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Speaker 2: Go all right, Hi Becca, good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi Becca, what's going on?

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Speaker 2: This is a complicated one here because and I don't

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Speaker 2: know that I have a little gist in front of

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Speaker 2: me and what's going on. I want you to tell

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Speaker 2: everyone the story, but I I don't know. I people

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Speaker 2: are gonna like my opinion on this. But what's going

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Speaker 2: on with you? And this is your boyfriend who you

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Speaker 2: reconnected with?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we took we took the break a few years ago,

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Speaker 3: but we ended up preconciling and getting pregnant with our

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Speaker 3: son and we've been together ever since.

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Speaker 2: Well, congratulations, by the way, I mean, that's exciting to

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Speaker 2: have a kid and whatever. No, I don't want to

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Speaker 2: interrupt you. But that's the good news. Congratulations to you.

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Speaker 3: Oh, thank you. Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But recently, my boyfriend came to me and shared that

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Speaker 3: he wants to get a paternity test, which totally shook

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Speaker 3: me to my core because he said that he and

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Speaker 3: his family have concerns over the fact that our baby

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Speaker 3: looks nothing like him because my boyfriend has he has

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Speaker 3: like dark eyes, dark hair, dark complexion, and he's feeling

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Speaker 3: insecure about having a paler, you know, blonde, blue eyed son,

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Speaker 3: and he feels like people always scare and that friends

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Speaker 3: been a question in my mind.

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Speaker 2: Well, first of all, that's got to feel good that

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Speaker 2: my family and I have been talking about this about

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Speaker 2: how a kid looks nothing like me and how the

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Speaker 2: mother might be a little little hohoche, I mean you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like, that's that feels great that

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Speaker 2: you know, that conversation that has taken place.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it was horrible, it was horrible. I felt terrible

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Speaker 3: when he brought it up. It's never been a question

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Speaker 3: in my mind, obviously, and you know he's never said

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Speaker 3: anything like this before. When But when he brought it up,

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Speaker 3: you know, he pointed out that we were on a

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Speaker 3: break back then before I got pregnant, and now he's

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Speaker 3: wondering if maybe the baby is someone else's.

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Speaker 4: I know the baby is his.

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Speaker 3: I'm obviously confident in that. But you know, the baby

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Speaker 3: looks like me. You know, sometimes kids look more like parents.

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Speaker 2: On the other how long was this a break before

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Speaker 2: you guys, like when you guys were apart before you

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Speaker 2: got pregnant.

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Speaker 1: Was it months? Was it years? I mean, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: it was just a couple of months.

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Speaker 2: Did you get with anybody else during that time? I

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Speaker 2: mean again, I'm not suggesting that you did anything wrong here, because,

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Speaker 2: by the way, if you were on a break and

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Speaker 2: like that, you can do that. You weren't together. It

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Speaker 2: wasn't like you cheated. I'm just curious if that's even

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a fair question, But honestly, no, like absolutely not.

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Speaker 3: I was using that break to you know, focus on

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Speaker 3: was no one else in the picture. That's what's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Well, I want to know what every one of the

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Speaker 2: Of course, but you guys at home as well, eight

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Speaker 2: five five five three five, you can contact the same number.

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Speaker 2: What I might be an unpopular opinion, I don't think

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Speaker 2: put this to rest. You don't owe him this, But

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Speaker 2: I mean, there's a scientific proven way to determine that

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Speaker 2: we already did this. I say, just go get the

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Speaker 2: This is over and it's never discussed again. Now, if

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Speaker 1: Okay, so more people guess with you.

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Speaker 2: I thought that was gonna ben unpopular opinion because I'm

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Speaker 2: I suppose you're giving in to his insecurity, which you

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Speaker 2: don't have to do. But I guess this is again

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Speaker 2: you know the answer, So just go do it and

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Speaker 5: We're done with that, And then you guys think she

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Speaker 5: should stay with him after that, like I would take

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Speaker 5: the test and leave if anything, or I'm not taking

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Speaker 5: the test unless I'm legally required to if I know

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Speaker 5: that that's my kid, And you guys are talking about

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: I guess for me though, Kaylin, it's like they weren't

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Speaker 2: together and so it's not necessity. It's an insecurity and

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Speaker 2: and she told him that it is, and she told

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Speaker 2: him she wasn't with anyone else. And if this relationship

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Speaker 2: then at some point you're going to have to believe

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Speaker 2: the things had come out of her mouth, but they

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Speaker 2: were not together. Now this is it would be very

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Speaker 2: whole time, all of a sudden he comes out and goes,

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Speaker 2: you know what, I think, maybe you cheated on me.

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Speaker 2: That would be one thing, but it's not unfeasible or infeasible,

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Speaker 2: whatever the word is. It's not impossible that during the

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Speaker 2: So I guess this is just an easy thing to

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but she's saying she didn't and I believe her,

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Speaker 5: and I think she should leave him.

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Speaker 1: And I think if you take that test, fine, that's

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Speaker 1: up to you. But I think, go, that's my piky,

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Speaker 6: I would absolutely take the test just to shut everybody up,

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Speaker 6: And then it's up to you. It's your prerogative if

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Speaker 6: of the day, like he wants, if you're not sure

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Speaker 6: about this being your kid, let me let me shut

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Speaker 6: you up and your family and your mama and everybody else.

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Speaker 6: Let's put it all to rest. Let's put it on

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Speaker 6: the table, and then once I take the test. Now

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Speaker 6: you really don't hate me because I'm a throw it

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Speaker 6: in your face every day.

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Speaker 1: But she didn't believe me. But rest of your life,

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Speaker 1: for the rest of your life.

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Speaker 6: But I do think, like you, he's not sure and

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Speaker 6: that's so you can't especially if the relationship hasn't been consistent.

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Speaker 6: He's not wrong for having a wanting to know the truth.

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Speaker 6: Like that's what tests are here for.

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Speaker 1: Take the test.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And Caitlyn's point is, well, she told him the

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Speaker 2: truth because they're in trusting relationship.

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Speaker 1: I just don't know.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's but there are scenarios where I would say

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Speaker 2: into his insecurity. And there are other situations where I say,

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Speaker 2: let's just check the box because and then we can

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Speaker 2: deal with it after that. But like, let's check the box. Becca,

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Speaker 2: What does it make you feel when I say just

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Speaker 2: go do it and then this is over.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I've definitely thought about all of these options.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, I feel like, you know, if I go

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Speaker 3: do the test, like it is going to be unfortunately

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Speaker 3: kind of spiteful on my behalf, like like, y'all are

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Speaker 3: saying like I don't think I I don't think that

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Speaker 3: I'm the kind of person that would be like, okay,

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Speaker 3: I'll do it. Like I would very.

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Speaker 7: Much be like, there you want to prove period.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can understand that I can't refrigerate.

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Speaker 4: It.

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Speaker 2: And then I might post it on social media. His

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Speaker 2: whole family will be like, oh, you guys talking about

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Speaker 2: me behind my back.

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Speaker 1: Check it out. I'm posting it. Everybody knows I make

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Speaker 1: them T shirts.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let me take some phone calls on this, Becca.

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Speaker 2: I want to see people at home have to say

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Speaker 2: a bunch of texts about this too. But thank you

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Speaker 2: for sharing. I wish you the best. I hope it

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Speaker 2: Thank you, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: What the test say?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm curious, Well, yeah, if we don't hear

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Speaker 1: You're curious. What No, I'm curious. That is maybe a

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Speaker 1: silly question. But like, let's just say she does end

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Speaker 1: up leaving the relationship, but she.

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Speaker 4: Files for child support, where there's still have to be

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Speaker 4: a test done for that.

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Speaker 1: So the test is coming either way most times for

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Speaker 1: child support. Absolutely, Okay, got it. So, I mean that's

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Speaker 1: what I learned on Judge mat.

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Speaker 5: I was going to say, you know, that's record.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's that's a real legal process.

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Speaker 7: So I know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so you're right, then, Fred, like, just knock.

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Speaker 1: It out, now, just do it now. I wouldn't. And

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Speaker 1: I mean because she knows.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if she's absolutely certain and if she wasn't

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Speaker 2: with anyone else, it's like, this isn't, this isn't.

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Speaker 1: This is a no.

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Speaker 2: Brainer one argument, you know what I mean, Like you're

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Speaker 2: you know the answer, the easiest.

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Speaker 1: Test you'll ever take. But would you stay or would

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Speaker 1: you go? How could you stay after that? That's true?

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Speaker 6: Well, the thing is I know that we were on

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Speaker 6: a break, so I would give him the grace of

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Speaker 6: he doesn't know what I was up to, honestly, and

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Speaker 6: I don't know what he was.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but people lie every day to my partner. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know this lady.

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Speaker 6: Know that if there's a question and it's a child involved,

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Speaker 6: I wouldn't want my child to grow up with his

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Speaker 6: when I could have easily put it to rest if

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Speaker 6: I knew one hundred percent the test.

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Speaker 2: But don't see Yeah, yeah, I mean that's I guess

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Speaker 2: Francesca, Hi, Hi, Hey, good morning. So you just heard it.

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Speaker 2: I'll recap it quickly if you didn't here. But this

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Speaker 2: get with anyone else. What would what do you think?

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Speaker 3: And that's just like more of a deep rooted issue.

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Speaker 4: So I think she would be someone would be lucky

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Speaker 2: now you're just insecure. You don't trust me, like forgets you. Man,

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Speaker 2: that's that's a terrible thing, right, You're you're accusing me

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Speaker 2: for listening and being part of the thirteen.

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Speaker 1: Have a good day. Thank you glad you called.

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Speaker 2: I guess I thought that my opinion would be a

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Speaker 7: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Do you actually went through this, this exact thing? This?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, pretty much.

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Speaker 9: I was dating.

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Speaker 8: The father of my daughter when I was I don't know,

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Speaker 8: in my twenties. We broke up, got back together after

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Speaker 8: Like this little girl's not allowed in my home.

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Speaker 1: She's not allowed.

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Speaker 3: It was awful.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, So I was like, you know what, if that's

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Speaker 8: find it out. Go ahead and do it so it comes.

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Speaker 3: Home with it.

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Speaker 8: Can't bring himself to do it because he knew that

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Speaker 9: So we ended up staying.

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Speaker 8: Together, had a second child, and then ended up getting divorced.

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Speaker 8: And if that's the kind of like if they don't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Lindsay, I'm sorry you went through that, but I

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Speaker 2: I gotta say though, like if I this might this

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Speaker 2: there no, there was no repercussion, like I don't know,

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Speaker 2: I didn't get.

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Speaker 1: An instase right exactly like that.

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Speaker 2: Nothing was oozing or anything. I didn't need any kind

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Speaker 1: Now she told us she didn't do it.

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Speaker 2: I believe her, but I also can see a world

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Speaker 2: the answers about what happened, because, let's face it, when

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Speaker 2: people take breaks it's usually to explore something like this,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean, like it tends to happen.

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Speaker 2: So I don't again like this is just an easy

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Speaker 2: But I guess there's a part of me that understands

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Speaker 2: involved behind your back, I hate that, But I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Breaks are just synonymous with shenanigans and put that on

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Speaker 2: I just I just don't know. Dot com are synonymous

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Speaker 2: with shenanigans. I'm just I'm not saying that I would

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Speaker 2: doesn't matter anymore because we're back together, and I think

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Speaker 1: Ricky, how you doing, Good morning, Good morning.

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Speaker 7: How are you guys doing?

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Speaker 1: Hey, man, stare Go, What do you think.

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Speaker 7: I think she should say? First of all, she said

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Speaker 7: there's a lot of things the question there, so I

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Speaker 7: think she should give him the paternity that it is.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, yeah, it could be that simple. Thank you, Ricky,

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Speaker 2: you have a good day, man, Thank you. Yeah, we

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Speaker 2: all we all seem everyone seems to agreed take the test.

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Speaker 2: But it's a matter of then what do you do?

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Speaker 2: You know, do you stay with him? Do you do

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Speaker 2: you have some understanding for his concern, or do you

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Speaker 2: say no, forget you man? Hey, Susie, Hi, Hi, good morning, welcome,

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Speaker 2: thanks for listening.

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Speaker 1: Stay or go?

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Speaker 9: She should definitely go. If they're not married and he

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Speaker 9: already has trusted you, she needs to take the test,

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Speaker 9: prove him wrong, and then get out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: That's the part I'm unsure about is do we do

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Speaker 2: Kinda I'm gonna give you some grace on this just

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Speaker 2: that is that? Is this egregious enough that I can't

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Speaker 2: And that's the end of it. That's the hard part

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Speaker 2: of this, I think. And you're saying, you're saying he

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Speaker 9: I think he should trust her if she says that,

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Speaker 9: it's that it's his something like the fraternity of a

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Speaker 9: child is definitely not something you want to mess around

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Speaker 9: with or lie about. And if she is lying, which

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Speaker 9: I don't, it doesn't seem like she is, then that's

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Speaker 9: one thing. But if she's positive that it couldn't be

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Speaker 9: maybe second guests where she's going to be, especially because

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Speaker 9: the family's involved, like when you're listen attached to their

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Speaker 9: that's just not a good start.

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Speaker 1: Everyone, you're a little harlot. The whole family thinks you

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Speaker 9: Letter on you.

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Speaker 1: I can't stand that either, with yeah, you're own sorry.

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Speaker 9: Go ahead, Oh I'm sorry. My oldest son looks identically like me,

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Speaker 9: everyone is always skim, which is his kid. And when

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Speaker 1: There you go, then, thank you, Susie, have a.

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Speaker 9: Good day, Thanks you too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, anytime, it's.

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Speaker 2: Like, and by the way, my e're in an argument

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Speaker 2: and there's a debate in a relationship, and it's like, well,

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Speaker 2: my family said, it's all great, great, great, So you

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Speaker 2: and and you've all been talking about it without doing anything.

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Speaker 1: That's cool. Yeah, that's I hate that.

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