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Speaker 1: Hi, Rufio, what did you have to explain to Ashley yesterday?

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Speaker 1: Because this is what this is what I want to

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Speaker 1: know for the parents out there, for the grown ups

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Speaker 2: Eight five five five nine three five.

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Speaker 1: What did you have to explain to your child that

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Speaker 1: you yourself either didn't know how to explain or like

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Speaker 1: it was just it was just too much, like the

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Speaker 1: details weren't important, Like maybe you just made it up

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Speaker 1: because at the time it was easier just to make

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 3: So yesterday our dog Benny got some surgery. Yesterday he

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Speaker 3: got neutered and he also had some teeth tacking out.

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Speaker 3: And we were walking in the other day before his

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Speaker 3: surgery and we're like, oh, he's got to go into

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Speaker 3: the to the doctor to get surgeries, and actually is

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Speaker 3: like why, It's like, well, he's got to get fixed.

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Speaker 2: And he's like what does that mean. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: here we go.

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Speaker 4: Like.

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Speaker 3: He's you know, it's it's better for him so he

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Speaker 3: won't have babies, and acting like but I want him

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Speaker 3: to have babies.

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Speaker 2: I want them to have like three babies. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: here we go.

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Speaker 3: Like I've never had a dog before, so I don't

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Speaker 3: even know how to explain what what getting a dog

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Speaker 2: You know, like, I know there's benefits to him, but

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Speaker 2: I don't know what they are. I just know also that.

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Speaker 3: His hiss Kiky calls it Cahony's are gone whatever.

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Speaker 1: There's just some removal of items that were yeah, you know,

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Speaker 3: And then he came back yesterday and askedally just wants

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Speaker 3: to play with it. I was like, you gotta, you

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Speaker 3: gotta settle down with the dog, like you can't hug him.

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Speaker 2: You can't.

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Speaker 3: He's he's very fragile right now. So he didn't understand.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know. I still don't understand.

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Speaker 1: The benefits of neutering a dog, So I'll calm him down.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I had to look it up. So it's

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Speaker 3: it's like they live longer. Yeah, they'll they're calmer. Obviously

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Speaker 3: they won't be humping things, right, you know, he for

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Speaker 3: the streets like that. Yeah, So it was it was

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Speaker 3: very interesting to explain to a four year old what

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Speaker 3: happens to a dog, because I gotta think at.

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Speaker 1: Some point it's just easier just to I know, either

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Speaker 1: it's too complex of a concept, you're not ready to

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Speaker 4: I vividly remember being little and asking my step dad, hey,

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Speaker 4: where did those two things go on the back of

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Speaker 4: the rear his cat?

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Speaker 2: And they didn't.

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Speaker 4: I remember them looking at each other being like, oh

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Speaker 4: my god, Like, what do we tell her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: My other problem is is that Action likes to repeat things,

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Speaker 3: so he'll like, next time you see someone we're with

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Speaker 3: the dog, he'd be like, hey, my dog.

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Speaker 2: You know he can't have babies no more.

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Speaker 3: You know, he'll say, he'll say something I tell him,

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Speaker 3: that's the nicest thing he'll say.

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Speaker 1: People are sending their texting logos already of the Kiki show.

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Speaker 5: What.

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Speaker 2: Crazy Morning Show, Crazy friend?

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Speaker 6: I love AK.

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Speaker 2: That might be too many cases.

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Speaker 7: I was going to say, a crazy fend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, remember the number of case concerns me? Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: I would never.

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Speaker 1: By the way, why did you text that crazy friend?

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Speaker 1: It's from your phone number. I do like parents that

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Speaker 1: will say I don't know. They'll lie to their kids

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Speaker 1: about it's less less importance. I mean, like, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I want to go to the ice cream store, like

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Speaker 1: ice cream Scortes store's closed and it's you know, three

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like you like your sister does with Polly. She says, yeah,

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Speaker 3: very much open, but it it's definitely closed. But I

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Speaker 3: just not ready, you know, you just don't feel like it.

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Speaker 1: So what do you tell them? You know, you tell

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Speaker 1: them like a stork comes and as somebody else. I mean,

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Speaker 1: like how long do you tell the fancy, the fanciful story,

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Speaker 1: have to go, Okay, this is what's gonna happen.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: My brother takes a very much a real approach with

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Speaker 5: his kids, Like he just tells them like straight up,

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Speaker 5: like they're adults like they are a dot and I'm like, wow,

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Speaker 5: I could never do that. And I've also learned when

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Speaker 2: Don't know, bro, It's just it's just the way it is.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just take that. Yeah, I say that a lot.

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Speaker 3: It's like because Ash asks a lot of questions like

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Speaker 2: It's it is what it is. Like you just get

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Speaker 2: it's like what they just go but why?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Why?

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Speaker 2: It's just a constant Well I love.

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Speaker 3: I love the constant questions, but then I don't have

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Speaker 1: For Somebody texted hard to explain to my three and

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Speaker 1: with an ice pack on my balls after v sectimate.

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Speaker 1: They keep asking why I needed surgery. Our dog just

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Speaker 1: got nuted, and our five year old walked around telling

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Speaker 1: everyone his dog had his balls chopped off. That's what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, so that no dogs didn't get pregnant anymore

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Speaker 1: from him. Damn. Wait, I have the funniest neuter story

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Speaker 1: see that you can't tease us like that. Someone texts,

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Speaker 1: I have the funniest neuter story. Well, then call up

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Speaker 1: here and tells the damn stories. Yeah, call Keeky's crazy

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Speaker 1: friends over here. It's hard to explain why you're not

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Speaker 1: I mean, how do you like? I mean, I don't know, Like,

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Speaker 1: what are you saying? What do you mean with the secretary?

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Speaker 5: Why were me and my sister born in the same year?

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Speaker 1: Right right, I'm mom and the pool guy cleaned up

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Speaker 1: a lot of things.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know, you know, it's like, what

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Speaker 1: Oh? Man, hold I want to hear this. I want

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Speaker 1: to hear this funny Newter story. Well, one morning, my

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Speaker 1: regret halfway through period. One morning, my seven year old

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Speaker 1: first wake up? Excellent question, Mom, Why is that I

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Speaker 1: of things. I just tell her straight up. Kids are

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Speaker 4: Yeah, my friend's son goes, mom, why are my pajamas

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Speaker 2: She's like, oh crap, those Ask your dad, Emily, good morning,

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Speaker 2: good morning. Why what's your funny neoter story? Not about me,

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Speaker 8: Gosh, no, no, not me. So basically, what happened when

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Speaker 8: I was younger, My DAGs went to go get neutered,

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Speaker 8: and my mom did explain to me, you know what

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Speaker 8: I thought that they were going to do the same

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Speaker 6: I was so upset, But it turns out he was fine.

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Speaker 6: My mom just said he was going to be sore

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Speaker 6: Emily, you wouldn't have thought by the way that he

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Speaker 2: That was a good story. Had a good day, all right.

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Speaker 9: I love you guys.

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Speaker 2: I love you too. Glad you called.

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Speaker 1: Hey Meredith, Hi, good morning. So you have a five

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Speaker 1: and a seven year old. And then when I ask

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Speaker 9: It's just like I explain everything like they.

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Speaker 2: Would read it in a science book.

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Speaker 9: So I was getting dressed one day and my daughter

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Speaker 9: and she goes, Mama, why.

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Speaker 2: Are you so squishy?

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Speaker 9: And I said, well, that's that's fat, okay, And it's

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Speaker 9: really important because it keeps your body warm, it gives

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay, all right, so you just you just

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Speaker 1: keep it real.

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Speaker 9: And then when we see people walking around, they don't

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Speaker 9: they just know, like that's how the body works, Like

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Speaker 9: everyone looks different. Everyone's got to protect their organs, stay

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Speaker 9: warm and have lots of energy.

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Speaker 1: I like that explanation. That's that's why I have fat

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Speaker 1: on my body. That's the reason why, because I need

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Speaker 1: to stay warm exactly.

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Speaker 2: And energy, Meredith, energy, you need all that I need

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Speaker 2: all those things. Yes, thank you. I have a good day, right,

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Speaker 2: glad you called. See.

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Speaker 1: I guess, I guess you just tell them the truth,

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Speaker 1: maybe you know, but lies are much easier sometimes, especially

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Speaker 1: if it's like a really complex topic or if it's

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Speaker 1: maybe if it's about sex or something.

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Speaker 2: It's like, I don't, I don't know. I don't. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to tell you what really is happening here,

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Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna lie.

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Speaker 7: Did you ever have did.

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Speaker 2: You have that talk with your parents? Did you have

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Speaker 2: a talk with your parents about I.

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Speaker 1: Don't, I don't. I don't think they did, like didn't

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Speaker 1: have it with me. I just don't any they would have.

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Speaker 1: I just don't remember like sitting down and like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is what's going on. I don't remember that. Really

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Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Freddy Life were

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Speaker 10: it away, Thank you, dear blog. So if you remember,

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Speaker 10: I don't know what is going on, like and maybe

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Speaker 1: Eleven years ago and now Willie not going. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: You and I have a similar sensibility about people who

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Speaker 5: I need an update after the prayers have been answered,

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Speaker 7: On and how did it resolve itself.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you got twenty four hours to respond.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I will ask me for prayers. I need to

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Speaker 5: And it's triggered me because somebody was missing for days

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Speaker 5: For the last seventy two hours? I need to know

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Speaker 5: Someone you know is missing, No I didn't know them,

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Speaker 5: but oh you know, like, okay for him his name

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Speaker 2: Add it to your prayer list. That's cool, that was cool.

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Speaker 1: How did they die? I would just like to know,

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Speaker 2: That's enough for me. I don't need it. Then go

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Speaker 2: No, I need to know. I'm gonna keep you.

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Speaker 3: Go to the comments to see if someone says, oh,

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Speaker 2: But then like you want to know how they died,

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Speaker 3: Then people someone would comment like, oh what happened? That

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Speaker 1: That is rude for it to put on a post

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Speaker 1: how did they die?

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Speaker 1: No, oh my.

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Speaker 5: God, if something God forbid happened to any one of us,

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Speaker 5: so and so. It is not wrong if the thirteen

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Speaker 2: The place that isn't the venue for it. Figure it

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Speaker 2: I knew you too, So I just want to know

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Speaker 3: This big long posts about this person and how they

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Speaker 2: They lit up the room. And then you know, tell

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Speaker 1: Maybe the way that they died, Maybe the way that

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Speaker 2: It's son of your business.

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Speaker 1: Or maybe call the person directly if you must know,

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Speaker 1: or how about if you're supposed to know, you'll probably

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Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, shocked.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm with you on the blind send prayers and

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Speaker 1: thoughts because that is all you're asking for is people

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Speaker 1: it's kind of attention It is not kind of It

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Speaker 4: I mean on a letter note, I do think if

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Speaker 4: or a divorce announcement as to why the relationship didn't work.

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Speaker 2: Because you included me in.

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Speaker 4: Your six year anniversary, six month, your three month you know,

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Speaker 2: I need to know what broke ud you expect me

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Speaker 2: to post something about that? Correct, you share detail relationship.

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Speaker 2: You got to share this, you fix that, he could

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Speaker 2: do that, right. No, I need to know why it

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Speaker 1: Why did I have to write a statement yes and

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Speaker 1: post it to my Instagram as to why I broke

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Speaker 4: But you also don't involve us in your relationships like that,

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Speaker 4: So you're good.

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Speaker 2: I don't need you. If you keep it private, then

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Speaker 9: No.

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Speaker 1: If I consult you on my relationship, then you and

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Speaker 1: you give me advice and you want to know what happened.

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Speaker 1: That's one thing. But I don't if I talk about

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Speaker 1: who I'm dating on Instagram, I don't owe the world.

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Speaker 2: In explanation in the first place.

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Speaker 1: Posting a picture on my Instagram? Is that involving you?

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Speaker 10: No?

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Speaker 4: But if there's more, there's some people that share too

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Speaker 2: Not this is not you.

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Speaker 3: You don't do It's like if you're sharing every anniversary,

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Speaker 1: Write a statement as to why I'm not with them anymore.

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Speaker 2: We want to know why you ain't together no more?

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Speaker 7: What happened?

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Speaker 2: Where did you all get so damn nosy?

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Speaker 5: I just need to know why you died, why you

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm dead, I can't tell you. You're gonna find

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Speaker 2: out anyway. Might as well just tell us from the junk.

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Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 10: If he doesn't have to be a public platform, but

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Speaker 10: you know that he cheated on.

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Speaker 7: Me with this guy.

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Speaker 5: This guy about like, that's a why, Like Caylen said,

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Speaker 5: six years, we know every relationship with you, and then.

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Speaker 2: Look at myself single on Facebook and that's it.

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Speaker 1: The only people who are owed in explanation are the

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Speaker 1: people who maybe knew the person who consulted me on

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Speaker 1: the breakup. If you once saw a picture of a

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Speaker 1: girl I'm dating on Facebook, you don't.

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Speaker 2: You are not in explanation. You don't do this, so

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Speaker 2: you're in the clear. You don't need to make any

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Speaker 2: formal announcements, right, I know you don't know? Don't you

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Speaker 2: know why? I'm either?

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Speaker 1: Yes, I do?

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Speaker 2: I need to need closure? What about me? It was

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Speaker 2: a tragic masturbation accident. Section you know? Thread show?

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Speaker 10: Next the thread show is on friend's fun facts Fun.

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Speaker 2: So much? Guys?

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Speaker 1: Did you know that allmost is the longest word in

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Speaker 1: English with all of the letters in alphabetical order.

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Speaker 2: Did you know that?

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Speaker 1: Did you know that? And how how did you go?

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Speaker 1: How did you make it this far in your life

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Speaker 1: without knowing that? It's an important it's an important question.

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Speaker 1: Almost is the longest word in English with all of

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Speaker 1: the letters in alphabetical order. That may come up someday.

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, you could be the most interesting person

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Speaker 1: in your office today if you bring that up.

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Speaker 2: You know that Roovio I did not. I didn't think

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Speaker 2: you did.

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Speaker 3: Usually I'm talking about on know, some kind of sex

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Speaker 3: animal thing. The fact that you give me.

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Speaker 2: And sex animal thing.

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Speaker 1: You know, Rubio is always talking about sex animals and

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Speaker 1: it's it's.

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Speaker 2: Awkward, it's and that's never usually the hit of the

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Speaker 2: water cooler.

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Speaker 1: Excuse me. Maybe it's maybe it's your presentation that is

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Speaker 1: a problem. Maybe spent your walking up to random people

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Speaker 1: and talking about you know, random animal.

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Speaker 3: Sexual like, you know, did you know that the female

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Speaker 3: affair will die if she doesn't have sex?

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Speaker 10: And they're like your boss was like, okay, I mean

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Speaker 10: you were already in an HR meeting.

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Speaker 1: That wasn't the right time for the More Freas show next. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they talk better than these are the radio blogs on

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Speaker 1: the Fresh.

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Speaker 2: It really takes a lot for me to have nothing

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Speaker 2: to say.

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Speaker 1: And it happened yesterday on the Tangent off Air on

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Speaker 1: stut podcast, on the iHeart appisodes put a Fred show

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Speaker 1: on demand, like writing in our diaries, except we stayed.

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Speaker 2: Up a loud. We call them blogs, Rufi, Thank you,

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Speaker 2: dear blog.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know what you guys do when like

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Speaker 3: a relationship is over and on social media and you

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Speaker 3: guys are whatever friends on social media, what do you

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Speaker 3: guys do, Like, do you guys just unfollow? Do you

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Speaker 3: guys block? Do you guys like you?

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Speaker 1: You say, if I break up with somebody right right,

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Speaker 1: me as the boyfriend of the person, Well, yeah, well, if.

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Speaker 3: It's like a mutual you know, if it's a mutual ending,

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Speaker 3: and then you're just like, hey, dude, do you tell

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Speaker 3: the person that we're gonna unfollow each other?

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Speaker 2: Do you block them?

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Speaker 1: Maybe a mute? It depends. I guess it depends on

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Speaker 1: the terms of the breakup, all right. If it's a

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Speaker 1: good breakup, maybe you don't do anything.

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Speaker 2: The situation I'm in right now.

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Speaker 3: About a month ago, you know, uh, devastating news happened

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Speaker 3: when Justin Fields was traded from the Bears or Steelers.

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Speaker 3: And I have never on finre followed like a sports

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Speaker 3: athletes when they play for my team, you know what

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Speaker 3: I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: So you're asking about this because you followed an athlete

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Speaker 1: who doesn't play for your team anymore.

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Speaker 3: And it's like a relation because I ipposed to I

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Speaker 3: genuinely loved Justin Fields, like I thought he was going

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Speaker 3: to be the Bears quarterback for the longest time.

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Speaker 2: And this is the alert came. You know, he got

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Speaker 2: traded for pennies.

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Speaker 3: And I want to unfollow him, but I because I

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Speaker 3: don't want to see him, uh you know, well, like

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Speaker 3: at the same time, I need to I need to

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Speaker 3: keep knowing what's going on with him and and and

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Speaker 3: I want to see him succeed, but I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to, you know, because he doesn't play

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Speaker 2: with my team anymore.

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Speaker 7: Exactly.

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Speaker 3: I have never honestly boken it up with a an

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Speaker 3: athlete in Chicago, like I still follow Derrick Rose because

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Speaker 3: I love him, buy it and I look Chris Bryan,

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I actually spoke to Justin Field's former quarterback of the

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Speaker 1: Chicago Bears, and he told me that he would be

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Speaker 1: devastated if if as part of him leaving town, if

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Speaker 1: you were to unfollow him, that would be the ultimate

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Speaker 1: sort of that really would would set the whole thing over.

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Speaker 2: Well, you're forgetting how he told us he was breaking

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Speaker 2: up with us by on following us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he unfollowed this China and he was like I

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Speaker 1: don't want to see football on my timeline.

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Speaker 2: You're lying. You know they broke up with him, they

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Speaker 2: dumped they dumped him.

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Speaker 3: Can you tell him to actually follow me first.

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Speaker 2: To know?

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Speaker 1: It will be very difficult for him to know if

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Speaker 1: you followed him, because he doesn't know already.

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Speaker 3: Never unfollowed an athlete that played for my team, like

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Speaker 3: they created and but I you know, I get so

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Speaker 3: invested in their lives and they play for my team

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Speaker 3: and then they leave, Oh my god, but I want

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Speaker 3: I always want them to succeed, unless they're playing for

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Speaker 3: a rival. I did unfollow Wilson Conjurius because he plays

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Speaker 3: with the Cardinals.

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Speaker 2: Now, okay, but.

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Speaker 1: I thought I was an overthinker this sitting around talking

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Speaker 1: about breaking up with someone who's never met him.

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Speaker 3: And it's also the fact you said, like Justin Fields

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Speaker 3: didn't want to talk about football anymore. But now that's

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Speaker 3: all he's I mean, that's all he's doing now. He

567
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Speaker 3: just posted he just posted the skyline of Pittsburgh. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: I can't see this.

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Speaker 2: He hurts you, Yes, he's out with a new has

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Speaker 2: what I need to see.

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Speaker 1: I think it's affecting you negatively. And I think you

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Speaker 1: need to unfollow or at least mute.

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Speaker 2: At least mute mute, then he can't see what's going.

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Speaker 1: On, right, But I mean at least unfollowing is not

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Speaker 1: unfollowing his final unfollowing is a I mean, not that

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Speaker 1: you can't refollow, but unfollowing is it? That's a yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean you're you're making a statement about what you

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Speaker 1: think about. Some muting is just I can't handle it

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Speaker 1: right now, Okay, but I could grow to handle it again.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's a little less a little less severe.

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Speaker 3: Because I'm gonna end up seeing it like whatever Sports Center,

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Speaker 3: ESPN they're going to post.

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Speaker 1: You're not going to be able to hide from your

584
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Speaker 1: ex boyfriend forever. You know you can't do it. You're

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Speaker 1: going to see him out with other people.

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Speaker 7: I'm standing on this.

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Speaker 10: Sports are so gay.

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Speaker 7: Y'all need to admit it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, each other. I mean the way that he's making it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I just can't break up with them. I can't.

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Speaker 4: The pants, the outfits, the costumes.

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Speaker 2: He's stratasizing over a man he's never met. He's on

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Speaker 2: the phone that one time though, he's not sure if

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Speaker 2: he can look at this man's anymore. You're right. Jason