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Speaker 1: You guys want some relationship news. Yeah, not not personal

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Speaker 1: relationship news. I just want to update you on I

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Speaker 1: just want to update you on the research being done

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Speaker 1: in relationships. Getting married could save your life from cancer, Allegedly.

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Speaker 1: A twenty thirteen study has gain traction on social media

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Speaker 1: this week, claiming that married cancer patients have better outcome

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Speaker 1: outcomes than those who are single. A team found that

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Speaker 1: being married reduced the risk of death but up to

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Speaker 1: twenty percent more than chemotherapy in five types of cancer breast, colorectal,

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Speaker 1: and prostate tumors.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: So I've heard some people say that they think their

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Speaker 1: marriage is shortening their life. But according to this, According

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Speaker 1: to this though, if you have a partner, then you're

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Speaker 1: more likely to live longer. I would imagine because you've

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Speaker 1: got someone there who loves you, is supporting you. I

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Speaker 1: mean that makes sense to me. I guess, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: don't know.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes you just want to get out of there, get

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Speaker 3: out of where which partage.

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Speaker 1: Marriage?

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Speaker 3: Like a lot of people want to just get out.

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Speaker 3: So like if I could just check out, you know,

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Speaker 3: maybe just see what the pearly gates are about, then

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Speaker 3: maybe I'll go see.

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Speaker 1: Now, all of a sudden, you'd rather die. I'm going

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Speaker 1: with this, not me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like some married people are like he because.

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Speaker 4: When you're married, like you say you're sick whatever, Like

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Speaker 4: you say, I'm sick, and I'm going to fight for

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Speaker 4: everything because I don't want to give up my money,

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Speaker 4: give up your money.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you're dead, then your money. What does

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Speaker 1: it matter if your money's gone? But this is what

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Speaker 1: I wonder. I mean, I think I think they say

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Speaker 1: people in couples live longer than single people. Is that true?

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Speaker 1: I think I read that somewhere they.

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Speaker 5: Do say that, But then the story below that was

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Speaker 5: men who have children have shorter life spans. So I

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Speaker 5: just feel like all these studies, they're always like wine's

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Speaker 5: good for you, chocolate's bad, Like what are we doing?

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Speaker 3: And all the people who live to one hundred, A

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Speaker 3: lot of the women they ask, what's the secret.

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Speaker 1: To live into one hundred?

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Speaker 3: And the women are like, I was never married, I've

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Speaker 3: never had a man. I'm bacon yeah yeah, and live

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Speaker 3: in peace. But if I try that, it wouldn't work.

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, Paulina, do you believe as a married woman? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Do you believe? And you have a kid now that

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Speaker 1: you will live longer because of Hobby or or do

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Speaker 1: you believe that he's taking years off of your life?

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Speaker 2: Honestly, honestly, yeah, I think he's taking years off. And

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Speaker 2: I do think I'm going to live a long life. Okay,

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Speaker 2: prosperous life.

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Speaker 1: It's on. My psychic told me I don't want to

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Speaker 1: do that. However, I always said this, and I did.

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Speaker 1: A tarot card reader heard this morning, and that's what

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Speaker 1: I told her. I also told her an important message

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Speaker 1: is coming. She paid more premier. Yeah, exactly, an important

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Speaker 1: message is coming. Well tell me more. Well I can't.

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Speaker 1: I just it's coming. Don't worry.

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you I'm living a long life. But I

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Speaker 2: hope so also me too. But I also know that

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Speaker 2: right I will ride for this theory that I think

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Speaker 2: that men benefit way more than women do in marriage

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Speaker 2: and relationships. Like I just had this talk yesterday again,

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Speaker 2: like this is the hell I'm dying on because I

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Speaker 2: truly believe that. But I did tell Hobby just because

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Speaker 2: he is more healthy than I am, he eats better,

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Speaker 2: he works out and all that, so he will outlive me.

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Speaker 2: And he made a comment the other day something he's

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Speaker 2: saying about all living me. I just took it as that,

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Speaker 2: and I think it's because you know, she just lives

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Speaker 2: living a better, healthier lifestyle. And I said, you're all

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Speaker 2: living me, so you could date these twenty year olds.

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Speaker 1: I know it.

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Speaker 2: So when I'm eighty, I'll be gone, right or one

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Speaker 2: hundred I'm living to one hundred, Yeah, I'm gone.

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Speaker 1: So he'll be ninety seven dating twenty year olds and

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Speaker 1: longer than me. Now he's older a year older, so

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Speaker 1: it'll be one hundred and one oh year Old's good

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Speaker 1: for hobby, I mean, that's what I said. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: don't know, Like I don't have a lot of long

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Speaker 1: term relationship experience, but I suppose I can think of

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Speaker 1: times when I feel like the partnership makes my life

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Speaker 1: significantly better, and then I can think of time where

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Speaker 1: it makes my life significantly harder or is absolutely shaving

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Speaker 1: years off my life and my well being. So is

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Speaker 1: it just sort of a net net net, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean? Like you just sort of wind up

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Speaker 1: in the same place. I don't know, or you should

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Speaker 1: make the argument, do you try harder in life because

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Speaker 1: you're doing it for your partner and your families? Now kids,

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Speaker 1: I would argue. I would argue that kids might make

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Speaker 1: you live longer than just a wife, just a spouse,

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Speaker 1: or a husband, because you want to live for your kids.

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Speaker 1: Even if you don't like your spouse. Most people still

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Speaker 1: want to live for their kids, right of course, so

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Speaker 1: I would argue the kids would make you live longer.

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Speaker 1: But here's another question. Is like, and God forbid that

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Speaker 1: you're about to break up with somebody and then one

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Speaker 1: of you get sick. You can't break up with them now,

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Speaker 1: so like you've got to support them at least through

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Yeah? Like that is that terrible?

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Speaker 1: That's where my first thought came from. Like that people

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Speaker 1: who are unhappy for have to force themselves to be

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Speaker 1: content at least because they're not. They don't want to

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Speaker 1: be the one who leaves the person when they're sick.

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Speaker 1: You don't, I mean, so like you're more likely to say,

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Speaker 1: they're more likely to save you from cancer than chemo

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Speaker 1: because I don't know, because maybe it takes a bad

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Speaker 1: relationship and makes it livable because like, oh, I really

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Speaker 1: hate you, but you're sick, so I can't be mean

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Speaker 1: to you. Is that terriblests where my brain goes my

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Speaker 1: brain immediately goes to, like, what would I do if

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Speaker 1: I was in a dysfunctional relationship and the person got sick.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't like, you can't leave them. You have to

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Speaker 1: make it work right. You can't be that. You can't.

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Speaker 1: You can't do that. It's terrible. Now you shut in.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I mean, I know the answer. Your

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Speaker 1: life is improved by Jess.

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Speaker 4: I honestly agree with Paulina that married men live longer

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Speaker 4: than the women or even single men, because like, my

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Speaker 4: wife is raising two kids, me and Ashland, yeah, and

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Speaker 4: almost a third. So it's just like she she cares

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Speaker 4: so much about me that she puts everything else before herself,

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Speaker 4: you know. So, like my health isn't good, so it's

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Speaker 4: just like you gotta go on a diet, you got

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Speaker 4: to exercise more, you gotta do this.

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Speaker 1: She's more concerned about me than herself.

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Speaker 4: So I agree with Paulina saying that married men will

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Speaker 4: outlive their wife.

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Speaker 2: And benefit more from marriage.

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Speaker 1: For sure. I will always say that we give you

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Speaker 1: a hard time. Well it's just so easy, Rufio, because

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Speaker 1: you just say things. But this is just so easy.

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Speaker 1: But you are you are a good man and a

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Speaker 1: great father and a good husband. But I have to

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Speaker 1: say you you, I'll kick my coverage. You you you're

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Speaker 1: getting a way better deal than she is on this. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: for sure, And I love you and you're my brother,

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Speaker 1: and I still I would, and I hope, by the way,

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Speaker 1: I hope someday if I ever get married, people will

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Speaker 1: say the same thing, like how to help he pull

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Speaker 1: that off? Like how did he do that? Like why

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Speaker 1: would this poor woman? You know? And obviously there's got

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Speaker 1: to be something good and she has because that's my

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Speaker 1: tall child.

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Speaker 4: I know, any crabts right, she has my child that

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Speaker 4: looks like me, that acts like me. So I you right,

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Speaker 4: And there's gonna be a third in whatever a month.

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Speaker 2: I hope, bless her heart.

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Speaker 1: I read that that it's a text that married men

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Speaker 1: live longer than single men, but single women live longer

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Speaker 1: than married I guess yeah, because I think probably it's

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Speaker 1: generally speaking, it's women trying to keep their husbands alive.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I told you yesterday about the you know,

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Speaker 1: the procedure of my dad. He's fine that they By

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Speaker 1: the way, everybody in the family knew about me, Amanda knew.

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Speaker 1: Everybody knew that they forgot in air quotes to tell me.

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Speaker 1: I think they just know I've been on the edge

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Speaker 1: lately and they just didn't want me to jump. I

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Speaker 1: think that's what it came down to. But he's fine.

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Speaker 1: But I can tell you right now, and I love

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Speaker 1: my dad. I love him, you know with all of

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Speaker 1: my fibers in my being. That guy is not alive

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Speaker 1: without my mother. Mm hmm, without question. She keeps the

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Speaker 1: man alive and so but I think my mom would

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Speaker 1: be just fine. In fact, my mom would probably be.

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Speaker 4: Stress We stress out the women. The men stress out

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Speaker 4: the women a hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: So I got to agree with that. Then I think

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Speaker 1: it's true.

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Speaker 2: I think your mom would be just fine, and not

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Speaker 2: in a bad way. I'm just saying like she would persevere.

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Speaker 1: What are you trying to say, She's gonna send year

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Speaker 1: olds twenty year olds? Yeah. God.

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Speaker 5: My grandpa was convinced when he was literally dying of cancer,

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Speaker 5: he kept accusing my grandma of cheating on him because

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Speaker 5: she was like taking too long at the grocery store

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Speaker 5: because she's never had to go, and he had an

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Speaker 5: idea of who it was. It was his friend, and

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Speaker 5: she was like, why would I cheat on you with

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Speaker 5: another sick person.

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Speaker 1: She was already taking care of you.

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Speaker 5: She, by the way, was not cheating, but he was kind.

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Speaker 1: Of just like losing his marbles. I want much younger

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Speaker 1: if I'm cheating. She was like, why would I do that?

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Speaker 1: And he's like on his deathbed, like you're cheating. She's like, Bill,

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Speaker 1: come on, I don't need a firm right man.

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Speaker 5: Right, I would go way younger. Yes, I was like, Grandpa,

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Speaker 5: get it together.

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Speaker 1: Of course,