1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com. 3 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:09,879 Speaker 2: Jenna is on the phone today and she's getting ghosted 4 00:00:09,880 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 2: by a dude named Pete. We're gonna help her find 5 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 2: out why in just a second. But first, Jenna, how 6 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 2: long has it been since you heard from Pete. 7 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 3: It's been a week or so, I'd say. 8 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 4: And how many times have you reached out to him? 9 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 3: I reached out a few times. I haven't heard anything. 10 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 3: You know, we had a great first date. We met 11 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 3: at a sports bar. I met him on Hinge and 12 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 3: then we found out that we have some mutual friends, 13 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 3: and you know, they were like, yeah, you guys definitely 14 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 3: need to hang out. 15 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 2: So you met him on Hinge and then you found 16 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 2: out you had mutual friends, and then you told your 17 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:46,479 Speaker 2: friends and they were like, yeah, you guys would be 18 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:46,880 Speaker 2: a good fit. 19 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, so tell us about the date. 20 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 3: So we went to the sports bar. You know, our 21 00:00:56,520 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 3: mutual friends both said that were laid back, so we 22 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 3: both decided to just go to a sports bar and 23 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 3: get some wings and some beers. And you know, he 24 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 3: was such a gentleman the whole time. He opened the 25 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:17,559 Speaker 3: door for me, and he even let out my chair. 26 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 3: That's never happened before. And I just don't know. He's 27 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 3: super hot. He's like a ten out of ten a 28 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 3: gentleman is super good looking. So I'm really into him. 29 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 3: Great personality. I mean, his mannerisms were a one. You know. 30 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 3: The thing is I noticed he was using a napkin 31 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 3: when eating the wings. And the only thing I can 32 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 3: think about why he goes to me was maybe I 33 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 3: was like licking my fingers when I was eating my wings. 34 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 3: That might have grossed him. 35 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 4: Rather than using anafgan or like washing them. 36 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, he was like using a napkin. He was really 37 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 3: like prim improper. I don't want him to think like 38 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 3: I'm this gross girl. He's the weird one. In my opinion. 39 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 6: You're supposed to like your fingers after you eat wings, 40 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 6: right right. 41 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:13,359 Speaker 4: Right, I mean, give me some tea. 42 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 6: They were good. 43 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 2: That's the only thing you can think of is maybe 44 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 2: he thought that you were a barbarian because you were 45 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,360 Speaker 2: licking your fingers instead of using a napkin like a 46 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 2: classy lad. 47 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 3: That's the only thing I can think about. 48 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 4: So what was your last interaction? 49 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 6: Like? 50 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 3: I texted him to let him know like, what a 51 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 3: great date, and he just never responded. I mean the 52 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 3: end of the day, it was great. 53 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 4: You know, did you like kiss or anything? 54 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:43,920 Speaker 3: We did. We had a little small It wasn't like, 55 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 3: you know, tongueing down, but the conversation was really well. 56 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 3: I mean he talked about his grandparents and how he 57 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 3: admired their relationship, and we talked about music. We have 58 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 3: a lot of artist that we like, some of the 59 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 3: same artists and. 60 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 4: Music compatibility is really important on a date. 61 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 3: Right, it was pretty lightly back. I mean what really 62 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 3: got me is that he was just such a gentleman. 63 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 5: I've never had that before, okay. 64 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 3: Never, and he completely ghosted me. 65 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:22,799 Speaker 5: Okay, well, see if we can figure it out. 66 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 2: We'll play a song, come back, and then call him 67 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 2: and then ask him why he's ghosting you see if 68 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 2: he tells us, and then maybe get you another date 69 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 2: if you still want one. Okay, okay, all right, Well 70 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 2: pla us on come back and get your first day 71 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 2: follow up, Next. 72 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: First date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 73 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com. 74 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up, 75 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 2: Jenna is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by Pete. 76 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 2: So we're about to call him and see if we 77 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 2: can figure out why he's getting ghosted and maybe get 78 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: her another date if she's still into it after she 79 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 2: hears the reason. Before we do that, though, Jenna, why 80 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 2: don't you catch everybody up on your time with Pete. 81 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 3: My time with Pete was incredible. He's an awesome guy. 82 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 3: He's everything that I'm looking for in a man. He's 83 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 3: really good looking, and I just don't know what happened. 84 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 3: I text him and never heard anything back from him. 85 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 3: We just have so much in common, common friends, common music. 86 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 4: I mean, he's a napkin user. 87 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that that was the issue. If I 88 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 3: had to assume I was licking my fingers when I 89 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 3: was eating my chicken wings, he was using the napkins. 90 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 2: So yeah, I mean, the only weird thing about that 91 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 2: would have been if you would have grabbed his napkin 92 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 2: and then licked the napkin clean as well. I don't 93 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 2: see that it's a weird thing. All right, We're about 94 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 2: to call him. 95 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,360 Speaker 3: You ready, Yeah, I'm ready? 96 00:04:46,600 --> 00:05:00,080 Speaker 5: Okay, here we go. I may speak to people. 97 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:03,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, hey. 98 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,360 Speaker 5: Pete, how are you? My name is Jewbel hosts a 99 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 5: radio show and it's called The Jewbel Show. 100 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, Hi, Pete, the show is here as well. My 101 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 6: name is Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria. 102 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 3: Hi. 103 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 5: How's it going? 104 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:15,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's going. 105 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 7: Okay, what's what's going on? 106 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 5: Have you ever listened to the show before? 107 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:19,839 Speaker 7: Yeah? 108 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 3: No, I've listened to the show. 109 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 7: And I mean, did I die win something? I mean 110 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 7: that would be great. 111 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 2: Maybe you could have won something. I'm not really sure yet. Okay, 112 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 2: I'm not sure if you've heard a first date follow 113 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 2: up before. But that's where if you go out on 114 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 2: a date with somebody and then you get ghosted, you 115 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 2: can email us to get that person on the phone 116 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 2: and ask why you're getting ghosted. So you are currently 117 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 2: ghosting somebody and they want to know why. 118 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 7: Oh okay, who am I ghosting? 119 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 4: You don't know who you're ghosting on any dates? And 120 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 4: just stop talking to somebody recently. 121 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:57,839 Speaker 7: Oh, you guys are talking about jen Orange you yes? 122 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 7: So yeah, no, Jenner. I mean, don't get me wrong. 123 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 7: I had a lot of fun on the date, you know. 124 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 7: I yeah, I thought we you know, shared a bunch 125 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 7: of mutual interests and she seemed very engaged in everything. 126 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 7: But I don't know what happened, but a couple drinks 127 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 7: in and she starts calling me Steve, and I understand that, 128 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 7: you know, Pete and Steve kind of sound the same. 129 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 7: Definitely have you know, certain consonants at play here, So 130 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 7: I don't know why, and I kind of I was 131 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 7: trying to like write it off, you know, but yeah, no, 132 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 7: she she kept calling me Steve, and it was it 133 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 7: was a turnoff. It kind of it seemed disrespectful. I 134 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 7: don't know, she has a thing for a guy named 135 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:51,279 Speaker 7: Steve's still hung up on somebody. I don't know. 136 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:53,480 Speaker 4: Did you say anything to her when she called you Steve? 137 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 4: Did you correct her? Did you ask Steve? 138 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 3: Was At first she was like slurring her words a 139 00:06:59,600 --> 00:06:59,920 Speaker 3: little bit. 140 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 7: Don't get me wrong, Like I, you know, I can 141 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 7: hold my own when it comes to alcohol, and I've 142 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 7: dealt with a couple of lightweights in my day, so 143 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 7: I didn't think much of it. But then I realized, 144 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 7: you know, yeah, it wasn't any kind of mistake she was. 145 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 7: She was definitely saying Steve over and over again. So 146 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 7: I just it really started to wear on me. I 147 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 7: didn't want to say anything, and I didn't want to also, 148 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 7: like cause any kind of scene. I didn't want to 149 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 7: be disrespectful to her because she was, you know, getting 150 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 7: more and more intox kid and whatnot. So I just decided. 151 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 5: To call it there. 152 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 7: One time, I was trying to get things back on track, 153 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 7: and I was like telling her a story about, you know, 154 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 7: trying to throw my name in there. I was like, 155 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 7: you know, a friend was like, hey, Pete, and I 156 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 7: was like yeah, and they were like, Pete, can you 157 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 7: do this for me? You know. I was trying to 158 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 7: like reiterate, and she wasn't getting the hint. I don't know. 159 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 7: So that's why I haven't followed up. That's why I 160 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 7: haven't like returned to any text or anything, just because I 161 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 7: felt a bit disrespected, a bit dejected, because you know, 162 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 7: I don't want her mistake you made for some other dude. 163 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 5: You know. Yeah, all right, well thanks for telling us, Steve. 164 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 5: Appreciate that, Thank you, thanks for that. 165 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 7: That's great. Now, your entire listenership, I appreciate that. My 166 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 7: name is Pete. 167 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 5: Pete on the record, got you Pete. Well, I guess what. 168 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 2: On the record, Jenna is actually on the phone too, 169 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 2: and she's listening and wants to talk to you. 170 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 5: She's brilliant. 171 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, Hi, and Jenna, it's Pete. Hi, Pete. I'm so sorry. 172 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 3: I was super nervous on our date, and I apologize completely. 173 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 3: Steve is my boss and I'm with ohous all day 174 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 3: and it's just kind of by default. I don't want 175 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 3: to say anything because we're on the radio and he 176 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:52,199 Speaker 3: might be listening in. So great boss, But yeah, I 177 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 3: work a lot, and I'm I try to do my 178 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 3: job as best as I can. 179 00:08:58,000 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 5: So I'm I'm a. 180 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 3: Little bit of a workaholics. So please forgive me. I 181 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 3: know your name is Pete and I just asked for 182 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 3: a second chance to get it right. 183 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I can't get over this boss thing. Victoria. 184 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 6: Can you imagine going on a date and call on 185 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 6: somed double Can you text me to ask me questions? 186 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:18,440 Speaker 6: I purposely. 187 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 1: Later. 188 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 6: I know, Jenna, when you're nervous, things happen. But that's 189 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 6: so funny. 190 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 3: I know I would have never imagined that was the reason. 191 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. How many times did I call you, Steve? 192 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 7: I mean I lost count after the first eleven. 193 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 5: Went in on the Steve. 194 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 3: Oh my god, you. 195 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 4: Probably called them Steve more times than you call them. 196 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:46,440 Speaker 3: Pete, I admitted. 197 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 7: Wait, no, I can appreciate, you know, the work ethic 198 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 7: and everything, and I can appreciate having a hard boss. 199 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 7: So that is I'm glad it's not next. That's understandable. 200 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not into anybody. I have no one in 201 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 3: my life. I'm totally interested in seeing where things go 202 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:10,479 Speaker 3: with you and I. So just to make that clear. 203 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 5: Pete, would you like to go out with Jenna again 204 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 5: on another day? We'll pay for it. 205 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 7: You know that sounds that sounds like a lot of fun. 206 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 7: I did have fun on the day of Jenna. And 207 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 7: you know, just as long as there are no other 208 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:26,439 Speaker 7: names tossed around besides Pete and Jenna that then I'm okay. 209 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 7: That's fine. 210 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 2: We'll find a place to send you that involves name tags. 211 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 2: Just be safe, bring your own. 212 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 4: My name is. 213 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 7: Yeah. 214 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 3: Please let's go. 215 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 5: Ju Will's first 216 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 1: Day follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorney Online 217 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 1: at Advocateslaw dot com.