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Speaker 1: Some Harry Styles there one or two point seven and

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Speaker 1: kids have MLAs number one Hits Music station. Did we

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Speaker 1: ever find out? You brought me that training report the

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Speaker 1: other day? Does Harry Styles have a Finsta? Was it

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Speaker 1: ever authenticated? Oh? Yes, wait he did. He brought it

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Speaker 1: up on stage at one of his shows, but he

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Speaker 1: didn't say Finsta. He basically acknowledged, like, oh, and sometimes

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Speaker 1: you accidentally post a picture and delete it on your Instagram,

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Speaker 1: But he didn't mention if you had a Finsta. All right,

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Speaker 1: there's a bonus report. Now let's get to this training report.

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Speaker 1: So he said, when people have kids, a lot of

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Speaker 1: people like to judge you on how you actually parent

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Speaker 1: those kids, and if you don't have kids, people like

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Speaker 1: to judge you for not having kids. Is that right? Totally?

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Speaker 1: It's like when people have kids, they are so judged,

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Speaker 1: especially online, on how they parent their kids, and then

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Speaker 1: people who don't have kids are always judged because they

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Speaker 1: chose not to have kids. So, sissony, you deal with

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Speaker 1: the judgment, you know, and I got it a lot,

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Speaker 1: especially when the twins were babies. I think people are

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Speaker 1: trying to be nice or helpful. You like the car

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Speaker 1: seats were in their straps, were not properly adjusted correctly,

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Speaker 1: or you're doing the bottles are wrong or whatever it is.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's always something and you're just judged. And

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Speaker 1: I get it. On the other side, I was literally

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Speaker 1: at dinner over the weekend and someone said to me,

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Speaker 1: we need Little Ryan's, Oh my godness, right, and I

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Speaker 1: was like, we don't need them, no, And it's like

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Speaker 1: they're trying to be cute and funny, but you're like,

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Speaker 1: but it's also they're trying to push some agenda onto you.

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Speaker 1: They're projecting onto you, and it's like, but what if

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Speaker 1: you don't want that, and that's your prerogative. It really

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Speaker 1: rubs me up. Bill Seth Rogan is standing up for

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Speaker 1: the dinks of our society. Double income, no kids, double

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Speaker 1: income no kids and that, and it's actually his choice

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Speaker 1: not to have kids. He says that it has helped

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Speaker 1: him succeed like in his career. He said, some people

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Speaker 1: want kids, some people don't want kids. Honestly, you're just

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Speaker 1: told you go through life, you get married, you have kids,

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Speaker 1: that's what happens. And me and my wife, neither of

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Speaker 1: us were like that. He said. The older we get

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Speaker 1: the more happy and reaffirmed that we are with our choice.

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Speaker 1: And I love that Seth is talking about this because

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Speaker 1: I do feel like people judge if you don't have

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Speaker 1: a kid by a certain age, but why does everybody

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Speaker 1: need to be a parent? And so we're made to

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Speaker 1: feel like something is missing or lacking in our lives

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Speaker 1: and when in reality, it's just it's not a one

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Speaker 1: shoe fits all type of situation. And I think that

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Speaker 1: I know another friend of mine that chose not to

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Speaker 1: have kids, her and her husband, and they're very, very

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Speaker 1: happy with their lives, but it's like the judgment is

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Speaker 1: constant on them, like why are you not? You should?

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Speaker 1: You should? You should? It's gonna make your life so

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Speaker 1: much better. And it's just like can we live? Can

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Speaker 1: you just can? Can we all just live our lives well?

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Speaker 1: And then I get well, what are you gonna leave

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Speaker 1: by you? I can't believe people say this to you

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Speaker 1: to my face, and people I don't know by the

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Speaker 1: way people I know and people I don't know like

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Speaker 1: strangers will say and people I don't know no just

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Speaker 1: say other dates And one said when as they were

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Speaker 1: leaving from the interview, like what are you getting married?

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Speaker 1: Said Teresa Judice, Yeah, always about to come over for pasta,

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Speaker 1: And I was like, wait a minute, what am I

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Speaker 1: What didn't work out so well for you? She remarried,

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Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, then, by the way, if you are divorced,

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Speaker 1: you should not be campaigning for me. You know, I know,

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Speaker 1: I know, but I actually don't care. That's what's funny.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. Maybe there's something else me that

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Speaker 1: I don't care. When she's honestly, when she says that,

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Speaker 1: or someone goes into the judgment thing my kids, I

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Speaker 1: actually don't care. It's always fascinating to hear that, like

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Speaker 1: which thing they'll bring up or say or why. But

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Speaker 1: it doesn't really get me, like I do not leave

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Speaker 1: or get to bed and at night thinking about it. Really, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't like are you judging me for nothing about iota?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think also with our with our jobs,

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Speaker 1: we have thick skin. I do at least, so maybe

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Speaker 1: it's different. I don't really have thick skin, very thin skin.

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Speaker 1: But I still don't let it bother me because I

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Speaker 1: don't know I have that. I have a piece about it,

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Speaker 1: like if I decide to do it or if it happen,

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Speaker 1: but at whatever right right, But it's not where I

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Speaker 1: I don't put pressure on myself. Yeah, sometimes I feel

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Speaker 1: like people just think they have to say something and

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Speaker 1: that's just the first thing that comes to their way.

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Speaker 1: I understand, but that's just the conversation they think they

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Speaker 1: need to play. Someone told me when I was pregning

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Speaker 1: with the twins, they're like, someone's always going to say

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Speaker 1: something that's inappropriate. And so when I was pregning with

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Speaker 1: the twins or and they're like, oh, that's gonna be

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Speaker 1: double trouble, or it's gonna be not a lot of work,

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Speaker 1: and it's just it's gonna rub you the wrong way,

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Speaker 1: but just let it go. It's just people don't understand

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Speaker 1: that it's rude. You know why. Please don't ever ask

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Speaker 1: me how's your heart? Like that is the most uncomfortable

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Speaker 1: conversation to have them passed. My friends have actually told

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Speaker 1: me they love when I asked that hurt. Stick to

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Speaker 1: those people with that question, how's your heart? Tops that's

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Speaker 1: your heart this morning? I think it's okay. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to know. I don't. I don't, I don't. It's

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Speaker 1: a different way of saying how are you doing all right? Next, Really,

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Speaker 1: how's your heart? Well, it's beating. How's yours? Mine is

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Speaker 1: beating doing fine? Disneyland tickets. They have a special Disney

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Speaker 1: one hundred year old. I don't know if you've seen

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Speaker 1: their son. It's rolled in cherry sugar. I googled it,

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Speaker 1: drizzled with white icing and topped with purple and silver pearls.

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Speaker 1: Come on, you did your research. I'm not OK because

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of get into this hundred of years thing.

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Speaker 1: Disneyland tickets are next,