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Speaker 2: Jenna is on the phone today and she's getting ghosted
Speaker 2: by a dude named Pete. We're gonna help her find
Speaker 2: out why in just a second. But first, Jenna, how
Speaker 2: long has it been since you heard from Pete.
Speaker 3: It's been a week or so, I'd say.
Speaker 4: And how many times have you reached out to him?
Speaker 3: I reached out a few times. I haven't heard anything.
Speaker 3: You know, we had a great first date. We met
Speaker 3: at a sports bar. I met him on Hinge and
Speaker 3: then we found out that we have some mutual friends,
Speaker 3: and you know, they were like, yeah, you guys definitely
Speaker 3: need to hang out.
Speaker 2: So you met him on Hinge and then you found
Speaker 2: out you had mutual friends, and then you told your
Speaker 2: friends and they were like, yeah, you guys would be
Speaker 2: a good fit.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, so tell us about the date.
Speaker 3: So we went to the sports bar. You know, our
Speaker 3: mutual friends both said that were laid back, so we
Speaker 3: both decided to just go to a sports bar and
Speaker 3: get some wings and some beers. And you know, he
Speaker 3: was such a gentleman the whole time. He opened the
Speaker 3: door for me, and he even let out my chair.
Speaker 3: That's never happened before. And I just don't know. He's
Speaker 3: super hot. He's like a ten out of ten a
Speaker 3: gentleman is super good looking. So I'm really into him.
Speaker 3: Great personality. I mean, his mannerisms were a one. You know.
Speaker 3: The thing is I noticed he was using a napkin
Speaker 3: when eating the wings. And the only thing I can
Speaker 3: think about why he goes to me was maybe I
Speaker 3: was like licking my fingers when I was eating my wings.
Speaker 3: That might have grossed him.
Speaker 4: Rather than using anafgan or like washing them.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he was like using a napkin. He was really
Speaker 3: like prim improper. I don't want him to think like
Speaker 3: I'm this gross girl. He's the weird one. In my opinion.
Speaker 6: You're supposed to like your fingers after you eat wings,
Speaker 6: right right.
Speaker 4: Right, I mean, give me some tea.
Speaker 6: They were good.
Speaker 2: That's the only thing you can think of is maybe
Speaker 2: he thought that you were a barbarian because you were
Speaker 2: licking your fingers instead of using a napkin like a
Speaker 2: classy lad.
Speaker 3: That's the only thing I can think about.
Speaker 4: So what was your last interaction?
Speaker 6: Like?
Speaker 3: I texted him to let him know like, what a
Speaker 3: great date, and he just never responded. I mean the
Speaker 3: end of the day, it was great.
Speaker 4: You know, did you like kiss or anything?
Speaker 3: We did. We had a little small It wasn't like,
Speaker 3: you know, tongueing down, but the conversation was really well.
Speaker 3: I mean he talked about his grandparents and how he
Speaker 3: admired their relationship, and we talked about music. We have
Speaker 3: a lot of artist that we like, some of the
Speaker 3: same artists and.
Speaker 4: Music compatibility is really important on a date.
Speaker 3: Right, it was pretty lightly back. I mean what really
Speaker 3: got me is that he was just such a gentleman.
Speaker 5: I've never had that before, okay.
Speaker 3: Never, and he completely ghosted me.
Speaker 5: Okay, well, see if we can figure it out.
Speaker 2: We'll play a song, come back, and then call him
Speaker 2: and then ask him why he's ghosting you see if
Speaker 2: he tells us, and then maybe get you another date
Speaker 2: if you still want one. Okay, okay, all right, Well
Speaker 2: pla us on come back and get your first day
Speaker 2: follow up, Next.
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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up,
Speaker 2: Jenna is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by Pete.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call him and see if we
Speaker 2: can figure out why he's getting ghosted and maybe get
Speaker 2: her another date if she's still into it after she
Speaker 2: hears the reason. Before we do that, though, Jenna, why
Speaker 2: don't you catch everybody up on your time with Pete.
Speaker 3: My time with Pete was incredible. He's an awesome guy.
Speaker 3: He's everything that I'm looking for in a man. He's
Speaker 3: really good looking, and I just don't know what happened.
Speaker 3: I text him and never heard anything back from him.
Speaker 3: We just have so much in common, common friends, common music.
Speaker 4: I mean, he's a napkin user.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that that was the issue. If I
Speaker 3: had to assume I was licking my fingers when I
Speaker 3: was eating my chicken wings, he was using the napkins.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I mean, the only weird thing about that
Speaker 2: would have been if you would have grabbed his napkin
Speaker 2: and then licked the napkin clean as well. I don't
Speaker 2: see that it's a weird thing. All right, We're about
Speaker 2: to call him.
Speaker 3: You ready, Yeah, I'm ready?
Speaker 5: Okay, here we go. I may speak to people.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, hey.
Speaker 5: Pete, how are you? My name is Jewbel hosts a
Speaker 5: radio show and it's called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 6: Yeah, Hi, Pete, the show is here as well. My
Speaker 6: name is Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3: Hi.
Speaker 5: How's it going?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's going.
Speaker 7: Okay, what's what's going on?
Speaker 5: Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 3: No, I've listened to the show.
Speaker 7: And I mean, did I die win something? I mean
Speaker 7: that would be great.
Speaker 2: Maybe you could have won something. I'm not really sure yet. Okay,
Speaker 2: I'm not sure if you've heard a first date follow
Speaker 2: up before. But that's where if you go out on
Speaker 2: a date with somebody and then you get ghosted, you
Speaker 2: can email us to get that person on the phone
Speaker 2: and ask why you're getting ghosted. So you are currently
Speaker 2: ghosting somebody and they want to know why.
Speaker 7: Oh okay, who am I ghosting?
Speaker 4: You don't know who you're ghosting on any dates? And
Speaker 4: just stop talking to somebody recently.
Speaker 7: Oh, you guys are talking about jen Orange you yes?
Speaker 7: So yeah, no, Jenner. I mean, don't get me wrong.
Speaker 7: I had a lot of fun on the date, you know.
Speaker 7: I yeah, I thought we you know, shared a bunch
Speaker 7: of mutual interests and she seemed very engaged in everything.
Speaker 7: But I don't know what happened, but a couple drinks
Speaker 7: in and she starts calling me Steve, and I understand that,
Speaker 7: you know, Pete and Steve kind of sound the same.
Speaker 7: Definitely have you know, certain consonants at play here, So
Speaker 7: I don't know why, and I kind of I was
Speaker 7: trying to like write it off, you know, but yeah, no,
Speaker 7: she she kept calling me Steve, and it was it
Speaker 7: was a turnoff. It kind of it seemed disrespectful. I
Speaker 7: don't know, she has a thing for a guy named
Speaker 7: Steve's still hung up on somebody. I don't know.
Speaker 4: Did you say anything to her when she called you Steve?
Speaker 4: Did you correct her? Did you ask Steve?
Speaker 3: Was At first she was like slurring her words a
Speaker 3: little bit.
Speaker 7: Don't get me wrong, Like I, you know, I can
Speaker 7: hold my own when it comes to alcohol, and I've
Speaker 7: dealt with a couple of lightweights in my day, so
Speaker 7: I didn't think much of it. But then I realized,
Speaker 7: you know, yeah, it wasn't any kind of mistake she was.
Speaker 7: She was definitely saying Steve over and over again. So
Speaker 7: I just it really started to wear on me. I
Speaker 7: didn't want to say anything, and I didn't want to also,
Speaker 7: like cause any kind of scene. I didn't want to
Speaker 7: be disrespectful to her because she was, you know, getting
Speaker 7: more and more intox kid and whatnot. So I just decided.
Speaker 5: To call it there.
Speaker 7: One time, I was trying to get things back on track,
Speaker 7: and I was like telling her a story about, you know,
Speaker 7: trying to throw my name in there. I was like,
Speaker 7: you know, a friend was like, hey, Pete, and I
Speaker 7: was like yeah, and they were like, Pete, can you
Speaker 7: do this for me? You know. I was trying to
Speaker 7: like reiterate, and she wasn't getting the hint. I don't know.
Speaker 7: So that's why I haven't followed up. That's why I
Speaker 7: haven't like returned to any text or anything, just because I
Speaker 7: felt a bit disrespected, a bit dejected, because you know,
Speaker 7: I don't want her mistake you made for some other dude.
Speaker 5: You know. Yeah, all right, well thanks for telling us, Steve.
Speaker 5: Appreciate that, Thank you, thanks for that.
Speaker 7: That's great. Now, your entire listenership, I appreciate that. My
Speaker 7: name is Pete.
Speaker 5: Pete on the record, got you Pete. Well, I guess what.
Speaker 2: On the record, Jenna is actually on the phone too,
Speaker 2: and she's listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5: She's brilliant.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Hi, and Jenna, it's Pete. Hi, Pete. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3: I was super nervous on our date, and I apologize completely.
Speaker 3: Steve is my boss and I'm with ohous all day
Speaker 3: and it's just kind of by default. I don't want
Speaker 3: to say anything because we're on the radio and he
Speaker 3: might be listening in. So great boss, But yeah, I
Speaker 3: work a lot, and I'm I try to do my
Speaker 3: job as best as I can.
Speaker 5: So I'm I'm a.
Speaker 3: Little bit of a workaholics. So please forgive me. I
Speaker 3: know your name is Pete and I just asked for
Speaker 3: a second chance to get it right.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I can't get over this boss thing. Victoria.
Speaker 6: Can you imagine going on a date and call on
Speaker 6: somed double Can you text me to ask me questions?
Speaker 6: I purposely.
Speaker 1: Later.
Speaker 6: I know, Jenna, when you're nervous, things happen. But that's
Speaker 6: so funny.
Speaker 3: I know I would have never imagined that was the reason.
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. How many times did I call you, Steve?
Speaker 7: I mean I lost count after the first eleven.
Speaker 5: Went in on the Steve.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you.
Speaker 4: Probably called them Steve more times than you call them.
Speaker 3: Pete, I admitted.
Speaker 7: Wait, no, I can appreciate, you know, the work ethic
Speaker 7: and everything, and I can appreciate having a hard boss.
Speaker 7: So that is I'm glad it's not next. That's understandable.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not into anybody. I have no one in
Speaker 3: my life. I'm totally interested in seeing where things go
Speaker 3: with you and I. So just to make that clear.
Speaker 5: Pete, would you like to go out with Jenna again
Speaker 5: on another day? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 7: You know that sounds that sounds like a lot of fun.
Speaker 7: I did have fun on the day of Jenna. And
Speaker 7: you know, just as long as there are no other
Speaker 7: names tossed around besides Pete and Jenna that then I'm okay.
Speaker 7: That's fine.
Speaker 2: We'll find a place to send you that involves name tags.
Speaker 2: Just be safe, bring your own.
Speaker 4: My name is.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Please let's go.
Speaker 5: Ju Will's first
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