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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Jana Kramer, an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: All Right, hey guys, do it?

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Speaker 3: Hye yi, Hey girls, I have a pack to not

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Speaker 3: cry for this everyone. I will say I did get

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Speaker 3: a lot of feedback and a lot of women are like,

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Speaker 3: I'm crying with you. It is such a maddening feeling

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Speaker 3: to feel like you don't know your own body. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and that's where I'm at. I actually have my first

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Speaker 3: eboo treatment today to help. Very exciting, and I was nervous.

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Speaker 3: I'm not medically nervous often. I called Jana and I

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Speaker 3: was like, have you you did this? Tell me it's

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Speaker 3: going to be it?

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Speaker 2: What does it do?

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Speaker 4: It takes your blood out, it then oxidizes your blood

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Speaker 4: and then puts it back into your system.

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Speaker 1: That's cool. I mean everyone's asking about, like where do

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Speaker 1: you do these talk screens and all that, because I

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Speaker 1: mean I even go to Nate, but I've never done that.

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Speaker 1: I've never done a Yeah, it's kind of screened.

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Speaker 5: I didn't.

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Speaker 3: I mean I've had done a lot with Nate, and

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Speaker 3: you know, I never did this, and it was it's

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Speaker 3: like a weird divine thing to me that I even

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Speaker 3: did this, because I wouldn't do it if Preston hadn't

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Speaker 3: done it, if he had Preston. So I'm just praying

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Speaker 3: that it all happens. But I'm on like day three

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Speaker 3: of charcoal. Oh yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: I think it's one of those things too, where so

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Speaker 4: Nate wants me to do a stem cell and I've

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Speaker 4: been looking into all of it and it's just it's

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Speaker 4: a lot everything. It's it's a lot because you're like,

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Speaker 4: where are the stem like they say where it's coming from,

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Speaker 4: but also.

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Speaker 1: Like you get stem cells from like other stem cells.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so stem cells will. But it's the thing I

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Speaker 4: am butting heads against with it is it's it's quite

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Speaker 4: expensive and it's supposed to help too, but they say

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Speaker 4: it's from I have like the whole pamphlet pamphlet of it,

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Speaker 4: but you they give you an IV of it, you've

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Speaker 4: done it.

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Speaker 2: I did it. Yeah, that's cool, umbilical.

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Speaker 5: That's That's what I was about to say.

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Speaker 4: Like women are Actually that's where I'm like.

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Speaker 5: And what's it supposed to help with a lot of everything?

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Speaker 2: Everything everything?

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Speaker 3: If you think about it, it's our bodies helping our bodies.

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Speaker 1: Well, I know that's why people will keep the stem

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Speaker 1: cells from yeah, babies, Yeah we did it. We didn't,

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Speaker 1: but I didn't really know a whole lot about it

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Speaker 1: at all, especially then.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't use theirs, so that makes me feel like,

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Speaker 3: that's what.

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Speaker 5: That was kind of my next question. We use other

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Speaker 5: people's are your own?

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Speaker 3: You know, when you're on like the cutting edge of

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Speaker 3: stuff and it feels in alignment and it feels like, well,

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Speaker 3: that makes more sense to me than anything else. But

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Speaker 3: then it's also not popular yet, so it's like I'm

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Speaker 3: very hesitant to share, yes, because and.

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Speaker 5: I know it is expensive.

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Speaker 3: What led us to it was Preston's Bell's palsy, So

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Speaker 3: neurology at Vanderbilt was like, this is just bad luck.

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Speaker 3: And that is a really you know, it's like biblical

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Speaker 3: right when hope is deferred and makes a heart sick,

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Speaker 3: and it's like, well, I just don't know that you

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Speaker 3: can do anything worse than to one that's already dealing

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Speaker 3: with something, especially something when he's on stage and his

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Speaker 3: face is literally every single night so you can't hide it, sure,

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Speaker 3: but man like to just be like, oh, well that

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Speaker 3: hard feeling. So Nate was the only one that was like,

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Speaker 3: I don't agree with that, and I think there's something

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Speaker 3: we can do. And so that's why the stem cell

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Speaker 3: thing was brought to us, and then we both did it.

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Speaker 3: I guess if we're both going to die, we're died together.

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Speaker 3: I just needed more information. But I've been told that

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Speaker 3: you should get this a certain type of blood work

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Speaker 3: drawn first, because if you're something about cancer, if you're

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Speaker 3: your blood work, it stem cells, don't it, it'll actually

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Speaker 5: Oh well, that's terrifying.

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Speaker 4: So that's why I'm like, let's get the bull, he'll

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Speaker 4: do all that. Yeah, it's just crazy, it's crazy.

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Speaker 3: I also just like really am prayerful that, Like did

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Speaker 3: you see the recent thing about b venom. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 3: Like I'm just getting prayerful that like the cures for

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Speaker 3: things instead of feeding, like helping with cancer and stuff.

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Speaker 1: But they're also like nicotine nicotine, same way like naked patches,

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Speaker 1: the patches they're said, like it's very similar situation what

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Speaker 1: they're saying about bevin on with nicotine patches. Well it's nicotine,

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Speaker 1: but you use the patches can help with a lot

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Speaker 1: of diseases. They're finding it's crazy, I know, not like

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Speaker 1: smoking it. I don't sure. I don't really know, but

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Speaker 1: you yeah, but you know it's fascinating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're not saying like they're saying, don't.

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Speaker 5: Go some cigarettes. If you've got I don't even need

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Speaker 3: But it's like even like cannabis, right, like if it's

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Speaker 3: that it's not cancer curing but helpful for people.

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Speaker 4: It's like sometimes it's safe thing though it's kind of

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Speaker 4: it was very popular and now it's not.

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Speaker 1: And I think that helped more with like the nausea

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Speaker 1: and like stuff like that that were like the But

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Speaker 1: I think it's fascinating because it's stuff that we can

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Speaker 1: find in nature that God's already given us.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: Are we curing and the venom is just yeah, it's

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Speaker 5: very interesting. Cells are from us.

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Speaker 2: Wild's cool. Any other updates?

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Speaker 3: I don't think so.

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Speaker 2: I feel nervous.

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Speaker 3: I feel nervous for what, just to cry. I don't

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Speaker 3: think I'm going to cry today. I feel pretty good today.

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Speaker 3: But I don't want to drink myself either.

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Speaker 4: So so I've got this thing called a shoot now.

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Speaker 4: Alan told me it was I don't have it anymore.

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Speaker 4: It was like all of kind of last week. It's

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Speaker 4: called performance like depression or something where it's like you

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Speaker 4: go from being at you know, a high level of

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Speaker 4: then you're done and you're back home and it's it's like,

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Speaker 4: what is my purpose?

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Speaker 2: What am I doing?

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Speaker 4: What is I And it's like this, And Alan was

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Speaker 4: explaining how like a lot of times with athletes or

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Speaker 4: musicians or when you're off something and then you just

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Speaker 3: I actually am like really fascinated with that because I

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Speaker 3: can see, even as you're saying it, how I deal

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Speaker 4: Right, Like when he comes off of a tour, like

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Speaker 4: you have these people that you know are praising you,

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Speaker 3: Stripped away and grab the dice in and start washing

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Speaker 3: the counters, right, interesting, how do you feel today?

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Speaker 4: I just I just know that I always I need

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Speaker 4: something and I'm even though last week I was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I'm great, I'm so proud and happy, which I am,

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Speaker 4: but I also am like I need to know what

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Speaker 4: is next, and it's so hard not knowing what's next.

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Speaker 3: Do you have any movies lined up at all?

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Speaker 4: I have two three offers, but it looks like they're

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Speaker 4: all going to punt to next year. So it's just like,

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Speaker 4: I'm fine, but you know what I mean, It's just

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Speaker 4: like I don't have any adults. I have like no

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Speaker 3: Oh, I get excited for what God's got in store

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Speaker 3: for you, Cramer. This is always right when he comes

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Speaker 3: and drops a big one.

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Speaker 2: I hope.

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Speaker 1: So and she goes away. If she travels, then it'll

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Speaker 4: But it's it's good like I am. But I did

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Speaker 4: tell the other day ago, I was like, Babe, I

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Speaker 4: need to I need to go somewhere with Yeah, we

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Speaker 4: gotta go to the lake. We gotta get something. So

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Speaker 4: that's why I go to the Bahamas. You should for

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Speaker 4: sure get a movie deal.

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Speaker 5: Quick.

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Speaker 4: No, But I'm like I got a you know, the

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Speaker 4: Labor Day weekend coming up. It's like, all right, we've

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Speaker 4: it's good to travel or do something. Are you doing

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Speaker 4: something by Well, I'm going to find something. I'll figure

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Speaker 4: I'll find an airbnb. Hopefully that's the plan. But that's

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Speaker 4: my only update. I have another update. It's more of

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Speaker 4: like a whine about and I don't know if I'm

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Speaker 3: Oh I want you to do you have any updates?

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Speaker 2: Get caned?

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Speaker 5: Not really.

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Speaker 1: We're just like school, you know. I mean, Ramsey's like

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Speaker 5: She asked me to homeschool last night.

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Speaker 5: It's like that's hard though it's fourth grade.

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Speaker 1: Her teacher's mean, you know, she's just a yeller and

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Speaker 2: It's like second week of school.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it was kind of one of those

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, what do you do in that situation?

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Speaker 5: And that's so that's what I was. I'm curious.

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Speaker 1: I don't I've left it in her court at this point,

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Speaker 1: I said, think about it for a little while. If

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Speaker 1: let me know. I said, I'm you know, I'm happy

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Speaker 4: Just a piece of that, because she doesn't have any

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Speaker 4: on top of it, doesn't like, yeah, for sure, I

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and bond with right right also.

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Speaker 1: And this might be a little confrontation or not like debatable,

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Speaker 2: Let's call her on the show.

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Speaker 5: She won't be targeted at all.

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Speaker 1: But that's really our only update in our house. It's tough, though, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So I don't know if that's where that came from.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think it's cute when they start getting

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Speaker 2: Yeah, really do you?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, I know. Oh yeah, that's that.

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Speaker 2: Whin about it? Ladies, got anything?

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Speaker 5: You have one?

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Speaker 2: I know?

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Speaker 4: But I really don't want to say it because I

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Speaker 4: How do I say this isout like blowing anyone's life up?

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Speaker 5: Oh gosh, we let's not blow anyone's life up.

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Speaker 3: Maybe we should pin it said, maybe we should blow

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Speaker 4: No, it's just one of those things where I okay,

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Speaker 3: I can go as high as you can.

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Speaker 4: So someone from my past like, literally, how do I

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna just let someone from my past had texted me,

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Speaker 2: In the past.

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Speaker 4: Guy from the past, a guy from the past got

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Speaker 5: Weren't playing a drinking game in the.

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Speaker 4: I haven't seen them in forever, you know, And and

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Speaker 3: Well. Yeah, and your association with him was once in

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Speaker 2: But you're calling me because you want me to.

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Speaker 4: That's these you know, people that I've known many moons ago.

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Speaker 4: Why like it makes me feel like it makes me

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Speaker 1: Sounds there a connection like we're all we're all of

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Speaker 2: Those were all his friends.

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Speaker 5: Hey, guys, everything going right, and.

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Speaker 5: Good good, I love.

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Speaker 5: I don't know why.

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Speaker 4: It just it just bothered me because I'm like, you

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Speaker 3: I'm a married woman, you're a married person.

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Speaker 4: You're you're all married, right, It's very very clear every

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Speaker 4: It just felt dirty and gross and I'd agree. I

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Speaker 2: Almost. That sounds stupid, No, that's the.

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Speaker 3: Way I took it, because what I was trying to

439
00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:38,200
Speaker 3: say is like it would be like, oh, yeah, because

440
00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:40,800
Speaker 3: you dated or you hung out with her once, like

441
00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:43,199
Speaker 3: that's why it comes up. It's like, yeah, I mean

442
00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:45,040
Speaker 3: not coming up because they're like, oh, you know, who's

443
00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:48,959
Speaker 3: got a really great backstroke and could totally speak to this, right.

444
00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:52,040
Speaker 1: I was going like giving kind of the benefit of

445
00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,800
Speaker 1: the doubt, the reason where y'all like once all like

446
00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:55,919
Speaker 1: one group.

447
00:19:57,240 --> 00:19:59,040
Speaker 4: And I read the message and it's not you know,

448
00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:01,040
Speaker 4: it's like I know for me to ask, but a

449
00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:03,520
Speaker 4: handful of guys day tomorrow we're on our yearly golf

450
00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:05,560
Speaker 4: trip and they all clearly love you. A FaceTime you

451
00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:07,639
Speaker 4: at lunch to borrow if that's even remotely appropriate.

452
00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:10,960
Speaker 5: He's not appropriate if you have to be cool and

453
00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:12,679
Speaker 5: be like, oh I know her, I can't get her.

454
00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:14,879
Speaker 4: And then he's like crazy and appropriate to FaceTime right now,

455
00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:16,320
Speaker 4: and I just blocked him because I'm like, no, it

456
00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:17,840
Speaker 4: is crazy and appropriate, like if.

457
00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:21,200
Speaker 5: You have to ask your answer question. He's recognizing that

458
00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:21,960
Speaker 5: it's so, and.

459
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Speaker 4: I mean that was yeah, so yeah, And then like

460
00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:28,560
Speaker 4: the last time, like I scroll up, boys are talking

461
00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:28,879
Speaker 4: about you.

462
00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:32,040
Speaker 2: This is back a year. They love you. Hi, you

463
00:20:32,119 --> 00:20:35,760
Speaker 2: know what I mean, like you know, yeah, agreed, good

464
00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:36,760
Speaker 2: for you. I don't know.

465
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Speaker 4: So that's just like bothered me because I'm like, don't

466
00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:42,000
Speaker 4: don't text me that that's right?

467
00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:45,960
Speaker 2: And also or does that make me sound bad?

468
00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:50,080
Speaker 3: No? No, no no, especially if he married all people

469
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Speaker 3: protected marriage a little more in that way.

470
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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I just I don't know. I feel

471
00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:56,800
Speaker 2: maybe feel the.

472
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Speaker 1: End of the day, no matter what the intention is

473
00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:00,840
Speaker 1: behind it, and made you feel comfortable. So at the

474
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Speaker 1: end it's so it's not because I know and clearly

475
00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,359
Speaker 1: made him uncomfortable too. I mean he said, is it's

476
00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:08,919
Speaker 1: wildly inappropriate? That is yeah, he knows that it's not appropriate,

477
00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:10,720
Speaker 1: or it feels like it's not appropriate.

478
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:12,400
Speaker 5: So if you feel a certain way, then.

479
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:14,479
Speaker 4: Again, he's just trying to be cool around his boys, right,

480
00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:17,480
Speaker 4: that's what it sounds like. Also, find something else it

481
00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:19,560
Speaker 4: is inappropriate, and my husband wouldn't like that.

482
00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 5: Yeah.

483
00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:20,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

484
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:22,639
Speaker 3: And also if you have to ask if it's inappropriate,

485
00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:25,520
Speaker 3: you answered your own question. Yeah, next, yeah for sure.

486
00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:27,359
Speaker 2: Right. Anyways, that's my wine about it.

487
00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:29,879
Speaker 1: And I think that that was you'd blow anything up

488
00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,680
Speaker 1: because I couldn't even guess who we're talking about, right,

489
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:33,320
Speaker 1: So there we go.

490
00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:35,359
Speaker 5: Don't blow anyone's lives up. No, no one's going to

491
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:36,080
Speaker 5: figure it out because I.

492
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Speaker 4: Don't want these I think it was, and I think

493
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Speaker 4: it is.

494
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Speaker 1: So.

495
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Speaker 5: It's innocent, probably behind it totally. Yeah, but it just

496
00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:47,320
Speaker 5: didn't care.

497
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Speaker 2: I just didn't like it exactly. Yeah, totally.

498
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:49,920
Speaker 3: They might not.

499
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:51,520
Speaker 5: I would care.

500
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Speaker 2: I would care. I would care to well, I know

501
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:53,760
Speaker 2: that matters.

502
00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:55,840
Speaker 4: My husband would care if I picked up the song

503
00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,680
Speaker 4: call because I think Janna two years ago would have

504
00:21:58,920 --> 00:21:59,920
Speaker 4: gladly picked up the phone.

505
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 2: Why my god, how's everything been going?

506
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:02,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

507
00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 4: I know.

508
00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:05,440
Speaker 3: And that's what I like about the story the most

509
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:07,960
Speaker 3: out of everything, Yeah, is that you're like, actually, no,

510
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:09,200
Speaker 3: and I waved then.

511
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:16,719
Speaker 4: Because I just yeah, respect, respect, out their respect. Sophie

512
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:19,680
Speaker 4: Turner has been quite the headline because she was about

513
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 4: mommy shaming right the other day.

514
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 2: Yep, last week's yes, said.

515
00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:33,040
Speaker 4: Sophie Turner sured how a San Diego Comic Con celebration

516
00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:35,680
Speaker 4: during the early seasons of Game of Thrones went really south,

517
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:39,120
Speaker 4: real quick, and unfortunately ultimately led to a broken engagement.

518
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 4: We were going to have a great night, the actress said.

519
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:44,520
Speaker 4: On seth Myers, I really can't name names. I get

520
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:45,520
Speaker 4: that or I'll get in a.

521
00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:46,119
Speaker 2: Lot of trouble.

522
00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:50,880
Speaker 4: But I brought but I brought my best friend from

523
00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,280
Speaker 4: my school days with me, and she saw this actor

524
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 4: that she loved. So, with the after party being a

525
00:22:55,440 --> 00:23:00,200
Speaker 4: tribute to the HBO series in which Sophie plays says

526
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,240
Speaker 4: a Stark, her friend asked her to greet the actor.

527
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,680
Speaker 4: I didn't know this actor, she admitted, so she simply waved.

528
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 4: Later on, I see this girl looking at me and

529
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:09,879
Speaker 4: she's a famous actress. I was like, Oh, I have

530
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 4: to go and tell her how much she means to me.

531
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,639
Speaker 4: So I dance over and goes, So I dance on

532
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 4: over and she goes, can you stop affing flirting with

533
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:21,160
Speaker 4: my fiance. The twenty nine year old recalled, I think

534
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:24,400
Speaker 4: they broke their engagement off that night because of my wave.

535
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 4: I didn't realize I held this power.

536
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:30,159
Speaker 5: Okay, I think she's being funny.

537
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 1: I think she's being facetious there, right, I do too,

538
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,680
Speaker 1: But also we all know that because clear.

539
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 4: No, would you be okay if a famous attractive actress

540
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 4: waved at your husband? Listen again, My husband dated a

541
00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:46,680
Speaker 4: famous actress, and I would love to meet her so

542
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 4: she can wave all she wants to my husband and

543
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:50,359
Speaker 4: I will stand right there by her side.

544
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 5: We are so opposite. I just it's so weird to me,

545
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 5: Like it was a wave.

546
00:23:58,200 --> 00:23:59,439
Speaker 2: I don't think that breaks up.

547
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,120
Speaker 5: No, Clearly she was already about yeah.

548
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 2: No, not Sophie.

549
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 4: No.

550
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

551
00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:07,880
Speaker 1: The other actress is already insecure about something, and they're.

552
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 5: Choice.

553
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:13,680
Speaker 2: I think if somebody yeah, right, like waves, there's.

554
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,359
Speaker 5: No wave breaking up.

555
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:16,680
Speaker 4: Yeah.

556
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 2: It's just such a tricky world we all live in,

557
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:21,199
Speaker 2: you know.

558
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 3: Like, so that would make you mad if no, I

559
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:26,400
Speaker 3: don't know if it makes me mad, but I don't

560
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:27,359
Speaker 3: think I'd also love it.

561
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:31,359
Speaker 2: But I'm also at home with kids, do you know?

562
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 2: So like there's this there is to me like I do.

563
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 3: Sacrifice quite a bit, sure of my own dreams and

564
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 3: aspirations to be able to hold down everything we do

565
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,879
Speaker 3: at home so that my husband can go do these

566
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 3: big things. And it does provide for a family. But

567
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 3: there's also some things that he does that don't provide

568
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 3: for a family, that just provide him with a bucket list,

569
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:59,880
Speaker 3: check mark, you know, that are epic and make great

570
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 3: content or whatever, but they're also really cool thing.

571
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 2: So I don't I don't know.

572
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 3: I just need the waves to a minimum, probably, but

573
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 3: maybe that's just my stay mom. I feel like Catherine,

574
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 3: you wouldn't care.

575
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 5: No, I'd be like, oh my gosh, she just waved it.

576
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 5: Let's go talk to her. I'm pretty sure she waved

577
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:18,920
Speaker 5: at me.

578
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 2: Talk to her.

579
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:24,399
Speaker 4: My big thing about any of that stuff is I

580
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:26,159
Speaker 4: just don't want to be the last person to know

581
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 4: a story in a room. So it's like, amen, yeah, no,

582
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 4: I'd agree with that, is that you had something with

583
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:33,639
Speaker 4: that person.

584
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,840
Speaker 2: I would like to know either before or we met.

585
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 3: Yesterday, we were at school, we had our first day

586
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 3: of school, and there happened to be this other event

587
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 3: happening near the school.

588
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 2: And so I come over.

589
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:52,119
Speaker 3: My husband is talking to this very attractive youngerish well

590
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,719
Speaker 3: I'm guessing she's younger woman, and he's like, oh, it's

591
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 3: so good to see you, you know, and then he

592
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 3: says this word that always sinks, this phrase that sinks

593
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,399
Speaker 3: my every time, which is you know, oh yeah, well

594
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 3: I've would have I known you for twenty years. And

595
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh boy, yeah boy, you know, because it

596
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 3: was the wild West for my bachelor husband.

597
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:12,680
Speaker 4: And so but listen, I'll just say it's not easy

598
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:15,160
Speaker 4: on the opposite side too, like I've had those things

599
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 4: without because that's our big thing. Like you asked me,

600
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 4: I it's so easy to say no, but right, I

601
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:23,920
Speaker 4: don't want to lie to him.

602
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:28,119
Speaker 3: No, you said, listen, I just need to know what

603
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 3: I'm dealing with, right yeah, That's always my thing, Like

604
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 3: no one can help their past.

605
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 2: I also have a past, right right, Yeah.

606
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 3: My thing is always no past comes welcomed into the future,

607
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,239
Speaker 3: and so the past is fine. I just also love

608
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:44,399
Speaker 3: to know what I'm dealing with. So as we're I mean,

609
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 3: I don't in record time this time, So our question

610
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 3: always is is their history?

611
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:50,400
Speaker 2: Uh huh?

612
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 3: So I'll say, like the minute we walked away, I

613
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 3: was like, you know, because I'm being kind but not

614
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 3: too kind. Yeah, you know, because I'm just going as well.

615
00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 2: And so did you ask?

616
00:26:58,359 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 4: Yeah?

617
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:00,280
Speaker 3: The minute we walked out, I was like history. He's

618
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,160
Speaker 3: like no, no, maybe, and I was like nothing. He's

619
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,120
Speaker 3: like nothing. I was like okay, great, and I want

620
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 3: to turn back around and be like, hey girl, I

621
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 3: like your skirt just in.

622
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 5: Case, and I like him friends regardless, No, no, no,

623
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,400
Speaker 5: hard to ask for me. But that's where we differ.

624
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:20,439
Speaker 2: And I like that about us.

625
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:21,919
Speaker 5: That's funny.

626
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't work for someone someone else.

627
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 5: Well, here's my question.

628
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 1: So if you're in a room and you run into

629
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 1: someone that you have had a past with and he

630
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 1: doesn't ask, do you walk away and tell him great question?

631
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 2: No, I thought there was.

632
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 5: Gonna be hesitation, great question. If he doesn't ask, That's

633
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 5: what I was worrying.

634
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,680
Speaker 4: I don't want to offer the information if it's not necessary.

635
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 4: But I will tell you my husband is very smart.

636
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 4: Nine percent of the time, have you had.

637
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,120
Speaker 3: A going want to ask or he doesn't ask because

638
00:27:58,160 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 3: he knows?

639
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 2: Probably? Yeah, we like doesn't want to know?

640
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 3: Right? Sure?

641
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:05,919
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? This blissed like he sometimes

642
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:07,399
Speaker 2: I'm just like why ask Like.

643
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 4: We were watching him movie. We're watching a movie and

644
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 4: he's like it said something and I was like yeah,

645
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 4: I like he's a good actor. And he's like, oh boy,

646
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 4: and I was like I knew it was coming. He's like,

647
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:27,679
Speaker 4: have you been with him?

648
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 2: And I was like, Alan.

649
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:35,199
Speaker 5: Like the worst when I'm Alan, I feel it.

650
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 2: But it was more and that one I was like no.

651
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 4: I was like, it's kind of a long story. But

652
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 4: then I had to go into the story right because

653
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 4: he's like, well, what's the story And I'm like, well,

654
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 4: Jesse tried, like before I actually met you, she put

655
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 4: us on a group message because she was like trying

656
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 4: to wingman me. And then so we're in this group

657
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 4: message and you know, we ended up not getting We

658
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 4: end up not going on on a date. And he's like, oh, so,

659
00:28:57,880 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 4: but you would have gone on date. I was like,

660
00:28:58,920 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 4: can we send this conversation?

661
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 3: It's like.

662
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 5: Because y'all really didn't even like go on a date.

663
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, but there was a somewhat story there, so I

664
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 4: had to somewhat story. The somewhat story, you have to

665
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 4: clear it. And I like that, yeah, it's peace of mind,

666
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 4: it builds trust. Yeah, But like the other times it's

667
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 4: like and I don't think there's ever been a where

668
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 4: it's he's been around someone and I haven't said, like,

669
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 4: he hasn't not asked.

670
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 5: So yeah, he always asks.

671
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 4: I'm trying, And there are many times where I'm like,

672
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:33,959
Speaker 4: this would be so easy to just sure. I mean,

673
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 4: we had we had one that was a real tough

674
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 4: one for me because I knew that he was going

675
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 4: to ask and I may or may not have had

676
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 4: to work with the person coming up, and I was like,

677
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 4: this is going to be a tough one. And of

678
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 4: course he asked, and I told my therapist. I was like,

679
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 4: and I know, I told you guys this too, But

680
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 4: I'm like every part of my being wanted to lie

681
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 4: to him because he would have never found out because

682
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 4: it was a million years ago, like so many years

683
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 4: ago that it's like it was never known about. I

684
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 4: never spoke about it, never talked like he would have

685
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:09,480
Speaker 4: never find out, but I knew, yeah, you know, and

686
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 4: I just was like I had to and I was like,

687
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 4: oh yes, but it was so long that that piece

688
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 4: it doesn't matter how long ago it was, No, it

689
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 4: doesn't not when I'm allan, what a time. So Kylie

690
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 4: Kelsey has been talking about her post part of body,

691
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 4: and I feel like because she just had her third

692
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 4: and I think it's one of those the third, fourth note, fourth, one, two, three, four,

693
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 4: third and I love four four four sorry, And I

694
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 4: love people talking about it because I feel like it

695
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 4: wasn't until Roman that I didn't put as much pressure

696
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 4: on my postpartum where I felt like I put more

697
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 4: pressure on the first two. What about you guys, this

698
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 4: one's just been the hardest really, yeah, Okay, see, this

699
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 4: one's been I think the easiest for me. Well, I

700
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 4: would say this one's been my obess. I'm the postpartum body,

701
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 4: not postpartum hormones.

702
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 2: I'll say that.

703
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 4: So, like, physicality wise, it's been the easiest to get

704
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 4: over that piece of it. But I'm also like, I'm

705
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 4: agreeing with like we're Kylie's like, it's just like my

706
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 4: stomach's never gonna look the same. Oh that's why it's like,

707
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 4: and I'm fine with that. I've had three kids. Cool, yeah,

708
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 4: you know, And I love that people are talking about

709
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 4: that because I love when I see a sweet little flat,

710
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 4: you know, stomach girl. But I'm like I'm a mom,

711
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 4: I've got three kids, and my belly will always look

712
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 4: a little different. That's okay, it's great. I do think

713
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 4: this last one I felt most well supported in postpartum,

714
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 4: but the hormones have been tricky, and it is probably

715
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 4: because of our age. I think we are postpartum balancing

716
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 4: while we're also premenopausea premenopausing staging.

717
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 1: So I think it's just been like it's a little

718
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 1: bit of a mix. Yeah, I mean, I honestly never

719
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 1: really stressed about it. I mean, but the reality is,

720
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 1: like I wasn't with the third. I think I was

721
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 1: larger when I got pregnant than the other two, like

722
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: starting out like I'd gained some weight back or whatever.

723
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 1: So I mean, I've struggled a little bit, like with

724
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 1: my weight and stuff, but my body going back never

725
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 1: stressed me out.

726
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 5: It truly never did.

727
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 1: I think for me, I always was pleasantly surprised how

728
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 1: my body kind of went back to normal. I guess

729
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: in my mind I thought the worst. I guess like

730
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 1: it will never go back. I'll always just be thirty

731
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 1: pounds heavier or you know, or whatever. But generally after

732
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 1: every single baby, I bounced back relatively quickly to what

733
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:01,800
Speaker 1: my weight was was before. Now, did I want to

734
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 1: lose some weight from what that weight was before, Sure,

735
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 1: but just from having a baby, I kind of usually

736
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,719
Speaker 1: always kind of mostly went back. But yeah, it's different.

737
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, your belly's different, and as I've

738
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: lost weight this time, my belly's a lot different because

739
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: I gain weight in my belly. So now it's just

740
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:23,479
Speaker 1: like mushy, you know what I mean. And that's kind

741
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 1: of like after having a baby. Yeah, it just gets

742
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 1: kind of and it kind of just seems like that

743
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: now again. But it just never truly bothered me that much.

744
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 3: I think I just was always so proud of what

745
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 3: my body did that I didn't feel the urge to

746
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 3: push it back to do whatever it wasn't going to do. Yeah, Like,

747
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 3: I just was so freaking proud. I mean, it's really

748
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 3: miraculous what we're up to. Absolutely, I think my boobs

749
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 3: this time really hurt my feelings as we know. Oh yeah,

750
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 3: have you made your consultation?

751
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 2: Yes, twice and had to move it twice.

752
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 3: But I'm trying. Yeah, absolutely, But then I'm taking that

753
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 3: as a sign too. You know, of course you'll love it.

754
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 4: Hi, I'm twenty nine years old and want to get

755
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 4: married and have kids one day. I've been dating someone

756
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 4: for a little over a year. He's kind, supportive, and

757
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 4: everything I thought I wanted. But lately I've started wondering

758
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 4: if we're truly compatible long term. There's no big drama

759
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 4: in red flags, just this quiet feeling that something's missing.

760
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 4: Is it normal to question a good relationship just because

761
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 4: it doesn't feel magical all the time. How do you

762
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 4: know when it's just a rough patch or it's a

763
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 4: sign it's not the right fit?

764
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 5: Well tough.

765
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:31,239
Speaker 3: Two out of three have been divorced. Almost one out

766
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:37,320
Speaker 3: of three was turn things around. There are so much reality.

767
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 3: There's so much reality in rough patches in marriage.

768
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:40,360
Speaker 2: I mean, it just is.

769
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 3: I was having a reflective moment even yesterday because I

770
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 3: thought we're about to celebrate year ten and year seven

771
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 3: was our hardest, but like, I can't get to year

772
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 3: ten without seven and seven mattered so much in so

773
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 3: many ways. But it was not easy and it wasn't

774
00:34:56,200 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 3: pretty sure. So I don't know, is so young still

775
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 3: hard because I felt this way a lot in my

776
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 3: first marriage. The way she's talking like it's fine and

777
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:12,359
Speaker 3: we're best friends and things, and she's not married yet, right,

778
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:14,800
Speaker 3: But I'm saying like I kind of went into marriage

779
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 3: because I was like, well, there is no big red

780
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:25,319
Speaker 3: flags and everything is fine, but it wasn't long term fine. Yeah,

781
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 3: I mean I think you have to know that, Like

782
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 3: you were saying, every relationship is going to have difficulties

783
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 3: and there's going to be rough patches.

784
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 2: So do you want to go through the rough patches

785
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 2: with this person?

786
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a good point, yeah, because like literally there

787
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 4: is no perfect relationship. You're going to have fights, there's

788
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 4: going to be lots of ups and downs, there's a

789
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 4: lot of non romantic day to day kind of like

790
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 4: yeah mundane, yeah, getting.

791
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 3: We really are selling her well.

792
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 5: But it's sure she's not married yet.

793
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:01,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like you have you know, like you've really

794
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: got to think that way, Like it's already kind of struggling,

795
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: is you know, can you withstand.

796
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 2: It but don't settle though too.

797
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 4: So there is a little piece of you that is

798
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:15,320
Speaker 4: that little quiet feeling that you're saying something's missing. I

799
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,840
Speaker 4: would lean into that and ask yourself what is the

800
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 4: piece that's missing, because without hiring yourself toe, I'm so

801
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:24,440
Speaker 4: grateful for my two babies.

802
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 2: I wish I would have leaned into that feeling a

803
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 2: bit more. But you know, yeah, just ask yourself what

804
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:33,840
Speaker 2: that what that is?

805
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 4: And if you think you can find because the thing

806
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 4: is you're going to find someone else has a bag

807
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 4: of different issues. That's just the reality of it. It's

808
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 4: like you cannot find the perfect dude. You're not going

809
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:47,760
Speaker 4: to be the perfect person. They can find another person,

810
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:50,800
Speaker 4: a woman like you that just has just different issues.

811
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 2: So can you handle his? Yeah? Can you guys grow together?

812
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:57,360
Speaker 2: They takes some.

813
00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:59,919
Speaker 3: Definite silent time, Like I think, I wish I would

814
00:36:59,920 --> 00:37:03,959
Speaker 3: have been more silent and more prayerful too, really listen

815
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 3: to what I already knew, and I that would be

816
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 3: my one.

817
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 2: Big mistake. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Oh girl, Well keep.

818
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:19,880
Speaker 5: Us, give us posted twenty nine year olds us.

819
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 4: Let us know if you're gonna get to hear back

820
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 4: from all these people that I know. All right, ladies,

821
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 4: until next week.

822
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 2: Bye. So you