WEBVTT - Ep 271: Fun Date Night Ideas 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:05.800 Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions. 0:00:08.480 --> 0:00:16.959 Hey guys, welcome to another episode of horrible decision. What 0:00:17.120 --> 0:00:19.000 I try to do something new? And now you don't 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:21.079 like that either. I just want to say, you don't 0:00:21.120 --> 0:00:24.880 be liking nothing. Here we go with this, Okay. I 0:00:24.920 --> 0:00:26.840 feel like now that I have my new pt A 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:30.080 mom haircut, I w wastn't gonna say it. What do 0:00:30.160 --> 0:00:32.720 you mean? It is giving? It is giving. You have 0:00:32.800 --> 0:00:35.479 two kids back home, maybe possibly by two different men. 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:40.000 That's what it's given. So uh, the only day you 0:00:40.040 --> 0:00:42.559 had to do was jud and a little it's up, 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:45.200 a little baby action going. I looked up on black 0:00:45.240 --> 0:00:47.280 hair salons and the Lower east Side and I found 0:00:47.280 --> 0:00:50.640 a place that was called the Lordes Beauty Salon, by 0:00:50.680 --> 0:00:54.040 the way, great place. Are they niggas? Maybe not, but 0:00:54.440 --> 0:00:56.480 they know how to do some hair. I got in there, 0:00:56.600 --> 0:00:58.520 my hair was all the greased up from them braids. 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:01.360 I was like, does anybody know how to black these? Okay, 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:03.920 we can do it. Yeah, it's like Dominican here. So 0:01:04.000 --> 0:01:06.280 she was looking at it and like, sometimes I feel 0:01:06.280 --> 0:01:08.320 like when I don't go into a black salon, but 0:01:08.360 --> 0:01:10.120 Dominicans a black salon to me that you know, they 0:01:10.160 --> 0:01:12.280 look at you like a science project. They look like 0:01:12.319 --> 0:01:14.200 they knew exactly what to do. But this is like 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:17.600 what just said to me that we needed to cut 0:01:17.640 --> 0:01:19.120 some of my hair And I was like no, and 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:22.840 she's like, put you have to because it's dead by me. 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:24.959 But I'm like this, I don't care lead him. Did 0:01:25.040 --> 0:01:27.199 three rose two and a half inches? I had hanged time, 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:32.960 not you hanged? Not hanged anyway, So now it's given 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:37.720 some medicing, you know what I'm saying though. Anyway, Um, 0:01:37.800 --> 0:01:39.959 let's catch up. I had something happened to me this morning. 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:43.720 What about you? Well explain what happened. No, I'm just 0:01:43.720 --> 0:01:45.480 saying I got a little catch up. I mean, I 0:01:45.480 --> 0:01:49.680 don't really have like act yet. No, but we're going 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:54.200 for beers today. Boy, we're just going for beers. Oh, 0:01:54.640 --> 0:01:58.280 but we're not like So here's the thing I'm giving 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:01.880 date activity. It's not That's why I said beer, not cocktails. 0:02:02.720 --> 0:02:10.320 Cocktails are way more like because he was filling a 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:13.600 void without me, and I told him to come up 0:02:13.639 --> 0:02:15.520 with the way we can still co exist without being together. 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:17.480 I don't want to be with but I think I 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:21.799 want a friendship with the potential benefit with some dick 0:02:21.840 --> 0:02:25.760 from time to time because liked it was giving you 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:29.760 it's really done, I am, I am, no, it's oh see, 0:02:29.800 --> 0:02:31.640 you're dead to me like me, I still love him, 0:02:31.680 --> 0:02:33.359 but I just don't. I don't want to be with you. 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:36.160 But until I find a niggai looked like you and 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:37.760 we'll come to the sex clubs with me. I need 0:02:37.800 --> 0:02:41.200 a sex club partner and a nude beach partner. You're like, 0:02:41.320 --> 0:02:43.440 are you serious? Just someone to go to the club 0:02:43.520 --> 0:02:48.160 with Mandy? What? Why would you do that that nigga? Okay, yeah, 0:02:48.240 --> 0:02:49.840 that's what I'm trying to do, but just at the 0:02:49.880 --> 0:02:54.120 sex club? What The sex was always good. There was 0:02:54.160 --> 0:02:56.120 never a problem with sex. Is just all the other ship. 0:02:56.200 --> 0:02:58.040 But he wasn't ship. So you're gonna give him the 0:02:58.440 --> 0:03:01.440 best part about you? Oh no, he liked everything else better. No, 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:05.799 I'm saying, like the fun of your relationship was the sex. 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:07.480 It's no fun. It's just gonna be sex. Hes gonna 0:03:07.520 --> 0:03:10.640 He's gonna be was until I find somebody else. Bro, 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:13.920 you bugging it's better than me hitting the next time? 0:03:13.919 --> 0:03:16.480 About how many niggas it is in the world. There 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:23.960 he is, But it's not like the same, Like it 0:03:24.120 --> 0:03:27.120 is really hard, Like we've had this show. You fucking 0:03:27.160 --> 0:03:30.920 bring him to grease. I'm not now. It's not giving trips, 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:34.680 it's not giving. That's why we're gonna give youain after 0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:39.880 the flowers, don't. I don't want to talk to him, 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:43.200 but I do. Look dicks, U. The dick is good. 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:46.160 I'm detaching the person from the dick, which is what 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:52.040 I did in casual sex. Anyways, I'm so disappointed, okay, 0:03:53.280 --> 0:03:57.360 like it's giving what it's giving. Okay, bitch. So I 0:03:57.360 --> 0:03:59.480 don't know if we're even gonna have sex because he 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:01.680 wants he wants all the other things about me. Very 0:04:01.840 --> 0:04:04.400 the whole time we were together, he constantly reminded me 0:04:04.480 --> 0:04:06.640 that he wasn't with me just for the sex. It 0:04:06.720 --> 0:04:09.080 was so much more than the sex. So you know, 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:11.760 we could be like a look, friends with benefits. I 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:13.760 might be all right with that, but he ain't gonna 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:15.960 be around my friends no more. He's not gonna be 0:04:16.000 --> 0:04:18.159 hanging with me like that. It'll just be like, man, 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:23.359 come over, get a little dicks up. What's the problem. 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:26.920 I don't like your fucking energy now, because baby, I'm 0:04:26.960 --> 0:04:30.119 really mad at him, me too. That's why I'm like Nigga, 0:04:30.120 --> 0:04:33.360 don't want to be with Choose, but I do need 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:37.320 my rock, So I really do need my rocks rather 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:41.920 be sell big. What wall have been celibrate? And how 0:04:41.960 --> 0:04:46.000 long you been celebate? Many? Like six weeks? Get the 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:48.040 funk out of here, bron, I swear a guy has 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:50.039 been like six weeks, right, man? Do you know I 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:53.800 know how they had like two periods? You could have 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:56.320 two periods and up on me and with him today too, 0:04:59.640 --> 0:05:01.360 so I know I ain't gonna fund him for real. 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:09.440 You you're on your period. My mind came four days early, bitch, 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:11.719 because you got me recording six episodes and three days 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:15.200 feel raggedy ass. First of all, that's always wondering why 0:05:15.240 --> 0:05:17.440 the fun my ship came early, bitch. My ship came 0:05:17.480 --> 0:05:21.240 where we was at the motherfucking oh because we was together, bitch, 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:24.120 you not my motherfuckers sh on. I thought I had 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:27.320 a clean, little weak left. Nope. I was like, bitches, 0:05:27.440 --> 0:05:31.200 this is blood what I was madness, Why did you 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:33.560 lift off the top of your bitch because I'd be 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:36.560 having a lift up a couch like guess damn it, 0:05:36.680 --> 0:05:44.760 This motherfucking blood Anyway, Um, today I really felt I 0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:47.760 don't know if this is like hot or like, okay, 0:05:47.839 --> 0:05:51.320 this might be problematic. I don't feel like this was consensual. 0:05:51.480 --> 0:05:53.880 It was kind of sexy, it kind of wasn't sexy. 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:59.560 It's like, okay, um, sometimes before I get a seamless delivery, 0:06:01.200 --> 0:06:06.600 I masturbate. Bro, you you gotta chill because I can't 0:06:06.640 --> 0:06:09.000 always like like i'll order a few food, I'll masturbate 0:06:09.040 --> 0:06:10.920 and then I'll eat because I can't really like masturbate 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:12.680 after I eat and I like to get on with 0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:16.320 my day. You do wash your hands right, oh, every time. 0:06:16.360 --> 0:06:18.400 I don't do dirty hands, especially because I have a dog, 0:06:18.520 --> 0:06:20.360 Like I always have to wash my hands before I play. 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:23.400 I was talking about active plate with your pussy before 0:06:23.440 --> 0:06:29.080 you ate, look dot to do since where I was 0:06:29.160 --> 0:06:31.360 going with that. She was like, yeah, well before I 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:35.280 touched my coo. But you're not saying but I mean 0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:39.200 most of the time. But anyway, if it's like super wet, yeah, 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:41.600 I wash my hands. Bro, stop playing with your hair. 0:06:41.839 --> 0:06:46.400 I can't. It's just so bitch. I'm not an eight anyway. Okay, 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:50.440 So long story short, I was masturbating and I haven't 0:06:50.440 --> 0:06:52.120 been doing it to a porn or anything like that, 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:54.320 so it takes a little longer. And I've been doing 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:58.000 some sex magic where you like manifest while you masturbate. 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:01.600 What have you been manifesting? I can't say why because 0:07:01.640 --> 0:07:03.640 it's private. It's a wish. It's like selling you but 0:07:03.680 --> 0:07:06.040 you already did it. So like you know, like when 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:08.640 you blow candles out, you could tell people a little 0:07:08.640 --> 0:07:14.880 bit after you blow you make a wish. About an 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:16.560 hour later, you can tell people what you wish for 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:19.320 the god. You just can't do it in the moment. 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:21.840 I didn't get what I want yet, That's why what 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:27.280 is it? It's like, uh, okay, I can't. It's gonna 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:31.720 make me sound crazy. I'm listening you sound crazy without 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:36.480 saying whatever you're about to say. Let's giving voodoo. Okay 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:39.440 you did Wait, it's on somebody you want. No no 0:07:39.560 --> 0:07:42.000 no no, I know people no no no no. But 0:07:42.160 --> 0:07:45.640 like it didn't happen yet. But like I'm manifesting, like 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:48.560 just something that happened to me, you know what I'm saying. 0:07:48.680 --> 0:07:50.440 So like I don't want to say because it didn't 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:51.840 happen yet. They're gonna be like, do you want something 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:54.440 that happened to you at sex? No, what is it? 0:07:55.320 --> 0:07:58.920 Something good? I really feel like I'm able to manifest 0:07:59.000 --> 0:08:00.560 a lot of good ship though to my life and 0:08:00.680 --> 0:08:03.880 so it's so crazy, Like, uh, my ex actually had 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:06.560 that conversation with me because it scared him. Like when 0:08:06.640 --> 0:08:09.840 we met, we met during the pandemic, and during the pandemic, 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:12.720 everything that I said I wanted, Everything I said I 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:15.600 was gonna do. Everything I said that I had an 0:08:15.680 --> 0:08:18.840 idea of literally happened. And he sat and watched it 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:22.600 and he was like, there's only certain periods of your 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:24.920 life where you're able to do that. So like we 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:28.040 would talk about how powerful my tongue was, not in 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:32.640 the buddhole but like actual tongue, like talking things into 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:35.319 existence to where he was just like it's it was 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:39.800 almost scary for him, Like he saw me manifest official 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:42.400 box owner, moving to Long Island City, getting a view 0:08:42.480 --> 0:08:44.560 of the city. Everything I even wanted in like an 0:08:44.559 --> 0:08:47.679 apartment fell in my life. Everything I've literally wanted, including him, 0:08:47.880 --> 0:08:49.800 And I think I said that with you, like I 0:08:49.960 --> 0:08:52.160 was like, WHOA, Everything I said I wanted in terms 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:57.480 of a boyfriend back in like happened. Honestly, I've never 0:08:57.600 --> 0:09:00.719 really wished for, Like a lot of the things I 0:09:00.800 --> 0:09:04.160 wanted were monetary, and those happened, and I do think 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:06.320 they're manifesting. But you gotta put work behind it too. 0:09:06.559 --> 0:09:08.880 You gotta put effort. Even with a boyfriend, You've got 0:09:09.000 --> 0:09:10.400 to put some self work in there. You've got to 0:09:10.440 --> 0:09:12.360 make sure you're ready, you're healed from your past. Ship 0:09:13.040 --> 0:09:16.000 um oh, Like I really believe that. I don't think 0:09:16.040 --> 0:09:22.720 that you're me because I want you gotta he from Yeah, 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:25.360 you gotta heal from me. You gotta take that anger 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:28.040 at your heart. You gotta you gotta get Maggie out 0:09:28.080 --> 0:09:31.240 your motherfucking Here's the thing, I don't feel like I'm 0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:35.120 I don't, I genuine I don't wish bad on him, 0:09:35.160 --> 0:09:36.839 do I can't. I don't want to punch him in 0:09:36.840 --> 0:09:39.000 the face. Yeah, But also like I don't want him 0:09:39.000 --> 0:09:40.319 to like he said she was gonna throw a water 0:09:40.360 --> 0:09:42.000 bottle at him, bro. Yeah, but I don't feel like 0:09:42.040 --> 0:09:46.640 that's the death. Bro. I just threw across the room. 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:50.240 Nobody got hurt. It's light. It's just quick because nobody 0:09:50.360 --> 0:09:56.719 is over there. Anyway. I'm saying, I really do think though, 0:09:56.760 --> 0:09:59.160 you can't manifest it unless you're ready, right. You can't 0:09:59.200 --> 0:10:01.000 just say I want to make you a million dollars 0:10:01.240 --> 0:10:04.000 if you're not working towards ship. I can't say I 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:05.719 want to open this business or i want to do 0:10:05.920 --> 0:10:07.760 X y Z if I'm not putting the steps in place. 0:10:07.840 --> 0:10:10.360 So it's more so that just that pieces will align. 0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:13.640 That's really what I try to manifest, and so manifesting 0:10:13.679 --> 0:10:15.360 a situation that happened to me, and I really think 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:17.800 I'm I'm putting forth the effort to so anyway when 0:10:17.840 --> 0:10:20.240 I come, I like basically say it or I'll do 0:10:20.320 --> 0:10:22.240 like a mantra. And That's what I've been doing every morning, 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:24.600 and I do it to a certain is. It can't 0:10:24.679 --> 0:10:26.760 tell you why are you? Kay? We are trying to 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:29.480 help the people. They can guess. But I'll tell you 0:10:29.640 --> 0:10:32.199 the one I manifest. I think I manifested my job 0:10:32.280 --> 0:10:37.040 with Kenya, not through orgasms, but like I really wanted 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:40.640 something that's solidified my studio and my role in it 0:10:40.760 --> 0:10:44.040 besides being a podcaster. Because I felt very um like 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:46.560 I wasn't validated because I had Alex. Alex does all 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:49.000 detect ship, and I was like, damn, what do I do? 0:10:49.160 --> 0:10:50.839 Like how can I prove that I'm really a good 0:10:50.920 --> 0:10:53.000 producer and that I can develop, and like, now I 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:55.200 feel like I have something to show for it. So anyway, 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:58.440 in the middle of saying my mantra and masturbating, um, 0:10:59.000 --> 0:11:02.400 Nina barked one but I didn't nothing was going on. 0:11:02.520 --> 0:11:04.679 But I heard her bark. I was like, you think 0:11:04.760 --> 0:11:08.920 you brought the spirits? But she barked right, So I'm like, 0:11:08.920 --> 0:11:12.000 all right, whatever. So literally in the middle of me coming, 0:11:12.480 --> 0:11:16.120 I hear I'm knocked on the door and she barks again, 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:19.120 and I was like, and I was loud, bro, and 0:11:19.200 --> 0:11:21.520 I was like, did she fucking bark? Because somebody was 0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:24.880 standing there, So mind you right now. Because you know 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:27.280 my apartments, they put me in a studio the door 0:11:27.440 --> 0:11:31.600 right by to bed, bitch, and I was talking, masturbating 0:11:32.040 --> 0:11:36.079 and coming and saying what I wanted, like huh like that, 0:11:36.400 --> 0:11:39.959 and the fucking door, this one's knocked on it. I'm 0:11:40.040 --> 0:11:42.679 like one moment, so I'm like, you could just leave 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:44.120 it there because I knew his food, and he was like, 0:11:44.520 --> 0:11:48.360 I can't. I was like, he lying, So now I'm 0:11:48.440 --> 0:11:52.400 freaking nervous. He's like, I can't, I can't leave it. 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:55.080 You already have something here and there's and I looked 0:11:55.120 --> 0:11:57.680 down is the Amazon like when you get your food deliverance? 0:11:57.679 --> 0:12:00.199 They put it in front of the door, right I 0:12:00.360 --> 0:12:02.840 opened the door and I grabbed food. I said how 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:04.520 long were you standing there? And it was like just 0:12:04.640 --> 0:12:07.760 a few minutes and then he looked me dead in 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:09.880 the eye and said he hoped at a great day. 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:13.319 Now here's the thing? Am I turned on? Or? Do 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:15.959 I want to call the police? Was he cu? He 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:20.760 had a mask on, but he was so that's not 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:22.599 don't yes, that's I don't know, it's a it's a 0:12:22.679 --> 0:12:25.080 maybe it felt kind of hot. I don't know why, 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:28.000 but anyway, I looked him up after his name is 0:12:28.200 --> 0:12:31.440 um what was it not? You look at you looked 0:12:31.520 --> 0:12:35.679 up the same less delivery guy Malik. It would be 0:12:35.760 --> 0:12:38.760 a Maliqual and it was the mask. It was the 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:42.120 mysterious ship going on. And I was like, wow, do 0:12:42.240 --> 0:12:44.079 you listen to me the whole time to like he 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:46.520 got hard like dash. It was turning me on. And 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:47.920 you know what he made me think of when the 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:49.880 only fans girls be doing the porn when it go 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:52.920 through the car wash, should be kind of sexy dog 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:55.520 And I feel like that's what I was doing. Okay, 0:12:56.280 --> 0:12:59.840 is that crazy? It's inappropriate? Yeah, but I mean ta 0:13:00.000 --> 0:13:02.839 Thinically you were in your own home, so no, but 0:13:03.200 --> 0:13:05.079 the mood was great. I just want to say that 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:07.880 act that had nothing to do with the person ado 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:10.120 toast with berries on it. It looked just a bit 0:13:10.160 --> 0:13:12.880 in l a way too long ricado toast you just ordered. 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:15.480 You couldn't have made a ricotto toast and your own bitch, 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:17.520 get this ship all the time. It's from Cooper Coffee 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:20.440 in the West Village. I get at and the son 0:13:20.559 --> 0:13:25.240 of toasta you ordered toast from? Does that not sound 0:13:25.360 --> 0:13:29.720 fucking nuts? To you ordered toast? Never ordered an avocado 0:13:29.760 --> 0:13:32.360 toast from a delivery stores person? No, because guess what 0:13:32.440 --> 0:13:34.319 I have brought an avocado at the house. What I 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:40.480 don't have a time bro for toast? I needed dukery, Mandy, 0:13:40.520 --> 0:13:44.679 I'm about the coast. Yeah, out your order and toast. Bro, 0:13:49.440 --> 0:13:54.679 let's get into the ship because bitch, bitch, come on, 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:58.320 what's the hole? Okay? In a more and worth serious 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:00.800 note and in a fucking insane no, we're recording this 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:03.080 um a week before you hear it, or a few 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:06.320 days before you hear it actually, but Um, last night 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:08.480 they met Galla went on and in the middle of 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:12.319 the sucking ship, the Supreme Court voted to overturn abortion rights, 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:15.240 which is fucking sick. But to me, honestly, so I 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:17.719 read this. This has actually been a conversation that we've 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:21.480 been having over the last couple ship, the last like 0:14:21.560 --> 0:14:23.840 two years. Even during the pandemic when we were going 0:14:23.880 --> 0:14:26.520 through BLM, we saw a lot of the Southern states 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:32.960 pushing to like become stricter on their abortion policies and laws. Yeah, 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:36.360 Texas is one. Um. Alabama used to be pretty much 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:41.520 the fucking entire Mason Dicks line um states which sucked 0:14:41.560 --> 0:14:45.640 through the So to see that this and and that's 0:14:45.720 --> 0:14:48.960 literally what we saw these states doing in the South. Um, 0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:51.880 what was kind of your reaction to, Like, so it's 0:14:51.920 --> 0:14:53.880 a there's a few things about it that are like 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:56.120 a little bit confusing, Like can you still walk into 0:14:56.120 --> 0:15:00.280 an abortion clinic today? Yes, technically, But basically there was 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:04.520 a draft majority opinion that was circulating inside of a 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:09.120 courtroom and it was obtained by Politico. So the draft 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:13.920 opinion is a full throated um decision, full throated I 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:15.920 swear to god, it says full throated. Right when I said, 0:15:16.080 --> 0:15:19.080 you just got stuttered full throat. Damn, this is that 0:15:19.160 --> 0:15:24.560 spelt like throat, full throated something? Hold on, let me, man, 0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:27.840 I know that. No, we have to teach the people. 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:30.160 So because let me find out I could actually be 0:15:30.240 --> 0:15:34.840 talking to somebody, say full throated. So definition of full 0:15:34.880 --> 0:15:38.200 throated produced or expressed with the full power of the voice, 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:45.760 loud and powerful of full throated cry Okay, so it's complete, 0:15:45.800 --> 0:15:52.080 giving me complete and unreservedly enthusiastic, not unreservedly that is 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:57.120 that really a word? So um is a decision that 0:15:57.560 --> 0:16:02.280 happened in ninety three with constant tuitional protections of abortion rights. 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:06.120 And then there was Planned Parenthood versus Casey and ninety 0:16:06.160 --> 0:16:08.400 two that maintained the right, and then a lot of 0:16:08.480 --> 0:16:11.440 people have heard about Roe versus Wade, and then there's 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:15.200 another one, Roe versus Casey, and it apparently says in 0:16:15.240 --> 0:16:18.160 the document that they want it overruled. It is opinion 0:16:18.240 --> 0:16:20.600 of the court it is time to heed the Constitution 0:16:20.720 --> 0:16:24.240 and return to the issue of abortion to the people's 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:28.080 elected representatives. So which to me then makes it seem 0:16:28.160 --> 0:16:31.320 like instead of it being a federal thing, it'll be 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:36.880 based on each UM, either city state. That's because you 0:16:36.920 --> 0:16:41.280 said people's elected, because elected representatives could be Yeah. But 0:16:41.360 --> 0:16:44.280 we also saw like literally, I'm in the group chat 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:47.200 with my home girls and they're like, oh, it looks 0:16:47.240 --> 0:16:48.640 like you may as well move down a now, And 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:50.480 I said, bitch, I don't need an abortion. Just fly 0:16:50.560 --> 0:16:53.600 out there, get a little sucks up, and come right back. 0:16:53.760 --> 0:16:56.720 I ain't gotta move out there because California is I 0:16:56.840 --> 0:17:01.800 know California governors right now. So here's why this is 0:17:01.880 --> 0:17:04.480 such a weird thing to happen. Right, So, the im 0:17:04.520 --> 0:17:07.600 mediate impact of the ruling UM was drafted in February, 0:17:08.200 --> 0:17:10.640 and it would literally be an end to a half 0:17:10.680 --> 0:17:14.920 a century guarantee of federal constitutional protection of abortion rights. 0:17:15.160 --> 0:17:17.879 And no draft decision in the modern history of the 0:17:17.960 --> 0:17:20.880 Court has ever been disclosed publicly while it was still pending. 0:17:20.960 --> 0:17:23.640 So this was leaked, right, And that's why it's okay 0:17:23.720 --> 0:17:27.040 quote unquote to UM still get one today, but there's 0:17:27.040 --> 0:17:30.720 an extraordinary window into their deliberations. UM. And yeah, it's 0:17:30.840 --> 0:17:33.680 a forty ten year old precedent. So it sucks because 0:17:33.720 --> 0:17:35.720 I mean, we've talked about abortion a lot on this show, 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:40.879 but it's like first for so many women, there's reasons 0:17:40.920 --> 0:17:43.040 why we choose to get abortions. We should have the 0:17:43.160 --> 0:17:46.760 right for that. But this is also somewhat forcing us 0:17:46.800 --> 0:17:50.200 to get on birth control. And we've I've had tons 0:17:50.280 --> 0:17:57.560 of conversations with how invasive and how uncomfortable birth control is. 0:17:58.160 --> 0:18:01.399 Whether it's the pill, the patch, I U D like, 0:18:02.280 --> 0:18:05.200 it's either something that's surgically put into your body, it's 0:18:05.240 --> 0:18:08.639 something that's not I mean, it's all horrible, hormal that 0:18:08.720 --> 0:18:11.240 it makes us a bitches, It makes us completely different 0:18:11.320 --> 0:18:14.160 people not saying that like abortion is a safe form 0:18:14.200 --> 0:18:17.760 of birth control, that you shouldn't. It shouldn't be birth control, 0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:22.120 but be California voters may get a chance to add 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:26.159 abortion protections to their state constitution. Um, and you know, 0:18:26.280 --> 0:18:28.760 California is really taking heed to make I mean New 0:18:28.840 --> 0:18:31.119 York is pretty liberal too, so I would think that, oh, 0:18:31.200 --> 0:18:32.720 of course they would make it that way as well 0:18:32.760 --> 0:18:35.600 here too, I mean New York City, if we have 0:18:35.720 --> 0:18:39.760 our different laws and taxes and everything. Though I know, um, 0:18:40.240 --> 0:18:42.720 I would just be very concerned to all of you 0:18:42.760 --> 0:18:45.280 who live in Red states. I think this is going 0:18:45.359 --> 0:18:49.040 to like a lot of the concertatives the conservative states 0:18:49.520 --> 0:18:53.199 are and of course red states Republican being more pro 0:18:53.880 --> 0:18:56.639 life than pro choice, those are the people that this 0:18:56.680 --> 0:19:00.840 should be concerned to me. I I wish like I 0:19:01.000 --> 0:19:04.480 was better educated on being able to understand the laws, because, 0:19:04.520 --> 0:19:06.760 like I know, even when Texas happened, I was super confused. 0:19:06.760 --> 0:19:08.159 I was like, can you get arrested if you go 0:19:08.240 --> 0:19:10.080 across the line, Like a lot of it feels like 0:19:10.160 --> 0:19:12.560 this fear factor stuff where you don't really know. But 0:19:13.240 --> 0:19:15.400 to know that the document was leaked and it looks 0:19:15.480 --> 0:19:17.520 like this, I think it's great that it happened because 0:19:17.560 --> 0:19:19.800 a lot of the leaders that are in place and 0:19:20.040 --> 0:19:22.960 elected officials in other states that are not for this 0:19:23.200 --> 0:19:26.080 can get prepared. I mean not only that, I think 0:19:26.160 --> 0:19:28.840 that we're in a space because of social media that 0:19:28.960 --> 0:19:32.840 we're we're we're literally it's the court of public opinion. 0:19:33.160 --> 0:19:35.880 So in terms of petitions being signed and whoever has 0:19:35.920 --> 0:19:38.280 to sign off on this, I think the uproar that 0:19:38.359 --> 0:19:41.159 it's causing hopefully will lead to it not being passed, 0:19:41.520 --> 0:19:46.480 not being signed. I'm actually appreciative that it's leaked because 0:19:46.560 --> 0:19:49.960 even in terms of um, oh God, please give me 0:19:50.119 --> 0:19:53.480 her name, um, the Freme Court just what I was 0:19:53.520 --> 0:19:57.479 doing right before, of course you were. Oh yeah, uh 0:19:57.560 --> 0:20:01.600 Katangi Brown so hard becoming a part of the Supreme Court. 0:20:01.920 --> 0:20:04.720 There were a lot of people like that were videotaped 0:20:05.040 --> 0:20:09.280 into like knowing her credentials pretty much still saying no, 0:20:09.880 --> 0:20:12.560 But I do feel like a lot of people were 0:20:12.800 --> 0:20:15.679 leaned towards voting her in because they saw the pressure 0:20:15.760 --> 0:20:20.480 from just all of us, like social media, um, the 0:20:20.640 --> 0:20:24.440 people so to speak, um, Twitter, Instagram and all just 0:20:24.560 --> 0:20:26.960 the position signed and media. I think we have a 0:20:27.080 --> 0:20:30.320 large input on what goes on now in the world period. 0:20:30.359 --> 0:20:32.480 It's the same reason like right when people go to 0:20:33.960 --> 0:20:36.600 go to fucking court. What we're seeing now with fucking 0:20:37.359 --> 0:20:41.600 uh amber heard and Jonathan, what we're seeing with Tori 0:20:41.880 --> 0:20:44.840 and Meg, what we're like, there's so many things that 0:20:44.880 --> 0:20:48.280 are literally being based on the court of public opinion, 0:20:48.560 --> 0:20:51.280 not even the jury, not the judge. It's really like 0:20:51.640 --> 0:20:54.119 us influencing a lot of decisions. That's made it interesting 0:20:54.200 --> 0:20:56.680 too about social media because like I don't know if 0:20:56.800 --> 0:21:00.800 um you remember Casey Anthony's case, but it girl, yes 0:21:00.920 --> 0:21:04.199 in Florida and did you see did she recently? Did 0:21:04.280 --> 0:21:05.600 y'all see that? I don't know if y'all saw it. 0:21:05.680 --> 0:21:08.159 She recently came out and said, I'm finally ready to 0:21:08.240 --> 0:21:09.840 tell the truth. And I hope that she is not 0:21:09.960 --> 0:21:12.440 coming out to say that I really did kill my daughter, 0:21:12.480 --> 0:21:15.919 because you know, in America, this dumbaship, there's no double jeopardy. 0:21:16.840 --> 0:21:21.080 So she just came out, actually, um kiss Anson. Oh 0:21:21.200 --> 0:21:25.800 of course in a documentary, Oh god, damn whatever. It's 0:21:25.800 --> 0:21:28.680 given a man. She feels like, it's time we know 0:21:28.840 --> 0:21:31.120 you killed your motherfucking daughter. I don't think you don't 0:21:31.160 --> 0:21:33.080 say that. I think you don't think you know, why 0:21:33.119 --> 0:21:35.840 would you go make the documentary about it's giving bad Vegan? 0:21:36.160 --> 0:21:38.200 She did. She knew what she was doing, bro and 0:21:38.400 --> 0:21:40.920 what I'm saying. I brought up Casey Anthony because we're 0:21:40.960 --> 0:21:44.400 from Orlando, and it was so easy to like everybody 0:21:44.440 --> 0:21:45.879