1 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:16,160 Speaker 1: Advice Shooters. Welcome to the Nordy but I show I'm 2 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: your host from Shooter and it is Wednesday, which means 3 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 1: I do friend. Donnie Meacham joins us, Hey, Donnie, are 4 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: you there? 5 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 2: Hello? Lower Wednesday. 6 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 3: You know what Wednesdays are exciting because I get to 7 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 3: see Rad's face every week. You guys, he just makes 8 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,199 Speaker 3: me get God. 9 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 2: Today. He's a great mood. It's going to be a 10 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 2: great Thank you very much. 11 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: I'm in a great mood. I'm often in a really 12 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: good mood. I think I'm blessed. I assumed everybody was 13 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 1: in a good mood until I got to meet you. 14 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 1: When you you can be moody, don You can be moody. 15 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: I mean you're you're a lot of for Donnie, but 16 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: your natural level of happiness is maybe not quite as 17 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: high as mine. Is that fair? 18 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 3: I would agree, because you're you're like you're a peak, 19 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 3: You're just like you're Yes, my natural level happiness is 20 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 3: just I'm here, I'm the middle of the road. 21 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:07,400 Speaker 2: I'm having fun. Just here. 22 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 1: You're just here. You walk and you sit down, you 23 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: water a drink. I come bursting through the door, do 24 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 1: a cartwheel, the splits and then I land on top 25 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:18,960 Speaker 1: of the table. It's too much. It's a lot, I know. 26 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: Can you imagine being married to me? It's a bit 27 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: of annoying. I bet it's annoying. You think it's annoying. 28 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 3: I would Bruce is gonna say, maybe he's gonna be nice. 29 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe maybe Let's jump into the show before we 30 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 1: get into it any more trouble. What time is it? 31 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: My Friends? Tea time? Oh, a really sad story at 32 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: the top of the show. So Jennifer Aniston is really 33 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: struggling following Matthew Perry's death. She's completely knocked off her feet, 34 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: so sources are telling Page six Friends are actually worried 35 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 1: about her. In the wake of Matthew Perry's death, the 36 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: friend star has taken his pass in and remember he 37 00:01:55,520 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: was just fifty four years old, extremely, extremely badly, She 38 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: and the other four surviving members, Gosh, that's a sad 39 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: thing to say, isn't it. They're no longer the cast 40 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: of Friends. One will be missing forever. So they mourned 41 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 1: Matthew at his funeral on Friday, and now sources are saying, 42 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 1: out of the remaining five, if it's Jen and Courtney 43 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 1: who are reeling the most, and Jen is probably the 44 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 1: one who is struggling the most. Cutely with this. Let's 45 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: remind everybody too, this is the second massive loss for Jen, 46 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, it's almost the one year anniversary of 47 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: her dad's death that's coming up, and she still really 48 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: hasn't regained her footing from that. She's completely knocked off 49 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 1: her feet. Oh, Donnie, out of all the friends, I 50 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:45,679 Speaker 1: think I would have guessed, I would have known Jen 51 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: would be the one to be most affected by this. 52 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: They all are. I'm not saying any of them are not. 53 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 1: They really are. They're all devastated, but out of all 54 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: of them, it's Jen that's taken it the hardest. 55 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's interesting, but you know, it's so hard because 56 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 3: everyone processes death differently, and I think a lot of 57 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 3: times his emotions come up of like, yeah, obviously you 58 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 3: missed that person, But then you think, you know, it 59 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 3: makes you reflect on could I have been a better friend? 60 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 2: Could I have yessed out more? 61 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: Could I save them? 62 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 2: Could I had tried harder? 63 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 3: And that I think the guilt is what you end 64 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 3: up like living with for the rest of your life, 65 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 3: as opposed to sadness, because sometimes that guilt can override 66 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 3: the happy memories you had with that person. 67 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: Oh that's so smart, Donnie. In fact, Matthew said in 68 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: his book that of all the cast members, all the 69 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 1: people on Friends, not just the stars, the crew, everybody, 70 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 1: there was hundreds of people that worked on that show. 71 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: The person that reached out to him the most after 72 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:45,839 Speaker 1: the show went off the air was Jen. Jennifer checked 73 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 1: in on him when she saw something in the papers 74 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: that he wasn't doing very well. If she saw a 75 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 1: photograph of him looking a little drattled, she would often 76 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 1: call him or text him or email him. So Jen 77 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: really did deeply, deeply care about him, and she knew 78 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 1: They all knew. They all knew that he was struggling. 79 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 1: They've made that quite clear. But Jen was one of 80 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: the first people to say to him. Remember the show 81 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: was on for a decade, Are you okay? Are you struggling? 82 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: They all went through this together. In fact, probably the 83 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: only six people in the world who knows what it's 84 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:22,039 Speaker 1: really like to be that famous, to be that friend. 85 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: It's only those six. It's a very small club down 86 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,480 Speaker 1: a so I think they will always have that in common. 87 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just I think, and you know they changed TV. 88 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 3: I think so forever they will always think about you know, 89 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 3: the friends, and when people say friends, you think. 90 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 2: Of the whole group. So now only maturely. 91 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 3: The sad part is is one by one, you know 92 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 3: things will change, but it's just it seems too soon. 93 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 2: And for them. 94 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 3: Also, when people who were your own age are people 95 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 3: who start dying, it makes you think about your own mortality. 96 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 3: I think that is also scary for people. 97 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:59,279 Speaker 1: Oh that's so interesting. Back in two thousand and four, 98 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 1: in a interview, the prospect of losing Matthew Perry was 99 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: brought up. It just goes to show you that everybody 100 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: in the industry knew that Matthew was struggling. So in 101 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: two thousand and four, Jen was asked about losing losing Matthew, 102 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 1: the prospect of losing Matthew. She broke down in tears. 103 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 1: Broke down in tears. I think what you're saying about 104 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 1: death coming into all of our lives, and it will 105 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: if it hasn't already. It's something really profound. When I 106 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,600 Speaker 1: was a young boy, about six or seven, my best 107 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 1: friend diet His name was Adam Morris. I want to 108 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 1: say his name and really honor his memory. I think 109 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 1: about Adam all the time. And I was one of 110 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: those few kids who had death in my life. My 111 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 1: sisters didn't. But my friend died. He was in a 112 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: car accident and died. And that was a lot to digest, 113 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:49,160 Speaker 1: to process, and you're right on a suddenly I thought 114 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 1: about my own mortality. I've been thinking about death since 115 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:55,919 Speaker 1: I was six or seven years old, and that is 116 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 1: something that a child shouldn't really have to think about. 117 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:01,839 Speaker 1: But I was four when my best friend, Adam Morris, 118 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 1: I'll say his name one more time, Adam Morris, when 119 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 1: he passed. Donnie, When did death come into your life? 120 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:08,479 Speaker 2: Yeah? 121 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 3: Death is gar you know, in high school, my one 122 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:13,159 Speaker 3: of my best friends died. We were seniors in high 123 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 3: school and I back when I actually dated women. I 124 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 3: dated her and she died in a car accident. And 125 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 3: I think for the rest of us, especially for the 126 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 3: rest of our high school journey that year, we just 127 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:28,280 Speaker 3: we never fully recovered because it was like one of 128 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,840 Speaker 3: us is missing, one of us is not miss here 129 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:33,479 Speaker 3: we all, you know, we all graduated, and you know, 130 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 3: there was a chair left there with her cap. 131 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 2: And gown and it was just empty. 132 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 3: And so it's just you never fully recovered. It takes 133 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 3: it takes a really long time. Still to this day, 134 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 3: I think about it like could I have been a 135 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 3: better friend while we were there? 136 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: It is so so deep. We're getting deep today, noughties. 137 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 1: I want to know what you think about this, which 138 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 1: brings us to our whole question of the day. Jennifer 139 00:06:55,600 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: is struggling after Matthew Perry's death. I question it does 140 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: time heal all wounds? Will time help here? Or is 141 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 1: this something that's always gonna be with jen? Hey, go 142 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: vote on our Twitter page at Naughty Nice rab at 143 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 1: Facebook pages Naughty yosip. I'm be sure to check back 144 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: tomorrow to hear your results. Donny Lambla, what are you 145 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 1: working on? 146 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 2: You're a big fan of Good Morning America? 147 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: I love it. 148 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 3: Probably been wondering where Michael Strahan is and he's been 149 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 3: missing for nearly two weeks. Welcome to find Out. ABC 150 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 3: released a statement saying that Michael Strahan will again not 151 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 3: be with us this week as he is dealing with 152 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 3: some personal family matters and they appreciate everyone's thoughts and concerns. 153 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 2: You know. 154 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 3: The former NFL star was also missing from Fox's NFL Sunday. 155 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 2: He's also been ina. 156 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 3: On social media. I think is what really has people wondering. 157 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 3: His last post was on October twenty fifth, and he 158 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 3: was promoting the one hundred thousand dollars pyramid. And for 159 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 3: him to miss you know, Fox NFL's and Good Morning America, 160 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 3: that means something really serious that's going on. 161 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, something really big. I hit the phones and gently. 162 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 1: I spoke to some friends of his. They said it's 163 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 1: definitely family, and they think it's the kids. And so 164 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 1: remember recently Hoder took some time off the Today Show 165 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 1: and we didn't know why and her daughter was very, 166 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 1: very sick. Now she's told us everything that happened then, 167 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 1: and I think Michael is now dealing with the crisis 168 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: and once they turn a corner and then he'll be 169 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 1: able to talk about it. He does not owe us 170 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 1: an explanation. He doesn't owe us anything. You go, you 171 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:33,959 Speaker 1: look after your family. But I'm told this involves the family. 172 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 1: It is speculation that it's around his children, and that's 173 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 1: something that we do not do on this show. But 174 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: I say it. Spoke to my sources and they said 175 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 1: he loves work. He's not the taker, day off type 176 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 1: of person, not like you, don it. No, that's actually 177 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:51,319 Speaker 1: not true. You never take a day off, Donni. You've 178 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 1: got a really, really good work ethic. But some of 179 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 1: our friends, some of the people we know, some mutual friends, 180 00:08:56,840 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: darny most they're a bit lazy bones. There's a chance 181 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 1: to take a day off, they take two. I mean 182 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: they really some lazy bodes. I enjoy what I do, 183 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 1: and I'm told the same with Michael. He loves GMA, 184 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 1: he loves being on TV, he loves doing his NFL 185 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 1: football stuff. So something really serious is going on here. 186 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:18,319 Speaker 1: And instead of speculating, we're just gonna send you a 187 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 1: love Okay, moving along, there's no love lost here. So 188 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 1: Prince Harry did not receive an invite to his dad, 189 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 1: King Charles's seventy fifth birthday party, despite reports that he declined. 190 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: So Prince Harry speaks person is setting the record straight 191 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:38,599 Speaker 1: about his attendance at the King's upcoming birthday party. The 192 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 1: Sunday Times reported over the weekend that King Charles would 193 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 1: be celebrating his seventy fifth birthday at Clarence House, but 194 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: his younger son would not be making the trip over. 195 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:50,959 Speaker 1: He is now in America. Obviously with his beautiful wife 196 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 1: Megan and their children. However, a spokesperson for the Duke 197 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 1: and Duchess of Sussex they did not like this report 198 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 1: and in the Times and they said, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. 199 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:02,319 Speaker 1: It sounds as if and Megan are too busy to attend. 200 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:05,079 Speaker 1: That's what the reporting sounds like. That isn't the case. 201 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:08,440 Speaker 1: They didn't get an invite. And the spokesperson went on 202 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 1: to call out the Sunday Times, which is a really 203 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 1: respectable newspaper, for misreporting this story. A couple of things here. One, 204 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: he didn't get invited to the birthday. That's not good. Two, 205 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 1: somebody in the palace leaked that he was invited and 206 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 1: declined and that was not true. And Harry's people and 207 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: Harry said, we've got to set the record straight. They're 208 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:31,679 Speaker 1: not having this anymore. If you put out a lie 209 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: about us, if you put out something that's not true, 210 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 1: we're going to correct the record. It's not that he 211 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 1: doesn't want to go, it's that he wasn't invited. Oh, Donnie, 212 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: this is going to explode. 213 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,439 Speaker 3: I love this new Prince Harry. This is the Prince 214 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 3: Harry that we needed from the get go. Is he's 215 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 3: not sitting by and idly letting the palace say things 216 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 3: that simply aren't true, because there's one way to invite. 217 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 3: Either you've received an invader you didn't. If he flat 218 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 3: out says I did not receive an invite, then you know, 219 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 3: I mean I woke out last than the mail. 220 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 2: The pond is very far, you know. But also his 221 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 2: dad call him and was like, hello, are you going 222 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 2: to come to the birth? 223 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 1: Text him. Meanwhile, if he got an invite, his dad's 224 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:15,719 Speaker 1: face would have been on the stamp. Can imagine that? 225 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: Get a letter in your dad's face is the stamp? 226 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:20,079 Speaker 1: I know, this is fascinating. 227 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 2: Now. 228 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 1: The Sunday Times is a really smart newspaper. It's like 229 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:25,680 Speaker 1: the New York Times, It's like the La Times. It's 230 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 1: not an outlet that would trust a source that wasn't 231 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 1: really really close to the palace. So if you had 232 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:34,080 Speaker 1: met Harry at a coffee shop and you called the 233 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 1: Sunday Times and was like, he got an invite, but 234 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: he's not going, they wouldn't believe that source. They'd be 235 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:40,439 Speaker 1: how do you know, how do you know him? Did 236 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 1: you see the invite? The Sunday Times is such a 237 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: respectable paper, but they don't believe gossip that doesn't come 238 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 1: from an impeccable source. And Harry knows that, which is 239 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:55,079 Speaker 1: why everybody thinks the Palace leaked this story that it's 240 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 1: Harry that doesn't want to come to his dad's birthday. 241 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:59,839 Speaker 1: But it looks terrible. But oh no, no, no, that's 242 00:11:59,880 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 1: not true. Harry wasn't invited. Oh fighting back. Talking about 243 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:07,079 Speaker 1: fighting back, Teresa Judici from the Real Housewives of New 244 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 1: Jersey is talking about that iconic table flip, that she 245 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: wasn't very proud about it at first, and now she 246 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 1: loves Yeah. 247 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 3: I mean, we all know the you know, Teresa A 248 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 3: Judy Jay, she flipped the table and it basically changed 249 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 3: I think that was one of the moments that changed 250 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 3: Housewives forever because the women then saw the crazier you act, 251 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 3: the wilder you are, like that is what gets ratings 252 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 3: and that is what is going to make you more famous. Well, 253 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 3: now she's talking about it at Bravocon twenty twenty three, 254 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 3: and a she kind of says that she wasn't proud 255 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 3: of it, Like she admits that she wasn't proud of it, 256 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 3: but she learned to embrace it. She goes, let me 257 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 3: tell you the truth. After I did it, I was like, 258 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 3: oh my god, what did I just do? 259 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 2: She said. 260 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 3: She goes like, I wasn't proud of it. I really wasn't. 261 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 3: That was the first time I ever did that. I 262 00:12:57,840 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 3: got that mad. 263 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 2: So then she's smart. 264 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 3: She realized everyone loved it, so she embraced it. 265 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 2: And you know, but you flipped tap. That is a 266 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 2: salt and many you know, it's a scary thing. 267 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 1: It's not good. It's a make or break moment. This 268 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 1: could have ended Housewives, or it could have turned it 269 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:18,839 Speaker 1: into this months to hit it, and it did the latter. 270 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 1: Everybody was talking about it. I wasn't watching the Jersey 271 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:23,440 Speaker 1: Housewives until I heard about this table flip. And then 272 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 1: I remember we all went down to my friend Fiano's flat, 273 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: her apartment, and we all watched it together and we screamed, 274 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 1: and then we watched every episode every week with several 275 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:33,320 Speaker 1: bottles of wine. It was a turning point in TV history, 276 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 1: arguably the most powerful moment in the Housewife franchise of 277 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 1: all time. I think it's still something that we all 278 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 1: know about, but I think what made the moment so 279 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 1: special is that it wasn't staged. After the table flip, 280 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 1: every one of the ladies, quite quite rightly so, came 281 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 1: up with these scenarios to do something outrageous, whether it 282 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 1: be throw your leg Aviva dresser with one leg, she 283 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 1: threw her leg. Other ones were naked and falling into bushes. 284 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:02,959 Speaker 1: I think they all plotted those. And what made the 285 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:07,120 Speaker 1: table flip so perfect is that Teresa emits that wasn't 286 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 1: pre planned. She got mad, it was out of character. 287 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 1: She flipped the table and she was sort of embarrassed 288 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 1: by it. You could see she was not happy about it. 289 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:18,760 Speaker 1: She didn't want this to ever see the light of day. 290 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 1: And then they aired it and it was the fans 291 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 1: response that made Teresa embrace it. But as you say, Donnie, 292 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 1: what this message, what this told every other housewife is 293 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 1: that bad behavior is rewarded, and the worse the behavior, 294 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: the bigger the reward. And I think it's gone too 295 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 1: far now and it all feels a little staged and 296 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 1: a little set up, And maybe that's why the numbers 297 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 1: of the Housewives show had been declining. I think we're 298 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 1: all just a little bit over it. But this was 299 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: almost ten years ago. This is sort of like vintage Housewife, 300 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 1: and I think we'll remember remember it ten years from now. 301 00:14:57,440 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: Teresa and the table, And thank you for being so 302 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 1: honest about that. You were embarrassed about this at first. Okay, 303 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 1: we're going to take a quick break, then we will 304 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 1: be right back. Welcome back to You're a naughty but 305 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 1: nice unbrum shooter with my dear friend Donnie. Beat you, Hay, Donnie. 306 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 1: Let's get to the polls, DA da DA, Thank you darling. 307 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 1: Last year we talked about Harry and Meghan have a 308 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 1: new bff and Katie Perry and Orlando Bloom a very 309 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:24,600 Speaker 1: cheeky question, would you rather be friends with Meghan and 310 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 1: Harry or Katie and Orlando. Let's have a look. Sixty 311 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 1: two percent Katie and Orlando. Now I'm quite conflicted here. 312 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:37,120 Speaker 1: I think Katie and Orlando would be more fun. And 313 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 1: let's face it, if Orlando takes his shirt off, that 314 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 1: definitely is more fun. He's delicious. But Harry and Meghan 315 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 1: probably have the most gossip. They would be really fun 316 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 1: to get a drink with. And after a few vodcasts 317 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 1: sodas up Botty, you knows they'll tell you about Kate 318 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 1: Middleton and the Queen and their dad, the King, and 319 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 1: want the. 320 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 2: Two with them. 321 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 3: Katie and Prince, you go over here and Meghan, we're 322 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 3: gonna have a few bucks, so she'll tell more about it. 323 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 2: He's not here, tell and we'll talk about them. 324 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 1: Tell me every We'll be broadcasting the podcast live from 325 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 1: the table. Okay, don't forget to vote on today's poul 326 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 1: Go to beach Ataughty Nice Rob or our Facebook page 327 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 1: Naughty Gossip. I'm be sure to check back tomorrow to 328 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 1: hear your results. And now it's time for the Nicest. 329 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 2: Of the Day, the nicest of the day. 330 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 3: It's not often that we have a Real Housewife of 331 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 3: Atlanta as the nicest of the Day today is Candy Burris, 332 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 3: and she's saying that housewives need to take some type 333 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 3: of responsibility for themselves. Now she's the longest running Real 334 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 3: Housewife as of current and she says you can't relate 335 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 3: to former Real Housewives of New York City star Leah McSweeney, 336 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 3: claiming that producers pressured her to drink on the Bravo series. 337 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 3: She goes, I saw a piece of it. I never 338 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:56,520 Speaker 3: did get to finish reading it. This is about the 339 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 3: big Exo exbos. I just kind of saw the first 340 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 3: couple of pair and was like, Yeah, I've been on 341 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 3: the show fourteen seasons and they haven't gotten me to 342 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:08,119 Speaker 3: drink yet. I've never been tipsy in my Wow. Now 343 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:12,360 Speaker 3: here's the thing is, like Candy's right here. First of all, 344 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:13,480 Speaker 3: the producer. 345 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 2: Can say, hey, do you want to drink? Do you 346 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 2: want to live enough? 347 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 3: They would never pressure you to drink. We've worked in TV. 348 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:20,879 Speaker 3: Pressuring you to drink is something that's a little that 349 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:24,240 Speaker 3: it's a live stream. Yes, I do think there was 350 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,199 Speaker 3: some encouragement, encouragement. 351 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:28,239 Speaker 1: Lots of booze around, lots of encouragement. But I love 352 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 1: the Candy saying this, and nobody's really said it. Some 353 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:34,000 Speaker 1: people have attacked Bravo, Beth and a nine Leagus. People 354 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:38,879 Speaker 1: have attacked Bravo. Other people have defended Bravo, but Candy 355 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 1: is the only one that actually says this isn't a 356 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:43,879 Speaker 1: bad Bravo. It's about us. It's about us as individuals, 357 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 1: as housewives, it's about us as talent, as cast members, 358 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 1: as human beings, and we have every right to say yes. 359 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 1: So no, we've got to have some sort of personal responsibility. 360 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:55,480 Speaker 1: I've been in situations Donnie that could have got really ugly, 361 00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:58,199 Speaker 1: that there was lots of temptations and booze and silly 362 00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:00,359 Speaker 1: stuff going on, and I decided, no, no, it's not 363 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 1: for me, not going to do it. You can you 364 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,720 Speaker 1: can stay and not participate. And I think Candy is 365 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:07,639 Speaker 1: a really, really good example of that. And so the 366 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 1: next time you read about her housewife moaning about Brava, 367 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: and the next time Bethany goes after Andy, remember she 368 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:16,920 Speaker 1: had the opportunity to say no, nobody was putting the 369 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:19,640 Speaker 1: gun to her head. She was doing this on her 370 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 1: own free will. Candy, you're all nicest of the day, 371 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:24,920 Speaker 1: and now I naughticed the day. Naughty, naughty, naughty, naughty. 372 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:28,880 Speaker 1: Kyle Richards doesn't know if her daughter is still engaged. 373 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 1: So she was doing an interview and she was asked 374 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 1: about her daughter Farah and her engagement, and Kyle said, 375 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 1: I don't actually know if she still is engaged, and 376 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:39,959 Speaker 1: she went on to say, I don't like to answer 377 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,200 Speaker 1: things for other people. Well, that's different from saying you 378 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 1: don't know if your daughter's engaged. She said, I don't 379 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:46,439 Speaker 1: like to be put other people on the spot. But 380 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 1: she said, well, I could call my daughter right now 381 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 1: and we'll put her on speaker and we'll listen. And 382 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:53,919 Speaker 1: she did so, she called her daughter, but but her 383 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 1: daughter did not answer. You know, this is really weird, 384 00:18:57,160 --> 00:19:00,640 Speaker 1: this one, because Kyle, instead of doing an interview, why 385 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 1: don't you spend a little time talking to your daughter. 386 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:04,639 Speaker 1: That's something that you would think a mother would know. 387 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:08,159 Speaker 1: Is my daughter engaged? Yes or no? And if you 388 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:11,080 Speaker 1: just don't want to talk about your daughter's personal life, 389 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 1: then don't pick up your phone and call her on speaker. 390 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:17,119 Speaker 1: This story is wrong, wrong, wrong, a rainbow are wrong. 391 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:19,520 Speaker 1: So okay, let's end with her moment a rob you're 392 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 1: in order to heal, you must stay away from what 393 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:28,880 Speaker 1: has broken you. Get away from what has broken you. 394 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 1: It's the only way you're gonna heal. 395 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 2: You gotta cut it off. 396 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,000 Speaker 1: If it's a bad person, if it's a bad thought, 397 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 1: if it's a bad job, if it's a bad relationship, 398 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: get away from it. That's the only way you will 399 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:44,439 Speaker 1: begin to heal. You cannot heal if you keep picking 400 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 1: the scab. Stop picking the scab, get away. Hey, that 401 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:50,400 Speaker 1: is it for today. Thank you so much for listening 402 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:52,360 Speaker 1: to the Naughty but Lies with Rob and Donnie Show, 403 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 1: a production of Iheartreadio Don't Forget a subscribe on the 404 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:58,639 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio app podcast. Wherever you listen, leave us a review 405 00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:01,640 Speaker 1: if you can. They really do and remember all together. Now, 406 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 1: if you're going to me naughty, you've got to. 407 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 2: Be Donny yours. 408 00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:10,720 Speaker 1: What are you gonna be? I saw your mouth wide open, 409 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 1: waited to say it, waited to say, take care of 410 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:14,480 Speaker 1: everybody pitied. 411 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 2: It's not even nice with Bro