WEBVTT - RHOSLC Britani Bateman Live From BravoCon

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, guys, welcome back to I Do Part two. It's

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<v Speaker 1>your celebrity mentor Jenfestler.

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<v Speaker 2>And I am here in Las Vegas at Bravo Con.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited to be here, and I'm even more

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<v Speaker 2>excited for my guest today because everyone knows her, everyone's

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<v Speaker 2>talking about her, and she is a little doll. Hello

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<v Speaker 2>to Britney Babeman. Thank you so much, Brittan, thank you

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<v Speaker 2>so much for coming on. Oh my gosh, I'm so

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<v Speaker 2>grateful to be here. I'm very excited to meet you,

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<v Speaker 2>to see you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're doing good. It's fun to see you in the flesh.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I actually give you a real hug. I agree,

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<v Speaker 1>I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>So you probably know now this podcast is about part two.

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<v Speaker 2>I've had my own Part two. All of our guests

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<v Speaker 2>have had. He's not really well. We were separated for

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<v Speaker 2>year and a half, so we call that our part two. Yes, anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>not about me, So you is not what about you?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean usually I like it to be, but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna focus on you. My friend got to go. So

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<v Speaker 2>you I believe you've been married twice. Yes, okay, so

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<v Speaker 2>tell me a little bit if you wouldn't mind about

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<v Speaker 2>how it feels how, you know, just going through marriage

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<v Speaker 2>twice and yeah, I just don't know and a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit about those relationships.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, if I could go back and do it again,

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<v Speaker 3>I would do it the heatherway, the Heather Gay way. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>hey that kind of rhymes, the Heather Gay way, and

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<v Speaker 3>just like focused solely on my kids.

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<v Speaker 1>There were so many things at play.

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<v Speaker 3>There was you know, low self esteem coming out of

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<v Speaker 3>that first marriage and wanting that validation that you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I still am someone. There was also this really strong

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<v Speaker 3>element of I want the kind of family that I deserve,

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<v Speaker 3>and I want my kids to have the kind of

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<v Speaker 3>upbringing that I had, So I want to find a

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<v Speaker 3>partner that will be a parent and equal, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I just wanted get that, just the traditional family

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<v Speaker 3>that I was raised in, and I thought that I

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<v Speaker 3>had found that and it couldn't have backfired worse than

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<v Speaker 3>it did.

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<v Speaker 2>I've gone through many periods in my life where I've

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<v Speaker 2>needed validation from men and where I've made men a priority. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and when my husband and I were separated, I wish

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<v Speaker 2>looking back that I had just had they were there

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<v Speaker 2>always a priority, But I probably wouldn't have done the

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<v Speaker 2>whole thing in terms of like my children and I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, separating from Jeff. But that's okay because here

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<v Speaker 2>we are to tell the story.

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<v Speaker 3>Here we are exactly with scratches and scars, and hopefully

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<v Speaker 3>we'll just I don't know, gosh, hopefully all wounds can heal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes they Yes, what I'm it's what I'm banking on

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<v Speaker 2>bringing on. I know, I know that they will, and

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<v Speaker 2>the new wounds will come, unfortunately.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, new deep wounds will come. So what do you

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<v Speaker 1>like got you through the divorces?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's so devastating what you learn about yourself

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<v Speaker 2>those marriages ending.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, Just man, that's a really really good question.

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<v Speaker 3>What did I learn so much? I mean, I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm a completely different person. My priorities are totally different.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that I've learned to not care what anyone

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<v Speaker 3>else thinks. And I'm looking back, I'm really glad that

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<v Speaker 3>for the moments I wasn't always perfect, but most of

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<v Speaker 3>the time I took the high road, whether or not

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<v Speaker 3>they were doing the same. Yeah, And I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>at least I can feel good about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, of course, your side of the street was.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, my side of the street was as clean as

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<v Speaker 3>I could make it, and you know I was. I

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<v Speaker 3>did my best to be kind, and sometimes that came

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<v Speaker 3>to bite me in the butt, you know, came back

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<v Speaker 3>to hurt me because I was I wasn't protecting myself enough.

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<v Speaker 3>But still, looking back, I'm still glad that I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>change who I was intrinsically.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, me too, because it is They say you can

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<v Speaker 2>get divorced it, yeah you can.

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<v Speaker 1>And divorce is a bitch oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And to choose to be classy rather than bitchy

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<v Speaker 3>is always the right choice.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, I think that's again. I don't know why it

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<v Speaker 2>always has to be about me, but I remember, but

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<v Speaker 2>I was separated. It was so important to me to

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<v Speaker 2>never bed mouth yeah my husband in front of the

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<v Speaker 2>kids too. Let's be kind anyway again, not about me. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't always.

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<v Speaker 1>Perfect at that. It's hard.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And I've got my daughter here with me, sitting

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<v Speaker 3>in their room, and for that, truly, I am sorry. Sweetheart.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to say I met your daughter earlier, and

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't meet her in distress, and I think I

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<v Speaker 2>was just like a little taken back.

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<v Speaker 1>You're so adorable and pretty and sweet.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, a beautiful journey and for that I truly apologize

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<v Speaker 3>Olivia for not, you know, always being perfected, always speaking

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<v Speaker 3>like you said, always taking the high roads.

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<v Speaker 1>So he said I would digress.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, well here's here's that's the news flash for Brittany,

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<v Speaker 2>for my daughter Rachel. No parent is perfect. I am not,

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<v Speaker 2>and she my daughter, will not be. But we love

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<v Speaker 2>you guys unconditionally anyway. Yes, So, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>you've heard of this guy's name is Jared Osmond. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if anyone ever asked you about him. Have

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<v Speaker 2>you ever spoken about him before?

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<v Speaker 1>Has he ever entered your life?

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<v Speaker 3>I was scared to say his name because I just

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<v Speaker 3>I did my hair today and I don't want it

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<v Speaker 3>to get wet.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well I'm not. It's is that fair have anything

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<v Speaker 1>to worry about with me? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>You don't having drinks in hand? Nothing, not interested in that. No,

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<v Speaker 2>we're not on the same franchise, absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay tell me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so just a little bit about where you guys

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<v Speaker 2>are right now, because you know, we're.

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<v Speaker 3>Friends right now and we're really really really good friends

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<v Speaker 3>at the Friendly Platonic Okay, okay, really like it's it's

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<v Speaker 3>a beautiful place to be. He makes a fantastic best friend.

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<v Speaker 3>He's my emergency contact. He really is like a like

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<v Speaker 3>just a really good person, And I feel badly that

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<v Speaker 3>no one gets to see that.

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<v Speaker 1>Side tough for him. It's so hard on him.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yeah, it breaks my heart to see how it

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<v Speaker 3>breaks his heart, because he really gets he's the butt

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<v Speaker 3>of all the jokes, you know, and I just because

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<v Speaker 3>I know they feel badly about that, I do too.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, I feel badly for my part in.

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<v Speaker 3>That, really because I wish I want, you know, to

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<v Speaker 3>defend him more, because he deserves that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it kind of sucks for him now that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about him about it. What do you think it

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<v Speaker 2>is about him that has drawn you in?

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<v Speaker 1>Though? So many times?

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<v Speaker 3>His kindness and generosity. He is literally the most generous

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<v Speaker 3>person I've ever met, Like if I need anything anything,

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<v Speaker 3>like I mean, I'll give you one example if I

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<v Speaker 3>had a window blow in. We had this really strange

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<v Speaker 3>mini hurricane in Utah last summer and I window literally

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<v Speaker 3>blew in my house and the rain started coming in.

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<v Speaker 1>And who did I pick up the phone to call?

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<v Speaker 1>It was Jared. I get that.

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<v Speaker 3>It was literally like ten o'clock at night, he dropped

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<v Speaker 3>whatever he was doing. He's probably on a date because

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<v Speaker 3>we were broken up at the time. Yeah, and he

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<v Speaker 3>came running to my house and he and I and

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<v Speaker 3>my dad spent the whole night mopping the floor up

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<v Speaker 3>with towels and putting out fans. And he got his

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<v Speaker 3>contractor guys in the next day, you know. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>he just he's just that kind of person. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>mean my emergency call, so I get that. What do

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<v Speaker 3>you feel like about him, Olivia?

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<v Speaker 4>I like him as a person and I don't like

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<v Speaker 4>him as a boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>For my mom, I think.

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<v Speaker 2>I dig your honesty. I dig how you take it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's very cool.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think that they're bad together, okay, and I

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<v Speaker 4>think she deserves better.

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<v Speaker 3>But talk about like the rescuing that he's done for

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<v Speaker 3>He's done a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>Of nice things for me, Like my car broke down

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<v Speaker 4>and he I called him and he came to the rescue.

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<v Speaker 4>So yes, like, he definitely has good traits. And I

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<v Speaker 4>think that if they're platonically best friends for the rest

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<v Speaker 4>of their life, that's great. Just not platonic best friends

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<v Speaker 4>that make out every once in a while.

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<v Speaker 1>What but the makeouts are so good.

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<v Speaker 3>I wants to hear that I have non comital makeouts occasionally.

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<v Speaker 2>God, Betty ever kissed my husband on the lips in

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<v Speaker 2>front of my children and they're twenty three and twenty

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<v Speaker 2>five now, they like turned to stone.

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<v Speaker 3>No made that mistake once before, haven't I.

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<v Speaker 1>I've made that a city how many times? And not

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<v Speaker 1>many times? Many times?

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<v Speaker 4>One time he's coming to Bravo coon maybe and he

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<v Speaker 4>wants to maybe put a mustache on and walk around

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<v Speaker 4>and see if he what what Bravo cons All night?

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<v Speaker 1>I told my mom is I'm going to be third

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<v Speaker 1>wheeling this trip now? No, no, no, you are not.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not because you're gonna be with me. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>come find you and the wheel. You're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>third wheel. I promise.

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<v Speaker 4>We even have a signal if you feel like you're

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<v Speaker 4>a death glare, listen.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the thing. It means, stop making out with your

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend me. Here's here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody here is going to be watching her and making

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<v Speaker 2>sure that she's watching you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think pressure is on. It is my god, you're

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<v Speaker 1>throwing me. She's here because she wants to be with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and which I just absolutely get it. And what did

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<v Speaker 1>I say when you said your feelings might be hurt

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<v Speaker 1>this morning? What did I tell you? I don't remember,

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<v Speaker 1>Yes I do. I think.

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<v Speaker 3>Well you said, you said, well, why can't you just

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<v Speaker 3>do everything you can to shut it down and tell

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<v Speaker 3>him not to come? I said, okay, done. I picked

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<v Speaker 3>up my phone, and she's like, well wait wait wait

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<v Speaker 3>wait wait, maybe he can come. Remember I was ready

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<v Speaker 3>to shut that down, okay. And I'm not the one

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<v Speaker 3>that invited him. He said that he was going to come,

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<v Speaker 3>which is by.

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<v Speaker 2>The way, And Olivia, you are going to know this.

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<v Speaker 2>We all deal with it differently, falling in love, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's you know it. It can be messy and it

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<v Speaker 2>could be overwhelming. And do you think that it's so

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<v Speaker 2>maybe hard for you to be alone?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm of course, yeah, yeah it really is. Yeah, a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of women find it very difficult. It's not it's

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<v Speaker 2>not that I don't love being alone. I actually love

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<v Speaker 2>being alone in my house.

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<v Speaker 3>Just the toes, and it's just you know, I love

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<v Speaker 3>peace and quiet. But it isn't that it's just like

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<v Speaker 3>what do I do when my window blows in? I

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<v Speaker 3>mean I sometimes you just.

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<v Speaker 1>Need a person.

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<v Speaker 2>There's actually this thing. They're called a handyman, and what

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<v Speaker 2>you do is you get money and then they come over. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but find a handyman. It will drop what they're doing

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<v Speaker 2>and come over at ten o'clock at night. I know,

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<v Speaker 2>but I like to think that Jared has a million

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<v Speaker 2>other things that you make you fall in love with

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<v Speaker 2>him than just that he's going to come over.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not that.

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<v Speaker 3>It's literally I don't know what it is. I think

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<v Speaker 3>we honestly, you want the honest truth. I think we

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<v Speaker 3>trauma bonded because I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Know how you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you know how we met. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you know how we met? Please tell me? Oh well,

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<v Speaker 1>let me tell you a little tale.

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<v Speaker 3>So one day I met my office, my home office,

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<v Speaker 3>do to do working, and I get this phone call

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<v Speaker 3>and I pick it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh hi, it's Jared Osmond. I'm like, oh hi, how

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<v Speaker 1>you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>And he's like, well, not well actually, and I was

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<v Speaker 3>like all right, I'm like for I've never met him

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<v Speaker 3>in my life, right, And so he proceeds to tell

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<v Speaker 3>me that his fiance is now dating exclusively my husband.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how we met. Oh my god. So yeah, at

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<v Speaker 1>that time was he your husband or was her? He

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<v Speaker 1>was my husband at the time, get out. No, have

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<v Speaker 1>you told that story on the show? I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that I have. I mean I would suggest you do well.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, And I mean it was why he had

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<v Speaker 3>already served him papers and he wasn't he had been

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<v Speaker 3>removed from the house with a protective order at that point.

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<v Speaker 3>So for me it was not as traumatic. But for Jared,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean he called me two days after he found

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<v Speaker 3>out that they were shocking up, you know, wow, and

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<v Speaker 3>he was horriboke. We trauma bonded, yeah, right off the bat,

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<v Speaker 3>and that turned into a best friendship. Yeah, where we

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<v Speaker 3>didn't even see each other. We talked for hours on

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<v Speaker 3>the phone, and then we met finally fell in love

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<v Speaker 3>and the rest is history.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm sure he took one look at you and

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<v Speaker 1>the rest was history.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's just me.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Okay. So I know you've had issues with Jared.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you feel like there's been a relationship in your

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<v Speaker 2>life that has been not as toxic, like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>you were married twice before, but this has just been

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<v Speaker 2>sort of easy.

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<v Speaker 1>And have you had have I have? I, Livy, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I would say, yeah, the beginning with Olivia's dad was

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<v Speaker 3>absolutely IOUs. I was to stay home mom for a

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<v Speaker 3>whole decade, which I I feel so privileged to have

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<v Speaker 3>had that time. And that really is because he worked

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<v Speaker 3>his butt off so that I could be a stay

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<v Speaker 3>at home mom with our kids and that I'm so

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<v Speaker 3>eternally grateful to him.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, it was it was dreamy for a while.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I mean that is that is dreamy. I

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<v Speaker 1>love that myself.

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<v Speaker 2>So so the women have been hard on you, but

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<v Speaker 2>we're not really talking about that, but I'm just curious.

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<v Speaker 2>Have any of them tried to set you up? No?

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<v Speaker 3>No, actually, well I think that there was hope that

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<v Speaker 3>I would, you know, be set up with Captain Jason,

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<v Speaker 3>but he was having none of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he made that.

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<v Speaker 2>I was about to say, like that real clear, right,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I don't do you think he's the kind

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<v Speaker 2>at want. I feel like he just is floating around

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<v Speaker 2>and if whoever gets in his way, he'll stop there.

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<v Speaker 3>So if you want like professional, yeah he's really he

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<v Speaker 3>was so professional like so there was no hanky p

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<v Speaker 3>I know is I've never seen him, sorry Jeffessler, but

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<v Speaker 3>that is like that's a gorgeous man. No, he really is,

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<v Speaker 3>and he's an even he's just as gorgeous on the inside.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a really really good person. He's really good at

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<v Speaker 1>what he does. Yeah, super Professor Jared's coming, so it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't even matter.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know, but Jared and our friends. I like

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<v Speaker 2>to see you hook up with it Captain Jason in

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<v Speaker 2>front of Jared. No, I would like to see that, right, Olivia.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure that would go well.

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to ask you, are there any other

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<v Speaker 2>guys at Bravocan that you would like to Olivia's here

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<v Speaker 2>get to know?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, you're making me blush and asking, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>I I have a little bit of chemistry with someone

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<v Speaker 3>else on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on on the show, on your ship, Oh, on

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<v Speaker 1>the ship. Yes, I don't know all the guys on

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<v Speaker 1>the ships here too. I'm embarrassed to say, yes he is.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone keeps taking the name Mike.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that his name?

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<v Speaker 1>No, No, Mike is adorable. You don't have to say

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<v Speaker 1>Heather claimed him. Oh okay, I thought he all right?

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<v Speaker 2>Whenever I can't keep up with Salt Lake City, Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>welcome to Jersey. We have the same So okay, I've

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<v Speaker 2>got two more questions. Who do you think in your

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<v Speaker 2>cast has a marriage worth emulating? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Gosh, you know what I used to say, Lisa. I

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<v Speaker 1>used to say Lisa. But this last you know, when

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<v Speaker 1>the season mid.

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<v Speaker 2>Trailer drops, I was shocked. Yeah, I literally thought they

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<v Speaker 2>had the perfect marriage. But I don't remember the I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I remember I saw the last episode I saw. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we're not going there.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I mean it's I I don't know any more

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<v Speaker 3>than anyone else. Yes, because she and I aren't really

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<v Speaker 3>chatting right now. Yeah, sadly, we were really good friends.

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<v Speaker 3>I am trying to think. I mean, I think Angie

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<v Speaker 3>and Sean have something really special, right, Yeah, yeah, I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>And lastly, but certainly not leastly, you are headlining your

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<v Speaker 2>own cabaret show called What About Me and Evening with

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<v Speaker 2>Brittany Bateman December fifth and sixth in New York.

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<v Speaker 1>Go tell us about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we sold out December fifth, and we opened up

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<v Speaker 3>the second night because the venue happened to have the

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<v Speaker 3>night open.

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<v Speaker 1>We opened it up.

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<v Speaker 2>We're almost sold out of that too, am I invented?

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, will you please come, I'm only over

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<v Speaker 2>the bridge?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you kidding?

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<v Speaker 2>You to come.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, okay, okay, some YouTube both come please, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm reserving seats for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Then, okay, which tell me about it? Which night do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to? Well, it's it's literally all about me.

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<v Speaker 3>It goes from my childhood singing with my parents and

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<v Speaker 3>their band when I was four learning and our.

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<v Speaker 1>Peggio in the crib. La la la la la la la.

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<v Speaker 1>You know I could do that.

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<v Speaker 2>I do see you, and I see you on TikTok.

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<v Speaker 2>Your voice is incredible. Thank you, You're welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>And then you know, it goes to my Broadway days

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<v Speaker 2>to I mean, I just it just spans my whole

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<v Speaker 2>career and it's going to be fun and funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. And you know some some housewife references. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we may.

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<v Speaker 3>We're having very many special guests. I love it that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not announcing.

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<v Speaker 1>Ahead of time.

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<v Speaker 2>Deals have to be there to see. I'm so excited. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So Jennifer and Jeff Fessler, what thank you? The fifth

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<v Speaker 2>or the six We'll talk about it after the pod,

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<v Speaker 2>but we'll be there. I have to look and you

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<v Speaker 2>guys catch Britney please. It sounds like it's going to

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<v Speaker 2>be the best, so fun. Thank you for coming on.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, I'm so grateful. Thanks to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys. Are you ready to find love again? Keep bringing

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<v Speaker 2>the wrong partners into your life.

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