WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Threesome 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:04.920 From Hollywood. See you, Thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.560 --> 0:00:12.280 Ryan Air with Ryan Seacrest. It's Monday, November one, mark 0:00:12.400 --> 0:00:15.600 my words. In a month, it's almost Christmas. In a month, 0:00:15.640 --> 0:00:18.400 you got Hanaka. In a month. In a week or so, 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:21.280 you got a new year. This is when it begins 0:00:21.320 --> 0:00:26.040 to go very fast. Stay here. In the words of 0:00:26.040 --> 0:00:30.200 a famous athlete, try athlete, iron man winner, stay here, 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:35.120 stay in and stay present. Very hard to do. How 0:00:35.159 --> 0:00:38.199 are you, guys? How was your weekend? Sissan E. My 0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:44.680 weekend was jam packed but very fun. I saw Lizzo 0:00:44.800 --> 0:00:49.279 Friday night. I took the kids miniature golfing on Saturday, 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:52.280 and we did Sunday night football for the Chargers Chiefs 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:56.240 game last night. Tailgated before it all day. So I 0:00:56.320 --> 0:00:59.680 am dragon my feet, but I'm exhausted but happy. And 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:03.080 it was sometimes I thought about texting both of you 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:04.880 to say, hey, what's up? Are you guys up to? 0:01:04.920 --> 0:01:07.240 What are you doing? What would you have said to 0:01:07.240 --> 0:01:08.840 that text on you? I would have been like, oh 0:01:08.880 --> 0:01:13.360 my gosh, good, yeah, what did you and Robbie do? 0:01:13.840 --> 0:01:16.200 That would give me fama. I'm looking sometimes I look 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:18.440 for fama like I want fama for my friends, or 0:01:18.480 --> 0:01:20.560 my family or you guys fomo me. We did a 0:01:20.560 --> 0:01:25.720 little holiday decorating this weekend. So do you put up 0:01:25.920 --> 0:01:28.400 the lights? Do you put up the wreaths? You have 0:01:28.440 --> 0:01:31.480 some pine cones? Are they all plastic? Do you have 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:33.880 a cent? Do you have a nutcracker? Like a little 0:01:33.880 --> 0:01:35.440 soldier that you can put a nut in its mouth 0:01:35.440 --> 0:01:40.280 and it cracks? Who has that? I have that? I 0:01:40.280 --> 0:01:42.800 have two of those those old wood soldiers and you 0:01:42.840 --> 0:01:45.320 put you put a walnut in there and chopped down 0:01:45.319 --> 0:01:48.480 and cracked that walnut open. That signifies at the beginning 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:50.800 of the holiday. No, I don't have a nutcracker, but 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:52.640 I'm gonna get one, and I have two of them. 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:55.240 I put them right in front of the fireplace. Mmm. 0:01:55.480 --> 0:01:57.160 I love it. So it's gonna go fast, Get ready 0:01:57.160 --> 0:01:59.080 for it. This is the week. Thanksgiving is coming up 0:01:59.120 --> 0:02:02.160 on Thursday. Now, this morning, we have a Ryan's roses 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:07.560 married tosome, voluntarily became a threesome, and now the wife 0:02:07.600 --> 0:02:12.760 is afraid it's become twosome again without her. Could that 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:16.080 be any more intense? I mean she opened the door. 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:19.040 We're gonna kick off the week here. It's a festive week. 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:20.839 It's an exciting week. Hopefully get a chance to spend 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:24.600 our friends and family Thanksgiving coming up on Thursday. And 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:27.160 I understand the horoscopes are a little different today, tell 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:30.800 me syceany Yeah, these horoscopes are gonna be based on 0:02:30.840 --> 0:02:34.359 the day that you will be the happiest this holiday season. Okay, 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:36.920 And as you listen to these between Cistey and Tanya, 0:02:37.120 --> 0:02:39.320 Tanya's clearly typed up the sheet because it's all in 0:02:39.400 --> 0:02:43.400 caps again possible to read. So I will go a 0:02:43.440 --> 0:02:46.120 little bit slower, I will probably mess up, and um, 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:49.080 here we go. This is the day you will be 0:02:49.080 --> 0:02:53.520 happiest this season. Yes, so, Aries December twenty, Jupiter will 0:02:53.680 --> 0:02:59.240 enter Aries, adding pep intoer step to pursue new dreams, dreams, 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:03.360 new dreams. Any w oh, I could see how that 0:03:03.400 --> 0:03:09.040 could be. Taurus December two, you will get some much 0:03:09.080 --> 0:03:12.880 needed R and R. Gemini December one, commitment is going 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:16.639 to look inviting during peak cuffing season. Any relationship will 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:21.000 prove its long lasting cancer yours is coming up November 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:24.880 on Thanksgiving. You'll channel your inner social butterfly just in 0:03:24.960 --> 0:03:27.880 time for holiday gathering. It's nice to you wrote that 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:33.079 one for yourself. Leo is December one. This time will 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:35.960 encourage you to take a serious and practical approach to 0:03:36.120 --> 0:03:41.520 relationships you want to last. Virgo December You'll have a 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:45.280 heightened sense to see things hidden in plain sight. Follow 0:03:45.320 --> 0:03:49.720 your intuition. Libra is December eighteen. You'll find yourself feeling 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:55.000 more open minded, caring, empathetic and welcoming. Scorpio December two 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:57.520 is your day. A sudden burst of energy gets you 0:03:58.120 --> 0:04:00.600 to try something new and as certain yourself in a 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:04.520 new way. Sagittarius is also Thanksgiving. You're about to enter 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:10.760 into main character energy. Capricorn December six. That's your day. 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:13.280 You'll have a boost of clarity to check everything off 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:16.160 your to do list before vacation. I don't think so 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:19.760 it's a Tuesday. Go ahead, Oh my god. Aquarius is November. 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:24.000 Follow your ideas through because right now they have major potential. 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:28.720 Pisces December three. You will be immersed in a comforting feeling, 0:04:28.839 --> 0:04:34.120 almost as if you're coming home. That's it. I don't know, 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:36.040 because you don't start with the first of the year. 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:38.200 I always start with aries and we always end with Pisces. 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:42.279 No one looks the calendar like that, but that's the 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:49.040 zodiac this morning. This is valuable. If you travel for work, 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:52.640 you check into hotels and other places. Not fun to 0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:55.920 talk about, but I've experienced bed Bucks. So you're looking 0:04:55.920 --> 0:05:00.760 at a bed bug survivor. Wow, yep I And the 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:03.400 more you know, does it give you a rash? It 0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:07.080 just gives you. I can give you a bite, I 0:05:07.120 --> 0:05:11.680 can give you anxiety. It can give you uh corsal kick. 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:14.680 I can give you a lot of things. But now 0:05:14.720 --> 0:05:17.320 anytime I fill an h mentiform bed I start thinking, 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:19.600 oh my gosh, bed Bucks. So what are you supposed 0:05:19.640 --> 0:05:23.000 to do? Listen to this, remember it, don't skip this. 0:05:24.080 --> 0:05:26.960 When you get into a bed you don't know it'll 0:05:27.000 --> 0:05:29.279 be a hotel. I hate to say family members this 0:05:29.320 --> 0:05:32.920 holiday season, but what you should do is turn off 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:37.839 all the lights. Turn off off all the lights. Wait 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:43.160 a couple of beats. Then lift the sheets and mattress 0:05:43.279 --> 0:05:47.640 cover off the corners of the mattress. Take your phone, 0:05:48.279 --> 0:05:51.120 use your phone light to check the little creases around 0:05:51.279 --> 0:05:54.800 the mattress and see if they're under there. That's where 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:58.080 they like to hang out until you Because lights are off. 0:05:58.360 --> 0:06:01.240 Though I think you're going to slip ape, you're gonna 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:08.719 catch them I don't like this hack. What would you 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:18.120 rather not know that they're there? Yeah, ignorance is look 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:21.000 look for you want to look for tiny red spots. 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:24.880 That's a bad sign. I'm just telling you, guys, red 0:06:24.960 --> 0:06:30.000 they're red. That's a bad sign. I cannot why do 0:06:30.080 --> 0:06:35.200 they exist? Their excrement is read between that and like 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:39.680 the eggs on your bananas, like I can't. But you 0:06:39.720 --> 0:06:42.400 wouldn't know all this it weren't for this informative show, right, No, 0:06:42.480 --> 0:06:45.400 I don't. I washed my bananas now every time. Oh guys, 0:06:45.600 --> 0:06:48.640 today's quote be the person who breaks the cycle. If 0:06:48.680 --> 0:06:53.560 you were judged, choose understanding. If you weren't rejected, choose acceptance. 0:06:53.680 --> 0:06:58.800 If you were shamed, choose compassion. This FM headlines we 0:06:58.839 --> 0:07:01.920 want a gun man five people and injured at least 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:05.200 twenty five others at an l g pt Q nightclub 0:07:05.320 --> 0:07:08.800 late Saturday in Colorado Springs. Authorities took the twenty two 0:07:08.880 --> 0:07:11.840 year old suspect into custody shortly after arriving on site 0:07:11.880 --> 0:07:15.320 and are still investigating the gunmen's motive. Long Beach residents 0:07:15.320 --> 0:07:18.840 have until January seventeen to apply for Long Beach Pledge. 0:07:19.240 --> 0:07:22.920 The cities Guaranteed Income Pilot program designed to provide five 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:26.640 hundred dollars a month for twelve months to two hundred 0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:31.680 and fifty qualifying families with children. Applications will be accepted 0:07:31.680 --> 0:07:35.760 for single income earner household at or below a hundred 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:40.080 percent of the federal poverty level in the nine zero 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:44.320 eight one three zip code. Harry Styles and Olivia Wilde 0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:47.760 are taking a break from their relationship after dating for 0:07:47.840 --> 0:07:52.440 almost two years. According to people, Harry is still touring, obviously, 0:07:52.440 --> 0:07:55.160 he's going to go abroad now. Olivia is focusing on 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:58.160 her kids and her work here in Los Angeles. The 0:07:58.200 --> 0:08:01.920 two are still repoortedly who very close and very friends, 0:08:02.000 --> 0:08:04.400 very good friends, but they have different priorities that are 0:08:04.400 --> 0:08:07.720 gonna be keeping them apart. And Sir Elton John played 0:08:07.760 --> 0:08:12.200 Dodger Stadium this weekend for his last shows ever in America. 0:08:12.640 --> 0:08:16.360 You know, he first played the iconic ballpark back in five, 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:19.520 but this time he was joined on stage by Dua Lipa, 0:08:19.800 --> 0:08:23.680 Brandy Carlyle and others. His final song was heard right 0:08:23.720 --> 0:08:51.760 here on cassette, I'm take a listenin song. Sir Elton's 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:55.320 final show in America is streaming now on Disney Plus 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:57.760 if you want to check that out and on aired 0:08:57.920 --> 0:09:03.319 with Ryan Seacres. All right, let me grab a lista. 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:06.520 How are you a Lissa? Hi? Am good? How are 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:11.000 you so super good? So you're calling with a gift idea? 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:16.679 I need a gift idea. If you guys have any suggestions. Okay, 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:18.880 you need a gift idea. Okay, got it? What what 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:24.160 is the situation? So? I want to be better about 0:09:24.200 --> 0:09:29.200 supporting the women in my life during their exciting moments. Um, 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:31.839 not just when they have a baby or or get married, 0:09:31.880 --> 0:09:33.800 which I feel like is when we primarily do those 0:09:33.800 --> 0:09:40.439 celebrations by a house. We need to support more women, um, 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:42.280 but when they buy a house or get a new 0:09:42.360 --> 0:09:44.720 job or a promotion. And a friend of mine who 0:09:44.840 --> 0:09:47.480 lives out of state, so that's the hard part. She 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:49.720 you just got a new job, and I'm trying to 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:52.599 figure out something to two gifts her, whether it's a 0:09:52.640 --> 0:09:54.840 gift idea or something I can do for her to 0:09:54.960 --> 0:10:03.200 really celebrate her. Well, yeah, that's a good idea. Wait, 0:10:03.320 --> 0:10:06.439 I think you should get her a bougeo because those 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:12.840 help you stay organized, they help you plan bullet journal. Oh, 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:15.320 I think you're getting talking about a car. I thought 0:10:15.320 --> 0:10:17.760 you're talking about those bouncy balls. No, no, no, the 0:10:17.840 --> 0:10:21.040 bugo because it'll help you, it'll help her stay Really 0:10:23.240 --> 0:10:26.120 so what is the bougeo? The bullet journal? It helps 0:10:26.160 --> 0:10:29.800 you stay organized, helps you plan, stay motivated day to day. 0:10:29.840 --> 0:10:31.439 I feel like it'd be really good for somebody starting. 0:10:31.800 --> 0:10:35.640 And the bottle of champagne. Oh I've never but I 0:10:35.679 --> 0:10:43.160 love that idea. Bugo, this is perfect. I love both 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:45.600 of those ideas. So thank you for sharing that. All 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:47.600 right to listen? Thank you, good luck and what a 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:51.440 good friend you are. Thank you, Thank you so much. 0:10:51.520 --> 0:10:54.400 Have a good day. You know what, I'm not good 0:10:54.440 --> 0:10:59.880 at writing thank you notes and handwritten thank you notes. 0:10:59.920 --> 0:11:02.960 I love texts, but I feel guilty when i'm thinking 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:06.280 somebody from if I don't write them. As a kid, 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:09.560 my mom would make me right thank you notes. But 0:11:09.600 --> 0:11:12.120 as an adult, I don't make myself do that. But 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:15.600 I feel it's a lost art. It is right when 0:11:15.640 --> 0:11:19.040 when I texted you, mind when you texted me your 0:11:19.200 --> 0:11:21.800 yes thank you? Yeah it wasn't. I mean that was fine. 0:11:21.960 --> 0:11:23.319 I mean I wasn't with you, but I wanted to 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:24.920 thank you, so I hand I hand wrote it. And 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:27.600 I took a picture of that's right. Okay, that's right. 0:11:27.600 --> 0:11:29.559 There was a photo of a handwritten it. That was 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:33.920 very that was thoughtful. Are you ready for Ruby's segment 0:11:33.960 --> 0:11:36.120 where she goes out and find stuff for us to eat? 0:11:38.600 --> 0:11:42.160 Where are you? All your friends calling? You're going, wow, 0:11:42.200 --> 0:11:44.120 that's so cool. You've got your own Ruby Dooby Doo song. 0:11:44.280 --> 0:11:46.560 My boyfriend text me the other day and he was like, 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:48.680 Ruby Dooby Doo. That's all he texts. And I was like, 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:51.000 oh my god, you heard this segment and he's like, yes, 0:11:51.200 --> 0:11:53.840 I wanted as my ring tone. I think we're moving this. 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:58.199 We're moving this proposal along by this, all this exposure, 0:11:58.640 --> 0:12:01.720 the pressure left the man breathe. All right, So where 0:12:01.720 --> 0:12:03.800 did you go? What were you doing? So? I checked 0:12:03.800 --> 0:12:07.840 out Loki Thakada. It's hard to say together um, but 0:12:07.960 --> 0:12:13.360 basically another incredible taco Takada that offers tacos um and 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:17.000 they have this really cool family meal taco kit, which 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:19.280 I feel like it's perfect. If you're doing, you know, 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:21.200 a friend's giving and you don't want to do like 0:12:21.240 --> 0:12:26.839 traditional turkey, you're you know, that's it. I'm gonna add 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:31.800 a friend's giving to have tacos thanksgivings. They will tell 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:34.000 me about the kick for it comes with everything you 0:12:34.040 --> 0:12:36.880 need to build out your taco, the meat, the torthea's, 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:40.840 the toppings. Um. I feel like it's just an easy, 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:45.520 uh convenient way, you know, for for a friend's giving idea. Okay, 0:12:45.520 --> 0:12:49.120 so it's Loki Taka right, Loki takaia and I think 0:12:49.160 --> 0:12:52.000 we have ari there are Are you there at Loki 0:12:52.040 --> 0:12:56.000 Taka So yeah, I'm here. Hey, what's up? It's Ryan Seacrests. 0:12:56.000 --> 0:12:57.600 You're on the air with us. How are you, Buddy? 0:12:58.160 --> 0:13:02.120 Good good? We're kind of interested in this family taco 0:13:02.320 --> 0:13:04.640 kit that people might want to use for the holidays. 0:13:05.240 --> 0:13:09.240 Is that popular? Yeah? It is. I mean so it's 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:12.400 it feeds four to six people, so it gives you 0:13:12.440 --> 0:13:13.920 everything you need to be able to make some of 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:17.679 our tacos at home, so you know, rice being some proteins, 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:21.000 a dozen uncooked flower tortillas, so you just hit those 0:13:21.080 --> 0:13:23.840 up at home. And yeah, I mean it's it's perfect 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:28.320 for watching the game on Sunday, friends Vane or or 0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:31.280 even just um a family that doesn't want to cook 0:13:31.320 --> 0:13:33.120 at night. It just makes things easier. You guys are 0:13:33.200 --> 0:13:35.400 dt l a Culver City and ply this the right 0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:41.080 Loki Takata correct? What is this signature? Like? What makes 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:43.880 I'm looking at the photos there? Pictures of food in 0:13:43.880 --> 0:13:47.679 the morning are not fair? Makes me crazy? They're so good? Um, 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:52.120 what is the signature there? Loki? Um? Any of our 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:54.280 tacos on flowers. So we're known for our flower tortillas 0:13:54.320 --> 0:13:56.480 which we make in house. Um. I would say chicken, 0:13:56.559 --> 0:13:59.000 the chicken and the mushroom taco a probably the two 0:13:59.040 --> 0:14:02.640 most popular. Sounds so good. It's a good idea for 0:14:02.640 --> 0:14:05.720 the holidays. All right, we'll be thanking what the toughest time, 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:07.840 but thank you for going out and finding another tough 0:14:07.920 --> 0:14:12.160 area for us. You when you when you leave Los 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:15.240 Angeles and you were to go home for Thanksgiving or 0:14:15.280 --> 0:14:17.760 go to where you're from, you see the difference in 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:20.280 what a taco is. It's not a taco and a 0:14:20.280 --> 0:14:23.880 lot of places because we have real tacos here and 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:31.520 some people think there's seven real tacos, they're not. Okay, 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:34.400 Now listen to check out Loki on Postmates, and everybody 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:36.840 listening right now thirty bucks off each of your first 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:40.280 three orders on Postmates for low keys and anything on 0:14:40.320 --> 0:14:43.400 Postmates using promo code l A thirty It's promo code 0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:46.680 l A thirty thirty bucks. Off. All right, thank you 0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:52.000 very much, buddy, Happy Thanksgiving. Thank you, and for just 0:14:52.080 --> 0:15:01.000 for your boyfriend, are you? It's the gift the kids 0:15:03.880 --> 0:15:07.280 one or two point seven it is kiss at them Ryan, 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:09.160 see christ here. Thank you for listening to us. So 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:13.040 it's time for Ryan's roses. Dear Ryan and Seany. I 0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:16.720 made a mistake. I agreed to a threesome with my 0:15:16.800 --> 0:15:23.680 husband and a woman we know. Yeah, all right, Brenda, 0:15:23.760 --> 0:15:25.520 thank you for coming on in with yours. So you 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:28.000 agreed to do this, you did it, and then the 0:15:28.080 --> 0:15:30.640 other day you came home, and what did you find 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:34.520 when you came home? Brenda? I mean, I found this 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:39.480 other woman in my catchman. And what happened at that point? 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:43.200 I mean, so let me go back to the beginning. 0:15:43.440 --> 0:15:46.920 So I used to work with her. Um, we were 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:50.080 really close friends, and we got together for lunch one 0:15:50.120 --> 0:15:53.600 day just to catch up and reminisce, and she mentioned 0:15:53.680 --> 0:15:57.680 to me how hot she thought my husband was. And um, 0:15:57.720 --> 0:16:00.480 you know, basically, if I was ever interested in a 0:16:00.640 --> 0:16:04.240 third like, she'd be into it. And I mean I 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:06.600 always thought she was hot too, so I brought it 0:16:06.680 --> 0:16:10.440 up to my husband, um, and then he was into 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:14.880 the idea obviously, so we set it up, UM. And 0:16:14.960 --> 0:16:20.480 that was in September. So now she's in my kitchen. 0:16:20.600 --> 0:16:22.480 So it was it was okay. I mean, you know, 0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:26.240 parts of it were nice, um, but I did feel 0:16:26.360 --> 0:16:31.560 kind of jealous. UM, so that was kind of it. 0:16:31.920 --> 0:16:34.360 And then I come home from work last week and 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:36.240 the two of them are in my kitchen. I just 0:16:36.280 --> 0:16:39.320 don't know how it ever ends in the right place. 0:16:40.400 --> 0:16:43.320 At some point, whether it's that night or later, or 0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:46.480 a year or two, this happens. I just think it does. 0:16:46.600 --> 0:16:51.560 So Brenda, how long you've been married four years? What's 0:16:51.600 --> 0:16:58.160 her name Chloe? And how did you react when you 0:16:58.280 --> 0:17:01.280 found them in a kitchen? How did you react to 0:17:01.360 --> 0:17:05.400 that moment? I mean I was I was shocked, like 0:17:05.800 --> 0:17:08.359 you know, because I I admit, I agreed to it. 0:17:08.480 --> 0:17:11.600 I was into it, and then obviously after it happened, 0:17:11.640 --> 0:17:13.800 like I changed, So I mean I didn't think he 0:17:13.960 --> 0:17:17.600 was going to see her again, particularly without me. UM. 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:21.000 So obviously I was shocked, and they definitely seemed surprised, 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:24.640 but you know, tried to play it off as hey, 0:17:24.880 --> 0:17:28.280 great to see you, not like they were busted. Um, 0:17:28.320 --> 0:17:31.000 and you know, I'm not buying it. And she left 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:35.119 pretty quickly, and so I asked my husband what the 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:38.440 hell she was doing here, and he said she thought 0:17:38.480 --> 0:17:42.200 she lost an earring in our bedroom, but from the 0:17:43.280 --> 0:17:48.000 house September exactly. It's Ryan's roses. They had a threesome. 0:17:49.440 --> 0:17:52.920 She did it with They did it with someone she 0:17:53.000 --> 0:17:55.879 used to work with. M Then she comes home and 0:17:56.000 --> 0:17:59.440 finds that person and her husband in the kitchen at 0:17:59.480 --> 0:18:04.480 her home. And I don't know that I need to 0:18:04.520 --> 0:18:09.880 tell you much more than that. The other woman's name 0:18:10.000 --> 0:18:15.240 is Chloe. Okay, So you think that he's taken this 0:18:16.720 --> 0:18:19.960 moment and developed a one on one relationship with the 0:18:20.080 --> 0:18:24.919 other woman Chloe, Yeah, I do. Why Why do they 0:18:25.000 --> 0:18:27.640 even have each other's information? If she was your friend 0:18:27.720 --> 0:18:32.240 to begin with. I mean, I don't think it's weird. 0:18:32.480 --> 0:18:34.920 Maybe that he has her number, she has his number, 0:18:35.040 --> 0:18:37.720 but for them to see each other, especially in my 0:18:37.920 --> 0:18:41.920 home without me present, is very weird. It's so weird. 0:18:42.560 --> 0:18:45.600 I mean, he knows that. Look, he knows after what 0:18:45.760 --> 0:18:51.480 happened at him doing that is a massive bad move. Okay, 0:18:51.840 --> 0:18:55.480 so be very quiet. We're gonna call him and find 0:18:55.520 --> 0:18:58.040 out who he's thinking about, who is top of mind, 0:18:58.240 --> 0:19:01.159 who he wants to send these roses too, because I 0:19:01.680 --> 0:19:05.560 you know, I don't even know how this isn't already 0:19:05.600 --> 0:19:08.720 an issue because of what he did and what you 0:19:08.840 --> 0:19:10.520 just told me. But we're gonna make the calle see 0:19:10.560 --> 0:19:12.000 we can find out. Be very quiet, and here we go. 0:19:12.320 --> 0:19:13.880 I need you to say, Ryan, you have my permission 0:19:13.920 --> 0:19:17.200 to call them his name on Kiss FM. Ryan, you 0:19:17.280 --> 0:19:21.200 have my permission to call on Kiss FM. OKAYLD be 0:19:21.320 --> 0:19:36.879 very quiet. Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for 0:19:37.000 --> 0:19:41.480 Paul speaking. Hi Paul. My name is Marcy. I'm calling 0:19:41.520 --> 0:19:44.080 from Elegant Blooms. We're actually a new flower shop here 0:19:44.119 --> 0:19:47.000 on Lambert and Santa Fe Springs, and today we're offering 0:19:47.080 --> 0:19:49.080 a three dozen roses to local residents. How are you 0:19:49.119 --> 0:19:53.000 doing this morning? I'm so I'm so sorry, hang on, 0:19:53.160 --> 0:19:57.280 hang on just a second. Um, yeah, I haven't take 0:19:57.280 --> 0:20:01.200 a quick um. Okay, uh go ahead. I'm sorry. They're 0:20:01.200 --> 0:20:04.760 absolutely free. I don't need any cash or info from you. UM. 0:20:04.800 --> 0:20:07.320 Which is it's a promotion that we do about once 0:20:07.359 --> 0:20:10.080 a month for our new business, and we just hope 0:20:10.160 --> 0:20:12.479 that if you're pleased with our arrangements you return as 0:20:12.520 --> 0:20:15.320 a customer, or tell your friends and family about us. Um, 0:20:15.440 --> 0:20:17.280 is there anybody in your life that you would want 0:20:17.280 --> 0:20:23.439 to send a dozen red roses? Too? Oh? Uh? So does? Oh? Well? Okay, okay, 0:20:23.520 --> 0:20:27.399 free roses? Okay? Um, hang on, I've seen scams like 0:20:27.520 --> 0:20:31.360 this on Instagram? What is this legit is this real? Yeah? 0:20:31.359 --> 0:20:32.960 I don't need I don't need any info from you. 0:20:33.200 --> 0:20:37.000 I don't need your cash or credit card info, social 0:20:37.119 --> 0:20:38.720 or anything like that. Just the name of the person 0:20:38.800 --> 0:20:40.199 you want to send them to and we can put 0:20:40.240 --> 0:20:45.120 a note. Oh okay, um, okay, tell you what her 0:20:45.240 --> 0:20:50.320 name is? Sylvia? Sylvia? Okay, and what would you like 0:20:50.359 --> 0:20:53.760 to put on the card? Let's see, just put it's 0:20:53.800 --> 0:21:01.200 on exclamation point. See you soon, period soon. H Love Paul, 0:21:02.359 --> 0:21:08.320 Love Paul. Okay, great, pretty good? Right, Paul, your voice 0:21:08.359 --> 0:21:10.919 is being broadcast on the radio. I have your wife 0:21:11.240 --> 0:21:17.160 Brenda on the phone. Who's Sylvia? What did you say? 0:21:17.240 --> 0:21:19.120 My wife is on the line? Is that is that true? 0:21:19.760 --> 0:21:25.679 That is true? Who's Sylvia here? Okay? Okay, look um, 0:21:26.320 --> 0:21:30.000 clearly there's a lot we need to discuss here, starting 0:21:30.040 --> 0:21:34.200 with who Sylvia is, Paul, Who is that she's she's 0:21:34.240 --> 0:21:36.960 a girl, a lady that I met online. Okay, And 0:21:37.000 --> 0:21:38.919 what's going on with you and Sylvia? Now you met? 0:21:39.040 --> 0:21:44.080 What's going on? Well, we're just talking right now, So 0:21:44.400 --> 0:21:47.920 what are you talking about? Why are you talking? Well, 0:21:48.560 --> 0:21:51.280 it's not it's not as not as simple as all 0:21:51.320 --> 0:21:54.520 of that. My wife and I have made an arrangement 0:21:54.560 --> 0:22:00.480 and we started to well incorporate other people into the relationship. Brend, 0:22:00.600 --> 0:22:06.080 Is that the case. No, I never agreed to that. 0:22:06.840 --> 0:22:08.680 You know. I didn't like how it made me feel, 0:22:09.119 --> 0:22:10.879 and I told you I didn't want to do that again. 0:22:11.800 --> 0:22:14.159 Oh right, right right? That was that was with your 0:22:14.200 --> 0:22:16.840 friend Chloe, because that's because that's your friend, you know, 0:22:16.960 --> 0:22:20.000 And I understand that. But but I feel like if 0:22:20.040 --> 0:22:22.000 you don't know the person, it might be a little 0:22:22.040 --> 0:22:24.440 more exciting, you might enjoy it more. But you're getting 0:22:24.480 --> 0:22:27.680 to know the person, so you are going to know 0:22:27.760 --> 0:22:29.800 the person. Paul, I want to go back for saying 0:22:29.920 --> 0:22:32.400 with Chloe, what's going on with you and Chloe? Why 0:22:32.480 --> 0:22:34.440 was Chloe in the kitchen with you without your wife's 0:22:34.520 --> 0:22:38.800 knowledge at your home? Oh? She she came over because 0:22:38.920 --> 0:22:41.720 she she thought she had maybe left something she was 0:22:41.760 --> 0:22:44.320 looking for a pearlier ring that she had had and 0:22:44.440 --> 0:22:46.080 she thought maybe she lost him when she was here 0:22:46.119 --> 0:22:48.959 a few months ago, And so she comes over at 0:22:48.960 --> 0:22:51.080 the exact time. Your wife's not there, and you guys 0:22:51.119 --> 0:22:52.800 are just hanging out in the kitchen not looking for 0:22:52.880 --> 0:22:57.119 the pearl whatever ear ring. Yeah, we were just catching up, 0:22:57.240 --> 0:22:59.200 you know, we're just catching up. Nothing nothing going on. 0:22:59.400 --> 0:23:05.360 Come on, all nobody where else wears pearl earrings. Seriously? 0:23:07.119 --> 0:23:10.800 All right, um, Brenda, I can't say this isn't everybody's 0:23:10.840 --> 0:23:15.560 fault here, huh? You know what I mean? Like, this 0:23:15.720 --> 0:23:18.480 door was opened, Paul doesn't out, he doesn't know what 0:23:18.600 --> 0:23:20.879 to do clearly, and so now you guys are in 0:23:21.000 --> 0:23:25.560 this situation because of everybody on this phone call on 0:23:25.640 --> 0:23:31.680 that side. The door was opened under very strict circumstances. 0:23:31.760 --> 0:23:34.680 Doesn't seem to understand what those circumstances are. So the 0:23:34.760 --> 0:23:38.640 door got open, and well, I'm telling you, the door 0:23:38.760 --> 0:23:41.320 got open. He thinks he's got permission here, and now 0:23:41.400 --> 0:23:44.119 it's a slippery slope I think. So, I mean, what, 0:23:44.560 --> 0:23:46.360 you guys need to sit down and have a conversation 0:23:46.440 --> 0:23:50.520 and figure out your boundaries. At this point. I don't 0:23:50.560 --> 0:23:53.160 want anyone else in our bedroom. Ever again, I said 0:23:53.200 --> 0:23:58.960 that period we tried something, it wasn't for me, that's it, okay, 0:23:59.080 --> 0:24:01.240 But when we kind of read to do it, and 0:24:01.320 --> 0:24:04.120 it's it's something that I enjoyed, and I don't want 0:24:04.119 --> 0:24:06.440 to explore more, and there's you know, you want to 0:24:06.480 --> 0:24:10.639 explore them and you have to not be married. Thank you, 0:24:12.800 --> 0:24:15.040 But I mean it was it was almost kind of 0:24:15.080 --> 0:24:18.240 her idea, you know. But doesn't mean Paul, you get 0:24:18.280 --> 0:24:19.760 to go off and do your own thing. Now. I 0:24:19.880 --> 0:24:22.800 think she's saying it was a mistake. It was a mistake, 0:24:22.880 --> 0:24:24.720 and you're so excited with the novelty of it you 0:24:24.800 --> 0:24:29.680 can't stop thinking about it. But and you're saying that's 0:24:29.720 --> 0:24:33.560 your fault. I'm trying to see if this thing is 0:24:33.560 --> 0:24:38.119 gonna work. What this thing? There's no thing. The thing is. 0:24:38.200 --> 0:24:40.520 You gotta stop your wife's telling you a mistake. No, 0:24:43.800 --> 0:24:45.520