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Speaker 1: a lot of crazy dates for our second date updates.
Speaker 1: People have done a lot of really weird things. But
Speaker 1: I don't think anybody can top with the dude on
Speaker 1: the phone for a second date update today. Did on
Speaker 1: his first date really check this out? He went to
Speaker 1: the movies. Oh, I think it's gonna get done. I'm
Speaker 1: not done yet. Okay, there's a twist before the movies
Speaker 1: dinner crazy man, Sean, where do you come up with
Speaker 1: this stuff? I mean, I wish I could think of
Speaker 1: date ideas like that. Man. Look, I listened to your show.
Speaker 1: I've heard some crazy first date ideas. Yeah, and they
Speaker 1: never work, like ever. Yes, so I wanted to do
Speaker 1: the most normal possible thing that I could think of. Well, then,
Speaker 1: why did you do dinner in a movie that's like
Speaker 1: so weird? Yeah? No, man, call me crazy. I just
Speaker 1: decided to go for it that night. You are a
Speaker 1: wild card, Sean. What's funny about that is you're making
Speaker 1: fun of like crazy date ideas not working, but you
Speaker 1: did something normal and you're on the phone with us. No,
Speaker 1: of course I know, of course that's what happened. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I can't do anything normal or like have anything
Speaker 1: go the way it's supposed to go. Of course I
Speaker 1: probably shouldn't known that. All right, let's tell us about
Speaker 1: the girl you want to call today. What's her name, Julia?
Speaker 1: It's her name Julia? And how did you meet Julia?
Speaker 1: We have a mutual friend who had a party at
Speaker 1: their place one night, got to talk in got her number,
Speaker 1: and then I texted her was like, do you want
Speaker 1: to go out grab dinner? You know, see movie something?
Speaker 1: And she was like yeah, so that's what we did
Speaker 1: like a week later. You're right, Jul, this does sound crazy,
Speaker 1: I know, right, I mean, the most normally I ever. Dude,
Speaker 1: where'd you find a girl that will see a movie
Speaker 1: on a date? I know, it was amazing. I was like,
Speaker 1: I can't imagine that anybody there was gonna go for it.
Speaker 1: I'm actually even more shocked that where'd you find a
Speaker 1: girl that you could meet in person? Because I didn't
Speaker 1: know people still did that. Yeah, and I'm usually not
Speaker 1: very good at like talking to somebody in person that
Speaker 1: I don't really know, but like we hit it off
Speaker 1: right away. That's also like I'm a big sports fan,
Speaker 1: and like she loved hockey, and so we were able
Speaker 1: to talk about sports. So I knew, like, Okay, this
Speaker 1: is somebody that I could like connect with and like
Speaker 1: I could really see it going somewhere. So she shared
Speaker 1: your love of sweaty dudes as well, totally, So both
Speaker 1: of you guys sat there and talked about sweaty dudes
Speaker 1: for a little while, and you're like, let's go out.
Speaker 1: How did the date go? You know, the day went fine.
Speaker 1: We got to the theater and we like talked a
Speaker 1: little bit. Some kind of weird thing happened in the
Speaker 1: lobby that like I thought was funny at the time,
Speaker 1: but like I don't know now after some time she
Speaker 1: hadn't gotten Backman, I thought maybe this might be like weird. Okay, wait,
Speaker 1: hold on real quick before you get into what happened though,
Speaker 1: was weird? You guys didn't do dinner before you just
Speaker 1: met at the theater. We we actually we met at
Speaker 1: the theater. We went at dinner at a place I
Speaker 1: was like right by there. Okay, everything was going really well,
Speaker 1: Like we we got along really well. We have a
Speaker 1: lot of the same things in common, so that was
Speaker 1: all really good. And then we went to the theater
Speaker 1: like right afterwards, okay, and that's where the weird thing happened. Yes,
Speaker 1: So we were in the lobby and I was going
Speaker 1: to go to concessions and grab us like popcorn and
Speaker 1: stuff like that, and so I was looking at her
Speaker 1: and we were talking and I wasn't paying attention, and
Speaker 1: I walked right into this little girl who was standing
Speaker 1: there with like a big, like one of those gigantic
Speaker 1: things of popcorn in her arms, and like knocked this
Speaker 1: girl over and the popcorn went everywhere, which makes it
Speaker 1: look way more dramatic than it probably even was totally
Speaker 1: because she's like this tiny little girl with this giant
Speaker 1: popcorn and I'm like this big dude, and so like
Speaker 1: she goes flying to the floor. Oh my god, popcorn everywhere,
Speaker 1: And like it took me a second even figure out
Speaker 1: like what actually happened. Like I, you know, I was
Speaker 1: paying attention to Julia was telling me a story. Worry,
Speaker 1: so I froze and then just like I like burst
Speaker 1: out laughing, like I couldn't, Like it was horrible this
Speaker 1: little girls like laying there but like it was so
Speaker 1: like shocking, but my instant reaction was to laugh, which
Speaker 1: is horrible, and like I felt really bad afterward. Yeah
Speaker 1: maybe if you would have stopped and like helped the
Speaker 1: kid up instead of just standing there over her and laughing. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I didn't even have like a chance to like by
Speaker 1: the time like I figured out what happened, like her
Speaker 1: mom came over and she started yelling at me, so
Speaker 1: like this mom is all in my face and like
Speaker 1: she's pissed, and I was like I was apologizing, but
Speaker 1: like I still couldn't kind of stop laughing. Little was
Speaker 1: a little girl crying as well. Oh yeah, no, she
Speaker 1: fell and like instantly started crying like it was like
Speaker 1: it was horrible. Did you ever get to apologize to
Speaker 1: her mom? And yet totally yeah, you know, I was
Speaker 1: like I'm so sorry. It was an accident. I you know,
Speaker 1: I tried to help her up, she didn't want me
Speaker 1: to touch her, and I eventually like I went to concessions,
Speaker 1: and I bought a new popcorn for her, and you
Speaker 1: grabbed it and he poured it out in front of
Speaker 1: her and just laughed at her some more. No, no,
Speaker 1: then I was done laughing. At that point, I got
Speaker 1: out the new popcorn. You know, I said I was
Speaker 1: sorry a million times, and then you know, we went
Speaker 1: into the movie. The movie pretty much started like right
Speaker 1: when we got in there, so we really didn't like
Speaker 1: talk after that. Okay, And were you the only one laughing?
Speaker 1: Or was Julia laughing with you? She was not laughing.
Speaker 1: How did the date end afterward? Like? We came in
Speaker 1: separate cars, so she went off in her car, and
Speaker 1: then I went home. And I've tried her I think
Speaker 1: two times since then and left her message and I
Speaker 1: just never heard anything back from her. And you think
Speaker 1: it's got to be the fact that you assaulted a child.
Speaker 1: Probably not. Let's not hold on, let's not say I'm
Speaker 1: the radio assaulted a child and I assaulted a child
Speaker 1: for accuracy. I think it was the laughter of assaulting
Speaker 1: the child. That really, who knows. I don't know. Well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call it and get
Speaker 1: your second date update and see if it was the
Speaker 1: fact that you beat up a kid on your foot.
Speaker 1: All right, we'll do it next. Hang on rooking Jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning. Second, if you're just tuning in to
Speaker 1: today's second date update, you know, normally this is the
Speaker 1: time where I do a big intro and embellish the
Speaker 1: story about what happened on the first date, maybe make
Speaker 1: a few jokes. Well, this one doesn't even need it.
Speaker 1: I'll just recap what happened. Sean took a girl out
Speaker 1: to the movies, and then he ended up knocking over
Speaker 1: a little girl, spilling her popcorn, and then laughing in
Speaker 1: her face, and now he's wondering why he's not getting
Speaker 1: a call back. You don't feel too good about that recap,
Speaker 1: do you. Sean doesn't sound good when you say no,
Speaker 1: I mean, to your defense, you did apologize profusely by
Speaker 1: the little girl new popcorn. I mean, if this really
Speaker 1: is the reason that this girl isn't calling you back,
Speaker 1: do you want to go out with her again? Yeah,
Speaker 1: of course I want to go out with her again.
Speaker 1: She was hot, like I totally want to. All right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna dollar phone of her right now. See if
Speaker 1: we can get her on the phone and find out
Speaker 1: what happened. Okay, all right, Hello, Hi, can I speak
Speaker 1: to Julia please? This is Julia. Hey, what's up, Julia?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm sorry, what who Jewbil from Brook
Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: how's it going? Hi? Any idea why a radio show
Speaker 1: would be calling you? Not really? What do you think
Speaker 1: of the Bahamas? Wait? Like a trip to the Bahamas? No,
Speaker 1: I was just asking your opinion on the Bahamas. I'm
Speaker 1: calling you because you actually went out on a date
Speaker 1: with one of our listeners and they emailed us to
Speaker 1: get a hold of you. Wait, but what about Bahamas again? Oh?
Speaker 1: I was thinking a book in a vacation coming up.
Speaker 1: I was just asking your opinion if you'd ever been.
Speaker 1: But let's let's get to that later. We do a
Speaker 1: segment on our show called the Second Date Update. That's
Speaker 1: where if you go out on a date with somebody
Speaker 1: and then end up not calling them back after they
Speaker 1: email us to see if we can get you on
Speaker 1: the phone and find out what happened. And you recently
Speaker 1: went out with a dude named Sean. Oh yeah, yeah, Sean. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and Sean emailed us because he says he took you
Speaker 1: out to dinner in a movie and he thought everything
Speaker 1: was great, but now you're not returning any of his
Speaker 1: phone calls or text messages. Yeah, I mean, did he
Speaker 1: like tell you guys what happened on the date or
Speaker 1: it was it was like kind of embarrassing. Do you
Speaker 1: mean when he punched the kid, punch the kid, when
Speaker 1: he knocked the little girl over, and the popcorn and
Speaker 1: win everywhere? He told us that part. Yeah, that was
Speaker 1: pretty bad. Everyone was daring. We were sort of the
Speaker 1: center of attention in the lobby. He also said that
Speaker 1: his first reaction was to laugh, so it looked like
Speaker 1: he was laughing at this little girl. Yeah, he was
Speaker 1: laughing hysterically. He wasn't get it together, and the mom
Speaker 1: was like angry and screaming at him. It was not good.
Speaker 1: Did you think he was a bad person for laughing?
Speaker 1: I like, not a bad person. That's a bit extreme,
Speaker 1: but it definitely was not the right reaction. He's like
Speaker 1: laughing in the face of this crying six year old
Speaker 1: and I'm looking at him like, are you serious. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can see how that would be a little unsettling. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I kind of put a damper on on the
Speaker 1: whole thing because we were having like a really good
Speaker 1: conversation right before that happened. I could see that. So
Speaker 1: is that it? Then? Is that why you don't want
Speaker 1: to call him back? No? No, that's like not all
Speaker 1: that happened. Did he like talk to you at all
Speaker 1: about like once we went into the movie. There's something
Speaker 1: worse than him laughing at an injured six year old
Speaker 1: to me? Yeah, what yeah, what's worse than that? No, No,
Speaker 1: he's just throwing elbows at everybody in the theater. No,
Speaker 1: he didn't do anything to anybody else. Um, but he
Speaker 1: did something that for me, I thought was ay more inappropriate.
Speaker 1: When we got into the movie theater, the movie started,
Speaker 1: like lights were down, everyone was quiet because they were
Speaker 1: watching the movie, and he like kept talking about what
Speaker 1: happened with the little girl, like he wouldn't let it go.
Speaker 1: Oh he was talking to you. Yeah, he was like
Speaker 1: leaning over to me during the movie, being like her
Speaker 1: mom should have been watching her? Why was she like
Speaker 1: even in my way, and like blaming the little girl
Speaker 1: for it. I wouldn't have had the kneear in the
Speaker 1: forehead if she wasn't like standing in front of my knee.
Speaker 1: Yeah no, really though, he was completely blaming her and
Speaker 1: then was saying that I was distracting him with like
Speaker 1: a story I was telling right before. He said that,
Speaker 1: like I distracted him from the little girl and like
Speaker 1: it was partially my fault. Oh wow, what did and
Speaker 1: what did you say to that? I mean I wanted
Speaker 1: him to just be quiet? So I was just like, mm, yeah,
Speaker 1: I thought, and I wasn't sure if he was like joking,
Speaker 1: but if he was joking, like I did not think
Speaker 1: it was funny. Yeah. Well, he obviously has a weird
Speaker 1: sense of humor with the whole laughter to begin with.
Speaker 1: So I don't know, maybe benefit of the doubt, he
Speaker 1: was being sarcastic. Maybe he was trying to make a
Speaker 1: joke like light in the mood and was embarrassed. I
Speaker 1: don't know, but I mean he was blaming everybody else
Speaker 1: for it. Wow. Okay, So you just thought, basically he's
Speaker 1: a jerk and you don't want to see him again. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It was just a turn off that he wouldn't like
Speaker 1: take responsibility for what he did, and I don't Julia,
Speaker 1: that's interesting. Hello, Sorry, what's going on. Oh, Julia, I
Speaker 1: forgot to tell you Sean is actually on the other
Speaker 1: line listening to this conversation. He wants to talk serious. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: he is serious. I'm right here, Okay. I mean you
Speaker 1: get that that's like obnoxious behavior. Right. Well, first of all,
Speaker 1: when we got in there, like we were totally having
Speaker 1: a great conversation, and then after that happened and like
Speaker 1: I did all those like nice things to these people
Speaker 1: who like shouldn't have been screaming at me in the lobby,
Speaker 1: like you totally like we're giving me the cold shoulder
Speaker 1: and like not talking to me. So I was like
Speaker 1: trying to tell you that like it was to you
Speaker 1: because we were in a movie. I wasn't before the
Speaker 1: movie and started yet like before like during like the
Speaker 1: preview and stuff like that, Like you totally to stop
Speaker 1: talking to me. Yeah, usually people stopped talking at the
Speaker 1: beginning of a movie show. Well, look at the point
Speaker 1: is like I think she thought of that. I I was
Speaker 1: like this horrible person for doing this, and like I
Speaker 1: wanted her to know, Like first of all, this little
Speaker 1: girl's just standing there in the middle of the lobby,
Speaker 1: like where is this mom? Like she came out of
Speaker 1: nowhere and started yelling me. But like your kid, that's
Speaker 1: like you like hear how you're coming off right now?
Speaker 1: You were there, I mean you were there right you
Speaker 1: saw that she was nowhere to be seen, like she
Speaker 1: just let her running. God, she's not like to blame
Speaker 1: for you running into her. I mean, what was I
Speaker 1: supposed to do, like go over to her and be like, hey,
Speaker 1: little girl, you were in the way, Can you just
Speaker 1: like get up and move? No? But I thought, maybe,
Speaker 1: like when the mom just started screaming in my face,
Speaker 1: maybe you would like come to my defense, considering I
Speaker 1: was talking to you and looking at you when it happened.
Speaker 1: So that was Julia's fault that she didn't defend you
Speaker 1: against an angry mother as well. You just stood there
Speaker 1: responsibility for anything? Yeah, what are you doing, juliash See?
Speaker 1: That is exactly what I'm talking about, no responsibility, blaming
Speaker 1: everyone else for the whole thing. It literally wasn't my fault.
Speaker 1: Like I was looking at you and the little girl
Speaker 1: was in my way. There was nothing about that that
Speaker 1: was my fault making that happen. Julia. I think he
Speaker 1: sounds like real relationship material and that getting into arguments
Speaker 1: with him down the road is going to be just
Speaker 1: real fun. This is exactly why I wasn't responding to
Speaker 1: his text for this. I can see, I get it, Okay,
Speaker 1: I am coming across as a bad guy here, and
Speaker 1: I am not the bad guy in this. Like if
Speaker 1: I could like diagram this out for you, like the
Speaker 1: way that we were walking, in the way that Julia
Speaker 1: was facing, she could see the kid in front of me,
Speaker 1: like she watched her walk right into her. She had
Speaker 1: a good three seconds, Julia, it was gonna happen. Do you, monster, Julia?
Speaker 1: How could you just watch that kid about to get
Speaker 1: wrecked by Sean in the movie theater? Oh, I cannot
Speaker 1: believe what you're saying Right now, he's ready to you
Speaker 1: like a detective. Now it's ready to suit diagrams of
Speaker 1: what happened. Sean, just apologize and leave it at that.
Speaker 1: I don't get why you can't do that. Okay, fine,
Speaker 1: I will apologize. I apologize that Julia didn't see this
Speaker 1: person and tell me that she was coming and then
Speaker 1: make me look like this crazy monstery like calls it
Speaker 1: a kid. Awesome. On that note, I think I need
Speaker 1: to ask you guys if you'll go out again on
Speaker 1: a second date. Julia, would you like to go out
Speaker 1: with Sean again one more time? We'll pay for it. No, no, thanks,
Speaker 1: not even if you pay for it, or she would
Speaker 1: say that, yeah, I'm sorry man, no second date for you.
Speaker 1: All right? Well, you know what, at least we know
Speaker 1: who's to blame, and it's not me, it's Julia. If
Speaker 1: you can't see the big picture, yeah, with it, damn it.
Speaker 1: In the morning Sex at seven eight, five to nine
Speaker 1: to two says that six year old girl was such
Speaker 1: a jerk, I know, ruined everything. Yeah, those kids talking
Speaker 1: about today's second date update if you missed it. Sean
Speaker 1: wanted to call Julia, and Sean said they were out
Speaker 1: on a date. They went to the movies, kind of
Speaker 1: a normal date. The weird thing that happened, though, was
Speaker 1: while he was talking to her, he ran into a
Speaker 1: little kid at the theater and she spilled her popcorn
Speaker 1: and started crying and stuff. And then his first reaction
Speaker 1: was to laugh because he was nervous, and I guess
Speaker 1: that's what you do. And he thought that might have
Speaker 1: made the date go bad, and it kind of did.
Speaker 1: That wasn't the main part, though. After that, he started
Speaker 1: blaming the kid for it, for being in his way,
Speaker 1: and saying that the mom should have been paying attention
Speaker 1: to the kid, and just kind of blaming everything on
Speaker 1: everybody else. He even got to a point in the
Speaker 1: second date update where he blamed Julia, his date, for
Speaker 1: not warning him that the kid was in was in
Speaker 1: the line of walking. Yeah, somebody else texted in at
Speaker 1: seven eighty five nine tunes and he sounds like the
Speaker 1: kind of guy that gets caught cheating. And it's like,
Speaker 1: it's not my fault, Like she hit me up on
Speaker 1: Instagram and then I responded to her, and then I
Speaker 1: set up a meeting and she took her clothes off.
Speaker 1: What do you want me to do? It's your fault,
Speaker 1: you haven't been paying attention. Yeah, seriously, if you would
Speaker 1: like more of my photos, so maybe we wouldn't have
Speaker 1: this problem. So they agreed not to go out again,
Speaker 1: and he's probably blaming her for that. Remember you want
Speaker 1: to do a second a update. I have to do
Speaker 1: his email the show and we will call the person
Speaker 1: that didn't call you back.