga.

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Speaker 4: I was going through a hard time.

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Speaker 3: I was going through a hard time, okay, and I

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Speaker 4: before we move.

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Speaker 3: On, because I do want to touch on the women

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Speaker 3: But y'all know this episode is sponsored by our good

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Speaker 4: Y'all know, we got poured up per usual.

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Speaker 1: So we have a segment.

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Speaker 3: Called a Poor Decisions where we talk about something that

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Speaker 4: It doesn't have to be anything major.

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Speaker 4: I shouldn't have done that.

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Speaker 3: My poor decision this week is I'll start please And

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Speaker 3: Like when I moved my lights and take it. I

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Speaker 3: I'm a da girley. I got paint in there, I

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Speaker 3: slowing down. You know how you just get flustered and

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Speaker 4: I like a little loosen the day.

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Speaker 2: You know, do you your car in the yes, Well,

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Speaker 4: It's called that raggedy piece of ship.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 4: I don't give a damn about my car.

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Speaker 1: Imagine if it was in there though.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all over my garage. But you know, we get

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Speaker 3: Just sometimes I need to slow down and calm down

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Speaker 1: But something? Yeah, go ahead. I'm still trying. I feel

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Speaker 2: Okay, let me think, what is a poor decision that

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Speaker 1: You feel like it, yes, because I was angry as fuck.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I was being mean to people because

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Speaker 2: die y well, not die you but eat clean.

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Speaker 1: You just lose the weight.

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00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:51,680
Speaker 2: Like I cannot do fast. It just makes me so angry.

442
00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:52,960
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm a whole different person.

443
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:54,439
Speaker 4: So you're not doing it ever again.

444
00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:01,400
Speaker 2: Maybe eventually in the future I'll try because I really

445
00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:03,159
Speaker 2: want to do a seven day water fast because they

446
00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:05,600
Speaker 2: say you research your whole system. This is my water

447
00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:07,919
Speaker 2: right here, so I really do want to try that.

448
00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 2: But I just I don't know. Maybe it's mind over matter,

449
00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,040
Speaker 2: but now it was a bad See girl, next time,

450
00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:13,960
Speaker 2: go through the Nigga phone.

451
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:14,359
Speaker 4: I don't know.

452
00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:18,720
Speaker 1: I don't just you want to jump start to a diet.

453
00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:25,640
Speaker 2: You go to the phone, THO thirteen fifteen pounds, no appetite.

454
00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:28,679
Speaker 4: For the day, all right, you narrowed it down what

455
00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:29,120
Speaker 4: you got.

456
00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:31,680
Speaker 2: Honestly, I was trying to think of something, you know,

457
00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:34,600
Speaker 2: but let's just start with yesterday. Me and my friend

458
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:37,240
Speaker 2: go to this buffet out here. I haven't been to

459
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 2: a buffet in years. We were just like, on some

460
00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:41,919
Speaker 2: let's go to a buffet type thing. And she was like,

461
00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:45,200
Speaker 2: just eat this one portion of the buffet. I don't

462
00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:50,200
Speaker 2: suggest you try the buffet, okay, right, Like cool? So

463
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,560
Speaker 2: she's like, I only eat this here, So I go

464
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,280
Speaker 2: eat whatever she eats. And then, oh my gosh, I

465
00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,120
Speaker 2: started looking around like this don't look too bad.

466
00:21:58,560 --> 00:21:58,879
Speaker 1: Whateppen?

467
00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 2: So I make a couple of I don't want to play.

468
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 2: I did not make it back to my hotel, y'all

469
00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:10,080
Speaker 2: before I was throwing up everywhere. Oh my god, girl

470
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:11,600
Speaker 2: was terrible coming off both ends.

471
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,720
Speaker 4: But I know you were skippy, lost you.

472
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 3: But I'm I will say this though, I cannot do buffets,

473
00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 3: just because more so of like the consumers of people.

474
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:28,000
Speaker 3: You don't be washing their hands and this and that

475
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 3: and what people be doing. People to be picking up stuff,

476
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 3: setting it back down. Don't be using the tongs. You're right,

477
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:34,960
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying.

478
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:39,919
Speaker 1: So you try to be one of the That's what

479
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:40,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

480
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:42,679
Speaker 2: Back in the day, we had such a thing for us.

481
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,879
Speaker 2: Not because when I don't know about you, I had

482
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,199
Speaker 2: a big family. We used to go and everybody, everybody.

483
00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,440
Speaker 2: You gotta play like you seven years old. You really twelve.

484
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

485
00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:53,760
Speaker 4: A google g gay, I'm young.

486
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:56,720
Speaker 1: You as a kid, you're telling you're telling yourself to you,

487
00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 1: I'm twelve.

488
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 4: She just tall. Yes, I think the Chinese buffets were

489
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,439
Speaker 4: things I have Ryan's in the.

490
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:13,879
Speaker 2: South, especially the Chinese buffets. We have them on every corner.

491
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're they're coming out here a lot, a little

492
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:19,680
Speaker 3: lot was it was it like a Chinese buffet.

493
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:21,399
Speaker 1: It was like a like a yeah, like more of

494
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 1: a hai.

495
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, careful, you got to be careful.

496
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 2: Used to be good. So that was a little buffet,

497
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 2: little pizza buffets. Now all we could do is the

498
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,640
Speaker 2: Ruth talents is not the same.

499
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're definitely not the same. We can't eat the

500
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 3: same things that we did when we were children.

501
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:43,280
Speaker 2: But like you said, it's the sanitation thing. To like

502
00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 2: with the buffets. That I think is something we didn't

503
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 2: think about when we were younger.

504
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, people were switching out the plans. I was like,

505
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 1: it's the new joint. Yeah, you know in my head,

506
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, this just came from the bag.

507
00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 4: Are you better today?

508
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,360
Speaker 2: I feel great, But I was worried last night because

509
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 2: they were texting me like you ready for the day tomorrow.

510
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:06,920
Speaker 4: I'm like, you know these bathrooms and here be kind

511
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 4: of I'm glad.

512
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:16,360
Speaker 2: We had a hall situation and feel like it was awful, Thank.

513
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 1: God, welcome. I went and came like I went, came

514
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 1: like that. I want to feel like that. I would

515
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:21,919
Speaker 1: have did nobody like that. That's crazy.

516
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,119
Speaker 4: Okay, so we don't go ahead and get into his

517
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 4: first time. You want to do this?

518
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:29,160
Speaker 2: I was, well, I was gonna X South High, tell

519
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 2: us what are we drinking today? Well, for our special guest,

520
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 2: she is an alumni of the illustrious Howard University. Hey,

521
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 2: you you know right, we're gonna call this one the

522
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:45,880
Speaker 2: Lady Legacy because she leads with legacy.

523
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:47,160
Speaker 1: All right, we like this.

524
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 2: This one has a red wine bas We added a

525
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,360
Speaker 2: shot of Angle Store bitter. Sometimes you just do dashes,

526
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 2: but we actually put a whole shot inside of it.

527
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,320
Speaker 2: We added some dragon fruit syrup, a little bit of

528
00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 2: lemon juice, and then we garnished it with some beauty

529
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 2: full frozen raspberry. So just to give it a little spark,

530
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:05,880
Speaker 2: a little special, a little bison. All right into this

531
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 2: and this is the lady Legacy. I'll take you to.

532
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 4: A little spirit too. Yeah, yeah, is love that?

533
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 2: Okay, Now you already know it's homecoming season, so we

534
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:27,360
Speaker 2: had to come correct poor minds and Taylor Port presents

535
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 2: the HBCU Homecoming Slush.

536
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 3: It's giving frozen vibes Taylor Port blended with berry sorbet,

537
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 3: lemon juice, and just a splash of vodka.

538
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 2: And the best part, you can customize it with garnish

539
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:40,920
Speaker 2: sheets to rip your school colors.

540
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:44,160
Speaker 3: It's fun, it's flavorful, and it's made to celebrate the culture.

541
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 3: The HBCU Homecoming Slush a Tailor Port classic in the making.

542
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 4: Salute to the season, Salute to Taylor Port.

543
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:55,439
Speaker 1: So we're gonna get into our first girl.

544
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:57,520
Speaker 4: We got to talk about it.

545
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 3: I love talking about this, especially with you know, women

546
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 3: that are in the industry. And Drea Tuck talks about

547
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 3: it a little bit, but I want to talk like women

548
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 3: in hip hop. It's been so much going on and

549
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 3: like you said, there is like unity, but it's not.

550
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 3: And then a lot of that critique comes from men.

551
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 3: So Jermaine Duprix has said that all female rappers are

552
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 3: the same, you know, they all rap about the same thing,

553
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 3: have the same esthetic. And do you think that that's

554
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,160
Speaker 3: true for like, you know, the mainstream artists, Like what

555
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,439
Speaker 3: do you feel like mainstream wants and they're looking for?

556
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,199
Speaker 3: And do you feel like all of the women are

557
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:35,920
Speaker 3: rapping the same?

558
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 1: I can't say all.

559
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 2: I think there's a lot of similarities and a lot

560
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 2: of things, but I don't think everybody is rapping the

561
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 2: same and it's always not JD.

562
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:44,840
Speaker 1: JD's a close friend of mine.

563
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 2: I have specifically a lot of people, a lot of

564
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 2: critics without credentials come in to speak about women, and

565
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 2: I hate when men speak on women's business period. I

566
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 2: just don't think we don't even this ain't even apples

567
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 2: and oranges, right, this is a spaghetti and hydrogen. I

568
00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,439
Speaker 2: don't want to talk about nothing that has to do

569
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 2: with no man. We don't stay in y'all business y'all

570
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 2: still taking eyes. But me personally, I don't think that.

571
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 2: I don't think that all women sound the same. I

572
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 2: think they are highlighting a certain vibe right now, and

573
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 2: I just hope to see a shift and an inclusion.

574
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 2: That's all that needs to be done. It don't needs

575
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 2: to be changed. It just needs to be more people

576
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:19,880
Speaker 2: coming in, because it's not that the people don't exist

577
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 2: outside of like the turn up stripper whatever music.

578
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 1: They got all this stuff too.

579
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 2: You know, we just need some eyes on it, some

580
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 2: resources put behind it, and to balance it all out,

581
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:30,360
Speaker 2: like kind of how it was back in the day.

582
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 2: You had you had like a Lauren Hill, and then

583
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 2: you also had like a Charlie Baltimore, and then you

584
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 2: had a little Camon, you had a Foxy Like all

585
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 2: of these people are like great messages in just different vibes.

586
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 2: So I think we just need to see a moment

587
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 2: where like we integrate again.

588
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:48,679
Speaker 1: That's really it.

589
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 2: And I think that's what men are trying to say,

590
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 2: but they can't articulate it properly, or just don't want

591
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,159
Speaker 2: to articulate it properly, so they choose to just say whatever,

592
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 2: speak carelessly without anybody asking them was yeah. I mean,

593
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 2: and I just think it's interesting because if we're gonna

594
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 2: say that all of the female rappers are rapping about

595
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 2: the same shit, do these niggas not be rapping about

596
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 2: the same shit exactly? We know you're all yeah, yeah,

597
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 2: we know, you yell like what we giddy and it's

598
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,879
Speaker 2: been that way for like thirty plus years. It's so

599
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 2: I just feel like, you know, if you're gonna say

600
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 2: it about women, say the same thing about me, and

601
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:34,880
Speaker 2: it needs to be some variety with them as well.

602
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, got it in our business, Like you said, stay

603
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: out of business.

604
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 4: Stay out the business.

605
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 3: And I do want to touch on something that Sweety

606
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 3: recently said in the interview that she feels like we

607
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 3: talk about pretty privileged, but we don't talk about pretty punishment.

608
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 3: And she said like she felt like she's been punished

609
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 3: in the industry and people treat her a certain way

610
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 3: because of, you know, how she looks, and it's actually

611
00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 3: worked against her. Do you feel like you have experienced that?

612
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:03,680
Speaker 3: I mean, because we can see face card on the

613
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 3: con you're gorgeous. I mean, we you know we can

614
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 3: see it. So do you felt like you've dealt with that?

615
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 1: Not enough?

616
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 2: I want some pretty privilege. Okay, I'm gonna keep it

617
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 2: be hone with you. I got any type of pretty privilege.

618
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 2: It ain't kicking in yet. I'm not where I need

619
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 2: to be, so give me some of that. That's that's

620
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 2: what I need. But I don't, I mean, I don't know.

621
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 1: I can't.

622
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 2: I can't speak to anyone else's experience in this game.

623
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 2: I know that I've been boots on the ground since

624
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 2: I began. Nothing has ever been handed to me literally

625
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 2: definition of getting it out them and I still am.

626
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: There's just no evidence.

627
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 2: Of of privilege on my end. For me, I'm not

628
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 2: a commercial mainstream artist. I haven't reached the pinnacles that

629
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 2: I plan to, so I just I'm working like everybody else.

630
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 3: I think, you know, right, do you feel like, because

631
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 3: because you are beautiful, that people expect you to like

632
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 3: sex it up more and do that, And do you

633
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 3: feel like I'm purposely not doing that because that's what

634
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 3: y'all expect of me, or you just feel like it's.

635
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 2: Just not me, Like it's just not in my I

636
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 2: love to turn up to it, but I can't. I

637
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 2: don't create it because it's just I don't feel like

638
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 2: even people, what do you want to hear from me?

639
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 2: If I'm being honest with you, Like, I feel like

640
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 2: if one day I was just like put this pussy

641
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 2: on your forehead, everybody would be like, what the what

642
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 2: are you talking about?

643
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 4: You know, but I get what you're saying.

644
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 1: It's not it's not.

645
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 2: I think I don't think I can do it for

646
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 2: long before it's like, are you just doing this for

647
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 2: the check for the sake of it? And also I

648
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 2: just again I'm big on the inclusion, Like, I think.

649
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:34,719
Speaker 1: That both can exist.

650
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 2: So I think I would be dumb trying to get

651
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 2: into a crowded lane when there's a lane that's right.

652
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 2: That's why I open, you know, So that's it. But

653
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 2: now I don't maybe people do expect it from me

654
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 2: or maybe not. I don't know.

655
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 1: I don't know if I knew, I tell you that much.

656
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 1: If I knew, we all trying to figure this ship out.

657
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 4: Yeah.

658
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 2: Do you do you ever feel like or have in

659
00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 2: your experience? Have you had any execs or like industry

660
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 2: people tell you that people lean more into looks than

661
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 2: actual lyrics, especially since you have so much substance in

662
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 2: your rep a lot of the songs. Yeah, I've had

663
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 2: people like tell or suggest that I dumb it down

664
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 2: or like.

665
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 1: I don't know.

666
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 2: I physically I've tried to make like Cat in the

667
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 2: Hat Records, but it just I just can't. Like it's

668
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 2: like actually harder than you think for me to.

669
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 1: Actually do it.

670
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 2: But yeah, I've had suggestions from executives, from producers, from whatever, but.

671
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know.

672
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 2: People always want to give suggestions but no real and

673
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 2: they want to give directions to places they never been themselves. Like, yes,

674
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 2: it works for somebody else, which about to keep replicating

675
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 2: artists over and over of the same caliber. But I

676
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 2: think it worked for them because that was their calling

677
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 2: to do that. That was their path. Now you got

678
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 2: to form your path, you know.

679
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:54,479
Speaker 1: So I don't know.

680
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 2: I don't listen to nobody but myself and Jesus, and

681
00:31:58,400 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 2: so it's.

682
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: Not any longevity in that.

683
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 2: Like like you said, if you keep making the same

684
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 2: artists over and over, I feel like a person will

685
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 2: have a hit or they might have a decent run,

686
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 2: but they're not going to have any sustainability for their

687
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 2: career because we've seen this before. I think that's what

688
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 2: really makes a start is somebody that in their own

689
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 2: lane and doing their own thing and you don't care

690
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 2: what people talking about because you know the VJI that

691
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 2: you got and God got so And I think I

692
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 2: think it's some certain beauty to mystique, Like I feel

693
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 2: like when you don't explicitly show everything or show and

694
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 2: that's just like jo, don't show your hands.

695
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 1: Your right hand with your left hand is doing right.

696
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 2: If you can just maneuver through a space and have

697
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 2: this mystique about you but still piqu everyone's interests, there's

698
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 2: something in that to be.

699
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 3: Discussed, agreecause that's how I feel about you.

700
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 1: Like I'll be like, hmm, what does she like?

701
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 4: What don't she like?

702
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 3: What does she think about this? Cause I'm curious that

703
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 3: what you think about? Like, like I said, the things

704
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 3: that's going on in hip hop right now, you know,

705
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 3: you see Nikki and Cardi going at it very badly,

706
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 3: and then we see other people catching straights, you know,

707
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 3: like Megan JT. You know, people catching straight's. Then we

708
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 3: see other people charming in and add in their opinion.

709
00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 3: And you know, I think you have done a great

710
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 3: job of remaining neutral and not saying your opinions. So

711
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 3: how do you feel about the state of hip hop

712
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 3: right now for women and how it's looking with like

713
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 3: the two biggest artists right now beefing and going at

714
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 3: it so badly.

715
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm I don't. I don't really.

716
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 2: I know that I don't have enough money to speak

717
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 2: on this conversation, and that's just what like, I don't spare.

718
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 2: There's actually nothing more than I can say, truthfully if

719
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 2: I'm getting to the bottom of whatever. Not only do

720
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 2: I not have an opinion on other people in general,

721
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 2: I just don't I be I don't even know what's

722
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 2: going on. I'm Patrick star. I live under a rock.

723
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 2: I just found out was arguing this morning. I don't

724
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 2: even I haven't even been on the blogs. I don't know nothing.

725
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 1: But I just don't have enough.

726
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 2: People are jumping into a millionaire conversations and my grandmother's.

727
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: Water heater is bro in the hood. I don't know

728
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:04,239
Speaker 1: nothing about nothing. I don't know. I don't know. I

729
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 1: have to I have to be where my feet are.

730
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 2: I have to focus on getting to the next step

731
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 2: for myself, and I don't think that it requires getting

732
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,720
Speaker 2: into anything to get like I just got to focus

733
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 2: on my paper. First full of kindergarten and keep your

734
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,720
Speaker 2: eyes on your paper. That's what I just. I'm about

735
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:20,800
Speaker 2: my money. I be at the bank, the boof in

736
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:22,800
Speaker 2: the Bible study. I don't know nothing about what happens

737
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:23,760
Speaker 2: on your blogs.

738
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:28,359
Speaker 1: That Yeah, that's it. That's all.

739
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 4: I'm a type of bitch. I talk too much, and

740
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 4: I'm gonna let my opinion be known.

741
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 1: But I think.

742
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 4: But I'm also not a rapper. Yeah, but I think

743
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:37,320
Speaker 4: it's important.

744
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 3: To stay in your lane sometimes when things don't concern you.

745
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 3: You don't have to give an opinion about everything, especially

746
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 3: when it doesn't evolve you. And I'm not even talking

747
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 3: about like the tax bracket like you said, but I

748
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 3: think sometimes involving yourself and things that you necessarily don't

749
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 3: have to be involved in, you just gotta steer clear

750
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 3: of it because it it's gotten ugly.

751
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 4: You know. I know you don't read the blogs, but

752
00:34:58,800 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 4: if it's getting real.

753
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I gotta.

754
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 2: I wanted to definitely, So for topic number two, I

755
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 2: definitely wanted to touch back on what we were just

756
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:09,880
Speaker 2: talking about as far as.

757
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: Men always being in women's being.

758
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 2: So for the second topic, we gonna talk about, are

759
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 2: men messier than we me?

760
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 1: Messy boots? Yeah, you know, he down the soccer players

761
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 1: is fu.

762
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 2: You know, they say who is the miss beat? You

763
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 2: know it's probably a nigga. Men are so messy and

764
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 2: like they don't want to live in it. They don't

765
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 2: look at it as gossiping. I remember I told somebody

766
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 2: I was friends with recently. I was like, you gossiping

767
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 2: and he was like, I don't gossip. I'm a man,

768
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 2: So I mean maybe we can.

769
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 1: By the way, it's like, maybe we should name it

770
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 1: something else.

771
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 2: Would that make you comfortable? But you're definitely gossiping.

772
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 4: Maybe it should be bost gossip by.

773
00:35:58,239 --> 00:35:59,880
Speaker 1: My phone. I don't know.

774
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,319
Speaker 2: I think that ship is just crazy as hell. Some

775
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 2: of the hottest tea that I have ever gotten in

776
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 2: my life. The man, the men be having the rundown too.

777
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 2: They'll tell you from top to body. Man, let me

778
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 2: tell you and.

779
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: You be tuned into what and y'all let it be

780
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,240
Speaker 1: your men? Why real comfortable?

781
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 3: But I will say I think that I want to

782
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 3: say this. I don't like people be like, oh, I

783
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 3: don't have time to gods about them. First of all,

784
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:32,919
Speaker 3: we all have friends that we talked to. You'd be like, girl,

785
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:34,839
Speaker 3: did you see this? You know like I think that's

786
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 3: normal to have conversations, right, but I think as men

787
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 3: like y'all are messy, and it's one thing.

788
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 4: Like Charlemagne.

789
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 3: Charlemagne has leaned into his messiness and created a whole

790
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 3: empire from it.

791
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 1: He has standing what you are?

792
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 4: You like a little? It's okay.

793
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 3: You can say whatever you want to Charlemage here be

794
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 3: like yep, because I want I want to know.

795
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:57,879
Speaker 1: And I loved that about him.

796
00:36:58,000 --> 00:36:58,480
Speaker 3: I love it.

797
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,360
Speaker 2: But that's what you gotta do that I can respect

798
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 2: anybody who's stand on business about what the fuck me right?

799
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 1: Like I set it in.

800
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes the whole dynamic change because it's the problem.

801
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: The people that throw rocks and hide their hands.

802
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 3: Is what I have issues, Yes, because what I do

803
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 3: notice about a lot of men who do like interviews

804
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:19,320
Speaker 3: and they speak on especially women a lot. They have

805
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:22,439
Speaker 3: so much smoke for women, but they would never say

806
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:25,399
Speaker 3: that about other men, or they would like, I'm gonna

807
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 3: just use you for example, like they'll go on a

808
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 3: rent about Lady London, but they won't speak two words

809
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 3: about like another rapper, like an offset or something like that.

810
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Like you have so much

811
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 3: smoke and energy for women, but you never have that

812
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 3: same energy for men. If you a real gospel, you

813
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 3: got to keep it even for all agendas.

814
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 4: Now you know you got smoke for everybody?

815
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 1: Or keep it?

816
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 2: Keep it when I get in your face too, because

817
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 2: a lot of the times they do, it's talking about

818
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 2: Lady London and I sit down with them and I'm like, so,

819
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 2: what's all of that?

820
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 1: Mmmm?

821
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 4: You know?

822
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,239
Speaker 1: And then it's like york I said, what what are

823
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 1: It's like, no, what did you huddle on? Let's get

824
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 1: the time stamps? What you said here? You know what

825
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 1: I mean. So it's like, just be who you are.

826
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:05,839
Speaker 2: And I can appreciate that a nigga to be like, yeah,

827
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 2: I said that. Let's unpack what I said. Now we

828
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 2: can sit here and be two grown people about it.

829
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 2: But I think it's a lot of the like I

830
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 2: didn't do that, m you know, like girl, and people

831
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:17,839
Speaker 2: be surprised when you bring it to they front door.

832
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:18,880
Speaker 1: They don't be expecting it.

833
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 4: Oh I.

834
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 2: One thing I love is smoke with a nigga's fan.

835
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:25,920
Speaker 1: Favorite not me. I'm gonna hit it every time.

836
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 2: You gonna do hit me exactly, Like what do you

837
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 2: want to do about it and stand on it because

838
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 2: you were said he but I feel like a lot

839
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:35,880
Speaker 2: of the time men don't want to like acknowledge the

840
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 2: fact that they missy because they look at it as

841
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 2: a feminine Yeah, they look at it as a feminine trait.

842
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 2: So it's like they don't want to say, oh, I'm

843
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 2: being missy. They be like, oh, I'm just speaking. I'm

844
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:47,799
Speaker 2: just speaking facts. So I'm just stating facts. So like

845
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,399
Speaker 2: we be having barbershop talk. That's the same thing as

846
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 2: women spilling tea, y'all call it barbershops exactly. But they

847
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 2: don't be wanting to accept it, like they be like,

848
00:38:58,080 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 2: you know, I'm a man, I'm not feminine.

849
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 1: Can get femine energy right now.

850
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 3: It's funny because you know how like it like when

851
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 3: you go into like the all in the store and

852
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 3: they have lotion, but then they'll just put a blue

853
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:11,720
Speaker 3: cap on it, and men it'll be like it's manly

854
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,319
Speaker 3: pick it up now. So it's like it's gossip. Y'all

855
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:17,799
Speaker 3: call it barbershop talk. It's the same damn thing. They

856
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:23,319
Speaker 3: just put a blue cap on it, muskin to make

857
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,879
Speaker 3: them feel like you're not doing what we're all doing.

858
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 3: But I don't like you said, it's not to me.

859
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 3: It's not a feminine trade. It's a human trade.

860
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 4: We all, you know, we.

861
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:32,839
Speaker 3: All like to get a little a little tea every

862
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 3: now and then. But I wish that when men. It's

863
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 3: just weird, a little weird with men, because like y'all

864
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 3: have all this energy and gets so bold when y'all

865
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,439
Speaker 3: speak on women. But it's not that same energy when

866
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 3: you see And that's why I say I respect Charlemagne

867
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:46,840
Speaker 3: because it don't matter who in that chair, if you

868
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:48,440
Speaker 3: want to say something, he gonna say it to you, you

869
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, whether you're a man or a woman.

870
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 3: But a lot of times, like the messy men and stuff,

871
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 3: they will have energy for one side, not so much

872
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 3: to the other side.

873
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 1: I mean, Wendy Williams was his OG, right, he learned from.

874
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:04,479
Speaker 2: The best, learned from the best, stand on it every time,

875
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:08,239
Speaker 2: and then he was trying to say it like some shit, yeah,

876
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 2: like it's Wendy Williams.

877
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 3: V Williams, Like come on now, you can't do that.

878
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 3: But again, men will use that as a dislike a

879
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 3: woman is your og?

880
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:24,799
Speaker 4: Hell yeah she is, Like what what are we talking like?

881
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:25,440
Speaker 1: What's wrong with that?

882
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 2: This is not nineteen sixty three. But I don't know

883
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:33,439
Speaker 2: it's interesting because, like I said, me and just never

884
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:35,360
Speaker 2: want to stand on it, like they never want to

885
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 2: be like you know where I am a missy beach

886
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 2: that lives the drama cause you are, and you should

887
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 2: acknowledge that and live in it. I also don't think

888
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,360
Speaker 2: it's anything wrong with being like I feel like everybody

889
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 2: gossip a little.

890
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 1: From time to time.

891
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 2: It's when you over indulge that it becomes a problem

892
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:55,760
Speaker 2: because now your ass is missy.

893
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like there's no way, Like I don't have conversations

894
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,839
Speaker 3: with people like look now, like we checking in every

895
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 3: two hours a girl, now, listen, this is what I

896
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:05,359
Speaker 3: picked up.

897
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 4: It's just like it's three cats. Yeah, but like.

898
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:10,320
Speaker 3: We just catch you, old girl, did you see what happened?

899
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 3: And it's like in light conversation. I think even with

900
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 3: like the show that I have love lex Speak, it's

901
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 3: very lighthearted. I'm not getting into details. I don't get

902
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:20,839
Speaker 3: too deep. I'm talking about what everybody else sees. I'm

903
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 3: not doing all research, I'm not looking at no comments,

904
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 3: I'm not doing all that because I feel like there

905
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 3: is a lane for like, you know, celebrity gossip and

906
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:27,960
Speaker 3: things like that.

907
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 4: But when did it get so dark and ugly and mean?

908
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:35,839
Speaker 3: It is so mean, and it's allowed because they feel like, oh,

909
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 3: we signed up for this.

910
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:38,760
Speaker 4: Yeah I didn't sign.

911
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 2: Up too, like when you signed up for these? So

912
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 2: how you gonna be upset that I said this? But

913
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 2: y'all can get upset at whatever the fuck I want

914
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 2: to get up about number one, And y'all don't know

915
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:49,319
Speaker 2: what it's like or what it feels like to be

916
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 2: in that position. Yeah, hunk a lot from being as

917
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:54,320
Speaker 2: somebody that got one hundred followers and a private page

918
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:57,160
Speaker 2: with the eggs as an avatar. You can say whatever

919
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 2: you want, but imagine having a platform waking up to

920
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,440
Speaker 2: over four thousand and common people being yeah, like, you

921
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 2: don't know, I'm still a human that is still a

922
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 2: mental toe, regardless of how strong I may be, how

923
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 2: tough my skin may be, how much resilience I built

924
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:10,919
Speaker 2: throughout the years.

925
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:15,319
Speaker 1: It's like, m damn motherfuck, how y'all to call me?

926
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 2: But then but then you gotta look like, why was

927
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 2: I having a key through the comments? Uh? Huh, goddamn

928
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 2: be like that so you be scrawling and you fire ship,

929
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 2: they hurt.

930
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 1: They got it.

931
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 4: I can't even lie, I said to ship.

932
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,720
Speaker 1: But do y'all think that pillow talking is missy?

933
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 2: Do y'all think of your man is like pillow talking

934
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,439
Speaker 2: and he's telling you what's going on? Do y'all still

935
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 2: consider that messy with you and your men? Or is

936
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 2: it more like when men are going to everybody else

937
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 2: and telling them t and telling them drama like.

938
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 3: It is normal, especially with somebody you've been with for

939
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,840
Speaker 3: a while, because just like you're my friend and we

940
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,919
Speaker 3: talk like I'm gonna talk to him and we gonna

941
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 3: talk about things, and you know what I'm saying. I

942
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 3: think that people look at romantic relationships like it's just romantic.

943
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:16,320
Speaker 4: No, you're your friends too, and what do you do

944
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,399
Speaker 4: with your friends? You talk? But it gets messy when

945
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:22,359
Speaker 4: it's like, damn you talking to everybody?

946
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 3: Now. I will say, I don't like a bossipy boy.

947
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 3: I don't like a bossyble boy. I don't like I said,

948
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 3: if it's like me and him having a conversation, cool,

949
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 3: But if if you have like like outside of Charlem Man.

950
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 3: I'm not talking about Charlemae because that's his job, but

951
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,440
Speaker 3: like if I see a man and he making a TikTok, like,

952
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:41,759
Speaker 3: oh shit, y'all seeing CARDI being Nikki.

953
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 1: Hey, go to work, build the house to war.

954
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:51,240
Speaker 3: Hey, don't build something something. Hey, I'm gonna turn into massage.

955
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 3: What is it not misogyny? What's the other one when

956
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:56,320
Speaker 3: women do it against him? No, I can't think of

957
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 3: the goddamn name. Y'all know what I'm talking about. That's

958
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 3: why I need to read. But I say, I'm just

959
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:06,239
Speaker 3: saying though. I don't like when I feel like a

960
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 3: man is just like not it's barbershop talk cool.

961
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 4: But if you like, I.

962
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:13,880
Speaker 1: Don't like when they do nothing, y'all giving them way more.

963
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:17,280
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to see a man smoking

964
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 1: the hookah, blowing it in the camera, in the front camera.

965
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 1: I hate smoking. Let me say something. I don't know

966
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,320
Speaker 1: if I really mind them smoking hookah.

967
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 2: My mind is the recording on the front camera and

968
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 2: blowing the smoking the camera too bad bitious for me.

969
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 2: And you could smoke Coogan with us, but if you

970
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 2: nudge me to pass it, we got an issue, sir,

971
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 2: because we're not sitting around here waiting the exhale or

972
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:42,760
Speaker 2: your own fucking hookah, I'm not dealing.

973
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 1: With it, or they order their own hookah and then

974
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 1: they don't want nobody else to smoke. Oh yeah, yeah.

975
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:49,960
Speaker 4: I had that happen to me with a guy, his friend,

976
00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:51,839
Speaker 4: and I was like, hey, can I have the hook

977
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 4: He was like no.

978
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 1: I was like, I was shocked. I hope it starts

979
00:44:58,960 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 1: tasting like a new Port short.

980
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 4: I would have shocked, because you know, I feel like

981
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 4: just as much.

982
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 1: But I do agree with you. Maybe we are being nice,

983
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:10,879
Speaker 1: but we try to keep it fair.

984
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:13,319
Speaker 3: But I will say, like there's some things that men

985
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 3: will always feel like women can't do.

986
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 4: I I am still stuck in that those ways. I

987
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:18,880
Speaker 4: do feel like there are some things that men just

988
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:19,880
Speaker 4: like I do.

989
00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:26,839
Speaker 2: So a double standard, Yeah, I'm a double I agree

990
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 2: with some of the ones they put on us. Yeah,

991
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 2: it's don't nudge me for hookah. I'm just that's just

992
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 2: what it is.

993
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 1: And I don't even smoke hook around me. Yeah. The

994
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:43,240
Speaker 1: camera with the front camera in front of Sofia, that's crazy.

995
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 4: I cannot get with it.

996
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:48,240
Speaker 2: A man, it just has never sit right with my spirit,

997
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 2: even when I used to smoke it. Yeah, because we

998
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:52,839
Speaker 2: don't smoke hookah nomore. We haven't for like two years.

999
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 3: We went out with one time with Big Papa when

1000
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 3: I was Damn Big Poppa Hookah and Drea talked about

1001
00:45:57,680 --> 00:45:58,280
Speaker 3: it first.

1002
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 1: Because I never like this last night, Why are you

1003
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:05,879
Speaker 1: putting a tip in your mouth?

1004
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 2: Exactly that I don't like that because we can relate

1005
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 2: and we thinking of the man who they women, Right, That's.

1006
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 1: That's what we're speaking of.

1007
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah exactly. We're talking about like men

1008
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:16,720
Speaker 4: that we're it's not my sisters.

1009
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:22,959
Speaker 3: Yeah girl, what y'all want? Yeah, y'all have free because

1010
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 3: y'all understand what we go through. Y'all date men as well.

1011
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:31,479
Speaker 3: We're all struggling together, so they get a pass ahead.

1012
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 1: So what about dirty making?

1013
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:34,359
Speaker 4: I love dirty Mac.

1014
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 2: You know, like when men be talking down on other

1015
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 2: men because I don't want you to talk to him, or.

1016
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 1: They hating because they really want you.

1017
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:42,879
Speaker 4: I love a dirty man.

1018
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 1: You always you love a dirty man. I love miss.

1019
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 4: I still gonna but hate on that now because hate

1020
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:52,719
Speaker 4: on him.

1021
00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 1: He trash.

1022
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 4: He sure is. Tell me about why you think he trashed.

1023
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 2: Give me an essay, But so you ain't never anither

1024
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 2: having never dirty Max on another nigga and you was like, actually,

1025
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 2: because you told me all of these shit, I'm not

1026
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 2: gonna talk to him like it's worked on me.

1027
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:08,439
Speaker 1: The dirty Macin has worked.

1028
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 4: No dirty Macin don't work on me. It made me

1029
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 4: want both y'all because I got to see what you're

1030
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 4: talking about with him. But I also like your dedication nigga.

1031
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 2: What I I don't know talking about another nigga. I

1032
00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 2: gotta prove it to me. I'm like, Missouri, I'm gonna

1033
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 2: show me state.

1034
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 1: You gotta, you gotta. I need to see it for myself.

1035
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:35,279
Speaker 2: You can talk all of this about anything that's just

1036
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 2: across the board with anybody. I don't believe nobody's story

1037
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 2: about nobody. You could be like, I don't fuck with

1038
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 2: that bitch. You're not gonna like her because whatever whatever,

1039
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 2: and I won't believe it. And maybe when I meet her,

1040
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 2: I might know a bitch maybe, but I gotta get

1041
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 2: there first. I'm very innocent until proven guilty s of

1042
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 2: the bitch. So if you dirty macing or a nigga,

1043
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,440
Speaker 2: I'm automatically think you like him, Let's start there.

1044
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 4: And maybe not like that, but like a.

1045
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 1: Little ivy.

1046
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 2: Like I kind of like it's something about him that

1047
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 2: makes me green like NBA something that's my first thought.

1048
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 2: Second thought is why are you telling me I'm you know,

1049
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:14,800
Speaker 2: I don't like dirty Mac and niggas. I think I

1050
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 2: really like niggas who'll be like I don't know about

1051
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:18,839
Speaker 2: that niggas like I like niggas like that that are

1052
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 2: like I don't give the who are with because you're

1053
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 2: gonna only you're really gonna, you know, who the fuck

1054
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:24,759
Speaker 2: you really should be like, I.

1055
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 1: Don't bet yeah, Like yeah, that hard how you figure that?

1056
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 2: Like niggas love to hit you with it, and he

1057
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:36,839
Speaker 2: don't be neverld be the last start because I don't

1058
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:38,479
Speaker 2: even if you say, I don't give a fuck about

1059
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:40,719
Speaker 2: that nigga either, no matter what you do, I'm going

1060
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 2: to fuck up the nigga. But for me, it has

1061
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 2: worked on me because I've listened. But then I won't

1062
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:50,360
Speaker 2: fuck with neither one of y'all because y'all ass is missy.

1063
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 1: But that nigga might be all the things you said

1064
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 1: he is, so let me stay away from both of y'all.

1065
00:48:55,960 --> 00:49:00,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. You might be your blessing, you know,

1066
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 1: I mean might be, but oh I'm still not married.

1067
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 3: That was a good point that you made, though, Like

1068
00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:07,400
Speaker 3: when men talk about like other men, it's like they

1069
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:10,359
Speaker 3: have a little envious. But I think also too when

1070
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:15,800
Speaker 3: men talk about men who they're dating, like when we

1071
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 3: see how like people talk about like Aisha Curry.

1072
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:20,400
Speaker 4: And all step needs to leave her because she does this,

1073
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 4: or x y Z.

1074
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:23,800
Speaker 3: Or wives Klay Thompson with Meg or people just always

1075
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 3: have an opinion. They were doing that with jay Z

1076
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:28,719
Speaker 3: when Beyonce she had on something like a sheer dress

1077
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 3: and they were like, why do you care about who

1078
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 3: this man chose as his partner? That now, that to

1079
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 3: me gives like you got a crush on this man.

1080
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 3: You feel like you could be a better bitch for him,

1081
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:41,360
Speaker 3: Like cause why are you so concerned about who he

1082
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 3: now that I don't like if a man ever has

1083
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:45,480
Speaker 3: a conversation with me, like.

1084
00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know why that nigga dating her? Are

1085
00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:48,240
Speaker 4: you okay?

1086
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:48,759
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1087
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 4: You want to fuck that nigga?

1088
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:50,879
Speaker 1: For sure?

1089
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 3: You want to fuck I know you do, because you

1090
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:55,480
Speaker 3: feel like you could throw it back better than Beyonce

1091
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 3: And you cannot convince me otherwise because why would you

1092
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,800
Speaker 3: say that, Why do you care why this man is

1093
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 3: dating whoever? And I'm just using them as an example,

1094
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:07,399
Speaker 3: of course, But to me, that's when I like, that's

1095
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 3: where I draw the line for me personally, I.

1096
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:11,840
Speaker 2: Think it's accurate men got these things called fantasy teams.

1097
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 2: You have already been fantasized about half of these men.

1098
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:15,480
Speaker 2: That's why you care about their damkay.

1099
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:18,560
Speaker 4: They want to know what it's hitting for yo.

1100
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 1: Man, it'd be a few things the dude that I'd

1101
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:23,840
Speaker 1: be like.

1102
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:27,480
Speaker 2: If the list is long, because I also think it'd

1103
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:29,239
Speaker 2: be weird when dudes always want to hang with their

1104
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 2: friends all the time over the girl. I do think

1105
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 2: you need to have the ballet. It needs to be balance, Like,

1106
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 2: of course, go hang with your homeboys. I know you

1107
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 2: don't want to be with me all day every day.

1108
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:42,399
Speaker 2: You need that male camaraderie, But like if you want

1109
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 2: to hang with him all the time over me, yeah,

1110
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:49,399
Speaker 2: a balance I just can't even do. It's like when

1111
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 2: I see like when men are like super nice, they

1112
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:53,839
Speaker 2: homeboys and go all out of their homeboys and maybe

1113
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:54,160
Speaker 2: doing like.

1114
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 4: The bare minimum the girl, what I can't relate.

1115
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:04,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't do that, like you taking your old

1116
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 3: nigga on vacation, buying him this and that, and it's like,

1117
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 3: oh yeah, we can go to Chipotle real quick and

1118
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:12,160
Speaker 3: Netflix and chill.

1119
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:16,240
Speaker 1: M we can go get a cabin in Blue Ridge.

1120
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:18,759
Speaker 4: I actually want to do a cabin in Blue Read.

1121
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:21,920
Speaker 2: I mean, but I'm saying, and you're taking your problems

1122
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 2: in Mexico. You're trying to take me to Blue Read.

1123
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:25,480
Speaker 2: We got a mother problem.

1124
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:29,640
Speaker 3: We got a big problem because Mexico right there and

1125
00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:32,320
Speaker 3: them cabins and Blue Ridge, you might as well go

1126
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:32,800
Speaker 3: to Mexico.

1127
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 4: And I'm white.

1128
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 3: Folks be tripping over there talking about thousand dollars. Now,

1129
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 3: I said, girl, fuck you, I'm gonna like this candle

1130
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:39,400
Speaker 3: in my backyard.

1131
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:44,880
Speaker 4: Bitch, You're right, motherfucker's out here.

1132
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 3: But I feel what you were saying. All Right, we're

1133
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:50,320
Speaker 3: gonna move on because y'all know I get to chatty.

1134
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 3: What we got next, dreill?

1135
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:55,160
Speaker 1: So now it's time to get into the bed.

1136
00:51:55,400 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 4: Bowl a bowl, the bow, bow bow, our pound.

1137
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 1: What's this song?

1138
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 3: You know?

1139
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 4: I can hold a tune, so whenever you're ready, you

1140
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:08,240
Speaker 4: need somebody on the hood.

1141
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:11,280
Speaker 1: Sample.

1142
00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I hold one.

1143
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,440
Speaker 1: Then she founded like very white and she got so many.

1144
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:34,959
Speaker 1: It's okay, see.

1145
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 4: Why are you doing me?

1146
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:35,920
Speaker 6: Like that.

1147
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:36,960
Speaker 4: I ain't never gonna.

1148
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:37,359
Speaker 7: Live that down.

1149
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talking about that.

1150
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 3: For four months.

1151
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 1: Okay.

1152
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:45,000
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1161
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1162
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1169
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Speaker 2: you know, if you want that little tingly minty feeling.

1170
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Speaker 1: And she also has like a Rodica Jill even know

1171
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Speaker 1: if you're trying to get down, like to wash.

1172
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Speaker 3: That kettle to go. I got my travel size and

1173
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1174
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 3: can use these products as well too.

1175
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Speaker 2: Yes, it's good for your pH and it's you know,

1176
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,160
Speaker 2: his needs to be right, so yours could be right.

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Speaker 1: That du but having that duck, they having that du

1178
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Speaker 1: butter all right, you know the visual.

1179
00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 3: And landed a little late. But I was like, okay,

1180
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:14,279
Speaker 3: in honor of your bar that I went viral off

1181
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:20,439
Speaker 3: of what do rich men do it better in bed?

1182
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:23,359
Speaker 3: You know, we've explored the topic of sex with men

1183
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:25,439
Speaker 3: who are broke because they got they got to pay

1184
00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:26,160
Speaker 3: rent with this.

1185
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:31,120
Speaker 4: Peen they giving it way all. Yes, but do rich

1186
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 4: men really have better skills in bed?

1187
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 2: Like?

1188
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:35,800
Speaker 4: Is it because they have confidence? They're arrogant?

1189
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:35,920
Speaker 8: Like?

1190
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 4: What is it about rich sex? You know future they

1191
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:40,319
Speaker 4: made a song about rich sex?

1192
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,640
Speaker 3: What is it about rich sex that we as women

1193
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 3: maybe enjoy better than broke sex with broke men?

1194
00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 1: After thought, I don't think are we having a real conversation?

1195
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 4: Well we have conversation because I'm.

1196
00:54:57,000 --> 00:54:58,560
Speaker 1: Feeling real combo.

1197
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 2: The best thick of your life gonna come from a

1198
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 2: nigga that don't got no job, or if he got

1199
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:07,120
Speaker 2: a job, he responsible for all the red fruit loops

1200
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:09,239
Speaker 2: in the bag, a job that just you never even

1201
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 2: heard of, child air, mattress on the floor halfway deflated.

1202
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:15,680
Speaker 2: That thing, you're gonna put you through that air the

1203
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 2: next apartment for I don't know about rich niggas having

1204
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:21,840
Speaker 2: better dig they have whatever.

1205
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 1: I don't know they have what they got.

1206
00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 2: I think the anticipation is like the lifestyle that you live, Yeah,

1207
00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:31,520
Speaker 2: more than you know the actual sex.

1208
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: Ten times out of nine. But I don't know. I agree,

1209
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 1: that's what I think.

1210
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:38,839
Speaker 2: So I think a lot of the time I think

1211
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:44,840
Speaker 2: it be the money, the lifestyle. Money make him handsome,

1212
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 2: exactly the same thing. Money make him handsome, money make.

1213
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:51,839
Speaker 4: His It's a mind thing.

1214
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:55,200
Speaker 3: It's a mind thing because y'all know that post nut

1215
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 3: clarity after you have sex with a rich man and

1216
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:02,400
Speaker 3: you're laying in that beautiful master bedroom and you go

1217
00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 3: to that bathroom and use.

1218
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 4: That salt egg so that's in your bag and white

1219
00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:09,400
Speaker 4: that koochie off, and looking in this grand mirror with

1220
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:11,080
Speaker 4: the marble floor, marble.

1221
00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:14,200
Speaker 1: Feel back, tip toeing on the floor like yeah, like

1222
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:15,480
Speaker 1: you happy about it?

1223
00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:18,799
Speaker 3: It ain't no clarity. It hate no clarity because you're like, wow,

1224
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 3: this could be my life. You fanicizing now, but it's

1225
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 3: something about you don't have some good, good dick from

1226
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 3: that broke man put you through the air mattress, like

1227
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 3: she put you through that and it was.

1228
00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:30,360
Speaker 4: Good, you dodnet have a good orgasm.

1229
00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 1: But you you look at this nigga, the hole in

1230
00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:35,919
Speaker 1: his draws. You're like, and you're just staring there looking

1231
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:38,359
Speaker 1: at this. I'm not doing this again.

1232
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 4: That post. That clarity for a Richmond is great clarity

1233
00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:46,880
Speaker 4: when you with a broke man. But it's good, it

1234
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:50,239
Speaker 4: is good. She'd be like, why am I here? What

1235
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:51,120
Speaker 4: have I done?

1236
00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:54,719
Speaker 1: That was way back in the day for you child,

1237
00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:55,239
Speaker 1: I am.

1238
00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:59,440
Speaker 4: And that's why I sat because I'll be having the

1239
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:03,359
Speaker 4: time in my bathroom.

1240
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:07,440
Speaker 9: And we're.

1241
00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 2: We're not like she said, we're the rich niggas now

1242
00:57:12,080 --> 00:57:14,440
Speaker 2: sleeping with niggas on air mattresses anymore.

1243
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 1: I don't never even be in those type of situations.

1244
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 2: I do think though, that it's possible to find a

1245
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:21,200
Speaker 2: man who is successful, who has.

1246
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 1: Good Yeah, I think they're out there.

1247
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:28,640
Speaker 2: I just feel like, probably I don't know, but majority

1248
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:30,280
Speaker 2: of the time that's probably not the case, because I

1249
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 2: feel like a lot of rich niggas they don't look

1250
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 2: Corny's like the money be the personality, and I think

1251
00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:41,040
Speaker 2: they used to also dealing with women who don't have

1252
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 2: much personality either. I'm hold I'm a well not me

1253
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 2: because we can have a job. But it's girls that

1254
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:50,720
Speaker 2: don't have like Instagram is their personality. So like you,

1255
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:53,160
Speaker 2: you'll see a bitch that she's like gorgeous, flawless, and

1256
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:55,960
Speaker 2: you meet her in person. You know, I can imagine

1257
00:57:56,000 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 2: like as a man because I've seen girls as like

1258
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 2: that I'm cool with on the internet and Linco like whatever,

1259
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 2: get drinks while I'm in the city or whatever, and

1260
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 2: the bitch is just personality is in the basement. Like

1261
00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 2: I'll be like, damn yeah, same all right, bro? Why

1262
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:18,600
Speaker 2: because I play all day like I can't. I don't

1263
00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:21,360
Speaker 2: know that the Instagram serious? We got to instagram every

1264
00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:23,680
Speaker 2: little thing? And you hould up this phone while I

1265
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 2: walk past it and I'm gonna go collect it from

1266
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:25,840
Speaker 2: the elevator.

1267
00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 4: If it's just we always talk about the walk Away video, why.

1268
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 2: But think about other men to deal with that and

1269
00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 2: and have money, you like, Bro, I don't want to

1270
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:38,200
Speaker 2: be around this girl no more.

1271
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 4: I got enough. But I also think with Richmond too.

1272
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:45,439
Speaker 3: It's like sometimes they don't care to give you good sex,

1273
00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:47,440
Speaker 3: and they're like, okay, so if you don't want to

1274
00:58:47,440 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 3: stick around, it's another girl that looks just like you

1275
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:52,560
Speaker 3: who's willing to stick around. So I don't really care

1276
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 3: if you know or not. You know what I'm saying, Like, yeah,

1277
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:55,439
Speaker 3: but that's a lot.

1278
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:55,800
Speaker 4: Of that too.

1279
00:58:56,080 --> 00:58:57,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I was saying.

1280
00:58:57,200 --> 00:59:00,120
Speaker 2: I feel like the money be the personality, like they

1281
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 2: sometimes feel like, I don't have to do nothing else,

1282
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:05,000
Speaker 2: Like I don't have to I don't have to.

1283
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:08,160
Speaker 1: Be funny, I don't have to be chivalries. I don't

1284
00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:11,160
Speaker 1: have to have good zick and zick you down, because, like, girl,

1285
00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:13,320
Speaker 1: you lucky to be dealing with me. I'm a fifty

1286
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:14,440
Speaker 1: million dollar Niga.

1287
00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 3: And I feel like, honestly, the people that were describing

1288
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:21,640
Speaker 3: they honestly belong together. Like the boring I G girls

1289
00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:25,200
Speaker 3: and the rich men who don't care about nothing'll both underwhelming.

1290
00:59:25,320 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 4: Yeah they need to go ride off in the sunset.

1291
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:29,080
Speaker 1: Child.

1292
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. Chivalry over here is the climate,

1293
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:37,440
Speaker 2: not the weather. That'll all be always and always.

1294
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 1: I agree that I feel you on the what's fine?

1295
00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 2: I cancer okay, yeah, that makes you love a girl,

1296
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:47,280
Speaker 2: you know. See, you know I do ship and I

1297
00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 2: cut up niggas in my songs. Right, I'm always respecting

1298
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 2: niggas in my songs. But at home, I be making

1299
00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:51,880
Speaker 2: plays and stuff.

1300
00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:56,920
Speaker 1: So right, like that's and that's me, that's all of us.

1301
00:59:57,440 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 1: I I'll be making plays, folding lunch.

1302
01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 4: What we cutting up at the crib.

1303
01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:10,120
Speaker 1: I've been singing folded in my sleep. I've been humming it.

1304
01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 4: I hope.

1305
01:00:13,960 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 2: I would love y'all do a song together, like. I

1306
01:00:16,160 --> 01:00:21,000
Speaker 2: feel like that would be such a good song. Yeah,

1307
01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:23,720
Speaker 2: that would be That would be a good.

1308
01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:27,440
Speaker 4: How do you feel about it?

1309
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:30,440
Speaker 1: Ta, I don't know. Some of my rich niggas have

1310
01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:31,480
Speaker 1: been my best eaters.

1311
01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 2: I think rich men have sex or use sex as sport,

1312
01:00:37,440 --> 01:00:39,760
Speaker 2: like versus the broke niggas who are doing it because

1313
01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 2: they have they over their head.

1314
01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:42,000
Speaker 4: You're right.

1315
01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:44,360
Speaker 2: The rich men are like I can do. Like you said,

1316
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:46,400
Speaker 2: it's good if you do, it's good. If you don't,

1317
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have a time. So they be having a feast.

1318
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:52,720
Speaker 2: That's just my experience, okay, But I can see them

1319
01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:54,880
Speaker 2: being a little bit less.

1320
01:00:56,360 --> 01:00:58,400
Speaker 1: When it's sex wise. I can see them being a

1321
01:00:58,480 --> 01:01:04,560
Speaker 1: little bit less than the broken. I loved it for you, tigh,

1322
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 1: thank you. I do.

1323
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 2: This?

1324
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:12,480
Speaker 1: Okay? She ready to go. She's like, who we refine

1325
01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:12,880
Speaker 1: it up?

1326
01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:16,960
Speaker 4: All right? So now it's time to.

1327
01:01:17,160 --> 01:01:23,440
Speaker 2: Get in sout hey, all about bow bow about?

1328
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 1: I love it. So we can get in this stool

1329
01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:30,440
Speaker 1: right now, we go right. We do have a studio

1330
01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 1: around the corner.

1331
01:01:32,200 --> 01:01:34,280
Speaker 3: So the bop of the week is like, whatever song

1332
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:36,360
Speaker 3: you've been jamming listening to this week, it doesn't have

1333
01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 3: to be new, it can be.

1334
01:01:37,200 --> 01:01:40,640
Speaker 4: Old, you know whatever. So y'all know, I love a

1335
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 4: good R and B.

1336
01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:45,479
Speaker 3: Tune and I'm an old school girly and this song

1337
01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 3: is new, but it sounds like an old school song.

1338
01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:50,720
Speaker 3: So there's this guy who went viral on Instagram because

1339
01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:53,520
Speaker 3: he was singing like Johnny Taylor songs and just like

1340
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 3: old R and B songs. And he was like, I

1341
01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:58,080
Speaker 3: don't like this. I don't like to turn like why end?

1342
01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 3: Because I feel like it's oh gay j Jones, Oh

1343
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:03,480
Speaker 3: my gosh. And they were like call him like, oh,

1344
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 3: this is a wyan but he got a voice. But

1345
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:07,120
Speaker 3: just because you know he has a grill, you know,

1346
01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:10,760
Speaker 3: he looks a certain way. Whatever but he can really sing.

1347
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:14,120
Speaker 3: I mean his voice is so rich and deep in

1348
01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 3: my head. He sings like what I think I sound like,

1349
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 3: so you can understand what I'm saying.

1350
01:02:18,560 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 2: When you stay reaching deep. Are we talking like Miles

1351
01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:24,000
Speaker 2: from Sinners?

1352
01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:29,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, he has a deep voice like yes, yeah, yeah.

1353
01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:31,040
Speaker 1: He like an Al Green like.

1354
01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:34,200
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah him as an Ol Green.

1355
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 2: E J.

1356
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:35,000
Speaker 4: Jones.

1357
01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:37,880
Speaker 3: Okay, So he has a song called gas Station Love

1358
01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 3: and it has been on repeat.

1359
01:02:41,600 --> 01:02:42,919
Speaker 4: It is so good.

1360
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:45,280
Speaker 2: He's only like twenty three, but he got like that's

1361
01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 2: his voices like straight out of like Sam Cook.

1362
01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 1: Yeah him.

1363
01:02:49,240 --> 01:02:49,439
Speaker 4: Yes.

1364
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:51,919
Speaker 3: If you heard a voice like you just let it play,

1365
01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 3: you would think it was a fifty year old man.

1366
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:56,400
Speaker 4: But it doesn't sound like outdated.

1367
01:02:56,600 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, it doesn't sound like you're listening to like a song.

1368
01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:02,840
Speaker 3: It was the old school of vibes, but it gives

1369
01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:04,920
Speaker 3: like this is a young man singing about being in

1370
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:07,080
Speaker 3: love and how you met a girl at the gas station.

1371
01:03:07,960 --> 01:03:09,000
Speaker 4: It's so good girl.

1372
01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 1: When I tell you, when I listen like a.

1373
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:13,080
Speaker 4: Song, I run into the ground. I'm the same way.

1374
01:03:13,240 --> 01:03:15,200
Speaker 1: Oh it's so good. So that's my bop of the week.

1375
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:15,680
Speaker 6: E J.

1376
01:03:15,840 --> 01:03:16,240
Speaker 1: Jones.

1377
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:18,919
Speaker 4: Gas Station Love y'all go listen to It's good.

1378
01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:21,240
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to see this. To me, grab straighttion

1379
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 1: grad straight.

1380
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 4: I was waiting for you.

1381
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:29,560
Speaker 1: Word you wrote it.

1382
01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:35,680
Speaker 4: Grad on Straight Show, I'm grand straight, shut little.

1383
01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 1: Off and he said it just like that. The funny

1384
01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 1: thing about this moment is that she low key auditioned.

1385
01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 1: Then she could be on that interloop.

1386
01:03:42,440 --> 01:03:44,800
Speaker 4: You just don't know every time I'd be like this.

1387
01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:50,280
Speaker 1: Hair, I hear it because somebody grow up the church

1388
01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 1: out of town. Don't play with it, just stay with

1389
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:55,600
Speaker 1: it undertone.

1390
01:03:55,680 --> 01:04:00,080
Speaker 2: That what you been listening to the DREI Okay, so

1391
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:05,800
Speaker 2: I really have been in my Caribbean music bag I

1392
01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:08,640
Speaker 2: have like I love Caribbean music.

1393
01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:12,880
Speaker 1: I love especially Jamaican artists. Like I love me some dicks.

1394
01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:18,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, friends Jamaican, but yes, it's like I love me

1395
01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 2: some dicks to depths.

1396
01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:22,320
Speaker 1: Okay, love me some dicks.

1397
01:04:23,400 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 2: And it's so funny because shout out to liam mom

1398
01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:28,160
Speaker 2: because her mom is like an older, you know, more

1399
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 2: traditional Jamaican woman and she do not like this.

1400
01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:33,520
Speaker 1: She don't know because she's say he's too vulgar. I

1401
01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:37,720
Speaker 1: love he was talking about banging on the bathroom floor.

1402
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:40,800
Speaker 2: She got some healing music though Dexter got a lot

1403
01:04:40,840 --> 01:04:42,840
Speaker 2: of stuff that's like very positive.

1404
01:04:43,960 --> 01:04:50,520
Speaker 1: I agree. I love me bring it to the I

1405
01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 1: love nexus out.

1406
01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:53,200
Speaker 4: So so I'm with you on that.

1407
01:04:53,320 --> 01:04:54,680
Speaker 1: He came out with you all night.

1408
01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:57,800
Speaker 4: That was for your birthday.

1409
01:04:57,960 --> 01:05:00,560
Speaker 1: It was a light eyes man, got the girls in

1410
01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:02,120
Speaker 1: the car. I don't know.

1411
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:06,160
Speaker 2: I don't want no light ideas will keep you away

1412
01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 2: from me, Like how people light eyed people be thinking

1413
01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:13,560
Speaker 2: they be having supremacy when.

1414
01:05:13,480 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 1: They be looking at you like this, Yes, you know

1415
01:05:16,000 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 1: you had them, you be doing it. That's not what

1416
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm a traffic like that. Not we hating a little bit.

1417
01:05:23,840 --> 01:05:27,200
Speaker 2: Okay, So my song is r b G Real Bad,

1418
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:31,360
Speaker 2: Real Bad Girl by Dick's Adepts and stock Ashley.

1419
01:05:31,800 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 1: Is that new he came off these years? Okay? Yeah, yeah,

1420
01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:38,160
Speaker 1: So I really like the songs it's it's about I'm

1421
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:41,000
Speaker 1: gonna listen to it. Check it out. Yeah, if you

1422
01:05:41,160 --> 01:05:42,520
Speaker 1: like Dick to Depts, you should check it out.

1423
01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:47,040
Speaker 2: So what you've been listening to, I've been, like I

1424
01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:49,960
Speaker 2: told you, I wanted to like talk less and listen more, right,

1425
01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:52,000
Speaker 2: but being very careful about what I'm listening to and

1426
01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:54,040
Speaker 2: what I'm intaking. So I've been listening to like all

1427
01:05:54,360 --> 01:05:58,520
Speaker 2: high vibrational music that's like feeding into my spirits.

1428
01:05:58,600 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 1: So it's an artist. I think she's Detroit.

1429
01:06:00,440 --> 01:06:02,919
Speaker 2: Her name is Charity and she has a song called

1430
01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:06,000
Speaker 2: Warm and Soft and she's about to drop it officially

1431
01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:09,840
Speaker 2: October twenty fifth or something. But I've been listening to

1432
01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:12,560
Speaker 2: like the snippet that she put out, and it is

1433
01:06:12,880 --> 01:06:15,760
Speaker 2: so good. I told her, like, this song is gonna

1434
01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:18,160
Speaker 2: heal people, like heal the world for real, for real.

1435
01:06:18,720 --> 01:06:21,040
Speaker 2: So I've been having the clip on rotation, and I

1436
01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 2: was one of the nine hundred and seventy eight thousand

1437
01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 2: people who begged her to put out the Actually, so

1438
01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:28,840
Speaker 2: I noticed yesterday she had put up a post basically

1439
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:32,800
Speaker 2: saying like I'm finally gonna put it out, so it drops.

1440
01:06:32,600 --> 01:06:34,160
Speaker 1: Tomorrow October twenty fifth.

1441
01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:38,600
Speaker 4: Ooh yeah, I'll shake that shot out with that too.

1442
01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:41,160
Speaker 1: In the post, she gave you a shout out, yes,

1443
01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 1: send it, send it to me Suici.

1444
01:06:45,160 --> 01:06:48,600
Speaker 3: Al Right, Okay, those are our bops of the week

1445
01:06:49,480 --> 01:06:51,360
Speaker 3: and what we got next item of the week.

1446
01:06:51,480 --> 01:06:53,640
Speaker 2: So now we're gonna get into the item of the week. So,

1447
01:06:53,800 --> 01:06:56,560
Speaker 2: of course this episode is sponsored by Salt Egg so

1448
01:06:57,040 --> 01:06:59,320
Speaker 2: so that's my item of the week period and then

1449
01:06:59,360 --> 01:06:59,960
Speaker 2: I fall music.

1450
01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:02,880
Speaker 3: Beauty amused her usual and y'all know we sitting on

1451
01:07:02,920 --> 01:07:05,320
Speaker 3: that tailor port Hello as always.

1452
01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 1: Okay, so do we have the pour your heart out? Yes,

1453
01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:11,680
Speaker 1: yes I do, so go ahead.

1454
01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:15,000
Speaker 2: Okay, so part usual, y'all know, if y'all have any

1455
01:07:15,120 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 2: questions that y'all want to send and send them to

1456
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 2: ask for minds at gmail dot com.

1457
01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:21,320
Speaker 1: That's a s K p o U R in my

1458
01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:25,160
Speaker 1: ads at gmail dot com. Send the show questions, send

1459
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:28,560
Speaker 1: a show testimonials, because I'm like, they ain't saenting no

1460
01:07:28,680 --> 01:07:29,440
Speaker 1: testimonial in.

1461
01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 4: A law, no testimonials. Maybe we've been doing good with

1462
01:07:32,800 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 4: the advice.

1463
01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:35,560
Speaker 1: Because the testimonials was not googling.

1464
01:07:36,640 --> 01:07:39,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, they was giving us like we would give them advice.

1465
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:41,160
Speaker 3: Mel coming back and let us know, like we their life.

1466
01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:45,240
Speaker 1: Listen to me. Yeah, I've gotten nothing.

1467
01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:49,040
Speaker 2: I'm not a professional. So do you feel like you

1468
01:07:49,040 --> 01:07:53,640
Speaker 2: would give good advice? I think it'd be funny. I'm

1469
01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:59,920
Speaker 2: not here to fix, she said earlier. But you come

1470
01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:01,200
Speaker 2: to sit on my couch.

1471
01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:02,120
Speaker 4: And we can figure this out.

1472
01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:05,440
Speaker 1: Well, she said, well.

1473
01:08:05,320 --> 01:08:08,880
Speaker 2: We're gonna figure it out together, all right, all right,

1474
01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:13,640
Speaker 2: y'all pushing number wing HOLEX Andrea Love y'all. I'm twenty five,

1475
01:08:13,800 --> 01:08:16,719
Speaker 2: almost twenty six, and have been single for about four years.

1476
01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:19,040
Speaker 2: I've done a lot of self work and I'm super

1477
01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:22,439
Speaker 2: comfortable being myself. Oh being by myself, but I do

1478
01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:26,000
Speaker 2: want my person. Here's my boundary. Within the first month

1479
01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:28,919
Speaker 2: of dating. If I see any weird behavior or conflict

1480
01:08:29,000 --> 01:08:31,920
Speaker 2: that makes me question your character, I'm out. I just

1481
01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:35,000
Speaker 2: feel like it's way too early for problems. My friends

1482
01:08:35,040 --> 01:08:37,680
Speaker 2: say I'm too strict and should allow mistakes, but I

1483
01:08:37,760 --> 01:08:40,439
Speaker 2: feel like early on you should be doing everything right.

1484
01:08:40,880 --> 01:08:42,640
Speaker 2: Do y'all think I'm being too strict or am I

1485
01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:45,960
Speaker 2: moving the right way? I love when people are as

1486
01:08:46,040 --> 01:08:47,680
Speaker 2: weird as they need to be in the beginning. I

1487
01:08:47,760 --> 01:08:49,439
Speaker 2: need you to get that all out, and I'm gonna

1488
01:08:49,479 --> 01:08:49,880
Speaker 2: know it all.

1489
01:08:50,040 --> 01:08:50,360
Speaker 1: Please.

1490
01:08:50,800 --> 01:08:53,320
Speaker 2: I'll be the first to tell you, like I'd rather

1491
01:08:53,439 --> 01:08:55,680
Speaker 2: you don't because what they call it love bombing, right

1492
01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:56,400
Speaker 2: or I don't.

1493
01:08:56,240 --> 01:08:58,720
Speaker 1: Know what's whatever, it's all love. They love bombing you

1494
01:08:58,800 --> 01:08:59,080
Speaker 1: to death.

1495
01:08:59,160 --> 01:09:01,280
Speaker 2: They pinpoint on things that you like that you would

1496
01:09:01,439 --> 01:09:03,240
Speaker 2: like them to do, and then they make you feel

1497
01:09:03,280 --> 01:09:04,479
Speaker 2: like this is who they are as a person.

1498
01:09:04,560 --> 01:09:05,479
Speaker 1: Then lay it down the line.

1499
01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:07,719
Speaker 2: You too far deep in it with this imaginary person

1500
01:09:07,760 --> 01:09:09,679
Speaker 2: that you created or the potential of this person who.

1501
01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:11,400
Speaker 1: Created, and now it's too far to get back. So

1502
01:09:12,000 --> 01:09:13,080
Speaker 1: get out all the kinks now.

1503
01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:16,479
Speaker 2: Honestly, I like to third day I'm in my bonner

1504
01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:19,240
Speaker 2: on FaceTime to see me in my scarf.

1505
01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:19,880
Speaker 4: Coroll.

1506
01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:21,840
Speaker 2: Now, I'm gonna keep it a hundred with you. Ten

1507
01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:24,160
Speaker 2: times out of nine, I got pressed. I'm moving around.

1508
01:09:24,560 --> 01:09:26,519
Speaker 2: I may have my face beat, I'm gonna be dressed,

1509
01:09:26,840 --> 01:09:29,400
Speaker 2: but if I'm not like dressed face beat, I'm homeless.

1510
01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:33,799
Speaker 1: Couture. It's giving the stocks don't match.

1511
01:09:34,840 --> 01:09:36,280
Speaker 2: It's the comb in my hair all the time, because

1512
01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:39,760
Speaker 2: I'm always for the rat tail, like I just need

1513
01:09:39,800 --> 01:09:41,200
Speaker 2: you to see the real because I don't need you

1514
01:09:41,240 --> 01:09:42,599
Speaker 2: to be surprised at all, and I want to see

1515
01:09:42,600 --> 01:09:43,160
Speaker 2: the real you too.

1516
01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:45,400
Speaker 1: So I think you are being a little stricters.

1517
01:09:46,479 --> 01:09:49,280
Speaker 2: You might want to just let him be himself and

1518
01:09:49,360 --> 01:09:52,120
Speaker 2: then decide whether that won't work for you, because you

1519
01:09:52,240 --> 01:09:54,160
Speaker 2: just gotta get to get to the core of a person.

1520
01:09:54,600 --> 01:09:56,760
Speaker 2: Because I don't know all that strict shit will end

1521
01:09:56,840 --> 01:09:58,439
Speaker 2: up having you alone alone. And I'm not saying I

1522
01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:00,360
Speaker 2: don't have boundaries. I'm just saying, just make sure that

1523
01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:04,000
Speaker 2: it's not just all surface level shit that you probably

1524
01:10:04,040 --> 01:10:05,679
Speaker 2: could get past the twenty percent.

1525
01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:07,080
Speaker 1: Don't compare to a good eighty.

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01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:11,800
Speaker 2: You have to be clear on your boundaries and clear

1527
01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:15,000
Speaker 2: on your standards, like what are you okay with dealing with?

1528
01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:16,720
Speaker 1: And what are you not okay with dealing with?

1529
01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:19,519
Speaker 2: I think if you go into a new situation and

1530
01:10:19,640 --> 01:10:23,320
Speaker 2: you know these things already, then you'll have better discernment

1531
01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:26,000
Speaker 2: because I agree with you like some of the stuff,

1532
01:10:26,280 --> 01:10:29,719
Speaker 2: and everybody has different standards. Everybody has different o pins

1533
01:10:29,760 --> 01:10:32,360
Speaker 2: on things. But some of the things sometimes that I

1534
01:10:32,400 --> 01:10:34,840
Speaker 2: think people be like, oh that's a deal worker, is

1535
01:10:35,280 --> 01:10:37,559
Speaker 2: a deal breaker? Are you looking for somebody that's perfect?

1536
01:10:37,680 --> 01:10:41,120
Speaker 2: You're not a perfect person. Yeah, so I agree she

1537
01:10:41,320 --> 01:10:43,680
Speaker 2: is being probably be in a little street aggression. I

1538
01:10:43,720 --> 01:10:45,400
Speaker 2: don't know that the nigga could be terrible.

1539
01:10:45,800 --> 01:10:48,880
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. I don't know exactly what you are.

1540
01:10:49,200 --> 01:10:50,840
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, But I feel like you

1541
01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:53,000
Speaker 3: always say for people to come up with a list

1542
01:10:53,080 --> 01:10:54,800
Speaker 3: of things that you do when you don't like, and

1543
01:10:55,400 --> 01:10:56,920
Speaker 3: you have your things that are like a hard no,

1544
01:10:57,200 --> 01:10:59,680
Speaker 3: like these are your boundaries? But if it's something that's

1545
01:10:59,720 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 3: like a light, it's not that serious. I think some

1546
01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:05,080
Speaker 3: things can be, you know, looked past. But it's something

1547
01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:07,160
Speaker 3: that that really is just triggering you and bothering you,

1548
01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:09,160
Speaker 3: then of course cut it out. But you know, it

1549
01:11:09,280 --> 01:11:12,200
Speaker 3: just depends what you decide. Is you're hard knowing what

1550
01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:13,920
Speaker 3: things that you can kind of cushion on.

1551
01:11:14,280 --> 01:11:16,400
Speaker 2: Pendpoint the worst thing about somebody and figure out where

1552
01:11:16,400 --> 01:11:16,880
Speaker 2: you can live with it.

1553
01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:17,880
Speaker 1: And that's just what it is.

1554
01:11:18,560 --> 01:11:20,000
Speaker 4: Come on, now, that's good.

1555
01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:21,720
Speaker 1: That's what I need to do that I used to

1556
01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:22,639
Speaker 1: be real street.

1557
01:11:23,800 --> 01:11:24,560
Speaker 4: But also.

1558
01:11:26,240 --> 01:11:28,559
Speaker 2: On the upside, I don't have nobody that I feel

1559
01:11:28,640 --> 01:11:30,400
Speaker 2: like them. I was being too streak and I should

1560
01:11:30,439 --> 01:11:30,880
Speaker 2: have stuck with that.

1561
01:11:30,960 --> 01:11:33,000
Speaker 4: Nigga. No, that's true, but.

1562
01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:40,639
Speaker 1: I've unpacked the whole You already start a whole package.

1563
01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:43,240
Speaker 4: That is very very true.

1564
01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:47,280
Speaker 3: Okay, so let us know well, of course we know

1565
01:11:47,439 --> 01:11:49,040
Speaker 3: we can find you, but still let the people know

1566
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:51,680
Speaker 3: where they can find you. You know, everything that you

1567
01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:54,519
Speaker 3: got up coming up, including the documentary and all that

1568
01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:55,040
Speaker 3: good stuff.

1569
01:11:55,200 --> 01:11:58,280
Speaker 2: Yes, so y'all can find me on all social networks

1570
01:11:58,360 --> 01:12:00,880
Speaker 2: at Lady London, no periods, no underscore, is know nothing,

1571
01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:04,080
Speaker 2: just straight up exactly how you hear it. I have

1572
01:12:04,240 --> 01:12:07,680
Speaker 2: an upcoming documentary coming out with tub you can download.

1573
01:12:07,280 --> 01:12:09,760
Speaker 1: Too Be for free free subscription.

1574
01:12:09,920 --> 01:12:12,760
Speaker 2: All three episodes will be available October tenth, and my

1575
01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:15,120
Speaker 2: debut album will be coming out next year.

1576
01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:17,519
Speaker 1: So I'm excited y'all tune into that.

1577
01:12:18,320 --> 01:12:20,240
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm excited for that album. And you know she

1578
01:12:20,360 --> 01:12:25,040
Speaker 4: lives in Houston. She was telling me that, yeah, we

1579
01:12:25,160 --> 01:12:25,840
Speaker 4: ain't gonna bore you.

1580
01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:28,720
Speaker 2: We're gonna have a young girls is from here, So

1581
01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:30,400
Speaker 2: take me out of the city. I'm gonna go to

1582
01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:34,000
Speaker 2: the hood, to the spot. Oh yeah, yeah, I know

1583
01:12:34,200 --> 01:12:38,080
Speaker 2: right where we're going. Savoy Wenna have a boy.

1584
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:39,960
Speaker 1: We're gonna have as the ball.

1585
01:12:40,360 --> 01:12:42,920
Speaker 3: So y'all make sure y'all follow Lady London. Check out

1586
01:12:43,080 --> 01:12:45,840
Speaker 3: always Lady London on tub. Make sure y'all go to

1587
01:12:45,960 --> 01:12:49,360
Speaker 3: music Collection dot com and get all your lippies, your blushes,

1588
01:12:49,400 --> 01:12:51,680
Speaker 3: your mats, scaris, and make sure y'all tune into love

1589
01:12:51,880 --> 01:12:54,280
Speaker 3: XP every Monday morning at ten am.

1590
01:12:54,720 --> 01:12:58,320
Speaker 1: And we'll see y'all next week. By y'all, this is.

1591
01:13:00,040 --> 01:13:04,559
Speaker 4: Been saying. The first l is lady, is you singing lead?

1592
01:13:05,080 --> 01:13:05,960
Speaker 4: You singing lead?

1593
01:13:06,200 --> 01:13:11,080
Speaker 1: I can't sing this? My rest say, and I can't

1594
01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:15,960
Speaker 1: sing neither. Now you're from Texas? What's going away?

1595
01:13:17,080 --> 01:13:24,599
Speaker 4: Come away? Come on? Yeah?

1596
01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, didn't even start your home.

1597
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:42,000
Speaker 8: Do it.

1598
01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:47,479
Speaker 9: We were with one, made for a moment in time,

1599
01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:51,400
Speaker 9: and it's seen up and lasting that.

1600
01:13:51,640 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 1: You would always be mine. Now you won't help me free,

1601
01:13:57,720 --> 01:14:01,680
Speaker 1: So I'm letting you fly because I know in my

1602
01:14:01,840 --> 01:14:08,320
Speaker 1: heart babe, love, whatever time, you'll always be a part

1603
01:14:08,439 --> 01:14:11,680
Speaker 1: of me indefinitely.

1604
01:14:12,960 --> 01:14:15,280
Speaker 4: Why don't you know you can't and save me?

1605
01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:20,679
Speaker 9: Oh knowing because you always be my baby and we're linger.

1606
01:14:24,360 --> 01:14:29,080
Speaker 9: Oh no way, You're never gonna shake man be cause

1607
01:14:29,120 --> 01:14:31,479
Speaker 9: you always be my baby back.

1608
01:14:32,720 --> 01:14:39,240
Speaker 4: Oh share. We all fucked up. You get them, we

1609
01:14:39,360 --> 01:14:42,320
Speaker 4: get we getting there, h here we go.

1610
01:14:43,560 --> 01:14:47,120
Speaker 7: I ain't gonna cry, no, and I won't beg you

1611
01:14:47,280 --> 01:14:52,720
Speaker 7: too stand. I won't similar leave boy, I won't not

1612
01:14:52,840 --> 01:14:54,160
Speaker 7: stand in your way.

1613
01:14:55,560 --> 01:14:56,600
Speaker 4: But I never be.

1614
01:14:58,560 --> 01:15:03,479
Speaker 1: You'll be back again because you know your hot baby

1615
01:15:05,760 --> 01:15:12,440
Speaker 1: will never be You'll always be a party in definitely.

1616
01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:17,439
Speaker 6: Boy, don't you know you can say me, oh darling

1617
01:15:17,479 --> 01:15:26,599
Speaker 6: because you're along with me, my baby Willow wave, you win,

1618
01:15:28,680 --> 01:15:36,360
Speaker 6: you win, you window willow wavy.

1619
01:15:37,760 --> 01:15:51,880
Speaker 8: Your Yeah, that one don't felt that ship.

1620
01:15:51,960 --> 01:15:52,479
Speaker 1: That's why I.

1621
01:15:54,800 --> 01:15:57,160
Speaker 4: Don't felt that ship. We'll see y'all next week.

1622
01:15:57,240 --> 01:16:00,840
Speaker 1: No talking there. That's the boy in the building in

1623
01:16:00,960 --> 01:16:02,839
Speaker 1: the outdoor stand for me, honey, Clouds