1 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 1: Hi, guys, welcome back to I Do Part two. It's 2 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 1: your celebrity mentor Jenfestler. 3 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:23,760 Speaker 2: And I am here in Las Vegas at Bravo Con. 4 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 2: I'm so excited to be here, and I'm even more 5 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 2: excited for my guest today because everyone knows her, everyone's 6 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,480 Speaker 2: talking about her, and she is a little doll. Hello 7 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 2: to Britney Babeman. Thank you so much, Brittan, thank you 8 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 2: so much for coming on. Oh my gosh, I'm so 9 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 2: grateful to be here. I'm very excited to meet you, 10 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 2: to see you. 11 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: You're doing good. It's fun to see you in the flesh. 12 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 1: I know. I actually give you a real hug. I agree, 13 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: I agree. 14 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:52,200 Speaker 2: So you probably know now this podcast is about part two. 15 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 2: I've had my own Part two. All of our guests 16 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 2: have had. He's not really well. We were separated for 17 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 2: year and a half, so we call that our part two. Yes, anyway, 18 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 2: not about me, So you is not what about you? 19 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 2: I mean usually I like it to be, but I'm 20 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 2: gonna focus on you. My friend got to go. So 21 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 2: you I believe you've been married twice. Yes, okay, so 22 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 2: tell me a little bit if you wouldn't mind about 23 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 2: how it feels how, you know, just going through marriage 24 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 2: twice and yeah, I just don't know and a little 25 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 2: bit about those relationships. 26 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 3: Honestly, if I could go back and do it again, 27 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 3: I would do it the heatherway, the Heather Gay way. Yeah, 28 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 3: hey that kind of rhymes, the Heather Gay way, and 29 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 3: just like focused solely on my kids. 30 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 1: There were so many things at play. 31 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:35,960 Speaker 3: There was you know, low self esteem coming out of 32 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 3: that first marriage and wanting that validation that you know, 33 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 3: I still am someone. There was also this really strong 34 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 3: element of I want the kind of family that I deserve, 35 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 3: and I want my kids to have the kind of 36 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 3: upbringing that I had, So I want to find a 37 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 3: partner that will be a parent and equal, you know, 38 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 3: Like I just wanted get that, just the traditional family 39 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 3: that I was raised in, and I thought that I 40 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 3: had found that and it couldn't have backfired worse than 41 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 3: it did. 42 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 2: I've gone through many periods in my life where I've 43 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 2: needed validation from men and where I've made men a priority. Yeah, 44 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 2: and when my husband and I were separated, I wish 45 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 2: looking back that I had just had they were there 46 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 2: always a priority, But I probably wouldn't have done the 47 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,519 Speaker 2: whole thing in terms of like my children and I 48 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 2: don't know, separating from Jeff. But that's okay because here 49 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 2: we are to tell the story. 50 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 3: Here we are exactly with scratches and scars, and hopefully 51 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 3: we'll just I don't know, gosh, hopefully all wounds can heal. 52 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 2: Yes they Yes, what I'm it's what I'm banking on 53 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 2: bringing on. I know, I know that they will, and 54 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:44,839 Speaker 2: the new wounds will come, unfortunately. 55 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 1: Yes, new deep wounds will come. So what do you 56 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: like got you through the divorces? 57 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 2: You know, it's so devastating what you learn about yourself 58 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 2: those marriages ending. 59 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 3: You know, Just man, that's a really really good question. 60 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 3: What did I learn so much? I mean, I feel 61 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 3: like I'm a completely different person. My priorities are totally different. 62 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 3: I think that I've learned to not care what anyone 63 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 3: else thinks. And I'm looking back, I'm really glad that 64 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 3: for the moments I wasn't always perfect, but most of 65 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 3: the time I took the high road, whether or not 66 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 3: they were doing the same. Yeah, And I feel like 67 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 3: at least I can feel good about that. 68 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, your side of the street was. 69 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, my side of the street was as clean as 70 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 3: I could make it, and you know I was. I 71 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 3: did my best to be kind, and sometimes that came 72 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 3: to bite me in the butt, you know, came back 73 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 3: to hurt me because I was I wasn't protecting myself enough. 74 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 3: But still, looking back, I'm still glad that I didn't 75 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 3: change who I was intrinsically. 76 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, me too, because it is They say you can 77 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 2: get divorced it, yeah you can. 78 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 1: And divorce is a bitch oh. 79 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, And to choose to be classy rather than bitchy 80 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 3: is always the right choice. 81 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 1: I agree. 82 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 2: Actually, I think that's again. I don't know why it 83 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 2: always has to be about me, but I remember, but 84 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 2: I was separated. It was so important to me to 85 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 2: never bed mouth yeah my husband in front of the 86 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 2: kids too. Let's be kind anyway again, not about me. Well, 87 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 2: I wasn't always. 88 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 1: Perfect at that. It's hard. 89 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I've got my daughter here with me, sitting 90 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:16,840 Speaker 3: in their room, and for that, truly, I am sorry. Sweetheart. 91 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 2: I have to say I met your daughter earlier, and 92 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 2: I didn't meet her in distress, and I think I 93 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 2: was just like a little taken back. 94 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 1: You're so adorable and pretty and sweet. 95 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 3: Yes, a beautiful journey and for that I truly apologize 96 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 3: Olivia for not, you know, always being perfected, always speaking 97 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 3: like you said, always taking the high roads. 98 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 1: So he said I would digress. 99 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 2: But yeah, well here's here's that's the news flash for Brittany, 100 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:44,039 Speaker 2: for my daughter Rachel. No parent is perfect. I am not, 101 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 2: and she my daughter, will not be. But we love 102 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 2: you guys unconditionally anyway. Yes, So, I don't know if 103 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 2: you've heard of this guy's name is Jared Osmond. I 104 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 2: don't know if anyone ever asked you about him. Have 105 00:04:56,720 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 2: you ever spoken about him before? 106 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 1: Has he ever entered your life? 107 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 3: I was scared to say his name because I just 108 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 3: I did my hair today and I don't want it 109 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:05,359 Speaker 3: to get wet. 110 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: Okay, well I'm not. It's is that fair have anything 111 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: to worry about with me? Okay? 112 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 2: You don't having drinks in hand? Nothing, not interested in that. No, 113 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 2: we're not on the same franchise, absolutely not. 114 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 1: Okay tell me. 115 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:20,839 Speaker 2: Okay, so just a little bit about where you guys 116 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 2: are right now, because you know, we're. 117 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 3: Friends right now and we're really really really good friends 118 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:30,280 Speaker 3: at the Friendly Platonic Okay, okay, really like it's it's 119 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 3: a beautiful place to be. He makes a fantastic best friend. 120 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 3: He's my emergency contact. He really is like a like 121 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 3: just a really good person, And I feel badly that 122 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 3: no one gets to see that. 123 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:44,719 Speaker 1: Side tough for him. It's so hard on him. 124 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, it breaks my heart to see how it 125 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 3: breaks his heart, because he really gets he's the butt 126 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 3: of all the jokes, you know, and I just because 127 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 3: I know they feel badly about that, I do too. 128 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: Actually, I feel badly for my part in. 129 00:05:56,600 --> 00:06:00,080 Speaker 3: That, really because I wish I want, you know, to 130 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 3: defend him more, because he deserves that. 131 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, it kind of sucks for him now that I'm 132 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,359 Speaker 2: thinking about him about it. What do you think it 133 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 2: is about him that has drawn you in? 134 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:10,359 Speaker 1: Though? So many times? 135 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 3: His kindness and generosity. He is literally the most generous 136 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:18,600 Speaker 3: person I've ever met, Like if I need anything anything, 137 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 3: like I mean, I'll give you one example if I 138 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 3: had a window blow in. We had this really strange 139 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 3: mini hurricane in Utah last summer and I window literally 140 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 3: blew in my house and the rain started coming in. 141 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:34,239 Speaker 1: And who did I pick up the phone to call? 142 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 1: It was Jared. I get that. 143 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 3: It was literally like ten o'clock at night, he dropped 144 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 3: whatever he was doing. He's probably on a date because 145 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 3: we were broken up at the time. Yeah, and he 146 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 3: came running to my house and he and I and 147 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,600 Speaker 3: my dad spent the whole night mopping the floor up 148 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 3: with towels and putting out fans. And he got his 149 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 3: contractor guys in the next day, you know. I mean, 150 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 3: he just he's just that kind of person. Yeah, I 151 00:06:57,920 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 3: mean my emergency call, so I get that. What do 152 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 3: you feel like about him, Olivia? 153 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 4: I like him as a person and I don't like 154 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 4: him as a boyfriend. 155 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:07,679 Speaker 1: For my mom, I think. 156 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 2: I dig your honesty. I dig how you take it. 157 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 2: That's very cool. 158 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that they're bad together, okay, and I 159 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 4: think she deserves better. 160 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 3: But talk about like the rescuing that he's done for 161 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 3: He's done a lot. 162 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 4: Of nice things for me, Like my car broke down 163 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 4: and he I called him and he came to the rescue. 164 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 4: So yes, like, he definitely has good traits. And I 165 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 4: think that if they're platonically best friends for the rest 166 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 4: of their life, that's great. Just not platonic best friends 167 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 4: that make out every once in a while. 168 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 1: What but the makeouts are so good. 169 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 3: I wants to hear that I have non comital makeouts occasionally. 170 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 2: God, Betty ever kissed my husband on the lips in 171 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 2: front of my children and they're twenty three and twenty 172 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 2: five now, they like turned to stone. 173 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 3: No made that mistake once before, haven't I. 174 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: I've made that a city how many times? And not 175 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 1: many times? Many times? 176 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 4: One time he's coming to Bravo coon maybe and he 177 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 4: wants to maybe put a mustache on and walk around 178 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 4: and see if he what what Bravo cons All night? 179 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 1: I told my mom is I'm going to be third 180 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 1: wheeling this trip now? No, no, no, you are not. 181 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 1: You're not because you're gonna be with me. I'm gonna 182 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 1: come find you and the wheel. You're not going to 183 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 1: third wheel. I promise. 184 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 4: We even have a signal if you feel like you're 185 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 4: a death glare, listen. 186 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: Here's the thing. It means, stop making out with your 187 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 1: boyfriend me. Here's here's the thing. 188 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:34,680 Speaker 2: Everybody here is going to be watching her and making 189 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:36,559 Speaker 2: sure that she's watching you. 190 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 1: I think pressure is on. It is my god, you're 191 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:49,959 Speaker 1: throwing me. She's here because she wants to be with you, 192 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:52,719 Speaker 1: and which I just absolutely get it. And what did 193 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 1: I say when you said your feelings might be hurt 194 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 1: this morning? What did I tell you? I don't remember, 195 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:59,680 Speaker 1: Yes I do. I think. 196 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:02,559 Speaker 3: Well you said, you said, well, why can't you just 197 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 3: do everything you can to shut it down and tell 198 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 3: him not to come? I said, okay, done. I picked 199 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 3: up my phone, and she's like, well wait wait wait 200 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 3: wait wait, maybe he can come. Remember I was ready 201 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 3: to shut that down, okay. And I'm not the one 202 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:15,199 Speaker 3: that invited him. He said that he was going to come, 203 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 3: which is by. 204 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 2: The way, And Olivia, you are going to know this. 205 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 2: We all deal with it differently, falling in love, and 206 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 2: it's you know it. It can be messy and it 207 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:28,679 Speaker 2: could be overwhelming. And do you think that it's so 208 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 2: maybe hard for you to be alone? 209 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 1: I mean I don't. 210 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 2: I'm of course, yeah, yeah it really is. Yeah, a 211 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 2: lot of women find it very difficult. It's not it's 212 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 2: not that I don't love being alone. I actually love 213 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 2: being alone in my house. 214 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 3: Just the toes, and it's just you know, I love 215 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:47,839 Speaker 3: peace and quiet. But it isn't that it's just like 216 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:50,719 Speaker 3: what do I do when my window blows in? I 217 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 3: mean I sometimes you just. 218 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 1: Need a person. 219 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 2: There's actually this thing. They're called a handyman, and what 220 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 2: you do is you get money and then they come over. Okay, 221 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 2: but find a handyman. It will drop what they're doing 222 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 2: and come over at ten o'clock at night. I know, 223 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 2: but I like to think that Jared has a million 224 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:05,959 Speaker 2: other things that you make you fall in love with 225 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 2: him than just that he's going to come over. 226 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 1: It's not that. 227 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 3: It's literally I don't know what it is. I think 228 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 3: we honestly, you want the honest truth. I think we 229 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:15,319 Speaker 3: trauma bonded because I don't. 230 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:15,439 Speaker 2: Know how you. 231 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:17,319 Speaker 1: I don't know if you know how we met. Do 232 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: you know how we met? Please tell me? Oh well, 233 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 1: let me tell you a little tale. 234 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 3: So one day I met my office, my home office, 235 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 3: do to do working, and I get this phone call 236 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 3: and I pick it up. 237 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: Oh hi, it's Jared Osmond. I'm like, oh hi, how 238 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 1: you doing? 239 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 3: And he's like, well, not well actually, and I was 240 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 3: like all right, I'm like for I've never met him 241 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 3: in my life, right, And so he proceeds to tell 242 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 3: me that his fiance is now dating exclusively my husband. 243 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 1: That's how we met. Oh my god. So yeah, at 244 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 1: that time was he your husband or was her? He 245 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:53,319 Speaker 1: was my husband at the time, get out. No, have 246 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 1: you told that story on the show? I don't know 247 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:59,679 Speaker 1: that I have. I mean I would suggest you do well. 248 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, And I mean it was why he had 249 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 3: already served him papers and he wasn't he had been 250 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 3: removed from the house with a protective order at that point. 251 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 3: So for me it was not as traumatic. But for Jared, 252 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:12,960 Speaker 3: I mean he called me two days after he found 253 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:15,559 Speaker 3: out that they were shocking up, you know, wow, and 254 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 3: he was horriboke. We trauma bonded, yeah, right off the bat, 255 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:23,079 Speaker 3: and that turned into a best friendship. Yeah, where we 256 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 3: didn't even see each other. We talked for hours on 257 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 3: the phone, and then we met finally fell in love 258 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:28,560 Speaker 3: and the rest is history. 259 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:30,839 Speaker 1: So I'm sure he took one look at you and 260 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 1: the rest was history. 261 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 4: But that's just me. 262 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 1: Thank you. Okay. So I know you've had issues with Jared. 263 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 2: Do you feel like there's been a relationship in your 264 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 2: life that has been not as toxic, like, I mean, 265 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 2: you were married twice before, but this has just been 266 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 2: sort of easy. 267 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 1: And have you had have I have? I, Livy, I 268 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:00,559 Speaker 1: don't know, don't know. 269 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 3: I would say, yeah, the beginning with Olivia's dad was 270 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:06,959 Speaker 3: absolutely IOUs. I was to stay home mom for a 271 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:10,679 Speaker 3: whole decade, which I I feel so privileged to have 272 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 3: had that time. And that really is because he worked 273 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 3: his butt off so that I could be a stay 274 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 3: at home mom with our kids and that I'm so 275 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 3: eternally grateful to him. 276 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 1: But yeah, it was it was dreamy for a while. 277 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean that is that is dreamy. I 278 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 1: love that myself. 279 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 2: So so the women have been hard on you, but 280 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 2: we're not really talking about that, but I'm just curious. 281 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 2: Have any of them tried to set you up? No? 282 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:40,079 Speaker 3: No, actually, well I think that there was hope that 283 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 3: I would, you know, be set up with Captain Jason, 284 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 3: but he was having none of that. 285 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, he made that. 286 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 2: I was about to say, like that real clear, right, 287 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 2: I mean I don't do you think he's the kind 288 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 2: at want. I feel like he just is floating around 289 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:55,319 Speaker 2: and if whoever gets in his way, he'll stop there. 290 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 3: So if you want like professional, yeah he's really he 291 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:00,599 Speaker 3: was so professional like so there was no hanky p 292 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 3: I know is I've never seen him, sorry Jeffessler, but 293 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 3: that is like that's a gorgeous man. No, he really is, 294 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 3: and he's an even he's just as gorgeous on the inside. 295 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 1: He's a really really good person. He's really good at 296 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 1: what he does. Yeah, super Professor Jared's coming, so it 297 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 1: doesn't even matter. 298 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, but Jared and our friends. I like 299 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:22,319 Speaker 2: to see you hook up with it Captain Jason in 300 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 2: front of Jared. No, I would like to see that, right, Olivia. 301 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: I'm sure that would go well. 302 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:29,560 Speaker 2: I was going to ask you, are there any other 303 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:32,080 Speaker 2: guys at Bravocan that you would like to Olivia's here 304 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 2: get to know? 305 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 3: Well, I mean, you're making me blush and asking, yes, 306 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 3: I I have a little bit of chemistry with someone 307 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 3: else on the show. 308 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 1: Come on on the show, on your ship, Oh, on 309 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:49,839 Speaker 1: the ship. Yes, I don't know all the guys on 310 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 1: the ships here too. I'm embarrassed to say, yes he is. 311 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:54,200 Speaker 1: Everyone keeps taking the name Mike. 312 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:54,959 Speaker 2: Is that his name? 313 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,719 Speaker 1: No, No, Mike is adorable. You don't have to say 314 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,720 Speaker 1: Heather claimed him. Oh okay, I thought he all right? 315 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 2: Whenever I can't keep up with Salt Lake City, Okay, yeah, 316 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 2: welcome to Jersey. We have the same So okay, I've 317 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 2: got two more questions. Who do you think in your 318 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:17,320 Speaker 2: cast has a marriage worth emulating? Oh? 319 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 1: Gosh, you know what I used to say, Lisa. I 320 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 1: used to say Lisa. But this last you know, when 321 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 1: the season mid. 322 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 2: Trailer drops, I was shocked. Yeah, I literally thought they 323 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 2: had the perfect marriage. But I don't remember the I mean, 324 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 2: I remember I saw the last episode I saw. Okay, 325 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 2: we're not going there. 326 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 3: Okay, I mean it's I I don't know any more 327 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 3: than anyone else. Yes, because she and I aren't really 328 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 3: chatting right now. Yeah, sadly, we were really good friends. 329 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 3: I am trying to think. I mean, I think Angie 330 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 3: and Sean have something really special, right, Yeah, yeah, I agree. 331 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 2: And lastly, but certainly not leastly, you are headlining your 332 00:14:57,160 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 2: own cabaret show called What About Me and Evening with 333 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 2: Brittany Bateman December fifth and sixth in New York. 334 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 1: Go tell us about it. 335 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 3: Well, we sold out December fifth, and we opened up 336 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 3: the second night because the venue happened to have the 337 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 3: night open. 338 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 1: We opened it up. 339 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 2: We're almost sold out of that too, am I invented? 340 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 2: By the way, will you please come, I'm only over 341 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 2: the bridge? 342 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 1: Are you kidding? 343 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 2: You to come. 344 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, okay, okay, some YouTube both come please, Okay, 345 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 3: I'm reserving seats for you. 346 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 1: Then, okay, which tell me about it? Which night do 347 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 1: you want to? Well, it's it's literally all about me. 348 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 3: It goes from my childhood singing with my parents and 349 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 3: their band when I was four learning and our. 350 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: Peggio in the crib. La la la la la la la. 351 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 1: You know I could do that. 352 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 2: I do see you, and I see you on TikTok. 353 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 2: Your voice is incredible. Thank you, You're welcome. 354 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 1: That's so sweet. 355 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 2: And then you know, it goes to my Broadway days 356 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 2: to I mean, I just it just spans my whole 357 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 2: career and it's going to be fun and funny. 358 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 1: I love it. And you know some some housewife references. Yes, 359 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 1: we may. 360 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 3: We're having very many special guests. I love it that 361 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 3: I'm not announcing. 362 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 1: Ahead of time. 363 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 2: Deals have to be there to see. I'm so excited. Okay, 364 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 2: So Jennifer and Jeff Fessler, what thank you? The fifth 365 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 2: or the six We'll talk about it after the pod, 366 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 2: but we'll be there. I have to look and you 367 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 2: guys catch Britney please. It sounds like it's going to 368 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 2: be the best, so fun. Thank you for coming on. 369 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm so grateful. Thanks to you. 370 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 2: Guys. Are you ready to find love again? Keep bringing 371 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 2: the wrong partners into your life. 372 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 1: We can help. Call us. 373 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 2: Email us all the infos in the show notes, follow 374 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 2: us on socials. Make sure to rate and review the podcast. 375 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 2: I do Part two at iHeart Podcasts, where falling in 376 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 2: love is the main objective.