1 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: First of all, recently, when I've been dating. 2 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 2: I have told a few people a fact about myself, 3 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:26,440 Speaker 2: which is that every day, every day, at least one 4 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 2: I love Lucy moment happens to me, like every single day. 5 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 2: It could be big, small, but like I'll tell you 6 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 2: about my birthday, which was epic. But on my birthday, 7 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 2: I had dresses that were replicas of Scarface. They were stunning, 8 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 2: they were perfect. I was exquisite in my own mind. 9 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 2: And I went to go do my Glosian and my 10 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 2: loomy Glosian, and I was like, oh my god, this 11 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 2: is scary because I knew I was like just gonna 12 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 2: put one dot on the brush and just like get 13 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 2: out of my arms because it's like almost fool proof. 14 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 2: But nevertheless, I saw someone who works with me through 15 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 2: the mirror because she was filming me through the mire, 16 00:00:57,960 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 2: and I looked in the mirror and I saw her 17 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 2: eyes like go like saucers, and I had a glop 18 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 2: of loomy Glossian on my satin custom like I can't 19 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 2: like trauma. Okay, So every day, that's not the story 20 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 2: I'm telling. That'll be an aside, But just like every day, 21 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 2: at least one thing. It could be my tit falls out, 22 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:22,120 Speaker 2: Like there's always something that is completely ridiculous, like on 23 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 2: my honeymoon, a gigantic I don't know if you fucking 24 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 2: call it an iguana or a lizard. If it's the 25 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 2: size of a cat and it's not an exaggeration, you 26 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 2: can come back and watch the show. Took a shit 27 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 2: in my in my honeymoon hotel room, Like has anyone 28 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 2: else in the history of mankind had an iguana poop 29 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 2: like a dog in their honeymoon sweet So like every 30 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 2: day something okay. 31 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 1: So the other day, I'm in Miami. 32 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 2: I'm a very organized person, and I've been through a 33 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 2: bunch of moves and renovations, and I always want to 34 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 2: know that my storage unit is it's just like a 35 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 2: small building storage unit. What's in there? Because things just 36 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 2: like land down there and live there. And I don't 37 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 2: really want much down there because it's a I don't 38 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 2: believe in storage. It's just like the vortex, it's the abyss, 39 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 2: it's it's the lock ness from you to triangle. 40 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: It's just I don't believe in it. 41 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 2: So I told some of my team to please just 42 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 2: inventory what's in there. Take a picture, send it to 43 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 2: me because I want to know because now all my 44 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 2: moves are done, everything's clean, everything's out, nothing's hiding like 45 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 2: we're lean and in this Inflorence or era of mine 46 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 2: with all this stuff, I just am constantly purging and 47 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 2: I just want it out. 48 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,679 Speaker 1: So I see. 49 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 2: My driver in Miami Edson because he'd been told to 50 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 2: go down there and open it, and he says to 51 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 2: me that there's a lock on it. And I'm like, oh, 52 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 2: that's interesting, and I'm thinking maybe that's from one of 53 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 2: my former staff members and they like put a lock 54 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 2: on it, and we don't know the combination anymore. 55 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 1: Who cares? 56 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 2: So I basically say to him, and there's a guy 57 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 2: from my building, like a super of my building in 58 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 2: the elevator, and I'm like, just cut it off. And 59 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 2: so he looks at the super guy. He's like, yeah, 60 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 2: we probably have one of those. So just like cut 61 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 2: it off. How much is a lock? Cut the lock off? Okay, 62 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 2: I've seen it in a million movies. So I go 63 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 2: to this E one electric car race and I'm there 64 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 2: and now I'm on the way and I'm with this 65 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 2: guy and I'm having pictures sent to me of what's 66 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 2: down there in my luggage era. I was sent a 67 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 2: lot of luggage, so I started seeing some luggage. It 68 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 2: looks a little like busted and beat up. Maybe I 69 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 2: left it down there just in case I travel somewhere 70 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:28,639 Speaker 2: from Miami in a random case to who cares if. 71 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:29,919 Speaker 1: It's like the nicest luggage. 72 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 2: Then I see some clothes and I'm like looking at things, 73 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 2: and I start, this is me. I start to get overwhelmed, 74 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 2: and I only sweat the small stuff, so never focus 75 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 2: on the big thing that's going on, Like this could 76 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 2: be being sent to me as I was about to 77 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 2: speak in front of the White House, and I would 78 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 2: be more focused on these photos coming in because I can't. 79 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 2: I call it latching, like I need to unlatch. I 80 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 2: can't unlatch until the thing is done. I can't come 81 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 2: home with a suitcase from Europe, from anywhere, from one day, 82 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 2: from an hour, from a date, from a night, from 83 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 2: a birthday party four o'clock in the morning. I can't 84 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 2: come home until every single thing is put away, till 85 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:04,119 Speaker 2: my body's clean, like I can't rest until it's all done. 86 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 1: It's a problem. I can't change it. I'm sorry. 87 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 2: So now I'm on this at this daytime event and 88 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 2: I'm looking at my phone like what the okay? So 89 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 2: I'm texting back dump it, dump that, which is what 90 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 2: I do with a lot of my social media stuff. 91 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 2: I'll be out of town and I'll get sent pictures 92 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 2: of like give that away, dump that posh that I 93 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:24,280 Speaker 2: need to review that, put that here, hang that, because 94 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 2: I don't want to walk into a mess. Like that's 95 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 2: the whole goal. So today's a day before I'm traveling. 96 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 2: I've gone through everything. I want to make sure my 97 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 2: team is really like tight right purging, so when I 98 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 2: come back, if there's more stuff built up, it's not 99 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 2: as bad. So on this day, I'm know that I'm 100 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 2: going to come home from a hot race, i am 101 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 2: on a date, I'm having drinks. I just want to 102 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 2: like come home in my apartment to be clean, not 103 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 2: to walk into a shit storm. So I'm like trying 104 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 2: to say what is what and what should go wear? 105 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 2: But like a lot of the stuff I don't understand, 106 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 2: and it's like some clothes from some brands and tags 107 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 2: and I'm like, did that come from a brand? 108 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 1: And may be in the move. My team just. 109 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 2: Thought, oh, we'll show it to her, but it got 110 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 2: lost in translation, it's just in the storage. And so 111 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 2: I basically give up, and I say, after saying to 112 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 2: dump a bunch of things, like dump the suitcase, dump that, 113 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 2: dump these things, I got like waterboarded, and I just unlatched. 114 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:17,919 Speaker 2: I said, fuck it, just put it, leave it in 115 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:20,840 Speaker 2: the apartment. When I get to the apartment, I'll look 116 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 2: through it. 117 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 1: Okay. I walk into the apartment and there's. 118 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 2: Always a package, and I've got my bag and I 119 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 2: want to get in my clothes and I'm sweaty, and 120 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 2: I just want to like not deal with this. So 121 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 2: I walk in and there's a pile of shit on 122 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 2: my counter, and I get exasperated right away. It's never rational. 123 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 2: Ten minutes later, this whole task could be over, but 124 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 2: I don't like the feeling. So I walk I'm like, oh, 125 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 2: so I start going through it because I can't move 126 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 2: forward and do anything until this is done. So I 127 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 2: start going through it and I see like this really 128 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 2: nice luxury item that's not really my style, but I'm like, like, 129 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 2: this is cute I always wants. 130 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 1: And then get rid of it. 131 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 2: And then I keep going through the suitcases I think 132 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 2: are gone because everything's now in a plastic bag because 133 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 2: the suitcases were thrown out. So I go through like 134 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 2: a order of it, and there's something from Talbots, but 135 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 2: like I had, I did a deal with Talbots, and 136 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 2: I bought stuff from Talbots when I spilled soup on 137 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 2: myself and I learned that I love Talbots. But there's 138 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 2: some stuff from Talbots, but I don't remember buying it. 139 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:15,160 Speaker 2: Something from TJ Max. A brick hits me, a proverbial 140 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 2: brick hits me, and I go, holy. 141 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:23,799 Speaker 1: Shit, this is not my stuff. 142 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:29,679 Speaker 2: This is not my stuff, this is not my storage unit, 143 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 2: this is not my belongings. I directed my staff to 144 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 2: take a tool like Ray Donovan style or Sons of 145 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 2: Anarchy style and break open a lock in someone else's 146 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:44,719 Speaker 2: storage unit. And then I proceeded to tell my team 147 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 2: to dump their belongings. Like what if there was like 148 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 2: a bag of cocaine in there, or a bunch of 149 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 2: vibrant anything. There wasn't, thank god, but like either I would, 150 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 2: I would die. So I'm like, well, oh my god. 151 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 2: And then I'm realizing that I told him to throw 152 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:02,280 Speaker 2: shit out. I'm literally I text the guy who works 153 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 2: for me, and I'm like listen to me, and it 154 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 2: was actually no one's fault. The building who did give 155 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:08,599 Speaker 2: a guy that I was dating the wrong car he 156 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 2: had bought in Numerocedes, and the building gave the wrong 157 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 2: car to him, gave him a Lexus one night. So 158 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 2: I'm blaming the building showed my driver the wrong storage unit. 159 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 2: So like, I know, I'm legally protected, and like it's 160 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 2: not my fault because I also have the proof that 161 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 2: day they gave the wrong car, But that's not the point. Like, 162 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 2: what an invasion of privacy? I am so sorry. I 163 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 2: don't know who the people are. I literally you know 164 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 2: how a kid will close their eyes and cover their 165 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 2: ears so like, and then they think you can't see them, 166 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 2: like they just because they've closed their eyes, like they 167 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 2: can't see you, Like I closed my eyes and ears, 168 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 2: I said to my team member. 169 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know, I don't care. 170 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 2: Throw money at the problem, right, a check, buy them 171 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 2: an apartment, buy them a look. I cannot be part 172 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 2: of this and I don't want to know anymore. It 173 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 2: never happened. I am hiding under a garbage can. You're welcome, 174 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 2: so I whoever they are are, if they ever listen 175 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 2: to my podcast. We don't have to discuss it. We 176 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 2: never have to. Don't make eye contact. I'm sorry. If 177 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 2: you need something, I'm always here to help you. I 178 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 2: did not take one thing. I didn't really look. It 179 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 2: was you have a very clean collection of belongings and 180 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 2: there was nothing untoward, like, what a horror? What a horror. 181 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 2: So I'm a watch collector. I have a world class 182 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 2: watch collection. Years ago, my best friend was wearing a watch. 183 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 2: Her husband is in the watch business, and she was 184 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 2: wearing a watch that she told me cost eight thousand dollars. 185 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 2: It was a watch called Enigma, said to be the 186 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:43,599 Speaker 2: first watch that was stainless set with diamonds. I was 187 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 2: obsessed with it. I wanted I was broke. I could 188 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 2: never have had it. I'm a hunter. I'm a hunter 189 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 2: and a gatherer. I kept looking on eBay for years 190 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 2: and years, and then one day this watch came up 191 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 2: for eight hundred dollars. It is luxurious, it is stunning, 192 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 2: it is amazing. I have so many other stories like 193 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:05,680 Speaker 2: that about finds that I've found on eBay, and the 194 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 2: hunt is as fun as the get. 195 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:09,680 Speaker 1: Sometimes it's right there. 196 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 2: Sometimes you have to be a little patient shop eBay 197 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 2: from millions of fines, each with a story eBay Things 198 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:34,319 Speaker 2: People Love. Next, I will tell you about my birthday 199 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 2: and my birthday party. So I have always wanted to 200 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 2: have a scarface party. I've never been to a scarface party. 201 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 2: I've never seen a scarface party. I've never seen even 202 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 2: a scarface costume executed properly. And the reason that this 203 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 2: is so ingrained and embedded in my life is because 204 00:09:57,320 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 2: I saw that movie in the movie theaters nineteen eighty three, 205 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:06,439 Speaker 2: and dozens of times after I've seen it, probably fifty times. 206 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 2: I know every line in the movie, and my mother 207 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:15,679 Speaker 2: looked exactly like Michelle Pfeiffer. But she looked exactly like 208 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 2: Michelle Pfeiffer in that movie. So that movie was very, 209 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 2: very relatable to me. It's not the type of movie 210 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 2: you take your kids to see at thirteen years old, 211 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 2: but I saw Halloween in the movie theater, and Eyes 212 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 2: of Laura Mars and every murder movie as a child 213 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 2: like I definitely did not have an appropriate childhood, and 214 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 2: seeing Scarface was the most appropriate aspect of my childhood. 215 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 2: But the movie had so many references. We used to 216 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 2: go down to Florida and go to the diplomat during 217 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 2: that time, and we used to go to the racetrack, 218 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 2: Well used to go. 219 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 1: I grew up at the racetrack. 220 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:51,720 Speaker 2: And so they go to the racetrack, and the outfit 221 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 2: that she wears to the racetrack is literally I have 222 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 2: a picture of my mother at my I think it 223 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:58,959 Speaker 2: was my confirmation where she's wearing a hat like that. 224 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 2: My mother had that convertible Mercedes that I recently renovated 225 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 2: and bought. And I grew up with a bunch of degenerates, 226 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:10,680 Speaker 2: like real racetrack drug doing, gambling degenerates. So the movie 227 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 2: actually really feels like it's been part of my life 228 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 2: in childhood. We don't have to judge any of that. 229 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 2: We'd have to talk about that. My stepfather told me 230 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 2: that the mafia was after us. I saw a gun 231 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 2: in the glove compartment. I was going to night clubs 232 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 2: at thirteen years old, starting and I was at Palladium 233 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 2: at fourteen, Studio of fifty four. I was an adult 234 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 2: as a child. So this movie was ingrained in my 235 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 2: body and I've always wanted to do it. And I 236 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 2: always looked exactly like my mother, but with dark hair. 237 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 2: She had blonde hair, and I had have tiny nose. 238 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:45,680 Speaker 2: I do not have a nose job similar features. She 239 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 2: had a pronounced jaw. Everyone thought I looked just like her, 240 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 2: but with dark hair, and she had blonde hair and 241 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 2: she dyed her hair. 242 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 1: But I mean she was born blonde. I was not. 243 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:55,319 Speaker 2: I was born in Brunette. So then it was like, 244 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 2: where am I doing it? I chose to do it 245 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,959 Speaker 2: at a private club called Zzi is a very expense 246 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,680 Speaker 2: membership private club that someone once took me for dinner, 247 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 2: and I fell in love with it, and I love 248 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:06,959 Speaker 2: the food and I love the people. It's part of 249 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 2: the major food group, which is Carbone, and I just 250 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 2: think that they've done it properly. It's very chill and 251 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 2: it's very elite. It's not like a shit show. It's 252 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 2: not like what the Soho House was when it started, 253 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 2: where it's like packed and who's who. It's not like that, like, yes, 254 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 2: you'll see Gazelle in sweats eating dinner with their kids, 255 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 2: or you'll see definitely famous people, but it's very chill. 256 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:31,200 Speaker 2: It's not like a wild time, but it's beautiful and 257 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 2: done immaculately well, and they don't really do many private events. 258 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 2: They don't do private events in these areas, and so 259 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:41,440 Speaker 2: because of what has become a relationship with this brand, 260 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 2: they decided to make an exception and have this type 261 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,680 Speaker 2: of party at this establishment. And so for me, that 262 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 2: was great and I paid for it. And I only 263 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 2: say that because many people offered to host my birthday 264 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 2: party for me for free, and I paid for it 265 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 2: because ironically, I don't get things anymore, which is annoying, 266 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 2: because I don't like people to have everything that I have, 267 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 2: and of course every nosey be has everything I have 268 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 2: now because of social media. But I want to do 269 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 2: something really different, and so I wanted to do the 270 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 2: event in this space really differently, and I wanted to 271 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:17,840 Speaker 2: do the scarface theme, and it started to evolve. Now 272 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 2: I used to produce events for a living, like large 273 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 2: scale Emmys, Grammys, the Rock movie premiere on Alcatraz, like 274 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 2: barging in electricity, living on Alcatraz, like in a prison 275 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 2: for like three weeks, like really difficult events. So I 276 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 2: know how to plan events, and even with my own 277 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 2: personal events, I'll obsess for a while, obsessed about this, 278 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:37,959 Speaker 2: obsessed about that I wasn't like this. 279 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 1: About the planning of it. 280 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 2: I literally had my ideas, had a really long detailed 281 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 2: sound list, had a vision of what I wanted it 282 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 2: to be, and then didn't really pull it together until 283 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:50,600 Speaker 2: like a couple of days before, with like the props 284 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 2: and the things, and so it had a chill vibe 285 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:55,200 Speaker 2: to it. It wasn't overly produced, which I don't like 286 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:58,679 Speaker 2: when a place is too like too many florals, too 287 00:13:58,679 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 2: many chair covers, too much. 288 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 1: It's like to produce. 289 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 2: It's two wedding, like two stage two choreographed, like I'm 290 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:07,320 Speaker 2: a very like I like to give a framework and 291 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 2: then we're going to call her in the lines together. 292 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 1: It was like that. 293 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 2: As far as the planning of the party menu, I 294 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 2: could plan on food menu that's gonna be amazing with 295 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 2: my eyes closed, Like I'm a pretty excellent party planner 296 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 2: with the vibe and the flow and all of that. 297 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 2: And as Ian Schrager on this podcast said, Ian Schrager 298 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 2: was duty of fifty four and the Delano and the Mandria. 299 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 2: He said, it's an alchemy, so you never know. And 300 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 2: what happened was my best friend Sarah was always going 301 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 2: to be in Saudi Arabia and somewhere else and for 302 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 2: three weeks. So I was never going to do my 303 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 2: birthday party in like July, like I wasn't gonna shoot 304 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 2: fucking kill the whole month of November. And my friend 305 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 2: Terry was coming home and was going to be able 306 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 2: to make this particular date because I already changed it 307 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 2: once for at least one of them to come, and 308 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 2: so it was literally like ring around the rosie. I 309 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 2: kept trying to change the day for people. It was 310 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 2: getting irritating, and then I finally said, fuck it, this 311 00:14:57,440 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 2: is the date, and this is the date. So Terry 312 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 2: then got stuck because of all the flight problems that 313 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 2: she got stuck in India. She's still not back. And 314 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 2: it was always going to be like fifty five people. 315 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 2: I like intimate parties, it was always gonna be like 316 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 2: fifty five people. So I invited close friends. But I 317 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 2: started to like really curate who I invited and who 318 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 2: I wanted to be there and why. And I say 319 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 2: this because of course I had friends that I've known 320 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 2: since college there, and people that I've known for decades, 321 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 2: and Laney who's been with me for ten years. But 322 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:53,680 Speaker 2: I also had many people that I've met over the 323 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 2: last decade, fewer over the last five years. But just 324 00:15:57,280 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 2: like there was a curation and a combination that reflected 325 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 2: the theme of scarf face, the colorful personalities of really 326 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 2: Miami even versus South Florida. Really mostly Miami, but others 327 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 2: from different parts of Florida. Now definitely Florida. But it 328 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 2: connected my new life with my old life, and it 329 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 2: connected my move like I've moved here, this is our community. 330 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 2: But like it also made me stretch a little and 331 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 2: be more open because so many people reach out to me, 332 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 2: and I trust no one, and I'm just paranoid and 333 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 2: I only have my very small circle of friends, and 334 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 2: I'm not really interested in like big groups of friends, 335 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 2: and I am very closed off. So I want to 336 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 2: like cancel something before it even starts. I want to 337 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 2: like not do it before it's even off to the races. 338 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 2: It's almost irrational. It's just like I start to get anxiety. Now, 339 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 2: let's layer that in with me always despising my birthday 340 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 2: and the first time in years what I can remember, 341 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 2: like in my birthday was this birthday in Florida. Just 342 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 2: the simplicity of the dinner with my daughter, the way 343 00:16:57,800 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 2: that she woke me up. I love you, Mama, it's 344 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 2: your special day. The way that I got nice, beautiful 345 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 2: flowers from suitors and things like that. But it just 346 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 2: was a calm day. But I didn't have the anxiety 347 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 2: I always have. I didn't have the highs and lows 348 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:11,679 Speaker 2: if it's nothing but it's everything you did too much 349 00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:13,719 Speaker 2: or we didn't do enough, or I didn't have all 350 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 2: the triggering of it being my mother's birthday. I didn't 351 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:19,159 Speaker 2: have any of that. But a birthday party is a 352 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 2: different element. I actually forgot to say at my speech 353 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 2: on my birthday that it was born in my mother's birthday. 354 00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:26,400 Speaker 2: So there's a poetry to the costume because I ended 355 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 2: up looking just like my mother. So as the event 356 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 2: came closer, I started to like open it up a 357 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:37,439 Speaker 2: little and I invited some last minute people that I 358 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 2: just know are in Florida. I know they would love 359 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:41,359 Speaker 2: to calm and I know they would add to it, 360 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 2: and they were very Miami and very like open and 361 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 2: would probably participate in the theme. And to be honest, 362 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:51,920 Speaker 2: that's what made the party. It just wasn't my traditional 363 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 2: friend group, only it was more open and it was 364 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,160 Speaker 2: like I was thinking about each table as like, oh wait, Okay, 365 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 2: well that's a success tech guy and he'd like to 366 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:03,360 Speaker 2: talk to that guy about that guy. Oh, well, that 367 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 2: person's daughter goes to Universe in Miami, so this other 368 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:08,679 Speaker 2: person would be good there. Or oh, this one's like 369 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:11,840 Speaker 2: an artist, and this one's like a nightclub impresario. And 370 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 2: this one's in real estate, this one's in architecture, this 371 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:19,159 Speaker 2: one's in it. And I really really somehow pulled it 372 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 2: together and didn't And the music, I was literally down 373 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 2: to the detail curating the music. And then my outfit 374 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 2: came together. And then I brought the car, my car 375 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 2: that I renovated for my mother, the vintage Mercedes that 376 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:34,160 Speaker 2: was right around the same time as the movie came out, 377 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 2: so it's an iconic of that era car, and we 378 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:39,440 Speaker 2: brought it down to Miami, and this movie was based 379 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:42,199 Speaker 2: in Miami, and like Miami's got that like gritty, like 380 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 2: sexiness that's like a little sleazy to it. And so 381 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:47,199 Speaker 2: like the party had that, and the way that the 382 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:51,360 Speaker 2: men dressed and they looked like degenerates, and like everyone 383 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:55,200 Speaker 2: just came correct, like it just was the alchemy came 384 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 2: together and I leaned into it, and like I embodied 385 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 2: the character of shelf ei Forer in scarface, like I 386 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 2: never put my cigarette down for one second. I didn't 387 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 2: feel complete without it. I didn't put my lighter down. 388 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:11,800 Speaker 2: It just all came together, the money, guns, the it 389 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:15,440 Speaker 2: was just amazing. There was an elegance and a sleaziness 390 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:19,400 Speaker 2: at the same time, like a Miami and a sexiness 391 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 2: and a fucking I'm in the right room at the 392 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:24,200 Speaker 2: right time. And the way I sent the invitations out 393 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 2: wasn't like rich, bougie bitch like. I didn't send out 394 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 2: like print did whatever. And I didn't make a big 395 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:30,600 Speaker 2: deal about it and had my assistant to do it. 396 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 2: I just texted it. And there were some people that 397 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 2: didn't come, that didn't make the effort to come, like 398 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:37,920 Speaker 2: they just weren't in town or they were gonna be away, 399 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:41,800 Speaker 2: and like now they're freaking out having fomo that they 400 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:44,480 Speaker 2: didn't come because, like I guess, I was chill about it, 401 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:46,880 Speaker 2: because I'm chill about come or don't com. I don't 402 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:48,680 Speaker 2: give a shit to do what you want. It's gonna 403 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 2: come together the way it's supposed to meeting. If you 404 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 2: don't come, I'm gonna fill that seat with someone who will. 405 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 2: Because remember I'm not the one hundred and fifty person 406 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:59,240 Speaker 2: birthday party. I'm the fifty five person birthday party because 407 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 2: I want the alchemy. So like, whoever couldn't come, I 408 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 2: was like, great, And then I invited someone else and 409 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:06,000 Speaker 2: no one cared that I invited them a week before. 410 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 2: It's not my wedding. It was just like, I want 411 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 2: you there, come and you're gonna have a great time. 412 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:13,440 Speaker 2: But I do love many of the people that couldn't come, 413 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 2: like totally having fomo because it was a ten out 414 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 2: of ten. And I'll tell you a true story is 415 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 2: that the DJ that works out of the space and 416 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:23,439 Speaker 2: he does all like high end celebrity like fashion, like 417 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 2: model like major parties like Miami like debauchery parties. And 418 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:31,400 Speaker 2: he said to me, this is the best party we've 419 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 2: ever done. And he said, I don't I'm not gonna 420 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:35,120 Speaker 2: believe this. I don't give myself flowers. And this way, 421 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:36,880 Speaker 2: he was like, and it was because of the way 422 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 2: you set the tone, and I really did lean into 423 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 2: it all the way. I had the best night. The 424 00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:47,479 Speaker 2: night before I made the stupid, moronic mistake of going 425 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:50,679 Speaker 2: out with Chris Appleton to six places, had seventy five drinks, 426 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:52,680 Speaker 2: went on a boat, went in a caban, I watched 427 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:54,680 Speaker 2: the movie, had a lunch, had tequila sodas, went to 428 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 2: a club, went to an afterclub, like Moron was so 429 00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 2: sick all day. But I really only had one drink 430 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 2: on the night of the party, and it was Chef's kiss. 431 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 2: I was so present. I wasn't like slosh, I didn't 432 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:09,399 Speaker 2: look sloppy. I just had the best time ever, and 433 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 2: so did everyone else. There's not a person who was 434 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:14,159 Speaker 2: there who didn't message me to be like what the fuck. 435 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:16,360 Speaker 2: And it wasn't like what the fuck that we were 436 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:18,399 Speaker 2: like hanging from chandalis for five in the morning. It 437 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:22,359 Speaker 2: was also very adult, like everyone had the best time, 438 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 2: but like everyone was so respectful. 439 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 1: It was really unbelievable. 440 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:31,439 Speaker 2: One of the best parties I've ever been to, one 441 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 2: of the best parties I've ever had. If not the 442 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 2: best party, I think the best party and the best 443 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:40,400 Speaker 2: night ever. Like it was honestly epic. I'm so grateful. 444 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 2: And now I broke the seal because now I literally 445 00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:46,119 Speaker 2: already know what I'm doing next. I'm so excited. I 446 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:49,159 Speaker 2: finally like broke the seal and I went with it, 447 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,679 Speaker 2: even though I was uncomfortable, and I invited two women, 448 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 2: Lisa and Rita, these influencers, the day before, just because 449 00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:58,200 Speaker 2: I thought to myself, you know, I'd flown in Laney 450 00:21:58,240 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 2: and been like, let me get you a hotel. It's 451 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:01,199 Speaker 2: not going to be complete without you there, even just 452 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 2: for the night, and flew in these two women and 453 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:05,680 Speaker 2: like itsa or one of them. I think she was 454 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:08,880 Speaker 2: already coming, but offered to get her hotel and one 455 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 2: of them, who cares. I brought in some women who 456 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:14,080 Speaker 2: are influencers who I knew would appreciate it. They were 457 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:17,439 Speaker 2: such an addition. I loved it. It just it was extraordinary. 458 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,000 Speaker 2: I had the best time ever. So if any of 459 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 2: you were there, I'm grateful. And if you weren't there, 460 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 2: you definitely missed out and you have a reason to 461 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 2: f fomo